Four County Catholic September 2021 by Diocese of Norwich

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United in Faith

Unwavering Faith and Hope

Volume 33 • Number 8 • SEPTEMBER 2021 • SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

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“We want to help people understand that the outcry as Christians to stop abortion, the outcry to help the migrants and the poor, the outcry to help save our planet, all come from the same place.The voice is a voice heralding Catholic Social Teaching which is the foundation of our faith.” Andrea Hoisl, Director of the Office of Faith Events, sharing her thoughts on the upcoming program, entitled TRASHED!

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In getting to know Haitians and all the natural disasters that have befallen Haiti and the many challenges that face Haitians on a regular basis, I am reminded of Job. Haitians, like Job, are faithful to God and steadfast, even when faced with many trials and tribulations. Susan Wallace, Director of Outreach to Haiti, comparing the people of Haiti to the Old Testament figure Job.

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Sacramental Christian marriage is now also about the spouses getting one another and their children to the supernatural happiness of God’s own life - it’s about getting the family to Heaven.

Fr. Michael Bovino, explaining what differentiates a Christian marriage from a natural marriage.

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The people of Haiti have undergone an ongoing series of natural disasters, civil unrest and unspeakable violence,— yet through it all they have maintained unwavering hope and faith. We can all learn a great deal from this resilient nation. Story on Page 16.

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MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

Confident in Our Faith (Isaiah 30:15)

My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, Inspiration can come to us in many ways. Sometimes the source of inspiration can surprise us. I had such a moment recently. While Storm Ida was rattling the windows of my office and I was praying for the people of New Orleans, I recalled a conversation I had about a decade ago with a retired Coast Guard Commander, a conversation that gave me the opportunity to share how much I admire the courage and dedication of all who serve in the Coast Guard. At one point we discussed the heralded Coast Guard Rescue Swimmers, an elite and well-trained team of men and women who, under the most extreme conditions put their lives at risk saving others. I remember asking him what the single most important attribute of a successful Coast Guard Rescue Swimmer is. His answer surprised me. He explained that it isn’t physical strength, or the ability to swim faster than the rest, or overall athletic ability, and not even endurance. These were all important qualifications; however, the single most valued attribute is what they call “confidence in the water”. Above all else, they need to be comfortable under high stress, air-sea rescue conditions. When a rescue swimmer encounters chaos at the scene of a crisis – under the worst possible weather and heavy seas – they must demonstrate grace under pressure. The rescue swimmer, grabbing hold of the person, informs the distressed individual that they are there to help. The survivor will feel that confidence and gain strength and hope.

That is the difference maker in the storm. another devastating earthquake, the brutal assassination of their president, Confidence. and the constant threat of violence. You Hearing this came as an inspiration to can follow the good work being done by me as I immediately made a connection our ministry in Haiti at OutreachtoHaiti. to the importance of confidence in one’s org. There you will find other ways to lend faith. In the face of the storms of cultural your support. chaos, and troubling secularization, it takes assuredness of faith to see yourself Ask St. Thomas the Apostle, patron saint and others through the choppy waters of of Afghanistan, to intercede on behalf of the people in this war-torn country, darkness and uncertainty. especially the young women who are not Whether it be the events playing out on only at risk of losing opportunities gained the world stage in Afghanistan and Haiti; over the last 20 years but are very likely or closer to home with the Delta variant at risk of unspeakable brutality, including and the economy; living your faith with the loss of their lives. unwavering confidence brings grace and Pray, fast, and hold vigil during the 40 strength to you and those around you. Days for Life. Volunteer in a food pantry. We can take inspiration from the words of Give an overworked parent a break by Jeremiah, “Ah! How mighty is that day— watching their children. Find your way there is none like it! A time of distress for to shine the light of Christ in the world. Jacob, though he shall be saved from it.” And as we embark upon another school ( Jeremiah 30:7). year, may the Lord continue to bless our Yes, we shall be saved from the distress. students, teachers, and staff, providing You see, in the end, God, in His mercy, them with a safe and healthy year of delivers us to the other side of unrest, learning. provided we maintain our gaze on Him. I pray that we all, in our own way, become It is the example of Jesus in the Gospels “rescue swimmers” for those in distress. that inspires us toward peace and justice May your joyful confidence of faith in the world. Together we are determined continue to save souls in the storms that to build a world where human life is confront us. always valued, loved, and defended. Sincerely yours in Christ, There are many ways that we can live our faith. Pray to Our Lady of Perpetual Help patroness of Haiti to intercede for us for our brothers and sisters who are once again rebuilding their lives after experiencing

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

“Quietness and confidence, shall be your strength.”

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MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

Confiados en Nuestra Fe

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

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“Tranquilidad y confianza serán su fuerza”. (Isaías 30:15)

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

Eso es lo que marca la diferencia en la tormenta. La confianza.

La inspiración nos puede llegar de muchas formas. A veces la fuente de inspiración puede sorprendernos. Recientemente, tuve un momento así. Mientras la Tormenta Ida sacudía las ventanas de mi oficina yo oraba por la gente de Nueva Orleans. Recordé una conversación que tuve hace una década con un comandante retirado de la Guardia Costera, una conversación que me dio la oportunidad de compartir cuánto admiro el coraje y la dedicación de todos los que sirven en la Guardia Costera. En algún momento hablamos sobre los anunciados Nadadores de Rescate de la Guardia Costera, un equipo de élite y de hombres y mujeres bien entrenados que, bajo las condiciones más extremas, arriesgan sus vidas para salvar a otros.

Escuchar esto fue inspirador, ya que inmediatamente hice la conexión con la importancia de la confianza en la fe. Frente a las tormentas del caos cultural y la preocupante secularización, se necesita seguridad en la fe para verse a sí mismo y a los demás a través de las agitadas aguas de la oscuridad y la incertidumbre.

