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Features 188 NATURAL WONDERS Get ready to be inspired: Stunning white, blush, and even black bridal gowns are showcased against the windswept dunes of White Sands National Monument.

204 FASHION-FORWARD FLORALS Nine New York City–based florists share their design secrets and dream up runway-worthy bouquets and arrangements.

214 ART OF THE PARTY Lush décor, stylish friends, and happy surprises made this Washington, D.C., wedding a celebration to remember.

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222 THE SHAPE OF RINGS Take a look at our roundup of eye-catching diamond engagement rings, including classic solitaires, trendsetting geometrics, and every design in between.

228 BLACK & WHITE AND WED ALL OVER With personal details at every turn, this couple’s chic wedding in a Northern California art museum was as special as they are.

238 ON WITH THE BOW Beautify your celebration with the loopy flourishes you’ve loved since childhood—from a tiny favor box to a grand entrance.

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Delight your guests with a flower wall, mini drip cakes, garland centerpieces, and beer-and-pretzel stations.

The new metallics for lids, nails, and lips; a dream-brow guide; soft-skin solutions; a secret weapon against blisters; and perfumes for every personality.

Buzz through these pages for tips on looking and feeling your best on the big day, honest opinions on kids at the wedding, advice on merging your money postmarriage, and a lot more.

73 CELEBRATIONS Go west! Join us for a trio of gorgeous weddings in California and Colorado.

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Whether your look is spare and refined or over-the-top embellished, we’ve got a china pattern for you. 154

247 TRAVEL AWARDS The results of our first-ever Most Romantic Destinations survey! Find out what to see and do in top honeymoon spots, including a wellness escape in Turks and Caicos, a historic hike in Bora Bora, and more.

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THE DETAILS (clockwise from top): Graff New York 6.50-carat marquise-cut diamond ring, price upon request, graffdiamonds .com. Bulgari “High Jewelry Ring” with 5.07-carat emerald-cut diamond and two .57-carat tapered cut diamonds, price upon request, 800-2854274. Kwiat 2.43-carat oval diamond ring in platinum, price upon request, kwiat.com. Tacori “Royal T” princesscut diamond ring in 18-karat rose gold with diamonds, $6,890 (without center stone), tacori.com. Ritani cushioncut diamond ring, price upon request, ritani.com. McTeigue & McClelland 5-carat old European–cut diamond “Aperta” flora ring, handmade in 18karat yellow gold and platinum, price upon request, mc2jewels.com. Tiffany & Co. pear-cut engagement ring in platinum, price upon request, tiffany .com. De Beers “Old Bond Street” solitaire radiant-cut diamond ring in platinum with diamond pavé, price upon request, debeers.com. Photograph by Kevin Cremens.

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Just Your Style Welcome to our annual style issue, which puts a special focus on all things beautiful and chic. You’re so lucky—this is a great time to be in the market for a wedding dress. Perhaps more than ever, trends from runways and red carpets are making their way down the aisle. With wedding-dress designers creating exquisite gowns (and short dresses, and jumpsuits, and trousers . . .) that reflect what is happening in fashion right now, you’re able to choose an ensemble that suits your personal st yle, something you feel like yourself in—your most gorgeous self. You might just find the dress that will make you feel that way in this issue (start by looking on pages 102 and 188). There are also tuxes and suits for the guys (page 89), complete with mix-and-match accessories so they can customize their look, too. Style infuses every aspect of a wedding, of course. For “FashionForward Florals” (page 204), our own resident flower genius, style director Naomi deMañana, asked nine of New York City’s most innovative florists to create something just for us (well, just for you). The results are wildly, wonderfully varied, and we hope there’s

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the right temperament and personality to attend or play a role in a wedding— calm, obedient, and friendly. (Consider your personality, too; if having her there will stress you out, it’s not worth it.) Check with the venue and your officiant to make sure your pet will be welcome. Tell your vendors and attendants about the extra member of the bridal party, too.

Bring your dog to the venue before the wedding day. If she is taking part in the ceremony, have her participate in the rehearsal.

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to care for your dog on the day—feeding her, walking her, and generally keeping her safe. Don’t forget the treats! If your dog isn’t wedding-ready, you can use her likeness on signage or stationery, or name a signature cocktail after her so she’ll be there “in spirit” (ha!).

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F R O M T H E D E S K O F DA R C Y Meeting brides is one of the best parts of my job. Wherever I go, I get asked so many great wedding-planning questions, and I thought I’d share some of them here with you. Starting with fashion and accessories—because who doesn’t want to look good?

I have both men and women in my party—do you have tips for dressing them to coordinate? This is one area where brides are really throwing out the rule book (in a good way!). The first thing to remember is that coordination doesn’t have to mean matching. There are ways to use color or style elements throughout so that the group looks cohesive. Men can wear socks, bow ties, or pocket squares that match the women’s dresses— or that pull touches of color from the bride’s bouquet. Think about having your party wear complementary hues, or different shades of the same color in an ombré effect, from light to dark. If you don’t want to assign outfits, pick a palette and let your bridesmaids (or “groomsmaids”) choose their dresses, and your groomsmen (or “bridesmen”) their accessories. However they dress, having a coed wedding party is a terrific thing. You’ll be surrounded by the people you love the most, and, looking back, that’s what you’ll really remember.

Do I have to wait to find my dress before choosing accessories? (I’ve already fallen in love with a pair of shoes!) I love this question, because although they’re something that

many people don’t even think about until the last minute, your shoes, veil, jewelry, and even undergarments shouldn’t be afterthoughts. They complete your look— and can also inspire it. You might fall in love with a crazy hat, or inherit a lace veil that changes your idea of the perfect dress. So think about these things while dress shopping. It’s never too early. Once you’ve found a gown, making the accessories a priority will help you (and the dressmaker) at fitting time. You’ll be able to see what your shoes will look like with your dress and how long it needs to be to compensate for the heels. And your day-of undergarments will allow you to see exactly how your dress is falling. Another note about shoes: The pair that feel good in the store aren’t always so comfortable when you’re on your feet for six hours! It’s a good idea to wear your wedding shoes around the house to make sure you’ll be happy wearing them on the big day.

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GO WITH THE FLOW You’ve probably seen drip cakes all over your social-media feeds, and for good reason— colorful, contrasting ganache really takes frosting over the top. Each of these four-inch cakes serves two, and they’re meant to be shared. The trick to the drip effect is to slowly pipe the tinted white chocolate around the rim (cold cake helps it stay put), then fill the top. Macarons and meringues make for a sweet finish. For the recipe, see The Guide.

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VERDANT VIBE This centerpiece is elegant and (almost) effortless: It’s simply a length of garland draped along the table. It’s also low-clearance, making it easy for guests to chat with across-the-table neighbors. You can add some glam by pulling out some sprigs and leaves and coating them with gold spray paint. Nestle the gilded bits back in the garland, and voilà—your centerpiece is born. T H E DE TA I LS : Seeded eucalyptus garland, $9 per ft., thegarlandguy.com. Design Master “Premium Metals” spray paint, in Gold Medal, $8, michaels.com. West Elm Gold flatware, $140 for a 20-piece set, westelm.com. Martha Stewart Collection “Odyssey” dinnerware, in Gold, $560 for a 34-piece set, macys.com. Below: Garlands, from $8 per ft., thegarlandguy.com.

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HEAD-TO-TOE TREATS Gift your gang glitzy, locale-inspired hairpins— or cozy socks that include a nod to your nuptials.

These customizable glam hair jewels (from $110 each, sashasamuel.com) are handmade in New York City.

TRÈS CHIC Say it in sequins! You and your leading ladies will look super-cute in personalized berets ($40 for 12, amazon.com) for the bachelorette weekend. Use strands of black sequin trim (from 98¢ per yd., mjtrim.com) to freehand a phrase on each cap—a script font is easiest to apply—then use fabric glue (we like Beacon Magna-Tac 809; $12, mjtrim.com) to affix. Choose one bon mot for all to wear, or mix and match a few—either way, an Instagram-worthy group shot is a must.

Your guests will rock these socks! Choose from a host of preprinted pairs, or send in your own custom design (from $8 per pair, after a $25 setup fee, livingroyal.com).

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TRIPLE TAKE Flower wall? Photo booth? Favors? Check, check, and check. This multitasking idea is as easy as it is impressive. The wall planter is covered in pockets that make it easy to achieve a lush backdrop effect. Choose flowers with plenty of foliage and full blooms—like these geraniums— to conceal the pouches. Ask your photographer to set up in front of it for a sophisticated step-and-repeat. It’s best to hang the plants in the lightweight plastic pots they come in, so you don’t weigh down the display. T HE DETA I LS: Prudance vertical

36-pocket wall garden planter, $30, amazon.com. Geraniums, from $4 each, paradiseplantsny.com. Bonpoint “Diva” dress, $335, bonpoint.com.

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BAVARIAN BITES Your guests will fall for an Oktoberfestinspired station. A pretzel-and-craft-beer bar is fun for casual prewedding events like your engagment party—but it also works as a secret weapon to quell late-night hunger pangs at your reception. Serve jumbo soft pretzels with dipping sauces: whole-grain mustard and horseradish, wasabi-scallion, and smoky Gouda (get the recipes at marthastewartweddings.com/ pretzel-dipping-sauces). Outfit the station with paper pretzel bags, individual sauce cups, and plenty of beer, so guests can grab and go. TH E DE TA I LS : Jumbo New York soft

pretzels, $35 for 50, nypretzel.com. Small pleated baking cups, in Metallic Luxury, $38 for 200, restaurant ware.com. Brown kraft natural pretzel bags, $2 for 10, jillybeankids.com.

BREW IT YOURSELF It’s easy to brand bottles of a beer you love for your wedding bar with labels (download our templates at marthastewartweddings.com/beer-label), but for the ultimate personal pour, serve a craft beer you had a hand in creating. Some small local businesses offer “brewing on premises,” where professionals coach a group through the beer-making process. (Talk about a crowd-pleasing bachelor-party outing!) We worked with Brooklyn-based brew-supply shop Bitter & Esters for our batch (from $450 for 144 12-ounce bottles, bitterandesters.com, but prices and yields will vary depending on the brewing capacity).

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Along with standard-size cards, Inklings creates tags and other products from scraps most large-scale printers would toss.

SECRET SOURCE: INKLINGS PAPERIE What’s better than a stylish card? One with a hidden message inside. That’s why we love the scratch-off paper goods, chic prints, and calligraphed cards made by this Michigan-based sustainable stationer. We honored them in the 2012 Martha Stewart American Made Awards—and we’re still big fans of their surprising designs, like this customizable card (right) that lets you write the hidden message. T HE DETAILS: “Parisian Stripes” bridesmaid card, $4.50; “Be My Bridesmaid” telegrams, $21 for 6;

bridal bingo cards, $12 for 12 cards and pencils; “Parisian Stripes” bridal-shower game cards, $14 for 24; bachelorette game cards, $9 for 24; place cards, $15 for 12; pop-up greeting card, $6; Champagne gift tags, $8 for 6; “LOVE ” print, $8; “Party Time” card, $4.50; and scratch-off “Will You Be My Bridesmaid” card (right), $24 for 6, inklingspaperie.etsy.com.

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HEADLINERS Looking for that one detail to take your big-day ensemble to the next level? Our senior fashion editor, Jessica King, suggests a bold headpiece. “Crowns and fascinators aren’t for everyone, but they can be very chic. Balancing your look is important—an understated dress can take a more eccentric headband or tiara,” Jessica says.

T H E DE TA I LS : 1. Gigi Burris Millinery “Aurora” ostrich band, $300, neiman marcus.com. 2. Colette Malouf “Primrose” headpiece with freshwater pearls, $548, colettemalouf.com. 3. Jennifer Behr “Cordelia Voilette” veiled headband, in Rose, $695, jennifer behr.com. 4. Monvieve “Emmeline” headband, in Platinum, $600, 646-9632620. 5. Sara Gabriel “Opal” tiara, $377, saragabriel.com. 6. Elie Saab Bridal “Oui” headband, $775, 212-933-4566. 7. Lelet NY “Palm-Leaf Halo” headband, $388, leletny.com.

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Bride Hannah Dilworth, in a soutache-lace Lihi Hod gown, carried a bouquet that included garden roses, jasmine, and white peonies at her Colorado wedding.

C E L E B R AT I O N S H A N N A H & J. D.

The groom wore a burgundy suit by Burberry. The couple took a quiet moment for their prewedding first look in an aspen grove near the ceremony site.

HANNAH DILWORTH & J. D. GLUCKSTERN

For the reception, round and rectangular farmhouse tables and bistro chairs were arranged under a sailcloth tent. Indigo runners were made of vintage textiles, which the bride loves.

J U N E 2 5 , 2 0 1 6 / T E L L U R I D E , C O LO R A D O any people would think themselves lucky to have experienced one earth-shattering kiss over the course of a lifetime. Hannah and J. D. Gluckstern have shared at least three. The first came in the summer of 2005, after their freshman year of college in New York City. Hannah’s second cousin invited her to see a reggae band; J. D. was the keyboardist and percussionist. The two flirted for weeks that summer, eventually pairing up at a post-gig house party. “It was one of those kisses where you just know,” says J. D. That launched a summer romance, but there was one problem: Hannah was still involved with an on-again, off-again longtime boyfriend. “I was young and really struggled with moving on,” she says. So they reverted to friendship, much to J. D.’s chagrin. Not long afterward, he took a semester off from school to volunteer in India. In a surprise twist, Hannah decided to join him. “I loved the idea of doing some sort of adventure,” she says. For the first two weeks, they tried to keep things friendly, but “obviously, I wanted more, and it was just hard,” J. D. recalls. Then came one magical night in

Jaipur—and with it, life-altering kiss number two. “We call it the kiss of Jaipur,” says Hannah. “I started to cry.” By the time they returned home, the two were inseparable. “Our family was always asking, ‘Don’t you guys get sick of each other?’” says Hannah. In a word, no. Over the years the couple—he’s a musician and DJ; she’s a freelance fashion stylist—lived briefly in Australia (where they knew no one but each other) and frequently traveled to Telluride, Colorado, where his parents have a home, before settling down in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, and opening Concrete + Water, a cutting-edge clothing boutique. But it wasn’t until nearly 10 years after the kiss of Jaipur, in Telluride, that a third mind-blowing moment took place. Under an arbor of peonies and olive leaves in an aspen grove dotted with wildflowers, and surrounded by 165 loved ones, Hannah and J. D. exchanged vows they’d written themselves and finally became husband and wife. They sealed the union, naturally, with the sweetest kiss of all. —Jennifer Fernandez

SO U RC ES Event production Soirée Telluride Catering and desserts The Butcher and the Baker Flowers and event design Frannie Aura of New Leaf Design Photography Tec Petaja Videography Lovebrain Films Stationery Printerette Press Music Mike Pale Trio; Dash Speaks (DJ/MC) Tent and rentals Premier

Special Events/Viking Rentals Bride’s gown Lihi Hod Bride’s accessories Pamela Love (earrings); Mociun (engagement ring and wedding band); Marais USA (shoes) Bridesmaids’ and flower-girl dresses Joanna August Ring-bearer attire J.Crew, Zara Groom’s suit Burberry See The Guide for more vendor details

75 The couple exchanged vows at an open-air ceremony officiated by J. D.’s mother, Judy Gluckstern.

The bridesmaids wore shades of gray; the groomsmen, navy suits. Hannah’s nephews and niece served as ring bearers and flower girl.

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Once we started dancing, we didn’t want to stop. It was just so special. I think a lot of our friends were very happy to see us finally get married after so many years.

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Escort cards with magnetic backings were adorned with indigo watercolor hand-lettering and adhered to geometric wall art.

“I’m not much of a tie guy,” says J. D. of his custom Lizzie Fortunato bolo. “The Westerncowboy thing was fun.”

J. D. gave his groomsmen inlaid-stone pocketknives from Santa Fe Stoneworks that echoed the design of his bolo tie.

The groom’s parents— themselves married for 43 years— shared a kiss.

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Perri wore a Monique Lhuillier minidress with a removable overskirt. Phillip’s Klein Epstein & Parker suit also had a jacket with a pink lining.

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“Invitations really set the tone,” says Perri, who chose vintage pink stamps and rosegold foil lettering.

J U LY 2 , 2 0 1 6 / C A R P I N T E R I A , C A L I FO R N I A hen you hobnob with Hollywood types, it’s not surprising to develop an appreciation for the dramatic. That’s what came over Phillip Sun, a talent agent, the day he pulled his girlfriend, psychotherapist Perri Monkarsh, inside a circle of roses her friends had placed on the beach near their Los Angeles home, bent to one knee, and proposed. “It was the most romantic thing I could think of,” says Phillip. He then took his elated fiancée to a nearby restaurant, where family and friends had gathered to share hugs and congratulations—and to inspect the dazzling ring. Phillip had created the three-carat round brilliant center-stone ring with the help of Perri’s cousin, jewelry designer Ashleigh Bergman. The wedding weekend was no less spectacular. It was important to the couple to celebrate the coming together of their Jewish (Perri) and Chinese (Phillip) heritages. Friday night’s rehearsal dinner at a Chinese restaurant featured a traditional tea ceremony. And Saturday afternoon, at the wedding itself, they took their vows before 275 guests and celebrated their shared traditions. Both of Perri’s parents

walked her down the aisle to Bruce Springsteen’s “Thunder Road”—a surprise for her mom, who had entered to the same song at her own wedding 31 years prior. Perri’s cousin officiated, having prepared for the service by getting advice from Phillip’s mother and grandmother as well as both of Perri’s parents about the meaning of marriage in Chinese and Jewish cultures. Consideration for their family and friends was at the forefront of the reception as well, from the food and music choices to the décor and dress code. “Our attire was ‘colorful cocktail,’” Perri recalls. “Everything else was very white and green, and we wanted our guests to bring the color and life to the party. And they did.” For people planning the biggest day of their own lives, they were unusually focused on their guests. Maybe that’s because they themselves had been wedding guests when, three years earlier, they noticed their first sparks of romance. “No one was dancing, so we looked at each other and were like, ‘Let’s dance!’” says Perri. “We were just trying to get the party started.” —Natalie Ermann Russell

SO URCES Location Klentner Ranch Event planning and design Duet Weddings Catering Pure Joy Catering Flowers Moon Canyon Photography Steve Steinhardt Videography Satellite Weddings Stationery Aerialist Press (invitations); ABC Trophies & Awards (signage) Cake Lelé Pâtisserie Music Gemini Strings; DJ Wes at Red-

Shoe Rentals The Ark; La Tavola Fine Linen; Town & Country Event Rentals Bride’s gown, sash, veil, and shoes Monique Lhuillier Bride’s jewelry and wedding bands Milestones by Ashleigh Bergman Consulting Bridesmaids’ dresses Reformation Groom’s suit and shirt Klein Epstein & Parker See The Guide for more vendor details

79 The five bridesmaids wore floralpatterned Reformation dresses—no two alike—that inspired the bouquets each carried. Perri also had two “brosmaids,” who wore suits by Theory.

They couldn’t pick a flavor, so the baker suggested several vanilla cakes, some with whipped cream and strawberries, others with cinnamon cream cheese.

Following Jewish custom, Phillip stepped on a glass after they were married beneath the chuppah—this one surrounded by peonies, roses, and dahlias.

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Three years ago, I kissed a cute boy on the dance floor at another wedding, and in that moment, I found everything I’d ever wanted.

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Clear acrylic place cards didn’t obscure the deep-green clematis leaves. The whiteflower centerpieces were unobtrusive, and meant to encourage cross-table conversation.

Custom fortune cookies left in guests’ hotel rooms prefête were a wink to both Phillip’s heritage and Perri’s candy obsession. The messages inside helped set a playful tone for the celebration.

Seating assignments were laserengraved on acrylic rectangles lined up in the grass leading to the tent. “It was like an interactive art installation,” Perri says. “People loved it.”

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The groom, in Ralph Lauren, and the bride, in a bodysuit and skirt by Willowby by Watters and a capelet by Bhldn, shared a quiet first look before their nuptials.

Instead of a multitiered confection, LoLo and John chose a lessformal chocolatechocolate-chip Bundt with cream-cheese frosting, decorated with flowers.

The main dessert event: 200 donuts, hung from a plywood pegboard LoLo’s father crafted and drove up from his home in San Diego. “He was super-proud of it,” she says.

LORI WILLIAMS & JOHN KLAG OC T O B E R 1 4 , 2 0 1 6 / LO N G B E A C H , C A L I F O R N I A here was a moment during her wedding when the bride thought she might be having too much fun. “I was doing this booty-shaking move from a Kanye West video, and I thought, I hope my grandparents aren’t watching,” says Lori “LoLo” Klag, laughing. “But I know how right John and I are for each other because when I finished, he gave me the biggest high-five.” It may have been an unconventional move, but this wasn’t exactly a by-the-books affair. “By the time we got engaged, we’d been to so many weddings,” says John Klag. “We wanted to create something different, something that was pure us.” For this couple—she’s an interior designer for Homegirl Studio; he’s the branch manager for a logistics company—that meant an occasion that combined tradition with irreverence, and high glamour with hip-hop. Planned with the help of event designer Rebecca Simms of Wylie West Creative, the celebration took place in Long Beach, where LoLo and John met in college and dated for nearly two years before moving together to New Orleans in May 2016. The day started on a sentimental

note, with a Catholic ceremony officiated by the same priest who had married LoLo’s parents and siblings over the years. “Father Gary has been a part of our family forever and is super-down-to-earth,” says LoLo. “He even cracked a few jokes during our ceremony.” From there, the 180 guests made their way to a Spanish Revival– style club for the reception, where they sipped Champagne, dug into short ribs, and plucked doughnuts from a handmade pegboard. Blackand-gold décor set a glamorous backdrop, while potted palms and slightly wild floral arrangements added a romantic Southern California vibe. The couple’s shared passion for ’90s hip-hop was also woven through the event, from cocktail napkins emblazoned with rap quotes to a playlist that inspired what John calls “an epic dance party.” It was a raucous evening, but the groom’s favorite moment of the night was a quieter one: his first dance with LoLo, to the Otis Redding version of “You Send Me.” “It was dead silent, and you could feel all the love and warmth in the room,” he says. “You couldn’t have written a more beautiful scene.” —Miranda Crowell

SO U RC ES Locations St. Bartholomew Catholic Church (ceremony); Ebell: the Ebell Club Long Beach (reception) Event design, stationery, and welcome baskets

Wylie West Creative Event planning The Love Riot Catering Très L.A. Flowers Petals and Pop Photography Steve Cowell Photography Cake Creative Cakery Doughnuts Randy’s Donuts Music Eusebio Akasa Rentals Signature Party Rentals Bride’s bodysuit and skirt Willowby by Watters Bride’s capelet Bhldn Bride’s accessories Free People (ear cuff and shoes); Marida (bracelet); Pierre’s Jewelers (rings) Groom’s suit Ralph Lauren See The Guide for more vendor details

83 Black-and-gold settings were offset by down-to-earth details like agate accents, shiboridyed napkins, berries, and garden roses.

Hand-painted by Simms, the invitations featured a fortune-telling hand and watercolor strokes, setting a dreamy tone for the event.

