nola family Parent Fearlessly
April 2019
CHASING THE BALL TRAVEL TEAM SPORTS P. 15
Life's a Garden
SPECIAL NEEDS
P. 26
P. 17
KIDS DIG IT.
EVENTS, ABA THERAPY, GEAR, AND MORE!
SKIPPING TOWN WITH THE KIDS 5 WEEKEND GETAWAYS P. 9
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Pat Blackwell, Ph.D., is a licensed developmental psychologist who writes Nola Family’s award-winning “Learning Years” column.
Scott Campbell is publisher and founder of River Road Press, a local boutique publisher of local and regional authors.
Laura Claverie is Nola Family’s Hip Grannie. She is a local mother, grandmother, and writer.
nola family publisher/editor ann bower herren ann@nolafamily.com managing editor tim meyer tim@nolafamily.com
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chapelle johnson marketing/communications intern lara mekus ad production sara youngblood
Camille Quinn is a licensed clinical social worker and parent educator at The Parenting Center at Children’s Hospital and a contributor to Nola Family’s “Parenting Corner” column.
contributing photography twirl photography
info@nolafamily.com or 504.866.0555 James Sebastien is a local writer who’s covered everything from the coin-operated amusement industry to local news and community.
The opinions expressed in this publication are those of the authors and/or contributors and do not necessarily reflect those of the publisher, editor, or advertisers. For reprint information, contact ann@nolafamily.com
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COMMITMENT
If the April issue had an overall theme that spoke to me directly, I think it would be “commitment.” Our spotlight story on Nikki Leali highlights an altruistic commitment at an early age, while a feature on travel teams by a writer new to Nola Family shows what parents are willing to commit to in the face of time and money. Our “Hip Grannie,” Laura Claverie, made a commitment to her granddaughter even after years of past experiences told her it might not go as well as planned. This had me thinking my own commitments, especially to my son. Dr. Pat Blackwell’s “Learning Years” column focuses on negative thinking. Never would I imagine that I’d hear my 7-year-old say, “I’m too stupid” or “Everyone else is better than me.” He’s bound to overreact when his pessimistic views get the better of him, just as Dr. Blackwell suggests. He was always such a confident toddler that I thought he would grow into a confident adolescent. This wasn’t the case. As I read Dr. Blackwell’s column, I saw my son reflected in her examples. Then I remembered talking to a few other parents with kids in my son’s class say that they, too, see their children suffer from anxiety. I always scoffed at the notion that kids suffer from anxiety. What do they have to worry about? I’m the one with a mortgage, a car note, electric bills, phone bills, doctor appointments, meetings, deadlines — my car needs gas, and a break tag, and an oil change… I wish that all I had to worry about was a soccer game on Monday evenings, if I’ve fed my pet fish, and if Joe can come out and play when I get home from school. My son and I have a lot in common, and not all of it stems from my better traits, but while I’m more laidback, he’s a worrier. That’s who he is. I don’t mean to sound insensitive, but all suffering is subjective. I can’t always fully understand where his anxiety comes from, but I can make the commitment, as his father, to try and not make him feel like his feelings and emotions aren’t valid — but at the same time prepare him for a world where he won’t always measure up, either from his peers or himself. I’ve always said that parenting is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do and the easiest thing I’ve ever had to do. But the easy parts do make the hard parts all worth it.
A publication of Erin Cohn and Chapelle Johnson are our amazing edit interns at Nola Family magazine.
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Here’s to commitments, whatever they may be,
Tim Meyer
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Kate Stevens is a freelance writer and frequent contributor to Nola Family.
From the Editor
office manager jenny ziglin jenny@nolafamily.com
edit interns erin cohn Pamela Marquis has lived in New Orleans for more than 40 years. She is a freelance writer, specializing in business and garden writing, and holds a master’s in social work from the University of Missouri.
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nola family CONTENTS APRIL 2019
ON THE COVER Sportsmanship is a lesson learned for Gavin, 10, and Finley Hardie, 13. Photo by Twirl Photography.
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Easter Egg Hunt
Longue Vue House and Gardens, 7 Bamboo Road. Bring your basket, and hop on over for a morning of fun, face painting, lawn games, plant sales, egg hunting, and more. $12/members; $15/ non-members; free/children 2 & under. Purchase tickets online at longuevue.com. Contact Lydia Vaughn at lvaughn@longuevue.com for more information. 9:30-10:30 am; 12:30-1:30 pm.
Dylon Wertz, 13, pitches during a game for his travel team, the Aces.
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A FEW WORDS 5 From the editor
FEATURES
28 Hip Grannie
Close-to-home destinations
30 Parenting Corner Talking about touchy topics 31 In the Know Classes and family support
17 Gear to Get
resources
Development and emerging abilities toys
34 Learning Years
19 Heart and Sole Special needs prom
20 A Family’s Journey Autism and applied behavior analysis
22 Inclusive Events Special needs event calendar
26 Family Gardening Playing in the dirt
29 Zoo-To-Do Kids Don’t miss this can’t-miss event
Negative thinking
IN EACH ISSUE 7 Eggrific Fun Easter events and egg hunts calendar
11 Mom About Town Leah Blake
25 Pull-out calendar Celebrating Earth Month
32 Spotlight Crescent City Reading Buddies
33 From Our Bookshelf A loaded events calendar
37 Out & About Where, when, and what to do
Mount Carmel Academy’s Easter Eggstravaganza
7027 Milne Blvd. Enjoy a full breakfast, visit with the Easter Bunny, crafts, games, and an Easter egg hunt. Breakfast begins at 9:30 am followed by the egg hunt at 11:30 am. To purchase tickets, visit mcacubs.com/alumnae/alumnae-events/easter-eggstravaganza. $8/child ($10 at door), $10/adult ($12 at door), children under 1 free.
JFK Eggstravaganza
JFK Martial Arts Covington, 5247 Pinnacle Parkway, Covington. Head to this Easter Egg hunt, jump in the bounce house, and take a professional photo with the Easter Bunny with photographer Amy Tyson. Free admission. 11 am-2 pm.
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Belle Chasse YMCA, 8101 LA-23, Belle Chasse. A good ol’ fashioned Easter egg hunt. Free event. Call 504.392.9622 for more information.
St. Charles Community Eggstravaganza
St. Charles UMC, 1905 Ormond Blvd., Destrehan. An afternoon of Easter egg fun for the whole family. Petting zoo, Easter Bunny, egg games, egg hunt, bounce house, cupcake decorating, food, and more. Free and open to all. 4 pm.
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Breakfast with the Easter Bunny
Dave & Buster’s, 1200 Poydras St. Enjoy breakfast followed by an Easter egg hunt. Includes pictures with the Easter Bunny, coloring, and cartoons. For more information, call 504.226.3207. Ticket pricing starts at $16.26. 8-11 am.
Egg Scramble
Bunny Brunch
East Jefferson YMCA, 6691 Riverside Dr., Metairie. Bring the whole family and enjoy a special brunch with the Easter Bunny. Free event. Call 504.888.9622 for more information.
New Orleans City Park. More than 36,000 eggs will be scattered throughout Carousel Gardens Amusement Park and Storyland. Expect music, face painters, the Easter Bunny, and a balloon artist. $5/Friends of City Park; $10/non-member; free/children 1 & under. Buy tickets in advance, as the event is expected to sell out. For more information, visit NewOrleansCityPark.com. 9 am-noon. Continues through April 14.
Opera Guild Egg Hunt
NOMA Egg Hunt & Family Festival
Opera Guild Home, 2504 Prytania St. Enjoy an interactive MetroPelican opera performance, then follow the Easter Bunny outside to hunt for jelly bean-filled eggs. $15/person; free/children 2 & under; advance purchase required. Ticket proceeds benefit the New Orleans Opera. For more information, call 504.529.2278, ext. 227. 2-5pm.
The Sydney and Walda Besthoff Sculpture Garden. Two egg hunts, a petting zoo, spacewalks, face painting, crafts, activities, refreshments, and more. $10/NOMA members; $12/non-members; $15 at the door; free/children 2 & under. 10 am-1 pm. *Nola Family is a proud sponsor.
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5 worst foods for kids’ teeth
9 Weekend Getaways
Travel Sports Teams
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12 Dental Health
Guest lecturing
15 Committed to the Game
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EDUCATION & GUIDANCE
Easter Egg Hunt
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Brunch with the Bunny
Clearview Mall, Clearview Room. Celebrate Easter and the start of spring with everyone’s favorite floppy-eared creature, the Easter Bunny. Enjoy a brunch buffet while the Bunny visits each table for photo opportunities. For more information, please call 504.885.0202. $20/person. 11 am-1 pm.
Easter Eggstravaganza
Behrman Park and Joe Brown Park. Hop over with your family and friends to the 6th annual NORD Easter Eggstravaganza. Children will enjoy an Easter egg hunt, bounce houses, carnival games, raffles, and music. Don't forget to bring your own basket. For ages 1-12. Free event. 11 am-2 pm. Continues on April 20 at the Lafitte Greenway.
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First Lady Easter Egg Hunt
Sidney D. Torres Memorial Park, 8301 W. Judge Perez Drive, Chalmette. Head to St. Bernard Parish for the 4th annual First Lady Easter Egg Hunt. Children ages 10 & under will enjoy a day filled with activities ranging from a traditional Easter egg hunt, an Easter Bunny picture station, various yard games, obstacle course, train rides, and more. 10 am-noon.
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Bunny Fest
Lafreniere Park, Metairie. Enjoy a jam-packed fest filled with fun, food, and bunnies. Activities include bounce houses, sack races, egg hunts, egg spoon game, pony rides, and more. Visit bunnyfest. org for more information. Event continues on April 20. 11 am-6 pm.
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Bunny Breakfast and Easter Egg Hunt
St. Matthew’s United Methodist Church, 6017 Camphor St., Metairie. Kids can dine and take pictures with the Easter Bunny, with games and crafts following the egg hunt. Don’t forget your basket. For more information, call 504.888.1155. 10 am-noon.
Hoppin’ Down the River Cruise
on the Paddlewheeler Creole Queen. Mingle and take pictures with Bourgeois the Cajun Easter Bunny, see and hold a live alligator, play games, get your face painted, and enjoy a child-friendly lunch buffet and Easter treats. $10-$59/person. For more information, call 504.529.4567. 10:30 am-noon; 2-3:30 pm.
St. Tammany Easter Eggstival
Upstage, 663 Brownswitch Road, Slidell. Family-fun filled event includes pictures with the Easter Bunny, egg hunt, games/prizes, food/ refreshments, local vendor shops, and more. For more information, visit upstagellc.com. $3/child, adults are free. 11 am-4 pm.
