3 Techniques on How to Attract a Girl

3 Techniques on How to Attract a Girl http://www.AlphaWithin.com As guys, we hear all the time about the things that we have to do. We have to cut the grass, change the oil, and clean out the garage. Well, it seems as if the same thing is true when it comes to learning how to attract a girl. We have to buy her flowers, buy her chocolates and take her to dinner. It seems as if our whole lives are about doing things. Well I suggest that when it comes to learning how to attract a girl that we need to do something a little different.

Let me give you three techniques that will have you grinning from ear to ear.

Now before I give you these techniques, remember that doing something is better than doing nothing, but we will change our mindset about always doing.

Technique #1 - Change Your Focus We focus 100% of our time and energies on doing to attract the girl. It is time to do something different. You do so much that you don't give the woman time to breathe. You are suffocating her. You have to give her space so that you make her feel like she is also trying to attract you also. You end up looking like the bull in the china shop with no ounce of sensitivity to what her needs are.

Technique #2 – Retreat This technique is to take away or retreat. If you bought her flowers one day, and bought her chocolates the next, and then bought her something else the following day, back off. Relax a little bit. Back away from the interaction a little bit. This will actually increase the girl's attention toward you because attraction is created by the combination of advancing and retreating from her.

Technique #3 - Non-doing You see the attraction becomes a combination of what you do and what you don't do. You have to get away from that 100% of the time focusing on doing. You must now work on non-doing. Change your focus to 50% doing and 50% non-doing. You will now have the mindset to naturally create attraction in a woman. You will be challenging the girl and helping her to feel like she is a part of the interaction. She will be convinced that she is the one that is trying to get you. If you focus strictly on doing, the woman or girl that you are trying to attract, will start to feel that you are too aggressive and pushy. This will make her run the opposite direction. So in conclusion, deepen the attraction between the girl you are trying to attract and yourself. Spend more time focusing on not doing things than doing things. Your interactions with women will last longer and their responses to you will be much better. If you are in a conversation that is going real well with a girl that you are trying to attract, get up and end the conversation. Let her know that you are going to go back with your friends for a short while. This will make her be more curious about you.

While you are away you will be building attraction in her for you. So remember that in your attraction techniques you want to incorporate both doing and non-doing.

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