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Kathryn Boone: The Gem of Sugar Land Mortuary A warm, caring personality and southern charm makes Kathryn Boone a real gem to the community she serves. Her reputation for service, coupled with her natural grace and impeccable style, made her an unbeatable candidate as the person to greet and serve clients visiting Sugar Land Mortuary.
Features 22 An Interview with the
Incomparable Glenn Close Glenn Close transforms into the character of Albert Nobbs, a woman who loses herself masquerading as a man in order to survive during the 19th century in Dublin, Ireland. Entertainment Editor Nick Nicholson interviews Close about reconnecting with the character that she portrayed nearly three decades ago in the 1982 theatrical performance developed by Simone Benmussa.
30 Jacki Breckon:
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Tanya Sterling talks with this multi-faceted philanthropist extraordinaire who has dedicated her time to various organizations in her community and around the world. When she is not giving back, she is parenting her teenage daughter, caring for her father and raising exotic horses on her Rosenberg, Texas farm. One thing is for sure – this Texas gal is passionate about everything she does.
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Contents financial savvy
18 Takin’ Care of Business
Productivity is key to ensuring growth and prosperity.
style
20 The List: Things We Love
‘Tis the season for gift giving – and receiving!
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Modern looks with retro soul.
44 Style Scoop
A few tips to help you look festive and bright this season.
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entertaining
Healthcare reform is a contentious subject with many possibilities, but what choice, if any, is best for our country?
Holiday wine tips – and selections – for every occasion this season.
health & wellness
26 Holiday Wine Finds
48 Wine Snob or Wine Wonderer?
32 HALT! Your Attitude Might Need an Adjustment
58 Uniquely French and Uniquely Houston
50 Setting Smart Goals For 2012
Picking the perfect wine gifts for the holidays.
Le Mistral creates classical French cuisine using local goods.
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Out with the old, in with the new – YOU!
55 Make the New Year Your Best Year Ever
A look at taking a different approach to making New Year’s resolutions.
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60 Gestational Diabetes: What Expectant Mothers Should Know
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Contents home
24 A Stunning Collision of Influences
Smart architectural choices led to gorgeous water views and a place that is uniquely home.
40 Home for the Holidays
Make your guests feel at home this holiday season.
chick flicks 42 Albert Nobbs
A true, unadulterated story of a very courageous woman who will stop at nothing for true happiness.
49 The Help
A vivid and inspirational story packed with powerful performances about women who break the rules of society.
59 The Debt
Get your heart going with this suspense thriller starring Helen Mirren and Tom Wilkinson.
Meet Me in St. Louis
A love story starring Judy Garland that features brilliant musical numbers.
inspiring women 46 Why a Traffic Stop Made Me Happy
The humdrum of your routine have you down? Get a little perspective, baby!
between the lines 61 I Am Woman
Take a comprehensive look at your well-being and start your journey to health, happiness and harmony.
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54 Pinktober! Benefiting Donna Bradshaw
Stepping out for a Cause with Focus on Women and Southern Sister Designs
56 Fort Bend Junior Service League’s Sugar Plum Market Preview Night Stafford Centre
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62 Handel’s Messiah in Candlelight Imagine Christmas Trans-Siberian Orchestra – Winter Tour 2011 Dirty Dozen: Ice Sculpting Competition Monty Python’s Spamalot Bring It On: The Musical
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21 Is Your Body Telling You Something About the Food You Eat? by Afreen Pappa, MD
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By Alisa Murray Get going and don’t stop! Make the most out of your time and your talents.
64 The Last Word
By Andy Rooney Do women over forty have it all? American Icon Andy Rooney takes a look at why women who are forty plus have it all and do it better than their twenty-year-old counterparts.
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The Hustle and Bustle of It All
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ike most of us, for me, the holiday season always brings more. More time spent with friends and family, more food I can’t resist, more fun activities, more opportunities for sharing and giving. And, of course, there’s the other side of more. More multi-tasking, more projects to complete, more things on my daily “to do” list, more stress, more anxiety – a whole lot more of just that – more. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of it all and not take time to devote to the more fun and fulfilling things. Yes, the holidays bring us more, and how we manage more makes all the difference. I’d like to tell you that I’ve had a grand epiphany of how to manage not only the busy holiday season without any stress or anxiety, but life in general – an easy, all-encompassing answer that’s an instant fix. While I haven’t been able to figure out the answer to it all, Dr. Kimberly Cress has an insightful take on improving your life by reaching out and helping others. While we may not be able to do it all and have it all, there’s intrinsic value in sharing what we do have – our time, our talents, our resources – with others. Kim says, “The happiest people don’t have the best of everything; they simply make the most of everything.” I couldn’t agree more. In this issue, you’ll meet a woman who has lived that philosophy throughout her life. She embodies the true meaning of the word philanthropist. Jacki Breckon began sharing her gifts with others in the Philippines by helping place orphaned children in American homes. And that was just the beginning. Jacki has spent her life helping others and seven years ago, started a unique event benefitting women in need: the Girlfriends’ Giggle. According to Jacki, she believes that “one of the ways you will find true happiness is when you are serving people.” Yes, I believe Jacki is onto something. The three young men who founded Krochet Kids International learned at any early age how to manage more by both giving and receiving, as did the founder of TOMS, a trendy shoe that helps people make everyday choices to improve the lives of children. We love these companies, their philosophies and their products that we feature in this issue’s The List: Things We Love. These companies show us that we can give simply by making informed choices when we spend our money. So during the season, and frankly, our lives of more, it’s really all about perspective – tackling the more with realistic expectations and a positive outlook. American businessman and record label executive Allen Klein said, “A little perspective, like a little humor, goes a long way.” This from the man who managed talent like The Beatles and The Rolling Stones which, while lucrative, I am certain was a formidable task. Yes, I bet a little perspective with a dash of humor helped him quite a bit. So, if you see me scurrying around this season in my Santa hat, hair askew but laughing all the way, don’t think I’ve finally lost it. I’m just keeping the more of it all in perspective! Thank you to our readers, advertisers and subscribers for another wonderful year, and for allowing us to share in the more of your busy lives.
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contributors
Nick Nicholson is the Entertainment Editor for Focus on Women and the Film and, Entertainment Critic for CNN Radio, the Fort Bend Star newspaper, Fort Bend Focus and Pearland Focus magazines. He is the co-founder of the Houston Film Critics Society and is currently the President of the organization. In “An Interview with the Incomparable Glenn Close” on page 22, Nick interviews the award-winning actress about her newest – and most challenging – role to date: playing a man in Albert Nobbs. Nick and his wife, Mikki, reside in Sugar Land, Texas.
A graduate of the Conrad N. Hilton College of Hotel and Restaurant Management at the University of Houston, wine connoisseur Phillip Smith shares his passion for wine in “Holiday Wine Finds” on page 26. Sharing his tried and true tips to help you find the perfect wine, Phillip has served as a Wine Steward for HEB, and he is currently the District Manager for the Sessi Wine Company. He and his wife, Lindsey, reside in Sugar Land, Texas.
Owner and personal stylist at Emmanuel Salon, Brian Benoit shares his style sense and passion for photography on page 34 in “Boho Chic Meets Suburban Cowgirl.” Brian showcases the looks of Southern comfort – timeless western boots and eclectic jewels – in historic downtown Rosenberg, Texas. Brian and his wife, Stevie, live in Sugar Land, Texas with their four children.
Tanya Sterling, wife and mother of three, is the founder and director of the JOY Ministry, a special needs ministry at First Methodist Houston, and a freelance writer. On page 46 in “Why a Traffic Stop Made Me Happy,” Tanya shares an inspiring tale about everyday life – the ups, the downs and the smiles. Tanya and her family reside in Sugar Land, Texas.
The Food Editor for absolutely! Focus Media, Claudia Richter brings not only her journalism skills but her extensive culinary background with her reviews of Houston area restaurants. In Uniquely French and Uniquely Houston on page 58, Claudia visits with chef and co-owner David Denis and co-owner Sylvain Denis of Houston’s Le Mistral. With a degree in culinary arts from Horst Mager Culinary Institute, Claudia and her family reside in Katy, Texas.
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ome women we know have the ability to add that special touch and bring something to a home, a classroom, or an organization that truly brings out the shine. We call these women gems. Gems know just what the room needs to make it pop, where to place the child’s artwork, or how to host the perfect gathering. They always know how to make everyone feel welcome, seem to know the right things to say, and they know when it is simply best to say nothing at all. This issue of Focus on Women features just such a woman who is known throughout the Greater Fort Bend area as one of those women with that special touch. She is known to many as Mrs. Kathryn Boone, the gem of Sugar Land Mortuary. Even the beautiful and well-appointed Sugar Land Mortuary has benefited from her touch, and like the shine of most gems, the results have been hard to miss.