Recuerdo haberle preguntado cuál es el atributo exitoso más importante de un nadador de rescate de la Guardia Costera. Su respuesta me sorprendió. Explicó que no es la fuerza física, ni la capacidad de nadar más rápido que el resto, ni la capacidad atlética, ni siquiera la resistencia. Todas estas eran habilidades importantes; sin embargo, el atributo más valorado es lo que llaman “confianza en el agua”. Por encima de todo, deben sentirse cómodos en condiciones de rescate aéreo y marítimo de alto estrés. Cuando un nadador de rescate se encuentra con el caos en el escenario de una crisis, bajo el peor clima posible y el mar embravecido, debe demostrar gracia bajo presión. El nadador de rescate, agarrando a la persona, le informa al individuo angustiado que está allí para ayudar. El sobreviviente sentirá esa confianza y ganará fuerza y esperanza.

Ya sean eventos que se desarrollan en el escenario mundial en Afganistán y Haití; o más cerca de casa con la variante Delta y la economía; vivir su fe con una confianza inquebrantable le brinda gracia y fuerza a usted y a quienes le rodean.

constante amenaza de violencia. Usted puede ver el buen trabajo que está realizando nuestro ministerio en Haití en OutreachtoHaiti.org. Allí encontrará otras formas de brindar su apoyo. Pídale al Apóstol Santo Tomás, santo patrón de Afganistán, que interceda en nombre de la gente de este país devastado por la guerra, especialmente de las mujeres jóvenes que no solo corren el riesgo de perder oportunidades ganadas en los últimos 20 años, sino que muy probablemente riesgo de una brutalidad indescriptible, incluyendo la pérdida de sus vidas.

Ore, ayune y mantenga la vigilia durante los 40 días por la Vida. Sea voluntario Podemos inspirarnos en las palabras de en una despensa de alimentos. Dele un Jeremías: “¡Ay! ¡Porque es grande ese día descanso a un padre con exceso de trabajo y como él no habrá otro igual! Es una al cuidar sus hijos. Encuentre su camino época de catástrofe para Jacob, de la que, para hacer brillar la luz de Cristo en el sin embargo, se salvará “. ( Jeremías 30: 7). mundo. Sí, seremos salvados de la angustia. Usted verá, al final, Dios, en Su misericordia, nos llevará al otro lado de la inquietud, siempre que mantengamos nuestra mirada puesta en Él.

Es el ejemplo de Jesús en los Evangelios el que nos inspira hacia la paz y la justicia en el mundo. Juntos estamos decididos a construir un mundo donde la vida humana siempre sea valorada, amada y defendida. Hay muchas formas en las que podemos vivir nuestra fe.

Y mientras nos embarcamos en otro año escolar, que el Señor continúe bendiciendo a nuestros estudiantes, maestros y personal, brindándoles un año de aprendizaje seguro y saludable. Yo oro para que todos, a nuestra manera, nos convirtamos en “nadadores de rescate” para los que están en peligro. Que su gozosa confianza en la fe continúe salvando almas en las tormentas que nos confrontan. Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,

Ore a Nuestra Señora del Perpetuo Socorro, patrona de Haití, para que Michael R. Cote interceda por nosotros por nuestros Obispo de Norwich hermanos y hermanas que una vez más están reconstruyendo sus vidas después de experimentar otro devastador terremoto, el brutal asesinato de su presidente y la

Vocations Corner

Pastoral Assignment

Deacon Jacob Ramos

4th Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Dharen Brochero

3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Ruben Garcia Sanchez

3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

An integral part of a seminarian’s priestly formation is his summer assignment. Each summer, upon returning home from the seminary, our seminarians are assigned to different parishes in the Diocese for eight weeks of pastoral work and experience. This time in the parish is important for them. It serves to assist them in developing pastoral competency, it teaches them about pastoral leadership, and it provides them with opportunities for collaboration with others. Most of all, it helps them become true shepherds after the heart and example of Jesus Christ.

Dharen Brochero, third year theologian, was assigned to the parish of St. Brendan the Navigator this summer. He wrote: “After this summer experience, the fire in my heart has gotten stronger after I witnessed how thirsty people are for God and how much I want to help God quench His thirst for those who are away from His divine love. I look forward to the day I can help my brothers and sisters get closer to the well of living water who quenches the spiritual thirst. “

Ruben Garcia, third year theologian, was assigned to the parish of Our Lady Queen of Peace this Just before returning to the seminary this Fall, I summer. He wrote: “Pope John Paul II says in asked the men to share with me (and with all of Redemptoris Missio ‘Faith is strengthened when it is you) what their experience in the parish was like. given to others!’ I can say with certainty that my faith was strengthened while serving in the Our Lady This is what they said: Queen of Peace parish community during summer Deacon Jacob Ramos, fourth year theologian, was assignment. It was the opportunity to share again assigned to the parish of St. Michael this summer. with the community that I met a couple of years ago He wrote: “Coming to serve the community of St. while studying English as a second language. Serving Michael Parish has been an incredible experience. It in this community allowed me to see the Lord Jesus has been the summer of many firsts. I had the solemn through the people with whom I had the opportunity responsibility to assist at funerals and perform the to talk and work; I can say that my call to the priestly rites of committal at gravesites. I shared the joy of ministry was also strengthened as I shared with them. baptism with several families as I was able to welcome I also highlight the accompaniment and closeness of their children into God’s family. I had the privilege Fr. Jonathan Ficara, it will always be good to have to accompany a young couple and receive their vows the example and testimony of a priest who strives to on behalf of the Church at their wedding. Since being work for the extension of the Kingdom of God.” ordained a deacon, it has been a whirlwind of new experiences, but during this time the Lord Jesus has Thank God for our seminarians. Let’s continue been with me every step of the way. There is real to pray for them as they begin another year of joy in this vocation, and I am so grateful for the formation at Mount St. Mary’s Seminary. May Lord’s call. I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the the Lord who has begun a good work in them wonderful people who helped form me this summer. bring it to completion. The parishioners who attend Mass at St. Thomas More, St. Michael the Archangel, and St. Mary have Want to know how our other seminarians spent been so hospitable and welcoming. It has been a Joy to their summer? Visit NorwichDiocese.org be with you all this summer.”

