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Facets Founders
Brittany Abeijon Shot caller and sanity keeper
After getting a B.S. in News-Editorial Journalism, Brittany Abeijon finds herself unable to turn off her editing skills. Correcting everything from menus to billboards, she visibly cringes at the sight of Incorrect Capitalization and misplaced commas. Brittany constantly consumes information from the 426 blogs she follows, the 21 print magazines she subscribes to and the iPad that never leaves her hands. She prefers to call it research. As a Chicago native who longs for New York, she has a passion for writing about fashion, food and people. Brittany has been known to speak entirely in abbreves, would live in dresses if she could and is rarely seen with her wine hand empty.
When Tom Salek isn’t protecting the rules of proper grammar and AP style, he spends a lot of time watching and writing about TV and film. Although he has a B.A. and M.A. in film and media, he still cannot settle on a favorite movie. If you ask him to name his favorite, he’ll rattle off 10 or 15 titles by a number of different filmmakers–changing every time he’s asked. Tom is notorious for carrying hand sanitizer, making sure everyone defeats microbes before touching any food or objects he may come in contact with. Although he grew up and currently lives in Chicago with his dog that looks like an Ewok, Tom likes to pretend he still lives in New York City by watching movies and TV shows that take place there.
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Tom Salek
Protector of AP Style and grammar
Rachel Kosmal is a jack-of-all-trades, communication guru-in-training for Facets, seeking out new and creative ways to bring technological diversity to its pages. After graduating with a B.A. in Communication Arts, Rachel settled down in the suburbs of Chicago with her husband and a dog, and is looking forward to using her skills in this exciting, new online publication. Rachel spends most of her time sleeping, but when she’s awake she enjoys the simple things such as drawing, acting, spending time with her family, performing improv and drinking craft beers.
Rachel Kosmal
Catcher and releaser of beautiful things
Submitted by Caroline Kangas via Facebook
Jay Fubler Harvey Director of Deez nuts and bolts
As a 21st century, international enigma in the making, Jay Fubler Harvey, also known as FrankTet, Egyptian God of Hot Sauce, spends his time referencing George Carlin and Richard Pryor, reading Orson Scott Card and Naoki Urasawa, making fun of the political world and listening to anything that has a high level of danceability. Jay’s late night Web creativity has seen its way into the engaging worlds of the anime and manga fandom, Japanese popular music, multiracial advocacy and one too many corporate soul-sucking endeavors. He fancies himself a future drummer, comedic writer and multiple Oscar and Tony award winning whatever.
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For as long as Lynn Conway can remember, photography has been part of her life. Her fascination began when she was little, as she often observed her mom in her dark room as she processed film and developed pictures. Lynn loves connecting to people with photographs, and most importantly capturing something–a memory or a reminder of something special–that will last a lifetime. Lynn hopes to do exactly that for Facets readers. On a more serious side, Lynn’s loyalty lies with her hometown New York, quotable movies, singable music, vampires and all other freaky things that go bump in the night.
Lynn W. Conway
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tonisha jeffers tobyhanna, pa. writer
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melissa griffin syracuse, n.y. graphic designer
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Contents Editor’s note Welcome, readers!
FASHION So long summer, street style We gravitate toward individuals who march to the beat of their own fashionable drum
The best bathing suit for your body Let us help you figure out the latest gear that works for you this summer so you can hit the beach with a positive attitude
Vintage icons, modern looks Ever wondered how to dress like Paul McCartney or Bianca Jagger?
August / September 2011 SO LONG, SUMMER issue
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TRAVEL Relax, recharge on a quick endof-summer weekend getaway Use your smartphone to get the most out of your next vacation
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Travel for a week with only a carry-on Facets helps you pack smart, light for your next trip
LIFE Kiki’s ups and downs
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Memoirs of a woman living with bipolar disorder
Eight creative date ideas Not your ordinary barbecue Host a memorable party with Facets tried- and-true guide
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DATING/RELATIONSHIPS FOOD/ENTERTAINMENT
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Try these tips to have a unique, inexpensive night out
TECHNOLOGY So you want that new gadget but don’t have any cash?
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Our experienced techie tells you how to trade in dusty equipment for a little green
Founders favorites What we love right now
Social media fridge Socialize with us!
Rachel tries Indo-Pakistani food Our catcher and releaser of beautiful things grabs a bite of something new
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A welcome note to Facets readers
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ello! With so much sincere happiness I welcome you to our pages. After more than half a year of exciting deliberation filled with countless brainstorming sessions, creative idea conversations and future planning discussions, it thrills me that we finally have something to show you.
The Facets team helped shape this innovative, online publication in a time when people talk about the death of print, the rise of smartphones and tablets, and the growth of news through Web and social media vehicles. It is an everchanging time, but an exciting one. We promise to bring you informative, thought-provoking content in each of our bimonthly issues, but we also promise no matter how hard we work to perfect it, we will never charge you to enjoy it. One decision the Facets team made during our planning stage was to do away with titles. We are a group of young, passionate people who work together as a team to create each issue, and we feel silly calling ourselves directors, managers or chiefs of anything. So we turned to you! Before the launch, we ran a contest on our Tumblr to tap into the creativity of our supporters, let you have some influence over what you read here and also to emphasize our point about working as a team. You helped us come up with informal titles that are fun, yet still depict what we do. Check out our Founders page to see the entries we loved most. How many of you have ever seen something you love in a magazine, immediately searched for it on a retailer’s website, but ended up frustrated when the item was nowhere to be found? We know the feeling, and we’re here to help. Facets links directly to items on retailers’ websites so you don’t have to stumble about the Internet in search of that item you need to have now. Facets is more than just sparkly things on pretty pages. We will never feature a $250 pair of rain boots. Our words will never read like a Wikipedia entry. Our articles will never single out one race, gender or sexual orientation, and we will never discriminate against a lifestyle that may seem unconventional to some, but is very much normal to others. Diversity is a buzzword we intend to explore by featuring different people, styles, interests and ideas. Indulge in the last bits of summer that remain by checking out our “Not your ordinary barbecue” feature on page 21, or navigate through the raw memories of an adult woman living with bipolar disorder on page 43. We invite you to read on, and we encourage you to embrace the diversity in your life.
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• FASHION •
So long, summer street style
By Brittany Abeijon Photography by Lynn W. Conway Facets prefers trendsetters over trend followers, favors rule breakers instead of safe dressers and gravitates toward individuals who march to the beat of their own fashionable drum. We took to the streets of Chicago, Ill. in search of a few stylish residents, and we found a couple who had something to say, wearing something worth talking about. Here we showcase two Chicagoans in their own clothing, accessories and favorite local spots as they give us their style rundown in a fashion Q&A. Read on to see who admires the rocker vibe, who wears white after Labor Day and who has something against socks. volume 1
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Noelle Lynch 25, Lakeview resident Model
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How would you describe your personal style? My style changes constantly, but there is always a touch of rock ‘n’ roll in there.
Where are your favorite places to shop? I love to shop at Zara, H&M, Topshop, AKIRA, Shopbop, Asos and Urban Oufitters, and I especially love when I find a good vintage store.
Where do you get style inspiration? From the runways.
What fashion rules do you love to break? All of them! I wear white after Labor Day. I mix my shoe and purse colors. And I wear intense lip shades during the day. Rules are no fun! Breaking them is.
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What fashion trend would you like to see make a comeback? So many trends have been recycled in some way, but I’ve always been drawn toward 50s style bathing suits. They were so adorable, especially the two-piece suits with the high-waisted bottoms.
Wearing: Ivory sheer top - Akira Red bikini - Victoria’s Secret Chain necklace - Akira Silver sequin shorts - H&M Black wayfarer sunglasses - Urban Outfitters Red/white rings - Brittany Abeijon’s own
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What advice do you have for others on creating their own style? Buy what you love, not what’s on trend. If you love what you wear, it shows in how you carry yourself. Style isn’t just about your clothes. It’s your attitude, persona, your uniqueness. It’s expressing who you are on the inside, and on the outside.