Weekend Getaways Schools will soon release children out into the wild (i.e., your living rooms) for summer vacation. Beat the summer dregs with these family-friendly destinations that are close enough to home for a long weekend getaway, but far enough to count as vacation.
Land-O-Pines Family Campground
Liuzza Land’s Easter Egg Hunt
56186 Holden Circle, Amite. Come see the Easter Bunny, hunt for one of the prize eggs, pick a container of delicious strawberries, and enjoy all your favorite Liuzza Land activities. Tickets must be purchased in advance. Visit liuzzaland.com for more information. $10/person, children under 2 are free. Egg hunts scheduled by age. Opens at 11 am.
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EASTER
Historic French Quarter Easter Parade
Fontainebleau State Park
White Sands Lake Day Beach
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Reunion Lake
Ponchatoula, LA
Distance from New Orleans: 53 miles A luxury, high-end, private RV resort? Opening April 5. For families who love the outdoors, but don’t love the outdoors. You do need to own an RV to enjoy everything that Reunion Lake has to offer: poolside food and drink service, heated lazy river, floating lake obstacle course, family pool, cabanas, giant hot tub, mini-golf, Wi-Fi and cable TV, fenced-in dog park, and a lot more.
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Royal Sonesta New Orleans, 300 Bourbon St. Reserve your table at the Grand Ballroom and let their culinary team do all the cooking this year. Enjoy over 15 food displays, live entertainment, free flowing champagne, and more. $75/adult, $35/children ages 5-12. Half-hourly seatings from 10:30 am-2 pm.
Franklinton, LA
Distance from New Orleans: 52 miles The 2019 season begins May 4. This beach on a lake offers everything a beach on the ocean might: swimming, shelter rentals, floating inflatables, boat rentals, and pizza delivery. That’s right, nearby Hunt Brothers Pizza will deliver your family meal right to you on the beach. White Sands doesn’t offer overnight accommodations, but nearby campgrounds offer tent and cabin rentals. Try the Bogue Chitto Tubing Center and Louisiana River Adventures for a well-rounded water-fun weekend.
Chris Owens Easter Parade
Easter Brunch
Mandeville, LA
Distance from New Orleans: 50 miles The 2,800-acre park is located on the north shore of Lake Pontchartrain. On a clear day, visitors can see the lake dotted with multi-colored sailboats of all sizes and types. The sandy beach also is a delight for sunbathers and the park's nature trail is a favorite of nature lovers. After a full day of activities, overnight guests can enjoy the rustic charm of the campground or the scenic setting of the lakefront cabins.
613 Bienville St. Historic parade including a stop at the St. Louis Cathedral for 11am mass. The parade features stylish ladies in lovely hats handing out goodies from carriages and convertibles. Parade snakes through the French Quarter and ends back at Arnaud’s Restaurant. 10 am and 1 pm.
Canal & Bourbon St. Chris Owens, a French Quarter entertainer, rides as grand duchess every year leading a procession of carriages, limos, wagons, trolleys, and vintage cars. Also joining in the festivities are brass bands and walking groups. Parade route culminates at the Astor Crowne Hotel. 1 pm.
Covington, LA
Distance from New Orleans: 50 miles For over 30 years, this NOLA close-proximity campground has been a long-standing summer getaway tradition for locals. At only about 50 miles from the city, Land-O-Pines offers the outdoors without the long-haul drive. Campers can not only enjoy tent, RV, and cabin rentals, but also pools, a waterslide, mini-golf, or any one of its events like the Arrowhead Digging Expedition, April 12-14, or Big Al’s Crawfish Boil, April 26-28.
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Lumberton, MS
Distance from New Orleans: 88 miles For families looking for a little peace and quiet, Little Black Creek offers sunset watching from porch wooden rockers and fully-furnished cabins with enough rooms that siblings, or parents, aren’t tripping over each other. Boat rentals and waterfront accommodations also offer peaceful fishing around a 640-acre lake and quiet family-ruminations along the nature trail.
Margaritaville Resort
Biloxi, MS
Distance from New Orleans: 92 miles Deep in the Las Vegas of the South is a family haven surrounded by the clink and clang of casinos. The Margaritaville in Biloxi is a 23-story, family-friendly resort with 371 rooms, but what is most impressive is the 55,000-square-foot arcade and family entertainment center that takes up the entire second floor. Open to everyone, not just resort guests, Escape offers over 100 arcade games, redemption center, two-story rock climbing wall, and the LandShark Bar & Grill.
Kisatchie National Forest
Natchitoches, LA
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Leah is the co-owner and curator of Century Girl, a vintage clothing store in Uptown New Orleans. Inspired by New Orleans’ fashion, Leah’s boutique showcases vintage clothing as works of art. When she’s not helping others with exploring their style, she enjoys spending time with her husband, Peter, and children, Julian, 4, and Susan Estelle, 1.
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Distance from New Orleans: 236 miles An almost 4-hour drive will transport families from the Big Easy to the lush green of Kisatchie National Forest — the only naturally occuring forest in Louisiana. Over 604,000 acres are open for families to hike, fish, hunt, bike, canoe, camp, ride horseback, swim, and more. If staying overnight isn’t your family’s thing, the eastern side of the forest is closest to rustic bed and breakfasts in Natchitoches and grab warm meal at The Landing Restaurant & Bar or Lasyone's Meat Pie Restaurant.
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“Sunday Funday for our family is typically spent at a playground, visiting one of the Audubon trifecta (the zoo, aquarium, or insectarium), or just tooling around Magazine Street. I work most weekends so my husband gets major points for taking the kids.” Audubon Butterfly Garden and Insectarium, 423 Canal St.
SHOP
“I love supporting other femaleowned businesses on Magazine Street. Magpie is my go-to for unique and beautiful vintage jewelry. Sunday Shop right next door is a cozy and inviting place to buy furniture and home decor. I like to pop in and pretend it’s my own apartment.”
Superior Seafood, 4338 St Charles Ave
Magpie, 4529 Magazine St.
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FESTIVAL
“As a working parent, it can be tough to find time for this, beyond our couch and a glass of wine (or two). But when we can, we like to get a babysitter and escape for a few hours in a private karaoke room. Nothing is better for the soul than a good duet.”
“There’s no way we’d skip seeing the Stones if we were able to make it to Jazz Fest. As a vintage lover, I appreciate things that have stood the test of time and Mick Jaggar never goes out of style.”
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“In our neighborhood — the downtown end of Magazine Street in the Lower Garden District — we rely on Juan’s Flying Burrito and Pho No Viet. Molly’s Rise and Shine is a new favorite for breakfast (my son loves their playful interior). For a bit more of a night out, Superior Seafood is ideal: it’s upscale enough to feel like a proper date, but loud and busy enough to bring the kids.”
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MOM ABOUT TOWN
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Little Black Creek Campground & Park
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Worst Foods for Your Kid’s
teeth
(and Good Alternatives)
Susan Fallahi, D.D.S., of Uptown Pediatric Dentistry.
We all know that sugary treats are bad for your kid’s teeth, but what about sticky or starchy foods? Dr. Susan Fallahi of Uptown Pediatric Dentistry helps set the record straight on five worst foods for young teeth — and some better options.
Dried Fruits Goldfish/Crackers Although a popular and convenient on-the-go snack for kids, the starches in carbohydrate-based foods are broken down by saliva and turned into sugars. These sugars can cause cavities, of course. In addition, as these starchy foods are chewed, they easily get stuck in the crevices on top of and between teeth, and can stay around for hours after the bag has long been emptied.
Most parents choose dried fruits as a healthy alternative to fruit snacks or gummies that are packed with sugar. However, many dried fruits are just as sticky as those fruit snacks and will get stuck in those stubborn tooth crevices. A better option is to brush and floss after having snacking on those delicious dried mangoes, or opt for the fresh versions instead (with the added benefit of less concentrated sugar vs. their dried counterparts).
A better alternative is to pair starchy snacks with crunchy fruits and vegetables like apples or carrots. This helps to remove the cracker remnants from the crevices of the teeth. Another popular pairing with crackers is cheese, which is surprisingly great for your teeth.
Sports Drinks Older children playing sports, especially during the New Orleans summertime heat, will drink sports drinks like they would water. These popular liquids still contain the sugars and acids that weaken tooth enamel and cause cavities.
Not only does it have high levels of phosphate and calcium, which naturally strengthen teeth and bones, but it also helps balance the pH level in your mouth, lessening harmful acid and the risk for cavities.
A healthier option is to always have a water bottle with you. Allow your active child to drink their sports drink to replenish their electrolytes, but limit it to one bottle, then wash it down with lots of water.
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Fruit juices (even the all-natural, no-sugaradded, organic, 100% real fruit variety) can wreak havoc on your child’s teeth. They are highly acidic and contain concentrated sugars (natural or not). The vitamins and minerals in fruit juices don’t outweigh the harmful effects it can have on teeth, and they are more concentrated with sugars that their whole fruit counterparts don’t include.. If your child drinks fruit juice from a sippy cup, they are essentially coating their teeth in acid all day long, which can quickly break down enamel and cause a mouth full of cavities. Note: Don’t brush teeth immediately after any citrus fruit or drink. The acid in the citrus will temporarily weaken your enamel and brushing immediately after can wear it away, causing more damage. Instead, offer fruit juices like you would any other treat, but only during designated meals or snack times.
Ice Chewing on ice gives you that satisfying crunch and the added benefit of keeping you cool and hydrated during the dregs of summertime. However, chewing on any hard substance can lead to a dental emergency. Chewing ice can damage your enamel and can cause problems with any existing dental work you have. It can also cause micro-cracks in your teeth that can make you more susceptible to cavities. Yes, even those delicious snowballs count. Opt for already chilled beverages or drinks, instead, without the ice to resist the urge.
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Dylon Wertz, 13, pitches during a tournament in Cooperstown, New York, with his Mandeville-based travel baseball team. Photo by Katheryn Carroll
COMMITTED TO THE GAME:
YOUTH TRAVEL SPORTS By James Sebastien
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Imagine: Jimmy has a knack for sports His every move is graceful, but swift and purposeful. But he’s 10 years old. The neighborhood playground lacks an experienced coach and Jimmy’s school doesn’t offer competitive sports until high school. He’s passionate about refining his skills, so what are his options?
“We chose a travel team because we felt that it offered both a higher level of commitment and competition than what was available on a recreational level,” says Hardie, whose boys play for the Louisiana Fire Juniors, a travel soccer team. “The Louisiana Fire program deftly combines the joy of soccer with a rigorous training program implemented by professional coaches, the combination of which leads to an elevated soccer experience.”