Alexander Pandolfe

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Julian Cuervo

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Eric Hosmer

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Mark Johnson

1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

- Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Priestly Vocations

MONTHLY

Holy Hour

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Deacon Larry Barile

Reflecting on Summer Assignments

for Vocations

September 16 – St. Matthew, Tolland October 21 – Sagrado Corazon, Windham November 18 – St. Paul, Waterford December 16 – Most Holy Trinity, Pomfret

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

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By Mary Ellen Mahoney

hen faced with difficulties, many of us turn to our families for help and support. Whether it be a shoulder to lean on, a caring ear to listen, or a roof over our heads and food on the table, we each know and appreciate the love of family. When reflecting on the recent news of the Diocese of Norwich’s filing for bankruptcy protection and reorganization under Chapter 11, I could not help but feel the same sense of resilience that I feel when one of my family members comes to me with a troubling issue. The Diocese will work through the process and continue to serve its mission, much as family would do when confronting a challenge, with determination, faith and hard work. We are extremely grateful for the strength and support that our Annual Catholic Appeal, “One Faith, One Family” has received throughout the year from each of you, members of our family of faith. While the ACA is a separate entity and has not filed bankruptcy, we of course face our own challenges. It is never easy asking people to part with their hard-earned money, especially during a pandemic. Thankfully, we all share a love of Christ and a desire to follow Him and can see beyond our own personal problems and put them in the context of the needs of others. As followers of Christ, we strive

every day to be the hands and feet of Jesus and do what we may to help other brothers and sisters face their personal challenges, strengthen one another’s faith, provide comfort to our sick and educate our youth and seminarians, just to name a few of the good works of our ACA supported ministries. I pray that we continue to come together as “One Faith, One Family” and just as the diocese, continue to serve each of our own personal missions with determination, faith and hard work. Years ago, my dad posted a sign in our garage to inspire my three children, his grandchildren. It read, “Work hard, good things will happen.” When I saw it, I took my black Sharpie and inserted “and pray” after “Work hard.” I thank you all for your generosity and prayers and know that if we all work hard and pray, good things will happen! If you have not yet made a gift or pledge to the 2021 Annual Catholic Appeal, we would appreciate any size donation. You may make them online at norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or by contacting our Campaign Manager, Heather Harris at (860) 886-1928 or hharris@ norwichdiocese.net . Thank you and God Bless you all.

his year, the 40 Days for Life Campaign runs from Wednesday, Sept. 22 through Sunday, Oct. 31. We hope you will join pro-life people of all faiths by praying, fasting, and attending the 40 Days For Life peaceful prayer vigil held outside Planned Parenthood at 12 Case St. in Norwich. The Norwich 40 Days For Life Campaign will begin with a vigil Mass at St. Patrick’s Cathedral on Tuesday, Sept. 21, at 7 p.m.. Bishop Michael R. Cote will be the principal celebrant and Fr. Michael Bovino will be the homilist. Never participated in praying at Planned Parenthood before? There’s nothing to be afraid of. It’s not a protest. We peacefully pray during daylight hours on the public sidewalk. We haven’t had any problems over the last five years. Start by signing up for an hour with your parish representative on your parish’s designated day, or sign up for any hour, on any day, on our website. It’s nice to do this

with a friend or small group from your parish. Park at Friendly’s, 105 W. Town St. in Norwich (Norwichtown). They gave us permission to park there. (And it’s a nice treat to enjoy a lunch or ice cream after praying with family and friends). Friendly’s and Case St. are best reached by Exit 14 on Rt. 395, the first exit north of Route 2. Outside the facility, we witness for Life by our presence, and hold signs, if you wish, that read “Praying for an end to abortion.” And we pray our Rosaries: To change mothers’ hearts that might be arriving to consider ending their pregnancy; for an end to abortion; and that this Planned Parenthood facility will soon close. Any questions? Please contact the Norwich 40 Days For Life Team at (860) 875-5770 or 40DaysNorwich@gmail.com Thank you and may God bless you, your family, and your future children and grandchildren. Amen.

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Towards An Ever Wider “We” World Day For Migrants and Refugees 2021 By Sister Mary Jude, SCMC

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an you imagine being 14 years old and having the courage to make the lifethreatening decision to cross the borders of two countries, with complete strangers, traveling part of the way on foot, at times in an over-crowded van? When Maria was two months old her father disappeared. Her mother, left with a toddler and a two-month-old, often went without food in order to feed her children. Hunger was a constant companion to Maria. There must be a better life, she thought. So she decided to try to go to the United States, even though she knew she just might not make it

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alive. Both her mother and sister were afraid to make the journey. They tried to talk her out of it but she was determined. She had heard how difficult it was, but she thought: there is no life here. No future. I want to be a doctor. I want to help people, especially poor people. The night she left home, tears flowed from everyone – especially Maria. Her mother blessed her, embraced her and entrusted her to Our Blessed Mother. It’s been two years since Maria came here. Many groups and individuals are helping her realize her dream. They have taken Maria into their hearts and, for some, into their homes – the embrace of an “ever wider ‘we.’” On Sept. 26, 2021 the Catholic Church will celebrate the 107th World Day for Migrants and Refugees, the climax of the United States’ celebration of National Migration Week. This year’s theme announced by Pope Francis – “Towards an ever wider ‘we’” - comes from “Fratelli Tutti,” one of his most recent encyclicals. The Pope tells us: “In this encyclical I expressed a concern

and a hope that remain uppermost in my thoughts: Once this health crisis passes, our worst response would be to plunge even more deeply into feverish consumerism and new forms of egotistic selfpreservation. God willing, after all this, we will think no longer in terms of ‘them’ and ‘those’, but only ‘us’ (No. 35). For this reason, I have wished to devote the Message for this year’s World Day of Migrants and Refugees to the theme, Towards An Ever Wider ‘We’ in order to indicate a clear horizon for our common journey in this world. And this universal ‘us’ must become a reality first of all within the Church, which is called to cultivate communion in diversity.” National Migration Week is an opportunity for us as Catholics to reflect on the circumstances confronting migrants and refugees, to pray for them, but also to put our faith into action. Too often, we fail to see migrants and refugees as persons, and instead, look at them as unknown others, if we notice them at all. Migration is not only about

