Fairfield County Woman
November/December 2010
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Anya Kishinevsky, M.D. Excellence in Plastic Surgery with a Caring Touch
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Dr. Jeffrey Rosenthal
Valerie J. Fields
Rosenthal Cosmetic Surgery & Skin Care Center
Spirit of Woman Connect - How to Make Networking a Fruitful Experience
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Table of Contents Specialized Medical
A Signature Conceirge Physician Treating Patients, Not Just Symptoms....................5 Excellence in Plastic Surgery with a Caring Touch..................................................... 6-7 Severe Back or Leg Pain?............................................................................................8-9 Rosenthal Cosmetic Surgery & Skin Care Center....................................................10-11 Dr. Michael Belfoire Preventative Medicine & Aesthetics..........................................12
Health & Wellness
Feeling Stuck? Call a HynoCoach.................................................................................. 13 Train Your Brain?............................................................................................................ 13 There’s a Science to How we Move.............................................................................14 The Acu-Thin Program...................................................................................................14 Why Drink Purified Water?............................................................................................ 15
Automotive Detailing
3 Smart Reasons to ‘Detail’ This Fall............................................................................ 31
More Than Just A Meeting Place
Sports Center of Connecticut.......................................................................................32
Business to Business
LinkedIn for Business Part 3 of 3..................................................................................33 How a Website, Done Right, Can Give Your Business the Competitive Edge........... 34 Has Business Casual Gone Too Far?..............................................................................35 Last Minute Holiday Prep Ideas................................................................................... 36 Spirit of Woman Connect- How to Make Networking a Fruitful Experience.............37
Your Money Your Business
Dental Wellness
Dental Implants...An Amazing Answer to Restoring Missing Teeth.......................16-17
Daniel R. Kaufman, CPA............................................................................................... 38 What is in Your Counter? Easier Credit Card Processing............................................ 39
Home Health for Elderly
Radio Talk Show
Funding Options for Non-medical Home Care.............................................................18 The Importance of Planning Ahead.............................................................................19
About Us
Radio Talk Show Host Lisa Wexler.............................................................................. 40 The Failfield Museum and History Center Shop is a Treasure Quickly Being Discovered..................................................................................................................41
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Law Offices of Adele R. Jacobs, LLC............................................................................ 21
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Success Tutoring, LLC...................................................................................................22
Women in Profile................................................................................................23-26
What’s in at Intrigue Hair Salon....................................................................................42 Grooming to Go, LLC.................................................................................................... 43
Community
No Pearls Necessary: The Gloves are Off!................................................................... 44
Real Estate Professional
Special Events
Chris Carozza................................................................................................................ 45
Contractors With Integrity
Promote Your Business................................................................................................ 46
The Wedding Consortium.............................................................................................27 Veteran’s Window Washing......................................................................................... 28 Shut the Door, What do you Live in a Barn?............................................................... 29 Time to Remodel?......................................................................................................... 30
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Matthew C. Abourezk.................................................................................................. 47 Thinking Out Loud........................................................................................................ 48
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Dr. Sarah Mildred Gamble; A Signature Concierge Physician Treating Patients, Not Just Symptoms medical care to individuals seeking wellness and health. Signature Concierge Physicians was created for those particular individuals in our community who realize that their time is their most precious commodity. Signature Concierge Physicians is forwardthinking, up to date medical practice which is passionate about providing highly individualized concierge care. This intense level of attention ensures that her patients’ concerns are addressed properly the first time so that a fantastic outcome may result.
Who is Dr. Sarah Mildred Gamble?
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As a Greenwich native, Dr. Gamble knew that once her training was complete she would return home to practice pro-active, wellness focused internal medicine in Greenwich, CT. She completed her undergraduate studies at Taylor University in Upland, Indiana, and earned her Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine (D.O.) degree from the Kansas City University of Medicine and Biosciences, Kansas City, Missouri. Dr. Gamble completed her three year residency training program in Internal Medicine at Westchester Medical Center, in Valhalla, NY. There, she was recognized with numerous awards for her dedication to continuity of patient care, and outstanding contributions to medical education. Dr. Gamble served as a Hospitalist physician for the Stamford Hospital, Stamford, CT for three years specializing in the complex medical care of a hospitalized patient. She is a Clinical Instructor in the Department of Internal Medicine at the Stamford Hospital, a Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons affiliate, and served as the Assistant Program Director for Inpatient Teaching while there. Dr. Gamble is now at the leading edge of progressive health care with the opening of her Concierge Medical Practice in Greenwich, CT- Signature Concierge Physicians. She offers the highest quality personalized
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What is a Concierge Physician?
Concierge Medicine or boutique medicine is a unique cutting edge practice emerging across the country. It is a modern twist to the way medical care used to be practicedspecial, respectful, and in a relational manner. Concierge is a term used to describe a primary care practice in which the patient pays an annual fee or retainer to the physician. Signature Concierge Physicians is one such elite practice. With estimates of only 7,000 concierge physician practices in the US and growing, Dr. Gambles’ creation of Signature Concierge Physicians brings previously unprecedented access and services to the men and women of Greenwich. In exchange for a yearly retainer, concierge physicians provide enhanced delivery of care and exclusive additions to traditional medical services, including same day or next day appointments, extended 60 minute appointments, comprehensive wellness and preventative screenings, afterhour availability, and even house calls.
Dr. Sarah Mildred Gamble is a board certified Internal Medicine Physician who lives and practices in Southern Fairfield County. Dr. Gamble owns and operates Signature Concierge Physicians, a retainer based internal medicine practice located in Greenwich, CT. Signature Concierge Physicians was designed to provide patients who value highly personalized preventative care, immediate physician availability, and an ongoing relationship with a trusted doctorthe ability to access such unprecedented levels of service.
Dr. Gamble is considered to be one of our area’s most influential young physicians with her radical creation of Signature Concierge Physicians.
Because time is any physician’s most precious commodity, Concierge physicians care for fewer patients than in a conventional practice to be able to devote enough energy into promoting wellness in each patient’s life. Imagine having all this coordination of care and quality service for both you and your family. Because with Signature Concierge Physicians, house calls, and visits to your place of business are the norm, and if you need a medication Dr. Gamble will bring it TO you instead of sending you off to a pharmacy. Imagine coming into a doctor’s office and NOT having to wait in a waiting room with countless other people. As a patient of Signature Concierge Physicians, you will always be able to make a same day or next day appointment, including “after hours” and weekends if needed.
Concierge care means being able to contact your doctor 24/7/365 via cell phone, text messaging and email. At Signature Concierge Physicians, the pleasant, health-focused office staff will schedule each visit for a full 60 minutes. Imagine having a doctor that LISTENS to what you have to say instead of rushing you out the door. These extended visits are designed to provide and assist each patient with an individual health and wellness plan to keep you and yours healthy, by preventing the development of major chronic diseases, screening for possible future conditions, and intervening on acute medical issues. If needed, Dr. Gamble uses this time to accompany you to see specialists or come see you in the event you are hospitalized. What it comes down to is this…
Dr. Gamble looks at the individual’s entire situation, including work-life balance issues, stressors in the home, emotional well-being and numerous other factors that affect a patient’s overall health at each and every visit. Dr. Gamble is an up and coming authority on starting and maintaining a healthy sustainable lifestyle. She has an advanced degree in Plant-Based Nutrition from Cornell University, and is passionate about promoting organic, pro-active lifestyles. She has attracted a diverse clientele, including busy families, young individuals, and financial business organizations in the area. If you too know that time is your most precious commodity, and feel that health IS wealth- than call Signature Concierge Physicians today, so you can begin living a life worth living.
How important is your health and how valuable is your time? If both answers are high on the list of things that matter - like family, and career… and if you want to live this life to the fullest while minimizing your risk of future illness as much as possible- then this is practice for you.
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Excellence in Plastic Surgery with a Caring Touch What is a “Mommy Makeover?”
By: Anya Kishinevsky, M.D.
How can plastic surgery help me feel more confident and look younger for today’s competitive job market? Depending on a person’s individual needs, an eyelid lift, face or neck lift can go a long way towards softening the effects of aging. As the eyes are often described as “the windows to the soul,” removing a bit of excess, drooping skin and the loose fat that makes up the ‘bags”, whether above or below the eyes, often takes years off a man or woman’s appearance. Dark discoloration can be removed as well, all without leaving a visible scar. A face and neck lift is designed to clean up the jowls and excess around the neck, recreating a clean, tight jaw line. The scars are hidden within the hairline, so only your hairdresser will know. The result is a natural, rested appearance, without looking fake or “done.” The results often last for more than ten years without a touch-up. There are also minimally invasive approaches to a younger appearance with Botox, injectable fillers, or laser resurfacing.
past, breast reduction or lift surgery could only be preformed with In many cases, pregnancy and nurs- a large “anchor” scar consisting of ing take their toll on a woman’s body. vertical and horizontal incisions. Dr. Often, the skin of the abdomen los- Kishinevsky performs these surgeres elasticity, continues to sag after ies with a small vertical incision, also the pregnancy is over, and develops known as a “lollipop” scar, resultstretch marks that don’t go away. The ing in rounder, perkier breasts with skin of the breasts may lose its elas- fuller cleavage. Breast reduction ticity as well, wit permanent stretch surgery relieves long-standing back marks and drooping of the breasts. and shoulder pain by removing exThe nipples and areolae can become cess breast tissue but still achieving large and displaced. A “mommy make- a beautifully-shaped, lifted breast. over” is a popular procedure that com- Augmentation can be safely prebines a tummy tuck with a breast lift formed with saline or silicone imto restore the tight contours of the plants to increase the volume of the pre-pregnancy body. A tummy tuck rebreasts with the most natural texmoves excess abdominal skin, stretch ture and shape. During your consulmarks, and fat. It tightens the muscles tation, you will have the chance to of the abdominal wall and results in a examine and fell both silicone and flatter abdominal profile. A breast lift saline implants and to choose the removes excess skin and stretch marks style, size, and shape you feel the to recreate a more youthful, round, and perky breast. Not all stretch marks most comfortable with. can be removed - those below the belly button and closest to the nipple are taken away consistently.
How long do the results last? Surgery is not a substitute for a healthy lifestyle, including a good diet and exercise. The results are technically permanent but may be significantly diminished with major fluctuations in weight. Women who are planning a substantial weight loss or future pregnancies are advised to postpone surgery. Women who smoke should quit all nicotine products for two months before surgery to reduce the risks of surgery.
What if I Would Prefer Fuller or Smaller Breasts? A breast lift can be performed at the same time as a breast reduction or augmentation with an implant with no additional scarring. In the
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What are my options for reconstruction if I will be having a mastectomy or lumpectomy for breast cancer? In this day and age, there are so many options for women undergoing treatment for breast cancer to look and feel their best. There is no reason that any woman should be left with a defect or asymmetry. If a woman prefers reconstruction with her own tissues, the fat from the abdomen can be used to make a new breast with a TRAM flap. If a woman prefers a quicker recovery or a larger breast size, reconstruction with a saline or silicone implant may be a good option. A new technique that has been receiving a lot of attention lately is fat transfer for breast reconstruction. Liposuction is performed on the abdomen or thighs and the fat is saved and used to make a new breast or to fill a lumpectomy defect. Fat transfer is simpler and has a quicker recovery time than traditional breast
reconstruction and can be done several times to achieve a larger breast size. Also, if you have been considering breast reduction or breast lift surgery and you will be undergoing lumpectomy; your breast surgeon can work with your plastic surgeon to perform these procedures together. Our office will let you know if your insurance will cover breast reduction surgery.
What should I expect from my consultation? When you make an appointment to see Dr. Kishinevsky, you will be greeted by a friendly, caring staff. Your wait time will be short, in a pleasant, supportive environment. Dr. Kishinevsky will perform a thorough history and physical, then recommend the procedures that would best suit your needs. She will take the time to explain the surgery in detail and to answer all your questions. You will be able to view beforeand after pictures of different surgeries and to examine a sample of any implant to be used. For patients who are concerned with their privacy, we have a fully accredited operating suite, to ensure your safety and comfort. You will be able to speak with patients who have had the same procedures done. You will be able to relax and rest easy, knowing that your treatment will be in well-trained, caring, and experienced hands.
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SEVERE BACK OR LEG PAIN?
Local Doctors Explain How Disc Damage Occurs and What You Can Do to Repair and Heal the Damage Without Drugs or Surgery Dr. Risa Sloves practices with her husband, Dr. Mark Joachim at their office Associates in Family Chiropractic and Natural Health Care, P.C. located at 156 East Ave. in Norwalk, CT. Dr. Sloves has been helping infants, children and adults obtain optimal health through natural chiropractic and wellness care for over 20years and she is 1 of only 10 Chiropractic Physicians in Connecticut who is Board Certified in Pediatric and Maternity Care. Dr. Joachim is the first and only physician in CT with Advanced Certification in The BioSET Allergy Elimination Technique, a non-invasive, drug-free and shot-free health care method that can permanently eliminate food and environmental allergies. They also are trained in Spinal Decompression with the DRX9000 and acupuncture. Should you have further questions please contact the doctors at (203) 838-1555. More information is available at www.ctchiropractic.com, www.eliminate-my-allergies.com, or www. ctspinalpaincenter.com. By Dr. Risa Sloves “The treatments are very comfortable and relaxing. Its incredible! What a great alternative to surgery or painkillers.” Maria C. I heard of the DRX 9000 Spinal Decompression from a friend and was very interested in treatment because of severe low back pain. After having a lumbar MRI, I found out that my back was a real mess. I had an L5 disc herniation that was bulging to the left and the disc was also degenerating. I felt like I was being restrained due to the pain. I was not able to be active and I could not perform my regular work and home activities. In the past, I had tried occasional chiropractic care but the relief was temporary. I knew that there was no way I wanted back surgery. I started doing the DRX 9000 with Dr. Joachim and within about 5 visits I began to feel much less pain. Dr. Joachim and his staff were great and made me feel very comfortable. I would highly recommend this treatment to others. Don’t wait! Find out what is causing the problem and see if the DRX 9000 could help you. Dr. Joachim and his staff will explain everything in plain English. If the DRX9000 is for you-get it done. It will change your life!!! After doing the DRX 9000 treatment with Dr. Joachim I can honestly say I got my life back! Carlos F. According to the National Institutes of Health, about 40% of adults will have had back pain in the past month and approximately 85% will have back pain at some point in their lives. But, just because something like back pain is so common, it does
not mean there are not potential solutions out there for people who suffer. Not long ago, it was thought that it was muscles that caused the back pain…NOT TRUE! The latest studies on back pain indicate that the majority of cases are likely caused by damage to the discs and joints in your spine. The good news is that there is highly effective, non-invasive technology that can help both! So, to find out the best way to treat your low back, let’s review five commom back pain myths… Myth#1: Back pain goes away quickly- Typically, a patient would hurt his back, go see the M.D., get a prescription for some pain pills, and then never return so the MDs thought they were cured. But when studies decided to follow up with these patients, they found out that a whopping 75% of patients still had back pain a year later. Myth #2: Pills (NSAIDs and muscle relaxers) are safe and effective for your back pain- Taking this type of approach could lead to serious complications with your health. NSAIDs is an abbreviation for nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs. People with back problems generally suffer over many years
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and even decades. NSAIDs can cause bleeding in your stomach and intestines and lead to ulcers or kidney injury which increases with the number of pills consumed over years. Myth#3: Bed rest is good for you- Inactivity will actually make back pain much, much worse. It will de-condition your spinal muscles and make them weaker-which will mean more pain and less function for you. Myth#4: The pain is the problem- Pain is a signal that there is something wrong with your body. It’s kind of like a fire alarm. It’s not the fire. When a house is burning, do the firefighters just show up to cut the fire alarm wires and expect the inferno will stop? Of course not! But that’s just how many people approach back pain-cut the fire alarm (use a drug, shot, etc.). If you want to begin to solve your back problem, you need to determine the cause and treat it properly not just get rid of the pain. Myth #5: Age is not the primary cause of degeneration (arthritis)- We are often asked by patients, “Doctor how did this happen?” referring to damage discovered to the discs in the spine. Most have been told that age is the primary cause of the degeneration in their discs and joints and this is NOT TRUE! Age is a factor, but not the cause of it. When evaluating a patient’s MRI, we will often point out all of the normal discs in the patient’s spine in addition to the damaged disc(s). Now here is a question for you: Regardless of the patient’s age, why are some of the discs damaged and others normal? Aren’t the discs the same age? Of course they are. If age is the primary reason discs degenerate then they would all be degenerative since they are the same age. However, this is usually not the case. Usually it is just one or two damaged discs that are causing your pain. So what is the main reason why degenerative disc disease occurs? Well, the answer unfortunately is that you did not properly maintain your spine as you aged. During our lifetime we all have trauma to the spine: small things like strains from lifting or poor posture to major trauma such as car accidents. These injuries, although they may seem minor at the time, cause problems in muscles, ligaments, tendons, joints and/or discs and set the stage for future degenerative disc disease. The problem is that most people don’t have these minor injuries checked and they just wait for the pain to go away. The result is similar to never brushing and flossing your teeth…they will start to rot and decay. A rotting spine can
seriously ruin your life! The “sequence of events of degenerative disc disease” : When trauma around the spine occurs it causes abnormal motion between two spinal bones (vertebrae). The disc in between the two bones loses a lot of its blood supply after about age twenty and relies on normal motion to pump blood, oxygen and nutrients into the disc to stay healthy. A lack of normal motion results in dehydration and destruction of the disc. As the disc loses height, the pressure inside the disc increases and the disc starts to “bulge, herniate or extrude”. If it gets bad enough it will bulge against a nerve or the spinal cord which can cause even more debilitating pain, numbness, tingling, and muscle weakness. Also, as the disc height decreases, it causes the vertebrae to get closer which can “pinch” the nerves and cause the joints to rub together which causes arthritis. Once this degenerative process starts, it continues to spread to the joints and discs above and below and it causes Multi-Disc Level Degeneration. Remember-this process is due to motion dysfunction and it takes time to do all of this damage which is why it is often blamed on age. Age is a factor-NOT the main cause. Luckily, this process can be prevented, slowed, or even stopped depending on where in the process it is treated. And, many times, even spinal conditions with severe damage that were once thought to be surgical in nature, can at the very least be improved non-surgically with breakthrough technology in which we specialize. Almost 5 years later and I still don’t have pain in my back! “I am writing this thank you to Dr. Joachim. I have had back problems from my neck to my low back-spinal stenosis, arthritis, bone spurs, disc problems, etc. I have been a patient of Associates In Family Chiropractic for many years and have always been able to play golf several times a week, exercise daily, and commute into New York City to teach even though I am 75 years old. But, a few years ago, I had a fall and afterwards I began having significant spinal pain. Unfortunately, my usual treatments were not enough to keep me out of pain. I even convinced my wife to buy a new mattress for $1,500, but the back pain persisted. Dr. Joachim suggested that I have an MRI on my back to determine if I was a candidate for a new machine for spinal decompression called the DRX 9000. He explained that this was the best technology to actually heal my spine especially the discs and to take pressure off of my spinal nerves without the potentially severe side effects of drugs and surgery. Happily, I can say I am still pain-free for almost 5 yearss! I am able to get up each morning, do my exercises, swim onehalf mile 3 times a week and I play golf at least twice a week! Not bad for 75! I am grateful to Dr. Joachim for suggesting the DRX 9000-it was the best treatment I could have received and I have already recommended it to others!” Wallace S.