When rec centers and playgrounds dominated the neighborhood sports scene, travel teams existed mostly on the periphery of youth athletics by way of baseball and football. Parents, perhaps looking for a streamlined path to the majors and a more competitive boot camp-like environment, might have signed up their kids for these more expensive travel teams.
The key difference between travel soccer and recreational soccer for Hardie is that the coaches are professionals versus volunteers.
In more recent years, travel teams have become more accessible and include competitions in soccer, volleyball, golf, and gymnastics, but still operate as relatively pricey elite teams who transverse the country competing in standardized brackets, districts, and divisions — apart from organized school sports and rec centers. If his parents are willing to put in time and money — in a way, matching their son’s ambition themselves — Jimmy’s athletic talent might grow within the kind of focus a travel team affords. One parent, New Orleans resident Polly Hardie, chose a travel team for her two sons, Gavin, 10, and Finley, 13, for that very focus.
“The transmission of skills and rules of the game are more rapid and more uniform,” she says. “Additionally, the level of competition found in the travel league creates motivation and drive among the players. They learn the importance of committing to their craft, how to work together, how to win together, and lose together.” Hardie believes travel teams are for kids who want to gain a deeper and more meaningful attachment to their chosen sport. “It has also provided an opportunity for our sons to get to know kids from other schools, from which the parents benefit also as socialization opportunities are expanded,” she says. “We have loved how the team comes together like one big family and helps each other with everything from rides to and from games to getting uniforms washed on the road to boisterous team dinners and board games in the hotel lobby.”
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New Orleans area parents and coaches discuss the benefits and drawbacks of youth travel teams and why it’s different from school or playground sports.
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“We chose a travel team b ecause we felt that it off ered both a h igher level of commitme nt and compe tition… ” “The ultimate goal for my players is to have fun through learning the fundamentals and value of the game, the development of positive attitudes, teamwork, and the importance of preparation for top-level competition,” he says.
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Jessica Wertz’s sons, Dylon, 13, and Dean, 8, play travel baseball on the Northshore. Dylon plays for the Mandeville Beasts and Dean plays for the Northshore Majors. Wertz says recreational teams have their place, as they start the process and lay a foundation, but a change in your kid’s motivations signals when it might be time to move on to travel teams. “The kids learn the fundamentals of the game and find the fun in it,” she says of recreational sports. “It’s a good place for kids to try something new and to discover what they enjoy and what they have a passion for. However, at a certain point the gears shift and the kids became more passionate. So, that’s when the switch to travel comes into place.” But are travel teams always only about beating the best — winning over fun? “Too many times, parents and kids get caught up in instant gratification and ‘my kid will be the next big-time athlete,’ but it's certainly not the case most of the time,” says Ryan S. Kimberly, owner of the Louisiana Baseball and Softball Academy in Elmwood. “Being able to help athletes reach their goals and get better is really the important part to us.” Kimberly says he founded the LBSA, which offers travel teams as well as other sports-related programs, to help baseball and softball players of all ages become the best player possible, regardless of their ability level. “Each kid is different,” he says. “We hope to help the beginner through the college or professional level athlete, and not leave anyone out who wants to experience the sport in whatever capacity.”
But travel volleyball isn’t for everyone. Despite the fun, all travel teams are still a commitment on both time and money. Davis believes parents should expect a higher level of competition, just like with other travel teams, from the traditional recreational and playground leagues. Wertz’s sons practice a couple of times a week and play in two to three tournaments a month. The tournaments are rarely more than an hour’s drive, but occasionally one is held further away. “We've been to Orange Beach, Alabama; Gulfport, Mississippi; Pigeon Forge, Tennessee; and to Cooperstown, New York,” she says. “These are the trips we all look forward to. We play ball, but we also relax and take some time to play.”
AWESOME AUTISM AWARENESS April is Autism Awareness Month so we’ve compiled some new learning toys that’ll help children on the spectrum with developmental goals and skills, including shape recognition, communication, time management and more.
COUNT & COLOR CHOO CHOO With the help of the 10 included challenges, kids craft their own 2D and 3D shapes during STEM-filled play sessions that boost early geometry, critical thinking, and fine motor skills. Ages 2 and older. $24.99, learningresources.com
“Many teams utilize fundraisers to help offset this cost through raffles, football pools, bake sales — you name it and it’s been done,” she says. “Then there's the money you spend on your kid’s cleats, batting gloves, baseball bats, gloves, sunflower seeds (and yes, seeds are essential for a baseball player and parents, too). Overall, it adds up.”
Another Mandeville resident, Kathryn LeMieux, also knows from experience. Her two children have played on travel sports teams for years. First and foremost, she says parents need to remember one thing: “It’s the child’s sport.” Regardless of the commitments, make sure this is what your child wants, not what the parent wants. “The child needs to love their travel sport. Travel sports tend to last for years and takes away time from other life experiences. With that said, kids learn a lot about commitment, time management, dedication, and working through issues when they are tired and want to give up. We have traveled for two kids in different sports and we have no regrets.”
GOOD JOB REWARD CHART Help kids develop, track, and earn rewards for their responsibilities and good behaviors with the Good Job Reward Chart. The customizable magnetic chart features magnetic tiles and stickers corresponding to common household tasks, from “Make the Bed” and “Help with Dinner” to “Do Homework” and “Brush Your Teeth.”
As for cost, Wertz pays on average $300 to $600 a year in team dues, which covers uniforms, tournament entry fees, baseballs, practice field rental fees, and more.
But for Wertz, it’s been worth it: “[Dylon] has learned confidence, humility, courage, passion, discipline, gratitude, and how to be a great friend, teammate, and kid,” she says.
GEAR TO GET
Ages 3 and older. $24.99, learningresources.com
KIDS ON STAGE The Charades Game for Kids. This game is popular with parents because it is good for early childhood development. This game is great for building communication, social, and creative thinking skills. No reading required. Ages 3 and older. $19.99, target.com
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“I think that school sports shouldn't take a back seat to travel,” he says. “I believe that both should be a compliment to each other. School coaches spend more time with their athletes then we do. Again, we are just another avenue for a player to get more work or have an opportunity to play beyond their prep season.”
TIME TRACKER VISUAL TIMER & CLOCK
Kimberly’s biggest advice for parents interested in travel ball is to keep everything in perspective.
This unique timer’s light and sound cues help to keep everyone on track. It allows quick programming of three colored lights (red, yellow, and green) that alert children to the time remaining.
“If your child has fun playing baseball or softball, then mission accomplished,” he says. “Enjoy the moments of being able to watch your son or daughter without the pressure, as they have enough selfpressure from their own desire to succeed.” Danny Davis, head coach and director of the all-girls volleyball club Crescent City Juniors in Gretna, agrees that fun should be a priority. While travel teams can be demanding, he says the goal is for kids to learn and have fun.
Ages 3 and older. $39.99, amazon.com Ella Marsh,16, fa r right with thre e of her Louisia teammates at a na Fire soccer regional tourna ment
Wooden ball with scruffy burglar character with one eye patch and a frown on his face is being chased by the blue push-and-go momentumpowered police car. The set offers a city at night backdrop that easily clicks onto the track complete with a police dog character. Ages 2 and older. $59.99, habausa.com
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While there has been some backlash towards travel ball, mostly by community sports enthusiasts, Kimberly is adamant that there is room for both to coexist.
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HEART AND SOLE PROM Whitehall Plantation Manor was rocking on March 16th for the Heart and Sole Prom. This night of dancing and laughing was the fifth annual prom for special needs kids presented by Therapeutic Learning Center and Magnolia Community Services.
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Autism and Applied Behavior Analysis By Pamela Marquis
Applied behavior analysis is considered the gold standard for children with an autism spectrum disorder, but what is it? It’s a rainy Sunday and 8-year-old Liam Collins is playing “Super Mario Bros. U Deluxe” on his gaming console. Like most children, Liam is obsessed with video games. He also loves food — so much so that he sometimes hums when he’s
“ABA is an important tool because it has several decades of solid research and its data-driven,” says Brian Esteve, a licensed psychologist and behavior analyst. He is also the clinical director of the Gulfsouth Autism Center. “Data on the clients is always being evaluated to measure their progress.”
tasting something especially delicious.
At his clinic, clients range from 18 months to 12 years of age and beyond. This allows therapy to begin addressing behaviors during early development and helps ensure their clients have both a running start and the ongoing reinforcement needed to reach their optimum level in communication, developmental, social, and educational skills.
His parents, Amy and Sherwood Collins, who are the founders of Tres Doux Foundation and Beignet Fest, which raises awareness and funds for autism programs in New Orleans, knew at about 18 months that something wasn’t quite right with their son. Liam wouldn’t speak to anyone and he didn’t answer to his name. By age 3, they had a diagnosis. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 1 in 59 children is diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder. It is the most common disability cited for special education students in Louisiana public schools. “Having a child with a developmental delay requires accommodations that typical children do not need,” Amy says. “Imagine trying to teach a kid to swim when all they want to do is curl up into a ball in the water? Or how do you advise a kid to be part of a group task when they are traditionally stuck in their own little world?”
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ABA is a science devoted to improving socially significant behavior. For children with autism, these behaviors include such things as socialization, communication, and daily living skills such as dressing. For these children, tantrums sometimes serve as a means to communicate with parents and caregivers. ABA-based interventions work to replace these behaviors with more functional and effective means of communication.
The only downside she sees is that the therapy is expensive. Therapy sessions usually occur three to five times per week, for two or more hours per session. “Even covered by private insurance, it’s still a heavy lift,” she says. “Insurance pays 80 percent on our plan, so that means we cover the other 20 percent. It’s about $12,000 a year for us.” Gulfsouth’s staff assists in determining the best therapeutic course for each client, which could include a combination of ABA and other therapies. Esteve says that a collaborative treatment model with teachers, parents, caregivers, and therapists working together is critical to success. “Sometimes a brother and sister will be playing well together and the parent will say, ‘This makes me so happy, but if I say something it will disrupt it,’” Esteve says. “But that’s exactly when the parent should say, ‘I like the
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way you are playing together. Thank you for this great behavior.’” And when finding the right ABA therapist or clinic, he thinks it’s important to go about it the way you would look for a pediatrician or a dentist. “See if that person is a good fit for your family and a good fit for your child and then give it a try.”
