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And the Winner Is...

A behind-the-scenes peek at the 2019 Cover Kids photo shoot.

16 Is Your Child ‘G&T’? 18 Back-to-School Resources

The Age of Self-Doubt

Self-consciousness in early adolesence will lead to greater well being in adulthood.

Remembering 9/11 in Manhattan Visit one of these memorials to remember those who lost their lives.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Empowering Your Differently-Abled Student 12 And the Winner Is... 14 The Age of Self-Doubt 38 Day Care Center, Nanny, or Relative? 39 Open Houses, Meet the Health Care Professional 42 Professional Services 44 Party Central 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Savor Each Moment

26 Remembering 9/11 in Manhattan

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Cute Kid Alert!

id you see the beautiful teen on the cover? That’s 14-year-old Daniela from Suffolk County, the older than 6 grand-prize winner in our 2018 Cover Kids contest! She’s the last of the finalists from 2018 to grace the cover of Long Island Parent, so it’s only fitting that the 2019 grand-prize winners be announced in the behind-thescenes peek of the photo shoot in this issue. It took a lot of work to get here, though. More than 1,000 of you, dear readers, submitted your children in our call for cover models, and our editors narrowed down the list to 10 (who knew looking at cute pictures of kids would be so difficult?!), shopped for outfits at Macy’s Backstage, planned the photo shoot at Sarah Marians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan, and coordinated 10 kids’ schedules. The results, as they say, are priceless! Flip to p. 12 to see our finalists in action—and be sure to keep an eye out in the coming months for our new cover stars! While we can’t stop thinking about the great photos we got of our 2019 Cover Kids finalists, we’re also planning for the back-to-school season. If you’re a parent of a child with a learning disability, you’ll want to read “Empowering Your Differently-Abled Student,” p. 10 wondering how to keep the fun of summer going all year-round, read, circle, and highlight (put those new office supplies you snuck in the cart when buying school supplies to work!) the “Back-to-School Resources” directory on p. 18. It’s full of fun after-school classes that will keep your kids engaged even after the school day ends. With all this thinking about school, don’t forget to soak up the last days of summer with your kids! This issue is packed with fun for September, but you can always find great things to do every day at nymetroparents.com—and get a curated list of weekend fun hand-picked by our editors sent to you at nymetroparents.com/register. Happy first day of school!

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Who: My Gym What’s New: The re-opening of the West Babylon location, which is under new ownership, plus a variety of new programs. Ninja Training will be available in level 1 for kids ages 4-7 and level 2 for kids ages 6-9. Through relays, exercise, and games, young ninjas will tackle obstacle courses and learn about teamwork, problem solving, and agility. Ninja Training is scheduled to being Sept. 9. The birthday party expansion will include additional party themes and a balloon drop option. Preschool prep, slated to being in December, will be held twice a week. It will combine academics and fitness to prepare kidsages 2-4 for preschool. Open houses are scheduled for Sept. 13 from 2-6pm and Sept. 14 from 9am-12pm. Want More Info: 985 W. Montauk Highway, West Babylon; 631-314-4967; mygym.com/babylon

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Empowering Your Differently-Abled Student ›› By Jacqueline Neber

ood parent-teacher communication is crucial for any successful school year, but being on the same page becomes even more important when your child has a learning disability. You should take a few key proactive steps to ensure your child has the best year possible. Know your rights and speak up. Parents are entitled to receive information about special education from their schools and teachers— reading up and staying informed is the best way to advocate for your kid. When attending Committee for Special Education meetings, annual review meetings, or parent-teacher conferences, if you don’t understand something, ask questions. Communicate with teachers frequently. Kathy Devine and Emily Cole co-teach at Waverly Avenue Elementary School in Holtsville. They say parents of students with special needs must be extra communicative with teachers. “We would like to know sooner when things might be happening at home, whether it’s medication changes or maybe something in the home life has changed,” Cole says. When it comes to homework, “reach out to us as soon as possible so that we’re not waiting until the end of a trimester to know [kids are] struggling,” Devine says. Another tip? Write a letter describing your child and his needs at the beginning of the year.

Understand Individualized Education Plan goals. Equally important is understanding your child’s IEP goals—which can differ from her classroom goals. This difference often confuses parents who see their student accomplishing goals on one end of the spectrum and not the other. Involve your child. Cassie Reilly, the current Transition Coordinator at Northport High School, suggests involving your kid in IEP and parent-teacher conferences. Being open with kids from the time of diagnosis helps them stand up for themselves and understand their learning disability does not make them inferior to others. Be sensitive to difference. Parents should understand their kids might be different at home than at school, Reilly adds. And, even more importantly, their kids might have an atypical path toward success. Communicating with teachers is key to understanding how your kid can progress in the best way.

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And the winner is…

A behind-the-scenes peek at the 2019 Cover Kids photo shoot

t’s official: You, dear readers, have cute kids! We knew picking finalists wasn’t going to be easy. In fact, it wasn’t easy times 1,000—that’s how many children were entered. Well, 1,006 to be exact. Once our editors were done exclaiming, “I love her hair!” “Look at his outfit!” and “Kids wearing glasses are adorable,” we poured over the entries and narrowed it down to nine cuties, plus our Fan Favorite. Those 10 kids were then invited to a photo shoot at Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan. And, boy, did they deliver! All the kids rocked the shoot decked out in clothes from Macy’s Backstage.

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The really difficult choice was choosing the two grand-prize winners. We powered through, though, and it’s Jasper from Manhattan and Jordan from Nassau County who are the grand-prize winners! Jasper and his family will celebrate the win with a two-night stay, plus two Paw Passes, at Great Wolf Lodge in Scotrun, PA, and Jordan will get next-level modeling advice with a scholarship to and photo shoot at Barbizon Modeling and Acting Studio. Nyla, our Fan Favorite from Brooklyn, also received a two-night stay at and two Paw Passes to Great Wolf Lodge. Congrats to everyone—and keep an eye out to see these beautiful faces on our future covers!

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The Age of Self-Doubt

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While self-consciousness in early adolescence can seem crippling for your child, it’s a phase that will lead to greater well-being in adulthood. By Jaimie Seaton

nyone with a teenager has witnessed the transformation: Their fearless, confident child becoming a reticent, self-conscious teen. One day, he marches out of the house on adventures, happily clad in clothes picked out by his parents. The next? He’s hiding out in his room with his phone, with zero interest in any ideas you have in regard to his clothes, his hairstyle, or even his backpack. She becomes obsessed with her looks and studies her face in the mirror as if it were an undiscovered country. A bad hair day or emergence of a pimple can turn into a crisis and leave her wishing she could stay home from school. As a parent, it’s hard to make sense of this—and even harder to know how to help.

Belonging Above All

Parents may be tempted to dismiss their teen’s behavior as typical adolescent self-absorption, but what may seem like egocentricity actually serves a higher purpose. It goes back to evolution and our need to belong. “If the goal in adulthood, at the most basic level, is to have social skills in order to ensure social belonging and the associated positive outcomes, then adolescence is a time of learning social competency,” explains Alexandra Rodman, Ph.D., lead author of a 2017 Harvard study on how adolescents and adults process and integrate peer feedback. “One way in which we learn all the complex social rules is by being hyper-attuned to feedback from others.” For example, your teen isn’t fixated on his looks, per se, but because he is so highly preoccupied by what others may think of him, he notices changes in himself more keenly than he did as a child, Dr. Rodman explains. His reaction to those changes depends on how he is viewed in the peer group. “It all depends on what enhances belonging and it corresponds with changing trends,” Dr. Rodman says. “If it was a sign of health and highly coveted to have a pimple, then maybe it wouldn’t lead to such distress to have a pimple.”

The Instagram Age

Most teenagers think they have it worse than their parents—and they’re right. When it comes to pressure to fit in, at least, today’s

Because your teen is preoccupied with how others perceive him, he’ll notice changes in himself more keenly than when he was younger.

teens really do have it worse, according to Seoka Salstrom, Ph.D., a child and adolescent psychologist who practices in New Hampshire. “There are so many more opportunities for compare and despair,” Dr. Salstrom says. “Before social media, we had half of our day at school and half of our day at home or with a few friends, but we didn’t have 45 people that we were interacting with in some way, often times in picture perfect form. Every time we see something like that, our mind is automatically geared toward, ‘How do I fit in to this?’ and sees the inadequacies.”

