D iscoveryMan Published by Discovery For Men Ministry
October/November, 2013 Vol. 1 No. 3
Digest
Music Sports Food Art
Pressured? Don’t Get Distracted! When a Man Cooks for a Woman Every Man Is An Asset
Dr. Felix Ohiwerei , OFR
—Work Hard, Play Hard, Keep Straight
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Contents
Credits Publishers Pastors Taiwo & Nomthi Odukoya
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God. There can be “no true success” without partnering with Jesus. —Mr. Felix Ohiwerei
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Editorial Pastor Kunle Soriyan Sylvester Ojenagbon Niran Adedokun Ron Mgbatogu Biodun Ogunjobi
Contributors Dennis Etiwe Muktar Mohammed Taiwo Akinlami Pastor Kunle Soriyan Yele Okeremi Davis Oyinloye Dr. Ausbeth Ajagu
Discovery for Men Directors
Pressured? Don’t Get Distracted!
“I used to be a waiter,
Mr. Adebajo, Bolaji Mr. Ali-Balogun, Mahmood Mr. Awosika, Biodun Pastor Babatunde, Ladipo Mr. Balogun, Biodun Mr. Maduneme, Lawrence Mr. Mgbatogu, Ron Mr. Nnona, Oliver Mr. Olawuni, Akinlabi Mr. Ososami, Bolaji Mr. Shonibare, Dapo Mr. Soyebo, Jimi
Art is Life
Adverts
now I am God’s Super Star” —(SACO)
Tunde Shado
Photography Phd Photos Dela Dee
22 Banking Sector Boon to Investors
24 Bible Business Basic:
Integrity: Key To Business Success (Part two)
27 Collaborating Successfully 28 The PATRIOTISM we are YET to KNOW!
45 Books, Music,Movie 46 Super Eagles:
Riding a Horn of Africa team to Brazil 2014
Design Tonye Edet
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Tools & Ideas Google Glass his highly anticipated piece of technology will allow wearers to have a hands-free technological experience. While you wear the lightweight glasses, you can use your voice to command them to take pictures, record video, send messages, find directions and translate your speech. The glasses connect to the Internet and use Google’s services to create a hands-free smartphone, right in front of your eyes. Google are testing the product on a lucky few who applied to be “Glass Explorers”, but they will be released to a wider audience soon.
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Sony 4K OLED TV his will be the world’s first Ultra High Definition television that uses Organic LEDs, with a native 3,840 x 2,160 OLED panel. The 56-inch set gives outstanding detail and high-quality image, and experts are saying it will change the way we watch television for good. Again, no release date or price has been mentioned–but technology fans are desperate to get their hands on the newest piece of TV tech.
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Powerbag hen is a bag more than a bag? When it’s a gadget. Powerbag Backpacks and Slings protect your laptop in style and come with an integrated on-board battery and connectors capable of charging the average smartphone at least twice! It contains a built-in 6,000 mAH battery that can charge your smartphone or tablet when placed in it. If that sounds handy, get this: you don’t even have to go digging through the bag to see how your charge is coming along. A battery indicator is visible from the outside. What’s more, it folds flat enough to go through airport security with your laptop still inside.
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Linksys RE2000 Dual-Band Wireless-N Range Extender he new Linksys RE2000 DualBand Wireless-N Range extender is ideal for extending wireless coverage in the home. When people use wireless routers in the home they often experience a weak wireless signal in some parts of their house. Sometimes caused by blocking elements like walls or interference from other devices such as baby monitors, microwaves or other phones. The new Linksys RE2000 Range Extender helps maximize wireless coverage and eliminates “dead spots” in the Wi-Fi coverage throughout the home. The Linksys RE2000 works seamlessly with all b/g/n Wi-Fi devices so you can connect all of the computers and devices around your home. The placement of the device can be very flexible and it can fit into any wall outlet or desktop placement, which allows you to optimize the location and position to achieve best possible range and performance.
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Roku 3 ith the Roku 3, a person can watch a movie without bothering everyone in the house. When a viewer plugs a pair of headphones into a standard 3.5mm jack on the remote, the Roku signals the set-top box to send audio over Bluetooth only to the remote.
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PaperTab ombining the flexibility of paper with the endurance of digital, PaperTab is set to change the way we work on documents. PaperTab only allows the user to open one thing at a time, but have several papers. This means users can do things like share PDFs just by tapping two tablets together, fast-forward during a video by bending the display, and opening emails by touching two displays together. Unfortunately, the device is still in construction and there has been no word on a release date–or a price.
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Panasonic NE Series Wireless Speaker Systems anasonic earlier this week announced the pricing and availability of the new NE (Network Era) Series of wireless speaker systems. The SC-NE1, SC-NE3 and SC-NE5 all feature outstanding sound quality and wireless connectivity. Having announced the SC-NE1 earlier, the NE3 and NE5 follow in its footsteps adding to an already quite good feature list. The SC-NE1 comes with a 2-Way Speaker System featuring an 8cm Long Stroke Woofer with Nanosized Bamboo Cone and a 2.5cm Tweeter. It can produce a strong and deep bass sound that would be hard to imagine coming from such a slim and compact unit. Sometimes there is a distortion generated by scattered reflection of sound from the surfaces in our environment. This has been greatly reduced by noise cancelling with digital signal processing. And the strong lightweight Nanosized Bamboo Cone speaker with high acoustic velocity is used to achieve sounds with high sound pressure and clarity. The Panasonic NE Series 3-1/8 inch Long Stroke Woofer employs large-amplitude vibrations and produces a genuine deep base sound.
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The Panasonic NE Series 3-1/8 inch Long Stroke Woofer employs largeamplitude vibrations and produces a genuine deep base sound.
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Contributors
Yele Okeremi
Pastor Taiwo Odukoya
The President, Discovery for Men and Senior Pastor, The Fountain of Life Church, Ilupeju, Lagos, Nigeria. He can be reached at president@discoveryformen.org
The founding and incumbent Managing Director of Precise Financial Systems Ltd. He is a Microsoft Certified Systems Engineer and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Computer Science (With Economics) from the Obafemi Awolowo University and a Masters in Business Administration. He is an alumnus of the Wits Business School, Johannesburg South Africa and currently undergoing the Owner/ President Management Program (OPM) at the prestigious Harvard Business School, Boston, Massachusetts, USA.
Olakunle Soriyan
The Principal Transformation Strategist of THE OLAKUNLE SORIYAN COMPANY, a Total Life Management (TLM) and Nation-Building Training, Coaching and Consulting Firm. The company works with leaders of various Arms of Government and NGO’s as well as a Business and Institutional leaders at all levels, using original, home-grown research and principle-based methodologies. Olakunle Soriyan can be reached on pts@olakunlesoriyan.com
Muktar Mohammed
An investment analyst and portfolio manager. He has appeared on several international and local television and radio station e.g CNBC Africa (Open exchange closing bell) CNN (Market place Africa), TVC International (Business), e.t.c He is the MD/C.E.O of Asher Dynamic solutions, located in Ikoyi, Lagos Nigeria. He is married with children.
Dr. Ausbeth Ajagu,
Ph.D, MFR, NPOM, F.AES
An entrepreneur and the Group Executive Chairman of a number of companies including Betcy Group, Abuja Oxford Hotels, Lekki Oxford Hotels, Oak Hotels Lagos, Goldfish Insurance Brokers, & Oxford Zenith Inc, Canada. An author of several best sellers, Public Policy Analyst and Conference speaker, he has served the Federal Government in various capacities including being a member of the National Technical Working Committee of Vision 20:2020, Board member, Nigeria Shippers Council and Nigeria Inland Waterways, member of the Presidential Committee on job creation.
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Wale Elegbede Dr. Davis Oyinloye
Dennis Etiwe
A Media Content Developer with training and experience in research, PR/Protocol, administration and business development. He is passionate about adding value to people, groups and organisations he represents and can be depended upon to be the man that facilitates the progress of teams and individuals he connects with. He works with Discovery for Men.
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A practicing medical doctor in Lagos, Nigeria. He has a passion to educate people and create awareness for healthy living. He gives health talks from time to time. He is an entrepreneur as well. He is married to Marian. They have a son, Brandon. Davis loves music and he is also a recording gospel artiste.
A Senior Correspondent on the politics desk of one of the leading national newspapers in the country. After obtaining his first degree at the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Osun State, he is presently undergoing his postgraduate studies at the Mass Communication department of the University of Lagos. With ample experience from several newsrooms, Wale is a committed member of the publications unit. He stays in Lagos with his family.
Taiwo Akinlami
The Principal, Taiwo Akinlami INSPIRES is a Child Protection Specialist, Consultant to UNICEF on Child Protection, Independent Legal and Social Regulatory Expert on Child’s Rights and Responsibilities Issues, Legal Enlightenment & Development Enthusiast and an accredited facilitator of the British Council School Leadership Program.
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s the year draws to a close, we can look back at what has been an exciting year for the DISCOVERY for MEN, particularly the introduction of the DiscoveryMAN DIGEST with three powerful issues in the kitty. Our magazine underscores the truth that men are noble and Men do things. We listen when it is time for us to learn. We speak when it is time for others to listen. We stay silent when speaking will not make us heard. We do what needs to be done when the time for listening and speaking is done. Each edition of the DiscoveryMAN DIGEST has tried to do exactly this by capturing the most needful issues and present them in ways men everywhere can connect with. In this edition, we accept and appreciate the past, plan and prepare for the future but bold enough to try to ensure all articles and interviews in this edition represent one clear idea that we only have the here and now to make anything (not everything) better. After all, now is always the best place to be in, regardless of the circumstances, because it is the only thing we truly hold. To needlessly dwell on the past, to berate or flagellate ourselves for the bad things that have happened to us—failed relationships, sour business deals, the impact of our socioeconomic and political imbalance—or to retreat into the comforting parables of a glorious, if largely imagined, past is to be ungracious to the present and to the Lord Jesus who owns it. If anything, we should be grateful for the time given to us—and enjoy everything while it all lasts. We should endeavour to be worthy of the challenges that face us and to overcome them with the grace and fortitude that we expect of others but demand no less from ourselves. You will see this in the very first read: “Pressured? Don’t Get Distracted” where pastor Taiwo Odukoya sends a clear message of hope, encouragement and direction. The statesman, Felix Ohiwerei bore his mind in a way that underscores the critical summary I mentioned earlier; it made a good cover. It speaks to all men that even with all our perceived shortcomings, men can be great and achieve great things if we push forward into the direction that we know the Holy Spirit defines. From “Memo to my Teenage Child” to how investors can use new ideas, you find clear usable instructions. Okeremi shares practical wisdom on standing tall with integrity despite the challenges of the times, the piece on patriotism is simply
comforting, inspiring and a way forward. And Okundalaiye Ayodele, aka “SACO” gives humor with necessary emotions that strikes a balance of fun-time and serious exchange, Above & Beyond and Barry Delozier (When a Man Cooks for Woman) joined the balance in the Arts segment. Then the reminder about the Super Eagles and the 2014 World Cup tie with Ethiopia. This edition is here to give direction again. This is what we celebrate. Every issue of the DiscoveryMAN DIGEST will not be the best possible content, but it will be necessary efforts from an imperfect publication, in an imperfect world to imperfect men, getting better and better each day. It is for and about the man on his journey of destiny with his maker and master. This edition in particular, is about how to walk that journey. It is about being better men than we already are because we know that it is in the making that makes the man. It is about knowing that being born male doesn’t necessarily make us men. It is about making the best with what we’re given, whether it’s dealing with getting older or to make ourselves a meal. It is about always striving at being at our best. Ultimately, it is about doing things that need to be done—and to be happy that we’ve done a good job of it. The way that only a real man could and in a way society can be grateful for, enough to bring glory to our father in heaven. You will take a lot from this issue. Please let’s have your comments. Enjoy. Olakunle Soriyan Editor
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The Word
Pressured?
