Families West London November/December 2011 by Families Magazine

ISSUE 76: November/December 2011 www.familieswest.co.uk

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CLASSES STARTING AFTER HALF-TERM ON MONDAY 31 st OCTOBER We also run a full programme of childrens RAD Ballet, ISTD Modern / Tap and Street Dance classes, and classes for adults in all dance styles – Ballet, Zumba, Street Dance, Tap, Workout Classes, Yoga, Pilates, Belly Dancing Visit our shop for dancewear, gifts, accessories and fancy dress; gorgeous baby fashion coming soon!!

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News & Views Buddy brilliant! Bed time can be a challenge for any parent, as can getting ready for school … washing hair … brushing teeth ... monitoring TV time. But when your child has special needs, those daily routines can be even harder. Cover Picture: 2 piece Santa Set from the Mamas & Papas Winter 2011 Baby Wear Collection

The days are geting shorter and that only means one thing; the countdown to Christmas has begun... Is it just me or does it seem different this year? People seem to have dismissed the idea of a great excess at this time of year and focusing much more on making the holidays more meaningful. If you are looking for ways to make your Christmas more special this year, you may want to take a tip or two from Nicola Baird who has put together our feature this year. One thing that we always do in our family, is to go to the theatre. What a fantastic selection there is this year, as well as a whole host of other events going on locally to get you and your family in the festive spirit. We are also putting together a whole host of articles online on www.familieswest.co.uk. Look for tips on shopping with toddlers, top 10 Christmas gifts this year and also great local shopping you can do in West London this year. We hope you have a very happy Christmas and wish you good things in the New Year. You will see your next copy of Families West in January 2012.

Contents News & Views Make Christmas Meaningful What’s On Theatre & Pantomimes Education Unique and Special Baby Page: What's new for mums and babies Classifieds

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www.netbuddy.org.uk is a website for parents and carers of people with learning disabilities, which offers hundreds of simple, yet ingenious solutions to everyday issues – from bed wetting to challenging behaviour. The tips are contributed daily by other parents, carers, teachers and therapists, and organised by subject. There’s also an interactive forum for people to solve specific practical issues. The site’s creator, Deborah Gundle, herself has a son with profound learning disabilities. “When Zach was small, I spent so much time and energy solving daily problems, and I knew other people were doing the same,” she said. “I set up www.netbuddy.org.uk so we didn’t need to keep re-inventing the wheel.” For more information go to www.netbuddy.org.uk

Amanda’s Action Club starts new classes in Ealing Amanda’s Action Club is an iconic, UK brand that provides fun, physical development classes for babies, toddlers and pre-school children. Their highly interactive classes are all about fun, fitness and funky music – an early-learning workout that kids love. With over 20 years experience (including entertaining for celebrities such as the Beckhams and Katie Price) they have masses of experience in knowing what kids like to do. Emma, one of their team, has recently begun two, new Amanda's Action Club classes in the Telfer room in Ealing Town Hall. These will take place every Tuesday from 9.45 – 10.30 and again from 10.40-11.25. Prices are £8 for one child and £12 for two. For more information email info@amandasactionclub.co.uk or call 01895 623999. www.amandasactionclub.co.uk

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News & Views The Little Music Factory, Notting Hill

Babysitting services over the holidays

The Little Music Factory offers fun and interactive classes for pre-schoolers of all ages run by actress and teacher Cate Debenham-Taylor. She creates a familiar framework and then introduces different songs and activities each week to keep it fresh and exciting, using unusual and beautiful instruments from around the world for the children to experiment with, plus plenty of familiar ones too. The mixed age group gives the little ones the opportunity to learn from the older ones, but it also encourages the grown ups to join in too! She uses a parachute and bubbles for extra fun. Classes take place above a lovely café- Charlie's on Portobello Road, and parents and carers often get together after the class for a coffee. Look out for pre-school drama classes which will be on offer soon.

If your diary is filling up with party invitations this holiday season and you are beginning to panic about childcare, you may want to give Saraa at Sitting Pretty Babysitters a call. This childcare service rvice that started in North London and has succeeded so rapidly they’ve expanded into the whole of West London, specializes in providing, fully vetted, CRB checked, professional childcarers. Sitting Pretty Babysitters always call before the booking to introduce themselves and will even do the ironing while the little ones are in bed – guaranteed. No wonder the company's tagline is 'the babysitters who don't sit down on the job!' It’s easy to make bookings.

If the thought of organising your child’s next birthday party is filling you with panic, you may want to give Tamara at The Pirate Party a call. Her website offers "Invitations and birthday cards, ribbons and garlands, cupcake cases and glitter, cake decorations and cookie cutters, bunting and balloons, cool paper plates and cups, party hats and masks, wings and wands, tutus and fancy dress, and the coolest party bags in town!" She has has also compiled The Party Pirate’s Secret Party Address Book which includes party venues, entertainers, face painters, party organisers, birthday cakes, cupcakes and lots more.

Call 07887 608299 www.littlemusicfactory.co.uk

For further information, please contact Tamara at info@thepartypirate or on 07964 874129. www.thepartypirate.com

I Know Why It's Yum, Mum! “Dr Freg and the Fruit and Vegetable Mysteries” will soon be visiting primary schools across the capital with a fun, musical and interactive show for children aged between 5 and 11, which promises to change children’s attitudes to fruit and vegetables, and improve their diets. We are bombarded daily with messages that prove the theory to be true: 5 portions a day will keep the Doctor away! But children in England eat less than three pieces of fruit and veg a day on average1. Dr Freg (pronounced "fredge", short for Dr Fruit–and-Veg) is on the case to reverse this trend. His mission is simple: to tell primary schoolage children, in the language they use themselves, why different fruit and vegetables are good for them. The company is taking bookings from schools in London from January 2012 onwards. The price of the show (including accompanying workshops) costs from £1 per child. www.iknowwhyitsyummum.com 4

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Just go to their website www.sittingprettybabysitters.co.uk and register online. For more information call them on 07971 083207

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Is play something children just do? As busy mothers we can all identify with the following scenario... You rush out the door at 8.30am for the morning school run, followed by a mound of errand running, before rushing back to the house with a disgruntled 4 year-old for his lunch and a snatched nap. Lunch over, your child becomes absorbed and engaged in a game using his toy fire engines and cars. You tip toe away from the room with relief, thinking ‘thank goodness he’s quiet now. I can put away the dishes’. But have we, as parents, ever considered the real value of play for a child? Through watching our children play we get a glimpse into their creative and imaginative inner world, where they express and project their feelings onto the toys they are free to move around and talk to. Play is a crucial part of a child’s healthy social, emotional and cognitive development. It helps children understand relationships, identify emotions, explore the world around them, and learn to problem-solve. Children do not always have the verbal ability to express themselves and so play for the child is their natural language. In psychotherapist Eric Erikson’s words, ‘To play it out is the most natural self-healing measure childhood affords.’ Enlighten therapists play alongside children in ways that are therapeutic and healing. By entering the child’s world, they make sense of the concerns, problems and issues they are struggling with. Working in conjunction with the parents, they explore the themes and insights that arise through the context of the play, and think together and explore ways which support the family as a whole. Play therapy is offered for a range of issues children and families experience, such as grief and loss, changes in family situations including divorce and trauma, as well as school issues including bullying, peer problems and low self-esteem around learning. Find out more on www.enlighten-therapy.co.uk e: enlighten.therapy@yahoo.co.uk or call 07888 004 241 November/December 2011

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Christmas Meaningful

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Whether you want to think globally and act locally or think and act locally this Christmas, Families West London have got you covered! Together with Nicola Baird we have pulled together the '12 Ways to a Meaningful Christmas’ to help you make this Christmas one to remember! With Christmas Day falling on a Sunday, 2011 looks set to be a four-day festive weekend just before the New Year break. So instead of burning yourself out choosing gifts or wrapping parcels like a harassed shop assistant, how about dreaming up ways to entertain a mix of ages – or just yourself and baby? Here’s 12 ways to organise your festive break; give gifts that give back, spend quality time with important people and enjoy the little things. It will feel so good, that you’ll want to celebrate like this every year.

by Nicola Baird

Borrow rather than buy – If you wanted to go to the Cotswolds (or the Maldives) you’d use a hotel rather than buy a house, so extend the thinking. Have you and the kids tried a ‘Boris Bike’ yet http://www.tfl.gov.uk/roadusers/cycling/14808.aspx? Joining a car club www.streetcar.co.uk means you can use a van, BMW or the newest vehicle whenever you want (including automatics) rather than the familyrunaround for every job. How about renting a magnificent living Christmas tree for about £50; here’s one scheme, http://www.thelittletreecompany.com. Lots of people go away at Xmas, could you help them out by adopting their pets for a week?

