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Welcome

As Summer draws to a close, and the seasons start to change, a whole new year of opportunity begins for our little ones as they embark on the next year of the learning journey.

This September/October issue we have local news, showcasing the best Clubs and Classes options for the autumn term, including London TKD, who offer Taekwondo classes for boys and girls in Epsom, Sutton and Caterham. Try them this autumn for two weeks for £10.

Meet, Jon Chesworth, the Head of Banstead Prep on page 6 and Mrs Kishwar Ali, Head of Essendene School on page 10, as they take you on their personal journeys, as Head of these reputable local Independent Schools.

Enjoy some nature inspired Halloween crafts on page 18. We would love to see your creations. Email tamar@famiies-lsb.co.uk and we will share them on our Facebook Page. You can follow and find us @FamiliesLSBMag, and as always, we have all your entertainment needs met in this issues What’s On from page 20. Happy Halloweening!

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Get autumn-term ready with a free Perform class

Perform classes use a mix of drama, dance and singing to bring out every child’s potential. Run by experienced actor-teachers, the classes focus on developing the 4 Cs: confidence, communication, coordination, and concentration.

From September, Perform ages 4-7 will take to the skies with Phileas Fogg as they go on an amazing adventure Around the World. Whether walking like a wallaby in the outback or revealing the legends of the Egyptian pyramids, the new term will be filled with globetrotting fun!

Meanwhile, ages 7-12 are going to the ball in a rags-to-riches rock show, Cinderella Rocks. This hilarious version of Cinderella features struggling band, The Ugglies, in their quest to top the charts with charming music mogul, Simon Prince.

With all abilities welcome, the children will work towards an end of term performance for family and friends. The only requirement is to get ready to have the best fun of the week!

Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book a free class in Caterham, Oxted, Purley, Reigate, Shirley and Worcester Park. NEW venues in Purley and Worcester Park.

The charity BanktheFood has launched a free app to help people connect with their local community and donate high-priority goods to food banks.

With food prices skyrocketing and food banks struggling to meet growing demand an app is now available that could make a difference.

BanktheFood connects you with your local food bank. Whenever the food bank runs low on essentials, the app sends you a list of their most needed items.

But that’s not all - the app also sends you an urgent list of needed items when you arrive at the local supermarket, so you can easily pick up a few extra items to donate before you even reach the checkout.

Over thirty four thousand people are already using BanktheFood, helping three hundred and fifty food banks in communities across the UK.

For an easy way to make a difference, consider giving BanktheFood a try.

More info: www.bankthefood.org

Children’s Forest – planting forests for a healthy future

Children’s Forest is an initiative to reconnect children and their local communities with nature and plant forests for future generations. It brings together local landowners, Nature Educators and children from a school or community group to create a local forest.

Approaching your local council or a local landowner to introduce Children’s Forest can be an excellent way to begin seeding a forest in your local area. Once there is a landowner who is keen to host a project, Children’s Forest can work to fit the pieces in place. You could also speak to your child’s headteacher and introduce them to the Children’s Forest.

Since its inception, Children’s Forest has planted over five thousand trees in thirteen forests across the country involving groups of local children.

More info: www.childrensforest.earth

Toddlers’ gut bacteria predict future obesity

Scientists can determine whether a child will go on to develop obesity by analysing their gut bacteria during their early years, a new study suggests.

Research conducted at the Université Sorbonne Paris found that changes in the gut bacteria that predispose to adult obesity begin in early childhood. The study looked at the data from 512 infants who were part of a study that tracked the lives of 18,000 children born in France.

The scientists detected a link between the children’s BMI score at age 5 and the ratio of two types of obesity-related bacteria in their gut – Firmicutes to Bacteroidetes.

Lead author Gaël Toubon said: ‘The reasons these gut bacteria affect weight is because they regulate how much fat we absorb. Our findings reveal how an imbalance in distinct bacterial groups may play an important role in the development of obesity.’

Little Oaks in Hurst Green offer Mon-Friday 8.30 - 3.00pm, term time only. 2-4 year olds, 30 & 15 hours and feet funding accepted! Forest School on a Tuesday, friendly staff, large environment for children to learn in inside and out! Call Sarah for more details 07887527542 www.littleoakshurstgreen.co.uk

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Do you crave an oasis?

Looking for some time set aside for fun in the company of other women? We meet fortnightly on Friday mornings during termtime to listen to talks on a variety of interesting topics.

Previous themes range from Craft Making and Wellbeing to the themes from Motherland, Grey’s Anatomy and Mamma Mia!

Come and join in or just enjoy a cup of coffee and slice of cake/ painting your nails/making use of the well-equipped creche. This autumn’s theme is ‘What’s great about being...’ A variety of guest speakers are lined-up to talk about their vocations and interests.

Dates: 8 & 22 Sep, 6 & 20 Oct, 3 & 17 Nov, 1 Dec

Location: St George’s Church Hall, Ashtead

Time: 9:30-10:30am. No booking required.

Contact Maxine for more info: maxinesimpson2003@yahoo.co.uk

Transforming lives through Taekwondo

London TKD, where children embark on an exciting journey towards achieving their Blackbelt!

With a commitment to personal growth, building confidence, and embracing the values of respect and responsibility, London TKD is the perfect place for your child to explore their potential and take meaningful steps towards becoming a Blackbelt, both in martial arts and in life.

London TKD has become the number one choice for parents looking for a martial arts school that not only teaches selfdefence, but also helps children learn life skills, set goals, and develop discipline inside a safe and inclusive environment designed for children.

For more information call 07553 065 214, email: hello@londontkd.co.uk or visit www.london-tkd.co.uk

Ashtead Ballet School classes for all ages

When you take your child to a dance class for the first time you want them to run in and feel happy from the beginning. Sometimes it can take a few sessions for them to settle, but then the magic starts!

Ashtead Ballet School have a reputation for providing a happy, nurturing environment where everyone is encouraged to discover their own potential, promoting confidence and creativity along the way and hopefully creating lifelong memories.

With quality teaching delivered in a fun way Ashtead Ballet School have something for everyone from 3 years up in Ballet, Tap, Modern, Pointe Work and Body Conditioning, and Adult Ballet classes for the parents!

Book a FREE trial and let the adventure begin at www.ashteadballetschool.co.uk

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Missed something off your checklist in the back to school rush?

You can still get all your school essentials at the Belfry Shopping Centre, from great value uniforms and school shoes, to jackets, backpacks and stationery, now the kids are back in the classroom.

Find everything you need at your favourite high street stores all under one roof.

Heritage Open Days celebrate creativity

Heritage Open Days return from 8 to 17 September with thousands of free events and experiences.

From historic houses to factories, museums to music halls, formal gardens to graveyards, places, spaces and communities across the country will again host hundreds of free events this autumn.