“ABA provides a structure for learning that Liam responds to,” Amy says, who takes Liam to Behavior Teaching Concepts in Metairie. “It’s based on scientific evidence. There are a lot of really exploratory things out there that are not. We like that ABA is proven effective. And we see that it is with Liam.” Many, if not most, children who receive intensive ABA training learn to behave more functionally at least some of the time, and some even improve to such a degree that ABA is no longer needed, but this happens only after years of intensive therapy. “Make sure you use reinforcement for actions you want to see,” Esteve says. “Try to always use positive reinforcement, a consistent routine and start small, and most importantly, don’t give up.” When Amy asks her son what he’s working on now with his therapists, he pauses and looks off in the distance as though he hadn’t heard the question. It’s difficult for Liam to have conversations as he doesn’t always get out what he wants to say. She patiently says that it’s okay. He could answer the question at another time. Then Liam gets a mighty smile on his face and jubilantly screams, “money!” “We are also working right now on Liam regulating his emotions when he’s upset,” she says. “He has intense
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Liam receives occupational therapy and speech therapy. He’s also using applied behavior analysis, which is considered the gold standard for treating an autism spectrum disorder.
reactions and yells or wants to punch a wall or table with his fist. So, we talk him through taking calming breaths. We’ve used ABA concepts with social stories to work through this, and it generally helps. This is a work in progress.”
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Audubon's Sensory Sunday Manchac Gator Ride 4 Autism Bec’s at the Lake on Highway 51. A 16-mile bike ride to raise money for Special Angels Outreach. $25 early registration price, $30 registration at check-in. For more information and tickets visit facebook. com/specialangelsouthreach/. 9:00 am2:00 pm.
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Autism Awareness Walk & Family Fun Day
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Raphael Village's 8th Annual Soraparu Soiree 517 Soraparu St., Suite. 104, New Orleans. An elegant fundraiser benefiting Raphael Village. The evening will include a gourmet buffet, live music, libations, a silent auction and an electric bike raffle. Contact info@ raphaelvillage.org for more information. Tickets available at raphaelvillage.org. 7-10 pm.
5290 Canal Blvd New Orleans, LA. The 15th annual festival raises funds to support ASGNO. Registration includes access to the festival, all games, live music, and one trip through the cafeteria. $15 individual, $35 for a family of three or four, kids 3 and under free. For more information and registration visit asgno.org/events/ autism-awareness-fest/.
Autism Speaks Walk Lakefront Arena, New Orleans University. This walk is designed for the families, friends, and loved ones of children with autism to come together and raise money to enhance the lives of children with autism. Contact Kaitlin Hart, 713.724.5092, for more information. Register or donate at act.autismspeaks.org. Registration starts at 8 am and the walk will start at 9 am.
817 Common Street New Orleans, LA 70118. Opportunity for moms of autistic kids to get together and relax while building relationships with other moms of kids with autism. 8 am-9 pm. Contact hello@aundreacaldwell.com for more information.
Sky Zone 6509 Riverside Dr., Metairie. These jumping hours provide a quieter area and toned down experience for kids with special needs. Children with special needs have a comfortable jumping experience that they can bring their siblings, family, and friends to enjoy with them. Sensory hours are the first Sunday of each month from 9-10 am. $11 per jumper.
AMC Sensory Fr iendly Movies AMC Elmwood Palace 20, 1200 Elmwood Park Blvd Harahan; AMC Westbank Palance 16, 1151 Manhattan Blvd., Harvey; AMC Houma Palace 10, 5737 W Park Ave Houma; AMC Baton Rouge 16, 16040 Hatters Ave Baton Rouge. These sensory friendly movies allow children with autism spectrum to have a more comfortable environment. The theatre keeps the lights up a little and the sound down a little more than usual. The theatre also allows kids the get up and dance, sing, and walk around during the movie if wanted. These movies are shown the second and fourth Tuesday and Saturday. Go to www.asgno. org/events/sensory-friendly-films/ to review local times and movies.
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Audubon Goes Blue Audubon Aquarium of the Americas. The Aquarium will offer complimentary admission to guests who benefit from sensory accommodations, such as calmer environments and hands-on sensoryfriendly activities, and their families. The Autism Society will be onsite. The Aquarium will be lit blue for the day to promote autism awareness. Free event for registered guests (limited to 900 participants). Register by April 6. To register, visit audubonnatureinstitute.org/ audubon-goes-blue. 8:30-10 am.
Sensory Fr iendly Sunday Louisiana Children’s Museum. An opportunity for families with children with disabilities or sensory processing differences to explore the museum in a comfortable and accepting setting. Enjoy Dr. Seuss Celebration — “Oh the Places You’ll Go!” Email gabrahams@lcm.org to register your family. 10:30 am-noon.
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Lakeview Regional Medical Center, 95 Judge Tanner Blvd., Covington. The 9th annual event is the major fundraiser for SOAR, (Strengthening Outcomes with Autism Resources). Enjoy the fun with a walk around the ponds, games, train rides, resources agencies, and much more. Walk registration is $20/ages 12 and up, $10/ages 3-12 and includes shirt, hot dog or jambalaya, and drink. For more information, visit soarwithautism.org. 10 am-2 pm.
Awareness Festival
Autism Moms Getaway and Conference
Audubon Louisiana Nature Center. Audubon welcomes guests who benefit from accommodations such as calmer environments and hands-on sensory activities to attend before opening to the public. Registration is limited. Visit audubonnatureinstitute.org/educationprogams/sensory-sundays to register. 9:30-10:30 am.
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Earth Day
Quack-A-Falaya Rubber Duck Race & River Clean Up
Audubon Louisiana Nature Center. A fun way to make a positive impact on the environment by participating in outdoor service activities. 11 am-3 pm.
Party for the Planet: Earth Day Family Service Day
Growing Gardeners City Park, Botanical Garden. Kids enjoy gardening while learning about (and playing with) plants, food, and ecosystems. 10 am-noon.
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Head to your local plant store and pick out your favorite tree to plant for Arbor Day.
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Bogue Falaya, 213 Park Dr., Covington. 5th annual river clean up begins at 8 am. Rubber ducks will race at 11 am.
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Become a beekeeper and plant a bee-friendly garden. Visit growveg.com
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Longue Vue House & Gardens. With activities like seed planting, arts and crafts, microscope observation, and storytime. 9:30-10:30 am.
Sprouts: LA Earth Day Celebration
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Fly a kite today!
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Head outside and enjoy a family picnic.
National Picnic Day
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Nora Navra Library, 1902 St. Bernard Ave. Plant some seeds for Earth Day. 4:30-6 pm.
Earth Day Plant Party
City Park, Botanical Garden. Celebrate the earth and learn how we can build a healthier relationship with our natural environment. 4-7 pm.
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Plant outdoor plants and show your indoor plants some extra love today!
Plant Appreciation Day
City Park. Join a morning of volunteering to keep the park looking great. Approx. 9 am- 12pm.
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Cannot find one in the sky? Try making your own rainbow craft to celebrate.
Take a book outside and read today!
Super Sat. Volunteer Day
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Find a Rainbow Day
International Children’s Book Day
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How does you r garden grow? by Kimberly Blaker
Longue Vue Summer ‘Scapes campers collecting herbs for homemade sun tea!
GARDENING AS A FAMILY IS FUN AND HEALTHY There's no question, playing in the dirt tops the list of fun for young children despite the protests of many wellintended parents. If you're one of those parents, you can put your fears aside. It turns out dirt is actually beneficial to the long-term health of kids, according to a Northwestern University article, “Germs at four, less inflammation at forty,” by Clare Milliken. Studies have found that early exposure to certain germs, like those found in dirt, actually help kids' immune systems learn to better regulate inflammation. In turn, this exposure reduces kids' risk for a number of diseases throughout their lives.
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So gather up your kids and gardening supplies, head outdoors, and get ready for some dirt-filled fun.
Getting started First, decide where to plant your garden. Then allot a small space for your child to have her own garden, too. This will help build their enthusiasm for the garden and encourage your child to take ownership and responsibility for it. Having their own garden is especially exciting and rewarding for kids because they know that they, alone (or with minimal help), grew those little seeds into a marvelous plant.
If your kids are older, let them choose what they want to grow. Keep in mind your child's personality, though. If she tends to be impatient, suggest plants that are easy to care for and grow quickly. As you proceed in planning and preparation, include your child in it as much as possible. Remember, this stage is as much fun for kids as it is for parents and helps build kids' enthusiasm. Also, let your kids help you draw up the garden plan. If they are old enough, they can also create their own shopping list.
Holding a worm friend at Longue Vue’s weekend family program Sprouts
Get dirty here! Sprouts Longue Vue House & Gardens
When you go shopping for the supplies, take your kids along, and let them pick out their own seeds and gardening tools. For the safety of young children, look for kids' gardening tools made of durable plastic.
With activities like seed planting, arts & crafts, microscope observation, and story time, Sprouts is for kids of all ages to explore the wonderful world of the garden at their own pace. Ages18 months – 10 years old.
Planting your garden
Toddler Time in the Garden Longue Vue House & Gardens
When you begin planting, show your child how to plant the seeds and how to properly space them apart. Then have them water the seeds as directed.
Sing songs and read stories that promote early learning, your little one will discover the magical world of plants and insects. Afterwards, explore the rest of the gardens to see birds, find insects, and smell the flowers in bloom.
To help your child take responsibility for his own garden, put a daily gardening task list on the refrigerator. Also, to help your child maintain enthusiasm, suggest your child keep a garden log. Your child can record the date of plantings, each day's gardening activities, when each plant sprouts, the amount of growth of the plants, and the harvesting of the plants. Finally, after harvesting, have your child help you prepare the vegetables. Offer your child different ways to prepare or cook them to help them develop a life-long love for fresh, healthy veggies.
Little Acorns New Orleans City Park, Botanical Garden Kids will enjoy story time, activities, and a healthy snack. Kids won’t want to miss this! Ages 18 months to 4 years old.
Growing Gardeners New Orleans City Park, Botanical Garden Introduce your little green thumbs to the world of gardening! The Growing Gardeners program introduces children to the fun of gardening while learning about (and playing with!) plants, food, and ecosystems. Ages 6-9 years old.
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For that reason, a family garden is a perfect opportunity to build your kids' immune systems. Better still, gardening offers lots of other benefits to kids and families. Through gardening, children learn to be responsible by caring for their own plants. It's also a great way to help them learn about and develop an appreciation for science. Another health benefit is that gardening encourages healthier eating. Not to mention, it's a great activity for family bonding.
Next, decide what to plant. For young kids, consider fast-growing plants they’re already familiar with. Little kids also love plants that are colorful or have strong scents.
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Guest Lecturing Talking in front of any group of people is nerve-racking, but it can be even worse in front of a group of fourth graders.
