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CATHOLIC Volume 28 • Number 10 • November 2016
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God’’s Mercy Transforms Hearts
Serving The Counties Of Middlesex, New London, Tolland, Windham, CT & Fishers Island, NY
“Mercy reawakens us to new life and instills in us the courage to look to the future with hope.” Pope Francis
Jubilee Year of Mercy
December 8, 2015 – November 20, 2016
In this Issue: page "Love has brought us here."
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Hymn lyric borrowed by Linda Norton to express the grace-filled sentiment of those attending the Diocesan Silver & Gold Wedding Anniversary Mass, October 23, 2016, honoring the Holy Sacrament of Marriage.
"You have to have the courage of God to walk into places where most of us would not tread because you know God is with you." -- Homilist Deacon Robert Dio, of St. Peter Church in Worcester, speaking to the brave firefighters and EMS responders at a Mass in their honor at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich, October 15, 2016
page "We must trust and reach beyond fear and
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pride to seek God's care from others."
Ed Tessman, Executive Director, emphasizing the trusting connection Catholic Charities encourages with those they are privileged to serve.
page "Actualmente, 40% de Catolicos en el
Estados Unidos son Hispanos. De los Catolicos menores de 18 anos de edad, 60% son Hispanos." Sister Mary Jude Lazarus, S.C.M.C. identifying the positive growth and contributions of the Hispanic membership within the Catholic Church in the U.S.
page "We must strive to always be instruments
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of Christ, the Light of the world. We must always be striving to reach a higher level of holiness."
Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations, reflecting on God's call to each of us to serve the people of God through the priesthood and all callings.
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THE MOST REVEREND
MICHAEL R. COTE. D.D.
BISHOP OF NORWICH
LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Our Journey Forward Pulling Together The presidential election of 2016, chaotic and exhausting as it was, turned out to be a stunning and, in the end, promising moment in our Nation’s history. Late in the campaign, I was watching live cable coverage of a Donald Trump rally in Florida and heard Mr. Trump say to his audience, "We will protect freedom of religion." He said it exactly that way. It wasn't cloaked in some indirect political-speak about addressing the First Amendment. It was direct and plainly spoken. And along the campaign trail, he and Governor Pence regularly confirmed they are pro-life supporters. All this raises the promise of our great Country recommitting itself to a culture-of-life. This promise will help us recover from the experience of a difficult and divisive election battle. Through the mercy of God, we will do our part to help restore unity, compassion and respect for one another and respect for living one's faith. The Christian instinct is to move forward undeterred toward healing and rebuilding a culturally divided nation - an increasingly secular nation that at times had been looking lost of its constitutional principles. Lost of the guarantee of religious liberty, lost of its humanitarian obligation to save lives - among them the unborn, lost of its respect for the lawful common good, lost of its determination to
lift the poor and most vulnerable among us, lost of its value for the truth and lost of its understanding that the United States of America is not just another country. This Country still has tremendously hard work to do to live up to our Constitution. This is true. But we are a Nation under God that has leadership responsibilities with an overwhelming potential for good in this world. Much of that leadership is due to the core goodness of a nation founded on the ideal of freedom for all. We value our freedom to decide where to place out highest trust.
"We value our freedom to decide where to place our highest trust. " Considering ourselves an exceptional nation is not arrogance. It is not a contradiction of our all being God’s children and equal in His eyes. What it says is that any nation committed to human rights, to religious liberty, to the pursuit of equal justice, compassionate toward its most vulnerable and to other peoples around the world is exceptional. Thankfully, we have been blessed with the opportunity to be good and do good on an unprecedented scale. We ask, in this Year of Mercy, for God's mercy to
continue to watch over us, and our newly elected leadership. Principles of our Christian faith have always played an important role in the waves of progress this good land has made toward reaching its full potential. Any erosion in religious freedom and right of conscience of Christians and those of all faiths would be to diminish our great Country. The common good is a constant exercise in improving and lifting others. It is never about diminishing our core strength of freedom. We must dedicate ourselves to helping the new administration keep its promise to preserve and protect religious liberty. We must also rededicate ourselves to helping encourage the selection of Supreme Court Justices prepared to uphold the Constitution and respect the sanctity of human life. On no terms is the shameful endorsement of the killing of innocent life in keeping with the core decency of a great nation. We must raise our voices even higher. We must raise public consciousness against what was becoming a culture of death. We must strengthen our efforts to bring America to the realization that a great nation must protect human life from its most vulnerable beginning to its natural end. With the support of both Houses of Congress, the new administration is now in position to move forward in the direction of pro-life and social justice without over-reliance on executive privilege.
This is not a time to be disengaged. We are living the ministry of Jesus Christ as we continue our steadfast support of the moral framework of our Nation against secular challenges. Live the Gospel of life, stand tall for life and family, reach out to the poor and celebrate your faith with reverence, love and grace. In the guiding words of the Holy Father, Pope Francis, befitting this moment in history, "We are not prophets of gloom who take delight in unearthing dangers..." Let us remind ourselves that "Whoever proclaims the love and hope of Jesus carries joy." Let us go about our mission to help this wonderful Country with God's love and hope. We can and will actively help heal our beloved Country, and help it reach new heights of decency and compassion under God. Sincerely yours in Christ,
Bishop Michael R. Cote
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THE MOST REVEREND
MICHAEL R. COTE. D.D.
BISHOP OF NORWICH
LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Nuestro viaje hacia adelante uniendo nuestros esfuerzos
Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo, La caótica e impredecible, elección presidencial del 2016, fue impresionante en un momento crucial en la historia de nuestra nación. Nosotros, las personas de fe, al final, tenemos una nueva administración con la que podemos trabajar para preservar nuestras libertades constitucionales.
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Estaba viendo, al final de la campaña la cobertura de cable en vivo de una manifestación de Donald Trump en Florida y escuché al señor Trump decirle a su audiencia: “Protegeremos la libertad de religión”, Él lo dijo. No estaba cubierto con algύn discurso político indirecto sobre la Primera Enmienda. Fue directo y claramente hablado. Y a lo largo de la campaña electoral, él y el gobernador Pence claramente confirmaron que son partidiarios pro-vida. Todo esto plantea la promesa de que nuestro gran País vuelva a comprometerse con una cultura de la vida. Esta promesa nos ayudará a recuperarnos de la experiencia de una lucha electoral difícil y divisiva.
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Por la Misericordia de Dios, haremos nuestra parte para restaurar la unidad, la compasión y el respeto por los demás y el respeto para vivir la fe. El instinto cristiano es avanzar sin temor hacia la curación y la reconstrucción de una nación culturalmente dividida-una nación cada vez más secular que a veces
se ha visto perdida. Se ha visto perdida de sus principios constitucionales de libertades garantizadas, tales como la libertad religiosa, perdida de su obligación humanitaria de salvar vidas, entre ellas el no nacido, perdida del respeto por el bien comύn legal, perdida de su valor por la verdad y perdida de su entendimiento de que los Estados Unidos de America no es sólo otro país. Este país todavía tiene un trabajo tremendamente duro por cumplir para estar a la altura de la Constitución. Esto es verdad. Pero somos una nación bajo Dios que tiene responsabilidades de liderazgo con un potencial para el bien en este mundo abrumador. Gran parte de ese liderazgo se debe a la bondad fundamental de la estructura de nuestra nación y nuestro compromiso con el autogobierno democrático. “Valoramos nuestra libertad para decidir donde colocar nuestra máxima confianza”. Considerarnos una nación excepcional no es una arrogancia. No es una contradicción de que todos somos hijos de Dios e iguales a sus ojos. Lo que dice es que cualquier nación comprometida con los derechos humanos, con la libertad religiosa, con la búsqueda de la igualdad de derechos y justicia, compasiva hacia los más vulnerables y hacia otros pueblos y naciones alrededor del mundo es excepcional. Afortunadamente, hemos sido bendecidos con la oportunidad de ser buenos y hacer el bien a una escala sin precedentes. En este Año de la Misericordia, pedimos que la Misericordia de Dios siga velando por nosotros.
