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EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW TO PLAN THE DAY OF YOUR DREAMS. SEE HOW BRIDES ARE GETTING TWO LOOKS IN ONE GOWN WITH CLEVER ACCESSORIES. GET ADVICE ON PLANNING A HOLIDAY WEDDING. LEARN THE LATEST TRENDS IN WEDDING CAKES, RENTALS, AND FAVORS. PLUS: REMEMBER YOUR WEDDING DAY FOR YEARS TO COME WITH SENSORY-STIMULATING DETAILS.
LET’S GET YOU READY TO WALK DOWN THE AISLE! BRAINSTORMING FOR YOUR BIG DAY? YOU’RE CORDIALLY INVITED TO 14 REAL WEDDINGS TEEMING WITH IDEAS AND AESTHETIC INSPIRATION. PLUS: THE COUPLES BEHIND EACH ONE—AND THE PROFESSIONALS THEY PARTNERED WITH—SHARE THE SMART DECISIONS AND PERSONAL DETAILS THAT HELPED MAKE EACH CELEBRATION MEMORABLE.
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exit ensemble, many today have several outfit changes throughout their wedding festivities. Designers have caught on to the desire for multiple looks and found ways to accomplish the e ect without your having to completely ditch your dress (pg. 28). Brilliant!
This November will mark 19 years since my husband and I tied the knot. As evidenced by my choice of accessories (a vintage-inspired choker) and perfume (J’Adore by Dior), my tastes were much di erent then; I’m a jewelry minimalist and Le Labo Santal 33 devotee these days. But whenever I get a whi of J’Adore as I’m walking through a department store, I’m brought right back to that day nearly two decades ago when we declared our love before friends and family. It’s wild how the senses can transport us through time, a concept we explore in this issue (“Good Sense,” pgs. 39–48). From flowers and first-dance songs to meaningful meals and accessories you can wear again, the choices you make on your wedding day will be ones you remember for a lifetime. It’s a good reminder to resist the temptation of short-lived trends and to be true to who you are on this all-important occasion so that when you look back years from now, you’ll grin rather than cringe.
But change is inevitable—and that’s a good thing! Weddings have certainly evolved since I said “I do.” Simple dinners have been transformed into interactive experiences, complete with in-person entertainment and personalized details. (We recommend a few of our favorite reception activations on page 36.) And whereas brides from yesteryear might slip into a more casual
Change isn’t always linear, though. Sometimes we circle back to an idea that was once popular and give it new life. Take the Lambeth cake trend that’s everywhere at the moment. Though the concept is far from original, today’s bakers have reimagined it in a range of fun colors, shapes, and styles. Get a taste on pages 34–35.
And as always, we feature lots of real celebrations to get your wedding wheels turning. I’m continually amazed at the creativity and innovation displayed by Dallas couples and industry professionals. Event planning has been elevated to an art form, with no detail left unconsidered. It can be a lot to manage, which is why we strive to bring you information and inspiration that is relevant to you (as well as sharing the best wedding vendors in town).
Just like my husband and I have endured a lot of change—both good and bad—in our 19 years of marriage, we’ve withstood a lot of change in 21 years of publishing D Weddings. Trends (and perfume preferences) come and go. The one constant is love—and the significance of celebrating it.
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If you’re reading this, chances are, you recently experienced one of the happiest moments of your life when you got engaged. I’ve got good news for you: The best is yet to come. And I don’t just mean after you’ve said “I do.”
Planning your wedding should be a fun and happy season of your life. That doesn’t mean it’s without its challenges—like setting (and sticking to!) a budget, balancing vendor meetings with your already-busy schedule, and making what feels like a million decisions. The latter can sometimes be the most overwhelming, considering the endless barrage of images with which you’re likely being bombarded.
We’re here to help. Having been in publication for more than two decades, we at D Weddings know Dallas brides and grooms better than anyone on a local or national scale. That deep understanding, paired with our insider knowledge and expert resources, allows us to bring you inspiration that’s tailored to your tastes and available right in your very own backyard. Whether you plan to say “I do” in Dallas or in another destination, this city boasts some of the top wedding-
industry talent in the world (who are all too happy to travel with you!).
But beyond inspiring photos of real local weddings, we also provide you with useful advice from pros and couples who have been there. The weddings you see are those of your neighbors, maybe even your coworkers or friends—not some distant figures with whom you have nothing in common. Whether it’s choosing a firstdance song, weighing pros and cons of hosting a holiday wedding, or planning an event at your family home, you’ll find real, unbiased guidance in this issue on these topics and so many more.
Of course, none of what we do would be possible without the support of our partners, who represent the very best of the Dallas events industry. If you’re finding the wedding-planning process to be more stressful than memorable, I encourage you to reach out to the vendors you see represented in our pages. Our partners are all trusted, vetted, experienced, and have the process down to a science. Not only will they make your wedding look spectacular, they’ll make it look easy—and make your life easier, too.
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As an Austin native and a dual citizen, Merissa De Falcis is a little bit country—and a little bit Italian, too. So in planning her nuptials to college sweetheart Cole Bradford, she was torn between a wedding in Fredericksburg, Texas (one of the couple’s favorite weekend destinations) or a small celebration in Tuscany. Wanting a save-thedate option for either outcome, Merissa, herself a professional photographer, chose locations and looks that matched both vibes. For this shot, taken on the plains of Contigo Ranch in Fredericksburg, Merissa donned boots bearing her new initials—an engagement gift from her future in-laws. In the end, she and Cole hosted an intimate Italian ceremony, followed by a Dallas reception infused with a taste of Tuscany. “It was the best of both worlds!” says Merissa. —Jessica Otte swept off her feet
Foster intimacy at your reception with layered lighting, cozy seating, and other traditionally residential touches.
by Lydia Brooks
Chandler Hefter wanted her bridesmaids to have a keepsake that not only coordinated with her wedding’s design—which featured blue-and-white jars throughout—but also would be something they might actually use. “The ginger-jar ornaments were perfect,” she says. “Every year when they decorate their Christmas tree, I hope it brings sweet memories of that day.”
Bride Elizabeth Dameris worked with her stationer to create a floral pattern that would give the light, summery vibe she wanted for her big day. The print was used on various day-of details, including the wallpaper-esque panels lining the band’s backdrop.
If you want your guests to truly feel at home, reach for rental pieces that read more “residence” than “reception venue.”
7: “Geneva” cordless
Rechargeable lamps allow you to add a glow to tables—no open flames required! For Merissa De Falcis’ reception, the Emily Clarke Events team matched these shades to the tent’s yellow-striped awnings. “Since we weren’t doing a formal sit-down dinner, we wanted our sitting areas to feel more homey,” says the bride.
New Year, New Name:
Madie McKasson says her guests were happy about her and Rick Walton’s New Year’s Eve wedding date. “Everyone was so excited to have something fun to celebrate,” she says.
What to expect when you want to have your big day on a big day.
by Jessica Otte
Madie McKasson and Rick Walton’s wedding was bookended with climactic kisses: the first following the exchange of their selfpenned vows and another to close out the evening—and the year—in spectacular style. “We loved the idea of ringing in the new year with all of our favorite people in the same place,” Madie says of their choice to host a wedding on December 31, 2023. Not wanting to rush after getting engaged in January 2022, they booked their date at The Carlisle Room nearly two years early and sent savethe-dates almost a year in advance. When the big moment finally arrived, it proved well worth the wait. “When the clock struck midnight, confetti and kisses filled the room,” Madie remembers. “It was incredible.”
But competing for your guests’ attention on a sought-after date isn’t always so simple. If you have your heart set on New Year’s Eve nuptials—or saying “I do” on or near another holiday or major event—read ahead for advice from four local wedding planners about what to consider before putting down your deposit.
Is it a good idea or a bad idea to host a wedding on or near a holiday? Are you more likely to have a higher-than-usual regret rate?
Answer: Corinne Sullivan, Social Graces Dallas
I have seen holidays bring higher and lower guest counts—it really depends on the holiday and how many of the guests would be traveling from out of town. For example, New Year’s Eve can bring higher rates of acceptances because most everyone is looking for New Year’s plans. However, when it comes to holidays like Thanksgiving or Memorial Day, travel costs are high for those coming in from out of town, and many families may have yearly obligations or preplanned vacations in place. We recommend planning holiday nuptials well in advance with consideration to peak travel times and work schedules.
the specific holiday flair to make it a full weekend experience that encompasses both the holiday spirit and the wedding celebration.
When planning a wedding on or near a holiday or a big event, should you send your save-thedates out earlier than usual?
If so, how early?
Answer: Marsha Ballard French, Stardust Celebrations
When discussing what to expect with couples, I will typically ask questions around the number of guests attending from out of town, if they are expecting more families or younger couples, and how those guests would normally spend the holiday to best give the couple an estimated attendance. For reference, if most guests live in the area, approximately 75 to 80 percent is an average turnout for non-holiday weddings; if most are out-of-towners, closer to 70 percent is a safe bet. Holiday weekends would, of course, have more variables involved. If couples are worried a holiday may limit guest attendance, I encourage making a weekend of it, including welcome drinks or a farewell brunch—maybe even with
We suggest sending save-the-dates no less than five months prior to your wedding date but no earlier than seven months out, even if a holiday is involved. However, if there is a major event happening, we would suggest a few months earlier—but not more than 12 months prior to the wedding. Examples of major events to be aware of would be: the World Cup (which is coming to Dallas in 2026!), the Super Bowl, the NBA playo s/championship, major concerts (a la Taylor Swift!), or major political conventions.
a wedding around a holiday or on an event weekend:
CONS: Selecting a busier weekend could cause logistical issues for guests, like hotel-room price hikes and shortages, tra ic between locations, and higher airfare if traveling in.
PROS: Selecting a holiday weekend could mean your guests have time o work, so they can enjoy the festivities a little longer. Couples should consider doing their hotel courtesy blocks as soon as they have a date. There is no cost associated with doing so, and this will ensure those rates and rooms are set aside. We also suggest using transportation for all guests so that everyone arrives on time and together, eliminating the need for parking in busy times.
Must you always match your wedding decor to the season, holiday or otherwise?
Answer: Brittany McKinney, Southern A airs
In terms of conflicting events, what should couples be mindful of when selecting a wedding date? How can having a wedding on a busy weekend potentially impact you or your guests?
Answer: Lottie Fowler, Grit & Gold Event Co
When selecting your wedding date, it’s imperative that you are aware of large local events, holidays, or three-day weekends happening at the same time. A few pros and cons to weigh when considering hosting
I feel you should want to stay in season with your decor, though I also believe that pushing the limits is a great way to wow guests! But it will work in your favor to stick with the seasons, as the pricing of certain things, such as floral, will fluctuate with the season. Holidays are special and beautiful on their own, so I would look to the client to see if they are a huge Christmas person before pushing that option. I think we should always capture the couple’s personality with the theme instead of focusing on the holiday.
This two-tier confection by Fancy Cakes by Lauren would make your “something blue” extra sweet.
If you’re looking to inject a bit of color into your day-of sweets, look to Society Bakery and their signature “vintage” cakes.
Lambeth cakes may be the hottest trend in wedding-cake design today, but the ornate style is hardly new. While overpiping was popular in 19thcentury Europe, it was 1934 when Joseph Lambeth, an American expat and pastry chef, took the look mainstream with the publication of his book, Lambeth Method of Cake Decoration and Practical Pastries. The style has come in and out of favor in the decades since, with celebs like Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton— whose five-tier masterpiece was created by Dallas’ own Fancy Cakes by Lauren—helping to popularize the vintage look once again.
Local bakers showcase their piping prowess with four takes on lavish Lambeth-style cakes.
Who says wedding cakes have to be round? Showcase your love with a heart-shaped pink-and-white design from Unrefined Bakery.
Worried that an all-white cake will be boring? This elaborately iced creation by Sugar Bee Sweets proves a simple color palette can still pack a visual punch.
Dallas-based LEATHEROLOGY is known for designing high quality leather handbags, wallets, luggage, and the like, made all the more luxe with their variety of monogramming options. But did you know they can arrange a live personalization station at your reception or other wedding-weekend event? With help from an on-site professional, guests can add their debossed, trapunto, or hand-painted initials to the items of your choosing—we especially love the luggage tags, key chains, and valet trays— to create a favor they’ll treasure for years to come. leatherology.com
Give guests an unforgettable reminder of your gratitude with a piece of permanent jewelry from LOVE WELD. “As a bride, you’re constantly seeking creative ways to show your loved ones how much they mean to you,” says founder Sarah Sides. “We can help you gift them with a lasting memento they will treasure for a lifetime.” loveweld.com
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Let guests say it with chainstitching courtesy of W DURABLE GOODS’ Daniel Wright, who personalizes bandanas live at events. “I’ve gotten so many photos of people using them on their tables as table napkins, wrapped around a purse, or even wrapped in their hair,” says bride Claire Bizub, whose reception featured Wright’s talents. wdurable goods.com
Let’s face it: Your guests don’t need another Koozie. Give them what they really want at your reception—a fun experience to keep them engaged once dinner is over and their dancing feet have grown tired. Though activations are not a new concept—live painters, cigar rollers, and photo booths have been popular wedding choices throughout the years—the options have expanded exponentially, allowing couples to find experiences that suit their personalities and send loved ones home with a meaningful memento. Here are five of our favorites.
by Lydia Brooks and Jessica Otte
The SAND & SOIL flower truck is the perfect way to add a fresh flourish to your festivities. Guests simply visit the truck outside your reception venue, choose their favorite blooms, and let one of the brand’s “floristas”
arrange a bouquet for them to take home. If you prefer to keep the experience indoors, opt instead for Sand & Soil’s flower cart, which has a smaller footprint but o ers the same experience. sandandsoilflowers.com
Lake Highlands–based outfitter NEIGHBORHOOD SUPPLY CO. is taking their popular hat bar on the road, making it possible to personalize caps with custom embroidery or patches on the spot. Owner Kasey Bower can incorporate your existing wedding logo into your design (or create one for you), or you can select a variety of phrases and graphics for guests to choose from. neighborhoodsupplyco.com
The sights, sounds, and smells of your wedding day are ones you’ll remember forever. Choose wisely.
YOU’LL NEVER FORGET THE WAY YOUR PARTNER LOOKED AT YOU AS YOU SAID YOUR VOWS, the words your father spoke in his toast, or the way your grandmother boogied the night away on the dance floor—or will you?