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Drew Earley
26, Roger’s Park resident Research Manager and Advertising Analyst
Drew Q&A:
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How would you describe your personal style? My style is best described as conservatively playful. While a good oxford, tie or sport coat lend much in the way of versatility and function, they are nothing without color or pattern.
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Where are your favorite places to shop? At 26, my favorite places to shop have dwindled—because I’ve finally found labels I love. Ralph Lauren, Brooks Brothers and J. Crew are a few that suit my style and taste, without limiting variety.
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Where do you get style inspiration? My parents gave me a good fashion base. While their respective styles are conservative, they understand the power of navy blue and the effect of a well-placed accessory. As for inspiration, classic Ivy League, the Kennedy era and the daily ‘L’ commute lend much to the way I dress.
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What fashion rules do you love to break? Going sockless is pretty liberating. From a fashion standpoint, it adds some surprise to an otherwise expected look. Truthfully, I’ve never enjoyed the feeling of socks.
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What fashion trend would you like to see make a comeback? Girls and pearls, and guys doing away with clothing that’s ill fitting–whether it be skinny or baggy jeans.
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Wearing: Navy blazer - Alfani RED Oxford shirt - Rugby Ralph Lauren Watch - Breitling Brown belt - Calvin Klein White jeans - Banana Republic Loafers - Johnston & Murphy
What advice do you have for others on creating their own style? Keep it basic, but have a little fun. ◊
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In our next issue, Facets street style will feature the latest fall fashion.
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The best swimsuits for your body By Renee Mailhiot Whether you have been preparing your body for weeks in anticipation for the bare fest that comes with warmer weather, or you have been wincing at the idea of donning the water-friendly equivalent of underwear since January, fear not. With the latest silhouettes and funky, fresh styles, you’ll be heading to your nearest body of water to soak up some rays in no time. Male or female, full coverage suits or show-itall styles, we’ve got the guide to help you figure out the latest gear that works for you this summer, so you can hit the beach with a positive attitude. LADIES For the minimalism enthusiasts that lust over runway pieces by Calvin Klein and Michael Kors, don’t fret; you can afford these brands without breaking the bank and still get simple, yet chic, swimwear. Classic neutrals are always in style, but WHITE is a popular hue for this summer. If you’re strictly a lounger that enjoys watching the kids splash around, add a brown belt at the waist for some added shape and overall style.
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Must have accessory: Keep your suit neutral, but go crazy with color on your nails. (Essie’s Brazilliant, $8; Sally Hansen Salon Effects strips in Electric Shock, $9; Urban Outfitter’s POP nail polish in Grass, $10)
One-piece keyhole halter control Newport News $34
White double ring back plunge one-piece ASOS $52
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For the ladies, it’s all about retro glam from the 70s translated into swimwear. One way to channel your inner disco queen is through the MONOKINI Sexy yet subtle, the cut-out silhouette is not only a high-end trend from the spring/summer runways, but also a mainstream hit with affordable brands. It is a perfect balance between an itsy-bitsy bikini and a full coverage one-piece, but is definitely still a piece of fashion.
Must have accessory: Keep the look cohesive by adding a headscarf in a bold print that matches the suit, and don’t forget a pair of oversized shades (Knit Tribal Headwrap – Forever21, $4 and Printed round sunglasses – Urban Outfitters, $16)
There’s no shame in treating the pool scene like your personal runway, especially since there are a range of styles to suit every unique body and flair. If you envy the styles of glamour goddesses Kim Kardashian, Jennifer Lopez and Beyonce, opt for a blinged-out bathing suit. Look for sequin-lined cut-outs, bejeweled accents and metallic fabrics.
Black Mermaid monokini Venus $34
Jade monokini Target $30
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FASHION Tropical blue convertible strap underwire one-piece Always for Me $89
Retro shirred swimsuit Lane Bryant $42
Fuchsia ruched cutout one-piece Monif C. $110
PLUS-SIZED swimsuits are on par with the
Must have accessory: Add
current summer trends as well, with colorblocking, convertible options and retro-inspired looks paving the way. Spring runways were chock full of colorful striped patterns, such as Prada, Max Mara and Gucci. However, you can get these looks for way less. The basis for your decision should be the color that not only pops, but flatters your skin tone as well.
some height and definition to your figure by wearing some impressive, yet still comfortable, wedges. (Floral espadrilles wedge sandals – Old Navy, $21)
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As the summer comes to a close, look for
bathing suits
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FASHION Regular 9” volley swim shorts Lands’ End $13
Hawaiian 5” Madras boxer swim shorts Polo Ralph Lauren $26
Striped watercolor swim trunks Gap $40
White/yellow pieced boardshorts Old Navy $8
FELLAS Men, listen up – this summer’s swimwear trends have heightened the hemlines. Trunks have moved up a bit to what is considered “volleyball” or “Bermuda” style, ending right above the knee. The speedo hasn’t hit home here in America just yet, so save that for your Euro trips. However, there are definitely a few trends when it comes to color and prints that males should consider when purchasing new swim duds. Fashion-forward swimsuits for men include classic American style: large plaids, vintage prints and bold, solid colors. If you’re a no-fuss kind of guy when it comes to dressing (especially if you’re just heading to the beach), go for the sportier PREPPY styles. Think solid hues with slight side tubing detailing or plaid patterns in red, white and blue. Darker shades not only are great choices for those who are plus-sized since it will minimize the lower half without being too busy with prints, but it will subdue any fashion fears you may have. If you are willing to take a little risk, go for a cornflower blue to complement a tan.
Guys who are looking to get a little trendier this summer should go all the way with vibrant neons and cool prints. For vacations and weekend getaways, you can try out new styles before fully committing.
Must-have accessory: Pair these with casual button-ups before and after pool activities, and you can head straight to other outdoor gettogethers without having to change. (Vintage solid button-up shirt – JCPenny, $10)
Remember to go for a more classic style if you’re unsure when making a swimsuit choice. Invest in the ones that fit you well and show off your favorite parts of your body. The number one accessory to compliment your swimwear style? Confidence, so strut your stuff shamelessly. That’s always in. ◊
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Vintage icons, Modern looks By Tonisha Jeffers
Draw summer suit inspiration from 1960s and 70s idols
Style Icon of the 60s: Paul McCartney Although The Beatles began their music careers in matching suits, their wardrobe wasn’t always so in sync. Here they seem to all look the same, but a closer look reveals Paul actually stands out from the group. He could have followed suit and dressed up like John, George and Ringo in a black suit and skinny tie, but he didn’t and we admire his fashion independence. Understated, but speaking volumes, Paul ditched the black tones and a tie in lieu of a gray suit and light shirt. Want some help, gentlemen? These items make it easy to dress like a Beatle on a regular guy’s budget.
