Bad Boy Attraction- Might Get You Hurt [imaioVideo v=1] You know, as a society, we believe what we believe. The problem is that often those beliefs have no basis in fact. That, in my opinion, is largely what happens in regards to the whole bad boy attraction. I’m not so sure women are attracted to bad boys as much as they are simply not good about finding the right guy. Instead of deliberately going after the bad boy attraction, I suspect some women just are so desperate to have a guy at all they will take whatever they can get. Then, from the outside looking in and over a period of time, it seems as though they are attracted to these “bad boys”. I have a good friend who is just like that. It’s not so much that she likes bad boys per se, she is just an insecure person who likes to be with someone and her low standards and insecurities make her the perfect target for insecure guys who like to find a woman he can push around. I guess whatever the reason is, if you find yourself always dating the wrong guy you should probably be willing to make some changes so you can increase your odds of ending up in a happy, healthy relationship. Of course, there are many ways you can address this situation, if you want to badly enough. You can ask your friends to help you out, you can do it on your own, or you can hire a therapist to help you work on whatever issues you have so you can go into your next relationship with more self esteem and will most likely attract more of the types of people who you can have a worthwhile relationship with. The first thing you need to do is to decide why you think you don’t deserve to be in a relationship with a decent person who will treat you decently. It’s really not that tough. Women who constantly attract, and stay with, guys who don’t treat them well, tend to not believe they deserve to be treated well. If that is you, why not ask yourself why you feel that way? No one said this will be a pain free, quick or easy process but you can and should be willing to devote the time. Aren’t you and your future worth it? After time you will begin to make changes to your behavior and what your expectations are. As you do, you will start to see that the types of guys you attract start to be more worthwhile. I’m not saying that this process is full proof, but it really does tend to work. You may still find the proverbial bad boy on occasion, but for the most part you should find better guys to date.
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Not only will it help you have more luck in your dating life, it will also allow you to become a better person which will help you in all aspects of your life. The better version of yourself that you can bring to all your life, the more luck you will have in all aspects of your life. So, don’t worry if you think you have a bad boy attraction, it’s probably just insecurity on your part.
Bad Boy Attraction- Might Get You Hurt
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