Memories can be fickle, even those from momentous occasions like your wedding day. But by incorporating items into your festivities that positively trigger the senses, you can be make it easier to recall those moments, even years down the line. Whether it’s flowers with transportive fragrances, accessories you can wear again, or a song that’ll become a permanent part of your love story, the choices you make for your day will pay dividends for a lifetime.
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Choosing memory-evoking dishes for your wedding menu will leave a good taste in your mouth.
by Lydia BrooksFood is one of the most sensorily evocative aspects of your wedding day—and not just for the obvious reasons. (It's tasty!) Most caterers are happy to work with clients to personalize menus that are meaningful to them, whether it's reinventing a childhood favorite (like Culinary Art Catering's rigatoni bolognese) or nodding to their family heritage (such as Wendy Krispin Caterer's Mexican mole grilled quail). If you'd rather plan for the future than look to the past, opt for dishes you can recreate at home on special anniversaries or date nights. Vestals Catering's lobster fettuccini, for example, is easy enough for an amateur to master. (Scan the QR code to get the recipe!) By being intentional with your selections, you can conjure culinary memories on—or of—your special day.
Rigatoni Bolognese with sweet pea confit and crispy onions
Culinary Art Catering culinaryartcatering.com
Mexican mole grilled quail with cilantro rice timbale
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Lobster and zucchini fettuccini
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The easiest way to relive your big day? By choosing matrimonial accessories you can wear again and again.
by Lydia Brooks
Bridal footwear doesn’t have to be white. These floral mules are feminine and fashion-forward.
Not long ago, bridal fashion meant dyed satin shoes and elaborate headpieces, which, post-wedding, would be preserved and left to gather dust. But brides today are opting for more versatile accessories they can effortlessly incorporate into their everyday wardrobe. It’s both a practical and sentimental shift, as each time you don them, you’ll think back to that special day.
Sni , sni ! When it comes to the aromas of your wedding day, the nose knows.by Jessica Otte
Pick your petals wisely, whether you prefer fruity, sweet, subtle, or strong.
The same way you can instantly recall sentimental scents from your childhood—chocolate chip cookies baking, freshly-cut grass, sunscreen and salty air—the scents from your wedding day will forever be etched in your brain. It’s science! (See “The Science of Scent.”) Sophie Cox, owner of Blushington Blooms, shares seven blooms sure to leave a lasting impression.
White O’Hara Garden Rose Sophie loves this “full and textured” aromatic bloom that gives o notes of another popular fragrant flower— gardenia. “As these roses open, the smell becomes more bold!” she says. Available: Year round
Sweet Pea
Excellent for adding frilly texture to arrangements, this “dainty and delicate” flower—which represents gratitude and happiness—is paired with a “soft and airy” fragrance, says Sophie.
Available: Late spring or early fall
Known for its star-shaped blue or white blooms and grayish-green felted leaves, this “small but mighty” wildflower boasts a jasmine-like scent.
Available: Summer and fall
Bowl of Cream Peony “Peonies are widely loved for their texture, but the unsung hero is their smell!” says Sophie. “The notes of rose and citrus are reminiscent of an English garden and can make anyone smile.”
Available: Mid- to late spring
Lilac “This flower’s
fragrance has been historically used for its relaxing and calming e ect,” notes Sophie. Growing in cones of tightly packed purple blossoms, it gives shape to arrangements.
Available: Summer
Paperwhite Narcissus
These relatives of da odils grow in clusters of small white blooms.
Sophie admits they are “somewhat divisive when it comes to their smell,” which she describes as a “heady, organic scent.”
Available: Early spring
Accessorize your day-of clutch with charms spelling your new last name!
Real brides share the personal fragrances they wore on their wedding day and why they chose them.
“Inflorescence” by Byredo
“I got married at Trinity River Audubon Center and was inspired to wear something floral.”
—Julie Judson
UNDERSTANDING THE PHENOMENON KNOWN AS OLFACTORY MEMORY.
“Ti any & Love” by Ti any & Co. “My sister and maid of honor gave it to me as my ‘something blue.’ ”
—Molly Rihani
Chamomile
Sophie says these whimsical miniature wildflowers—well known for their use in teas—have an “intoxicating” herbal scent that is most closely compared to apples or freshly cut grass.
Available: Spring and summer
Memories triggered by scent are scientifically proven to be stronger and more emotional than those triggered by other senses like sight and sound. The close connection between the olfactory sense and the brain provides insight as to why. “The sensory cells in your nose have direct access into your brain, and it’s the only sensory system that does that,” explains Robby Greene, MD PHD, professor in the department of psychiatry and department of neuroscience at UTSW Medical Center’s Peter O’Donnell Jr. Brain Institute. “It’s a one- or two-link step from the olfactory system into your memory centers in the hippocampus.” He adds that the perceived importance of an event directly correlates with the amount of norepinephrine and dopamine that are released in the brain, which help “imprint a perfect memory.”
A blend of “Wood Sage & Sea Salt” and “Blackberry & Bay” by Jo Malone
“I loved that we could get candles with the matching scents. We burned them the whole wedding day and gave them as thank you gifts.”
—Melissa Tallo
The Ritz-Carlton Dallas, Las Colinas o ers over 80,000 square feet of event space and 31 unique rooms, ranging from iconic outdoor spaces with sweeping views of TPC Las Colinas to the newly transformed Ritz-Carlton Ballroom. Custom o erings, personalized touches and renowned Ritz-Carlton service set the stage to create endless memories at the retreat for modern Texas luxury.
D Weddings’ sta ers share the stories behind their first-dance songs to help inspire your search.
Shared Experiences
“I Always Knew” by Willie Shaw
“We randomly saw Willie sing live while we were on a trip in Nashville, loved the song, and literally walked up to him after the show and asked him if he’d sing it at our wedding. He flew into Dallas just to do it for us!”
—Melissa Tallo, social media strategist
Personal History
“Grows Old” by Thirdstory
“Our mutual love for this band was one of our initial points of friendship, so it was an easy decision when our wedding came around.” —Grace John, production manager
Meaningful Lyrics
“I Guess I’m in Love” by Clinton Kane
“I heard this song randomly on Spotify. I read the lyrics and was brought to tears as I reflected on everything that led me to my husband and the life we were starting. I played it for him as soon as I got home, and we both sat there and cried, and that was it!”
—Sarah Risi, editorial programs manager
Practicality
“The Way I Love You” by Michal Leah
“We landed on this song because the lyrics spoke to us. Not to mention, the run time is only two and a half minutes.” —Zoe Roberts, online managing editor
Staying Power
“Nothing Can Change This Love” by Sam Cooke
“My husband is a music fanatic, so I asked him to spearhead our search. We almost went with ‘Coming Home’ by Dallas' own Leon Bridges—who was just breaking through at the time—but worried we’d regret it, should he become a onealbum wonder. (Turns out, we didn't need to worry about that!) In the end, we ultimately chose a classic we knew would never go out of style and injected a little Texas pride into our private last-dance choice: Willie Nelson's 'I've Loved You All Over the World'. ” —Jessica Otte, executive editor
The sound of your first-dance song will transport you back to your wedding day for years to come. But choosing the right one is easier said than done.
LOVE SONGS ARE A DIME A DOZEN, so choosing one for your first dance sounds like a simple feat. Yet a lot of couples find it surprisingly daunting to choose the tune that best encapsulates them. Though your band or DJ will undoubtedly have a list of standards you can peruse, you should think of your first dance the same way you do other carefully considered details of your celebration. “You customize the dress, the colors, the flowers—and the songs,” says Emerald City Band owner and lead singer Deno Taglioli, who urges couples to choose something reflective of their tastes. “There are perfect country songs and perfect old-school songs—and new songs, too.”
If you’re leaning toward the latter, it’s important to consider the lifespan of a modern-day song. For their 2019 wedding, Sarah and Colin South chose “Dance with Me” by Morgan Evans and Kelsea Ballerini—a pair of once-wed singers who divorced in 2022. “It was a good song that didn’t age well,” Sarah now admits.
If one partner is more passionate about music, delegate the task to them—just make sure the final choice is representative of you both. When assigned with finding their song,
by Jessica Otte HEARCOVER YOUR TRACKS Still stumped?
groom Jacob Brown says he considered artists he thought his wife, Mikayla, would appreciate. “We listened to a lot of John Mayer and Jack Johnson, but they were more her than they were me,” he remembers. “One night, we were listening to the radio and ‘Sun to Me’ by Zach Bryan came on. There’s a lyric that says, ‘Find someone who grows flowers in the darkest parts of you.’ We both have heard the song hundreds of times and knew the words, so as we said that line out loud, we stopped, looked each other in the eye, and said almost in sync, ‘That’s it!’ ” Deno stresses that a personal connection is far more important than a song’s popularity. “Ask yourself if there’s something in your memory bank already that touches you every time you hear it. That will make more sense when you hear it over the years, because it’s just a deeper sentimental value.”
Check out D Weddings ’ Spotify playlists, which include ideas for your first dance, last dance, and everything in between!
And if not? Deno suggests utilizing a streaming service like Spotify, which will recommend artists similar to those you like, to open your musical horizons. And be patient—you never know where or how you’ll stumble upon the song that hits the right notes. Says bride Claudia Brower of her and husband Mason’s choice, “I Will Follow You” by Toulouse, “We heard it for the first time in an Apple commercial!”
This autumnal invitation suite by Southern Fried Paper features 3D embossing and a velvet finish. For a springtime celebration, owner Chelsea Carpenter says she might reach for grasscloth or linen instead.
Intricate textures that’ll have you getting touchy-feely.
There’s something to be said for understated simplicity in wedding design. But strategically weaving unique textiles and treatments into your aesthetic can take the look to the next level—be it through attire, rentals, or paper pieces. Stationer Chelsea Carpenter of Southern Fried Paper says that in addition to using dimension-lending papers and processes, she’s even taken the sensory experience a step further for clients so inclined: “We’ve had couples choose a signature scent that gets incorporated into the invitation.” Get inspired by these tactile touches you won’t be able to keep your hands (or mind) o of. by Jessica Otte
Woven materials are neutral in tone—so they work in almost any space—but are anything but boring.
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BEACH UMBRELLA LOOT RENTALS
BOHO FRINGE SIDE TABLE BELLA ACENTO
After saying “I will” to fiancé Bill Vertin, Heather Postma received some sage advice from her mother. “My mom said to me, ‘We only get to do this once, and we get to do it together, so I hope we are able to enjoy it,’ ” Heather remembers. Indeed, the mother of the bride played a big role in the weddingplanning process and was a calming force for Heather throughout. Prior to the ceremony, they shared a poignant moment in the Governor’s Ballroom of the Adolphus Hotel.
—Rhonda Reinhart
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Pearls of Love: Heather’s wedding-day jewelry held special meaning.
A diamond necklace her parents had given her served as her “something old,” while her “something new” was a pair of pearl earrings Bill gifted to her as a wedding gift. And for her “something borrowed,” she wore a pearl bracelet that her father had given to her mother on their own wedding day.
Dressing Up: Heather had a ball browsing the wedding gowns at Stanley Korshak with a small group of girlfriends and family members. Though she loved every dress she tried on, a floral Amsale number ultimately won her heart.
As Simple as That: Whitney says they wanted the cake to have its own moment, so they placed it in a focal spot near the dance floor. “We didn’t want anything too extravagant or ornate,” she says of the five-tier confection decorated with a delicate floral pattern and small bunches of real flowers.
Fall for You: A few weeks before the wedding, planner Whitney Bailey found out that a larger ballroom was available at The Adolphus. So she snagged the bigger space and redesigned the whole floor plan. As a result, she was able to bring in more furniture pieces, like a comfy banquette in sage green.
“Because the wedding was in the fall, we wanted to incorporate rich, darker tones,” she says.
Heather Postma
Bill Vertin
October 28, 2023
Home Style: “We wanted it to feel homey and comfortable for the guests while still being elegant,” Whitney says of the tabletop design. The mix included etched glassware as well as charger plates with a gold floral pattern.
Going to the Chapel: Heather and her bridesmaids, who donned blush-colored dresses, are pictured in front of Highland Park Presbyterian Church, where Heather’s parents also got married.
Power Couple: Heather is an internal medicine resident at UT Southwestern, and Bill works in oil and gas banking at CrossFirst Bank. They exited the reception in a shower of confetti from their guests.
Three years in the making, Heather Postma and Bill Vertin’s engagement was a family a air. It was on a trip with Heather’s family that Bill—on a balcony overlooking the ocean on an uncharacteristically rainy morning in La Jolla, California— popped the question to his bride-to-be. But the surprises didn’t end there. “We came back to our house, and his whole family was there,” Heather remembers. The Dallas natives said “I do” at the same church where Heather’s parents had wed, then celebrated their union at an elegant reception while surrounded by their nearest and dearest. “It was just so special,” Heather says of their big day. “You feel so loved when everyone you love is there supporting you.” —Rhonda Reinhart
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Sami Bernstein
Andrew Spalter
April 29, 2023
Fitness entrepreneur Sami Bernstein remembers the exact date she first laid eyes on Andrew Spalter. “It was December 17, 2019—crazy memory I know,” she laughs. “I showed up to my good friend’s birthday party super early because I had a flight to Thailand to catch, and the only other person there was Andrew.” Mutual friends had wanted to set them up for a while, and the two were instantly smitten. They went on their first date the night Sami returned from her Thailand trip, and a little more than a year later, they tied the knot in a Tuscany-meets-Texas affair at the Dallas Arboretum that celebrated their love-atfirst-sight romance.
—Lydia Brooks
Best In Show: Andrew and Sami made sure to include their goldendoodle, Bagel, in the festivities, adorning her with a floral collar created by the couple’s florist, Moss Floral Design.
Let Love Grow: Sami worked with Moss Floral to transform her Arboretum ceremony site into a whimsical garden scene. “I wanted to make it look like fairies lived there,” she says. While originally drawn to an all-white flowerscape, in the end she decided to add different tones and hues. “After losing my mom, I received so many white flower bouquets,” she says. “I needed some vibrancy that still looked natural and organic.”
Connective Threads: Southern Fried Paper created a stationery suite inspired by the floral details on Sami’s wedding gown. The invitations also included the couple’s monogram, which was featured in various paper details throughout the weekend.
Quick Change: During the reception, Sami changed into a gold sequined Rachel Gilbert dress. “This dress was so me,” she says. “I felt like a bride without having to wear white, taking bridal style in my own way.”
