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The Random Conversation Made Easy (and Non-Creepy) Stop letting a fear of being awkward keep you from engaging with others - start creating new connections by confidently tapping into conversation opportunities.
By Camille Virginia
Founder, www.MasterOfflineDating.com One of my most awkward conversations happened when I was a shy, 16-year old. I'd just come back from a Caribbean cruise with my parents where I'd met this cute boy who lived a few towns over. He and I had exchanged phone numbers, but a week after the trip I still hadn’t heard from him and was determined to do something about it. So for the first time in my life, I mustered up the courage to call a boy I liked. My heart was pounding as I slowly dialed the number. The phone rang, he picked up. "Hello?" "Hi, it's Camille. From the cruise." "Hi, Camille." And then... nothing. I'd planned out how to say that first sentence ever so casually but had no clue what to say after that. After about 10 seconds he stepped in to fill the space. "Well, um, I have to go eat dinner now. Bye..." And hung up. I was mortified. I listened to the dial tone for a few seconds, then vowed to never put myself in that position again. If I was going to make the first verbal move with anyone, I was going to learn how to do it right. And that included not just how to start a conversation, but also steer it into a natural flow that's enjoyable for both people.
Over the next ten years, I continued to push the limits of my introverted nature by having conversations with people I didn’t know, in all different kinds of situations: elevators, networking events, in line at the grocery store. Everywhere. Hundreds of random conversations later, I discovered two key factors in how to have a great (i.e. comfortable and non-creepy) conversation with another person, no matter the topic. #1 Take the lead Assume the person you're engaging with has never had a random conversation in their life, and be prepared to steer it yourself by introducing a topic you can both relate to. That could be asking where the woman next to you on the train found that amazing argyle scarf, and discovering you both share Scottish ancestry. Or comment to the guy on the escalator next to you on what a beautiful day it is and how summer is your favorite season. #2 Give the person some space to come to you People who don't know you need to feel safe in taking the risk to engage by feeling free to opt-out of the interaction without fear of awkwardness or causing an embarrassing scene. Maybe you could compliment your frazzled-looking coworker on her beautiful new earrings before continuing your walk down the hall. That's just enough to make her feel good without pressuring her to engage with you in the middle of her crazy workday. Or you could ask "How's your day going?" to the guy who caught your eye in the grocery store produce section, giving him the option to respond in more detail if he's interested in engaging, or just with a simple smile if he's not. No matter how old we are, it can be scary to engage with another person when we don't know how they're going to react to us. Throw in feeling some level of attraction to them, and / or having it happen in a public place, and it can be absolutely terrifying. So, start engaging with people you aren’t necessarily attracted to. Thank the elderly gentleman who held the door for you - or hold the door for him and tell him you love his bright pink bowtie. Ask your pharmacist how her day's going by looking her in the eye, smiling, and letting her know you're truly interested.
After you get enough random interactions under your belt, work up to people your own age and eventually the gender you're attracted to. Conversation skills are just like a muscle - the more you work them, the stronger (and more attractive) they get! About the author: Camille Virginia is an OFFline dating expert, giving singles who are burned out with online dating authentic alternatives to find their match in the real world. You can get her free series 4 Key Ways to Get Him to Approach You (without saying a word) at www.MasterOfflineDating.com/DateTherapy filled with easy tips to become instantly more open and approachable.
GREAT DATES, HAPPINESS & HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS
By Sally Stubbs of www.Sally-Stubbs.com Michelle Keegan and Mark Wright acclaimed as the gorgeous celebrities, stars of UK television – married – a fairy tale wedding – a day filled with sweet emotions. They announced: ‘It was the day our dreams came true’. Michelle chose an exquisite bespoke ivory wedding gown by Galia Lahav, adorned with French lace and Swarovski Crystals. Mark, looking handsome in a black tuxedo and bow tie, summed up his love for his new bride: "Not only are you beautiful, but you are one of the most incredible people I have ever met. You truly are sensational in every single way." Totally loved up, they honeymooned in style on an idyllic, romantic Maldives Island, and in Dubai. They probably really do know that they are beautiful people! The dream is the dream! Could this be your dream – the fairy tale dream, or maybe the dream of adventurous dating? Dates of exploration and excitement, sexiness and surprises? Or the dream of closeness, coziness, mutual respect, harmonious companionship? Or a whole menu of Dream Dates for you to choose from, day by day, month by month, one day excitement and adventure, next sexiness and surprises, then coziness, romance! Whatever your Dream – it is just there – it is just on your horizon – I absolutely promise you – ‘turn around’, ‘stretch out your arms’ and know your dream is within reach. To touch it and to have your Dream come true in your relationship, you need to know a few simple truths, here’s the scoop: You need to know you are uber beautiful. That’s a truth. You need to know you are talented, you have great worth, you are the hero in your life. These are also truths. As soon as you unlock these truths about yourself – you will like and respect who you are, you will appreciate your uniqueness, and then, the special person on your special dates, will like and respect and appreciate you. To achieve this ‘wholeness’ of self-respect and self-worth – an acceptance of your uniqueness and beauty – we all need outstandingly great top expert guidance to ‘turn our self around’. The Brilliant Dr. Tranquility and I are here for you, helping you overnight to begin to ‘unlock’ these truths about you within your mind. Love Sally
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Vikki Ziegler
"An amazing dating pool of people looking for companionship and love again." -Vikki Many divorcées find getting back on the dating scene a daunting experience. But divorce expert Vikki Ziegler – star of the Bravo TV series Untying the Knot – is here to help you get back into the dating game because she knows how important it is to find happiness. Life’s too short to miss out on the joys of a new relationship. Everyone deserves companionship and laughter. Vikki explains her motivation, “I thought about all of my clients going through their divorces, many expressing concern about now being alone. Even after they made the choice to start dating again, they weren’t quite sure how to calmly get started. Spoken, or unspoken, I’ve found this is a common thread for all those in the ‘divorce club.’ With Divorce Dating, I’ve brought you an amazing dating pool of like-minded, like-experienced people also looking for friendship and love again. I understand how difficult divorce can be and it would be my pleasure to help guide you back into the dating pool with comfort and ease. All you need to do is set up your free account. It’s time to remember that feeling.®”
Vikki Ziegler, star of the hit Bravo television show “Untying the Knot” and one of the nation’s foremost experts on divorce, announced today the launch of Divorce Dating, a free downloadable app and multi-media platform devoted to the largely overlooked needs of divorced people. Vikki is a nationally known and respected celebrity divorce attorney, law school professor, published author and television personality. Her show, Bravo’s “Untying the Knot,” debuted in 2014 and was an immediate hit, with the second season scheduled to begin on November 8th. The upcoming season marks a significant expansion from the first, as each episode is increasing from 30 to 60 minutes, and the total number of episodes from six to eight.