The Gem of Sugar Land Mortuary W
hen L. Donnell Williams, founder of Sugar Land Mortuary (SLM), first decided to open his new flagship funeral home in Sugar Land, he knew that he wanted this location to be a reflection of the community that it would serve, and he wanted the community to immediately discern the warm and welcoming difference in a facility that is locally and
independently owned and operated. He also knew that the most important step in creating the desired experience at Sugar Land Mortuary was hiring the right staff. He was especially concerned with selecting his new Facility Manager and knew that it would be the most important hiring decision that he would make. Williams was seeking a member of the community
who had a heart and a reputation for service and a very special personality. While in the course of an exhaustive search, his fellow Sugar Land Rotary member, Bill Singletary, recommended Kathryn Boone. Singletary spoke so highly of her years of church service, her southern charm, caring personality, and stylish flair that Williams knew he had to meet her.
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Another family wrote, “Kathryn Boone was absolutely outstanding. She did all she could to make a very difficult timeframe work for the benefit of my family. She is truly an excellent professional with a family point of view.”
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nitially apprehensive about the idea, Kathryn met with Williams to discuss a possible position at his new funeral home. She had never worked in the funeral industry before, nor had ever considered it. “I am so glad that I set aside my inhibitions and agreed to meet with Mr. Williams,” says Kathryn. When the pair met for the first time, Williams recalls that he was not disappointed. She was everything that his fellow Rotary member said she was. The two also found that they had a lot in common. For starters, they both care a great deal about providing service to their community. In the 14 years that Kathryn has been a
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member of Sugar Land First United Methodist Church, she has served the community through a variety of church ministries. “As I continued to speak with Mrs. Boone,” says Williams, “it was clear that her heart for others and her service to the community were impressive.” According to Williams, Kathryn’s reputation for service, coupled with her natural grace and impeccable style, made her an unbeatable candidate. This was the person he wanted to greet and serve the public as they entered Sugar Land Mortuary. In reference to her acceptance of Williams’ offer to join Sugar Land Mortuary, Kathryn mused, “I found the assurance I needed in realizing that without being aware, I had been preparing for this position for quite some time.” Her experience as a Church Lay Leader and a Prayer Leader gave her the confidence to help families through the difficult process of making final arrangements, and she found that she actually had a gift for this type of work. We asked Kathryn if working at a funeral
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“My work here is truly one of the most fulfilling things I have ever done, and sometimes it’s a little overwhelming.” ~ Kathryn Boone
When asked what she enjoys most about being the face of Sugar Land Mortuary, Kathryn answers, “Being of help to people in a way that I never thought I could and being a part of something much larger than myself. My work here is truly one of the most fulfilling things I have ever done, and sometimes it’s a little overwhelming.” As the Facility Manager of this new institution, the community’s response to Kathryn has also been somewhat overwhelming. Every family that uses Sugar Land Mortuary receives a survey card following their service. SLM has received a surprisingly high response rate to the surveys, and a number of personal-
ly written letters. A high response rate is usually an indication that people have something to say that is far from neutral. While most of the comments rave about Sugar Land Mortuary’s beautiful facility, respondents were equally impressed with the care that they received when they were there. Many of the letters and surveys specifically address their experience with Kathryn and the comfort she provided during one of their most difficult experiences. Some of the comments from the surveys and letters that we saw were, “My experience could not have been better. Kathryn and all the personnel were exceptional.” In commenting on the initial arrangement meeting, another gentleman described Kathryn as, “Charming, warm, insightful, caring.” Another family wrote, “Kathryn Boone was absolutely outstanding. She did all she could to make a very difficult timeframe work for the benefit of my family. She is truly an excellent professional with a family point of view.” With these exceptional reviews, it seems that Kathryn has been a pivotal part of Sugar Land Mortuary’s success. “For any new business coming into an area, it is important to establish the right relationship with the community from the very first day you open the doors, and hiring Mrs. Boone has proven to be one of my best decisions,” says Williams. Like other places in the community that this gem has touched, Kathryn Boone has helped Sugar Land Mortuary to shine.
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home has altered her perspective on life, and if so, how. “Well, you can’t help seeing things a little differently. One of the things that I now see more clearly is how unexpected the expected can be. We all know that the day is coming, but just not when, and when it comes, we are so often unprepared for it.” Kathryn states that she has also been surprised by the difference that pre-planning makes for the family. She has observed how much easier things are for those families who have pre-need arrangements in place. “Before working at Sugar Land Mortuary and becoming a Licensed Pre-Need Counselor,” says Kathryn, “it never occurred to me what an important step this really is. When families are distraught over the loss of a loved one, it is much more difficult to plan services, while trying to keep a budget in mind, and taking in all of the differing opinions of the surviving spouse, children and siblings.” Kathryn has observed that pre-planning allows the family to focus on what is most important; they can focus on taking care of each other and bidding their loved one farewell. “No matter where families may have made their pre-need arrangements, we are able to accept those arrangements and honor the final wishes of the loved one who has passed, or the family member who had the forethought to plan when their loved one was ill. The most important thing is to do it before the need arises so that everyone has peace of mind.”
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Casual, comfy and chic all describe the hottest trend in footwear this season, and the best thing is that you can look fabulous and give the gift that gives back – TOMS. Available in canvas or glittery sparkles that pop, with every pair of TOMS you purchase, the company will give a pair of new shoes to a child in need with their One to One™ movement designed to help people make everyday choices to improve the lives of children. Now that’s holiday sparkle! www.toms.com
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Warm up your holidays with Primula’s Flowering Tea gift set. Ideal for tea connoisseurs and beginners alike, each beautiful box contains a 40 ounce, hand-blown, Borosilicate glass tea pot, a loose tea infuser, and a canister of 12 different flowering green teas with fresh Jasmine made by artisans in China. Give the gift that will continue to provide years of enjoyment, and healthy, delicious antioxidants as well. www.primulaproducts.com www.bedbathandbeyond.com
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Pearls of Wisdom
By Afreen Pappa, MD
Is Your Body Telling You Something About the Food You Eat?
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he ancient Roman poet and philosopher Titus Lucretius Carus once said, “What is food to one, is to others bitter poison.” Food sensitivities are unique to each person due to individual biochemistry and are influenced by genetics, environment, lifestyle, overall health and other factors. Each person with food sensitivities will have different symptoms that vary in degree of severity, age of onset, duration, location and amount of food necessary to trigger symptoms. Only an individualized diet that eliminates specific intolerant foods can help ensure that allergens and toxins that interfere with an individual’s health do not overload the body. It is now recognized that food sensitivity, a common but frequently ignored medical condition, may cause or contribute to many of the ailments that plague us. Proper diagnosis of food sensitivity can help cure
a wide range of health care problems ranging from obesity to migraine headaches, from depression to diabetes. By removing identified foods that disturb an individual’s unique biochemistry, the body is allowed to heal and operate at its optimal performance. Treating food sensitivity may have the same medical significance in curing chronic health problems as did the discovery of penicillin. Food sensitivities occur when the body’s immune system cells react to a chemical that either naturally occurs in food or is added to it and is different from food allergies. The modern diet of processed and adulterated foods contributes to food sensitivities by introducing more unnatural and foreign substances into the body and not providing adequate levels of nutrients necessary for proper liver detoxification. So, how can you tell if you have food sensitivities that cause or contribute to the
excess weight, fatigue, headaches, food cravings, or chronic illnesses? A simple blood test, the ALCAT test, can assess sensitivity to over 200 common foods and food additives, molds, environmental chemicals and more. Most individuals can overcome their food sensitivities by eliminating the offending item from their diet for up to six months, then reintroducing it in a four day rotational meal plan. If you are tired of feeling tired, suffering from migraine headaches, having difficulty losing weight, dealing with a chronic illness, or just want to perform your best in life, eliminating reactive foods can help.
