5 Tips on How to Be the Confident "You" As You Learn to Approach a Woman http://www.AlphaWithin.com For those of you that are scared to death to learn how to approach a woman, it is time for you to make a change. This fear comes from a lack of self-confidence in you. This hesitancy comes from a lack of self-confidence about what you have to offer a woman. So let's stop and take the time to do some evaluation. Let's find some tips that will increase your confidence and selfworth. Tip #1- Love Yourself To begin with, how are you ever going to love anyone else if you can't or don't love yourself? So you must start to love yourself. Look in the mirror and talk back to that face that is looking at you. Tell that face that you love it. Love every part of who you are. If there is something that you don't like and it is something that you can change you must accept it and love it anyway or change it. Tip#2 - Accept Your Flaws But Don't Accentuate Them None of us are perfect. As we go through our selfevaluation, there maybe something that we consider a flaw. To love yourself and be the type of man that can easily approach a woman, accept the fact that the flaw exists and then ignore it. Don't dwell on it. Don't talk about it. Understand that there are both physical and emotional or mental flaws. What I am saying is that is it is a physical flaw that can't be changed, don't hide behind it. Make it such that people will see but because of how you handle it, they see right through it. If you have an emotional or mental flaw, work on changing it for the better. Maybe you have a temper that you just don't like. So find a way to fix that temper so that you can accept it and then move on. Tip#3 - Know Your Skills and What Gives You Confidence What strengths do you have? What weaknesses do you have? When you are attempting to approach a woman, use all the strengths that you have. Find something that you can talk about with confidence. Maybe your strength is not talking but it listening. Start a conversation and then sit back and be the best listener that you can be. What you want to do is to bring your strengths to the forefront as you interact with this woman. When you are away from the woman, work on strengthening your weaknesses. Tip#4 - Avoid Anxiety By Breathing Deeply As you approach a woman, you might find that certain things in your body fail you. Your palms might get sweaty. Beads of perspiration may form on your forehead. Your mouth may get dry. You may sound like you are talking with a mouth full of mashed potatoes. In this case, you are developing an anxiety or panic attack. Stop and start talking to yourself. In your mind you just have to tell yourself that, "I can do this". Outwardly take a deep breath and speak slowly. Take the time to think about what you are going to say. Each of these tasks gives you time to get yourself together and then move forward with your interaction. Tip #5 - Make What Is Uncomfortable Comfortable I'm one of those that would prefer to stay in the background and just listen to the music rather than having to socialize or have to talk with anyone. So in my case, I have to learn to talk. I have to learn to make the first move rather than waiting for someone to come to me. So learn and practice how to make the first move. Practice this at home. Feel yourself walking up to someone. Rehearse two or three sentences that you can say with ease. You are making the uncomfortable comfortable. You see when you step out of your comfort zone, you will eventually expand your comfort zone. In conclusion, apply some of these tips and watch your confidence level go through the roof. Find out that you are a pretty special guy. Let you be the first person to tell yourself this as you get ready to approach that woman that you have been admiring from a distance. Discover how to become an alpha male who can pick up, attract, & seduce women for REAL! Sign up right now for Bruce Min's FREE online newsletter to find out how to attract women - Go here: http://www.AlphaWithin.com
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