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Have you had your first frost yet? Whether you are feeling winter creeping on or not, there’s no doubt it’s just around the corner. Time to get out the warm jumpers and the hot chocolate. For many, November is a busy month as we strive to get ahead of Christmas preparations. You can make an early start to Christmas shopping with our Christmas gift guide. And get booking family Christmas fun now with our What’s On guide.
In our Education feature, find out how to help your child if they suffer from maths anxiety. We also have a fascinating article about teaching your child safe body boundaries, as well as some ideas for keeping your kids active and engaged over winter.
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If one must choose….
By Ngaire Telford
A report published by the Institute for Fiscal Studies in September 2021 revealed that the gap between private and state school spending per pupil had doubled over the previous decade, widening to about ninety percent. This gap will have undoubtedly increased over the past three inflationary years and is unlikely to reduce significantly any time soon, even with the Government’s promised additional funding for education.
The flip side of an independent education having become so much better funded is that it is increasingly unaffordable for most middle-income families – at least not for the entirety of a child’s school years, which can easily cost over £250,000 (excluding VAT). As a result, financial necessity is requiring more parents to dip in and out of the independent sector.
Although this may seem to threaten a child’s potential optimal development, that is not necessarily the case. Indeed, Herne Hill School, at which I’m Headteacher, has never been convinced by the proposition of a ‘through school’ for children ages 4 to 18 where they experience only one organisation’s culture over so many years. A judicious change at the right time can be highly beneficial for children as it helps to build resilience and the socioemotional skills of fitting into a new environment with different people.
The crux is to transition schools at the right time. The most natural break points come either at 7+, after completing the Early Childhood Education (ECE) period at the end of Year 2 or at 11+, at the end of Year 6 and before embarking on secondary education. This is why historically the state system in this country has consisted of infant, junior and secondary schooling. So, into which educational cycle is it best to invest?
Fortunately, the answer has become clearer than ever. As proven by multiple
research studies from around the world, the ECE period, which runs through to the age of 7-8 (i.e. until the end of English Key Stage 1) and requires a special pedagogical approach, offers by far the greatest return on investment – not least because longitudinal studies have shown that advances achieved by that age tend to ‘stick’ and last a lifetime.
Once ahead, one stays ahead! This not only benefits a child in that subsequent educational stages become more effective, influencing their future health and earnings as an adult but also for society at large. U.S. research indicates that for every dollar spent on highquality early childhood programmes, society gains up to seven dollars through increased productivity and reduced costs associated with remedial education, healthcare and criminal justice.
Over the past three decades, groundbreaking advances in neurobiology, behavioural and social sciences have proven unequivocally what Aristotle predicated centuries ago: ‘Give me a child until he is 7, and I will show you the man.’ We now know with certainty that it is indeed by age 7 that all foundational skills, values and personality are established.
This is down to how human brains develop. A newborn’s neural connections (synapses) form at a mind-boggling speed of up to a million per second,
peaking at the age of 2 or 3, which coincides with the ideal time to start in a high-quality Kindergarten. From then, a drastic ‘pruning’ of synapses sets in. Children discard the ones they do not need and strengthen those which help them thrive in their respective environments.
Overall, we lose about half of our synapses by adulthood, with the curve being steepest in the months and years following the peak. It is this curve’s steepness and its mirror image of steep learning trajectories, which explains why continuity through 7+ in a familiar highquality setting is absolutely crucial for optimal development.
Highly regarded early childhood educators and experts such as Professor Pat Preedy, co-author of Early Childhood Education Redefined (2019), have long argued that ‘the Early Years Foundation Stage does not adequately cover the actual stage of early childhood from birth to 7 years’ and advocated replacing the EYFS with a continuous provision through the age of 7. Similarly, the Government of India implemented precisely this by introducing in 2020 a ‘continuum of learning referred to as the foundational stage of school’ over five years, from rising 3 to rising 8 year-olds.
At Herne Hill School, the age range directly reflects the science and matches precisely the accepted range of ECE, which carries on for two years after conclusion of the English EYFS, meaning that it can channel its parents hard-earned cash solely into this pivotal stage of development. This focus also enables children to become the oldest at the school in a co-ed environment, honing their leadership skills and social responsibilities and moving on to their next schools fully equipped academically and emotionally, ready to meet life’s next opportunities and challenges.
Ngaire Telford is Headteacher at Herne Hill School, a co-educational, independent Kindergarten, Pre-School and Pre-Prep in South East London. More at www.hernehillschool.co.uk
Pupils at Herne Hill School
Ngaire Telford, Headteacher with Herne Hill pupils
Getting to grips with handwriting
By Zuzu Jordan
In an age where screens and voice automated systems are at our fingertips, it can be hard to convince children of the importance of handwriting. Yet the National Curriculum states that children need to learn to hold a pencil correctly and form letters, starting and finishing in the right place. Children should learn to write with speed and fluency, ensuring their writing is legible.
Everyday playtime activities can help your child develop their fine motor skills, such as threading beads, playdough and 3D modelling, using tweezers to pick up small objects. Ahead of writing, children practise mark making by using any object such as a paint brush, feather or stick. Learning how to draw straight, curved and zig zagged lines is a great stepping stone to writing legible letters.