The couple posed with their best man and maid of honor (John’s close friend since childhood and LoLo’s sister), as well as their nieces and nephews, and children of friends.

The reception was held in a former philanthropic clubhouse built in 1924; the couple loved it for its old-world interior and massive dance floor.

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I’m not the girliest girl I wear a lot of black so I wanted the mood to be dark, mysterious, and romantic.

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Strawflowers and pampas grass were pinned to LoLo’s capelet

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A seating chart made out of old records and hip-hop lyrics greeted guests at the reception.

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SUITING UP Off-the-rack or totally custom, your wedding-day suit should be your very best look. T H E DE TA I LS : Miller ’s Oath bespoke jacket , from $5,200 for suit, millersoath.com. Christian Louboutin “Greggo” flat shoes, $945, Christian Louboutin NY Men’s Boutique, 212-255-2056.

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Make it yours with accessories you love:

ADD A SPLASH OF BLUE David Yurman “Streamline” cuff links with pietersite inlay, $500, davidyurman.com.

GO LONG Paul Smith 6-cm silk tie, $150, mrporter.com.

SLIP ON SOME STYLE Valentino Garavani tassel loafers, $795, valentino.com.

Black Tie Tuxedo, tie, shiny shoes—all required elements. Trimmer tailoring is stylish, but if a classic cut is more flattering on you, go ahead and buck the trend. Taller, leaner guys may want a double-breasted jacket for a broader look. Use shoes, cuff links, ties (bow or long), and pocket squares to add flair and coordinate with your spouse’s ensemble. TH E DETA I LS: Black by Vera Wang slim-fit wool tuxedo

and dress shirt, $800, menswearhouse.com. The Tie Bar paisley bow tie, $19; and solid pocket square, $10, thetiebar.com. IWC “Portofino” watch, $4,100, iwc.com.

SQUARE IT UP Lanvin polka-dot, color-blocked silk-twill pocket square, $85, mrporter.com.

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Bring some color, some pattern, and some pop (just not all at once):

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Creative Black Tie This has all the hallmarks of your most formal formalwear—including bow tie and matching jacket and pants—but with a bit of an edge. Bring out your personality with a bold pattern like this tartan. A shorter pants length is a hot-right-now look that works even for black tie. And socks? The slickest move is to skip them or go with a no-show style.

Alexander McQueen skull-and-pin-dot silk-jacquard pocket square, $125, mrporter.com.

ADD A W INK OF PINK Cinabre pink-coral bow tie, $97, cinabre-paris.com.

TH E DETA I LS : The Black Tux

“Black Watch Tartan Tuxedo,” $125 to rent; and pleated point-collar dress shirt, $20 to rent, theblacktux .com. Suitsupply tuxedo shoes in Italian calf leather, $299, suitsupply.com. Breguet “Classique 5157 ” watch in 18k white gold, $18,800, breguet.com.

TRY A GLINT AT THE WR IST Cartier “Juste un Clou” cuff links in 18k yellow gold, $4,000, cartier.com.

PUT ON SOME FANCY FOOTWORK Gucci leather lace-ups with studs, $1,390, gucci.com.

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Classic Suit A well-tailored dress suit is fitting for a semiformal celebration. Choose dark for evening and winter, or lighter tones for daytime and warmer climes. A vest (in a three-piece suit) amps up the formality; consider a contrasting color for interest. But if you do, make it the only color you add. Choose a bow or long tie— for long, a good rule of thumb is to match the tie’s widest point with that of your lapel.

Add a bold hue, a sleek shoe, and cuff links that start conversations:

CUFF ’EM Trianon 18k gold tiger’s-eye cuff links, $1,600, mrporter.com.

T HE DE TA ILS : Jos. A. Bank

“1905” slim-fit plaid sharkskin suit in light-gray wool, $598; and “ Traveler” tailored button-down pinstriped dress shirt, $90, josbank .com. The Tie Bar grosgrain solid-mustard tie, $19, thetiebar.com. Tiffany & Co. “Tiffany CT60 3-Hand” men’s watch in 18k rose gold and stainless steel, $8,500, tiffany.com.

SOFT- SHOE IT Salvatore Ferragamo leather slip-ons, $795, 866-337-7242.

SHOW YOUR STR IPES Ermenegildo Zegna 7-cm striped-silk tie, $195, mrporter.com.

SEE RED Brunello Cucinelli wool pocket square, $215, mrporter.com.

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The Hill-Side "Panama" striped pocket square, in Indigo/Light Indigo, $39, thehill-side.com.

Casual Suit Beach, garden, backyard wedding? The great outdoors affords you easier wardrobe choices—a relaxed-cut linen or cotton-silk suit, or a blazer-pant combo, tie optional. But don’t throw the rules out completely! Your outfit should coordinate with your partner’s look in fabric, texture, or color.

H IGHLIGHT A HOBBY Mateo New York “Anchor” cuff links in 18k gold, $95, mateonewyork.com.

TH E DE TAI LS : Joseph Abboud tan

herringbone notch-lapel suit, $1,095, josephabboud.com. Jos. A. Bank dress shirt, in White, $90, josbank.com. Miller ’s Oath woven flower-bud tie, in Lavender Silk, $165, millersoath.com. Cartier “Drive de Cartier” watch in 18k rose gold and leather, $17,700, cartier.com.

ALTERNA-TIE IT ZB Savoy “Bali” bow tie, $44, zbsavoy.com.

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1. This silk-tulle ball gown features a stunning illusion neckline and cascading blooms. Oscar de la Renta style 18 SBE018TUL , $8,590, oscardelarenta.com.

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2. Sheer gloves and a birdcage veil complete this delicate embroidered silk gown. Lela Rose “The Primrose Hill,” $6,995; and gloves, $495, lelarose.com.

3. An unassuming sweetheart bodice tops an explosion of flowers on this gown’s full skirt. Viktor & Rolf Mariage “Flowerbomb Bloom” gown, in Diamond White, price upon request, viktor-rolf.com.

4. This exquisite gown pairs florals with cold shoulders. Eve of Milady Couture style 4362, $5,395, bridalreflections.com.

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Flutter down the aisle in this fun faux-feather outfit. Berta style 18-18 jacket, $4,400; and dress, $5,280, in Ivory, berta.com.

Soar to new heights of style in this blush-feathered frock. Hayley Paige “Hawthorne” tulle ball gown, from $3,000; and feather bolero, $1,200, jlmboutique.com.

3. This shoulder-baring silk-chiffon gown is trimmed with a collar of wispy feathers. Studio Mira Zwillinger “Vera” gown, $8,250, mirazwillinger.com.

5. If you’re ready to go all-in, this gown has plumes for days. Naeem Khan Bridal “Atlantis” ball gown, in Ivory, price upon request, markingram atelier.com.

4. Show some leg with an up-to-there slit. Victoria Kyriakides “Vivienne” embroidered macramé-lace gown, in Off White, $8,140, victoria kyriakides.com.

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Nesting comes later. For now, go ahead and show off those plumes. This fluffy, funky trend was all over every bridal designer’s runway this season—and we can’t get enough.

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3. Even with its sweet turtleneck, this look is far from covered up. Romona Keveza Collection pearl and silk embroidered-lace gown, style RK8407, $8,000, www.romonakeveza.com.

2. Various shades of beading at the neckline bring attention to the bride’s face. Rivini Look “15” gown, $11,000, rivini.com.

1. Illusion sleeves make this neckline even more captivating. Ines Di Santo “Catherine” lace and Italian stretchcrepe gown, in Off White, $6,590, markingram atelier.com.

High Necklines

These dresses may not be low-cut, but they’re not prim and proper, either. The high neck is often paired with sexy, shoulderbaring sleeveless styles.

5. A high-low style is great for the dance floor. Temperley London Bridal “Virginie” duchesssatin dress, $8,500, temperley london.com.

4. The embellishment at the neckline sparkles, so no jewelry is necessary. Justin Alexander Signature jewel-collar ball gown, style 9900, $3,630, justin alexander.com.

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6. Here’s the boho bride’s dream dress. Costarellos Bridal style BR 1845, in Cream, $5,950, costarellos.com.

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Hello, Bianca Jagger! This chic wedding suit is what Studio 54 dreams are made of. Savannah Miller glass-and-pearlbeaded silk “Bianca” jacket, $1,661; and “Marlene” pants, $1,819, lovelybride.com.

Cool girls will be vying for this feminine one-piece by a hot newcomer. Lein “Billie Jo” denim jumpsuit with ruffled silk-organza bodice, $1,950, lein studio.com.

3. Show a little skin in this wedding-day combo. Alexandra Grecco “Harlow” silk-crepe pants, $1,400; and blouse, $900, both in Ivory, alexandra grecco.com.

the issue—not everyone is a gown kind of girl. Luckily, pants—in jumpsuits or separates, cropped or wide-legged, refined denim or crystal-studded satin—have never looked so good. Or so glam.

6. This mix-and-match two-piece is perfect for brides who want to customize their look. Catherine Deane “Jemma” top, in Oyster/ Almond, $320; and “Justina” trousers, in Bridal Ivory, $800, catherine deane.com.

5. This wide-leg jumpsuit says “disco fever.” Randi Rahm “Billie” beaded crepe jumpsuit, in White, $7,500, randi rahm.com.

4. A jumpsuit with three-quarterlength French-lace sleeves? Sign us up. Laure de Sagazan “Wagner” Calaislace and silk-crepe jumpsuit, price upon request, laure desagazan.fr.

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2. This Grecian-style mini is goddess-worthy—and so much fun. Willowby by Watters “Sonoran Short” dress, $906, willowby.com.

1. This flirty offthe-shoulder frock is ready to party! Bhldn Mihano Momosa “Emerson” dress, $2,800, bhldn.com.

3. 6. Chic and sophisticated with a bit of sparkle, this mini is a just the thing for a city celebration. Jenny Packham “Happy” dress, $2,395, jenny packham.com.

Short Dresses What’s up? Hemlines! Fun midi- and mini-length party frocks put us in the mood to dance. Whether you want a sweet ceremony dress or a kicky late-night look, you’ll be spoiled for choice this season.

5. A midi length and a sweet neckline bring happy romance to your big day. David’s Bridal Cheers Cynthia Rowley tulle dress, $409, exclusively at davidsbridal.com.

4. With its beautiful crocheted lace, this dress would fit right into a garden setting. Tadashi Shoji style BBH18015 SBR , $598, tadashishoji.com.

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PRECIOUS METALS One look at the latest metallics and it’s clear: These are not the alloys of old. Garish glitters have been supplanted by sophisticated shades with a soft, light-catching sheen and a radiant effect. Even better, these stunners are effortless and unfading. What could be more becoming of a bride? T E X T BY J O L E N E E D G A R P H OTOG R A P H S BY P E T E R A R D I TO

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“We hear the word metallic and immediately think extreme— but that’s so not the essence of these cream shadows,” says Los Angeles–based makeup artist and cofounder of Striiike Beauty Studio Jenn Streicher. Their inherent sheen—and absence of glitter or frost—lends a dewy finish that’s more naturallooking than most powdered shadows. READY TO WE AR Beautifully uncomplicated, the cream formulas set fast, refusing to crease or fade. Wear one over the entire lid for an expensive chrome effect, or dabbed suggestively on the inner corners for an eye-opening glint. SPO I LED FOR CH OIC E Work with your skin tone, says New York–based celebrity makeup artist Andrew Sotomayor. Silver, shimmering champagne, and icy lilac all flatter fair skin; warmer rose gold and pewter suit medium tones; and bronze, copper, and burnished plum dazzle on deeper complexions. BA LANC E THE BEAM To avoid looking overdone, pair with a contrasting lip texture—a matte stain or shimmer-free lip cream, for instance—and your naturally radiant skin. T H E EY E S H AV E I T

From left: Lancôme Le Metallique Metallic Liquid Eyeshadow, in Bronze Rivage, $29, lancome -usa.com. Maybelline New York Color Tattoo Eye Chrome, in Silver Spark, $10, maybelline .com. Dolce & Gabbana Perfect Mono Cream Eye Colour, in Amore, $38, saksfifthavenue.com. Butter London Glazen Eye Gloss, in Bronzed, $24, butterlondon.com. Wander Beauty Exquisite Eye Liquid Shadow, in Lilac Luster, $26, wanderbeauty.com. Dior Metalizer Eyes & Lips Crème Shadow, in Platine Fusion, $25, dior.com.

2. Gilt Lip PAC K A PU NC H Bold lips, offset by understated eyes, add whimsy to your look. Choose a brazen, spicy, saturated color, or a mellow “golden, peachy, bronze tone that’s neutral but still has dimension,” says New York–based celebrity makeup artist Nick Barose. PR EP WOR K Metallic shades—particularly nonshiny, matte finishes—will spotlight flakes, says Brooklyn-based makeup artist Katie Jane Hughes. She recommends first moistening your lips with balm and buffing away dead skin, or gently dissolving it with an enzyme treatment, like Kaplan MD Lip Mask ($48, kaplanmd.com).

From top: Kevyn Aucoin The Molten Lip Color, in Titanium, $30, kevynaucoin.com. Dolce & Gabbana Shine Lipstick, in Soiree, $36, saksfifthavenue.com. Revlon Ultra HD Matte Metallic Lipcolor, in HD Shine, $10, revlon.com. Estée Lauder Pure Color Envy Matte Sculpting Lipstick, in Hot Shock, $32, esteelauder.com. Sara Happ lip gloss, in The Rose Gold Slip, $24, sara happ.com. Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick, in Wolvesmouth, $21, sephora.com. Jouer Long Wear Lip Crème Liquid Lipstick, in Penny, $18, jouercosmetics.com.

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Start by narrowing it down to those shades that complement the metal in your wedding band. Yellow golds will want something with a gilded undertone. For white gold and platinum rings, silver is a natural. If you’re gravitating to a more colorful choice, be it a neutral rose or a lovely lilac, let your skin and the polish’s undertone be your guides. Then marvel at how that lacquer catches the light as you display your ring or raise a celebratory glass. From top: Essie polish, in No Place Like Chrome, $9, essie.com. Christian Louboutin Metalinudes Nail Colour, in Irisa, $50, christian louboutin.com. Smith & Cult Nailed Lacquer, in Fosse Fingers, $18, smithandcult.com. Jin Soon polish, in Spiffy (out in October), $18, jinsoon.com. Revlon Color Stay Gel Envy Longwear Nail Enamel, in Win Big, $8, revlon.com. Butter London Trend Nail Lacquer, in Rich Gold, $10, butterlondon.com. Deborah Lippmann Gel Lab Pro Color, in Black Magic Woman, $20, sephora.com.

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BROWS BEFORE VOWS Trends don’t dictate your best brow style—your facial architecture does. But that doesn’t mean you can’t tweak their shape to suit your personality. Of course, unless you’re microblading (see below), coaxing—and growing—the perfect shape won’t happen overnight. So get started now: Identify your muse, surrender your tweezers, and enlist these shaping strategies from brow gurus Maribeth Madron and Jared Bailey.

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Hallmarks: “Crisp lines and

Hallmarks: Not slim or skimpy—it’s 2017, after all—this brow is “neat, understated, and consistent in size from head to tail, where it gently tapers off,” says Bailey.

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Hallmarks: “It’s all about clean lines and rounded edges,” says Bailey. Also, notes Madron, the brow’s overall size should suit your face: Full brows flatter larger features; streamlined are better for delicate ones. Best For: Anyone, as you’re merely elevating the brows you were born with. How to Get It: Wax or tweeze away the strays that fall below the orbital bone (that upper ridge of the eye socket). Atop the brow, strip away any fuzz. Tools & Upkeep: Fill gaps and add structure with a sturdy fine-tipped wax pencil; we like Kevyn Aucoin The Precision Brow Pencil ($26, kevynaucoin .com). Blend with a spoolie brush to blur edges, and set with transparent gel. If you’ve lost fullness with age, brow conditioners, like RevitaLash RevitaBrow Advanced ($110, revitalash .com), can speed regrowth. See a pro every four weeks to maintain the shape.

exaggerated angles give a sculpted look,” says Bailey. The bold shape and oftentimes contrived color make a statement, Madron notes, citing bleached-out or deeply dyed versions. Best For: Vintage girls, makeup enthusiasts— anyone with “the personality and style” to pull it off, says Madron. How to Get It: To amp things up, wax in small sections to create sharp lines and edges, says Bailey. A semipermanent tint can further boost depth and definition.

Tools & Upkeep: Stipple on a cream gel or pomade with an angled brush; apply a tinted brow mascara for extra drama and hold. Try BareMinerals Brow Master Brow Gel & Brush Duo ($28, bareminerals.com) and Missha Color Setting BrowCara ($11, misshaus .com). Book a shaping and tint every three weeks.

Best For: Oval faces, or anyone with finer features, as it’s not too overpowering, says Madron. How to Get It: Waxing, threading, or tweezing above the brow will lower and sleeken its appearance, Bailey says. Tackle below-brow strays without manipulating your arch, and trim any long or wiry hairs. Tools & Upkeep: Start with a pencil for structure, then enhance fullness with a bit of brow powder. Try Laura Mercier Eye Brow Pencil ($24, laura mercier.com) and Benefit Foolproof Brow Powder ($24, benefitcosmetics .com). Brush hairs up and out, then set with clear gel. Go for a grooming every three weeks.

subtle arch, and a greater contrast with regard to hair color” all characterize the beefy boy brow, Madron says. Best For: Those with bushy, virgin brows; strong, symmetrical features; and relatively young faces. “Full brows call attention to drooping eyes and expression lines,” she says. How to Get It: For maximum oomph, skip trimming and consider tinting: “If your brows are pale or fine-textured, a professional tinting can transform them for a much fuller look,” says Madron. Tools & Upkeep: For the biggest brows, apply a tinted, fiber-enriched brow gel, like Maybelline Brow Precise Fiber Volumizer ($10, maybelline.com), in both directions, says Madron, starting at the tail and working inward, and then moving in reverse, so all hairs are thoroughly coated, front and back. See a pro every six weeks.

Hallmarks: A natural shape,

lots of texture, and a fuller tail. “They’re brushed up and untrimmed, so you see soft points on the end of the hairs,” says Madron. Best For: Robust brows with a coarse texture and inherent cowlicks. “Big eyes are a match for this look, as the brow’s heft can overwhelm smaller lids,” says Madron. Thick, feathered brows also bring balance to heart-shaped faces. How to Get It: Wax or tweeze along the very base of the brow, being careful to maintain an organic feel. To build body, tint brows only slightly darker than your hair color. Tools & Upkeep: Brush on a little powder, and rake through with a spoolie. If you need to fake “hairs,” flick a skinny-tipped pencil through brows, in the direction of hair growth. Follow with clear gel, such as Mary Kay Brow Gel ($10, marykay .com), directing brows upward. Have a pro tend to arches every six weeks.

Tattooing your eyebrows sounds extreme, but the idea of minimal maintenance (for up to three years!) was too tantalizing to pass up. So I turned to Piret Aava (@Eyebrowdoctor). Here’s how it went: 1. A small blade deposited pigment just below the top layer of skin, in hairlike strokes, mimicking the natural brow. 2. The pain was moderate, like a pin dragging on skin. 3. The first week was an adjustment: As the dyes oxidized, brows looked über-dark, plus, there was no wetting the area. 4. But by day seven: Wow! So natural. Experienced pros ring in around $900. Pricey, yes, but you don’t want a newbie practicing on your face. —Melissa Milrad Goldstein

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Here are two words to memorize this fall: hyaluronic acid. This sugar molecule, which occurs naturally in skin, absorbs a thousand times its weight in water, so it acts like a sponge, holding onto moisture for soft, plump, happy skin—even if you identify as sensitive or oily. No wonder it’s playing a starring role in so many new skin smoothers. From left: MOISTURIZER Tatcha The Water Cream, $68, tatcha.com. MATTE MOISTURIZER L’Oréal Paris Hydra Genius Daily Liquid Care, $18, lorealparis.com. SERUM Dior Hydra Life Deep Hydration Sorbet Water Essence, $73, dior.com. SLEEPING MASK Dr. Jart+ Water Fuse Hydro Sleeping Mask, $48, sephora.com. BOOSTER Vichy Minéral 89, $30, vichyusa.com.

Bridal standby Bobbi Brown Retouching Loose Powder ($46, bobbibrown cosmetics.com) has gotten a makeover. The new spillproof mesh-topped packaging doles out the perfect amount, so skin becomes illuminated, redness is toned down, and complexions get a soft-focus finish without the fallout—or mess.

High Note They call them killer heels for a reason. To keep chafing and blisters at bay, we give Preheels ($15, preheels .com) two enthusiastic thumbs up. The spray creates an invisible barrier between the skin and shoe, alleviating friction and the inevitable irritation to heels, toes, and soles.

Wing It Despite what beauty vloggers claim, liquideyeliner application takes serious skill and finesse. So Shiseido is bringing ease and artistry to the cat eye, starting with its calligraphy-inspired brush ($28), which has a gently angled head that delivers bold and delicate lines with flair. Pair it with the Inkstroke Eyeliner ($30; both shiseido.com), a highly pigmented gel in six gorgeous shades.

Dream Creams Treat your gal pals to a gift that’s both functional and fragrant. Tokyo Milk Neptune & The Mermaid shea-butter and almond-oil hand creams ($22 each, tokyo-milk.com) soothe dry hands and uplift with their delicate scents. The pretty packaging alone is reason enough to lotion up.

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1. THE PRINCESS BRIDE For his wedding to Grace Kelly, Prince Rainier commissioned Creed to design a scent worthy of his betrothed. The latest from the 250-year-old perfume house is a decadent jasmine, amber, and sandal wood composition in an artful goldetched flacon. Creed White Amber parfum, $545, creedboutique.com. 2. THE BEACH BUM The juicy floral mix (ylang-ylang, jasmine, and peach) feels just right for warm-weather wear. But the addition of a fleur-de-sel note gives this scent a distinct seaside feel. Dior J’adore Injoy Eau de Toilette, $94, dior.com.

3. THE DREAMER England’s enchanted forests inspired this woodsy scent. Oak chips are washed and roasted, yielding a smoky-sweet concentrate that’s blended with hazelnut, cedar, and a twist of grapefruit. Jo Malone English Oak and Hazelnut Cologne, $135, jomalone.com.

5. THE HOPELESS ROMANTIC Inside this little blue box is a musky floral with iris at its heart. It’s an ode to the flower that inspired the garnet-and-sapphire brooch that won the iconic jewelry house the grand prize at the 1900 Paris Exposition. Tiffany & Co Eau de Parfum, $100, bloomingdales.com.

4. THE M IN I MALIST To capture the purity and freshness of a water droplet, the perfumer married marine notes with subtle touches of mandarin and lily of the valley. The result is clean, delicate, and modern. Issey Miyake L’Eau D’Issey Pure Eau de Toilette, $100, macys.com.

6. THE REBEL Dedicated to Gabrielle Chanel, the woman who turned fashion on its head, this namesake scent is just as free-spirited. At its core, a tawdry note: tuberose—a white flower that, legend has it, was banned in the Victorian era for aphrodisiac qualities. Chanel Gabrielle Eau de Parfum, $135, chanel.com.