Don’t Get Distracted! By Pastor Taiwo Odukoya
“Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word. But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, ‘Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.’ And Jesus answered and said to her, ‘Martha, Martha you are worried and troubled about many things, but one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.’” —Luke 10:38-42
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his is the story of Mary and Martha, two sisters whom Jesus visited at Bethany. While Martha was occupied with the role of a good hostess, Mary sat at Jesus’ feet, enjoying the Master’s teaching. Martha was more concerned with making sure that everyone was comfortable. There was nothing wrong with that, except that she would rather have been sitting at the feet of the Master also. She was neither wholly here nor there. She got stressed up! Her assessment and judgment of the situation became warped. Martha was obviously distracted. She would want to do more than one thing at the same time. When we get distracted from our goal, like Martha, we become stressed. When we become distracted, we loose sight of the important and become burdened with the urgent. And like many stressed people, Martha blamed everybody for her predicament. She accused the Master of not caring–“Lord, do you not care?” Next she blamed her sister Mary for being irresponsible–“My sister has left me to do all the serving alone.” Then she tried to work things out her own way. “Tell her to help me!” What was the Master’s response? Verse 41 says, “And Jesus answered and said unto her, “Martha, Martha, (you can put your name here because it probably applies to you, too) you are worried and troubled over many things.” Now, the Chambers English Dictionary defines stress as a constraining influence; physical, emotional or mental pressure. The World Book Encyclopaedia says it is a body condition that occurs in response to actual or anticipated difficulties of life. People often experience stress as a result of
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major events in their lives such as bereavement, divorce or the loss of a job. Stress may occur when people perceive a threat to their lives, or when they are faced with challenges with which they are not able to cope. And that explains what Martha was going through. Now, stress is most deadly partly because of its subtlety in the rigour of daily living. The word ‘worried’ actually means to be pulled in different directions. And what Jesus said to Martha was, “You are distracted.” It means to be divided into parts. It means to be pulled apart from within. The word ‘bothered’ gives the impression of noise, turmoil or trouble. Simply put, you are just agitated. Why not take a day at a time. And that was what Jesus was telling Martha: “Take things the way they come. Mary has chosen one thing and nobody can take it away from her.” In the words of Charles Swindoll, “There has never been a more stress-ridden society than ours today. For many, gone are the days of enjoying bubbling brooks along winding pathways or taking long strolls near the beach. The relaxed bike ride through the local park has been replaced with the roar of a motorcycle whipping its way through busy traffic. And a hectic urban family going in six different directions…existing on instant dinners, shouting matches, strained relationships, too little sleep, and too much television has pre-empted the easy-come, easy-go lifestyle of the farm. The truth is, we live in a time when we are obsessed with business.” According to Richard Exley, “we have been taught that all things are possible to him who works hard. And not only possible, but expected! We are haunted by self-doubt and work all the harder because of it, driven by the mistaken assumption that success will quieten those tormenting voices within. The illusion of fulfilment calls us to redouble our efforts and so we forge ahead – blindly, desperately. Soon, we define our lives by what we do. We are a banker, a teacher, and a plumber. Tragically, we have lost our very own identity. We have
Whatever your own situation, I have good news for you. You do not even need to begin to think of how to manage stress; instead, you can conquer it. You can become an overcomer through Jesus Christ. become workaholics.” Statistics show that the Japanese are the most hardworking nation on earth. The average Japanese worker does a twelve-hour stint. They have a lot to show for it, including the highest suicide rate! Apparently their strong work ethics only breeds more discontentment despite their relatively healthy economy. Someone once said, “I have to work. I feel ill when I am not working hard.” It was Patrick Murielle who said, “We have invented and are being moulded the more by a culture, which requires more energy than people have to give. Many people are finding that they simply cannot cope with the pressures of so many changes, so quickly.” I am sure by now you are wondering: am I stressed? Experts say the common signs of stress include unusual heart rate, high blood pressure, muscular aches or pains, mental depression, inability to concentrate and indigestion. Typical reactions may include social withdrawal; an increased use of tobacco, alcohol or drugs; and feelings of helplessness about the situation. Whatever your own situation, I have good news for you. You do not even need to begin to think of how to manage stress; instead, you can conquer it. You can become an overcomer through Jesus Christ. You can actually conquer and eliminate stress from your life. Why not choose that one thing today? Why not lay it all at the feet of the Master, Jesus? The Bible says, “Casting all your care upon him,
for he cares for you” (1 Pet.5: 7) Remember, He once sat where you sit today. The Bible says He was tempted with all temptations with which you are being tempted. Hebrews 2:18 states, “For in that He Himself has suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those that are tempted.” He has passed this way before. The psalmist said, “Except the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain that build it” (Psalm 127:1). Except the Lord builds for you, you are wasting your time. Why not allow Him? We are told in the book of Proverbs, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path” (Proverbs 3:5,6). Another version says that He will make straight your path. Consider this: God made the system. You can trust Him today. You can refuse to lean on your own understanding. You can deliberately begin to acknowledge the Master Builder in all your ways, thereby inviting Him to build with you. You cannot fail, in Jesus’ name. Confession I have the power to live above stress. I take on my challenges one at a time and refuse to be distracted. I get God involved in my situations and do only the things that are needful. I do not allow any form of pressure to hold me down. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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Good success comes from God.There can be “no true success” without partnering with Jesus. —Mr. Felix Ohiwerei Interview by Ron Mgbatogu, Biodun Ogunjobi and Dennis Etiwe Mr. Felix O. A. Ohiwerei is an icon of corporate governance and practical management. As a corporate titan, his journey of decades of meritorious work in various capacities culminated in his rise to the position of Marketing Director before becoming the Chairman/Managing Director of Nigerian Breweries. In his time, the company successfully ventured into new and uncharted territories within the lager, malt and carbonated drink segments and attained noteworthy achievements with the use of locally sourced materials. He is currently Chairman of several companies, holds an Honorary LLD From the University of Ibadan, is a recipient of national honours of the Officer of the Federal Republic (OFR) and the Order of Orange Nassau by the Queen of Netherlands. He speaks to DiscoveryMan Digest about success, family and finding God. You are now a mentor to many. Who was your own mentor? The very first mentor that I had was my father. He had a very strong character. He was a catechist. He was also a strict disciplinarian and his lifestyle impacted very strongly on me as a child. As much as he understood, he brought us up to fear God. For instance, he made it very clear to us that lying was a terrible sin and of course if we told a lie, we were flogged for it. Being a catechist, he always talked about how God would smile on us if we were good boys or girls in whatever he asked us to do. My second mentor was my eldest brother who came and took me from home at the age of nine, going to ten. He was very strict, straightforward, honest and a disciplinarian. He kept me on the straight and narrow. At the time I was with him, I didn’t quite appreciate what he was doing for me. I disliked the way he regimented me; I thought he was too strict and that he didn’t like me very much because he was always punishing me. But later in life, I thanked God that I went through him. My school teachers in Government Secondary School, Owerri also played their part. I remember quite a few of them that stood out. Like my principal, Mr. M.C. English, whose lifestyle had a strong impact on me. Mr. F.O.A. Soga, (Physics teacher) and (Chemistry teacher) Mr. Ben Chukwudebe. In the University of Ibadan, my role model was Professor Mabogunje. He was a young, dashing lecturer who knew
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his subject. He was very thorough, prompt and punctual. Although the age difference between him and us wasn’t so much, we looked up to him. He was outstanding, as far as I can remember. In my working life you can mention people like Dr. C.E. Abebe, Dr. Micheal Omolayole and Mr. Akintola Williams. All these role models stood out because they were achievers and men of integrity. Later on in life I met a man of God, Pastor E.A Adeboye. His humility, life style and unimpeachable character challenged me. He is my spiritual role model. You also achieved quite a lot during your long and successful working life. How did you manage to balance the demands of that hectic work life with family life? This is a very good question and I hope that you will see why I say so in the course of this interview. I started out as every young man aiming for the top. First, I worked hard and as a bachelor, I did not mind the long hours at work. When I was on secondment to Elida Gibbs, a Unilever Company in the UK, my work life changed. Yes, I worked hard but I closed on time as everyone else. Then I married. This was in the UK. I came home early; my wife and I had dinner together. We also had breakfast together. When we returned to Nigeria we continued with this life style. One day I went with my boss to an Agency meeting at Lintas to discuss the latest campaign proposals for Star Beer. The meeting dragged on until evening. At
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the end of it, I was in a hurry to go home. My boss, David Gilchrist, said “Felix, let’s go out for a drink.” We went out for a drink. One drink led to another, followed by small chops. I got home very late and my young wife was worried and wondering what had happened to me because that was the first time I was getting home that late. When I got home, she took one look at me and said, “You have been out drinking.” I said yes, and explained that my boss took me out. She started crying and I was very embarrassed. It wasn’t a pleasant experience. I got to the office the following morning at the usual time, 7:30am. David Gilchrist walked into my office and said “Good morning, Felix. I bet you were in the doghouse last night.” How did you know? I retorted. He said “because I set you up! I wanted to teach you a lesson: your young wife needs to learn that sometimes, you will have to come home late.” It was then it occurred to me that he actually planned it. For him, it was a big joke. For me, it was a lesson. So as time went on and I became more senior with more work to do, my time of coming home became irregular. But each time I came home she would rush into the kitchen and serve me a delicious meal. Children started coming one after the other. One day I came back from work and I was to go to the Island Club that evening to meet some of my friends. So I had a shower, took my car key and went into the sitting room. I stopped to play with the baby, I wanted to carry him and he would not allow me. I tried a second and third time. One of the older children then said to me, “Daddy, if you stay home more he will know you and allow you to carry him.” The car key fell from my hand. I sank into the nearest chair. If my wife was in the sitting room I probably would have thought that she planned it. But she was in the bedroom. When I recollected myself, I realized that my presence was needed at home. I
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had to be around; to play with the children, and let them get to know me well. As I became even more senior, the cocktail and dinner parties started pouring in. The children used to sleep around 8:30pm. When my wife is around, she would read to them and pray with them. Each time we had to go out together before their bed time, the children were not very happy. Now, how do you strike a balance with that? The choice was to leave my wife at home and go alone; I was not comfortable with this option. Things came to a head one day, as we were about to leave the house for a dinner party, our three year old son said to me, “why can’t you stay and eat dinner in your own house?” We now had a rethink. We decided to spend more evenings at home and eat together as a family. I also decided that I would take them to school in the morning – fortunately, they were in Corona School in Apapa where we lived–drop them off in school on my way to work, come back at lunchtime, pick them up from school and have lunch with them. We developed a very close relationship from then on. It is amazing what you hear from children when you sit and eat with them. You get to know what is happening in school, who their friends are, what they are up to etc. You are also able to teach them table manners as well. I have found that one of the things that has brought us together very much as a family is dining together. The children are grown up now and have gone their various ways, but as a rule my wife and I still eat dinner together. It can take us one hour or more, just sitting down at the table and talking. So to your question; that’s how I managed to balance the family needs as well as work needs. I didn’t succeed because I was a very clever man; it was because God used the children to change me. You have been through different stages of Nigeria’s development and now everybody is talking about corruption being the bane of our society and the reason why we are under-developed. Do you share that point of view? Are there other elements responsible for our lack of development? There are a number of factors responsible for our declining quality of life. Corruption is certainly one of the most important, if not the most important. But the change in our value system is also a very important factor. The degradation of our educational system is another factor. Perhaps the most important is that we have completely neglected the building up of moral standards and good character in our children. I think that the root of it all is the ‘lopsidedness’ if I may put it that way, of our value system. There was a time that good behavior, character and religious study mattered in the society. The fear of God as well as the fear of one’s parents and superiors mattered. All these things have been eroded and shoved to the background, enthroning the love and pursuit of money. Now, every young man and woman