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By Nick Nicholson
An Interview with
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the Incomparable
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lenn Close’s connection to the character of Albert Nobbs stretches back almost three decades to her 1982 performance in Simone Benmussa’s theatrical interpretation of the short story, Albert Nobbs, by nineteenth century Irish author George Moore. “I think that Albert is one of the truly great characters, and the story, for all its basic simplicity, has a strange emotional power,” began Close, whose turn in the Off-Broadway production prompted rave reviews and garnered the actress an Obie Award. Even as Close’s career skyrocketed, the character remained with her. “There’s something deeply affecting about Albert’s life,” the actress continued. “She never stopped continuing to move me. I became very busy in my career, but always thought that Albert’s story would make a wonderful movie.” Close has worked continuously on story ideas across the intervening years, developing a passionate attachment to the character of Nobbs: a woman living in 19th century Britain who has survived by disguising herself as a man and becoming a waiter. As the story begins, we find her working at Morrison’s, a reputable hotel in Dublin, where she has been for past two decades. “Albert doesn’t want to end up in the poorhouse,” explained
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Close. “At that time, Ireland was extremely poor. Around the corner from the hotel was abject poverty. She knows that without her job, that’s where she could end up. And, she knows anyone can get fired at any moment. There is a sense of fear among all the hotel workers.” When the audience meets Albert, the character has played her role as a male servant in Morrison’s Hotel for so long that she has lost her own, true identity. “She doesn’t even know her real name,” Close said. “She was an illegitimate child, raised by a woman who was paid to take care of her and who never revealed Albert’s true identity. I figure the woman was paid to not tell because family didn’t want the child to, one day, show up on their doorstep. So Albert, who already didn’t know who she really was, disappeared into the guise of a waiter when she was fourteen-years-old. When we meet her thirty years later, she is isolated and invisible, albeit an impeccable servant, having lived in hotels her whole life.” Benmussa’s play adaptation of George Moore’s Albert Nobbs was minimalistic with a considerable amount of mime used to tell the story, but even so, Close believed that the tale’s poignancy, heartbreak and humor, the latter realized by a wonderful
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collection of characters who visit Morrison’s Hotel, would fuel a film adaptation. “The play was very austere,” conceded the actress. “The power of the story is like a simple glass of water. When light reflects in a glass of water, it creates something extremely complex. The story is simple and linear, but it touches on complex human issues that reflect on everyone’s own life and everyone’s own baggage, and gives them something to take away as well. I’m hoping it will be universally appealing.” The primary character, and the central point around which the story turns, is, of course, Albert Nobbs. Close noted that she’s able to carry off the role because of Albert’s position in the hotel. “The key is that Albert is a very good servant,” Close said. “Servants weren’t supposed to make eye contact so that was very much in her favor. There’s comportment, the way of moving, with pants that are a bit too long and shoes that are a bit too big, but I think the biggest challenge for me is lowering the voice and the accent.” All of the main characters in Albert Nobbs find their lives affected by the quiet, retiring butler, and while the film unfolds as a tragedy, it plays with levity and lightness of touch. “The piece is not showy, and there’s an awful lot of fun going on,” said
Glenn Close as Albert Nobbs. Courtesy of Patrick Redmond
“For years, I struggled to make this movie happen, but the time was never right. Then it happened. It was just meant to be. The perfect time with the perfect team. We made it!” ~ Glenn Close
Close. “You can knock quite a lot of laughs out of something that is supposed to be very poignant and sad and tragic.” Close said that she recognized the humor in the story from the very outset. “Through all these years of working on Albert Nobbs, I knew that there was humor in it, even if other people didn’t see it. It’s not leaping off of
the page, as it’s not that kind of humor. It comes through the character and nuance and situation. I knew when people saw all these characters together that it is really fun. There are some beautiful moments.” Close concluded, “I’ve always thought that if I could do the Albert of my dreams, without major compromise, with an impec-
cable team, then I could retire! The fact that this particular group of people finally gathered together to tell this particular story is truly wonderful. For years, I struggled to make this movie happen, but the time was never right. Then it happened. It was just meant to be. The perfect time with the perfect team. We made it!”
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By Tim Sojka
The sunken living room soaks up light from the large windows.
A Stunning Collision of
Influences T here is a principle of conformity in real estate. The principle clearly states that neighborhoods with homes that are similar tend to sell better. This principle leads to uniformity; however, it can also lead to yawns.
Sometimes an architect successfully crashes through the glass ceiling of conformity to deliver truly stunning homes. Architect and builder Talal Sabbagh has done that with the three story home he designed for his family, a truly unusual and beautiful home right here in Katy. “I designed the home very carefully for the lot we selected,” said Sabbagh. The home faces west with views of the lake and a beautiful fountain on the rear. Everything about the home is designed to take in water views. When you enter the home, the first thing you see is water. The covered patio connects to the home in a way to give the feeling of an extension to the home. The patio, the living room, and family
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Asian and Texas Hill Country influences make this home stand out from the crowd.
areas intermingle as one creating a feeling of grand indoor/outdoor space, which is exactly what the homeowners intended. The home shades the backyard in the afternoon, which allows hours of enjoyment even on the hottest summer day. Most rooms in the home have views of the water. The third story was added to offer the owners a place for serenity and also offers a stunning view of the lake and nearby George Bush Park. The two influences of design are two sources that could not be any more different—the Texas Hill Country and Asia. The Texas Hill Country manifests itself in the stone, the woodwork and the general feel. The Asian influence can be seen in the design, colors and décor selection. Many people would assume that these influences would clash, but they add to a truly beautiful and relaxing home for the family. Few homes more completely break the rules of conformity. However, few homes will make the homeowners and guests more aware that some rules are made to be broken.
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By Phillip Smith
Holiday Wine Finds
is the season! The holidays are here, and gift giving and family gatherings become the norm. So, you ask yourself many questions while going over your to-do lists and checking them twice. What to cook? What to wear? Who to invite? Which wines to select? Worry no more because I have the solution to at least one of those questions. I have selected a simple list of wines that make great gifts and holiday gathering selections. But, before I go into details about the wines, here are a few simple tips in finding the perfect wine for you this holiday season.
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Spend a little more. Everyday wines that are the go-to’s for you and your friends do not necessarily make the best gifts. The wine gift is meant to be special, so select something that you wish you could drink every day.
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Be proud, go local! Texas wines have vastly improved in quality in recent years. Family members visiting from outside Texas maybe surprised when you serve a Texas Riesling or Cabernet Sauvignon.
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Ring in the New Year with a Sparkling Wine instead of Champagne. Don’t get me wrong, I love French Champagne, but with French wine prices souring to new heights, you may want to tap into the value of an Italian Prosecco or even a Sparkling Wine produced in the Champagne Method from the US West Coast. For those of you who love sweet wines, Muscato d’ Asti or Bianco would be a lovely choice to ring in 2012!
Here are my picks for the holidays:
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Messina Hof Cabernet Franc Cedar Crest Vineyard 2009
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Be proud and go local with this Texas gem! In fact, this wine just beat out a number of other Cabernet Franc brands at the San Antonio Livestock Show and Rodeo Wine Competition. It’s a deep, dark, and rich red that’s full of complex aromas and flavors. Your out-of-town guests are certain to enjoy! Available only at Specs. Retail :$20
Seek the advice of your local retail wine steward. These guys and gals know the latest and greatest of the hard-to-find wines. In other words known as “the good stuff,” restaurant only wines that were once impossible to find in retail are now available in many grocery retailers. Stick to the crowd pleasers. Bringing the right wine to a holiday party is a task that could hold you up in a wine department for longer that you ever anticipated. Stick to crowd pleaser varietals such as Chardonnay or Cabernet Sauvignon.
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Unwined Chardonnay Russian River Valley 2010 The Russian River Valley produces some of the world’s finest Chardonnay grapes! This Chardonnay is destined to please all at your holiday gathering. Unwined is only aged in oak for about 3 months, making it a lighter and brighter wine that fairs with a wider variety of foods than a Chardonnay that’s masked in French oak. Oaky and buttery Chardonnays are great but are not necessarily the best in pairing with a wide variety of food. Available only at HEB. Retail: $13
Stivalli Sweet Bianco or Rosso Italy NV I’m not your average sweet wine consumer, but with sweet wines taking a larger share in the market than ever, might as well make it a great sweet selection! Stivalli Bianco “White” is made from 100% Muscato grapes and is light, refreshing, sweet, and bubbly. The Rosso is practically the same style but red and made from a blend of premium red Italian varietals. This is an excellent choice for those seeking something less dry than the Brut or Extra Dry Sparkling Wines. Available only at HEB. Retail: $9
Mirror Cabernet Sauvignon Napa Valley 2007 If you like Caymus, you will love Mirror. It’s one of those “allocated” wines that are hard to find. Only 16 cases were shipped to Houston, and they are only available at select HEB’s. Absolutely perfect for gifts and an incredible Roasted Prime Rib Selection! Retail: $70
Cinzano Prosecco Veneto, Italy DOC NV
Schramsberg Brut Rose North Coast 2008 This is a beautiful sparkler! Ring in the New Year in true fashion when you pop open this gorgeous sparkler, and it’s not French! Schramsberg is located near Calistoga in Napa Valley, California is one of the most established producers of fine Sparkling Wines made in the Champagne Method. The wine is crisp, complex, and perfect with hors d’oeuvres. Available at most fine wine retailers. Retail: $40
One of my favorite go-to’s for a party! Prosecco has taken off like a Texas wildfire! It offers quality for value and is leading the pack amongst all other sparklers in terms of sales. Cinzano has been making wine for over 2 centuries and this pick is surely a fine example of generations of fine wine creation. Prosecco can range stylistically between dry and slightly sweet. Cinzano is light, crisp and refreshing, making it a perfect aperitif and crowd pleaser. Enjoy this wine at your holiday party or when you ring in the New Year! Available at most fine wine retailers. Retail: $10-$15
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By Jacquie Baly Chaumette, Mayor Pro Tem, City of Sugar Land
How Do We Reform Healthcare? A Conservative Approach
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eforming Medicare and Medicaid into a more efficient government service has been a contentious process at the very least. Many people using Medicare are rightly concerned that their benefits might be taken away. The supporters of the health care bill can talk until they are blue in the face about the bill’s benefits, but the Medicare beneficiaries are scared and are unlikely to change their opinion. The Obama administration has lost this portion of the battle. We conservatives understand the need for health care reform, but it has to be a sensible approach. So what should we do? A good first step would be health care vouchers to solve some problems and help reform Medicare. School vouchers are popular with voters, and they force school systems to focus on performance and promote efficiency. A similar voucher process for health care might provide significant benefits. Families covered by multiple plans could consolidate their health care services. Some doctors who do not take Medicare patients due to reimbursement rates could utilize a voucher system to improve the quality and scope of their care A voucher system would also allow patient choice, with the effect of forcing the Medicaid and Medicare system to improve. Democrats have long advocated the concept of a single-payer health care system similar to the ones currently in Canada and the United Kingdom. However, even a quick look at those examples shows that government-run health care systems are notoriously slow, inefficient and costly. When people are sick around the world, they come to the United States. In fact, they come to Houston because the care provided in this area is the best anywhere in the world. Whatever reforms we effectuate, they must not destroy our position as the leading medical provider. Over the past ten years, the Texas legislature has been successful in limiting the impact of excessive verdicts against medical providers. Tort reform has reduced punitive damage awards and taken big steps to eliminating frivolous cases. This work is not done. Of course, there are still reasonable complaints against providers who misdiagnose, mismanage or neglect a patient’s proper treatment. We have all heard the horror stories about doctors who confuse patients, leave utensils inside surgery patients, or make an egregious misdiagnosis. But those stories are not the common ones. One way to ensure the truly injured receive justice, while keeping health care costs from becoming artificially inflated, is to develop clear standards of care to which all physicians must abide, and assign clear penalties – in the form of reasonable financial damages – for breaches of those standards and other transgressions.