➢ Divorce Dating is a newly launched fun, free, down loadable dating app that’s full of possibility. ➢ Divorce Dating is one of the first online relationship sites devoted to the unique needs and interests of divorced people. ➢ Divorce Dating is one of the first online dating sites to be inspired by and led by a female. ➢ Divorce Dating is founded by Vikki Ziegler, host of Bravo’s “Untying the Knot” and one of the nation’s foremost divorce attorney’s. ➢ Divorce Dating gives people a confidence-building environment to communicate, connect and find friendship or love. ➢ Divorce Dating combines a positive, mature and supportive approach with the ease and efficiency of Tinder. Profiles load 10 at a time to insure quickness and ease of viewing. ➢ Some of Divorce Dating unique features include:
A series of fun and quick profile questions to help facilitate matches. The questions, culled from Vikki’s experience as a divorce attorney and her understanding of why marriages don’t always work out, range from the more serious (Why did you divorce? What has divorce taught you?) To the lighthearted (What movie best describes your divorce? Would you run naked in a rainstorm?)
Fast facts about divorce:
➢ Divorce Dating is needed. Forty five percent of all first marriages end in divorce. ➢ There are 25 million divorced people in the United States (roughly 1 in every 5 adults) [Source: US Census Bureau] ➢ The pace of divorce is rapid. There is 1 every 13 seconds; 277 per hour; 6,646 per day; 46,523 per week; and over 2.4 million per year. ➢ That’s a lot of dating opportunity! About Divorce Dating Founder Vikki Ziegler: ➢ Divorce Dating founder Vikki Ziegler is one of the nation’s foremost divorce attorneys and an adjunct professor at Fordham Law School. ➢ She is the host of Bravo’s “Untying the Knot.” ➢ A child of divorce herself whose first marriage ended before she found love again, Vikki is a tireless advocate, voice and thought leader for the divorced community. ➢ Divorce Dating was created with an understanding of what Vikki and other divorcées
share: the unique sensitivities and perspectives that those who have been previously married bring to dating life.
A child of divorce herself whose first marriage ended before she found love again, Vikki is a tireless advocate, voice and thought leader for the divorced community, with an understanding of the unique sensitivities and perspectives that those who have been previously married bring to dating life.
“When someone gets divorced, they don’t think of themselves as single. They are divorced, and that carries with it a set of experiences and emotions that only other divorced people can understand,” Vikki said. “Although divorce is never easy, you can use it as an opportunity to grow and figure out what you want in your next relationship. That’s my mission for Divorce Dating, to create a positive and uplifting relationship space that puts a bounce in the step of every divorcée. With Divorce Dating, it’s time to remember that feeling.” Divorce Dating is free and the perfect addition to any dating portfolio – combining a positive, sophisticated, supportive approach with the ease and efficiency that today’s online daters are looking for. The site’s clean interface and graphics, as well as its refined design, make it easy to join and navigate. www.divorcedating.com Your profile Fabric is the section of Divorce Dating that offers a pictorial story of your lifestyle. These photos are answers to Divorce Dating’s unique “Vikkiisms” which are questions posed by Vikki to help reveal a lot about you using your best relevant photos. This way, you are providing potential matches with both a look at what you enjoy and surefire conversation starters. The Fabric lets photos do the talking. The launch of Divorce Dating comes at a time when online dating continues to go mainstream and divorce, in particular, is increasingly the focus of pop culture and entertainment. Roughly one in five adults has experienced divorce. There are 25 million divorced people in the United States (a number that is significantly higher when people who are separated are counted), and the pace of divorce is rapid. There is one every 13 seconds, 277 per hour, 6.646 per day, 46,523 per week, and over 2.4 million per year. The Divorce Dating app is fully available initially in iOS version in the greater New York area (including New York City, Long Island, the lower Hudson Valley and parts of Connecticut and New Jersey) with additional markets and operating systems to be added in the coming months. If you live in the New York area and want to get started, go to the Divorce Dating app and download it. If you live in another region, you can still download the app and check it out and see profiles so you are ready when it becomes available in your area.
The Divorce Dating app is a sleek and relaxed setting to lean in, connect with people and start dating again. It is the only dating platform that gives divorced people a confidence-building environment to communicate, connect and find friendship or love. Divorce Dating launched in iOS version in the greater New York area in October 2015, with additional markets and operating systems to come. To download the app, click here: Divorce Dating app and for general information go to www.divorcedating.com. Divorce Dating, operated by Divorce Dating Group LLC, is a free downloadable app and one of the first online relationships sites devoted to the unique needs and interests of divorced people. Inspired and led by Vikki Ziegler.