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wants to get rich in a hurry. Parents are running after money at the expense of their family and do not spend time at home with their children. Men fall or rise on account of the choices they make. If you were to advise men on how to make choices and decisions, what would you say? One thing I say to people when I have cause to talk to them, is that while their career is very important, the family is far more important. One day, that career will come to an end and you will come back home, to sleep on the bed you have prepared. If you pursue career at the expense of your family, you will discover that you are not a friend to your wife and that the children do not know you. Your old age will be very lonely because you will be a stranger in your own home. I have seen it happen. One day we were having a good time at the Civil Service Club, Yaba about 11:00 pm (that was before I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior). When an elderly man came in unhappy and almost in tears. He said that he got home that night and nobody would interact with him. His wife and children were busy doing their own thing and he said he came to the club for companionship. I didn’t quite appreciate the seriousness of the man’s situation until much later in life. I was invited to give a talk to a men’s fellowship in a church. They wanted me to talk about boardroom politics. As I prepared the talk, something in me said, “Go and talk about family life.” I ignored it. As my wife and I were driving to the venue on the appointed day, the burden came again strongly and I knew then that I had to obey. So I told my wife what I was hearing and asked her to help me with relevant scripture references from her bible to back up the points I was busy scribbling. We got there. I thanked them for their invitation and told them that I had a leading to talk to them about something different. I spoke about the importance of paying sufficient attention to the family while pursuing a career. I spoke to group of very educated people–professors and directors of businesses etc. At the end of my talk there was a hush. One man, a professor, said to me: “Is it too late to make amends?” I said no. But you could see the pain in his eyes. One young man said “I think God sent you to me.” I asked why and he said his eldest sister was having a very bad time with her husband who was a very successful technocrat, now retired. He was constantly quarreling with his wife, accusing her of ‘cornering’ the children and leaving him in the cold. For example, when the children called on the phone they would speak with him for a few minutes, but could talk with their mother for thirty minutes or more. Even when they went visiting, they would chat with him for two minutes, gravitate to their mum and be with her for hours. He said one day the old man challenged the children, “Why don’t you ever talk to me?” They said “Daddy we have nothing to talk to you about.” This was when I understood the pain in the heart of that man in
the club that night. It’s a serious thing. If there should be any tilting at all in the way you spend your time, it should be in favour of the family. I am now retired and I am home. I enjoy a wonderful relationship with my wife and children. Now that I know a bit of the way of God, I realize that it was God who spoke to me through my children. My family life is what it is today by His grace. To God be the glory. It appears that men of your age find it difficult to give their lives to Christ because of the battles they have fought through all their careers. What caused you to give your life? The first person that became born again in my family was my eldest daughter–while she was in school at Queens College, Lagos. She came home talking about being born again and I was very upset with her. I said what nonsense; before you were born I was going to church. I told her, my father was a catechist, so I was born in church. I sent you to school to read. She tried to explain to me but I didn’t understand. So, she worked on her siblings. Soon virtually every member of the family was born again. My wife became a very active member of the FBC (Friendship Bible Coffee). Unknown to me, the entire family started praying for my conversion. I recall that about five years before I became born again, I had a strong urge to read the Bible. Guess where I read the Bible? I read it in my car while in the terrible traffic jam of
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Lagos. This went on for about three years before I went on secondment to UAC International in London for one year. On my return, I was promoted to the position of Managing Director/Vice Chairman of Nigerian Breweries Plc. The Full Gospel Business Men Fellowship International started bombarding my life. But I could not honour their invitations because of my frequent travels within and outside the country. The truth is I didn’t really understand what this ‘born again’ was all about. One day, I got another invitation to attend an outreach at Eko Holiday Inn. I travelled and returned a day before the outreach. Exhausted, I needed rest
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and thanked God it was Friday. Of course, I had forgotten all about the invitation. At 6am on Saturday morning, Mr. Ekpeyong Effiong called to remind me of the outreach. He said he had bought tickets for my wife and I and that he and his wife would be waiting for us at the entrance to the venue at 8am. I put the phone down and was very angry. I went back to bed and covered myself. I wasn’t prepared to go anywhere. But I couldn’t sleep after that. Grudgingly I got up, had my bath and dressed up. My wife didn’t say a word. When we got to the venue we met the man and his wife actually at the gate waiting. When we got in, I was a bit
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irritated with the singing and shouting. However, the word came and the more the man spoke, the more I thought that he was making sense. At the end of the day when the altar call was made, I didn’t know when I went straight to the front. The Chief Executive of Nigerian Breweries! That’s how I gave my life to Jesus. I came to a realization that even though I went to church and knew about Jesus, I had never really invited him to manage my life for me. I had thought I controlled my life. I now saw the difference and then took the step of giving my life to Him. I realized that even my life was not mine but His. When I was a student in University of Ibadan, Billy Graham came to this country and he came to UI to talk to us in Trenchard Hall. At the end, he made (what I now know is) an altar call and a handful of us responded to the call. I did not know the importance of this step. No one followed me up and I continued with my life as a Sunday-Sunday Christian. A few years ago, someone asked me, “Why has God favoured you so much?” I could not really give him an answer. I said, I am what I am by His grace. Much later while in my bathroom, something within me said, “Since you answered the call of Billy Graham, My eyes have been on you”. I came to true understanding of born again concept, 25 years after, the Billy Graham visit. Again when they spoke about speaking in tongues, I did not think it was necessary for every Christian to speak in tongues. Once or twice at Full Gospel fellowship meetings, they had laid hands on me to speak in tongues but nothing happened. I remember the teacher taking the lessons, Mr. Okpara saying to me “the day the Holy Spirit would catch you, He would deal with you.” One fateful day, during the Christmas period of the year 1989, I believe it was the night of the 30th of December just before we slept, my wife read to me a small pamphlet on why you must speak in tongues. I heard her but she thought I wasn’t paying attention. She left the pamphlet beside the bed and when I woke up in the morning there it was staring at me. This was now the 31st of December. One elderly man came to see us and when he was about to leave I elected to drive him to his house in Anthony. As I was driving back, my mind went to that pamphlet and I said to myself, if everybody is speaking in tongues why am I resisting it? I got back home at about 8pm, took the pamphlet, went downstairs and sat in the sitting room. I read it very carefully and at the end it said, “open your mouth and say something.” I was alone without distractions and I just obeyed. As I opened my mouth, I felt a warmth go down my spine. It was a very unusual experience. My mouth opened and words started flowing out of it. I looked around and I was alone and not knowing what would happen next I thought I should move to where people were. The words just continued to flow and I couldn’t stop anymore. I went upstairs to meet my wife. She took one look at me, saw that
“If you pursue career at the expense of your family, you will discover that you are not a friend to your wife and that the children do not know you. Your old age will be very lonely because you will be a stranger in your own home.” I was holding the pamphlet like a little boy and she knew what had happened. She abandoned what she was doing and left me alone. I tried to force the tongue to stop but it just continued. I now understood what had happened and went into the prayer room to thank God. For what had happened but I could not stop the flow. It was so much that when my father-in-law called, I could not speak with him. You just talked about giving your life to Christ as CEO of a brewery. How was it possible for a Christian to run a brewing business? Initially, that wasn’t a problem for me at all. I am not a good drinker; I was a social drinker. At a stage, my wife and I were worried about it and prayed for direction. The answer we got was “Have I asked you to leave?” Looking back on those years now, I believe that God always has a purpose for everything He does because a few things happened that may never have happened if I wasn’t there but that isn’t the point. The point is that I stopped drinking and my employers knew that I was no longer drinking lager beer. Fortunately, we had excellent non-alcoholic drinks. My employers did not bother me about my change of taste. It did not have any negative effect on my career. You will recall I was asked to stay on as non-Executive Chairman after my retirement. There is a feeling among younger people in Nigeria that it is difficult to succeed in business as a Christian. What is your take on this? There are challenges but I can tell you that God will see you through. God saw me through. If you sufficiently fear God you would dread to disobey Him. The more of His word you know, the more you realize that an important key to
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“I recall that about five years before I became born again, I had a strong urge to read the Bible. Guess where I read the Bible? I read it in my car while in the terrible traffic jam of Lagos.” success is to please Him in thought, word and deed. I faced a number of challenges and indeed temptations. In such situations, I always asked myself – “what would God have me do? What would please Him?” I must confess to you that often the answers did not please man. I mentioned earlier that my father greatly influenced me. At age 96 just before he passed on to glory he said to us, “I am dying a rich man.” We wondered what he meant. He said, “You are my wealth.” None of us was a wealthy person. He added, “I am leaving for you a good name, guard that name.” “Money is important but a good name will take you where money cannot reach.” I was then about 31 years old. The secondary school I attended, Owerri Government Secondary had a good motto: Work hard Play hard Keep Straight When wealth is lost, nothing is lost When health is lost, something is lost When character is lost, all is lost. Everything worked together to make me what I am. The Christian can be successful in business. He must fear God, trust God, have the courage to say no when necessary. He must always remember Romans 8:31. If God be for us, who can be against us? Are the principles for succeeding in business different from the principles for succeeding in public life? Same principles apply. Work hard, play hard, keep straight. If you want to put this in biblical terms; seek first the kingdom of God and its righteousness and every other thing will be added. He adds them; you don’t go running after them. At a stage in my life when I was about to retire, somebody said to me, “We will see what you will eat when you retire; whether you will eat sand.” I replied; I won’t eat sand. As a young man I prayed for a successful career; I wanted to be a successful technocrat and to retire happily and gloriously. God granted me all that. Two years to retirement, my wife asked me what I would like to do in retirement. I said I would like to be consultant but not a briefcase-carrying consultant who goes from office to office. Speaking off the
cuff, I said I would like to be chairman of at least six companies, three of which will be multinationals. Unknown to me, she and the children put this wish to God in serious prayers. My wife and I prayed that the quality of life of the family should not decline in my retirement. Instead things should get better. I must confess that at a stage I worried about my life in retirement. One such occasion, while in my prayer room God asked me: “what have you ever been able to do for yourself?” I went prostrate and asked for forgiveness for worrying after I had left my future in His hand. It is to the glory of God that before I retired, I was chairman of six companies, three of which were international companies. Many men have fallen badly from great positions. If you reflected on your career and viewed some of the failures of men from high positions, what would you say was responsible for those falls? Some people think that they can give themselves a pension. It was very common talk in our time and with that mind set many have cut corners and abused their positions to make money. They believe they are in control of their lives or should be in control of their lives since the available pension was poor. We now know that this path leads to destruction. The only viable option is to Trust in the almightiness of God, please Him in our work, knowing that He will surely bless us and give us more than we can ever ask for. What do you say to your protégés now that you are a mentor? I say to them, your life is not your own; it belongs to God. If you are intelligent, it is not because of your ability. God has endowed you with it for a purpose. I also tell them that one of the things I have learnt is that whatever position I find myself; I know God has put me there for a purpose. Not to do my will but to His will. Therefore, I work in a way that would please Him. It is in pleasing Him in whatever He gives me to do that doors to move higher open. Good success comes from God. It pays to have Jesus in your boat There can be “no true success” without partnering with Jesus.