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Style Icon of the 70s: Bianca Jagger Bianca Jagger, Mick Jagger’s first wife, was well known for being a model, rocking an eccentric style and serving as a muse to Andy Warhol and Halston. One of her many famous fashion moments was her wedding ceremony in St. Tropez, France, where she wore a beautiful white Yves Saint Laurent blazer sans shirt, a white skirt and a widebrimmed hat. Ahead of her time when it came to style, Bianca’s timeless and spunky fashion choices are fun, easy to pull off and always affordable. ◊
Get her look: • White blazer – Gap, $40 • Cream/orange lace shell top – Dorothy Perkins, $19.50 • White tie-waist linen shorts – LOFT, $35 • Natural floppy hat – Karmaloop, $32 • Tan faux-leather platform heels – AMI Clubwear, $31
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• FOOD / ENTERTAINMENT •
Not your ordinary barbecue Host a memorable end-of-summer party with our tried-and-true guide By the Facets founders • Photography by Lynn W. Conway As the summer season comes to a close, it’s not too late to host an end-of-summer bash your friends and family will talk about well into the fall. From unique recipe ideas to the necessary tools for hosting a barbecue in an urban setting, we are here to help with all your planning needs. To make sure our guide is fool-proof, the Facets founders spent a Sunday afternoon hanging colorful cupcake light strands, eating tequila-soaked watermelon wedges and listening to an eclectic mix of upbeat tunes while basking in the warm summer sun. A party in the name of work? Twist our arm, really. volume 1
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DIY DECOR
DRINKS
Colorful cupcake light strands
Summer Beer
This DIY decoration takes 10 minutes, costs $2 Skip the pre-packaged favors at the party store and forget about the complicated do it yourself crafts that take hours to perfect. This DIY decoration adds a bit of mood lighting to your party scene, takes only 10 minutes to complete and costs just a few dollars. We used it here for our summer barbecue decor, but by varying the colors or patterns of the materials, this easy embellishment works for any party—even indoors! • 1 strand white lights - free from holidays past • 1 package of mini cupcake holders (100 count) in whatever color or pattern you fancy around $2 at the grocery store 1. Plug in light strand to make sure it works first! 2. Gently poke a single light on the strand through the bottom of one mini cupcake holder so it faces out, acting as a tiny lampshade. 3. Repeat for every light bulb on the strand. Repeat with as many strands as your decor calls for. 4. Connect multiple strands and hang up along a fence, trellis, or anywhere you please.
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Bring the summer season to a celebratory close with a few signature drinks. Try our refreshing Summer Beer recipe, a long-time Facets favorite known by another name during our college years (we’ll never tell!). The drink is dangerously good for two reasons: you’ll never forget the simple list of ingredients, but its sweet lemonade flavor may make you forget how much punch it really packs. • A 2 or 3 gallon drink dispenser (we like the chic options at Bed Bath & Beyond) • 6 Leinenkugel Summer Shandy beers (or other brand of summer beer) • 1 750 ml bottle of of citrus-flavored vodka • 1 gallon (or 16 cups) pink lemonade powder drink mix • 2 sliced lemons 1. Combine all ingredients except for lemon slices in drink dispenser. 2. Stir until powder is thoroughly mixed. 3. Adorn with lemon slices. 4. Serve with straws and ice. Enjoy responsibly.
FOOD / ENTERTAINMENT STARTERS Tequila-soaked watermelon wedges Our favorite summer food/drink combo, the juicy watermelon, harsh tequila and bitter salt merge into a uniquely refreshing combination. Just be sure you don’t pass the kids a piece. • 1 medium-size seedless watermelon, cut into 1-inch thick wedges • 1 cup sugar • 1/2 cup water • 1/2 cup tequila • 1/4 cup triple sec • 2 limes, cut into halves or wedges • Sea salt or coarse salt 1. Arrange watermelon wedges in a single layer in two 13-by-9-inch baking dishes. 2. Bring sugar, water, tequila and triple sec to a boil in a small saucepan. Cook, stirring until sugar dissolves, about 1 minute. Let cool slightly. 3. Pour syrup over watermelon wedges, and refrigerate for at least 45 minutes. 4. Remove watermelon from syrup and arrange on a platter. 5. Squeeze limes over the watermelon wedges and season with salt.
Mediterranean pizza • Pizza dough • Mozzarella cheese • Alfredo sauce • Minced garlic
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• Your favorite veggies (we love broccoli, mushrooms, orange pepper, grape tomatoes and fresh basil)
Is your pizza dough too sticky?
1. Roll out pizza dough per package instructions. 2. Spread alfredo sauce. Add garlic. Top with mozzarella cheese and your favorite veggies. If using basil, add the basil when the pizza is done cooking or else the basil will burn. 3. Place in oven at 400°F. Cook until crust is golden brown, approximately 15 minutes.
Try using flour. We also recommend placing on nonstick aluminum foil. Looking for some protein? Try adding some chicken.
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FOOD / ENTERTAINMENT Stuffed portobello mushrooms • 4 teaspoons extra virgin olive oil • 1 carrot, finely diced • 3 celery ribs, diced • 1 medium onion, finely diced • 2 red peppers, sliced into thin strips • 3 cloves garlic, smashed and minced
2. Add rice or quinoa to vegetables and mix. 3. Remove stems from mushrooms. If desired, dice stems and add to filling mixture. Place mushrooms in baking dish, stem side up. Top with rice mixture, packing down slightly. 4. Brush lightly with remaining olive oil. Bake for 30 minutes at 350°F. Garnish with chopped cilantro or parsley.
• 1 medium tomato • 2 teaspoon basil • 2 teaspoon oregano • 2 cup cooked brown rice or quinoa • 1 cup textured vegetable protein (TVP), rehydrated according to directions • 8 medium portobello mushrooms • salt and pepper, to taste 1. Over medium heat, saute vegetables until slightly tender, adding in this order: garlic, onion, carrot, celery, red pepper, tomato, waiting a short while between each to develop flavor. Add rehydrated TVP, basil and oregano. Add salt and pepper to taste. Cook for 2 minutes and turn off.
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TIP Cooking on the grill? Par-cook (cook halfway) the mushrooms in a pan on the grill for 5-10 minutes. Add the filling and cook on the grill for another 5-10 minutes. Be careful not to lose the mushrooms through the grates. Try using larger mushrooms to prevent loss.
FOOD / ENTERTAINMENT SIDES Tort salad • Tortellini (as much or as little as you want) • Italian salad dressing, to taste • Cheese crumbles (your favorite kind, as much or as little as you want) • Your favorite veggies (we used mini corn, orange peppers, red onion, broccoli)
5. While grilling, brush asparagus with leftover oil mixture. 6. Cook to desired tenderness. For grilled corn on the cob with garlic butter • 8 ears of corn • 2 sticks butter or margarine • 1 clove of minced garlic
1. Cook tortellini as instructed on the package. 2. Toss cooked tortellini, cheese crumbles and cut veggies. 3. Add Italian dressing to your liking.
Grilled veggies Great for vegetarians and meat-eaters alike, grilled vegetables are an easy and healthy side dish at any meal. Choose your preferred veggies, dust them with your favorite seasonings and fire up the grill.
• Salt and ground black pepper 1. Peel back corn husks, but do not remove them. 2. Soak cobs in cold water for half an hour. 3. To make garlic butter, combine garlic and melted butter until smooth. 4. Place corn directly on the grill. 5. Brush on garlic butter and turn corn frequently. 6. Cook for approximately 15 minutes. 7. Use remaining garlic butter at the table.
For grilled asparagus • One pound of asparagus • 3 tablespoons olive oil • 2 cloves garlic finely minced • 1/4 teaspoon paprika • Half of a lemon • Salt and black pepper 1. Wash and trim asparagus. In a bowl, combine olive oil, garlic and paprika. 2. Place asparagus on skewers or aluminum foil. 3. Squirt lemon juice over asparagus . 4. Dust asparagus with salt and pepper.
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FOOD / ENTERTAINMENT MAIN DISH Quick barbecue sauce • 1 cup brown sugar • 1/2 cup chile sauce • 1/2 cup bourbon • 1/4 cup low- sodium soy sauce • 1/4 cup ketchup • 1/4 cup Worcestershire sauce • 2 cloves garlic, crushed • 1 teaspoon ground dry mustard • Ground black pepper to taste 1. In a saucepan over low heat, mix the brown sugar, chile sauce, bourbon, soy sauce, ketchup, Worcestershire sauce, garlic, dry mustard and pepper. 2. Simmer 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. 3. Cool and refrigerate until ready to use.