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When people are sick around the world, they come to the United States. In fact, they come to Houston because the care provided in this area is the best anywhere in the world. Whatever reforms we effectuate, they must not destroy our position as the leading medical provider.
Another reform to consider is allowing families, individuals and businesses to purchase health insurance nationwide, which they cannot do presently. This would increase competition for their business, provide a variety of choices, and improve the quality of those choices across the board. Further, individuals should be able to obtain insurance privately or through organizations of their choice: employers, churches, professional associations or others. Obama’s budget has cultivated an era of taxing too much, borrowing too much, and spending too much. The President’s budget sets aside $630 billion over ten years, which, according to his administration, is “not sufficient
to fully fund” health care but is the “first crucial step.” For real reform, we can only do what we can pay for in full. The liberals are setting us up for a tax increase, and they will use health care “reform” to show why such a tax increase is necessary. They want to double federal taxes as a percent of the economy from roughly 20% today to 40%. Most of these new taxes would go toward funding socialized medicine and redistributing wealth on a scale previously unseen in American politics. The net effort will be to dilute the quality of the U.S. medical system and penalize all of us without providing the intended benefits. Conservative health care reform should
neither raise taxes nor increase the size of government. Health insurance should have nothing to do with your job unless you want it to. Shopping for health care should look more like currently shopping for prescription drugs, dental, vision, and cosmetic surgery, and less like currently going to the hospital or getting a checkup. The former is price transparent and market-responsive. The latter is bureaucratic and doesn’t work. There are many opportunities to improve health care in this state and across the country. Unfortunately, there are more traps and dangers as well, and if we fall into one of these traps, the effect on our economy and the health care system will be staggering.
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By Tanya Sterling
acki Breckon Profile of a Philanthropist
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acki Breckon is a multi-faceted, international-yet-Texas kind of woman who is just as comfortable in an evening gown at a gala as she is maintaining her family’s 10-acre horse ranch in Richmond, not to mention exploring various parts of the world. She spends her days being a wife to Karl, parenting her daughter Erika, raising rare Egyptian Arabian horses, taking care of her father and is a philanthropist extraordinaire. Breckon’s life started out with an international flair. Born to an Irish mom and a dad from Sri Lanka, Breckon’s parents met while studying at a university in London where Jacki and her brother, Eric, were soon born. The family relocated to the United States and eventually settled in Houston. This happened to be the summer right before Breckon started 3rd grade, and her parents suggested they utilize the summer months
by visiting family overseas. What occurred was a whirlwind tour of 43 countries over the course of 90 days including Singapore, England, Egypt and Ireland. “My teacher kept thinking I had this vivid and wild imagination as I would talk about seeing the pyramids in Egypt,” said Breckon. “My mother finally contacted her and let her know that I actually did tour the Egyptian pyramids!” With her father’s job as an engineer, Breckon lived in countries such as the Virgin Islands and Saudi Arabia and spent her first two years of high school at a boarding school in Rome, Italy. She eventually married her husband, Karl, also an engineer, and continuing the life she led with her parents, the young couple relocated
Jackie’s family in Israel during their 43-country world tour in the summer of 1970.
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“I live life passionately and to the fullest,” said Breckon. “I believe that one of the ways you will find true happiness is when you are serving people.” – Jacki Breckon to Philippines and then to Puerto Rico. It was in the Philippines where Breckon started her journey in philanthropy. “There was an orphanage where the majority of the kids were AmeriAsian - most of the dads were American servicemen who left the island after they were sent back to the USA,” said Breckon. “An American priest ran this orphanage, and I helped place these kids in American homes. After that grand experience, I started volunteering wherever I happened to be in the world.” Not only has Breckon volunteered ever since returning from overseas, she also kicked
Event: 7th Annual Girlfriends’ Giggle benefiting the Fort Bend County Women’s Center When: Thursday, February 9, 2012 Time: 6:30 to 11:00 pm Where: The “Diva Den” at Fluor of Sugar Land, One Fluor Daniel Drive, Sugar Land, TX 77478.
Jacki’s parents, Phyllis and Earle, stayed at the Midas Palace Hotel in Rome, Italy in 1978 while visiting Jacki’s brother, Eric, and Jacki in boarding school.
Tickets are available for purchase online at www.fortbendwomenscenter.org or at the Women’s Center office located at 905 3rd Street, Rosenberg, Texas 77471. For more information on how to become a sponsor or vendor, please call (281) 344-5756 or email Anne Budill at abudill@fortbendwomenscenter.org.
Karl, Jacki and Erika Breckon celebrate one of their show horses with Erika’s friend, Charlotte Russo and trainer Shawn Crews.
it up a notch by starting Girlfriends’ Giggle, one of Fort Bend County’s premier all-female events benefitting the Fort Bend Women’s Shelter. In its 7th year, Giggle, hosted by STARS (the auxiliary group which supports the center through special events and by assisting with agency projects) has become a popular “Grown Up Girls’ Pajama Party” which has raised nearly $300,000 to assist survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault and their children since its inception in 2005. The Girlfriends’ Giggle gives women the chance to hang out with their girlfriends while indulging in massages, new hair styles, make-up tips and much more. Women shop for home decor, clothes and shoes. Fort Bend’s best restaurants serve up delicious foods, and there are numerous, unique auction items. All proceeds go towards providing free and confidential emergency shelter, counseling, crisis intervention and other supportive services provided by the Women’s Center. “My main reason for starting Giggle and the main reason why I still am actively involved are the kids,” said Breckon. “We are one of the few Women’s Centers in the area that house both women and their kids – not only the women. My heart aches for these kids as they struggle to adjust to their new life
situation, whether temporary or permanent. So those little faces keep me motivated to raise funds for more services and shelter for these heart-broken families.” The emergency shelter program provides both a 24-hour crisis hotline and emergency shelter for women and children who are victims of family violence and sexual assault. Services the center offers include shelter, food, clothing, emergency and onsite basic medical care, transportation, weekly case management, a wellness room, children’s services, and a Learning Resource Center. Shelter clients also have the option of individual, family, or group counseling to support their healing and growth into independent living. In addition to Girlfriends’ Giggle, Breckon actively volunteers at her daughter Erika’s school, St. Laurence Catholic School. She is the past Chair of the Music Fest for the Fort Bend Women’s Center and was a provisional member in the Fort Bend Junior Service League. Breckon has also worked with Caring Critters and the Lighthouse of Houston. The Breckon family are active members of Sacred Heart Church in Richmond. One of Breckon’s greatest joys is her family’s Egyptian Arabian horses. “There are only about 6,000 of these horses in the world, and we have owned approximately 20 of them
over the years,” said Breckon. Well-regarded in the Arabian horse industry, the Breckons have been raising these animals for almost 20 years. One of their horses was a top national show horse and was eventually sold to the Crown Prince of Dubai. Breckon’s greatest joy of her life is her 13 year-old daughter, Erika. A competitive gymnast who is overall ranked 7th in state competitions, Erika is a huge Texas A&M fan who wants to be a veterinarian. Erika has also shown horses in international events in Lexington, Kentucky where she won her event. She’s currently the youngest, under the age of 18, to win a grand championship. “Erika is following in her dad’s footsteps with her love of horses,” said Breckon. “Both Karl and Erika are amateur horse handlers who are well known in the industry.” In addition to her already full life, Breckon is the caregiver for her father who lives with them, and she was also the caregiver for her father-in-law who recently passed away. “I live life passionately and to the fullest,” said Breckon. “I believe that one of the ways you will find true happiness is when you are serving people.” Coming from a woman who has literally been around the world, those are, indeed, true – and inspirational – words to live by.
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HALT!
By Kristen Clark
Your Attitude Might Need an Adjustment A popular acronym in addiction recovery, HALT suggests pausing long enough to ask yourself if you are Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired.
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hether at home, work or play everyone faces the challenge of navigating change and overcoming setbacks. Life is not without daily trials and tribulations and yet, everyone has the capacity to make the best of most situations and enjoy increased effectiveness and personal happiness in the process. This is where attitude becomes a critical factor. If you struggle to keep your mental posture upright, perhaps you need to HALT and readjust your attitude. A popular acronym in addiction recovery, HALT suggests pausing long enough to ask yourself if you are Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired. If you are any or all of these things, your attitude is at risk of being negatively impacted and you may find yourself becoming increasingly hostile, impatient, irritable or unfriendly, none of which are useful in effectively managing life’s challenges.