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By TaiwoAkinlami
y dear teenage child teacher, sure you had a good time resting during the long break. I am also certain you and your entire family are doing well. I must thank you for all your labour in training my teenage child. My God will surely reward you abundantly. I feel that there is no better time to do you this all-important memo than this time that a new session is kicking off. I just want to quickly share with you something about my teenage child, which I believe may help you in our joint quest to give him the best of trainings. Having taken time to study my teenage child during this break, I have come to the irresistible conclusion that except we decode his identity, we may not be in a position to give him the best training as stakeholders in his life. I believe that our knowledge
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of him will help us understand him, interpret his actions and omissions properly and help him to become a responsible and invaluable member of society. In decoding my teenage child’s identity I found that the word TEENAGER is an acronym, where T stands for Transition: This is the most conscious time of his transition from childhood to adulthood. It is a period where he is very conscious of this status. His consciousness, in most cases is not a function of his decision; it is a function of nature. A lot of times he desires freedom so much that he cannot wait to taste it. The major problem here is that he does not even fully understand the meaning of the freedom he seeks. He does not understand the virtues of freedom. He doesn’t understand freedom as the greatest responsibility to lead a meaningful life. He doesn’t
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understand that the real truth is, if freedom is sweet, responsibility is its spice. It is not totally his fault anyway that he see freedom wrongly. A lot of us, his custodians have not done much in teaching and modelling freedom. Therefore, he sees us as kill-joy, from whom his struggle for independence must materialise very quickly. The first E stands for Energized by Nature: Being young does not mean physical or emotional weakness. He is strong and has a lot of energy. He does not want the energy tamed or gagged for whatever reason. He appreciates if your energy is directed in the right and positive direction to enhance his personal and communal peace. The other E says, he is Exposed to being Underrated: Parents and the society have the tendency to underrate him. His knowledge and ability to do good or evil is seriously underrated by parents and society. Therefore his genius and delinquency shock us alike. N says he is Nearly Fully Formed: According to Maria Montessori 80 percent of the child’s personality is formed between age zero and six. This goes without saying that a teen is almost fully formed in belief, values and habits. The hope for change is however guaranteed by the fact that change is an ever-present possibility for anyone, who is ready to take responsibility. The implication is that it is too late to relate with my teenager with force. We must learn to reason with him lest we provoke him to anger. A means he is Adventurous: His mind yearns for adventure. It is one of the characteristics of transition. His mind dares many things because he has not made many mistakes. Where he has made many mistakes, it is either he has not suffered the consequences or he is partially or totally unaware of the consequences of his mistakes. He is at his best when he is able to combine the spirit of adventure and the power of caution and control. G stands for Geared towards Pleasure/ Pressure: He loves pleasure. His environment capitalises on this singular need to put pressure on him. Thus in most cases when his real issues are not carefully identified and properly addressed, he becomes a victim of peer pressure and tends to bow. Thus he becomes the target of merchants of vices like pornography, drugs, alcohol, indecent dressing, negative media, sex, abortion, lesbianism.
The last E says he is Eager for Identity: Transition affects status. It is a settled fact that he is always in search of identity. Besides he yearns to be integrated into the society and given his rightful place. It is only through knowledge, skill and desire that he can resolve his crisis of identity. What does R stand for? R stands for Reality Deficiency: In most cases, he is not fully at home with his realities or the full consequences of his actions or omissions. He is sold on fantasy. This is due to the fact that he is yet to come to terms with the real issues of life. Therefore he tends to be shallow sometimes (please no harm is meant. It is an observation in candour). His choices in most cases are determined by his emotional instinct. Therefore he is not ready for the consequences of his actions in most case. Again his Reality Deficiency status is often fuelled by the custodians of his life, particularly when they have means. They give him false security. They lavish
him with wealth beyond what his mind can handle. This does not give him the full picture of the world the way it is. He judges life by the school he attends, the cars he drives, the house he lives in, the places he travels to for holidays and the rest. Somehow, when the realities of life come calling (and it will always come), he may be stranded. I guess that is the point Jim Stovall is trying to make in his bestselling novel, TheUltimate Gift, which was made into a movie. I highly suggest that you find time to read the novel or watch the movie with them this session. While it is not wrong to make wealth available to him, the mistake some of us as custodians make is to give him what we have made (wealth) but we do not give him what made us (our principles)…I just paraphrased Bishop T.D. Jakes. Dear teacher, if you will take the contents of this memo to heart in your relationship with my teenage child this session, I want to assure you that you will not only bring out the genius in him, you will also become his hero. I look forward to comparing notes with you at the end of the session. Thank you.
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Banking Sector Boon to Investors By Muktar Mohammed
Very few shoppers can ever resist cashing in on the benefits of a clearance sale, especially when the discounted item is a very good product. Thanks to the CBN polices which have put pressure on the earnings of Nigerian banks, discerning investors can take advantage of a ‘clearance sale’ going on in the Nigeria Stock Exchange mostly in the banking sector of the market.
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he CBN, in the last few months has cut the commission on turnover (COT) by 40% to N3 per mil from the previous N5 per mil with plans to phase out COT by 2016. The apex bank has also directed banks to fix interest on savings at a minimum of 30 percent of Monetary Policy Rate (MPR), effectively moving interest rate on savings to a minimum of 3.6 percent. Other policies that are having a negative impact on earnings of Nigerian banks include the increase in
Asset Management Corporation of Nigeria (AMCON) levy from 0.3 percent to 0.5 percent of asset and the significant increase in cash reserve ratio (CRR) on public sector deposits from 12 percent to 50 percent. The nation’s banks earnings have thus come under significant pressure from the different policies. For example, not a few banks have experienced drops in earnings, growth and profit in the released financial results for the half year ended June 2013. The questions on the minds of investors are then; with all these policies, where are the banks with an upside for investors? Are the banks still fundamentally strong? Which stocks are bargains for investors? Let us look at some of the equities that are clearance sales for investors. UBA: This bank has performed very well when you look at where it is coming from. The bank had a growth earning from 5kobo in 2011 and a nil dividend but N1.50 bonus in 2012 which caused a price slash to as low as N1.60 in 2012 having opened the year above N6. The current status of UBA as the most sought after stock on the floor of the Nigerian Stock Exchange is indeed in conformity with the saying –“It’s not how far but how well.” UBA growth earning is from 5 kobo in full year 2010 to N1.50 in full year 2012 and from a dividend payout of 5kobo in 2011 to 50kobo in 2012 year end and from a price of N6 to N9.80 in the first half of 2013. The half year earning
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is already at 86kobo, depicting a strong financial performance than in the corresponding period last year and the price is still low. By this half year result, the bank has already done more than the dividend paid to the investors last year, which means there is a possibility of high dividend payment in this current year. The price is still very cheap and current price as at writing this article was N7. This is with a projected EPS of N1.72 kobo and a target price of N11.50kobo by year ended 2013. This will be helped by the strong liquidity position of the bank as well as profitability from increased focus on lending also due to is large operational presence in 18 African countries beside Nigeria. GTBank: The death of the former CEO was devastating enough but the bank was able to weather the storms seamlessly as reflected in their report since the new executive took over; an indication of strong internal structures. GTBank finished 2012 with a growth of 61% in price complemented with a dividend payout of N1.50kobo. The half-year result for the period ended 2013 showed a growth of 9.4% in gross earnings with a net profit increase of 7.6%. The growth in top line earnings was driven by the bank-sustained activities in loan creation, securities trading and other non-interest sources. It should be noted that the bank mobilized more than half of its deposits from retail customers while advancing a significant portion of its credit facilities to the corporate/institutional clients. It is therefore not surprising that the bank successfully kept its nonperforming loan (NPL) ratio almost flat at 3.41%. Besides sustaining a robust capital base and liquidity position, the bank considerably increased return to its shareholders through the improved profitability. GTBank liquidity ratio is 48.8% and capital adequacy ratio (CAR) remains strong at 21.53%–both indicators are conveniently above minimum regulatory benchmarks. The bank’s return to shareholders for half year ending June 2013 stood at 33.78% while return on average asset (ROAA) is sustained at 5.45%. We are aware of the likely impacts of CBN’s recently introduced policy measure in the banking industry, the most recent being the introduction of 50% Credit Reserve Ratio (CRR) on all Public Sector Deposits (PSD). GTBank is one of the banks that may easily moderate any effects with its operations, as only about 10.06% of their total deposits flow from the public sector. With a leading projected EPS
of N3.06 this bank can comfortably pay N1.95kobo with a projected target price of N28 naira by year end 2013. Zenith Bank: Now in the second year in the hand of a new executive, Zenith gave the highest dividend payout of N1.60kobo to investors in 2012 with a price growth of 60%. Zenith bank’s second quarter result for the period ended June 2013 shows that gross earnings grew by 13.18% year on year. Corporate and commercial business generated the lion share of revenues accounting for 34.44%, while retail and institutional revenues accounted for 21.72% and 21.94% respectively. Zenith bank’s liquidity ratio grew from 62.41% at the end of June 2012 to 64% at the end of June 2013. The improved liquidity was driven by the 17.64% growth in deposits from the bank and customers; which were largely invested in very liquid assets. The ratio indicates that the bank is in a stronger position to fulfill its obligation to lenders and to cover short term debt obligations as at June 2013, compared to its financial position at June 2013. In addition, the 64% liquidity ratio figure doubled the regulatory minimum requirement of 30%. The bank’s capital adequacy ratio of 27.40% at June 2013 was also well above the regulatory minimum of 15%. Since less than 50% of Zenith bank’s income comes from financial intermediation, the bank might experience significant income pressures in the short term. However since public funds make up only 16% of Zenith bank’s total deposit and the bank has a huge income potential (though with increase lending and other innovative asset management practices) we expect the bank to record strong profits for the full year 2013 with an expected EPS of N2.73kobo with a projected a price of N26 and a dividend payout of N2 by year end of 2013. It is clear from this analysis that there is still a lot of potential and opportunity for profit in the Nigeria Stock Exchange banking sector. We must also not forget the coming of the Nigerian Sovereign Wealth Fund to the capital market, which will help in boosting liquidity and price movement. Other banking stocks to look out for are Access Bank, Fidelity Bank, Diamond Bank, Skye Bank, Sterling Bank and First Bank. There is a lot of opportunity in other equities like Unilever Nigeria PLC, PZ Cussons PLC, Dangote Cement PLC, Dangote Sugar PLC, UACN and National Salt PLC. Till next time, keep investing for a better future.