Los principios de nuestra fe cristiana siempre han jugado un papel importante en las vías del progreso que esta buena tierra ha hecho para alcanzar todo su potencial. Cualquier deterioro en la libertad religiosa y en el derecho de conciencia de los cristianos y de aquellos de todas las creencias sería disminuir nuestro gran País. El bien común es un ejercicio constante para mejorar y elevar a otros. Nunca se trata de disminuir nuestra principal fuerza de libertad. Debemos dedicarnos a ayudar a la nueva administración a cumplir su promesa de preservar y proteger la libertad religiosa. También debemos rededicarnos para ayudar a incentivar la selección de los Jueces de la Corte Suprema preparados para defender la Constitución y respetar la santidad de la vida humana. En ningύn sentido el respaldo vergonzoso de matar vidas inocentes es en consonancia con la decencia fundamental de una gran nación. Debemos elevar aύn más nuestras voces. Debemos elevar la conciencia pύblica contra lo que se estaba convirtiendo en una cultura de muerte. Debemos fortalecer nuestros esfuerzos para lograr que Estados Unidos se de cuenta de que el fallo de salvar vidas inocentes es una desgracia nacional de proporciones desvastadoras. Con el apoyo de ambas Cámaras del Congreso, La nueva administración, ahora está en condiciones de avanzar en la dirección de pro-vida y la justicia social sin dependencia excesiva de los privile-
gios ejecutivos tal como fue ejercida por la administración anterior. Este no es un momento para estar desconectado. Estamos viviendo el ministerio de Jesucristo mientras continuamos nuestro firme apoyo al marco moral de nuestra Nación contra los desafios seculares. Viva el Evangelio de la vida, permanezca de pie por la vida y la familia, ayude a los pobres y vulnerables y celebre su fe con reverencia, amor y gracia. En las palabras rectas del Santo Padre, el Papa Francisco, acorde con este momento de la historia, “Nosotros no somos profetas de pesimismo que se deleitan al evocar peligros…” Recordemos que “Quien proclame el amor y la esperanza de Jesύs lleva consigo alegría.” Continuemos nuestra misión de ayudar a este maravilloso País con el amor y la esperanza de Dios. Podemos y pondremos un ejemplo poderoso de ayudar a sanar a nuestro amado País, y ayudarlo a alcanzar nuevas alturas de decencia y compasión bajo Dios. Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,
Bishop Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich
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VOCATIONS CORNER
FATHER GREGORY GALVIN, DIRECTOR OF PRIESTLY VOCATIONS
ast month, I wrote a brief reflection on Saint Paul’s words regarding “competing well for the faith”. I mentioned that he challenged his listeners to stay focused on living the commandments until the appearance of our Lord in His glorious return. On November 1st we celebrated All Saints Day, calling to mind all the holy people of God who have gone home to God before us who are still living, the saints both recognized by the Church and those who have not been recognized. This feast day is also a reminder to each one of us as children of our Heavenly Father, that we are called by God through our baptism to become Holy! We are called to become Saints! This is the standard that we are called to fulfill by our heavenly Father. We are reminded of this throughout the calendar year of the Church each time we celebrate the memorial Mass of a particular Saint or Martyr of the Church. Sunday, November 6th began a weeklong of calling to mind that God our Father continues to call His sons and
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daughters to participate in very specific ways, through answering the call to the priesthood and/or religious life, married life or single life, with the goal of serving the people of God and making available to them the means to better strive for the holiness and sainthood they are called to as well. This call to holiness and sainthood is not an easy one to respond to. It demands focused attention, it demands wholehearted commitment, great strength of character and a willingness to keep our spiritual lives as strong as possible so that we are not hoodwinked by the world and its pleasures. In other words, each one of us must continue throughout our life, regardless of our age, or where we are on our journey with Christ, to strive always to remain focused on Christ as the center of all we do. We must strive to always say yes to the Father’s Will as Mary first did and as Christ did. We must strive to always be instruments of Christ, the Light of the world. We must always be striving to reach a higher level of holiness.
In the second reading from Saint Paul to Timothy on the Thirtieth Sunday of Ordinary time, Paul is reflecting upon his own living out of his faith in Christ, knowing that the end of his earthly life is coming, He says; “I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith”. He anticipates “the crown of righteousness” which he says the “just Judge” will award to him on the day he is called home by the Lord. He says this because he believes he truly has given Christ everything he had, he lived his faith as fully as he could. He encourages the reader to understand that “all who have longed for his appearance”, that of our Lord when he comes again, can also, having persevered in the faith, having competed well, having worked to become holy in the eyes of God, receive what has been promised the children of God eternal Life and perfect happiness. We live in a world and in a society at a time in history where it is even more important that we open our hearts to the graces and blessings offered to us by God through His Church and specifically
through the sacraments. He sent his son to die that we might gain eternal life. If we desire life eternal we must stay focused in our faith, continue to strive to be more committed to God, and to live for Him, with Him and in Him in all things we do. The sacraments are our given tools. We must strive like an athlete competing for an Olympic Gold Medal, a State Championship, a World Series, a Stanley Cup, a Super Bowl Championship, with every ounce of strength and commitment we can muster, to truly live to bring Christ to the world. Then we also can at the proper time, near the end of our own earthly journey, look back as did Saint Paul and recognize that we too fought well, competed well, and that at the end of our race, we will receive from the Just and Merciful God, our just rewards. Let us pray in a special way this month for all those who have gone before us through death. May their souls and the souls of all the faithfully departed rest mercifully in the peace of God. Amen. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
35th Annual Convocation For the Priests in the Diocese of Norwich
he Annual Convocation for Priests will be held November 28-30, 2016, in Newport, Rhode Island. It is an important event for the priests of the Diocese of Norwich who come together with Bishop Cote for spiritual revitalization, camaraderie, and education/formation. The theme of this year’s Convocation is “Becoming Merciful Servants of the New Evangelization.” The key presenter will be Reverend Jack Rathschmidt, a
Capuchin Franciscan Friar, who holds a Ph.D. in Historical Theology from Fordham University. Presently a traveling preacher, he has served as the Provincial of the Capuchins and helped form young Capuchins for more than 30 years. Father Jack has spoken in more than 60 dioceses in the United States, Asia and Africa. Bishop Cote will be the Principal Celebrant of the two Eucharistic Liturgies. During the Wednesday Liturgy, all priests present will honor Reverend Roland C. Cloutier, LCSW, Reverend
Michael J. Gill, Reverend Michael Sequeira on the occasion of their golden jubilee of ordination to the priesthood, and Reverend Brian J. Converse, Reverend Michael C. Giannitelli and Reverend James J. Sucholet on the occasion of their silver jubilee of ordination to the priesthood. The Convocation is coordinated by the Norwich Diocesan Continuing Education and Formation Commission: Very Reverend David Choquette, Very Reverend Dennis M. Perkins,
Reverend John Antonelle, Reverend Greg Brozonowicz, Reverend Peter B. Liszewski, Reverend Walter M. Nagle and Reverend Michael Smith.