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Specialized Medical Did you know...A 2005 article in the prestigious orthopedic journal “Spine” studied patients who suffered with lower back pain and/or sciatica. Even thought 99% of the patients were told that they would get moderate or great improvement in their quality of life after the surgery, in reality 39% did not even have minimally significant improvement. AND…There’s actually a term called”Failed Back Surgery Syndrome.” The greatest risk factor for having a second back operation is having one in the first place. BUT there ARE emergency cases where surgery will be your only and best option such as when a disc compresses the nerves so badly in your lower back that you lose bowel or bladder function. It’s important to be aware of these types of emergencies, but 99% will never experience these. So, if bed-rest, drugs, injections, and surgery are not good options, what should you do for severe back or leg pain? A small fraction of the approximately 1,000,000 health care providers in the U.S. are using new technology with a treatment called Spinal Decompression and the device is called the DRX9000™ . Here’s what the DRX9000™ it looks like...
“My back pain was so bad that even simple things, such as getting dressed, putting on socks and tying shoes became very difficult. I would occasionally miss work due to pain and also gave up exercise all together. I relied on family members to help with dinner, laundry, cleaning, and shopping so I wouldn’t have to move. I have tried anti-inflammatories, physical therapy, and pain management specialist, none of which seemed to work. I was very afraid that I would need surgery, but then I saw an article about the DRX 9000. When I started treatments, I noticed a difference after my first session and I kept on feeling better. The DRX treatments were so comfortable and at times I was so relaxed that I would fall asleep. I have already recommended the DRX treatment to others. I tell people that the DRX treatments helped me tremendously and I am finally able to live a normal, pain-free life.” Robin W. This technology is giving many patients with low back pain a gentle, relaxing, non-invasive and non-surgical option. The DRX9000 succeeds by repositioning the disc, enlarging the disc space, and repairing and strengthening the disc structure. These dramatic disc improvements have
been demonstrated on patients’ pre- and posttreatment MRIs. The “DRX 9000” Works For… • Back pain and Sciatica • Herniated and/or bulging discs (single or multiple) • Degenerative disc disease • A relapse or failure following surgery (as long as there is no metal in the spine) • Stenosis and Facet syndromes Since every single patient’s case is different, it is important to remember that although you may have been diagnosed with one of the above conditions, you may not be a candidate for spinal decompression. In our office, we conduct a thorough consultation and examination, and review each patient’s x-rays and MRI reports. Even after review of these results, we may recommend additional testing such as a Bone Density study to rule out severe osteoporosis or extra x-rays of the low back to make sure the spine is completely stable. It is only after complete analysis of each patient’s examination findings and test results that we can make a clinical decision as to whether you may be a good candidate for this type of treatment. Patients who are pregnant,
patients with a history of cancer in the low back or pelvic region, a history of abdominal aneurysms, severe osteoporosis, or prior surgery with the implantation of metal screws, plates, etc. are those patients who would definitely not be candidates and who would therefore need to consider other options for low back pain treatment that we may be able to provide or else we would need to refer you to another physician. Until recently, the advice for many of you suffering with pain was to try: Stretching, physical therapy, pain medications, cortisone injections, back surgery or “live with it”. If you are like most, none of these have worked for you long term. Now, you owe it to yourself to not wait any longer! If you would like to schedule an appointment for a free screening o determine whether you are a candidate for spinal decompression please call Dr. Risa Sloves and Dr. Mark Joachim located at 156 East Avenue in Norwalk at (203) 838-1555. www.ctspinalpaincenter.com
“I had severe pain at my right hip going down my leg to the ankle, making going up the stairs painful and pain on rising from a seating position. I had to wait a few minutes before I could walk and when I took the first few steps it was very painful. At times I would have to go upstairs hanging on the railing with both feet on each step. I really did not know what the problem was until I had an x-ray and a MRI done. I had tried chiropractic treatments which helped to some degree, but then I saw an Ad in the newspaper about the DRX 9000. After 4 treatments, I noticed changes in my back pain. The treatments are very comfortable and relaxing. Its incredible! What a great alternative to surgery or painkillers.” Maria C.
ARE YOU LOOKING FOR NATURAL HEALTHCARE SOLUTIONS FOR YOUR FAMILY? Family based chiropractic care specializing in infants, children & pre and post-natal women For children research shows chiropractic helps: • Ear infections • Asthma and allergies • Scoliosis • Colic • Reflux • ADHA • Sports injuries • Torticollis
During pregnancy research shows chiropractic helps: • Eliminate back & pelvic pain • Sciatica • Headaches • Carpal tunnel syndrome • Help babies who are breech turn into a better position for delivery
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• 1 of only 10 chiropractic physicians in Connecticut with Board Certification in Pediatric and Maternity Care • 1 of 100 Chiropractic Physicians in the U.S. and Canada with a 3 year post-doctorate degree in pediatric and maternity care and she is certified in acupuncture
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• Dr. Mark Joachim is the first and only Doctor in Connecticut with advanced certification in BioSET, a new revolutionary technique for the permanent elimination of food and environmental allergies. He is a fellow of the International Academy of Medical Acupuncture. • Over 10 years experience as an Advanced BioSET Practitioner.
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Specialized Medical Rosenthal Cosmetic Surgery & Skin Care Center By Jeffrey S. Rosenthal, M.D. Board Certified Plastic Surgeon Sometime during middle age, most of us have that moment— the moment when we look in the mirror and ask “what happened?” We still feel young, but our faces tell a different story. We want our faces to project the youth that we feel internally.
Dr. Jeffrey Rosenthal is a oneof-a kind Plastic Surgeon, who was recently chosen as being the best Plastic Surgeon in Fairfield County. His uniqueness stems from taking the trust of his patients very seriously, and though the use of his consummate plastic surgical skills he maintains each patient’s personal identity during the rejuvenation process. Dr. Rosenthal is also a renowned artist who is a photographer, sculptor and painter. His work has been exhibited in museums and galleries in the U.S. and France. Dr. Rosenthal is Emeritus, Chief of Plastic Surgery at Bridgeport Hospital; he has lectured nationally and internationally and has appeared in magazine articles, radio and television. He has developed personal cosmetic surgical techniques over 25 years to yield a natural and revitalized appearance of the face and body, which will put the vitality and fire back in your life.
over a year. The results can be so remarkable that it is sometimes referred to as “a liquid face lift.” The manner in which Dr. Rosenthal uses these products is akin to sculpting a face. Merely filling in a line can leave an unnatural appearance; therefore, Dr. Rosenthal fills, lifts, and smoothes the surrounding facial tissues to support and restore a rejuvenated appearance. Dr. Rosenthal uses topical anesthetics and nerve blocks during the procedure to make the transformation painless.
There are non-invasive cosmetic procedures available that, in the hands of an experienced doctor, can help us maintain our personal identity while allowing us to look on the outside how we feel on the Another popular non-invasive reinside. This requires a great deal juvenating procedure is the use of surgical precision and artistry. of Botox to smooth out the upper face. Using Botox, Dr. Rosenthal Plastic surgery and art go hand can transform a tense and wrinin hand for Dr. Jeffrey Rosenthal, kled forehead into a smooth and who has exhibited his artwork both attractive one. He accomplishes nationally and internationally. Dr. this by balancing the many musRosenthal, chief of plastic surgery, cles in the upper face. When you emeritus, at Bridgeport Hospital, frown, your facial muscles are acis in private practice in Fairfield. tivated. Hence, the objective is to A plastic surgeon that specializes balance the muscles. Just as with in cosmetic rejuvenation, he com- a game of Tug of War, by restorpares the steadiness and precision ing an even pull on both sides of required as a plastic surgeon to a the rope, the tension is minimized. sculptor carefully carving a unique Tiny amounts of Botox are sejewel into a finished masterpiece. lectively placed in the forehead, “I love to create. Creativity is what around the outer lids and within I get joy from.” Rosenthal said. the corners of the brows to raise low-lying brows and open the apThere are many non-invasive pro- pearance of the eyes. This creates cedures that can be performed a rested appearance. with little or no downtime. Fillers like Juvederm smooth out lip lines Let us not forget your skin. Dr. and restore lost volume. These Rosenthal has professional skin revolutionary fillers are also placed care aestheticians on his staff that into the folds next to the mouth are trained to evaluate your facial and along the jaw to lift, smooth skin and individualize a regimen and fill wrinkles or contour hol- that will exfoliate, moisturize, prolow areas. Unlike past fillers, Ju- tect and renew the appearance of vederm is a naturally synthesized your skin, giving it a more youthful product that plumps up the skin appearance. and lasts from several months to
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One of our newest treatments is Echo2 Plus, an oxygen and vitamin therapy. This has been used by one of our aestheticians on Hollywood stars prior to the Oscars. You may not leave with a golden statue as they do, but your skin will look and feel Red Carpet ready. It is an excellent treatment that immediately rejuvenates the skin—perfect for any pre-special occasion in your life. Our skin care specialists have chosen a unique blend of skin care products that moisturize and lessen the look of lines and irregularities while activating the underlying collagen. Damage control with our anti-oxidant line will preserve the luminous look that we all strive for. These powerful products are medical strength and not available in department stores or spas. In addition to the noninvasive procedures, Dr. Rosenthal has built a reputation for his rejuvenating and natural looking surgical results. He has shown his expertise in facelifts, eyelid surgeries, rhinoplasties, abdominoplasties, breast surgeries, and liposuction. Be confident. Be comfortable with yourself. Beauty starts from within; let Dr. Rosenthal and his caring staff assist you in the process of improving and caring for your beauty!
140 Sherman Street Fairfield, Connecticut
203-335-3223
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osenthal Cosmetic Surgery & Skin Care Center
Say hello to an all new you this year! • Facelift • Eyelift • Browlift • Botox • Juvéderm • Liposuction • Tummy Tucks • Breast Surgeries • Ear and Nose Reshaping • Innovative Skin Care • Oxygen Facials • Peels • Microdermabrasion • Professionally Exclusive Products Complimentary Botox, Juvéderm, and Skincare Consultations Jeffrey S. Rosenthal, M.D. Board Certified Plastic Surgeon 140 Sherman Street. Fairfield CT 203 335-3223 artofplasticsurgery.com
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Specialized Medical Fairfield County Woman is please to introduce Dr. Michael Belfiore, specializing in Preventative Medicine and Aesthetics Dr. Michael Belfiore is an exceptional physician who provides up-scale preventative care to his patients. We consider him an noteworthy addition to our long list of high quality contributors.
Dr. Michael Belfiore Stamford, Connecticut 1-877-478-3223 www.1877GR8FACE.com 12 NOVEMBER/DECEMBER
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Feeling Stuck? Call a HypnoCoach
By Fern Tausig, CH In Ancient China there was a saying: “May you live in interesting times.” It was considered to be as much a curse as anything. But sometimes the most difficult times are the most interesting and often the most rewarding. They challenge us, they test us, and occasionally they can even bring out the best in us. It all depends on how you choose to see your challenges.
The times we are living in are nothing if not interesting. Interesting, however, can also feel overwhelming, confusing, paralyzing…and even stuck! We have so many decisions to make and we perceive that we have either too many, or not enough choices. Wouldn’t it be nice to have an objective partner to guide you through your interesting times? Wouldn’t you like a nonjudgmental skilled partner to help you to clarify your goals and challenges? Traditional therapy used to be the only option. But in 2010 you have better, more effective choice. Most traditional therapy focuses on one problem area or issue at a time. It also primarily focuses on the past and analyzing the cause of the problem. Ten years ago using a life coach was barely an option. Now life coaching has evolved to a whole new art form that includes hypnosis. HypnoCoaching is the most direct way to move your life forward to the next level. We all have challenges in our lives where we feel temporarily unable to think clearly, make decisions, unable to find the energy to feel satisfied or feel joy. We just feel stuck!
Coaching focuses on the client from the present and emphasizes moving forward. Coaching does not diagnose, treat or cure mental or emotional problems and is not a substitute for other professional help. Coaching works with the client as a whole being and helps you regain control of your life. No one would consider taking up a sport without using a coach to learn the skills, strategies and rules of the game to perform to the best of your ability. Life can be seen as a similar challenge sometimes. You want help to develop and refine your best life skills to compete and excel in your world to reach your goals. Unlike sports, the rules and goals keep changing, requiring new strategies and different kinds of strengths to move forward. The blending of hypnosis, life coaching skills and neuro-linguistic tools help you to achieve more than you ever thought possible. The results are easier, quicker and more effective than personal coaching alone. It is the best remedy for feeling stuck! HypnoCoaching includes the use of both conscious and subconscious processes to help you transform your dreams into reality. The process includes helping you clarify your goals, creating
action plans and commitments and overcoming obstacles. You will actually move forward toward achieving and fulfilling the life of your choice. Often the HypnoCoach’s most challenging task is to help you imagine and define what your fulfilled life looks like. HypnoCoaching is more affordable than both traditional hypnosis and traditional therapy. HypnoCoaching is done on the phone, except when a face-to-face hypnosis session is needed. You don’t need to leave your home; you just need to make time, usually 30 minutes a week. Hypnosis CD’s are created for you and provided as part of the service. HypnoCoaching is appropriate for anyone who has experienced the inability to feel satisfied in his or her life, anyone in transition, or anyone who recognizes that what he or she have been doing so far to manage their life is not working for them. For a free phone consult, or for any questions about HypnoCoaching, call me at 203 283 4567 or email me at myHealingHypnosis@ gmail.com.
Train Your Brain? How would you like to learn how to use self-hypnosis and other mind-expanding techniques to become the person you’re meant to be with less effort and greater success? Hypnosis is the fastest way known to change your life. What If you could learn how to be your own hypnotist? What if you could reprogram your own brain? If you can learn to drive a car or use the telephone you can learn how to program your mind to make your dreams come true! You were taught how to read, write, add numbers, use your phone, drive your car, and many other essential living skills but until now… you haven’t had the opportunity to learn how to program yourself for happiness or success. You weren’t given the instruction manual on how to use your mind but that’s exactly what you will learn in this workshop! Have you ever wondered what keeps you from being happier or more successful? A lot
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has to do with the choices you’ve made based on what you believe about yourself. Your choices are a reflection of your beliefs and your thinking. If you’ve tried dieting and failed it’s because you’re programmed to believe that losing weight is harder than staying the same. You’ve tried will power and that works for a few days but then your subconscious mind programming takes over and your will power is useless. What if there is a better way to make lasting change that was easier, more automatic, and more effective than anything else you’ve been taught? There is a better way to be successful. It’s learning how to program your mind to turn your dreams into reality. In the Train Your Brain – Live Your Dream interactive workshop you will learn: How the human mind works- for and against you. You’ll learn how you became programmed— and how to change your negative, selflimiting programs. You will learn how to rid yourself of unwanted habits by using mind empowering techniques to live life on your
terms. At last, you’ll be empowered to take control of your life and create your own destiny. The result is that you’ll be able to create a compelling future, automatically, and experience incredible breakthroughs in every area of your life. This program has been taught to people from all walks of life – busy executives, housewives, students, teachers, nurses, police officers, people just like you who want to live a fuller, happier, better life. Learn how the human mind works and how to make it work better for you! In January my partner, Dan LaRosa, and I will be offering the inspiring and motivating TRAIN YOUR BRAIN-LIVE YOUR DREAM Interactive Workshop. For over 30 years Dan LaRosa has gained respect throughout the world as America’s Motivational Hypnotist. His self-improvement workshops have been presented throughout the United States, Europe, the Caribbean, and most recently on the aircraft carrier USS NIMITZ for military
personnel returning from the Persian Gulf. LaRosa has taught thousands of people how to banish unwanted habits, reduce stress, and increase personal power through his motivating and empowering workshops. Dan is a certified master hypnotist and instructor, and an honored member of the National Guild of Hypnotists.For more information or to reserve a seat at this amazing workshop, contact Fern Tausig at 203 283 4567 email at myHealingHypnosis@ gmail.com. or Dan LaRosa at danLaRosa@ aol.com
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There’s a science to how we move. lead the client right into an injured state. Now let’s talk about the actual application of science to a training program. Stating with the kinetic chain. Kinetic means force(s). Chain refers to a system that is linked together or connected. The Kinetic chain is made up of the Nervous, Muscular and Skeletal systems.
By Debbie Brooks of Fitness Solutions In order to evaluate human movement as a fitness professional one must first understand the inner workings of the body. For this reason it is important to understand that science plays a pivotal role in developing a training program. Without the application of science a program design can lose focus, and actually hinder clients from reaching their goals and can
Nervous system uses its sensory ability to sense changes in both internal and external environments. It uses integrative ability to analyze and interpret that sensory information to produce the appropriate response. The motor response is the neuromuscular response to the sensory information
It is the resting ground for the muscles. Our bones are connected by muscles and joints (connective tissue). All these components work together to manipulate human movement. Without the proper function of all components of the Kinetic chain, the desired movement is affected.