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Bible Business Basic
Integrity:
Key To Business Success
(Part two)
By Yele Okeremi
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ne of the most common questions that Christian businessmen get asked in Nigeria is how they are able to maintain integrity in a largely corrupt society as Nigeria. It is largely believed that only businessmen that master the art of compromise are able to thrive in such an unorganized and unethical environment. This situation has discouraged a lot of people from delving into the world of business and sometimes stops some who are already in business from continuing in it. It is however important to note that if Christians shy away from businesses, to whom do we entrust the economic power base of the nation? Or do Christians also need to join the corrupt and unethical system if they are unable to beat it? The thrust of this write-up is to show Christian businessmen how to maintain integrity in their business towards all parties including their customers, business partners, employees, the state and the society at large even in a seemingly decadent society. Define triggers for situation reviews It is necessary to have sustained periodic reviews of the business which may be set weekly, monthly, quarterly or yearly. These reviews are to ensure that the business is still going according to the original plans and if there are deviations, such deviations are identified and considered. In addition to these periodic reviews, it is necessary to define certain occurrences either internally to the business or externally in the environment, which may automatically call for reviews. Such occurrences as new legislation, technological innovation, changes in market perception
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etc are good triggers that may be used to call for a review of business activities. The essence of these reviews is to ensure a perpetual relevance of the business to its target audience. No matter how well packaged a bad product is, no matter how well advertised it is or how polite the sales people are, the market will ultimately reject it. Most corrupt practices in businesses happen as a result of trying to force a buyer to compromise his standards as a result of products not being able to completely satisfy customer requirements or products not being adequately differentiated for customers to perceive an extra value-added. Plan your own product obsolescence There is a saying that “There is no perpetual motion machine”. This saying is true in all aspects of human endeavor even to businesses and products. This statement needs to be applied in proper perspective at all times. No
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matter how sound or well received a product or service may be today, sometime in the future, it will no longer be the “in thing” or worse still may no longer be required at all. Product or service obsolescence may be seasonal like the demand for soft drinks during the dry season; some may be social like in the choice of clothing styles. Technology changes may render some products or services obsolete for example the celluloid gave way to VHS and lately VCD and DVD. Some obsolescence are caused by legislation for instance, the Government of Nigeria recently banned the importation of certain items including fruit juices, furniture, sound proof generators etc. Every business must be very aware of what factors may affect its product or service obsolescence and ensure that it brings new things that the market requires just in time. Improper obsolescence planning nearly sent computer giants IBM to its grave in the nineties when it failed to realize the drift towards the Personal Computer from the traditional mainframes it was selling. It took so much effort and a complete reengineering to get that company to survive it. Many companies are not that lucky to get back on their feet. Today, intimate computing in the form of the tablet and mobile devices has taken over from personal computing in the form of PCs and laptops. These cycles will continue to happen because indeed change is the only constant thing in life. A desperate company will do whatever to survive no matter how unethical it may be even to its own self. Define your differentiators One of the simple lessons I have learnt about business is that people do not pay premium fees for similarities; they only pay premiums for differentiation. This brings to my mind, the concept of branding. Many people assume that branding involves a lot of spending on advertisement and public relations. On the contrary, I believe that branding and strategy go hand in hand. Strategy defines the differentiators of an organization, branding communicates it. As a Christian, I have found the bible to be the most interesting and complete business strategy book in the world. For example when the bible says “a good name is better that silver and gold”, as a businessman, I interpret it to mean “a good brand is better than cash and inventory”. Now this is something that I recommend everyone in business to be conscious of in taking decisions. Nothing in business life is more important than the brand of the organization. I will also give one more biblical illustration on strategy and branding. The bible says in Mathew 6:32-33 that “For after all these things do the Gentiles seek: for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” I translate this to mean: “For after cash and
Most corrupt practices in businesses happen as a result of trying to force a buyer to compromise his standards as a result of products not being able to completely satisfy customer requirements or products not being adequately differentiated for customers to perceive an extra value-added. cheques do most business people pursue, but go after value creation and consistently too, and all the cash and cheques will follow through!” This is a clear instruction that it is imperative for every business to choose to run its own different race rather than trying to outrun others in the same race. Be consistent in your identity Many companies are unable to live up to what they profess to be on paper. This is a clear case of identity crisis. The identity of the company is not just in the name or logo. It includes such things as style in all things, communication, service delivery, reception, environment etc. If a company presents itself to be customer friendly, it must show on the faces of its staff – front office and back office staff alike. It must radiate in its office space, in what colors and lighting schemes are used, what sort of chairs are provided for customers in the waiting areas, how long they are kept on the telephone when calls are placed through to or from them. In presenting a face to the outside world, the company must ensure that it provides all necessary internal support structures to ensure that its promises are kept. This is in fact the integrity that people get to see first about the company. There must be consistency with promises made. Conclusion In concluding this write up, it is worthy to note that integrity is not just a matter of the head; it is a matter of the heart. The steps identified in this article are just guides to help business owners with integrity of heart work in integrity of purpose. The actualization of integrity in business requires a lot of discipline and commitment to stated goals. Furthermore, it is impossible for any man to work in integrity without Christ.
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Collaborating Successfully By Dennis Etiwe
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here can be no doubt that we live in exciting times today. As global connectedness and social media continually blur communication lines across borders, individuals and organizations with their focus on success are being forced to reevaluate, rethink, rebrand and redirect every strategy they have targeted at moving their goals and objectives up on the achievement graph. Today’s ‘success ecosystem’ has become such a dynamic force that decision makers are often required to make strategy decisions on the spot, without the luxury or encumbrance of a board meeting and official red tape. One of the key requirements of today’s success ecosystem is the need for concerted effort, also known as collaboration. Indeed the concept is not new; history is replete with case studies of successful and equally disastrous attempts at collaboration. However the times that we are in require that we approach it with circumspection just as Amber Naslund concludes: “Collaborations are the ideal – we all know that more brains are better than one – but they’re not as easy as just having enthusiasm for working together. Collaboration is a bit science, and a bit art. And the right ingredients can help make a collective project really sing, and provide a great experience as well as great results.”
The following are critical to making the best of our collaborations: 1. Let purpose be the guide. Understanding the purpose for collaboration creates a kind of energy that transcends the joy of mere attainment of goals and objectives. The builders of the biblical Tower of Babel were so united in their purpose that nothing, save divine intervention, could stop them from achieving their purpose. The lesson here is that every member of a collaborative effort needs to be operating from the same page and within the same clear directions needed to attain the overarching purpose of the group. 2. Prioritize effective communication. This will always be the ‘livewire’ of everything that involves more than one person. Ideas must be shared and information distilled to every member within agreed communication channels
that take into consideration differences in personality, skill, and exposure. Getting the communication element right especially from the beginning will ensure that sharing and interactive processes within team members are open, transparent and free from any bottlenecks to conflict resolution. Most important of all, everyone is focused on the objectives and requirements of the project. 3. Understand Team Dynamics. Team dynamics embody the unconscious, psychological forces that influence the direction of a team’s behaviour and performance. These forces are activated by the nature of the project, the personalities on the team, their working relationships with themselves and others, and the prevailing environment in which the team works. Positive and productive team dynamics is evident when overall team performance is improved and individual team members are willing to give their best. Negative team dynamics on the other hand is caused by lingering and unproductive conflict, lack of motivation, and poor intra-team relations that prevent the team from achieving its objectives. 4. Leadership. Collaboration is a very potent way that individuals and organizations can produce results they cannot achieve on their own. Yet, it is not a system that is without complexities in the way work is done and purpose is achieved. However, the key to unlocking the possibilities of collaborative effort is to establish the critical ground rules as early as possible by team members who can lay personal self interests aside and balance the expectations of individual members with the expectations of the project. These are the leaders and they often not the loudest members of the team. Collaborative effort, when it is well harnessed, is a system of providing solutions and execution that is backed up by highly intellectual and creative energy produced by its contributors. When leaders and organizations realize that their individual effort can only take them so far, in the face of complex challenges they have to contend with today, then they should be willing to put aside their personal interests and tap into the power of concerted effort. Please send comments to dennisetiwe@gmail.com
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State of the Nation
The Patriotism we are Yet to Know!