Coping Strategies

When teens express anxiety or distress about their looks or not fitting in, Dr. Salstrom advises parents to start from a place of “your feelings make perfect sense.” “It’s not to say that you agree with the statement behind it or the content. If they say, ‘I’m so ugly,’ of course you’re not going to agree with that,” Dr. Salstrom says. “But if we don’t start from the place of ‘it makes perfect sense that this thought/feeling is showing up’ (given our evolutionary and cultural context), then anything we say in that moment has the potential to be invalidating.” There’s no denying it can be difficult for parents to see their teens go through this stage, but Dr. Rodman explains it’s a normal and healthy part of development—and it does eventually end. “When you have this low-level or moderate level feedback from your peers, and you feel this drop in self-esteem, that actually feels bad in the short term, but in the long term it leads to greater gains and better outcomes and well-being in adulthood,” Dr. Rodman says. In late adolescence, a self-protective bias kicks in and teens no longer experience that drop in self-esteem after rejection, Dr. Rodman explains. Older teens start to buffer themselves from their peers’ rejection because they’ve gained social skills and learned the social rules they didn’t have or know as an early adolescent. “That’s all to say for parents that a little bit of feedback from peers isn’t a catastrophe, and feeling a little down on yourself, that’s just part of being a teenager,” Dr. Rodman says. “I think a helpful reframe is, it just helps kids learn how to get along with their peers.”

Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for Newsweek. Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in The Washington Post, The Guardian, Glamour, and numerous other publications.

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Is Your Child ‘G&T’? ››

What parents need to know about the Gifted & Talented program in New York—and how to prep for the test By Madeleine Burry

very year, tens of thousands of kids across New York City— and some in the suburbs of NYC—opt to take a test to qualify for the Gifted and Talented program. The program holds classes (within public schools) that are geared to the test’s highest scorers: kids the Department of Education deems “exceptional” students. The test is administered to kids entering kindergarten through third grade. Will your child be one of those test-takers? Find out what you need to know about the program and the exam—including the best way to prep your little ones for it.

The Basics

The city actually offers two separate district and citywide G&T programs. In the citywide option, children from all of the city’s neighborhoods attend a school with only G&T students. Districtlevel programs, in contrast, prioritize admitting students who live within the district, and these G&T students share the school with non-G&T kids. They also take some classes, such as art and PE, with the non-G&T students. Both programs rely on test results to determine eligibility. A score of 90 or above qualifies kids to apply to district programs; a score of 97 or above is required for application to the citywide programs. However, test score alone is not enough to guarantee entrance for either program—students are entered into a lottery system for programs since more kids qualify than there are available seats. That’s what happened to mom-of-two Dahlia Thompson’s oldest child. “Maya ended up scoring a 97 and made citywide,” Thompson says. But since Maya didn’t get a spot in a citywide school, she instead attended a neighborhood district G&T school for kindergarten. 16

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If you live in a school district in New York City or the metro area that doesn’t offer a Gifted and Talented program, you can explore after-school programs that offer this type of enrichment. For example, Village East Gifted in Huntington Station and Roslyn Heights and G-tec Kids in New Rochelle offer hands-on activities and classes designed for advanced students to strengthen their cognitive skills.

Taking the Test

Any child who lives in New York City, and is entering kindergarten through third grade in September, can take the G&T test during the previous January (they just have to register by late fall). This includes students with disabilities (with accommodations potentially available for kids who have IEPs, IESPs, or 504 Plans). The exam is also administered in many languages other than English, including Arabic, Mandarin, Spanish, and Cantonese. Emily Levitt, vice president of education at Sylvan Learning, explains that the test is divided into two parts. Test-takers get both a raw and percentile score on each part, which are then combined into an overall score used to determine eligibility. The first part of the exam is nonverbal, Levitt says. Questions are drawn from the Naglieri Nonverbal Ability Test—students are shown pictures and asked to predict which one would come next in a pattern or combine objects to form a new pattern. The second part of the exam is verbal, with questions from the Otis-Lennon School Ability Test. This multiple-choice portion tests verbal comprehension and reasoning, Levitt says. With applying for kindergarten, the proctor will read the questions aloud once and mark down the child’s responses. The test is untimed, but according to the NYC Department of Education, students usually complete it within 30 minutes to 1 hour.

AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAMS Practice and Prepare

The biggest challenge for test takers is age. “Really little kids and tests don’t always go well together, for no other reason than that the kids are so little,” Levitt says. “Trying to prep a four-yearold for a test is going to look different than prepping your high schooler for the SAT.” One way to prepare your kid for the G&T exam (without causing undue stress) is to practice abstract lessons at home. Make it feel like playtime! Starting a few months before the exam, have kids identify patterns and sequences, Levitt suggests. Use toys to create a pattern of small, medium, large, and then have your child continue the pattern. Or use M&M’s to make color-based patterns. Another strategy she recommends is to ask questions throughout the day to help get kids in the habit of explaining their thinking and reasoning. The NYC DOE also publishes a booklet with practice exams (you can find it at schools.nyc.gov), though some warn against taking this too seriously. “We went through the examples in the DOE booklet a few times beforehand and that’s it,” Thompson says. Levitt also suggests parents avoid being drill sergeants—do a few questions per sitting, she says. Don’t forget: Your attitude toward the test can be contagious, and stress and anxiety aren’t helpful to your child. Frame any prep you do in terms of getting kids comfortable, so they know what to expect, Levitt says. And no need to go into detail about test results or their implications. Thompson’s son missed the cut-off score by one point. “Lev vaguely knows he didn’t pass the test, but we didn’t make a big deal out of it,” she says.

Should your kids take the test?

There are few reasons not to take the test: A strong test result opens the door to potential inclusion in the program—and your child’s score will not be shared with schools. That said, the test—and in fact, the G&T program as a whole—is not without controversy. Students in wealthier districts are more likely to take the exam than students in poorer ones. And, while there are many G&T programs in Manhattan and parts of Queens, there are fewer G&T options in historically Black and Latinx districts in the Bronx and Brooklyn, according to a report from the DOE’s School Diversity Advisory Group. “The racial demographics of kindergarten G&T programs are not representative of the racial demographics of kindergarteners as a whole,” the SDAG report notes. Black and Latinx students make up 63 percent of all kindergartners, but only 18 percent of the G&T kindergarteners. Some schools are now considering phasing out their G&T programs because of these types of diversity issues. Levitt argues that you should only avoid the test if it will be a stressful event for your child. Thompson’s advice: Consider your kid’s personality. “I don’t think there’s harm in taking the exam to expand your options if the kid does well, but gauge the kid. My kids think workbooks and puzzles are fun, so the test didn’t stress them out,” she says. “But it’s not for everyone.” Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents. com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth offers extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area, and university-level facilities.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org Join us for a fun-filled hour of nature activities (fish feeding included). Using live animals, crafts, stories, and games, we guide you and your little ones through nature adventures. Ages 2-5 at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Pollywog Adventures program. Catch & Keep Trout Fishing-spaces available firstcome, first-served.

Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose, including reading, math, writing, STEM/STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

Huntington Learning Centers

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Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted (VEG), open seven days-a-week, offers a rigorous and highly-creative academic program, in all subject areas, to gifted students ages 2-16. Its CORE curriculum includes instructional writing/ grammar, geography, global studies, STEAM, mathematics, Latin/Greek Etymology, SAT/ ACT vocabulary enrichment, business, anatomy/physiology, advanced study skills, and creative problem solving.

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Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

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ART Studio E Art Classes

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DANCE The Argyle Academy of the Arts at The Argyle Theatre

34 W. Main St., Babylon Village 844-631-LIVE (5483) argyletheatre.com boxoffice@argyletheatre.com The Argyle Academy of the Arts Fall Intensive offers classes in acting, singing, and dancing for grades kindergarten-12th. Classes are taught in a supportive environment with theatre professionals. Students build self-confidence and have fun while learning and working on acting, singing, and dancing skills. Fall Intensive runs Sept. 23–Dec. 17.

Eglevsky Ballet

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Ohman School of Ballet

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FITNESS Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy

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Fidelis Care New York

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Laura Adler-Greene, Esq., Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen

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TUTORS & TEST PREP Huntington Learning Centers

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St. Patrick Youth Community

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Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

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YMCA of Long Island

855-2YMCALI (962254) Bay Shore, East Hampton, Glen Cove, Holtsville, Huntington, and Patchogue ymcali.org; info@ymcali.org The YMCA of Long Island’s before- and after-school programs support children in reaching their full potential by providing academic support and handson enrichment experiences in a safe, structured environment for children in kindergarten through middle school. The YMCA of Long Island partners with school districts in Nassau and Suffolk counties.

PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS

Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

Multiple Locations 516-280-2479 licatholicelementaryschools.org Long Island’s Catholic elementary schools are 43 unique and beautiful schools in Nassau and Suffolk counties that educate the whole child in the spirit of service and compassion. Coupled with God’s love, we strive to inspire each child to grow spiritually and academically in a diverse and challenging world.

Holy Angels Regional School

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Remembering 9/11 in NYC By Melissa Wickes

The Table of Silence Project aims to celebrate and honor peace in a united moment of silence.

A Moment of Silence

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The 9th Annual 9/11 Table of Silence Project is a free public dance tribute to Sept. 11 designed to commemorate those lost and pray for peace. More than 100 dancers from major companies and schools in New York City come together for a presentation that begins at 8:15am and ends exactly at 8:46am, the time the North Tower was struck. Wednesday, Sept. 11. Ages: All. Free to attend. Josie Robertson Plaza, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side. tableofsilence.org.

The NYC Fire Museum’s 9/11 Memorial Room is the first permanent memorial to the members of the FDNY who lost their lives on Sept. 11, 2001.

Honor and Commemorate First Responders

The NYC Fire Museum holds a 9/11 Memorial Ceremony on the anniversary each year, led by a NYFD commissioner with a speech by the museum director. While you are there, spend some time at the museum’s memorial to the 343 members of the FDNY who lost their lives that day. The exhibit chronicles and commemorates with a marble and tile memorial, tools recovered from Ground Zero, and opportunities to learn more about the late firefighters. Wednesday, Sept. 11, 11am. Ages: All. Free to attend event. NYC Fire Museum, 278 Spring St., Hudson Square. Visit website for museum admission information: nycfiremuseum.org. 26

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On Sept. 11, 9/11 Memorial & Museum visitors place flowers in the names of victims on the memorial panels.

9/11 Memorial & Museum

Every year on Sept. 11, New Yorkers and Americans remember the thousands of lives lost in 2001. The reflecting pools and the new 9/11 Memorial Glade, a dedication to recovery workers and community members who have become sick or died due to toxins at the WTC site, offer a peaceful place for remembrance and meditation. And the museum offers an in-depth experience for families of all kinds. Visit it: 180 Greenwich St., Tribeca. 911memorial.org. Can’t-miss event: Tribute in Light; Wednesday, Sept. 11

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9/11 Tribute Museum Walking Tours are personal, emotional tours given by people who were there and directly affected by Sept. 11, 2001.

9/11 Tribute Museum Walking Tours

Survivors, family members of lost loved ones, first responders, recovery workers, and other people who lived and worked in lower Manhattan in 2001 offer their personal, emotional experiences of Sept. 11. Each tour is unique to your guide while also providing history of the WTC and the aftermath, stops at the Firefighter Memorial Wall, an opportunity to tour the 9/11 Tribute Museum, and more. Visit it: 92 Greenwich St., Tribeca. 911tributemuseum.org. Can’t-miss event: Annual 9/11 National Day of Service & Remembrance: Bike Build; Wednesday, Sept. 25, 10am-3:30pm

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Labor Day at Adventureland

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 2, 11am-7pm WHERE: Adventureland, 2245 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: A fun way to celebrate the end of summer before school gets going in full swing! WHY WE LOVE IT: One last hurrah before school starts! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; POP Bands are $33.99 per person. 631-694-6868. adventureland.us.

September 11th Remembrance Ceremony FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 5, 7pm WHERE: Tobay Beach Marina, Ocean Parkway, West Gilgo Beach AGES: All WHAT: The ceremony includes a candlelight vigil, vocal performances, bagpipe music and religious readings, and the reading of the names of those who were lost who were connected to the town. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a chance to come together and remember and honor those who were lost on Sept. 11 and in its aftermath. WANT TO GO? 516-797-7900. oysterbaytown.com.

52nd Patchogue Italian Feast of Saint Liberata FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 12-6pm WHERE: Downtown Patchogue, Main Street, Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: Family-friendly festivities include children’s karaoke, a magician, dunk tank, bounce houses, a zeppole eating contest, and live entertainment. 28

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WHY WE LOVE IT: Take the stroller for a walk to view classic and Italian cars and to watch the annual bocce ball tournament. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-207-1000. facebook.com/events/2318052461740915.

Peppa Pig Live! ‘Peppa Pig’s Adventure!’

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 11, doors: 4:30pm, Show: 6pm WHERE: The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Peppa Pig, George, and their friends are back with a brand-new live show, Peppa Pig’s Adventure. WHY WE LOVE IT: Bring younger siblings! Babies 1 year and younger can sit on a lap for free. WANT TO GO? $25.50 and up. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com.

Long Island Parents Day FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 11am-3pm WHERE: Long Island University, Pratt Recreation Center, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: LI Parents Day is a fun day for the whole family. Kids can enjoy activities, classes, crafts, animals, sports, treats, and more while parents meet Back to School exhibitors, such as after-school classes and programs, birthday party venues, special needs providers, health and wellness professionals, local museums and day trip locations, and more! WHY WE LOVE IT: Tip alert! Use code “NYMP1” to receive free tickets when registering online. WANT TO GO? 646-736-3619. liparentsday.com.

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44th Annual West Islip Country Fair

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 10am-5pm WHERE: West Islip Public Library Grounds, 3 Higbie Lane, West Islip AGES: All WHAT: See live music on the stage and have fun in the children’s area with bounce structures, a slide, a magician, face painting, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: The food options abound with Polish fare, Greek options, crepes, Philly cheesesteaks, roasted corn, funnel cakes, and fried Oreos! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for food. 631-533-5403. westislipcountryfair.org.

The Big Chocolate Show

WHEN: Sept. 21-22, daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Resorts World NYC, 110-00 Rockaway Blvd., South Ozone Park, Queens AGES: All WHAT: This family-friendly event features samples, chocolate tastings, live demonstrations, classes, and more. Families will enjoy the s’mores workshop and lollipop, truffle making, and cake decorating classes. WHY WE LOVE IT: Indulge for a good cause! The show benefits Cookies for Kids Cancer, a national nonprofit committed to putting an end to pediatric cancers. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 800-630-4405. thebigchocolateshow.com.

2019 Wildwood Fall Festival FREE

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. American Girl Camp Out FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 12, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Create a camping accessory for your doll and play games. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 11am-4pm WHERE: Wildwood State Park, Hulse Landing Road, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: The 26th Annual Fall Festival will showcase a variety of craft vendors as well as children’s entertainment, pony rides, a petting zoo, food, and refreshments. WHY WE LOVE IT: Show your friendly competitive side at the “build a scarecrow” and “guess how much the pumpkin weighs” contests. WANT TO GO? 631-321-3510. parks.ny.gov.

Camp Know Where: Strange-ify Your World FREE

Bethpage Polo at the Park

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 10am-12pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: Explore a fire truck and a police car. Meet first responders and learn what they do every day to keep us safe. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Sept. 29: Sundays, 3pm WHERE: Bethpage State Park, Plainview Road & Manchester Drive, Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Catch a live polo match this summer. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a relaxing way to wrap up a summer weekend as a family. WANT TO GO? $15; $5 senior citizens, active military, college ID; see website for more options. bethpagepolo.com.

Long Island Fair

WHEN: Sept. 21-29, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm; last admission is 3:30pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Families will enjoy pig racing, a high dive show, a bicycle stunt show, a petting zoo and camel rides, The Butterfly Experience, musical performances, and magic shows. WHY WE LOVE IT: Get a taste of history too with Teddy Roosevelt’s Rough Riders and The Old Bethpage Village Brass Band. WANT TO GO? $15; $13 seniors older than 60 and children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8401. lifair.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 1-3pm WHERE: Microsoft at Walt Whitman Mall, 160 Walt Whitman Road, Suite 1006B, Huntington Station AGES: 5-17 WHAT: In this camp, students will be encouraged to use Mixed Reality to insert themselves into the world of Stranger Things. RSVP online. WANT TO GO? 631-760-2340. microsoft.com.

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Grand Opening FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 1-3pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: See what’s new at the library after its exciting expansion project! WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Fall Into Fun Carnival! FREE

WHEN: Sept. 26-29, Thursday, 6-10pm; Friday, 6-11pm *FIREWORKS*; Saturday, 12-11pm; Sunday, 12-7pm WHERE: Heritage Trust, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy rides, games, and food. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org. ››

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Can You Get Our Robots to School?

WHEN: Sept. 14-15, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn coding skills to design a track that will get the Ozobots to school on time. WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 1. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org.

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SMARTY PANTS Vanderbilt Mansion Living History

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 1, 12:30-3:30pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Guides in costume tell visitors stories of the Vanderbilt family and its famous guests. WANT TO GO? $18; $17 seniors 62 and older and students with ID; $15 children 12 and younger. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Build A Solar Oven

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 1, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Make s’mores at this camp out. WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 1. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org.