Dressed to Impress:
“I remember saying that I wanted to feel like an Italian princess,” says Sami of wedding-dress shopping. And she did in the Monique Lhuillier gown she ultimately chose, with its full skirt, sweetheart neckline, and lace detailing.
Memories of Mom:
“My mom saved this garter from my Aunty J’s wedding,” says Sami. “I found it in an envelope she saved for me after she passed.”
After tragically losing her mom, Honey, just four months before her wedding, Sami worked closely with planner Lindsey Morgan of byBello Events to honor her mother throughout the weekend—from recreating her wedding dress for the Jewish ceremony to twirling to her favorite Etta James song for Sami’s first dance with Andrew. “It was so important to me that she felt present the whole time,” says the bride. Lindsey helped facilitate additional touches, like a front-row seat at the ceremony that was decorated with Honey’s favorite lavender roses and a bee pin for all the groomsmen to wear in honor of her nickname, “Honey B.” Lindsey says, “Sometimes the best way to honor someone is to incorporate those subtle details that maybe not everyone will catch on to, but you’ll be able to look back and have that memory with you.”
Party Flavors: Andrew had one simple request for their wedding day confection: that it be Funfetti flavored. Fancy Cakes by Lauren met the task with a four-tiered Lambeth stunner, complete with vintage-style toppers.
Fancy Footwork:
Sami wore hot pink Prada shoes for her day-of kicks as a nod to her mom. “When I saw them in the store, I was like, ‘Get that on my foot right now,’ ” she laughs. “They’re the exact shade of my mom’s favorite Chanel lipstick.”
Coming Up Roses: Sami recreated her mom’s wedding dress—a stunning lavender gown with a rosette-adorned neckline—for her Jewish ceremony at Hotel Crescent Court.
Mother to Daughter:
After helping Avery find the gown of her dreams, her mother took lace from her own wedding dress and had a ribbon made from it for Avery’s bouquet. O’Neill sported black for the ceremony before changing into a white dinner jacket for the reception.
Avery Hall
O’Neill Dewey
September 30, 2023
In Season:
“We wanted it to feel like September—still warm and fresh but not too springy,” says Avery of the invitation suite, created by pal Carly Anbouba of Carly Creative Co. A perfect combination of blue, green, and yellow achieved the look.
Avery Hall was moving into her first New York apartment—waiting for a bed to be delivered, to be exact—when she decided to take a break and pop in to a friend’s party down the street. Lo and behold, her future husband, O’Neill Dewey, was waiting there to meet her. The pair built a friendship over the next several months before he formally asked her on a date to the Waverly Inn, a location that would later serve as inspiration for their Dallas wedding in September 2023. “They have a back garden atrium with green trim and brick and ivy,” Avery recalls. “We wanted to feel special and for it to be fun.”
—Sarah Bennett
On the Menu: Mesquite smoked fillet of beef with red wine sauce; grilled quail halves with blackberry gastrique; cheese-grits sou le with a charred jalapeño
First Dance: “Best of My Love” by Emotions
Honeymoon: Italy (Amalfi Coast, Positano, Capri, Dolomites) and Paris
Give Thanks: The bride and groom wrote personal notes to each guest on the back of their escort cards.
“It’s hard to talk to everyone, and so many traveled from New York, Rhode Island, or the North,” says Avery.
Here for a Good Time: An hour into dancing, Avery changed into her reception dress, completing the look with Miron Crosby boots to match the Texas elements surrounding the dance floor. The couple provided a custom bandana embroiderer and a cigar roller to keep the party going.
Blooming Love: Dallas Affaires Cake Co. and Three Branches Floral worked together on the bride’s cake, which was accented with real hydrangea petals applied individually by hand. “I was obsessed with it,” says the bride.
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Finding the One:
A splashy couple tied the knot with nuptials that combined the glittering excess of the 1920s and the tropics of Tulum, Mexico.By Laura Kostelny Photography
When Dallas Wolford’s picture popped up as a Facebook friend suggestion, Clayton Cook immediately slid into her Instagram DM’s. “He told me he thought I was pretty, but because Facebook is for older people, he decided to take his talents to Instagram,” says Dallas with a laugh.
After a little back-and-forth, the surgical resident agreed to meet Clayton, a former professional baseball player, offline. “We immediately got lost in our own little world at R+D Kitchen,” she says. “We were the last ones to leave. They desperately wanted us to get out, but we shut down that bar.”
Two years later, Clayton popped the question. “I’m like an FBI agent, so I was shocked he pulled off the surprise!” Dallas says. Not long after, she presented a proposal of her own to wedding planner Leslie Ochs. “I wanted a nontraditional, non-stuffy wedding at my parents’ house,” remembers the bride. “Their backyard is very tropical, so I asked her to bring Gatsby to Tulum.” Leslie was more than game. She layered in crystal chandeliers and roses among palm branches, added a speakeasy-inspired bar, incorporated interactive food stations, and served champagne at every turn. “Dallas loves everything that’s glamorous and luxe,” says Leslie. “It all felt very much like her.”
by Lyndi Ruth Photography The Wolford family home made a gorgeous backdrop for portraits. Dallas found her dress on a quick trip to Iconic Bride Dallas after finishing a 24-hour call shift for her vascular surgery residency. tried on maybe 10 dresses, and when I got to this one, I knew that was it,” she says.
All Deco-ed Out: The theme for the wedding— Tulum meets Gatsby—is perfectly summed up in the patio area, where velvet seating, geometric table linens, and elegant arrangements mix with plentiful palms and tropical flowers.
Shoe In: Dallas donned classic pearl Jimmy Choo sandals and a matching clutch for the ceremony before changing into gold Azalea Wang party shoes to match her gilded reception dress. “I wanted something ‘wow,’ ” she explains.
Signature Cocktails: Dallas’: dirty martinis Clayton’s: old fashioneds
First Dance: “I Love You” by Cèline Dion
Conga Line Starter: “When the Saints Go Marching In”
Honeymoon: Majorca and Barcelona
Alice and Apricot’s Leslie Ochs shares a few elements that promise to bring Daisy Buchanan–level opulence to the great outdoors.
PLENTIFUL PATTERNS.
Leslie laid out an assortment of graphic textiles and extended the garage’s checkered flooring to the driveway. “We’re known for our edgy pattern play, which contributed to the Tulum-meets-Gatsby vibe,” she says.
MORE-IS-MORE EMBELLISHMENTS.
Fringed lampshades were hung with care among palm leaves and an abundance of white roses. “We wanted to create the feeling that you were inside,” the wedding designer says. “The roses also felt very classic Old Hollywood.”
A SURPLUS OF SURPRISES.
“We created this red-carpet moment, where Dallas got out of a RollsRoyce at the end of the driveway on her way to the ceremony,” she says. “From there, we had little surprises every hour to keep the guests excited. We also surprised Dallas with an aerialist, who was perfectly over-the-top.”
Best Fronds: Leslie followed behind the landscaper the day of the wedding to gather trimmings from the tropical plants on-site at Dallas’ parents’ home. “We used them to fill in wherever we could,” she says.
“The greenery fed into our design a lot, and it’s fun to take what’s already there and add it to our vision of all the white roses.”
Cut It Out: The pearl-laden tres leches cake nearly ended up waterlogged. “It almost went into the pool during the cake-cutting ceremony,” says Dallas. “Clayton teased me and said, ‘You’re a surgeon, and you can’t even cut a cake!’ ”
Dog Days: Before the festivities got underway, Dallas took five and enjoyed a glass of champagne in the company of labradoodle Simba.
The
was
Change It Up:
Pool Party:
The Deep End: There was plenty of action in the pool—Leslie used it to float floral arrangements and showcase the aerialist. Later, she even got Dallas and Clayton to partly submerge themselves in it for a dramatic cake-cutting ceremony.
The couple returned after making their exit—and jumped into the pool. (See page 88.) “Our pool is heated yearround, except for two days a year for maintenance,” Dallas says. “Surprise! That turned out to be that weekend. It was so fun, but it was so cold!”
Real-Life Fairy Tale: Downton Abbey –obsessed D’marosay says The Olana captured the romantic chateau vibe she was looking for. Though Gersom initially had planned to wear a black tuxedo, D’marosay recalls that he “actually lit up” when he saw the intricately patterned, cream-toned fabric he ended up choosing for his custom jacket.
One-of-a-Kind Beauty:
“I make my own clothes sometimes, so I knew I wanted to have a custom dress,” says D’marosay, who brought her own sketch to Nardos Imam of Nardos Design. The designer took it from there, crafting the gown using hibiscus lace as a nod to the bride’s favorite flower.
Say Cheese:
Prior to the plated dinner, guests were treated to a lavish charcuterie spread during cocktail hour.
D’marosay McAfeeGersom Adu
September 28, 2023
Gersom Adu wasted no time pursuing D’marosay McAfee after noticing her in their college chemistry class, and it didn’t take long for her to realize he was the one. “I had a list of things I was looking for in a man that I used to pray over,” she says. “When I met him, he was so many of those things.” Once engaged, the bride-to-be made sure every detail of her wedding would be just as she’d dreamed. The evening culminated with guests dancing to “Candy” by Cameo—a moment inspired by a scene in The Best Man “Growing up, every time I thought about getting married, I pictured that moment,” D’marosay says. “When it actually happened, it was like, ‘Wow, this is actually happening! I’m getting my ‘Candy’ moment!’ ”
—Jessica Otte
Take the Cake: Since the bride’s favorite flower—hibiscus—didn’t jibe with the wedding aesthetic, D’marosay’s team incorporated them on day-of paper goods (right) and the dance floor. Artful interpretations also accented the five-tiered cake, which was topped with a custom topper made in the couple’s likeness.
First Impressions:
The regal invitations were printed with gold ink on acrylic and arrived within an emerald green velvet box.
Pretty in Pastel:
“We looked for opportunities to do something outside of the box, even if it was small,” says planner Rachel Willis of the color-blocked floral arrangements. Tablescapes included a neutral patterned linen, gold leaf chargers, and a Kate Weiser bonbon in an individual cloche. The head table was outfitted with green-rimmed dinner plates, but for guest tables, Rachel ingeniously commissioned round menu cards that mimicked the look.
Balancing Act: Contrasting the bursts of color in Lauren and Tanner’s florals were classic gold, black, and white table settings. “We picked china that had those small gold features in it to incorporate European royal flair and bring in that black-tie appeal to the rest of the event,” says planner Leslie Ochs.
Key:
You’re a Gem:
Though she had no formal bridal party, Lauren asked some of her closet friends to rock their favorite jewel tones for post-gettingready photos.
Lauren Lyngstad
Tanner Wells October 28, 2023
Before Lauren Lyngstad and Tanner Wells o icially met, a mutual pal spent months trying to set the two up. Only after the friend had taken Tanner to a cycling class led by Lauren (coincidentally, on Valentine’s Day) did the ball begin rolling. After a year of dating, the two set out to plan their wedding in a mere four months. Inspired by European charm, practicality, and a desire to host their guests in Dallas proper, the couple took a risk and agreed to be Hôtel Swexan’s first wedding. “Who’s crazy enough to plan a wedding [at a venue] two months after [it] opens? I guess we are,” says Lauren. The risk paid o , with the couple hosting the vibrant yet classic a air of their dreams. —Megan Wilhelm
Guests: 175
First Dance: A live rendition of Billianne’s sloweddown version of “Simply the Best”
Honeymoon: Sugar Beach, a Viceroy Resort, Saint Lucia
Leslie used vintage postcards of various landmarks as escort cards. “The postcards actually had letters on the back of them— not from the bride and groom, but from random people,” she says.
Meant to Bead:
Lauren’s reception dress was a last-minute purchase from The RealReal. “I ended up trying on that dress for the first time the day before our wedding,” she says. Though it fit like a glove, Leslie stayed up the night before the wedding to sew errant beads back on by hand for an impeccable look.
Timeless Elegance:
Lauren wore a Chosen by KYHA gown for the ceremony, while Tanner sported a custom tuxedo from J.Hilburn.
Blending In: Leslie and her team designed Lauren and Tanner’s wedding with the Swexan in mind.
“We took a lot of elements from the hotel’s aesthetic and brought it into the actual wedding,” Leslie says. “Our goal was to make the wedding look like it was part of the hotel.”
Royal Icing: (far left) While the groom’s cake featured chocolate and peanut butter flavors, the bride kept her almond cake simple, borrowing design elements from the crown molding in the Swexan’s ballroom.
Heaven Sent: The ethereal ceremony included white flowers, a gospel choir, and a spiritual music selection. Black House Blooms’ Alethea Armstrong “planted” the crop of wildflowers for the ceremony via caged containers that were covered with moss.
Allen Charlie Summers October 23, 2022
Modern Touch: Alethea created simple yet sophisticated monochromatic arrangements in custom painted containers,
Within six days of meeting as summer camp counselors, Kate Allen and Charlie Summers knew they were soulmates, and it wasn’t long before Charlie proposed. (“When you know, you know,” he says.) Because of their shared faith, they asked wedding designer Leslie Ochs of Alice and Apricot and florist Alethea Armstrong of Black House Blooms to give guests a glimpse of heaven on their big day. That inspired a field of dreams. “We created this area where white flowers sprouted up from the ground for the ceremony,” says Althea. The newlyweds couldn’t have been more pleased with the focus of the spirited soiree. “It was amazing, but the purpose for every extravagance was to point back to Christ and the abundant life we have in Him,” says Kate. —Laura Kostelny
Paint by Numbers: While the table seating display resembles paint chips up close, it becomes a piece of art from afar. “The picture was an abstract painting of a natural landscape illustrated by Elistry,” says planner and designer Leslie Ochs.
Simple Stems: Because the goal of the reception was to be inviting rather than imposing, Leslie kept the table flowers modern and clean.
“It’s not the look of a typical wedding, where you see a real density of flowers. Everything is intentionally very light and airy,” she says.
Extra, Extra: Leslie borrowed a vintage newspaper stand from local muralist Alli K Design to distribute newspaper-style wedding programs.
Backyard Vibes: Leslie designed the reception to feel like an elegant dinner party that was also comfortable and familiar. “It’s like you’re in a family member’s backyard. It’s much less formal than most traditional luxury weddings,” she says.
Stars of the Show:
Though white flowers reigned during the ceremony, Alethea layered in arrangements inspired by the colors of late summer and early fall for the reception, including around the cake by Refined Sugars.