Or you could: Adopt a bird from the World Wildlife Trust This year, why not avoid getting yourself into a flap, and instead give a gift that’s truly priceless by choosing a unique alternative. You can choose from a number of bird species to adopt, in the safe knowledge that you will be giving something back to conservation. By adopting a bird you are helping WWT to continue with vital wetland habitat conservation in the UK and around the world, manage ongoing and future conservation projects, such as saving the red-breasted goose and the Madagascar pochar, save globally threatened species. WWT have already helped save species such as the Hawaiian goose (nene) and the barnacle goose from extinction. By adopting a bird from as little as £2 a month you can help protect the future of threatened birds here in the UK and around the world. For more info, go to www.wwt.org.uk/adopt-pick

Sponsor a Mayhew Animal’s Room Whether it is for yourself or a friend/family member, sponsoring a unit is a rea lly special way to feel involv ed in providing for these pets as they wait to meet their forever families. Sponsor a Dog Room – Their dog rooms have bee n especially designed to min imise the stress dogs usually face whilst in kennels. £12 0.00 one-off payment or £12.00 a month via Direct Debit Sponsor a Bunny Burro w – Rabbits are amazing animals with complex nee ds that must be met if the y are to be kept healthy and hap py. £35.00 one-off payme nt or £3.00 a month via Direct Debit Sponsor a Cat or Kitten Cabin – A wonderful way of suppor ting the cats that com e through the doors of The Mayhew is to sponsor a cab in in their catter y. Cats – £100.00 one-off payment or £9.00 a month via Dir ect Debi. Kittens £50.00 one-off payment or £5.00 a month via Direct Debit. Call 020 8968 2446 or visit www.mayhewanimalh ome.org 6

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Share the tasks. Try making the Christmas pudding or cake with the kids on ‘Stir Up Sunday’ (20 November), or how about soup from a flask and a winter picnic (followed by hide and seek) at Holland Park on ‘Buy Nothing Day’ on Saturday, 26 November, see http://www.buynothingday.co.uk/ Get together with a neighbour to divide and conquer; one to make the mince pies and one to do the pudding.

Make it better to give than to receive by finding ways to help strangers. Do you have any children’s books you could pass on to new readers? Offer to friends – or people with the right age children at your child’s school/nursery – or take to a charity shop. In cities you can find your nearest faith centre to pass on tinned goods, clean bedding and books to refugee centres or families going through difficult times. You can make vouchers – offering gifts of time to busy parents – as presents too.

Christmas UNICEF’s Inspired Gift range is unique, suitable for all budgets and easy to buy online. All the inspired gifts are real lifesaving supplies delivered to children, some living in desperate conditions around the world. They include items such as medicines, foods, water containers and education materials.Your friend or family member will receive a gift card, which tells them how their gift is making a real difference to children’s lives. Our top 3 Inspired Gifts: Deliver a baby £27 – Provide all the equipment and medicines needed for the safe delivery of a new baby. Life-saving milk £13 – Give lifesaving, therapeutic milk for the treatment of severe child malnutrition. Five mosquito nets £20 – Mosquito nets for five families to protect them from malaria. Malaria kills one African child every 30 seconds. UNICEF’s full range of Cards, Gifts and Inspired Gifts are available exclusively online at www.unicef.org.uk/shop or by calling 0844 888 5505.

When families start to watch their budgets, more of us give food or drink gifts, claims PayPal (which should know!)

Encourage your children to make gifts – jam or truffles for the older ones. Or try vanilla essence (split a vanilla bean and put into a clean small jar with vodka); flavoured sugar (decorate a big jar and fill with fair-trade sugar and a vanilla bean or cinnamon stick). If you want to be more imaginative with a bargain tin of Quality Street try sewing together the sweets to make a necklace. The green ones can be turned into mini sweet kebabs if you spear them on a lolly stick. Draw on a smiley Christmas fairy face/dinosaur/Santa at the top. See all these recipes at http://homemadekids.wordpress. com/2011/09/30/share-your-foodie-gift-ideas/

I have a dream. Create a list of things everyone in the house would like to do in the holidays, plus some new ideas too. Watching skaters, building a den in the living room, reading in bed all day, learning to make bubblegum bubbles. My six-year-old once asked me if I’d go to McDonalds with her – and because it was a novelty we both enjoyed our burger, chips and ice cream. This year we are planning to turn our house into an art studio for a day and might try this recipe for puffy paint (brilliant for making shields and 3D fashion sketches) from the fantastic magical childhood blog, http://magicalchildhood. wordpress.com/2011/08/28/easy-puffy-paint/

IOUS – Versatile Vouchers for Very Lovely Children is a big concept in a small box. The 50 IOU cards have cool graphics featuring slogans such as “Stay in Your Pyjamas All Day” to “A Stay in a hotel.” Each card can be used individually to treat all the little people you know or really spoil one lucky child! Price: £7.50 per pack www.2littleboys.co.uk or telephone 020 8400 3606 November/December 2011

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Start a family tradition. What do you always do? Or what would you like to do? It could be making your own advent calendar, going to see a pantomime during the school holidays with granny and the cousins, listening to carol singers while you write festive cards or making a particular tasty treat. Domestic goddess Nigella Lawson has a recipe for cranberry-filled Christmas morning muffins that help signal the start of a special day. Muffins cook best with a lumpy mix, so mixing the muffins could be a task even your littlest could enjoy.

The Christmas Yearbook is a really massive concept in a small package. 25 years of a family history in one box. All it takes is for everyone assembled on Christmas Day to spend five minutes writing a note about their year. You, as the Grandmaster of the book then should spend around 10 minutes finding a photo and writing about the day's events. Just pop the book back in the box and store it with the Christmas decs to discover again next year. Size 22.5cm x 22.5 cm Price: £22 each www.2littleboys.co.uk or telephone 020 8400 3606

Play with your kids more, but not cards or scrabble just follow their lead. Children grow up really fast – even if the minutes might drag the years will fly. Most children want their family to play with them more (claims a Unicef report which argues that we keep giving them gadgets they don’t want) so take a lead from what the kids are doing and join in. Don’t think of this as a tennis game you have to win, or a chance to get them practising their maths tables. Just play with the model soldiers/Sylvanians/ Deadly 60 cards or people cut-outs and enjoy the freedom of time suddenly seeming never-ending.

Make Your Own Recycled Paper Train Set – The "Make Your Own Recycled Paper Train Set" recycles waste paper into train tracks.You can finally make a train track as big and long as you want, and run a battery operated train! This new toy is also educational as it helps children understand the full process of paper recycling. The Recycle Factory turns waste paper into train sets! The train set comes with an electric train. Create the largest train set without having to buy new tracks. If the track is broken, it can be recycled again! Pack comes with a battery operated train (batteries not included), 3 carriages, mixing bowl, a draining tray, 3 shape moulds, and instructions. The train set is suitable for all children (6+). Price: £24.99 www.bynature.co.uk or 0845 463 3835

You’ve got time to complete a crafty DIY project. Together could you make a cushion, knit a scarf/ mobile phone cover, paint an old chair or T-shirt/baby grow with crazy designs (spots and stripes are the easiest)? Think about what you could do and make sure you’ve got suitable kit (eg, brushes, paint cleaner/stripper). Or how about making a winter scarecrow out of lots of twigs collected during a walk in the woods? A talented friend has used this time to turn an unwanted violin case into a shelf for dried herb jars and create a living willow bench in her garden. What could you do together?

Festive Fun For All The Family at Build A Bear Workshops – Make your season beary merry with cute stuffed teddy bears with red and green plaid bows! It makes the pawfect gift for any one on your list! Plus personalize it even more with stuffed animal size clothing and accessories. With classic friends and traditional Christmas favourites, there is something for everyone on the list at every budget. www.buildabear.co.uk

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COCONUT WIRELESS is a perfect Kindle read for winter – a £2.14 e-novel about love, life and gossip in the sunny South Pacific. Half of any money raised by sales of COCONUT WIRELESS will be given to support projects working with Solomon Islands’ women and children. Download now via Nicola Baird’s amazon page, www.amazon.co.uk/ -/e/B001K7R1UY or www.smashwords.com. “Has the potential to do for Solomon Islands what Alexander McCall’s No 1 Ladies Detective series did for Botswana: make you fall in love with – and get under the skin of – a country, its culture and its people”

Smashwords reviewer

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Organise a talent show, ideal if there are lots of you in the house. Think mini play (adapt a classic like Christmas Carol, or perhaps a nursery rhyme), kareoke, impressions, show-off a talent, tell a joke (good for the shy as they can be read out). Make sure you have a host, programmes, popcorn and lots of clapping. If there’s only two of you try a fashion show – little children love to try on high heels and crazy hats.

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Get outside more – there are some challenging round London walks that you could start, even with a baby in a buggy. Have a look at the Capital Ring, http://www.walklondon.org.uk

Christmas For lots more tips on thrifty, creative and eco-friendly parenting – including what to give at Christmas – see Nicola Baird’s newest book, Homemade Kids (Vermilion) or look at her Homemade Kids blog via www.nicolabaird.com

Online Shopping – if you really do want to shop for gifts this Christmas, try some of these websites that ‘give back’ or an app that shows you how ethical your purchases are.

Big Blue Cuddle – has a way of giving twice: to a child and to a charity. They are an online children's clothes store which, thanks to the support of their suppliers, donates up to 50% of what you spend to the children’s charity you pick. Each gift bought on their site will therefore support a charity and they will tell your friend in a note that comes with the gift which charity you chose to receive the donation on their behalf. www.bigbluecuddle.com

The Giving Machine – TheGivingMachine is a great, easy and free way for you to raise money for your school, or a favourite charity without having to spend a penny more than you would normally. All you have to do is register online with www.TheGivingMachine.co.uk and nominate your school or charity. Then every time you shop online with your usual retailers such as Amazon, ebay, John Lewis, Next, Boden, Tesco – in fact over 360 of the UK's leading retailers, simply click on TheGivingMachine first and your school will get a free donation from the retailer. It won't cost you anymore and you don't have to buy anything you wouldn't normally buy. Just keep on shopping online as you do already, via TheGivingMachine and you'll be raising money at the same time- it really is that easy. www.TheGivingMachine.co.uk barcoo is a new free mobile phone app designed to empower ethical consumers, as well as encourage a new generation of ethical shoppers. By using the camera on a mobile phone to scan a product barcode, barcoo not only shows you a price comparison, it also tells you if the brand applies social responsibility to the manufacturing of its products. In addition to the manufacturer’s ethical profile, barcoo also provides nutritional information on food products. barcoo is the ideal shopping companion. It gives complete real-time transparency, enabling shoppers to make more informed purchasing decisions. www.barcoo.com

Celebrate gratitude – when the chaos of Christmas Day is over take a moment to be thankful for everything we have and everything we have done and can do. Teach your children the meaning of gratitude and ask them to write (and why not make?) thank you cards to those who showed them how much they meant to them over the Christmas break. It should keep them busy well into the New Year!