statistics; it’s about real people like Maria, people trying to find a better life and a new beginning. It’s about people just like you and me, who, but for the grace of God, could very easily have been born into a similar situation. It’s about families torn apart; it’s about children left to fend for themselves; it’s about the vulnerable. “Each migrant has a name, a face and a story,” says Pope Francis. Our Catholic Faith calls us to stand in solidarity with them, to see them truly as our brothers and sisters, to embrace them in an ever wider “we” – a “we,” as the Pope says, that embraces all of humanity. This is who the Catholic Church is. This is what we as Catholics do. Regardless of where we came from or how we got here, we are all part of the human family and are called to live in solidarity with one another. Welcoming immigrants is part of Catholic Social Teaching and reflects the Biblical tradition to welcome the stranger. Let us take some time during the upcoming National Migration Week (Sept. 20-26) to reflect on how we can better welcome, protect, promote and integrate migrants living in our midst; how can we counter the globalization of indifference that affects us all; what we can do in our small part of the world to move towards a wider “we.” For more information connect to the Justice for Immigrants Campaign, an initiative of the USCCB: https:// justiceforimmigrants.org/

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he dignity of human life is being called into question every day in our world on every level. All that we believe and hold true as Christians has become countercultural and human life has now become a commodity with a monetary value. Our throwaway society disposes of life when it becomes inconvenient, costly or politically incorrect. We are challenged to make choices about the value of the human person as technology and consumerism reach new and unprecedented heights. TRASHED! is a virtual event beginning on October 3, 2021, that will celebrate human life and it’s connectedness to the earth as our common home. The kickoff event will feature keynote speaker Dr. Patrick Lee, Director of the Center for Bioethics at Franciscan University, Steubenville and professor in the Philosophy Dept. That event will be followed up by a seven week video series released every Wednesday- focusing on the sacredness of human life from conception to death and everything in between. The event will culminate on Sunday, November 21, 2001- the feast of Christ the King with a virtual event designed to answer questions about the topics that were presented over the previous seven weeks. Andrea Hoisl, committee member, shared her thoughts on the purpose of this event. “We want to help people understand that the outcry as Christians to stop abortion, the outcry to help the migrants and the poor , the outcry to help save our planet, all come from the same place. The voice is a voice heralding Catholic Social Teaching which is the foundation of our faith.” This event is a follow up to last year’s virtual conference entitled Life in the Thought of Pope Francis which highlighted speakers on the 40 Days for Life, Laudato Si and the Migrant and Refugee crisis.

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Former Diocesan School Superintendent Fondly Remembered for Service, Friendship Sr. Beatrice Theroux SBDHS (Theresa Emile) 1933 – 2021

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Sr. Beatrice Theroux transitioned into eternal life January 13, 2021 after a long life of service within the diocese, including as its superintendent of schools.

Sr. Beatrice was born in 1933 in Danielson, Connecticut, to Emile and Exilda (Frechette) Theroux. As a youngster who loved people and studies, she attended Catholic elementary school in Wauregan and moved up the road to Putnam for high school, attending the former Putnam Catholic Academy. It was at the academy where she got to know the Daughters of the Holy Spirit (DHS) up close and personal. Upon her graduation from high school Beatrice entered the Congregation of the DHS and professed her vows on August 18, 1953. Her career as an educator took her to classrooms in Connecticut, California and Massachusetts. Her undergraduate and graduate

pastimes was to entertain on her organ and watch the joy of music on the faces of her audience.

Sr. Beatrice will be remembered for her gentle manner and soft tones that accompanied her attractive and friend-winning smile; for her kind words and gestures and her openness and quick response to the needs In retirement Sr. Beatrice of others. For Sr. Beatrice, life maintained connections with was all about relationships and former students, with family people. members in need, with old friends Her funeral Mass was held at and former colleagues. She also St. John Church in Plainfield, had more time to dedicate to the Connecticut. Sr. Beatrice was laid Secular Branch of the Daughters to rest in Sacred Heart Cemetery of the Holy Spirit to which she in Wauregan, Connecticut, degrees from Diocesan Sisters had transitioned. Circumstances beside her parents. College and Boston College and her declining health led Sr. prepared her well for both Beatrice to St. Joseph Living In lieu of flowers memorial gifts teaching and administrative Center in Windham, where the may be made to the Secular Daughters have a community Branch of the Daughters of the positions. in residence. While there she Holy Spirit C/O Phyllis Viens, After serving as superintendent quickly got to know many treasurer, 5 Third Ext., Plainfield, of schools for the Diocese of residents, their families and, of CT 06374. Norwich from 1974 to 1979, Sr. course, staff. One of Sr. Beatrice’s

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Environments. Safe Environments refers to environments that are created and maintained in an effort

Now that autumn is approaching, many of your children and grandchildren have resumed full time in-person learning. The teachers and staff in our Diocesan Catholic Schools continue educating our children while keeping them safe and protected. Saint Pope John Paul II said, “Saint Joseph was a just man, a tireless worker, the upright guardian of those entrusted to his care. May he always guard, protect and enlighten families.” Protect is defined as ‘to keep safe from harm or injury’. Let us keep our students and their families in our prayers and pray that they remain safe and always feel protected as

Our ACA supported ministries are certainly blessed to receive your generous assistance. Your financial support of the 2021 Annual Catholic Appeal along with your prayers continue to be extremely important to help all our to provide all people with the safest possible place in which to minister, study, and work. The responsibilities of this office include overseeing the creation and implementation of safe environments programs and policies. The Diocese of Norwich is committed to the safety of children, young people, and adults. One way

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We are all called to be vigilant, and consistent in our screening and safety education so that all our young people and vulnerable adults have safe and nurturing places to learn and grow in their faith

they start a new school year.