Blue Star Museums FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 2: see website for schedule WHERE: Various Museums on Long Island AGES: All WHAT: Blast off at a science museum, take a walk through nature, encounter animals at the aquarium, or meet heroes at a historic site! Blue Star Museums can help families create memories! Museums across the country offer free family admission for active duty military families. WANT TO GO? arts.gov.

Simulate Collisions in Space FREE

WHEN: Sept. 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn how craters form and better understand why the moon’s surface looks the way it does. WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 1. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org.

Camp Know Where: Rule the Arcade FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 12-1pm WHERE: Microsoft at Walt Whitman Mall, 160 Walt Whitman Road, Suite 1006B, Huntington Station AGES: 5-17 WHAT: In this camp, attendees will be told that Hawkins is putting in a new arcade, and they will get to be the ones to design the games to fill it. Students will put a Stranger Things twist on the games, design their sprites after characters and creatures from the show, and do so through in-world inspired storylines. RSVP online. WANT TO GO? 631-760-2340. microsoft.com. 30

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WHEN: Sept. 21-22, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Play with marshmallow and toothpick shapes, and help figure out if there is relationship among the vertices, faces, and edges of these shapes! WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 1. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org.

Microsoft Store Official MINECON Live Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 12-3pm WHERE: Microsoft at Walt Whitman Mall, 160 Walt Whitman Road, Suite 1006B, Huntington Station AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Celebrate your love for all things blocky and brilliant with an official MINECON Live Party! The fun includes trivia, giveaways, a costume contest, and, of course, plenty of opportunity to play Minecraft itself. WANT TO GO? 631-760-2340. microsoft.com.

Journey Through Time

WHEN: Through Sept. 29: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: The Educational and Cultural Center, 97P Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: See how our lives have changed since 1939 because of national, regional, and local events. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 seniors and children younger than 12. 631-689-5888. stonybrookvillage.com.

Huntington Arts Council: Landscapes: Home and Afar FREE WHEN: Through Oct. 12: daily, 9:30am-5pm WHERE: Main Street Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: See art displayed by a diverse group of artists. WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.

SHOW TIME!

Vanderbilt Museum’s 31st Shakespeare Festival: ‘Julius Caesar’

WHEN: Through Sept. 1: Sundays, 7-9pm; Wednesdays and Fridays, 8-10pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Vanderbilt Mansion Courtyard, Centerport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: See Julius Caeser during the 31st annual Shakespeare Festival. Bring a picnic dinner to enjoy before the show. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children and seniors. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Remote-Controlled Fall Aero Show FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 10am-5pm WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: Aircraft enthusiasts may watch demonstrations at no charge! Rain or shine event. WANT TO GO? 631-269-4333. parks.ny.gov.

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Friday the 13th Horror Movie: ‘The Grudge’ FREE

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WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, 6pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Celebrate the most cursed day of the year with a hair-raising horror movie. ...but only if you dare. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

The Robert D. Cess Concorso D’eleganza Xiv: Celebration Of Italian Automotive Excellence FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 10am-1pm WHERE: Stony Brook University, Lawn adjacent to the Graduate Physics Building, directly across from the Sports Complex off John S. Toll Drive, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Various Italian car and motorcycle clubs will be represented. WANT TO GO? 631-632-6000. calendar.stonybrook.edu.

Family Night Out: ‘Detective Pikachu’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 20, 6:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Bring the whole family to spend an evening out at the movies! Snacks and drinks provided. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Car Show Long Island

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 11am-4pm WHERE: Tobay Beach Marina, Ocean Parkway, West Gilgo Beach AGES: All WHAT: Check out cool cars while enjoying a live concert, premier vendors, interactive displays, and some of the best food trucks. WANT TO GO? Free for spectators; $15 advanced car registration; $25 day of event car registration. 516-797-4121. carshowli.com.

‘Snoopy, Come Home’

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 11am WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Snoopy, Charlie Brown, and the gang are back at the cinema in this new restoration of the beloved family classic. WANT TO GO? $12; $7 members; free for kids 12 and younger. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.

Annual Car Show Fundraiser

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 29, 8:30am-2:30pm WHERE: AHRC Suffolk, 2900 Veterans Memorial Highway, Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: There will be more than 100 classic cars, muscle cars, vintage trucks, and more. WANT TO GO? $20 to show; free for spectators. 631-585-0100. ahrcsuffolk.org.

Dreamworks ‘Madagascar A Musical Adventure, Jr.’

WHEN: Sept. 14-Oct. 27, see website for showtimes WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: Follow all of your favorite friends as they escape from their home in New York’s Central Park Zoo and find themselves on an unexpected journey to the madcap world of King Julien’s Madagascar. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 5pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: This evening features music by Sam Baker with Ben Stivers. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 if purchased by Sept. 6. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Family Play Hooray FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 12, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 3 months to 3 WHAT: Join Molly Mouse and get ready to dance, march, and play hooray with your baby or toddler. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Baby Smart with a Time for Kids FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 3-17 months WHAT: This program is geared to parents and baby as active learners through play, movement, and song. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

8th Annual Fiddle & Folk Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 11am-7pm WHERE: Benner’s Farm, 56 Gnarled Hollow Road, East Setauket AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, farm animals, gardens, produce, and the farm’s kids’ area. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children and seniors. 631-689-8172. fiddleandfolk.com.

Singer Songwriter Night

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 26, 7-10pm WHERE: Huntington Arts Council, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Singer Songwriter Night is a community-based opportunity for people to create and perform in a supportive, all-inclusive environment. WANT TO GO? $10 donation to perform; $5 suggested for all others. 631-271-8423 x12. huntingtonarts.org.

New Parent Baby Music Experience! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 26, 9-9:45am WHERE: Marchand’s School of Dance - Lyrical Children’s Music Together, 451 Route 25A, Miller Place AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Join Lyrical Children’s Music Together to learn how to support your baby’s responses and engage musically. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? 631-208-4003. lyricalchildrenmusic.yourvirtuoso.com. ››

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AGES: All WHAT: Annual Bluefish and Striped Bass surf fishing tournament open to the public. Registration required to participate. WANT TO GO? $15 to participate; free for spectators. 631-668-5000. nysparks.com.

Family Game Night FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 24, 6:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy some time with your family playing board games and video games at the library! WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Music for Morning Nappers / Preschoolers FREE

MOVERS & SHAKERS Family Fun Day Walk-A-Thon

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 2-5pm WHERE: Hauppauge High School, 500 Lincoln Blvd., Haupppauge AGES: All WHAT: Help raise money for a good cause and enjoy food, music, bounce house, games, and character appearances. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; donations accepted. 631-371-9178. smithtownchildrensfoundation.com.

Main St. Board Game Cafe After-School Program Open House FREE WHEN: Sept. 9-12, Monday-Thursday, 4:30-6:30pm WHERE: Main St. Board Game Cafe, 307 Main St., Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Sit down for a sample game with game specialists and more at this open house. WANT TO GO? 631-729-0060. mainstboardgamecafe.com.

Dancing with Mr. Po FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, 3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Mr. Po will teach you some hip hop and routines! WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Grand Re-Opening Event FREE

WHEN: Sept. 13-14, Friday, 2-6pm; Saturday, 9am-12pm WHERE: My Gym Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Fitness Center, 985 W. Montauk Highway, Great South Bay Shopping Center, West Babylon AGES: 4 months to 9 years old WHAT: Enjoy puppet shows, group games, bubble storms, tumbling, jumping, swinging, climbing, as well as raffle prizes, giveaways, and enrollment specials. WANT TO GO? 631-314-4967. mygym.com/babylon.

Montauk Surf Fishing Tournament

WHEN: Sept. 20-22, Friday, 12pm to Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Montauk Point State Park, 2000 Montauk Highway, Waters from the westernmost tip of Napeague State Park, east to Montauk 32

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WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 25, 12:30-1:15pm WHERE: Chance to Dance, 140 North Belle Meade Rd., Setauket AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Experience Music Together with your little one! Reservation required. WANT TO GO? 631-208-4003. lyricalchildrenmusic.yourvirtuoso.com.

Dance Program with South Bay Dance LLC FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 27, 9:30-10:15am WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 18 months to 5 WHAT: Using creative expression through music and movement, children are introduced to the world of dance. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Sunday Afternoon Chess FREE

WHEN: Sept. 8-29, Sundays, 2-4pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 10 and older WHAT: Chess players: tired of playing online? Meet up and play face-toface! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.