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ENLIGHTEN Enlighten offers play therapy for children, counselling for teenagers and parent support. For further information see www.enlighten-therapy.co.uk. Email us at: enlighten.therapy@yahoo.co.uk or call

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One new website is proving the point that small is both beautiful and practical. Launched in the summer Piccola Online (www.piccolaonline.co.uk) is the UK’s very first online store to specialise in products in handy travel and individual, small-sized packs of practically everything from around the supermarket. It has now added a range of great looking foodie gift baskets and hampers which make the perfect thoughtful gifts for Christmas. Pre-selected gift baskets start at just £18.75 and Hampers from just £33.29. We are running a reader offer of 15% off the entire Piccola range. Just enter your voucher code when going through the online checkout and 15% will be deducted from your bill. The closing date to ensure delivery in time for Christmas is the 15th December. Find out more about this little Christmas cracker of a site at www.piccolaonline.co.uk. Voucher Code: FMW11/15

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What's On CHRISTMAS EXPERIENCES Betty Blyth Teashop

ICE SKATING RINKS With prominent London landmarks providing spectacular backgrounds, ice skating is fast becoming a ‘must do’ family festive activity. NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM 4 Nov – 8 Jan Set within the historic Victorian grounds of the Natural History Museum, the 1,000 square metre Ice Rink has become an integral part of London’s winter scene. Decorated with 76,000 twinkling fairy lights that adorn the surrounding tall trees and with a backdrop of one of London’s landmark locations, the Natural History Museum Ice Rink adds a touch of romance to a crisp winter’s night. www.nhm.ac.uk 0844 847 1576 SOMERSET HOUSE 22 Nov - 22 Jan Skate at Somerset House presented by Tiffany & Co. returns for its annual season with a spectacular programme of activities on ice for everyone – skaters and spectators. www.somersethouse.org.uk 0844 847 1520 WESTFIELD LONDON 19 Nov - 8 Jan A 450-metre ice rink with 40 minute sessions. A nice break from the shopping. http://uk.westfield.com/london WINTER WONDERLAND, HYDE PARK 18 Nov - 3 Jan With a stunning new ice rink surrounding the Victorian Band Stand, Zippos Circus and the Giant Observation Wheel there’s something for everyone at this venue. www.hydeparkwinterwonderland.com LONDON EYE 19 Nov - 6 Jan Set in one of the prettiest settings in London, on the South Banks, London Eye ice rink is only available to those that buy tickets to the London Eye itself. www.londoneye.com TOWER OF LONDON 19 Nov - 8 Jan Nearly 1000 years after William the Conqueror founded the Tower of London, the dry moat beneath the Outer Curtain Wall of the Tower will once again host a breath-taking ice rink. Combine Christmas activities and London sightseeing with a quick spin on the ice, visit the Moat Cafe for food and drink or take advantage of special free viewing galleries to watch the skaters. www.toweroflondonicerink.com 0844 871 8814 HAMPTON COURT 26 Nov - 8 Jan The historic red brick palace at Hampton Court provides an impressive festive background for ice skating. Enjoy festive refreshments from the Frost Fayre Cafe, and see how the festive season was celebrated from 1550 to 1950 at Hampton Court itself. www.hamptoncourticerink.com. 0844 871 8815 November/December 2011

18 Nov-4 Dec (Fri, Sat and Sun nights 5-9pm) SYON PARK ENCHANTED WOODLAND Thousands of lights illuminate your way as you take a stroll through Syon Park. A unique and magical event for young and old alike. Adults £7, children £3. Wear warm clothing and sturdy footwear. Food and refreshments will be available every night. www.syonpark.co.uk CHRISTMAS AT SOUTHBANK CENTRE www.southbankcentre.co.uk With stunning riverside views, shimmering tree lights and special sprinkle of festive spirit, South Bank caters for all the Christmas needs: stocking fillers, seasonal markets and Christmas dinners to cracking shows and the best family entertainment. See the website for full programme. Some highlights: 18-24 Dec. TRADITIONAL CHRISTMAS MARKET 16-23 Dec. REAL FOOD CHRISTMAS MARKET 9–11 Dec. THE CHOCOLATE FESTIVAL 10 Dec. MESSIAH BY CANDLELIGHT at The Royal Festival Hall WINTER WONDERLAND IN HYDE PARK www.hydeparkwinterwonderland.com 18 Nov-3 Jan. 10am to 10pm everyday. Closed on Christmas day. Featuring: the largest open air rink in Central London, a 60m Observation wheel, Zippo’s Christmas Circus, rides, and Santa’s Grotto in Santa Land- See Santa’s workshop, meet elves and ride on the Santa Express. Free to enter, with tokens for all rides and attractions available for purchase on the day, but bkg is recommended for Ice Rink and the Wheel. LAPLANDUK Bewl Water Estate, near Tunbridge Wells in Kent, just 40 miles from Central London. 0871 620 7063 www.laplanduk.co.uk £44.50 to £62.50. 26 Nov-24 Dec. This is the multi-million pound interactive theatrical production which recreates Father Christmas’ arctic homeland. Christmas workshops, ice-skating, husky dogs, reindeers, Father Christmas’ Post Office and toy factory and more. Selected dates available for children with special needs.

MORE PLACES TO FIND

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SELFRIDGES 19 Nov – 24 Dec Children will be taken through a magical Christmas themed maze before being welcomed by Father Christmas and his team of elves. Along the way they will be entertained by a 3D wish fairy, trying to avoid slipping down the 3D icy ravine, dive into a snowball pool and try their hand at a snowball shy. On visiting Santa, children will receive a copy of ‘Rocket The Reindeer’ which reflects the Grotto’s journey and features the same characters they will have encountered along the way. £7 adults, £3 children. www.selfridges.com

WESTFIELD SHOPPING CENTRE 19 Nov-24 Dec The Atrium of the shopping centre will come alive with dazzling Christmas lights and an ice rink. Christmas this year will be a 5D experience with a Pixar film quality animated story that tells the tale of Elbow the Elf, who saves Christmas.Visitors to the Santa’s Grotto will be immersed in a stereoscopic 3D visual experience which incorporates a fourth dimension of wind, lights and elf dust! Each child visiting Santa’s Grotto at either Westfield London will have the opportunity to feature in the film, helping Elbow on his journey to help save Santa’s presents from the good-elf-turnedbad. http://uk.westfield.com/london/ BRENT CROSS SHOPPING CENTRE 10 Nov onwards Brent Cross has a free Santa’s Grotto where every child receives a gift. www.brentcross.co.uk WOBURN SAFARI PARK 19 Nov onwards (weekends only) This year Santa’s Grotto at Woburn Safari Park will transport you to the magical land of Narnia- escape through the wardrobe to meet a lion and a witch and of course Father Christmas! www.woburn.co.uk ODDS FARM PARK Weekends in Dec and daily from 19-24 Dec. Christmas Magic with Santa. Children can visit Santa in his special grotto and receive a Top Toy for Christmas. www.oddsfarm.co.uk LONDON WETLAND CENTRE 10 and 11 Dec London Wetland Centre Winter Wonderland Weekend 10am – 4pm. See Santa in his grotto among the fir and pine trees, and have a ride on his huskies (children under 8). 10am-4pm. www.wwt.org.uk BUCKINGHAMSHIRE RAILWAY 3, 4, 10 and 11 Dec Meet Santa on his steam train with his Friend Thomas the Tank Engine who will pulling the train. Santa will visit you in your compartment with age and gender-specific gifts for the children, followed by seasonal refreshments for all, a half-hour family magic show, and ending with a short miniature steam train ride on the old Station Platform. www.bucksrailcentre.org BETTY BLYTHE TEASHOP 17 Dec 10am-5pm, The downstairs tearoom will be transformed into Santa’s Grotto packed with toys as well as tea and biscuits! Children can listen to a story with Santa and then have a private chat with him before tucking into delicious treats. Goody bags will be given out. £10.50 per child, www.visitsantainwestlondon.co.uk RAINFOREST CAFE Weekends in Dec and daily from 17-24 Dec Includes a personalised invite from Santa, a welcome greeting from his elves, meeting Santa in his grotto, festive goodie bag of wonders and a kids 2-course meal + soft drink. www.therainforestcafe.co.uk 020 7434 3111 SANTA AT YOUR DOOR Party entertainer, Adam Ants can come to your house as Santa any time in the lead up to Christmas or on the day itself. When Santa arrives he will chat to your children about their favourite things, eat a mince pie and deliver your presents! Call the Adam Ant party hotline on 020 8959 1045 for more details. www.adamantsparties.co.uk