7. THE FREE SPIR IT Forget everything you know about patchouli—the pungent oil with the hippie head-shop connotation. Alongside black amber, cacao, and musk, it morphs into a sexy and uniquely addictive scent. Byredo Velvet Haze Eau de Parfum, $150, byredo.com. 8. THE CALIFOR N IA GIRL This mint-and-eucalyptus-tinged perfume is a collaboration with scent authority Chandler Burr, and it’s inspired by his novel of the same name. The homage to Los Angeles is so fresh and crisp, you can almost feel the warm afternoon breeze in your hair. Etat Libre d’Orange You or Someone Like You, $52, luckyscent.com.

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The scent you wear down the aisle will likely be the same one you spritz on for every anniversary thereafter. Fragrance is a powerful memory trigger, so find one that sets your heart aflutter—yet still feels like you. Here are some glamorous new options. —MMG

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STYLE Gilding the stems and leaves of roses gives them an otherworldly opulence. T HE DE TAILS: Jamali Garden Gold pedestal bowl, $24, jamaligarden.com. West Elm 5-piece flatware set, in Gold, $39, westelm.com. Moser “Royal” red-wine glass and Champagne flute, $170 each, moserusa.com.

Gold Fusion Magenta—redder than purple, deeper than pink—is a passionate color. You can employ it in small doses, tempered by a muted palette, but pair it with gold—in big, generous splashes— and you’ll have a look worthy of your most dramatic day. T E X T B Y L A U R A WA L L I S P H O T O G R A P H S B Y G R A H A M P O L L A C K

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Put a Cherry on Top These grab-and-go desserts are essentially cake pops. But they’re the most sophisticated version your wedding guests may ever see. We coated chocolate-cake balls with marzipan, then gave them a distinctive cherry shape and a flawless finish by “airbrushing” them with tinted cocoa butter. A wooden “stem” (a skewer soaked in hot water and then wrapped around a jar to dry, giving it a slight bend) and a gum-paste leaf, coated in edible luster dust, double as a handle. Each treat sits atop an almond-shortbread cookie.

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Go for a Chic Suite Gleaming gold and dark-pink hues are softened by the warmth of pale-gray stationery in this sleek suite. The colors of the lettering, the gold beveled edges, and the coordinating envelope liners combine for a simple yet stylish effect. We turned to stationer bell’Invito’s online custom service to design the engraved invites and reply cards (price upon request, bellinvito.com); the “digital bespoke” templates are user-friendly and easy to customize, with a variety of printing, font, and paper options that compare to those of traditional custom stationers.

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Put on the Glitz A bouquet of rich blooms, tied with a wide magenta ribbon, is a bold bridal choice. To take it over the top, try the Midas touch: Use floral spray paint to gild the leaves and stems. Add a classic clutch that’s just big enough to hold your day-of essentials, and kick up your heels to reveal a glittering gold boot. This pair is comfortable enough for dancing all night. T HE DE TAILS : Bill Blass booties, in Gold Tinsel

Tweed, $228, billblass.com. Mark Cross “Grace Mini Box” bag with gold-plated crocodile stamp, $4,000, net-a-porter.com.

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Cut the Drama Simple tiers of cake, covered in smooth white fondant, are a perfect and elegant blank canvas. Bring those magenta blooms with gilded leaves into play here as well, for a showstopping cake-cutting moment. We used food-safe roses and gum-paste leaves, and coated them with edible luster dust. Add even more shimmer with gold dessert plates for an easy luxe touch. TH E D E TAILS: Philippe Deshoulieres “Carat Gold” coffee saucers, $85 each, fxdougherty.com.

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“We serve our pizzas with three different toppings: mozzarella with the classic basil and tomato; pepperoni; and a more sophisticated fig, leek, and shallot combination. For weddings, we customize the mini-pizza box lids with the couple’s names and the date.”

Taste Maker We’ve been big fans of New York City–based caterer Peter Callahan for years. His mini versions of favorite foods and other clever creations set a joyful tone for any celebration. In his new book, Party Food (Clarkson Potter/Publishers), he shares ideas and recipes for some of his most memorable and delicious bites. P H O T O G R A P H S BY C O N P O U LO S

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PARTY FOODS “I’ve become famous for miniaturized versions of comfort foods and hors d’oeuvres with wit and whimsy. My hors d’oeuvres aren’t complicated, but most are original ideas or twists on a classic item. I try to create food that makes an emotional connection with guests—that goes beyond being attractive and tasty. It often triggers favorite memories, reminding people of birthday cake from their youth, or summer nights at an ice cream stand. The connection is also achieved through styling. It often makes people smile when they see it. When done right, the presentation is about much more than food—it becomes a whole experience.”

Walking Paella Pan “This is one of our more unusual roaming services—paella served in oversize paella pans, fitted with straps so they can be carried. This is a classic with shrimp, mussels, cockles, and chorizo. We make the saffron rice and sauté the shrimp ahead of time. At the event, we steam the mussels and cockles and warm everything separately. Once everything is hot, we mix it all together and serve.”

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1. Peking Duck Steamed Buns “We roll the dough a bit thinner than we would for a full-size bun. The trick is to make the buns small, but with enough room for the filling without being too doughy.” 2. “Lobster” Bake “This mini version of a clambake can also serve as a first course. A small metal sand pail holds one whole cooked crayfish and two cooked, shelled crayfish tails; a salt-baked baby potato; and baby corn.” 3. Bacon and Maker’s Mark “We drill through the wax and the metal caps of mini bottles of Maker’s Mark and empty out the bourbon, which is then mixed with apple cider and sparkling water and funneled back into the bottle. We insert red straws and serve the bacon squares alongside.” 4. Meatball Subs “A meatball sub at full size could never be done at a party, but we shrink it down to about an inch and a half, shave a little bit of Parmesan over the top, and add a baby basil sprig.”

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Mini Affogato “This is a great dessert to kick off after-dinner festivities: It’s a coffee; it’s a dessert—it’s both. We serve it in mini stemless glasses for an attractive presentation. We put a scoop of frozen ice cream in the warm espresso, timed so the ice cream hasn’t all melted but is drinkable by the time it’s served. We do put a little spoon with it, but you don’t really need one—most people drink it like a shot.”

Photos and text reprinted from Peter Callahan’s Party Food: Mini Hors d’oeuvres, Family-Style Settings, Plated Dishes, Buffet Spreads, Bar Carts, by Peter Callahan. Copyright © 2017 by Peter Callahan. Photography copyright © 2017 by Con Poulos. Published by Clarkson Potter/ Publishers, an imprint of the Crown Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House LLC.

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2. Kelly Wearstler “Marquetry” fuchsia teacup and saucer, $49 and $23, pickard china.com. 3. Michael Wainwright “Tempio Luna” cup and saucer, in Gold, $120, michaelwainwright.com.

1. Raynaud “Tresor” espresso cup and saucer, in Blue, $152 and $68, devinecorp.net.

7. Wedgwood “Jasperware” teacup and saucer, in Black, $235, wedgwood.com.

4. Noritake “The Alta,” in Rose, $100 for a 5-piece set, noritake.com.

6. KPM “Arkadia” soup cup and saucer, $275, tableart online.com.

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This plate is inspired by kintsugi, a Japanese tradition in which broken pottery is repaired with gold, silver, or bronze lacquer.

Less Is More If your design aesthetic skews toward the understated and minimal, then unadorned and solid dishes and servingware will look right at home in your kitchen. Don’t want something totally one-note? Shiny gold or pearly iridescence adds a little flash. 1. Royal Doulton Barber & Osgerby’s “Olio” 10-inch platter, in Red, $86, royaldoulton.com. 2. TSE & TSE “Famished Crumble” large dish, $107, shophorne.com. 3. Rosanna “Let’s Party” plate, in Gold, $20, rosannainc.com. 4. Hubsch faceted bowls, $75 for a set of 5, jungleeny.com. 5. Jars “Reflets de Maguelone” plate, in Cream Peach (top), $42; and “Jardin de Maguelone,” in Truffle, $53, mottahedeh.com. 6. TSE & TSE “Thirsty” teacup, in Gold, $69, shophorne.com. 7. Mikasa “Coronado Terracotta” bowl and salad plate, in Pearl, $372 for a 16-piece dinnerware set, macys.com. 8. Michael Wainwright “Mezza” large platter, $120, michaelwainwright.com. 9. Wet Vessels by Aviva Rowley screw vessel vase, $150, wetvessels.com. 10. Hawkins New York “Simple Dinnerware” round mug, $24, hawkinsnewyork.com.

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Monograms are a great way to add a personalized touch. Pickard China offers them in 24 fonts.

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Banding Together These elegant dishes with contrasting trim are made for the classic couple who want their dining room to feel a little more formal (not the same as stuffy!). The abundance of white makes for a clean look—one that will easily mingle with something more embellished later, if you want to add. 1. Pickard “Georgian Colorsheen” black plate with platinum trim, $72, and Halo Home by KSW monogram, $20, pickardchina.com. 2. Richard Ginori “Contessa Onice” soup plate, $110, barneys.com. 3. Sieger by Fürstenburg “My China” flat pasta plate, $156; and dish cover, $530, both in Treasure Gold, gearys.com. 4. & 5. Vera Wang by Wedgwood “Venato Imperial” dinner plate, $33; and salad plate, $22, wedgwood.com. 6. Noritake “Ake & Sumi Komon” plates, in Orange and Black, $180 for a 5-piece set, noritakechina.com. 7. Rosanna “Luxe Moderne” large trophy bowl, $46, rosannainc.com. 8. Lenox “Contempo Luxe” scalloped dinner plate, $39, lenox.com. 9. Pickard “Colorsheen” black with platinum trim cup, $67; and saucer, $31, pickardchina.com. 10. Deshoulieres “Pharaon” cake platter, $250; coffee cup, $80; and coffee saucer, $40, biacordonbleu.bridgecatalog.com. 11. Martha Stewart Collection “Odyssey” collection, $560 for a 34-piece set, macys.com.

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The soft brushstroke design is meant to look like it’s circling a pupil (hence “Iris,” the name of the collection). 7

Feeling Refined Like a little extra personality in your place setting, but don’t want to go full-on pattern? Look for a style that doesn’t flaunt its flair—be it small polka dots, uneven squiggles, or a pastel floral motif. This look is fun and playful, and there’s still plenty of bare-naked plate to go ’round. 1. B by Brandie “Connelley” collection ringed soup bowl, $43, zola.com. 2. Rosenthal “ TAC Palazzo” plate, cup, and saucer, $200 for a 5-piece set, rosenthalusa-shop.com. 3. Herend “Connect the Dots” dinner plate, $135; and dessert plate, $110, herendusa.com. 4. Fürstenberg “Fluen” breakfast plate, $138, and soup plate, $190, in Shifting Colors, gearys.com. 5. J. Seignolles Limoges “Fil d’Or” cup and saucer, $175, mottahedeh.com. 6. Marie Daage “Iris” No. 1 dessert plate, in Black, $95, jungleeny.com. 7. Mikasa “Alaya” plates and cup, $129 for a 5-piece set, mikasa.com. 8. Kate Spade New York “Bridal Party” bud vase, $50, lenox.com.

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Pattern Play Calling all maximalists! Paint splatters, allover flowers, geometric shapes—welcome to the wild world of place settings, where the only rule is “Go bold or go home.” Whether you choose a dainty repeating pattern or a bigger motif, you’ll have no shortage of personality at the dinner table. 1. Hawkins NY “Jackson Dinnerware” serving platter, in Black, $108, shophorne.com. 2. Marimekko “Oiva/Unikko” coffee cup without handle, $39 for 2, marimekko.com. 3. & 4. Vista Alegre “Folkifunki” teapot, $135; and “Chicken” dinner plate, $45, vistaalegre.com. 5. Wedgwood “Renaissance Gold Scroll Accent” salad plate, $50, wedgwood.com. 6. Richard Ginori “Aurea” rectangular tray, $65; mug, $95; and saucer, $35, bergdorfgoodman.com. 7. Hermès “Tie Set” dinner plate, in Mint Green, $150; dessert plate, in Garnet, $115; and cup and saucer, in Garnet, $180, hermes.com. 8. Gien “Jardins Extraordinaires” teacup and saucer, $72, fxdougherty.com. 9. Rörstrand “Mon Amie” dinner plate, $22; and dessert plate, $20, zola.com.

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The PLANNER In This Section . . . Kids at the Wedding— Yea or Nay? How to Feel Your Best on Your Big Day Caribbean Locations Beyond the Beach Surprising Things You Can Rent Merging Your Money Your Last-Minute To-Do List Everything You Never Knew You Needed to Know About Tears Ask Martha

PICTURE PERFECT You know what they say: Pics or it didn’t happen. So you’ve hired a photographer to capture an album’s worth of beautiful wedding-day photographs. Great! But there’s more you can do to help guarantee good shots. We asked experts—including professional stylists, a makeup artist, and a photographer—to share their top tips for looking your best in wedding pictures (and any future photo ops, too). T E XT BY C L A I R E S U L L I VA N

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THE DRESS Don’t reinvent yourself. Sure, it’s your most special day ever, but if you choose a wedding-day style that simply makes you feel like a better version of yourself, you’ll be more comfortable and confident the day of—and that will come across in photos. “When you’re trying on dresses, notice your body language,” says Julie Sabatino, stylist and founder of the Stylish Bride. Pay attention to your fidgeting (patting your hips to prevent poofs, or pulling up a strapless bodice over and over), as well as your

facial expression, and opt for the gown that you feel relaxed and happy in.

MAKEUP AND HAIR Lay a Foundation “Sometimes the most important tools in your makeup arsenal are the things you don’t see,” says beauty expert Laura Geller. “Placing a thin, waterproof eye primer on your lids and around the bottom lashes will act like a magnet to keep the shadows and liners in place.” Brides with oily skin or those prone to a shiny complexion outdoors can opt (continued on following page)

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“Brides and bridesmaids tend to hold their bouquet up high, near their face, but this covers the torso—which can be unflattering,” says New York City–based photographer Jen Huang. Instead, position the bouquet lower, down around your belly button. Hold your arms with a slight bend to them and a finger’s length away from your body to engage your muscles for a leaner, stronger look.

for a matte allover face primer to keep makeup in place and prevent skin from reflecting the photographer’s flash.

Sculpt and Define “Sculpting your eyes, cheeks, and lips will prevent you from looking one-dimensional in photos,” Geller says. Lightly rim your eyes in liner (not too much, or your eyes won’t look as open), and apply a touch of highlighter to the tops of the cheekbones for added contour— just avoid using it elsewhere, so your face doesn’t look washed out. For lips, Geller swears by lip liner (even if it’s nude) after applying lipstick and gloss, which acts as a sort of stencil to keep it all in place.

Touch Up the Guys, Too “A matte primer is invisible,” says Geller. “It will reduce shine on a bald head or a receding hairline.” Men can also opt for a tinted moisturizer to help smooth out skin.

Brighten Up “Hair generally photographs darker than it is, which can flatten out the skin tone,” says hairstylist and New York City salon owner Adel Chabbi. “Highlighting your hair is a great way to add light and dimension to a hairstyle. If you’re not used to color, I recommend balayage, a process in which highlights are painted into the hair for a look that’s natural and flattering.”

Get Closer “When you’re trying to capture a large family shot, you want to give the idea of close relationships,” says Huang. She suggests standing as close together as possible, arms around each other. “I often ask family groups to stand uncomfortably close—it sounds humorous, but spaces between people can make it look like they don’t like each other. Touch and proximity are necessary to get a photo with a sense of intimacy.”

Shift Your Shape According to Huang, tight shoulders can stiffen up your entire body. “I always ask brides to take a deep breath and relax their shoulders,” she says. “Their entire mood changes, their posture improves, and the tension in their faces disappears, allowing for a natural, realistic expression.” Aim for Au Naturel When it comes to flattering facial expressions, natural is best, so don’t rush through your session, and follow your photographer’s cues to loosen up. “When I pose brides and grooms, I wait and watch for natural expressions, laughter, and conversation to spontaneously erupt,” says Huang. Asking a bride and groom to walk and kiss at the same time, say, often elicits giggles as they fumble around. It may feel a little silly, but it creates photo-friendly moments.

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Enlist Help “On professional photo shoots, you’ll have a photographer, makeup artist, and stylist,” says Sabatino. So why not have a team like this for your wedding? “Designate a friend or hire a professional to help keep long dresses away from any dirt, straighten bow ties, and help everyone look their best.”

“If you’re doing a first look, consider taking a little breather right after. Even though a first look is intimate, you’ve often got photographers and videographers pointing lenses your way and people focusing on you. So take a moment alone for the two of you to connect and enjoy each other.” —Shira Savada, real weddings editor

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Should We or Shouldn’t We? HAVE KIDS AT THE WEDDING The more the merrier, or no kids allowed? To help you decide, we sought advice from couples who did and didn’t include little guests, and a planner who’s seen it all.

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TIPS FOR FEELING YOUR BEST THE MORNING OF Nutritionist and best-selling health author Kimberly Snyder suggests a combo of rest, exercise, and smart choices for meals. Prep for Sleep For quality z’s the night before your wedding, focus on calming your senses. Turn off electronics about an hour before sleep, and skip the latenight snack. “Try to have your last meal three to four hours before bed.” Still awake? “Try a few drops of lavender, ylang-ylang, or citrus essential oil on your pillow.”

Drink Lemon Water To help keep your tummy settled, have a mug of hot lemon water when you wake, and sip a chilled version throughout the day. “Lemon benefits digestion and can reduce bloating.”

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“We initially decided no kids except flower girls and the ring bearer, but ended up stretching the list for those who otherwise couldn’t come. I don’t think anyone noticed them running around—I definitely didn’t, anyway! The kids were well-behaved during the ceremony, and at the reception they had their own table and mostly kept to themselves, playing yard games outside. One of my nieces wanted to dance with me all night, which was so special.” —Michelle Reigle, married to Dallas Reigle

“We let each family decide if they wanted to bring children along. Our planner recommended a babysitting service, which we hired for our venue. That way, parents could check on kids during the reception and the babysitter was close by. The kids actually gravitated toward one another, so they wanted to be with the sitter instead of the adults. Everyone was able to enjoy the party, and I think the kids had a great time, too!” —Leigh Crandall, married to Roberto Baibich

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“We decided not to invite children, with the one exception of my 4-month-old niece. One of the reasons we made the decision was based on my experiences at weddings where kids distracted other guests and caused parents to stress over keeping their children quiet. We let our guests know by addressing the invitations to parents only, and we made it a blanket rule to avoid any hurt feelings. We had an evening reception, so in many ways it ended up being nice for our friends with young kids to have a chance to enjoy themselves.” —Rachel Gantz, married to Ken Gantz

“Discuss it as you’re shaping the vision for your event, then stay consistent rather than excluding some children but not all. If you exclude kids, address the invitation appropriately, and consider a follow-up call to communicate your reasoning (for example, you’re having a formal sit-down dinner) and smooth over any disappointment. If you include kids, consider providing child care or seating them in a special space. Incorporate details that will create a fun experience (a separate play space, an activity at their seats, a creative meal designed just for them) and make them feel special, too.” —Stefanie Miles of Stefanie Miles Events

“Exercise can improve circulation and boosts your mood, so allot time for a workout.” No need to go overboard—a 30-minute yoga session, brisk walk with your ’maids, or solo jog will calm nerves and provide a healthy glow. Just allow plenty of cool-down time.

Get a Massage “Massage helps relieve stress and promotes a better complexion.” Hire a masseuse for a bit of pampering, or go DIY: “Mix coconut or sesame oil with hot water and massage your entire body in the direction of your heart before hitting the shower.”

Eat for Energy Simplify your meals so you feel energized and satisfied but not overly full. Try a green smoothie for breakfast, and for lunch, go for an all-veggie soup or a light, fiber-filled salad with avocado.

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BEYOND THE BEACH If you love the idea of gathering your nearest and dearest for a destination wedding on a beautiful island, but you aren’t into a beach aesthetic for the actual day, don’t give up your rum drink just yet. These five Caribbean sites offer stunning alternatives to sand and surf. T E X T B Y L E I G H C R A N D A L L

Old San Juan, Puerto Rico Housed in a circa-1646 convent in the charming historic district of Puerto Rico’s capital, this Spanish Colonial boutique hotel is ideal for couples drawn to old-world romance. Host your ceremony and cocktail hour for up to 200 guests in the openair courtyard, then move inside to the Salon Campeche, which features black-and-whitecheckered floors and a beautiful mural painted in the 17th century that makes a perfect backdrop for photos. While You’re There: Organize a group visit to Laguna Grande (one of only five bioluminescent bays on the planet) in Fajardo—the trip begins at sunset with kayaking down a canal of mangroves that opens onto a lagoon where the organisms glow once night falls. T HE DETAILS: Weddings from $120 per person, oldsanjuan weddings.com.

2. Belle Mont Farm at Kittitian Hill Kittitian Hill, St. Kitts This 400-acre farm in the hills of St. Kitts is at the forefront of the Caribbean farm-to-table movement, with 90 percent of its provisions grown on-site.

Because of its size, Belle Mont Farm is one of the rare island venues that can host huge weddings (two thousand people). Venues run throughout the property, but we’d opt for a reception at the farm’s Great House, which features sweeping views of Mount Liamuiga. While You’re There: In keeping with its mission of sustainability, Kittitian Hill’s 18-hole golf course also serves as part of the farm, with organic crops and fruit trees lining the greens. After a round, head to lunch at Arthur’s, the latest addition to the farm’s culinary roster, where freshly caught seafood is served on the blacksand beach in Dieppe Bay.

include the services of a dedicated “celebration consultant,” who’s handy for sorting out details from afar, and can include extras like a fireworks display or a Junkanoo Rush, a local tradition in which colorfully costumed stilt dancers and acrobats accompany musicians playing drums, whistles, bugles, and horns. While You’re There: You may recognize this property from the Bond film Casino Royale, much of which was filmed there. Welcome guests (and pay tribute to 007) with a cocktail party and croquet on the lawn. Drinks—shaken, not stirred—are mixed by the hotel’s popular Martini Bar.

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3. The Versailles Garden at One&Only Ocean Club Nassau, Bahamas If you love the romance of a garden wedding, this luxury resort’s elegant Versailles Garden is a must-see. The terraced design, adorned with tropical blooms and European sculptures, is capped off by a 12thcentury Augustinian cloister. Weddings for up to 200 guests

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St. John, USVI Situated on 170 acres within Virgin Islands National Park, this boutique hotel offers weddings for up to 40 guests within the ruins of an 18th-century sugar mill located on the property. It has no roof, so the starry sky provides a naturally romantic atmosphere. The hotel will take care of catering, with island-y options like conch fritters and

local queen snapper, as well as wedding cake (we’d order the coconut infused with Cruzan rum). While You’re There: Charter a local catamaran for a day sail to the British Virgin Islands. Start with a snorkel at Sandy Cay, and end with drinks at Soggy Dollar beach bar on Jost Van Dyke. THE DETAILS: Weddings from $3,500, caneel bay.com.

5. St. Nicholas Abbey St. Peter, Barbados Built in the 1650s, St. Nicholas Abbey hosts weddings for up to 350 on its lush estate, set among the verdant tropical forest and sugarcane fields of Barbados. Hold your ceremony in the courtyard beneath a giant 400-year-old sandbox tree, then move to the Rum Bond & House Museum, where guests can sip rum made on the estate while dancing the night away on the terrace. While You’re There: For the welcome dinner, take guests to the Friday-night fish fry in the town of Oistins, where locals and visitors gather for plates of fresh seafood and live music. T H E DE TA I LS : Weddings from

$125 per person, stnicholas abbey.com.