I was recently asked to be a guest lecturer at the fourth grade talented and gifted class at St. George’s. I’m pretty sure that this was a con job orchestrated by my granddaughter, Amelia, who is a student in the class. She knows she can pretty much ask Papa and me for anything and the answer is a predictable “Yes, of course.” The thought of standing in front of a bunch of lower schoolers discussing journalism struck fear in my heart. During my senior year of college, I student-taught journalism to high school students in Arkansas, and loved that semester of feeling cool and in charge. Lower school is a totally different experience. Many years ago, I was asked to teach a writing class to a bunch of 9 year olds at another private school. Like the naïve doofus that I was, I walked in like Mary Poppins, all bright and enthusiastic, anticipating that the kids were itching to learn writing techniques. Wrong.
Within 15 minutes, all hell broke loose. Within 15 minutes, all hell broke loose. The kids were jumping out of their chairs, throwing things at each other, and making a racket that caused the lower school principal to open the door, fold her arms, and give the kids that blazing, silent teacher look we all fear. “Children, children, children. Stop this right now,” she said. I think I was more afraid than the kids. I felt like an utter failure.
More recently, a co-worker and I spoke to a college journalism class. We felt totally in charge of the subject matter and couldn’t wait to share our experiences — until we got there. The class was scheduled for 4 p.m. on a Friday. It was the same Friday of the school’s big, wild, university-wide party weekend. The students (many of whom had already started the party long before class) stared at us with glazed eyes, checking their watches for the time, and cell phones for texts. I’ve never seen students bolt out of a room quicker than when the bell rang. Timing really is everything. And so I decided that I’d approach the fourth grade St. George’s class differently. This time, my main goal was to not embarrass Amelia. I created a lesson plan with some pretty sophisticated journalistic principles that I thought would interest them. I brought each of the 10 students his and her own reporter’s notebooks and brand new ball point pens. I would engage them from the beginning. And I’d hope and pray I wouldn’t screw up. And it worked.
Admission covers food, drink, giant inflatables, and arcade games. The event also will feature the Zoo’s hand-held animals, cheerleading and sports clinics, face painting and temporary tattoos, arts and crafts, and separate areas for toddlers (1-5) and juniors (6-15). The menu includes cuisine from more than 40 local restaurants, as well as lots of kid-friendly snacks. Put on your boogie shoes and get ready to dance when the Super Stars Events and Promotions perform on the Main Stage. Kids of all ages will enjoy a deejay in the junior area. Additionally, there will be dancing and entertainment for kids in the Princess Play Land area and the WTUL Kids Show with Ambush in the Cooper Plaza area. Proceeds from the 31st annual Zoo-To-Do for Kids Presented by Children’s Hospital will benefit Audubon’s conservation efforts for giraffes, the world’s longest-necked animal and a signature species of Audubon Zoo, and the Alliance for Sustainable Wildlife (ASW), Audubon’s conservation breeding partnership with the San Diego Zoo Global. Be sure to purchase your tickets early (see box for information); no tickets will be sold on the night of the event. Laura and her precocious granddaughter, Amelia.
The fourth graders listened as I spoke and fired off questions that would make a White House press conference look dull. They were interested, involved, curious. We created a mock news staff with each student taking an area that interested him or her. One volunteered to be the sports reporter. Another weather. Another health. Another fashion. When I asked who would write editorial opinions, one eager reporter said, “Can I write about the government shut down?” I was blown away.
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My favorite therapist (I’ve had a bunch) used to say that all people really want in life is to be loved and appreciated. At that moment, one little granddaughter gave me all I needed.
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As the class ended, Amelia came over to me beaming. She threw her arms around me and said, “Thanks, Lollie. That was fun.”
Class dismissed.
Date: Friday, April 26, 2019 (rain or shine; spring casual attire) Time: General admittance will be from 6 pm-9 pm Early admittance: 5 pm Sponsor and Patron ticket packages are available for 5 pm admittance and VIP benefits. Tickets: $20 for members; $25 for non-members; and, $40 for early admittance Please note: If you are unable to attend, your ticket purchase will be considered a donation; there are no refunds. For more information or to purchase tickets, call 504.861.6160 or visit audubonnatureinstitute.org/ztdk.
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In the end, I gave each a copy of Nola Family magazine. One boy asked the teacher if he could read the magazine for homework. I almost levitated with joy.
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The kids took notes on their new-found reporter’s notebooks and the hour flew by.
Laura’s years of experience helped St. George’s fourth graders get excited about “Just the facts, ma’am.”
Each New Orleans spring brings with it events that we’ve all come to know and love. This year’s Zoo-To-Do for Kids Presented by Children’s Hospital will bring a roaring good time as this fun-filled, philanthropic event for children rocks Audubon Zoo on Friday, April 26.
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“An anxious response can unintentionally
touchy topics: HAVING DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS WITH YOUR CHILDREN By Camille Quinn, MSW, LCSW When it comes to questions about sex and death, how a parent responds is more important than having the answer. Children’s curiosity can be both refreshing and terrifying for parents; healthy communication with your child is one of the cornerstones to their overall development. A child’s primary way to learn is through asking questions, so being equipped to respond is key.
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A parent’s reaction and response to these questions can have lasting effects on a child’s development. An anxious response can unintentionally inhibit important conversations, sending a message to children that it’s not okay to talk about certain things, and allowing their minds to wander and draw their own conclusions. A prepared and confident response can alleviate some of the stress and shock when these questions surface, thus creating a safe and secure environment where children can confide in their parents.
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There are a few things parents can do to create a safe and secure environment in which healthy communication between them and their children can be developed. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention offers the following helpful tips on addressing some of these issues: Take time to listen: Active listening helps your child know that you hear and understand her and what she is trying to say. An example of active listening might be, “I’m glad you asked that question, it sounds like you are really curious about…” Let your child know he has done something good: Praising your child in a sincere and honest way encourages good behavior. Additionally, praising your child to someone else in their presence can reinforce good behavior. Read to your children: Reading to your child from an early age strengthens their vocabulary, knowledge, and understanding of the world. It empowers and teaches them that they can access information. It also creates opportunities for you and your child to spend quality time together. Make time to laugh and play: Parents often get stuck in the routine of feeding, cleaning, bathing, and making sure children are doing what they are supposed to be doing that they forget to make time for play. The benefits of play include healthy social emotional development and healthy problem solving skills, which are predictors for long-term success. Avoid distracted parenting: Children are watching you and modeling how you interact with them and others. Being present to them means stopping what you are doing and making the important conversation a priority. It also sets the expectation that they should stop what they are doing. This will help both of you focus on the issue at hand. The hardest topics are usually the most important ones, but they are also opportunities to share your family values. Staying connected makes you a reliable source when questions come up for your child. These conversations are often open-ended and ongoing. Let your children know that you don’t have all the answers. You can always take some time to reflect on a question and get back to your children with an answer, which models healthy communication and effective relationship building.
In The Know
We have complete listings on our dedicated ‘classes’ calendar just go to nolafamily.com and click on ‘Calendars.’
Louisiana State Police - Troop B
Ochsner Medical Center – Kenner
Child Safety Seat Inspection Station 2101 I-10 Service Road, Kenner. Every Wednesday, 1-4 pm. Walk in or call 504.471.2780 for an appointment. Free.
To register, call 504.464.8365.
Louisiana State Police - Troop L Child Safety Seat Inspection Station 2600 N. Causeway, Mandeville. Every Tuesday, 3-6 pm. Walk in or call 504.893.6250 for an appointment. Free.
Ochsner Medical Center – Baptist Registration is required for all classes. Visit ochsner.org/baptistclasses.
Happiest Baby on the Block Learn techniques to calm and soothe a crying baby. April 3, 6-7:30 pm. $25. Grandparents Class Learn the latest trends to help support your children. April 11, 6:30-8:30 pm. Free.
Baby Care Basics Basic baby care, normal behavior, comforting baby, and how to keep baby safe. April 24, 6-8 pm.
Parenting Center at Children’s Hospital To register, call 504.896.9591 or visit theparentingcenter.net.
Snuggles and Struggles Provides learning opportunities and socialization with new parents and babies newborn-6 months. Tuesday, 10:30 am-noon
Touro Family Birthing Center For more information or to register, call 504.897.7319 or visit touro.com/events.
Happiest Baby on the Block Learn to turn on a baby’s “calm reflex.” April 13, 10 am-noon and April 15, 6-8 pm. Free.
Healthy Mom, Healthy Baby An informative class on nutrition and wellness for expectant and new mothers. April 17, 6-8 pm. Free. Grandparenting 101 Learn the basics to best support your children as parents. April 24, 6-7 pm. Free.
Tulane Lakeside Hospital for Women and Children Call 504.780.4641
What to Expect...For Dads Veteran dads will provide hands on demonstrations of burping, changing, and swaddling a newborn. April 4, 7-9 pm. Free.
West Jefferson Medical Center Most classes are free,unless otherwise noted. Registration is required. Call 504.349.6200.
Caring For Your Newborn Registered nurse discuss newborn behavior and care. April 27, 1-4:30 pm. Free.
KIDS & TWEENS East Jefferson General Hospital For more information or to register, call EJGH Health Finder at 504.456.5000.
Babysitting Basics For boys and girls ages 11-14, this class covers topics of essentials of childcare, problem behavior, health, and safe snack/meal choices. April 13, 9-11 am. $10/attendee.
Ochsner Medical Center – Baptist See listing above for registration information.
Sibling Class For ages 3-10, prepares sibling(s) for their new brother or sister. April 8, 5:30-6:30 pm. Free.
Ochsner Medical Center – Kenner See listing above for registration information.
Sibling Class For children 2 and up, siblings will learn what to expect when their new baby brother or sister comes home. April 14, 3:30-5 pm. Free.
Ochsner Medical Center – West Bank Campus Registration is required for all classes. Email familyunitwb@ochsner.org or call 504.391.5529.
Safe Sitter For boys and girls ages 11-14, learn safe and nurturing child care techniques. April 13, 9 am-2 pm. $45/1-day session.
Parenting Center at Children’s Hospital See listing above for registration information.
Active Parenting of Teens Gives parents a handle on dealing with teens effectively. Four sessions: March 26, April 2, 9, & 16, 8:30-10 am. $15 materials fee. Growing Up for Girls Ages 9-12 will receive practical information about female anatomy, what happens during puberty, and more. Girls attend with mothers or caregiver. Metairie. April 9, 6:30-8:30 pm. $20/child.
Focus on Children Divorce Program Helps divorcing parents lessen the impact of separation and divorce on their children. Uptown. April 10, 6-8 pm. $25. Growing Up for Boys Ages 10-13 will receive practical information including male and female anatomy, physical and emotional changes during puberty, and hygiene issues. Boys attend with fathers or caregivers. Uptown. April 23, 6:30-8:30 pm. $20/child.