Jump for Joy FREE

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 30, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 18 months to 4 years old WHAT: Enjoy a fun-filled hour of active learning with Joyce Oddo. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Guild Hall Game Night

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 30, 6pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 16 and older WHAT: Join Guild Hall and Game Master Noah Salaway in embracing the tabletop revolution to play some of the best modern board games on the market. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 members. 631-324-0806. guildhall.org.

Life-Sized Candy Land FREE

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 30, 6:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Drop in with your family and play your way through a life-sized version of Candy Land! WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Back-to-School Sundae Party FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 6, 6:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: The Westhampton Free Library invites teens to celebrate going back to school with an ice cream party. Register online. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

13th Annual North Fork Foodie Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 10am WHERE: Various locations, see website for schedule AGES: All WHAT: Hear, touch, feel, and taste what makes the products, the people that produce them, and the North Fork so special WANT TO GO? $25; free for children 12 and younger. 631-722-5712. foodietour.brownpapertickets.com.

Nacho Pizza

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, 6:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Make some delicious pizza-style nachos. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with library card. 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Apple Ladybugs

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 16, 10am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Listen to ladybug books and create a snack. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with library card. 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Family Apple Pie FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 11-12:30pm WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make an apple pie to take home and bake. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

National Ovarian Cancer Coalition 13th Annual Run/Walk to Break the Silence on Ovarian Cancer

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 8am WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, Southern State Parkway Exit 38, North Babylon AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate survivors of ovarian cancer and remember those who have passed. The day includes activities for all ages and capabilities, vendor tents, and refreshments. WANT TO GO? $45 virtual; $40; $35 in advance; $20 kids; $15 kids in advance. 631-938-2020. runwalk.ovarian.org.

International Coastal Clean-Up Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 10am-12pm WHERE: Garvies Point Museum & Preserve, 50 Barry Drive, Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: Help clean up the shoreline along Hempstead Harbor and enjoy light refreshments and complimentary live animal presentation for volunteers. WANT TO GO? 516-571-8010. garviespointmuseum.com.

Knit Lit Community Service Project FREE

WHEN: Sept. 11-25, Wednesdays, 3:30-5pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Earn community service by knitting for charity. Supplies provided! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org. ››

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WHEN: Sept. 6-27, Fridays, 3-5pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join for cookies, coloring, and trivia. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.

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Hematology Oncology Pediatric Psychology Kid Friendly Walk-Ins Welcome Most Insurance Plans Accepted

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•  Rapid Laboratory Tests •  EKG •  Digital X-Ray •  Ultrasonogram •  IV Hydration •  IM Medicine •  Attention Deficit Disorder •  Developmental Tests •  IVA & IMPACT Test

‘Adopt Me’ Bandanas FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 11, 7-8pm WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Paint messages on bandanas for shelter pets to wear to events! WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Fall Wreaths FREE

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 16, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Make a simple wreath to donate to the Westhampton Care Center to bring their residents some autumn cheer. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

•  Minor Surgeries •  Splints / Casts •  Allergy Injections •  Inhalation Therapy •  Pulmonary Function Test •  Computerized Vision Test •  Hearing Tests •  CPR Classes •  Pharmacy Service & More

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Imagine That! Family Art Workshops: Drip Painting

WHEN: Through Sept. 14: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: The Pollock- Krasner House and Study Center, 830 Springs Fireplace Road, East Hampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create drip paintings and leave with your own masterpiece. WANT TO GO? $40. 631-324-4929. stonybrook.edu/commcms/pkhouse.

Back to School Paint Event - Paint Minion with Apple

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Dress for mess and learn to paint a Minion with an apple. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

CRAFTYKIDS Art Workshop FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 1, 11am-3pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park (parking field 5), Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Collage on fabric and paper with abstracts. WANT TO GO? 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Teen Open Studio: Batik FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 11-18 WHAT: Explore a variety of techniques. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2118 x130. parrishart.org.

Autumn Dot Art FREE

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 9, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn how to make a painting using cotton swabs. Register online. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Sticky Situation: Cactus Memo Board FREE

My Companion and Me! Fine Art Partner Inclusion Workshop for Children and Young Adults

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 1-3pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This series provides a child of all ability levels and an accompanying loved one the opportunity to create something beautiful together. WANT TO GO? $35. 6314625400. artleagueli.org.

LOL Doll Paint Event - Teacher’s Pet

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Learn to paint LOL Doll’s Teacher’s Pet. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Swinging Owl FREE

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 23, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Design a wooden owl perched on a swing. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Fall Watercolor Tree Set FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 25, 7-8pm WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Paint a tree on a mug and coaster. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Open Studio For Families

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 9, ages 5-8: 4:30-5:30pm; ages 9-12: 6-7pm WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Paint a wood-based cactus and then decorate it. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

WHEN: Sept. 14-28, Saturdays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of the galleries and create art through hands-on activities. WANT TO GO? $12; $9; free for members, students with ID, and children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Magnet Mania FREE

Sand Recipes & Castles

Tiny Tots: Unicorn FREE

Dragonball Z Paint Event

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 10, 4:45-5:30pm WHERE: Sachem Public Library, 150 Holbrook Road, Holbrook AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Using glass beads, pencils, and magazine pictures, create a one-ofa-kind magnet to use in school or at home. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-588-5024. sachemlibrary.org. WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: 18 months to 4 years with parent WHAT: Learn through play, movement, crafts, and song. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org. 34

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WHEN: Sept. 28-29, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Build a sturdy sandcastle at least 12 inches high. WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 1. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org. WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 29, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids will have fun while learning to paint Dragonball Z’s Goku. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Get Together Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 10am-2pm WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: Bring your family and friends, a picnic lunch, and games. All are invited to this inclusive day of fun with accessible activities. WANT TO GO? 631-269-4333. parks.ny.gov.

Tiny Tots: ‘Nature Discoveries’: Sounds of September FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 10, 10-11am WHERE: Connetquot River State Park Preserve, Sunrise Highway, Bohemia AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Connect with nature through short walks, animal visits, and crafts. WANT TO GO? 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

Moonlight Memorial Service FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 11, 7pm WHERE: The Common Ground at The Pamela Raymond Performance Pavilion at Rotary Park, between Candee and Gillette avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: This special gathering begins with speakers and music and ends with a Candlelight Labyrinth Walk. Anyone is invited to share their thoughts and memories. WANT TO GO? 631-459-6603. thecommonground.com.

Tiny Tots: ‘Nature Discoveries’: Butterflies on the Move FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 19, 10-11am WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Connect with nature through short walks, animal visits, and crafts. WANT TO GO? 631-265-1054. parks.ny.gov.

Forest Explorers FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 10-11:30am WHERE: Connetquot River State Park Preserve, Sunrise Highway, Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: Discover all the little things that make walking through the forest special. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

ANIMAL LOVERS Looking Back, Looking Ahead

WHEN: Through Sept. 11: Monday-Saturday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Library, 95 Harbor Road, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: See some intriguing paintings of fish, salamanders, other aquatic life. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors 65 and older; $5 children ages 3-12; free for members. 516-692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

Return to Class FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, kindergarten-second grade: 5-5:45pm; thirdsixth grade: 6-6:45pm WHERE: Sachem Public Library, 150 Holbrook Road, Holbrook AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Meet some live animal friends and design an amazing animal folder to get you organized for class. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-588-5024. sachemlibrary.org.

Seals in New York FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 24, 10-11am WHERE: Connetquot River State Park Preserve, Sunrise Highway, Bohemia AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Connect with nature through short walks, animal visits, and crafts. WANT TO GO? 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 10am WHERE: Hallock State Park Preserve, 6062 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Learn about seals, then help clean the beach. Participants ages 6-16 will receive a free Beach Stewardship backpack. WANT TO GO? 631-315-5475. parks.ny.gov.

National Public Lands Day FREE

Tropical Fish of Shinnecock Bay

Tiny Tots: ‘Nature Discoveries’: Nocturnal Neighbors FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, WHERE: Various parks throughout New York State AGES: All WHAT: Find your local National Park and enjoy the day! WANT TO GO? nps.gov.

Fun Fields Play Area & U-Pick Pumpkins!

WHEN: Sept. 18-30, daily, 10am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Organic Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Pick out a pumpkin and some beautiful fall mums and enjoy live music every weekend. Kids will have a blast on attractions including the pedal kart track, maze, and lavender labyrinth. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 9-11am WHERE: Shinnecock Bay, Hampton Bays AGES: All WHAT: Meet the tropical fish that visit this time of year. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $25 per family; $10 individual. 631-765-6450 x205. groupfortheeastend.org.