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s I reflect on the past several months and contemplate the good work of the staff, I am truly humbled to be in this role and to lead this organization. I often reflect on our mission and pray that I am given the grace to respond to Christ’s call to care for those in need each and every day. As our 95th Anniversary Year begins to wind down and as the Jubilee Year of Mercy comes to an end, we must not lose focus or hope for the future and those that so desperately rely on us to Provide Help and Create Hope. After 95 years of Providing Help and Creating Hope throughout Eastern Connecticut, I am surprised how many in the communities we serve, do not know who we are and what we do. One of the biggest misconceptions that I have faced about our Agency is the perception that our clients must be Catholic or belong to a parish within the Diocese to receive service and that we only help those who are poor and disadvantaged. Catholic Charities serves people of all faiths and not just those who are poor and disadvantaged. Did you know, that since January, • 1,920 adults and children were served through our Emergency Basic
Needs program and over 2,855 services were provided to help with Emergency Food, Clothing, Rent and Utility Assistance. Our Intensive Case Management program helped 113 households and provided 195 services to develop comprehensive plans to use resources for success in greater self-sufficiency including obtaining and maintaining employment, stable housing, and better financial management skills. • 590 individuals received over 4,506 units of direct service through our licensed Behavioral Health Service program. Clinical services were provided to people of all ages and situations to address issues including depression, anxiety, domestic violence, sexual abuse, grief, behavioral problems as well as adult and adolescent Substance Abuse Treatment to abusers and family members. These psychiatric, group, family and individual services included therapeutic interventions designed to meet a variety of family needs to reducing risks of crisis, abuse as well as neglect, with the goal of keeping families together. • Our Adoption Services Program was relicensed by the Connecticut Department of Children and Families and has served 320 clients, facilitated reunions between adult adoptees
and birth mothers, provided nonidentifying information to adopted adults, wrote home studies for couples seeking to adopt, provided monthly breakfasts for “waiting mothers” and provided post-placement services for our adoptive homes. • In our Parenting Education and Pregnancy Service Programs, 415 clients were served in 43 classes, providing 337 units of service which included education about parenting, pregnancy, community referrals and ongoing counseling and support. • As a member of the Catholic Immigration Network Inc. (CLINIC), our Immigration Assistance Program provided consultation and legal services for 200 foreign born immigrants, providing 356 units of service, wishing to become Permanent Residents or U.S. citizens with the commitment to address and support strong citizenship and communities. One of our saddest realities is that many of those who come to us do not have the luxury of hoping or dreaming. They put all their effort and energy into surviving. As we do all that we can to help address their immediate needs, we are also committed to help them take advantage of opportunities to become more stable and self-sufficient. To our delight, many who turn to us for
assistance embrace these opportunities for change. What a privilege it is to witness their personal success as they achieve goals they never had time to contemplate or tackle when hungry, afraid, anxious or facing a crisis. One of our most important roles at Catholic Charities is to help those who have the courage to admit their need and ask for help. When we tune out the noise of the secular world and listen to our heart, we can hear Christ urging us to follow in His example to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, comfort the anxious, and heal the sick. We are compelled to be images of the love and compassion that accompanied His actions as we reach out to act. We are reminded that even as God’s son reached out for comfort, we must trust and reach beyond fear and pride that hinder our ability to seek God’s care from others. Organizations like Catholic Charities do what we do because He did it first and called us to His example. When you support those efforts you turn despair into hope and help those who have stopped dreaming rediscover the glory of dreaming a future and finding a way to make it come true. It is easy to see those served by Catholic Charities as the hidden face of Christ. During this time of thanksgiving, I give thanks for the privilege of being part of their lives.
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Saturday, November 19 Sleigh Bells Ring
St. Maurice Church, Bolton from 9-3pm. Homemade gifts such as Raggedy Ann & Andy dolls, jelly baskets, handcrafted ornaments, fresh evergreen baskets, American Girl doll clothes, hand-knit sweaters and scarves, “take-a-chance” booth, quilt raffle, Christmas tree skirts, homemade apple pies and baked goods! A visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus will delight the children! Start your Christmas shopping early and stay for lunch! Over 40 talented crafters will be on the premises. Handicapped accessible.
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December 2-3 Christmas Fair
Saint Lawrence Church in Killingworth hosts it annual Christmas Fair Friday from 5:30-8:30pm and Saturday from 9-2pm. Attractions include a silent auction featuring items from local artisans and gift certificates from local businesses, teacher and hostess gift baskets, and evergreen decorations. Santa will visit with children. The kitchen will offer homemade pies, soup, hot dogs, pizza, meatball grinders, and more. For more information, visit www.stlawrencechurch.com.
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Several trips to different destinations: the Holy Land; Italy; France, Portugal, & Spain; Poland; Medjugorje, Lourdes, & Fatima; Ireland & Scotland; England; Austria, Germany, & Switzerland; Greece & Turkey; Budapest; Prague; Our Lady of Guadalupe; Peru; Domestic Destinations; Columbia; Brazil; Argentina; etc…
Saint Lawrence Church in Killingworth hosts its annual Christmas Concert at 2pm. The event features congregational signing of carols, songs by the adult and children's choirs, a flute duet, other musicians and vocalists, and refreshments. For more information visit stlawrencechurch.com.
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7th Life in the Spirit Seminar – Transformation Sunday, November 13 7-8:30pm. St. Sebastian Church Hall, Middletown.
Prayer and Discernment Board Meeting Monday, November 28 10:30am Spiritual Renewal Center.
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he lyrics to the opening hymn, “Love has Brought Us Here”, explained the reason why so many were at this Diocesan Silver and Golden Wedding Anniversary Mass: “Love has brought us here together; Love of family, Love of friends; Love in our vow ‘til death should part us; Love, God’s gift that never ends.” Bishop Michael R. Cote welcomed 44 couples plus their families and friends to a jubilant celebration of the Sacrament of Marriage and a touching renewal of wedding vows. In his introductory remarks, Bishop Cote said that the Mass was for “all faithful couples” and serves as a reminder to all that through the couples’ “love and fidelity, we see Christ”. Deacon Michael Puscas presented the homily. Many of his comments stemmed from the Second reading (2 Tim. 4:6-8, 16-18) where St. Paul said “I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith”. Deacon shared a story about a lovely couple, married many years, whose last years were spent with the husband gently and lovingly caring
for his wife who was afflicted with Alzheimer’s disease. It was a poignant true story of the power of love, commitment, and keeping the faith. To the couples present, Deacon said Karl and Rose Marie Paecht, of “when you East Haven, renewing their vows finish the race you will James Crandall, shared with this understand writer that in marriage it is important the meaning of ‘for better or worse’. to “live the life the Lord expects you It is in the worst times that you learn to live”. James Chamberlain, married how to trust in God.” 65 years to Mary, stated “there are Some couples in attendance were a lot of ways to love a person. We married for decades, some as long as work together. There is give and sixty five years! In the midst of our take.” Elizabeth, married one year to world, which often shows diminished her husband Tom Flanagan, said “we respect for marriage, these couples go to Mass on a regular basis”, and are beautiful witnesses that long, are active in our parish community. happy, and holy, marriages are Viola, married possible. to Richard Frances Loretta, married 65 years to Anger for 50
years, shared that they’ve always tried to live in “good moral standing with the church” and have a strong commitment to their faith.
Monsignors Robert Brown and Anthony Rosaforte, Father Peter Langevin, Father Ray Introvigne, and Father Roland Cloutier concelebrated the Mass with Bishop Cote. Masters of Ceremonies were Deacon Jorge Escalona and Monsignor Robert Brown. The vigilant altar servers were Eamonn, Padraig, and Jeremiah McMahon. Cantor Patricia May, and organist Douglas Green, provided the music. Mary-Jo McLaughlin was the lector and Christine Siart welcomed everyone and also read the Prayers of the Faithful. After the Mass, everyone was invited to a reception, and the couples received commemorative certificates.