There will be plenty of free interactive activities for children including dressing up, craft, woodland walks and railway rides, all based around this year’s theme, Creativity Unwrapped, sharing England’s colourful history of creativity.

The festival will celebrate the experts and enthusiastic amateurs whose passions and skills add something special to our daily lives.

New events will be added to the festival directory every day. www.heritageopendays.org.uk

Join The Rock Project to learn music the fun way!

Gone are the days of kids sitting in their bedroom learning an instrument from an online tutorial.

At The Rock Project our sociable, interactive sessions encourage children aged between 7-11 & 11-18 to learn music through songs they know in small groups and then play in a band, ready for a huge gig for family and friends in July!

Not only do we increase our student’s knowledge and skill in music, but our sessions are also fantastic for boosting self-esteem and confidence whilst making like-minded friends! We teach bass, guitar, drums, and vocals to students of any ability! No instrument? Use ours! Limited spaces available.

For more information, get in touch today! www.therockproject.com/croydon

NHS 111 service to offer paediatric advice

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Back to school at The Belfry

From school uniforms and coats to stationery supplies, trendy backpacks, smart shoes and sports trainers, you’ll find everything you need to get your children ready for the new school year at the Belfry Shopping Centre.

With all your favourite high street shops under one roof, including M&S, Clarks, H&M Kids, JD Sports, New Look, Trespass, WHSmith, Waterstones and more, the Belfry scores an A+ for convenience and great value on your back to school essentials.

Easy and affordable parking in the Centre’s award-winning car park helps to make for an efficient, stress-free shopping experience too. And, with your back-to-school checklist sorted, there might even be time to enjoy some after-shopping family fun at the Belfry’s exciting children’s soft-play area too! Find out more at www.redhillbelfry.co.uk

Patients are set to receive an enhanced NHS 111 service offering increased access to specialist paediatric advice for children as part of a new, recently announced blueprint.

Parents and carers seeking health advice for children and young people using NHS 111 by phone or online will be offered specialist advice, including support from paediatric clinicians who can help them manage their child’s illness at home or decide the best route for their care.

This will see some children referred directly to a same-day appointment with a specialist rather than attending A&E, avoiding hundreds of unnecessary hospital admissions.

The new plans will see an increased number of clinicians, including retired staff and returners working in NHS 111 to provide the enhanced offer to patients.

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Ashtead Ballet School definitely stands out as one of the best.’

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Meet the Head

Banstead Prep is reputed to be a particularly happy school. Why do you think this is?

Our priority is that everyone feels comfortable being themselves and we celebrate our difference strengths, so everyone feels at ease. Keeping the children’s wellbeing at the heart of everything we do creates a community that is calm and happy.

What are your strengths as a leader?

The things I enjoy most about school are the people and the variety, so to be part of that I am as present as possible around our school every day. I try not to take myself too seriously, particularly around the children, so I would like to think that everyone sees me as someone they can approach anytime about anything.

How do you go about attracting and retaining high calibre teachers?

We are incredibly proud that in the last 3 years we have had exceptionally low staff turnover, so we have a consistent and happy group of professionals who enjoy their job. It has been humbling that for the second year running we had the highest staff satisfaction survey results of the the United Learning group.

How would you describe the ethos of Banstead Prep School?

Free to be ME! Everyone here can be themselves and knows they are valued and respected. We have 5 very simple beliefs that everyone aspires to achieve as much as possible. Be kind, be ready, be respectful, be safe, be yourself.

Making mistakes and overcoming challenges is part of life and our children are given space and opportunity to learn from these every day. Fundamentally, happy children flourish so we create a

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are out and about using the school facilities and being taught by our subject specialist teachers from the very beginning.

Whole school assemblies, watching older children perform on stage and interacting with their older buddies and playground leaders provides exposure to role models and an insight into what they can look forward to.

How does Banstead prep achieve such an outstanding record of achievement at 10+ and 11+?

fun and engaging learning environment where people are kind because this puts the children in the best possible place to make excellent academic progress at their own pace.

In what way does the school link with the local community?

Children visit local care homes including music and movement sessions for our nursery children with elderly residents. The whole school community is involved with charity collections for food banks and to provide clothing packs for children and a Christmas meal for the homeless. With these activities we feel we can make a tangible difference to members of our community and the children are able to see the positive impact of their actions.

How does the school’s early years provision give children a flavour of life in the prep school?

Our Nursery and Pre-school is an integral part of the school, so the younger children are already living the BPS experience every day. Having their own buildings and spaces gives them a secure base but they

We know our children and families and work closely with them through the journey from early years to senior school. We firmly believe that there is a school for each child rather than trying to make every child fit a certain school.

We’ve created strong relationships with senior schools – they trust our recommendations – so we know how best to prepare the children and guide their parents since we understand what makes each school special or different.

How do your personal values reflect those of the school?

I agree with the saying “In a world where you can be anything, be kind’’. As a fundamental principle for life, I think this is something everyone should aim for.

As a qualified mental health first aid instructor, I have had the privilege of training hundreds of school staff as mental health first aiders. Respecting and acknowledging that everyone has their own challenges and difficulties goes a long way to making the world a little bit better.

How do the facilities and location of the school enhance the curriculum and cocurricular offering?

We feel very fortunate to have such an incredible school site and experiencing our facilities makes the transition to senior school less daunting.

Children have fantastic opportunities to use the facilities in both lessons and co-curricular clubs. Not only do we make good use of them every day, but we share it with as many people, clubs, and schools as possible.

Our STEM centre, sport shall, dance studio, cookery room, art room, swimming pool, Astro pitches are always busy during the school day, evenings, and weekends!

To find out more about Banstead Prep, come along to the next Open Morning on 13 September or 17 October or see www.bansteadprep.com.

Families chats with Jon Chesworth BEd (Hons.), Head of Banstead Preparatory School in Banstead, Surrey.

Aberdour School

www.aberdourschool.co.uk

6 Oct

Banstead Prep

Banstead, SM7 3RA

Co–educational prep school, 2–11yrs www.bansteadprep.com

Open Morning: 13 Sep & 17 Oct

Cumnor House Schools

4 campuses on the outskirts of Croydon.