Being shown how to hold a pencil correctly from the beginning helps prevent bad habits from creeping in. Children must ‘pinch’ the pencil with their thumb and forefinger and tuck the other three fingers underneath. Using a pencil grip can help children who struggle or ask your child to hold a coin with the three ‘tucked in’ fingers. This will demonstrate the required tripod position.
A good sitting position is crucial too. Children should sit in the middle of the chair, feet firmly on the ground and close enough to the table that they don’t need to stretch.
Probably the most valuable piece of information when teaching handwriting is understanding which letters belong to which handwriting families.
Fine and gross motor skills
So what is the difference between fine and gross motor skills? Fine motor skills use smaller muscles, mainly in the hands and wrists. These are for precise movements such as cutting, writing and teeth-brushing. Gross motor skills require the whole body to move using the larger muscles, as in walking, jumping, throwing and swimming.
Usually we are mindful of the significant milestones in our babies and toddlers because medical professionals ask us. As children grow, these goals change but are equally important for their development.
Many parents organically provide opportunities for their children to enhance both their fine and gross motor skills. For example, taking them to the park is an easy and free way of helping them develop those larger muscles and many toys have been designed to help with the development of smaller muscles. Tasks such as buttoning and zipping can be easily included into a daily routine. Ultimately, consistency, positive reinforcement and age-appropriate activities are the key to effective development over time.
Tall letters: b, d, f, h, k, l, t.
Explain that these are referred to as tall letters because they must be significantly taller than all the other letters except capital letters.
Short letters a, c, e, i, m, n, o, r, s, u, v, w, x, z.
All these letters must be the same height and half the size of the capital letters and tall letters.
Tail letters: g, j, p, q, y.
These letters must reach below the line that they are sitting on.
Capital letters
All sit on the line and are all larger than every other letter.
Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for 18 years and is director of Arnett International. For free resources and tips, find her on Instagram edumate_uk
Left handed children
Being left handed raises unique challenges. If your child is left handed, you may wish to try a few of these strategies to help them thrive.
Teach your child to tilt the paper slightly to the right so they can fully see what they are writing or drawing.
Encourage a pencil grip which is comfortable with pencil held slightly below the tip and the hand resting below the writing line to prevent smudging.
Consider pens that do not smudge easily and left handed tools such as scissors with reversed blades.
Ask your child’s teacher if they can sit on the left side of the desk to prevent them bumping into a right handed neighbour. Utilise videos on the internet created to help with any challenges.
Finally, remember not to label left handedness as a problem; instead celebrate it as a unique trait.
Grandparents and childcare
By Claire Burgess
Childcare is a really emotive issue but one which all parents with young children need to consider at some point, whether just to free them up to attend an appointment or on a more regular, ongoing basis while they work.
It’s natural to consider whether it would be appropriate to ask your child’s grandparents to help you. In fact, they might offer to help or you may find you need to ask them. Either way, there are a few things to take into consideration. Here are some practicalities to think about.
Flexibility and commitment
Are the grandparents (also read friend/other family members) going to have the flexibility for the commitment that you need? Grandparents quite rightly have their own lives and possibly jobs. Are they going to be available on the days and at the times you want them to be?
Finances
These need to be discussed in advance. How will things like outings, travel and eating out be funded, for example. Do you need to agree a budget limit, per day perhaps? Are grandparents expecting to be paid something to care for the children and if so, how much? All of these things need to be established from the outset.
Where are they going to care for the children? If the idea is that it will be in their own home, is this going to work for your child? Is their home safe? Do they have stair gates, pets, valuable ornaments? Will the children have some of their toys there? Do they have the right equipment and if not, will you need to buy duplicates eg cot, changing mat, pram to keep there? With all of this in mind, it is often easier to have the childcare at your own house. Just don’t be upset if things are moved round and tidied up!
Heating/electricity/food
Are you ready for the heating to be on and electricity to be used all day when you are out? Often older people (and actually anyone who is in the house all day!) feel the cold more and so might need to have the heating on to keep warm. Grandparents will also need to eat during the day, so will you provide a meal for them? These are all extra costs that need to be factored in.
Parenting
Your parenting styles may differ slightly but let yours have their say and don’t forget they’ve done it before! Have a discussion about your behaviour boundaries, how you like certain things to be done, such as toilet training and weaning, along with which foods you are happy for the children to have. This can often be a very delicate conversation but things will be smoother if you reach agreement from the outset.
Safety/First Aid
Are the grandparents ‘up to speed’ on how to care for children safely? Offer to sign them up for a basic First Aid for Children course before they start to care for them and always make sure they have a full list of emergency contact numbers.
Capability
Consider realistically how much care grandparents are going to be able to provide. We all know how tiring it can be to care for children all day and particularly if you are back to work full time, is this going to work? Also look at whether grandparents have the mobility they will need to run around after your child.
Illness
What will you do when your child is too poorly to go to nursery? Consider if it is going to be okay for grandparents to be exposed to coughs, colds and illnesses.
Relationships
Finally, consider your children’s and your own relationship with your parents. Are you going to be able to keep the childcare arrangement as a separate thing from your and your children’s family relationship with them? If not, it is worth considering if this is going to be the right childcare solution for you.