For more information, please visit www.divorcedating.com
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3 Ways to Know He’s Just “That Into You!” By Dr. Tranquility — Lydia Belton, PhD, Ct. H.A.
Once you’re in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you and your partner are on the same page as far as your wants and needs for the future. You may question the strength of his feelings toward you, even if he’s quick to say, “I love you.” It’s one thing to take a first date and move it into a relationship, but how do you know when your partner is ready to move even further forward? As a woman, you most likely want more time and more involvement from your mate. You’re ready for a commitment, whether that means moving in together or perhaps marriage. Regardless, the bottom line is that your relationship now comes with a view to the future as opposed to plodding along day-by-day. It’s time to connect in a way that you can’t put into words, so here are three ways to know he really is “all that into you”:
http://cupidspulse.com/33647/3-ways-to-know-hes-into-you/ 1. He can’t bear to be without you. If you find your partner refusing to go a day without talking to you and he is always making future plans, he’s probably feeling that his life isn’t complete without you. If you want a celebrity comparison, think Matt Lanter and Angela Stacy. The 90210 star just popped the question to Stacy in June, and the two have nothing but smiles on their faces. 2. He invites you to travel with him. When a man invites you on a trip with him, he wants to spend quality time with you. The fact is, men don’t invite women they won’t want to be with to travel with them. Think Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds in this situation. The two have been spotted all over the world, even in Vancouver where Lively met Reynold’s family. Related:http://cupidspulse.com/33647/3-ways-to-know-hes-into-you/ 3. He’s showing more than lust after the third date. After the third date, if communication between you is still great, he should be making a point to create a space for communication and bonding. Despite the spanx and Victoria’s Secret lingerie, he is ready for emotional intimacy and no distractions. Just look at the happiness
that Joshua Jackson and Diane Kruger bring to the celebrity world. Although the pair are notoriously private about their relationship, you can tell they’re in love even when they’re not all over each other in public. So, if your beau seems to fit the above characteristics, chances are that you don’t have to question his feelings about you. Although they may not be able to overtly express their feelings the way that you do, it’s time to let loose and trust his motives. It’s time to go all in and see what happens! Developed by Lydia Belton PhD, Ct.H.A. of DrTranquility.com, Date Therapy® is an effective protocol that helps people get in touch with their criteria for an ideal mate. Published on Forbes.com & Yahoo,DrTranquility’s protocols® have been featured on ABCNEWS.com, ABC’s the View, KISS FM, CupidsPulse.com, Metromix for the Chicago Tribune, British Glamour, REDBOOK, Cosmopolitan Magazine & promoted by Match.com. Currently in addition to datetherapy.com you will find her also on DateTherapy on The Debbie Nigro Show 190 WGCH am Thursday's 10:20-11am EST.
Thomas John - Psychic Medium
www.mediumthomas.com The Real Housewives of New York City Bravo July 2014 "Sonja Morgan Communes with the Spirits" US Weekly Magazine January 2014 "Psychic Predictions for 2014 - Courteney Cox's guru Thomas John reveals what's in the stars" GQ Magazine January 2014 "Consult the Stars About 2014's Biggest Question Marks" A little birdie mentioned there is talk of an appearance on Date Therapy on The Debbie Nigro Show with DrTranquility-Lydia & Debbie very soon‌Stay Tuned!
From his amazing work as the internationally renowned go-to medium, helping not only celebrities but everyone, to his fascinating events and individual sessions, if you don't already know Thomas John, get to know him now! Enjoy a cup of coffee with Thomas here: www.mediumthomas.com/en/coffee.html Thomas John is a global psychic sensation who has wowed audiences across the world with his impressively accurate messages from ‘the other side’. Hosting sold-out events such as A Night with Spirit and Dinner with the Dead, Thomas John is one of the nation’s most coveted psychic mediums. Bi-Coastally based, his gifts continue to be in high demand with influencers, A-list celebrities, and those at crossroads in life from coast to coast and around the globe. Thomas John, gifted since birth, connected with the spirit of his late paternal grandfather at the tender age of four and correctly described to his parents the location of a missing wrist watch that had haunted the family for years (Grandpa’s best friend Jack had it!). From that point forward, Thomas and his family knew he had prodigious abilities, unlike any they had experienced before. Though born with the spiritual skills to communicate with the dead, he didn’t always embrace them. At the age of 18, Thomas began his studies at the University of Chicago. Graduating with a degree in Psychology and Human Development, with departmental honors, Thomas pursued research internships at Yale University and The University of Massachusetts at Amherst, where he was a lead research assistant on studies related to psychopathology and personality. During these internships, Thomas John was the author of three peer-reviewed publications. He was accepted into graduate school programs in medical research, but through the guidance of several of his own deceased loved ones, decided at the last minute to further develop his abilities as an intuitive, and began his metaphysical studies in New York City. In recent years, Thomas’ infallible track record, ethics and down-to-Earth approach as a psychic medium has lead him to being known as one of the world’s top psychics and has earned him an honorable reputation in the industry. He has made innumerable accurate psychic predictions about celebrities that have come to pass often months after he has reported them to the media, including the death of Whitney Houston, the splitting of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, the death of Michael Jackson, and the circumstances surrounding the birth of the royal babies. Thomas John has also had countless visions surrounding medical breakthroughs, political events, and natural disasters, which have come to pass in record time. Thomas John has been prominently featured in top tier print media, including New York Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, The New York Post, GQ, Maxim, OK! Magazine, The Hollywood Reporter, and Life and Style Weekly, along with broadcast appearances on Dr. Phil, Bravo’s Million Dollar Listing New York and The Real Housewives of New York City, and Entertainment Tonight. Learn more about Thomas John at: www.mediumthomas.com
Thomas John, born and raised in the suburbs of Boston, now resides bi-coastally in both New York City and Los Angeles, CA. A reality show based on his life and ‘business from beyond’ is currently in development at a major cable network, to be released in 2015. His first novel, Never Argue with a Dead Person: True and Unbelievable Stories from the Other Side, is due out in March of 2015 by Hampton Roads publishing company and is available for pre-sale at Amazon.com.