The muscular system--Made up of individual muscle fibers that attach to bones by way of the tendons.
The kinetic chain, also known as The “human movement system” controls every single movement from walking to Running to sprinting and all things in between. Movement is a virtue when it comes to the quality of human life. Therefore when developing a training program it is imperative to understand the proper functions of all the systems that make up the kinetic chain in order to develop an effective and efficient comprehensive program specific to the individuals needs.
The Skeletal System is the framework for structure and movement in our bodies.
A 180 pound woman is structured differently then a 130 pound woman and vise
versa. Without understanding the intricacies involved in human movement it is virtually impossible as a fitness professional to assist either of the above differing women with their weight loss/health and fitness goals successfully. Understanding proper function also allows the fitness professional to provide optimal program designs for rehabilitation and injury prevention. There a science to how we move. Therefore when developing a comprehensive, Integrated effective and efficient training program the fitness professional must take into consideration the proper biomechanical functions within all of the systems of the kinetic chain. The days of grouping together a series of exercises that lack in function will soon be null and void. We are entering an era of the optimization of training Methods. And we have our work cut out for us.
Dr. Guerin introduces...
ACU-THIN program
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Weight loss without diet drugs or exercise
The ACU-THIN program is a system of weight loss based on the principle of auriculotherapy (ear acupuncture) used to decrease the desire for food. It is done with needles or done without needles. This program has been shown to be effective for several years in our office without increasing exercise or by involving extreme changes in diet. Results are usually noticed quickly and loss of appetite can be immediate.
For Complimentary Consultation call and ask for Jess or Jolly Dr. Patrick J. Guerin D.C., F.I.A.M.A 256 Post Road East Westport, CT 06880 203-227-4474 • www.acuthin.com
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Why Drink Purified Water? Americans are thinking greener now than ever before. Consumers are demanding earth-friendly products. Retailers and manufacturers have responded to those demands by investing in environmentally-conscious initiatives. The groundswell is building. According to a recent study, more than 84 percent of Americans believe it is a “moral obligation” to care for the environment, and 86 percent already participate in at least one green activity such as conserving energy in the home, recycling, driving a fuel-efficient car or buying recycled products (the study was conducted by Insight Research Group in partnership with HGTV and the Natural Resources Defense Council). Green topics aren’t a fad, they’re here to stay. Americans aren’t just paying lip service to the eco movement, they’re committed to it. When asked what motivated them to go green, respondents in the same study said “it’s good for the environment” (82 percent), “it helps future generations” (78 percent), “it’s the right thing to do” (78 percent) and “it fits with my morals or beliefs” (73 percent).
Marketing Corporation. Unfortunately most bottled water is consumed away from home, usually at a park or in an office, places where there usually no means of recycling. PCS Pure Water, based out of Cromwell, CT offers a hydration solution that not only has a lower carbon footprint than bottled water, it is also a healthier alternative than bottled or tap water. Utilizing Stainless Steel Tanks and a Self Sanitizing System the Wellsys Hydration Systems remove Bacteria from your drinking water. With easy installation, this system is simply a no-brainer. The 5 Filter ( 9 Stage) Purification Process offers the purest water without the hassle of a water cooler. The first step in a Wellsys system is to remove particles such as dirt, soil,
rust and pipe residue, also known as sediment. The filter then moves to the second step and removes all chlorine, chemicals and pesticides from the water. Step three is to remove all metal, solids, arsenic, lead copper and mercury steel. Step four involves balancing all PH levels in the water while eliminating bacteria and adding Oxidants, Calcium and Magnesium. Lastly, the filter assures the cleanest, freshest, healthiest, best tasting water possible....all from your own water line. So why wait and spend more money, creating a giant waste with water bottles, when you can call PCS Pure Water? They guarantee you can Save Time, Save Energy, Save Money. Lower your Carbon Footprint. Increase Sanitation, while boosting your Immunization. Call today.
WHY HYDRATE YOUR OFFICE? Proper Hydration The average adult loses around two quarts of water or approximately one percent of their body weight everyday. If you are active you’ll lose even more. Optimum Health 75% of Americans and 90% of the World’s population are chronically dehydrated leading to a host of potentially preventable ailments. Ideal Productivity Drinking sufficient water is critical for our health and maintaining good performance on the job.
And yet, despite the fact that Americans are committed to ‘being green’ and recycling, plastic bottles are beginning to pile up as mountains of waste. “Bottle water is the single largest growth area among all beverages, that includes alcohol, juices and soft drinks. Per capita consumption has double over the last decade” according to the Beverage
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Dental Implants ... An amazing answer to restoring missing teeth By: Ann E. Hogan, DDS Oral wellness as we see it It is my strong belief that Oral Wellness is an experience which makes life enjoyable and interestingly colorful. It is a feeling which has tenets of oral health, harmony and esthetique appeal. I feel committed to bring this experience to my patients. I am here to share the Esthetique Dentistry philosophy of Oral Wellness in these series of articles. In this article I will be discussing the role of dental implants as pillars of oral wellness when someone is missing teeth. Understanding Facial structures It is a marvel of nature that our body maintains its structural viability because of the functions it performs. Dr Melvin Moss one of the famous anatomists theorized that ‘Form and function go hand in hand’ If function is lost - form is lost. This, we see in everyday changes in our body. If someone has a fracture, and a cast is placed - inability to function makes the bone, the muscles and the joint weak and small. When function is restored the form of bone is regained. Our
jaws and our face are analogous to this. If someone is missing teeth from childhood, there is loss of mastication or function and jaw fails to form or grow. In a child, first the facial bones develop, and then the teeth develop. Eruption of teeth bring growth of the jaws and in essence give our face the architectural form – the well defined chin, the high cheek bones with well supported lips. If teeth are lost due to disease or trauma the scaffolding is lost and obviously function is lost as well. This loss of function leads to loss of form – the face becomes smaller in height, sunken at the cheeks and the robustness of chin is no more there. Anatomically speaking the soft tissue or skin that forms the drape around the bony structure becomes lax and sallow. Nevertheless, if bony structure is preserved, or function is restored the general architecture is regained. Loss of teeth and the implications Teeth are there for much more than just having a pretty smile. The loss of teeth compromises ones ability to eat fruits, vegetables and other healthy foods, which are such an important part of one’s diet. This loss of function causes further bone loss and eventual deterioration of the jaw structure. This not only causes immediate problems with eating, but has serious effects on speech, facial muscle support, and other basic facial activities like smiling. Further, because each tooth is supported by those around it, missing teeth can weaken the overall structure of the mouth, causing additional tooth loss or injury that may worsen with time. Eventually, the remaining teeth in the jaw shift in an attempt to fill in the gap left by a missing tooth. The resulting crooked teeth can cause serious bite problems, gum disease, periodontal loss - in affect changing the total harmony and balance of the face. Restoring missing teeth - the options There are many options available to replace missing teeth, including fixed bridges on natural teeth, full and partial removable dentures, and implant supported teeth. Dentures have progressed a long way since ivory prosthetics but many people with missing teeth are still looking for a better solution. The most beneficial and most permanent treatments are dental implants that support a replacement tooth or multiple teeth. A dental implant is an artificial tooth root that is placed into the jawbone. It is made of titanium which is highly biocompatible. Most of hip and knee replacements are made of this metal. The dental implants acts like a post to which a tooth or a bridge work is attached or anchored to. While high-tech in nature, dental implants are actually more tooth-saving than traditional bridgework, since implants do not rely on neighboring teeth for support.
Dental implants are so natural-looking and feeling, that you may forget you ever lost a tooth. You know that your confidence about your teeth affects how you feel about yourself, both personally and professionally. Perhaps you hide your smile because of spaces from missing teeth. Maybe your dentures don’t feel secure. Perhaps you have difficulty chewing. If you are missing one or more teeth and would like to smile, speak and eat again with comfort and confidence, there is good news! Dental implants are teeth that can look and feel just like your own! Under proper conditions and diligent patient maintenance, implants can last a lifetime. Long-term studies continue to show improving success rates for implants. Why dental implants are being considered the standard of care for missing teeth Dental implants have become the modern day standard of care for the replacement of teeth because dental implants allow a missing tooth (or teeth) to be restored to optimum function and appearance without invading, damaging , or taking undue support from any other natural teeth or tissues. If you are missing teeth, you want a solution that is as close to your natural teeth as possible. That is why dental implants are the best alternative to dentures and bridges. Rather than resting on the gum line and causing constant irritation like removable dentures, or using adjacent teeth as anchors like fixed bridges, dental implants are long-term replacements that we surgically place in the jawbone. When a tooth is lost, the bone in the area naturally resorbs in that area causing problems in the future. With today’s technology the patient is ideally treated by crowns, bridges or dentures that are supported by dental implants, avoiding any compromise to the other teeth and providing optimum long-term strength and stability to support your bone and facial muscles. On top of this, placing implants in areas where there are no teeth, the bone area is stimulated again and this prevents long term bone loss in that area. This technique is so effective that many patients who choose an implant dentistry option report that their replacement teeth are indistinguishable in both appearance and function from their natural teeth. What factors should be considered before dental implant placement In most cases, anyone healthy enough to undergo a routine dental extraction or oral surgery can be considered for a dental implant. Patients should have healthy gums and enough bone to hold the implant. They also must be committed to good oral hygiene and regular dental visits. Heavy smokers, people suffering from uncontrolled chronic disorders - such as diabetes or heart disease - or patients who have had radiation therapy to the head/neck area need to be evaluated on an individual basis. Is bone grafting always needed for dental implants – why CT scan can be helpful Not always, but sometimes when a dental implant is placed, it is necessary to build up the bone in the area to insure success. The procedure of building up the bone is known as bone grafting. Bone grafting is a very common procedure in dentistry and it is used quite a bit for dental implants and in periodontal procedures around natural teeth. When the amount or quality of bone is in question, a CT scan (computed tomography); also called cone beam computed tomography or CBCT is used preoperatively to accu-
rately determine the bone quality, quantity and to pinpoint vital structures of the patient’s anatomy. CBCT allows us to create a surgical guide, which allows our surgeon to accurately angle the implant into the ideal space, increasing success rates and decreasing post-operative healing time,. Can missing teeth be replaced in a day with dental implants In today’s time, many times this is possible. When the original dental implant was developed in 1968 it was erroneously thought that implants needed to be covered over by gum tissue during the healing phase necessitating two surgical procedures. It was also believed that the teeth for the implants could not be fabricated until it was in place for a minimum of 4 to 8 months following placement. This allowed for the bone to heal for a sufficient time, in order for it to support the teeth. The inconvenience of this technique, especially in esthetic areas of the mouth was that it necessitated the wearing of removable dentures during this prolonged period of time, many times for as long as a year. It was found after extensive research that in many situations this waiting period for tooth fabrication was an unnecessary inconvenience for the patient, not to mention the emotional trauma associated with the wearing of removable dentures over a prolonged period of time. The concept of immediate use of dental implants (immediate loading) for fabrication of teeth not only eliminates this emotional stigma, but also eliminates the need for a second surgical procedure. The success rate when in the appropriate situation is the same as conventional two surgery implant therapy. In some instances, it is still indicated to leave the implants untouched until complete osseointegration; however immediate loading is becoming more widely accepted. Can all missing teeth be replaced with fixed teeth? If you someone is missing all teeth, an implant-supported full bridge or full denture can replace them. Dental implants will replace both the lost natural teeth and some of the roots. In addition to looking and functioning like natural teeth, implant-supported full bridges or dentures are designed to be long lasting. Implant-supported full bridges and dentures also are more comfortable and stable than conventional dentures, allowing one to retain a more natural biting and chewing capacity. The teeth are fabricated without any coverage of the roof of the mouth, which every patient likes as this gives a better ability to taste food. Further there are procedures which could be carried out in a day. Like full set of teeth in a day. In the long term, implants can be more esthetic and easier to maintain than conventional dentures. The loss of bone that accompanies conventional dentures leads to recession of the jawbone and a collapsed, unattractive smile. Conventional dentures make it difficult to eat certain foods. Dental implants prevent this further loss of bone. Do dental implants help in maintaining harmony of the facial structures Absolutely. Implant-supported full bridges and dentures will replace some of tooth roots and thereby better preserve the bone. Conventional dentures obtain retention by friction, or by coverage of gums.
At Esthetique Dentistry we practice the old fashioned art of caring for our patients in a state of the art environment … Ann E. Hogan, DDS
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Dental Wellness There are no anchors available. The forces of mastication are detrimental since they just produce tortional forces which lead to bone loss. In comparison, dental implants integrate with jaw bone, form anchors, and transmit forces of mastication to bone. This force is compressive in nature and leads to bone stimulation and many times to growth of new bone and thereby maintaining the harmony of facial structures. Is Pain and discomfort associated with dental implants? The actual procedure to surgically place a dental implant can be done under local anesthesia and is generally not at all painful. When the anesthesia wears off about three or four hours later, you might expect some discomfort. The level of discomfort is quite different from patient to patient, but most patients do not have significant problems. What is the Success rate of dental implants? Dental implant success is related to operator skill, quality and quantity of the bone available at the site, underlying health issues and the patient’s oral health. . The consensus is that implants carry a success rate of around 95%. Smoking, uncontrolled diabetes, use of bisphosphonate medications and many other diseases affect the overall success of implants. How do dental implants form future anchors for total dental reconstruction? As we grow older, there is always the chance of things not going the way we would have wanted them to, especially if someone is prone to loosing natural teeth because of disease or trauma. It is advisable for such individuals to weigh their options at the time of restoring the first missing tooth. Options could be to get a bridge or an implant. A bridge will take support from adjacent teeth. If something was to happen to that adjacent tooth the whole bride is rendered useless. Then a longer bridge has to be made after extraction of the second tooth and this process could go on for next many years as more teeth are lost. On the other hand if an implant was placed in the first place, it will prove to be useful to support future prosthesis if adjacent teeth were to be lost. In an extreme case, if someone had lost all teeth over period of time and had 4 – 8 successful implant restorations, will have enough support from these implants to fabricate a full fixed or removable prosthesis. All the time and money spent over the period of time will turn out to be synergistic at that time rather than a wasted effort, as it could turn out with bridges constructed and supported on teeth. Further the bony architecture would have been saved which is lost with fabrication of teeth retained bridges or with dentures.
volved teeth as well as any additional work the dentist must do. For example bone grafting or other special procedures would incur more expense. Nevertheless, it is prudent to see the long term financial implications when replacing missing teeth. While the total cost for a single-tooth implant isn’t much more than that for a small fixed bridge. In a bridge, if the supporting teeth were to be lost, the bridge becomes useless and all the monies invested are wasted. On the other hand the implant restoration will remain there as supporting components for future prosthesis and act like an investment, which can build upon. Does dental insurance cover dental implants? Dental insurance coverage depends on the individual policy. As implants are increasingly accepted as standard of care to replace missing teeth, more and more dental insurances are covering implant surgery and restorations. Does Medical insurance cover dental implants? Coverage under your medical plan may be possible, depending on the insurance plan and/or cause of tooth loss. Loss of teeth due to trauma, or due to underlying medical problems can sometimes be covered by medical insurances. In some cases, if tooth loss and inability to function with dentures is resulting in malnutrition or contributing to other medical complications, it is possible for medical insurances to cover dental implant reconstructions.
ate staff. You wait time will be short, in a pleasant, supportive environment. We are a team of dedicated and competent general dentists and dental specialists devoted to empowering you on a journey to oral and dental wellness and overall health. We offer a full range of services, including several typically not offered in dental practices including Cosmetic dentistry, Implant dentistry, and orthodontics. And, you can relax knowing that your treatment will be in well-trained, caring and experienced hands. We believe that the first consultation appointment is the basis of achieving and maintaining oral health. At this appointment, once you have been acquainted with our office and with our team, we will first take a thorough medical history, complete series of radiographs and photographs of your face and the mouth. Once these diagnostics are completed, a detailed head, neck and oral examination will lay the foundation for your optimized oral health. We will take however much time is needed to explain in detail our findings, and will be very happy to answer all of your questions. If after your thorough exam it is determined that implant restorations are best to meet your needs, we will make further appointments to carry out the steps to reconstructing your missing teeth which we feel will be the pillars to experience the Oral wellness.