West Jefferson Medical Center See listing above for registration information.
Siblings T.L.C. Ages 3 and older. Prepares sibling for arrival of mom’s new baby. April 13, 2:30 pm. Mother-Daughter Rap Breakfast discussion for mothers and preteen girls. April 25, 9-11 am. $25/couple.
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Questions like, “Where do babies come from? Why does that person look different from us? Why is that person asking for money on the side of the road? What does it mean when someone dies? Is there a heaven? What is sex? What are drugs?” will inevitably be posed by curious children as they are learning to navigate the world around them.
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Crescent City Reading Buddies By Kate Stevens
There is no better place to escape the real word than a good book, and Nikki Leali hopes to encourage other New Orleans children to love reading just as much as she does. Nikki, 13, a seventh-grade student at Ursuline Academy, is the founder of Crescent City Reading Buddies, a book club that meets monthly at the Rosa F. Keller Library and Community Center. Children ages 2-9 take turns reading with or are read to by teen volunteers like Nikki who also treat them to an arts and craft project.
FROM THE nola family BOOKSHELF By Scott Campbell
HULI’S LOUISIANA FESTIVALS AND EVENTS CALENDAR Hold on to your britches, festival season is about to begin. So instead of pulling a book from our shelf, Scott highlights a publication of a different kind.
“She’s always been an avid reader,” says Joelle Leali, Nikki’s mom. “She just loves to talk about books with anyone anytime.” Nikki moved forward with Crescent City Reading Buddies about a year ago. She had just been recognized as a state middle school Prudential Spirit of Community Award honoree for her work organizing annual book drives and for starting a Little Free Library — a community book exchange program — in front of her house when she was just 6 years old.
Huli’s calendar lists more than 500 events and festivals in full color display.
After receiving Prudential’s award, and seeing the work of other community servants, she knew she wanted to do more. “I was really inspired to keep going and bring reading further into my community,” Nikki says. At only 13, Nikki Lealia has already been recognized for her literacy advocacy efforts in New Orleans. Photo by Joyce Haun.
Many youngsters in the community don’t have the same access to books that she has, says Nikki, who also volunteers with the Friends of the New Orleans Public Library alongside her mentor, New Orleans literacy advocate Linda Prout.
“It really broke my heart to see so much illiteracy in my city,” she says. On the first Tuesday of each month, Crescent City Reading Buddies meets in the library’s children’s room from 4-5 p.m. Each month’s reading materials and craft project has a different theme. Prior registration is not necessary and participants will visit different reading stations, earn stickers, and have the chance to earn a free Raising Cane’s meal. Currently, Nikki is searching for more youth volunteers who are willing to read to younger children.
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Louisiana festivals serve and celebrate crawfish, alligators, poboys, king cakes, jambalaya, gumbo, frogs, creole tomatoes, catfish, oysters, boudin, cracklins, cochon de lait, strawberries, pecans, sweet potatoes, tamales, and more.
Nikki’s mother wants other kids to know they, too, can be as empowered as her daughter is no matter their passion.
In the future, Nikki plans on attending college while continuing her service projects. For more information or to volunteer, visit www.nolareadingclub.com.
Huli Publishing first published the Huli’s Louisiana Festivals and Events Calendar in 1997. After taking a break for the last few years, Julie Posner excitedly brought back her calendar with the philosophy that our (as in Louisiana residents) festivals define our great state. They celebrate our music, our food, our traditions, and our lifestyle. Throughout the year, music, food, history, and holidays inspire more than 500 Louisiana festivals and events of all sizes occurring throughout the state, and each one is an opportunity to enjoy the music, food, culture, and family fun that is so unique to the South.
“When you get out in the big, real world, you might not understand something and you can use your knowledge of reading and what you read to know what’s going on. It gives you background knowledge for daily life.”
“Nikki is so passionate and dedicated, but every kid can be,” she says.
2019 brings the return of Huli’s Louisiana Festivals and Events Calendar. This incredibly comprehensive wall calendar is the most complete listing of festivals for the entire state, complete with 2019 dates, locations, and phone numbers for each event. It also includes an index for easy reference of festivals and events.
Thanks to the Crescent City Reading Buddies book club, more New Orleans youth have access to the power of books.
At our festivals, we dance to zydeco, jazz, blues, R&B, swamp pop, gospel, bluegrass, and more. Locals celebrate Cajuns, Greeks, Carnival royalty, festival queens, Congo Square, Los Islenos, Tennessee Williams, Italians, Vietnamese, shrimp boats, Bonnie and Clyde, French culture, cocktails, tarpon, and of course, Louis Armstrong.
The next step is to find the festival listed alphabetically on the left side of each page to learn its location, phone number, and website. You’ll be able to choose from among hundreds of historical commemorations, food, and music festivals, perhaps many of them previously unknown to you. The top of each month contains a montage of color photographs of the actual festivals with fun and detailed captions. All-new color photographs are found throughout the calendar, offering glimpses of such happenings as the Bonnie and Clyde Festival in Gibsland, the Blind Fold Pirogue Races in Jean Lafitte and the Second Lines in New Orleans. Find quirky festivals you didn’t know existed: The Fur and Wildlife Festival, the Jim Bowie Festival, or the Egg Knocking Contests. There’s information about Civil War Reenactments, Mardi Gras, St. Joseph Day Altars, and a multitude of Christmas Extravaganzas. Of course, it also includes 2019 dates for the popular large events — the New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Festival, Festival Acadians, Festival International, the Red River Revel, and the Pirate Festival. The large format wall calendar folds out to 22 inches by 14 inches, with plenty of space to write on daily squares. The simple Louisiana map lets you locate the general area of the less familiar towns — because not everyone can pinpoint the communities of Zwolle or Parks. Calendars are available at Louisiana shops and bookstores, or by going online to www. louisianafestivalcalendar.com.
A Bonnie and Clyde Festival, who knew? Lesser know n events are just as easy to find when using the calendar’s back ind ex.
Scott Campbell is founder and publisher of River Road Press, which focuses on a mission to publish local and regional authors, with a focus on history, children’s books, and Southern culture. riverroadpress.com.
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“Reading builds character,” Nikki says, who lists “The Red Queen,” series by Victoria Aveyard, “The Hunger Games” series by Suzanne Collins, and the “Divergent” series by Veronica Roth, as some of her favorite books.
Here in Louisiana, there are celebrations all year round — festivals, second lines, concerts, and parades. We always find a reason to pass a good time.
With more than 500 festivals and events, this is the most complete listing of Louisiana celebrations available. Each event is placed on the monthly grid indicating its exact dates for 2019. At a glance, the reader can see which festivals are going on each weekend.
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The Negative Thinking Child
Drop In & Play
By Pat Blackwell, Ph.D.
Negative thoughts lead to more negative thoughts, but using logic and self-reflection can help guide your child out of this pattern. Party pooper, stick in the mud, and Debbie Downer are all terms for negative thinkers. Negative or pessimistic people can be a drag and a drain on your energy. This is not only true of adults, but for negative thinking kids, too. While this may be a chicken or egg situation, pessimists start to feel rejected and this leads to more negative thinking about others, themselves, and the world in general. When negativity becomes entrenched in one’s way of thinking, it can lead to learned helplessness. When kids truly believe that no matter what, nothing is going to get any better they give up and stop trying to surmount obstacles. Research by psychologist Martin Seligman has shown that children who adopt a pessimistic way of thinking are at higher risk for depression than positive or optimistic thinkers. (Seligman’s most famous research is on learned helplessness as a major risk factor for depression.) For example, when things go wrong, they think in a biased way that is self-defeating.
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Pessimistic children may also have a pattern of automatic negative thoughts. This may include black and white thoughts (all good or all bad), fortune telling (making grim predictions about how things will go), or mind reading (everyone thinks I’m an idiot). Depression is not necessarily a result of bad life circumstances, but instead could stem from one’s self-defeating thoughts and negative explanatory thinking style. Negativity may be inherited. In other words, pessimistic children may have negative parents. The good news is that children can change their way of thinking and see things in a more realistic and optimistic light.
“Captain Snout and the Super Power Questions” by Daniel Amen, is a wonderful children’s book that teaches parents how to guide their child through the process of challenging negative thoughts with questions. The idea of automatic negative thoughts was first developed by Aaron Beck, who is a pioneer of cognitive behavioral therapy, an evidence-based technique used by psychotherapists to treat depression, anxiety, and other challenges. A key concept of cognitive behavioral therapy is that thoughts and feelings go hand in hand. When people change their thinking, their emotional reactions change. Negative thickeners get into a pattern of pessimistic thinking such as catastrophizing, which leads to emotional overreactions. These children may overreact to small challenges or withdraw completely and give up. Some children have problems tuning into their social world and make faulty conclusions about the point of view of others. Poor social insight can lead to pessimistic views. Seligman uses the term “confirmation bias” to explain how pessimistic children tend to over focus on evidence that confirms their negative perception of themselves and the world. However, with a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and social skills training, these children can make progress in seeing the world more realistically and can learn to interact with others in a more mutually satisfying way. This more positive outlook leads to more positive feelings.
City Park, 5 Victory Ave. Louisiana residents receive free admission on Wednesdays courtesy of The Helis Foundation. Twelve acres of gardens and art await you. 10 am4 pm. Wednesdays.
Rivertown Farmer's Market LaSalle’s Landing, Kenner. Shop local fresh produce and goods. Bring the kids to check out cooking demos, special events, and more and expose them to all the beauty and health of fresh fruits and vegetables. 8 am-1 pm rain or shine. Saturdays.
A key concept of cognitive behavioral therapy is that thoughts and feelings go hand in hand.
Free Admission to the Contemporary Arts Center 900 Camp St., New Orleans. Louisiana residents get free admission to the Contemporary Arts Center every Sunday courtesy of the Helis Foundation. The CAC is a multidisciplinary arts center that is dedicated to the presentation, production, and promotion of contemporary art. 11 am5 pm. Sundays.
• “Captain Snout and the Super Power Questions” by Daniel, Amen • “Mind Coach” by Daniel Amen • “What to Do When You Grumble Too Much: A Kids Guide to Overcoming Negativity” by Dawn Huebner (a workbook for kids)
Audubon Zoo, Aquarium, Butterfly Garden and Insectarium, and Louisiana Nature Center. Throughout 2019, the Audubon Institute’s Community Connect program is offering free admissions for Orleans Parish residents and four guests on alternating Wednesdays.
Art for All Ogden Museum of Southern Art. Admission to the museum is free for Louisiana residents courtesy of The Helis Foundation. 10 am5 pm. Thursdays.