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5 Must Know Tips for a Successful Speed Dating Experience
By Michael Clark Expert & Coach, COO of www.Pre-Dating.com
TIP #1: Think of Your Top 5 Favorite Things To Do Seems silly, but when you only have 6 minutes to talk to someone, you may forget to bring up some important things you want that person to know. Think of things that you enjoy doing. Do you like to go hiking? Maybe you enjoy Kayaking? Regardless of what your hobbies and activities are, think of the top 5 things that you enjoy doing. You never know, you may find someone who likes doing exactly what you like to do!
TIP #2: Keep it Simple When you have 6 minutes to talk to someone, you want to keep your conversation positive and simple. Avoid tough subjects such as politics, social issues, etc. Keep the conversation fun, and positive.
TIP #3: Avoid The “Ex” Talking about your ex is the number one turn off for both men and women alike. Eventually, once a relationship begins to develop, the subject of ex’s will come up, but for your first introduction, leave the ex at the door!
TIP #4: Check Your Body Language As people, we communicate not only by verbalization, but visually too. Make sure to keep an open and engaging stance when speed--dating (or any initial date for that matter). Stay away from crossing your arms, or other “closed off” behavior, as that signals to the other person that you are not interested.
TIP #5: Dress to Impress One of the most important things in an initial introduction is how you present yourself. Dress your age, and for your body type. Regardless of your size, height, etc. if your clothes, hair, makeup, etc. is off, or gives the wrong impression, it can completely ruin your chances of getting picked. If you are questioning your style, ask a close friend how you look, or, go to your local dept. store and ask an associate to help you pick out a new outfit that works best with your style. How you present yourself visually is how people will initially determine who you are. Remember, 1st impressions last a life time.
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What Is Destination Love? On the Destination Love Retreat you will spend 2 days in a relaxing, soul-full space, where you will nurture your body, mind, heart, and soul. This is about giving yourself the message that you love yourself... that you come first... that you are your beloved first and foremost. In this powerful, heart opening retreat, you will be guided through a transformational experience that will transform your love life, with yourself and others. We will dive deeply into all things love... healing from heartbreak... relationships... dating... igniting a relationship... and most importantly, receiving love. You will learn the art and science of love. If you’ve struggled with finding, keeping, or letting go of relationships, this is the retreat for you. There are many coaches, self-help books, classes, and dating resources that will tell you how to make men or women chase you, or magically fall in love with you. Truthfully, these techniques fall short. They may provide some short-term dating success, but to find true change and fulfillment in your love life, you need to go deep and heal the patterns that have developed over your lifetime. These patterns can keep you attracting the same unhealthy patterns again and again, and may leave you doubting that love is even possible.
Don’t miss this opportunity to learn effective strategies from a relationship expert and dating coach. The power of a small group and two days of focused intention will set the stage for a powerful experience to help you grow in ways that reading self-help books and occasional therapy or coaching sessions can’t do. To learn more about Destination Love visit www.chellipumphrey.com
This retreat is for you if: - you are single and wondering if you’ll ever find love in your life - you are single and terrified to even consider dating (but somewhere deep inside you admit you want one) - you are in a relationship and feeling unfulfilled or wondering if you should leave - you are recovering from a painful breakup or divorce - you feel like you're always the bridesmaid and never the bride - you struggle with confidence and low self-esteem in relationships - you have a hard time managing the anxiety of dating- i.e. does he like me? will she call? what's he doing now? did I have sex too soon?, etc, etc, etc - the thought of intimacy and vulnerability with a partner makes you want to run for the hills but somewhere deep inside you know that you don't want to spend your life alone - you are ready to commit to growth in your life
In this retreat you will: - have two days of yoga, healthy food, and nurturing, soul inspiring experiences that will leave you feeling loved - find a tribe of supportive people who "get it" - learn about your unique LOVE STYLE and how it affects your dating patterns and relationships. You will understand your brain and biology like a neuroscientist! - learn Chelli's exclusive Authentic Dating method that will give you a roadmap to dating in today's modern world - discover the patterns and stories that make you repeat unhealthy, unsuccessful patterns in relationships - embrace the vulnerability of love instead of fearing it - learn strategies to date with courage, confidence, and resilience - begin the process of manifesting the love of your life (whether your partner is already in your life or not quite yet!) To learn more about Destination Love visit www.chellipumphrey.com
In the last 20 years, I have lead hundreds of clients through profound healing and transformation. I bring together my years of wisdom, intuition, and clinical experience, as well as my own personal experience into this three day intensive. We will dive deep where you will learn to open your heart, strengthen your spirit, gain clarity, confidence, and strength in all things “love”. If you're ready to embark on a weekend of loving transformation, sign-up for the wait list below and we'll contact you as soon as the next retreat details are announced. www.chellipumphrey.com
Manifesting Love(ing) Life
By Jenny Mannion, Intuitive Healer The expression, “to be in love with life” is one we have all heard but how many people do you know who actually live it? I can tell you as someone within the profession of being surrounded by people teaching “wellness” - I don’t see as many as I would hope living this mantra. To fall in love with life you need to accept life as it is and take ownership of it, fall in love with yourself, honor doing what you love and set intentions for what you want to create. I went from being told I’d be in a wheelchair to helping many others heal from within from such diseases as cancer, depression and MS. I was able to find myself, my own inner power, my own gifts and attract the love of my life and fulfill my dream of being a published author. As bleak as it may seem, you too can begin to see fast change in your life and begin attracting what you want. When I say take ownership of your life that doe not mean blame yourself. It means be kind to yourself and begin to take notice of what you might want to change, how far you have come, giving gratitude for your gifts and making a commitment to yourself to take time doing the things you love. You need to love yourself first to be able to attract healthy relationships to you and to be able to continually set healthy boundaries. When you deal with your own stuff in a kind and loving matter transmuting patterns to healthier results is easier. Berating yourself about “coulda woulda shoulda" won’t do anything but disempower you! Tell yourself you are grateful for all your have learned and for all your gifts and make a commitment to yourself to do one thing you love daily - read, call a friend, walk, etc.