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atholic Charities, with the help and support from the Knights of Columbus Council #14 and the Willimantic Community held a Pasta for Hope Dinner at Saint Joseph Church Hall on Saturday, October 29th. Children of all ages were encouraged to dress in costumes and play games for candy. Father Larry LaPointe graciously offered the use of the Parish Hall and the event was a success. Ed Tessman, Executive Director of Catholic Charities, stated that, “we could not have done this without the support of Father Larry, the Willimantic
Church community and the Knights of Columbus from Council #14, specifically Grand Knight Charlie Nadile, Larry King, Sam Bruder, Colin Rice, Dan Roberts and John DeVivo.” It was a great evening. The pasta was cooked to perfection, the sauce was handmade and simmered for hours, the meatballs were huge and the desserts were out of this world. We were excited to have the Bishop join us for this community event which will allow us to continue to “Provide Help and Create Hope” for those most in need. Patrons bid on over twenty silent auction items which ranged from a UCONN basket, donated from the Willimantic Advisory Board of Catholic Charities, Jelly Belly Machine, Totally Gross Soda
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By Shelley Wolf n October 15th with the fall colors at their peak, the Connecticut Firefighters Fifes and Drums led uniformed firefighters and EMS personnel in a parade down Broadway, where they passed in front of a huge billowing American flag held high by ladder fire trucks from Derby and Mystic, then made their way up the steps and past the flowering fall mums into the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich. Just minutes earlier, the Life Star helicopter flew above the cathedral, signaling its participation in the special event. Once inside, all were welcomed by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, for the 24th Annual Diocesan Mass for Firefighters and EMS Personnel, which is held each year to honor the brave men and women who fell in the line of duty as well as those who continue to put themselves in harm's way to serve others in their communities. Firefighters, paramedics, and emergency medical technicians from communities throughout the state gathered along with their families and friends for the Mass. Bishop Cote served as the principal celebrant with Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor, as the Master of Ceremonies. Concelebrants included Monsignor Anthony S. Rosaforte, Rector of the Cathedral, and Reverend Raymond D. Introvigne, co-director of Spiritual Renewal Services. Bishop Cote greeted all in attendance and specifically addressed the firefighters and emergency medical personnel saying, “You witness to Christ by serving rather than expecting to be served. We thank God for you and ask God to protect you and keep
you from harm.” Bishop Cote also noted the passing of several firefighters during the past year, including Gerald F. Griffin, Jr. of Hebron and Chief James J. Butler, Jr. of Derby. “We pray for them and for their families and we mourn their loss,” the Bishop said. “We pray, too, for all deceased fire fighters and their families and for all in emergency medical services.” Deacon Robert Dio of St. Peter Church in Worcester, Massachusetts, delivered the homily, noting that he has had more than his fair share of mishaps in which emergency responders have come to his aid after life-threatening falls. “You men and women have the toughest job on the face of the earth,” he said. “Every day you help us out of situations that we shouldn’t have
gotten ourselves into, but you’re there.” Deacon Dio reported to all that there were two fires in the City of Norwich that day. “For those of you on the front lines, you’re always in danger,” he said. You have to have the courage of God to walk into places where most of us would not tread because you know God is with you. Without him, you have to rely on yourself, and you don’t want to do that – and neither do I.” With God’s help, firefighters and EMS personnel of faith are primed to serve, Deacon Dio said. “You do great things in the grace and love of God because God is with you always.” To underscore the theme of courage, the Cathedral Choir led all in singing “Be Not Afraid” during the preparation of the offertory gifts as Mass Committee Co-Chair
Heather Mislivets-Ahern, a firefighter with the Mashantucket Pequot Fire Department, and her husband, Timothy Ahern, brought the gifts to the altar. Following Communion, the Connecticut Firefighters Pipes and Drums played “Amazing Grace” on the bagpipes, dedicating the hymn in memory of “our sisters and brothers in the New York Emergency Services who made the supreme sacrifice on September 11, 2001.” Firefighter Mislivets-Ahern also read a memorial calling of names from the roll of honor for Connecticut firefighters and EMS personnel who have died in the line of duty since 1993. A fire bell tolled to honor each individual. Jonathan Lillpopp, health program assistant with the Office of Emergency Medical Services for the Department of Public Health, led all in reciting the “Prayer for Firefighters and EMS Personnel.” Firefighter Rocco Celtruda, Jr., of the Mystic Fire Department, led the “Fallen First Responder Prayer.” All prayed for the intercession of St. Florian, patron saint of firefighters, and St. Michael the Archangel, patron saint of police, ambulance drivers, emergency medical technicians and paramedics, for protection. A huge base drum roll led up to “The Star Spangled Banner,” which was sung by all as they stood with hands over hearts, facing the American flag held by the Color Guard. Following the Mass, all were invited to a reception in the cathedral hall. Save the date: Next year’s Firefighters and EMS Mass will be held on October 14, 2017 at 5:00 p.m. All are invited to next year’s celebration.
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n Sunday, October 30, 2016, the Mystic Marriott Hotel in Groton, Connecticut was the setting for the Seventh Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner, honoring three individuals who have made major contributions to the success of Catholic schools in the Diocese of Norwich. Mother Mary David Riquier, S.C.M.C., Principal at the Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic, CT and Director of Development for the Sisters of Charity of Our Lady, Mother of the Church; Attorney Michael E. Driscoll and his colleagues at the law firm of L-R Attorney Michael E. Driscoll, Mother Mary David Riquier, S.C.M.C., Brown Jacobson, P.C. who handle the Bishop Michael R. Cote. and Mr. William J. Russell, C.P.A. legal needs of our schools; and Mr. William J. Russell, C.P.A., recently their full development; to give them and Dylan Russell led the Pledge of retired Diocesan Finance Officer after a solid basis on which to build their Allegiance. serving 12 years in this role, were all lives; to guarantee their safety and After dinner, Mr. Henry Fiore, honored as this year’s recipients of their education to be everything that Jr. presented a report on the state the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, they can be.’ The Pope pointed out of the schools in the Diocese. In D.D. Award for Contributions to that the Catholic school is that place, his report, Mr. Fiore expressed, Catholic Education in the Diocese of that space, to which he is referring. “Catholic Identity is what separates Norwich. It is ‘a place to learn compassion, a us from other schools. It involves The evening began with a cocktail place to develop the whole person – the daily instruction of the Catholic hour, allowing the nearly 200 mind, body and spirit.’ In short, it is faith, participation in the Liturgies, attendees to mingle with friends, the place to develop ‘a big heart that community service, both globally family, and colleagues. Monsignor is open to God and to others….And to and locally, the importance of daily Robert L. Brown, Chancellor, Diocese always love Jesus more and more’.” prayer, devotion to Our Lady, and of Norwich, welcomed all and The evening continued with the the ability to walk in the footsteps thanked them for coming to support Invocation from Monsignor Leszek of Jesus. This means that the faith the honorees as well as Catholic Janik, J.C.L., Vicar General of the must be lived daily by each and education. He remarked: Diocese of Norwich, reflecting on every employee of our schools. We “This evening, our focus is on the the Year of Mercy. Following the reinforce good Christian behavior formal Catholic education of our Invocation, Mr. Henry Fiore, Jr., toward fellow students, teachers, and youth. Calling our Catholic schools, Superintendent of Schools, and his all adults.” ‘Communities of Faith, Knowledge, wife Eileen performed a song of Following his report, Mr. Fiore and Service,’ Our Holy Father Pope prayer that added to the spirit of the introduced this year’s essay contest Francis said, ‘Our generation will evening…touching the hearts of all in winner, Dominic Alvarez, a student show that it can rise to the promise a special way. Two of the participants at St. James School, Danielson, found in each young person, when in the opening ceremonies of this Connecticut. Writing on “What we know how to give them space. year’s Seton Scholarship Dinner Catholic Education Means to Me,” This means that we have to create the were grandchildren of honoree, Mr. Dominic’s essay was one of the material and spiritual conditions for William Russell. Austin Russell highpoints of the evening, with the
crowd standing after the reading and erupting in applause. Dominic talked about how a Catholic education has prepared him for a successful future. He stated, “A Catholic education is truly a lifestyle. One way to live in God’s graces is to live life as a good person, as one of God’s children and as one of Jesus’ disciples. In the future there will be times where we cannot control the outcome of things. There will be times where we cannot predict what will happen. Through Jesus, the Church and faith in God, I am confident that I will have learned the skills to steer this uncontrollable destiny of mine in the right direction.” One by one, each of the honorees were introduced by a friend or colleague who provided insight into why each of these individuals is so deserving of this award. Mother Marie Julie, S.C.M.C. in speaking about honoree, Mother Mary David Riquier, S.C.M.C. offered, “Simply put, Mother believes in the goodness of people. She finds something to smile about, to commend and to nurture, no matter what’s at stake…. I’ve been blessed to watch her in action, and she has taught me more about school, about life and about the inner beauty of every child and adult than any teacher I’ve ever had. Mother Mary David is not simply an educator; she is someone who is making the world a better place because she cherishes people.” Monsignor Robert Brown, Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich offered insight into honoree, Mr. William Russell’s contributions to Catholic Education, “Responding to the challenge to make Catholic education possible for our youth, Bill gave generously of his time and talents in supporting and promoting Catholic education.
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CATHOLIC joined Mr. Henry Fiore, Jr. after each honoree was introduced and presented them with a Waterford Lismore Bowl, etched with the crest of Bishop Cote. The Seton Scholarship Dinner ended the evening with Bishop Cote offering the Benediction. Next year’s Seton Scholarship Dinner will be held on Sunday, October 29, 2017 at The Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station, Haddam, Connecticut. Mark your calendars now to join us next year! All proceeds from the Seton Scholarship Dinner, along with funds contributed by the Catholic Foundation assist Catholic elementary school students in the form of tuition assistance. We would like to thank our sponsors: Seton Sponsor – Gowrie Group/Zurich Insurance; Aquinas Sponsors – Brown Jacobson, P.C., Barbara and Ernest Hamanaka, and Saint Joseph Church – New London; Newman Sponsors – Citizens Bank, Arthur J. Gallagher & Company, Dr. Jeremiah and Virginia Lowney, Mystic Aquarium and the Shine Family. Thank you also to all of our advertisers, donors and attendees for making the 7th Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner a success!