What should I expect from my consultation at Esthetique Dentistry? Whether it’s replacing one or multiple teeth, we here at Esthetique Dentistry are here to give you all of your options to help you make a wellinformed decision that works best for you. When you make an appointment at Esthetique Dentistry, you will be greeted by a friendly, compassion-
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“I can’t find words to express my deepest appreciation for my implants. After years of bridges to longer bridges and eventual dentures, my bone was deteriorating and my dentures were continually rocking and giving me problems. After I was told that I couldn’t have implants done because my bone had resorbed too much, I felt so hopeless. Thank you for making what I was told impossible, POSSIBLE. “ EJH- Lake George “The two things I remember most about my dental implants are how fast and painless the procedure was, and how completely normal I felt the next morning. Now that the crown has been attached to my implant, it feels and looks like my original tooth.” JP- Stamford “I was tired of my dentures always slipping. It was embarrassing and I was uncomfortable talking and eating with others. Adhesives were difficult to use and they never seemed to work. Dr. Hogan suggested dental implants to stabilize my denture two years ago when she first met me, and this year I finally went through with it. The surgeon at Esthetique Dentistry had a wonderful personality that matched his skill and competence. The procedure was easy and now my dentures stay in place no matter where I am or what I eat. Thank you so much.” EE- Stamford
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Home Health for Elderly
Funding Options for Non-medical Home Care Pre-Crisis Planning is Essential Ideally, the co-planning with the individual(s) should take place years in advance of the need while they can express their preferences. An executable plan using 100 years of age as a planning horizon and reviewed yearly for changes in your and theirs circumstances, should be put in place. This should be done while the parent can lead or assist in the evaluation of alternatives. Linda Ziac’s The Caregiver Resource Center website, caregiverresourcecenter.com, is a strong resource for tips on how to begin the dialogue, understand what a comprehensive plan entails, and provides thoughts, approaches, and other resources for both developing and executing the plan. Article 3 of 3 By Marie Diaz (Co-owner, Senior Helpers Lower and Upper Coastal Fairfield County) Most of Us Will Face the Challenge Caring for an elderly family member is a reality most us will face. As of April, 2009, six out of ten U.S. families have a relative or friend needing long term care. That year there were 36 million seniors living in the U.S. with the senior population expected to double. “Aging in Place in America,” a commissioned survey conducted by independent research company Prince Market Research, indicated that seniors fear moving into a nursing home and losing their independence more than they fear death. An overwhelming majority, 89%, wants to age without having to move from their homes, and yet more than half are concerned about their ability to do so. Today you and your parent have more options available than ever before. When physical capabilities diminish, many seniors opt to be cared for in the comfort of their own home by a personal caregiver. Home care is considered by many to be one of the most desirable options because it allows senior to maintain their independence while remaining in the one place where they feel most comfortable. A personal caregiver can provide non-medical help with daily living tasks including meal preparation, light housekeeping, pet/plant care, errands & transportations services, and companionship. Many providers also offer additional non-medical services including assistance with daily living tasks such as bathing, dressing, and eating. In-home care can be of benefit across a wide spectrum of circumstances. Some families choose to engage Senior Helpers for a family member for special events such as weddings and graduations to ensure the parent can comfortably participate and leave early if desired. Weekend or holiday respite care is available. Sometimes in-home caregivers are engaged when the primary family caregiver needs to periodically travel for work or vacations. On an on-going basis, service can be arranged for from a few hours a week to 24 hour care provided in shifts or by a live-in. Engaged effectively, professional in-home caregivers can help the primary family caregiver remain productive and sustain an enjoyable relationship with their parent. Still, there is nothing easy about assisting elderly parents in aging-in-place. In addition to missed work due to the health needs of an elderly family member and emotional strain, 50% of primary family caregivers communicated managing a parent’s care was a financial strain on them.
Funding Options While many people are unaware of the resources available to them in the continuum of care, an equal or greater number misunderstand how the cost of care is funded. Senior Helpers receives many calls from care recipients and their families who believe Medicare will fund all types of care. In reality, only skilled care is funded by Medicare. 90% of long-term is non-skilled care and delivered in the home. The underestimation of these costs and who will ultimately provide care often create devastating consequences for families. In addition to personal savings and non-insurance investments, long-term care insurance, viatical life insurance settlements, reverse mortgages, the veterans administration, and state/local programs are financing options to evaluate. If you are in the planning stages and long-term care insurance is not in place, one of the first calls should be to determine if your parent(s) might still qualify. The role of long-term care insurance is becoming increasing viable in retirement planning to hedge against the costs of a significant long-term care scenario. Thomas Smith, 203-352-3916 - tsmith21@snet.net, a local independent financial advisor in Darien, CT states “Long-term care costs can destroy an otherwise well thought out retirement plan. Current costs can easily exceed a million dollars or more for conditions such as Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s Diseases. Long-term care insurance should be viewed as an asset, a highly leveraged asset that specifically addresses the costs of care. Recent product developments include models that give flexibility in how much leverage is created and the potential for return of premiums if the insured dies before using all the available benefit. Thus, the intentions of the retirement plan assets are not compromised and objectives such as quality of life for the recipient and the surviving spouse and family, charitable initiatives and beneficiary distributions have greater certainty of being fulfilled as desired in the original plan.” Should long-term care insurance not be an option but, the care recipient owns a life insurance policy an alternative to investigate is a viatical (accelerated benefits) life insurance settlement whereby the policy is sold for a lump sum cash payment. This a complex and potentially high cost transaction for which we are not advocating. But, your agent/broker, insurance claims department, and the state insurance commission could be contacted for information. A Reverse Mortgage is another financing alternative if your parent has equity in their home. A “reverse” mortgage is a loan against your home that you do not have to pay back for as long as you live there. With a reverse mortgage, you can turn the value of your home into cash without having to move or to repay the loan each month. These funds can then be used to pay for home care.
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Kathryn Freda, a Reverse Mortgage Consultant for Webster Bank with 15 years of reverse mortgage experience, conveys, “Due to consumer misconceptions (i.e., that borrowers lose ownership of their homes) combined with the traditionally high closing costs, acceptance of reverse mortgages can be less than optimal. The potential to help older adults remain in their home far exceeds the number of people actually taking out the loan and, therefore, improving the quality of their lives.” Ms. Freda added, “The cost of obtaining a reverse mortgage has come down substantially. In many cases, there are virtually no lender fees associated with this product any longer. In addition, HUD just announced the Saver loan, which allows older homeowners to borrow less and also pay far less in closings costs.” Aside from the insurance and reverse mortgage options if your parent is a veteran of the U.S. military, home care benefits through the Veterans Administration should be explored. One potential benefit is the Veteran’s Aid and Attendance Benefit. Many veterans and their families are unaware that wartime Veterans and their surviving spouses may be eligible for a monthly benefit, currently ranging from $1,056-$1,949 per month, which can be used for home care. Certain qualification criteria apply, including: • Veterans must have served 1 day during an active war and had no less than a 90 day service. • Surviving spouses must still have been married to the veteran when they passed. • A doctor’s order insisting one needs the aid and attendance of another person daily. • Less then 80K in checking and savings and even less applying as a single (not including home or vehicles). If one has IRAs and CDs they are included as income. • An honorable discharge or general discharge. • One may not qualify if you are on state assistance (Medicaid or another subsidized program due to your low income). If Medicaid or other state/local programs are potentially necessary to fund home care, the Southwestern Connecticut Agency on Aging at (203)333-9288 is available to assist in exploring those options. Summary The vast majority of the elderly seek to age in the comfortable surroundings of their own home. Non-medical in-home care can play a significant role in turning that hope into a reality. A myriad of options for financing non-medical home exists. Adding this element to retirement planning is crucial to obtaining quality care, protecting assets of the care recipient and adult children, and reducing the strain providing care can have on familial relationships, and the productivity of adult children.
Testimonials: A note to express my sincere appreciation and thanks for the outstanding efforts that Senior Helpers provided in meeting our needs. My husband required 24 hour in-home care assistance. Due to unforeseen circumstances, our need was urgent! Senior Helpers, within two or three days, was able to provide just the right individual to assist my husband and bring order to a household that was in panic. The courtesy, respect, compassion, and understanding of the situation and your graciousness in follow-up conversations will always be remembered. I would not hesitate to recommend Senior Helpers to any household which was in need of an in-home care provider. Elizabeth A. My parents have been using the services of Senior Helpers for a few months now. I want to let you know how pleased they are and I am with the quality of the people that you have provided to assist them. All of the people you sent were well qualified, and also very friendly and sensitive to the needs of my parents. In particular, Jessica and Anna were exceptional. They were not only very good Caretakers; they genuinely cared about my parents and treated them like family. My parents grew very fond of both of them and referred to them as “saints”! I also appreciate the responsiveness and flexibility that you personally have shown when we had special requests, sometimes on very short notice. You always came through when we needed your help. Richard C. I’d like to express my sincere thanks to “Senior Helpers” for their help in my time of need. Jessica, my health aide, provided care & concern for my every need. She was prompt in arriving each day and always greeted me with a warm “good morning.” She performed her duties with pride & care. She is a wonderful & dedicated person. Thank God you have her. Marie, your Director of Operations, is also an asset to your group. She has a way about her that I felt relaxed at our first meeting, frequent visits & a small “food sharing” welcome as a family member. Ed B.
Planning early and a periodic review of the executable plan are crucial to success.
For a Complimentary in-home care consultation contact Marie Diaz, Co-owner, and Director of Operations Senior Helpers
203-564-1591 Senior Helpers Serving Lower and Upper Coastal Fairfield County
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Home Health for Elderly
The Importance of Planning Ahead
By Carolyn Thanasoulis, Owner Senior Helpers Upper Fairfield, Litchfield, and New Haven Counties (203) 304-1634 gthanasoulis@seniorhelpers.com The time to plan with your parents for their future is: a) Any time after they retire ( whatever age that might be) b) The day after their 75th birthday c) TODAY d) When they start showing signs of memory impairment or have taken a few falls The answer is: c) TODAY, of course! You wouldn’t prepare an emergency kit for a hurricane AFTER it hit, would you? Why would you postpone plan-
ning for the safety and well being of an aging loved one until there is a problem? Seems obvious, but so many people wait until they are in crisis mode to begin educating themselves about the options available to themselves and their parents. There are so many variables (changing medications, finances, living wills, long term care insurance, declining short-term memory, nutritional needs, living arrangements, etc.), all of which can change on little or no notice.
If you are in your mid forties, it is more than likely that you have been planning for your children’s college education and maybe have even looked into a plan for your own retirement. You owe it to yourself and your parents to start the process of thinking through some of those planning options with them for THEIR future as well. Equally as important is to be sure you have the best professional people and reputable services to help guide you through this process.
We are all guilty of becoming comfortable, if not complacent, with the way things are. You live in your own home halfway across the state. You and your spouse work full time, the kids are in school all day followed by a myriad of sports and extracurricular activities. Likewise, your parents live in their own home, slowing down some, but managing their own affairs. You know in your heart it can’t stay this way forever. Unfortunately, one fall, one medication error, hospitalization, or a small kitchen fire, and you will begin to experience an unexpected level of discomfort. The domino effect has begun. Clearly, engaging your aging loved ones in the topics of wills, finances, and future living arrangements can be uncomfortable at best. However, knowledge is power!
• Do you have a good Elder Care Attorney? • Do your parents have access to a Geriatrician who knows their medical concerns? • Do they have a Living Will? Power of Attorney? • Are they financially prepared for their future? • Are you familiar with alternative living options in your area (assisted living, skilled nursing, memory impairment, etc.)? • Do they have Long Term Care Insurance? • Have you screened Home Care agencies for future needs? A reputable Home Care agency, such as Senior Helpers, will provide you with Care Coordination utilizing a Geriatric Care Manager to assess and
guide you in your unique process. Senior Helpers will set out a blueprint for you should any of the variables change. Our Geriatric Care Managers are a wealth of information on the services that you may need. We can refer you to caring professional attorneys, doctors, pharmacists, etc. in your area. Senior Helpers also offers both Companions and Certified Nurses’ Aides on an hourly or live-in basis. There are no long term contracts. We also offer a state-of-theart emergency alert device called My Halo®, for those not quite ready for home care, but who need to be monitored by family for their activity level and automatically notified in case of any accidental falls. Lastly, Senior Helpers can also help you should the need for relocation arise. We are familiar with the facilities in your area, and can help you learn which will best suit your loved one’s situation. Do your homework now. Become familiar with the choices you and your parents have. Know what they want their future to look like, AND START PLANNING FOR IT! You cannot (nor should you) make such important decisions when you are in crisis mode. Plan ahead. You’ll both be glad you did.
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Know Your Child’s Educational and Juvenile Rights PRESENTED BY ADELE R. JACOBS, ESQ. AND PIPER A. PAUL, ESQ.
Educational Rights
Have you been told by the school your child is not doing well because they simply are not trying? Have you been asked “what is going on at home�? Did your child perform poorly on the CMTs? Does your child often feel sick before going to school or visit the nurse frequently while at school? Does your child frequently get into trouble? Has your child been suspended or expelled? These are all red flags and as a parent or legal guardian you need to take immediate action to protect your child to ensure your child receives an appropriate education. Under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) children with learning, neurological, behavioral and medical differences are protected, and services must be in place so your child can have access to the education to which they are entitled. All states must follow this federal law. States can provide more protection than granted under the federal law, but not less.
The law requires that students be mainstreamed to the maximum extent possible. The days of locking or segregating students into separate rooms are gone and parents need to be aware of this. Appropriate testing is required by law to determine if a child has any specific learning difference that need to be addressed. The law requires that scientifically based research programs be used to address students’ different learning styles and that progress be carefully monitored and that there are many protections in the law which parents or legal guardians need to learn so that they can effectively advocate for their child. Teachers and staff members are often hard working, and genuinely want what’s best for your children, however, their hands are often tied by administrators. You should learn your rights, and the rights of your child, so you can effectively insure your child can access their education.
Know Your Rights When Your Child is Bullied
Connecticut law requires boards of education to publish bullying policies for the students. Boards must create and impleIn Connecticut, a child has a right to an ed- ment policies to address bullying in their ucation, and there are many procedures schools. Connecticut law defines bullying and safeguards to protect children with as “any overt act by a student or a group disabilities. Parents or legal guardians also of students directed against another stuhave rights, and there are many procedur- dent with the intent to ridicule, harass, INJURY al and substantive rules that PERSONAL must be fol- humiliate or intimidate the other student !1.5 &11 3/:7.*8 @ @ lowed by the school system. while on school grounds, on a school bus, 43897:(9.43 ((.)*398 @ @ or at a school-sponsored activity.� Boards 4, .9*8 @ @ The mission of IDEA is to “ensure that all must inform all students annually of their *+*(9.;* 74):(9 @ @ children with disabilities have available right to file complaints, and schools must #38&+* 74):(98 @ @ to them a free appropriate public educa- report these incidents to the State De 1&>,74:3) !(-441 3/:7.*8 @ @ tion, that emphasizes special education partment of Education. Recent statisand related services designed to meet tics on bullying indicate that over 80% of their unique needs and prepare them for ACCIDENTS AUTO children are bullied during their school further education, employment, and inde- careers, &7 ((.)*398 @ @ least 10% of children and that at 4947(>(1* ((.)*398 @ @ pendent living.� Schools are responsible are subjected to repetitive bullying and/or @ for educating students until they either "7:(0 ((.)*398 @ harassment throughout their schooling. #3.38:7*) 4947.898 @ @ graduate from high school, or turn 21. 3/:7.*8 "4 *)*897.&38 @ There are things that can be done to help @ protect your child,@ and you should not 7:30 7.;*7 @ Parents or legal guardians must follow hesitate .9 @ counsel in bullying to seek:3 @ legal their instincts when they sense that some- situations. thing is wrong. It is important to seek MEDICAL MALPRACTICE legal advice as soon as possible to learn Juvenile Disciplinary Rights Wrongfuland Death @ @ what needs to be done to protect your Children frequently get into trouble, Brainwho Damage @ @ child and how to navigate the complexSpinal Injuries @ @ and out of school and Cord receive in school world of special education law. Many par- suspensions, Birth Injury @ rights. When your have @ @ ents are reluctant to initiate anything that child Misdiagnosis is frequently @in trouble, it is a red Nursing Home Neglect @ @ could be perceived as making waves. Your flag. Children are not Misconduct @ @ inherently bad, and child’s education is the greatest gift youSurgical children do not want to get into trouble. give them. Fear should not guide you. Stamford Danbury
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Getting into trouble is a warning sign that your child needs help, and that intervention is needed immediately. The law requires positive behavior reinforcements, not punitive. Often schools have resource officers in schools that are frequently in touch with the local police, leading to arrests in school. Arrests out of school are often reported to the Superintendent of Schools which can trigger a suspension or expulsion hearing. Suspensions can turn into expulsion hearings, and before you know it, your child is no longer allowed in the public school they were attending. Your child has rights that must be protected. It is strongly advised that you be represented by counsel at expulsion hearings, and that your counsel be very familiar with educational law, expulsion/suspension law, and criminal law. There are many concerns if your child is arrested at school, and has a pending juvenile case. Our firm
handles educational, juvenile, and criminal matters. Your child’s 5th amendment rights must be protected. Children and parents /legal guardians have many rights, and you should not agree to an expulsion, or a transfer to another school, without first consulting with an experienced attorney.
If you have a child who you suspect may have educational issues, is being bullied, or is being brought to an expulsion or suspension hearing, the attorneys at Jacobs & Quiles, LLC stand ready to assist you. Attorney Piper Paul, of counsel to our office, is an experienced special education attorney, and will be happy to meet with you and discuss your case. Feel free to contact us at: 203-332-7700 for an appointment. Law Professional
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Owner, Director Amy L. Kaplan Success Tutoring helps students improve their grades, raise their scores and attend the colleges of their dreams! Don’t wait until problems arise; be sure your child has the best academic skills possible. Give your child that edge. One-on-one tutoring is the
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Women in Profile Jeffrey Rosenthal, M.D. Jeffrey Rosenthal, M.D., is a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon specializing in cosmetic surgery and facial rejuvenation. He was Chief of Plastic Surgery at Bridgeport Hospital and has been in private practice for 25 years. Dr. Rosenthal specializes in cosmetic surgery which results in a natural-looking appearance that can only be accomplished by combining art and science. He uses his creativity and imagination to achieve balance and harmony, be it as a surgeon, artist, poet, writer, sculptor, illustrator or inventor. Dr. Rosenthal has said, “My art enhances my surgery by allowing me to be creative while embellishing the individual and personal identity.” His powers of visualization and imagination are coupled with skilled hands which allow him to successfully meld together art and plastic surgery. “Plastic Surgery is an art form that allows you to feel good about yourself by either restoring or rejuvenating a natural healthy appearance.” “The blending of art and science has always been my artistic endeavor and I have found that there is no higher form of art than to sculpt and redesign the human body.” Dr. Rosenthal deems himself fortunate to have had three art exhibitions in France as well as showings in Westport and Stamford Connecticut; Discovery Museum, Bridgeport; Fairfield University, Walsh Art Center Gallery; and in New York City. Dr. Rosenthal memberships have included: The Connecticut Board of Plastic Surgeons Executive Committee, Operating Room Committee at Bridgeport Hospital, Medical Executive Committee at the Surgery Center of Fairfield County, and the Connecticut State Medical Insurance Committee. Additionally, Dr. Rosenthal is the Chairperson for a national medical book review service. His reviews of plastic surgery texts and writing reach 300,000 subscribers and medical librarians in the country. He has lectured both nationally and internationally on plastic surgery topics and has had numerous articles written about his art in combination with cosmetic surgery. Likewise, these subjects have been discussed during appearances and interviews on both radio and television. Rosenthal Cosmetic Surgery & Skin Care Center • Jeffrey S. Rosenthal, M.D., Board Certified Plastic Surgeon 140 Sherman Street, Fairfield, Connecticut 06824, 203-335-3223 Web: www.artofplasticsurgery.com
Anya Kishinevsky, M.D. Plastic surgeon Anya Kishinevsky`s high level of training and experience has helped her develop a reputation for excellence in cosmetic and reconstructive surgery. She received a Bachelor of Arts degree in biology after graduating with honors from Johns Hopkins University in 1996. She received her residency training in general surgery at the Montefiore Medical Center at New York`s Albert Einstein College of Medicine in 2000, and her training in plastic surgery at the Yale New Haven Hospital in 2003. Dr. Anya Kishinevsky stays committed to continuing her education and training to provide her patients with plastic surgery services of the highest quality. In 2005 she received intense rhinoplasty training in Texas under world-renowned plastic surgeon Dr. Jack P. Gunter. She also received training in facial aesthetic surgery at the Manhattan Eye, Ear and Throat Hospital. Dr. Kishinevsky believes in giving back to the community and frequently participates in charitable missions abroad, to provide free reconstructive surgery for children in need around the world. She is fluent in Russian, French, and Hebrew, and conversational in Spanish.