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Saying “I do” in a sparse loft and eager to warm it up? Instant architecture to the rescue, via Found Rentals. Call in a Venetian iron arch, an antique paneled mantel, or a set of vibrant five-foot-tall columns to flank your cake table. Owner Jeni Maus has been sourcing these beauties, any of which will lend some chic gravitas to the most minimalist venues, from around the world. Rental minimum $500, foundrentals.com.

Whether you want to hang rainbow-hued Otomi fabric behind the altar, lay banana-leaf runners across guest tables, or offer up Thai indigo napkins alongside your buffet, there’s a rental for that. The Hostess Haven’s medley of soft goods for the table offers a wide variety of top-quality options brimming with character. Rental minimum $1,000, hostesshaven .com.

From a croquet set for lawn games during cocktail hour to a bicycle built for two for your first portrait as newlyweds, props can add immeasurable fun and interest to your event. Blue Eyed Yonder, in Atlanta, offers antique finds both large and small, and features an online gallery of ideas to spark your creativity. Rental minimum $500, blueeyedyonder.com.

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If plain plates aren’t for you, head to L.A.’s Casa de Perrin, where patterned chargers, designer dishware, and vintage glasses are curated with the intention of mixing and matching. Antique silver and vintage trays round out the appealing assortment. Rental minimum $500, casadeperrin .com.

Move aside, predictable Chiavari chairs. Cali-based Yeah! Rentals provides seating by iconic midcentury designers, plus modern options from Knoll and Tolix, as well as its own line of colorful, fashion-forward seats. If you’re planning outdoor lounge areas, there are casual, cozy-making extras like Moroccan poufs, campfire stools, and even fire pits. From $12.50 per chair per day, yeahrentals.com.

For eco-friendly botanicals that live on beyond your wedding, Berkeley, California– based Plant Library loans out towering, lush fiddlehead ferns, succulents, and citrus trees to spruce up the day-of décor. Choose from rustic terra-cotta planters, modern white vessels, or matte-gray pots for a houseplants-gone-wild look (in the best possible way). Starting at $500 for pickup, $1,500 for delivery, theplantlibrary.com.

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48 HOURS TO GO! Almost there! Check off these last-minute to-dos, then take care of the most important task: enjoying your day. PROVIDE A FINAL HEADCOUNT Confirm the number of guests with your caterer. DROP OFF DÉCOR AND OTHER DETAILS Transport anything you’re providing to the venue, such as favors or a cake server, and hand off guests’ welcome bags to the hotel concierge.

You’ve said your vows, but should you marry your finances, too? Experts weigh in on merging your money. T E X T B Y J A I M E B U E R G E R When it comes to managing money as newlyweds, there is no one-size-fitsall formula. But there are guidelines that every couple should consider when deciding what will work best for them. As Stephanie Genkin, a New York City financial advisor and founder of investment advisory service My Financial Planner, points out, “Marriage isn’t just a romantic union; it’s an economic one as well.”

CHECKING The experts agree: Open a joint checking account, but keep your separate accounts, too. “Think of it as three buckets: yours, mine, ours,” says Farnoosh Torabi, a Brooklyn-based financial journalist and host of the So Money podcast. Most people heading into marriage have established financial independence, and the last thing they would want is to have to get permission before splurging on a new purse or treating coworkers to a round at happy hour. To account for differences in

salaries, Torabi recommends that both people contribute the same percentage, rather than a lump sum, to the joint account, which should cover common expenses like rent, groceries, and utility bills.

SAVINGS

If you already have your own savings account, it’s fine to keep it. But when it comes to saving for common short-term goals—like buying a new car, taking a vacation, or buying a home—your best bet is to pile your money together in one account, which is also good for depositing any cash gifts you received at your wedding. For retirement savings, both people should keep contributing to their own accounts, whether they have company- sponsored 401(k)s or IRAs. “Make those savings ‘ours’ by listing each other as beneficiaries,” says Torabi, who also likes brokerage accounts, which give you more investment choices via stocks, bonds, and

mutual funds but—unlike a 401(k)—let investors make penalty-free withdrawals.

CREDIT CARDS While it may not be particularly romantic, discussing each other’s credit history and score is an important step to take before you’re married, so there are no surprises later and you can create a plan for building your financial life together. Hitching your credit to your spouse’s can be the right call if one person is looking to raise his or her credit score or build credit history. “The person with stellar credit can make her spouse an authorized user on the card without actually issuing a second card,” Genkin says. Over time, that partner would see an increase in credit score just from being associated with the account. Why that matters: If you plan on buying a house together, you can borrow more at lower rates when both of you have credit scores you can be proud of.

PREP FOR THE HONEYMOON If you’re leaving the day after your I do’s, go ahead and get packed beforehand. PICK A POINT PERSON Assign a responsible bridesmaid, friend, or family member to field day-of guest inquiries, pass out tips to vendors, collect any cards or gifts left at the reception, and keep track of legal documents, like your wedding license. HIT THE DRUGSTORE Assemble a wedding-day kit that contains essentials like bobby pins, bandages, ibuprofen, breath mints, and fashion tape. DRAFT AN ITINERARY Either you or your planner should email your attendants a timeline of the day’s schedule, including where to be and when for group photos. BRING BACKUP Print copies and email yourself pertinent details, like vendor phone numbers, your vows, and the photographer’s must-get shot list so they won’t be hard to find. BEAUTIFY To be sure they’ll look fresh, go for mani-pedis the day before the wedding. —Jaime Buerger

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BRING YOUR OVERNIGHT BAGS If you’re staying in a hotel after the reception, leave your suitcases with the front desk ahead of time.

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Weddings are emotional, and a few (okay, many) happy tears will inevitably be spilled. Embrace a good cry with these tips. T E X T B Y L I N D S AY G O L D E N B E R G J O N E S

CRY FOR ME Ian Gotler, cofounder of the L.A.-based DJ company RedShoe, picks the songs that elicit the most tears at weddings. PAR E N T DANCE S “You’ve Got a Friend,” James Taylor “Few songs tastefully articulate a parent’s love for a child. This track has that in spades.” “Stand by Me,” Ben E. King “There’s only a handful of songs that people from every generation can identify by the first couple of notes. This is one of them.” FIRST DANC ES “Forever,” Ben Harper “Soul-searching lyrics and an unmistakable voice showcase strength and fragility at once.” “The Luckiest,” Ben Folds “This song came out in 2001 and still gets everyone choked up.”

Most of our tears are produced by the lacrimal glands, which are located inside each upper lid.

HANKIES ON HAND Even if you don’t think of yourself as a crier, it’s helpful to have a handkerchief at the ready, should you get choked up during the ceremony. While you can ask your MOH or officiant to hold it for you, wedding planner Jolene Peterson of Laurel & Rose loves watching a bride and groom provide handkerchiefs for each other. “We’ve seen some perfect photo ops when the groom pulls out a hanky and helps wipe away his bride’s happy tears.” Our favorite sources for handkerchiefs 1. Bumblebee Linens 2. Etsy 3. The Handkerchief 4. Mark and Graham

JUST BREATHE Robin Roberts, a mind/body psychotherapist in Los Angeles, says that nature has a “pause button” for crying: “When tears start, extend each exhalation a little, softly blowing through your mouth,” she says. “You’ll arrive at a still point and start to calm down.”

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Ensure your makeup stays put with these tearproof tips. New York City– and Los Angeles– based makeup artist Stacie Ford says the best way to keep makeup tearproof is to use mineral-based, water-resistant primers before you apply makeup, then add waterproof eyeliners, mascaras, and a clear waterproof topcoat on lashes “for an extra layer of protection.” The final and most important step? Set it! “I recommend using a setting spray that mattes the skin’s surface and locks in the makeup while resisting moisture,” she says.

When you start to well up, Chicagobased wedding makeup artist Carly Pribich tells brides, avoid rubbing or wiping. Instead, “lightly dab the tears with your finger.” To touch up after a cry, Ford recommends using a latex-free sponge to absorb moisture, and makeup-eraser sticks (cotton swabs prefilled with makeup remover) to remove smudges under the eyes. “You can then proceed with a lightweight setting or blotting powder to freshen up the skin.”

ES S E N T I A L RO MA N T I C TEA RJ ER KE R S 1. The Notebook 2. Love Story 3. Sleepless in Seattle 4. Ghost 5. Titanic 6. Brokeback Mountain 7. West Side Story 8. The Fault in Our Stars

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TOP TEAR According to Peterson, the three moments when waterworks are most likely to occur during a wedding are: 1. The ceremony. “Especially during the vows, the couple and guests being moved to tears is common,” she says. 2. The first look. Peterson encourages clients to do this preceremony to help keep emotions in check during the walk down the aisle. 3. Personal toasts from parents. “The best ones don’t leave a dry eye in the room.”

There are three types of tears: basal, which are in our eyes all the time to lubricate them; reflex, which are formed due to an irritant, such as dust or onions; and emotional, like those shed at weddings!

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This sustainable suite, printed on 100 percent–cotton paper, was created for us by luxury stationer Wiley Valentine (wileyvalentine.com).

Ask Martha Wedding wisdom and practical solutions for all your pressing questions

A: The list of printed materials for your wedding—save-thebe long. And these pieces are often a beautiful part of the look and style of your day. But if your goal is reducing environmental impact, there are ways to have your paper and be Earth-friendly, too. “Consider emailing the savethe-date,” says Juliette Fagerwold, planner and owner of San Diego-based Simply Elegant Weddings. This is typically a more casual piece, and you can establish the theme of the day in a fun, relaxed way. Send a simple email, or use an online service, like Paperless Post, to design your digital message. As for the formal invitation, “emailing a wedding invitation is still not considered proper etiquette,” Fagerwold

says. But there are ways to reduce the amount of printed materials you use. She suggests a modern take with just “one envelope, one invitation, and one insert card that directs guests to your wedding website.” Information typically included on extra inserts, such as a map, lodging, and transportation options, can live on the site. On the day of, some couples omit paper components like programs and menus altogether, but you can include them and make a diﬀerence by using environmentally friendly paper and ink. “Beyond recycled materials, cotton papers are a great option, since it’s a natural, renewable resource,” says Rachelle Schwartz, co-owner of California-based luxury stationer Wiley Valentine. And, she says, soy-, rubber-, and water-based inks

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What’s an eco-friendly approach to invitations and other printed materials? —Victoria, via email

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are all green choices. Overall, let your eco-friendly approach inspire you to think creatively. “For example, menus that double as place cards will cut down on the pieces needed,” says Schwartz, “and make the menus extra-special.”

hand creams—should be cleaned professionally,” says Kwiat. If you have any doubts at all, ask a pro.

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Q: We’re trying to decide between having a band

Will this restrict the types of flowers we can use? —Lauren, via email

and a DJ for our reception. What should we consider? —Rachel, via email

A: While the season may limit your selection of locally

A: Think big picture: The music at your wedding should suit

grown blooms, flowers are increasingly available yearround—they’ll just be shipped in from warmer locales, like New Zealand. Flowers such as roses, lilies, and orchids are practically seasonless and steadily priced throughout the year. “One of the few things that’s strictly season-speciﬁc is blooming branches, which are only available in spring,” says our style director, Naomi deMañana. Otherwise, the sky’s the limit, as long as you’re willing to ship from afar. If you’d rather not do so, one alternative is to replace some floral elements with foliage. Draping a garland along family-style tables can dress up the setting just as much as a traditional centerpiece (see page 52 for a styling idea). “Flowers that naturally bloom in a given season and plants and greenery that grow in the area where you are marrying always look more natural to the environment and time of year,” says deMañana. For ideas making use of the best blooms of winter, visit marthastewart weddings .com/winter-ﬂowers.

the feel of the day. “A band dressed in tuxes with a large horn section might not be a fit for everyone, but it would be a great complement to a ballroom black-tie wedding,” says California-based planner Alexandra Kolendrianos. A beach wedding or a garden party, on the other hand, might call for a very different sound. Consider which tunes you want to dance the night away to—a DJ can play just about anything (interview those you’re considering to see if they’re open to your song selections), whereas a band might have limitations. “Look at repertoire lists to see if they play the range of genres that you like,” Kolendrianos says. The venue itself can also affect your choice. “Depending on size and instrumentation, most bands will need about 12 by 24 feet of space on the stage, factoring in speakers and a mixing board off to the side,” says Kolendrianos. A DJ, on the other hand, can fit in a much smaller space. And then there’s the question of price; a DJ is almost always a more affordable option. Either way, make sure you are clear on what’s included in the fee—some bands —MARTHA STEWART WEDDINGS SENIOR FASHION EDITOR JESSICA KING and DJs may not come fully equipped, necessitating additional tech rentals.

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Q: My engagement ring is vintage, but my wedding band is new. Is there a difference in the way I should care for each of them? —Meredith, via email

A: All jewelry should be treated with care. However, “modern jewelry is typically more durable than vintage, because it’s designed to withstand today’s lifestyle,” says Greg Kwiat, CEO of New York City–based jeweler Kwiat. Ask your jeweler about the band style and setting of your engagement ring and any special care they require, as certain vintage pieces demand more attention than others. “For example, Georgianstyle rings with closed-back settings should not get wet, and pieces from the art nouveau period are very ornate and easily damaged,” says Kwiat. The gemstones in the jewelry can also affect care. “Diamond jewelry can be cleaned with a soft toothbrush and soapy water, but stones like turquoise, emeralds, and pearls—which shouldn’t even be exposed to

Q: Do I have to wear a floor-length gown for my formal ceremony? —Alex, via email

A: It depends on what you mean by

“formal,” and how explicit you are in your dress code on the invitation. For example, if yours says “black tie,” guests might be surprised to see you in a tealength dress, so you may want to keep the language looser. (To learn about dress codes and what they mean, go to martha stewartweddings.com/decode-dress-codes.) But generally, wedding attire has few hard-and-fast rules these days—even for the bride. Many women are opting for dresses in cuts or colors that match their personal style instead of the traditional white ﬂoor-length gown. Almost anything can be considered “formal” except a mini, according to our senior fashion editor, Jessica King. “You could wear a satin tuxedo or even a great jumpsuit,” she says. And if you’re worried you might look more casual than your guests, go for dressy fabrics like satin or intricate embellishments to elevate your look. “Then you can amp it up with accessories or a pop of color,” says King. “Great shoes, a red lip, statement earrings, or a fur capelet can go a long way.”

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T H E DE TAI LS: Ines Di Santo “Elena” gown, $7,390, markingramatelier.com. Eugenia Kim “Atlas” hat, $465, shopbop.com.

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“Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it.” —YVES SAINT LAURENT

S EN D R I PPLES First a murmur, then a collective gasp—that’s the sound you’ll hear as you glide down the aisle in Alyne by Rita Vinieris’s aptly named “Brilliant” dress ($2,425, alynebridal .com). Is it the rosy lavender color, the soft ruched bodice flowing into a sweeping skirt, or your leg peeking through the sophisticated slit? We think it’s all of the above. THE DETAILS: Ileana Makri “Deco Escape” gold-and-diamond earrings, $14,415, ileanamakri.com. Lizzie Mandler 18k white-gold diamond ring, price upon request, lizziemandler.com.

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NATURAL WONDERS F E W T H I N G S I N L I F E M A K E YO U R B R E AT H C ATC H A N D YO U R H E A R T S TO P. T H E R E ’ S T H E M O M E N T Y O U R E A L I Z E YO U ’ R E I N LO V E . T H E S I G H T O F A M A J E S T I C V I S TA . T H E F E E L I N G O F S L I P P I N G I N TO A G O W N T H AT T U R N S YO U I N T O A B R I D E . E A C H E N S E M B L E H E R E , S H O W N AG A I N S T T H E W I N D S W E P T D U N E S O F T H E W H I T E S A N D S N AT I O N A L M O N U M E N T, H A S T H E P O W E R TO S T U N O N S I G H T. A N D O N YO U R W E D D I N G D AY, S O W I L L YO U .

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TA K E A P LU N G E There’s a drop-dead V-neck for every style: Whether you’re an iconoclast who wants to strut her stuff in Sachin & Babi’s “Esperanza” floral jacquard coatdress with matching cigarette pants ($3,995, sachinandbabi .com), or, opposite, a glam goddess drawn to the luxe fabric and slinky shape of Liancarlo’s “6892” mattecrepe sheath ($3,095, liancarlo.com), go ahead, dive in. T H E DETA ILS : Alexandre Birman “Eloise” platform sandals, in Black Suede, $695, nordstrom.com. Opposite: Elizabeth Locke turquoise scarab ring, $2,975, Neiman Marcus, 800-937-9146.

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AD D SOM E SW E E T When you prefer your sugar with a little bit of spice—and who doesn’t?—look for a charming sweetheart neckline that includes some sultry surprises. Naeem Khan’s “Dover” ($15,995, Bergdorf Goodman, 212-753-7300) gets wow factor from sequined fabric, a flirty peplum, and a tea-length hem, which shows off bold shoes. Opposite, Angel Sanchez’s crepe showstopper ($4,840, angel sanchezusa.com) has an illusion cutout and floral appliqué bodice. But the real drama comes from the color—black is the new white, popping up all over bridal runways this season. THE DETAILS: Jennifer

Fisher “Samira” hoops, $650, jenniferfisherjewelry.com. Laura Preshong “Charlotte” brilliant-cut engagement ring, $1,875 (not including center stone), laurapreshong.com. Stuart Weitzman “Nudist” sandals, in Black, $415, stuartweitzman .com. Opposite: SheBee XL oval diamond hoops, $2,600; and 14k white-gold ball ring, $1,690, shebee.com. A.Jaffe east/west platinum engagement ring, $2,390 (not including center stone), ajaffe.com.

GIVE TH E BOLD S HO U LDE R An off-the-shoulder silhouette is a timeless look, guaranteed to turn heads. (Think John Singer Sargent’s painting of Madame X.) Not only does the neckline spotlight your radiant face, it’s also spare enough to set off intricate details, like the gathers on Oleg Cassini’s textured silk-charmeuse cape (sold with a matching bandeau and skirt; $4,296, 212-753-7540), or, opposite, the layers of pearls that frame Lela Rose’s “The Windsor” gown ($5,995, lelarose.com). Whichever you choose, you’ll be as pretty as a picture.

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MAK E A SCEN E The right details can make a wedding-day ensemble as atmospheric and iconic as a classic movie. Kelly Faetanini’s “Portia” pairs a long-sleeved black Chantilly-lace top with an ivory silk stretch-satin skirt (also available in all ivory; $2,675, kellyfaetanini.com)— the beginning of a beautiful friendship. Opposite, sweeping ruffles, a high neck, and a trailing black bow give Vera Wang’s “Claire” gown (price upon request, verawang.com) the sweet-meets-chic vibe of Audrey Hepburn in Sabrina. T H E DE TA I LS: Amrapali “Jaipur ” tourmaline earrings, $8,655, legend amrapali.com. David Yurman “Unity” platinum engagement ring, price upon request, david yurman.com. Opposite: Mateo New York graduated-pearl hoop earrings, $1,550, mateo newyork.com.

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SH IM MER AN D S H I N E The setting sun is magnificent and romantic, and casts everyone in a flattering light. The same can be said of these looks, which will bring magic-hour radiance to any ceremony. Jenny Packham’s ensemble sparkles, thanks to the pearls, sequins, and beads of its ornate top, which finds a perfect match in streamlined, menswear-inspired trousers (top, $4,200; and pants, $1,065, jennypackham .com). Opposite, Carolina Herrera’s “Fabienne” gown ($7,490, carolinaherrera .com) gets its luster from the sheen of double-faced satin falling from eyecatching black straps (which also come in ivory). THE DETAILS Opposite: Laura

Preshong “Jenny” diamond baguette halo ring, $2,845 (not including center stone), laurapreshong.com.

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B R EA K TH E RULES Dilemma: You want a gown that’s timeless but also modern. Solution: a classic silhouette reimagined with stunning twists. Atelier Pronovias’s “Renace” crepe gown (price upon request, pronovias.com) updates the sheath with a bateau neckline and sheer tulle geometric peekaboo side panels. Opposite, Reem Acra’s silk-georgette number (price upon request, 212-421-3200) looks like a grand ball gown—but is really a black turtleneck dress with crystal-studded sleeves and a second-skin fit under a billowing overskirt, a combination more drama-queen than fairy-princess. THE DETA ILS : By Boe 14k gold and oxidized sterling silver “Mega-Swaying Arches” earrings, $300, byboe .com. Lizzie Mandler 18k rose-gold diamond ring, price upon request, lizziemandler .com. Opposite: Tacori “RoyalT” diamond-and-platinum ring, $7,990 (not including center stone), tacori.com.

TA K E A S P I N Your taste in clothes has evolved since you were a girl, but picking the dress that makes you want to twirl is still the right move. Maybe it’s Elisabetta Polignano’s “Mora” ($3,300, elisabettapolignano .com), with a sheer Chantillylace and tulle skirt that whirls along with you, or, opposite, the pearl and crystal garlands draped all over Monique Lhuillier’s “Samantha” ($14,900, monique lhuillier.com), which swing and sway with every step you take. THE DETAILS: Mateo New York onyx parallel-bar ring, $675, mateonewyork.com.

Art direction by Michael McCormick. Styling by Jessica King. Additional styling (jewelry) by Colleen Banks. Produced by Dawn Sinkowski. Hair by Toni Chavez for The Only.Agency using Leonor Greyl Paris. Makeup by Erin Lee Smith at Atelier Management using Diorshow makeup. Location: White Sands National Monument.