By Olakunle Soriyan
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ur great nation celebrated her 53rd year of independence last October, and I feel responsible to take a second look at the level of patriotism prevailing in our blessed nation. Now, some have argued correctly that terrorists commit acts of barbarism in the name of patriotism – no doubt, man’s aggressive instinct against enemy nations is a regrettable fact. At times, it is not out of place to call the idea of patriotism a moral weakness when we take a second look at some of the evil the world has seen in the name of patriotism. People through the ages have carried out both horrible and wonderful acts under the banner of patriotism. Also, Science and technology have made travel and communication so easy that the world has become a global village. Race, colour, language and sex are losing importance and the concept of one world is developing. In the light of these developments, nationalism and patriotism are losing their importance, and internationalism is taking roots. Man wants to live in peace wherever he is; whether in his birth country or anywhere. People generally feel a sense of loyalty to the environment that supports their highest aspirations, wherever that is. My country, right or wrong, may no longer be a necessarily correct view. Some have even made the bold statement that you will never have a peaceful world unless you kick out patriotism from the human race. How then are we to define it? Our personal interpretations are usually derived from our peculiar experience. But because experiences are peculiar, and principles are universal; obviously, patriotism has to be defined by principle, above personal experiences or we will be on the side of sentiments, bias and prejudice. By principle, patriotism is actually the love for one’s country
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and the willingness to defend it. Any threat to a country, either by another nation, or socio-economic and political challenges within a nation, the patriotic energy within that nation should arise. The moment there is a threat to the nation from an enemy, from without or within, the patriotic feelings of the people should ordinarily be immediately aroused. Patriotism inspires the people for the noble deeds and nurtures fellow feeling and brotherhood among a people. Patriots rejoice in the glory of their country, regardless of how lofty or painful the experiences of the citizens are. However, for Nigeria, with the growing agitation in the country, the socio-economic and political disequilibrium in the system, it appears patriotism has no place. The daily struggles, sufferings and negative experiences of our people seems to define the right to jettison the ideal of patriotism. Surely, it will be difficult to sell patriotism to those with empty stomachs. It makes sense to assume that the country should also be lovable to be loved. After 53yrs, it looks like on October 1, 1960, Nigeria got Independence, not Freedom. Independence for Nigeria seems like the sovereign right to self-destruct. I mean, immediately after independence, Nigeria actually began a long and strange march towards growth and development that made development look so complex and mysterious—a strange march that has taken more than fifty years in the wilderness of mismanagement, corruption and poverty; and has left a generation dead and unfulfilled—without having seen the Promised Land—a promised land of quality education, rapid infrastructural development, and mass employment for its citizens. So, in the light of these developments, nationalism and patriotism are losing their importance. To demand patriotism from the masses in a 2013 Nigeria seems like an insensitive and impractical request. I mean, how would you feel if I told you that in a study conducted by my organization a few years ago, only about 5 percent of 2000 Nigerian citizens over 18 described themselves as either “extremely” or “very” patriotic. If this is true, can our nation really survive on 5 percent? The 5% in question mostly included people who shared the “9ja craze” in entertainment and sports. It’s like Nigerians have a different definition of patriotism that allows us to feel we are patriots only when the Super Eagles are winning or when we are at a comedy show or musical concert donning “9ja 4life” T-shirts. But in politics and economics especially, we are
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totally disconnected from the idea of patriotism. Honestly, what we forget and miss out on is that we have a clear zero-sum game here, in that if we give place to all the gaps and negatives in our environment, we will be justified to ignore our patriotism. But also that if we ignore our patriotism, it will be impossible to drive transformation and renaissance. We now have a choice to make between the validation that comes from our anger and pain, and the progress we can experience from accepting our patriotism. See, only the united effort of a collective patriotic spirit can meet and surmount the challenges of our unique environment. If our nation is to survive its current challenges, the definition of a true patriot must be clear. Please note that I do not also believe patriotism to be blind obedience to one’s nation. No! I deeply share the sentiments of Carl Schurz, the German revolutionary and, later, American political scientist who said, “My country...if right, to be kept right; and if wrong, to be set right.” His idea of patriotism is often referred to today as “loyal opposition.” It means while we must not deny the struggles resident in our system, and while we must not be quiet, yet, the idea of patriotism we need is the one that seeks to change the social behaviour of the country out of feelings of national love and patriotic duty. This is where most Nigerians need to be but we are not. Most are so justifiably angry that we have given up on the system. What we need is a patriotism that promotes the active and sensible reconstruction of a system that one believes to be essentially good but critically flawed. Now, I believe that anger should be a critical ingredient that drives the human spirit to action, not to indolence, lethargy or disinterest. We need this kind of anger. But the anger that renders us despondent, inactive and unprogressively critical is actually not different from the passiveness that breeds irresponsibility. We now know all our problems. We need the patriotism that stretches beyond our problems and embraces the solutions instead—the patriotism that allows each of us to activate the large heartedness inherent deep within as a deliberate commitment to follow the principle that says “love not only what is yours, but love all that belongs to the human race.” This is key and cannot be discounted. Each of us must accept the imprints of geography that we each belong to a defined space; and trust me, destiny will always be location sensitive. God, through Nature, has determined our appointed places; and it is our duty, each of us, to appreciate, promote, and when necessary, defend the place nature has placed us, otherwise called our country.
To pretend that this is not so, is to despise God’s wisdom in choosing where we were born. Birth is a gift of God, and place of birth is therefore a responsibility. I constantly find myself annoyed when I hear people talk about “relocating to America, Canada, United Kingdom...and the most annoying is small South Africa”. My response? “Go ahead. Please move to those places. It’ll be much easier for the rest of us to fix things without your constant whining and complains.” While some may consider this harsh, I invite anyone who can’t see the good in Nigeria, despite her blemishes, to leave. We must love our country enough to stay and work to change it for the better. Just like the American Civil Rights activist, James Baldwin, I love Nigeria “more than any other country in this world, and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to seek her progress and criticize her perpetually.” No matter how negative our country is, we have no other country. We cannot let up or give up. We must have a story for the those that will take our place in another 100 years if the Lord Jesus tarries. We owe it to them to wrestle every wall of prejudice, religious and ethnic intolerance, corruption, ignorance, fear and indiscipline that fights to keep our country small, and her people weak and weary. Some say that there is little reason to love Nigeria; and I understand the temptation for any rational person to accept this. Sure, our country has made mistakes throughout history, but while the ethics behind some of these decisions were admittedly murky, it is not right to blame the entire nation for a few morally ambiguous leaders. Our anger or even optimism must not drive us out of reason; and our pain must drive us to love her more and take the kind of positions that shows that the desire to change Nigeria by all means is, in itself, a demonstration of one’s love for the nation. We must look into the future we prefer and decide what role we will play today to create it. We don’t need critics who know all that is wrong and possess the grammar to underscore it, but lacks the commitment to act and create visible impact. I can assure everyone reading this that It will take the practical investment of time and resources by patriotic Nigerians to ensure Nigeria’s renewed prosperity. As we continue to monitor the issues of our land, we need patriots who will ignore the obvious challenges and accept the challenge to make the effort to build a new moral society with the great hope that the bond of our diversity will one day strengthen us all in the years to come. God bless Nigeria. And God bless her people.
After 53yrs, it looks like on October 1, 1960, Nigeria got Independence, not Freedom. Independence for Nigeria seems like the sovereign right to self-destruct.
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“I used to be a waiter, now I am God’s Super Star” —Okundalaiye Ayodele (SACO) Okundalaiye Ayodele is the compere, comedian and events management specialist also known as SACO (Senior Advocate of Comedy). He has a unique talent for lifting hearts at every event he is invited to work his craft; little wonder businesses, NGOs, faith-based organizations, educational institutions and high net worth individuals from all over Nigeria depend on SACO’s authentic gift of humor and passion for quality,to drive the success of their events. In addition to clean, rib-cracking and ethical jokes, SACO also brings to the table, the ability to adapt to and customize programs to suit the needs of specific audiences with a touch of class. His speaks to DiscoveryMan Digest about his faith, work and future. Has your faith impacted your work in any way? My Christian faith has helped me achieve a lot on this job. I strongly believe in the scripture “I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me.” I have moved from being that insecure waiter that I was a few years ago to God’s super star today. My faith also makes me believe that when others in the industry are saying there is a casting down, I will always say there is a lifting up. What has influenced your devotion to God? I have always believed in God from the beginning. There is no industry without its attendant challenges. Tell us the ones you face in your industry and how do you deal with them? Several challenges abound including:other comedians copying and saying your jokes publicly without remorse, clients delaying payments post-event and others that don’t even bother to pay the balance at all. Thankfully, I have been able to put structures in place to mitigate against such challenges. Have you ever turned down any job because of your faith? Oh yes! A lot. Good-looking and successful men often have to cope with pressures from female fans. What has been your experience so far? Sincerely speaking, it has not been easy. I have experiences where many of them would get close like it is only about business and along the line, it becomes a crush and quest for something more.But God, through Singlesand Married Fellowship, has helped me a lot, teaching me over time how to handle issues like that. I am married now.
Tell us how you balance work and family life. I am always with my family when I am not working and thankfully, God gave me a wife that understands the nature of my job. She’s carried along every step of the way. If you stopped doing comedy today, what else would you do for a living? (Laughs) I would go into clothing. I like looking good and I derive joy from making others look good. I also love to serve as an event planner. What new/innovative offerings should your fans be expecting next from SACO? It is the Spirit of God that gives a man inspiration to do things. My fans should always be on the lookout and keep in touch via www.sacoevents.com. There is Saco Events Ltd and a subsidiary that sells security dogs (Smiles).
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Photospeak Discovery for Men Rally, July 2013
A cross section of men paying rapt attention
Time to give your life to Christ
Pastor Taiwo Odukoya ministering
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Photospeak Discovery for Men Enhancement Programme, Sept. 2013
Guest speaker, Deacon Gamaliel Onosode ministering
Pastor Akin Osibajo introducing Pa Onosode
Men singing the Discovery for Men anthem
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Health
Infertility In Men By Dr. Davis Oyinloye
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n our society, we still think of infertility as a ‘woman’s problem ’but statistics have proven that a third of all cases of infertility problems emanate solely from the male partner. Infertility in a man may be the only reason that a couple can’t conceive, or it may simply add to the difficulties caused by infertility in his partner.
So it is important that men get tested for fertility as well as women. It’s also important that men do it early. Most Nigerian men will rather avoid being tested for fertility possibly to avoid embarrassment/stigma – a result of our culture, as he will be described as not being man enough if found wanting but early testing can spare their partners a great deal of unnecessary discomfort and expense. It’s also a good way to quickly narrow down potential problems.
Getting Tested for Infertility The first thing to do for fertility issues is to see the doctor. After a physical exam, your doctor will probably order a semen analysis, which will check the quality and quantity of the sperm in the semen. And yes, your doctor will want you to give the sample in his clinic, or at least someplace nearby, because it’s important that the analysis take place quickly. Just remember, as shy as you might feel, a semen analysis is a common test, and the results could save you months of worry and stress. If the first semen analysis is normal, your doctor may order a second test to confirm the results. Two normal tests usually are interpreted to mean that the man doesn’t have any significant infertility problems. If something in the results looks irregular, your doctor might order further tests to pinpoint the problem. What a Semen Analysis Can Detect Azoospermia: No sperm are produced, or the sperm aren’t appearing in the semen. Oligospermia: Few sperm are produced. Problems with sperm motility: If sperm aren’t moving normally, they are less likely to be capable of fertilizing an egg. Problems with sperm morphology: Problems with the form and structure (morphology) of the sperm may cause infertility. But while these conditions may be the direct reason that you can’t conceive, they themselves may be caused by an underlying medical condition. Your doctor will probably want to investigate the issue further by ordering blood and urine tests or other procedures. Reasons for Male Infertility There are a number of reasons for male infertility. Some are caused by physical problems that prevent the sperm from being ejaculated normally in semen. Others affect the quality and production of the sperm itself. Sexually transmitted diseases or other infections: Genital infections such as chlamydia and gonorrhea
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can cause infertility in men. The infertility can often be resolved by treating the infection. Blockages, birth defects, or physical damage: In some cases, men are born with blockages in parts of the testicle or other abnormalities that prevent sperm from getting into the semen. Physical trauma to the testicles, prostate, and urethra can also result in fertility problems. Surgery can sometimes correct the problem. Retrograde ejaculation: In this disorder, semen doesn’t come out of the penis during ejaculation, but instead enters the bladder. It can be caused by diabetes, certain medications, and surgery to the bladder, prostate, or urethra. Genetic diseases: Although it’s rare, genetic illnesses such as cystic fibrosis or chromosomal disorders can cause infertility. Autoimmune problems: In some cases, the immune system can mistakenly target sperm cells and treat them as if they were a foreign virus. The sperm can become damaged as a result. Hormonal problems: Certain hormonal imbalances — in the pituitary and thyroid glands, for instance — can cause infertility. Your doctor may suggest treatment with medication. Sexual problems: Erectile dysfunction (impotence) and premature ejaculation can obviously have an effect on fertility. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by psychological problems such as anxiety, guilt, or low self-esteem. It is also caused by physical problems such as diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and heart disease. In addition, impotence may be a side effect of certain medications such as antidepressants. Talk to your doctor about ways of treating any sexual problems. Varicoceles: Varicoceles are enlarged varicose veins that develop in the scrotum and prevent blood from flowing properly. Varicoceles are found in 15% of all men and in up to 40% of men being evaluated for infertility. Although they may be a factor in male infertility, recent studies question whether surgery to correct varicoceles has any beneficial effect.