Don’t forget to always show appreciation for your parents/ parents in law who are helping out - this is a pretty huge undertaking and one which will help you out massively!
Claire Burgess is a director and family consultant at Bespoke Family (www.bespokefamily.co.uk), which offers tailored support from newborns to teens.
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Keeping kids active and engaged in winter
By Andrew Campbell
As winter arrives bringing shorter and colder days, children often tend to gravitate towards screens and screen-based activities of all kinds. But winter is a brilliant opportunity for parents and carers to help them to find new ways of being physically and mentally active indoors. From indoor climbing to creative art and craft and everything in between, there are some fantastic options to keep your children’s minds and bodies moving during the winter months.
INDOOR CLIMBING
Indoor climbing is an excellent way for children to build physical strength, improve co-ordination, and boost their confidence. Climbing centres provide a safe environment where children can challenge themselves, learn problemsolving skills and enjoy the thrill of reaching new heights. Many centres offer courses and classes tailored to children including parent-supervised classes. Encourage your child by joining them for a climbing session, organising climbing playdates with friends or hold an indoor climbing birthday party for your child.
To find a local centre try the UKC Directory at www.ukclimbing.com
ART AND CRAFT
Winter is an ideal time for artistic exploration, stimulating creativity and improving fine motor skills and patience. Set up an art station at home with various materials such as paints, beads, clay and recycled items and encourage your child to create personalised gifts or decorations as Christmas approaches. Local community centres and art schools often offer classes where children can learn new techniques and make friends with similar interests.
Try the Children’s Art Class Directory at www.quickdrawart.com to find local classes.
TRAMPOLINING
Trampolining is an exhilarating activity AND an excellent cardiovascular workout that improves balance and co-ordination. Indoor trampoline parks provide a safe space for children to jump, flip and play. These parks often have special sessions for different age groups, as well as party packages, ensuring a safe experience for even the littlest children. Meanwhile, for children who want more regular bouncing, trampoline clubs offer qualified coaching and graded competitions and are often held at schools, leisure centres and gymnastic centres.
To find a local club try the Gymnastics & Trampolining Directory at www.uk-ag. co.uk
INDOOR SOFT PLAY
For younger children, indoor soft play areas offer a secure environment in which they can explore, climb and interact with others. Play zones for different ages are designed to be safe and engaging, with padded surfaces and colourful obstacles. Soft play encourages imaginative play, social interaction and physical activity, making it an ideal choice for energetic toddlers.
Plan visits during off-peak hours for a more relaxed experience and allow your child the freedom to navigate the space at their own pace. Many larger centres offer birthday party experiences as well as more sophisticated and adventurous options for older children and even adults.
SCIENCE EXPLORATION
Embrace the scientific! Many science centres and museums offer interactive exhibits and workshops in which kids can engage in hands-on learning. These activities can spark interest in various scientific fields, from chemistry to astronomy and provide an educational yet entertaining experience. At home,
consider simple science experiments using everyday materials to keep the curiosity alive.
To find local stargazing spots or observatories try www.gostargazing.co.uk For budding palaeontologists, check out the UK Fossils Network which features location guides for collecting fossils and information on joining organised hunts at www.ukfossils.co.uk The Association for Science and Discovery Centres has an extensive directory at www.science centres.org.uk
SWIMMING
Swimming offers numerous health benefits, including improved cardiovascular health, strength and flexibility and indoor swimming pools provide a warm and inviting environment during winter months. Enrol your child in swimming lessons to help them build confidence in the water. Swimming is not only a vital life skill but also a great way to relieve stress and have fun.
Family swim sessions can be a wonderful way to bond and maintain fitness together. For children interested in taking their swimming to the next level with regular qualified coaching and competitions, then Swim England has a directory of hundreds of local clubs at discover.swimming.org
Pop School & Stage Academy (PSSA) is excited to announce their 2025 Summer production… High School Musical Jr! Would you like to join the cast? Just get in touch to find your local PSSA!
PSSA provides performing arts training for stage and screen, with weekly classes for ages 4 to 16 in dance, singing, acting and LAMDA with many exciting performance opportunities.
Principal Amelia is passionate about the benefits of arts for children and understands the value of creating a safe, nurturing space for every child. Whether your child is destined for a life in showbiz or needs encouragement to find their voice, PSSA provides the perfect stepping stone to unlock their most confident self.
Alumni can be seen on TV, film and on stage and many have gone on to train at prestigious vocational colleges and win coveted Drama Scholarships.
Email info@pssa.co.uk, visit www.pssa.co.uk or call 07535 121617 for more information.
Top five toys for Christmas
Ages 3-12
Save The Ocean Colour-In Top £18.99
The kit includes a long-sleeved, lightweight jersey blend round neck t-shirt, six fabric colour-in pens which use high-quality UV ink and can be air cured for twenty four hours or ironed by a parent. The colours will not fade and can be worn time and time again.
Pirate Ship £49.99
Ages 4+
The pirate adventure awaits! This floatable pirate ship includes movable sails, rotating cannons, two figures, a parrot, an anchor and plenty of other details and cool accessories.
Ages 7+
You can buy all the above toys at Just William toy stores in East Dulwich (SE22 8DR) or Beckenham (BR3 1EN). Visit www.justwilliamtoys.com for more information.