Boys, girls, nursery, 2–13 yrs

www.cumnorhouse.com

Kindergarten & Pre School:

16 Sep & 22 Sep

Girls: 19 Sep

Boys: 21 Sep

Elmhurst School for Boys and Little Elms Nursery

South Croydon, CR2 7DW

Independent day school for boys, 2–11 yrs

www.elmhurstschool.net

6 Oct

Essendene Lodge

Caterham, CR3 5PB

Co–education day school, 2–11 yrs

www.essendenelodge.co.uk

Lingfield College

www.lingfieldcollege.co.uk

23 Sep

Micklefield School www.micklefieldschool.co.uk

29 Sep

Royal Alexandra & Albert School www.raa-school.co.uk

23 Sep & 14 Oct

Royal Russell Junior School

www.royalrussell.co.uk

23 Sep

Seaton House School

www.seatonhouse.sutton.sch.uk

7 Oct

Belmont School

Dorking, RH5 6LH

Co-educational independent day and boarding school, 3–16 yrs

www.belmont-school.org

Senior School: 29 Sep & 10 Nov

The Mews: 3 Oct Prep School: 3 Nov

Caterham School www.caterhamschool.co.uk

23 Sep

City of London Freeman’s www.clfs.surrey.sch.uk

23 Sep

Croydon High School

Croydon CR2 8YB

Independent girls’ day school, 3–18 yrs

www.croydonhigh.gdst.net

7 Oct

Downsend Schools

Leatherhead, Ashtead & Epsom

Co–educational independent day school, 6 mths-16 yrs

www.downsend.co.uk

22 Sep

30 Sep & 29 Nov

Ewell Castle Junior and Senior

Ewell, KT17 2AW

Co-educational day school, 3–18 yrs

www.ewellcastle.co.uk

Sixth Form: 21 Sep

Whole School: 23 & 25 Sep

Hazelwood School www.hazelwoodschool.co.uk

Sutton High, Nursery and Juniors

www.suttonhigh.gdst.net

23 Sep

The Hawthorns School

Bletchingley, RH1 4QJ

Co-educational day school, 6 mths-13 yrs

www.hawthorns.com

Ark Pre-school (3-4 yrs): 6 Oct

Whole school: 24 Nov

Dunottar School

Reigate, RH2 7EL

Co-educational day school, 11-18 yrs

www.dunottarschool.com

12 & 21 Sep, 12 Oct, 21 Nov

Year 7 & 8: 13 Oct, 17 Nov Homefield Preparatory www.homefield.sutton.sch.uk

6 Oct Kingswood House School www.kingswoodhouse.org

23 Sep

Laleham Lea www.lalehamlea.co.uk

Open week: 25–29 Sep

Warlingham Park School

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Co-educational day school

Co-educational day school

Pupils 2-11 yrs

Pupils 2-11 yrs

www.www.warlinghamparkschool. com

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Meet the Head

Can you tell us a little about the history of Essendene Lodge?

Essendene Lodge Preparatory School is over 57 years old, initially started by Shirely Haydock with just 7 pupils. The school grew in size and popularity immensely over the decades. It has always provided an outstanding education within a competitive fee structure. In 2019 the school joined the Inspired Learning Group.

What do you particularly enjoy about working at Essendene Lodge?

I love the community feel and I firmly believe our smallness is the secret to our success. I am very proud of our academic record, but I am equally proud of the hidden curriculum we offer through extra-curricular clubs, wrap around care, holiday scheme specialist teaching and instilling a love of learning in all pupils.

How would the students from Essendene Lodge describe you?

Well, it was only recently the governors asked our pupils the same question and children described me as kind, wise, caring, compassionate and honest. When comparing me to an animal the answers were more interesting such as:

• A bird – as she flies above us looking after her fledglings (the pupils).

• A tiger/lion – because she cares for her cubs but can be fierce when she needs to be.

• An owl – because she is very wise and remembers everything, but stays and looks after her family, but will be firm when she needs to be.

What have you been most proud of since being Headteacher at Essendene Lodge?

I have been the headteacher for 12 years and I am proud of many things, but I am

particularly proud of how our pupils leave our school at the end of Year 6 – happy, confident and fulfilled.

I am also proud of the culture of our school where children feel supported and motivated in a nurturing environment, an environment that promotes wellbeing, respect, inclusivity, and a sense of belonging.

What are the qualities of a great teacher?

A great teacher is many things but a teacher that establishes a connection with their pupils, knows their every need whilst engaging them in learning is key.

Teachers have the ability inspire and foster intellectual growth. A genuine passion for teaching may seem like a cliché but it is more relevant than ever in igniting curiosity.

An outstanding teacher offers guidance and support to help pupils overcome their own challenges. They are often role models empowering pupils to have sense of self- worth in a rapidly changing world but of course they also must put an emphasis on having fun!

Could you tell us a little bit more about what happens outside the classroom. What extracurricular activities are on offer?

Our clubs range from art and craft to sports such as boxercise, football, multi skills to the creative arts like drama and choir. We also offer coding, STEM and Spanish club – something for everyone.

How do you think a head can make a real difference to an individual pupil?

Ethical and Moral Development: As a head teacher, you have the opportunity to instil in pupils a strong sense of ethics, empathy, and social responsibility. By promoting values such as integrity, compassion, respect, and tolerance, you help shape children’s character and contribute to the development of responsible citizens who positively impact society.

What is your biggest challenge at present?

Keeping up with technology in this fastpaced world. At Essendene we’re proud that all our teachers are Apple certified; through a qualification our teachers know how best to incorporate technology into the curriculum to enhance learning. Who inspired you to teach?

The desire to educate came from a young age as I personally felt empowered by my own teachers who believed in me and wanted me to succeed. They served as good role models and inspired me to pursue my own goals.

I am now more impassioned about the education of girls in third world countries as our school is partnered with a school in Malawi. We fund many girls to complete their secondary school education. Not bad for a small school like Essendene Lodge!

What did you want to be when you grew up?

An air stewardess. My dream was always to fly the world and see as much of this wonderful planet as I could! It seems like such a glamourous job.

What is your most useless skill?

Any skill that we don’t need, or use can be deemed useless, and it can be easily confused with something we are not good at! If I were to make a choice, it would need to something that others are not offended by so I guess the ability to hold my breath underwater for a long time!

Find out more about Essendene Lodge at their next Open Day on Saturday 30 September or Thursday 23 November or visit www.essendenelodge.co.uk.

Families chats with Mrs Kishwar Ali, Head of Essendene Lodge in Caterham, Surrey

We believe that children have different learning styles and therefore Warlingham Park School provides a learning experience that encompasses a wide and varied curriculum where opportunities to thrive abound.

‘Learning To Grow’ is a phrase that sums up our education and focuses on the skills that children need to learn for the next steps of their education and beyond.

Do you have a child in year 5 or 6?

AE Publications is passionate about children’s numeracy and helping them achieve their full potential.

If your child is in year 5 or year 6, do you really know how well they are doing in maths? Well, AE Publications’ FREE online maths test will show you. Their test covers all the main subject areas of the maths curriculum for this age group. It is crucial that your child’s numeracy is strong enough for their transition to secondary school, otherwise they will struggle not only in maths but also in other subjects such as physics, chemistry, IT and design technology which all require a good understanding of numerical elements.

AE Publications’ free online maths test comprises thirty questions and is designed to give you accurate information about the current level of your child’s maths ability.