Other Factors in Male Infertility Excessive exercise: studies have shown that exercising too much may lead to the release of too many steroid hormones thus affect fertility. Stress Obesity Use of drugs, alcohol, or tobacco: smoking tobacco, using drugs such as marijuana and cocaine, and taking steroids can reduce sperm counts. Exposure to toxins and environmental hazards: pesticides, lead, radiation, radioactive substances, mercury,
You should also ask about taking vitamins. Some recent studies have found that men can improve their low sperm counts by taking a combination of folic acid and zinc.
and heavy metals may affect fertility. Heat: although the effect is usually temporary, high temperatures in the testicles could reduce sperm production. High heat could result from wearing clothing that’s too tight and traps heat, frequent bike riding, or by taking too many hot baths or saunas. Getting Pregnant With Male Infertility If you have been diagnosed with infertility, you should talk to your doctor about any behavioral changes you can make that might increase your chances of conceiving. If your sperm count is low, your doctor may recommend having intercourse less frequently in order to build up a better concentration of sperm. You should also ask about taking vitamins. Some recent studies have found that men can improve their low sperm counts by taking a combination of folic acid and zinc. If you have abnormal hormone levels, your doctor may recommend hormone treatment. If you have retrograde ejaculation, you can often treat this with common over-the-counter cold medicine. In some cases where the man has mild infertility, artificial insemination or other assisted reproduction techniques, such as GIFT and ZIFT, may be helpful. One exciting treatment for male infertility and low sperm count is a form of micromanipulation called intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI). This is a laboratory procedure in which sperm and eggs are retrieved from both partners, and then a single sperm is injected into an egg. The fertilized egg is then implanted into the woman’s uterus. If the man doesn’t have sperm in his semen, one of several techniques can be used to retrieve sperm from the testicles. Success rates are generally good — as high as 65% in some clinics. But factors such as poor sperm quality, poor egg quality, and the older age of the mother can lessen the chance of success. Other techniques that might help men with fertility problems are being developed.
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DiscoveryMan Digest speaks with Sam Ovraiti about his art. What inspired you to become an artist and how long have you been in this profession? I discovered from when I was a kid that I had a knack for creativity. Secondary school focused my intention to become an artist and then I went on to study Art in the higher institution. The inspiration actually came when I was a kid; people used to praise my ability draw. How do you get inspiration for your works? Art is a message and sometimes inspiration comes from your message which is what you intend to tell the world. Personally, inspiration comes from things happening around me; things I hear, see, and what people do. My environment inspires me a lot and I try to use my art to talk only about the things that I want –good things. I look only at the positive aspects of life like togetherness, teamwork, happiness and play down on things that I don’t really want because I believe that if you show only the things you don’t want, they will multiply. I believe that if you talk about love, which is a very strong emotion, more love will be poured out into the world.
You have been called “the most expressive water colourist in Nigeria.” Why water colour and how would you describe your style? That (description) is what the press can do to someone which in turn influences what the society thinks. In 1983, there was this national painting competition that came up and I didn’t really have enough materials in oil and acrylic because they were quite expensive then. So I decided to use water colour for my work because it was handy, easy to carry and not so messy. I came out first in that competition and I was told that I didn’t just make first; my work was the only water colour entry in the whole completion organized by Mobil Producing at the time. That gave me the impetus to believe that I was probably a good water colourist. So I decided to work more on water colour. I think I have done more water colour that any other artist in this country. I have painted water colour so much for a long time and when you do one thing over and over with all your mind and attention, it makes you become more knowledgeable than your contemporaries. That was how the water colour bit came up. At the time, water colour was not an end medium in this country – it was being used as ‘pen and wash’. I now took water colour to the level where you can paint water colour as is and exhibit it as a painting. However, I do everything that other artists do. I do a lot of oil, mixed media and pastel
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paintings. When I was developing water colour, I developed pastel alongside and today, we have so many Nigerian artists using pastel. There is a long story behind all of this and If I am called the most expressive water colourist, that is a thing of words that people use to qualify dexterity in the way I handle the medium. I see myself presently as an artist; I create art and I use any medium. Creativity is the key. In this journey of becoming and then being an artist, have you ever felt like giving up? I did not choose to be an artist because I wanted to be an artist. I became an artist because I had no choice, it was who I was and what I am. And if you do that thing that you are, no matter the obstacles you find along the way you will persist and the only thing that can happen is that you will succeed. I will say that many that started with me have given up for several reasons. They looked at the problems associated with Art in this country – It was not very much accepted until now – and fell along the way. I believe that if you are good at what you do, the whole world will look for you. There was no time I felt like dropping Art. Instead, I am thinking of doing it more and helping people to be the creative people they want to be. What’s your take on the level of general appreciation of art in Nigeria? I would say that in this part of the world, Nigeria has the highest level of appreciation for Art. Right now, Nigerians have become so much in love with Art that more people are using Art. Banks have paintings in their halls, people have paintings in their hotels and offices. In parks around Lagos, you can find metal artworks everywhere. The appreciation for art has really grown even though it has always been there. People don’t even know that they are using art when they go out shopping for clothes, shoes, cars and furniture. They combine colours for their curtains and buildings. All these are aspects of art. In terms of visual art that is hung on the wall like paintings, sculpture and textile, I think the level of appreciation for art in Nigeria has really grown. We have more galleries, more people dealing in art, and at art auctions which come up every year, more sales are being recorded which means that art is being appreciated seriously and I am happy about that. How do you feel when people critique or interpret your art differently from how you conceptualized it? I was a teacher of
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Art for so many years and I had a standard for looking at Art misunderstanding at the time. When I left the teaching profession, I went into you. Society has the public domain to do Art and I saw it in another light. I placed the artist in a particular light and when you do certain believe that people think according to their own insight and things they don’t understand though you try to make them somebody who does not understand what you are doing can understand. For example, a theatre artist might decide to criticize you because he does not know what you are doing. I make a playlet about a husband that that batters his wife have had people criticize my Art; some believe that Sam Ovraiti and somehow the woman poisons the man and he dies. Some is a big name but he does not look at critical issues like war, people would not understand the story and say things like why corruption etc. I leave them because they have the right to should the woman poison the man? For the artist, there is no criticize. I believe that there are different ways of getting results; morality; it is just an Art. You can do some things and people instead of talking about war why not talk about peace? Instead begin to wonder and say “this person is a Christian, why is of talking about failure why not talk about success? Instead he painting women?” That could be the worst part of being of talking about the wrong things that someone is doing, why an artist. not tell him the right thing to do? I let the Art critiques do their work while I produce the work. I know that posterity will put Yourlast words to aspiring artists? everyone in their place. The world is moving towards people who have something to do. The bible puts it this way: “whatsoever your hands find to What's the best thing about being an artist? The best thing do…” – the artist is someone who uses his hands and brains about being an artist is the freedom you get. Freedom of your – I will bless the works of your hands.” It is not the works of time to do what you like to do, freedom to tell your story as your thinking or your mouth that will be blessed, it is the work you want to tell it and freedom to help humanity, put smiles on of your hand that will be blessed. Every aspiring artist should people’s faces even without them knowing it. Nobody is telling realize that it is what you create and bring out that matters. It you to resume work at 8am and close at 5pm. You can work is not how much you work but how much you accomplish that overnight or choose to take a holiday. Art is Life and life should matters. Artist must do what they need to do, to know that be about enjoying the freedom that God has given us. If you are skill cannot be assumed it can only be acquired. Acquisition an artist, you enjoy more freedom than any other profession. comes from practice and practice makes permanent. When you continue practicing, people will recognize you and when What's the worst thing about being an artist? People they do, the sky is not your limit, it is your stepping stone.
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Men’s Style
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Books » Home Affairs: Questions Married Men And Women Ask By Pastor Taiwo Odukoya
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You’ll Get Through This: Hope and Help for Your Turbulent Times By Max Lucado
he differences and conflicts between the male and female genders are taking an unprecedented dimension in our world today. Much more than ever, the challenges of married life are becoming unbearable. Many are desperately seeking for solutions and are unfortunately turning to the wrong quarters for help. In Home Affairs: Questions Married Men And Women Ask, Pastor Taiwo gives sound Scriptural and practical answers to questions boggling the minds of married men and women. Every question answered in this book has come from real life seminars and private counseling sessions. Some of the topics covered include submission, finance, sexual inadequacies, communication, and conflict resolution.
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Movie » Amazing Grace by George Jones
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his final recording from country music legend George Jones displays his love for the Gospel and passion for the Lord with a twelve-song collection of all-time favorite Gospel hymns. Amazing Grace showcases his unmistakeable vocals on a selection of timeless classics like “The Old Rugged Cross,” “Peace In The Valley,” “In The Garden,” and more.
ometimes the challenges of life threaten to overwhelm us. We wonder how we’ll carry on after the day the bottom dropped out. For you, it may have been the day of a financial crisis, a bad diagnosis, an accident, or you were served divorce papers by your spouse. Whatever it was, you knew your life was going to change dramatically, and it didn’t seem like it was for the better. In You’ll Get Through This: Hope and Help for Your Turbulent Times, Max Lucado encourages readers through sharing the Biblical story of Joseph. Stripped of his identity, thrown into a pit and sold as a slave, his was a story of defeat and challenges, but as time passed God worked through his circumstances to bring redemption and reconciliation. And although it may seem hard to believe, you will get through this too. The story of Joseph’s life didn’t end in the pit and neither does yours.
God’s Country tanding on the brink of financial ruin, Pastor Eden Graham is determined to save his youth camp from foreclosure – and the real estate company’s “top gun” Meghan Doherty. She’s not interested in the program’s mission, but Eden persuades her to stay. Will her weeklong sojourn convince her of the importance of the camp?
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Sports
Super Eagles:
Riding a Horn of Africa team to Brazil 2014 by Wale Elegbede
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tanding before Nigeria and her quest for a fifth appearance at the FIFA world cup finals in 2014 is a two-legged play-off matches with the Walya Antelopes of Ethiopia, a much improved side when compared to their performance against the Super Eagles at the last Nations Cup where they conceded two Victor Moses second-half penalties after a stunning performance in the first half.