Jungle Bob Live Reptile Extravaganza

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 26, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Suffolk County Environment Center, 550 S. Bay Ave., Islip AGES: All WHAT: Take a walk on the wild side with Jungle Bob as he brings the wonders of nature to life with a live animal show. Register online. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members. 631-581-6908. seatuck.org. LongIslandParent 35

Babylon Block Party!

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 12, 5-9pm WHERE: Deer Park Avenue, Main Street and Railroad Avenue, Babylon AGES: All WHAT: Head to Babylon Village for outdoor dining, bouncy houses, live music, and vendors. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. babylonvillagechamberofcommerce.com.

Melville Library 60th Anniversary Celebration FREE

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS First Fridays on Love Lane: September

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 6, 6-9pm WHERE: The Greater Mattituck Chamber of Commerce, Love Lane, Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy artisanal food, craft beverages, live music, and unique products. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. facebook.com/firstfridaysonlovelane.

Dockside Family Festival FREE

WHEN: Sept. 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Captree State Park, 3500 E. Ocean Parkway, Bayshore AGES: All WHAT: Activities for children include the famous crab races, boat rides, interactive pirate shows, pony rides, magic shows, and more! WANT TO GO? 631-321-3510. parks.ny.gov.

Longwood Fair

WHEN: Sept. 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Longwood Estate, Longwood and Ridge roads, Ridge AGES: All WHAT: This year’s fair will include historical re-enactments and demonstrations, food and craft vendors, music and entertainment, children’s activities, a Tesla Science Center at Wardenclyffe, pet shows, and more. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. 631-924-1820. brookhavenny.gov.

East Northport Festival

WHEN: Sept. 6-8, Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 11am-11pm; Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: John Walsh Park, Larkfield Road, East Northport AGES: All WHAT: Featuring music, games, rides, a doughnut eating contest, and more. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. 631-261-3573. eastnorthport.com.

SYJCC’s Fall Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 12-4pm WHERE: Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Road, Commack AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with inflatables, family games, live music, and vendors. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. 631-462-9800. syjcc.org.

Annual Fair at Argyle Park FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 9am-5pm WHERE: Argyle Park, 250 W. Main St., Babylon AGES: All WHAT: This Annual Fair offers food and entertainment around the Gazebo area and a children’s section with small rides, activities, and craft vendors selling handmade items. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. babylonbeautification.org. 36

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WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 10am-12pm WHERE: Half Hollow Hills Community Library, 510 Sweet Hollow Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a fun-filled morning with crafts, retro story time on the lawn, music, refreshments, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-421-4535. hhhlibrary.org.

5th Annual Culper Spy Day

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 9am-4pm WHERE: The Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Visit the places where history was made and meet area groups to learn about the patriots who risked their lives. WANT TO GO? $25; $5 children ages 6-12; free for veterans and children younger than 6. 631-751-0066. tvhs.org.

16th Annual Long Island Garlic Festival

WHEN: Sept. 14-15, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Garden Of Eve Organic Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Features a variety of garlic-inspired foods, crafts, music, and more. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 2. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Waterfront Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 12-4pm WHERE: Tobay Beach Marina, Ocean Parkway, West Gilgo Beach AGES: All WHAT: Children’s activities, face painting, snapper fishing, police boat demonstrations, marine and outdoor exhibits, live music, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-797-4121. oysterbaytown.com.

Greek Fest 2019

WHEN: Sept. 13-15, Friday, 4-11pm; Saturday, 11am-11pm; Sunday, 12-8pm WHERE: Saint Paraskevi Greek Orthodox Church, 1 Shrine Place, Greenlawn AGES: All WHAT: Delicious Greek food, pastries, music, dancing, and games for kids. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. 631-261-7272. stparaskevi.org.

CommUniversity Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 12-4pm WHERE: Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Join the campus community as they share their fascinating, innovative, and entertaining world through hands-on, interactive activities. WANT TO GO? 631-632-9117. stonybrook.edu .

Bike4Nature Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 11am-4pm WHERE: CEED - Center for Environmental Education & Discovery, 287 S. Country Road, Brookhaven AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate fall wildlife migration with Earth-friendly vendors, live music, delicious and healthy barbecue, and a bike-a-thon. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; $10 bike-a-thon entry fee. 631-803-6780. ceedli.org.

Draw Out! Free Community Arts Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 12-4pm WHERE: Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate creativity with a fun day of art activities, artists’ demonstrations, and musical performances. WANT TO GO? 631-351-3250. heckscher.org.

Touch-A-Tractor

WHEN: Sept. 21-22, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Organic Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: See and sit in some of the farm’s collection of tractors, old and new! WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

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WHEN: Sept. 20-22, Saturday: 8:30am race; 6pm Decorated Boat Display on Village Dock; 8pm Concert at the Band shell, Village Park; Sunday: 12pm Parade; 1pm Festival WHERE: Main Street, Northport AGES: All WHAT: The fun includes a 10K race, parade, live entertainment, a lighted boat display, and more. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. cowharborrace.com.

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All Around the World Family Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 6pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Taste foods from different countries, play games, and watch a movie. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

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Fall Craft Fair FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 11am-2pm WHERE: Robert E. Reid, Sr. Recreation Center, Defense Road Route 25A, Shoreham AGES: All WHAT: Live music, food, craft vendors and more! WANT TO GO? 631-744-2601. brookhavenny.gov.

2nd Annual Commack Day

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 11am-5pm WHERE: Hoyt Farm Nature Preserve, 200 New Highway, Commack AGES: All WHAT: Discover what local vendors have to offer, listen to live music, and enjoy food and beverages among the beautiful scenery. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 in advance; free for children younger than 12. commackday.com.

Fall Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy environmental exhibitors, music, games, a castle bouncer, live animal encounters, food, and more. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors 65 and older; $5 kids ages 3-12; free for members. 516-692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

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San Gennaro Feast of the Hamptons 2019 FREE

WHEN: Sept. 28-29, Saturday, 10am-10pm; Sunday, 10am-8pm WHERE: Hampton Bays AGES: All WHAT: Italian delicacies, beer and wine, carnival rides, and more. WANT TO GO? Prices vary for goods. sangennarofeastofthehamptons.com.

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Day Care Center, Nanny, or Relative? ››

Choosing a child care provider can be an anxiety-filled decision—you are leaving your infant with someone else, after all—but selecting the best option for your family is easier if you understand the pros and cons of each. By Christina Vercelletto

dding a new baby to your family, whether it’s your first or your fifth, is probably life’s most memorable milestone. And of course, along with the excitement and joy comes a long list of to-dos, including the task of identifying the right child care arrangement for your family if you’re heading back to work. This should be sorted out as early as possible—before birth, if possible. (Trust us: Your three months of maternity leave will feel more like three weeks.) But how do you make this very important and often challenging decision? Here, we weigh the three most popular options to help you choose.

That said, day care centers are not cheap. In our area, you’re easily looking at $1,500 a month, if not more, for full-time day care. It can start to get cost prohibitive if a second child comes along and you, naturally, want both your kids in the same place. Also, day care centers charge extra for late pick-up or early drop-off.

Day Care Center

Pros: Nannies (and plenty of mannies!) are committed sitters who enjoy being part of a family and watching their charges grow up. It’s hard to beat the concept of a caring professional utterly dedicated to your child.

Pros: One major advantage of day care centers is they are state-licensed and regulated. (The U.S. Administration for Children & Families recommends you ask about a license when you visit.) They offer a structured day for children (yes, even for infants), with outdoor time, naps, meals, and snacks. And caregivers typically have a degree (or are earning one) in early childhood education. Many parents like the social aspect of day care centers— children are grouped by age, and starting at 2 years old spend the day in a preschool classroom with a real curriculum and progress reports. Plus, a familiar environment from infanthood through kindergarten is appealing. “The social element cannot be overstated,” says Jessica Wertheim, chief learning officer at Dearest Inc., a child care-sharing marketplace based in New York City. “Social-emotional skills that support children’s ability to focus and engage in other classroom environments, manage their own emotions, and socialize well with peers are often taught more directly during day care and preschool than at any other time.” Cons: The day will come when your baby will have a wet diaper at pick-up, or your child will be given the center-provided snack instead of the special one you bring in every day, no matter how great the caregivers are. If these sorts of instances sound like dealbreakers, this probably isn’t the way to go. Cost: Due to state-regulated child-to-teacher ratios, the older the child, the lower the cost. Centers have to charge the most for infants, since they are required to hire more people to care for them. 38

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Bottom Line: Day care centers can be the right choice for parents with a 9-5 job, who don’t often work late, and prefer a socialized group setting for their child.