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What's On DIARY DATES THE 2011 LORD MAYOR’S SHOW 12 Nov. 11am. A 3 miles procession from Mansion House to the Royal Courts of Justice and back. At 5pm, expect a wonderful firework from a barge moored in the Thames between Blackfriars and Waterloo bridges. For info, maps, timetable go to www.lordmayorsshow.org KENSINGTON & CHELSEA WOMEN’S CLUB NEARLY NEW SALE 12 Nov 1-4pm, at Brompton Oratory Church Hall, Brompton Road, SW7 2RP One of London’s biggest sales for gently used children’s clothing up to age 12, toys, books, games, puzzles, DVD’s, baby equipment, maternity wear and more. Cash only sale. www.kcwc.org.uk or e: nearlynew@kcwc.org.uk. CHRISTMAS BAZAAR 12 Nov 12 noon3pm. Fun for all ages – tea and cakes, games, traditional stalls etc Venue: St Martin's Church Hall, Vale Gardens, Acton W3 9SQ IDEAL HOME SHOW AT CHRISTMAS 16-20 Nov Earl’s Court London. 0844 209 7330 www.idealhomeshowchristmas.co.uk Latest trends, home interiors advice, technological advancements, and design innovations featuring a Christmas twist and with more gadgets, shopping and gifts for all the family. EALING NCT NEARLY NEW SALE 19 Nov at St John’s Church, Mattock Lane, W13 9LA 10-11.30am. To register e:ealing@nct.org.uk www.nct.org.uk/nns DUSTY DOES DISCO 20 Nov and 18 Dec Disco for all the family. 2.30-5pm at the Drayton Court, West Ealing, W13 8PH All the usual fun with Dusty the Disco Dog and the Disco Dollies, including live DJ, lights, bubbles, dance tuition, games and much more! Children £6, Adults £3, siblings under 1 free. www.dustydoesdisco.co.uk STIR UP SUNDAY 20 Nov at the Gunnersbury Park Museum. Free family activity. Meet the Victorian servants in original Victorian kitchens. Help them stir the Christmas pudding and discover some old Christmas traditions. Sessions at 11.30am, 1 and 2.30pm. Gunnersbury Park, Popes Lane, London, W3 8LQ 020 8992 2247 INSTITUT FRANCAIS SOUTH KEN KIDS FESTIVAL 24-27 Nov Workshops, drawing duels, talks, films, theatre performances and book signings. Venue: Institut Français, 17 Queensberry Place, South Kensington, London SW7 020 7073 1350 - www.institut-francais.org.uk FOX PRIMARY SCHOOL CHRISTMAS FAIR 3 Dec 1-4pm, “Let it snow!” All welcome, £1 entry, BBQ , International Café, Arts and Crafts, Cakes, mulled wine, 2nd hand toys, raffle and a visit from Santa! Venue: Kensington Place, London W8 7PP CHISWICK FARMERS CHRISTMAS MARKET 23 Dec 4-7pm, at Dukes Meadow, Market Drive, off Alexandra Gardens, W4 2RX 12

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DAYS OUT KEW GARDENS Kew Green, Richmond TW9. 020 8332 5655 or info@kew.org, www.kew.org Open 9.30am-6.30pm (Weekdays), 9.30am-7.30pm (weekends). £11.90/£13.90, children under 17 free. 1 Dec-31 Jan WINTER EVERGREEN WALK. Daily from 12noon and starts from the volunteers desk (Victoria Plaza) Join this guided walk with Kew’s expert guides, and discover the Christmas plants that shine throughout winter in Kew’s 300 acre site. 10 Dec-2 Jan CHRISTMAS AT KEW Visit Father Christmas (until 23 Dec), take a carousel ride on Kew Palace Lawn (until 2 Jan) have your face painted at Climbers and Creepers or take a spin in the mini sized vintage cars.

OSTERLEY PARK Jersey Road, Isleworth, Middlesex TW7 4RB www.nationaltrust.org.uk 020 8232 5050 Weekends 3-18 Dec 12-4pm. CHRISTMAS AT OSTERLEY PARK HOUSE: Experience this majestic house dressed for an Edwardian Christmas, and follow the work of the servants as they hasten to prepare the rooms, from breakfast time through to an evening soiree. Will they have everything ready before the family return. Osterley Park House

4, 11 and 18 Dec FAMILY CHRISTMAS CAROLS: 2-2.30 and 3-3.30pm. Bring the family to Osterley’s Stableyard, which is alive with the sounds of the festive season as carol singers invite everyone to join them for some rousing renditions of traditional favourites. Song sheets provided.

SOMERSET HOUSE Strand, London WC2 1LA 020 78454600, www.somerset.org.uk SATURDAYS 2pm-3.30pm. Free Family Workshops: Free tickets are available from 1pm from the information desk in the Seamen’s Hall on the day and are allocated on a first come, first served basis. Children 6-12yrs must be accompanied by an adult. 19 Nov BEHIND THE MASK Learn the history of the masquerade at Somerset House and construct a costume for your own masked ball. 26 Nov FANTASTIC FIESTAS Discover how to create vibrant masterpieces in pastels and paint after exploring ' The Spanish Line' exhibition. 3-22 Dec STORYTELLING SESSIONS BY THE CHRISTMAS TREE 3.15-3.45pm, free, no need to book. 3 Dec Tiffany Story - especially written for Somerset House 10 Dec Skate School read by author Kate Woodward (for age 8+) 11 Dec Oliver Moon read by Sue Mongredien (for ages 5+) 13 Dec Molly and the Night Monster read by Chris Wormell (age 5-7) 14 Dec Frank and Teddy make friends read by Louse Yates (age 1-5) 17 Dec The Snow Merchant read by Sam Gayton (age 9-11) 22 Dec Penny Dreadful read by Joanna Nadin (age 7+) November/December 2011

What's On Covent Garden Piazza, London WC2E 7BB 020 7565 7299 www.ltmuseum.co.uk Open Sat-Thurs 10am-6pm, Fri 11am-6pm. Free for accompanied children under 16 years. 19 Dec-3 Jan MAKE AND TAKE WORKSHOPS and action packed Storytelling sessions.

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WWT WETLAND CENTRE Queen Elizabeth's Walk, Barnes SW13 9WT. 020 8409 4400. www.wwt.org.uk/london Every Day in Nov. LIVE ‘N’ DEADLY. DEADLY SCENE INVESTIGATION There’s a broken nest box high in a tree, with some fur around the box, as well as some tracks. Suspicious characters have been seen nearby.. CBBC’s “Live ‘n’ Deadly: DSI involves puzzles, clues and activities. 5-11 Dec WINTER FAMILY WEEKEND ACTIVITIES STORYTELLING: HIBERNATION Listen to some great hibernation stories and make a hibernating hedgehog to take home. Under 7s. Voluntary donation. PAPERMAKING: Join us to make your own real recycled paper by hand, adding seeds and other natural materials found in the Wetlands. 7yrs+. £1. MIGRATION WALK: This is a fun look at migration: why birds migrate, where they go, and how do they do it? 7yrs+ Free with adm to the Centre. Visit www.wwt.org.uk/london for dates and times. 21 Dec -5 Jan WINTERY WALKS with a Christmas themed trail followed by storytelling and crafts in a yurt around a fire.

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19-23 Dec MOSAICS GIFT MAKING WORKSHOP 12 noon3pm. For ages 5+ Taking inspiration from the Museum’s bright and varied tile collection and mosaic artworks, families can make mosaic coasters and wall hangings as fabulous gifts to take home. 27 Dec-3 Jan KITE MAKING WORKSHOPS 12 noon-3pm, for ages 5+ Mark the coming of the London 2012 Games and show your team’s support by flying their colours and flags high in the sky on hand crafted kites. Design your own box or diamond kite from card and fabric. Families can tie their New Year’s resolutions onto the tail, set their goals and aim to keep them or complete them by the summer. 27 Dec-3 Jan STORYTIME For under 5’s.11am. Listen to stories about a Duck in a Truck and the Little London red train’s adventures.

THE NATIONAL GALLERY Trafalgar Square, London WC2N 5DN 020 7747 2885 www.nationalgallery.or.uk MAGIC CARPET STORYTELLING Every Sun 10.30 and 11.30am. DRAWING SUNDAYS Free hands-on art workshops at 11am & 2pm every Sunday. For ages 5-11. FAMILY WALK AND TALK 6 Nov and 4 Dec - 12.30pm.

HOLIDAY WORKSHOPS 28 and 29 Dec 11am and 2pm for children aged 5-8, and 11.15am and 2.15pm for children aged 9-12. 28 Dec DRAWING STORIES 10.30am for children aged 2-5, art and play. 29 Dec STORYSCAPE For children aged 2-5, interactive story session. TRAILS AND AUDIO TOURS Families can print it out from www.nationalgallery.org.uk/families or pick one up at Information Desks.