The more you do these things you love the more you will find yourself. The more you become clear on who you are and your gifts the more you will attract someone to you who loves and honors you for those qualities. The last piece is to set intentions in all areas of you life. You must have an idea of what you want to create to know when it arrives. As a recap, to begin to fall and be in love with your life: - Accept your life as it is and take ownership - Fall in love wth yourself; give gratitude for how far you have gotten and your gifts - Hone your gifts; do something you love each day if even for a few minuites, this will help attract loving relationships to you - Set intentions in all areas of your life (in relationships, emotionally, financially, mentally, physically and spiritually) If you follow these steps, you too can begin to fall and be in love with your life and live. You can begin creating the life you may have never thought you could have into reality. Please go forward with a healthy dose of self love as things come up be as kind to yourself as you would a close loved one and the change can happen faster than you ever thought possible. Many blessings for your journey.
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The 4 Magic Words Men Need To Hear
By Lisa Copland www.FindAQualityMan.com If you were brought up in the 60’s and 70’s, chances are you were trained to be a strong independent woman. It’s likely you were taught you didn’t need a man in your life because anything a man could do, you could probably do even better. You proudly took on this masculine energy doing everything you needed to do to get ahead in your career. Yet when it came to love and men, chances are you found yourself struggling. Men might have told you that you controlling or demanding. And it seemed like all men wanted were younger woman who fluttered their eyelashes and got their needs met quickly and easily (something men might not have done for you) which left you at home angry and alone yet another Saturday night. Sound familiar at all? It’s time to set the record straight. Here’s the deal... Most men do want to be in relationships with women closer to their age because they share a common history with each other. Most men do try out younger women because they feel appreciated by them, something they don’t always feel from women their own age.
You see men want to be your hero. It’s literally in their DNA coding to keep you safe, protected and provided for. They want to make you happy and will do anything within their power to make that happen for you. The problem is when you need something from a man; chances are you’re using words and phrases he can’t hear. As women, our DNA coding is one of community, so when you ask a man to help you with something, you probably use words like, “Honey, can you help me move this table?” If a woman heard this phrase, she’d say, “Of course!” because she thinks its important to lend a helping hand to anything that helps the community be a better place. A man hears this phrase and thinks you are telling him what to do just like his mom did when he was young. Making a man your hero is the secret to easily getting his cooperation. These two phrases will bring out the hero response in a man when you need him to do something for you. Phrase #1 is “I need your help” then ask for what you need. Phrase #2 is “Could you do me a favor” then ask for what you need. When I’ve used these phrases, I’ve had men tell me they love helping a woman who needs their help. Try this. It will make a huge difference with the men in your life. One last thing you want to know... Men feel under appreciated so thanking them and telling them how much you appreciate what they did for you goes a long way in getting the cooperation of all the men in your life. Learn more about men and dating after 50 by grabbing a copy of my Free Report: "5 Little Known Secrets to Finding a Quality Man Over 50" at www.FindAQualityMan.com Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50's dating. She's the Amazon BestSelling Author of The Winning Dating Formula For Women Over 50 and a regular Huffington Post contributor. Her passion is showing women around the world how to find love again with a good man after 50.
What Is Your Love Style?
By Chelli Pumphrey, MA, LPC
Do you ever feel panicked after a date,wondering if your date will text? Or do you push partners away every time you relationships get close? Do you seem to attract people who get too clingy with you? Or you're always chasing after someone who won't commit? All of these patterns are directly related to your specific Love Style, and it could be getting in the way of you finding the love of your life. What is a Love Style? Your Love Style is formed in the first few years of life, and is based on how your parents or caregivers met your needs as a child. Most people don’t have conscious memories of these years. However, this interaction is the foundation for your adult relationships, and how comfortable you feel with intimacy. To learn more about Chelli Pumphrey visit www.ChelliPumphrey.com
There Are Three Main Love Styles: Love Connector. If you're a Love Connector, you likely need a lot of reassurance and connection in your relationships. Dating may cause a lot of anxiety for you, as you may become preoccupied by constant thoughts and worries about a date's level of interest in you. You may struggle with partners who are inconsistent in their contact or intentions, and will likely switch between feeling needy and anxious for reassurance from them, to feeling anger, hostility,or a tendency to withdraw if you sense that your date has pulled away from you.
Love Stabilizer. Love Stabilizers generally have a sense of comfort and trust in intimacy and relationships. You can go the long haul with the right partner. You don't play a lot of games and are a straight shooter when it comes to discussing your relationship needs. Relationships are easier for you. To learn more about Chelli Pumphrey visit www.ChelliPumphrey.com
Love Resister. Love Resisters typically struggle with intimacy and commitment. You may openly admit that you prefer casual connections, and tend to stay in emotionally distant relationships. Or, you may desire a long term relationship, but find that you sabotage things whenever you get close to a partner. You may have a tendency to focus on special traits that drive you away from dates, or compare new partners to an ex that you can't seem to forget. Your Love Style is a powerful influence on your relationships. Without this awareness,you may follow a pattern of failed relationships with partners who have incompatible Love Styles. Understanding your Love Style is the key to finding and keeping love! To learn more about Chelli Pumphrey visit www.ChelliPumphrey.com
Coach. Mentor. Guide.