Fork and knife ribs • Baby back ribs • Salt • Pepper • Garlic salt • Bell peppers • White onion • Your favorite barbecue sauce 1. Pre-heat oven to 250°F. 2. Cut ribs into half slabs. Season both sides generously with salt, pepper and garlic salt. 3. Slice peppers and onions thinly and place on top of ribs. Wrap each rib slab in aluminum foil. We suggest using two pieces of non-stick aluminum foil for best results. 4. Place wrapped ribs on a cookie sheet and place in preheated oven. Bake ribs 5-6 hours. 5. Remove ribs from aluminum foil and place on grill on low heat. Baste with your favorite barbecue sauce to taste. 6. Grill for approximately 10-15 minutes.
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TIP Looking for something a little spicier? Add jalapeños to the pepper and onion mixture. Are there picky eaters at your party? For a few solutions that are both quick and easy, try tater tots or sweet potato fries.
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Try making kabobs as a less messy meal option. Load the skewers with veggies and tofu cubes for the vegetarians in attendance, or add an array of chicken, steak or pork to the kabobs for the meateaters. No matter what combination you choose, we recommend marinating the kabobs in a Greek vinaigrette dressing. The longer you marinade the kabobs, the tastier they get.
Take your boring burger to the next level by topping it with avocado or mango slices. Use turkey burgers as a healthier meat alternative. We topped our turkey burgers with feta cheese, sliced grape tomatoes and fresh basil. Use whole wheat buns or Sandwich Thins with your burgers instead of fluffy white bread, and save those extra calories for dessert. volume 1
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TIP Looking to cut some calories? Try using angel food cake and low-fat or fat-free Cool Whip. It’s all about the presentation. Take desserts to the next level by serving individual portions in wine glasses.
DESSERT Golden brown peach cobbler
4. In a pan, combine 1 cup of sugar, peach slices and lemon juice. Bring to a boil over high heat, frequently stirring.
This easy peach cobbler may look and taste like it took hours to make, but it’s a tasty end to any summer barbecue.
5. After bringing to a boil, pour mixture batter. There’s still no need to stir or mix ingredients.
• 1/2 cup unsalted butter • 1 cup all-purpose flour • 2 cups sugar, divided
6. Bake mixture at 375ºF for 40-45 minutes or until golden brown. 7. Add ice cream, cinnamon, or your own favorite spice.
• 1 tablespoon baking powder • Pinch of salt • 1 cup milk • 4 cups fresh peach slices • 1 tablespoon lemon juice 1. Melt butter and pour into a 13-by- 9-inch baking dish. 2. Begin making the batter by combining flour, 1 cup of sugar, baking powder and salt in a mixing bowl. 3. Stir in milk until ingredients are moistened. Pour the batter over butter. No need to stir the ingredients.
Easy-peasy strawberry shortcake parfait If you spent too much time on your main dish and think you don’t have time for dessert, think again. Treat your guests to this simple, refreshingly sweet treat. • Pound cake • Cool Whip • Strawberries, sliced 1. Cut pound cake into 1-inch squares. 2. Layer cool-whip, pound cake and strawberries into a cup or bowl. 3. Top each parfait off with a whole strawberry.
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FOOD / ENTERTAINMENT NO YARD, NO PROBLEM There’s a barbecue party for every home For the urban socialite living on a shoestring budget, summer barbecues may be a nostalgic reminder that you are surrounded by little yard space and lots of concrete.With condos and apartments come balconies and fire hazards, and grilling can become a problem. Here are some tips for hosting an inexpensive, intimate barbecue experience for your family and friends. The tools
Get creative in your space
Grilling in a confined space can be daunting, and even a little risky. Luckily, there are adaptations to the traditional upright, oversized patio grill. Here are some budget-friendly suggestions for the three main grill types, but shop around for a portable appliance that fits your needs and grilling style.
The more familiar elements from the outdoors that you bring inside, the more your guests will feel as though they are enjoying a barbecue, not just eating barbecue. So throw open those windows, bust out your beer cups and margarita glasses and grill up some eats. ◊
• Charcoal: Love the taste of meat on a charcoal grill? If you have a small outdoor space to cook, check out the Weber Smokey Joe® Silver Charcoal Grill, $30, a great spacesaving option for classic grilling. Charcoal cooking allows for a broad range of cooking temperatures and provides a smokey flavor to your meat, fish or vegetables. Remember to let the charcoal briquettes burn down to white, and always use lighter fluid to start your fire. • Gas: The Uniflame 10,000 BTU Portable Gas Grill, $35, is a cheap, propane-powered grill that works well for the occasional cook out, whether it be at home or on the road. Gas grills are a less-mess option than charcoal, as they tend to produce less smoke. They also give off more consistent heat, allowing you to cook meat longer and at a low temperature to keep it tender. • Electric: Last but not least we have the electric grill, a handy option for the porch-less, yardless, parking lot-less individual still determined to throw a barbecue. Also handy for rainy days, electric grills can provide healthy, tasty grilled meat entirely indoors. We recommend the trusted George Foreman Indoor/Outdoor Domed Grill, $70, because nothing says indoor grilling party like George Foreman grills.
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SUMMER BARBECUE PLAYLIST: 1. “California Love” - 2Pac (feat. Dr. Dre and Roger Troutman) 2. “Uprising” - Muse 3. “Summertime” - DJ Jazzy Jeff & The Fresh Prince 4. “Hella Good” - No Doubt 5. “California Gurls” - Katy Perry (feat. Snopp Dogg) 6. “Whoomp! There It Is” - Tag Team 7. “Cheeseburger in Paradise” - Jimmy Buffet 8. “The Way It Was” - Aceyalone 9. “I’ll Be Your Man” - The Black Keys 10. “Could You Be Loved” - Bob Marley & The Wailers 11. “It Feels Good” - Tony Toni Tone 12. “Saturday in the Park” - Chicago 13. “Lovely Day” - Bill Withers 14. “Dynamite” -Rokstarr 15. “Dani California” - Red Hot Chili Peppers 16. “Into the Groove” - Madonna 17. “Pick Up the Pieces - Average White Band 18. “Let’s Groove” - Earth, Wind & Fire 19. “Summertime Clothes” - Animal Collective 20. “Genius of Love” - Tom Tom Club 21. “I Gotta Feeling” - The Black Eyed Peas 22. “Kokomo” - The Beach Boys 23. “Flashlight” - Parliament 24. “Cruel Summer” - Bananarama 25. “Summer Teeth” - Wilco 26. “Fantasic Voyage” - Lakeside 27. “If You Love Somebody Set Them Free” - Sting 28. “Shotgun” - Junior Walker & The All Stars 29. “Rock Your Body” - Justin Timberlake 30. “Cupid Shuffle” - Cupid 31. “Two Piña Coladas” - Garth Brooks 32. “Workin’ Day And Night” - Michael Jackson 33. “It Takes Two” - Rob Base and DJ EZ Rock
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Jay Harvey
As a girl growing up in rural, small-town America, I never ate take-out Chinese food until I was in college. Until recently, I never even thought about experimenting with the delicate world of sushi. Embarrassingly, the only thing of ethnic value I ever tried was spaghetti from a chain restaurant and tacos from the drive-thru—both poor representations of their respective cultures.
After moving to Chicago, one of the most diverse cities in the U.S., I’m not worthy of the “foodie” title just yet, but I have discovered an appreciation for different flavors, textures and food preparations other cultures have to offer. Enter my curiosity with Indian food. Not far from where I live is a Chicago neighborhood in Roger’s Park fondly referred to as “Little India.” The colorful area hosts many Indian restaurants and shops, and earned an enthusiastic recommendation from Jay Harvey, Facets’ Director of Deez nuts and bolts. A few members from the Facets team and their significant others set out for this area determined 32
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to break our Indian-Pakistani food V-card. My love of spicy food is only rivaled by my love of pushing limits, and this seemed like a perfect first time. We settled on Sabri Nihari, an Indo-Pakistani joint teeming with hungry people. Let me tell you, it did not disappoint. From the large, elaborately decorated room to the scent of curry and spice that permeated the air, it was like stepping into another country. For those as unfamiliar as I was with Indo-Pakistani food, the following are our first impressions of some of the tasty things we devoured.
