The Queen’s Couch — “If Lovin’ You Is Wrong

IF LOVIN’ YOU IS WRONG

M

y Queens…please do not be falling for the okie- doke! I realize that letting go is sometimes “so very hard to do”. But it often becomes a necessity for the sake of inner peace and soundness of mind and soul. YES…LOVE HURTS! But when you have come to the end of the rainbow and realize that it is not what you need any longer… let it go!

I understand that it is easier said than done, but you must learn to value your worth! You must stop lowering the value and price of your happiness by settling. Don’t you know that “settling” is a cuss word in the vocabulary of a Queen? And we Queens do not resort to profanity for any reason!

While the ever elusive “forever” seems to just somehow by-pass many of you wonderful and amazing “jewels of great price”, even in your place of disappointment and discouragement, you cannot afford to allow yourself to be captured by the mindset of desperation for the sake of comfort and consolation.

You gotta always remember that “YOU” are the grand prize, the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow and what is behind door number one! What you are not is anybody’s consolation prize, yesterday’s leftovers or the end of the season discount!

As the season begins to shift and change, please be aware that there tends to be the propensity towards melancholy and other form of depression setting in. You must, therefore, guard your heart against feelings of loneliness and sadness overtaking your emotions and causing you to succumb to reckless

behaviors. Find yourself an accountability partner who will help you stay on track. You need an individual who can pray with and for you and be there when you find yourself struggling or slipping.

Also, be certain to guard your heart against potentially toxic relationships that may just seemingly spring up out of the blue during this time. Some fall cleaning may be the order of the day! It might be time to sweep away the remnants of those faulty attachments and unhealthy commitments that you have been harboring for far too long. This could possibly be the catalyst to freeing up your heart and emotions for a brand new “harvest of goodness”.

Do not be discouraged or in despair! Learn to embrace who, where and what you are at this juncture of your life. Begin to seek out and embrace those amazing and wonderful places inside of you. Enjoy honoring and celebrating them as you look to what is to come in your place of waiting.

My glorious Queens…please learn to love on, pamper, respect and spoil that beautiful Queen that is “YOU”…she so deserves it!

ALL HAIL THE QUEEN!!