8 Red Flags To Help You Avoid Non-Committal Men
by Mike Goldstein of EZ Dating Coach I am going to tell you upfront and right now, there is NO way to get a non-committal man to commit. However, in this article I am going to highlight some of the signs that a guy is not ready for commitment. If utilized you will save a lot of time and heartbreak. After reading this article, I am hoping that everyone will have the tools needed to realize what guys need to be thrown swiftly and immediately back into the dating pool because even if they are great men, they simply just want to be single. Without further ado, here are the Signs He Does NOT Want A Relationship With You: 1. Sex Once Per Week 2. Texting once or twice a week purely to setup Sex 3. No Phone Calls 4. Zero introductions to Family 5. No Talk About Future Plans Together 6. Zero Introductions to Friends 7. Not Willing to Speak Everyday 8. Not Scheduling Dates in Advance (Hanging out is not a date) Now here is the kicker. If you ask a guy, "What are you looking for in your next relationship?" and he says, "I want marriage and a family together." BUT still treats you with the points above, he didn't lie about wanting a relationship. He told the truth, but he does NOT want a relationship with YOU.
Mike Goldstein is a 1-on-1 dating coach for women who has been featured on the Today Show, The Star Ledger, Reader's Digest, and Shape Magazine. 83% of Mike's clients enter relationships during coaching and he currently has 100% client satisfaction. If you would like to learn more about Mike or his practice please visit his website or blog for speciďŹ c, straight to the point dating advice. If you would like to request a 15 minute phone dating strategy session, you may contact Mike at datingcoachmike@gmail.com or call him at 201-683-8702.
The Elusive “Conscious Relationship” It is Self Perpetuating Mas Sajady Many of us have “Unconscious” relationships and we yearn daily for connection with work associates, friends, neighbors, children, parents, family members, and especially our romantic partners. I was recently asked what the term “Conscious Relationship” meant to me, and I was pleased to participate in the conversation. Because of my two near death experiences, I now have a unique perspective and am sharing my understanding of many topics globally. According to my multi-dimensional experiences and encounters with what I understand to be Exponential Intelligence, the definition of a Conscious Relationship is being completely aware of Yourself. It is not really about being in a relationship with other people. Conscious Relationship is the acknowledgment and connection between You and Your Higher-Self / Your Spirit-Self with true self-awareness. So perhaps that’s why the question about “Conscious Relationships” is being asked; because many of us are not aware of our true selves. A conscious relationship is where people with highly conscious self-awareness come together in a committed relationship and unite as independent beings rather than ‘entangled beings to help each other move forward much easier to a much higher level.
A Conscious Relationship is not Time Bound That relationship will feel timeless no matter how long the relationship is; a few months or years, it will always feel as if you just met each other. When you work with me and/or Exponential Intelligence you will be pulled away from needy or negative relationships. Once you understand yourself at an inner level, then the external relationships begin to come in from a different perspective and become conscious. People who are in tune with themselves are drawn to and will attract conscious relationships; because it is a state of being. Conscious Relationship doesn’t work from the outside in; it’s not something that you do, it’s something that you are. As a result of who you are from that state of being, you exude that consciousness outside of you. Don’t Search… Once you are Conscious, the consciousness will Self-Perpetuate. Searching leads you outside of yourself, and when you are outside of yourself your are not present. Go internal. It’s not about how other people make you feel. Truly study and follow your own identity: Become more aware of every aspect of your life. You begin to see how other people interact with you, and you begin to see how you interact with other people who help you define what consciousness or a closer relationship is. Your level of internal awareness holds the key to the quality of your external relationships. Once there is clarity in your internal awareness, you naturally start to attract conscious relationships. The conscious relationship we are talking about is not with other people, it is really about how you interact with the environment around you. It is an interaction between you and how you identify who you are and where you are at a deeper spiritual level. Once you are awakened, Conscious Relationships manifest automatically.
Meet Mas Sajady: A former computer programmer, Mas Sajady was a normal guy living a normal life until his second near death experience changed everything. Through his triumph over an unusually treacherous journey after the second near death, Mas returned with extraordinarily potent abilities that can powerfully facilitate life transformations beyond anything currently available in arenas of healing and transformation - with rapid, tangible and documented results. Mas will be presenting at the Awaken Wellness Fair in Tarrytown, New York on October 30, 2016. www.mas-sajady.com
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The Dorchester Spa
The Dorchester Spa
Located at The Dorchester Hotel, London,UK Treat yourself to the ultimate pampering experience... you deserve it! Justifiably touted as one of the most renowned hotels in the world. The Dorchester Hotel originally open it's doors in the late 1930's with guests who still include dignitaries and royalty. After it's remodeling in reopened as one of the world's preeminent 5 star hotels a great getaway. We had a unique and wonderful opportunity to film The Dorchester Spa. A recipient of the prestigious Condé Nast Traveler Spa Award. Filming for B Well TV, DrTranquility- Lydia The Dorchester Spa... Indulge the body and senses in luxury and reach unparalleled levels of relaxation, sink into comfort as the body is cleansed and exfoliated with a gentle aromatherapy rose wash and fragrant salt and rice scrub. Following a refreshing shower, hydrating rose water in a smooth gel and nourishing rose oil are layered one after another onto the skin. This is followed by a deep body massage designed to relieve tension and relax tight muscles. A replenishing rose cream is then smoothed all over the body, which is then wrapped in a warm and cozy rose cocoon.