Jungle Hustle £12.99
Out-speed, out-smart and outswindle your opponents to collect the most sets of animals in this fast and riotously fun trading game. Hustle hard to get the cards you want, while palming off the ones you don’t! This quick-tolearn game will have players of all ages roaring with laughter.
Ages 3+
This all-in-one set includes a two-storey house, figure and furniture, featuring a removable second storey floor that can be placed alongside the ground floor to create a wider space that is easier to play with. The stairs can be placed in any desired location and come with open and closing windows.
The Bracelet Box - Thistle Berry £16.99
Ages 10+
This exciting kit provides everything you need to craft six stunning bracelets, each bursting with personality. The set includes soft faux-suede-cords, classic silver and shimmering glass beads, as well as a selection of charms. Full-colour picture and written instructions to guide crafters of all skill levels.
Red Roof Cosy CottageStarter Home £29.99
Your Christmas toy guide
By Sarah Lindsley
Yes, it’s that time of year again! Along with decking the halls, meal planning and panto ticket booking while the children are beside themselves with excitement, let’s not forget the presents. We are here to help! Our Christmas toy guide offers you inspiration in the lead up to the festive season. With many gifts coming in under £15 there may even be some of the Christmas budget left over to treat yourself!
Ages 2-6
Ages 4+
Ages 3-6
Orchard Toys Games £9.75/£12/£6
Doggy Doggy Woof Woof! is an energetic, hilarious new matching and memory game where players pair doggy heads and bodies. There are two fun ways to play - for younger and older children. Shout ‘Doggy Doggy Woof Woof,’ stand up, pretend to wag your tail and shout ‘Waggy Waggy Woof Woof!’ In Peter Rabbit™ Don’t Wake Mr. McGregor, join Peter Rabbit, Benjamin Bunny, Flopsy and Mopsy and race to collect the most fruit and vegetables! But don’t wake Mr. McGregor or you’ll have to return to the start! In a festive, travelsized Elf Lotto, collect all the cheeky elves and be the first to fill your board with matching characters.
Gamewright Sleeping Queens card game
£12.99
Wakey wakey! The Pancake Queen, the Ladybug Queen and some of their closest friends have fallen under a sleeping spell and it’s your job to wake them up. Sleeping Queens was invented by 6-year-old Miranda Evarts, who thought up the game one night when she couldn’t get to sleep. With beautifully illustrated cards, players are quickly immersed in a fantastical world that requires strategy, decisionmaking, arithmetic and a little bit of luck. A great way to develop memory and maths skills whilst also having fun!
LEGO® City Police Car 60312 £8.99
Ages 8+
Ages 5+
Ages 3-12
Voxblock £59.99
Bring stories to life with Voxblock. This screen-free audiobook player encourages a love of reading without the distractions of screens and WiFi connection. Begin with a Voxblock Gift Pack which includes: a player, one audiobook, a charging cable, and a protective case. The intuitive design means even the youngest kids can use it independently, fostering imagination and literacy. Loved by parents looking for a calm, tech-free alternative to entertain and educate their little ones this Christmas. Buy online at www.voxblock.co.uk
Campbell Busy Books Busy Park Board Book £6.99
Ages 2-5
Opening your child up to imaginative play and fantastic for practising fine motor skills, LEGO® offers so many options. This City Police Car set, featuring a cool police patrol car and accompanying police officer figure complete with torch and hat, will keep your child busy for hours as they zoom around the living room chasing the baddies. You can even use the LEGO® Building Instructions app to access the interactive building guide with amazing zoom and rotate viewing tools. Your kids will become master builders in no time.
Part of the Busy Book series, Busy Park is guaranteed to be a favourite at bedtime over and over again. There’s a sweet rhyming story and colourful and engaging illustration, but it’s the interactive nature of the book with its push, pull and slide tabs that really make it stand out. You and your tot can enjoy your day out at Busy Park together: visit the playground, make the animals run and disappear and even get the sunshine to come out. Busy Park has also been endorsed and recommended by Dr Amanda Gummer’s Good Toy Guide (www.goodplayguide.com).
Hy-Pro Size 2
Skills Trainer
Football £11.99
Ages 8+
Get World Cup-ready with this brilliant skills trainer football from Hy-Pro. Perfect for any young football enthusiast who is keen to practise their ball control and core skills. The ergonomic handle is easy to hold and the handheld cord linking the PVC football can be adjusted depending on both the age and the skills being practised, whether heading, passing or shooting. No need for a large space or multiple players. Your football fan can now play football anytime, anywhere!
Teaching your child safe body boundaries
By Rachel Coler Mulholland
One of the biggest challenges parents face is how to both define and communicate body boundaries to their young children.
Naturally we want our children to be in the safest of hands, always. We interview and shortlist the individuals we trust enough to provide primary care when we are not available.
The next step is a boundary discussion with our children: ‘if a person is caring for you, they will care for you appropriately, help you wipe if necessary, take care to make sure you are comfortable and report any injuries or issues to me immediately’.
We have all heard horror stories of children being mistreated by carers. However, asking our children to establish or maintain their own boundaries when they are quite young (under age 6) is both unreasonable and potentially harmful.