NATIONAL PORTRAIT GALLERY St Martin’s Place, London WC2H 0HE, 020 7306 0055, www.npg.org.uk/events Mon, Tues, Wed, Sat, Sun 10am-6pm. Late opening Thurs, Fri 10am-9pm. FAMILY EVENTS: Meet in Main Hall 19 Nov. STORYTELLING FOR FAMILIES 10.30am or 1.30pm An exciting story-telling session followed by a fun art activity. 3yrs+ 19 Nov. FAMILY ART WORKSHOP 11.30am or 2.30pm. Explore portraits in the Collection, followed by an art activity. 5yrs+ FAMILY AUDIO GUIDE £6 up to 5 audio players, £4 for 2 audio players (one adult and one child) Explore amazing facts and stories about people in the collection with a specially designed recorded tour and interactive touchscreen players 7-11yrs. 17 Dec CHRISTMAS PAST Travel back in time to celebrate a Victorian Christmas with an interactive storytelling session and art workshop. For age 5+

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What's On IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM Lambeth Road, London SE1 6HZ. 10am-6pm. 020 7416 5320/5321. www.iwm.org.uk Ongoing exhibition: THE CHILDREN’S WAR This major exhibition looks at the home front in Britain and the impact of the Second World War through the eyes of the children who lived through it. Incorporating hands-on activities for visitors of all ages, it also features the popular 1940s house and part of a post-war prefab. FAMILY ACTIVITIES Natural History Museum

EXHIBITIONS & MUSEUMS NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM Cromwell Road, London SW7 020 7938 9123. Info: Mon-Fri 020 7942 5000. Sat & Sun 020 7942 5011 www.nhm.ac.uk Mon-Sat: 10am – 5.50pm Sun 11am-5.50pm. Free. EXHIBITION: To 11 Mar 2012 VEOLIA ENVIRONMENT WILDLIFE PHOTOGRAPHER OF THE YEAR 10am-5.50pm. More than 100 images that combine the work of talented photographers and gifted amateurs. Interactive stations provide insight into what the judges, scientists and the photographers think about each photograph, while encouraging visitors to participate and not just vote for their favorite, but also join the debate surrounding the hot topics of conservation and green issues. £4.50/£9, family £24, ACTIVITIES FOR FAMILIES: Full listing on www.nhm.ac.uk/whats-on Mon-Fri in term time. 11am-5pm. DAILY FAMILY ACTIVITES. Free. Younger visitors can pick up an Explorer backpack and take a mini adventure around the Museum. Don’t miss the Dippy floor puzzle, perfect for under 8’s. Complete the puzzle of the 26-metre long “diplodocus” and you’ll get a funky Dippy sticker! Every weekend Hands-on nature workshops for age 7+ 2-5pm.

17-23 and 28-31 Dec CHRISTMAS IN THE WARTIME HOUSE 11am and 2pm, find out more about how Christmas was celebrated during the Second World War on the British home front. At a time of rationing and shortages and no guarantee that families could be together it was still possible to celebrate. Find out more about a creative Christmas in wartime Britain and take part in a rolling programme of festive activities. Free drop-in activity suitable for all ages.

THE HOUSEHOLD CAVALRY MUSEUM Horse Guards, Whitehall, London SW1A 2AX. 020 7930 3070, www.householdcavalrymuseum.co.uk 10am-5pm. £4/£6, family £15. 26 & 27 Nov. CHILDREN’S CHRISTMAS CRAFT WEEKEND 11.15am & 2.15pm. Children will have fun making their own cards, advent calendars, decorations, gift wrapping and other homemade gifts with a Household Cavalry theme. Also have a go at candle making, clay modelling and sewing. 5-11yrs. Free for children with fee paying adult. Small charge for material. Bkg essential.

JEWISH MUSEUM Raymond Burton House, 129-131 Albert St, London NW1 7NB 020 7284 7324 www.jewishmuseum.org

12 Nov, 10, 21 and 28 Dec ANIMAL VISION: CAN YOU REALLY SEE EVERYTHING? 10.30am, 11.30am, 12.30pm £ 1.30pm. Discover how eye adaptations in animals such a snake, iguanas and chameleons allow individuals to escape and locate prey. 7yrs+

27 Nov ENTERTAINING THE NATION Family trail at 2pm. A child friendly guided tour of the exhibition and try out our discovery trail to explore new things, look and draw and solve puzzles. Suitable for 5-11 year olds Free with museum admission

27 Nov, 21 and 28 Dec 12noon and 1pm PUPPETS: Storytelling based on the Natural World.

11 Dec YOUNG ARTISTS’ CRAFT STUDIOHANUKAH CANDLES 3-5pm. To celebrate the Festival of lights, make your own Hanukah candles to light up your home, using coloured wax and traditional techniques. Drop in, suitable for all ages.

SCIENCE MUSEUM Exhibition Road, South Kensington, London SW7 2DD. www.sciencemuseum.org.uk Open 10am-6pm. Info & bkg 0870 870 4868. Adm is free but charges apply to some special exhibitions, IMAX cinema and simulator rides. EXHIBITION: From 9 Nov: HIDDEN HEROES - THE GENIUS OF EVERYDAY THINGS Spotlights the miniature marvels we couldn’t live without. COSMOS AND CULTURE: How astronomy has shaped our world. Look on the website for info on Museum tours, Cockroach tours and drama characters dressed up as famous scientists. 14

12-13 Nov WE WILL REMEMBER THEM 11.30am and 2.30pm. Create personalised poppies and find out more about Remembrance at IWM London. Free drop-in activity suitable for all ages.

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18 Dec YOUNG ARTISTS’ CRAFT STUDIO: LIGHT UP THE NIGHT 3-5pm. It’s Hanukah time. Learn how to make a beautiful lantern to celebrate this festival of lights and join us for our annual lantern procession down Albert Street. Drop in, suitable for all ages.

V&A MUSEUM OF CHILDHOOD Cambridge Heath Road, London E2 9PA, 020 8983 5200, www.museumofchildhood.org.uk Daily 10am-5.45pm. Free. EXHIBITIONS: MAGIC WORLDS Until Mar 2012 An exhibition exploring the world of magic and fantastical realms of witches, wizards, fairies, elves, dragons, magicians and illusionists. Among the 200 objects on display are the Sooty puppet and his wand, the Cottingley fairy photographs, and Derren Brown’s Lottery Balls. There are also costumes, paintings, ceramics, games and optical toys. DISPLAY: JULIA MARGARET CAMERON: PHOTOGRAPHS OF CHILDREN Until Feb 2012 A display featuring 20 portraits of children by Julia Margaret Cameron (1815-79), one of the most influential figures in early photography. The images explore Cameron’s vision of childhood, in which children are sacred and the embodiment of innocence. Her portraits convey the emotional and spiritual aura of the sitter, in contrast to the very formal traditional Victorian portraiture which was commonplace at the time. INSTALLATION: THE STUFF OF NIGHTMARES This installation explores the darker side of traditional fairy tales. The gallery has been transformed into a creepy forest, based on the Brothers Grimm tale Fundevogel made with the help of local schoolchildren. There is also a ‘police line up’ of suspicious and gruesome looking toys from the collections. PERFORMANCE: 28 and 29 Dec PINOCCHIO 11.30am and 2pm, A one hour performance featuring hand-carved puppets, following the adventures of Pinocchio. £3.50 per person. Ages 3+ WORKSHOP: 3 and 4 Dec MRS SANTA’S CRAFT CORNER 12noon. Christmas decoration-making with Mrs Santa and her team of helpers. Drop-in. All ages FAMILY BACKPACKS FOR UNDER 5s Four new resources for families on their visit. Backpacks suitable for various age groups contain a train map, storybooks, play mats and question sheets.

GRANT MUSEUM OF ZOOLOGY Rockefeller Building, University College of London, University St., WC1E 6DE 020 3108 2052 www.ucl.ac.uk/museums/whats-on/grant_listings e: zoology.museum@ucl.ac.uk 19-23 Dec CHRISTMAS CREATURES 1-5pm, free, no need to book, suitable for all ages. How do Arctic animals cope with the cold? Do penguins shiver and why don’t the fish freeze? From mountains to icebergs, and glaciers to tundra, the Grant Museum ’s specimen-based hands-on activities investigate the world’s snow-bound beasts. Interactive games will also look at ice-age animals and what will happen if all our ice melts.

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What's On BRITISH MUSEUM Great Russell Street, London WC1B 3DG, 020 7323 8195, www.britishmuseum.org WORKSHOPS: 19 Nov THE SLEEPING ARMY COMES ALIVE 2-7pm for ages 8-15, Join in exciting Norse activities to celebrate the launch of Francesca Simon’s latest book, The Sleeping Army, based around the Lewis Chessmen. Discover more about Norse life in the British Isles and enjoy hearing some Norse mythological tales. Plus, listen to Francesca Simon read from her new book. £12 20 Nov GREEKS ALIVE! Animation workshop for age 7+ 11am and 2pm, Create your own animation based on myths from ancient Greece. 26 Nov, 10 Dec TEDDY TIME TRAVELLER Learn about Alan Measles, Grayson Perry’s teddy bear and god of his imaginary world. Bring along your own bear or soft animal (or borrow one of ours), then transport yourselves to another culture and time using a green screen. For age 5+

18 Dec WRITING WORKSHOP WITH PHILIP ARDAGH 11am and 2pm, for age 9+ Join award-winning children’s author Philip Ardagh and use laptops to write your own stories inspired by mysterious objects from the Museum’s collection. Upload the finished stories to a blog to share with the rest of the world! SLEEPOVER: 3-4 Dec THE TOME OF THE UNKNOWN CRAFTSMAN SLEEPOVER 6.15pm-9am. For ages 8-15. Delve deep into your imagination and explore the ideas of craftsmanship and sacred journeys at this sleepover themed around Turner Prizewinning artist Grayson Perry and his current exhibition at the Museum. Step into an enchanted land and hear stories of illusion, and wizardry. Create your own crafts and explore the history of the Museum’s collection. Natural History Museum Ice Rink

27 Nov MANGA COMIC WORKSHOP 11am and 2pm, for age 7+ Create a manga comic to take home.

PERFORM DRAMA 19-23 Dec Perform Drama, Dance and Singing workshop for ages 4-8. For a boost of creativity and to stretch their imagination! The theme this Christmas is “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe.” Venues: (19-21 Dec) Fulham: Christchurch, 67 Studdrige Street SW6 3TD 10am – 12 noon Notting Hill: St Peter’s Hall. 59A Portobello Road W11 3DB 2.30-4.30pm Kensington: Baden Powell House, Queen’s Gate SW7 5JS 10am – 12noon West Ealing: St Stephen’s Church, St Stephen’s Road W13 8HB 2.30-4.30pm (21-23 Dec) Chiswick: St Michaels Hall, Elmwood Road W4 3DU10am – 12noon 0845 400 4000, e:pr@perform.org.uk www.perform.org.uk CORNER 9 19-21 Dec Christmas art workshops from 10am-12noon. Booking essential. Call Sue on 07763 472516 Corner Nine Arts Project, 9 Dalgarno Gardens W10 5LL www.corner9.com e: info@corner9.com

4 Dec MEGA-MUMMY ANIMATION WORKSHOP 11am and 2pm, for age 7+ Use digital video cameras and stop-motion software to create a giant and gruesome animation of the mummification process. 17 Dec MAKE A MISMATCH CREATURE 11.30am, for age 7+ drop-in. Combine unusual animals from the Museum's collection to create your own fantasy creature to print and take home. Mix and match long tails, delicate wings, sharp teeth and strange bodies to create a Photoshop artwork. Print out your finished creature to take home.