Depending on their performance, the result will also trigger recommendations and suggestions as to how AE Publications’ maths materials can help your child improve in year 5 or year 6.

To take their free online maths test, go to www.aepublications. co.uk

After your child has taken the test, you will be sent a link to view a video of a fully UK-qualified teacher working through the answers and the correct methodology.

There is no need to provide an email address to access the free test and receive your child’s percentage score. An email address is only required should you wish to view a full breakdown of the questions your child has answered and to also receive further information, including a link to the explanation video and a coupon code to redeem against a FREE Maths Bonus Pack (includes a Times Tables Workbook 2 RRP £9.99) when purchasing an AE Publications KS2 Maths Year 5/6 Book Bundle.

For over twenty years, AE Publications has been supporting children to improve their English and maths skills and offers a range of ‘how-to’ workbooks, test books and test packs, all rigorously classroom-tested, which help your child improve their educational attainment.

The workbooks contain stepped-out examples with full explanations. The test books will reinforce your child’s technique and knowledge and the test packs should be used for final exam preparation. The methodologies have been successfully used in AE Tuition classes for over thirty years and are also used by a large number of tutors across the country.

AE Publications’ SATs Maths series and Times Tables series are dedicated to ensuring every child has a sound understanding of numeracy skills.

More info at www.aepublications.co.uk

Active, happy young learners at Ewell Castle Nursery & Reception

Ewell Castle provide a calm and caring environment for young children, where they feel safe and develop a sense of belonging.

They have fun as they learn and develop in a well-planned and organised environment, which offers stimulating and rich play opportunities, encourages independence, and supports young children’s own efforts and achievements.

As active, happy young learners, children enjoy playing and exploring both indoors and outdoors. Through a broad range of planned teaching, child initiated and adult led experiences that include forest school, music and sport, we encourage our children to become enthusiastic and motivated learners who are confident in developing their ideas and following their individual interests.

Please email admissions@ewellcastle.co.uk for more information or book online to attend an open event at www.ewellcastle.co.uk

Achievement through happiness at Belmont School

Nestled in the Surrey Hills on its own private estate in Holmbury St Mary, Belmont School provides a wellrounded and pastorally strong education for boys and girls from Early Years to GCSE.

Over the last year, the school’s facilities have increased substantially with new Art Studios, Photography Department, Well-being Centre, Senior Classrooms, Black Box for Drama, Dance and Performing Arts, Astro and Junior Library.

Belmont provides an academic curriculum enriched by sport, performing arts, visual arts and other cultural and creative opportunities. According to its latest inspection report: ‘Pupils are able to make strong progress due to small class sizes throughout the school, ensuring they receive much personal attention during lessons. Pupils of all abilities make progress.’ ISI Inspection Report 2022

To find out more, please visit www.belmont-school.org

Guiding your child through the roller coaster of emotions

Emotions are like waves that ebb and flow through our lives, carrying with them a rich tapestry of thoughts and experiences. For children, understanding, navigating, and expressing these emotional currents can sometimes feel like a roller coaster ride. Helping your child comprehend what emotions are and how to express them positively is a crucial aspect of their emotional development.

It is essential to create an environment where emotions are welcomed and discussed openly. Encourage your child to express their feelings without judgment or criticism. By validating their emotions, you provide a safe space for them to explore and learn about what they are experiencing.

Start this process by explaining that emotions are natural responses to the experiences and thoughts we have. Talking about your own emotions is a wonderful way to open the door for them to share too. One effective way to discuss emotions is to compare them to vibrations in the body, for instance, you can describe happiness as a warm, bubbly feeling and sadness as a heavy sensation. This approach helps children associate physical sensations with emotional states, making it easier for them to identify and label their feelings.

Really emphasising the idea that emotions are like signposts that guide us in making decisions can help children understand that they serve a purpose. You can try explaining that just as road signs help us navigate while driving, emotions help us navigate life’s choices. When your child understands that emotions convey important messages about their needs and preferences, they’ll be more motivated to decode and respond thoughtfully.

Teaching simple techniques that children can use as ‘positive outs’ to express their emotions is a fundamental part of supporting emotional regulation and literacy. Art, journaling, or storytelling can provide creative outlets for them to communicate their feelings. Additionally, practising deep breathing or meditation can help regulate overwhelming emotions and create a sense of calm.

Guiding your child through the journey of emotions requires patience, understanding, and open communication takes practice. By framing emotions as bodily vibrations and essential signposts, you empower your child to decipher and respond to their feelings effectively. Creating a supportive atmosphere and offering tools for positive expression equips them with valuable life skills that will serve them well into adulthood. Remember, you’re not just helping them manage emotions; you’re setting the foundation for a resilient and emotionally intelligent future.

Within SPD’s ‘©The Behaviour Balance System’ we often support Families and educators in setting up ‘©Balance Baskets’ that support ‘positive outs.’ For more information and to receive your free Balance Basket suggestion list, please email spdinfo360@gmail.com.

Learning to grow – a new approach at Warlingham Park School

Warlingham Park School believe that like adults, children have different learning styles, and provide a learning experience that stretches a wide and varied curriculum with opportunities to thrive abound.

‘Learning to grow’ is a phrase that sums up their education and focuses on the skills that children need to learn for the next steps of their education and beyond.

Warlingham Park School are delighted to invite the community to their ‘Fun in the Forest’ event on Saturday 23rd September from 9.30-11am. Join them in the extensive grounds for woodland based activities and see their ethos for yourself.

Please pre-book online: www.warlinghamparkschool.com

Starting nursery a significant transition for young ones

The team at Godstone Farm Day Nursery and Pre-School have some pointers to aid in this process of settling your little one into the new routine of nursery life.

1. Stay positive: Exude positivity when dropping off your child, boosting their confidence and reducing anxiety.

2. Gradual departure: If parting is tough, consider a gradual approach. Begin with brief stays, progressively extending your absence.

3. Maintain communication: Keep nursery staff informed about your child’s progress and milestone at home, as well as their interests and passions, so that your child’s key worker can integrate these things into their day.

4. Be patient and empathetic: acclimatization might take time and tears. Remember, every child is unique, and a good nursery team will collaborate with you for a tailored, joyous nursery experience.

More info: www.godstonefarmdaynursery.co.uk

St. John’s Nursery has so much on offer

St. John’s Nursery is a charity and committee-run day nursery in the heart of Redhill.

Being a charity means that any profit goes back into the nursery, to make it better for the children. The committee, which is made up of parents, who work with the staff ensuring that the highest level of care and education is offered to each child, an ideal setting for your child’s early years journey.

For children aged 2-5, we have so much on offer! We have a range of playrooms including a DT room, as well as a separate cloakroom, with a spacious 1000 sq ft garden. We offer flexible hours, with morning and afternoon sessions. We run term-time but do have holiday clubs at Easter and in the summer.