Freshly Picked:
Kate didn’t want a typical bouquet.
“She came to me with pictures of cosmos,” says Alethea. “She wanted a real wildflower vibe.”
Borrowed Blue: Kate and her mother scouted a vintage car show in Highland Park Village and ended up approaching someone about using his car.
“Jim Baldwin was an absolute stranger,” Kate says. “We invited him and his wife to our wedding, and he volunteered to drive us away from the venue!”
On the Menu: Hand-calligraphed menus added a personalized touch to tables, which also featured an array of blooming dishware from Big D Party Rentals.
and day-of
THE DETAILS: Ceremony/Reception Site: The Alex Camp House, Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden Photographer: Kaley From Kansas Bridal Gown Retailer: Warren Barrón Bridal Hair & Makeup: Tease to Please Flowers: Black House Blooms Stationery: Minted; LaneLove Paper Co. Cake: Refined Sugars Catering: Culinary Art Catering; Nightowl Co ee; Baldo’s Ice Cream; Dallas Fine Wine & Spirits Shop Music: Callie Nixon (gospel choir); Intensity Bands (reception) Videographer: Ivey Redding Transportation: Jim Baldwin (getaway car); Premier Transportation (bus) Wedding Rentals: BBJ La Tavola; Big D Party Rentals; Lawson Event Rentals; Render Events Wedding Planner/Designer: Alice and Apricot Additional Vendors: Modernly Rustic (calligraphy); Elistry (seating chart illustrations); Warehouse Rose Events (seating chart signage)
Friends since childhood, Courtney Yancey and Will Esquivel cemented their yearslong love story with a Palm Beach–inspired affair.
Courtney Yancey Will Esquivel
September 23, 2023
Childhood-friends-turned-lovers Courtney Yancey and Will Esquivel dated for 10 years before Will popped the question. “We grew up together,” says Courtney. “I don’t really remember a time he wasn’t in my life.” The high school sweethearts made it official when Will got down on one knee during a trip to Beaver Creek, Colorado, for a beloved band’s concert. “After he proposed, my family surprised us, and his family met us for a drink,” she says. “Then we all attended the Midland concert together. It was a total dream come true!”
Even before Courtney was a bride-to-be, she and her mom had agreed that hiring a rock star wedding planner was the most important step. “We needed someone to guide us through the weddingplanning process, because we knew nothing!” she laughs. “I didn’t have a clue what I wanted for the big day.” Allison MacNealy of Allison and Co Events came to the rescue, designing a picture-perfect, Palm Beach–inspired affair for Courtney and Will—complete with trellis details, a striped tent display, and lush garden florals. “Allison was able to create a deck of what she thought our style was, and our vision took off from there,” says Courtney. “We wanted an elegant, chic, and luxurious evening, and that’s exactly what it was!”
Fit To Print:
Bride Courtney and her planner, Allison MacNealy, worked with Melanie Frazier of MF Creative Designs to create a stationery suite that incorporated some of the day’s signature details—like the cabana’s stripes and the dance floor’s floral pattern.
Most women can admit to designing (or at least imagining) their dream wedding way before they’ve met their someone. But what happens when, like Courtney, you don’t have a decades-old Pinterest board full of grand ideas for your big day? Courtney’s planner, Allison MacNealy of Allison and Co Events, started with creating style boards for the couple to review so she could get a sense of what they were looking for. “We found that Courtney wanted a green and blue wedding that didn’t look like every other Dallas wedding she’d been to,” says Allison. From there, she created her working document for the “living, breathing design deck” so the couple could see in real time as the dayof design developed. “I wanted to make sure each and every part of the day worked and was cohesive with the overall design,” she says. “We had that vision to go back to when moving forward with specific details, and it really paid off.”
Guests:
First Dance: “You Are the Best Thing” by Ray LaMontagne
Something Old: A “W” necklace Will gave Courtney when they first started dating
Something New: Courtney’s wedding dress from Neiman Marcus
Something
Borrowed:
A sixpence from Will’s grandmother that all the women in his family have worn in their shoe on their wedding day
Something Blue: A sapphire pendant that has been passed down through Courtney’s family
A Perfect Compromise:
The escort cards featured a tassel detail that was originally meant for the invitations. “Sometimes you love an idea, and you’re trying to keep that idea because you love it, but it just doesn’t go,” says Allison. “So we decided to cut the tassel from the invitation and brought it back in for the escort card wall as a fun detail.”
Tented Affair: The main design star of the reception was the custom indoor dining cabana with scalloped trim that framed the two head tables. “I had had that idea in my back pocket for a while. I thought it would be the perfect way to bring in the color palette they wanted and customize it in a way we haven’t seen before,” says Allison.
“I love working with Three Branches Floral because they can really nail that residential-style design,” says Allison. The florists arranged greenery and florals in a variety of rattan vessels and urns.
Let’s Hang: “I was really inspired by The Colony in Palm Beach. We wanted everything to have a cool poolside-restaurant feel,” says Allison, who customdesigned the reception’s indoor tent and matching curtained entryway.
Love Notes:
Over their decade of dating, Courtney kept all the little notes Will would leave for her. She decided to have a few printed onto cocktail napkins as a sweet surprise for her husband-to-be.
Icing on the Cake:
Courtney worked with Panini Bakery to create a cake inspired by her Marchesa Notte wedding dress. “They captured the floral aspect of my gown and replicated it in the most beautiful, yummy cake ever!” she says.
Making an Exit: After departingin a vintage car, Courtney and Will headed to Sugar Beach, a Viceroy Resort in Saint Lucia for their honeymoon. “We enjoyed every second,” says the bride. “We’re already planning on going back for an anniversary in the future!“
Center of Attention: Family and wedding-party members were seated at circular tables that surrounded arrangements of bright florals and cacti that provided a unique and on-theme focal point.
Hour:
Signature Blend:
Feminine details—like blush goblets, rose-gold flatware, and floral china—counterbalanced more rustic touches, such as the natural wood chargers.
Think Pink:
The five-tiered cake was decorated with floral details similar to those seen on Evie’s gown. Under the classic white vanilla frosting, the strawberry-flavored cake provided a surprise shade. “Pink is my favorite color,” says Evie.
Evie Peña Andrew Graffy April 22, 2023
Evie Peña and Andrew Gra y hit it o when Andrew took Evie to his St. Mark’s prom. The couple dated long-distance through college, then closed the gap when their careers led them to New York City. At the time, the streets they lived on met at a corner decorated with blue Spanish tiles. Andrew commissioned a painting of him proposing to Evie at this location, hung it there, and led Evie to that very spot, where life would imitate art. “A good ol’ public New York City proposal,” says Evie. Although Manhattan is now home, the Dallas natives celebrated their union at Brook Hollow Golf Club, which was transformed using the warm and familiar shades of their home state.
—Aileen Jimenez
Paint the Sky:
Looking Sharp:
“Cactus really played a part throughout,” says planner Allison MacNealy of Allison & Co Events. Table assignments were written on paper pieces made to resemble prickly pear pads.
Long-Distance
Love: Despite decamping from Texas—first to the University of Pennsylvania for Andrew and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill for Evie, then to New York City, where they now reside—it was only fitting that the couple tie the knot where their journey started.
The event’s entire scheme was inspired by a road trip through West Texas that Andrew and Evie once took. A watercolor stage backdrop served as an abstract nod to a sunset.
Western Flair: Overlaid atop their traditional invitations was a watercolor scene on velum that evoked what Andrew describes as the event’s “refined West Texas aesthetic.” Designed by Southern Fried Paper, the suite also included a reply card printed on wood-grain paper and was held together by a leather cord.
Water Works: The destination wedding took place on The Cape’s outdoor property. “My vision for the wedding was very clean,” Victoria says.
“I wanted the ocean, the arches, and the sunset to be the focus, so we chose black and white as the colors.” The minimalist look was completed with ghost chairs, a mirrored aisle, and a 15-foot arch of baby’s breath framing the altar, all of which added drama without detracting from the natural scenery.
“It was very wow,” says the bride.
Victoria Garcia
Patrick Ojeaga II January 14, 2024
When Victoria Garcia asked Patrick Ojeaga to help her study in high school, Patrick passed the ultimate test. “I knew right away he was the one,” Victoria says. “He’s humble, kind, and a giving person.” The pair continued to date long-distance as they followed their dreams—she as a physical therapist and he as a doctor. Twelve years after their first date, Patrick proposed in Cape Town, South Africa, on a rock overlooking the cliffs. The couple chose another scenic spot—Cabo San Lucas, Mexico—for three days of matrimonial festivities, which included a traditional Nigerian celebration and a Mexican fiesta. On the third night, they wed in front of 100 guests at a blackand-white-themed affair with the ocean as their backdrop. “It was everything we could have ever dreamed of,” Victoria says.
—Ryan Conner
Nice Views: The dinner tables were lined with baby’s breath arrangements, and the menus and place settings stuck to the monochromatic hues. “We focused on a modern, minimalist palette with dramatic touches of ebony and sand,” says planner Karli Spangler. “Our goal was to highlight the natural surroundings of sea, salt, and sky by way of modern, clean lines and neutral tones.”
Puppy Love: “Our two dogs are our whole world,” says Victoria. “That was the one thing that made us sad—not being able to bring them.” Instead, they named signature cocktails in their honor. Pictured here is “The Ballard,” a mango, vodka, and lime drink. They also served “The Fitzgerald,” a bourbon-based cocktail.
To set the tone for dinner and dancing, Karli brought in a canopy of string lights and lanterns to create a backdrop of a starry sky. “Cabo Wedding Co. sourced the lanterns from local vendors and gave them a custom paint job to match the aesthetic of our event,” she says. “We wanted everything to feel sleek and neutral.”
A Perfect Fit: Victoria wore a classic strapless Jane Hill gown from Alice in Ivory. “I really wanted the slit as high as possible, so I altered it,” she says. “I loved it. It made all my dreams come true.” Patrick wore a white jacket from The Black Tux for the ceremony and changed into a black velvet version for the reception.
Invitation
Inspiration:
Kelly and Jeffrey’s wedding decor was largely based on a custom floral design by their stationer, Wiley Valentine. “Playful patterns and color combos, chinoiserie, and ribbons and bows were a huge part of the grandmillennial design,” says wedding planner Lisa Costin of A Charming Fête. “We really leaned into it.”
On the Floor: The couple’s planners and stationer worked together to design a custom dance floor that reinforced the grandmillennial aesthetic.
Guests:
Cake Flavors: Salted caramel, chocolate
Late-Night Snack: Mini chicken and biscuit sandwiches
Kelly Simpson
Jeffrey Buzzelli
October 7, 2023
Kelly Simpson and Jeffrey Buzzelli’s wedding came together with the help of inspiration from late and living family members. The couple incorporated nods to loved ones throughout their special day, from music selection and florals to the venue itself. “We really tried to include our parents in anything and everything we could,” says Kelly. The pair also leaned on traditional Southern charm and grandmillennial style to achieve their vision for a unique, transformative event. “I knew that I wanted something that was completely different from anything I’ve ever seen before,” Kelly says. “I wanted it to be an experience from beginning to the end.”
—Megan Wilhelm
Dinner Details: Though planners Somer Khouri Bedran and Lisa Costin leaned on floral linens for cocktail hour, they kept things simple in the reception tent “to let the dinnerware really pop,” says Lisa. They chose a mix of Ginori china in “Porpora” and “Azalea” styles for added interest on the tablescapes.
Larger-than-life florals were a top priority for the bride, and the designers at Three Branches Floral delivered. “They have incredible taste and really brought the vision to life,” says Lisa. “During the mock-up, we kept adding more and more color, and it all came together so beautifully.”
Down: Kelly and Jeffrey’s escort cards were bow-shaped to play off the stationery and grandmillennial theme. “The cards were affixed to a freestanding wall with their custom chinoiserie wallpaper at cocktail hour,” says Lisa.
Six-Tier
Sweetness: Lauren Kitchens of Fancy Cakes by Lauren crafted this towering confection with an oversized pink bow and a classic monogram. “She also sketched the lattice concept from their envelope liner in incredible detail and added both sugar flowers and fresh flowers to finish it off,” says Lisa. “It was a work of art!”
Just a Touch:
“It’s
feminine, elegant, and very
so is
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Avery Campbell and Austin Owens’ matrimonial celebration hit surprisingly close to home.
Austin
October 21, 2023
By Sarah Bennett Photography by John Cain Photography Of Avery’s bouquet, Anna Gilmore of Three Branches Floral says, delicate, dainty— Avery!” team of florists blended white English sweet pea with lily of the valley to achieve the white garden bouquet Avery envisioned. Avery Campbell Owens
ANew Year’s party brought great joy for Avery Campbell when she met her future husband, Austin Owens, through mutual friends. The pair spent the next two years falling in love over long walks and drivein movies. A Christmastime engagement came when Avery and Austin were enjoying a day with family at Joshua Creek Ranch in Comfort, Texas, near Austin’s hometown of Boerne. The couple had gone to church, then brunch—after which Austin said he’d like to drive Avery by a scenic creek. There, he presented her with a bottle of Dom Perignon and a Bible with her new name on it—and a very important question.
After the “yes” came a surprise party with Avery’s family, and the planning o cially began. “I’m the only girl in my family, so we had been planning for a long time,” she confesses. “My mom is great with details and taste.” For such a tight-knit family, having a ceremony at Highland Park Presbyterian Church and then a reception in the backyard of Avery’s grandmother’s house—which is within walking distance of the church—was a natural fit. “My grandmother’s backyard has always been my favorite place,” Avery says. “In third grade, I wrote a whole story about it.” Avery and Austin wrote the next chapter in the house’s history on October 21, 2023.
First
Take a Seat:
Though Avery and Austin wanted guests to have fun on the dance floor, they also wanted to have seating areas—like these round banquettes— where guests could sit back and relax if they preferred.
Off the Walls: Inspired by Gracie wallpaper panels, the invitation suite featured a light blue color palette, complete with blue velvet ribbon. The custom watercolor flaps opened to reveal the event details.
What’ll It Be?:
During a sneak peek at the tent, Austin popped behind the bar and made Avery a drink—a Dirty Shirley Temple, to be exact. The couple admired the bar from Perch Event Decor and the matching trellis background.
Grab Your Partner: The couple exchanged hats and boots—which they donned for the afterparty—as their wedding gifts to each other. “We were just laughing and having fun,” Avery recalls of this special moment.