Laurence Square Playground, Napoleon Ave. Everyone is welcome: parents, caregivers, friends, and of course, the kids. Enjoy fun games and activities, as well as a space for families to connect with each other. 10:3011:45 am. Fridays.
Toddlers at Ten Louisiana Children’s Museum. The museum hosts activities for children ages 3 and under and their parents or caregivers. Free. 10-11 am. Tuesdays and Thursdays.
Community Capoeira for Kids The Capoeira & Brazilian Cultural Arts Center, 1016 N. Broad St. Unit C. Capoeira is Afro-Brazilian martial art, dance, and music. Children in the 7th Ward, Treme, and Mid City are invited to classes, workshops, and performances, including drumming and dance styles. Free. 1:30-2:30 pm. Saturdays.
Storytimes & Other Activities
The following books may be very helpful to parents and children: • “The Optimistic Child” by Martin Seligman
Free Wednesdays at the Audubon Natu re Institute
FIT4MOM NOLA Playgroup
Storytime at Le Jouet
WTUL's Kids Show
Wiggles and Giggles Storytime
1700 Airline Dr., Metairie. Le Jouet offers storytime in their store every Thursday. Come in for a free story and fun. Free. 1011 am. Thursdays.
91.5 FM or stream online at www. wtulneworleans.com. This weekly radio show is hosted by DJ LizE and broadcasted live from Tulane’s campus features kid-friendly music, jokes, a storytime, and more. 8-10 am. Saturdays.
North Kenner Library, 630 W. Esplanade Avenue, Kenner. A fun time every Wednesday morning at the library with stories and activities for children ages 2-5 years old. Free. 10:30-11:30 am. Wednesdays.
Storytime and Craft Main library branch, 219 Loyola Avenue. Enjoy a story and a craft at the main library. Open to all families and caregivers with children ages 7 and younger. Free. 12:301:30 pm. Fridays.
Storytime at Magic Box Toys 5508 Magazine St. Join Magic Box Toys for their free weekly storytimes. They feature different books every week. Free. 10:30am. Wednesdays.
Storytime and Craft Harahan Library, 219 Soniat Avenue, Harahan. Stories and creative activities for children ages 3-7 years old. Free. 3:30-4:30pm.
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They believe bad events are permanent, pervasive, and personal, while good events are temporary, and depend on certain lucky circumstances. This is a biased explanatory style.
The best way to get children to change their negative mindset and explanatory style is to get them to think about their own thinking. With guidance, children can learn to identify automatic negative thoughts and then challenge these thoughts with logic. For example, if a child moans “Everyone hates me,” have him examine whether or not this is 100 percent true. Is there any compelling evidence to support this feeling?
Free Admission to the Botanical Gardens
Milton H. Latter Memorial Library, 5120 St. Charles Avenue. Meet new friends and enjoy sharing toys and puzzles with your child. No registration is needed. Ages 1-5. All children must be accompanied by an adult. 10-11 am. Fridays.
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Wednesday at the Square concert series continues every Wednesday till May 22 at Lafayette Square.
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After -School Movie Madness Alvar Library, 913 Alvar St. For ages 12-17. Enjoy a teen movie and popcorn after school. 3:30-6 pm. Continues on April 22.
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East Bank Regional Library, 4747 W. Napoleon Ave., Metairie. Get ready for spring with tissue paper flowers. No registration required, but supplies are limited. Only one set of materials per person. 3-8 pm.
Reading to Thor Cita Dennis Hubbell Library, 725 Pelican Ave. Thor, a licensed therapy dog, provides a patient and receptive audience for reluctant readers — and kids who just love dogs — to practice reading aloud. 4-5 pm. Continues every Monday in April.
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World War II Museum: Innovation and Imagination Lyons Rec Center, 624 Louisiana Ave. The National World War II Museum invites youth to participate in hands-on STEM activities centered on WWII artifacts and innovations. From learning how the Sherman tank moved to handling military equipment for the war effort, participants will have an unforgettable experience. 4-5 pm.
Crescent City Reading Buddies Book Club Rosa F. Keller Library & Community Center, 4300 S. Broad Ave. The club partners middle school student volunteers with younger children (ages 2-7) to read oneon-one, helping to build literacy skills. Each club meeting will feature a snack or a craft that matches the monthly theme. Students aged 12-14 who are interested in volunteering, please contact Nikki at nleali@icloud.com. 4-5:30 pm.
Wednesday at the Square Concert Ser ies: Irma Thomas w ith Johnny Sansone Lafayette Square. A music series in the heart of New Orleans’ Central Business District. Proceeds from food and drink sales benefit the Young Leadership Council’s community service projects. Opening act from 5-6 pm. Headliner performs from 6:30-8 pm.
New Orleans Pelicans Smoothie King Center. Join the fun as the Pelicans take on the Charlotte Hornets. Tickets vary by seat. For more information, visit nba.com/pelicans. 7 pm.
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Baby Artsplay! Ogden Museum of Southern Art. For ages 4 months-3 years. The perfect opportunity for young children and their caregivers to enjoy an educational, yet fun-filled trip to the Museum. This event is free, but space is limited. Register at yabap.eventbrite. com. 9:30-10 am. Continues each Thursday in April.
Reading to Thor Algiers Regional Library, 3014 Holiday Dr. Thor, a licensed therapy dog, provides a patient and receptive audience for reluctant readers - and kids who just love dogs - to practice reading aloud. 5-6 pm. Continues every Thursday in April.
Behrman Game Night Behrman Park, 2529 General Meyer Ave. An evening of family fun featuring traditional board games along with interactive and physical games. Enjoy educational activities, 3-point shooting contest, extreme tic-tac-toe, relays, puzzles, card games, and more. 5-6:30 pm.
Pr ime Time Family Reading Algiers Regional Library, 3014 Holiday Dr. For ages 6-10 and their families. A professional storyteller brings colorful children’s books to life, and expert educators lead children and their families in lively discussion about what they’ve just read. A free family meal is included at each session. Registration required. To register, call 504.596.2641. Continues every Thursdays to April 25.
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Children’s Discovery Zone, and live music on the Haspel Outdoor Stage. Enter through the Tolmas Center. $10/person (general admission) or $5/person (Friends of City Park Members) Continues through April 7. 10 am-4 pm.
Home TWEET Home Movies in the Park: Hook Evans Playground, 5100 LaSalle St. Familyfriendly movies start at sundown (between 5-6 pm). Pre-show fun begins one hour before movie start time with field games and activities.
You 're A Good Man, Charlie Brown
Home Depot, Various locations. Encourage a love for nature and ornithology in this hands-on workshop where you and your child can build a birdhouse. All kids get to keep their craft, receive a certificate of achievement, a workshop apron, and a commemorative pin while supplies last. Children must be present at the store to participate in the workshop. 10-11:30 am.
Sp r ing Garden Show New Orleans City Park, Botanical Garden. The annual event invites visitors to explore the beautiful Botanical Garden, more than 50 horticultural exhibits, family-friendly activities, and enjoy educational lectures. The festival includes plant sales, garden product sales, a Plant Health Clinic, a
New Orleans Museum of Art. For ages 5-10 years. Learn how cultures communicate through jewelry and then create your own pendant that reflects your personality in this personal pendant class. Limited to 14 students. Call 504.658.4140 or email education@noma.org for more information. $25/member, $30/nonmember. 10 am-noon.
Super Satu rday Volunteer Day Divine Design Sew ing Class New Orleans City Park. Join for a morning of volunteering in New Orleans City Park. To sign up and get details on that day’s meet-up location, contact Tyler Havens at thavens@nocp.org. Wear closed-toe shoes and sunscreen and bring a water bottle. 9 am-noon.
Norman Mayer Library, 3001 Gentilly Blvd. For girls, ages 13-17. Skill building, creativity, respect, responsibility, perseverance, and self-discipline are some of the attributes that can be learned by the art of sewing. For more information, call 504.596.3100. 10 am-1 pm. Continues on April 20.
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Rivertown Theaters for the Performing Arts, 325 Minor St., Kenner. A fresh approach to the all-time 1967 classic, Sally Brown joins Charlie Brown, Linus, Lucy, Schroeder, and Snoopy in this charming revue of vignettes and songs. For more information, visit rivertowntheaters.com. 7 pm. Continues April 6-7 and 12-14. Times vary by showing.
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New Orleans City Park, Botanical Garden. Stroll through the Home TWEET Home birdhouse exhibit located in the Southern Shade Garden. There will be a silent auction during the month of April where you can bid on your favorite birdhouse daily in the Oscar J. Tolmas Visitors Center. Continues through April 30. 10 am-7 pm.
Studio KIDS!
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Shrine on Airline, 6000 Airline Dr., Metairie. Join the fun as the Baby Cakes take on the Round Rock Express. Tickets starting at $5/ person. 7 pm.
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Baby Artsplay! New Orleans Museum of Art. For ages 0-3 years. Instill a love of art at a young age through a guided, hands-on gallery experience. Learn how to integrate music, movement, and drama into everyday playtime to foster children’s developmental growth. To register, visit yabap.eventbrite.com. 10:30-11 am. Continues on April 13 and 20.
Asian Pacific Amer ican Society Festival Audubon Zoo. Visitors of all ages will enjoy this colorful celebration of Asian pride, partnership, and progress. Enjoy live entertainment, handmade crafts, authentic Asian dishes, and more. Included with zoo admission or membership. 11 am-4 pm.
Freret Street Festival
Cirque Musica: Heroes & Villains Mahalia Jackson Theater. An exciting and family-oriented experience featuring the story about a boy and avid comic fan who becomes “lost” in a fantasy world of superheroes and villains. This world “comes to life” through the incredible displays of circus and acrobatic talent from the Cirque Musica cast and musical selections from some of the greatest superhero and classical music of all time performed by the LPO. Tickets vary by seat. To purchase tickets, visit ticketmaster.com. 7:30 pm.
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Kids in the Kitchen: Gr illing Steak (and veggies) New Orleans Food and Beverage Museum. For ages 7-11 years. Get ready for summer grilling by learning how to grill in cooler temps. Kids will grill a small piece of steak along with veggie packets. $20/student and $15/members. To reserve a spot, visit natfab. org, call 504.569.0405, or email Jennie Merrill at jennie@southernfood.org. 10-11:30 am.
Tandem Tea Tasting Latter Library, 5120 St. Charles Ave. Relax for an hour of fine teas and even finer company, featuring a complimentary tasting of Tandem Tea’s rarest teas. Guests are encouraged to BYOT (Bring Your Own Tea) to brew up during the tasting. 3-4 pm.