Your prayers for our students are always appreciated, and so is your continued commitment to our ministries, which has been evident through your kind and generous gifts to the 2021 Annual Catholic Appeal. One of our extremely important ACA supported ministries in our diocese is The Office for Safe

“We are all called to be vigilant, and consistent in our screening and safety education so that all our young people and vulnerable adults have safe and nurturing places to learn and grow in their faith,” Kathy D’Amelio, director of The Office for Safe Environments, said.

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to ensure the safety of children and vulnerable adults is to restrict access to them to only those persons we know to be trustworthy and reliable. To do this, the Diocese, through the Office for Safe Environments, is committed to the comprehensive screening of all Church-related employees and volunteers who have regular contact with children and/or vulnerable adults.

ministries carry out their missions. To make a monetary contribution to our 2021 ACA “One Faith, One Family,” please go online to www. norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or contact Heather Harris, Campaign Manager, at 860-886-1928 ext. 111. Thank you so much for your generosity. Stay safe and be well.

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Our History Continues ... By Jacqueline Keller

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1950s

Aug. 6, 1953, Pope Pius XII established the Diocese of Norwich with Bishop Bernard J. Flanagan as bishop. The jurisdiction of the Diocese included the four counties in Eastern Connecticut: New London, Norwich, Middlesex, Tolland, and Fishers Island, a small portion of Suffolk County in New York State. Saint Patrick Church in Norwich became the Cathedral of Saint Patrick with Norwich as the See (the place of the bishop’s residence and cathedral) of the new diocese. The Norwich Diocesan Bureau of Social Service was incorporated as a not-for-profit entity in the State of Connecticut on March 23, 1954. At the same time, the offices in Norwich, New London and Middletown were to operate as separate units.

The Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women was established in 1955 and continued as the major contributor.

August 12, 1959, Bishop Flanagan was appointed Bishop of Worcester. Monsignor Vincent J. Hines, JCD, Chancellor of the Archdiocese of Hartford, was appointed Bishop of Norwich on November 27, 1959.

1960s

Bishop Vincent J. Hines was ordained Bishop and installed on March 17th 1960 as Bishop of Norwich. He began to consult with priests of the diocese concerning the organization of its ministries.

February 1961, Bishop Hines announced a reorganization and name change of the Diocesan Bureau of Social Service. The official name of the charities program was changed to Catholic Charities, Inc. Diocese of Norwich, and referred to simply as Catholic Charities. Official documents were filed at the office of the Secretary of State in Hartford.on February 1, 1961 and certified on February 7. The purpose of the reorganization was to coordinate the activities of the Norwich, New London and Middletown offices and to adopt uniform practices. Bishop Hines approved a new Manual of Policies and Procedures. This approval followed a series of conferences Bishop Hines held with Monsignor William J. Baldwin, Diocesan Director of Charities; Father Eugene A. Solega, Director of the Middletown District; and Father Robert W. Cronin, Director of the New London District.

Bishop Flanagan greets the faithful outside St. Patrick Cathedral on December 8, 1953 after his installation as the First Bishop of Norwich. He is accompanied by master of ceremonies Fr. Edward McKenna.

1963 - The Bureau of Social Service was aware of the need and worked with Family Services of New London to start a Big Brothers Organization in the area. New office locations were established in Middletown at 33 St. John’s Square; in New London at 10 Pearl St., a new storefront location; in Norwich at 4 Bath St., a newly constructed location. Bishop Hines established three new offices in 1963: Willimantic District Office, located at

197 Pleasant St., in the administrative section of St. Mary School. Also, the Danielson District Office was located in the Knights of Columbus Building. The Vernon District Office was located in Sacred Heart Church Center. Advisory boards at each of the locations offered immeasurable support.

Monsignor Terrence P. Finnegan served as Diocesan Director of Catholic Charities with Father Robert E. McNulty as Associate Director of the New London, Norwich and Willimantic offices, and Monsignor Edward J. McKenna as Associate Director of the Middletown Office.

1965

Catholic Charities was very involved in establishing TVCCA. It provided clerical time and supplies during the first months of its operation.

Monsignor Terrence P. Finnegan, Director of Catholic Charities, looks on as Bishop Hines blesses a newly born baby in the Catholic Charities office as the adopting parents receive the child.

Incorporation document for Catholic Charities. On February 1, 1961, which was then certified by then Secretary of State, Ella T. Grasso on February 7, 1961.

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f you are seeking to find hope, strength and comfort from a loss, burden, trouble or sorrow, come take a walk with Mary, the Mother of Jesus, and find a message of strength and support from a woman who transformed her heartache and sorrow into peace and hope.

session will explore one of the Seven Sorrows of Mary’s life and the message of strength and encouragement each one contains. It is based on the book Your Sorrow is My Sorrow: Hope and Strength in Times of Suffering, by Sr. Joyce Rupp. Each session will The Catholic Family Services include a reflection on one of office is offering a virtual Mary’s sorrows, guided prayer seven-week program entitled imagery and discussion. A Journey with Mary Through The program will be offered Her Seven Sorrows. Each Tuesday nights from 7-8:15

P.M. September 28, October 5, 12, 19, and 26 and November 2 and 9. The program takes place online and requires participants to have an internet connection.

The program is free, but requires registration. To do so, or for more information, contact Mary-Jo McLaughlin at the Catholic Family Services Office at 860-848-2237, Ext. 312, or email mmclaughlin@ norwichdiocese.net.