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Like fashion designers, the best florists have styles all their own. Meet nine of them here. We asked these New York–based florists to dream up a bouquet or an arrangement and share some of their secrets— and the haute-couture results are worthy of any runway. P H OTOG R A P H S BY N G O C M I N H N GO T EX T BY LE I G H C RANDALL

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BOLD AN D BR IG HT Ariella Chezar of Ariella Chezar Design, ariellaflowers.com. THE AR RANGE M E NT: Inspired by this exotic-bloom-patterned Christian Lacroix fabric, Chezar created a colorful centerpiece that includes several varieties of tulips, ranunculus, anthuriums, carnations, muscari, and gerbera daisies. Chevron-patterned dishes that echo the candy stripes of the fabric complete the look, making for a whimsical yet sophisticated vibe. H OW SHE GOT HER START: While studying classical voice, Chezar visited a family friend who was preparing flowers for a wedding. “In that moment, I realized that working with flowers was exactly what I wanted to do,” she says. FAVOR ITE MUSIC TO DES IGN TO : “Anything by Bach, Schumann, Brahms. . .” WHEN SHE’S NOT DESIGN ING, YOU CAN FIND HER: On her sustainable farm in upstate New York. “Growing your own flowers is the ultimate treat, particularly for someone with an insatiable flower appetite.” WH O :

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A TASTE FOR THE DRAMATIC Lewis Miller of Lewis Miller Design, lewismillerdesign.com. TH E ARRANGEMENT: Miller was drawn to the luxurious, contemporary pairing of black and gold. “Velvety chocolate cosmos, viburnum steel berries, and inky fritillaria create shadows, while tulips from my garden add pops of light,” he says. Mimic the look for a chic, but not overly feminine, table. SIGNATURE ST YLE: “I use contrasting elements that keep the eye moving and engaged. If I’m working with big, floppy flowers, like roses and peonies, I’ll introduce a masculine element, like a fruiting branch.” B R EAKTH ROUGH PROJECT: “My first arrangement under my own name, an all-green arrangement—no flowers. It was lush, spiky, fuzzy, and herbal, and was my way of blazing my own path.” INSPIRED BY: “Travel. I recently visited Casa Luis Barragán in Mexico City. His use of color and light took my breath away.” WHO :

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LOVE STORY Nicolette Owen of Nicolette Camille Floral Design, nicolettecamille.com. TH E BOUQ UET: Owen wanted to capture the exuberant spirit of a garden. “Nothing too forced or fussy, but a little wild and opulent,” she says. Here, the first flush of California garden roses is paired with lilacs, ranunculus, hellebores, peonies, and fritillaria. We find the result wildly romantic. HOW SHE GOT HER START: “I grew up in the Hudson Valley, spending days in my mother’s garden and cutting my grandmother’s lilacs. My first flower job was at a tiny bucket shop in California, where I worked and learned for two years, and then I moved back to New York and opened my studio in 2006.” WH EN SHE ’S NOT DESIGNI NG, YOU CAN FIND HER: “Teaching! I run a flower school (littleflowerschoolbrooklyn.com), and I love it because I often learn things from the novices in class. They come up with combinations I wouldn’t necessarily have thought to try.” WHO :

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RETRO GLAM Marisa Competello of Metaflora, metafloranyc.com. THE ARRANGEMENT: Competello combined Bismarck leaves painted gold with anthuriums and king protea in a large vase, while phalaenopsis orchids spill out from a smaller vessel. An ostrich-feather pen sits at the ready atop a guest book and, against the high contrast of black-and-white stripes, the whole tableau is easy to imagine at the entrance to a formal-but-not-stuffy black-tie wedding. INSPIRED BY: The ’80s. “I love the decadence and bold colors of that period,” says Competello, who also collects vintage vessels. FIRST FLORAL GIG: “I had a flower stand instead of a lemonade stand growing up. I would sell neighborhood-foraged daffodils and tulips, wrapped up in tissue paper.” B LOO MS FR EQ UENTLY FEATURED I N HER INSTAGRAM FEED : Heliconia, anthuriums, and calla lilies. “Basically the weird ones. The weirder the better.” WH O:

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WILD CHILD Taylor Patterson of Fox Fodder Farm, foxfodderfarm.com. THE BO UQUET: “I like to mix high and low,” says Patterson, borrowing a phrase often used for fashion. “So there’s Queen Anne’s lace and dried grasses, but also some fancy tiny Japanese orchids.” Patterson also included scabiosa seedpods, yellow heuchera leaves, and pops of blue in the form of delphiniums, all tied together with a black-velvet ribbon—for the bride who wants to walk that line of civilized rusticity. FIRST FLORAL GIG: Selling potted plants in Mason jars at the Brooklyn Flea. DR EAM CLIENT: Dries van Noten. “I love his aesthetic. His clothes manage to feel both timeless and avant-garde.” SIGNATURE ST YLE : “There’s a simplicity to things I’m drawn to. I tend to make things that are more airy than dense.” S ECR ET FARM FANTASY: “Moving to the south of France to grow lavender. There would probably be some goats, too.” WHO:

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UNTAMED BEAUTY Emily Thompson of Emily Thompson Flowers, emilythompsonflowers.com. THE ARRANGEMENT: Thompson found inspiration in British designer Vivienne Westwood, who used traditional fabrics like tartan to create surprising takes on punk fashions. “I wanted the vase to be aggressive and the flowers to feel a little subversive,” says Thompson. Feast your eyes on this design, which includes fly-eating cobra lilies, Fritillaria imperialis, clematis, and oncidiums. HOW SHE GOT HER START: After graduating with an MFA in sculpture, “I started doing floral design for some friends’ weddings. I came to realize that I had a powerful relationship with, and strong opinions about, flowers.” CLIENTS INCLUDE : Chanel, Proenza Schouler, and the Modern at MoMA. WILDEST PROJECT: Guest designer for Holidays at the White House in 2011: Her team installed sculptural garlands and intimate gardens. WHO :

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LUSH LIFE Ariel Dearie of Ariel Dearie Flowers, arieldearieflowers.com. TH E ARRANGEMENT: “I like to buy whatever’s most beautiful and fresh at the market, and then design to emphasize the flowers,” she explains. Fitting, then, that she cites a gold dress by Erdem, a brand known for eye-popping feminine florals, as her jumping-off point for this hanging arrangement, which includes palmetto leaves, anemones, ranunculus, hellebores, and sweet peas. H OW SHE GOT H ER START: “I was managing a restaurant because I wanted to open my own bakery. When the owner was out, she’d let me arrange the restaurant’s flowers. Then I started doing florals for friends’ weddings, and it took off. The bakery never came to be.” CLIENTS INCLUDE : Dior, Prada, and Bulgari. WILDEST PROJECT: “A photo shoot with Isabella Rossellini wearing a nude bodysuit. I had to ‘strategically’ arrange vines and flowers on her.” WHO:

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SUPER NATURAL Sarah Ryhanen of Saipua, saipua.com. THE BO U QUET: This bundle captures the beauty of a life lived in nature, ideal for an outdoor celebration. It includes blueberry flowers, as well as hellebores, narcissus, and fritillaria grown on Ryhanen’s farm in upstate New York. “The experience of farming 107 acres has put me more in touch with the flow of the seasons and the immense power that flowers and nature have on our psyches.” HOW SHE GOT HER START: The former art curator received a gorgeous bunch of dahlias for her birthday in 2005. “I was hooked from that moment on.” ABOUT THE NAME : “My dad is Finnish, and we grew up with a strong sauna tradition. In the sauna there was always a birch-scented saunasaippua. Saipua is the Finnish word for ‘soap,’ minus one p.” INSPIRED BY: “Walks in the woods with my dogs, and the Metropolitan Museum of Art.”

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Art direction by Michael McCormick. Styling by Naomi deMañana

IN LIVING COLOR Brittany Asch of BRRCH, brrch.com. THE ARRANGEMENT: When Asch first saw Alessandro Michele’s Gucci campaigns, “I thought, He thinks about color the same way I do. Color is hugely important to me, and his work is beautiful, youthful, and decadent.” Asch captured the vivid, sophisticated fun with bunched arrangements of phalaenopsis orchids, epidendrums, lady’s slippers, anthuriums, begonias, roses, clematis, hydrangeas, and alliums. H OW SHE GOT HE R START: “I was working at a restaurant, and at the same time I was freelancing for NYC florists and events. I decided this was what I wanted to do. I worked for years until the advent of Instagram meant I could really show what I wanted to create, and it took off from there.” ABOUT THE NAM E : “It’s derivative of my first and last name, and I had a birch tree I loved outside my house growing up.”

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FIRST LOOK Bride Lindsey Brittain and groom William Collins took time for a preceremony portrait. Her gown, by Reem Acra, featured a pale-pink lining and white-and-pink-flower embroidered lace. He wore a custom Brimble & Clark tux and pony-hair slippers by Tom Ford.

COUPLE S WHO WED in Washington, D.C., often head for the familiar photo ops: the Washington Monument, the Lincoln Memorial. Not Lindsey Brittain and William Collins. “We didn’t want to focus on the location, but on the people,” Lindsey says. So they arranged for their loved ones to be photographed at their venue, Union Market’s Dock 5, in front of a seamless backdrop of gray paper, Annie Leibovitz–style. The fashionforward portraits gorgeously captured the joy and style of the day. Lindsey, an artist, and Will, a business-development manager at a tech company, first met in 2003, when she was at the University of Virginia and he was a prospective student. They shared mutual friends, but not much spark—until about 10 years later, when both were living in New York City. Their relationship began one evening when a friend bailed on plans, leaving them alone at the Hudson hotel’s bar. “We talked for five or six hours,” Lindsey recalls. A year and a half later, Will plotted a picnic-lunch proposal. “I did the whole traditional thing,” he recalls—asking her mother for her blessing, then enlisting her best friends to help choose the ring. Lindsey accepted, and though they were living in New York, they both knew right away that they’d marry in D.C., where they’d both spent formative years and still had family. Though wedding planning was primarily Lindsey’s area (or “in

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the art department,” as Will likes to say), he helped shape the event— in part by introducing Lindsey to the Pérez Art Museum Miami, where the dramatic hanging gardens captured her imagination. She wanted to bring that lush but unexpected aesthetic to a D.C. venue. She also wanted to incorporate her own art, subtly—“I wanted it to feel not like just my wedding,” she says, “but reflective of us as a couple.” And both wanted to skip traditional trappings—formal introductions, official first dances—and simply throw a great party. They hired planner André Wells and Amaryllis Floral & Event Design to help realize that vision, and on September 10, 2016, they did, starting with the party bus that carried Lindsey and her 19 attendants to her childhood church in Virginia for the Baptist ceremony. At the reception, some 270 guests were treated to a three-part celebration: a street fair–style cocktail hour with a brass street band, passed hors d’oeuvres, and cocktails on rolling carts; a formal dinner; and finally a dance party with dessert stations, savory snacks, and a surprise performance by one of Will’s favorite go-go bands. By the time the empanada truck pulled away, it was 1:30 in the morning, and only the bride and groom and their closest friends lingered, enjoying the happy, tired feeling that comes from a beautiful and memorable party. Which was just as they’d imagined it would be.

FA S H I O N S P R E A D Opposite: Lindsey created a palette of muted metallics and natural tones for her bridal party, then let them choose their own attire. Here, the women of the coed party—made up of friends from childhood, school, and New York, plus the groom’s sister—posed together. This page: 1. Ellen Weldon Design created the stationery suite with the bride’s paintings, inspired by a tapestry the couple saw in Japan and the cherry blossoms of Washington, D.C. 2. Maidenhair ferns and other greenery framed the ruffled white-and-yellow cattleya orchids in Lindsey’s bouquet. 3. The bride’s mother (left) and aunt wore chic on-palette gowns. 4. Twenty-one boutonnières were created for the bridal party, each a little different from the next. 5. Three flower girls—a MOH ’s daughter, a cousin, and Will’s goddaughter—and a ring bearer, Lindsey’s godson, were charming participants in the day.

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Lindsey created a mood board and sent it to her friends as an inspiration for picking their gowns. “I have very stylish friends and trust them very much,” she says. 1. Three bridesmaids and a maid of honor (second from left) shared a toast. 2. Modern paintings of Lindsey’s were displayed in the reception space (shown, opposite) and also translated onto paper goods, like these ceremony-program fans, each secured by a leafy “ribbon.” 3. These two laughing members of the bridal party are friends from UVA . 4. Escort cards were pinned to a moss-covered wall. 5. A dashing group of friends surrounded the groom. 6. The same cherry-blossom painting that graced the invitations inspired these fondant-topped, gel-color-painted sugar cookies, a treat for the wedding party to enjoy during preceremony preparations. 7. More wedding-party members, including friends and the groom’s sister, posed for a photo. 8. Guava barbecued-salmon skewers were among the passed hors d’oeuvres at cocktail hour.

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RU ST I C M O D E R N Wood-pallet wall panels and lots of greenery warmed up the industrial space. Lindsey painted regal wedding portraits of Will and herself for the backs of the menu cards. “I’m inspired by portraying African Americans in a way they traditionally aren’t,” she says. “It was us, but in a way they hadn’t seen before.”

L AY E R S O F L OV E Vivid bursts of jewel tones throughout the party enlivened the natural palette. 1. Lindsey and Will are not big cake eaters, but a small cutting cake—created by Buttercream Bakeshop, with swirled icing inspired by the bride’s abstract watercolors—was a pretty nod to tradition. 2. Bride and groom paused on the Union Market rooftop. 3. A Collins bar (what else, for a Collins family wedding?) offered a variety of fresh fruits, herbs, juices, and flavored syrups. 4. A groomsman chatted with his fiancée. 5. Friends from college and New York laughed together at the reception.

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It was a spontaneous thing. I was excited about the engagement, and I wanted something to mark the major life event . —WILL, ON THE R ING -FI NGER TATTOO OF LI NDSEY ’S NAME HE GOT WHILE ON A BUSI NESS TRIP SHORTLY AFTER PROPOS ING

By the Numbers

13 Years from when the couple first met to when they married

1.5 Months Will spent looking for the right ring, with the help of Lindsey ’s best friends

13 Bridal salons Lindsey visited before finding her dress

31 Wedding-party members— 12 on the groom’s side, 19 on the bride’s (including five bridesmen and two ushers)

8 Pieces in the brass street band that played at cocktail hour

300 Approximate weight, in pounds, of each of the eight living plant towers the floraldesign team suspended from the ceiling at Dock 5

4 Kinds of macaroni and cheese offered at one of the late-night snack carts

1952 The production year of the “getaway” Bentley that drove the couple from ceremony to reception

PATIENT PROPOSAL “I’m a firm believer in energy,” says Lindsey. “What you put out there is what you get back.” It was in that spirit that she and Will were creating a vision board together one August afternoon, while picnicking on Alexandria, Virginia’s Daingerfield Island. Their board focused on goals for health, well-being, and family, and when it was complete, Will got down on one knee and said, “Do you want to do this together?” She didn’t get what he meant at first. “I had no idea what was going on!” she recalls. “He had to ask a few times.”

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For the wedding, Lindsey wore simple studs (borrowed from her aunt) and a Cartier Love bracelet that had been a gift from her late father. “I haven’t taken the bracelet off since he gave it to me,” she says. “He wasn’t able to walk me down the aisle, so this was my way of having him close to me on the big day.” Will honored her dad as well, wearing a pair of his cuff links.

HO N EYMOO N DISPATCH Three days after the wedding, the couple took off for Sri Lanka and the Seychelles. First stop was Tri (trilanka.com), a sustainably designed lakeside resort where they enjoyed yoga, massages, and luxurious meals. “Because of the season we went, we basically had the resort to ourselves,” says Will. “Every morning, there was no menu; they just asked us what we wanted to eat.” They then stopped for a night in Colombo, at the former Dutch colonial villa turned Galle Face Hotel (gallefacehotel.com), before catching a quick flight to the Seychelles, where they made the Four Seasons (fourseasons.com/ seychelles) their home base for beach-hopping.

ON THE MENU VEGG I E FAR E Lindsey is a vegetarian and Will a vegan, so cocktail hour and dinner were designed with a good selection of meatless picks, including portobello fries and black-bean sliders among the passed hors d’oeuvres, and cauliflower steaks as a main-course option. In the spirit of having something for everyone, though, they also had plenty of fish, seafood, and meat choices, including a rack-of-lamb entrée. LOCA L F I N D S Dock 5 is conveniently located above Union Market, which is a rich resource for foodies. Lindsey and Will chose Righteous Cheese, a vendor in the market, as the source for their cheese cart at dessert, and the BBQ Joint, a new addition to the market, for passed snacks. Cocktail hour featured Virginia wines exclusively, in honor of the state where they met.

GO-GO SCENE With the dance party in full swing, the DJ announced a surprise performance: Lindsey and friends had arranged for UCB —the Uncalled 4 Band, a mainstay of the D.C. go-go music scene, and Will’s favorite band in high school—to perform. “I was pretty excited,” he recalls. “I had joked about getting UCB to come to the wedding. But they actually did it!”

SOURCES Locations Mount Olive Baptist Church (ceremony); Dock 5 at Union Market (reception) Event planning Events by André Wells Catering and rentals Design Cuisine Flowers, décor, and rentals Amaryllis Floral & Event Design Photography Abby Jiu Photography Stationery and calligraphy Ellen Weldon Design Cake and bridesmaids’ cookies Buttercream Bakeshop Music Brass Connection Band (cocktail hour); JukeBoxx Band (dinner); Spinser Tracy (DJ) Videography Courtney Harvier Bride’s gown and veil Reem Acra Bride’s shoes Jimmy Choo Hair Brooke Morgan of Sisterly Love Makeup Germaine Williams of the Red Bloom Wellness Spa Groom’s tuxedo, shirt, bow tie, and pocket square Brimble & Clark

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Every diamond engagement ring— peeking out from its tiny box, glinting in the light—is as unique as its wearer. That’s because no two stones are alike. But to narrow down your favorites, consider the cut: Those angles and facets go a long way in defining a ring’s personality, and reflecting yours.

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simple geometrics Trendsetters—whether in fashion or décor—have embraced the art deco–inspired, graphically pleasing lines of geometric shapes in recent years. And jewelers are no exception. Look for styles like hexagonal rose cuts and starburst designs (a center stone surrounded by baguettes, for instance) to make a serious statement. 1. Laura Preshong “Leila” brilliant cut set in 14k white gold, $1,535 for setting only, laurapreshong.com. 2. Single Stone “Savannah” old European cut set in platinum and 18k yellow gold, $14,500, greenwichjewelers.com. 3. Martin Katz square emerald cut set in 18k white gold, price upon request, martinkatz.com. 4. Jemma Wynne x Stone & Strand double pavé hexagon frame set in 18k gold, from $9,870, stoneandstrand.com. 5. Siegelson New York double-prong Asscher cut set in platinum, price upon request, 212-832-2666. 6. Laura Preshong “Natalia” baguette halo in 14k yellow gold, $3,300 for setting only, laurapreshong.com. 7. Oscar

Heyman emerald cut with two tapered baguettes set in platinum, price upon request, oscarheyman.com. 8. Eva Fehren White “The Etoile” hexagonal cut set in 18k rose gold, price upon request, evafehren.com. 9. Nikos Koulis “Oui” collection emerald cut with black enamel, $8,670, Bergdorf Goodman, 212-753-7300.

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on point Fancier diamond shapes— including pears, hearts, and other pointed picks—are enjoying a resurgence in popularity. And some designers have taken to combining multiple diamonds to create a whole new shape—a star, for instance, or the flower-petal look of a double pear. These are some eye-catching sparklers.

1. Kirk Kara “Carmella” pear-shaped halo in platinum, style K1005 DI - R , $5,440 for setting only, kirkkara.com. 2. Rebecca

Overmann double-pear rose cut in 14k yellow gold (similar to shown), $8,100, greenwichjewelers.com. 3 . Diamonds by Lauren heart set in platinum, style R 5551, $9,595, diamonds by lauren.com. 4. Jade Trau “Free Bird” pear-cut halo in platinum, price upon request, jadetrau .com. 5. Diamonds by Lauren marquise cut set in platinum, style R4573, $10,995, diamonds bylauren .com. 6. Selim Mouzannar star in pink gold with diamonds and morganite, style IS0122 A008, $1,990, broken english jewelry.com. 7. Michelle Fantaci “Anniversaire” double-sided rose-cut trillion in 18k green gold, $9,500, twistonline .com. 8. Uneek pear with halo, price upon request, uneekjewelry.com.

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Stately and stunning, square and emerald-cut diamonds are a timeless choice. Look for east-west settings— with the stone set on the horizontal—for a fresh perspective; or radiant cuts (an emerald shape cut with triangular facets), for added brilliance. 1. Stephen Russell baguette diamond, emerald cut and set in platinum, price upon request, stephenrussell.com. 2. Simon G. Jewelry radiant cut in 18k white gold, style MR 2088, $3,300 for setting only, simongjewelry.com. 3. Tacori “RoyalT” princess cut set in 18k rose gold, $6,890 for setting only, tacori.com. 4. Michael M heirloom-inspired emerald cut set in platinum, style R 728-2.5, $4,570, michaelmcollection.com. 5. McTeigue & McClelland antique cushion-cut solitaire, price upon request, mc2jewels.com. 6. Ritani cushion-cut halo micropavé set in platinum, style LR02065, price upon request, ritani.com. 7. Coast Diamond princess cut in 14k white gold, style LC5410- PC , $1,250, coastdiamond.com. 8. Octavia Elizabeth “Signature Soli-

taire” emerald cut set in 18k rose gold, from $3,800, octaviaelizabeth.com.

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A cute velvet box is a sweet place to put your ring (when it’s not on your finger!). These were made for us by Weft and Whimsy (heart, lips, Popsicle, berry, triangle, and rectangle shapes, from $50 each, weftandwhimsy.etsy .com), Amonié (round, $55, amonie ringboxes.etsy.com), and Secret Keeper Box (octagon, $60, secret keeper box.etsy.com). 3

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The round diamond solitaire is a classic for a reason. It’s simple, universally flattering, and, thanks to the brilliant cut, almost always the sparkliest pick. Oval cuts— another versatile shape that is especially stunning when set with smaller stones—are on the rise, though. 1. Van Cleef & Arpels “Motifs Pétales” oval solitaire set in platinum, price upon request, vancleefarpels.com. 2. Henri Daussi “AV” cushion cut, price upon request, henridaussi.com. 3. Nirav Modi “Pumpkin” ring, brilliant cut encased within a basket of pear-shaped diamonds, price upon request, 212-603-0000. 4. Karl Lagerfeld “Perspective” in platinum, style 31-KA158ERP, $6,800, sayyeswithkarl.com. 5. Forevermark “The Center of My Universe” oval cut set in 18k rose gold, price upon request, forever mark.com. 6. Michael B “The Paris Ring” set in platinum, $8,800, michaelb jewelry.com. 7. Cartier “Love” ring in 18k white gold, price upon request, cartier.com. 8 . Effy “Infinite Love” halo, $8,700, macys.com.

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FEELING RIGHT AT HOME Carey Galliani and Eric Lowe of Chico, California, combined a first look with their portrait photo shoot. They put up a backdrop using the same wallpaper they have in their bedroom.

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BLACK & WHITE AND WED ALL OVER There’s no gray area when it comes to Carey Galliani and Eric Lowe’s love for each other. It shone through in every detail of their super-stylish and beautifully personal celebration.

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PRINTED MATTER The stationery heralded the classic black, white, and gray palette of the event. The signature quote of the wedding was calligraphed, and then Carey handstamped it into charcoal velvet for the invitation. A botanical-print book contained the wedding details, and the reply card had a tiny gray envelope attached to it, holding cards for attendance and menu choices. Finally, a card was provided for each guest to write advice and well wishes for the couple on; a guest book at the ceremony contained prepasted photo corners that they could then pop those cards into.