Nanny

Cons: All your eggs are in one person’s basket. Nannies get the flu, wake up to a busted water pipe in their home, have car trouble, and need to take their suddenly-sick cat to the vet like anyone else. When that happens, you’re stuck scrambling. Also, nannies can quit even under the best of circumstances (say, their spouse gets a new job out of state), and depending on the age of your child, this can be a devastating loss. Cost: Nannies are costly. In our area, parents can expect to pay upwards of $15 an hour for one child, according to payscale.com. As her employer, you need to provide your nanny with disability insurance, and you may need to pay the IRS an employment tax. It’s also expected that you ante up for birthday and holiday gifts, food in the fridge, and paid vacation. Live-in nannies earn a lower salary, but many families don’t have enough space to make that option possible. Bottom Line: If you can afford it and prize personal attention above all else, this is the way to go.

Family Care

Pros: “Having a relative care for their baby often gives parents a sense of relief,” says Martha Mendez-Baldwin, Ph.D., a psychology of childhood assistant professor at Manhattan College in the Bronx.

Cons: Your mother or mother-in-law may have offered to step in, but as tempting as this alternative may feel, assess the situation realistically. She may not be prepared for the hard work of caring for a newborn. “Is this relative aware of today’s best child care practices? Do they know the safest sleep position is on the baby’s back?” Dr. Mendez-Baldwin asks. Plus, with a relative, you will still have to lay out a few ground rules and make requests about how you want things done, which can create conflict in an already-delicate relationship. You still need a back-up plan for early mornings when the phone call starts with, “I’m so sorry, but…” Cost: While this could be a free arrangement, you may want to insist on paying your relative to underscore the fact that this is a real responsibility. On the other hand, she might refuse payment, so cost really depends on the individual family. Bottom Line: If Grandma is energetic, and you have a solid relationship that can withstand honest and open communication, this may be worth considering (especially if money is an issue). Child care arrangements are a big decision, and there is no one-size-fits-all option, Wertheim says. However, there is no bad option either. “When any adult creates experiences that are personalized and respond to a baby’s interests with enthusiasm, positivity, and warmth, they support that baby’s social and cognitive development,” she says.

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The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County

The Gateway School for the Performing Arts 215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133, 631-286-0555, x5000 thegateway.org Join us on Saturday, Sept. 7 from 10am-1pm! Attendees will have the opportunity to meet the staff, tour the property, and learn about classes!

Holy Angels Regional School

1 Division St., Patchogue 631-475-2641 holyangelsregional.org mconnell@holyangelsregional.org Come visit our school and give your children the advantage that lasts a lifetime. Call anytime for a tour.

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1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation Great South Bay Shopping Center 985 W. Montauk Highway, West Babylon 631-314-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/babylon Join us for an open house in Babylon, Friday, Sept. 13 from 2-6pm, and Saturday, Sept. 14 from 9am-12pm.

Posey School

57 Main St., Northport 631-757-2700 poseyschoolofdance.com poseyschoolofdance@gmail.com Join Posey Preschool for an open house on Sept. 7. Meet the directors and learn about our unique preschool program.

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Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing (FEES) are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours. The Tooth Pillow Dentistry 775 Park Ave, Suite 340, Huntington 516-317-2476 toothpillowny.com The Tooth Pillow Dentistry is a group of board-certified pediatric dentists and dentist anesthesiologists who work together to safely provide dental treatment while your child “sleeps.” We provide this service for children who cannot be treated in the typical dental chair setting due to age, behavior, or other factors that hinder treatment. Your child will leave our office with all of their dental work completed, free from pain and bad memories. We will treat your child as if they were our own. Trust your child with the experts in pediatric dental sedation.

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f you’re separated or divorced, you know how important it is to make a plan for sharing time with your child. However, this isn’t always easy, and can lead to frustration or even anger. Here are eight tips to develop—and agree on—a plan to co-parent successfully. Consider everyone’s schedules. If a father leaves for work at 6am and doesn’t come home until 7pm, his schedule could make shared parenting hard, says Tanya Helfand, a divorced mom, lawyer in New York City, and author of 20 Great Tips for a Successful Divorce. “In this case, it’s important for his ex-partner to allow him to have a nanny so he can get to work,” she suggests. Keep it consistent. A set schedule is key for fostering stability, says Emily Stulman Klein, a divorced life strategist and mom of a 12-year-old daughter who lives in Montclair, NJ. Put yourself in your kids’ shoes. Children should have an open relationship with both parents—and never feel like the gobetweens. “A major problem arises when the parents prevent that relationship from happening and then put the children in the middle,” Helfand says. Be practical and precise. Leave the emotion out of discussions and decisions as much as possible. “I also suggest that communication between the parties be in a written form,” says Steven J. Mandel, a family law attorney in NYC. Skip the good-cop, bad-cop scenario. It’s very common for kids to play the “mommy vs. daddy” game. “That is why it is in the best interests of all concerned for everyone to be on the same page,” Mandel says. Make kids feel treasured. Kids should feel like both parents are choosing to spend time with them. “We use the words who ‘gets to’ be with [our daughter] rather than who ‘has to’ be with her.” Klein says. Be accommodating. Life happens and sometimes you will need to swap times. Do your best to always be gracious about it. Remember: You will be in each other’s lives—for life. “Just because it didn’t work out for us doesn’t mean we have to be mean,” Klein says. “The happier we are individually, the happier we all are as co-parents.” Lambeth Hochwald is a journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in NYC.

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HORIZON ORTHODONTICS

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LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy,

voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

PEDIATRIC IMMEDIATE CARE

150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-theart medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kidfriendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted.

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LINDA SPRINGER, INVESTMENT ADVISER REPRESENTATIVE WITH PRIMERICA ADVISORS

1600 Expressway Drive S., Hauppauge Cell: 631-235-1749 Office: 631-361-6271 primerica.com/lindaspringer linda.springer@primerica.com Linda Springer, an investment adviser representative with Primerica Advisors has proudly served the community in financial literacy education and team training and development for more than 20 years. Contact us at 631-235-1749 (cell) or 631-361-6271(office).

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LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, PLLC

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He is also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

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CHILD BEHAVIOR CONSULTING, LLC 10 Janet Court, Nesconset 631-617-1958 childbehaviorconsulting.com lisa@childbehaviorconsulting.com Providing education, tools, and knowledge in teaching children cognitive skills to focus and remain calm. Specializing in challenges related to behavior, academic learning, and social-emotional development.

ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 West 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com; ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen provides personalized, high quality special needs estate planning and special education legal services at a reasonable cost. It also conducts free workshops on several topics for agencies, schools, and parent groups.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, PLLC

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com

brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He is also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org mreno@lifesworc.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include: insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

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LONG ISLAND TUTORIAL SERVICES 173 N. Main St., Sayville 631-316-0426 litutorialservices.com litutorialservices@gmail .com Long Island Tutorial Services (LITS) provides award-winning customer service and firstrate instruction to families island-wide. Call for a confidential consultation.

ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYST. PATRICK TUTORING CENTER

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-2161791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

St. Patrick Church, 280 E Main St., Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Tutoring Center is here to assist your learner from grades kindergarten-12th with Catholic Entrance Exam Prep, SAT, Regents, or daily schoolwork. St. Patrick Youth Community-Youth Enrichment Learning Center St. Patrick Church, 280 E Main St., Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com; spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Enrichment and Learning Center provides programs for your child ages 1½ years–sixth grade. A faith-based program offers a loving, caring environment.

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PartyCentral PARTY PLACES BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE 101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere.

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COLD SPRING HARBOR FISH HATCHERY & AQUARIUM 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org; steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter.

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GOLD MEDAL GYMNASTICS CENTERS Suffolk: 266 East Pulaski Road, Greenlawn 631-427-8275 huntington@gmgc.com 1752 Middle Country Road, Centereach 631-981-4653 centereach@gmgc.com 683 Route 25A, Rocky Point 631-821-2100 rockypoint@gmgc.com

253 W. Main St., Smithtown 631-366-4653 smithtown@gmgc.com; gmgc.com Long Island’s leading gymnastics center, “Where Every Child is a Champion” since 1973. Island-wide with six locations and fully certified instructors. We offer action-packed birthday parties!

GREAT STRIDES LONG ISLAND 41 Coram-Swezeytown Road, Middle Island 631-786-9708 greatstridesli.org; julie@greatstridesli.org Lasso some birthday fun at Great Strides Long Island. We offer a relaxed picnic atmosphere (indoor facility is available), farm animals, and a horse ride-all for a reasonable price. Email julie@greatstridesli.org for more information.

INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM Pier 86, W. 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever!

KARTS INDOOR RACEWAY 701 Union Parkway, Ronkonkoma 631-737-5278 karts1.com; info@karts1.com Karts offers a variety of options for kids and adults starting at age 4 (40 inches tall). Whether it be racing, laser tag, or one of our other great activities, our unforgettable parties are loved by both kids and parents.

KEY TO MY ART, INC. 10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com At Key to My Art, our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting!

LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM 431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426), 631-208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and an ice cream cake. All parties get a

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Bethpage Ballpark 3 Court House Drive, Central Islip 631-940-DUCK (3825) liducks.com Imagine the excitement when your child stands on the dugout with QuackerJack while the crowd sings Happy Birthday! Their name will be displayed on the scoreboard and announced. Package includes box seats and meal. Guests will have fun in the kids zone inflatable area.

LONG ISLAND EXPLORIUM 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson 631- 331-3277 longislandexplorium.org Celebrate your birthday at the LI Explorium. Enjoy 90 minutes to two hours of exciting, interactive activities. Select a theme from our four well-loved STEM challenges and give your friends the most memorable birthday party ever. Packages available. Call to reserve your best party today!

LONG ISLAND NETS NYCB LIVE, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale longisland.gleague.nba.com

Long Island Nets birthday party packages are a great way to celebrate your next birthday. Receive exclusive gear and birthday shout outs.

MAIN ST. BOARD GAME CAFE UNPLUG YOUR GAME 307 Main St., Huntington 631-729-0060 mainstboardgamecafe.com/reservation info@mainstboardgamecafe.com

Unplug your game! Main St. Board Game Cafe hosts parties for kids, tweens, and teens. Supervised by our staff of board game experts, our parties are a fun yet enriching experience for your next birthday or event.

MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER 1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation Great South Bay Shopping Center 985 W. Montauk Highway, West Babylon 631-314-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/babylon At My Gym the goal is to make your party an amazing, customized celebration. You will have exclusive use of the entire gym with

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

SAF-T-SWIM SCHOOL 3500 Veterans Memorial Highway, Bohemia 631-580-2825 6136 Jericho Turnpike, Commack 631-462-9696 Located inside New York Sports Club 1850 NY-112, Coram 631-736-6604 1015 Grand Boulevard, Deer Park 631-254-4025 515 Broadhollow Road, Melville 631-940-7160 150-154 Kroemer Ave., Riverhead 631-727-5458 7 Browns Road, Nesconset 631-406-7316 saf-t-swim.com Saf-T-Swim pool parties are never rained out! Our year-round parties include 24 guests, a private party room, pool time, lifeguard, invitations, and pizza.

SPLISH SPLASH 2549 Splish Splash Drive, Calverton 631-727-3600 splishsplashlongisland.com Splish Splash makes birthday party planning a piece of cake! Enjoy admission to the park and lunch! Let our staff members make your day stress-free. Book your party today!

STUDIO E ART CLASSES 565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/parties Studio E Art Classes offers two economical party options! “The Bash” Starting at only $290 and “The Extravaganza” starting at only $420! View details at studioeartclass.com/parties.

THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY 250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com; tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

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Alternatives for Children..............................................40

family entertainment / events / outings

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech...............15, 39

Ivy Prep Early Learning Academy - Deer Park ...........41

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery ..............................37

Law Offices of Brad H Rosken ...................................41

Gateway Playhouse ....................................................17

Pediatric Immediate Care......................................33, 39

Northwell Health Ice Center/ NY Islander .....................9

Tooth Pillow Dentistry (The) ........................................39

classes Argyle Theater at Babylon Village ..............................21 Gateway Playhouse ....................................................17 Hofstra Summer Camps .............................................19 LIU Center for Gifted Youth.........................................23 Main Street Board Game Cafe ...................................24 Ohman School of Ballet ..............................................23

health Cohen Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Medical Center/BFREE .................. 11 Fidelis Care New York ..................................................3 Horizon Orthodontics .................................................. 11

Posey School of Dance ..............................................24

Northwell Health ...........................................................9

Studio E Art Classes....................................................19

Pediatric Immediate Care......................................33, 39

TJE Dance Force ........................................................21

Tooth Pillow Dentistry (The) ........................................39

Village East Gifted ......................................................25 YMCA of Long Island ....................................................5

sports Northwell Health Ice Center/ NY Islander .....................9 St. Patrick Youth Community.......................................23 Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy & Summer Camp ...........................................................25 YMCA of Long Island ....................................................5

theater Argyle Theater at Babylon Village ..............................21

legal services

Gateway Playhouse ....................................................17

Andrew M. Cohen Esq ................................................15

dance

tutors

Ohman School of Ballet ..............................................23

music

Huntington Learning Center .......................................23

Posey School of Dance ..............................................24

Music Together LLC ....................................................41

Osmo ............................................................................2

TJE Dance Force ........................................................21

Sylvan Learning Center - Huntington & Mineola ........25

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raising kids voices

Savor Each Moment? ››

It wasn’t until my own babies were tweens that I truly understood what “enjoy them while they’re young” means. By Kate Haas

hey were everywhere when my kids were small: older women smiling at me in the grocery store, approaching me at the library, their expressions softening at the sight of my baby’s plump cheeks, my toddler’s irrepressible grin. Before they opened their mouths to speak, I knew exactly what they were about to tell me: It all goes so fast. Enjoy them while they’re young. These women did not tend to catch me at my most serene. Typically, I was attempting to locate the mac and cheese on sale or explain to a distraught 3-year-old that Muncha! Muncha! Muncha! wasn’t on the library shelf today, but there were lots of other books—really!—that we could take home instead. Still, when approached by a member of the “treasure each moment” brigade, I always smiled politely and assured them I would do exactly that. Naturally, I didn’t mean a word of it. Life with young kids is full of moments no one treasures, and the hours until a toddler’s naptime can seem slower than the day of labor it took to produce him. Didn’t those old ladies remember that? Why, I wondered, did they feel so compelled to urge me to enjoy every second? Once my kids were tweens, those older women disappeared. There is universal agreement, it seems, that the parent of a 10-year-old need not be advised to enjoy every second. By then I felt far removed from the world of babies. My friends and I were focused on matters such as basketball practice and homework, and how to get our children to clean up their appalling rooms. I’d certainly acknowledge a cute infant when I spotted one in my daily rounds, but always with quick sigh of thankfulness to be done with diapers and sleepless nights. It was only when my kids were teenagers that I began to notice babies again—really notice them. One day, minding my own business at the grocery store, I became aware of a curious pair of eyes regarding me unblinkingly from over the shoulder of a woman in the produce department. The baby’s cheeks were so delectably plump that I was tempted to give them a squeeze, like an avocado. Instead I smiled—and was rewarded by a huge, delighted grin.

I wanted to scoop that baby up and give her a kiss. The impulse was so strong that I actually had to take a step back to avoid being mistaken for a creepy hoverer. The mother turned around and caught my smile. “Um, your baby’s super cute,” I said. She thanked me and moved on to the bananas. As she walked away, I realized there was something I wanted to tell that woman. But following her and her baby would have been stalkerish, so I didn’t. It was the sight of that baby’s uncomplicated smile that did it, that finally made me understand what those women had been trying to tell me all those years ago, when they repeatedly noted how fast it goes and urged me to enjoy each moment. Frazzled and sleep deprived, I could only interpret that advice literally, and puzzle over it. Which was not, I now realize, the intent. What those women were telling me to enjoy in my little kids was something specific, something I took for granted until it disappeared from my life as a parent: unconditional love and affection. I get it. I was a quiet, withdrawn teen myself, spending hours alone in my room with a book. I wasn’t particularly demonstrative—at least, not where my parents were concerned. I accepted their affection routinely, as my due. So I am unsurprised that my two teen boys don’t greet me with joy when I return home after a few hours away. I don’t expect them to tell me how much they love me, or to offer spontaneous hugs and kisses. But it sure was nice when they did those things. I’ll never be the type to advise a weary mother to treasure each moment. But that day in the produce section, I wanted to tell that woman something else: to soak up the embraces, the sweet heft of a toddler on the hip, the fun of coaxing a smile from a baby, the joy of a preschooler spotting you at pickup. Because if I had understood how much I’d miss all that affection, maybe I really would have tried to savor it a little more. Of course, I didn’t say a word to that mother at the grocery store. I’m not one of those older ladies. Not yet, anyway.

Kate Haas is a freelance writer and editor. A mother of two boys, she has written on parenthood for various publications, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, Slate, and Salon.

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