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When in HALT, take a moment to assess and tend to your personal situation. If you are hungry, take time out to prepare or purchase a quick and healthy snack. If you are angry, temporarily walk away from your stressful or difficult situation in order breath, count to ten, relax and regroup. If you are tired, briefly withdraw for a quick nap or quiet time and rejuvenate from your hectic schedule. If you are lonely and feeling isolated, lift your spirits by making plans to visit a neighbor or friend. Zig Ziglar once said, “Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will,” and recent research has successfully linked positive emotions, including a positive attitude, to overall improved health, outlook, and relationships. In other words, HALT and tend to your critical needs, and you will be better able to adjust your attitude, rise above life’s adversities and prevail with a deeper peace and satisfaction.
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uring this holiday season, there’s no greater gift for your loved ones in need than the gift of hospice. This gift – and philosophy – of care has been designed to help patients and their families at the end of life, and no one provides the gift of hospice better than Silverado Hospice does. Ranked in the top 10% of hospices in the United States by their patients and families, they are proud to serve the residents of Fort Bend County. Hospice staff understands that the holidays can be particularly stressful for patients and their families as they face the challenges of a life-limiting condition. “Created as a compassionate lifeTonja Moon line for patients and Director of families on an end of Community life journey, hospice Relations brings comfort, guidance and support,” says Tonja Moon, Director of Community Relations. “I believe one of our patient’s daughters illustrated the hospice experience best.” “Silverado Hospice made it possible for my family to share the holidays with dad, at home – creating good memories that will last a lifetime.” Because everyone is so different in their life experiences, values, and cultural nuances, Silverado Hospice’s approach to care is on helping patients meet their own goals at end of life. Hospice team members spend time getting to know the patient and family. Then, attention is given to defining their expectations. Lastly, a joint plan is developed to help them meet their end of life goals. For some, it may be ensuring that pain is well managed. For others, they may focus on completing their ‘bucket list.’ And for many, it is just living out their final days surrounded by those they love. Giving the gift of hospice during the holidays can seem awkward, but studies show that the support and guidance pro-
vided by the hospice team is worth the effort. “Knowing that someone is just a phone call away 24 hours a day gives reassurance to all,” says Dale Metzger, RN, Director of Patient Care Services. “One family told us, ‘We were surprised when we saw mom over Thanksgiving. She’d lost so much weight and seemed so frail. A friend suggested that we call hospice for help, and after some initial hesitation, we called and immediately received the highest quality of care for mom. We were surprised and pleased to learn that there were experts available to help mom, and that Medicare covered all of it. Hospice was a wonderful holiday gift for mom and for our entire family.’” The qualified team of Registered Nurses, Hospice Aides, Spiritual Counselors, Social Workers, Volunteers and Physicians all focus on the quality of life. “Using their
unique skill sets, they ensure that patient’s physical as well as psychosocial and spiritual needs are met,” says Tonja Moon. In addition to providing care for those with terminal illnesses, the staff of Silverado Hospice is uniquely qualified to care for patients with Alzheimer’s and other memory impairing illnesses. Silverado Hospice is dedicated to the belief that no one who has a life-limiting illness should die alone, afraid, or in pain. Silverado Hospice provides peace, comfort and caring to terminally ill people and their families by treating the person, not the disease. At Silverado Hospice, hospice is about living all of life to its fullest. For more information about Silverado Hospice, call 261-565-2900, 866-7162486 or visit www.silveradohospice.com. Their Sugar Land office is located at 2205 Williams Trace Blvd, Suite 101.
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Boho Chic meets Suburban Cowgirl in these modern looks with retro soul! Southern comfort abounds in relaxed cotton and chiffon pieces anchored by the timeless western boot and adorned with an eclectic mix of chunky turquoise and sophisticated pearls.
Red Cami: $16.95 Biya Chestnut Fantasy Blouse: $179 Golden Cross Necklace: $110 Golden Pendant Necklace: $30 Gold Dangle Earrings: $16
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and pulling down a pretty comforter to uncover old, worn out Little Mermaid sheets. I tend to stay neutral in the guest room with crisp, white sheets with a thread count no less than 300. Here’s a tip: When you wash the sheets, put them in the dryer and spritz linen spray inside. Dry until just damp. Hang for a couple of hours and fold.
Bedroom If you would like your guests to feel extra special, here are a few tips to make their stay both comfortable and memorable. Prepare a 3” x 5” index card with your address, phone and cell numbers that guests can keep with them.
Place a small basket of essential toiletries they might have forgotten in the bathroom.
Place local magazines in their room that cover nearby activities or attractions such as absolutely! Memorial – of course!
Provide extra blankets and pillows that are easily accessible.
Make sure your guest room has a good reading lamp. Place bottles of water in your guest room for easy, direct access.
Place an alarm clock or clock radio on the bedside table. Add some books that you have read and are happy to have visitors take home.
Always keep a box of tissues handy.
A folding luggage rack is helpful so a suitcase can rest somewhere other than on the bed or floor.
Place a wastebasket in your guest room or bathroom.
Bring the outdoors in with a vase of fresh flowers.
Night-lights are a must to help guests navigate unfamiliar areas at night.
Spritz the bed sheets with a lightly scented linen spray.
Dining Room For me, the holiday table has less to do with the food and more about the drama of a gorgeous tabletop. When walking up to the dining room table, it’s easy to create a “wow” factor with very little money. You do not need fine china to make a beautiful setting – simply color coordinate what you have, and dress it up with some of these suggestions: If you have a beautiful dining room table, don’t cover it up with a table cloth!
Incorporate dried leaves and twigs from the back yard.
Maneuver tulle throughout the length of the table to give it softness.
Don’t forget the napkins! This is a chance to try new ideas. Tie a sprig of white lavender or other type of herb to the outside of the napkin for decoration. Holly and mistletoe are fun at Christmas.
Your average hay or moss can make an easy, affordable base for your fall centerpiece. All kinds of squash are a must! Make sure you cover them in floor wax and let them dry before you place them on the table. This really brings out their beauty.
Use an assortment of candles.
Tired of squash? Try colorful dried beans or candy as both can really be eye-catching.
If your table just isn’t that great, find a sheer table cloth and place fall leaves under it.
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Use colorful ribbon on the backs of your chairs. You can also use the ribbon to hold place cards.
So this holiday, as friends and family are coming home, take this opportunity to clean out the guest room, and get creative with your table - not the turkey! Your guests will be talking about their stay for quite some time.
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By Nick Nicholson
Glenn Close and Mia Wasikowska in Albert Nobbs
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Aaron Johnson and Glenn Close.
Glenn Close and Janet McTeer.
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i mply put, Albert Nobbs (Glenn Close) is definitely what you might expect. Nineteenth century Ireland was unbelievably unkind. Aside from the multitude of poverty and the large gaps between the classes of haves and have nots, there never seemed to be enough of anything for the masses. Folks were essentially forced to do the unconventional in order to survive. This brings us to Albert. He is a shy butler in Dublin’s most luxurious hotel that represents the bastion of where the elite and high society stay while in town. Albert is well thought of and appreciated for his quiet and unassuming manner of doing his job. He never brought any attention to himself and with good reason. Albert is really a woman. Ireland was very conservative, and jobs were difficult to come by, especially if you were a woman. Over the course of 20 years, Albert spent her life masquerading as a man in order to make a living - or literally starving to death. Albert’s ruse works on every level for decades, that is, until a painter who catches her eye enters the picture and the thought of showing her true identity comes to the forefront. Albert attempts to befriend Helen (Mia Wasikowska), one of the hotel maids, who herself is having some difficulties in her love life. Through the use of a slight streak of feministic courage,
Visit Our Newly Expanded Showroom Albert Nobbs serves up the true and unadulterated story of a very courageous woman who will stop at nothing to achieve true happiness. I can’t really recall the last time Glenn Close had a role with such substance and promise. Maybe it was back in the days of her boiling a rabbit all the while seeking the affections of Michael Douglas in Fatal Attraction. The film makers are truly quite lucky they found an actress with the endearing qualities and subtleties of Glenn Close to portray the role as Albert. It would be easy to envision some heavy handed and boisterous performance by a multitude of other actresses simply destroying the part and the film, yet the selection of Close puts the performance over the top. Close’s screen chemistry with Mia Wasikowska (generally known as the new Alice from Wonderland) is unquestionable. Of particular note are the performances of both Janet McTeer as Hubert and Brendan Gleeson as Holloran. Both interject a slight undercurrent of humor in the film, just enough to provide a wry smile from time to time. The film’s director, Rodrigo Garcia, has done a brilliant job painting the picture of the sorrow and disdain of the situation, yet provides the perfect canvas on which to free the heart, mind and soul. Albert Nobbs is not for everyone. The film is bleak and paints a heavy picture. Yet, those who watch the film with an open mind will come away with a true appreciation for where you live and who you are, indeed.
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‘Tis the season to look your best and try something new! Here are a few tried and true tips to help you look festive – and fabulous!