Music Under the Oaks Newman Bandstand at Audubon Park. Bring your lawn chairs and join for a special concert series to celebrate the Audubon Park Conversancy and enjoy the music of the LPO String Quartet. 5-6:30 pm.
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Double Dare Live Saenger Theatre. Double Dare Live features original host Marc Summers and his beloved sidekick Robin Russo. Inspired by the iconic TV game show, it features two teams comprised of selected audience members competing to win prizes by answering brain-bending trivia questions, completing messy physical challenges, and ultimately facing the legendary obstacle course. Tickets vary by seat. Visit saengernola.com to purchase tickets. 7 pm.
New Orleans Pelicans Smoothie King Center. Join the fun as the Pelicans take on the Golden State Warriors. Tickets vary by seat. For more information, visit nba.com/pelicans. 7 pm.
Opening act from 5-6 pm. Headliner performs from 6:30-8 pm.
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Fika Coffee Break Alvar Library, 913 Alvar St. “Fika” is the Swedish custom of taking a coffee and pastry break. Relax with an evening of coffee, tea, and a variety of delicious Nordic treats. All are welcome. 6-8 pm.
Wednesday at the Square Concert Ser ies: Er ic Lindell w ith Deltaphonic Lafayette Square. A music series in the heart of New Orleans’ Central Business District. Proceeds from food and drink sales benefit the Young Leadership Council’s community service projects.
French Quarter Festival French Quarter. No better way to celebrate all things New Orleans than attending French Quarter Fest! This four-day festival has the best of New Orleans music, food, and festival fun. Free. Continues until April 14.
Reading to Rover Rosa F. Keller Library & Community Center, 4300 S. Broad Ave. Reading to Rover is an opportunity to share the unconditional love of dogs with children who want to read, practice reading aloud, or who may not have a pet of their own. 6-7 pm.
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Longue Vue House & Gardens. Ideal for ages 18 months-10 years. With activities like seed planting, arts and crafts, microscope observation, and storytime.
With seasonal themes and changing activities, there are always new things to discover at Sprouts. Free for LV members, $5/person for non-members. 9:30-10:30 am.
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Napoleon Ave. to Valmont St. Featuring over 200 vendors, three stages of live music, pet adoptions, and lots of other fun things to see and do. This festival will be held instead of the regular April Freret Market. Check out our musical
lineup at freretstreetfestival.org and the vendor lineup at freretmarket.org/ UpcomingMarketInfo. 11 am-6 pm.
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Ponchatoula Strawber ry Festival Memorial Park, N 6th St., Ponchatoula. The 48th annual festival is filled with lots of great food, strawberries, and entertainment. Free. Continues through April 14.
Rodgers + Hammerstein's Cinderella
Evans Playground, 5100 LaSalle St. Familyfriendly movies start at sundown (between 5-6 pm). Pre-show fun begins one hour before movie start time with field games and activities.
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Pr inceton Review ACT Practice Test
Kids in the Kitchen: Personal Pizzas New Orleans Food and Beverage Museum. For ages 7-11 years. While we’ll make the dough and sauce as a group, we’ll be making our very own, custom built pizzas to eat. We’ll have some classic ingredients on hand, but keep an eye out for some quirky ones on that assembly line for more adventurous cooks. $20/student and $15/members. To reserve your spot, visit natfab.org, call 504.569.0405, or email Jennie Merrill at jennie@southernfood.org. 10-11:30 am.
Tulane Football Sp r ing Game Yulman Stadium, Ben Weiner Dr. Come get a preview of what to look forward to during the 2019 season and stick around for post-game fun. 10 am-1:30 pm.
Mahalia Jackson Theater. Greek gods are real, and they’re ruining Percy Jackson’s life. As a son of Poseidon, Percy has newly discovered powers he can’t control, monsters on his trail, and is on an epic quest to find Zeus’ lightning bolt to prevent a war between the gods. Tickets vary by seat. To purchase tickets, visit ticketmaster.com. 3 pm and 8 pm. Continues on April 14 at 3 pm.
Kids' Night Out Goldring-Woldenberg JCC, 3747 W. Esplanade Ave., Metairie. For grades K-5th. Spend Saturday night at the Metairie JCC while your parents have a night on the town. Enjoy playing games, making crafts, eating pizza, and watching a movie. $25/ child (advanced registration), $30/child (day-of ticket). Register in-person at the Metairie JCC or nojcc.org. 5-9 pm.
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Toddler Social Club New Orleans JCC, 5342 St. Charles Ave. For ages 0-5 years. Little ones have the chance to play with parents and friends. Sometimes there’s music and singing, other times it’s stories with the Cat in the Hat or playtime on the Marks Park Play Yard — but it’s always a fun opportunity to interact and spend the morning together. Free event for JCC members. RSVP to adrienne@nojcc.org. 9:30-11 am.
Neighbor Namaste Audubon Park, near the bandstand. Spring is a great time to invigorate your practice with fresh air, friends, and flow. Join JCC yoga instructor Kelly Bond-Osorio for a beginner-friendly Vinyasa practice. All levels and abilities are welcome. Open to the public. Children and dogs are welcome as long as they are supervised. For more information, visit nojcc.org. 11 am-noon.
Music Under the Oaks Newman Bandstand at Audubon Park. Bring your lawn chairs and join for a special concert series to celebrate the Audubon Park Conversancy and enjoy the music of the New Orleans Concert Band. 5-6:30 pm.
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Teen Screen: Bumblebee East Bank Regional Library, 4747 W. Napoleon Ave., Metairie. On the run in the year 1987, Bumblebee finds refuge in a junkyard in a small California beach town. 4-6 pm.
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East Bank Regional Library, 4747 W. Napoleon Ave., Metairie. For 10th-12th graders. Take a free, full-length ACT practice test in real time to see what the test is like and to experience the testing process. Preregistration is required. To register, visit princetonreview.com. 9:30 am-1:30 pm.
The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical
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Saenger Theatre. This lush production features an incredible orchestra, jawdropping transformations, and all the moments you love — the pumpkin, the glass slipper, the masked ball, and more — plus some surprising new twists. For more information, visit saengernola.com. Ticket prices vary. 8 pm. Continues April 13 (2 pm and 8 pm) and April 14 (1 pm and 6:30 pm)
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Sw ing in the Oaks New Orleans City Park, Goldring/Woldenberg Great Lawn. Bring your blankets, chairs and picnic fare to this annual concert presented by the Louisiana Philharmonic Orchestra and City Park. 6-9 pm.
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Wednesday at the Square Concert Ser ies: Irma Thomas w ith Johnny Sansone Lafayette Square. A music series in the heart of New Orleans’ Central Business District. Proceeds from food and drink sales benefit the Young Leadership Council’s community service projects. Opening act from 5-6 pm. Headliner performs from 6:30-8 pm.
Little Acorns New Orleans City Park, Botanical Garden. For ages 18 months-4 years. Join for storytime, activities, and a healthy snack. Enter through the Tolmas Visitor Center. Consider bringing a blanket to sit on. Preregistration is encouraged but not required. $3/child, free for chaperone. 10-11 am.
New Orleans Baby Cakes Shrine on Airline, 6000 Airline Dr., Metairie. Join the fun as the Baby Cakes take on the Iowa Cubs. Tickets starting at $5/person. 5 pm.
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Homework Help and College Prep Main Library, 219 Loyola Ave. For ages 13-19. A dedicated staff person is available in the Teen Zone to provide teens with one-onone assistance using HomeworkLouisiana and navigating the college application process. 4-6 pm.
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Nix Library, 1401 S. Carrollton Ave. For ages 7-12. Participate in a fun, hands-on science experiment. Each month, explore a different area of scientific study and briefly review the subject at hand. 11 am-noon.
Dance for Social Change GOOD FRIDAY New Orleans Baby Cakes Shrine on Airline, 6000 Airline Dr., Metairie. Join the fun as the Baby Cakes take on the Omaha Storm Chasers. Tickets starting at $5/person. 7 pm.
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Nora Navra Library, 1902 St. Bernard Ave. For ages 12-18. Watch an original dance performed by teens from Dancing Grounds Uprising Company. After, get a chance to move your body and discuss how teens can impact social change. Noon-2 pm.
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HAPPY EASTER FIRST DAY OF PASSOVER
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Wednesday at the Square Concert Series: Marc Broussard with The Iceman Special EARTH DAY 23 TUES
PRIDE Club East Bank Regional Library, 4747 W. Napoleon Ave., Metairie. Teens in grades 6th-12th who support equality for all genders and sexualities are invited to join the monthly teen-led Pride Club. This club offers a safe and friendly environment to hangout, chat, and have fun. There will be discussions, crafts, and more. 4-6 pm.
Lafayette Square. A music series in the heart of New Orleans’ Central Business District. Proceeds from food and drink sales benefit the Young Leadership Council’s community service projects. Opening act from 5-6 pm. Headliner performs from 6:30-8 pm.
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New Orleans Jazz & Her itage Festival New Orleans Fairgrounds. Celebrating its 50th anniversary with amazing cuisine, music, and the overall culture of New Orleans. In honor of their 50-year milestone, Jazz Fest is celebrating with a special addition: an extra day. Fest
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SUMMER CAMP June 3rd- August 7th Ages 3-10
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CRANE REHAB CENTER 8300 Earhart Blvd. Suite 100 New Orleans, LA 70118 (504-) 866-6990
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organizers have added “Locals Thursday” to the festival lineup this year, offering specially-priced tickets for locals with a valid Louisiana State ID. Prices start at $70. For two weekends, Apr. 25-28 and May 2-5.
Make Me: Geometr ic Wall Shelves East Bank Regional Library, 4747 W. Napoleon Ave., Metairie. Learn how to build easy geometric patterned shelves. No registration required and supplies are provided. For more information, call 504.849.8833. 4-5:30 pm.
Kids Zoo-To-Do Audubon Zoo. This is New Orleans’s premier benefit event for kids. Audubon Zoo is transformed into a magical playland filled with giant inflatables, live entertainment, and complimentary food and libations to delight every palate. For more information, visit audubonnatureinstitute.org/ztdk. General admission tickets $20/person (member), $25/person (non-member). General admission 6-9 pm.
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St. Tammany Toy & Comic Con Clarion Inn and Conference Room, 501 N. Highway 190, Covington. There will have over 100 tables and booths of everything from Star Wars and G.I. Joe to golden age comics and anything in between. Doors will be open from 10:30 am-5 pm. $5/person (general admission). Children 6 and under free.
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Movies in the Park: Inside Out
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Evans Playground, 5100 LaSalle St. Familyfriendly movies start at sundown (between 5-6 pm). Pre-show fun begins one hour before movie start time with field games and activities.
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