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FIMO CLAY 19 and 21 Dec, 4 Jan Craft activity session in Acton, W3 for age 6+ 10am-4pm. Call Clare McKnight on 020 8992 3767 e:fimofun@tiscali.co.uk www.funwithfimoclay.co.uk

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CHRISTMAS AT THE BALLET ROYAL OPERA HOUSE Bow Street, Covent Garden, London WC2E 9DD 020 7304 4000 www.roh.org.uk Until 21 Dec. THE SLEEPING BEAUTY The much-loved classical ballet. Family tickets available.

SADLER’S WELL Rosebury Avenue, London EC1R 4TN 0844 412 4300 www.sadlerswells.com 6 Dec-22 Jan. MATTHEW BOURNE’S NUTCRACKER One of the most popular dance productions ever staged; Clara’s bittersweet journey from a hilariously bleak Christmas Eve at Dr. Dross’ Orphanage, through a shimmering, ice-skating winter wonderland to the scrumptious candy kingdom of Sweetieland.

COOKIE CRUMBLES WORKSHOPS 15, 16 and 22 Dec Christmas cookery workshops (inc Gingerbread House making!) for ages 5-16. 12am-12.30pm and 2-6pm in Kensington. Call 020 8876 9912 www.cookiecrumbles.net ACTIVE KIDZ 19-23 Dec Multi-sport activity classes for ages 3-13 at North Ealing Primary School, W5. Call 07894 540 257 www.activekids.biz/ealing CHISWICK COURSES Robots with Lego for age 9+, Creative Writing for 8+ and Christmas Crafts for ages 6-14. Each workshop is for 2 days and costs £98. Venue: Chiswick Pier, London, W4 2UG e: info@chiswickcourses.co.uk 020 8742 3936

LONDON COLISEUM 33 St Martin Lane, London WC2N 4ES 020 7836 0111/ 0871 911 0200 www.eno.org or www.ballet.org.uk 8-30 Dec. THE NUTCRACKER An English National Ballet classic production. Family friendly performances, where under 5s are welcome, are 13 and 26 December.

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Theatre For a really special day out this Christmas, book the family in to see one of these spectacular shows. THE LYRIC HAMMERSMITH THEATRE Lyric Square, King Street, London W6 0OL 0871 22 117 20 www.lyric.co.uk Saturdays shows 11am/1pm, then “MESSY PLAY” arts and crafts activities, 12pm & 2pm. SATURDAY SHOWS & FAMILY SUNDAYS: 19 Nov GRETEL AND HANSEL 11am and 1pm.The classic tale through puppets, tricks and silly singing. Fully integrated sign language throughout. For ages 3-7. Messy play session 12 and 2pm. 26/27 Nov THE MAGICIAN’S DAUGHTER 11am and 1pm. Inspired by the story of The Tempest, Miranda’s daughter discovers the wonders of the isle full of noises. A blend of puppetry and song. For ages 3-7. Messy play at 12 and 2pm. CHRISTMAS SHOW: 1-31 Dec. HOLLY AND IVAN’S CHRISTMAS ADVENTURE A magical tale of two brave little toys who fall off the back of Santa’s Sleigh on Christmas Eve. Not wanting their new owners to wake up to no presents, they set off on an epic journey to find their stockings. Encountering all kinds of weird and wonderful characters along the way, this show is a silly, snowy, seasonal odyssey about two toys’ mission to save Christmas. Live music, song and puppetry for under 6’s. Messy play 12 and 2pm. 19 Nov-31 Dec. ALADDIN The Lyric’s traditional Pantomime- East meets West (London) in Aladdin. With a flying carpet, a magic lamp, a monkey and, of course, Widow Twankey. A festive treat for the whole family! 6yrs+.

PUPPET THEATRE BARGE Little Venice, Blomfield Road, London W9 2PF 020 7249 6876 www.puppetbarge.com 3 Dec -8 Jan MR RABBIT MEETS BRER SANTA A Christmas tale of a wily fox and a mischievous rabbit on board a boat.

8 Dec-29 Jan THE PIRATES OF PENZANCE Orphaned pirates, flatfooted policemen and a bevy of blushing maidens (the pretty daughters of Major General Stanley) are all the ingredients for a fabulous recipe of Gilbert and Sullivan at their very best. Set on a Victorian seashore, elegantly recreating original period settings and costumes with exquisite detail, this production sparkles with wit and musical moments, all fully staged in the round. For age 10+

LYRIC THEATRE Shaftesbury Avenue, London W1D 7ES 0844 412 4661 www.gruffalolive.com

THE MUSIC HOUSE FOR CHILDREN 306 - 310 Uxbridge Road, Shepherd’s Bush, London W12 7LJ 020 8932 2652 www.musichouseforchildren.co.uk 11 Dec CAROLS BY CANDLELIGHT 6pm. A magical evening set under Bush Hall’s glittering chandeliers. Enjoy performances, carol singing and refreshments plus a visit from a special guest. Adults £6, Children £4, Under 1yrs £Free 19 Dec THE HARE AND HIS HAT A musical storytelling show for ages 18 months-5 years. Adults £6, Children £4, Under 1yr- Free

RIVERSIDE STUDIOS Crisp Road, Hammersmith, London W6 9RL 020 8237 2010 www.riversidestudios.co.uk 3 and 4 Dec. W11 OPERA FOR YOUNG PEOPLE – ORIGINAL FEATURES. It is 1920. Two brilliant young artists raise their seven children in a faded Georgian townhouse. When the depression hits they are forced to seek their fortune in America. The children are left in the silent and lifeless home under the austere care of sinister distant cousins who drain all colour from the house and engineer its demolition. Will their children survive the terrifying regime? Will the house be saved from destruction? Will light return to the hallways and laughter echo once more on the stairs? W11 Opera for Young People casts only school-age singers for each new opera it commissions every year. Entirely professionally produced, the performances are a stunningly unusual musical event. 5yrs+.

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23 Nov-15 Jan THE GRUFFALO The hugely popular modern classic by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler returns to the west end for a monster season. Follow the quick-thinking Mouse into the deep, dark wood in this magical and musical modern classic. Discover what happens when he comes face to face with wheeler-dealer Fox, an eccentric old Owl and a maraca-shaking Snake. Songs, laughs and scary fun for children aged 3+ and their families.

AMBASSADORS THEATRE West Street, London WC2H 9ND 08848 11 23 34 www.theambassadorstheatre.co.uk CHRISTMAS SHOW: 29 Nov-31 Dec. SANTA CLAUS AND THE CHRISTMAS ADVENTURE A live interactive Christmas show with a traditional ‘grotto’ experience. Extra festive magic will be created by magician Paul Daniels, who will be staging stunning illusions. By helping Santa control his misbehaving Elves, children can meet him after the show and receive a special gift. The adventure takes place at Santa’s HQ in the North Pole, The Reindeer Sat Nav is programmed and the toys are piled high on the sleigh, then…chaos strikes! Rudolph is missing and the Elves are misbehaving... will Santa ever deliver the presents to all the boys and girls?

ARTS THEATRE London WC2H 7JB 020 7907 7092 www.TheLazyElf.com 10-22 Dec THE LAZY ELF Larry is an extremely lazy elf, who would rather have a nap than make toys for all the boys and girls. An interactive musical for ages 3+ £14, £48 family ticket

VAUDEVILLE THEATRE Strand, London, WC2R 0NS 020 7452 3000 www.nationaltheatre.org 15 Dec-14 Jan SWALLOWS AND AMAZONS Based on the book by Arthur Ransome. All aboard The Swallow! Follow Captain John and his able crew as they set sail to Wildcat Island on an exotic adventure to encounter savages, capture dastardly pirates and defeat mortal enemies. An action-packed musical adventure for the whole family, a story of an idyllic era, of endless summer evenings and the beauty of youthful imagination.

GARRICK THEATRE Charing Cross Road, London WC2H 0HH 0844 412 4662 www.nimaxtheatres.com/ garrick-theatre/ 13-31 Dec THE SOOTY CHRISTMAS SHOW The show opens as Sooty, Sweep, Soo and Richard are getting ready for their Christmas Party. Sooty is having a few problems rehearsing his magic show, while Sweep’s Christmas cake is a recipe for disaster. Poor little Soo just can’t decide which dress to wear. Luckily Uncle Norman drops by to lend a hand assisted by his amazing troupe of performing budgies! Plus Father Christmas flies in to deliver a present for every child in the theatre to take home.