Go Straight! The new Straight line by Bumble and bumble creates soft, shiny – and straight – hair. This line will help tame your locks with a weightless finish allowing bounce and movement in the hair. For a fun and whimsical look this holiday season, go straight!
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Bb Straight shampoo and conditioner, then prep the hair using a penny size dollop of Straight cream.
The Ultimate Up-Do The chignon is one of my fashion inspirations for this season’s holiday hair. The word chignon comes from the French phrase “chignon du cou” which means nape of the neck. Chignons are generally achieved by pinning the hair into a knot at the nape or back of the head, but there are many variations of the style. So whether you are dressing up or dressing down, try a chignon on for style.
Tip: Use Morrocan Oil Hair Spray to add a light hold and a lustrous finish. And, to secure all of your up-dos, finish them off using the Bumble and bumble’s nifty little pin tins to add a little wink to any hairstyle.
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A dramatic eye shadow technique will bring the sparkle to your holiday ho-hums! To achieve such an intense tone of color, line the entire eye with pencil in a coordinating color. Start with a cream shadow on a wet brush and layer powder shadow on top. The three layers create an intense, deep color giving you a very strong eye without it being dark and smoky.
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By Tanya Sterling
Why a Traffic Stop Made Me Happy
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was in a “woe is me” mood the other day. In other words, I was not having a good day - too many responsibilities and changes to deal with plus having to interact with a difficult personality or two. I felt weighted down by everyday life, and then, felt guilty for feeling burdened when I fully know how blessed and beautiful it is to live my life. Of course, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder! That’s an interesting feeling – to feel stressed out over the very life you have created and enjoy living. Have you ever felt these emotions? Thus, I was on auto-pilot as I got kids off to school and started the business of my day. I wondered why life was so routine? I wondered if I was on track to fulfill all my tasks, duties and projects for the week? I wondered if I needed to email this friend (I never responded to her previous email a few weeks ago)? And, if I needed to, indeed, call that friend or could I get away with sending her a quick text? I even wondered about the hustle and bustle of the Christmas holidays. Everything just felt so...heavy, and I felt as if my mind was filled with great big sighs. I feel as if I am putting myself “out there” as I pen this article, but I suspect a
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lot of you can relate to how I was recently feeling. Have you ever just felt busy but not always productive? Have you felt as if you are living for everyone else, but you are lost somewhere in your “crowded” life? That’s how I was feeling, y’all! (And it’s so not true!) Anyway, as I was driving home from running errands that particular afternoon, I got stopped by a constable for making a rolling stop. As I pulled over, I heavily sighed thinking, “This is exactly how my day is going.” This officer, however, was so nice and cheerful that I smiled at him in return and apologized for making a rolling stop. He pleasantly gave me a warning (hallelujah!) ticket and sent me on my way. As I (slowly) drove off, my heart felt lighter, and I was just a-smiling! In the midst of my “pity party,” I got a “pass,” or as I define it, a random dose of kindness when I really needed it, and I literally laughed out loud! As I drove, I turned up the music and started singing to some good ole 80’s tunes – I know – I am dating myself. I also wondered why I was so happy AFTER being stopped by a policeman. How ironic it is that I would be happier after being pulled over than BEFORE I was pulled over! I also got to thinking that I was over-thinking, over-stressing and piling on these so-called burdens onto my own shoulders. We all make choices, and wonderful, bountiful, long-term goals are not accomplished overnight. No pain, no gain. If you can relate to this article at all, always know that life, circumstances and even those mundane daily routines get better and go by faster as long as we have the right outlook. Don’t let the drudgery of life keep you down – count your blessings. Remember, if you think you have problems, someone else has bigger problems and will have to jump through bigger hoops than you ever will. Be happy with yourself and your life - it’s all about perspective, baby!
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Wine Snob or Wine Wonderer? Picking the perfect wine gifts for the holidays Mudpie’s Wine Belts
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how the holiday entertaining and gift-giving season has begun, and with that comes, inevitably, the questions of what to give and what to serve. But how do you decide what wines to give? Yes, many bottles of wine are sold on a clever label, but I have some ideas to help you make it past the label and make some excellent choices on the wine itself. First, consider half-bottles. By giving two or three half-bottles instead of one full-sized bottle, you are giving your hostess the gift of choice. She can arrange for a smaller wine tasting at her leisure, and taste through to find a new favorite. This also solves the red or white or Merlot or Malbec questions.
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Buy your gift wines by the case at Max’s Wine Dive or The Tasting Room where the wait staff will help you make good choices and allow you to taste wines you are considering buying. While you are there, grab a bite to eat, relax with your own glass of wine, and pick up a case for yourself. Now, that’s holiday shopping! Ask questions! Buy your wine at a store where you feel comfortable asking questions, and then, ask away! Tell your wine seller what types of food the giftreceiver likes to eat or any wines you already know he or she may enjoy. Then, listen and ask even more questions to find the best choices. Still want to go with a full bottle and don’t know what to give?
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Here are a few of my favorites: • 2007 Pomum Shya Red Blend from the Yakima Valley in Washington. Cost: About $35 at Spec’s. • 2008 Alexander’s Crown Single Vineyard Cabernet Sauvignon from Rodney Strong. Cost: About $65 at Spec’s. • Italian bubbles. There are many options for Prosecco, Italy’s answer to Champagne. Prosecco has a lighter, crisper taste than Champagne and also often costs less. Here are a few wine accessories I’ve spotted about town that would make great gifts! A brightly-colored, festive set of wine belts your hostess can put to use right away. Similar to wine charms, the easy-to-slip-on belts will identify glasses with labels such as “More Please,” “Wine Diva,” and “Wine Snob.” Mudpie’s wine belts will definitely get the conversations going and be used at party after party. Cost: $8 for a set of 12 at Magpies or $8.95 on Amazon. Turn a wine bottle or a few bottles into a gorgeous centerpiece. Magpie’s also features Knobstoppers – bottle stoppers made from door knobs and intricately designed metal flowers turned into candle holders. Cost: $35 at Magpie’s. For the luxurious wine snob on your list, consider the Black Tie or Eve decanters by Reidel. Cost: $495 at Events.
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s we prepare to wrap up another year, we can’t help but think about all of the things that we would like to accomplish in 2012. January presents itself as an ideal opportunity to start fresh. I always find that it is the time of year that I adopt the old adage, “Out with the old and in with the new.” It is a time for purging the unnecessary excess in our lives. For some people, that excess is the stuff that clutters their homes. For others, the excess is the stuff that “clutters” their bodies. The stuff that does not allow them to be the people that they want to be, move the way they want to move, do the things they want to do. The stuff that is literally robbing them of their lives. It never fails. January 1st is the unofficial “Diet Day” of the year. The day when all of the resolutions begin, fitness clubs increase enrollment and diet foods fly off the shelves. Only 25% of these resolutions survive past the first week of the New Year. I don’t think that this happens because people want to give up
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or that they are lazy. I think this most oftentimes happens because they don’t have well-defined goals for the year. It’s kind of like setting out on a trip to New York without a map, GPS or even a compass. If you don’t plan out how to get there and utilize tools available to you, it is unlikely that you will reach your destination (at least not without wrong turns along the way). To increase the likelihood of reaching goals (a.k.a. your destination), I use the phrase “Always set SMART goals.” SMART is an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Timed. I often see clients write down “Lose weight” or “Get healthier” as goals. The problem with these goals is that they are not specific. How much weight? What does healthier mean? The goal of “get healthier” is also not a measureable goal. Healthy means something different to every person. How do we quantify it? The biggest mistake that I see made with goal setting is that the person does not set achievable or realistic goals. They focus
more on the end result instead of the actions that will get them there. Walking 45 minutes a day would not be an achievable or realistic goal for someone needing both of their knees replaced. Neither is setting a goal of working out 2 hours a day… every day. While that might be achievable, it certainly is not realistic for the majority of people. The last component of setting SMART goals is making sure that they are timed. If your boss came in and handed you a project to be completed, he would probably not just tell you to get it done whenever, but rather give you a deadline for its completion. This would insure that you would focus your efforts on the task, and get it done in a timely manner. When you put all of these components together, goals become more manageable and attainable. Lastly, focus on what you can do, not what you can’t. If walking is not an option for you because you have severe knee or foot pain (and you don’t have access to a pool), then utilize the other half of your body and work your arms, shoulders, back and abs. It is amazing what you can do to get your heart rate up even if you are only using your upper body. For instance, you can sit in a chair with a straight back and move your arms like you are jumping rope. Do it as fast and as controlled as possible. Hello, heart! This year, I have challenged 20 participants to battle the bulge during the holidays. They each signed up for a 30-day fitness challenge which involves using a Beachbody® program, Shakeology®, meal planning tools and accountability. They each set SMART goals, and I have been witness to them achieving their goals in a very methodical and planned manner. And this is all happening over the holidays! Imagine what 2012 will hold for them! You can put yourself to the challenge, too. Decide that you are worth it! Believe that you can do it! Now, get out that pen and paper, and set your goals for 2012! If you would like more information about the “30-day Challenge” or the Beachbody product line, please visit www.heatherreichert.com.
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By Kimberly Cress, M.D.