Tutored by coach Sewnet Bishaw, a schoolteacher who is just having his first shot as a football manager with the Ethiopian team, the East African team under his watch are gradually becoming a force to reckon with after displaying measures of serious intent by edging out South Africa to reach the play-off stage. Despite their near sublime performances at the international level, the odds are stacked against Ethiopia, a country widely known for their renowned runners than footballers — Nigeria ranks 36th in FIFA’s order, while Ethiopia stands at a distant 93. While Nigeria could boast of international football experience and flocks of talented players scattered around top European leagues, the Horn of Africa country team’s biggest export is Saladin Said, a striker on the payroll of Belgian club, Lierse, while half a dozen others in the squad ply their trades in Libya and Kazakhstan. Still basking in the euphoria of winning the African Cup of Nations early in the year, the Super Eagles seems to be making massive team cohesion and progress under coach Stephen Okechukwu Keshi, few years after his second coming as manager of the team.
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Though many Nigerians appear optimistic of the victory of the national team against the Ethiopians, some seem to be treading on the path of caution, urging the team to get the job done in the first leg before completing the routing back home in November. According to the Director-General of the National Sports Commission, Gbenga Elegbeleye, the two-legged ties against Ethiopia would bring up fresh challenges of professionalism from the Super Eagles. “The pairing is nice if we consider the fact that we were able to avoid other big names in Africa football, but that doesn’t mean that we will stroll over Ethiopia to get the World Cup ticket,” he said. For soccer analysts, the Nigerian team is coming into the last berth of the final 180 minutes to the soccer mundial in Brazil with a rich squad that has its major strength in its attack, sophisticated a bit in the midfield but still battling with stability in defence especially with injuries on some of his marksmen. A commanding performance from Chelsea FC midfielder, John Obi Mikel any day, will always set the team on fire as it is roundly believed that the Super Eagles team lately has been built around him. Little wonders, he usually hits the net playing for his fatherland than the London side. Already, there are high hopes that the Eagles with maintain their consistency, cohesion and compact
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nature. Also, the infusion of wide players who could also assist the defence anytime the ball is in their own half is a big thumbs-up for coach Keshi-led crew. Unlike the Ethiopian coach, Bishaw, who has flair for 4-4-2 style of football, Keshi seems to be reaping from his new idea of 4-3-3, where majority of the action takes place from the flanks especially when the opposing fullbacks seems to be too offensive and attack-minded. The return of some strikers to the team, namely, Emmanuel Emenike, Shola Amoebi and others after a frailed performance at the confederation cup in June by their replacements, may have repose dints of confidence in Nigerians. “We need a ruthless, effective and sharp strike force that can read and communicate with the midfielders in a split seconds. Strikers that are exposed and could quickly take their chances,” a Nigerian soccer enthusiast said. For many Nigerians, the highpoint of the final play-off is the improveStephen Keshi, Nigeria ment and discipline of
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the Super Eagles under Keshi, who many believe knows African football like the back of his hands. Off the pitch, however, the team and the football body, the Nigeria Football Federation, NFF, seems to still be battling with each other over bonus row that had threatened to derail the Confederation Cup jaunt last June. The federation has, however, said it is sticking to the stipulated $5,000 as match winning bonus to the players. Lending his support and that of his colleagues to the team, Senate President, Davido Mark called for a prayer session for the Eagles as they commence the twolegged affair. “I urge my colleagues to commence Novena prayers because we must participate in the 2014 World Cup in Brazil,” he said. The first leg is expected to be played on the weekend of 11-14 of October in Addis Ababa, while the return leg would be between November 11-15, 2013 in Nigeria. Sewnet Bishaw, Ethiopia
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Food
When a Man Cooks for a Woman T By Barry DeLozier
he familiar adage “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” may have one ingredient wrong: gender. While many a guy has certainly been snagged by the culinary talents of a pretty date, the reality is women are much more impressed when a guy cooks for them. Why? It has nothing to do with the quality of food but everything to do with acts of service. The bottom line is women don’t expect men to cook. “During the dating game, if a man offers to fix dinner, it can be a point of differentiation,” says author and sociologist Liz Elliott. “Guys gravitate to the receiving end on things like cooking, cleaning and socializing. They’re content to let the primary woman in their life manage these functions. Preparing a meal means he’s willing to take on all three. That can be very attractive, if it’s genuine.” And it certainly can be genuine: a lot of guys really like to cook. Britain’s popular online magazine “Daily Mail” recently coined the phrase “gastrosexuals” to replace “foodies,” specifically to describe men who consider
cooking more of a hobby than a chore. A quick remote control cruise through the lineup on Food TV reveals a plethora of successful guys who cook, not only on a barbecue grill. Men tend to approach cooking competitively. Women are more likely to describe themselves as ‘simple cooks’ who know the basics. Men are more likely to try elaborate, international dishes and to describe their cooking as ‘gourmet.’ “There’s an element of status when a man cooks, as evidenced by the popularity of professional chefs,” says Elliott. “When a man cooks, he’s a chef. When a woman cooks, she’s a cook. For new relationships, the important thing to understand is if this is truly an act of love and service and a genuine interest in cooking. Is it sustainable? Or, is it smoke and mirrors with a particular dessert in mind? Boyfriends wanting to stir a girlfriend’s emotions or husbands wanting to electrify their marriage would do well to make acts of service – like cooking – truly authentic. “Offer to grocery shop or clear the table and wash the dishes,” says Elliott. So what if you really like the creative aspect of preparing a meal, but you’re new to cooking and your mother wasn’t a Cordon Bleu graduate who taught you everything she knows? The key to success is to, “start simple,” says professional chef Clayton Sherrod, “with an uncomplicated menu. Roasted meats – chicken, pork or beef – make an ideal entree because they go in an oven hours before the meal, fill the home with a wonderful aroma that requires little effort to serve.” For a balanced meal, you only need two accompaniments: a starch (like rice, pasta or potatoes) and a vegetable (like green beans or a salad). “Use your vegetable to add color,” says Sherrod, who started cooking in the kitchen of a country club where he worked as a golf caddy. “A meal should involve all the senses: taste, touch, smell, sight and even sounds,” says Sherrod. “Make the other details easy on yourself. Bread and dessert can be bought ready-to-serve at a grocery store, as simple as a French loaf and a bowl of ice cream.” Whatever you do, keep the kitchen tidy. Culled from www.sowowme.blogspot.com
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Legacy
Every Man Is An Asset By Dr. Ausbeth Ajagu
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t is worrisome that the latent potentials of many Christians are not maximally utilized resulting in situations where Christians live beggarly and wretched lives, which to say the least, is a radical departure from God’s plan for us Christians.
I intend to start off this discourse by attempting a brief definition of the key terms contained in our topic of discussion. This I believe will go a long way in aiding proper understanding of the topic and enhancing the expected response and behavioural change needed in Christians today. The two key words in our topic of discourse are “Man” and “Asset”. Suffice it to say that everybody here may be able to explain the above two words but for the benefit of doubt and for purposes of charity in this context, we are going to define them. An “Asset”, according to the New Webster’s Dictionary of the English Language, is “Anything one owns or any quality one has that is of value or use...” whilst the Oxford Advanced learners Dictionary, defined it as “a person or thing that is valuable or useful.” Therefore, being an asset means having the quality of being very useful or important whilst “Man” in this context refers to human beings, either male or female, young or old. From the foregoing, it is evident that the topic, Every Man Is an Asset, means that every human being – male, female, young, old, handicapped or non-handicapped – is useful and important. In other words, every human being is of value and has a purpose to serve which God ab initio equipped him/her for by giving him/her potentials. Man and his potentials No human being is without potentials. Every human being has latent potentials, which are God-given. The difference between successful and unsuccessful men lies in the proper identification of God-given potentials and
maximally utilizing them by employing them where they are needed. The keys to success therefore consist of the following: 1. Identifying your potentials; 2. Nurturing your potentials; 3. Seeking and employing your potentials where they are needed and will be maximally utilized. In other words, you must seek, grab and utilize opportunities. For better understanding, I will attempt to explain them in details 1. Identify Your Potentials It is worrisome that many Christians today live wretched and beggarly lives because of their inability and/or
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laziness in identifying their God given potentials. This is because of lack of knowledge. No wonder the Bible says, “My people perish because of lack of knowledge” (Hosea 4:6), see also (Proverbs 3:13). This lack of knowledge prevents them from reaching the heights which God ordained for them i.e. to be Kings and Princes, the Head not the Tail, and to be Lenders not Borrowers (Deuteronomy 28:1-13), (1 Peter 2:9). So it is evident that it is never the will of God that Christians will be poor because our God is the God of wealth and will not allow His chosen ones to wallow in abject poverty (Haggai 2:8) (Psalm 24:1). The problem is that some Christians are lazy in identifying their potentials and utilizing them optimally. One may at this juncture ask, how do I identify my potentials? This can be done through the following: a. Pray for God’s revelation The revelation of God’s divine will on any issue that concerns any Christian is very important. Therefore, every Christian must seek and know the will of God for him/her through prayers and obedience to God’s words. (Proverbs 3:5-6, 21:30), (1 Samuel 2:9). b. Seek Counsel A Christian in identifying his/her potentials must seek counsel. This is very important, as experience they say is the best teacher. Those who have passed through similar experiences will be better placed to advise others in such circumstances. One should therefore, seek the counsel of his/her pastor and/or other men of God, elders in the church, his/ her role models, etc. c. Watch out for those things that you enjoy doing This is another way of identifying one’s potentials. A Christian should watch out for those things that he/ she genuinely enjoys doing and that gives him/her satisfaction; that most likely is your calling in life.
after identifying his/her potentials must endeavour to nurture them to the peak. This could be done through the following: a. Get the requisite basic academic and professional qualifications in the area of the potential so identified. b. Develop and improve yourself daily by reading, writing, watching good and edifying television programmes, listening to radio and such other activities. c. Interact and socialize by attending seminars, conferences, etc. and meeting good people and making good friends. These will help you grow and nurture your potentials.
Every Man Is an Asset, means that every human being – male, female, young, old, handicapped or non-handicapped – is useful and important. In other words, every human being is of value and has a purpose to serve which God ab initio equipped him/her for by giving him/her potentials.
2. Nurture Your Potentials A latent potential identified if not well nurtured may be useless to the person so endowed. Therefore, a Christian
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3. Employ Your Potentials Once a Christian has identified and nurtured his/her potentials, the next step is to employ the potentials where they are needed. This could be realized through the ways stated hereunder: a. Pray to be led where your potentials are needed. This still emphasizes the importance of prayers in whatever a Christian does or intends to do. b. Seek, grab and utilize opportunities. Opportunities must be sought, grabbed and utilized without wasting time. Some Christians are too lax in this regard. They fold their hands and wait for opportunities to find them, instead of them seeking and grabbing opportunities. They forget that the Bible says “Laziness brings on deep sleep and the shiftless man, goes hungry” (Proverbs 19:15), (Proverbs 18:9). c. Embrace diligence and hard work. This is also essential if one must be an asset, which God has endowed every Christian to be. Diligence and hard work do not kill’ instead, they take one to the top. Some Christians may have identified or even nurtured their potentials, but their problem is laziness. Some that even have work are indolent and unserious. This is bad (Pro. 21:17, 20:13), (Eccl, 9:10). Hard work is necessary, for even Jesus worked (John 9:4, 5:17). Let me therefore, re-emphasize that every Christian is important, valuable and indispensable in the house of God. Hence, every Christian is an asset.