If a child fell and injured their penis in the playground but have been told that ‘no one but mummy can check their privates,’ they may fail to tell their primary carer and delay necessary treatment. For children of this age, their bodies are neutral: to them, their penis is not much different from their thumb. If they hurt their thumb, they would tell a grown-up and within limits, it should be the same for their private parts.
The protection that parents can offer for young children comes from careful due diligence when choosing care providers and from normalising discussions about bodies and the ways they are treated daily.
Making conversation about their body should be as normal as
Consent
With small children it can be helpful to both explain the meaning of consent and give them a statement to use. For example, ‘it’s my body and I get to pick.’
The phrase is effective because what you will allow to be done with and to your body is the definition of consent. Saying it explicitly as ‘it’s my body and I get to pick’ consistently reinforces and helps the child internalise that consent means they get to say yes or no
Importantly, ‘it’s my body and I get to pick’ only applies in situations that are NOT health and safety related.
A child does not get to pick if they wear a seat belt. They do not get to pick if they are clean. They do not get to pick whether they will be getting a broken arm set with a cast.
Explain to your child that sometimes a safe adult has to step in and make sure that they are being cared for in the way that helps them grow and stay healthy.
reporting what they had for lunch. ‘Did you have a good day at daycare? Great! What was for snack? That’s wonderful! Did you get to use the big kid potties today or did you stay in the classroom? Ooooh, big kid potty, well done! Did anyone have to help you?’
As children get older, they can learn more about developing and maintaining their own boundaries. Around age 6 children have a solid grasp of the concept of privacy and understand that people have different thoughts, feelings and beliefs from theirs. They can understand that their body is for them to understand and explore; not for anyone else.
Rachel is a qualified mental health practitioner who has provided mental health skills training for children. Her debut book The Birds, the Bees, and the Elephant in the RoomTalking to Your Kids About Sex & Other Sensitive Topics (Union Square & Co) is now available from www.bookshop.org
Boundary phrases
We’ve all heard that ‘no means no’ and most people would agree with that. However, verbal and non-verbal communications contain almost countless variations of inflection, word choice, body language, proximity and other factors that can change the meaning of what is intended. In some parts of the world, ‘No, yeah’ means something different from ‘Yeah, no.’ A sarcastic ‘no’ might actually mean ‘yes.’
This is why boundary phrases specifically around physical touch can be incredibly helpful for young children. For example, a simple: ‘I don’t want to play that game.’ Although it should be a given to stop and check in when someone says ‘no’ or ‘stop,’ ‘I don’t want to play that game’ puts an instantaneous, hard stop to any activity, as it clearly means: ‘I, as a person, am not willing to be touched any more.’
This type of phrase models boundary setting. It should also prompt anyone involved to touch base and find out what’s going on, encouraging communication such as ‘Okay! is there a reason you don’t want to play this game anymore? Is there something you want to change?’
What’s on
Compiled by Robina Cowan
All details are as provided when going to press. However, in case of changed plans, do double-check before setting out.
SPECIAL EVENTS
Nutty’s Family Disco
Upper Norwood Library Hub, Westwood Hill SE19 1TQ www.tinyurl.com/ympmfxsz 15 November
Local legend DJ Danny Nutt will be spinning everyone’s favourite tunes. Get your groove on and join in with the games, competitions and prizes. Perfect for all ages.
Future Men: Stay and Play Sessions
Bellingham Family Hub, 109-111 Randlesdown Road SE6 3HB www.futuremen.org/future-dads 16 November
Meet other dads at friendly stay and play sessions for all dads and male carers, with their children of course! 10am-12pm. FREE drop-in.
20 November - late December Kicking off the festivities on 20 November with the annual Lantern Parade and Light Switch-on, the market will be a twinklefest of unique craft, art, clothing and food stalls.
Dulwich College Christmas Fair
Dulwich Common SE21 7LD www.dccf.org.uk
24 November
Bag all your Christmas gifts in one go as the College once again plays host to over 120 stalls selling fantastic and diverse products. Father Christmas will be paying a visit and there will be plenty to keep children occupied in the KidsZone in the Auditorium.
Whippersnappers’ Winter Wonderland College Lodge, Dulwich Park SE21 7BQ www.whippersnappers.org 1-23 December
Nestled within Dulwich Park you can find a magical Gingerbread House where each year Father Christmas and his elves climb down the chimney and entertain children with their Winter Wonderland Experience, featuring workshops, music, hot chocolate, Mrs Claus and Santa, of course. Ages 3-7.
Christmas at the Farm
Vauxhall City Farm, Tyers St SE11 5HS www.vauxhallcityfarm.org
1-23 December
Join the farm festivities for a Winter Light Trail, Christmas market, macrame wreath making workshops, plus Father Christmas in his festive grotto!
A local makers’ market with Christmas choirs, festive food, FREE family arts and crafts activities,
adult wreath-making workshops, plus a special visit from Santa in his windmill grotto.
Kingdom of Winter Excel London E16 1XL www.kingdomofwinter.com
London’s biggest indoor festive experience offers a host of attractions including a winter themed circus, ice skating, fairground rides, an immersive ice expedition trail, an alpine-style Christmas market and a tantalising range of festive food and drink, all under one roof.