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One of the Many Ways We Carry Out Our Mission

ach year we invite women of our parishes to become members of the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women. Membership is open to all women in the Diocese of Norwich.

the needs of the Church and society in the modern world. The NDCCW also conducts the following programs:

- Layette Program established more than 40 years ago; a collection of infant and This membership collection not toddler clothes, diapers, only enrolls you as a member of handmade quilts and blankets the Norwich Diocesan Council to be distributed by Catholic of Catholic Women, but also Charities provides 60% of the total collected to Catholic Charities - We partner with Catholic (over the years we have given Relief Services and have many thousands of dollars to contributed thousands of Catholic Charities); 5% to the dollars to their Water for Life National Council of Catholic Project to provide clean water Women; 15% to the district to to Third World countries. which your affiliated organization - Boxes of Joy, a project of belongs; and 20% to the Norwich Cross Catholic Outreach Diocesan Council of Catholic to provide children in third Women treasury. world countries with gifts for The Norwich Diocesan Council Christmas of Catholic Women acts through its affiliated organizations to support, empower, and educate all Catholic women in spirituality, leadership, and service. NDCCW programs respond with Gospel values to

- Affiliates are involved in many projects in their own parishes.

Our Membership Drive runs through the months of September and October. The membership dues are

$5.00. You may use the form Contact JoAnn Shine for more below to become a member information at (860) 450-9179 or or renew your membership. pshine3605@charter.net.

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Dues: $5.00 Please fill out the form below to begin/renew your membership. Include your check for $5.00 dues made out to NDCCW. Mark the envelope “NDCCW Membership Drive” and drop into your parish collection basket the weekends of Sept. 25/26 through Oct. 25/26. -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Name: ______________________________________________ Address: ____________________________________________ _____________________________________________________ Phone:_______________________________________________ Email: _______________________________________________ Parish:_______________________________________________

Expectant Mothers Meet Their Babies Thanks to Knights

By Matthew McGrath

During the 2020-21 fraternal year, State Deputy Gary McKeone encouraged local councils throughout Connecticut to raise and donate money in conjunction with the State Council, so that machines could be placed in each

God for His provision and are praying that He will use this technology to change the lives of the women who will benefit from this machine for His greater glory.

A dedication and blessing of the machine was held at the CARE NET center on June 19. Father Walter Nagle, Director of ProLife Activities for the Diocese of Norwich, who also blessed CARE NET’s prior machine in 2012, blessed the new machine and spoke of its importance. The State Council was represented by PHOTO CREDIT: Richard Feil State Secretary / State DeputyL to R: Fr. Walter Nagle, Matt McGrath, Scott Evans, John Cody, Lisa Elect Matt McGrath and State Maloney, Susan Baker, Joe Rahtelli, and George Zinser & Richard Feil Treasurer / State Secretary-Elect who represented Council 2968 at St. Pio Parish. Joe Rahtelli. Also in attendance were local District Deputy Scott Evans, who is State Director of of the three Catholic Dioceses LIFE Activities, and members in the state (Archdiocese of of Council 2968, who helped Hartford, Diocese of Bridgeport inspire this beneficial effort in and Diocese of Norwich). The early 2020. response was impressive. Dozens of local councils and individuals CARE NET Executive Director, Lisa Maloney, and CARE NET contributed. Board member, John Cody, Past CARE NET, New London Grand Knight of Council 12119, was blessed to install the first expressed their deepest gratitude brand-new ultrasound machine to Supreme Knight Patrick Kelly, acquired through this State the Board of Directors, and to Council initiative. The Knights everyone who made this possible. join CARE NET in thanking This machine allows their nurses to have factual, loving conversations with clients about their pregnancies and allows the families to meet their child for the first time. Nursing Manager Susan Baker explained that this fabulous new technology even displays colorized blood vessels at 6 weeks.

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he Knights of Columbus Ultrasound Initiative and Pregnancy Center Support are among the Order’s most important programs. Through the Ultrasound Initiative, the Supreme Council works with state and local councils to raise money so that qualifying pregnancy centers can acquire this life-saving technology. The use of ultrasound machines has proven to be an invaluable tool in helping expectant mothers.

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By Susan Wallace

than 2,000 men, women and children, injured more than 10,000 people, left thousands of people homeless, and damaged countless businesses. While much of our work is in the Christ Roi (Christ the King) neighborhood In getting to know Haitians and of Port-au-Prince, we have 13 all the natural disasters that have parishes and one school in the befallen Haiti and the many United States (seven in the challenges that face Haitians on Diocese of Norwich) who twin a regular basis, I am reminded with 13 parishes and an education of Job. Haitians, like Job, are program in Haiti. Two of our faithful to God and steadfast, Haitian Twin Parishes and some even when faced with many trials of our staff have suffered damages and tribulations. This wisdom from the earthquake. surpasses the wealth of the world. Another recent tragedy was the In the two years I have been brutal assassination of Haiti’s with the Diocese of Norwich sitting President, Jovenel Moïse Outreach to Haiti, the country on July 7th. To date, no one is has experienced many tragedies sure who exactly was behind and life-threatening challenges. this heinous act, but it has been The most recent is the 7.2 followed by increasing civil magnitude earthquake that unrest. As with Job, our staff struck the Western Department does not give up and continues of Haiti in the southern section coming to work to serve the of the country on August 14th. 60,000 men, women and children It has caused the death of more hroughout my life I have often thought of the Old Testament figure Job who remained faithful to God and steadfast, even when faced with many trials and tribulations.

living in Christ Roi, because our staff is the only safety net for the residents who at any given time need critical food supplies or much needed medical care. The staff also provides guidance and encouragement to the 200 young people who are earning an education thanks to those who support our Education Sponsorship Program.

in COVID-19 cases from the Delta strain, one of our staff, Dr. Anglade Cephora Musset, OBGYN, died of the virus within a week of being admitted to the hospital. She was only 38 years old and left behind a husband and two young daughters. Our resilient staff took time to celebrate her life and Last year when mourn her COVID-19 first passing appeared in Haiti, b u t I shared with returned our director of to work operations how b e c au s e sorry we were. t h e y Instead of saying how know the terrible the situation Dr. Anglade people of was, he said, “We have Cephora Musset Christ Roi to move forward.” He was live in fragile letting me know that Haitians economic conditions recognize they must remain and depend on Outreach to Haiti steadfast in the face of trials and for assistance. tribulations. Finally, in 2010, Haiti suffered a This year when Haiti saw a surge