DRINKS * Water, and lots of it. The restaurant did not serve alcohol, but we were happier gulping down pitchers of water instead of glasses of wine with the spicy cuisine. * Mango Lassi is a yogurt-based drink made with blended mango pulp and water. It’s a more savory, milky take on a fruit smoothie. It’s great for cooling down a palate set on fire by spicy ingredients.
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ries Indo-Pakistani food APPETIZERS Chicken Pakora: This was something easy to start with. These crispy strips of chicken were mildly spicy and required a little more water to wash down. Vegetarian Samosas: Unassuming mashed potato pot stickers, these had a crisp, cracker-like shell and a pasty potato and vegetable filling. After one chewy bite, heat overcame my mouth. These were easily the spiciest things we had at the restaurant, and possibly the spiciest thing I’ve ever eaten. Thankfully I was able to wash it down with the Lassi, otherwise I would have gone running for a hose. Naan: More to go with the meal than as an appetizer, naan is the only thing I knew about before going to this restaurant. Popular in Indian cuisine, the unleavened bread is reminiscent of a thin, soft pita.
ENTREES Sabri Nehari: The menu described this dish as “Pakistani pot roast.” An accurate account, but only if your mother serves chunks of tender, hot, delicious beef swimming in a pool of spicy gravy for Sunday dinner. This was another spicy dish that left me gulping water, but it was so tasty I would have eaten it in a drought. Served with a little rice, this was a perfect sampling of a national Pakistani delicacy.
Vegetable Samosa
goat before, but nothing this tender and never in a stew. My husband, Pete, took special delight in chowing down on meat directly off the bone—a deliciously morbid way to play with your food. Mutton Biryani: A flavorful dish of basmati rice cooked with spicy goat, this was adorned with crispy onions and raita, a special yogurt sauce. “Mine definitely had a different taste! I really couldn’t pick out the fried onions or yogurt sauce much in this dish, but I really liked the goat and rice,” commented Facets’ Shot caller and sanity keeper Brittany Abeijon. “I didn’t enjoy the bones in the goat, but it did make me think the meat was fresher. The rice was enjoyably moist and overall the dish was a tad spicy.” She had enough food for a second day meal, and added that the Mutton Biryani was so flavorful it was even delicious in cold spoonfuls. Palak Paneer: Jay Harvey, Facets’ Director of Deez nuts and bolts ordered the only vegetarian dish of the evening, a curry made with spinach and ricotta. He complemented his meal with a little rice and naan, and admitted to loving the rich flavor and lovely green color. You won’t miss the meat in this one!
Kunnah Paya: This was a tasty, slightly spicy stew made of goat leg and meat. I actually have tried Palak Paneer
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Go with friends. We ordered several different dishes and shared them to sample what Sabri had to offer. Not only does this give you an idea of what kind of food you like, but it also gave us tons of leftovers to take home and enjoy the next day. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Your waiter or server will be happy to answer them, and is usually more than willing to provide you with details–or even translations about the food you may (or may not) want to try. Do your research. Websites and smartphone apps like Yelp and Google maps will give you an idea of what to expect. Look for highly rated restaurants near you, and then find a few recommended dishes so you have a better idea of what to order when you get there. Look out for other smartphone apps that might aid in your research and give you the best dining experience. Our restaurant actually had it’s own iPhone app complete with the menu, tip calculator and a 10 percent discount. You can even make reservations with it! My successful tip-toe into the spicy world of Indo-Pakistani food inspired me to try other cultural restaurants in my area. I encourage you to step outside your comfort zone and try food that’s new to you. Take it from me, the world has more to offer than spaghetti and tacos. ◊
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• TRAVEL •
Relax, recharge on a quick end-of-summer weekend getaway Let your smartphone be your guide By Tom Salek
Weekend getaway itinerary: Friday night:
Dinner, stargazing and relaxing
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Instead, I was overcome by a sense of calm. A state of mind where anxieties are lessened and thoughts are allowed to meander. It was the beginning of what would be a rejuvenating weekend getaway. The perfect way to relax and recharge as summer comes to an end.
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Rural hike, exploring the landscape and taking in nature
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” find a small town within a few hours of your major city, jump in the car and get ready to spend a few relaxing days away from everything. “ Take stargazing to the next level with a midnight stroll, interactive app Wind down from a busy day by taking a nighttime walk, and enjoy the moment by looking up at the black, starry skies. I spent the remainder of my Friday sipping a drink, taking a midnight stroll and looking up in appreciation. Twinkling lights adorn skyscrapers in the city, but it’s constellations that litter the clear skies in rural areas like Galena. Wondering if you’re staring at the Big Dipper? Think you spotted Orion’s Belt? Supplement your sky viewing with an iPhone or iPad app like Star Walk ($2.99 and $4.99 on iTunes), an augmented reality app that reveals what constellations you are looking at, or points you in the right direction to find what you are looking for.
Explore nature through hiking, use smartphone to help identify wildlife After a late night of stargazing, I woke early Saturday morning ready for an adventure. I decided to take a hike along the many walking paths and bike trails of Eagle Ridge Resort, located in the Galena Territory. As I climbed the large rolling hills, I was sure to snap a few photographs of the landscape and animals. Similar to stargazing, you can download a number of apps to help improve your hike. If you are a bird lover, make sure to download Bird Watching - Beginner’s Guide ($0.99) for an encyclopedic guide to birds and tips on birdwatching. If you’re an amateur geologist, check out Rock Hound ($1.99) for a pocket guide on what to pick up on a rock hunt. Looking to identify plants, fungi and insects you spot during a nature hike? Try out apps like Arbor Day Tree Identification 36
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Guide: What Tree is That? ($4.99), Fungi guide ($1.99) and Bugs and Insects ($0.99). Although you could spend hours taking in the breathtaking views and learning more about nature, I had to end my nature hike after just a few hours. I was late for a wine tasting.
Let yourself wine a little One of the main reasons I trekked from Chicago to Galena, dare I say my favorite, was to attend the Top of Illinois Wine Festival. Located in a grassy park next to the bank of the Galena River, I sampled wines from more than 10 local wineries. At each booth the wine pourer greeted me and told me about the different wines they offered—what kinds of grapes were used, how long the wine was stored and a description of its taste. Of all the wine samples I tried, my favorite was Galena Cellars Señor Sangria, a fruity, red wine with a crisp taste perfect for a warm summer evening. No matter where you go to taste wine, remember to ask the pourer questions about each sample to
Did you know you can only call champagne champagne if it hails from the specific Champagne province in France? Otherwise you’re just drinking sparkling wine. Learn more wine facts like this with a handy app like Wine Enthusiast Guide ($5) or Drync Wine (free). Each app lets you discover new wines and allows you to keep track of your favorites.
Peruse local downtown shops, restaurants After consuming a number of different wines at the festival, it was time to explore downtown Galena. First I grabbed lunch at the Galena Brewing Company, a local brewery and bar, and afterward I canvassed the many quaint shops downtown. Although this is an account of
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Do not arrive with an empty stomach. Be sure to eat a proper meal before the wine tasting so you do not end up drunk, sick or worse.
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Use a bike to cover more ground before heading home I decided to take a bike ride before venturing back to Chicago. While I spent the previous morning on a nature hike, I wanted to explore more territory. If you are set on a long bike adventure, make sure to download a riding app like MotionX GPS ($2.99), which allows you to track your route, share with friends and provides you with a number of statistics about your ride.
After a few hours of bike riding up and down the many hills of Galena, it was time to pack up the car and drive home. Although it had only been two short days, I turned onto the highway and sped back toward the business of daily life. As I watched the sun set in my rear-view mirror, I felt revitalized and ready to get back to reality.