While drowsing, one's complexion is treated to a facial massage followed by a soothing and hydrating rose mask. A blissful scalp massage completes the ritual. Those lucky enough to enjoy the Rose Ritual will leave feeling radiant, rejuvenated and quite simply – rosy! A complimentary glass of Dorchester Rosé Champagne will be served prior to departure together with The Dorchester's specially created Rose Petal cake! Relationship issues? Perhaps you want to pamper and preen,or simply take a well deserved mental break no problem ladies, for now we have The Rose Ritual!
Just like you.. a true spa girl myself checking out every treatment possible from Costa Rica to Connecticut. I can honestly say this treatment is unparalleled. It proved to be one of the most sensuous experiences of my life. In fact I would go so far as to say I would liken it to the sensual pleasure of Teuscher's Champagne Truffles(another favorite of mine as all of you who loyally read DrTranquility's Blog and DrTranquility.com well know by now.. So why not treat yourself to the ultimate pampering experience... don't you deserve it!
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Pura Vida Costa Rica DrTranquility.com Your unique destination for wellness information and relaxation on the web! Originally filmed when DrTranquility-Lydia was VP of a health and wellness channel for IPTV before launching her own DrTranquility TV, and her B Well TV production arm. In fact if you hurry you will still catch the production on DrTranquility TV before the new site is here: www.DrTranquility.com
Pura Vida Retreat and Spa offers a variety of enchanting accommodations scattered across meticulously landscaped grounds, each designed to delight with views of lush gardens and majestic mountains. It's all inclusive!
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Pura Vida, a common salutation in Costa Rica meaning "Pure Life," is a beautiful retreat nestled high in the hills blessed with some of the most amazing sunrises.
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The rooms are very spacious, this is especially true of the master suite with a panoramic view of the hillside, and is appointed with every amenity needed for true relaxation and bliss.
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There are a couple of free standing cottages on the property one of the properties the Pagoda is one of the most tranquil, serene, private and romantic places to enjoy time with a loved one, with a sunken living room, raised bedroom, and an outdoor ďŹ replace set on a patio with spectacular views.
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The Zendo or "Tea House" is very private and serene with amazing panoramic views. In the case of the Zendo, however, your are still close to the Jacuzzi and the restaurant. The food at Pura Vida is incredible.
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Awaken from your rest in this beautiful oasis and healthy gourmet cuisine, but with a Costa Rican spice and avor. In fact the guests so loved the food that the head chef has produced a cookbook a sure best seller (and we know our best sellers here at DrTranquility!) Best of all you will want to eat your veggies... and with a smile! www.PuraVidaSpa.com
All set against the exotic backdrop of a retreat with some of the most amazing healers and Yogi's from around the world coming to work at Pura Vida for a few weeks at a time. As you have seen in our opening video!
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DrTranquility is also gifting you with an excerpt of our relaxation session... it takes 3 minutes and your energy or Qi and life will change with just a slight shift from your stressful moment as you take your mind to a new place and space. www.PuraVidaSpa.com
When you return you will have a new outlook on the issue of the moment, or just take a quick 3 minute wellness holiday to hold you over as you await your own Relaxation Journey. Take time to go to the beach, go to the park, go for a walk, go to Pura Vida.. and remember PROPER breathing is key! www.PuraVidaSpa.com
While attending Boston's Expo East Natural Products Conference. DrTranquility Wellness Walk at Boston's beautiful Charles Hotel. The Charles Hotel is an interesting and beautiful hotel, located where else... Harvard Square in Cambridge! It boasts wonderful outdoor cafes and bars, great restaurants such as, Henrietta's Porch the outdoor cafe to Henrietta Table both offering amazingly fresh cuisine. The Rialto Restaurant, Italian restaurant is incredible and creative and as someone who has eaten her way through Tuscany, studied and knows her Italian cuisine I can tell you there will be no regrets once you dine here!
Finally if it's jazz you love, you won't want to miss out on the opportunity to "lounge out" at the Regatta Bar, the world famous jazz spot, or take in the nightlife at Noir, top of my to do list from now on whenever I am in the Boston. That and of course ice skate - yes they have their own rink. One of the reasons The Charles is a popular destination, and has been for over the last 25 years, is the impeccable service by the staff. In fact everyone from former President Bill Clinton and Secretary Hillary Clinton, Barbara Streisand, his Holiness the Dalai Lama, and even Ben Affleck enjoy this amazing hotel. The great talent of The Charles Hotel and what makes it so popular is it's unique ability to create a feeling of an upscale boutique hotel's intimacy within such a massive space. There is something for everyone at The Charles.
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If your thoughts are leading you toward a getaway from stress this holiday season, which as we all know begins next month... If it's Thanksgiving, New Years, or somewhere in between take a trip to Boston and book yourself into the Charles Hotel. Relax, Refresh, Renew and enjoy this amazing Preferred Hotel experience DrTranquility promises it won't disappoint!
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There are so many great reasons to visit Sonoma’s wine country and the award-winning spa at the Kenwood Inn ranks among the top of our list. Kenwood Wine Bath Choose to soak in our relaxing oversized jacuzzi tub overlooking the vineyards before or after your spa treatments. This aromatic bath will soothe the senses and help to relieve tired muscles. PS it is offered for two! Fresh, glowing and younger looking skin is only five steps away. Using the Basic Five, that is; the highly active, powerful and effective regimen intended to be the foundation of your daily skin regimen based on your individual skin type. At the Kenwood Inn and Spa you’ll find the world-class products and treatments from ARCONA. Based in Los Angeles and used by top celebrities including: Katherine Heigl, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Mandy Moore and Diane Lane, ARCONA’s effectiveness is its active ingredients and the way they are combined and processed. Cosmeceuticalgrade ingredients, such as enzymes, antioxidants and amino acids, are formulated to work synergistically to deliver powerful results. The Spa at Kenwood fully embraces the power of the grape employing the penetrating, protective qualities of topical treatments based on oils extracted from grape seeds. Our custom made products incorporate vinotherapy, including red wine extracts, Chardonnay and Riesling oils among other specifically selected elements to promote healing and relaxation. From pure, organic products crafted to enhance the look and feel of your face to customized wine-based treatments for your body, we’ve specially developed a series of unique treatments to rejuvenate your face, soothe your body and relax your mind.