More info: www.stjohnsnurserygroup.co.uk

Looking for an exciting and rewarding job opportunity?

Birdhurst Nursery is a popular and growing registered day nursery in South Croydon, run by Christian Family Concern.

Recently rated GOOD by Ofsted, we are recruiting Early Years Educators to meet the demands of this busy setting and join our friendly and diverse team.

All applicants must have the appropriate childcare qualifications, as well as experience of working with the 0–5 age group.

Find out more at www.christianfamilyconcern.org.uk

Brand new Hawthorns Nursery opening September 2023

The Hawthorns School in Bletchingley is renowned for providing an outstanding prep school education and are incredibly excited to be building upon the success of their Nursery classes to provide a specially created, full-day, yearround nursery for children aged 6 months to 4 years.

Their vision is simple, to nurture your child’s natural curiosity to discover and explore in a safe, secure and vibrant learning environment where purposeful play is always the order of the day. Their experienced staff will guide your child in their learning through a broad range of engaging activities based around their interests and passions. Children at The Hawthorns Nursery benefit from use of the school’s facilities and specialist sessions in Music, Forest School, Dance and PE.

Book your visit at www.hawthorns.com

Croydon High Junior Bee Club

Croydon High Junior Bee Club took immense pride in presenting Headteacher, Ms Davies, with Croydon High’s very first jar of honey. The girls have played a crucial role in caring and maintaining our two healthy colonies. Regular inspections and management of each hive ensure the bees are disease free and productive.

Before the girls could taste any honey, they had to prepare frames by removing the capping from the cells and placing them in a spinning extractor drum.

Centrifugal force draws honey out of the combs and drips into a reservoir. The honey is then filtered before jarring. More info: www.croydonhigh.gdst.net

Over 90% of children get first choice primary school

Over 90% of primary school children were accepted into their first-choice school. Similarly, more than 80% of secondary school pupils obtained their top choice.

Recently released data shows that nearly all children in England, 98.6%, received an offer to one of their preferred choices for primary school in 2023, while 95.6% of secondary school applicants also received a preferred choice according to recently released government data on applications and offers.

However, the proportion of secondary school applicants who received an offer for their first preference school experienced a slight decrease of 0.7 percentage points to 82.6%. This decline follows a 2.2 percentage point increase observed in 2022.

More info: www.bit.ly/DfEOffers

Parent survey at Elmhurst School for Boys says it all

“I am impressed by how intentional the teachers and staff are. It’s very much like a family.” Elmhurst Parent Survey 2023

The Early Years is often the first experience of being part of the Elmhurst school community, so Elmhurst School understands how important it is to make it an enjoyable one. From invitations to parent coffee mornings to new starter meetings and starter packs, the team works hard to make joining Elmhurst a great experience.

Elmhurst boys leave to join excellent local state and independent schools, often with scholarships, as confident young men who have an understanding of their brilliance thanks to the challenging but nurturing environment Elmhurst School for Boys offer.

More info: www.elmhurstschool.net

Celebrating different learning styles

By Lisa Wander and Catherine Loble

Just as none of us look the same, everyone is born with tendencies towards certain learning styles when developing literacy, language and motor skills. Recognising your child’s learning style is important in understanding how they access their learning, particularly if they appear to be struggling in certain areas.

Visual learners rely on what they see. Encourage them to use visual aids, sit at the front of the class and write down or draw information.

Kinesthetic learners learn best through doing and moving. They benefit from using tools, acting out or role-playing new information and having freedom of movement.

Auditory learners learn best through hearing and listening. Engage in discussions about what they are learning, read stories out loud and repeat information.

Solitary learners absorb information independently of other people. Let them make notes and recite back, provide quiet learning spaces and give opportunities for sharing their learning. Verbal learners respond well to written or spoken words. Play word games, use rhymes, acronyms and mnemonics, read their writing aloud, encourage discussion and debate. Logical learners use logic and structures in order to learn effectively. Provide problem-solving tasks, challenge them to work things out for themselves and have them verbalise ideas and answers.

Identifying your child’s learning style

Observe how your child naturally interacts with the world around them and also note weaknesses: what types of tasks do they find challenging?

Watch how your child expresses themselves. Children will be more expressive through their natural learning style. Auditory learners express themselves best through words whilst visual learners are more apt to reveal their emotions through facial expressions. Kinesthetic learners use more body language and may seem unable to stop themselves fidgeting.

Consider your child’s interests. These will likely reflect their learning styles. Auditory learners usually show an interest in music and sounds. Visual learners often have interests both in reading, watching TV and looking at interesting objects. With kinesthetic learners, look for an interest in physical activities.

See how your child solves problems. Children lean into their learning styles. Auditory learners tend to talk through and discuss possible solutions whilst visual learners use their eyes to solve problems. Kinesthetic learners will usually try to solve problems with their hands.

Lisa and Catherine are co-founders of Emparenting (www.emparenting.co.uk), supporting children, parents and families with the insights, skills and tools needed to nurture the development and well-being of the next generation.

Why different learning styles?

While the information people receive might be the same, each of our brains processes information differently, influenced by several factors, one of which is learning style.

Your child’s tendencies and preferences for learning can be influenced by peers, cultures, age, their own experiences and available educational materials. What works for one child doesn’t necessarily work for the next.

Understanding the preferred styles of different learners can greatly impact their successes in the classroom as well as contributing to their own sense of personal development and achievement.

With the help of observant parents and teachers, children can benefit from understanding and engaging their natural tendencies. But, it is a rare child who solely works best with one style alone. By understanding and practising a range of different learning styles, a child will have a bigger ‘toolbox’ to call on, finding a combination that enhances their ability to understand, recall and use the information they learn.

Brand New Nursery

Opening from September 2023

Specially created for children aged 6 months to 4 years 7.15am to 6.00pm, 50 weeks of the year

Where children learn through play and adventure, wrapped in Hawthorns happiness, warmth

Open Events

Birdhurst Day Nursery

Birdhurst Day Nursery is run by Christian Family Concern, a registered Charity Founded in 1893.

At Birdhurst Day Nursery we care for children aged between 3 months – 5 years and follow the government’s Early Years Foundation stage curriculum, enabling every child to progress.

Our Christian values underpin our outlook, ethos and the care given to everyone that comes through our doors.

We offer:

• Open 51 weeks of the year (except bank holidays) 8am–6pm

• Child initiated learning encouraged

• Daily updates via Family App

• Large fully equipped garden with forest school area

• Sensory room

• Weekly extracurricular activities

• Fully qualified staff with regular training

• Freshly cooked meals prepared by our onsite Chef

Nature Inspired Halloween Crafts

As the kaleidoscope of autumn shades slowly take over the landscape, go exploring with your children and collect an array of di erent natural materials of all di erent shapes, sizes, colours and textures. You will be amazed at what you can create with the bounty of autumn.