Matchy-Matchy:
The
Want to plan a wedding at home? Bride Avery Campbell shares her tips.
TRUST YOUR PEOPLE
When trying to transform a family home into a venue, there can be a myriad of details to keep up with—all the more reason to have vendors you can trust. “Have a really good event designer who will have a vision for what it’s going to look like,” Avery advises.
PROTECT YOUR YARD
Avery explains.
Consider bringing in flooring or even turf to protect the landscaping. “We did turf so that you still felt like you were in a backyard,” Avery explains. “Keeping up the garden theme was really what we wanted.”
GET CREATIVE WITH SPACE
Avery utilized indoor and outdoor spaces, serving cocktails and hot chocolate inside by the library for a cozy element. Greenery roped o locations guests weren’t meant to access—like a balcony where the newlyweds had dinner privately before joining the rest of the group.
MATCH YOUR AESTHETIC
Remember to match the tone and feel of your home when bringing in rentals. Avery used French country chairs for her head table to match the design of her grandmother’s house.
of History: The getaway car belongs to Austin’s dad—Austin even took some of his senior pictures with it in high school. Friends painted the signage, and the Three Branches team added greenery for a
<< Bow Down: For Kristin, planning a wedding that was true to who she is meant incorporating the color pink—and lots of it! She worked with designer Pamella Roland on this “perfect” custom gown, which was accented with an oversized bow. “I wanted to look like myself for my groom,” says Kristin.
Kristin Chenoweth Josh Bryant September 2, 2023
Kristin Chenoweth’s path to stardom was replete with acclaim and accolades—most notably for her Tony-nominated turn as Glinda the Good Witch in Broadway’s Wicked. But her yellow brick road to the altar was a little longer than she might have liked. “There were many times in my life where I wondered, ‘Where is he?’ ” Kristin says of waiting to find a partner. Turns out, he was at her niece’s wedding. It was there, in 2016, that Kristin met Josh Bryant, who was performing with his band. Two years later, they reconnected and sparks flew. Once they were engaged, Kristin planned a wedding that was, as planner Crystal Frasier puts it, “authentically them.” In a night filled with unforgettable moments, Kristin holds one memory most dear. “My favorite moment was saying, ‘I do,’ ” she says. “It was the absolute most beautiful and special night of my life.”
—Jessica Otte
Guests: 140
Signature Cocktails: Bryant old fashioneds; Wicked margaritas; Thunder-tinis (named for the couple’s dog, Thunder)
Cake Flavor: Five-tier Mexican vanilla bean with vanilla bean buttercream filling
Feels Like Home: Kristin and Josh—who hail from Oklahoma and Arkansas, respectively—chose to wed in Dallas, as it was an easy destination for both of their families. Nancy and Randy Best, with whom Kristin is close, kindly offered her the use of their home, which served as a warm and intimate venue.
the Details: The hands-on bride partook in both virtual and in-person planning meetings with Crystal Frasier of Crystal Frasier Weddings and Events. Still, Crystal was able to sneak in a few fun surprises, like a bar front that nodded to Kristin’s star-making Broadway role.
As one might expect with a Broadway star and a professional guitarist, music played an integral part in Kristin and Josh’s love story. “The very first time I saw him play, I felt all the things,” Kristin remembers. “During Covid, most of our nights were spent just singing and playing the piano and guitar. What a blessing it was to get to know each other musically.” So it was only natural that music play a prominent role in their wedding as well. Kristin’s musical director and background vocalists performed a rendition of “The Prayer” during the ceremony, while country singer Ty Herndon and Josh’s Backroad Anthem bandmate Toby Freeman sang “Can’t Help Falling in Love” as Kristin and Josh took their first spin as husband and wife. With many musically talented friends in attendance, the couple arranged to have microphones and instruments on hand for any impromptu jam sessions that might arise. Ultimately, the bride says, “We ran out of time! Everyone was having so much fun with the DJ—we danced the night away.” She adds with a laugh, “David Foster and Katharine McPhee were there. We really should have taken advantage of that.”
Sweet Treat:
The five-tier cake was topped with antlers—a reference to the couple’s “Big Bucks” and “Little Bucks” nicknames for one another. Guests were also treated to a variety of cookies and bonbons.
Storming the Aisle: Kristin’s pup, Thunder, served as ring bearer, coming down the aisle to the tune of AC/DC’s “Thunderstruck.”
Darling Duo: “They were just so in love,” recalls Crystal of her clients. “She was always smiling around him. He complements her really well, and vice versa.”
Southern Comforts:
In addition to coordinating this donut wall from Dunkin’ Donuts, Crystal secured a Slurpee truck from 7-Eleven, which arrived during the reception. “Kristin loves a Slurpee!” Crystal says.
Dancing Queen:
For the reception, Kristin slipped into her second Pamella Roland number of the night—a shorter, albeit still pink, dress with another oversized bow.
Happily Ever After:
“I knew that God was sending me the perfect person at the perfect time,” says Kristin of waiting for the one. “I’m so glad I waited.”
With historical architecture at every turn, the couple embraced the many opportunities to capture breathtaking shots. This church, called Chiesa di San Giovanni del Toro, dates back to the 11th century and is located across the street from the Caruso. “We had our first look on the steps,” shares Amy.
It’s Lit: Along with their guests, Amy and Braden were delighted to discover that a nearby festival was the reason for this impromptu fireworks show.
“There are some things you are not going to have control over,” says Elizabeth.
Bounty and Blooms: Petals Couture brought their Dallas-based talents to Italy, where they incorporated alliums, roses, and hellebores into the bright table arrangements. Guests were served beautifully plated bites, such as cheese flan with herbed aubergine.
Amy Messerschmitt
Braden Bullard
August 10, 2023
Coast with the Most: Amy and Braden’s search for a beautiful background led them to the Amalfi Coast in Italy. When having a wedding across the globe, Elizabeth Gonzalez of After Yes says hiring a planner is absolutely essential for getting the details right. “To have someone advocating for you is a necessity,” she says.
Amy Messerschmitt and Braden Bullard were paired together when both needed a plus-one for date parties at the University of Oklahoma. They found themselves together once again when Braden asked Amy to attend a formal with him, after which, they began dating. Finally, one warm day in San Francisco, Braden asked Amy to marry him. Amy centered her wedding around one simple rule: “I wanted that picture-perfect moment,” she remembers. “I wanted to get married where the background was everything.” That search led the couple to the scenic Caruso, a Belmond Hotel on Italy’s famed Amalfi Coast, where in front of 25 guests, they said “I do” with a view.
—Aileen Jimenez
Invitation Abroad: Amy’s “something blue” came in the form of her invitations. Stationer Fernando Gonzalez of Elefant Press rendered the Amalfi Coast in watercolor on the envelope liner, giving guests a preview of the wedding-day destination.
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Caroline Sheridan Larkin Dobson
September 16, 2023
“There’s truly no feeling better than getting ready to marry the person you love most with the people who have loved and supported you through every stage by your side,” says Caroline Sheridan. Ahead of her wedding to Larkin Dobson, she enjoyed a morning of pampering with her bridesmaids at the Eseeola Lodge spa in Linville, North Carolina, followed by this carefree moment, which was caught on camera.
—Lydia Brooks
THE TAKEAWAY: Choose your photographer based on moments and feelings you want captured on your wedding day.
“Michelle [Lyerly]’s style is so editorial and full of movement,” says the bride of her photographer. “She was excellent at capturing these little unposed moments.”
From joyous and funny to tender and heart-tugging, these moments from real Dallas weddings showcase the power of photography to capture the emotions of your big day. Plus: What you can learn from each one.
Dallas Wolford
Clayton Cook October 14, 2023
From the minute wedding planner Leslie Ochs met Dallas Wolford and Clayton Cook, she knew they were going to make a splash. “Dallas is such a good time—I could picture her jumping in the pool at the reception, and I knew it would be such a vibe,” Leslie says. “Initially, we joked about it, and then as the wedding got closer, I told her, ‘I’m serious. You and Clayton will go out with a bang.’” Leslie collaborated at length with Lyndi Stucky of Lyndi Ruth Photography to make sure all the big surprises—and there were quite a few—were beautifully captured. “Leslie is always pushing the bar, and this couple was down for anything,” says Lyndi. “Jumping in the pool just felt like a natural grand finale.” —Laura Kostelny; photography by Lyndi Ruth Photography
THE TAKEAWAY: Capturing the magic of weddingday moments like these is a mix of preparation and improvisation. “I think shot lists can be limiting because you become more focused on recreating someone else’s wedding,” says Lyndi. “The best work happens when vendors work as a team—bouncing ideas o each other can lead to amazing results!”
Emma Gagnon
Tyler McCollum May 15, 2023
Finding a “perfect final parenting pillar” for her happy modern family—which consists of daughter Charlee and Charlee’s father and bonus mom—was a responsibility Emma Gagnon didn’t take lightly. After meeting Tyler McCollum in December 2020, she waited eight months before introducing him to then-6-year-old Charlee, who told Emma after their first meeting, “I think he’s the one.”
The following year, Tyler asked Charlee’s permission to propose, which she happily granted. Their close-knit relationship was highlighted in a first look they shared prior to Emma and Tyler’s May 2023 ceremony at The Mason Dallas. “I don’t know who was more nervous, Charlee or me,” Tyler remembers.
“But she gave me a big hug and squeezed my neck really tight with both arms, and that helped calm my nerves for the day—kind of a ‘we got this’ moment.” The musical pair sat down at a nearby piano and played as their photographer snapped. Now that they’re o icially family, Charlee says, “My mom and I are blessed forever.” —Jessica Otte; photography by Heather Thompson Photography
THE TAKEAWAY: Find special ways to involve the important people in your life. “I wanted Charlee to have a moment that made her feel important and included,” says Emma. “It still brings me to tears.”
Brooke Emily Owen
Carter O’Daniel
October 28, 2023
Jordan Achtman
Graham Coombs
March 4, 2023
Like most couples, Graham Coombs and Jordan Achtman thought through every moment of their wedding day—from the details of their traditional Jewish ceremony in the Hotel Crescent Court’s courtyard garden to a multicolored wig bar that allowed guests to let loose at their Crescent Club reception. Even their choices of suit colors were intentionally considered. “We wanted suits that would complement our personalities,” Graham says. “Jordan loves plants, so the green suit was very appropriate.” But one touching moment prior to the ceremony was a complete surprise: when Graham’s then-5-year-old nephew, Micah, presented him with a drawing of the happy couple that he’d worked on with his older sister, Maeve. Calling the gesture “very special,” Graham adds, “My family lives in Massachusetts, so I don’t get to see them very often. But that makes the time we spend together that much more special.” —J.O.; photography by Je Brummett
THE TAKEAWAY: Amid all the activity of their wedding day, Graham admits, “Unfortunately, we don’t know where the drawing went.” Designate someone as the keeper of day-of mementos so precious keepsakes aren’t misplaced.
As Brooke Emily Owen and Carter O’Daniel’s wedding day neared, one key detail had yet to be ironed out: the song that would play during the father-daughter dance. Brooke says that after she and her dad, Todd, had considered “just about every traditional slow song,” her mom jokingly suggested “The Devil Went Down to Georgia,” a song Todd had played to lighten Brooke’s mood before nerve-racking moments from the time she was young. “He would play it on the way to school if I had a test I was worried about, before cheer competitions or tryouts, theater auditions, and even as we were pulling on to the campus of the University of Alabama when he dropped me o for college,” Brooke says. “So it has always been ‘our song.’ ” After a fake-out slow start to Nat King Cole’s “Unforgettable,” the record scratched, and the duo acted out the upbeat Charlie Daniels tune—complete with devil horns and a gold fiddle for Todd—to the delight of their guests. —J.O.; photography by John Cain Photography THE TAKEAWAY: Choose wedding-day details based on emotional significance—not what you think you should do. “I don’t think anything else would have felt the same or meant as much as that moment did,” says Brooke.
Before you and your true love say “I do,” it’s important to establish some boundaries with the folks who raised you.
FINANCIAL ISSUES AND POOR COMMUNICATION MAY BE AMONG THE MOST COMMON REASONS FOR DIVORCE, but there’s another big problem that can arise, and it’s a whole lot closer to home. Dealing with parents can—and often will—divide husband and wife. That’s why experts like Kim Bowen, LPC, owner and founder of Richardson-based The Marriage Place, advise couples to figure out mommy and daddy issues— along with every other hot-button concern—from the jump with SYMBIS, a premarital evaluation test. “Unfortunately, when you wait to broach hard subjects until you’re well into a marriage, there’s already a lot of pain and damage that’s happened,” she says. “When you have a detailed assessment of your similarities as well as the areas that could be problematic down the road, you can start communicating, which can save marriages before they even start.”
Conversations about present and future parental involvement in a marriage are especially fraught for a simple reason: We may be comfortable criticizing our moms and dads, but we don’t love it when others—even our soulmates—do it. That’s why Bowen advises learning how to set boundaries respectfully. “You want everyone involved to know what you generally do or don’t want, but you have to be mindful of hurt feelings. Sometimes even the people who love us the most don’t understand what’s important to us until we tell them,” she explains. “But don’t come in with guns blazing in a threatening way. That’s not going to be productive.”
by Laura KostelnyMarriage counselor Kim Bowen details a few parental pitfalls and tactful ways to talk about them before tying the knot:
Finances are always a tricky business, according to Bowen. “I don’t care how wealthy the families are, everyone has expectations around money,” she says. Is one set of parents planning to provide a down payment for the house? Is there a grandparent fund for private school or college? If so, treat family business like any other kind of business and discuss the terms. “You have to ask if the money is a loan or a gift. If it’s a loan, get all the details in writing and have everyone sign it,” she says. “If it’s a gift, discuss what it means to you in terms of expectations. Do you feel it entitles you to something, or will it cause resentment if we treat it like a gift without strings?“
“When I married my husband, his parents had a key to his condo,” Bowen says. “One day when I came home from work, there they were, sitting in the living room.” If you and your spouse are fine with that kind of an open-door policy, great! Otherwise, the therapist says it’s time to have a kind, respectful conversation about how the rules of engagement need to change. “You don’t have to immediately change the locks,” she advises. “Let your parents know you still love them and want them to be a part of your lives, but it’s time for everyone to figure out how to navigate differently in order to respect newlyweds’ privacy.”