Find your perfect weekend getaway Although my summer weekend destination was Galena, Ill., there are countless other rural towns to slip away to. All you need to do is find a small town within a few hours of your major city, jump in the car and get ready to spend a few relaxing days away from everything. While you may want to disconnect and stop checking your email and voicemail, don’t let your smartphone go to waste. Remember you can download a number of apps to make your weekend getaway more memorable, while learning more about the complexities of our world. ◊
If you make it to Galena, check out these sites: If you’re in downtown Galena, make sure to visit the storefront and wine tasting room of Galena
Cellars Vineyard and Winery. For an excellent end of summer treat, check out their Señor Sangria. For a short trip outside the town, take a vineyard tour.
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Tour downtown Galena on foot or on one of the many tour trolleys. There is a tour for every taste, whether you want to learn about the city’s history, architecture or haunted sites.
Brave a walk
through an old cemetery. These sites are not only great for a quaint stroll, they are rich with history. Look out for old headstones, many are inscripted with the stories of people’s lives.
Get active and go for a bike ride. There’s no better way to explore the landscape than spending the day taking in the sights while getting a bit of exercise.
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Travel for a week with only a carry-on By Jessica Schanberg
Photography by Lynn W. Conway Video by Rachel Kosmal
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With airlines charging a small fortune to check a suitcase, savvy travelers can get the most out of a carry-on bag by following a few easy packing tips. Even if you’re not traveling by plane but still want to pack light, Facets is here to help you consolidate and pack smart. Choose clothes in neutral colors, so you can
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any of your other neutral options and can really make an outfit. You can also use your cheery bathing suit with a sarong or linen button-up as a lively, restaurant-appropriate outfit for lunch on the beach.
Bring clothes you can easily wash. Online stores like Athleta carry high-tech, attractive, breathable clothing that will dry quickly after a hand washing. Extra space saving tip: bring single packets of powdered laundry detergent.
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Leave your fussy shoes behind. Ladies, forget your sky-high heels. Opt for a space-saving, chic pair of flats that fit easily into even the smallest carry-on bag. Men, opt for a pair of no-maintenance dress shoes that transition simply from day to night.
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You have to see it to believe it. Watch our space-saving method as we fit a week’s worth of clothing, accessories, shoes and toiletries into a tiny carry-on suitcase.
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Major airline bag check fees by the numbers: Airline
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We prefer layering clothes instead of rolling them when it comes to maximizing space in a small piece of luggage.
Ladies, bring one silver and one gold piece of fashion jewelry to complete any outfit combination.
For longer items like maxi dresses or pants, let the edges hang out of the suitcase until all items are layered.
Lastly, fold the extra material over the top of all your items to ensure even spacing and smooth layers.
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• LIFE •
Kiki’s ups and downs By an anonymous woman living with bipolar disorder Illustrations by Rachel Kosmal Kiki has been living with bipolar disorder most of her life. She is not a doctor, but felt compelled to write this column to show support for others in similar situations, and offer a non-judgmental forum for people who want to learn more about mental illness. Before I start my story I want to explain why I chose to be anonymous. In my experience, people are often afraid of a bipolar diagnosis because it has become so sensationalized by the media. Over the course of my life, I lost many jobs and relationships because I was honest about it. I hope the stigma of the bipolar label will go away in the future so people like myself will be able to be more open about their illness. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in my 20s, although I think I had it from a very young age. While it has been a difficult journey, it offered me insight into a part of the population some may not understand. Believe me, my story is hardly unique. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, there are 5.7 million people in the U.S. diagnosed with bipolar disorder every year—and so many others left undiagnosed. My last episode occurred in 2009. At the time I worked at a conservative company. The pressures were enormous. I was under so much stress. I thought everyone was plotting against me.
There were a few co-workers who were particularly unkind to me and I inflated those negative interactions into a global conspiracy. My symptoms made it very difficult to do my job well. I was so paranoid and afraid to leave the building for lunch because I thought the crowds outside were judging me, too. I asked my supervisor to adjust my work schedule so I could come in early in the morning and leave early in the afternoon, not only avoiding rush hour, but also limiting interactions with people. One morning after buying my usual cup of coffee, I had an intense and embarrassing panic attack as I walked into the lobby of the building where I worked. My hands shook so bad I handed off my coffee to a nearby security guard. Unaware of what was happening, he graciously tried to comfort me. I was mortified. It was at this point I knew my job was doing me more harm than good. It was triggering mania, panic and depression all at the same time. I dreaded going into the office. I felt listless. I moped around, devoid of any energy or interest. It soon became clear my work was suffering. Before I could be fired, I gave my notice and left. For a short period of time I felt a great sense of relief. I was no longer burdened by work. However, it wasn’t long before other symptoms began to surface. In the absence of my job, I began to walk several miles every day at top speed These brisk walks got me in better shape and I volume 1 43
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A few days later, I slipped on a patch of ice and severely broke my ankle. I was told I needed surgery and several months of physical therapy. This was an especially difficult situation because my apartment is located on the third floor of a walk-up building. As a result, I spent most of my time alone in my home as I completed rehabilitation over the next few months. As time passed,
One of the biggest obstacles I overcame is combating the thought that things would be better if I was dead. That couldn’t be further from the truth.
strange food cravings. It could be 2 a.m. and I would charge off to a diner for breakfast. At this point, getting a few hours of sleep was nearly impossible.
I became increasingly depressed and agoraphobic. I saw my body as an enemy. I gained 40 pounds from inactivity and comfort eating.
Instead of understanding the reality of my situation, I dove further into a dangerous stage of mania. I felt incredibly sexy and powerful. One night I went to a bar and drank a dangerous amount of alcohol, and before I knew it I was on my way home with a complete stranger. When we got back to my apartment we fooled around but didn’t have sex. After this initial blur, I continued to meet this guy a few more times, but my intensity wore him out and our “relationship” ended soon after. Looking back now, I realize how lucky I was that this person wasn’t dangerous or bad. I took a huge risk bringing a total stranger into my home.
When I did leave my house I dreaded the experience. I avoided public transportation. I took cabs to my doctor appointments and spoke to my psychiatrist over the phone. It seemed like things would never get better and I began to think about ending my life.
A short time after it ended, I met someone new and had a real relationship. Yet it was still fraught with issues. I couldn’t sleep. I was often tearful. I ate compulsively. I flirted with other men. Eventually he caught on and broke up with me. I was devastated. 44 AUG/SEPT 2011 | thefacetsmag.com
Finally, after several months, my psychiatrist found a combination of medications that boosted my energy and lifted my spirits. To deal with my intense fears of the world at large, she recommended I try a day hospital intensive group program. Being around people with similar issues and struggles made it easier for me to share my stories, and also helped me gain some perspective on my past experiences. Even with medication I often have tough times that are triggered by stressful events. One of my biggest triggers has to do with disappointments in my friendships. I’ve grown better over time in dealing with
disappointment and it has helped me immeasurably. When things go wrong, I try to look at all the angles. I move away from the extremely negative assumptions that pop into my head. I maintain the belief that people are generally good and aren’t trying to do me wrong. However, when I do think someone is against me, I pause and ask myself if that makes any sense. Giving myself a reality check often helps with my distorted thinking. I know cycles can return with bipolar disorder, but I now feel I have a greater awareness of the signs of my mania and depression. I also have new tools to combat the distorted thinking that comes with it. Things don’t change by medicine alone. I had
Statistics about bipolar disorder: • Bipolar disorder results in just over a 9-year reduction in expected life span, and as many as one in five patients with bipolar disorder commit suicide. • The median age of onset for bipolar disorder is 25 years old, although the illness can start in early childhood or as late as the 40s and 50s. • Although bipolar disorder is equally common in women and men, research indicates approximately three times as many women as men experience rapid cycling. Statistics from the National Institute of Mental Health and Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 58, 1995 [Suppl.15].
