Families Chiltern September/October 2024 Digital

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Well, it’s back to school already and soon the nights will start drawing in! So make haste while there are still pleasant days and plenty of daylight left and enjoy some family adventures. To entertain the kids, why not pick a family wild-life spotting walk to make the most of the great outdoors.

Don’t miss our article on apps and platforms to help your child with spelling as well as our selection of great graphic novels for reluctant – and other – readers.

Halloween is a favourite time of year for many children so to get them in the mood, don’t forget to download our spooky craft activity and take a look at our Halloween food, craft and sciencethemed special effects pages too!

Finally, in this issue, we have four great giveaways for our readers. Apply inside.

make n’ do’s

family walks for wildlife

spooky science

Competition winners from our May/June issue

Congratulations to all our winners. You can find a list HERE

MAKE

HANGING

PUMPKINS FOR A TWIG TREE

We asked our friends at Hobbycraft for a spectacularly spooky Halloween craft activity for parents to do with their kids and they’ve come up with these cute pumpkins to hang on a twig tree.

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Recognising a good state secondary school

Choosing a secondary school is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make for your child. Very likely, your two priorities are whether your child will reach their academic potential and whether they will be happy there. Here are my tips on what to look for.

Hot-house or greenhouse?

Is the school educationally aspirational and how does this manifest? Look for relaxed and respectful teacher-pupil relations. They are key to successful learning. Is the library well-stocked and busy? Teacher recruitment and retention is challenging all schools. Ask pupils how often they have cover teachers.

Are pupils regularly assessed?

Performance measures such as Progress 8 are good indicators of how a school adds value as they measure academic attainment rates over time. Are there programmes to stretch the more academic children? What about those with special educational needs and disabilities?

Breadth of curriculum

The best state schools offer and value a broad liberal arts education beyond the standard curriculum. For instance, Bohunt School in Hampshire ‘blew the socks off’ the Good Schools Guide with immersion classes in Mandarin. Some of the best state schools

invest in top notch sports facilities and coaching, others have outstanding creative or performing arts spaces.

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Apps and platforms to help your child with spelling

Spelling isn’t easy – sometimes even for grown ups! Luckily there are a wealth of tools available to help you and your kids with spelling.

First Words Deluxe

Ideal for toddlers who are just beginning to master letter sounds. Ages 3+. ios

Sir Linkalot

Helps memorise and recall the spelling of high frequency words. Ages 5+. ios & android

Spelling Shed

Popular in schools and great for competition between friends. Ages 5-11. ios & android

DoodleSpell

Tailors spelling exercises to suit a child’s strengths and weaknesses. Ages 5-11. ios & android

Squeebles Spelling Test

Create spelling tests with your choice of words. Ages 5-11. ios & android

Word Wizard for Kids

Great app for independent practice of spelling words. Ages 4-10. ios & android

Your Spelling

Focuses on the words needed for KS1 and KS2 SATs. Ages 5-11. ios

Night Zookeeper

Fun, engaging online programme that increases vocabulary and improves spelling. Ages 6-12. web

Spelling Hangman

Great for challenging your child and makes weekly spelling fun. Ages 4+. ios

Helping children with theory of mind

Back in 2007, a mum called Sarah told me of an incident involving her then 8-year-old son, Albi. Sarah had fainted in the bathroom of their small flat. As she was coming round, she called out for her son. He said: ‘Yes, I saw you.’ Sarah reported that Albi carried on playing without concern.

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Overcoming failure and disappointment

Whilst studies show that children learn better when they experience failure, no parent likes seeing their child upset or disappointed. It feels right to help them avoid anything seemingly harmful they encounter, whether that be through distraction, bargaining or a quick credit-card swipe. READ

How to be great at spelling

For children, learning how to spell isn’t just about passing school tests but also about being able to write words correctly in their extended writing. As adults, spelling is essential for effective writing in the professional world. So how can kids learn to spell well?

Graphic novels for reluctant readers

Graphic novels can really encourage those kids who don’t embrace reading – and are great for those who do too! Take a look at our selection below.

Phoebe and Her Unicorn by Dana Simpson

Follows the friendship between an awkward girl and a unicorn. Ages 7+.