Raver Tots New Year’s Eve Party Ministry of Sound, Gaunt St SE1 6DP
31 December
The ultimate family dance party complete with dancers, performers, confetti blasts, coloured lasers and parachute games, all designed for young family audiences. 12.302.45pm and 3.30-6pm.
Funky Monkey Keyboard Classes
Various locations www.funkymonkey.info
23 December
Jingle all the way to a fun-filled, Christmas themed music workshop! This taster day introduces beginners to the electronic keyboard, how it works and how to start reading and writing music. Plus arts and games themed around music. Ages 5-8, all equipment provided.
THEATRE & SHOWS
Blackheath Halls
Lee Road SE3 9RQ www.blackheathhalls.com
2 November
Jack and the Beans Talk
A fresh and funny retelling of the traditional story and an ideal gentle introduction to theatre, with puppets and plenty of interaction. Ages 3-7.
9+10 November
Peppa Pig’s Fun Day Out
Peppa Pig is back in her oinktastic new, singing and dancing live show. Age 1+.
1 December
A Festive Family Sing-a-long
The annual Christmas jumper and tinsel-fest will return with another afternoon of festive singing for the whole family. Sing your heart out with the choirs in this relaxed and upbeat family event.
8 December
The Snowman with East London Brass
Raymond Briggs’ classic Christmas film is accompanied by East London Brass, one of the UK’s top brass bands, playing Howard Blake’s original score live. There’ll be refreshments available and a little Christmas singalong after the film. Bring family and friends, absolutely all ages welcome!
22+23 December
The Nutcracker
A festive treat from Let’s All Dance Ballet Company, with spectacular
dancing, glorious music and beautiful costumes. All ages.
Old Royal Naval College
King William Walk SE10 9NN www.ornc.org
30 November-23 December
The Elves and the Magic Bear
An immersive Christmas show filled with elves and a friendly bear, joyful singing, silliness and the chance to meet the performers afterwards.
Greenwich Theatre Crooms Hill SE10 8ES www.greenwichtheatre.org.uk
22 November-5 January
Dick Whittington and His Cat
Join Dick Whittington and his Cat as they seek fame and fortune in an adventure through good old London Town. Suitable for all ages, this is a pantomime paved with gold!
21 December
CC4K Christmas Cracker
All the fun of Comedy Club 4 Kids with a seasonal twist. Expect the finest Christmas Cracker jokes, tinsel tomfoolery, festive funnies and even Santa doing stand-up! Ages 6+.
The Broadway Theatre Catford Road SE6 4RU www.broadwaytheatre.org.uk
14 November
Dear Zoo
Rod Campbell’s book leaps onto the stage in a child-engaging story with puppets, music and lots of audience interaction.
4-31 December
Sleeping Beauty
Welcome to Lewishtonia, where once upon a time, a princess is born... The Broadway’s spellbinding family show has a wicked fairy, knockabout comedy and no shortage of magic and sparkle.
The Albany Douglas Way SE8 4AG www.thealbany.org.uk
17 November
Boxville
Meet paper dragons, corrugated crabs and cardboard space robots in this STEM-skilled, hands on, interactive cardboard adventure. Ages 4-8.
1-24 December
Well Done, Mummy Penguin
With daring acrobatics, integrated sign language and heartwarming humour, this show is a perfect wintery treat. Ages 3-8.
The Curling Club at Southbank and London Bridge
Theatre Peckham
Havil Street SE5 7SB www.theatrepeckham.co.uk
6-23 December
PAN! Peter’s Come Out to Play
A modern take on the tale of the boy who never grew up, the Pan-tastical land in which he lives and the young woman who shows him there might be a bit more to life than he realises.
South London Theatre
Norwood High Street SE27 9NS www.southlondontheatre.co.uk
5-8 and 12-14 December
The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe
Follow the magical journey to the Land of Narnia with Peter, Susan, Edmund and Lucy. A tale of good triumphing over evil in the timehonoured way.
Kingswood House Seeley Drive SE21 8QN www.kingswoodarts.com
14-24 December
Once Upon a Kingswood Christmas Embark on a quest to save Father Christmas in an immersive show for the whole family, set in a magical winter wonderland.
Stanley Arts Centre
South Norwood Hill SE25 6AB www.stanleyarts.org
23 November
The Nutcracker
The Let’s All Dance Ballet Company is back with their stunning festive family treat! Indulge in spectacular dancing, glorious music and beautiful costumes.
14-26 December
Red Riding Hood
Get ready to go on an adventure to Grandma’s house as Petite Pantos and Stanley Arts team up for their fifth fabulous festive offering.
Churchill Theatre
High Street Bromley BR1 1HA www.trafalgartickets.com/ churchill-theatre-bromley
7-22 December
The Nutcracker: A Christmas Story
It’s Christmas Eve and Clara is allowed to choose one present from under the Christmas tree. She chooses a Nutcracker, who magically comes to life, ready for an amazing adventure. Full of original songs and colourful characters, this is Christmas theatre for all the family. Ages 2+.
Peacock Theatre
Portugal Street WC2A 2HT www.sadlerswells.com
23 November-4 January
The Snowman
There’s snow place like home, and The Snowman returns for its 27th year at the Peacock. This is a magical stage adaptation of the much-loved picture book by Raymond Briggs and the film directed by Dianne Jackson.