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Make the New Year Your Best Year Ever
What if you improved your life this year by helping others?
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t’s that time again when we all start to think about how and what to change about ourselves so we’ll be what we’ve always dreamed we could be. We think, “I need to lose weight, I need to eat healthier, spend more time with my family, be more productive at work, be more organized.” You can think of plenty more I’m sure. I’m not saying these resolutions are bad; some of us probably really need to do some of these things. The problem, I think, with those resolutions is that they prevent us from looking inside ourselves. However, if you want to really have a great year, forget about you! That’s right. Try focusing instead on something or someone totally different! Rather than trying to become the perfect you, think outside yourself. Let’s face it, if you could be that perfect you, wouldn’t you have done it already? So, it’s a New Year, and you want to improve your life? That’s commendable. But, what if this year you did that in a different way? What if you improved your life this year by helping others? Focus on people you don’t know, or even ones you do know who can benefit from your expertise, your time, your passion, your listening, and yes, maybe even a little of your money. Think how good you’ll feel about yourself after spending time with a
friend who’s going through a tough time. Consider the lift you’ll feel bringing a meal to a sick friend or family dealing with a medical illness. Go through your closets (you know that’s been on your list for a long time anyway) and donate clothes, toys, and books to your church, school or local women’s shelter. Visit a children’s hospital or nursing home, and spread some cheer. Take a game to play with them or just sit and listen to their stories. Offer rides to people going for chemo or dialysis. Join Relay for the Cure in your area, and walk to raise money for breast cancer. These are just a few ideas. There are a lot of things you can do! I know we’re all busy, and who has time to help others when you’re barely getting by yourself and have no time for yourself? If you make giving a priority, you can find some time. It doesn’t have to take over your life. No one is saying you have to become the chairperson of a big charity event. Just give a little of yourself and see how much happier and fuller you feel about your life. What have you got to lose? Some people will undoubtedly benefit from your generosity, and you benefit from an increase in self-esteem. If helping someone doesn’t make you feel anything positive, you can always go back to the way things were. You can go back to focusing on you and how you need to eat better, exercise more, spend more time with your children, and on and on. Before you do that, realize this is something in which you can also involve your children, and teach them about the power of giving. Let them feel good, too. They deserve it. We all do! So, instead of making the same dull resolutions most of us never fulfill anyway, just open up your heart, have a little creativity, spend a little time, and change someone else’s life this year. Give freely and wholly, and you’ll be amazed at how it will change your life. I’ve heard it said that the happiest people don’t have the best of everything; they simply make the most of everything. Let us all remember that this year, and make 2012 the best year ever!
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Woman Woman Creating the Wonderful Things
One talent pulls at you to redefine itself and in the allowing of that to happen, wonderful things emerge.
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eople often ask me how in the world I get all of it done. It seems to me that they are maybe worried they themselves aren’t getting enough done. I can’t say exactly what it is that allows me to throw several irons in the fire, but I can tell you that not doing so will make me crazy. Most people have many talents and tapping into them is often not so easy. For the lucky few who have been able to do so, they stand out from the crowd a bit, and make the rest of us stop and wonder, “What am I doing wrong?” Maybe it’s in the moving? People such as Steve Jobs and Andy Rooney were always busy. Creating, writing, thinking ... each minute was used wisely and for a cause. I love that about them. Their souls were so intertwined with their purpose that even in their last days here they kept on until they were done. Getting going is the best advice I can give you. Just keep moving ... ya know it’s not easy, but in order to figure it all out, you do have to start somewhere. I re-
member writing down somewhere that I wanted to be famous. Several years later, I began painting and said openly that I was an artist. I had defined myself as such by the mere virtue that I could paint. Still more years ... I became a mother, and in those first few months of overwhelming feelings of protection and searching to define a love I had never known, yes ... I found that I had again defined myself as a mother. Searching yet still, I discovered a camera, and then writing, and yes, I am them all. These talents have been revealed to me in many ways, but the ability to juggle them all at the same time is not always so easy. One talent pulls at you to redefine itself and in the allowing of that to happen, wonderful things emerge. Wonderful things that change the world sometimes like the creation of the iPad and the iPhone. Wonderful things like making a difference by voicing your opinion .... liked or not. Wonderful things. I’ll bet if you had the chance to ask them – talking about Steve and Andy again – if they had any hobbies or such, they did not. Nor do I. One of the last things that Andy said in his interview a few weeks ago rang so closely to my soul that when he said it, I cried, and I am crying now as I type it. “I love what I do, and I wish I could do it forever!” That, my friends, is the key. I’ve decided that heaven has to be some really awesome place where you get to do exactly what God placed in your soul to accomplish. The soul doesn’t have to stop creating – just the body that gave out has to go. I sure hope so anyway. Take Care of you!
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Uniquely French and Uniquely Houston Le Mistral
1400 Eldridge Parkway 832.379.8322 www.lemistralhouston.com
Chef David Denis co-owner of Le Mistral. Photo by Kevin McGowan.
Sylvain Denis co-owner of Le Mistral. Photo by Shannon O’Hara.
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he best advice when it comes to anything is stick with the classics; they will never go out of style. This philosophy has worked well for David and Sylvain Denis, brothers and co-owners of Le Mistral, the award-winning French restaurant in West Houston. A recent gathering to celebrate the restaurant’s milestone 10th anniversary drew an adoring crowd that relished their favorite classical French dishes while paying homage to their congenial hosts. Executive Chef David Denis describes his menus as uniquely French and uniquely Houston because he likes to incorporate fresh, locally available ingredients while adhering to a classically French preparation. By making everything from scratch, as he learned growing up helping in his mother and grandmother’s restaurants in France and later after receiving professional training in culinary school, he has never strayed from utilizing his ingredients to the fullest and keeping healthy dishes at the forefront of his kitchen. After becoming the first local chef to receive the prestigious Waterford Crystal Chef of Chefs award at Wine and Food Week’s Wine Rendezvous Grand Tasting and Showcase and the
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first chef to win two years in-a-row, plus being honored as the best food in Houston by Zagat in 2010, as well as numerous other awards and recognitions, he has earned the right to take a little break. But for Chef Denis, Le Mistral is where his heart is. So much so, that he has added Foody’s Gourmet next door to Le Mistral, to offer many of the restaurant’s signature items, such as breads, pastries, olive oils, sauces, dressings, imported cheeses and of course, wines to pair with any meal. In addition, cooking and wine classes will be offered to share some of Le Mistral’s coveted recipes and cooking methods. As most restaurateurs know, success such as what Le Mistral has enjoyed comes with having all the elements in place to give diners a reason to keep coming back. Since moving from their original location, a cozy and quaint single dining room, to a spacious new building, Le Mistral offers a variety of dining options to suit any occasion. Upscale, but never stuffy, the beautiful bar, private wine cellar dining area that seats 10 and a chef’s table in the kitchen that seats 12, as well as a banquet room for parties and business events, have made Le Mistral a popular
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choice for diners in the neighborhood and from the Houston area. Sylvain Denis, general manager and co-owner, presided over the design of the building using his experience as an architect and project manager in France and his extensive training as a Sommelier to build an extensive French wine collection, one of highest rated in Houston and recognized by Wine Spectator magazine with Awards of Excellence in 2009 and 2010. Signature items from the menu include Salad Mistral with Blueberry Balsamic Vinaigrette, Escargots, Seared Foie Gras, Veal and Spinach Ravioli, Rack of Lamb and Osso Bucco. The lunch menu has a good mix of appetizers, soups, salads, fish, meat dishes and sandwiches and offers an express and business lunch. Sandwiches are served with a small Mistral salad or homemade French fries. Crème Brulee, Chocolate Fondant, Crepes, Tarte Tatin, and homemade ice cream and sorbets are a wonderful finish to any lunch or dinner at Le Mistral. The brunch menu features delicious drinks and specialty coffees and breakfast favorites such as ham and Gruyere cheese crepes with béchamel sauce, homemade buttermilk pecan pancakes and Le Mistral Eggs Florentine plus a complete offering of soups, salads, appetizers, main dishes and desserts. For David and Sylvain, the plan for the next 10 years is to keep working hard to share their love of food and hospitality at Le Mistral and to help teach another generation the fine art of French cuisine.
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t’s 1903 and the well-off Smith family has four beautiful daughters, including Esther and little Tootie. Seventeen-year-old Esther has fallen in love with the boy next door who has just moved in, John. He, however, barely notices her at first. The family is shocked when Mr. Smith reveals that he has been transferred to a nice position in New York, which means that the family has to leave St. Louis and the St. Louis Fair. This is a wonderful film with very strong characters, and the musical numbers are absolutely the brilliant!