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If you would like to support our ministry in Haiti and help those affected by the earthquake you can make an online donation on our website at OutreachtoHaiti.org/Help or send a check, make payable to Like Job, Haitians inspire us with Outreach to Haiti at 815 Boswell their steadfast faith in God despite Ave., Norwich, CT 06360. the many trials and tribulations that face them at any given time. Please know that we have been This wisdom is much richer than working in Haiti for almost 40 any wealth on earth. years and you can be confident your donations will reach their Please continue to keep Haiti and intended purpose in a timely catastrophic earthquake which used by Outreach to Haiti were Outreach to Haiti in your prayers. manner despite the turmoil in killed approximately 250,000 destroyed, but are now replaced by We are grateful and thankful to Haiti. people and caused extensive a new building, which is nearing all of you for your support as we Susan Wallace is Executive structural damage throughout completion. This new building walk together into each new day. Director of Outreach to Haiti. the country. The two buildings is a sign of the strength and

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holding various charitable events and fundraisers. We were able to supply baby clothes to Daily Bread Putnam, TEEG in Thompson and Caring Families Pregnancy Services, Willimantic. The Baby Bottle Drive raised $2,183.61, which was donated to Caring Families Pregnancy Services. We wish to thank everyone who contributed to this worthy and successful cause.

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Sunday, September 19, 3:30 – 5:30 p.m. Virtual BINGO

Great prizes and fun for all ages! Cards are $6 each and will be emailed, BINGO played online. Only 200 cards will be sold. To register call Marianne at 860-848-2237 ext. 304

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Tuesday, September 21, 3 - 4 p.m. Virtual Rachel Rosary

Pray online to end abortion and focus on healing for those who have been involved in an abortion. To join the rosary meetings go to: http://bit.ly/3mogX95 Meeting number: 132 196 4253 Password: Mary

Tuesday, September 21, 7pm 40Days for Life Kickoff Mass

The Norwich 40 Days-For-Life Campaign will begin with a Vigil Mass at St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote will be the principal celebrant and Fr. Michael Bovino will be the homilist.

Saturday, Sept. 25, 8am 14th Annual CT Men’s Conference

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136 Sachem Street Norwich CT 06360 860-889-2374 Fax 860-886-2396

Saturday, October 2 & 9 Sunday, October 3 & 10 Honoring the Year of St. Joseph

St. Joseph Church on 120 Cliff St. Norwich, will be holding an exhibition of the parish history at the parish Rectory on Oct. 2nd and 9th after the 4PM mass and Oct 3rd and 10th after the 8:30 AM mass. The exhibit will be open for 2 hours. All are welcome.

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Sacred Heart School, Taftville

Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville 860-887-1757 sacredhearttaftville.org

St. James School, Danielson Linda Marie Joyal, Principal 120 Water St, Danielson 860-774-3281 stjamesdanielson.org

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook 860-388-0849 saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Larry Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main Street. Middletown 860-347-2978 JPII.org

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal 10 School Hill Road, Baltic 860-822-6141 Stjosephschoolbaltic.com

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St. Joseph School, New London

Marianne Cote, Principle 25 Squire Street, New London 860-442-1720 SJSNL.com

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich Sharon Stewart, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich 860-889-4174 st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic 860-822-9272 ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown Alissa DeJonge, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-6659 mercyhigh.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville 860-848-1271 saint-bernard.com

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-7735 xavierhighschool.org

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that her students and faculty, many having a long tenure, work together in this academic I have new and exciting news to share with environment to touch hearts and change all of you. Each month we will highlight attitudes. The students are encouraged to one of the outstanding educational excel and reach their potential, all the while institutions in the Diocese of Norwich. For in an atmosphere of faith, respect and love.  this month’s issue it is St. John’s School in Old Saybrook. The school boasts a competitive athletic program with interscholastic and At St. John School, an environment of intramural soccer, cross country and faith, respect, and love helps students excel basketball. Students can also enroll in afterSelecting a school for your son or daughter school programs such as Lego robotics, is a very important decision. This choice can ski/snowboarding, golf, public-speaking sometimes be the key factor which helps and chess to name a few. Students have your child become confident, successful the option to play an instrument in the and happy in school and life. The more cadet or advanced bands.  Mother Elaine than 115 students, who range from age 3 is proud of the drama club as it “provides in pre-kindergarten to eighth-graders at St. student growth, self-discipline, teamwork John School in Old Saybrook are fortunate and confidence.” In addition, the school to get such a great start in life.  Along with places an emphasis on public speaking at a excellent academics, St. John School prides young age. Teachers and parents alike note itself on providing a nurturing, caring, this builds confidence and self-esteem. faith-filled family atmosphere. St. John School is an affordable school Parents often credit the nurturing and welcomes students from all faiths and environment with enhancing student ethnic groups. Students hail from more development. Mother Elaine Moorcroft, than 22 communities. The school shares the St. John School principal, advocates its campus with St. John Church, part of

the vibrant parish of St. Padre Pio. Students regularly attend Mass in the beautiful church adjacent to the school. Graduates often go on to Catholic high schools but

many attend local or independent high schools. The extended family atmosphere coupled with small class sizes ensures a close bond between classmates.

St. John School students have consistently been the recipients of high school scholarships, and this year was no exception. A St. John School student scored in the top two in the Xavier entrance exam. Last year, St. John School students also received scholarships for attaining the 1st and 2nd place scores. In the recent past, students have also received scholarships

from Mercy and St. Bernard high schools. If you are interested in seeing why St. John School is loved by so many, please schedule a private tour and also see the recent campus updates. Financial aid is available. For information or to schedule a tour, please call (860) 388-0849 or visit www.saintjohnschoolos.org. May God Bless You and Keep you Safe, Dr. Gail Kingston Superintendent of Schools

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Like many schools this year, St. John School adjusted to cope with the pandemic. Mother Elaine credits the adherence of students, teachers and staff to the strict Covid changes to the success of in-person teaching all year. She is proud of the fact that St. John School was open every day during the past academic year.