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His tireless efforts are well known in the schools, parishes, institutions and seminary located in the four (4) counties of Eastern Connecticut and Fishers Island that comprise the Diocese of Norwich…. His strength of character, his expertise in finance, his business acumen, his knowledge of the Church, his readiness to serve God, speak so beautifully of his faith in God, his love for the Church, and his ready willingness to serve.” Attorney Michael Driscoll was introduced by his colleague from Brown Jacobson, Attorney Jeffrey Buebendorf. Attorney Buebendorf highlighted Michael’s dedication to the Diocese, “Members of Brown Jacobson can attest to the countless hours he (Michael) has dedicated to supporting the Diocese, humbly offering to those who seek it his sage advice and careful guidance. I expect that each of the three Bishops under whom he has served, along with the many others within the Diocesan Community who have sought Mike's counsel over the past three decades, have found his wisdom and insight to be invaluable.” The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich,
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Hispanic Ministry Moves Ahead With Preparations for the V Encuentro
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Sister Mary Jude Lazarus, S.C.M.C.
he V Encuentro is a national gathering that will take place in Grapevine, TX, September, 2018. But the V Encuentro is far more than a one-time national event. It is a process of intense missionary activity and reflection which will take place in the parishes during Lent of 2017, leading up to the national event in TX. Today, 40% of U.S. Catholics are Hispanic. That number jumps to 60% when we look at those younger than 18 years of age. In the light of such startling statistics, the process of the V Encuentro becomes important and relevant, not just for the Hispanic
community, but for the future of the entire U.S. Church as well. That is why the United States Catholic Bishops have made the Encuentro process and its results a priority in their 20172010 strategic plan. The main goal of the V Encuentro is to discern ways in which the Church in the United States can better respond to the growing Hispanic presence, and to strengthen the ways in which Hispanics respond to the call to the New Evangelization
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as missionary disciples serving the first tasks of the diocesan committee entire Church. The theme of the V is to form the parish committee. It Encuentro is Missionary Disciples: will then be the task of that committee Witnesses of God’s Love. to prepare and facilitate the process of In 2013, intense consultation and missionary a national activity that will take place in the committee was parish during Lent, 2017. The team formed to carry for the Diocese of Norwich was out this process. formed in April and on Oct. 1 & 15, They called for they formed and trained parish teams, committees to be established on the coming from the five parishes with regional, diocesan and parish levels. Hispanic Ministry in our diocese. Since then, each of the fourteen With the Diocesan team and the five Episcopal Regions has established parish teams, there are a total of some its committee and has assisted the 70 leaders who will guide the process dioceses within their region to form of the V Encuentro in the Diocese of their committees2x6 as ImmaculataRetreat well. One of theNov16FCC_Main Norwich.10/25/2016 9:49 AM Page 1
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El Ministerio Hispano Sigue Adelante con los Preparativos para el V Encuentro
Sister Mary Jude Lazarus, S.C.M.C. l V Encuentro es un evento nacional que se llevará a cabo en Grapevine, TX, en Septiembre del 2018. Pero el V Encuentro es mucho más que un solo evento. Es un proceso de reflexión y actividad misionera intensa que se va a llevar a cabo en las parroquias durante la cuaresma de 2017, en preparación para el evento nacional en Texas. Actualmente, 40% de Católicos en el EE.UU son Hispanos. De los católicos menores de 18 años de edad, 60% son Hispanos. A la luz de estas estadísticas tan alarmantes, el proceso del V Encuentro se hace importante y relevante, no solo para
la comunidad Hispana, sino también para el futuro de la Iglesia Católica en EE.UU. Es por eso que los obispos católicos de EE.UU han designado el proceso y los resultados del V Encuentro como una prioridad en su plan estratégico del 2017-2020. La meta general del V Encuentro es discernir maneras en las que la Iglesia en los Estados Unidos pueda responder mejor a la presencia de los Hispanos, y potenciar a los Hispanos para que respondan
como discípulos misioneros al llamado a la Nueva Evangelización, sirviendo a toda la Iglesia. El tema del V Encuentro es Discípulos Misioneros: Testigos del Amor de Dios. En 2013, se formó un comité nacional para facilitar este proceso. Ellos pidieron que se formaran comités a nivel regional, diocesano, y parroquial. Desde ese tiempo, cada una de las 14 Regiones Episcopales ha formado su equipo, y ha apoyado a las diócesis dentro de su región a formar sus propios equipos también. Una de las primeras responsabilidades del comité diocesano es formar el comité
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Proclaiming a Culture of Life Monthly Pro-Life Mass and Rosary
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such as women considering abortions, and try to see Jesus’ presence hidden in their situations. We must not become discouraged. Father Nagle urged everyone to spend time in adoration. Focusing on the Eucharist, recognizing Jesus in unlikely situations, and adoration will help us trust that God will take care of all our needs.
“Father, all life is in Your care. You have entrusted us to one another that we may show our brothers and sisters the same love You have for us. We pray then, for the least among us, the children of the womb.”
s Roman Catholics we are proud to be unwavering defenders of life within a society that often has an opposing perspective. We continually and respectfully proclaim a culture of life.
We know that the Mass is the source and summit of our lives. It is there that we have the sacred privilege of receiving Holy Communion and the courage and grace to work towards transforming our society into one that is more life giving and life affirming. On November 5th our diocesan monthly first Saturday pro-life Mass was held in our beautiful St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The Mass was celebrated by Father Walter Nagle, our diocesan Pro-
life Coordinator, and Parochial Vicar at Christ the King Parish in Old Lyme. Linda Hayes, wife of Deacon Robert Hayes, welcomed everyone before Mass and also served as lector. She gave everyone a prayer which petitioned God for the protection of unborn babies, for a change of heart and healing for women considering abortion, and for the conversions of abortionists. The processional hymn, “Come Holy Ghost”, was familiar to all. One of its
verses asks the Holy Spirit to “fill the hearts which thou hast made” and served as a subtle reminder that the tiny hearts being made by God within their mothers’ wombs are seeking to grow and be filled with God’s grace. After Deacon Hayes proclaimed the Gospel, Father Nagle offered his homily. He shared several good points. Of utmost importance was a focus on the Eucharist and how we need to look beyond the ordinary substances of bread and wine to see the Real presence of Jesus. Likewise, we need to look beyond the difficult circumstances of our neighbors,
After Mass some people stayed at the Cathedral to pray the rosary while others went to Planned Parenthood on Case Street to pray the rosary in public. Carol and Jerry Utz, from All Hallows parish (Moosup), prayed at Planned Parenthood. Carol stated that they come every year during the 40 Days for Life and said “We believe what is happening here is wrong. It is killing lives”; and so they pray for those involved in abortions, and for the unborn children who may never have a chance to grow up.
COMBINED CATHOLIC COMMUNITY PICNIC – A GREAT SUCCESS
St. Matthew – Tolland and St. Bernard – Rockville celebrate their first year as a combined Catholic Community
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n Sunday September 18th, St. Bernard Church in Rockville and St. Matthew Church in Tolland celebrated their first anniversary as yoked parishes with a Mass and Community Picnic at Star Hill Family Athletic Facility in Tolland, CT. Father Rick Ricard celebrated the Mass along with Father Bill Olesik, Father Jeffrey Ellis and Deacons Michael Berstene
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and Ronald Freedman on the turf fields in Star Hill’s Dome for over 600 parishioners (on blankets and in lawn chairs)! Afterward, the community celebrated with a picnic, games, face painting and raffle prizes. In a letter to both parishes after the picnic, Father Rick reflected on the experience saying, “There are many instances in my priesthood when I reflect on an interaction, a meeting, a liturgy or an event and realize that God’s
Grace was flowing in abundance at that moment or in that situation. I believe in my heart of hearts that our Community Mass and picnic was one of those very powerful moments.” He continued, “When I reflect on our gathering I can’t help but be moved by the experience of Celebrating Mass in the Dome with six hundred people surrounding the Lord’s Altar. It was amazing to look out and see such a strong cross section of our two parishes
joining together in prayer to give thanks to our God. Father Rick went on to say, “I think what was most pleasing to me was simply having the opportunity to be with my two parishes interacting as one family. When I walked around the facility I was convinced that we were all experiencing the Church in the modern world; a community using their time, talent and treasure to build up the Kingdom of God in our midst.”
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Surrounded by Heroes at the Red, White, and Blue Mass t was an honor to be in the Cathedral of St. Patrick surrounded by so many heroes.