Once you have all your materials, set them out on a table along with some basic craft items and create something spooky with your children.

Leaf Garlands/Puppets

Pinecone Creations

Pinecones are a must have for any natural Halloween creature creation station. Let your creativity go wild and make some wicked witches, spooky bats and spiders or some pinecone ghosts!

www.mandapandaprojects.com

Twig Skeletons

Make your own chilling skeleton using all sorts of di erent natural materials. Your options are limitless. Twigs are perfect for legs, arms, a spine, and a ribcage. Leaves make a great collar bones pelvis. Catkins work for fingers and toes, while conkers are great for kneecaps and elbows and eye socket.

www.mudandbloom.com

Ghosts, ghouls, and gremlins. Leaf puppet are an adorable, easy and simple craft activity for children of all ages. You could put on your own spooky Halloween puppet show. With a bit of creativity, the idea is very adaptable. Create some leaf garlands for an ecothemed Halloween party.

Halloween

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Branch and Twig Broomsticks

This simple, yet impressive craft idea is a Halloween must for any little witch. Use a long branch for the broom handle, a handful of thin and bendy twigs for the brush and some string or wire to tie it all together.

www.realsimple.com

Stick Spider Web

Gather a few sticks and some wool/string and decorate your house and garden with these nature inspired spider webs. They’re spine chillingly creepy and make the perfect home for your pinecone spider.

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Monster Rocks

Create your own selection of spooky monster rocks characters and tell spooky takes using your own designs.

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What’s On

All listings are correct at the time of publication. Please check with the venue before you visit in case anything has changed.

LOCAL EVENTS

Autumn Amble, Self-Guided Trail Winkworth Arboretum, GU8 4AD www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Grab your wellington boots and cosy coats and visit Winkworth for its highlight event of the year. To get the most from your visit, pick up an Autumn Amble trail sheet from the kiosk.

Every Fri Trails and Tales

Gatton Park, Reigate, RH2 0TW www.gattonpark.co.uk

Enjoy the story and go for a walk in the park to bring the story to life. Return to create artwork linked to the story.

Every Mon, Term Time Only Park Explorers Morden Hall Park www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Children aged 2-5 years old and their parents/carers. Children and adults learn together about the natural world around them with outdoor activities based in the grounds of Morden Hall Park. £5 per child. First come, first served with no pre-booking.

9, 16, 10, 17 Sep

Heritage Open Days for Leith Hill Leith Hill Tower and Leith Hill Place, RH5 6LU www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ surrey/leith-hill

Climb Leith Hill Tower, the highest point in South East England, and enjoy views from the coast to the London skyline. There will also be live music playing on the Sundays. Free.

9 Sep–2 Oct

Sculpture in the Garden Hatchlands Park, GU4 7RT www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Exhibiting at Hatchlands Park for the first time, the Oxford Sculptors Group will be displaying artworks in a variety of media including stone, metal, wood, glass and resin.

10 Sep

FeastyFest

Cheam Park Sutton

www.feastyfest.co.uk

A great day out for all the family.

16 Sep

Ewell History Day

Bourne Hall, KT17 1UF

www.epsom-ewell.gov.uk

The living history display is filled with replica and reconstructed objects from the Bronze Age. This

display will be especially valuable for children who are studying prehistory in school.

16 Sep

Wonder Dusk Box Hill, KT20 7LB www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Join a community picnic and celebrate the beautiful landscape of the Surrey Hills with music and arts. Free, but booking recommended.

16 Sep

River Wey Festival

Dapdune Wharf, GU1 4RR www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Soak up the atmosphere of the colourful River Wey festival in the heart of Guildford. Enjoy live music, browse the craft and food stalls, take part in family activities and relax by the river as the colourful illuminated pageant sails by. Free entry.

16 Sep

Family History Day

Epsom Library, KT19 8AQ www.epsom-ewell.gov.uk

Discover how to trace ancestors or your family. Please bring any documents or certificates that you may have.

16 Sep

Discover Historic Fetcham at Heritage Open Day www.fetchampark.co.uk

A visit to Fetcham Park invites you to experience a unique slice of Surrey’s hidden history. Discover the ingenuity and craftsmanship of three pioneers from the worlds of art, architecture and garden design who created the House in 1705.

16 Sep

Ewell Horticultural Association’s Autumn Show Blenheim High School, KT19 9BH www.ewellhortassn.co.uk

Everyone is welcome to enjoy the displays of autumn flowers at Ewell Horticultural Association’s Autumn Show. Refreshments, homemade cakes, stalls a raffle, and competitions that children can enter.

17 Sep

Apple Day

Addiscombe Park, CR0 6NE www.park.addiscombe.net

Celebrating the fruit harvest from the orchard. A free event suitable for all ages. Outside games for children.

23 Sep

Health and Wellbeing Fair

Rosebery Park, Epsom www.epsom-ewell.gov.uk

A fun interactive day for all the

Christmas at Hever Castle & Gardens

18 Nov to 1 Jan

www. hevercastle.co.uk

Spend quality time with loved ones and enjoy a seasonal experience to remember.

Wrap up warm and enjoy a walk under the stars to explore the grounds. Witness the enchantment of the Castle, gardens and lake festooned with fabulous colours and twinkling lights, capturing the spirit of Christmas. Bring torches and pop on your wellies to see Hever Castle’s much-loved gardens lit up with glorious colour washes, spectacular illuminations and music.

In the Castle you will be met with beautiful traditionally decorated rooms, welcoming log fires and twinkling Christmas trees.

family with stalls and local groups giving talks, demonstrations and performances. FREE.

23 Sep

Surrey Hills Artisan Market

Painshill, KT11 1JE www.painshill.co.uk

Browse handmade arts and crafts, sample locally made food and drink and meet a wide selection of exceptional artisans all based in the Surrey Hills.

1 Oct

Apple Day Gatton Park, RH2 0TW www.gattonpark.co.uk

Discover Gatton Park Orchard in the walled garden. Apple juicing demonstrations. Children’s themed trail and activities. Online booking. Children FREE.

7 Oct- 31 Oct

Halloween Trail at Discovery Land Priory Farm Estate, RH1 4EJ www.prioryfarm.co.uk

Join Priory Farm this October and immerse yourself in a world of spooky wonder, where families can embrace the thrill of Halloween while connecting with the captivating beauty of our natural world.

7 Oct

Apple Pressing Day

Leith Hill Tower and Leith Hill Place, RH5 6LU www.nationaltrust.org.uk

See our apples press in action at Leith Hill! Bring along your apples and take some freshly squeezed juice home with you. FREE. Car parking applies.