Adele R. Jacobs, Esq. Adele R. Jacobs has over 25 years of experience in the personal injury arena in Connecticut and New York. Prior to opening her own practice to represent the rights of injured plaintiffs in Connecticut, Ms. Jacobs had more than 10 years of experience as an insurance defense attorney in New York City. As one of the premier solo female litigators in the area, her goal has been to give the personal touch needed by injured people, or those who have lost a loved one, while using her expertise and tough mindedness to guide them through our challenging legal system. Her warm and friendly style with clients sets them at ease from the moment they enter her doors, and her experience and expertise, as well as her willingness to go the extra mile, make those clients certain they have come to the right place. With the recent addition of two associates, the ability to provide personal attention has grown even further. Ms. Jacobs has always been involved in community activities by serving on local and statewide community boards, and supporting many philanthropic causes. Ms. Jacobs has been recognized by her peers in Connecticut Magazine as one of Connecticut’s top attorneys for 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, as well as New England Top Attorneys for 2009 and 2010.
Gina Brillon
Actress Comedian and writer Gina was born and raised in Bronx New York. She attended Mary Mount Manhattan College studying creative writing and communication. Gina’s first taste of comedy was at a very young age when she was entered in a comedy contest with her twin sister Debbie they won the competition and Gina continued on to aspire to great achievements. She has been featured in Carolines Comedy Club, Laugh Factory in NY and LA, Gotham Comedy club in NY. Has been in production such as Consequences, Went to Coney Island, and the Cyclist. Gina is branching out to live radio where she has stared “Think out Loud” her featured article. You can catch Gina on live radio at www.ustream.tv/channel/ thinkoutloud.
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Women in Profile Amy DeLardi
Ann Elizabeth Hogan, DDS
Founder and Creative Director of Infinite Web Designs, LLC (IWD), Amy DeLardi leads a team of skilled professionals in designing custom search engine optimized websites and creating innovative graphic design campaigns.
Dr. Hogan knows that when you feel good about yourself and have a great smile to help open doors, it is easier to face life’s challenges. With her high level of education and training, she has been able to help many patients achieve oral wellness and obtain smiles that can make others smile. In 2005, after intense didactic and clinical training, she received her Doctor of Dental Surgery (DDS) degree from New York University. After completing a one year general practice residency at the Brooklyn Hospital Center, she began practicing dentistry in Stamford in 2006
Services provided by the Infinite Web Designs team include: • Custom Website Design • Website Redesign • Search Engine Optimization (SEO) • Affordable Website Hosting • Copy Writing / Content Editing • Print Media Design • Logo Design • Brand Identity With over 16 years of web and graphic design experience, Amy has a deep understanding of search engine optimization (SEO) strategies to help her clients obtain higher website search engine rankings by Google, Yahoo, Bing and AOL. Amy and her team also understand that a website is a valuable marketing tool that can drive sales, increase business and position companies above the competition. Although websites and graphic design campaigns for small to medium-sized businesses are the main focus of IWD, Amy is proud to give back to the community. She has donated websites to not-for-profit organizations including Fairfield’s TeamBrent.com, which raises money to combat childhood cancer. Amy also speaks to local business groups and organizations on the importance of high website search engine rankings and how a website is an invaluable marketing tool. Based in Fairfield, Connecticut and founded in 2001, Infinite Web Designs, LLC serves all of Fairfield County, New Haven County, Westchester County, New York and New Jersey. Please visit Infinite Web Designs on the web at www.infinitewebdesigns.com or call 203.510.3134 for more information.
Dr. Risa Sloves, D.C. , D. I C.C.P. Dr. Risa Sloves has been in private practice in Connecticut with her husband, Dr. Mark Joachim, for over 20 years. She is currently 1 of 10 Chiropractic Physicians in Connecticut to have a 3 year post-doctorate degree and Board Certification in Maternity and Pediatric Care. Dr. Sloves focuses on providing exceptional chiropractic treatment for all aspects of pre- and post-natal care and she is certified in both the Webster and Bagnell Breach Turning Techniques as well as acupuncture. In addition to helping pregnant women with common painful conditions such as low back pain, sciatica, pubic pain, headaches, and carpal tunnel syndrome, Dr. Sloves also provides pediatric chiropractic care including cranial sacral treatment for children of all ages and abilities. Some of the more common pediatric conditions that Dr. Sloves sees include colic, gastric reflux, torticollis, plagiocephaly, ear infections, asthma, allergies, ADD/ADHD, autism and sensory integration issues, scoliosis, sports injuries, “growing pains” and wellness/preventative care. Dr. Sloves’ goal is to help all pregnant woman have an educated and empowering delivery and to encourage families to strive for a life of optimal wellness. Her husband, Dr. Joachim, is the first and only physician in Connecticut to have advanced certification in the BioSET Allergy Elimination Technique which is a non-invasive, drug-free and injection-free approach that can diagnose and eliminate food, environmental and chemical allergies. He also runs the Non-Surgical DRX 9000 True Spinal Decompression facility in their office for patients suffering with herniated/ bulging, or degenerated discs, sciatica, stenosis and failed low back surgery. Dr. Sloves has been the Fairfield County Leader of the Holistic Moms Network for many years and she is the founder of Women of Wellness, a network of prenatal and early family care, in Fairfield County. Dr. Risa Sloves, D.C. , D. I C.C.P., Chiropractic Physician Board Certified in Pediatric and Maternity Care Associates in Family Chiropractic and Natural Health Care, P.C. 156 East Avenue Norwalk, CT 06851 (203) 838-1555, www.ctchiropractic.com www.ctspinalpaincenter.com, www.eliminate-my-allergies.com
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Dr. Hogan grew up the youngest of eleven children being the daughter of an internist and a nurse in a family of professionals. She was raised to work hard and to appreciate the value of a job, well done. She had good role models and was met with high expectations, and in turn, has high expectations of herself. One invaluable lesson she took from her father was to never stop learning. It is with this in mind that Dr. Hogan has stayed committed to continuing her education and training to provide her patients with dental services of the highest quality. She chose not to specialize in one area of dentistry, but rather to become skilled in several areas, including endodontics, cosmetic dentistry, and both Invisalign and conventional orthodontics. As a faithful follower of the “laughter is good medicine” philosophy, Dr. Hogan sets her patients at ease with a pleasant demeanor and relaxed manner, allowing them to open up with their concerns. A good relationship is essential to a good outcome, as is listening to and understanding the patient’s needs and expectations. It is with that ideal at Esthetique Dentistry that the office is able to offer full dental services, including all aspects of general dentistry, cosmetic dentistry, oral surgery, implant dentistry, periodontics, orthodontics and endodontics within the confines of a single office.
Amanda Root Amanda Root is Vice President of Operations and co-owner of Tri-City, based in Milford, CT. She is the third generation of her family to oversee the day to day operations of the company, who has specialized in providing residential appliance repair, heating and cooling installation and repair, plumbing installations and repairs, and home energy services since 1962. Amanda studied business at Sacred Heart University in Fairfield and has completed various management courses with Nexstar Network. She also sits on the board of directors and is the recording secretary for the Milford Network of Executive Women. Amanda dedicates time to helping others, through Thanks-4-Giving food drives with the local Boy Scouts of America groups, as well as helping to facilitate an annual scholarship drive focused on continuing education for women. Working for Tri-City since the age of 14, Amanda has come to learn the ways of the business world, developing problem solving and customer service skills that are far beyond her age. When asked about Amanda’s influence on the business, owner Seamus Warakomski says, “Her competitive drive helps in building a successful and responsible team, and her out of the box thinking help implement processes and system to leverage her several responsibilities so she can take accountability for all actions. I am very proud of her many accomplishments.”
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Women in Profile Val J. Fields Hi, my name is Val J. Fields, I am a facilitator of women’s events, an inspirational speaker and Founder of Spirit of Woman Unlimited and Spirit of WomanConnect. My passion to enrich the lives of women was born out of a recurring dream where I saw myself as a bridge uniting the common interests of women. I believe women are powerful beings and very significant to birthing much needed initiatives that will change our communities and our world. I like to regard myself as a “connector of women” because I understand the value of connections and the amazing opportunities that are possible for every woman when we connect and share rather than compete and compare. If you are a business owner, a woman entrepreneur or someone who wants to discover what you are passionate about and give life to a dream you had to defer, I invite you to come and be a part of a dynamic networking experience that is focused on you and what you uniquely have to offer to others. For more info, visit www.spiritofwomanconnect.org or feel free to contact me directly at 203.912.2756.
Carolyn Thanasoulis Carolyn has almost 30 years of experience in the field of healthcare. She has worked as a Clinician (BS in Speech Pathology/Audiology), Administrator (Director of Residential Services, Director of Program Development, etc.), as well as hands-on care (Patient Care Technician, Certified Nurses Aide). Since 1980, she has worked with adults with Autism, Cerebral Palsy, and a variety of mental and physical disabilities. In recent years, she has focused her energies on the challenges faced by the senior population. Carolyn is the owner of the Senior Helpers office located in the Newtown area of Connecticut. This office services the Fairfield, Litchfield and New Haven Counties. Carolyn personally completes each in home assessment (at no charge). She takes the time to listen and learn about each individual’s unique needs, and then offer a plan that will provide peace of mind for all involved. Senior Helpers services include: • Care Coordination • Wellness Watch • Homecare • Relocation Services Carolyn also participates in numerous speaking engagements relating to the Sandwich Generation. She can teach you what you need to know… before you need to know it! Senior Helpers, 75 Glen Road, Suite G-5, Sandy Hook, CT 06482. Tel: (203) 304-1634 www. seniorhelpersnavigator.com
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Fern Tausig, CH Fern Tausig, CH is owner of Healing Hypnosis . As consulting hypnotist she is certified by the National Guild of Hypnotists and the International Association of Counselors and Therapists. With a 6th year level of education in secondary health education, and 35 years of teaching experience, she has a passion for both education and wellness. Fern graduated from The University of Rhode Island with a BS and did her graduate work at Southern Connecticut State University. Using a variety of modalities, including EFT, NLP, and Past Experience Regression, she helps clients achieve a healthier, happier, and more productive life through her private and group hypnosis sessions. She has helped clients lose weight, quit smoking, eliminate bad habits, as well as fears, phobias and anxiety. Fern regularly presents workshops and seminars for corporations, associations, and social clubs. She sees private clients and conducts group hypnosis sessions by appointment in Norwalk, Orange and Middletown CT. Call now for your free phone consultation. She may be reached at www. myHealingHypnosis.com, myHealingHypnosis@gmail.com 203-283-4567
Marie Diaz Co-owner and Director of Operations of Senior Helpers, a provider of non-medical in-home care for the elderly, serving Lower and Upper Coastal Fairfield County through a geographically dispersed staff of caregivers. Marie’s operation has consistently ranked in the top 10%, in revenue and the client retention required for achieving it, of all Senior Helpers in the U.S. Each Senior Helpers is independently owned and operated. Marie has been lauded by her clients and their families for going “above and beyond” in providing service, “her insight, knowledge and human understanding of seniors’ physical and emotional needs”, and ” the ability to provide the right caregiver for the right family”. Understanding the demanding schedules of families, Marie is very accessible day or night. Seniors and their families find her to be a caring individual, carrying out her responsibility with the senior’s needs given the highest priority. Prior to Senior Helpers, Marie spent 30 years with IBM having held leadership positions in Finance, Administration, and professional services Operations. Together with co-owner, Tim Daniels, a former IBM executive in professional services, they have successfully transferred their ability to personalize services and expertise in process management and quality control into a systematic approach to providing reliable and on-target homecare to their clients. This statement is substantiated by over 95% of her current and former clients being willing to recommend the services of her firm to others. The genera l services Senior Helpers provides range from errands, shopping, and transportation services to assisting individuals with walking, bathing, grooming, and other personal care needs. Understanding that clients with Alzheimer’s/dementia, severe Arthritis, and Low-Vision often require specific caregiver skills/ personalities and home-setup for proficient care, Marie has developed specializations in these areas within her operation. She takes pride in matching the skills and characteristics of her caregivers to the needs and personalities of her clients to deliver quality care and enjoyable client/caregiver relationships. With Marie’s own experience in, at various times, caring for parents and four grandchildren while balancing a career comes her rare empathy for primary family caregivers. First-hand knowledge, superior business skills, and experience in managing in-home care professionally combine to make Marie a valuable resource to families requiring non-medical in-home services.
For more information Marie can be reached at: Phone: 203-564-1591, Email: mdiaz@seniorhelpers.com www.seniorhelpers.com/location/0909
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Women in Profile Dr. Julie S. Gabriel, D.C., F.I.A.M.A. Dr. Julie Gabriel has been in private practice at Westport Chiropractic and Acupuncture for 25 years with her husband Dr. Patrick J. Guerin, D.C., F.I.A.M.A. Dr. Gabriel is certified in Acupuncture with the International Academy of Acupuncture since 1998. She is a member of the American Chiropractic Association, International Chiropractic Association and Connecticut Chiropractic Association. Together with her husband, Dr. Guerin, the inventor and developer of Acu-Thin ™, she has helped many patients lose weight without diet change and exercise. Acu-Thin ™ is a new approach to weight loss based on the principle of Auriculotherapy (ear acupuncture), which decreases the desire for food so weight is lost without hunger. Dr. Gabriel and Dr. Guerin have also brought the DRX9000 to Westport and surrounding towns. The DRX9000 is the “state of the art” non-surgical spinal decompression treatment for disc herniation, degenerative disc disease, stenosis and sciatica. Dr. Gabriel is available for consultation by appointment. Dr. Julie Gabriel, D.C., F.I.A.M.A. Westport Chiropractic and Acupuncture 256 Post Road East, Westport, CT 06880 (203) 227-4474 westportchiro@aol.com www.westportchiropractic.com www.westportspine.com www.acuthin.com
Lisa Wexler Lisa Wexler is the creator and host of the award-winning talk radio program The Lisa Wexler Show, broadcasting in the Fairfield County, CT/Metro NY areas from 4-6 PM weekdays on Coxradio’s AM 1400 WSTC/1350 WNLK. Lisa won the 2010 “Gracie” Award as Best News/Talk Show for her interview with Gloria Steinem and was awarded the title “Gold Coast Best Radio Personality” in 2009 and 2010 based on a reader survey. She is a graduate of The Johns Hopkins University and the New York University School of Law, where she won the American Jurisprudence Award for Excellence in Constitutional Law. The mission of the Lisa Wexler Show is to entertain and inform, with humor and empathy. Lisa is particularly interested in giving voice to the voiceless, such as children, animals and oppressed women. Lisa recently published her first book, Secrets of a Jewish Mother, co-authored with her mother, Gloria Kamen and sister, Jill Zarin. (Penguin/Dutton). Lisa has served on the Board of Directors of two Jewish Community Centers as well as her synagogue. She currently serves on the Board of the Jeffrey Modell Foundation for Primary Immunodeficiency Research and the Advisory Board of Jane Doe No More. Lisa Wexler has been married for 28 years to the same guy, Bill Wexler, is the mother of two children and shares her pillow with her beloved bichon, Sugar. For more information and to hear any show at any time, go to www.lisawexler.com.
Dianne Boras, MBA Your image defines who you are. When your clothes look and fit great, you give an impression of confidence and success. Vada Image Consulting can assist you in defining your personal style and teach you how to select the right fit and colors of clothing for you. Very simple, when you look great, you feel great! Our client base consists of both professional women who need help in selecting the right business wardrobe and stay at home moms who are looking to turn their casual attire into more stylish causal attire. We also offer corporate seminars and collegiate workshops. Dianne loves to see the transformation from a client who is unhappy with her current wardrobe, to one that is excited about getting dressed every day. The end result is about you looking comfortable and confident in the clothes that you wear. Raised in New Jersey, Dianne attended Ramapo College, and received her MBA from Sacred Heart University. Dianne worked for General Electric or many years, ran a home based business while raising her children, and is currently the President of Vada Image Consulting. She is a member of the Association of Image Consultants International, and trained at the world renown Image Resource Center of New York. Her passion for people and desire to coach individuals to their full potential is what attracted her to this dynamic and fascinating industry. Dianne lives in Connecticut with her husband and her three teenage daughters. Vada Image Consulting PO Box 516, Fairfield, CT 06824 • (203) 209-0887 Vadaimage.com • dboras@vadaimage.com
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Carol McManus
Executive Coach, Business Consultant, and Social Media Strategist Carol McManus is the Founder and President of Ywait4success, a coaching, consulting and training business targeted to meet the needs of real estate owners and managers. Carol is a certified Executive Coach who personally works with entrepreneurs and business owners in any industry using laser-focused techniques and fast-track solutions to solve business challenges. Prior to launching her business in 2007, she was the Senior Vice President of Real Estate Operations for one of the world’s largest real estate franchises and prior to that, the Chief Operating Officer of the #1 affiliate for the company, growing her Hawaii franchise’s bottom line by over 4000% in 3 years! She is the author of “Ten Traits for Top Performers” and is currently working on her newest book, “Reinvent Yourself at Any Age.” After striking out on her own, it was essential to learn new marketing skills and to make a fast impact on a limited budget. Social media became her break-through secret weapon to success. Carol speaks frequently on how entrepreneurs can develop a successful strategy devoting only 17 minutes a day to social media. Her advice to clients usually includes Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Google Profile and Blogging, but her secret sauce is showing people how to use LinkedIn effectively to gain more sales leads, referrals, and new business without selling! Carol can be reached by email at carol.mcmanus@ywait4success or you can call her directly at 203-286-8760.