CRITERION THEATRE 218-223 Piccadilly Circus, London W1V 9LB 0844 847 1778 www.criterion-theatre.com or www.peggapiglive.com 30 Nov-2 Jan. PEGGA PIG’S TREASURE HUNT Puppets and sing-along songs in this new Peppa story.

PEACOCK THEATRE Portugal Street, London WC2A 0337 0870 737 0337/0844 847 1707 www.sadlerswell.com 30 Nov-8 Jan. THE SNOWMAN Stage adaptation of Raymond Brigg’s classic Christmas Tale. A magical night out.

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14 Dec-21 Jan. THE FIREWORK MAKER’S DAUGHTER Philip Pullman’s brilliant and inspiring story about Lila, whose dreams of becoming a firework-maker are dashed when her father tells her it is no job for a girl. Setting out in secret for Mount Merapi in search of the elusive royal sulphur, Lila faces pirates and supernatural creatures until Chulak arrives to help her with Hamlet the elephant. And soon she must return to save her imprisoned father with a firework display that must rival the best on earth!

To 18 Feb. THE UGLY DUCKLING This brand new adaptation of Hans Christian Andersen’s classic tale promises to be a playful and tender production, brought to life with delightful music, movement and puppetry. 3-5 yrs and special performances for 1-5yrs. (check the website)

CAMBRIDGE THEATRE Earlham Street, London WC2H 9HU 0844 412 4652/0844 800 1110 www.matildathemusical.com To 12 Feb MATILDA THE MUSICAL The Royal Shakespeare Company’s world premiere of Roald Dahl’s magical story about a girl with extraordinary powers.

SOUTHBANK CENTRE Southbank centre, Belvedere Road, London SE1 8XX 0844 875 0073 www.southbankcentre.co.uk 17 Dec-8 Jan SLAVA’S SNOWSHOW A dream like world culminating in a breathtaking blizzard. For ages 8+ 17-31 Dec WHITE A performance especially for children aged two to four, with music, stories and surprises. In the sparking world of White, everything is ordered and white. But high up in the trees, all is not white. Colour appears. First red... then yellow... then blue... A playful and highly visual show for very young children.

UNICORN THEATRE 147 Tooley Street, Southwark, London SE1 2HZ 020 7645 0560 www.unicorntheatre.com 23 Nov-8 Jan. THE SNOW QUEEN A brand new version of Hans Christian Andersen’s magical tale, transported to a land rich in colour, music and unforgettable imagery. 7yrs+. 3-30 Dec. RING A DING DING A table-top voyage of discovery, where your fingers and noses will never be far from action. An immersive, interactive and multisensory show for children aged 3-6 and their families. November/December 2011

11 Nov-4 Feb. CHARLOTTE’S WEB 5-11yrs. Based on the novel by E.B.White. (14 Jan- Autism friendly performance)

STUDIO THEATRE Roundhouse, Chalk Farm Rd, London NW1 8EH 0844 482 8008 www.roundhouse.org.uk 29 Nov-30 Dec TWINKLE TWONKLE Full of stories, music and the mystery of space. The play follows Stella and her little brother Ryan on their intergalactic adventure. Stella loves the stars, every evening she gazes up at them through her telescope. Her little brother Ryan loves nursery rhymes and fits them into his life whenever he can. One night, while gazing at constellations Ryan and Stella see a brand new constellation in the night sky with a Medium-Sized Bear. And worse, Ryan’s favourite teddy bear has gone missing... When Ryan extends the telescope all the way up and starts climbing into the stars in search of his bear, Stella has no choice but to follow. Will Stella find Ryan in the night sky and solve the mysteries of the universe before it’s too late? For ages 4+

WATERMANS 40 High St, Brentford,TW8 ODS 020 8232 1010 www.watermans.org.uk 8-23 Dec THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS On the night before Christmas Emily stares out of the window, hugs her teddy and waits excitedly for the morning, while in the corner a little mouse called Eddie can’t understand why only humans are allowed to celebrate and get presents. So he sets off in search of Father Christmas to find out for himself. Will Eddie get an answer? Will Emily get her wish? And what is that funny-shaped present sitting under the tree? For ages 3-7.

PANTOMIMES HEOS MUSICAL THEATRE Greenford Hall, Ruislip Road, London UB6 9QN 07758 841523 www.heos.org.uk, 28 and 29 Dec SNOW WHITE AND THE SEVEN DWARFS. A traditional family pantomime by James Barry. 2 and 6.30pm daily

RICHMOND THEATRE The Green, Richmond, Surrey TW9 1QJ 0844 871 7651 www.ambassadortickets.com/ richmond 9 Dec-15 Jan. CINDERELLA Jenny Éclair is making her pantomime debut and will be joined by the legendary stage star Gary Wilmot. With stunning sets, glittering costumes, wonderful songs, dazzling dances and hilarious family-friendly comedy, it’s the perfect ideal Christmas treat for all ages.

NEW WIMBLEDON THEATRE The Broadway, Wimbledon, London, SW19 1QG 0844 871 7646 www.ambassadortickets.com/wimbledon 9 Dec- 15 Jan. DICK WHITTINGTON Dame Edna Everage will be starring as the Saviour of London in this year’s spectacular family pantomime.

WWT WETLAND CENTRE Queen Elizabeth’s Walk, Barnes SW13 9WT. 020 8409 4400. www.wwt.org.uk 17-20 Dec. WHICH WITCH IS WHICH? A magical pantomime full of Wetland animals and magic spells. The Wetland animals need your help... There are Wicked Witches about!

WINSTON CHURCHILL HALL THEATRE Pinn Way, Ruislip, Middlesex, HA4 7QL www.argosyplayers.org.uk 19 -22 Jan. Aropsy are back with West London’s biggest and best pantomime “CINDERELLA”. Hilarious jokes, laughs, music and magic.

THE BECK THEATRE Grange road, Hayes, Middlesex UB3 2UE. 020 8561 8371 www.becktheatre.org.uk 17 Dec-8 Jan. ALADDIN Full of comedy, singing and seasonal silliness for ages 3+ 6-11 Dec NOW THAT’S WHAT I CALL PANTO There’s trouble in Pantovania. Abanazar, the Sheriff of Nottingham and Carabosse are plotting to seize all the magical panto items including the magic lamp and glass slippers! By doing this, they will ensure there will be no Christmas! They kidnap Cinderella, Snow White and Sleeping Beauty and threaten to do horrible things to them if the people of Pantovania don’t hand the goods over! The Fairy Godmother, plus Buttons, Simple Simon, Dame Trott, Sarah Suet, Widow Twankey and several Prince Charmings are eager to thwart the evil plot! An amateur panto raising money for charities for ages 3+

SHAW THEATRE 100-110 Euston Road, London NW1 2AJ www.shaw-theatre.com 6 Dec-31 Dec. JACK & THE BEANSTALK Starring Linda and Maureen from The Nolans, Devon Anderson (Billie Jackson from Eastenders) Chris Stanton from CBBC’s M.I.HIGH.

VAUDEVILLE THEATRE 404 Strand, London WC2R 0NH www.pottedpanto.com 18 Dec-8 Jan. POTTED PANTO From the makers of Potted Potter comes seven classic pantos in 80mins! With CBBC’s Dan and Jeff.

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Checks for two-year-olds Under new Government plans to spot children who are failing to develop properly, all two-year-olds will be given a compulsory “progress check”. Two-year-olds in England will be assessed to discover whether they can use certain basic words, respond to familiar sounds, communicate their wants and socialise with others, as part of an Early Years Foundation Stage framework setting out to identify struggling children. All parents will be given a written report of their child’s abilities in these key areas, with Ministers claiming that this will help to identify any early developmental problems. They are concerned that too many children are starting school without the necessary basic social and language skills, and Sarah Teather, Liberal Democrat Minister for Children, said “the importance of the early years – as a foundation for life and for future attainment and success – cannot be overestimated. That’s why it’s vital we have the right framework to support high quality early years education.” However, Richard House, senior lecturer in psychotherapy at Roehampton University, says “Children are so diverse that to even begin constructing some generalised view of how they should be developing at a certain age is fraught with danger.” He goes on to state that the move risked defining children as "failures" at a young age.

