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American Heart Association advocates on the steps of the New York State Department of Education Building to celebrate the implementation of CPR in Schools.
Where hands and heart meet Dominic’s room in Queens is the same as it was when he left for college in 2009. He never lived in that room again – sudden cardiac arrest claimed his life on Oct. 5, 2009. But thanks to action that the New York state Board of Regents took recently, lives like Dominic’s have a better chance of being saved. Now, CPR in Schools is part of the school curriculum in New York state. “We are so grateful that the New York Regents saw how important this is,”
Dominic’s mother, Melinda Murray, who was was onhand for the the final stamp of approval on the CPR in Schools Law in Albany, said. “We are so pleased that the journey has ended in this positive, lifeaffirming way.” For victims of sudden cardiac arrest like Dominic, having CPR performed doubles or triples the chances of survival. The CPR in Schools Law will make sure everyone who
graduates from a New York high school has learned how to perform hands-only CPR and understands how to use an AED. Murray was joined by other American Heart Association advocates – including survivors - who have worked for 15 years to make sure that New York has a CPR in Schools law. Three other mothers who lost children to See CPR on page 11
“It’s been 14 years since Madison died. I know she’s been peering down at us, guiding us, making sure that more children will survive.” - Suzy McCarthy, speaking about her daughter Madison, who died of cardiac arrest at 5
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Giving thanks is twice as nice in my family.
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Giving thanks is twice as nice in my family This year I’ll try to keep in mind the things I’m thankful for as we all gather around the dinner table (twice) this Thanksgiving. I guess maybe I should start by saying that I’m thankful I not only don’t have to cook a huge dinner on Nov. 26, but I also get to sit down to two great meals — one at my parents’ home and one at my mother-in-law’s. That’s right. I get to have a side-busting meal twice in one day — the kind of meal that kids expect and Jennifer Wing adults anticipate. True, there is a bit of repetition — Editor there will be a turkey, some stuffing and, of course, delicious pies to round out the meals. But there will be other, varied dishes, too. For instance, my mother will make her barley stuffing – a tried-andtrue family recipe that is a yummy spin on the traditional bread version. And my mother-in-law always makes things so special, with delicious desserts I dare not describe here, in case you might not be able to resist crashing the dinner yourself. But I think the thing I’ll be most grateful for this year is that the people that are most important to me will be around each of those tables yet again. True, there will be loved ones absent due to geography – my brother in Hawaii is one example – as well as those we’ve lost over the years. But those not with us will, definitely, be talked about, as they are at most family gatherings, and, in that way, will join us, if only in our stories and hearts. Happy Thanksgiving, and may you gather round the table with your loved ones this year, both in person and in memories shared.
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Sunday, Nov. 1
Squishing of the Squash
10 a.m.–3 p.m., Rosamond Gifford Zoo, 1 Conservation Place, Syracuse. What happens to the pumpkins when Zoo Boo is almost over? The squash get squished! Watch as animals throughout the zoo stomp, romp and chomp pumpkins of varying sizes. Free with Zoo admission.
A Woman for President in 1880
2 p.m., Matilda Joslyn Gage House, 210 E. Genesee St., Fayetteville; 637-9511. Meet at the Gage Home for a stroll by the childhood home of President Grover Cleveland, and discussion of Gage’s support of the first woman to run a serious campaign for the presidency. Tours walk approximately one mile and are an hour long. Cost: $5.
Tuesday, Nov. 3 Kids in Motion
6:30–7 p.m., Onondaga Free Library, 4840 W. Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse; 492-1727. Get your preschooler moving and dancing with this video-guided activity before bed. Play with maracas, shaker eggs, scarves and more as they move to music. Children, ages 1-5. Registration preferred. Free.
Friday, Nov. 6
Star Party: Fall Skies & Meteor Shower
8–10 p.m., Baltimore Woods Nature Center Inc., 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus; baltimorewoods.org. Look at the planet Uranus and the fall skies, showing off their large assortment of clusters and faint galaxies and, perhaps, a few shooting stars from the Taurid meteor shower. For all ages. Back-up date Nov. 7. Pre-register online or pay cash at the door. $6 for members, $9 for nonmembers.
Saturday, Nov. 7 The Belle of Amherst
7:30–9:30 p.m., Red House Arts Center, 201 S. West St., Syracuse; 939-8243. A one-woman show about the life of Emily Dickinson, The Belle of Amherst stars Barbara Pratt, and is directed by Pat Stone.
