The Evolving Woman Holiday 2020 Edition

THE EVOLVING WOMAN - 6 - DECEMBER - 2020 Aunty Mae, I am a young single woman and I must say Covid-19 has been hard on me. With all the restrictions in place, my social life is dying. Also, when I do go out I have to wear a mask. How am I supposed to find or connect with my Prince Charming in this season? DEARAunty Mae,

DEAR Dear Evolving Woman, up; video on, well dressed and long as you are alive, your story Covid-19 has changed the dat- ready to participate. While the is still being written. Unemploying game but rest assured all number of guys participating ment is always a good time for is not lost. People are still con- may be limited, you are not us to reevaluate what we really necting, dating and getting seeking every male’s attention. want to be doing. We sometimes married in the midst of this The one who is looking for you forget the value of time because Pandemic. The first thing I want will find you, even if it’s on a we often undervalued our time to say to you is keep your stan- zoom call. by selling our most productive dards high despite what’s go- Finally, although I am a little hours to employers for minimal ing on. Every time you go out skeptical about dating sites, wages. Now that you are back to conduct business or errands couples have claimed to have in control of your time use it on groom yourself like you did be- found their true love on these self reflection, levelling up, soul fore Covid-19. If the eyes are the sights. My only advice here, care and nurturing important window to your soul, remember which also applies to the other relationships. Write down goals, your eyes will never be masked advice I have given so far is to and then begin to develop a on your errands or at work so proceed with extreme caution, step by step plan how you will make eye contact with people let wisdom be your compass. If accomplish these goals. This as you interact with them. Sec- a guy is really interested in you, may mean returning to school. ondly, your attitude matters. no need to rush anything. Take Online training can be done at Men are hunters and as hunters your time and get to know him a minimal cost and from your they adjust to the environment. and please do not ignore the desk. You can also spend your Guys won’t be able to see your warning signs. time volunteering or bartering MAC Ruby Red Lipstick behind what you can do with someone your mask in this season, so Dear Aunty Mae, who can teach the skills needed they will be more attentive to I am a little bit nervous for your new job. your shape, outfit, tone of voice and generally your behavior as you interact with others. Reabout my future amid this Pandemic. The world’s Also there are several businesses that can be started with minimal start up capital such as, member to be kind, profession- economy seems to be spi- Project Management, Virtual Ofal, and calm. Staying safe is not raling downward and I just fice Assistant, Essential oils and a permission to be rude. recently lost my job. What soap maker, App Developer, advice do you have for me Coaching, Image consultancy Thirdly, let’s not get so Zoomed out that we avoid social events on social media platforms. This in terms of keeping hope alive? and web design are just a few. Whatever you do in this season. Don’t lose hope, keep praying, is a great time to join like mind- keep preparing and keep pushTHE EVOLVING WOMAN - 7 - DECEMBER - 2020 Aunty Mae, ed clubs and movements on social media. Accept the meeting invite to the game night or interesting webinar and show Dear Evolving Woman, Many global economies are challenged at this time but the world has not ended yet and as ing !