The occasion was the 25th annual Red, White, and Blue Mass which was held on Sunday, November 6th at the Cathedral of St. Patrick . This tradition began in 1992 when Russell McDonough of Noank requested that the Most Rev. Daniel Reilly, our diocesan Bishop at the time, say a Mass for the members of the Armed Services. It was so well received that it has continued to this day. This year’s Mass was an extraordinary experience of prayer, music, gratitude, and patriotism. One couldn’t help but feel proud to be present at this special Mass honoring our brave service men and women, their families, and loved ones. The Mass also remembered those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country. The names of 66 servicemen and women who were killed in Afghanistan and Iraq, and had a Connecticut connection, were listed in the program. Sitting in the pews among members of the various branches of the United States Uniformed Services, their Reserve components, National Guard, and Veterans, and in the presence of Jesus, our Blessed Mother, and the angels, made it easy for the congregation to feel safe, protected, humbled and proud.
The theme of this year’s Mass focused on the centennial of the Naval Submarine Base New London. The program stated that the Sub Base “supports fleet readiness by providing quality service and facilities to our fleet, fighters, and families” and includes “6,500 active duty and reserve Sailors, 2,300 civilian employees, contractors, and their families”. Linda and Paul Orstad, TMC(SS) U.S. Navy (Ret.) were present. They are parishioners of Sts. Peter and Paul in Norwich where Paul volunteers with Boy Scouts and helps as an altar server for funeral Masses. They have come to this Mass every year since it began 25 years ago because it “brings all the branches of the military together”. Prior to the Mass, CDR Gordon Conrad II, USNR (Ret.) welcomed everyone. The U.S. Coast Guard Academy Glee Club sang “The Battle Hymn of the Republic” followed by a solemn military flag procession into the Cathedral. Taps/ Reveille was provided by CDR Gordon Conrad II, and the inspirational hymn, “I Vow to Thee, My Country”. Msgr. Anthony Rosaforte, rector of the Cathedral of St. Patrick, welcomed everyone to the Cathedral, Bishop
Michael R. Cote, the principal celebrant, followed the golden processional cross into the sanctuary, along with Monsignor Robert Brown, military personnel, and the concelebrants, Father Brian Converse, Father Raymond Introvigne, Father Peter Langevin, Father William McCarthy, Monsignor Rosaforte, Monsignor Robert Brown, and Deacons Jorge Escalona, Robert Hayes, William McGann, and Gerald Shaw. Bishop Cote incensed the altar while the sound of the organ and trumpets filled the Cathedral. Our Bishop welcomed everyone and thanked God for all our military personnel, especially those who are currently in harm’s way and those who died since 9/11, stating that their “noble service will inspire us to work for peace and justice for all peoples”. Deacon Hayes, Lieutenant Commander, USN (Ret.) from Our Lady of Lourdes in Gales Ferry was the homilist. The Gospel reading (Luke 20: 27-38) inspired his comments about life after death. He asked everyone to think about where they came from, where they are going, and what will happen to them when they die. He quoted John Henry Newman who said “All who ever lived, still live”, and stated that the afterlife
is not “wishful thinking, but a reality”. This was a reminder that the service men and women who have gone before us are still with us through the Communion of Saints and that we are forever grateful for their willingness to “protect and defend the constitution of the U.S.A.” and our freedoms, even if it means being away from their families or giving up their lives. A touching moment was when the gift bearers brought up the bread and wine to Bishop Cote as a brief history of their specific military branch was read. After Holy Communion, the Mystic Highland Pipe Band, dressed in full Scottish Regimental style, processed down the aisles and played Amazing Grace on bagpipes and drums. Everyone present sang our National Anthem, followed by the Recessional Hymn “The Battle Hymn of the Republic”. The ushers, lectors, gift bearers, and commentator for the Mass were all service members. The music for the Mass was provided by Douglas Green, Director of Music and Organist, and the Cathedral choir, the Mystic Highland Pipe Band, and the U.S. Coast Guard Academy Glee Club and their director Dr. Robert Newton. Following Mass there was a reception catered by Rich Bazinet Catering of Norwich. May God bless our clergy and military heroes!
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By Michael Strammiello s the historic Jubilee Year of Mercy approaches its conclusion, Bishop CĂ´te invited the diocesan ministries teams to gather together on Tuesday, October 18, for a day of prayerful retreat and recollection to consider the deep and lasting impact of God's mercy in our lives and those we serve. We gathered at the stone chapel on peaceful Enders Island. Our being together was a special and unusual occurrence given how we are usually moving in so many directions within the diocese to attend to those
who need support. Being in the same place at the same time brought a renewed awareness of the charitable service we all share, which is to be the arms and legs of caring parishioners across the diocese to help your brothers and sisters in need. We help you help others. It is our privilege each and every day. Recollecting that honor on your behalf as the living Church was a strengthening experience. Our day began with Bishop Cote leading us in group prayer. Voices raised in prayer and song have such collective power. At the same time, certain verses tend to touch each of
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us individually. One that called to me was "My soul clings to You; your right hand holds me fast" (Psalm 63:9). I will gratefully keep that passage in my thoughts. Following the Morning Prayer, Bishop Cote welcomed Father Peter W. Grover, O.M.V., distinguished theologian and teacher of Old and New Testament Studies, currently at Our Lady of Grace Seminary in Boston. Father Grover led a reflection on grace, patience and mercy. Calling on the parable of the Mustard Seed, "And Jesus said with what can we compare the kingdom of God, or what parable will we use for it? It is like a mustard seed, which, when sown upon the ground, is the smallest of all the seeds on earth; yet when it is sown it grows and becomes the greatest of all shrubs, and puts forth large branches, so that the birds of the air can make nests in its shade." (Matthew 13: 31-32). Building on this passage, Father Grover spoke of patience and perseverance. He spoke of potential -- how even a weed has potential to greatness. The potential for us is often in the waiting. It makes us stronger. This was a message of much wisdom and one that evokes God's mercy. Following a silent time of individual contemplation and Confessions, we reconvened to join with Bishop CĂ´te as he celebrated Mass, assisted by concelebrants Monsignor Brown, Father Grover, and Father Introvigne. Also assisting were Deacon Peter Gill and Derek Bothur. Included among the readers and presenters were Sister Mary
Jude Lazarus, Ed Tessman, Karen Huffer, Angela Arnold, Ron Krum, Jennifer Fowler and Judy Pappagallo. We were also fortunate to have Carol Mailot and Douglas Green with us to provide inspiring musical accompaniment. We enjoyed lunch together and concluded our retreat experience with prayers in the chapel. The Holy Father, Pope Francis, has encouraged such days of reflection. His words, shared by the Holy Year of Mercy Committee, captured the experience we shared together on this day of retreat and reflection. "Through the power of the Holy Spirit, may we be empowered to see Christ in others and to bring Christ to them. May the Mother of Mercy help us to rediscover the joy of God's tenderness and to know His love for us and for all our sisters and brothers. May our love for Christ permeate all we do in serving God's people."
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By Barbara Laliberte or the fourth consecutive year, the parishioners of Our Lady of La Salette parish in Brooklyn participated in a novena to their patroness, Our Lady of La Salette. It commemorated the apparition of the Virgin Mary to two poor children on a mountain near the town of La Salette in the French Alps on September 19, 1846. She confided a separate secret to each of the children, encouraged them to pray well, morning and evening, and to “make this known to all my people.” On the ninth and final day of this year’s Novena, the parish was honored to have Monsignor Robert L. Brown as the main celebrant and homilist. Members of the Knights of Columbus, Mystical Rose Council #49, joined the gathering. Speaking to more than 100 parishioners, Monsignor Brown extolled the
virtues of Our Blessed Mother, her importance in his life and in all of our lives. The Prayers of the Faithful asked for prayers for the many areas of crisis in our lives and throughout the world, and each intention was offered “through Mary our Reconciler.” Due to inclement weather conditions, the traditional outdoor candlelit procession was cancelled, but the rosary was recited in the church. In his final remarks, Monsignor Brown noted the sense of family he felt as he looked out at the congregation. With participant ages ranging from four to ninety and with members from their mission church, Our Lady of Lourdes in Hampton, it was the quality devotion of the parishioners who gathered for this special event that resonated with the Monsignor. The words of Our Lady, “Pray well, my children, morning and evening,” were not just for those two children. They were meant for all generations and need to be heeded if there is ever to be peace in this world.
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LITURGY NOTES Sister Elissa Rinere, C.P., J.C.D.