Depending on where the in-laws live and how strongly they feel about upholding holiday traditions, making everyone happy can be a tall order. Bowen says you might have to be creative at first—traveling every other year for Thanksgiving, spending Christmas Eve in one place and Christmas Day at another, or combining families—but no plan has to be permanent.
“Once you have kids, you can let them know that you want to make your own family traditions at home, and all are welcome,” she says. “Whatever you decide, with a lot of grace, negotiation, and care, you can achieve a sense of fairness.”
Seven outside-the-box date-night ideas to try with your spouse.
by Jessica Otte, Lydia Brooks, and Nataly Keomoungkhoun
Sure, the beauty of marriage is that you’ve got a built-in best friend for endless Netflix streaming sessions and taking turns deciding where to order takeout from. But one person’s routine is another’s rut—so don’t discredit the importance of continuing to date one another after you’ve tied the knot. We’ve rounded up a few of our favorite date-night activities and destinations in Dallas to help keep the sparks flying long after you’ve walked the aisle.
1 Heat things up
Whether you’re looking to master basic kitchen techniques or wanting to add a few new recipes to your culinary arsenal, you’ll find cooking classes of every kind and cuisine on Cozymeal. Verified local chefs provide hands-on guidance to help you make delicious dishes. Best of all? Many will even come to you, so you can learn from the comfort of your own kitchen. cozymeal.com
2 Dink and lob
If your favorite form of flirtation is a little friendly competition, jump in on the latest athletic craze by joining a pickleball league through Dallas Sport & Social Club. The area’s largest adult recreational sports league boasts 25,000 annual participants throughout DFW. If pickleball isn’t your thing, they o er eight other sports, so you’re sure to find a game that suits your style. dallassocialclub.com
3 Get Ghost ed
In addition to making beautiful ceramic pieces, the namesake owner of Stephen Salter Pottery also o ers wheel-throwing lessons from his Bishop Arts studio. Classes in the cozy space max out at two guests, making the experience inherently intimate. You can even enjoy a glass of wine while you learn! You’ll leave having completed two pieces, which will be fired and ready for pickup in a few weeks’ time. stephensalterpottery.com
4 Go stargazing
You might see stars in your partner’s eyes, but it’s hard to see the stars in the middle of Dallas, thanks to all the lights and smog. To get a good glimpse of the heavens, attend one of the Texas Astronomical Society’s Saturday night “star parties.” You can bring your own binoculars (TAS will set up telescopes as well), but leave your wallet
at home—these are completely free. texasastro.org
5 Bask in the big screen Do you and your spouse speak to each other in movie quotes? Are you the first in your friend group to see every award-season contender? Consider becoming a Dallas Independent Film Festival Insider, which grants you access to advance yearround screenings of new movies, plus on-screen credit at the fest (the largest in Texas!), held every April. dallasfilm.org
6 Shake things up
For 14 years, The People’s Last Stand in Mockingbird Station has served up inventive cocktails for discerning drinkers. Looking to master the art of mixology yourself? Try one of their public or private classes, where they share their secrets. After a champagne toast to kick things o , you’ll learn the
techniques and tips necessary to make two top-notch drinks. peoplesdallas.com
7 Enjoy a sunset sail
A romantic boat ride is the perfect way to take your relationship to the next level. (See what we did there?) The Spirit of Dallas o ers scenic sunset catamaran cruises around White Rock Lake every Friday through Tuesday. Private charter options are also available for special occasions or anniversaries. Food is welcome, so pack a picnic (with the help of our favorites, below) and enjoy a dreamy outing on the water. thespiritofdallas.com
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PARTY OF TWO
For occasions when you want to keep things simple, make a reservation at one of our favorite romantic restaurants.
BEST FOR: Sunday brunch NDA 2801 N. Harwood St., Ste. 100
BEST FOR: An anniversary celebration Mister Charles 3219 Knox St., Ste. 170
BEST FOR: Dinner and dessert
Jack & Harry’s 6833 Snider Plz.
BEST FOR: A casual night out R+D Kitchen 8300 Preston Center Plz.
BEST FOR: A nightcap
The Mansion Bar 2821 Turtle Creek Blvd.
JW MARRIOT DALLAS ARTS DISTRICT
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 400 banquet; 480 reception
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:30
@jwmarriottdallas | jwmarriottdallasartsdistrict.com | 214.347.9499
THE ADOLPHUS
@theadolpus | adolphus.com |
214.742.8200
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 450 Grand Ballroom
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes, seasonal
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
DALLAS ARBORETUM & BOTANICAL GARDEN
@dallasarboretumweddings | dallasarboretum.org | weddings@dallasarboretum. org | 214.515.6569
Cost Per Person: Varies per venue
Capacity: 350-500
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Four indoor reception options and 18 outdoor ceremony locations
D’VINE GRACE VINEYARD
dvinegrace.com | 214.901.2311
Cost Per Person: From $160+
Capacity: 2,000
Outside Catering Permitted: Venue approved caterers only
Bar: Full bar, speciality bars
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Outdoor ceremony and reception spaces available
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:15
GEORGE W. BUSHPRESIDENTIAL CENTER
@bushcenter | bushcenter.org/event planning | 214.200.4303 |
Cost Per Person: Starting at $60/person for catering
Capacity: 300 seated; 400 standing
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar service available
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Outdoor terraces available
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:8 ratio seated
GLENEAGLES COUNTRY CLUB
@gleneaglescountryclub | gleneaglesclub.com | 972.867.6666
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 300 seated; 400 cocktail
Outside Catering Permitted: Specialty cakes and cuisine only
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
HALL ARTS HOTEL
@hallartshotel | hallartshotel.com | 214.953.1717
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 150 seated
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes, for religious and cultural dietary needs
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
HILTON DALLAS/PARK CITIES
@hiltonsallasparkcities | dallasparkcities. hilton.com | 214.368.0400
Cost Per Person: $65
Capacity: Up to 350 reception
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes, for cultural events
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:50
HOTEL CRESCENT COURT
@mycrescentwedding | crescentcourt.com | 214.871.3211
Cost Per Person: From $180
Capacity: 150-175 plated; 300 reception style
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes, for religious and cultural dietary needs
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
HOTEL DROVER
@hoteldrover| hoteldrover.com | 817.755.5557
Capacity: Up to 250
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-to-Guest Ratio: 1:20
HOTEL VIN
@hotelvintexas | hotelvin.com | 817.796.9696
Cost Per Person: Depends on package Capacity: 350+
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Sever-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
THE JOULE
@thejouledallas | thejouledallas.com | 214.748.1300
Cost Per Person: From $175+
Capacity: 250 ballroom; 500 eye lawn
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes; Exceptions considered only for religious and cultural dietary needs. Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:10
@loewsarlington | loewshotels.com/ arlington-hotel/weddings | 682.318.2810
Cost Per Person: $145 per person, not including rental
Capacity: 800 Honor Ballroom; 1200 Monument Ballroom
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Buffet 1:25; Plated 1:15; Bartenders 1:75; Banquet Captain 1: Up to 400, 2/400-600
@themasondallas | themasondallas. com | 214.730.0005
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 200 dining; 400 cocktail party
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes; preferred caterers list Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: No Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:8
@nasherevents | nashersculpturecenter.org | 214.242.5182
Cost Per Person: Space rental $6,000$15,000, no membership required Capacity: 40-200 seated; 300+ standing (outdoors); 180 seated (indoors)
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
@nuvoroom | nuvoroom.com |
469.453.4563
Cost Per Person: $50-$150
Capacity: 250
Outside Catering Permitted: No Bar: Full bar & BYOB
Outdoor Reception Facilities: No
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:25
OMNI PGA RESORT FRISCO
@omnipgafriscoresort | omnipgafriscoresort.com | 469.305.4545
Cost Per Person: From $240 Capacity: Up to 1,000
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes, for cultural and religious reason with a per-person remuneration
Bar: Yes, no outside beverage permitted
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:15
PEROT MUSEUM OF NATURE AND SCIENCE
@pmns_events | perotmuseum.org | 214.756.3500
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 15-1,200
Outside Catering Permitted: No Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
REFLECTIONS VENUE & GARDENS
@reflectionsplano | reflectionsplano. com | 972.633.9595
Cost Per Person: $60-$250
Capacity: 200
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Bar packages available
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:25
@renplanowest | renaissanceplanohotel.com | 469.925.1800
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 820 banquet; 1200 reception
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:30
@ritzcarltondallas | ritzcarlton.com/ en/hotels/dalrz-the-ritz-carlton-dallas/weddings/ | 214.922.0200
Cost Per Person: From $260
Capacity: 450 seated with dance floor; 900 cocktail party
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar service is available
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:10
@ritzcarltonlascolinas | ritzcarltonlascolinas.com | 972.717.0700 Ext. 2624
Cost Per Person: $200+ per person Capacity: 400
Outside Catering Permitted: For religious reasons, with approval and required insurance
Bar: Bar packages available
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
@texasdiscoverygardens | 214.702.5013
Cost Per Person: Customizable
Capacity: 300
Outside Catering: No; Select from our approved catering list
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
@thompsonhoteldallas | thompsondallas. com | 469.726.4107
Cost Per Person: From $195+
Capacity: 650 seated
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: No
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:10
VIRGIN HOTELS DALLAS
@virginhotelsdalweddings | virginhotels. com/dallas/ | 469.359.7700
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: Up to 300
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar services
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
@vouvdallas | vouvdallas.com | 972.598.0594
Cost Per Person: $50-$150
Capacity: 350 seated; 700 cocktail
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Bar packages available
Outdoor Reception Facilities: No
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:25
WARWICK MELROSE HOTEL
@warwickmelrose | warwickhotels. com | 214.521.5151
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: Up to 500
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
WESTIN DALLAS DOWNTOWN
@westindallasdowntown | westindallasdowntown.com | 972.584.6650
Cost Per Person: $50-$175
Capacity: Pecan Ballroom: 350 seated, dancefloor; Bluebonnet Ballroom: 150, dacefloor; Willow Pavilion: 150, dancefloor; Porch on Main: 100 seated; Grill & Vine Restaurant: 80 seated; Presidential Suite: up to 20 guests
Outside Catering Permitted: Yes, for religious reasons, with proper insurance.
Bar: Full bar
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
WESTIN GALLERIA DALLAS
@westingalleriadallas | thewestingalleriadallas.com | 972.934.9494
Cost Per Person: $60
Capacity: 10-600
Outside Catering Permitted: No
Bar: Full bar available
Outdoor Reception Facilities: No
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
WESTIN IRVING CONVENTION CENTER
@westinirvingcc | westinirvingcc.com | 972.505.2900
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: Up to 600
Outside Catering Permitted: For religious reasons, with approval and required insurance
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
CLOUDLAND
@staycloudland |
1 888.391.1148
Cost Per Person: Pricing starting at $180 per person plus tax and service charge; additional rental fees applies
Capacity: 12-350 indoor; 20-500 outdoor
Outside Catering
Permitted: No
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes, Creag Courtyard and Cloudland Event Lawn
EAU PALM BEACH RESORT & SPA
@eaupalmbeach | eaupalmbeach.com | 561.533.6000
Cost Per Person: $345-$595
per person
Capacity: 400
Outside Catering
Permitted: No
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: Varies
FREDRICKSBURG CONVENTION AND VISITOR BUREAU
@visitfredtx | visitfredricksburgtx. com | 830.997.6523
Cost Per Person: Customized for event
Capacity: Small to large Outside Catering Permitted: Yes
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
HOTEL BENNETT
hotelbennett.com | 843.990.5400
Cost Per Person: $265 for Plated and $275 for Stations
Capacity: 250 guests
Outside Catering Permitted: No
OMNI BARTON CREEK RESORT & SPA
@omnibartoncreek | omnihotels. com/bartoncreek | 512.329.4000
Cost Per Person: $120-250+ per person for food and beverage; Minimums apply per space
Capacity: Up to 1000
Outside Catering Permitted: With the exception of your wedding cake, all food and beverage must be provided by the resort. Exceptions may be made for ethnic weddings that follow outside catering guidelines. Food and Beverage minimums apply.
Bar: Yes, bar packages available Outdoor Reception Facilities: Hill Country Pavilion and Lawn; Rock House
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:20
ROSEWOOD MAYAKOBA
@rwmayakoba | rosewoodhotels. com/mayakoba | 844.367.7709
Cost Per Person: Varies
Capacity: 2-300 (depends on venue)
Outside Catering Permitted: Depends on venue
Bar: Yes
Outdoor Reception Facilities: Yes
Server-To-Guest Ratio: 1:8
Say “I Do” at one of the most beautiful places in Dallas. With its incomparable services and amenities, The Adolphus is one of Dallas’ most romantic wedding destinations. Whether it be an intimate exchange of vows or extravagant celebration with 300 of your closest friends and family, we offer the perfect space to celebrate your wedding celebrations.
Paula Fenner | 1321 Commerce Street, Dallas | 214.651.3563 | PFenner@adolphus.com
Hotel or a dining destination? We’re a little of both actually. With more than 30,000-square-feet of indoor/ outdoor space and restaurants, The Joule is the ideal home for your next event. From the iconic Eye Lawn to our expansive ballrooms and penthouse terraces, our spaces are as functional as they are fashionable. For a more intimate event, toast to your memories with us in one of our restaurants Sassetta, CBD Provisions or Midnight Rambler.
Deepa Tobar | 1530 Main Street, Dallas | 214.261.4520 | dtobar@thejouledallas.com
Set the scene for love at our stylish boutique hotel in the heart of Dallas. Dazzling skyline views, luxe accommodations, and striking indoor-outdoor spaces make Virgin Hotels Dallas the picture perfect rehearsal dinner destination. Intimate fête to grand affair, we’ve got you covered with customizable rehearsal dinner menus, built-in audio-visuals, and all the essentials to set your table.
Joanna Tran | 1445 Turtle Creek Blvd, Dallas| 469.359.7700 | virginhotels.com/dallas
For unique and memorable wedding celebrations, the Warwick Melrose Hotel captures both the glamour and romance of yesteryear, and the excitement of tomorrow. This iconic hotel features both indoor and outdoor venues for your rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception. Our remarkable blend of tradition and sophistication ensures an unforgettable setting for your special occasion, whether it be for an intimate or grand affair. The Warwick Melrose remains a timeless landmark where precious moments turn into lasting memories.