InvestiGators by John Patrick Green

Comic strip format. This is a wordplay-packed cartoon! Ages 7+.

Wonder Woman by Lisa Yee

Female friendship and bravery in this riproaring, crime-fighting adventure. Ages 9+.

Bumble and Snug and the Angry Pirates by Mark Bradley Great for independent reading Ages 5+.

Cowgirls and Dinosaurs by Lucie Ebrey Crime fighting adventure. Ages 9+.

The Pavee and the Buffer Girl by Siobhan Dowd Great sensitivity and storytelling. Ages 10+.

Hilo: The Boy Who Crashed to Earth by Judd Winick Well-told, gripping scifi story, colourful action and comedy. Ages 6+.

Dog Man by Dav Pilkey

Explores empathy, kindness and persistence. Ages 7.

Meesh the Bad Demon by Michelle Lam

First story in a fantasy graphic series. Fun and fast-paced. Ages 8-12.

Dealing with toddler tantrums in public

Understanding toddler tantrums better

Recognise tantrums are a normal part of child development. Identify triggers like hunger, tiredness or frustration.

Know that toddlers lack the emotional regulation skills to handle intense feelings.

Understand that public settings can be overwhelming for toddlers.

Managing tantrums in public

Stay calm and composed; don’t react emotionally.

Acknowledge your child’s feelings and offer comfort.

Use distraction techniques, like showing them something interesting.

Keep interactions brief and avoid lengthy explanations. Move to a quiet place if possible.

What’s the best way to deal with tantrums?

A guide from the NHS on the best way to handle a troublesome toddler.

Preparing for public outings

Plan outings around your toddler’s schedule.

Bring snacks and toys to keep your toddler occupied.

Set simple rules and expectations before going. Be prepared to leave if necessary.

Practise patience and stay calm.

Post-tantrum strategies

Praise good behaviour once they calm down.

Discuss the tantrum calmly at home later.

Reinforce positive behaviour with rewards.

Teach emotional regulation skills through practice.

Maintain consistency in your responses.

End a toddler tantrum in 30 seconds

Quick effective method principles of gentle parenting, respectful parenting and positive discipline.

Autumn make n’ dos

How about some great autumn activities that truly celebrate the wonderful colours and beauty of this season? From playing with shiny conkers to leaf rubbing, there’s something for everyone!

Acorn owl

Best family walks for wildlife spotting

We asked our friends at The Outdoor Guide to recommend some of the best UK ‘walks on the WILD side!’

Brownsea Island, Poole Harbour, Dorset

Brownsea Island is a haven for wildlife including red squirrels. Dorset Wildlife Trust also has some hides on the island where you can get glimpses of the resident and visiting birdlife that migrates here during winter.

Blakeney Point, Norfolk

Show your kids wild seals - the Norfolk coastline is a great place for it!

There are colonies of grey and common seals that can be seen on the tidal sands, as well as migratory birds including redshanks, oystercatchers and avocets. This is a long walk though so best for older children.

National Trust Charlecote Park

The grounds of Charlecote Park, on the outskirts of Stratford upon Avon, has been home to a herd of fallow deer for centuries. Legend has it that William Shakespeare was prosecuted for poaching deer from here!

Richmond Park, London

During the autumn, male deer show prowess by clashing antlers with their rivals. Watch the deer rut in Richmond Park in London, home to fallow and red deer. Remember, keep a respectful distance and ensure dogs are on leads. This is a 7-mile circular walk so will only be suitable for older children.

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© Holly Brega

Best family walks for wildlife spotting

We asked our friends at The Outdoor Guide to recommend some of the best UK ‘walks on the WILD side!’

Somerset Levels

Later this year, one of the wonders of the natural world will return to the Somerset Levels - the starling murmurations. Thousands of starlings come to roost here amongst the reedbeds. The peak season is November to February.

The Needles, Isle of Wight

With views out across the English Channel, you may glimpse a pod of dolphins that have become regular visitors here. Surrounded by the sea, this walk also gives you the chance to see marine birds including gannets and shearwaters. This is a longer walk so do consider your child’s age and capabilities.