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ometimes love can hit hard—like a pile of rocks. Carey Galliani was on a tubing trip down the Sacramento River with new boyfriend Eric Lowe and his friends. During a break on the riverside, “I sat alone happily and made rock stacks,” she says. “One of his friends came over to me and said, ‘Carey, why are you being so weird?’ And he kicked over one of my stacks. Without missing a beat, Eric said that if I wanted to be weird, I could be weird, and he started to build a rock stack with me. Aha, I thought. This is what it means to have a partner. He doesn’t care if I’m different, and he even joins me out of solidarity. I realized I could be with him forever.” For Eric, meanwhile, love arrived as effortlessly as sinking into a soft easy chair. “From our first date, she was so chipper and cute and nice and easy to hang out with. It felt like a relief to be with her.” Though Carey is an event designer who, through her business, the Idea Emporium, handcrafts stationery,

decorations, and other elements that make a wedding stand out, she and Eric were steadfast about focusing on the deeper meaning of their union and not getting caught up in surface details. Like most couples, they wanted an ultra-personal day—“I wanted everyone to say, ‘This is so Carey and Eric,’” she says—but they went further, planning each element to be personal for their guests, too. It started the moment everyone filed into the ceremony space. Waiting for them were handwritten letters “explaining why each one was so special to us,” says Carey. The ceremony blended touching moments—like Eric reading words from Carey’s late father—with unexpectedly funny ones, such as when Carey’s uncle, who officiated and knew the couple love Seinfeld, capped off their lengthy vows with refrains of “Yada, yada, yada.” And when they were declared husband and wife, the surprises had only begun: Sliding doors parted to reveal a hidden 24-piece symphony orchestra. Eric thought he was in on the secret—except instead of the classical piece that was supposed to introduce their first dance, the orchestra played the theme from the original Star Wars, one of his favorite movies. “A symphony was right up our alley, with how over-the-top we are,” says Eric. “It just made sense.” At the reception, guests went on to find photos of themselves with the bride or groom, which doubled as escort cards. “We spent our engagement digging up all those photos,” says Carey—each uniquely framed to suit the style of the recipient’s home. And everywhere, throughout the evening, were rock stacks, a symbol of a love that was just so Carey and Eric.

ALL I N THE DETAILS 1. Welcome boxes built by Eric, a skilled carpenter who coowns a heating and air-conditioning company, contained favorite and local treats. 2. The couple included tributes to their mothers (as well as many remembrances of their fathers, both lost to cancer). 3. Carey’s two engagement rings—a highly impractical 14.7-carat aquamarine, plus her sturdier “everyday diamonds”—nestled in a heart-shaped box that belonged to her father, along with his wedding band, now worn by Eric, and her grandmother’s wedding band, now worn by Carey. 4. The bride’s bouquet contained favorites such as lilies of the valley, fritillaria, muscari, lady’s-slipper orchids, hellebores, and crispy wave ferns, tied together with a gray silk ribbon.

GROUP DYNAM IC 1. Carey requested portraits of the wedding party, which included friends and family, in front of the same wallpaper backdrop. 2. Friends who served as “flower women”—instead of flower girls—received gold lily-of-the-valley haircombs; antique gold lily-of-the-valley brooches were given to three beloved aunts. 3. At the ceremony, guests could help themselves to matchbox-style packages containing cotton hankies, a signature accessory of Carey’s late father. 3

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BLOOMS, TRUE AND FAUX 1. There were variations

among the men’s boutonnières, with Eric’s being an extra-special Japanese porcelain of lily of the valley. 2. The ceremony room’s perimeter was festooned with laser-cut paper flowers that Carey made herself and suspended on invisible wire. 3. The couple exchanged vows in the midst of their guests, who were seated in the round.

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a copy of their vows, as well as their guest book. 2. “Best woman” (and Eric’s sister) Cassie and groomsman Wes are themselves married. 3. White Russians were served at the cocktail hour, in a nod to the first movie the couple saw together, The Big Lebowski. 4. Carey and Eric shared their first dance to the strains of the Paradise Symphony Orchestra. 5. Dessert choices included their personal favorites: for Carey, rice-cereal treats; and for Eric, cookies-and-cream milkshakes. The bride put white-chocolate “wax seals” on the chocolate sandwich cookies that topped the milkshakes.

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NATURAL SETTI NG Laser-cut table numbers, menu cards printed in white foil, and taper candles—all in black— stood out against gray velvet linens and verdant centerpieces. Marbled-gray glass vases held begonia leaves and ferns, black scabiosa, ranunculus, dogwood, and black and green hellebores, among others. Alongside, of course, were stacks of river rocks.

ALL I N FAVOR When guests arrived at the restaurant, they found gifts labeled with their names and table numbers. The wrapping papers were all different designs, created from the botanical prints used in the ceremony space. A gray silk tassel and oversize wax seal topped each. Inside were the framed photos of those guests, plus the bride or groom. “It was the best to walk around the restaurant and see all our guests showing off their framed pictures,” says Carey.

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PERSONALIZED PARTY By the Numbers

1:43 The planned exact starting time of the ceremony; it’s the couple’s code for “I love you” (representing the number of letters in each word)

4 People who have worn Eric’s wedding band (Carey’s grandfather and father, then Carey, on a chain)

1,000 The number of laser-cut paper flowers that decorated the ceremony room (inspired by the tradition of folding a thousand origami cranes for good luck)

16 Hours Carey and her mother spent hanging the paper flowers

28 Number of dates Eric and Carey went on (in the same number of consecutive days) when they first met

A Great View “We did the bride-side/groom-side thing, but then Eric and I switched sides so we could see our own people. My experience as a bridesmaid in the past was that I could see the groom’s face when I really wanted to see my best friend. I think every bride and groom should trade sides, so that you can see your people.” —Carey

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The ceremony took place in the newly renovated Museum of Northern California Art, which had not yet even opened to the public. Guests then walked to Red Tavern for the reception dinner. The next day, the couple hosted a brunch for 300 at the Lakeside Pavilion—a decidedly less formal affair. (“It had a cruise-ship vibe,” says Carey.) She wore an enormous blue “Disney Princess dress,” and she and Eric danced to a dueling-pianos rendition of a certain expletive-laced Tenacious D song. In place of a bouquet, Carey threw a “snitch”—that would be the golden ball used in quidditch, the broomstick-riding game in the Harry Potter series.

ABOUT THE PALETTE Carey felt that the muted look of the décor would keep the focus during the ceremony on the words they were speaking. Also, “it’s classic!” she says. “I wanted something we were going to love forever. I can look at this 30 years from now and it will be timeless.”

“I saw the ring, and it was not normal. It was perfect. An aquamarine set in gold from my grandmother’s wedding band. Light blue and the size of my face. He delivered big-time.” —Carey

THE FIRST LOOK Both Carey and Eric recall this as one of their favorite parts of the day: They stood back to back and, on the count of three, turned to face each other— and both started crying. “It was relaxed and not rushed, and everybody we really cared about was there to see us see each other for the first time,” says Eric. Carey agrees: “Anyone on the fence, do it,” she says. “It took all of the nerves away. And he was so handsome! He’s always handsome, but he was busting-out-in-atux handsome!”

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Eric, deferring to Carey’s wedding-design expertise, weighed in on only those elements that were most important to him: what to eat for dinner, the guest list, and what Carey wore. (He hoped his bride, who normally favors unusual fashion choices, would wear a white dress and a veil he could lift back.) “I was surprised by how amazing it turned out,” said Eric. “The thought Carey put into it and how she pulled everything together were amazing. She could see the final picture all along.”

The new Mr. and Mrs. Lowe spent two weeks in Asia, starting in Hong Kong, then moving on to Cambodia. “This is where those junglecovered ruins of temples are, from Indiana Jones,” says Carey. Unbeknownst to them, they had planned their trip to coincide with Songkran, a “water festival” that celebrates the new year. “What this meant,” she says, “is that the whole country was having a party, which evolved into a full-on water fight. Within blocks of leaving our hotel, we were completely drenched by kids with buckets of water. I have not laughed that hard in years.” They went on to Thailand, where “Eric gained 10 pounds just on shrimp and curry,” says Carey.

SOURCES Ceremony and cocktail-hour location The Museum of Northern California Art Reception location and dinner Red Tavern Event planning CES Weddings & Events Cocktail-hour catering Bacio Catering Flowers Molly Ryan Floral Photography Elizabeth Messina Stationery and branding The Idea Emporium Calligraphy Anne Robin Calligraphy Music Paradise Symphony Orchestra Rentals Bright Event Rentals; La Tavola Fine Linen; Scout Rental Co. Bride’s gown Badgley Mischka Accessories Olivia the Wolf (veil); Serengeti West Fine Jewelers (engagement rings); Tom Ford (shoes) Makeup Powder Room Beauty Bar Bridesmaids’ dresses Rent the Runway Groom’s tuxedo Calvin Klein Wedding styling Type A Society Backdrop wallpaper Anthropologie Wax seals WaxSeals.com Rice-cereal treats Lovely Layers Cakery

See The Guide for more vendor sources

Come On In This high-drama doorway was framed with an ethereal-looking bow made from—you’ll never guess—window screening. The lightweight metal mesh, purchased by the roll at a hardware store, holds its shape beautifully, and the bow is surprisingly simple to create. Just make one large loop, pinch the center, and staple; wrap another piece around it. Attach tails to the wall first using staples or small nails, then add the bow on top. T HE DE TA I LS: Phifer alumi-

num window screening, 48" by 25", $30, homedepot.com. Taffeta cap-sleeve dress, from $126, isabelgarreton.com.

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Our favorite childhood hair accessory is all grown up— and we’re loopy about how it can beautify your celebration in ways both big and small. Part of the fun comes from mixing and matching shapes, sizes, materials, and textures to tie up every detail of the day—from the tiniest favor box to the grandest of entrances. Photographs by Kate Mathis Text by Brooke Porter Katz

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Bows come in many forms—including the fine-lined swirls, twirls, and curlicues of calligraphy, which add old-world elegance to an otherwise simple save-the-date (and full stationery suite). When paired with a subtle pop of copper and vintage stamps, it’s a fitting preview for what is sure to be the classiest party of the year. TH E D E TA I LS : Bernard Maisner Calligraphy & Fine Stationery save-the-date and envelope calligraphy, price upon request,

bernardmaisner.com. Metallic-tissue-lined envelope, $40.50 for 200, papermart.com. Champion Stamp Company vintage stamps, from $0.25 each, championstamp.com. French double-faced satin ribbon, 10mm, in Light Blue, $1.75 per yd., mjtrim.com.

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Beribboned accessories will add sweet, feminine flair to your big-day look. The motif has been popular in jewelry, so keep an eye out for vintage pieces like pearl drop earrings or a small brooch. (Your grandmother may even have something to offer for your “something old.”) And oversize loops instantly amp up a satin clutch, chunky sandals, or velvet heels. T HE DE TAI LS : 1. Kenneth Jay Lane paste and faux-pearl earrings, circa 1970, $450, Kentshire at Bergdorf Goodman, 212-872-8653. 2. Tory Burch “Clara” pumps, $598, tory burch.com. 3. Delpozo sandals, in Sand, $1,100, delpozo.com. 4. Kentshire silver and paste brooch, circa 1920, $2,250, Kentshire at Bergdorf Goodman, 212-872-8653. 5. Fred Leighton antique diamond brooch, price upon request, 212-288-1872. 6. Kentshire antique silver and paste necklace, circa 1890, $3,975, Kentshire at Bergdorf Goodman, 212-872-8653. 7. Oscar de la Renta satin clutch, $1,390, oscardelarenta.com. Pleated satin ribbon No. 0492, 50mm, in Color 65, $27.50 per yd.; and 36mm, in Color 34, $22.50 per yd., mokubany.com. FA L L 2 0 1 7

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cloudlike at the same time—transform this silk dress into a stunning work of art. An updo keeps the focus where it matters (and your hair out of the way), and a simple stud earring is the only jewelry you need. T H E DE TA I LS: Carolina Herrera “Fabienne” satin gown, $7,490, carolinaherrera.com.

Kwiat diamond earrings in platinum, price upon request, kwiat.com.

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Bow Wow Wow Talk about making a sweeping statement. Voluminous loops—which feel structural and

Fit to Be Tied

1. Mix and match materials (silk, satin, velvet) and tails (notched, flat, diagonal) for escort cards that charm. Tie the ribbons around the cards, and hold them in place with an adhesive dot. 2. Tied or cinched premade bows and adhesive dots are the secret to jazzing up plain velvet guest books in seconds. 3. Bows have been spotted on high-fashion runways—and they feel fresh in unfussy hair. Ribbon is tied over a ponytail holder (left); we also used a bow-tie technique and glued it to a clip. 4. Welcome guests to their seats with graceful silk bows on the menu cards (glue them down, especially outdoors). T HE D ETAI LS : 1. Bernard Maisner Calligraphy & Fine Stationery calligraphy, bernardmaisner.com. Ribbons from Mokuba, M&J Trimming, and Michaels; see The Guide for details. 2. Velvet Raptor guest journals, $65 each, velvetraptor.com. Fringe bow FR005, in Color 23, $6 for 3, mokubany.com. Premade satin bows, $3 for 50, paper mart.com. 3. Ceremony by Joanna August “Elena Long” (left) and “Kimberly Long” (right) chiffon dresses, $285 each, joannaaugust.com. Satin ribbon, $3 per yd., mjtrim.com. Velvet ribbon No. 2600, 19mm, in Color 15, $10 per yd., mokubany.com. 4. Anna Weatherley “Simply Elegant Platinum” dinner and salad plates, $48 and $39, devinecorp.net. Sferra “Festival” napkin (similar to shown), $58 for a set of 4, sferra.com. Silk ribbon, $27 for 5 yd., silkandwillow.com.

Sweet Spotlight Sugar bows shine on a croquembouche, the traditional French wedding dessert. Show it off with a romantic Cinderella-inspired vignette. It’s as simple as painting a pair of bird appliqués white and attaching them, and the ribbons, to the wall temporarily with strong adhesive dots. TH E DETA I LS: Francois Payard Bakery croquembouche, price upon request, payard.com. Bella Rosa

swallow bird appliqués, from $13 for 2, bellarosaappliques .etsy.com. Double-faced satin ribbon No. 1100, 36mm, in Color 14, $9.25 per yd., mokubany.com.

Art direction by Cassidy Iwersen. Styling by Katie Covington Crane.

Wrap It Up

For these favors, it’s what’s on the inside and outside that counts. We varied it all: material, texture, scale, placement, and knot (though many use the shoelace technique). It doesn’t take any tying to make a kimono-inspired bow (top left, in blue)—just two folded ribbons (the top one is wrapped in the center) and hot glue. A structured, winged version (center, blue) looks like a bow tie, while Martha’s Favorite Bow (top right, gray; bottom left, white; bottom right, silver) is ideal for single-face ribbon because it hides the “bad” side; start with two loops and tie them together. And a four-looped double bow (middle right, peach) adds volume. For how-tos, visit marthastewartweddings.com/bows.

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Say “I Do” to Aruba, One happy island Celebrated for its 82-degree, year-round temperature, refreshing trade winds, diverse land/sea activities, historic attractions, authentic and flavor-rich island cuisine and, of course, world-famous sun-kissed sandy beaches, Aruba attracts happy pairs looking for a dream destination wedding or an unforgettable honeymoon. A direct flight away from a number of major U.S. cities — Aruba’s One happy island has never been more accessible and inviting to couples seeking that perfect romantic oasis. It’s easy to find great accommodations in this ultimate paradise, with Aruba’s official wedding blog, Beach Brides. This online forum incorporates each stage of planning, providing both practical and inspirational content for couples looking to wed or honeymoon in Aruba. The Beach Brides blog can be found online at weddings.aruba.com. The blog is uniquely Caribbean, and showcases Aruba’s vibrant weddingscene and ideal destination. This digital outlet is an incredible resource for couples, allowing them to customize their experience by offering an array of ideas and options to choose from that are unique to the island. In addition, Beach Brides highlights local vendors, wedding planners, florists, photographers and wedding professionals, featuring their one-of-a-kind offerings on the site daily. The friendly island loves to celebrate the renewal of nuptials and the sacred declaration of vows. So much so, this August, Aruba hosted the Caribbean’s largest vow renewal ceremony at sunset on Eagle Beach, ranked the world’s No. 3 beach. For couples looking to say “I Do” on One happy island, Aruba offers a diverse array of options for every aspect of the wedding, from a toes-in-the-sand ceremony on the beach to an off-road mountain biking bachelor party and golf course hilltop reception. With constant sunshine and warm weather year-round, Aruba gives brides the opportunity to have their dream beach wedding in July, December or any month in between. With more than 100 romance, culinary, relaxation, adventure and cultural video vignettes to explore, a dream trip to Aruba is just a click away. Visit weddings.aruba.com to start planning your dream destination wedding or honeymoon today.

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Caribbean/Atlantic Island W I N N E R : T U R K S A N D C A I CO S Shocking blue water, soft white sand, dreamy resorts—no wonder this 40-island archipelago took the top prize. Here, a few of our favorite hotels. —Sarah Greaves-Gabbadon suites, and beach houses

The Shore Club

feel fresh and modern, with all-white walls, couches, and sheer curtains on the

2. U.S. Virgin Islands

four-poster beds. For the

Nature-loving couples will feel right at home on St. John: Two-thirds of the island is part of the National Park Service. Set within it is Caneel Bay Resort, which has seven secluded stretches of sand, including the aptly named Honeymoon Beach.

down, take advantage of spa

ultimate postnuptial windtreatments or Pilates, yoga, and meditation sessions in a pavilion or private cottage; meals delivered right to your doorstep. From $600 per night, comohotels.com. THE ULTIMATE SPLURGE: AMANYARA This minimal, reﬁned clois-

3. St. Lucia

ter from the revered Aman hotel group is set apart from

For the ultimate photo op, hike up the towering Gros Piton volcanic mountain, which sits more than 2,500 feet above sea level.

other resorts on the Grace Bay strip—and is as tranquil as it gets. Each of the open-air suites and villas is secreted behind tropical thickets and overlooks a serene pond, the ocean, or

4. Bahamas Pigs may never be able to fly, but they sure can swim—and do—in the waters around Big Major Cay, in the Exumas. Arrange a visit through Four C’s Adventures.

5. Aruba Cura di Tortuga— a natural pool (or conchi, in the native Papiamento language) that’s blocked off from the Caribbean by a barrier of lava rocks—is a remote and romantic place for a swim.

a private pool. If you can tear THE LAID-BACK PRIVATE ISLAND: THE MERIDIAN CLUB

Bay Beach promises the best in

yourself away, there’s snorkeling

barefoot luxury, with 148 water-

right off the property’s private

Couples in search of a castaway vibe will love this rustic privateisland retreat on Pine Cay, 20 minutes by boat from the main isle of Providenciales (or Provo, in local parlance). By day, relax on the two-mile-long beach; in the evening, cozy up in a golf cart at the drive-in movie theater. There are just 14 rooms, all beachfront—and with an outdoor shower and a screened porch, you won’t even notice there’s no TV. From $895 per night, including meals, meridianclub.com.

front rooms and suites. Alternate

beach, and you can tag sea turtles

your basking between the quiet

with a resident naturalist. And

stretch of sand and by one of four

thanks to its location on Provo’s

pools—and don’t miss afternoon

northwestern tip, there’s no better

tea in the tropical garden. From

spot to watch the sun set. From

$700 per night, theshoreclubtc.com.

$1,350 per night, aman.com.

THE WELLNESS ESCAPE: COMO PARROT CAY A 35-minute boat ride from the airport brings you to this secluded 1,000-acre sanctuary, a one-stop oasis for those in need of major relax-

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ation. (It’s easy to see

Want to experience the island’s latest and greatest? Then escape to Provo’s less-developed southern side. Here, the ﬁrst resort on Long

why Donna Karan and Christie Brinkley each own a villa on the property.) Its 55 rooms,

Amanyara

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There are many sides to The Islands of Tahiti. Yet they are all connected by Mana. Mana is a life force and spirit that surrounds us. You can see it. Touch it. Taste it. Feel it. And from the moment you arrive, you will understand why we say our Islands are

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U.S. City

W I N N E R : N A PA , C A L I FO R N I A

Visiting vineyards is just one of the many perks of a minimoon to wine country. Also on the agenda: farm-fresh food, geothermal pools, and live music. —Jenna Scatena

DAY 1

Napa Valley

2. Miami

Carneros: Start your getaway in this American Viticultural Area (or AVA) just an hour’s drive north of San Francisco. There’s plenty to love about the new Liana Estates (lianaestates.com), an intimate farmhouse-style winery and tasting room: You can’t see it from the main road, and reservations are required— which means you won’t have to elbow your way in for a pour. It also hosts romantic hillside picnics overlooking San Pablo Bay. After a lunch of creamy cheeses and local oysters paired with crisp aromatic whites, unwind at the country-chic Carneros Resort and Spa (from $560 per night, carnerosresort.com). It has 76

For Insta-worthy photo ops, head to the Wynwood Walls, where 80,000-plus square feet of outdoor wall space have been transformed by well-known graffiti and street artists from around the world.

3. Charleston This city is big on charm—and even bigger on incredible restaurants. Sample catfish tacos at Sean Brock’s Minero, fried chicken at Leon’s Fine Poultry & Oyster Shop, and a shellfish tower at the Ordinary.

DAY 2

Central Napa: Why sit in Highway 29 gridlock when you can avoid the traﬃc and let a conductor be the designated driver? The Ambassador Winery Tour Liana Estates

journey on the vintage Napa Valley Wine Train (from $266 per person, winetrain.com) includes special group access at two heavyweights—Charles Krug winery and Raymond Vineyards—plus an onboard multicourse lunch. Come evening, it’s time to take on downtown Napa, which most visitors make the mistake of glossing over or skipping altogether. For dinner, leave the decisions to the team at La Toque (latoque.com) by ordering the chef’s menu, and follow it up with jazz at the yearold Blue Note Napa (bluenotenapa.com). As for where to stay, the 68-room Las Alcobas, a Luxury Collection Hotel (from $695 per night, lasalcobasnapavalley.com), which debuted last spring in St. Helena, has cozy touches like private fire pits and kits for s’mores. DAY 3

Northern Napa: After a lazy morning, fuel up on the California-meets-Japan cuisine at St. Helena’s Two Birds/One Stone (twobirdsonestonenapa.com); don’t miss the wok-roasted sweet corn with white miso butter. Then head a few miles northwest to Calistoga Bikeshop (rentals from $28, calistogabike shop.com) and pick up a ride to explore the scenic roads, with the pine-studded mountains providing a beautiful backdrop. (Guided tours are also available.) Wrap up with some pampering at the sleek Spa Solage (solage.aubergeresorts.com), where couples can take a mineral-rich mud bath and soak in geothermal pools.

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4. Palm Springs This desert hideaway finally has its first rooftop pool— at the brand-new Kimpton the Rowan Palm Springs hotel. Reserve a cabana and lounge the day away.

5. Las Vegas Want to toast your marriage in Sin City style? Celebrate with some bubbly at the Venetian Las Vegas’s Laguna Champagne Bar or Fizz at Caesars Palace.

61% OF RESPONDENTS SAID THEIR ULTIMATE HONEYMOON GETAWAY WAS LUXURIATING ON A TROPICAL BEACH.

FRO M TOP : BOB MCCLE NAHAN, COU RTESY OF VISI T NAPA VAL LEY; MI CHE LLE WALKER

luxury bungalow-style cottages and 18 suites, plus bocce courts and yoga classes. And make sure to request a table by the ﬁreplace at its Farm restaurant, where seasonal dishes have included fresh ricotta gnocchi with oxheart carrots and candied hazelnuts.

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U.S. Island W I N N E R: MAU I With its mix of beaches, adventures, and top-notch food, this beloved Hawaiian island was the ultimate U.S. escape for many of our voters—as well as San Francisco–based writer Jenna Scatena and her husband, David. Here are some highlights from their recent honeymoon.