Les Chatons opens new nursery Les Chatons is opening a new bi-lingual nursery in Inverness Place, W2 in the new year for children aged 1-5. The Kensington Gardens Nursery School will teach children in French and English and the Spanish Nursery School will teach in Spanish and English. Parents will be offered both part and full-time sessions for their children. Les Chatons is a group of bi-lingual nurseries school established in 1996, that include The French Nursery school in south Kensington and The Belgravia Nursery school in Knightsbridge. Contact Marie-Laurence for more information on 0207 259 21 51 or email marie-laurence@edmonstone.com

Jolly Phonics have now extended their range and brought out the "My Jolly Phonics" home kit. It has multisensory resources to help parents support their child in learning to read and write at home. It includes Activity Books, Jolly Phonics Games CD, Jolly Phonics DVD, Jolly Songs, Jolly Stories, posters and a free bee eraser and triangular pencils. The 'Jolly Phonics Activity Books 1-7' are filled with colouring pages, writing practice, games, puzzles, anagrams and other fun activities that will help children to learn the 42 letter sounds and practice reading and writing. The 'Jolly Phonics Games CD' is a collection of interactive, fun games which enable children to practice the 5 skills taught in Jolly Phonics. It is ideal for children to use on their own, and has three levels – Easy, Medium and Hard, to match children's stage of learning and revision. They are available from www.jollylearning.co.uk

Debate continues on literacy teaching methods A new report has been published with MPs claiming that the focus on phonics in schools will turn reading for children into a “dull exercise”. They are concerned that children will be turned off reading by the Government’s new literacy drive and the Coalition policies that have been designed to make schools use back-tobasics teaching methods. In order to improve literacy in England, the Government want primary schools to use synthetic phonics, with children sitting a ‘phonics test’ after only one year at school. However, the All-Party Parliamentary Group for Education is claiming in its report that too much emphasis on this method could affect pupils’ learning and lead to a decline in literacy. They also claim they are joined in this opinion by the education establishment. According to the latest figures, around 16 per cent of children leave primary school without being able to read to an acceptable level, with one-in-10 boys having only the reading skills of a seven-year-old. “Literacy is the key to the curriculum,” said Fabian Hamilton, Labour MP and chairman of the Parliamentary group. “Pursuing phonics without considering whether pupils can comprehend what they’re reading, and without paying any attention to whether children enjoy reading, will switch children off. Learning to read – especially a complex language like English – cannot be reduced to a mechanical process.” However, Nick Gibb, the Schools Minister, has rejected the group’s conclusions, saying “High-quality evidence from across the world shows that the systematic teaching of synthetic phonics is the best way to teach basic reading skills, and especially those aged five to seven.”

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Unique and Special

I have recently been coaching some wonderful parents who have a child with ADHD and as a former teacher of many children with unique and different needs, I have been exploring with them how to handle the painful and often overwhelming feelings associated with dealing with the diagnosis that their child is different. Children who are unique need your parenting approach to be individual, flexible and creative as well as consistent and clear because they have different needs to other children and this can be very stressful for you as a parent.

By Sue Atkins

"Special needs" is often commonly defined by what your child can't do – by milestones unmet, foods banned, activities avoided and experiences denied. These minuses can hit you as a family really hard and may make "special needs" seem like a tragic designation or a millstone around everyone’s neck. But I believe that a label should not limit a child’s potential and I see every child as a way to find a new opportunity to explore their potential in a new or different way that hasn’t yet been tried.

What is unique and special? "Special Needs" is like an umbrella sheltering and hiding a huge collection of diagnoses underneath. Children with “special” or “different” needs may have trouble paying attention, profound mental retardation or be gifted, or they may have a food allergy, be terminally ill or have a stammer. The vastness of the term can be confusing and bewildering.

I have worked and trained with Dr Richard Bandler – the co-creator and founder of NLP when I was training to become an NLP Master Practitioner and Trainer. He is an extraordinary man who challenges accepted ways of doing things and stereotyped labels as he is curious and fascinated by different and new ways to explore the way the brain works and how it can be improved and fine-tuned to enable everyone to reach their true potential. After the initial shock of discovering your child is unique and special, gently and slowly change your focus from one of despair to gently and gradually starting to see it as an opportunity to learn how to help you and your child to explore and discover more about themselves.

Dealing with the diagnosis that your child is different The diagnosis is useful for getting the support or services your child needs and it is helpful in setting appropriate goals and gaining understanding that your child has a unique talent or unique need, but I think it is worth pointing out that the diagnosis may come as shock or a relief to you and that whatever your reaction it is perfectly normal – some of you will have known from an early stage that your child was different, but for others of you it may be years before you guessed it and it may have taken you many visits to professionals to receive a clear diagnosis and for you to accept the new situation. Here are some tips that you may find useful in the weeks and months ahead after receiving the news of a diagnosis for the first time: •

Give yourself time to come to terms and to develop an understanding of what this diagnosis means for you, your child and your family.

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Avoid making any rash or major decisions in the weeks following the diagnosis.

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If you need to, do seek another appointment with the professional who gave you the diagnosis so you can ask more questions.

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Before any consultations decide what you want from the meeting and jot down any questions you have – it’s very easy to forget them during a meeting. Don't forget to make a note of the answers.

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If you can't go to meetings together do take a friend or relative if you want support and another pair of ears to help you remember want was said.

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The diagnosis may affect each of you as parents differently – while one of you may be able to accept the diagnosis, the other may feel that it is not correct and continue searching for alternative explanations for your child's difficulty – that’s why it’s important to give yourself time and discuss all the decisions made about your child.

* Remember: Giving a child a label can limit them. Some parents will always focus on the difficulties and grieve their child's lost potential compared to others, but I challenge you to see beyond the diagnosis – to become a family who sees your child's challenges as making their triumphs even sweeter and your child’s apparent “weaknesses” always being balanced by their amazing strengths.

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Be aware that there will be mixed reactions from your family and friends to the news of the diagnosis – some are very supportive or some are very hurtful and distressing.

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Educate yourself about the condition that is affecting your child – use all the sources of information available to you – library, Internet, other parents, organisations – knowledge is power.

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Do seek a second opinion on the diagnosis if you feel the diagnosis you have received is flawed.

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Get to know the professionals in your area. Who are they? Where are they based? Do they work as a team or individually? Try to get to know the team that is dealing with your child and build a relationship with them.

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Begin to keep notes of all your meetings with the professionals you are working with and if a professional is compiling a report on your child ask for a copy to keep with your records.

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Many parents I’ve worked with find it very helpful and supportive to be involved with the organisation or support group that represent children and families with similar special needs. I know making the initial contact can be a very big and frightening step but remember these groups can be a source of fantastic ongoing help and support. When you are ready, do make contact. You are not alone - and it helps to know that.

How a Diagnosis Affects You It’s perfectly normal to grieve after hearing a diagnosis and most parents experience a reaction similar to a feeling of bereavement – because while of course you love your child whether they have special needs or not, it is important to acknowledge that you have suffered the loss of a child who may have followed a custo mary path of development. Of course, the presence of a child with special needs in your family alters your family relationships and the way it may now function, including the closeness of parents and other siblings. However, remember these changes may be positive as well as negative. It is down to your positive attitude and mindset about how you are going to handle this challenge. That’s why I am passionate about using strategies and techniques that I’ve learnt in my 22 years as a teacher and from my years of studying NLP to help you move forward in your lives creating the happy, harmonious and fulfilling relationships and experiences that you all deserve. If you’d like to find out more about positive ways to raise children with unique and special needs, there is far more detail and resources in Chapter 14 of my book “Raising Happy Children for Dummies” which covers Dyslexia, ADD, Dyspraxia, Asperger’s Sydrome, and the gifted and talented.

Sue Atkins is a Parenting Expert, Broadcaster, Speaker and Author of the Amazon best selling book "Raising Happy Children for Dummies" one of the famous black and yellow series and the highly acclaimed Parenting Made Easy CDs. She has also just launched her 1st Parenting Made Easy app for iPhones and iPads. She is currently writing a new book for Random House called “Parenting Made Easy” which will be available in April 2012. Sue offers practical guidance for bringing up happy, confident, well behaved children from toddler to teen. She regularly appears on BBC Breakfast and The Jeremy Vine Show on BBC Radio 2 and is the parenting expert for many BBC Radio Stations around the UK. She has a regular monthly parenting phone-in on BBC Radio Surrey & Sussex and her parenting articles are published all over the world. To receive Sue’s free ebook bursting with practical tips and helpful advice from toddler to teen, log onto www.thesueatkins.com and download it today.

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Sleep in heavenly sleep... “Sing me to Sleep” would make a perfect Christmas gift for any new mum or mum to be. The CD is wonderfully created by artistic Ealing mum Jodie Jones, a talented singer and songwriter. Full of beautiful and original lullabies “Sing me to Sleep” is therapeutic for both babies and their mummies. Priced at £10. Available from Babye located in Ealing and Chiswick.

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And they all fall down... Silver Cross has produced a beautifully crafted Soft Activity Block Set in their Homegrown range. This elegant set of blocks comes with a canvas bag for easy storage. This toy is perfect for soft baby play and is designed to engage your baby in hours of visual and sensory stimulation. Silvercross.co.uk. Priced at £20.00.

No more Sock Heaven... Rummaging around the sock drawer for a matching pair can make any mum frustrated. Now you can put an end to that. “Socks On” is another great invention by ‘Dribble Ons’ that keep socks on little feet. Made from soft elasticated material with matching colour stitching, this product does exactly what it says on the tin. Available in different colours and sizes, these socks are priceless for any mum who has a baby who is just learning to crawl. Priced at £2.99 from Sainsbury’s and JoJomamanbebe.

Drool Cool Mums who are constantly wiping up baby dribble can put their feet up and let “Dribble Ons” soak it all up. “Dribble Ons” are funky, colourful, bandanas for teething babies. These cool, chic bibs are super soft and absorbent and come in a range of different colours. So now you can ditch the terry cloth faded numbers and colour coordinate your baby’s outfit. Available from Sainsbury’s and Jojomamanbebe priced at £4.99. This is a great stocking filler.

Bling-Bastic Jewellery “Teething Bling” is the original Teething Jewellery made to look like real Gemstones. It is an elegant range off jjewellery thatt your littl little ones can get their teething gums ll th into; literally. Made from the same FDA approved material as teething toys, this jewellery is safe and toxic free. The simple designs not only draw attention to curious little babies but will compliment any stylish modern mum. This would make agreat stocking filler. Priced at £12.95 for Pendants and £8.95 for Bangles, available from www.smartmumuk.com!

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