Regency Walk, London

Even in the heart of London you can go for a walk to see some amazing wildlife. The Regency walk takes you past St James’s Park - well worth a detour to observe the abundant birdlife living on the lake - you might see the pelicans that live there too!

Petworth Park, West Sussex

The deer park in Petworth, West Sussex, is home to between seven and eight hundred fallow deer. The lake also offers the chance to see various ducks and geese.

If you’re a National Trust member, pop into the cafe afterwards for a well earned cuppa and slice of cake.

© Holly Barber
© Holly Barber
© The Outdoor Guide
© Holly Barber

Spooky Halloween science

Create some ghostly, glowing and ghoulish Halloween effects at home with these simple science ideas.

Ghost rocket

Made with simple ingredients which react to propel your ghost to fly.

Halloween lava lamps

Use simple ingredients which react eerily to create magical lamps.

Dancing ghosts

Learn about static electricity by creating ghosts that move by themselves.

Make a galaxy in a jar

Recreate the wonders of the night sky in a jar of magic.

Luminous drinks

Discover the weird effect on some drinks when exposed to UV light.

Ghostly glowing eggs

Examine the spooky reaction that occurs between vinegar and egg shells.

Ghost slime

Make slime that is icycold to touch with just a few ingredients.

Blow up a pumpkin balloon

Using simple science, blow up a pumpkin balloon without touching it.

Fake blood

Add authenticity to a Halloween costume with this concoction.

Fun Halloween craft projects

So much of the excitement of Halloween is in the anticipation, in choosing a costume and decorating the house. Here are some great Halloween craft ideas which will add to the fun.

Halloween sensory surprise box

Ghost leaves

Halloween fuse beads decorations

CBeebies Trick or Treat bags Rock Skulls

Threading paper plate spider’s web
Halloween bat
Pumpkin pinata
Easy paper craft ghosts

Delicious Halloween delights

It’s not Halloween without some themed food and there’s as much fun in the making of it, as in the eating! Get the kids in the kitchen helping with some of these ideas.

Watermelon Jacko’-Lantern
Scary Halloween jelly
Sticky toffee apples
Spider pizzas
Skeleton biscuits
Mummy hot dogs
Frozen banana ghosts
Pumpkin Rice Krispie treats
Monster burgers

Funny videos to get the kids laughing

In the often-stressed lives of parents it can be challenging to be playful and share laughter with our kids. So, for the moments when you can’t do this, keep these funny videos up your sleeve!

Kids’

jokes

The Bounce Patrol gang tell family-friendly jokes for kids of all ages.

Topsy and Tim funny moments

Topsy and Tim pick favourite funny moments from the popular CBBC show.

The Great Cookie Caper

Children’s soft toys play characters in this humorous tale of missing cookies.

The Terrible Plop Funny rhyming story by Ursula Dubosarsky, read aloud.

Farm

animals

A video with farm toys playing, jumping and making silly, funny sounds.

Tiny Dog, Big Stick Watch Bosco the Dachshund navigate a park in London.

The Duck Song Funny story about an annoying duck and a lemonade stand.

Talking

twin babies

Your kids (and you) will be in hysterics watching these chatterboxes.

If You Laugh I’m Starting this Book Over

Riotous read-aloud book that insists listeners must not laugh.

2025 Top family holiday destinations

We asked Ashley Lutz from Travel Counsellors to pick some family holiday ideas for 2025 and here’s what she came up with.

Switzerland

Exciting museums, snow parks & slopes, actionpacked rope parks, toboggan runs, pristine lakes/rivers.

Mexico

The Rivera Maya (btwn Cancun & Tulum) is perfect for a family beach holiday.

Abu Dhabi

Great for kids’ activities and winter sun, good value, relaxing, lovely beaches.

South Africa

Spot the Big Five on safari! Plus, great beaches and adventure activities.

USA

From theme parks to surfing, tailor-make your holiday and create something unique.

Sri Lanka

Stunning landscapes and beaches, bustling cities, culture, wildlife, summer or winter.

Iceland

In Reykjavík: restaurants, loads of children’s activities. Northern Lights, whales, live volcanoes.

Croatia

Enjoy an off-the-beatenpath holiday with quaint villages and secluded beaches.

Slovenia

Active holiday with a twist! Lakes, mountains, beach and national parks.

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