Ashley Grunska, Director of Catering | 214.224.3101 | agrunska@warwickhotels.com
DESCRIPTION
Culinary Art Catering
Beyond the Box Weddings offers full-service catering, including custom menus, bar services, specialty rentals, and professional staffing. With 20 years of experience, we are confident in providing exceptional service for all style and size events. From start to finish, we work with you to bring your vision to life and ensure your special day is everything you imagined it to be and more!
Chef-owned, award-winning Culinary Art Catering specializes in contemporary, cutting-edge presentations and chef-inspired menus. With 27 years in business, we bring a commitment to exceptional quality and personalized service, we transform your vision into a culinary masterpiece, ensuring an unforgettable dining experience for you and your guests. Whether you are planning an event at one of our exclusive venues or the location of your choice, our professional and courteous team will cater to your every need.
MARCI WENRICH
mwenrich@foodbeyondthebox.com
214.828.2228
btbweddings.com
Since 1983, Gil’s Elegant Catering has devoted itself to making your special occasion a delicious success. It’s truly the pleasure of this catering team to make certain that each couple’s entire event is a distinct reflection of their personality. From traditional and elegant to authentic Texas-style cuisine, Gil’s will create unique, customized menus tailored to your individual tastes and budget.
MELISSA LOPEZ
info@culinaryartcatering.com
972.744.0660 culinaryartcatering.com
JACQUELINE ALBERS
jackie@gilselegantcatering.com
214.717.3142
gilselegantcatering.com
Heart to Heart Catering
The Joule Offsite Catering
At Heart to Heart Catering, we are a full-service catering company that will provide you with the most enchanting event or elegant soiree. We bring creativity that can turn an ordinary room into events that are unique, sumptuous, and colorful. We can help with any size event, whether it’s a wedding for 100 guests, a gala for 500 or a grand opening for 3,000. No matter what your needs, we provide unparalleled quality service and also maintain great relationships with all our vendors and partners.
While we love our own spaces, we’re always glad to take the party on the road. Whether you’re looking to host an intimate dinner party or a gala, our award-winning catering team can execute the perfect event with custom menus and cocktails at our place or yours. We also cater to those looking to book the iconic Eye Lawn.
TOM ELKHAY
tom@hearttoheartcatering.com 972.327.3111 hearttoheartcatering.com
DEEPA TOBAR
dtobar@thejouledallas.com 214.261.4520 thejouledallas.com/catering-events/ catering
Wendy Krispin CatererWith 32 plus years of catering weddings under her belt, Wendy Krispin is highly-respected in the industry for her elegant and delectable spreads. Through food and drink, Krispin wants to partner with you to create not only a custom menu but an immersive experience that matches your vision no matter the location.
WENDY KRISPIN info@wendykrispincaterer.com 214.748.5559 wendykrispincaterer.com
BRIDAL GOWNS, ATTENDANT ATTIRE & MEN’S FORMALWEAR
BELLA BRIDESMAIDS
214.999.9311
136 Glass St., Ste. 150, Dallas bellabridesmaids.com | @bellabridesmaids
BRIDAL BOUTIQUE OF LEWISVILLE
972.219.8500
143 W. Main St., Lewisville bridalboutiquelewisville.com | @bblewisville
THE BRIDAL SALON AT NEIMAN MARCUS DOWNTOWN
214.573.2663
1618 Main St., Dallas neimanmarcus.com | @neimanmarcusbridal
LELA ROSE BRIDAL
214.599.6283
69 Highland Park Village, Dallas lelarose.com | @lelarosebridal
LULU’S BRIDAL BOUTIQUE
214.871.9610
1215 Dragon St., Dallas lulusbridal.com | @lulusbrides
MOLLY’S BRIDAL CLOSET
972.388.5230
1202 Dragon St., Ste. 103, Dallas mollysbridalcloset.com | @mollysbridalclosetbrides
MISTER TUXEDO
214.363.1871
6625 Snider Plz., Dallas mistertuxedodallas.com | @mistertuxedodallas
PATSY’S, A BRIDAL BOUTIQUE
214.528.1227
2933 N. Henderson Ave., Dallas patsysbridal.com | @patsysbridalboutique
PATTI FLOWERS DESIGN STUDIO
214.369.7027
3624 Fairmount St., Dallas pattiflowers.com | @pattiflowers
STANLEY KORSHAK BRIDAL
214.871.3611
500 Crescent Ct., Ste. 142, Dallas skbridalsalon.com | @stanleykorshakbride
STARDUST CELEBRATIONS
972.781.1619
6464 W. Plano Pkwy., Plano stardustcelebrations.com | @stardustbrides
TERRY COSTA
972.385.6100
12817 Preston Rd., Ste. 138, Dallas terrycosta.com | @terrycostabridal
THE FITTING ROOM
214.520.3600
4111 Lomo Alto Dr., Dallas thefittingroomdallas.com | @thefittingroomdallas
WARREN BARRÓN
214.526.8400
5600 W. Lovers Ln., Ste. 150, Dallas warrenbarron.com | @warrenbarronbridal
WB ALTERATIONS
214.434.1511
5600 West Lovers Ln., Ste. 211, Dallas wbalterations.com | @wbalterations
FANCY CAKES BY LAUREN lauren@fancycakesbylauren.com
11111 N. Central Expy., Ste. D, Dallas fancycakesbylauren.com | @fancycakesbylauren
SAMANTHA MILLER PASTRY
203.313.8039
samanthamillerpastry.com | @samanthamillerpastry
SUGAR BEE SWEETS
817.903.8661
201 N. East St., Arlington sugarbeesweets.com | @sugarbeesweets
THAT’S THE CAKE
817.617.2599
2800 Forestwood Dr., Ste. 118, Arlington thatsthecake.com | @thatsthecake
BEYOND THE BOX CATERING
214.828.2228
2544 West Commerce St., Dallas foodbeyondthebox.com | @beyondthebox_catering
BLUE FIRE CATERING
214.699.5097
bluefirecatering.com | @bluefiretotalcatering
CULINARY ART CATERING
972.744.0660
4241 Sigma Rd., Ste. A, Dallas culinaryartcatering.com | @culinaryart1
DFW BARTENDING
817.460.7280
2004 E Randol Mill Rd., Ste. 502, Arlington dfwbartending.com | @dfwbartending
FERAH CATERING & EVENTS
281.773.4690
355 N. Carroll Ave., Southlake ferahcatering.com | @ferahcatering
GIL’S ELEGANT CATERING
972.237.0353
1001 MacArthur Blvd., Grand Prairie gilselegantcatering.com | @gilscatering
HEART TO HEART CATERING
972.327.3111
4252 Spring Valley Rd., Farmers Branch hearttoheartcatering.com | @hearttoheartcatering
KNIFE & FAULK
214.749.0299
9800 Preston Rd., Dallas knifeandfaulk.com | @knifeandfaulk
MAMA’S MEDICINE
321 W. Main St., Grand Prairie mamasmedicine.com| areta@mamas-medicine.com | @firehousegp |@mamasmedicine.cocktails
MI DIA FROM SCRATCH CATERING
817.421.4277
1295 S Main St., Grapevine midiafromscratch.com/catering | @midiafromscratchcatering
VESTALS CATERING
972.803.3806
1403 Dragon St., Dallas vestalscatering.com | @vestalscatering
WENDY KRISPIN CATERER
214.748.5559
528 S Hall St., Dallas wendykrispincaterer.com | @wendykrispincaterer
WINEWOOD GRILL
817.421.0200
1265 S Main St., Grapevine thewinewood.com | @winewoodgrill
ENTERTAINMENT
ABSOLUTE ENTERTAINMENT
214.871.9900 PO Box 567929, Dallas absolutedfw.com | @absolutedfw
EMERALD CITY BAND
972.416.2019
emeraldcityband.com | @emeraldcityband
JERRY MOWERY DJ
469.583.6541 jerrymowery.com | @jerrymowery2
LIMELIGHT
972.416.2019
ecbands.com/limelight | @limelightdfw
DOWNTOWN FEVER
972.416.2019
ecbands.com/downtown-fever |@downtownfever
PARTY MACHINE
972.416.2019
ecbands.com/party-machine | @partymachineband
ELEVATION
972.416.2019
ecbands.com/elevation | @elevationpartyband
FLORAL & EVENT DESIGNERS
BLUSHINGTON BLOOMS
940.799.5159
7664 Pebble Dr., Fort Worth | 3525 Cedar Springs Rd., Ste. 106, Dallas blushingtonblooms.com | @blushingtonblooms
BRANCHING OUT EVENTS
214.741.3807
127 Leslie St., Dallas branchingoutevents.com | @branchingoutevents
LILIUM FLORAL DESIGN
817.481.1565 | 214.509.6630
4800 Colleyville Blvd., Colleyville liliumflorals.com | @liliumfloraldesign
SAGE FINE FLOWERS
972.768.9673
sagefinedesign.com | @sagefineflowers
HEALTH & BEAUTY
DOLL SOCIETY
865.242.4276
dollsociety.com | @dollsociety_
ELAN MAKEUP STUDIO
214.370.3333
5639 Dyer St., Dallas elanmakeup.com | @elanmakeupstudio
FACES BY FIONA
469.981.3021
1900 Jay Ell Dr., Richardson facesbyfiona.com | @facesbyfiona
GLAM HAUS COLLECTIVE
469.505.1053
5014 Miller Ave., Dallas glamhauscollective.com | @glamhauscollective
MY FABULOUS FACES
214.789.8379
myfabulousfaces.com | @myfabfaces
JEWELRY
BACHENDORF’S
214.692.8400
8400 Preston Rd., Plaza at Preston Center, Dallas bachendorfs.com | @bachendorfs
BACHENDORF’S
972.392.9900
Galleria Dallas, Level 1, Dallas bachendorfs.com | @bachendorfs
BACHENDORF’S
817.806.0303
5175 Monahans Ave., The Shops at Clearfork, Fort Worth bachendorfs.com | @bachendorfs
EISEMAN JEWELS
214.369.6100
8687 N. Central Expy., Ste. 514, Dallas eisemanjewels.com | @eisemanjewels
MATTHEW TRENT
214.871.9170
8383 Preston Center Plaza, Ste. 120, Dallas matthewtrent.com | @matthewtrentjewelry
MEGAN THORNE FINE JEWELS
817.920.7623
120 St. Louis Ave., Ste. 141, Fort Worth meganthorne.com | @meganthornejewels
LIVE ILLUSTRATIONS
ACA EVENT DESIGNS
214.676.8943 acaeventdesigns.com | @acaeventdesigns
PHOTOGRAPHERS
PEREZ PHOTOGRAPHY
214.707.7729
3525 Cedar Springs Rd., Ste. 104, Dallas perezweddings.com | @perezweddings
STEPHANIE BRAZZLE PHOTOGRAPHY stephaniebrazzle.com | @stephaniebrazzle
MOTUS
469.340.3806
7411 Hines Pl., Ste. 123, Dallas motusbooth.com | @motusred
RENTALS & DECOR
ABSOLUTE LIGHTING
214.871.9900 absolutelightingdfw.com | @absolutelighting
Katina Economides & Mitch Parker
October 28, 2023
Ellen Ashton
BBJ LA TAVOLA
972.392.3233
150 Turtle Creek Blvd., Ste. 209B, Dallas bbjlatavola.com | @bbjlatavola
CALLISTO SOUND & LIGHTING
214.438.4828
10557 Metric Dr., Dallas callistosound.com | @callistosl
PARTY! DALLAS
214.635.3710
1174 Quaker St., Dallas partydallas.com | @partydallasrentals
THE PARTY DEPT.
817.800.4444
3860 Hemphill St., Fort Worth ezpartytime.shop | @the.party.dept
STATIONERS
5 BY 7 DESIGNS
214.538.2800
13740 Midway Rd., Ste. 611, Dallas 5by7designs.com | @5by7designs
NEEDLE IN A HAYSTACK
214.528.2850
6911 Preston Rd., Dallas needleinahaystackdallas.com | @needlenhaystack
PAPER AFFAIR
214.654.9545
5710 W. Lovers Ln., Dallas paperaffairdallas.com | @paperaffairdallas
MAGNOLIA BOONE PAPERIE
magnoliaboonepaperie.com | @magnoliaboonepaperie
ST. MICHAEL’S WOMAN’S EXCHANGE
214.521.3862
5 Highland Park Village, Dallas smwexchange.com | @smwexchange
AFTER YES
214.542.0668
903 N. Bowser Rd., Ste. 350, Richardson afteryesweddings.com | @afteryes
ALEXA KAY EVENTS
630.212.9951 alexakayevents.com | @alexakayevents
ALICE AND APRICOT
hello@aliceandapricot.com aliceandapricot.com | @aliceandapricot
CRYSTAL FRASIER WEDDINGS
972.342.7960
crystalfrasier.com | @crystalfrasierweddings
EMBELLISHED WEDDINGS & EVENTS embellished.wedding | @embellishedweddings
JESS WEGNER EVENTS
817.247.3576
jesswegnerevents.com | @jesswegnerevents
JULIAN LEAVER EVENTS
214.908.7439 julianleaver.com | @julianleaver
KARIS CONCEPTS
214.592.7772
4044 Buena Vista St., Apt. 111, Dallas karisconcepts.com | @karisconcepts
KNIGHTED AFFAIRS
knightedaffairs@gmail.com knightedaffairs.com | @knightedaffairs
LORRAINE TOMAS
214.751.8053
1811 E. Levee Dr., Dallas lorrainetomas.com | @lorrainetomasweddings
SARA FAY EGAN EVENTS
214.213.0122
sarafayeganevents.com | @sarafayeganevents
SARABETH EVENTS
214.207.6081
215 W. College St., 2nd floor., Grapevine sarabethevents.com | @sarabethevents
SIGNIFICANT EVENTS OF TEXAS
214.783.7310
17618 Davenport Rd., Ste. 1, Dallas significanteventsoftexas.com | @significanteventsoftexas
SOCIAL GRACES WEDDINGS AND EVENTS
214.808.1043 socialgracesdallas.com | @socialgracesdallas
A STYLISH SOIREE
214.862.2808
astylishsoiree.com | @astylishsoireedallas
TAYLOR EVENT CO.
