FEATURE
Family is Family:
Students with Varying Types of Households Sarah Wuh
Jasmine Lafita
Ellie George
Our society has progressed past the notion that a normal family equates to a nuclear family. In fact, according to the 2020 U.S. Census, only 40% of all families are nuclear families with two married parents and children. Some varying households include those with extended family, single parent, divorced, and same-sex marriages. Each different type of family has its own dynamic, its own beauty, as well as its unique struggles.
Kate Mitchell: Two Moms Sophomore Kate Mitchell lives as an only child with her two mothers. One of her moms works in business and the other works as a teacher. Although one might view her situation as unique, Mitchell does not see her family as anything other than just her family. “People expect it to be different,” Mitchell said. “But it really isn’t. They are my moms, and that’s that.” Just like other parents, Mitchell’s moms have personalities that contrast and compliment each other. One of them is more structural while the other is more “go with the flow”. But ultimately her parents’ character traits, in her opinion, complement each other. “I would say they are very different,” Mitchell explained. “...However, these differences work well together and are both very useful in
[varying] ways and situations.” Her moms are always there for her when she needs them, whether it be school-related or for just a little pick-me-up. They are always supportive of her, no matter what. Mitchell appreciates their accepting outlook on life. “They always see people for who they are and they don’t judge others,” Mitchell said. Mitchell recognizes that her family is “different” in that she has grown up with a disability in addition to having two moms. However, because her moms have always been at her side, having two moms never crossed her mind as something out of the ordinary. “I mean, there’s always people who stare, but I wouldn’t say [having two moms] made me feel any different,” Mitchell articulated.
Sophomore Kate Mitchell is an only child with two moms. Even though it may be seen as a strange, Mitchell sees her family just like any other. Photo courtesy of Kate Mitchell
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