St Bart’s Church Westwood Hill, Sydenham SE26 www.spontaneousproductions. co.uk
December Dates
The Nutcracker
A girl gets a nutcracker for Christmas; it comes to life, fights mice and takes her to Candyland! Spontaneous Productions bring their unique twist to the classic tale, in a run of affordable family show dates.
Southbank Centre Southbank SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
1 December
The Multi-Story Orchestra
Get the whole family together for an interactive classical musical experience.
18 December-5 January
The Creakers
Expect surprises, adventure and rocking new songs by McFly’s Tom Fletcher in a topsy turvy journey, underneath the bed, to the land of the Creakers, to discover that it’s often those who are different who make a difference.
Unicorn Theatre Tooley Street SE1 2HZ www.unicorntheatre.com
18 November-31 December
Odd and the Frost Giants
This Christmas, follow unlikely hero Odd on an epic journey as he meets Norse Gods Odin, Loki and Thor, stuck in animal form in the human world. They are in trouble so Odd must use all his cunning to save them. Ages 7+.
22 November-31 December
Huddle
A heart-warming tale about a child and parent learning how to thrive despite all the odds. Ages 2-5.
Lyric Theatre
Shaftsbury Avenue W1D 7ES www.tallstories.org.uk
22 November-5 January
Room on the Broom
Iggety ziggety zaggety zoom! Jump on board the broom with the witch and her cat in Tall Stories’ fun-filled adaptation of the best-selling picture book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Ages 3+.
Father Christmas is on his rounds... and he really needs a WEE! TaleGate Theatre Productions combine witty humour, fantastic music and sparkle in this fabulously funny and brilliantly bouncy musical adaptation of Nicholas Allan’s much-loved book.
A magical Christmas show for families
Looking for a super fun Christmas show that’s just the right length for kids? Well, The Nutcracker by Let’s All Dance Ballet Company is the perfect choice! This magical ballet is only 50 minutes long - just right for little ones who love to dance but might not want to sit for long.
With four performances at Blackheath Halls in South East London (SE3) on Sunday 22 and Monday 23 December, you’ll get to see amazing dancers, beautiful costumes and hear music that makes you feel like Christmas is already here. The story is easy to follow, so everyone can enjoy the magic - from tiny tots to grandparents! After the show, you can even take photos with the dancers on stage! How cool is that?
Show times are Sunday, 22 December at 1.30pm and 4pm and Monday, 23 December at 11am and 1.30pm. Adults £17, £15 u16s.
Call the Box Office on 020 8463 0100 or visit www.blackheathhalls.com to book your tickets today!
Old Vic Theatre The Cut SE1 8NB www.oldvictheatre.com
9 November-4 January
A Christmas Carol Matthew Warchus’ smash hit production returns, filled to the brim with mince pies, music and merriment, with John Simm as Ebenezer Scrooge. Ages 8+.
Children’s TV presenter Maddie Moate hosts a seasonal STEM adventure all about the science of winter and answers curious Christmas questions such as where does snow come from?
BOOKING NOW
Blackheath Halls
Lee Road SE3 9RQ www.blackheathhalls.com
The Smartest Giant in Town 22-23 February
Based on the best-selling book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler, this heart-warming tale about friendship and helping those in need is brought to life in a musical, puppet-filled adventure. Performances at 1pm and 4pm on 22 Feb and 10am and 1pm on 23 Feb.
The Gruffalo 15-16 March
Join Mouse on a daring adventure through the deep, dark wood in Tall Stories’ magical, musical adaptation of the classic picture book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Performances at 1.30pm and 4pm on 15 March and 11am and 2pm on 16 March. 16 March 2pm is a relaxed performance.
Unicorn Theatre Tooley Street SE1 2HZ www.unicorntheatre.com
Pig Heart Boy
26 January-22 February
Is it better to have a pig’s heart that works … than a human heart that doesn’t? 13 year old just wants to be normal – have friends, go to school
and dive to the bottom of his local swimming pool. But he desperately needs a heart transplant and time is running out. When he’s finally offered a new heart, Cameron must choose how far he’ll go to get his life back. Adapted from book by Malorie Blackman. Ages 10+.
EXHIBITIONS & EXPERIENCES
Curling at The Curling Club Southbank and London Bridge www.thecurlingclub.com
October-February
Looking for a winter day out full of magic and fun? The Curling Club is the perfect family spot. Enjoy a thrilling game on the curling sheets, whether you’re pros or beginners. Afterward, warm up with hot chocolate and alpine treats. New for 2024: Family Curling Package! Just £50 for family of four – perfect for all ages and skill levels. Book your game online.
The Independent Schools Show Battersea Evolution SW11 4NJ www.schoolsshow.co.uk 8-9 November
The world’s largest school open day brings together representatives from across the independent school sector, along with education and parenting experts to help you make informed education decisions for your child.
Centre for Wildlife Gardening Marsden Road SE15 4EE www.wildlondon.org.uk 17 + 24 November, 15 December Wonderful Wildlife Weekends Join Wildlife Trust experts for fun-filled family sessions to learn about the garden’s habitats and minibeasts. 1-3pm. FREE drop-in, donations welcome.