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At Quady we were taken on a wonderful tour of the vineyard by Dave and Darren, the assistant winemaker. They explained to us their amazing process from start to finish.
Two wines that stood out and were definitely the Editor's picks here on DrTranquility.com's Relax, Refresh, Renew were: Quady’s Essensia (2007) is lightly fortified to 15% alcohol and aged in the barrel for about 3 months. This wines balanced acidity and orange aroma provides more of a fresh fruit feel rather then the traditional sticky dessert wine many are accustomed to. Essensia can often make a dramatic accompaniment to dessert. It is sufficiently sweet to harmonize with the sweetness in the dessert, has excellent acidity, and stands up to assertive flavors, such as chocolate. Deviation wine, incorporating new ingredients from the plant kingdom, delivers higher levels of sensory pleasure than can be done with grapes alone. Its name refers not only to a deviation from winemaking practice but also to the history of specialty winemaking at Quady and as homage to change.
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TCI Turks and Caicos The Place To Be For Luxury! If the Kardashians can do it, why not take your honey on a quick little getaway?
Vacations7ResortsInternational.com This beautiful and serene hideaway has all that you will wish for, should your stay be a quick romantic getaway, a long luxurious holiday or a business trip. Think of Vacations 7 Resorts International as your home away from home. We have been honored with the esteemed Travel Advisory award of excellence, our minimalistic while elegant rooms and suites are an oasis with in an oasis. We offer a multitude of services. Located here on famed Grace Bay you will find yourself nestled at the beach with all of the shops, restaurants and activities just a 5 minute walk away. Book our Yacht captained by Alger Dean , you may enjoy deep sea diving,fishing given that T&C boasts the third best reefs in the world. Perhaps top off your day with a romantic sunset cruise. It is all at your fingertips and it is our pleasure to assist you. Simply visit our booking concierge page located here on our site to help you plan a wonderful holiday. In the mean time here is what our guests are saying: "Fabulous time! Would definitely recommend to others!" We had a wonderful time at La Vista Azul, The Indigo Suite. Stayed in building 3 room 103, which had a great view overlooking the pool. We were just a few quick steps to the pool, which was great for taking a quick dip in the mornings or evenings.
There were very few people around and those who were around were very friendly. Most of the time it felt like we had the pool and surrounding deck to ourselves. Felt very safe here the entire trip. Nick was great and very responsive to all our questions!
The actual unit itself was very nice and modern and had everything we were looking for. The pictures are a true representation of the accommodations. The location was great - just a quick 5 minute walk to the beach. Many of the resorts are further down the beach so there weren't many people in earshot of us which was really nice and private. There isn't much shade on the beach so I would recommend bringing a cabana shelter. I got one off ebay for $70 and it worked wonderfully. The market is about a 30 minute walk (if you like walking!) to get groceries and there are tons of great restaurants right around the resort. We loved the Green Bean Cafe for breakfast, coffee and a healthy lunch! The gazebo was being renovated to have a hot tub put in during our stay, so I'm sure that will be a fabulous addition. It was near done when we were leaving on March 10th. There was a gym onsite, but it didn't appear open most of the time. Jammin' Gelato, also on site, opened daily at 4pm. Overall we had a very relaxing, comfortable, quiet and enjoyable vacation and I would absolutely recommend staying here if you are looking for an alternative to an allinclusive."
Le Club Monaco The storybook destination of Monaco, at once romantic and captivating, boasts an unparalleled tradition of luxury and refinement.Le Club Diamant Rouge de Monaco is the luxury travel club of the Monaco Government Tourist Office. Exclusive in benefits, yet affordable in price, Le Club is the best way to take advantage of all the Principality has to offer. Classic* membership at a glance: Complimentary one-way helicopter transfer between the Nice Côte d’Azur Airport & Monaco with drop-off or pick-up at your hotel (over $150 value) and 20% discount on additional helicopter transfers. Complimentary admission to all museums and attractions ($100 value) and to the Casino de Monte-Carlo ($25 value). Exclusive privileges and special discounts on: - spa treatments at the Thermes Marins Monte- Carlo - car services at Limousine Tours Monte- Carlo - dining at: La Montgolfière, Henri Geraci Le Louis XV, Alain Ducasse, Polpetta, Stars 'N' Bars - 20% discount off Girls’ Guide to Paris travel club membership Membership Application: Classic membership requires a confirmed reservation at one of our partner hotels: Hôtel de Paris, Hôtel Hermitage, Hôtel Métropole Monte-Carlo, Monte-Carlo Beach Hotel. Monte-Carlo Bay Hotel & Resort, Fairmont Monte Carlo, Le Méridien Beach Plaza, Port Palace and Columbus Monte-Carlo. To join Le Club, please contact us at: Le Club Diamant Rouge de Monaco Ltd. 565 Fifth Avenue, Fl 23 New York, NY 10017 Tel: (888) 371-CLUB Facebook.com/LeClub DiamantRougedeMonaco
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DrTranquility-Lydia Belton, PhD, Ct.H.A. is a mental health expert with a background in Mind-Body Medicine from Harvard University's Mind-Body Institute, and Columbia University's Rosenthal Center in Botanical Medicine & the British School of Complementary Medicine, Harley Street, London UK. She is a media expert, having been featured in Cosmo, Glamor UK, The View, Fox and published on Forbes.com www.datetherapy.com