Sat.–Sun., Nov. 7- 8
Great New York State Model Train Fair 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Sunday, Empire Expo Center-NYS Fairgrounds, 581 State Fair Blvd., Syracuse; modeltrainfair. com. The 41st annual fair will feature 100-plus vendors and 30-plus operating layouts. Sponsored by CNY Chapter, National Railway Historical Society. Tickets: $8 adults 16 and over; Free for children 15 and under.
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Monday, Nov. 9
Lights on the Lake Stroll
5–9 p.m., Onondaga Lake Park, Liverpool. Everyone is welcome to enjoy this special walking preview of Lights on the Lake before it opens to vehicles only. Visitors can choose to park at either the Wegmans Landing, Salt Museum or Willow Bay lots. Holiday characters will be on the trail and refreshments will be available for sale. $2 adult suggested donation.
Tuesday, Nov. 10
Lights on the Lake Dog Walk
5– 9 p.m., Onondaga Lake Park, Liverpool. Dogs (and their parents) are welcome to enjoy this special walking preview of Lights on the Lake before it opens to vehicles only. Visitors can choose to park at either the Wegmans Landing, Salt Museum or Willow Bay lots. Holiday characters will be on the trail and refreshments for humans and dogs will be available for sale. $2 adult suggested donation.
Wednesday, Nov. 11
Veterans Day Observance Concert
11:15 a.m., Storer Auditorium, Onondaga Community College, 4585 W. Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse; sunyocc.edu. Free and open to the public.
Nature Adventure Day Camp: Fairies & Trolls
9 a.m.–4 p.m., Baltimore Woods Nature Center, 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus; baltimorewoods.org. Look for fairy rings and hunt for trolls, build gnome thrones and fairy houses while discovering a magical world of adventure and fun. Costumes are encouraged. Before and after care available. Cost is $45.
Wednesday, Nov. 11 –Jan. 3 Wegmans Lights on the Lake
Onondaga Lake Park, Liverpool; visit lightsonthelake.com for hours and details. Now in its 26th year, Wegmans Lights on the Lake is a two mile long drive-through show featuring: towering holiday displays and animated scenes. Admission is $10 car MondayThursday; $15 per car Friday-Sunday ($6 per vehicle with a Wegmans Shoppers Club Card on Monday and Tuesday.)
Thurs.–Sat., Nov. 12-14 From Foster Care to Fabulous
8 p.m., Red House Arts Center, 201 S. West St., Syracuse; theredhouse.org. Between the ages of 14 and 17, Patrick Burns lived with four foster families in Oakland, CA. His self-written, self performed musical details this experience with a plethora of jaw dropping and side-splitting anecdotes, and a bizzare cast of horrific, hilarious, and ultimately heartbreaking characters. Ticket prices vary.
Friday, Nov. 13
November Sensory Friendly Time
5:30–7:30 p.m., Museum of Science & Technology (MOST), 500 S Franklin St., Syracuse; most.org. Staff turns down the noise, turns off flashing lights and shuts off the air compressors so people with sensory processing challenges can enjoy the museum. The museum also offers quiet areas where participants can sit, relax and regroup. Free for members; $5 for nonmembers.
Friday–Sunday, Nov. 13-15 Holiday Shoppes 2015
10 a.m.-7 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, noon-5 p.m. Sunday, Empire Expo Center-NYS Fairgrounds, 581 State Fair Blvd., Syracuse; jlsyracuse.org. This merchant marketplace offers a carefullycurated selection of items.
Saturday, Nov. 14 Dasher’s Magical Gift
11 a.m., The Oncenter Civic Center Theaters, 421 Montgomery St., Syracuse; cnyarts.org. This production is filled with colorful characters, ample doses of humor, and holiday magic for children and families. Ticket prices vary.
Ski and Skate Sale
10 a.m.-noon, Manlius Village Centre auditorium and gym. Hosted by the vllages of Manlius, all are welcome to drop off gently used skis, snowboards, and ice skates to sell: set your own prices. Straight skis or helmets not accepted. For drop-off times visit manliusvillage.org or call 682-7887.
Artful Tales: A Perfectly Messed-Up Story by Patrick McDonnell
1 p.m., Everson Museum of Art, 401 Harrison St., Syracuse; everson.org. For children ages 3 and up and their caregivers. Enjoy an afternoon of storytelling and gallery exploration with a Museum docent. Stories are inspired by themes found in the Three Graces exhibition- joy, beauty and wonder. To register, contact Kimberly Griffiths, kgriffiths @everson. org, (474 6064 ext. 308. Free.