The Paddington Bear Experience County Hall, Southbank SE1 7PB www.paddingtonbearexperience. com
Ongoing
Help Paddington and the Brown family prepare for a very special Marmalade Day Festival! Board the full-sized train carriage to start a journey filled with the sights and sounds of London, fairground games, dancing - and marmalade of course!
PAN! Peter’s Come Out To Play at Theatre Peckham
This festive season, take your family to Theatre Peckham to see PAN! Peter’s Come Out To Play!
Open your mind and imagination to a Pan-tastic Pan-tasy with this modern take on the boy who never grew up. View the world with childlike wonder and remind yourself how much fun it is to play.
Running from Friday 6 to Monday 23 December, tickets are available from £7.50.
For more information and booking, call 020 7708 5401 or visit www.theatrepeckham.co.uk
Horniman Museum and Gardens
London Road SE23 3PQ www.horniman.ac.uk
22+24 November
The Enchanted Cinema - The Snowman
Help re-create the sound effects of an owl, bauble, toothbrush, musical box, running tap, feet jumping through the snow, or tearaway motorbike before enjoying Dianne Jackson’s classic animation of Raymond Briggs’ The Snowman (1982).
8 December
Seasonal Special Sunday Market
Get festive at the seasonal edition of the museum’s regular Sunday market.
7+14 December
Family Craft Saturdays
Join volunteers in a craft session making and decorating wintery ornaments to hang in your home. FREE.
National Maritime Museum
Greenwich SE10 9NF
www.rmg.co.uk/nationalmaritime-museum
9 November
SENsory Sailors
A monthly session for families with children with special educational needs and disabilities, led by a SEND specialist.
30 November
Safe Harbour
FREE workshops within a friendly and welcoming space, run by support organisations for foster and adoptive families with children under 13.
Every Saturday Character Encounters
Guided tours bringing to life stories from the museum. Ages 5+.
Cutty Sark
King William Walk SE10 9HT www.rmg.co.uk/cuttysark
23 November
Sea Shanty Festival
Shanty bands from across the UK will bring maritime working songs to a unique live singing event.
First weekend of every month
Family Fun Weekends
Climb aboard for family-friendly workshops and activities for all ages.
Woolwich Works
The Fireworks Factory SE18 6HD www.woolwich.works
10 November
National Children’s Orchestras
Winter Concert
Be impressed by the creativity, skill, resilience, determination and flair of the 13-14 year old musicians of NCO’s Main Orchestra in this final showcase of their incredible hard work. 3pm. All ages.
29 November
Mania: The ABBA Tribute
Direct from London’s West End, MANIA is accepted as the world’s number one ABBA tribute show.
A special concert celebrating the music of ABBA and reviving memories of when they ruled the airwaves. 7.30pm. Ages 5+.
29-30 November, 1 + 8 December, 14-15 December, 20-22 December
Gingerbread Grotto
Meet Santa in his Gingerbread Grotto at Woolwich Works –
complete with lollipop-lined garden and icing-tiled roof! A deliciously delightful event for the run-up to Christmas. Tickets include a visit with Santa and FREE gingerbread - colour, create and craft while you wait. Parents, carers and family members go FREE. Fri 4pm-7.30pm Sat-Sun 10am-6pm. Book online.
30 November-6 January
Gingerbread Greenwich
Feast your eyes on a sugary cityscape, featuring gingerbread buildings and candy-lined streets, crafted by local schools. FREE drop-in.
15 December
Step Into Christmas
As Christmas feel-good with all your favourite songs including All I Want for Christmas Is You, Last Christmas, Jingle Bell Rock, Stay Another Day, Let it Snow, White Christmas and many more! 7.30pm. All ages.
Eltham Palace
Court Yard SE9 5QE www.english-heritage.org.uk
Weekends
23 November-22 December
Christmas at Eltham Palace
Discover The Spirit of Christmas; an immersive, theatrical story-adventure which leads through enchanted rooms towards a heart-warming encounter with Father Christmas.
HMS Belfast, SE1 2JH www.iwm.org.uk/hms-belfast
Weekends
Meet the Crew
Delve into life onboard the ship through eye-witness accounts of sailors and hands-on objects. Ages 7+.
The 02 Greenwich Peninsula Square SE10 0DX www.upattheo2.co.uk
22 November-5 January
Climb the 02
Book an outdoor climb over the 02 roof for amazing 360-degree views of the London skyline. At the summit, the UK’s highest snow globe will be filled with fairy-like falling snow and the scent of ginger cookies amidst a whimsical winter set-up.
British Library
Euston Road NW1 2DB www.bl.uk
24 November
Family Station: Stay and Play
Play, read and explore with fun sensory items, creative resources and learning assistants on hand. All ages, 11am-3pm, FREE drop-in.
Natural History Museum
Cromwell Road SW7 5BD www.nhm.ac.uk
Ongoing
Visions of Nature
Don a mixed reality headset and venture a century into the future, interacting with virtual plants and creatures. Ages 8+.
Science Museum
Exhibition Road SW7 2DD www.sciencemuseum.org.uk
Daily
Who am I?
What makes you smarter than a chimp? What makes you smile? What makes you, you? Explore the science of who you are through intriguing objects, provocative artworks and hands-on exhibits.