7 Oct-31 Oct

Pick Your Own Pumpkins Tractor & Trailer Rides Priory Farm Estate, RH1 4EJ www.prioryfarm.co.uk

14-29 Oct

Enchanted Claremont Claremont Landscape Garden, KT10 9JG www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Join Claremont’s Wandering Witch and her merry band of goblins, pixies

and other magickal creatures for an adventure trail around the garden. Living amongst the trees and shady corners, they often leave a clue or two behind that they’ve been around. Follow the trail and see what you discover.

21–24 Oct

The Prince & The Maid - Halloween Storytelling Penshurst Place & Gardens, Tonbridge, TN11 8DG www.penshurstplace.com

Come on in and enjoy a free hot chocolate (children only) as you take a seat and hear the tale of The Prince & The Maid!

21–29 Oct eek! Weeks London Wetland Centre Barnes www.wwt.org.uk

A fantastic, fun wildlife learning eek!sperience for all the family.

21–29 Oct

Spooktacular Half Term Fun RHS Garden Wisley GU23 6QB www.rhs.org.uk/gardens/wisley

Follow the fangtastic family trail around the garden this half term and look out for scary sights. Discover creepy crawlies and spooky stories with Halloween fun for all the family.

21–29 Oct

Air Heads Brooklands Museum, Weybridge KT13 0QN www.brooklandsmuseum.com

Have a fun family day out with a wide range of activities including: Build a Paper Aircraft Family Workshop for over 5s, Pedal Planes & Cars for under 5s, Activity Trail for young people aged 8–14. Costume Characters and Vintage Bus Rides.

21–29 Oct

The Great Potion CommotionGarden Trail Penshurst Place & Gardens, Tonbridge, TN11 8DG www.penshurstplace.com

The Witch from Hansel and Gretel is famous for her gingerbread home, but do you know how she came to

Low Bang Fireworks at Godstone Farm

27 & 28 Oct

www.godstonefarm.co.uk

Godstone Farm’s fantastic low bangs fireworks event takes place on Friday 27 and Saturday 28 October. With all the colour and sparkle, yet less noise, these fireworks are perfect for little or sensitive ears! Join in with the fun pre-show, dancing and games as you anticipate the main event. If you’re looking for a quieter option for fireworks in Surrey, this is a perfect idea. Admission to the low bangs fireworks event is strictly by pre-booked tickets only. A ticket can be purchased to combine a day out on the farm, or just to visit for the evening event.

live there? Legend says that after several failed attempts at kidnapping creatures for her potions, and their multiple escapes she assumed children would be easier to imprison. Come and see if you can find all the creatures that made their escape.

21–29 Oct

We’re Going On A Bear Hunt

Kew Gardens, Richmond

www.kew.org

Get ready to wiggle into your wellies and head off on an adorable adventure of discovery through Kew Gardens.

21–29 Oct

Weird and Wonderful Fungi Trail Runnymede and Ankerwycke, TW20 0AE www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Runnymede is home to over 500 weird and wonderful fungi species. Join us this October half term and discover more about our fungi on our free downloadable fungi trail. Download the trail from website.

21–29 Oct

Halloween Fun at Hever Hever Castle, TN8 7NG www. hevercastle.co.uk

Treat your little ones to a spinetingling visit to Hever Castle over the half-term break.

21–29 Oct

Autumn Magick at Winkworth Winkworth Arboretum, GU8 4AD www.nationaltrust.org.uk

This half term, come on an adventure with Willow and help her create a magickal potion to change the colour of the leaves. Follow the fun filled trail to find the ingredients for the enchanted potion and discover games and challenges along the way. Fungi Fun with Sarah Shepley What kind of slimy, surprising and spectacular fungi will you discover around Winkworth? Join our expert fungi spotter Sarah Shepley for this fun walk around the Arboretum. Visit website for further details/dates.

21–29 Oct

Wizards and Witches Week Bocketts Farm Park, KT22 9BS www.bockettsfarm.co.uk

Enjoy a full packed programme of fun and freaky activities this half term including a fun, spooky Quiz Trail and Reptile Roadshow, where you’ll get the chance to meet awesome creepy crawlies up close!

21–29 Oct

Halloween Trail

Hindhead Commons and the Devil’s Punch Bowl, GU26 6AB www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Steeped in myths and legend, Hindhead Commons and the Devil’s Punch Bowl is the perfect setting for Halloween fun. Pick up a sheet and explore the commons on our spooky half-term trail. No extra charge. Usual car parking charges apply.

23 Oct Forest Fun

Gatton Park, RH2 0TW www.gattonpark.co.uk

Meet in the Forest School area to explore Cedar Wood, make woodland crafts and enjoy a snack around the fire. Ages 2+.

23 & 24 Oct

Fantastic Beasts Halloween Trail Sutton Ecology Centre, SM5 3NY www.suttonbiodiversity.eventbrite. com

Meet real live scary beasts, scorpions, spiders and snakes, then brave the Halloween Trail to find more fantastic beasts and design your own fantastic beast to take home. Booking essential. Ages 3+. £5 per child + booking fee.

23–27 Oct

Hubert the Hedgehog’s Autumn Adventure Dapdune Wharf, GU1 4RR www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Take a trail round the island and discover how Hubert and his friends prepare for winter. Plus free craft activities.

25–26 Oct

Characters Through History

Arundel Castle, BN18 9AB www.arundelcastle.org

An opportunity to meet characters from the Castle’s history with a focus on the 12th Century, and in particular the first two sieges at the Castle. Meet a Crusader, Knight, Archer and Servants.

26 Oct

Autumn Colours Natural Art Gatton Park, RH2 0TW www.gattonpark.co.uk

Using natural materials from around the park to make amazing masterpieces. Booking essential. Ages 4–7.

28 Oct

Spooktacular Fun Run

Dapdune Wharf, GU1 4RR www.nationaltrust.org.uk

Dress up and run, walk or jog around our 2k course and encounter spooky surprises around a haunted Wharf and Island. The night run will start at 6.30pm but there will be lots to keep you entertained beforehand with children’s craft activities and storytelling. The café will also be open. £3. Booking advised.

29 Oct

Scary Grotto and the Graveyard

Addiscombe Park, CR0 6NE www.park.addiscombe.net

Fun for all the family in the park, lit by fairy lights. Search for Witches, Visit the Scary Grotto and the Graveyard.

29 Oct

Halloween Wizards and Witches

Gatton Park, RH2 0TW www.gattonpark.co.uk

Dare to join Gatton Park for their Halloween activities and a spooky trail around the grounds. Ideal for younger children.

Thu Afternoons

Belmont Explorers

Belmont School, RH5 6LH www.belmont-school.org

Belmont Explorers is aimed at parents and carers with children under 5 years old. Visitors join in with our indoor craft or cooking sessions or woodland activities in Belmont’s dedicated camp area equipped with tyre swings, a shelter, campfire and log seats. FREE.