Thanksgiving Day
All over America, but especially in New England, Thanksgiving Day is an important family celebration. More and more, families choose to begin the day by attending Mass at their parishes, and more and more parishes schedule a special Thanksgiving Day Mass. This is a very interesting trend, since Thanksgiving Day is a civic holiday, proclaimed each year since 1863 by presidential proclamation. This sort of “mixing” of the civic holiday and a liturgical observance is a very new phenomenon for Catholics, and dates back only to the 1970’s.
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Although the details are the subject of some debate, it is generally agreed that the roots of Thanksgiving go back to the Plymouth Plantation in the year 1621. The early settlers designated a day of thanksgiving to God for the harvest and for surviving their first New England winter. It isn’t clear if the Pilgrims invited members of the Wampanoag tribe to the feast, or if they simply arrived in a gesture of friendship, along with their chief,
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Massasoit. Again, the history is not clear, but as far as records indicate, this was not an annual celebration. In fact, indications are it took more than a century for another such harvest celebration to come along.
In the late 18th century the Continental Congress encouraged a day to be set aside each year during which the people of the Country would give thanks to God for freedom and bounty. During his years as president, George Washington proclaimed a few days of public prayer and thanksgiving. In 1789 the day of prayer was a Thursday in November, but in 1795 a Thursday in February was named. It wasn’t until 1863 that Abraham Lincoln set the fourth Thursday in November for an annual observance. In the midst of the Civil War, Lincoln wrote in the 1863 proclamation about the gifts bestowed on the United States. Then: “They are gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless
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remembered mercy. It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and one voice by the whole American people.” In particular, Lincoln sought for the country peace, harmony, tranquility and union. Since Lincoln’s actions in 1863, every president has issued a Thanksgiving Day Proclamation.
But how did this governmental action become part of our liturgical life as Catholics? Before Vatican II (1962-1965), there would have been no mention of a national holiday in any liturgical observance, especially Mass. Our liturgy was uniform throughout the world, all in Latin, and untouched by any cultural differences. One of the major teachings of Vatican II was that faith and life should be brought closer together. The Council cited as a grave error the disparity between the faith professed by some people and the actions of their lives. Building on this, Vatican II decreed that religious observance
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and culture should be more closely connected.
The most obvious implementation of this principle is seen in the change from Latin to the vernacular - the language of the people - in liturgy. Also, special procedures were set up so that the bishops of each country could authorize special prayers and Masses for national holidays. In this way, one country was able to differ from another liturgically, which was a very new concept in the Roman Catholic Church at that time.
In 1969, the bishops of the United States approved prayers and Mass for our national observance of Thanksgiving Day, and in 1971 they approved special prayers and Masses for July 4th and Memorial Day. Since then, as American and Catholics, we can unite faith and culture to celebrate these most meaningful national observances with Eucharistic celebrations. Thanksgiving is another reminder that our lives, although composed of many parts, are one.
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An Op-ed Perspective - Climate Change By Father Robert Washabaugh Pope Francis gave us quite a shove forward in the opening of his 2015 encyclical, On Care for Our Common Home (Laudato Si): "I urgently appeal, then, for a new dialogue about how we are shaping the future of our planet. We need a conversation which includes everyone, since the environmental challenge we are undergoing and its human roots, concern and affect us all. " The Holy Father’s encyclical sees climate change as a challenge that goes beyond the scientific, political, or economic. It is a spiritual and ethical challenge, which means that it directly concerns all of us who believe in Our Lord Jesus. Despite naysayers, clear signs
that our climate is changing with unprecedented speed are becoming more and more frequent: category 5 hurricanes, rising oceans and their acidification, extreme heat, drought in some places and flooding in others, wildfires, melting glaciers and icecaps. Scientists agree that these changes are due to rising temperatures in earth’s atmosphere, caused to a great extent by human activity. Since the dawn of the industrial era (roughly in the past two hundred years—a very short time in the life of the planet), people have released ever increasing amounts of carbon dioxide and other greenhouse gases into the atmosphere. The scientific community also warns that these changes may soon create conditions that will increase global warming no matter what we do— “tipping points.” For example, once an ice pack or a glacier melts, it will
take a very long time for a new one to form. We will have to live with the change and its dire effects. Once Arctic permafrost begins to melt, it will release large amounts of carbon dioxide presently kept away from the atmosphere. In a recent interview (Manchester Guardian, August 30, 2016) NASA climatologist, Gavin Schmidt, indicated that the next 5 years are crucial to avoid entering into “a runaway state,” where our efforts would be useless. It strikes me that this could be the tipping point for a genuine response to global warming. This is the time for us to make connections and communicate about the need to take measures to live more sanely and sustainably. At least Pope Francis thinks this is so. "We may well be leaving to coming generations debris, desolation and
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filth. The pace of consumption, waste and environmental change has so stretched the planet’s capacity that our contemporary lifestyle, unsustainable as it is, can only precipitate catastrophes, such as those which even now periodically occur in different areas of the world. " If we talk to one another about responding to climate change, if we make changes in how we live and insist that our parishes, schools, and institutions operate more sustainably, and—most important—if we demand that our governmental leaders promote seansible public policies to reduce greenhouse gas emissions, we will be the few who move the world toward a hopeful tipping point. In doing that, we will be caring for our common home.
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Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville, CT
Phone: 860-887-1757 www.sacredhearttaftville.org
St. Edward School, Stafford Springs Mrs. MaryAnne Pelletier, Principal 25 Church St, Stafford Springs, CT Phone: 860-684-2600 www.stedward-stafford.org
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Academic Excellence. Character. Self-Confidence. National Merit Scholars Xavier High School Thomas W. Blanchard of Portland, Justin P. Brady of Wallingford, Spencer J. Buckley of Clinton, Patrick J. Hocking of Middlefield, Dylan McCarthy of Portland, Brett E. Myskowski of Berlin and Sean R. Watson of Essex are seniors named as Commended Students in the 2017 National Merit Scholarship Program. These students place among the top 5% of more than 1.6 million students who entered the competition. For more information about Xavier High School, please visit www. xavierhighschool.org.
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Ms. Sharon Briere, Principal 26 Main St., N. Grosvenordale, CT Phone: 860-923-2090 www.schoolofstjoseph.org
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Ms. Abby Demars, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org
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Mrs. Doris Messina, Principal
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St. John Paul II School, Middletown Dr. Darryl Bullock, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org
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Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal 25 Squire St, New London, CT Phone: 860-442-1720 www.sjsnl.com
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Pope Francis’ Prayer Intentions for November
That we may be open to personal encounter and dialogue with all, even those whose convictions differ from our own
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Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org
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Mr. Joseph Hanrahan, Headmaster 26 Chase Road, Thompson, CT Phone: 860-923-9565 www.marinapolis.org
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Mary McCarthy, RSM, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-6659 www.mercyhigh.com
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Brother Brian Davis, C.F.X, Headmaster Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-7735 www.xavierhighschool.org
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This month, our schools began by celebrating All Saints Day and All Souls Day, and toward the end of the month, we celebrate Thanksgiving. Our Catholic school students in the Diocese of Norwich never take Thanksgiving for granted. Some combination of the word “thankfulness” occurs 182 times in the Bible. St. Paul uses the concept over 40 times in his epistles and seven times in Colossians alone. According to the series, “Paul’s Letter to the Colossians: An Exegetical and Devotional Commentary” (J. Healthly III), there are reasons WHY we need to be thankful. Here are the main two reasons: • It honors God. When we are thankful, we recognize that God exists, and we are acting on the reality of His life as the very source of ours. True thankfulness recognizes our dependence on God and stems from realizing that everything going on in our lives and all we have is the product of God’s grace and wisdom. (2 Cor 4:15) • It is commanded in Scripture. The Psalms are filled with the call to give thanks. Also, St. Paul tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:18 “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.” In Colossians, he twice gives the command to be thankful (3:15, 17). This is what your children learn in our diocesan schools. They not only are extremely well mannered in saying “please” and “thank you”, but they also understand why, which makes it even more meaningful. Please keep in mind to refer to this special day as Thanksgiving, and not Turkey Day. Thanksgiving is the only secular holiday with a spiritual theme of giving thanks to God for all of the many blessings he bestows upon us. Let’s keep the “thanks” in Thanksgiving, especially for our children. I will be certain to give thanks with my family this Thanksgiving for the blessing of my new ministry as Superintendent of Catholic Schools in the Diocese of Norwich and for my new diocesan family at the Chancery and all surrounding ministry offices.
