The 5 Big MISTAKES That Kill Your Chances Of Ever Getting Her Back Written by Michael Webb GetMyLoverBack.com
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Okay… You’re in a very fragile state. You’ve lost the love of your life and you want her back more than life itself. I understand. This is a very tough time. But it could get worse. Much worse. And sadly, the odds are stacked against you. You see, in most cases, guys DON’T get their girl back. The simple reason being they do all the wrong things that push her further away. And chances are, you’ll only get one shot at this. So you must do it RIGHT. I’ve seen so much terrible advice out there about getting a girlfriend/wife back; that I knew I needed to inform you with the right information. If you can avoid these 5 big mistakes that most guys make, you’ll have a much greater chance of getting her back…
Mistake #1: Trying to get her back too soon First, you need to work out her state of anger or resistance to you. As long as she’s angry, you stand little to no chance of being reassessed objectively, let alone get her back. Of course, it’s entirely possible that you broke up without her getting too angry.
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Maybe she even says she wants to be your friend (but don’t read too much into this, it may be her way of escaping the guilt of moving on without you). The rule here is this: don’t step into the energy field of her anger. Allow some time and space for the dust to settle. This way, you’re less likely to get hung up on or greeted with biting sarcasm when you do pop back into the picture. So how long should you wait? Some “experts” say wait three months, and there is a widely held belief that absolutely no contact whatsoever is the most strategic way to handle this cooling off period. But only YOU know the truth for your situation. So many guys screw up their chances because of impatience and urgency to “do something.” Don’t do this! When you go back in too soon, simply because you are urgent from a sense of panic, it won’t work. She’ll smell your fear and throw up even more defenses than before. You need to wait until the time is right, and the time isn’t right until you’ve done some serious, non-pain-induced thinking and made some major changes because of it. What changes? More on that later…
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Mistake #2: Apologizing or promising to change “for good” Straight out apologies DON’T WORK. Forget delivering flowers with a pathetic apology. The flowers and card will end up in the trash. What about cleaning yourself up? A new haircut, a shower, a cooler car, a better job? The best any of this can do is help to bring back her hope, but it always requires more than those weak surface fixes to get her back. Sure – shave the beard, get cooler friends, dress better, play coy and don’t be needy, yada yada yada. Some of these are valid – MOST of them are not. For example, if how you dressed was a symptom of the larger issue of your lack of self-respect, then it’s valid, yet it’s only a small piece. You need to dig deeper than that. Because the nice clothes will be completely meaningless in the long run unless you really change the things that matter in the process. Don’t waste your money. This is the time for deep internal exploration.
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Mistake #3: Trying to make her feel sorry for you and showing that you miss her Listen… She may feel sorry for you (and that may feel good to you, because any form of attention from her at this point is like heroin), but it won’t bring her back. The moment you become pathetic, you’re done. The moment she sees through your contrived “I-have-ittogether”, you become pathetic, and you’re done… again. Your only hope is to be strong in the face of what you are feeling, and to demonstrate not a shred of bullcrap in whatever process of reconciliation transpires. It’s going to take A LOT more than just making her feel sorry for you to bring her back. You need to do some serious self-improvements.
Mistake #4: Trying to get her attention, make her jealous and mind games Most guys, in their desperate attempts to get their girl back, seek out advice from the Internet. Sadly, most info out there is nothing more than shallow manipulation and obvious trickery. You see, most strategies teach men to hide or mask what went wrong in the first place, or to create the illusion of change instead of actually looking inside and dealing with their issues. Don’t get caught up in the surface things that might get her attention – apologizing, dressing nicer, playing I-won’t-call-you-first games, © Michael Webb
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transparent jealously ploys. Yes, these may get her attention but so what?! If you never fix the root problem behind the breakup, you’ll never hold her attention long enough to win her back. And when the time does come to get her attention, the best strategy of all is to have no strategy whatsoever. That’s right. Play no games, exhibit a complete and total lack of BS in your actions and be as real and open as possible. Only then, when you have her attention, is any sort of ‘strategy’ appropriate, and even then, it’s more of an avoidance of suicidal moves than it is strategic manipulation.
Mistake #5: Fixing the wrong things to get her back Most guys do an extremely poor job of healings their relationships. Unfortunately, without fixing the real issues at hand, the problem almost always returns and another gut-wrenching breakup follows. The key to getting her back is changing the right things about yourself. Winning her back has much more to do with your character, with the very fabric of who you are, than it does with what you did or what you wear or who you hang out with. Because let’s face it – if you don’t have it together once you get her attention, you’ll lose your only chance to win her back. I’ve seen too many men have their sweethearts slip through their © Michael Webb
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fingers because they followed stupid fake tactics. And that's why I written a book for guys just like you. My book “Getting Her Back… For Good” is all about the root problems – the real issues – rather than quick fixes or manipulation. You’ll learn to identify why she fell in love with you, then why she left you and finally understand what you need to change in order to get her back. If you understand the core reason you lost her, regardless of who left who, then you have a shot at getting her back. And I can do this for you. Please take the time to read my advice. I know it can help you get her back. Because the last thing you want to do is delay this process until it's too late and she moves on for good. So what are you waiting for? Check out my guide now at… GetMyLoverBack.com abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;-_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;-_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;-_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;-_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;-_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890 abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ.:,;-_!"'#+~*@§$%&/\´`^°|µ()=?[]123467890
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