2. Kauai

3. Hawaii Java lovers should make time to visit Kona, the Big Island’s coffeegrowing region. It’s home to about 600 farms, some of which are open to the public. There’s even an annual festival dedicated to the beans (this year, it’s November 3 to 12).

4. Florida Keys Set on the new Stock Island Marina, the maritimeinspired Perry Hotel has put this area of Key West on our radar. Make the milelong walk to the Hogfish Bar & Grill, a local hangout if there ever was one.

SLEEPING IN PARADISE Our dream was to stay at a hotel that was classically Maui—beachfront, palm trees, poolside bar—but also modern and relaxed. We found it at the Andaz Maui at Wailea Resort (from $419 per night, andazmaui.com), which, for a 300-room resort, felt very intimate. Mornings were spent sipping coffee in the swinging egg chair on our suite’s balcony before lounging by one of the four cascading infinity pools, stand-up paddleboarding down the Wailea coast, and playing lawn games with other honeymooners. But our favorite activity? The nightly farm-to-table dinners—think Kauai shrimp risotto, Kona clams with pancetta, and grilled octopus with Big Island chèvre and watercress—at the on-site Ka‘ana Kitchen’s breezy terrace. FRESH FROM THE FARM After a few days of pampering, it was time to get our hands dirty—so we took off for the 8.5-acre sustainable O’o Farm (oofarm.com), founded by two surfers. Located in the Upcountry region, it offers group and private tours. Our guide walked us through rows of arugula, peas, and peppers, as well as lime, avocado, plum, and fig trees, and we harvested ingredients for lunch on the way. Chef Daniel did all the cooking, serving his creations alongside herb

5. Oahu There are more than 125 beaches along the island’s 112 miles of coastline. Our pick: the quiet Waimānalo Bay in the southeast, a local favorite.

Exploring with Trilogy Excursions

Andaz Maui at Wailea Resort

focaccia sprinkled with Hawaiian sea salt and woodoven-roasted organic rosemary chicken. TAKE TO THE WATER Acting off of a tip from a local, we booked the Discover Molokini tour with Trilogy Excursions (sail trilogy.com), the island’s oldest sailboat company. Fresh-baked cinnamon rolls and Kona coﬀee provided fuel on the trip aboard a 64-foot catamaran. When we arrived at the partially submerged volcanic crater of Molokini, it was teeming with iridescent parrot fish and bluefin jacks (more than 250 species flock here). We even spotted nearly a dozen sea turtles during a pit stop in the surrounding shallow waters on our way back. SUNRISE WITH A VIEW

HONEYMOON PLANNING HAS OFTEN FALLEN TO THE GROOM, BUT NEARLY 47% OF RESPONDENTS PLANNED THEIR GETAWAYS TOGETHER.

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At 10,000 feet above sea level, Haleakalā National Park (nps.gov/hale) is the place to watch dawn break—and the sky’s colorful cosmic show made the 4 .. wake-up time worth it. (Plus, we had the rest of the day to nap on the beach.) We took our concierge’s advice— to wear warm clothes and pack a blanket and breakfast—and cozied up at the Kalahaku Overlook to watch. Note: Reservations are required, and can be made up to two months in advance at recreation.gov (just search by park name).

FRO M TOP : CO URTESY O F TRI LO GY EXCURS IONS, MAU I -LANA’I ; COU RTESY OF ANDAZ MAUI AT WAILEA RESORT

Hawaii’s lushest island is the only one with navigable rivers, including the 20-mile-long Wailua. Kayak Kauai offers rentals as well as guided tours.

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Charleston, S O U T H C A RO LI NA An exquisitely preserved jewel box destination that looks like it has been painted in watercolor, Charleston is full of gorgeous scenery, gorgeous people, and gorgeous weather.

The Parsonage at St. Johannes

To stay in Charleston is to be swept back to an era of flickering carriage lanterns and cobblestone streets. It is a world of old libraries, lovingly manicured gardens, spectacular architecture, church bells tolling on the hour, sophisticated interpretations of Southern cuisine, and soul-stirring coastal landscapes—a fabled setting for your dream wedding. Find everything needed to plan your special day at CharlestonWeddingGuide.com.

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Mexico

W I N N E R : R I V I E R A M AYA

The 86-mile coastline stretching from just south of Cancún down to Tulum is lined with dense viridian jungle, sun-bleached sand, and natural limestone pools. Here are the places to see and stay along the way. —Adam Erace

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1. STAY: MAYAKOBA Part of a four-resort development, the Rosewood Mayakoba (from $695 per night, rosewood hotels.com) has luxe suites with private plunge pools, and the dining is big-city quality, thanks to all-star chef Juan Pablo Loza. Nearby, spend a blissful afternoon at the Banyan Tree Spa Mayakoba (banyantree.com), where treatments enhanced with Melipona honey are held in pavilions nestled among trees. 2. STAY: MAHEKAL BEACH RESORT The best thing about this cluster of airy casitas in Playa del Carmen is its

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location: at the beach, yet just two blocks from the shops and bars on bustling Fifth Avenue. Of the resort’s four pools, the palm-fringed one by Fuego restaurant is quiet and has the comﬁest lounge chairs (from $190 per night, mahekal beachresort.com). 3. EAT: LA CUEVA DEL CHANGO Spread out under a lush jungle canopy, the atmospheric hangout opens early for fresh-pressed fruit juice. Come evening, head here for grilled tuna tostadas and wine from Mexico’s buzzy Valle de Guadalupe (lacuevadel chango.com).

4. SWI M: CENOTE JARDÍN DEL EDÉN

6. STAY: UNICO 20°87° HOTEL RIVIERA MAYA

Set at the end of a long, rocky path off the highway, the large swimming hole has rocks to dive off and helpful staff. Go early to avoid the crowds.

This 448-room, adultsonly newcomer has even the most seasoned travelers reconsidering their allergy to all-inclusives. Amenities include unlim-

5. STAY: HOTEL ESENCIA This lush 50-acre estate on empty Xpu-ha Beach looks more Mediterranean than Mayan (which makes sense, since it once belonged to an Italian duchess). Amenities at the 29-room hotel include sunrise yoga, a cold-pressed-juice bar, and afternoon tea (from $615 per night, hotel esencia.com).

The Underwater Museum of Art has 500-plus life-Size sculptures 13 to 26 feet below sea level, mostly of human figures. See them by snorkeling, scuba diving, or taking a glassbottom-boat tour.

ited golf, select spa treatments, and activities like dolphin swims—plus 24/7 butler service (from $365 per night, unicohotel rivieramaya.com).

Spend some time away from the beach with a boat trip through the narrow mangrove canals of El Salado Estuary, home to more than 100 bird species.

5. Cozumel According to local legend, this island off the coast of Playa del Carmen was home to Ixchel, the goddess of love and fertility. Follow in her footsteps at the Mayan temple San Gervasio, where she is said to have been worshipped.

7. EAT: ANTOJITOS LA CHIAPANECA The al pastor tacos from this hole-in-the-wall are the main reason to leave the beach and go into town. Get them topped with caramelized pineapple, white onion, and cilantro.

THE NO. 1 BEACH VACATION MUST-HAVE: A GUEST ROOM RIGHT ON THE WATER.

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This resort-filled town is located on the southernmost tip of Baja California Sur, where the Sea of Cortez and the Pacific Ocean meet. It’s marked by El Arco (“The Arch”), a huge rock formation reachable by water taxi.

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2. Buenos Aires Speakeasies (or bares ocultos) are still cool in the Argentine capital. Our picks for secret late-night drinks: the Harrison Speakeasy, in back of a sushi restaurant; and Florería Atlántico, hidden behind a flower shop.

3. Lima Where to stay in Peru’s largest city? Atemporal, a chic hotel that feels more like a private home. It’s set in a 1940s mansion on a residential Miraflores street. An eight-minute walk away, you’ll find the pre-Inca Huaca Pucllana pyramid.

This black-bean stew, made with smoked and salted pork; served with rice, collard greens, and orange slices; and topped with toasted cassava ﬂour (farofa), is a staple across Brazil. Cariocas (as locals in Rio are called) typically eat it for lunch on Saturdays, but many restaurants sell it all week. Where to Get It: As you’d expect from a restaurant named for its dish, Ipanema’s Casa da Feijoada (Rua Prudente de Morais 10) makes one of the city’s best—and in generous portions, to boot. Lime or passion-fruit batidas (fruity cocktails made with cachaça, a spirit made from fermented sugarcane juice) are included, adding to the already festive vibe. A caipirinha

4. Cartagena For a 360-degree view of the Colombian port city, get comfy at the rooftop lounge of the seven-room Tcherassi Hotel + Spa, the first from fashion designer Silvia Tcherassi.

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THE DISH: PICAN HA The tender cut of beef—less common in the United States—is considered the most ﬂavorful option at churrascarias (Brazilian barbecue steakhouses). Where to Get It: Open since 1961, Flamengo’s Majórica (majoricario.com.br) is a longtime favorite for delicious, perfectly cooked meat served in a charming old-fashioned setting—think starched white tablecloths, dark wood trim, and oil paintings. Start with a palm-heart salad, and be sure to get a side of oil and garlic sauce to top the picanha, which comes with rice, French fries, and farofa. THE DISH: MOQUECA

5. Santiago It’s easy to feel overwhelmed among the carts that turn out local Chilean dishes like sopaipillas (fried dough made with pumpkin and flour) at La Vega Central market. We recommend booking a guide from Upscape Travel to help you navigate.

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THE DISH: BOLI NHOS DE BACALHAU Fried balls made of potatoes, codﬁsh, onions, garlic, eggs, and parsley are the ultimate bar snack. The only drawback: You won’t be able to eat just one. Where to Get It: At Bar Urca (barurca.com.br), in the pretty residential area of Urca, order an ice-cold Brahma and cod fritters, and grab a seat outside along the seawall with views of ﬁshing boats.

The hearty whiteﬁsh stew is traditionally made with onion, garlic, peppers, cilantro, and coconut milk. Where to Get It: Ana Castilho dishes out her version alongside spectacular city vistas at Aprazível (aprazivel .com.br), a multilevel indoor/outdoor restaurant in the arty Santa Teresa neighborhood.

THE DISH: BRIGADE IROS Condensed milk, cocoa powder, butter, and chocolate sprinkles are combined to create these Brazilian truffles, a must-try for sweet-toothed travelers. Where to Get It: Confeitaria Colombo (confeitariacolombo.com .br) has been a go-to for this dessert and other treats for more than a hundred years. The elegant Belle Époque setting—replete with a stained-glass skylight, tall mirrors, and a marble floor—also offers a full chá da tarde (afternoon tea). THE DRINK: CAIPIRINHA Brazil’s national cocktail is a mix of cachaça, sugar, and lime, served over ice. It’s simple and delicious—and nothing is better on a hot Rio day. Where to Get It: Get a taste in the art-deco Belmond Copacabana Palace (belmond.com), a landmark spot that’s reportedly hosted famous names like Princess Diana and Marilyn Monroe. Head poolside for alfresco cocktails at its Pérgula Restaurant, which also offers one of the best Sunday brunches in town. Aprazível, known for its moqueca

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Where to Stay: Set in a 19th-century villa, Hotel Santa Caterina (from $700 per night, high season, hotelsantacaterina.it) hugs the cliffs of Amalfi, commanding coveted views of its storied coastline. Its beach club is just for guests, and the spa offers a dreamy massage using a local lemon balm. Where to Eat: At Zass (dinner for two from $250, ilsanpietro.it), the Michelin-starred restaurant at the Il San Pietro di Positano hotel, ask for a table on the terrace, and don’t miss the pasta with peas, ricotta, and pancetta. Where to Shop: Positano is renowned for its madeto-measure sandals. At Safari, the leather creations— adorned with stones of your choosing (we love the turquoise; from $50, safaripositano.com)—can be ready in 30 minutes. What to Do: On Positano Boats’ Emerald Grotto tour (from $80, positanoboats.info), you’ll ride in a chic speedboat and visit the Fiord of Furore, one of the most difficult to reach (and beautiful) beaches in the area. Where to Drink: Positano’s twinkling lights and a DJ playing chilled-out tunes set the mood for oysters and a French 77 (gin, Amalfi lemons, St-Germain, and bubbly) at Le Sirenuse hotel’s Champagne Bar & Grill (sirenuse.it).

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Where to Stay: True to its name, Positano’s 150-yearold Villa Rosa (from $284 per night, high season, villa rosapositano.it) is covered in roses and vines of pink bougainvillea. It sits above all the tourist commotion— and each room has a shared terrace for taking in the view. There’s no restaurant, but coffee and pastries can be delivered to you in the morning. Where to Eat: Half the delight of dining at Da Adolfo (dinner for two from $45, daadolfo.com) is its location on Laurito Cove, a five-minute boat ride from Positano’s harbor. It looks like a fishing hut right on the beach and is the ultimate date spot for fresh-grilled red snapper, mussel soup, seafood pasta, and Amalfi Coast wines. Where to Shop: Make a pilgrimage to the town of Vietri sul Mare to browse its famed hand-painted ceramics, from dainty finger bowls to elaborately decorated sets of dishware (from $6). There’s even a museum dedicated to the craft. What to Do: The lush gardens of Villa Cimbrone (entrance fee $8; hotelvillacimbrone.com)—Ravello’s 11th-century palatial compound, also home to a luxury hotel and award-winning restaurant—are some of Italy’s most elaborate. Amble hand in hand among the paths lined with rose bushes, giant hydrangeas, and marble busts. Where to Drink: Order a Negroni on the patio of Al San Domingo (Piazza Duomo 2) for a front-row seat to Ravello’s historic cathedral. You’ll likely catch wedding parties strolling through the main square of Piazza Vescovado, the heart of the community.

A view of Positano.

2. Greece For an island experience without the crowds, head to under-the-radar Milos; stay at the new 23-room Milos Breeze Boutique Hotel.

3. Paris After a four-year, down-to-the-studs renovation, the legendary Ritz Paris (where Coco Chanel once lived) reopened last year with the world’s first Chanel spa and a sprawling garden that’s perfect for romantic strolls.

4. Tuscany Sign up for a cooking class—which includes shopping at local markets— at Desinare, set inside interior designer Riccardo Barthel’s Florence showroom.

5. Venice Want to sleep in a former palace? The Palazzo Morosini Degli Spezieri opened last April on a quiet street, with nine spacious apartments.

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A surreal Hawaiian island setting. Spectacular views of Maui’s enchanting Wailea coastline. Idyllic beachfront venues. And the moment you realized your journey together had ofﬁcially begun. The Fairmont Kea Lani. Paradise awaits.

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Asian Island WI N N E R: BAL I This super-romantic Indonesian island has a hypnotic mystique that attracted travelers long before Eat Pray Love. Beyond its natural beauty—including verdant rice paddies and stunning mountains—we have three more reasons to visit right now. —Alexandra Karplus

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While Seminyak’s longtime favorites, Ku De Ta and Potato Head Beach Club, are still pulling in the

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crowds, there’s some competition. Mrs Sippy (mrssippybali.com)—an Aussie import—oﬀers one of Bali’s largest saltwater pools (complete with dive towers) and big-name DJ imports. And at Finns (finns beachclub.com), in Canggu, the inﬁnity pool and its swim-up bar are sandwiched between an ocean full of surfers and a two-story clubhouse topped with a traditional thatched alang alang roof. Families can be spotted there during the day, but come sunset, it’s an ideal spot to sip on the chénola, a signature cocktail made with light rum, peach liqueur, passion fruit, and lemon juice.

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4. Philippines For a true castaway vibe, travel company Tao Philippines recently opened a private-island camp in Palawan, offering two-night stays in rustic huts. (Note: Most bathrooms are shared.)

5. Koh Samui An easy and cheap way to get around this island off Thailand’s east coast is by song thaew. Just flag down these mini pickup trucks, which stop upon request along specific routes.

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Entrepreneur George Gorrow and model Cisco Tshurtschenthaler have teamed up to create The Slow (from $135 per night, theslow.id), a 12-room (and growing) hotel in a surf neighborhood that’s a stone’s throw from Canggu’s coastline. The expansive suites mix locally sourced stone ﬂoors with funky beachthemed art. Under a collection of hanging plants, the street-side restaurant serves seafood dishes like ceviche in tiger’s milk. Farther down the coast in Seminyak, there’s Katamama (from $610 per night, katamama.com), where guests enter via a cocktail lounge. No need to linger—a mixologist is sent to your room shortly after you arrive to prepare a welcome drink. Natural indigo textiles, sustainable wood furniture, and handwoven baskets give the property a tranquil air, and the daily cultural program includes activities like a Balinese blessing at the on-site temple. Steak tartare at Grow Bali

BECAUSE ITS RESTAURANTS ARE CELEBRATING LOCAL FLAVORS For dazzlingly presented modernist cuisine made with indigenous ingredients, head to Locavore (locavore .co.id), in Ubud. The tast ing-menu spot books up weeks in advance, so make sure to plan ahead. Kaum (kaum.com), which means “tribe,” pays tribute to the 600-plus ethnic groups that live in the country. Here, ﬂoor-to-ceiling windows frame the sea, and dishes include gohu ikan (tuna marinated in coconut oil, lime juice, pomelo, and kenari nuts). And at the nearby L Hotel Seminyak, British chef Ryan Clift has opened Grow Bali (growbali.com), known for its just-caught seafood and produce from the Kintamani highlands.

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Honeymooners who stay at the new private-island resort Milaidhoo, set in the Baa Atoll biosphere reserve, get a star named after them.

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The ethereal glow of tiki torches illuminating each other’s faces. Palms swaying in unison to gentle island breezes. The rhythmic ebb and ﬂow of the surf lapping against the spectacular Kohala Coast. And the two of you swept away by the beauty of it all. If this is just the beginning, just imagine what tomorrow will bring.

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Myrtille Tibayrenc, the artistic director of the Toot Yung Art Center, dishes on her favorite places to eat, shop, and take in the city’s vibrant cultural scene. —As told to Brooke Porter Katz

3. Chiang Mai During the Yee Peng full-moon festival (which usually takes place in November), hundreds of people in this northern-Thailand city launch paper lanterns into the sky—a way to cast off their troubles.

EATS ON THE STREETS “My all-time favorites are the stalls on Yotse street. There are these old Chinese shophouses, and I’m a huge fan of the barbecue scallops and the suki haeng, a noodle dish with meat and vegetables.”

View of the Chao Phraya River from the Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok’s Riverside Terrace

ULTIMATE DATE NIGHT “For a special occasion, I like L’Atelier de Joël Robuchon [robuchon-bangkok .com]. It’s an immersive experience, where you sit at the bar for a full view of the open kitchen. The kitchen works with a lot of local ingredients and comes up with the most original and surprising flavors. Don’t miss the signature potato purée.” 100 Tonson Gallery

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neighborhood, with its heritage buildings and a recent creative dynamism with lots of galleries,

The ancient Japanese city is home to countless temples and shrines, including the made-forInstagram Fushimi Inari Taisha shrine, known for its long row of fiery vermillion torii gates.

bars, and hip restaurants. The view on the river is also amazing, and there is a terrace—ideal for sipping a nice cognac.” SHOP TILL YOU DROP “I like to walk around Siam Discovery [siamdiscovery.co.th], a supermodern mall that promotes local de-

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signers. And the Good Design Store

Gardens by the Bay is like a botanical garden on steroids. The 250-acre green space, in the heart of the citystate, has almost 1.5 million plants— not to mention two lakes and 40 site-specific sculptures.

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my money on books—especially art books—so I can’t

“I enjoy the laid-back atmosphere of the rooftop Phra Nakorn Bar & Gallery bar [facebook.com/phra nakornbarandgallery]. It overlooks the neighborhood and attracts a fun mix of residents and foreigners. I always order the stir-fried squid with salted egg.”

wait to visit the new Open House Bookshop by Hardcover [hardcoverartbookshop.com], at Central Embassy.” GALLERY HOPPING “The talk of the town is the creative district on the riverside along Charoenkrung Road, with galleries, cafés,

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tattoo shops, cool hotels, and the newly reopened

“I really enjoy going to famous temples but avoid the touristy ones. I love the quiet atmosphere and the art packed in these spiritual places. Wat Suthat is my favorite, and I also like the nearby Wat Ratchabophit.”

Thailand Creative & Design Center [tcdc.or.th]. Last year I helped organize an arts festival and produced large-scale public wall paintings by local and international artists. Some of my favorite spots in the area are the Bridge Art Space [bridgebkk.com], Serindia Gallery

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“Stepping inside the historic Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok [from $338 per night, mandarinoriental .com] is like traveling back in time. I also love the

.com], an original concept that specializes in contemporary jewelry. And 100 Tonson Gallery [100tonson gallery.com], by Lumphini Park, is one of the best.”

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There are so many reasons to step out of that overwater bungalow and dive into the dynamic culture of the Polynesian islands. From savoring the seafood to hiking to its holiest spots, there’s more-a more-a to Bora Bora. —Eleni N. Gage

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2. Fiji Islands Four properties offer over water bungalows (or bures): Likuliku Lagoon Resort, the new Fiji Marriott Resort Momi Bay, Koro Sun Resort, and Laucala— which has just one.

Year-round, most resorts oﬀer weekly barbecues with hip-shaking dances once banned by British missionaries. At the InterContinental Bora Bora La Moana (from $904 per night, intercontinental.com) you can watch the show over cocktails at the terrace bar. If you want to make music of your own, several of the porters at the Conrad Bora Bora Nui oﬀer ukulele lessons.

From July to late October, humpback whales make their way from the Antarctic to French Polynesia to mate and then give birth. Book a trip with Topdive for a chance to see these gentle giants, which can reach over 50 feet long.

4. Sydney For the ultimate Australian escape from the city, book a day trip with Sydney Seaplanes, which can fly you to a secluded beach just for lunch. The charter company just opened its own terminal in Rose Bay—and we hear it’s a local favorite for Champagne and oysters.

5. Wellington The Movie Museum—which will showcase Hobbit and Lord of the Rings memorabilia from New Zealand native son Peter Jackson’s personal collection—is set to open in 2018.

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TAKE A BITE OUT OF THE FOOD SCENE Because of its location in the South Pacific and its history as a French colony, Bora Bora’s cuisine is a vibrant mix of Tahitian, Asian, and French flavors. It all blends deliciously into dishes like poisson cru, a ceviche-style tuna marinated in lime juice and topped with coconut milk. Learn how to make it during a cooking class at the St. Regis Bora Bora ($390 for class; from $1,385 per night, stregisborabora.com). The new Conrad Bora Bora Nui ($77 for tour; from $480 per night, conrad hotels.com), meanwhile, offers a tour that breakfast-hops among private homes for tastes of galettes, coconut bread, and doughnuts; lunch is fafaru (fermented crushed shrimp and fish), prepared by a local chef named Papi. (The hotel also has the region’s only two-story overwater villa, plus an exclusive

islet where you can book dinner for two.) And French Polynesia had food trucks, or roulottes, before they were cool. Venture to Vaitape Harbor, where everything from shrimp curry to steak frites is served abundantly (and cheaply) from spots parked along the main square. LISTEN TO THE MUSIC To immerse yourself in the rhythmic musical traditions—heavy on drums, ukuleles, and nose flutes— visit during the Heiva i Bora Bora festival, in mid June to late July. The open-air Place Tu Vavau, in Vaitape, becomes a hive of singing and dancing competitions, plus events like coconut-tree climbing and fire-walking. The costumes alone— flower headdresses, grass skirts, vibrant textiles— make it worthwhile.