Little Ivy’s Stay and Play

Croydon High School, CR2 8YB www.www.facebook.com/littleivys

Aimed at children from birth–4 who are accompanied by an adult. Lots of activities including music and movement, stories, and craft. £3 per child, which includes refreshments for adults and children.

Stay and Play at Cumnor House

Kindergarten & Pre-School, Purley www.cumnorhouse.com

October half-term fun

21-29 Oct, 10am-4pm

Find autumn adventures and spooky Halloween fun at a National Trust property near you!

Claremont Landscape Garden

Dapdune Wharf Hatchlands Park Hindhead Commons Polesden Lacey Winkworth Arboretum

Fri, 9.30am–11am

Toddle Time at Banstead Prep

Banstead, SM7 3RA

www.bansteadprep.com/nursery

A free weekly parent and toddler group featuring toys, activities and fun Led by Miss Compton, the Head of Early Years. Children aged 1-3.

Aimed at Kindergarten and Preschool age, but we welcome all children aged 1 and above. Join our Early Years team for an exciting morning filled with engaging activities and themed weeks, including messy play, singing, story time, and arts and crafts. Each session will take place from 9.30am to 10.30am and will include refreshments and a healthy snack. Enjoy the following themes:

26 Sep: Dino Day

10 Oct: Halloween Goals

14 Nov: Firework Science

5 Dec: Santa Paws

Spooktacular fun at RHS Garden Wisley

21 to 29 Oct www.rhs.org.uk/wisley/whats-on

From Saturday 21 October, families can follow the fangtastic family trail around the garden, looking out for scary sights. Discover creepy crawlies and spooky stories with Halloween fun for all. No booking required and normal garden admission applies.

Autumn is a wonderful time of year at RHS Garden Wisley, with an abundance of vibrant colour on display – look for vivid changes throughout the garden on acer, oak and beech trees.

Join the Wandering Witch and her merry band of magical folk as they prepare for their All Hallows’ Eve party! 14-29 Oct, 10am-3pm.

Mon-Fri, 11am-5pm. Follow Hubert the hedgehog’s trail and discover more about his hibernating friends. With free crafts.

Visit the haunted house and spooky parkland trail and see how many pumpkins you can spot hiding in the garden.

Steeped in myths and legends, follow the spooky trail around the Devil’s Punch Bowl.

Little People, BIG DREAMS® 9 Sep–29 Oct Exhibition and trail encouraging all children to be bold, be brave and dream big.

Follow the trail to help Willow the Witch find the special ingredients to create her magical potion.

nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/surrey

UNDER 5’S STAY AND PLAY SESSIONS. TERM TIME ONLY

Stay and Play at Little Elms Nursery

South Croydon, CR2 7DW

www.elmhurstschool.net

At Elmhurst, Mrs King and the Little Elms team will offer stay and play events throughout the year, giving you the chance to engage with your child’s learning, explore our educational environment, and connect with other parents within our school community. Free.

Fri 10.30am–12pm

Active Play at Hawthorns Sports Centre www.hawthorns.com

Fun activity stations designed to stimulate minds and encourage active bodies, with a baby area. Session’s end with a fun song time. Snacks and refreshments included. £3.50 (card payments only).

Fri 9am–10.15am

Parent & Toddler Forest School

www.hawthorns.com

Based in the Woodland Classroom, children enjoy a wide variety of outdoor activities such as bughunting, woodland crafts, games, camp fires and den building. Run by a qualified Teacher and Forest School Leader, children develop confidence and self-esteem through hands-on learning experiences in the wood. Ages 2-4. £6 per session. Pre-booking is essential: email: F.Tomlin@hawthorns.com

The Horton KT19 8NP www.thehortonepsom.org

13 Oct Short Stories Tall TalesAdventures of An Ugly Duckling

A live, sensory first theatre experience from Short Stories Tall Tales. 45 mins. Ages 0–5.

21 Oct

Journey To The Stars

Journey to the Stars is a marvellous blend of puppetry, storytelling, live music and comedy, sprinkled with astounding science and astronomy facts, and all contained within an accessible, funny and unique family show. Ages 4+.

Harlequin Theatre RH1 1NN

www.harlequintheatre.co.uk

11–14 Oct

The House with Chicken Legs

Based on the best-selling novel by Sophie Anderson, Marinka and her unusual house are brought to life with live music, puppetry and our quintessential Les Enfants Terribles flavour. Ages 9+.

26 Oct

Boogie Monsters: Haunted Halloween Party

Dress your little monsters in their best fancy dress and enjoy chart hits, action songs, singing, dancing and crazy confetti!

Epsom Playhouse KT18 5AL www.epsomplayhouse.co.uk

marrying technical skills with creative flair, to create an enhancing, unforgettable experience for all.

24 Sep

Swan Lake

Crown Ballet presents to you the most famous Ballet of all time. Swan Lake is one of Tchaikovsky’s best works, featuring some of ballet’s most memorable music and breathtaking dance.

5 Oct

Illusion Impossible

The Magical Spectacular! World speed illusionist Kayden Black and award winning magician Oliver Tabor highly acclaimed magical duo are The Glamourists.

Dorking Halls RH4 1SG www.dorkinghalls.co.uk

23 Oct

Dinosaur Adventure Live

‘The Greatest Prehistoric Show on Earth!’ 65 million years in the making... Are you ready for the adventure?

24 Oct

Kids Comedy Club

The Comedy Club 4 Kids gets the best stand-ups and sketch acts from the international circuit to do their thing for an audience of children and their families… but without the rude bits.

Polka Theatre SW19 1SB www.polkatheatre.com

29 Sep-8 Oct

the environment, featuring TheatreRites’ award-winning puppetry.

4–8 Oct

Wow! Said The Owl

Explore the wonderful world of colours with a curious little owl, who is determined to stay awake and see what day light brings. 2–5 yrs.

11–15 Oct

Nest

Two birds decide to make it their home and soon their cosy nest contains two very precious eggs. Filled with clowning, original song and beautiful shadow play, this highly physical show uses minimal language to tell a tale about taking care, discovering what’s important and learning how to fly. 3–7 yrs.

18–22 Oct

Under the Little Red Moon

This story for babies and their grown-ups begins with a red moon rising. But why is the moon red? Now it’s turned blue and it’s crying. Do the ladybirds know why? Perhaps the little pond can tell us? Or maybe the rabbits have the answers. Under the Little Red Moon explores the development of language with the help of music and movement. 6–25 months.

19–29 Oct

Oh No, George!

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23 Sep

Close Up Magic

The Close Up magic Show is a fascinating form of entertainment,

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Zoe’s Peculiar Journey Through Time

A time travelling adventure for ages 6-12. Join us in this magical tale exploring themes of friendship and

Adapted from the award-winning picture book by Chris Haughton, this brand new show for children aged 3+ uses acrobatics, slapstick comedy, Sign Supported English and live music to bring George’s joyful escapades to life.

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