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Special Events
If you are planning a wedding or special event, look no farther than the Wedding Consortium, a group of wedding professionals and planners offering one-stop shopping for the perfect wedding. Janice Lettick, director of the Orange Chamber of Commerce and her marketing committee formed this niche group comprised of Chamber members who all provide professional services to bridal couples. An excellent resource for brides and grooms, the Consortium can offer them every thing they need to plan their weddings from start to finish. “The decision to join together and let brides know how easily they can connect with distinctive, very personal wedding services is a win-win situation for the Consortium members as well as for the happy bridal couple,” said Lettick. “Each Consortium member brings certain skills to the table, and it is exciting to see the dynamics in this group and how they all work together to exchange ideas and information.” “Membership,” said Lettick, “is open
to any member of the Orange Chamber as long as that person is a wedding professional and offers a service not offered by any other member of the group. The group’s website profiles the members and links to their very active Facebook page. Next challenge for this talented group? They’ll showcase their skills at a bridal
fair on Sunday, November 14, at Race Brook Country Club, and they’ve invited other top-quality wedding professionals to join them. With more than 30 vendors on hand, each offering a different service, brides will find everything they need to plan a very personal wedding that is uniquely their own. Wedding checklist in hand, brides can sample Race Brook’s gourmet cuisine, see a fashion show, watch dance demonstrations, and register for giveaways and prizes. Sponsored by Brides.com and Brides Connecticut, admission is free and brides
can register online at Brides.com or at the Wedding Consortium’s website www.OrangeCTChamber.com/weddingconsortium.htm. The core group of Consortium members includes RSVP Studios for customdesigned wedding invitations, wedding favors, and invitations for all special events; Glam Spa for skin and body therapies for sophisticated brides; Georgina’s complimentary consultations for hair styling and bridal packages both on and off premises; Creative Concepts by Lisa for wedding planning services that truly represent the bride and groom and their personalities; Weichert Realtors for purchasing the first home together, an adventure to be cherished; Healing Hypnosis for draining the stress from wedding planning and reinforcing lifestyle changes; Whispers . . . from Lady Olga for choosing the perfect wedding day lingerie and expert bra and foundation fittings; Fred Astaire Dance Studio for ballroom dancing wedding packages (gift certificates available); Susan Noonan, Justice of the Peace, for weddings, vow renewals, and commitment ceremonies; Spetrino Pictures for wedding cinematography and photo booths; Orange Restoration Labs for cleaning and preservation of new and vintage wedding gowns; and Race Brook Country Club for special events.
RSVP Studios by appointment in Orange 203-799-2723 www.graphicwaysdesign.com
Creative Concepts by Lisa by appointment in Hamden 203-500-3685 www.creativeconceptsbylisact.com
Whispers . . . from Lady Olga 21 River Street, Milford 203-876-7400 www.whispersfromladyolga.com
Spetrino Pictures-Wedding Cinematography 2 Broad Street, Suite 2, Milford 203-283-4238 www.spetrinopictures.com
Glam Spa 200 Boston Post Road, Orange 203-795-6105 www.glamspa.com
Weichert Regional Properties 185 Boston Post Road, Orange 203-589-3383 www.maryannwhite.weichertp.com
Fred Astaire Dance Studio 547 Boston Post Road, Orange 203-795-5200 www.fadsorange.com
Orange Restoration Labs by appointment in Orange 800-950-6482 www.gownrestoration.com
Georgina’s Hair Studio 290 Boston Post Road, Orange 203-799-2166 www.georginashairstudio.net
Healing Hypnosis by appointment 203-283-4567 www.myhealinghypnosis.com
Susan Noonan, Justice of the Peace 65 Derby Avenue, Orange 203-397-1616 snoonan66@optonline.net
Race Brook Country Club 246 Derby Avenue, Orange 203-389-9521 www.racebrook.org
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Contractors With Integrity
Veteran’s Window Washing
By Joe De Vito Wow, what a great summer we just had due, in large part, to our affiliation with the Fairfield County Women’s Journal and all the new friends we’ve made through our work. For this issue, we thought we’d address some of our customers’ and friends’ most frequent concerns:
Q. What do you use to wash the windows?
our website: http//: www.veteranswindowwashing.com.
Q. Are you a licensed contractor? A. Yes, our Connecticut Home Improvement Contractor registration number is: HIC.0618719. Our insurance certificate is available upon request.
A. My kids…no, seriously, we use an environmentally safe anionic soap and water solution. It is safe around pets, plants and people.
Q. What services do you provide besides window washing? A. We’ll do anything on a ladder that a homeowner doesn’t want to do. For instance, we clean chandeliers (an important detail before the fall and winter entertaining season begins). We’ve also been known to hang holiday decorations and change bulbs.
Q. Are your prices standard? A. We don’t charge anyone a different price based on zip code. There are, however, differences in price based on window type and accessibility. You can check our prices on
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Q. Why do my windows seem foggy?
Q. Do you repair thermopane windows?
A. Most modern glass is composed of two panes of glass (also called double glazed) with a space between that is filled with an inert gas (usually argon) and sealed to increase the energy efficiency of the window. There are times when the seal between the two panes become worn out or invaded and, essentially, the gas oxidizes (think of metal rusting) and leaves a foggy, streaky stain in between the glass panes. When this happens, it is best to replace the glass portion of the window (though there are some companies out there who claim they can repair this oxidation through a chemical process).
A. Generally, we need to bring these double glazed windows to a nearby glazier to be replaced (usually a ten-day to two week lead time); and, then reinstall the repaired sash when it’s ready.
Q. Do gutter guards work? A. Some work better than others, but there is nothing as efficient as having your gutters manually cleaned. We recommend you do this twice a year (spring and fall). Don’t forget we will also clean exterior brick and stone, provide power washing and perform small wood repairs.
Veteran’s Window Cleaning Co., LLC “Professional Service First...Your Satisfaction Always”
Joe De Vito Owner/Operator Residential & Commercial Window Washing Power Washing • Gutter Cleaning No Job too Small ! • Call for an Estimate
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Contractors With Integrity Shut the Door, What do you live in a Barn?
home energy assessment performed by the BPI certified technicians at Tri-City. By Amanda Root I’m sure all of you have heard this sentence (or some version of it) from your parents at one point in your life. If you really think about it, the sentence actually makes some sense. Can you imagine how much it would cost to really heat & cool a barn? What most people don’t know is that they’re still heating & cooling the great outdoors AFTER they’ve shut all the doors and windows. Studies have found that air leaks in the average home in Connecticut add up to one giant hole that is 4 foot in diameter. Can you imagine what your Mom or Dad would yell if they saw a 4 foot hole in the dining room wall? Homeowners don’t realize the hole is there, because it’s not smack dab in the middle of the dining room wall. Typically these air leaks are coming from mechanical penetrations - such as chimney bypasses, plumbing & electrical chases, etc – that are located under the insulation in your attic or in other inconspicuous places you wouldn’t think to look. Since hot air rises, it is very easy for air to leak to the outside (you really are paying to heat the whole neighborhood!). And when the air you’ve paid to heat & cool leaks to the outside, the air that replaces it (called make-up air) comes from the outside to be heated & cooled by your HVAC system. Did you ever wonder why you only feel drafts in the winter? It’s because the hot air that you paid to heat is rising, leaking to the outdoors, and being made up by cold air being pulled in around windows, doors, etc in your home. It is a never ending cycle that you spend hundreds of dollars per year in utility & heating bills to overcome. So what’s the best way for you to put an end to this energy waste? Have a
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When Tri-City performs an energy assessment at your home we will determine all the ways your home is losing energy and wasting your money on energy bills. We will locate the biggest energy wasting air leaks and then seal them – which will reduce your homes air leakage to the outside and save you 25-30% on your utility & heating bills. We will also give you up to 25 Compact Fluorescent Light bulbs and change them for you, seal leaky ductwork, insulate hot water pipes, and install water saving aerators & showerheads. We will evaluate your heating & cooling systems, insulation, and appliances to determine if they are also wasting your hard earned dollars. If we find that there is a need to upgrade one of these things – we will provide you with hundreds of dollars in rebates to upgrade now. Plus, if you upgrade within 45 days of the energy assessment we will provide you with a DOUBLE REBATE which will allow you to get twice as much in rebate dollars.
& cooling system or may need to in the future, now is the time to have your system evaluated by Tri-City. The average cost of an upgrade by Tri-City is $6,500.00 and allin-all the total money back in the form of rebates & tax credits is up to $3,000.00. That’s almost 50% off on a high efficiency home comfort system. My Home Energy manager, Todd Casey, is one of the pioneers of energy savings in Connecticut. He’s spent several years in the field and been involved in over 2,500 energy assessments learning where the biggest leaks and energy wasters are in every type of home. He would love to help you stop wasting energy and start keeping more of those energy dollars in your pockets. If you would like to schedule a home energy assessment - or have any questions about energy assessments, rebates, tax credits, etc – please email him at todd@tricityappliance.com, call him @ 203-874-8279, or visit our website at www.tricityappliance.com.
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And many of the upgrades on your heating and air conditioning systems are also eligible for a federal tax credit of up to $1,500.00, but this is only good if the work is done before 12/31/2010 – so the time to act is now. I’ve never seen the kind of rebates and credits on HVAC systems as what is available to customers right now (before January 1st, 2011) so if you think you need to upgrade your heating
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Time to Remodel? We’ve been in business for over 25 years. During that time FJC Designs & Construction, LLC has always handled the big jobs along with the small. Everything from major additions to simple handyman repairs. In today’s tough economic climate some homeowners may feel it’s unwise to spend any extra money on remodeling their home. We’re here to tell you that, in fact, it’s a GREAT time to consider remodeling. Here are a few reasons why: 1. In Tough Times Only the Best Survive When the home improvement industry was going full steam just a few years back, there was a plethora of contractors out there – for better or worse. Today’s tough times have really separated the wheat from the chaff – which is all to your advantage. What homeowners are left with are often the top tier contractors. Businesses like FJC Designs and Construction, LLC have been around longer, are more professional, provide more accurate bids and are better at customer relations. Still, always be sure to check references – feedback from a contractor’s former and current clients can provide you with the critical information you need to make a wise decision.
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2. Improve Energy Efficiency & Safety Energy efficiency might not have crossed your mind if you’d done a home remodel a few years ago. But heating and electricity costs have all risen drastically over the last two years. You can improve your home’s energy efficiency, lower utility bills and earn tax breaks simply by installing
insulation in the attic and basement, putting in new or replacement windows (Energy Star Appliances), weather stripping, placing a fan in the attic (on a thermostat to cool off that part of the house), installing solar panels, water conserving shower heads or a high-efficiency furnace. You’ll recoup your costs in no time. If you have elderly parents, installing ramps, grab bars and similar items can make their lives both easier and safer. 3. Up Your Resale Value By remodeling now you put yourself in a solid position to sell, vis-à-vis competing properties, if and when you do put your house on the market. Potential buyers will appreciate the upgrades you’ve made: a new kitchen, master bedroom suite, updated bathrooms, or new front steps with a canopy and shutters for added curb appeal. Work done a few years back shows that you took care of the house, whereas more recent upgrades can look as if they were merely done to snag a quick sale. Making improvements now puts you in the best position to make your move as soon as the market picks up. While everyone else is calling contractors for those get-set-tosell projects – your house will be ready. 4. Enjoy Your Renovations After all the stress of remodeling, wouldn’t it be nice to just enjoy your newly laid out bathroom or brand new kitchen for a little bit? Given the current real estate market, you’re probably not going to be selling for a few years to come. That means you and your family can truly enjoy any improvements you make now.
Testimonials “Fred has been a great help over the years. We’ve done several projects at our home, like the master bath, replacing wood siding, putting in a new kitchen, new roof and basement windows and replacing windows and storm doors. Fred is always reliable and goes the extra mile to make sure I’m satisfied with the work.” - Carol Bukowski, Cos Cob, CT “As a designer who’s been in the industry for over 25 years, I have found the quality of FJC Designs work not only to be above and beyond par, but at a level of service that makes me proud to bring Fred into any project.” - Sharon Zilich, Owner, Edgewood Design Concepts, LLC “Jeff and I find Fred to be reliable and dependable. The quality of work he has done for us has been excellent and the guys that he has on the jobs are also good at what they do. They show up on time, are polite, and dependable as well. Fred keeps to his timelines and is up front when issues arise. He also offers different options and solutions and will go through each one with you to come up with the best answer. Over the years he has done a master bath, kids bath, kitchen, finished basement, and screened porch and deck for us.” - Tracey and Jeff Grills, Darien, CT
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Automotive Detailing
3 Smart Reasons to ‘Detail’ This Fall By Parth Thaker and Jonathan PiazzaHarper, Co-Owners, Topside Detailing, LLC A car is a major purchase. If you’re like us, you depend on yours’ every day - for a million reasons – kids, work, school, trips and just getting around. Wouldn’t it be nice to know that yours’ is regularly receiving the best care possible for safety, longevity and value? Detailing is an effective, convenient way to take care of your car and preserve its value while keeping your loved ones safe.
restoration and precision cleaning of vital exterior surfaces, a detailing should be part of a regular safety maintenance program for your vehicle. Just as you change your oil every 3,000 miles, a regular detail is recommend for the longevity and optimum condition of your car. Dust and dirt accumulates in all the crevices and cracks inside a car (and out) and can prevent proper functioning of windows, AC vents, doors, seats etc. If never deeply cleaned, debris and dirt can collect on places like the roof leading to condensation and rust. 90% of the cars on the road have dirty, scratched, discolored, or hazy headlights lenses. Not only does this affect the appearance of a vehicle but its’ safety as well, because hazy or cloudy headlights can significantly reduce night vision. Detailing restores clarity, illumination, photometry and optical quality. Cleaning and waxing doorjambs prevents rust and ensures doors open and close properly. Cleaning drain holes also means no water leakage in car or faulty drainage.
Car Wash vs. Detailing
A regular car wash involves simply washing the vehicle and then drying it. Auto detailing, in contrast, ensures that all the different parts of your vehicle are restored and protected. Car details range anywhere from 1-hour express to 3-hour complete, compared to the 2-minute automatic car wash.
3 Great Reasons To Consider A Car Detailing This Fall: 1. Keep Your Ride a Safe One From steam cleaning interiors to headlight
Interior detailing entails deep extraction of dirt, grim, debris and spots on fabric and carpets. This removes salt stains, pet hair, grease and rids the air of dust, bacteria and allergens – leaving a cleaner breathing environment free of mildew, smells of children or pet accidents, smoke and water damage.
And let’s not forget the dirt, sand and stones that can get caught on the bottom of the car. A regular car wash will not take care of these potentially damaging items. 2. Preserve Value – Inside and Out! The chemicals used in regular car washes are typically either too concentrated (causing harm to your paint if not rinsed thoroughly), or not concentrated enough. Their brushes and sponges create a majority of the swirl marks and scratches that can be seen on a vehicle’s paint.
car wash (which isn’t going to give your car the professional care it needs anyway), when you could be at work, or out doing errands. Topside’s mobility means that we take professional care of your car – at your place of business, commuter parking or at home – while you’re doing more important things. It’s the utmost in customer convenience. Convenient, professional and environmentally safe – why not try Topside Detailing next time?
At Topside Detailing we use a unique waterless car wash formula consisting of soaps and palmers that, used in conjunction with a microfiber towel, actually lifts the dirt off the car. Add polish and waxing and you’re showroom ready! At car washes your car will be quickly vacuumed and given a perfunctory interior wipe. With a detail your interior receives leather care and conditioning to prevent drying, cracking and fading, carpet and fabric protection to protect fabric seats, floor mats and carpet from spills and spots and carpet, and fabric extraction and shampooing to remove deeply ingrained dirt, debris and grime. What a difference! 3. Save Precious Time Topside customers are people on the go. Whether they’re professionals or active caretakers – they’re busy. No one wants to spend time in line waiting for a regular
Detailing also involves cleaning wheels with brake dust remover to maintain optimum usage.
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Topside Detailing, LLC was founded in July 2007 by two students at the University of Connecticut: Parth Thaker and Jonathan PiazzaHarper. Today their company offers complete detailing, reconditioning and service for autos, boats, cycles and RVs. Topside services all of CT with additional clients in NY, MA and RI.