940.441.7817
tayloreventco.com | @tayloreventco
TODD EVENTS
214.749.0400
1174 Quaker St., Dallas toddevents.com | @toddevents
TOP TIER EVENT RENTALS
214.819.4556
7715 Sovereign Row, Dallas top-tier.co| @toptiereventrentals
WEDDINGS BY STARDUST
972.781.1619
6464 W. Plano Pkwy., Plano weddingsbystardust.com | @weddingsbystardust
VENUES, RECEPTION & REHEARSAL DINNER SITES
THE ADOLPHUS HOTEL
214.742.8200
1321 Commerce St., Dallas adolphus.com | @theadolphus
DALLAS ARBORETUM
214.515.6569
8617 Garland Rd., Dallas dallasarboretum.org |@thedallasarboretum
D’VINE GRACE VINEYARD
214.901.2311
3747 Grace Ranch Trl., McKinney dvinegrace.com | @dvinegracevineyard
FAIRMONT DALLAS
214.720.5270
1717 N. Akard St., Dallas fairmont.com/dallas | @fairmontdallas
GEORGE W. BUSH PRESIDENTIAL CENTER
214.200.4303
2943 SMU Blvd., Dallas bushcenter.org/eventplanning | @bushcenter
GLENEAGLES COUNTRY CLUB
972.867.6666
5401 W Park Blvd., Plano gleneaglesclub.com | @gleneaglescountryclub
HALL ARTS HOTEL
214.953.1717
1717 Leonard St., Dallas hallartshotel.com | @hallartshotel
HILTON DALLAS/PLANO GRANITE PARK
469.353.5000
5805 Granite Pkwy., Plano dallasplanogranitepark.hilton.com | @hiltongranitepark
HILTON PARK CITIES
214.368.0400
5954 Luther Ln., Dallas dallasparkcities.hilton.com | @hiltondallasparkcities
HOTEL CRESCENT COURT
214.871.3211
400 Crescent Ct., Dallas crescentcourt.com | @mycrescentwedding
HOTEL DROVER
817.755.5557
200 Mule Alley Dr., Fort Worth hoteldrover.com | @hoteldrover
HOTEL VIN, AUTOGRAPH COLLECTION
817.796.9696
215 E Dallas Rd., Grapevine hotelvin.com/weddings | @hotelvintexas
THE JOULE
214.748.1300
1530 Main St., Dallas thejouledallas.com | @thejouledallas
JW MARRIOT DALLAS ARTS DISTRICT
214.347.9499
800 North Harwood St., Dallas jwmarriottdallasartsdistrict.com
KIMPTON PITTMAN HOTEL
469.498.2535
2551 Elm St., Dallas pittmanhoteldallas.com | @ pittmanhoteldallas
LAZY S HACIENDA
817.358.5037
410 Weaver Ln., Weatherford lazyshacienda.com| @lazyshacienda
LOEWS ARLINGTON HOTEL
682.318.2810
888 Nolan Ryan Expy., Arlington loewshotels.com/arlington-hotel/weddings | @loewsarlington
THE MASON DALLAS
214.730.0005
115 S. Beckley Ave., Dallas themasondallas.com | @themasondallas
NASHER SCULPTURE CENTER
214.242.5182
2001 Flora St., Dallas nashersculpturecenter.com | @nasherevents
NUVO ROOM
469.453.4563
4241 Sigma Rd., Ste. B, Dallas nuvoroom.com | @nuvoroom
ON THE LEVEE
972.483.2507
1108 Quaker St., Dallas onthelevee.com | @onthelevee
OMNI PGA RESORT FRISCO
469.305.4545
4341 PGA Pkwy., Frisco omnipgafriscoresort.com | @omnipgafriscoresort
THE PEROT MUSEUM OF NATURE AND SCIENCE
214.756.5758
2201 N. Field St., Dallas perotmuseum.org | @pmns_events
TEXAS DISCOVERY GARDENS
214.702.5013
3601 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., Dallas txdg.org/wedding | @texasdiscoverygardens
REFLECTIONS VENUE & GARDENS
972.633.9595
1901 E. Spring Creek Pkwy., Plano reflectionsplano.com | @reflectionsplano
RENAISSANCE DALLAS AT PLANO LEGACY WEST HOTEL
469.925.1800
6007 Legacy Dr., Plano renaissanceplanohotel.com | @renplanwest
THE RITZ-CARLTON, DALLAS
214.299.0200
2121 McKinney Ave., Dallas ritzcarlton.com/dallas | @ritzcarltondallas
THE RITZ-CARLTON DALLAS, LAS COLINAS
972.717.0700 Ext. 2624
4150 N MacArthur Blvd, Irving ritzcarltonlascolinas.com | @ritzcarltonlascolinas
ROSEWOOD MANSION ON TURTLE CREEK
214.520.5824
2821 Turtle Creek Blvd., Dallas rosewoodhotels.com/mansion | @rosewoodmansionturtlecreek
SOUTHFORK RANCH
972.442.7800
3700 Hogge Rd., Parker southforkranch.com | @southforkranch
TEXAS DISCOVERY GARDENS
214.702.5013
3601 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., Dallas txdg.org/wedding | @texasdiscoverygardens
THOMPSON DALLAS
469.726.4107
205 N. Akard St., Dallas thompsondallas.com | @thompsonhoteldallas
VIRGIN HOTELS DALLAS
469.359.7700
1445 Turtle Creek Blvd., Dallas virginhotels.com/dallas | @virginhotelsdal
VOUV EVENT SPACE
972.598.0594
4445 Sigma Rd., Dallas vouvdallas.com | @vouvdallas
WARWICK MELROSE HOTEL
214.521.5151
3015 Oak Lawn Ave., Dallas warwickhotels.com | @warwickmelrose
WESTIN DALLAS DOWNTOWN
972.584.6650
1201 Main St., Dallas westindallasdowntown.com | @westindallasdowntown
WESTIN GALLERIA DALLAS
972.934.9494
13340 Dallas Pkwy., Dallas thewestingalleriadallas.com | @westingalleriadallas
WESTIN IRVING CONVENTION CENTER
972.505.2900
400 W Las Colinas Blvd., Dallas westinirvingcc.com | @westinirvingcc
CLOUDLAND
1 888.391.1148
43 Cloudland Dr., Rising Fawn, GA staycloudland.com| @staycloudland
EAU PALM BEACH RESORT & SPA
561.533.6000
100 South Ocean Blvd., Manalapan, FL eaupalmbeach.com | @eaupalmbeach
FREDRICKSBURG CVB
830.997.6523
Fredricksburg, TX @visitfredtx | vistifredricksburgtx.com/weddings
HOTEL BENNETT
843.990.5400
404 King St., Charleston, SC hotelbennett.com | @hotelbennett
OMNI BARTON CREEK RESORT & SPA
512.329.4000
8212 Barton Club Dr., Austin, TX omnihotels.com/bartoncreek | @omnibartoncreek
ROSEWOOD MAYAKOBA
877.737.7538
Playa del Carmen, MX rosewood.com/en/mayakoba-riviera-maya | @rwmayakoba
BRIDAL & FORMALWEAR
Bella Bridesmaids ..................................99, 104
Bridal Boutique of Lewisville 38, 104
Lela Rose Bridal 104
Mister Tuxedo ...................................... 102, 104
Patsy’s, A Bridal Boutique 53, 104
Stanley Korshak Bridal Salon 104
Stardust Celebrations ............................13, 104
Terry Costa 101, 104
Warren Barrón ............................................. 104
CAKES & PASTRIES
Sugar Bee Sweets Bakery .................. 101, 104
Samantha Miller Pastery ............................. 104
CATERERS
Beyond the Box ................................... 100, 104
Culinary Art Catering 33, 100, 104
DFW Bartending .......................................... 104
Gil’s Elegant Catering 50, 100, 105
Heart to Heart Catering 10-11, 100, 105
Knife & Faulk ................................................ 105
Mi Dia From Scratch Catering 105
Vestals Catering 43, 105
Wendy Krispin Caterer ....................... 100, 105
Winewood Grill 105
DESTINATION WEDDINGS
Cloudland 97, 109
EAU Palm Beach Resort & Spa 17, 97, 109
Explore Charleston ........................ 8-9, 97, 109
Rosewood Mayakoba 31, 97, 109
ENTERTAINMENT
Downtown Fever Band C2-1, 105
Elevation Band ................................... C2-1, 105
Emerald City Band C2-1, 105
Limelight Band C2-1, 105
Party Machine Band C2-1, 105
Blushington Blooms 37, 105
Branching Out Events .......................... 4-5, 105
Lilium Floral Design 73, 105
Sage Fine Flowers 99, 105
HEALTH & BEAUTY
Glam Haus Collective 105 JEWELERS
Bachendorf’s 106, C4
Matthew Trent .............................................. 106
Motus ..................................................... 93, 106
Stephanie Brazzle 106
RENTALS
Lawson Event Rentals 110
The Party Dept. 106
STATIONERS
Magnolia Boone Paperie 106
VENUES, RECEPTION & REHEARSAL DINNER SITES
The Adolphus Hotel ................... 2-3, 94, 98, 108
Dallas Arboretum & Botanical Garden 94, 108
D’Vine Grace Vineyard 94, 108
George W. Bush
Presidential Center............................. 91, 94, 108
Gleneagles Country Club 63, 94, 108
Hall Arts Hotel.................................... 14, 94, 108
Hilton Dallas Park Cities 94, 105, 108
Hotel Crescent Court 41, 94, 108
Hotel Drover ...................................... 6-7, 94, 108
Hotel Vin, Autograph Collection 85, 95, 108
The Joule 49, 95, 98, 100, 108
JW Marriott Dallas
Arts District Hotel ............................... 21, 94, 108
Loews Arlington Hotel 77, 95, 108
The Mason Dallas 95, 108
Nasher Sculpture Center ................... 57, 95, 108
Nuvo Room 95, 108
The Perot Museum of
Nature and Science 95, 109, 110
Reflections Venue & Gardens 95, 109, C3
Renaissance Dallas at Plano Legacy West Hotel .................. 23, 96, 109
The Ritz-Carlton Dallas 86, 96, 109
The Ritz-Carlton
Dallas, Las Colinas ............................. 45, 96, 109
Rosewood Mansion on Turtle Creek 109
Texas Discovery Gardens.................. 18, 96, 109
Thompson Dallas 25, 96, 109
Virgin Hotels Dallas 47, 96, 98, 109
Vouv Event Space .................................... 96, 109
Warwick Melrose Dallas 12, 96, 98, 109
The Westin Dallas Downtown 29, 96, 109
The Westin Irving Convention Center at Las Colinas 96, 102, 109
WEDDING PLANNERS
Alice and Apricot 22, 106
Crystal Frasier Weddings 19, 107
Jess Wegner Events............................... 26, 107
Julian Leaver Events 107, 109
Karis Concepts 107
Knighted Affairs .................................... 65, 107
Lorraine Tomas Weddings 107
Social Graces Weddings and Events 15, 107
Taylor Event Co. .................................... 24, 107
Weddings by Stardust 108
Elizabeth Dameris and Jack Beardslee have some hiring managers to thank for their happily ever after. The pair met when they were hired by the same company for their first postcollege jobs. The only problem? Elizabeth was work ing in her native Houston, while Jack, a native of Kansas City, Kansas, was officed in Dallas. The couple dated long-distance for a year and a half until a new opportunity brought Elizabeth to Dallas. Once engaged, they were less focused on a specific aesthetic for their wedding and more on creating a fun, happy occasion for friends and family. “We wanted the evening to be all about celebrating together,” Elizabeth shares. Planner Allison MacNealy of Allison & Co Events and florist David Kimmel Design decked the ballroom of Brook Hollow Golf Club with romantic floral and foliage and deep green accents. “It was absolutely wonderful,” Elizabeth remembers. “I loved that we were able to be truly present around everyone we love.” The newlyweds reflect on the best and hardest parts of wedding planning and on what advice they’d give couples going through the process. —Jessica Otte
Had you thought about your wedding day before getting engaged?
Elizabeth: Not at all! I was never one of those girls who grew up dreaming of their wedding, so I was starting from square one.
Jack: Yes—after attending multiple friends’ weddings, it was easy to start picturing that day for Elizabeth and me.
What was the smartest thing you did while planning your wedding?
Elizabeth: Hiring our planner, Allison MacNealy. She handled so much behind the scenes and understood my vision, so I trusted her completely.
Jack: Relinquished all control to Elizabeth! And, of course, I opined and helped out when asked to.
What was the hardest part about wedding planning?
Elizabeth: Making sure Jack
felt included in the process and the planning to the extent he wanted to be. I wanted him to walk into the reception and feel like he was well represented.
Jack: The budgeting process and ultimately staying within the budget (which is generally impossible!).
What stressed you out the most?
Elizabeth: Aligning the church availability and reception venue availability was hard.
Jack: My big responsibility was the band/music, so I was hoping it would turn out well.
What was the most fun part of wedding planning?
Elizabeth: Designing my dress with Patti Flowers! This idea originally sounded intimidating, but after having multiple appointments at bridal salons across town, I was able to piece together ideas from different dresses that really felt like “me.”
Jack: Getting to sample different flavors of wedding cake at our cake tasting.
What was your most worthwhile wedding splurge?
Elizabeth: Our flowers.
Jack: I thought getting a band was worth it, versus a DJ.
Was there anything your spouse wanted that you weren’t sure about? How did it turn out?
Elizabeth: Jack was very sweet throughout the whole process and was open to almost all of my ideas.
Jack: I was a bit worried about our start time (7 p.m.) but that turned out not to be a problem. (The bride is always right.)
What, if anything, would you do differently if you had to do it all over again?
Elizabeth: Absolutely nothing. It was perfect.
Jack: Nothing. I thought it was a fantastic evening.
What was your biggest takeaway from the wedding-planning process?
Elizabeth: Social media is full of fun ideas, but at the end of the day, it’s so special to be at a celebration that feels so much like you and your spouse. Choose things that feel authentically you.
Jack: I am glad we had such a great wedding but am also glad we will not have to plan another wedding again.
What was the most memorable moment from your wedding day?
Elizabeth: Dancing with our friends to our incredible band.
Jack: We had a private last dance, and it was great to be able to experience a few moments with Elizabeth to soak up the evening.
What has surprised you most about married life? How (if at all) does it feel different?
Elizabeth: We moved into our house the day after we got home from our honeymoon, and it has been so fun to build a home together.
Jack: I love living together and being able to spend time together every day.
If you had one piece of advice for engaged or newly married couples, what would it be?
Elizabeth: Work together to make wedding planning as fun and stress-free as possible!
Jack: Try to make the most of the wedding-planning process, and have fun with it. At the end of the day, what is important is you are marrying your best friend. It doesn’t matter what color the tablecloths are.