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Gestational Diabetes What Expectant Mothers Should Know
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estational diabetes, or diabetes occurring during pregnancy, affects approximately 5% of pregnant women in the United States. While the condition can cause health complications for both mother and child, with careful management, women with gestational diabetes may still have both a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby. What Is Gestational Diabetes? “Like other forms of diabetes, gestational diabetes affects the way the body uses blood glucose, or blood sugar,” says Rachna Bhala, M.D., board certified OB/ GYN, on staff at Methodist Sugar Land Hospital. “During normal digestion, carbohydrates are broken down into glucose and enter the bloodstream. Insulin, a hormone produced in your pancreas, helps move the glucose from the blood stream into your body’s cells, where it is used as the main source of energy. With gestational diabetes, insulin action is impaired, so glucose remains in the blood causing high blood sugar.” What Are the Health Risks? “Undetected and uncontrolled, gestational diabetes can affect the health of both mother and baby,” says Margaret Condit, M.D., board certified OB/GYN, on staff at Methodist Sugar Land Hospital. Dr. Condit cautions that in expectant mothers, gestational diabetes may cause: • Frequent urinary tract infections. • The unborn baby may grow too large and require a Cesarean section for safe delivery. • Increased risk of developing preeclampsia, a potentially lifethreatening condition that affects pregnant women. Babies born to women with gestational diabetes may develop: • Low blood sugar. • Respiratory distress syndrome, a condition which makes breathing difficult.
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• Jaundice, the yellowish discoloration of skin and the whites of the eyes. • Low mineral levels in the blood. “Fortunately, most of the conditions that may affect the baby are treatable and mothers usually see a return to normal blood sugar levels shortly after giving birth,” Dr. Bhala says. However, women with gestational diabetes have a greater risk of developing type 2 diabetes later in life. In addition, children born to these women have a higher risk of diabetes and obesity. What Can You Do? Your best defense against gestational diabetes is a healthy diet, regular exercise and routine prenatal visits with your obstetrician. Because most women don’t experience symptoms when they develop the condition, obstetricians routinely test for gestational diabetes around the 28th week of pregnancy. “If it is determined that you have the condition, we will recommend frequent check-ups, regular monitoring of blood sugar levels, a healthy diet and exercise,” Dr. Condit says. “With proper treatment, you can still enjoy a healthy pregnancy and give your baby a good start in life.”
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Are You At Risk? While researchers are unsure of the exact reasons some women develop gestational diabetes, they have identified factors that may make some expectant mothers more susceptible to the condition. • Being older than age 25. • Being overweight. • Having a personal history of prediabetes, a precursor to type 2 diabetes, or a family history of type 2 diabetes. • Having had gestational diabetes during a previous pregnancy. • Having previously delivered a baby weighing more than 9 pounds. • Being of African American, Hispanic, American Indian or Asian heritage.
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About the Author Dr. Shelena Lalji, known as “Dr. Shel,” is the founder and medical director of Dr. Shel Wellness and Medical Spa in Sugar Land, Texas. For over fourteen years, she has been inspiring and educating people on how to live their best lives possible by giving them the tools to create balance and harmony in their lives through her integrative medical approach. After practicing traditional women’s healthcare for over ten years as a Board Certified Obstetrician and Gynecologist, Dr. Shel felt the need to focus on a comprehensive approach to women’s health focusing on the balance between mind, body and spirit. This journey inspired Dr. Shel to create a supportive and serene environment in which she provides the highest level of care for her patients. Her mission is to help her patients by empowering them to cherish and honor themselves so they can live their lives to the fullest. She assists her patients in this process by guiding them through a journey with natural, bio-identical hormones, nutritional balancing, allergy treatments, state-of-the-art aesthetic treatments, and a healthy life balance. Dr. Shel is a well-known keynote speaker, a medical expert, and a knowledgeable trainer for fellow integrative practitioners. She believes in and lives by a deep-seated balance in her own life while she fulfills and enjoys her many roles as a physician, women’s health advocate, strong supporter of her community, wife, and mother of two beautiful children.
re you ready to feel like yourself again? Do you feel frustrated with the medical care and diagnoses you have received thus far from traditional doctors? Do you feel like you are not treated like the unique individual that you are, rather like one of thousands of women experiencing aging symptoms of fatigue, weight gain, mood swings, depression, insomnia, low libido and much more that you have to just accept and live with? Are you ready to change all that? Are you ready to embrace your life, your health, and your inner powerful woman? If so, this book will speak to your mind and your heart. I Am Woman was fostered and created by Dr. Shelena Lalji after practicing OB/GYN in a traditional setting for over a decade. As she became more focused on the preventive and integrative aspect of medicine, her inspiration to heal patients became boundless and her life’s mission. “Dr. Shel,” as her patients lovingly call her, considers herself fortunate to be in a place where she can help women achieve true mind, body and spirit balance in their daily lives through her writing, speaking and practice. Dr. Shel’s patients are a living testimony to the benefits of her natural, holistic and comprehensive approach to treating women. In I Am Woman, several patients who inspired Dr. Shel to continue her endless efforts to heal, have also shared their experiences for other women, like themselves, in hopes to help them regain control of their own lives. These are the stories that will inspire your journey to health, happiness and harmony. To order I Am Woman, go to www.drshel.com.
Five Important Things... I Am Woman In I Am Woman, Dr. Shelena Lalji invites women to take a comprehensive look at their overall health and well-being. Dr. Shel explores – and encourages – her fellow women to do five important things on their journey to health, happiness and harmony: Get help. If you are not feeling like yourself, find a board-certified physician who understands the “whole patient” and who can treat you holistically. Become your own advocate. If something does not feel right, don’t give up on finding a treatment protocol that works for you. Get educated. Spend time understanding the profound links be-
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tween your body, mind, and spirit. The ultimate goal is to feel aligned in these three areas for optimal health and wellbeing. Share information. Tell your story about overcoming your health issues through becoming hormonally and nutritionally balanced to others. Encourage your sisters, mothers, friends, and aunts to look beyond traditional medicine in addressing health concerns. Celebrate your life. Once your body is in balance, enjoy your life. Live it to its fullest, and be a role model of health, harmony and happiness to other women in your life.
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December 16 – 18: Handel’s Messiah in Candlelight. “Rejoice Greatly” as this Houston tradition continues! The holidays wouldn’t be the same without Handel’s Messiah with the Houston Symphony, chorus and guest soloists. Every year, the symphony brings this holiday favorite, refreshed by the interpretation of a new guest conductor, where you’ll hear your favorite arias and choruses from For Unto Us A Child Is Born to the majestic Hallelujah Chorus. Enhanced lighting will create an ambiance invoking the candle-lit style of Handel’s 1700s. December 16 & 17, 8 pm December 18, 2:30 pm Jones Hall www.houstonsymphony.org
DINNER & SHOW
December 20 – 27: Imagine Christmas. Relive the Nativity Story through fresh eyes and recapture the wonder of God’s miraculous gift. Imagine Christmas combines inspiring music, beautiful dance and imaginative aerial acrobatics to tell the story of Christ’s birth in a way that evokes child-like wonder, awe and amazement. Nightly live performances include a sumptuous holiday buffet dinner and Festival of Lights ticket. 7 pm Moody Gardens Galveston www.islandstarlive.com
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December 23: Trans-Siberian Orchestra – Winter Tour 2011. Toyota Center is proud to welcome Trans-Siberian Orchestra back to Houston for two shows! The group includes an orchestral string section, a full rock band, multiple vocalists, a narrator, extensive pyrotechnics, a stunning laser and light show, and even a snowfall! Don’t miss out on this winter extravaganza when it blows through Houston this December! 4 & 8 pm Toyota Center www.houstontoyotacenter.com
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January 7: Dirty Dozen: Ice Sculpting Competition. Featuring one dozen acclaimed ice artists from around Photo courtesy of the country using discoverygreen.com chainsaws and blow torches to transform ice into masterpieces, thousands will watch the carvers battle for the grand prize. Music throughout the day will be provided by DJ Caps One. Reverend Butter of DLG Ice Factory faces off with a master carver at the end to the live music of Downfall 2012. Admission is free. 10 am – 5:30 pm Discovery Green Andrea and Bill White Promenade www.discoverygreen.com
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January 21: Monty Python’s Spamalot. This encore presentation of the Broadway musical lovingly appropriated from the 1975 motion picture, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, is a highly irreverent theatrical parody of the Arthurian Legend. With book by Monty Python’s Eric Idle, Spamalot also includes deliciously zany parodies of Broadway theatre. The original 2005 Broadway production, directed by Mike Nichols, received 14 Tony Award nominations, winning 3 awards including the Tony for Best Musical. 3 & 8 pm The Grand 1894 Opera House www.thegrand.com
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January 24 – February 5: Bring It On: The Musical. This explosive new musical comedy raises the stakes on over-the-top high school rivalries. Set against the world of competitive cheerleading, this powerhouse new show hilariously proves that winning isn’t everything when it means losing something - or someone - you really care about. The show unites some of the freshest and funniest creative minds on Broadway, including Tony Award-winning writer Jeff Whitty, Tony Award-winning composer Lin-Manuel Miranda, Pulitzer Prize and Tony Award-winning composer Tom Kitt and lyricist Amanda Green. Tuesday, January 24, 8 pm Tuesday, January 31, 7:30 pm Wednesday & Thursday, 7:30 pm Friday & Saturday, 8 pm Saturday & Sunday, 2 pm Sunday, 7:30 pm Theater Under the Stars www.tuts.com
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the last word
Andy Rooney on Women Over Forty
In Honor of an American Icon Andy Rooney 1919-2011
Andy Rooney says:
A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.
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As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think. If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting. A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing. Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated. A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.
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Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know. A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress. Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.
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