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Parth Thaker and Jonathan Piazza-Harper, Co-Owners, Topside Detailing, LLC
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LinkedIn for Business – Part 3 of 3 maintaining my social networking strategy. I view social networking as part of my marketing effort. I could spend those same 17 minutes calling or emailing, but I wouldn’t have the reach I do with social networking. It is very time efficient and extremely inexpensive if not free. Veronica: So why LinkedIn? Do you use other platforms? By: Carol McManus Publisher Interview Veronica: How long have you been using LinkedIn? Carol: I’ve been using LinkedIn for a little over two and a half years now. Veronica: Our readers continue to tell me how confused they are about social networking and want to know how it can benefit their business. Carol: That’s the number one question I get from my clients. The answer is that the use of social networking is a process. You must focus on building relationships first and then the business comes once interest and trust have been established. Veronica: Doesn’t that take a long time? Carol: Actually not. If you are consistent and sincere in how you use any social networking platform, people will be attracted to you and from there meaningful dialogue begins which can lead to business. Veronica: I understand that you restrict the amount of time you spend every day on social networking. Can you tell me more about that? Carol: I have a consistent pattern of spending 17 minutes a day building and
Carol: I absolutely do. I use Facebook and Twitter and I’m about to launch a new channel on YouTube. But LinkedIn is what I found to be the most lucrative in terms of new business. Veronica: Why do you think that is true? Carol: That’s simple. It’s where my potential clients are. I am in the coaching and consulting business. In marketing it’s referred to the B2B or Business to Business market. I am trying to reach executives, business owners, and decision makers and they are using LinkedIn. Veronica: But aren’t they using the site for job postings? Carol: In part, that’s true. This is probably the biggest misconception about LinkedIn. While it serves as a viable and highly effective site for job seekers and talent seekers, it is so much more than that. LinkedIn is where business people go to check out potential business partners, vendors, affiliates, and of course, employees. Veronica: So how has your business changed as a result of using LinkedIn? Carol: I have been able to reach hundreds of people that I never would have met through traditional live networking events. I am proud to say my connections reside all over the world. Once those connections are established, I begin a dialogue through the groups I
belong to and through direct use of InMails. This strategy is no different than what happens using traditional methods of follow-up with potential business connections. Veronica: And how long did it take you to build your connections. Carol: That’s a never-ending process. It began in the first few months with my closest personal contacts. From there it grew to include people I had lost contact with over the years. For the past year or so, it has continued to grow by connecting with people who share mutual backgrounds, interests, or geography. Veronica: Doesn’t LinkedIn recommend that you only connect with people you know? Carol: They do, but I find that advice to be as impractical as going to a social gathering and only speaking to the people you already have a relationship with and ignoring anyone you don’t know. Networking is about connecting with new people with whom you share something in common and where the connection might have mutual business benefit to the parties. Veronica: So do you consider yourself an open-networker? Carol: Absolutely not. Open networkers accept invitations from anybody and everybody. I see as little value in that as I do refusing invitations from people you may not know. I’m a discretionary networker. There must be a reason for have then in my network. Veronica: With that philosophy, how have you been able to develop so much success with new business and what advice would you give our readers? Carol: It’s all about relationships.
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anyone takes the skill they use in developing relationships offline, it’s easy to transfer those same skills to the online world. Concentrate on building rapport, showing interest in others, add value to discussions, and be accessible. That will lead to people being interested in you first, then liking you, then trusting you, and ultimately that’s what leads to business. If you would like to connect with Carol online, send her an invitation to connect at www.linkedin.com/in/carolmcmanus or call her direct at 203-286-8760
Testimonials: “Thank you for your coaching today. I never really thought that LinkedIn was that important but now I see how it can really connect you with people, groups, etc. I also see the benefit of using my business email rather than personal. Thank you for that, too.” J. Cicalese – Fairfield County, CT “I met Carol through LinkedIn and was very impressed with her professionalism, insightfulness and her passion in making a difference in other people’s lives. I have the pleasure to partner with her on a new venture and she has made huge strides in a short period of time due to her ability to identify top talent and help others reach their full potential using her natural coaching abilities.” A. Borgardt – Oshkosh, WI “Companies that work with Carol are in for a treat. She is a commensurate professional who can combine both strategic and tactical thinking into action that creates dynamic outcomes for companies.” M. Ferrara – Boston, MA “Carol delivers an enthusiastic, positive nature to her professional consulting endeavors. Whether she is coaching her clients through challenging management situations or guiding them through operational efficiencies, Carol’s leadership and enthusiasm is contagious and drives results for any organization, large or small.” R. Calanni – Parsippany, NJ
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Business Style Has business casual gone too far? Is your office business casual? Have you gone from suits or skirts to jeans and spruced up tees? There is nothing wrong with business casual as long as you don’t take it too far. As a company employee, you are the face of your organization. When management looks at their resources (YOU!), they want the image of their representatives to be in line with the image of their company. So when its promotion time... who will move ahead? The individual who not only has the job skills, but also looks the part, so why not make that YOU? Did you know that first impressions are made by 55% of how we look, 38% on body language and only 7% on what we say!!
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Remember, your apparel is a reflection of you! If you don’t pay attention to details in the way you dress, how could you expect your employer to think that you would pay attention to the details in your work? If you come in wearing wrinkled, unprofessional clothing, the impression is that your work might be just as sloppy and unprofessional as well. So what to do?? Here are a few pointers to help you stay professional in your business casual workplace: - A jacket always increases your level of authority - Always step it up a notch. Jeans or slacks? (pick slacks) - Skirts - a few inches above the knee is appropriate. Anything shorter is inappropriate - Be sure that your clothing is neat and unwrinkled, this does get noticed! - Have your nails neatly manicured... you either wear nail polish or you don’t. There is no in between. - Keep your make up professional for the office - Make sure your shoes are in good condition, and flip flops are NOT appropriate in the office - Always try to look “put together”. You never know when a potential client might be in the office - Cleavage - not so good for the office!
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So step it up...and be the person in your office who not only is, but looks confident, knowledgeable and successful just by making the right clothing choices every morning. Dianne Boras, owner of Vada Image Consulting offers professional image consulting services to both individuals and corporations. She offers personal color consultations, closet analysis and personal shopping services to assist you in purchasing the right clothing for you and to avoid costly purchasing mistakes. She also offers “Professional Business Dress” seminars to corporations that focus on the importance of image in business and how it can affect the bottom line. She can be reached at 203-209-0887 or at dboras@vadaimage.com. Visit Vada Image Consulting at vadaimage.com. • dboras@vadaimage.com • 203-209-0887
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Last Minute Holiday Prep Ideas There’s not much we can do too far in advance for Thanksgiving. Shop in advance for your non-perishable turkey feast items and focus on getting a jump start on the true shopping madness that immediately follows your Thanksgiving day meal.
By Steven Brillon Professional Organizer It’s Halloween! Are you ready? Are you a True Blood Fan? Everyone else is (including me). Put on your best Sookie Stackhouse – all you need is a blonde wig, a t-shirt and a waiters apron and some blood for ambiance. Put your hair up high, squeeze yourself into a tight little flattering outfit, add some loud jewelry and you could be a Jersey Shore girl. Let’s also remember, with some careful thought and a lot of creativity, a thrift store can be a Halloween costume paradise.
If you’d rather not be trampled to death on Black Friday keep your shopping as local as it gets. Get a jump start on your holiday shopping without even leaving your home. Regardless of your religious affiliation or lack thereof, there’s a good chance that shopping for gifts is on your “to do” list. It can be difficult to shop for some, impossible to match individual styles and there are just some people who we can never make happy. In 2006 I created calendars from photographs of family and friends using snapfish.com (the secret is out). It’s easy to use, conveniently accessible by the internet service on your mac or pc and there are no lines. My family loved it and now it’s an annual must have. It’s a reminder that we are a part of each other’s lives and a great way to re-
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member birthdays and somehow endars, mousepads, mugs or simply takes a little of the commercialism have some of your best pics printed of the holiday out of the equation. and framed. A personal gift goes a long way. Snapfish has many personalized gift giving ideas that are personal, economical and you’ll find people will appreciate the personal touch. Upload some photos of your choosing and make gift photo books, cal-
The holidays are great in their moment but can be daunting in preparation. Make it easier on yourself this year and shop from home as much as you can. I’m guessing, like me, you won’t miss the long lines. Happy holidays.
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Spirit of WomanConnect™ ~ How to Make Networking a Fruitful Experience By Valerie J. Fields Networking can be a really intimidating experience, especially if you are just starting to do it. On the other hand however, it can also be a very inspiring one depending on how you approach your networking opportunities. There are some people who appear to be naturals at it, while others see networking as a colossal waste of their time, because they can’t see any tangible results. The difference between these two types of networkers is that one sees networking as an art, while the other see it as a science. The truth is networking is an art - it is the art of communication, of conversation and navigation; there is a system of rules or principles that govern its activity. Savvy or successful networkers know and understand this. Contrary to what may have been written by some, there are no real secrets to a successful or fruitful networking experience, but there are certain “acts of engagement” that can make a networking experience both satisfying and gratifying. The act of knowing when to speak, and when to listen; the act of engaging in conversation, not dominating the conversation; and, how to navigate the process, for instance, how not to be intrusive or invasive, but rather intuitive - being able to sense when you are being invited into someone’s presence. Having a sense of these things can make or break a networking experience. It’s a foregone conclusion that business networking is necessary if you want your business to succeed and grow. It is one of the few cost-effective ways to market your business and inform others about the unique products and services you have to offer. It’s an effective way to meet people, to grow your network and expand your circle of influence within a group of other like-minded and
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purposed individuals, who are there to do the same. But what ultimately sets apart a savvy networker from someone who is not, is that successful networkers get it. They understand that networking is not centered on their personal agenda; nor is it an opportunity to merely stockpile business cards and talk themselves up. The savvy networker understands
that networking is about creating authentic connections and establishing meaningful relationships. It’s about showing up and sharing. You are responsible for creating your own experience. If you want a fruitful experience, you have to sow some seeds. Not just the seed of your time, but also the seed of your
Testimonial “Valerie Fields is a powerful force and inspiration to all women. Her conferences and workshops offers to women healing, restoration and inspiration to become a better woman. I am grateful for her work and her ability to connect women with themselves and to each other.” De Boone CEO De Boone Consulting
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actions. It does not matter how productive or unproductive you believe a particular event to be, ultimately if you left and went home with the feeling that you got nothing out of it - whose fault is that? The universal principle of reaping what you sow, dictates that you take full accountability for your actions or inaction. I remember going to a particular networking event, that I knew early on was not going to work for me, but I stayed anyway complaining about how exclusive it was and how nearly impossible I thought it would be to get any face time with certain people who were there. Truth is, I allowed my experience to be guided by my pre-conceived notions and as a result I had a pretty unfruitful experience. What I did not realize, was that networking is not a line it’s a circle; that it’s not a once-and-for-all event, it’s a process. What I finally learned was that it’s all about reciprocity, a reciprocal act - less about what you are there to get and more about what you are there to give. I learned it is unfruitful to approach a networking opportunity just to gain access to a resource; my intention now is to go inspired to be ONE! If there are any secrets to a fruitful networking experience, I would say that would be one of them. Bottom line, if your networking is not working, check your approach and your MOTIVES! Valerie J. Fields is the founder of Spirit of Woman Unlimited - creator of signature empowerment events for women; and Spirit of WomanConnect, a monthly networking experience that connects the spirit of woman to the soul of empowerment, networking the way women are naturally designed to connect. Valerie can be reached directly at 203.912.2756 or by visiting her websites www.spiritofwomanunlimited. org and www.spiritofwomanconnect.org.
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Your Money, Your Business
Daniel R. Kaufman, CPA By: Daniel R. Kaufman, CPA Managing Member of Daniel R. Kaufman, CPA, LLC
we have at the beginning of the year? How did we utilize those resources? What do have left?
The main difference between a small family owned business and its regional, national, and international competitors is not only the size of the companies, the expertise of management or the drive of the owners, but the breadth and depth of the information available in the decision making process. In this modern economy, a one-person “shop” can work globally. There are no more boundaries.
The purpose of an accounting system is not just the collection, collation, and regurgitation of data in order to prepare a tax return or financial statement. These are compliance issues and have very little value. The true purpose of an accounting system is to provide the information needed in order to make intelligent decisions regarding the resources and assets of a business.
The accounting department is the main provider of information to the business owner. The main drawback is that the information provided is historical in nature. What resources did I, and my firm, provide a wide array of services to a diverse client base, including real estate professionals, attorney’s, doctors and dentists, chiropractors, insurance agencies, and contractors.
Computerized Accounting Systems I am fully expert in QuickBooks™ and Peachtree™ Accounting Software and can help you install, set-up and configure your new computerized bookkeeping system. In fact, in 2007 I became a Certified QuickBooks Pro-Advisor Once we install your system. My firm can help you customize it to meet your specific needs and resolve any issues that arise in your day-to-day use of the system.
Bookkeeping Services From periodic “write-up” services or “real-time” check writing and bookkeeping, I can take the worry out of running the accounting function or your small business. Today’s entrepreneur may not have the time or expertise to keep up with the minutiae of bookkeeping. Bank reconciliations, loans, credit cards, fixed assets, and depreciation
schedules, you could spend a significant portion of your time making sure that the information you need to make financial decisions is in good order. When are you going to have time to do what you are good at, the reason you opened your business was not to be a bookkeeper.
Income taxes Individual, business, estate, and gift tax, I have over a decade of experience helping people and small business meet tax compliance obligations. However, taxes are not limited to April 15th. The real goal; is not just filing your taxes, but also making sure that you only pay your fair share. Planning is a year-round pursuit, and if it is done well, you can sleep easy on April 14th knowing that you only paid what you were supposed to, and not one penny more.
Financial Statements There are many reasons to have financial statements prepared. You may need a loan from a bank, your vendors may require a financial statement to extend credit, or you may just want a periodic snap shot of how your business is doing. I can prepare financial statements for
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There are two main categories of data sets. We are familiar with financial metrics and the information provided by them. Operating expenses, cost of goods sold, current assets, long-term liabilities. These measures only tell half internal, management use only, or can provide a compilation, review, or audit, if those types of statements are called for as well
Financial Analysis Financial statements are a useful tool for running your business, a financial statement provides information that is critical in the decision making process, however financial statements of all types have severe limitations, the only see the past. In order to see where your business is going, how it compares with its peer group, how effectively the business coverts sales into profits, consider a more in-depth analysis using both financial and non-financial metrics.
Business Valuation Are you buying or selling a business? Are you taking on a new partner, or working with a financial planner to make sure your family’s needs are covered with life insurance? Consider the fact that your small business is an asset that may have a substantial value. However, in most instances you cannot go to the Wall Street Journal and look up the stock price. How will you know if you
the story. The other data set needed to make intelligent decisions regarding your business are non-financial and change depending on your specific industry. A retail store might want to track overhead or sales by square foot. A professional services firm may need to know net income per billable hour. A restaurant should probably concern itself with revenue per seat or table. When we combine financial and non-financial data, we can begin to plan and take a proactive approach to solving problems before they arise. Until this point, your accounting system is only telling you what happened yesterday. It is not helping you dictate what will happen tomorrow.
are overpaying for the business you are buying, or if you have enough life insurance to cover your assets when you pass away? Consider having Daniel R. Kaufman, CPA prepare a business valuation so you know how much your business is worth.
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Your Money, Your Business
What is in Your Counter? Easier Credit Card Processing. What are you paying for your Credit Card Processing? Do you really know what you are paying for your credit card processing services? While this is an important and essential service to bring in, maintain and keep your customer base growing, like all services, it is essential that you know what your cost is. Over my fourteen years in the industry I continue to hear this as a pet peeve, and a bone of contention and concern from many Merchants. Unlike other services and hard items that a merchant might consider a “cost of doing business expense” such as linens in a restaurant, fixtures and shelves to a retail merchant to display their goods, or phone and internet services, credit card processing is generally viewed as a necessary evil, even though for most businesses in today’s marketplace credit and debit card sales make up nearly 70% of their overall sales.
Jo knows merchant processing is a matter of dollars and sense. Hunter Lipton started Eagle Point Financial, a credit card processing company back in August 2008; by chance, Hunter had lunch with a good friend, in a similar business, who I had just met with to discuss some potential opportunities. Although Hunter had already started Eagle Point, it never occurred to this mutual acquaintance to put us together until that day and the rest is history. Hunter knows the world and I know credit card processing. It was a partnership made in credit card processing heaven. Josephine was a stay-at-home Mom opening and managing several small business ventures; including home decorating and improvement and another one designing and selling terrariums, all honing her entrepreneurial skills. Jo re-entered the work force in 1985, beginning her career in financial operation at a Gulf & Western subsidiary, after which she worked for Showtime Networks, as Director of Financial Operations, and then at First Data Merchant Services as Director of Credit Accounting managing 30 employees and a portfolio of $800MM. Jo splits her time between New York City and Long Island. We have been in business for almost two years, growing while we continue to pursue our goal and promise to our clients which is to offer fair and transparent pricing for our credit card processing services, while providing superior customer service. Our hope is that this article will provide you with a little more knowledge and information then you currently have on the subject. Knowledge is power and what you do with it is up to you.
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I am confident that after you read our article you will no longer feel this way. Our hope is that we will provide you with the information you need to have a better understanding and be more comfortable with the ins and outs of credit card processing and pricing. Our goal has always been to educate our Merchants. We believe that education and knowledge allows our customers to see the value in our service. Your Credit Card Processing Statement Even with my extensive experience in the industry, it never ceases to amaze me how creative some of the credit card processing companies can be with their monthly statements. This is not to say that they are charging unfairly or at an exorbitant rate, only that the credit card statement is often indecipherable even to a trained eye like mine. At the heart of the issue is that this industry is not currently regulated and a Processor can charge the merchant whatever the market will bear. Often time the credit card pricing offered to the merchant is a result of the geographic and economic climate of the merchant’s location (inner city, rural, high end) as well as, the existence and level of competition or options for the merchant to choose from. In addition to the multitude of pricing types, Tiered, Bundled, Enhanced Bill Back and Interchange Plus, confusion can reign when it is not clearly displayed on the monthly processing statement, or not outright explained to the merchant. For example, Tiered pricing is generally at three different pricing levels with a low Tier 1 or qualified rate, with much higher pricing for Tier 2 and Tier 3 sales. Needless to say the majority of the sales will fall into the higher tiered categories, thereby costing the Merchant more for this service. Bundled pricing pretty much speaks for itself, in that all the fees are bundled into a few categories, and are not clearly stated, making it impossible to understand true cost.