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n conjunction with the canonization of Mother Teresa, during the first week of art classes at Saint John School, Old Saybrook, students started a unit of studying the life and image of Saint Teresa of Calcutta! As a result, our Art teacher coordinated a schoolwide art project where students joined together in the creation of a larger than life portrait of Mother Teresa! Students not only replicated her image but reflected on what messages she has left for us through her words. Each student took part by completing one tiny piece
of the overall image which was comprised of one hundred and thirty two paper tiles. Within the line work of her face and habit students included quotes from her life. Students were reminded that although they may only be contributing a small part to the project, that the image is incomplete without even the smallest segment. In Saint Teresa’s own words, “We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop.”
Bishop Michael R. Cote, Mother Elaine, Principle of St. John School and Superintendent Henry Fiore Jr.
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By Kathy C. White Deep River - Nearly 110 people gathered at The Academy at Mount Saint John on Saturday, October 15th to celebrate our Third Annual Harvest Fest. The fund raiser supports the vocational program at the clinical day school which has cared for and educated young men for over 100 years. After two years of inclement weather, this Harvest Fest evening was clear and beautiful, with a full moon. 90% of the staff and three students attended the event and spoke beautifully about the program. An incredible autumnal feast made by Chef Kristen and our culinary classes included hors d’oeuvres, dinner buffet, desserts and drinks. The program included an alumnus from 50 years ago, Ray Cooke, who spoke about learning right from wrong while at Mount Saint John. He was thrilled to celebrate his birthday at the Harvest Fest and was given an AMSJ hoodie as a gift (and one for his identical twin who was also placed at MSJ). Next, Mike Rohde (former MSJ wrestling
coach and Mayor of Meriden) read from John William Tuohy’s autobiographical story of his time in foster care. Ellsworth Evarts IV read his graduation speech from June 2016; after speaking about feeling broken and desperate, Ells relayed how The Academy at Mount Saint John made him feel safe, cared for and available to learn new skills. Ells is now taking college courses at Mitchell College. Finally, Cody Foran, a current transitional student at AMSJ, presented his multimedia slide show to the song, “Born Free” by Kid Rock. Many attendees were thrilled to win a variety of silent and tea cup auction items. Recognition of sponsors and donors were prominently displayed. Standing ovations for the staff at AMSJ and Ells’ heartwarming speech were evidence of a great night and an appreciative audience. For more information, please visit our website, www.mtstjohn.org or call 860-343-1335.
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Colleen McCormack and Claudia Holtsclas (seniors). She stated Thanksgiving is a time to reflect “everything these teens do inspires on what and who we are grateful for their friends to be better people. and that we are certainly blessed in Each of these young ladies is many ways! God has given each of involved in extracurricular activities us unique gifts and talents that we and still manages to take time to are supposed to use for the good of teach religious education and come others. Through the eyes of a few to youth nights regularly. They grateful parish are always giving, youth leaders, inspiring, striving to this article will be more, and leading highlight just others to Christ.” a tiny segment Dan D'Amelio, of our youth from St. Bridget of and how they Kildare in Moodus, are making a spotlighted High difference in School senior Connor their parishes. McCormack. This Young summer Connor parishioners rebuilt the parish Connor McCormack, have incredible gazebo, laying a new St. Bridget of Kildare Parish amounts of floor, repainting it and energy, hope, joy, openness, and a re-doing the landscaping around it as desire to serve and make a difference. part of his Eagle Scout project and it With guidance from parents, has become a beautiful addition the priests, sisters, youth ministers and parish. catechists, our youth are eager to Kimberly Manganella of St. use their developing gifts in their Bernard’s in Rockville is grateful parishes. Like many adults who daily for their young parishioners who use their gifts and talents, there are will provide an entire thanksgiving many young people in our diocese meal to a few families in their local who make a difference for the glory community. of God. The young parishioners of today Lisa Weis, from St. Peter’s in are the lay leaders, religious, and Higganum, highlighted two of their clergy of tomorrow. As St. Paul said many dedicated parish youth, Nathan in a letter to the Corinthians, “The DesRoberts and Brook Catalano, eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I don’t both high school juniors, who go need you!’ and the head cannot say to “above and beyond regularly with the feet, ‘I don’t need you!” (1 Cor. our Teens in Action youth group, 12:2). Whether we are hands, feet, with Faith Formation, and in the eyes, or ears in the Body of Christ, parish”. Nathan has focused on each of us is needed in the Kingdom helping the youth group set up its of God! Let’s continue to be thankful social media and Brook helps out for the gifts of all parishioners so we with the St. Vince de Paul soup can more fully live out our Catholic kitchen. faith as God intended and make a Ashley Dombrowski, of Holy positive difference in the world ! Family parish in Hebron, mentioned Happy Thanksgiving everyone! four of their teens: Isabelle Goode and Kate Lucenko (juniors) and
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The Rev. Brian Romanowski , who blessed the gallery, first met Mr. Belval as a student in the fall of 1990 and recalled his classes as challenging. “He would see more in your
was held in conjunction with the opening of the art exhibit. “I can’t think of a better way to celebrate him than with the work of alumni and students,” Mrs. Kainz said.
their high school years have gone on to pursue art as a profession. avid Belval stood before “Being a Classical Department, his friends, family, we have taught our students to “see” students and colleagues and observe the world around them. on Sunday, October 23, When our students go off to college in the chapel at Saint Bernard School. and take their first college studio, The school’s art gallery was being they have commented on how named in his honor. But as those confident they are,” Mrs. Kainz acquaintances will tell you, he left his said. mark on the school long before that. Alumni artists participating “If anyone deserves to have their in the show include: Susan name on something in this building, (Connolly) Griffin ’77 & Paul it’s David Belval,” Headmaster Don Griffin ’76, Stacey (Crandall) Macrino said to the crowd who came Madden ’87, Maryse (Kowack) for the opening reception of the 60th Newton ’90, Chris D’Acunto Anniversary Alumni & Student Art ’05, Elias Nousiopoulos ’05, Exhibit. Bradley Gehan ’07, Lisa Suszek Mr. Belval retired in 2015 after ’08, Katherine Elizabeth Ericson teaching art at Saint Bernard for ’10, Tiffany (Nousiopoulos) more than four decades. Some of the Petersen ’10, Alicia Vallario ’12, students he taught in his last year are Amanda Vallario ‘12 , Marian now juniors and seniors. “You’re still Camperchioli ’12, Kyle Vallieres here through those students,” Lorraine ’12, Patrick Regan ’12, Sarah Kainz, director of fine arts at SBS, Bentley ’12, Eli Kuhn ’12, told him. Zachariah Petersen ’13, Shannon The dedication of the gallery was Griffin ’13, Kevin Peters ’13, long-awaited. It had been sponsored Crystal Grabowski ’15, Eric to Mr. Belval in the early 1980s, but Vallieres ’15, Meredith Hird ’15, David Belval pictured with former student Ann Marie Caruso '78 Heather Wallace ’15, Patricia because of his humble nature, he did not want his name on it until he was Steinhagen ’16, and Molly in front of the plaque dedicating the art gallery to Mr. Belval. out of the building. Turban ’16, and Nancy Kuhn “He was one of the most ’16. inspirational teachers I have ever If you go had in my life,” said Ann Marie artwork and your ability than you The exhibit, which is on display The exhibit is open to the public (Biziewski) Caruso, a 1978 graduate could see yourself,” the 1994 through November 25th, showcases and can be viewed at Saint Bernard who was in attendance. Her parents, graduate said. “Mr. Belval helped to artwork from current students, as well School from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m. on now deceased, had sponsored the expand what you think you see in as alumni who are either professional school days through November 25. gallery to Mr. Belval all those years the physical realm and bring it out artists or still enjoy art as a hobby. Contact Lorraine Kainz at lkainz@ ago. in to an artistic realm. He taught us Submitted items range from classical saint-bernard.com to arrange an She said Mr. Belval not only taught to appreciate the gifts that God has drawings and paintings to threeappointment to view the exhibit students about colors, artwork, and given to each of us.” dimensional pieces and wedding outside these hours. design – he also taught family values Because Saint Bernard is dresses. and that it counts to have a close-knit celebrating 60 years of educational Many Saint Bernard graduates who family. excellence this year, the dedication participated in the art program during
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