Highland Forest Open House
11 a.m.–3 p.m., 1254 Highland Forest Road, Fabius; onondagacountyparks.com. Featuring complimentary horse-drawn wagon rides courtesy of Highland Outfitters, information about local outdoor clubs including the Adirondack Mountain Club (ADK), CNY Orienteering and the Syracuse Biathlon Club; and refreshments courtesy of Orchard Vali, Skyline Lodge’s caterer. Free.
Winter Farmer’s Market
10 a.m.–1 p.m., Baltimore Woods Nature Center, 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus; baltimorewoods.org. Featuring a diverse mix of local farm and artisanal food products from top regional producers. Held indoors; free parking.
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Think before you buy a pet this holiday Submitted by Joanne Cronan Hamoy Wanderer’s Rest Impulse thoughts and sentimental feelings can mix to make a “not so thought-out perfect” plan. Some people may get a pet for someone in the family without asking what their thoughts are on it. Especially one who has just had a pet who passed away and everyone wants to cheer them up. This could turn out to be a disaster for everyone. Many times shelter pets get there because they were exactly that - a surprise for someone who was not emotionally ready for another one. It is a very personal choice to select a pet for yourself, let alone someone else trying to do it for them. The holidays are crazy enough without a new pet trying to make sense of it all. The people, decorations, parties, festivities and trips, guests and chaos. Imagine what this would all look like to a shelter dog or cat. Potty training a new dog or puppy in the dead of winter is definitely going to be dreadful for the little guy or gal! Especially if the new owner is older or not limber enough to avoid slipping on ice or snow. Not exactly the most ideal of situations. Purchasing, adopting or by any other way of obtaining a pet for children is never a great idea. The novelty usually wears off too quickly and the parents are the ones who become the new caretaker. Many shelter animals get there by this tried-
and-true method of failure. Especially the cute little rabbits at another holiday time. Fueling the fire for puppy mills and pet stores who view animals as merchandise. Add the accessories plus the cost of a new fancy pet and your bank account could suffer a severe blow by the time you’re out the door. Many puppy mill and backyard breeder animals suffer from disease and genetic disorders hiding from unsuspecting buyers. Dangers and worries - the lights, Christmas plants, the tree and the trimmings, holiday food spread out over tables and all of the decor can make for a deadly mix whether it be a dog or cat. At this time of year, many veterinary clinics brace for the emergency visits - when Fido or Fluffy ingest something that is either toxic or glittery, glass or not meant to be eaten! Now if you are ready and you have planned it all out and your holidays are quiet, relaxed and just plain cozy - you may be ready to share it with a shelter pet. Heaven knows there’s plenty of them out there who would love to share it with you. If you have planned it all and you’re ready to commit, then bring home the new love of your life and have a great holiday. Cheers to saving a life by adopting a shelter pet! Wanderer’s Rest Humane Association is located in Canastota. Visit wanderersrest.org for more information. NOVEMBER 2015 SYRACUSE PARENT
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Wednesday, Nov. 18
Saturdays, Nov. 21. 28
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10 a.m.-4 p.m., 209 W. Heman St., East Syracuse; 463-4339, herculescandy.com. Watch as candy canes are made by hand. Free cider, cookies and candy tastings. Register for free prizes.
Saturday–Sunday, Nov. 21-22
Friday, Nov. 20
CModel RR Club & Historical Society Open House
Art Gone Wild!
6–8 p.m., Rosamond Gifford Zoo, 1 Conservation Place, Syracuse. If you’ve ever wanted to purchase a piece of animal artwork, now’s your chance! Dozens of pieces created by the zoo’s animals will be auctioned off in support of the Rosamond Gifford Zoo chapter of the American Association of Zoo Keepers. Light refreshments and cash bar available. $5 per person, children 6 and under are free.
Saturday, Nov. 21
11 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday, noon-4 p.m. Sunday, Skaneateles Junction Railroad Depot, 4986 Jordan Road, Elbridge; cnymrrc.com. Free.
Thursday, Nov. 26 Turkey Trot 5K
This event leaves from the White Water Pub located at 110 S. Willow Street, Liverpool and will be run on the East Shore Trail.