Trekking in Bora Bora means getting up-close views of not only the lush rainforest—ﬁlled with hibiscus blossoms, paw-paw trees, and wild vanilla—but also remnants of the island’s ancient civilization. French expat and founder of Polynesian Island Tours Azdine Oualid leads tours to the Valley of the Kings, a marae (outdoor ceremonial site) that he discovered in 2006, located on a plateau between Mount Otemanu and Mount Pahia. Nearby, Tumu Ora (“Tree of Life”) is the largestknown banyan in French Polynesia, where early kings were buried. For something more strenuous, Oualid can also take you to the Sacred Cave of Anau on the cliﬀ face of Mount Otemanu. You can arrange a tour through your resort, or email him at polynesiaislandtours@mail.pf.

Mount Pahia

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48 / Mary Kay 800.905.1544 ext. 45048

TRAVEL

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49 / Aruba Tourism

55 / Paradisus

800.905.1544 ext. 45049

800.905.1544 ext. 45055

50 / The Biltmore

56 / Playa Hotels and Resorts

800.905.1544 ext. 45050

800.905.1544 ext. 45056

51 / Cayman Islands Tourism

57 / Sandals Resorts

800.905.1544 ext. 45051

800.905.1544 ext. 45057

52 / Emerald Coast

58 / Tahiti Tourisme

800.905.1544 ext. 45052

800.905.1544 ext. 45058

53 / Hard Rock Resorts

59 / U.S. Virgin Islands

800.905.1544 ext. 45053

800.905.1544 ext. 45059

54 / Palladium 800.905.1544 ext. 45054

DETAILS 60 / GEICO 800.905.1544 ext. 45060

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Aruba is the picture-perfect backdrop for your dream destination wedding or honeymoon. Nestled outside the hurricane belt, Aruba’s sunny skies and world-class wedding professionals guarantee things will go off with only one hitch ... yours! Celebrate your happy day on One happy island. weddings.aruba.com

Start your life together on the Emerald Coast. Whether you are booking your dream destination wedding or romantic honeymoon, Destin and Fort Walton Beach are the perfect slice of paradise. emeraldcoastfl4com or 800448346372

The Cayman Islands make having a destination wedding a breeze. From the flowers to the cake, the experts of the Cayman Islands will curate the ultimate Caribbean experience. Find your copy on newsstands or visit caymanvows.com

Your love is not shy; your wedding day shouldn’t be either. Whether you are wedding planning, renewing your vows, or honeymooning, the all-inclusive Hard Rock Hotels of Mexico and the Dominican Republic will help make it the day you’ve always envisioned. hrhweddings.com

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Surrounded by pristine, crystal clear blue water, The Islands of Tahiti offer natural beauty, authentic culture, and unique French Polynesian style; the perfect destination for your honeymoon. tahiti-tourisme.com

Your wedding will be even more perfect with a setting worthy of your special day. The U.S. Virgin Islands offer endless possibilities as one of the world’s premier wedding destinations. visitusvi.com/plan-events/weddings-honeymoons

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2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract

5. When ready to decorate, remove

1 cup low-fat buttermilk

one chilled cake; place on a turnstile. Transfer ganache drip to a piping bag; snip a small hole in tip. Slowly line along top edge of the cake, turning as you work, and letting some of ganache drip over side. Line entire top edge of cake in drips, then fill in center. Repeat with remaining cakes. Decorate cakes with macarons, meringues, and broken pieces of meringue, if desired.

Swiss Meringue Buttercream (recipe follows) Tinted White-Chocolate Ganache Drip (recipe follows) Macarons and meringues, for decorating 1. Preheat oven to 350º. Lightly butter

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DRIP CAKES Active Time: 1 hr. 15 min. Total Time: 3 hr. 45 min. Makes: 3 miniature layer cakes Chilling the cakes before adding the ganache drip helps the ganache set on the side of the cake. Frosted cakes can be refrigerated up to overnight, or frozen for up to one month. For the shiniest ganache, don’t refrigerate the cakes after adding it. Let the cakes sit at a cool room temperature until ready to serve, up to four hours (chilling causes the ganache to become more matte). 2 sticks unsalted butter (1 cup), room temperature, plus more for pan 2½ cups unbleached all-purpose flour, plus more for pans ½ teaspoon baking powder ½ teaspoon baking soda 1 teaspoon kosher salt 1½ cups sugar 2 large eggs 3 large egg yolks (reserve whites for buttercream)

a 9-by-13-inch cake pan. Line with parchment, leaving a 2-inch overhang on long sides. Butter and flour parchment, tapping out excess. In a medium bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. 2. In a stand mixer, or using a large bowl and electric mixer, beat butter with sugar on medium-high speed until light and fluffy, 2 to 3 minutes. Reduce speed to low and beat in eggs and yolks, one at a time, until fully incorporated, scraping down sides of bowl as needed. Beat in vanilla. Alternately beat in flour mixture and buttermilk, beginning and ending with flour mixture, just until combined. 3. Pour batter into prepared pan; smooth top with a spatula. Bake until cake pulls away from sides of pan, 30 to 35 minutes. Let cool in pan 15 minutes, then remove cake from pan using parchment and transfer to a wire rack; let cool completely. 4. Using a 3½-to-4-inch ring cutter, cut out 6 circles of cake. Place one cake layer on a cake stand; spread 1/₃ cup buttercream over top. Add a second cake layer, and cover outside of cake with a thin layer of buttercream (about 1/₃ cup) to create a crumb coat. Transfer to a parchment-lined baking sheet. Repeat with remaining cake layers to create 3 miniature cakes. Freeze until firm, about 20 minutes. Frost cakes with remaining buttercream. Freeze at least 30 minutes before creating drip décor. Smooth with a bench scraper or offset spatula. (A smooth surface is important under ganache, as any bumps will be visible.)

SWISS MER I NGUE BUTTERCREAM Active/Total Time: 15 min. Makes: About 5 cups 5 large egg whites 1 cup plus 2 tablespoons sugar Pinch of kosher salt 4 sticks unsalted butter (1 pound), cut into tablespoons, room temperature 1½ teaspoons pure vanilla extract 1. Combine egg whites, sugar, and

salt in the heatproof bowl of a stand mixer set over a pan of simmering water. Whisk constantly by hand until mixture is warm to the touch and sugar has dissolved (it should feel completely smooth when rubbed between your fingertips). 2. Attach bowl to mixer fitted with the whisk attachment. Starting on low speed and gradually increasing to medium-high, whisk until stiff (but not dry) peaks form. Continue mixing until mixture is fluffy, glossy, and completely cool (test by touching bottom of bowl), about 10 minutes. 3. With mixer on medium-low speed, add butter, a few tablespoons at a time, mixing well after each addition. Whisk in vanilla. Switch mixer to the paddle attachment and continue beating on low speed until all air bubbles are eliminated, about 2 minutes. Scrape down sides of bowl with a flexible spatula and continue

beating until completely smooth. Keep buttercream at room temperature if using the same day. If not, transfer to an airtight container and refrigerate up to 3 days, or freeze up to 1 month. Before using, bring to room temperature and beat with paddle attachment on low speed until smooth again, about 5 minutes.

TINTED WHITECHOCOLATE GANACHE DR IP Active Time: 5 min. Total Time: 15 min. Makes: About 1 cup 1½ cups chopped white chocolate (7 ounces) ½ cup heavy cream Gel food coloring, such as Americolor Softgel Paste (we used #164 Electric Pink) 1. Place chocolate in a medium-size

heatproof bowl. In a small saucepan, bring cream just to a boil over medium-high heat. Pour cream over chocolate; let stand 10 minutes. 2. Stir with a whisk to break up any pieces and emulsify cream and chocolate until smooth and shiny. 3. Using a toothpick, gradually add gel coloring until desired color is achieved. Let cool completely before using.

CELEBRATIONS Pages 73–75 HAIR AND MAKEUP, Kelli Toal with American Belle, americanbellebrides.com. MAKEUP, Carmen Wolcott at Telluride Makeup Artist, telluridemakeupartist.com. GROOM’S ACCESSORIES, Lizzie Fortunato custom bolo tie, lizzie fortunato.com; Catbird wedding ring, catbirdnyc.com; Want Les Essentiels shoes, wantlesessentiels.com. LIGHTING, Snob Productions, snob productions.com. TRANSPORTATION, Telluride Express, tellurideexpress .com. BAR TRUCK, WolfPig, wolfpig bar.com. INDIGO FLAGS AND TABLE RUNNERS, Apprvl, apprvlnyc.com.

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SOUND PRODUCTION, Dragonfire Productions, deanrolley@yahoo.com. TEEPEE, Under the Sky Event Rental, undertheskyeventrental.com. VINTAGE RUG IN TEEPEE, Aelfie, aelfie .com. PARAMEDIC, Telluride Fire Protection District, telluridefire.com. POCKETKNIVES, Santa Fe Stoneworks, santafestoneworks.com. Pages 78–79 HAIR AND MAKEUP, Sheila Raye Stone, sheilarayestone .com. MAKEUP, Stephanie Rhio, stephanierhio.com. HAIR, Philip Carreon, www.philipcarreonstyle .com. BRIDESMEN’S SUITS, Theory, theory.com. GROOM’S ACCESSORIES, Paul Smith tie and shoes, paulsmith .co.uk; the Tie Bar pocket square, thetiebar.com. WEDDING-PARTY

Page 73 NECKWEAR, the Tie Bar bow ties, thetiebar.com; Paul Smith ties, paulsmith.co.uk. LIGHTING AND DRAPING, Bella Vista Designs, bellavistadesigns.com. TRANSPORTATION, Jump on the School Bus, jumpontheschoolbus.com. ALCOHOL, the Liquor & Wine Grotto, montecitovino.com. CUSTOM FORTUNE COOKIES, Fancy Fortune Cookies, fancyfortunecookies.com. RESTROOOM TRAILERS, MarBorg Industries, marborg.com. Pages 82–83 HAIR, Monique Budriunas-Wenzel, Got_roots01@ yahoo.com. MAKEUP, Judith Hsieh, judithhsieh.com. MATRON OF HONOR’S DRESS, Adrianna Papell, adriannapapell.com. FLOWER-GIRL ATTIRE, Hannah Banana dresses, nordstrom.com; Mini Melissa shoes, shopmelissa.com/mini. GROOM’S ACCESSORIES, Alfani shirt, macys .com; Asos tie, asos.com; Komono watch, komono.com; Boudreaux’s Jewelers wedding band, boudreauxs jewelers.com; Stance socks, stance .com; Calvin Klein shoes, calvinklein .com. BEST MAN’S ATTIRE, Statement suit and shirt, from Al Weiss

Men’s Clothing, (213) 748-2022. RING-BEARER ATTIRE, Men’s Wearhouse, menswearhouse.com. CUSTOM KOOZIE DESIGN, Little Spot Design/Emily Brock, littlespot.co. WELCOME-BASKET CONTENTS, Lady & Larder dried persimmons, fruit, and nuts, ladyandlarder.com; Weller Tribe organic hand sanitizer and smudge stick, wellertribe.com; Boylan Bottling black cherry soda, boylanbottling.com; Miraval Côtes de Provence rosé, miravalprovence.com/en.

FASHION-FORWARD FLORALS Page 205: Christian Lacroix fabric “Malmaison Reglise” and “Malmaison Opiat” FABRIC, $216 per yd., designersguild.com. Sol Y Sombra “Vista Alegre” porcelain CHARGER PLATE, $182, and bread plate, $55, jungleeny.com. Riedel “Fatto a Mano” CHARDONNAY GLASS, in Black and White, $100, riedelusa.com. Hampton Forge “Marion” White & Gold FLATWARE, $70 for a 5-piece set, macys.com. Page 206: Michele Varian matte porcelain DINNER PLATES, in Black, $298 for 4, michelevarian.com. Hampton Forge “Doric” black-andcopper FLATWARE, $76 for a 5-piece set, macys.com. L’objet “Black Swan” medium BOWL, in Black, $225, l-objet.com. Page 207: May Arts silk RIBBON, 2", $80 for 20m, ribbonresource.com. Page 208: L’Atelier d’Exercise “Stylo” ostrich-feather PEN, in Black, $75, jungleeny.com. Page 209: Black velvet RIBBON, 3/8", $4.50 for 25 yd., papermart.com. Page 210: L’object “Celestial” BOWL ON STAND, in Small Black, $395, l-objet.com. Raynaud “Oskar” DINNER PLATE, $114; and #2 DESSERT PLATE, $107, devinecorp.net. Duna by Cutipol matte black FLATWARE, from $14 each, abchome.com.

BLACK & WHITE AND WED ALL OVER Pages 228–237: STATIONERY PRODUCTION, Czar Press (letterpress

printing), czarpress.com; Digital Print & Design (flat printing), chicoprinter .com; Ultimate Business Cards (foil printing), ultimatebusinesscards .com. HAIR, Sarah Mallory, instagram .com/hairbysarahangelina; Kaitlen Ballew, kait.alves11@gmail.com. FLOWER WOMEN’S HAIR COMBS,

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Page 212: Mokuba New York “Frill” satin RIBBON, 50mm, $23 per yd., ribbtrim.com. Page 213: Cru by Darbie Angell “Monaco Gold” DINNERWARE, $189 for a 5-piece setting, darbieangell .com. West Elm gold FLATWARE, $140 for a 20-piece set, $140, westelm.com.

ART OF THE PARTY Pages 214–221: GROOM’S SHOES, Tom Ford, tomford.com. LIGHTING, Breasia Productions, breasia productions.com. VINTAGE BENTLEY, Regal Limousine, regallimousine .com. OTHER TRANSPORTATION, Crown Sedan & Limousine, claudes crownsedan.com. MOTHER OF THE BRIDE’S GOWN, Oscar de la Renta, oscardelarenta.com. AUNT OF THE BRIDE’S GOWN, Reem Acra, reem acra.com. CHEESE DISPLAY, Righteous Cheese, righteouscheese.com. LATE-NIGHT FOOD TRUCK, DC Empanadas, dcempanadas.com. LATE-NIGHT SNACKS, the BBQ Joint, unionmarketdc.com. PHOTO BOOTH, Hot Pink Photo Booth, hotpink photobooth.com. SECURITY, Claviger Security, clavigersecurity.net. SOUND, DAL Production, dalprod .com. VALET, MJ Valet, mjvalet.com. BRIDESMAIDS’ AND FAMILY’S HAIR,

Kalizya Hutchinson, kalizya.com; Lisa Ward, videosinfocus.com/lisa.html; Skyler Whitehurst, swhitehurst 21@gmail.com. BRIDESMAIDS’ AND FAMILY’S MAKEUP, Heather Bates, bellabeatsartistry.com; Shenicka O’Brien, ssobrien27@gmail.com.

Page 228 VASES, AND DISPLAY BOXES, Accent

Decor, accentdecor.com. GLASS CARD TRAY, Jacquie Summer, jacquiesummer.etsy.com. WELCOMEBOX CONTENTS, Carriere Family Farms walnuts, carrierefarms.com; Knaughty Farms olive oil, knaughty farms.com; ChicoBag travel bag, chicobag.com; Boylan Bottling seltzer, boylanbottling.com. TABLENUMBER HOLDERS, Nate Berkus for Target, target.com.

ENGAGEMENT RING AND WEDDING

Produced by Michael McCormick and Shira Savada.

BANDS, Michael Herman NY, instagram.com/michaelherman_ny.

ON WITH THE BOW

Produced by Melissa Colgan and Shira Savada.

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Sparrowstation, sparrowstation.etsy .com. GROOM’S BOUTONNIÈRE, Iryna Fleur, irynafleur.etsy.com. MOTHER OF THE BRIDE’S DRESS, Vera Wang, verawang.com. MOTHER OF THE GROOM’S DRESS, Nightway, macys .com. HAT BOX, Trousseau & Co., trousseauandco.com. VINTAGE BRASS HANGER, Curiosix, curiosix .etsy.com. RIBBONS AND BAG (for flower petals), Silk & Willow, silkand willow.com. NAPKINS AND MATCHBOXES, ForYourParty.com, foryour party.com. CANDLE HOLDERS,

Page 243: Top row, from left: Ahimsa Organic Tussah SILK RIBBON, $40 for 5 yd., silkandwillow.com. Mokuba double-faced SATIN RIBBON No. 1100, 15mm, in color 10, $4.25 per yd., mokubany.com. Second row,

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Plan your new home, imagine your new life, and scan to your heart’s content. Discover why so many couples are falling in love with registering at Crate and Barrel. crateandbarrel.com/gift-registry

We at Cuisinart want to wish you all the happiness that comes with a beautiful occasion. We look forward to being part of your everyday life, especially in the kitchen where cooking is such an essential part of creating memorable meals. cuisinart.com/weddings

Lenox offers exquisite choices for today’s brides, from ﬁne bone china to casual dinnerware to extensive collections of stemware and ﬂatware, along with a wide variety of wedding collectables. Experience the incredible array by visiting lenox.com/dining.

best brands, personalized advice, and exclusive offers, Macy’s Wedding Registry has everything you need to outﬁt your new love nest. To look up a registry or create your very own, visit macys.com/registry.

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Globally iconic and distinctively English, Wedgwood is world renowned for designing and producing the ﬁnest bone china. It represents the marriage of heritage and modernity, with over 250 years of rich history. wedgwood.com or 877.720.3486

The wedding registry that’ll do anything for love. Mix gifts from our 450+ coveted brands with memorable experiences, cash funds, and anything else from anywhere on the web. zola.com

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from left: SILK RIBBON, $27 for 5 yd., silkandwillow.com. Celebrate It SHEER RIBBON, 5/8", in Eggshell, $4 for 20 yd., michaels.com. Third row, from left: Double-faced SATINPICOT-EDGE RIBBON, 16mm, $3 per yd., mjtrim.com. Autumn plant-dyed SILK RIBBON, $27 for 5 yd., silkand willow.com. Fourth row, from left: Mokuba double-faced SATIN RIBBON No. 1100, in Color 5, $4.25 per yd., mokubany.com. Chromspun GROSGRAIN RIBBON, in Sweet Nectar, $3 per yd., mjtrim.com. Fifth row, from left: Mokuba TAFFETA RIBBON No. 4495, 15mm, in Color 13, $4.50 per yd., mokubany.com. Mokuba double-faced SATIN RIBBON No. 1100, 24mm, in Color 48, $6 per yd., mokubany.com. Sixth row, from left: Celebrate It sheer OMBRÉ RIBBON, $4 for 4 yd., michaels .com. VELVET RIBBON, 16mm, $1.75 per yd., mjtrim.com. Page 245 (see image, right): 1. Silk and Willow SILK RIBBON, ¾", $27 for 5 yd., silkandwillow .com. Venchi “Cuor di Cacao” 85 percent dark CHOCOLATE BAR, $8, eataly.com. 2. Chromspun GROSGRAIN RIBBON, 36mm, $4 per yd., mjtrim.com. Oval wooden BOX, $29 for a 3-piece set, papermart.com. 3. East Coast Trimming vintage French 100 percent RAYON RIBBON, $23, eastcoasttrimming.com. Small BAG BOXES, 79¢ each, bayleys boxes.com. 4. Mokuba CHENILLE CORD No. 0600, in Color 5, $5.50 per meter, mokubany.com. “Style H”

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GIFT BOX, in Silver, $10, paper presentation.com. 5. Mokuba MOIRÉ RIBBON No. 4496, 75mm, in Color 13, $32 per yd., mokubany.com. Darice papier-mâché ROUND-BOX SET, $35 for a set of 5, amazon.com. 6. Needle cord VELVET RIBBON, 9mm, $3 per yd., mjtrim.com. “Open Lid Kraft” BOX, $2, jampaper.com. 7. VELVET RIBBON, 36mm, in Pale Blue, $3 per yd, mjtrim.com. “Style S” FAVOR BOX, in Crest Solar

White, $15, paperpresentation.com. 8. Celebrate It sheer OMBRÉ RIBBON, $4 for 4 yd., michaels.com. JAM Paper MAILING TUBE, $2.50, jampaper.com. 9. Mokuba OMBRÉ EMBROIDERY RIBBON No. 1542, in Color 11, $9 for 5 yd., mokubany.com. “Style Q” gift box, $8, paperpresentation.com. 10. Silk and Willow plant-dyed SILK RIBBON, ¾", $27 for 5 yd., silkand willow.com. “SURPRISE BALL,” in Metallic Silver, $6, topsmalibu.com.

11. Mokuba EMBROIDERY RIBBON No. 1541, in Color 241, $9 for 5m, mokubany.com. Two-piece “SLIDE BOX” No. 8227128, $17 per case, papermart.com. 12. Mokuba PLEAT SATIN No. 0492, 50mm, in Color 21, $27.50 per yd., mokubany.com. “Style H” GIFT BOX, in Blue Feather, $10, paper presentation.com. 13. VELVET RIBBON, 16mm, $1.75, mjtrim.com. “Tuck Top” BOX, 59¢, bayleysboxes.com.

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“Marriage is about collaboration— you should always be working toward something together.”

“Everyone likes to say marriage turns you into a boring couple. It doesn’t.”

He Says She Says Hannah and J. D. Gluckstern (see their nuptials on page 73) had been together for 11 years by the time they wed, so married life isn’t all that different, they both admit: They continue to live in their Brooklyn apartment of five years with a cocker spaniel, Henry—and still stay out late dancing with their friends. Here, they share wedding wisdom they’ve learned firsthand. IF I COULD HAV E DON E SOMETH I N G DIFFEREN TLY, I WOU LD H AVE . . .

“Held onto my valuables, like my phone and wallet, instead of dispersing them among my groomsmen. At the end of the night I had no idea where any of them were.”

“Spent less time planning what the dessert table looked like— I didn’t even see it, because I never left the dance floor!”

THE BEST GIF T WE RECE I VE D WAS . . .

“A Breville electric tea kettle that makes the perfect cup of tea— our friends laugh because we can’t shut up about it.” THE MOST SURPR I S I N G TH I N G I LEAR N E D DUR I NG P LAN N I N G WAS . . .

“The easiest way to make sure you have a great time is to make sure everyone around you is well taken care of.”

“We needed to hire a guy to watch over the fire pit we had for s’mores—an actual fire marshal!”

TH E MOST I MPORTAN T TH I N G TO RE M E MB ER ON YO U R WEDD I NG DAY IS . . .

“All the hard work and planning is done—now it’s time to be present and know you’re going to have the best day ever.” MY MOST USEFUL DAY- OF BEAUT Y TR ICK WAS. . .

“A little beard oil to give me some nice shine.”

“The huge smile I couldn’t keep off my face the whole day. Oh, and concealer.”

“Celebrating our first anniversary with friends in upstate New York. We cooked big, delicious meals; played music by the bonfire; and relived the magic of our wedding day.” IF MARR I AG E COU LD BE SU M M E D U P I N O N E WOR D, I T ’ D BE . . .

“Partnership.”

“Adventure.”

NIC K JOHNSO N

OU R FAVOR I T E M E MORY FRO M MAR R I E D L IFE SO FAR IS . . .