I would like to explain to you how Eagle Point treats our customers and tell you a little bit about the competitive and transparent pricing structure we offer. What does that mean to our Merchant? Unlike some of our competitors, our monthly merchant processing statement is clear and concise with transparent pricing. I’m sure you are wondering, what transparent pricing is, and how it differs from Tiered or Bundled. First, there are no hidden or unexplained fees making our pricing structure transparent to our customers, this is also referred to as pass through pricing. With transparent pricing we pass through the hard cost of fees that Eagle Point pays to Visa, Mastercard and Discover. In addition to the hard cost we pass through to our merchant, Eagle Points charges a marginal mark up. In these current economic times, where business owners are watching every dollar, we need to make sure that we understand exactly what we are paying to our essential vendors to control costs and overhead. Eagle Point’s assurance to our customers is that without fail you will know exactly what your costs are for our service. Eagle Point consistently shows our clients a savings of between forty and fifty percent over cost after we perform an analysis on their current credit card processing statement. The analysis is free and we are so confident in our pricing that if we cannot meet or beat your current price, we will give you a $500.00 Visa/MC debit card. Eagle Point has a vast array of merchants using our services around the country, with our highest concentration of clients in New York City and the Connecticut area. Our client base extends from a 100 location parking garage in New York City to many luxury brand retailers, as well as, famous and well known restaurants nationwide. Of course my personal favorite is the fabulous beauty salons we have in our client base. As a lady with a few years behind her, (and for you folks that are not in this category it’s when they start to call you wise or learned, or worse someone calls you Ma’am) it is always a wonderful experience to go to the Valery Joseph Salon on Madison Avenue and get a great hair cut and color experience. Revi Roman the owner of Valery Joseph has three other salons in the City, which I like to frequent as often as possible, and one in Bridgehampton for the summer months.
Eagle Point is growing our business one merchant at a time by building relationships with our local venders and long distance through our network of Sales Representatives. Eagle Point believes in supporting the growth of our merchant’s businesses by dining at their restaurants, parking in their garages and enjoying their salons.
We pride ourselves on superior customer service and added value products, to support most any need our client may have, thereby giving them the ability to grow and support their clients’ needs. In the next issue I would like to talk about our “added value products and services” and how they can help you to grow your business and client base. After reading our article if you should have any questions regarding your credit card processing, or would like us to perform a free financial analysis, please do not hesitate to call us. We can be reached at 212-207-3427, my extension is 116.
Our Sales Manager, Brian Feeley, has cultivated and grown his relationship with many merchants in Fairfield County and neighboring Connecticut areas. When we speak to his customers it is clear they love Brian’s home town style and how he supports their needs in a very personal way. They also know that he has the might and support of a large corporation behind the scenes to assist him and his customers whenever needed.
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Radio Talk Show
RADIO TALK SHOW HOST LISA WEXLER Today in the New York Times, I read an article written by Katrin Bennold, which began with this startling opening line: “Weeks after giving birth, French women are offered a state-paid, extended course of vaginal gymnastics, complete with personal trainer, electric stimulation devices and computer games that reward particularly nimble squeezing.” A personal trainer to cheer on my Kegels? Wow! Electric stimulation devices? The mind reels. Viva La France! Or, as the kids would say, not. How and when and whether my perineal wall recovers its former elasticity is my business. Thinking back, my sex life was low on my ladder of priorities as a new mom. Sleep. Now there was a craving I yearned to satisfy! Although if I am being completely honest with myself, maybe more of those Kegels, and less of those bagels, would not have been such a bad thing. In the land of 21st
century France, women are apparently expected to “make love again soon and mak[e] more babies.” To that end, France offers “free nursery schools, generous family allowances, tax deductions for each child, discounts for large familieS on high-speed trains, and the expectation that after a paid, four-month maternity leave mothers are back in shape — and back at work.” Here is the good part. France spends more per capita on child care and family benefits than any other European nation. The impediments that face women in the United States when they want to return to work do not exist in France. Most toddlers are in a full-time state child care program by the age of two, often until 6:30 at night. Child care workers are paid well, and the health care system delivers when it comes to
pediatric care. Moreover, the working woman is respected in France; she is not made to feel like less of a mother by reentering the adult world full-time. Accompanying the Times article was a picture showing what purported to be a typical example of the young, French working mother. Stick thin in a pencil skirt with stiletto heels, the mom cradles a three-month old in one arm, holds the hand of a toddler in the other, while her elder two children walk ahead to the metro, i.e., subway. She also happens to be a doctor. And she wouldn’t think of letting her husband do the shopping or cooking; that’s what Saturdays are for. So what’s wrong with this picture of the accomplished woman who manages both a career and family? For one thing, that mother is not smiling. Would you be? Despite all the family benefits to encourage baby-making, France ranks 46th in the World Economic Forum’s 2010 gender equality report, trailing the United States, most of Europe, Kazakhstan and Jamaica. As Ms. Bennold states, “Eightytwo percent of French women aged 2549 work, many of them full-time, …[but] French women earn 26 percent less than men [and] spend twice as much time on domestic tasks. They have the most babies in Europe, but are also the biggest consumers of anti-depressants.“(emph. supp.) Let me get this straight. In France, women are expected to do it all while looking gorgeous. Yet they get paid less than men for the same efforts and suffer depression on a greater scale than other Europeans. Why am I not surprised? Does this scenario sound as depressingly familiar to you to as it does to me?
One of my mottoes in life is “You can have it all, but not at the same time.” I wanted it all- a rewarding career, a husband, children, involvement in my community and time to play with friends. But I never expected to have time to play with my friends while I was preparing for trial. I never expected to look stunning while pushing my toddler in a stroller at the park. And if anyone had dared look askance at my stained sweatpants and torn socks when I opened my front door, I would have been happy to show him or her the way out. We women have to go easy on ourselves. Of course we must demand equal pay for equal work. Do any of us doubt that men would make the same demand if the situation were reversed? We must demand better childcare benefits because they are so obviously needed by men, women and children. But when we eventually attain those goals, and we will, we need to remember that we are not superwomen. We do not need to measure up to anyone’s expectations but our own. If we are lucky, the sands of time will last long enough for each one of us to have time with those we love, a fulfilling career, and the sense of having helped our community. We can probably even squeeze in a few kegels while we are at it- but only when we are ready.
Lisa Wexler is a talk radio host, an attorney, a co-author of Secrets of A Jewish Mother (Penguin/Dutton) and the co-founder of Women In Power , a nonprofit association whose credo is Knowledge ~ Confidence ~ Power. To hear Lisa’s shows or contact her, go to www. lisawexler.com. Hear Lisa every weekday at AM 1400 WSTC/1350 WNLK from 4:006:00 P.M.
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Treasures in Fairfield
The Fairfield Museum and History Center Shop is a Treasure Quickly Being Discovered “It’s almost impossible not to find a gift which will be received with enthusiasm and delight in our gift shop,” says Lee Walther, manager and buyer for the Fairfield Museum and History Center gift shop, a wonderful treasure inside the museum. “Our visitors are always surprised at the wonderful and unique items displayed in the store and we consider our gift shop the ‘go-to-place’ when a buyer is looking for something special and a great shopping experience.
creative and astute about buying gifts that relate to major exhibits. For the current exhibit, It’s a Hit! A Hometown View of Our National Pastime, a retrospective on the history of baseball in Connecticut, she found a wealth of baseball treasures, including baseball-related art, sculpture and photographs by nationally known artists, as well as baseball-related games and toys. Those items will be on sale over the next five months until the exhibit closes January 2ND, 2011.
Visitors will find a multitude of elegant and stylish pieces for the home, personal use and for special occasions. The Fairfield Museum Shop features a collection of carefully selected tabletop accessories for entertaining and home décor; as well as books, one-of-a-kind jewelry, stationery, blown glass, candles, women’s accessories and children’s merchandise. Shoppers will also discover original pieces by featured artists throughout the year.
“In one case I’ve discovered a wonderful supplier, who used bits and pieces of game-used baseballs and bats, crafted into necklaces, cufflinks wallets and bottle openers,” Walther says. “There is a hologram on the back of each item that shows in which memorable game the ball or bat was used. It’s fascinating.” The gift shop hours are the same as the museum’s hours – 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. during the week and noon to 4 p.m. on Saturday and Sunday. Museum members receive a 10 percent discount on their purchases. There is no admission for the gift shop and it is not restricted to museum goers.
Walther assures shoppers that they’ll be delighted with the shop and will want to visit again and again. Fairfield Museum and History Center members save 10% on Museum Shop items over $10. All shop proceeds support the museum’s exhibitions and education programs. One of the things that makes the shop especially valuable to the museum is that Walther is extremely
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Health & Beauty
What’s in at Intrigue Hair Salon By Ruby Masters The Intrigue Hair Salon on The Brick Walk in Fairfield is co-owned by Sally Goldstein and Carolyn Pease, a mother and daughter team. They have been in business since March 2002 and have seen their business grow ever since. They attribute their success to the special attention they give to each and every client. Starting with a consultation the stylists take into consideration what suits the client best. “We take into consideration your lifestyle, whether you’re a stay-at-home Mom or a professional or a student, we discuss maintenance and realistic upkeep of your hair and we find looks that suit your lifestyle,” said Goldstein. Four full-time stylists now work alongside Goldstein and Pease. Each stylist is skilled in all of the services offered at the salon: cuts, color, extensions, straightening, permanent waving and keratin protein treat-
ments. However, each stylist has her own creative eye and talent that she brings to her work. Stylist Cori Dunn said, “Transforming coarse frizzy wavy hair into smooth shiny and manageable hair is my expertise.” At Intrigue, the latest technologies and products are used for straightening and smoothing hair. Extensions using So.Cap which are natural strands of hair is another service offered at the salon. Stylist Krystin Albarelli said “I love doing these extensions, they are bonded to your hair with a protein, no glue or chemicals, can add them for length and volume. They last up to 6-7 months and come in 82 colors including flashy accent pieces.” Hair styling plays a big part in personal image and defining who you are. Discovering a client’s personal look is the job of the stylist. “I look at the face first, I pull back
Testimonial “I’ve been coming here since it opened and I always leave in a good mood. They go above and beyond to do their best and to make me happy.” - Dolores Mason, customer since 2002
the hair and examine the client’s face. And then come up with a hair style that will frame and compliment their face,” said stylist Katie Daniel. Keeping up with the newest fashion trends is necessary for staying on the cutting edge. At Intrigue the stylists love to try new looks and techniques. Stylist Jill Brenner is enjoying a new highlighting technique called “balayage” a French word that means “to sweep” and refers to the sweeping motion in which the color is applied. “Balayage is free-form painting, especially to the ends which gives more of a natural look, like the sun did it,” said Brenner. The atmosphere at Intrigue Hair Salon is light and happy. Staff and customers talk and laugh, the mood is good. Dunn, who is a very bubbly stylist said, “I love being a hair stylist. I love having the opportunity to make my clients look their best and feel good.”
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We asked the stylists, “What’s in?” Jill Brenner “Balayage, free-form painting of color, we’re seeing a lot of that in magazines right now”
Krystin Albarelli “We are seeing celebrities adding natural hair extensions that add length, volume and a high dimension of color. Accent pieces in hot pink, electric blue or purple for flash and fun.”
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“Red, lots of red these days. Red highlights. Burgundy highlights. Brunettes are in style.”
“People are either going long, with long layers or they are going short. There’s no in between right now. I love cuts with a side bang.”
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Now that we got the logistics out of the way from the first article we can discuss the “fluff” side of dog grooming. Grooming To Go has brought grooming right to you. You can design any style for your special pooch. There is the “Puppy cut” that brings that ‘Oh so cute’ fluff ball back. The hair/fur is kept at a longer length, but kept all the same length. This type of cut will also help get the dog used to grooming at first, but is a fun look all year round. The “Retriever cut” is common for long haired and curly haired dogs in order to make the fur/hair more manageable. This cut is basically shaving the hair/fur to about an inch long. This cut also helps keep long haired dogs cooler in the warmer months. The “Teddy Bear” cut is meant to keep the dog cuddly and soft looking. Similar to the puppy cut but a bit shorter. This cut for dogs is like getting a ‘trim’ for humans. It’s simply for maintenance and clean lines. There are of course the traditional cuts that are breed specific, or you can combine any style to create your own look. Many dog owners choose to style their dogs fur/hair in a style that isn’t traditional, like a Mohawk. In the end it is all up to you and the personality of you dog. I am just here to help you create it!
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Community
No Pearls Necessary: The Gloves are Off!
By Darcy Pennoyer Smith & Angelica Oxford The Junior League of StamfordNorwalk has come a long way since 1923. While some women still wear pearls, members of JLSN are not necessarily the debutantes and housewives of yesteryear. Sure, many JLSN members are stay-athome moms, and sure, women in the fifties did work outside the home. But the face of Junior League is changing, in Fairfield County and in all of the 192 Junior Leagues around the world. Our members are career-driven women who are community-minded, and you might be surprised to learn that their lives run the gamut from fresh faced single twenty-somethings who work in the city to seasoned women who find time to volunteer, work, and still be top-notch grandmothers. Many JLSN members serve as members of Board of Directors or Executive Directors in other non-profits all over lower Fairfield County, and all JLSN members bring a depth of experience that is indeed changing the community all around us. Joining JLSN is a great way to meet other community-minded women and make friends, and that is actually one of the reasons women join JLSN – especially if they are new in town. Close knit and lifelong friendships form among members, and these relationships take root as soon as women join. Two times a year, in September and January, women twenty-one and older of all races, origins and creeds are invited
to join JLSN. Once they sign the dotted line, they join what’s called a Provisional class which meets about four times so they can learn the ropes of the Leagues. JLSN has something for everyone. The entire organization is run by volunteers, so there is an opportunity to fundraise, research community needs, and execute community programs - and everything in between. JLSN’s focus right now is diaper need. Not for its members, but for lowincome families in Fairfield County who can’t afford diapers because such things aren’t covered by state or federal assistance. When JLSN created the Diaper Co-Op, one of only about a dozen diaper banks in the country, President Angelica Oxford knew they were onto something good. “We all take for granted the easy accessibility of diapers and would never think of a time or reason when we would need to re-use a diaper or leave it on our babies until it can’t hold anymore. Yet, this is among one of the choices low income families have to make every single day. We just couldn’t stand idly by.” As of today, Diaper Co-Op has not only distributed over 215,000 diapers, but JLSN was asked by Kimberly-Clark, maker of Huggies brand diapers, to team up on Every Little Bottom, their national campaign to address diaper need. Oxford says, “On all fronts, we are going places. Diaper Co-Op is strong and growing even stronger. Our fundraising events, such as Winterfair, are thriving. We even just received a $5,000 grant from OPUS, and the doors are opening for our community projects.” Members of JLSN also like to have a good time. It’s not a social club, but it’s social. Activities run the gamut from purely social opportunities like organized happy hours to family events and training events. There are indeed requirements about how many volunteer hours a woman has
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to commit, so our members take their commitment seriously even while having fun. In fact, once a woman has been in the League a while, she can opt to join the Sustainer member group. Sustainers remain involved in the League even after they do not have to meet the volunteer and committee requirements. Whether they train it into the city as a group to visit a museum, participate in a book club, advise a committee of Active members, conduct smaller
fundraisers, or volunteer help on projects, Sustainers provide a significant part of the lifeblood of JLSN. Headquartered on the Post Road in Darien, The Junior League of Stamford-Norwalk might resemble a sorority of sorts to an outsider. Peel away the old layer of that onion, and you’ll see that the gloves are indeed off, the sleeves are rolled up, and these women are getting their hands dirty.
About Winterfair, JLSN’s Annual Holiday Gift Market The 32nd Annual Winterfair Holiday Gift Market, a Fairfield County tradition, will be held on November 12th and 13th at the Stamford Mariott & Spa, 243 Tresser Boulevard in Stamford. Winterfair features exciting vendors who offer a variety of unique merchandise and beautifully handcrafted items to suit all tastes and price points. Our shoppers return year after year to find gourmet food items, accessories for their homes, fashions for the entire family and those one-of-a-kind gift items that add sparkle and fun to holiday gift giving. This year’s Winterfair will host a variety of events for children such as complimentary professional face painting, among other special activities. Visit http://www.jlsn.org/?nd=special_events for a schedule of special events. Hours: Friday, Nov. 12: 10:00 AM – 7 PM. Saturday, Nov. 13: 9:00 AM – 4:00 PM Admission: Adults $5.00, Seniors $4.00, Children under 12 are free and no ticket needs to be purchased.
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Thinking Out Loud By Gina Brillon Men and women have completely different thought patterns, and this is part of the eternal battle that we all face in relationships, trying to understand someone who isn’t even on the same plane as you. Men are logical, rational thinkers they have a problem they find a solution and that’s the end of the problem. Women are emotional thinkers so we have problem find a solution but we don’t know how we feel about the solution so now we have two problems. I’m not really sure if this problem can be resolved in one article written by a Latina from the Bronx, but I’ll try. Are there any rational women out there? Of course there are, saying that
Thoughts on Thoughts there aren’t just because the majority of women are affected by their emotions would be the same as likening all men with dogs just because a large percentage have trouble with fidelity. It is my opinion that it takes women longer and much more effort to be as logical as men seem to intrinsically be. Why is that? Well I’m no psychologist but I’m guessing since all things seem to come down to childhood; I’m guessing that as children we are catered to and conditioned differently. Men are taught and raised to be the providers and protectors, IE the boy who gets sent out into the woods to fend for himself and become a man verses the woman who
stays at home and plays with her easy bake oven until the man comes home. Now before anyone gets all activisty on me, I am not saying that women cannot be the bread winners, what I am saying is that the way you are brought up sets you on a path, a way of thinking that determines the quality of your life and your ability to make rational, logical decisions. How many times have you said to yourself “my boyfriend/husband is a insensitive jerk!” or “doesn’t he understand how that makes me feel?” and guys how many times have you thought (but never dared to say) “She’s acting like a psycho” or “she’s acting like a child” ? I know, thousands of times, in various relationships. Here’s a revolutionary idea, what if, we accepted the fact that we are dealing with two different ways of thinking, and began to understand and decipher the difference between the two. I’ll give an example, a woman has a dream of being a successful writer her
boyfriend tells her she lives in a dream world and should consider a more realistic way of making money. Now the woman feels unsupported and hurt that the man that she loves does not believe in her and the man feels frustrated and annoyed that the woman will not listen to him. Here’s where the revolutionary idea comes into play, what the woman should realize is that her boyfriend is not wrong, he’s merely using the logic and the fact that it is extremely difficult to make money as a writer and that you need to implement a structured goal oriented plan for success. What the man needs to realize is that what he should have said was “you want to be a writer? Okay what is your game plan?” thus being less hurtful and more helpful. A woman will not listen to you if she feels hurt or disrespected. Understanding the different thought patterns is just the first step in making relationships easier. Try and implement this new knowledge into your own relationships and let me know how it works out.
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