Friday, Nov. 27
Dickens Christmas opening day
November TACNY Junior Cafe Scientifique
9:30–11 a.m., Museum of Science & Technology (MOST), 500 S Franklin St, Syracuse. Rebecca Loy, a special education teacher in the East Syracuse-Minoa School District and 2015 National Oceanic Atmospheric Administration (NOAA) Teacher at Sea recipient, will present “What’s Down There? Exploring Oceans with the NOAA Teacher at Sea Program.” The talk will cover shipwrecks and other ocean floor obstacles while updating our country’s coastal maps. Learn about the research ship R/V Rainier located in Kodiak Island, Alaska, as it views the ocean floor and completes hydrographic surveys. Talks are aimed at middle school students, A light breakfast is served before the event. RSVP to jrcafe@ tacny.org so TACNY knows how many people will be attending. Free.
Noon-4 p.m., village of Skaneateles; skaneateles.com. The 22nd anniversary edition of Dickens Christmas opens at noon with the World’s Smallest Christmas Parade. Charles Dickens and his entourage will meander down Fennell Street to Jordan Street to Genesee Street, ending on the porch of the Sherwood House. Dickens Christmas continues noon to 4 p.m., every Saturday and Sunday through Dec.r 20th, with an abbreviated production (noon to 3 p.m.) Dec. 24. Free.
Saturday, Nov. 28 Family Train Day
10am to 1pm, The Commons, Burdick’s Driver’s Village Circle Drive, Cicero; Featuring trains running on the large indoor model railroad, in loops on the floor, a children’s play area and Thomas and Friends. Free.
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Nature’s Little Explorers: Fall Series
November 4, 5, 18, 19 Baltimore Woods Nature Center, Marcellus
Saturday IMAX Special: Beavers November 7 -21 Museum of Science & Technology (MOST)
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Remember when you first in our house. Unfortunately, the B er g a m o- M re n brought your baby home example I set on this one is bad. oo a K and a favorite pastime I can sit down with The Boy was “He’s got your?” and help him map out a work As in “he’s got your plan for a major project or eyes,” “he’s got your essay. I can even guide him nose,” “he’s got your through the process, making smile.” You played this sure he does a little bit every game until your baby night, but what does he see A had been figuratively when I have a project due (or mo ve ther dissected with every bills to pay or a house to clean ’s perspecti body part, feature and look for company or a column to write)? attributed to a parent or cousin He sees me rushing him through his three-times removed. bedtime routine so I can get my work done However, as the aforementioned child — work that I knew was coming weeks gets older and a personality develops, the ago. Work that I know comes up with game can become a little accusatory in the regularity of nightmares after bingenature. watching The Walking Dead. Work that I “He gets that from you,” I have said to should’ve started yesterday. my husband when The Boy demonstrates a It’s my hope that despite my bad less-than-admirable trait such as plopping example, I can instill in him the value of things in the middle of the living room floor preparation and planning. Yet, every time or snoring at ear-splitting levels. I harp on him to start his projects early, I If it’s a habit that is incredibly annoying, think, “Do as I say, not as I do.” that one is always blamed on the relative Hypocrisy thy name is Mom, but at least least likely to be invited to family functions. I’m honest about it. And The Boy’s honesty, “That is so your Uncle Fredrick.” well, of course that one comes from me. Rarely does a parent take ownership of the lesser qualities. Temper? Not from me. Karen Bergamo Moore lives in Snores? That’s all you, honey. Allergies? Camillus with her husband and son. She Not me. Procrastination? That’s a different works in the communications office at the story. SUNY College of Environmental Science As a friend of mine says, he didn’t get and Forestry, is active in Boy Scouts and that one from licking it off the grass. enjoys running 5Ks with her son. Follow Lead by example is a phrase often heard her on twitter at @kmoore623.
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sudden cardiac arrest joined Murray. Madison McCarthy was 5 when sudden cardiac arrest claimed her life in a kindergarten classroom. “Madison was surrounded by the best people possible, but without an emergency plan in place, nobody took action,” said Madison’s mother Suzy McCarthy of Evans. “It’s been 14 years since Madison died. I know she’s been peering down at us, guiding us, making sure that more children will survive.” Emily Adamczak was 14 when she died six years ago. Her mother, Annette Adamczak of Akron, has since trained 18,000 students in hands-only CPR. “The ripple effects of this action will be felt across the state, as we make a difference in the lives of our children,” Adamczak said. “Together, where hands and hearts meet, a life can be saved; one heartbeat at a time.” Sudden cardiac arrest survivors were among the advocates, including 15-year-old Joe Mendrick of Colonie, who was 11 when a baseball hit him in the chest and stopped his heart, and Joel Stashenko, also of Colonie, whose son Casey – who had learned CPR in his school – revived him. JJ Pesany of Lancaster, a senior in high school, suffered an electrical shock and was saved by CPR.
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