LIFE to really want to change. I made myself get out in the world again. One of the biggest obstacles I overcame is combating the thought that things would be better if I was dead. That couldn’t be further from the truth. I would be robbing myself of all of the possibilities and hope I know are out there. My life has not been easy, but it has been rewarding. I wouldn’t want to miss out on life because of a particularly bad depressive cycle. I learned hope comes when things change incrementally—and things do change.
Please remember, I am not a replacement for clinical care from a psychiatrist, psychologist or social worker. If you feel you are at risk, please call 911. But if you are looking for someone who can relate to your experiences of dealing with depression, mania or any mental illness, you found a safe place to share your story. ◊
Now that I shared some of my story, I would love to hear yours and offer support or advice. For a safe, judgement-free place to comment or confide, check out: Kiki’s blog on Tumblr ◊
Kiki’s thread on the Facets Facebook page ◊
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• DATING / RELATIONSHIPS •
Eight creative date ideas By Colleen Day
Illustrations by Rachel Kosmal
Whether you are tired of the same old dinner and a movie date, or you are looking to impress a new love with a creative way to spend time together, we are here to help. Check out Facets’ top eight creative and inexpensive date ideas to keep things fresh and fun this summer season. Eat in
town that plays movies for large audiences, often for free.
Instead of spending money going to a restaurant and time waiting for a table, find a recipe both of you will enjoy and cook it at your place. Choose a colorful recipe with fresh meat or fish and in-season produce, like bacon double cheese stuffed burgers with grilled vegetables, or beerbattered fish tacos with corn and avocado salad.
Check out DriveInMovie.com for locations near you, or search “Movies in the Park, [your city]” for the nearest summer 2011 outdoor movie schedule. For those who like to graze during flicks, skip the expensive concession stand food in favor of snacks that suit your tastes. We are rather partial to cheese, crackers and champagne in cans.
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If you are still getting to know your date, do a little digging and impress them by finding out any preferences, eating habits or all-time favorite foods. Don’t forget to serve a signature summer cocktail, like the Facets’ favorite Summer Beer, and some berries and whipped cream for dessert.
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Warmer weather brings a great excuse to skip the heavily airconditioned movie theater in favor of a more relaxed, outdoor venue. Car owners can head to a nearby drivein theater to catch a film, while those without vehicles can grab a blanket and hit the pavement toward a grassy spot in
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Round up a group of friends and split a campsite for a cheap weekend getaway. While the thought of sleeping on the ground doesn’t seem that luxurious, you can still have a blast with the right company—and the right air mattress. We suggest picking up a Coleman Camping Air Bed, $70, which has a batteryoperated pump that does the hard work for you. After you set up camp, look into renting water sports equipment at the campground or a local lake for refreshing daytime activities. Make relaxing nighttime plans to enjoy a few of your favorite brews around a blazing campfire, while roasting marshmallows for our camping musthave, s’mores.
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Horseback riding
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Dating an animal lover? Try out this different date option by searching for stables or riding trails nearby that offer horseback riding lessons or afternoon excursions. Even if you are the farthest from an equestrian, being new to the sport may make things more fun. So join your date for an outdoor adventure in a relaxing and rural setting, but just be sure to check the weather first. Trudging through trails on a horse in a downpour is not even a little bit enjoyable.
Catch the sunrise
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Ditch date night and set your alarm. Plan to wake up early and head to the beach, park or forest preserve to catch the sunrise together. Skip the snooze button but don’t forget to bring a blanket for cuddling in the cooler early morning temperatures. To make sure you don’t miss a moment, check out TimeAndDate.com which calculates the exact minute the sun will rise or set. And to guess the sunrise on the go, download the free Sunrise Clock + app for iPhone and iPad. Once the sun is up, head to your favorite breakfast spot for a nowait meal before the brunch crowd shuffles in.
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Skip the weekend trip if your budget is tight, and spring for the day trip away. Branch out from your familiar hot spots, your worn-in neighborhood and your homey surroundings, and escape for a weekend to a nearby place you’ve yet to explore.
Think like a tourist and plan a oneday hike or car ride in a direction you haven’t been, or close your eyes and point to a place on a local map. While traveling, try out Foursquare on your smartphone for locationbased tips, reviews and deals for anywhere your daycation may take you.
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If you are anything like us, the number of DIY projects you have been meaning to tackle way outnumber the ones you have actually completed. Why not take advantage of the time, roll up your sleeves alongside your non-hired help and get creative. Have some fun picking out a wacky accent color together, turning an old closet into a new office, or even covering your entire refrigerator with chalkboard paint.
Indoor/outdoor skydiving
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For those of you who get a rush out of spontaneity and risk taking, tackle extreme heights with the unique date idea of indoor skydiving. Vertical wind tunnels are popular training devices for skydivers, but are also a great and active way to try something new with someone new, or take the plunge with someone you already trust. Check out indoor skydiving locations across the world, or search outdoor facilities near you. ◊
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So you want that new gadget but don’t have any cash? Our experienced techie tells you how to trade in dusty equipment for a little green By Branden Johnson
My name is Branden, and I’m an addict. Phew, that feels good. Got that off my chest right away. I’m not addicted to drugs or alcohol or pornography. Nothing as cheap as that. I’m addicted to technology. Each new iteration of a handheld device that emerges from the gaping maw of capitalism is something I pine for. And it doesn’t help that I have the worst timing—I bought my first iPad about a month before the iPad 2 came out, and I bought my new iMac two and a half weeks before the annual refresh. That part of the problem is just my own stupidity, and it’s not the subject of this article. 48 AUG/SEPT 2011 | thefacetsmag.com
If you’re like me, you enjoy technology. Gadgets get you going, if you know what I mean. Like, not in a gross way. But you have to have them. Assuming you are like me, you have no money. Zero dollars that you can afford to spend on new toys. Like any good addict, I have not allowed this to stop me. I’ve dug deep and discovered some creative ways to fund my purchases—and they are all legal! They’re easy, they’re free and you can unload your unwanted, obsolete merchandise for the freshest variety in the process.
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This may be the first place you look when you’re trying to decide how to dump your old, unwanted items and make some money in the process. Craigslist began to spread en masse around the year 2000, and it has become a quick way to find a cheap bed frame or sell off a fine collection of hair dryers. And that’s not even touching the lessthan-legal side of the website people have taken advantage of over the years. If you don’t mind used products, you can often find good deals here. Selling items on Craigslist is easy, as well. Just post a new listing, choose your category and write up a tantalizing little piece about why your thing is better than other similarly priced things on the site. Then, once you get a bite (in the form of an email from an prospective buyer), you can arrange for a place to meet up and make your exchange.
Pros: • Easy to list items. • Easy to find items you might be interested in buying.
Cons: • For every honest person in the world, there are 14 scumbags that want to rip you off. Craigslist is their mecca.
• Meeting up with a stranger to trade your gadgets for their money, even in a public place, is not the safest thing to do.
It all sounds kind of dangerous and exotic, and I guess it probably could be, depending on what you’re selling.
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Gazelle is quickly making a name for itself. Even though it just launched in 2006, the website was listed as number 24 on INC Magazine’s “INC 500.” I’m no business expert, but 24 out of 500 sounds pretty good to me. The premise is simple: You have old gadgets, movies and video games lying around that you are never going to use again. Gazelle takes them off your hands, and will often pay you cash for them. They use a complex algorithm to determine the value of each item you want to send. Simply answer a few questions about the item (its condition, etc.) and Gazelle spits out a price estimate. You can take that money in cash, or have it converted into gift cards (Amazon, Walmart, and the like). Converting to gift cards often gives you a small bump in value as well, usually around 5 percent. For the altruistic, you can also convert your item into a charitable donation. If they find the item has no value, they’ll still gladly and responsibly recycle it for you. Did I mention shipping is free? They will send you a
pre-paid shipping label, you just provide your own box. However, Gazelle will occasionally send you a box if your items are valuable enough. Gazelle stated that the average payout for customers is around $100. Not bad for junk that was just sitting around collecting dust and disapproving looks (old copy of Dead or Alive Beach Volleyball, I’m looking at you).
Pros: • Super easy to use. • Good prices for used gadgets.
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Glyde connects you with people who are interested in buying your unwanted stuff. It’s basically an online marketplace where you can list items for sale, the condition of said items and determine the price. Glyde helps you out by keeping you informed of the lowest price for your item currently listed—after all, you want to remain competitive. If you are selling your Space Jam DVD for $6, and someone else is selling it for $4, which would you buy? Of course, Space Jam is worth considerably more than $6, so it’s a shame to think this high piece of cinema could be sold for such a paltry sum. Glyde charges 10 percent of the total sale price, plus the cost of the pre-stamped and addressed mailer (usually between $1 and $1.75). It is then your responsibility to package your item and put it in the mail the next day. Once the sale has been confirmed, money is deposited into your Glyde account. Glyde is a great place to get a few bucks for the DVDs that Gazelle won’t pay you anything for, but of course you are dependent upon a buyer stumbling upon your listing.
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If you’re Web-savvy, you have probably purchased something off of Amazon already. It’s super easy, and their Prime membership (free 2-day shipping on tons of items) makes it easier than going to the store. Not to mention, products on Amazon are consistently cheaper than big-box stores like Best Buy. What you may not have noticed is that Amazon has a thriving seller community. If you have an account at Amazon, then you also have access to seller functions. When you log into your account, look on the right of the page for Your Seller Account. Once you set yourself up, you can add items that you want to sell, either by searching with keywords, or even ISBN or UPC codes. Then you input details about the item’s condition, set your price (you can see Amazon’s price for a new item, but remember to check other sellers’ prices so you can be competitive) and you’re good to go. You’ll be notified via email once your product sells. You can handle the shipping yourself, or you can set it up so Amazon will fulfill your order—if you don’t mind giving up more of your money to Amazon. I’ve 50 AUG/SEPT 2011 | thefacetsmag.com
Pros: • Easy to set up an account and list items.
• Gets you cash for old DVDs that Gazelle might offer you nothing for.
Cons: • Glyde takes 10 percent of each sale, plus the cost of the mailer, plus an additional charge to withdraw money from your account.
• You are not guaranteed to sell anything.
found shipping my own items is a simpler and much more cost-effective option. Print the shipping label, affix it to the package and you are set. You will have to pay shipping out of your own pocket, but most— if not all—of that money will be reimbursed to you upon receipt of the buyer’s payment.
Pros: • People trust Amazon, and know their purchase of your items is backed up by Amazon’s guarantee.
• You can sell more than just gadgets, DVDs and video games—basically anything Amazon sells, you can sell.
Cons: • Shipping items can be a small hassle.
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Beware of seller’s remorse There are of course many other sites where you can convert your bounty of first-world goodies into cash, eBay being one of the more notable. I’ve personally never used eBay, so I can’t speak much to it, but I think its popularity speaks for itself. That being said, be careful what you sell. You may regret it later. In fits of gotta-have-it elation, I’ve often scoured my belongings for anything— anything!—of value to sell. DVDs bought, but never watched, games I’ve played a bit of and never got into. But the rush of filling up boxes of junk to sell can sometimes cloud your judgment.
Are you sure you want to get rid of that New Kids on the Block CD? It’s a first-issue copy. It could be worth real money someday! And that laptop—sure, there’s a newer model available, but can you save yourself a lot of pain and suffering by simply seeing if a RAM upgrade will suffice? And your iPad—nah, go ahead and trade up, you’ll never have more than a year between models. Who wants to be left behind? Best of luck to you in your resale endeavors. As for me, I’m keeping an eye on Amazon. I’ve got a netbook for sale. It’s a pretty good one, too. But there’s an Acer Chromebook coming out in the near future, and, you know...I’m going to need that. ◊
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Founders’ Favorites
Dooney & Bourke, $65
What we’re loving right now Brittany’s Picks:
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The refreshingly tart, calorie-smart Skinnygirl Margarita, Bethenny Frankel’s brain child, is the perfect summer sipper. Next in her fabulously light line of cocktails, Skinnygirl Sangria is said to hit shelves by the end of August.
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iPad cases that are the perfect combination of chic, functional and practical. Who needs a built-in pad of paper next to your iPad when there’s an app for that? Check out one of my favorites from Dooney & Bourke that’s waterproof, maintenance-free and super stylish. Dooney & Bourke, $65
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The “French Cafe” station on Pandora. I have no idea what the lyrics mean most of the time, but the songs are so beautiful I don’t even care. I love listening to the foreign croons while I cook in my apartment’s tiny kitchen.
Rachel’s Picks:
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Want to camp but hate setting up the tent? Love lounging all day in a hammock? Consolidate all your sleeping needs into the Hennessey hammock. A bit pricey, but worth the buy if you’re in need of a quick sleeping space between two trees—or lamp posts.
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Show some human-to-human love by purchasing a pair of colorful TOMS shoes. For every pair you buy, TOMS gives a pair to a kid in need. There are lots of colors and patterns to choose from for dudes and chicks alike. I personally enjoy the veganfriendly, classic style in Earthwise Slate. TOMS shoes, $54.
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Get out and get hunting with geocaching, the world-wide scavenger hunt for the directionally savvy. Download a free app on any smartphone platform (I recommend C:geo for Android and Geocaching Intro for iPhone) and start looking! 52
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Tom’s Picks:
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Breaking Bad (AMC, Sundays, 9 p.m. CDT) It wouldn’t be summer without the return of one of the most addictive shows on TV. The fourth season of AMC’s gritty drama tells the story of Walter White (actor Bryan Cranston), a terminally ill, high-school chemistry teacher who turns to making crystal meth to pay for his medical treatment and leave his family a little extra cash. It might sound depressing or strange, but it’s really one of the best shows on TV.
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CNN’s new video streaming service. If you’re a news junkie like me and actually pay for cable, take advantage of CNN’s new video streaming service that lets you watch live programming on your computer, smartphone or iPad. It’s a great way to spend a summer evening outside, watching Piers Morgan or Anderson Cooper while you lounge in the warm weather.
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Lost in Shangri-La: A Story of Survival, Adventure, and the Most Incredible Rescue Mission of WWII by Mitchell Zuckoff. A fascinating read about the three remaining survivors of a military plane crash in New Guinea at the end of WWII. Not just for history buffs, Zuckoff’s book tells the story of three Americans struggling to survive in the jungle and understand the culture of the local Dani tribe— rumored to be cannibals.
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Lynn’s Picks:
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Rediscover your local public library. I know you’re asking, the library? Who goes to the library anymore? Well I do and I can literally spend hours at my library finding new vampire books (vampire books for your e-reader also available!), music, movies and even a great new Wii game. And the best part, at most libraries, it’s free.
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Want some fierce wavy hair? Try Bumble & bumble Surf Spray. I have naturally crazy curly hair, and in the summertime...I just can’t deal with it. I let it go wavy and crazy and fierce with help from Surf Spray. It adds volume and texture giving you that natural wind-blown feel. Sephora, $23.
B&b Surf Spray, $23
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Need some new music? Check out Foo Fighter’s Wasting Light album. In my opinion, one of their best CDs. I cannot stop rocking out to it!
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Steak ‘n Shake’s Butter Pecan hand-dipped milkshake is richly satisfying liquid genius. Very much worthy of the “so good it would make you slap your mama” title.
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Woody Allen’s latest film, Midnight in Paris is a true treat. The witty comedy set in both contemporary and 1920s Paris stars Owen Wilson, Rachel McAdams, Michael Sheen and Marion Cotillard. Allen’s finest film in years is a summer delight for art, history and movie buffs alike.
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