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Saint Bernard student first place winner of eesmarts contest

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ore than 250 students in all grades across Connecticut participated in the 2021 eesmarts Annual Student Contest sponsored by Eversource and United Illuminating. The contest required students “to promote energy efficiency, renewable energy and reducing their carbon footprints to their families, fellow students and schools.”

The 2021 first-place 6th grade contest winner was Saint Bernard student James Waters, of Stonington. His speech was about how Connecticut can become more energy efficient. After several drafts James felt

good about his submission, which contained recommendations for energy conservation, clean renewable energy sources and energy efficient technology. After doing research for his speech, James said he learned even more about the importance of renewable energy in our fight to save our environment. Heather Waters, James’ mother, said her son is very interested in the environment and looks for ways to make a difference. One of James’ concerns has been the amount of trash not making it in the trash cans in his community. During a recent trip to Nantucket,

James’ mother said he is not sure if he will compete again next year. But she does know that making sure we take care of the environment is something that James will be doing for the rest of his life.

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Brother J. Robert Houlihan, C.F.X., 1931-2021 A Man of Compassion and Energy

By Jeff Otterbein

of Xaverian House in Danvers He took care of the grounds at where many Xaverian Brothers Xavier. Boy, did he do that. A profile of Brother Houlihan in now reside: “Living with Bob Houlihan was the Middletown Press in 2012 as you’d imagine it to be: not said, “He can hear a paper hit particularly quiet and monastic, the ground from a hundred “They broke the mold with him,” but welcoming, and marked yards. Thus, the place is as clean wrote one person on a post on the by energy and laughter and as Disney World.” Xavier High School Facebook disagreements and discussions. Countless number of Xavier page announcing Brother ‘Houli’ was never unkind nor a students, faculty and staff Houlihan’s death. “A great man man of few words, and he would will always remember “Houli have us believe his opinions were Days,” when everyone came and inspiration.” So much so that nearly 200 most often correct. He loved being together to work on the campus comments were left on that with the Brothers, and relished grounds. times at home on Orchard Street He sold candy bars at games, Facebook post. and at other North Shore sites His funeral service was held July with family members, neighbors collected cans and bottles, all with the mission of raising 22 in Danvers, Massachusetts, and friends.” funds for MYARC, his passion, on the campus of St. John’s Prep. He grew up nearby in Peabody, Brother Houlihan spent more his calling. Massachusetts. Students from than 40 years at Xavier in He initiated and moderated Xavier and St. John’s served as Middletown, 38 of them in the MYARC, to which thousands of classroom, teaching freshmen Xavier and Mercy High School pallbearers. physical science. students have volunteered since This is from a eulogy at the funeral given by Brother Robert J. Green, At one point he filmed football the early ‘70s, working with those C.F.X., who was at Xavier from games for coaches Larry McHugh who are mentally or physically challenged. 1979-1985 and is the director and Tony Jaskot.

When he was asked once about all the years of profound dedication to the handicapped, he gave an unexpected answer: “I didn’t want any part of it. It was the Lord’s work. I just grew into it.’ ”

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O Holy St Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth to possess miraculous powers. Encouraged by this thought, I implore to you to obtain for me (request). O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms, and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mary's and three Glories and promise publication. ~ JTL ~

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rother J. Robert Houlihan, C.F.X., who passed away July 18, was just short of his 90th birthday and had been a Xaverian Brother for almost 72 years.

STUDENT ESSAYS of Our Lady’s Approved Apparitions In Honor of the Centennial Celebration of the Legion of Mary

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OUR LADY OF PONTMAIN also known as Our Lady of Hope is very important, for she gave a whole village hope in the midst of war. We need hope right now, in our crazy world as we are in the midst of a pandemic. Our Lady of Pontmain is important in our lives today because she is hope and she restores our hope. Our

Lady of Pontmain first appeared to two boys named Eugene and Joseph Barbedette, then to several children. But the sisters, priest, and parents could not see her. They all prayed the rosary to her even though not all could see her. She appeared to them in Pontmain, France on January 17, 1871 during the Franco-Prussian

War. When she appeared to them she was wearing a dark blue robe sprinkled with stars, a dark blue veil, a crown and she held a red cross. Here is a beautiful prayer to Our Lady of Pontmain, “Let us Pray: Almighty and eternal God, the Blessed Virgin Mary, glorious Mother of your Son, helps and defends all those who call upon

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Church-Declared Holy Legion of Mary Members

On Their Way to Sainthood

FRANK DUFF, Servant of God, born in Dublin, Ireland June 7, 1889 the eldest of seven children. In 1916 at the age of 27 he published his first pamphlet, “Can We Be Saints?” In it he expressed one of the strongest convictions of his life, namely, that all without exception are called to be saints and that through our Catholic Faith we have available all the means necessary to attain this. In 1917 he came to know the Treatise of St. Louis Marie de Montfort on the “True Devotion of Jesus through Mary,” a work which changed his life completely. On Sept. 7, 1921 Duff founded the Legion of Mary. This is a lay apostolic organization at the service of the Church, under ecclesiastical guidance. Its twofold purpose is the spiritual development of its members and advancing the reign of Christ through Our Lady. The Legion is to be found in almost every country in the world with millions of active and many more auxiliary (praying) members. In 1965 Pope Paul VI invited Duff to attend the Second Vatican Council as a lay auditor (an honor by which the Pope recognized and affirmed Duff’s enormous contributions to the lay apostolate), where he received a standing ovation from all the Bishops in attendance at

ALFIE LAMBE, Servant of God, for almost six years he worked ceaselessly in promoting the Legion of Mary in Columbia, Argentina, Ecuador, Uruguay and Brazil. God

EDEL QUINN, Venerable, in 1936 was sent from Dublin to establish the Legion of Mary in East and Central Africa. The difficulties she encountered were enormous but she met every challenge with unwavering faith and courage. When others faltered her invariable response was, “Why can’t we trust Our Lady?” or “Our Lady will see after things.” For nearly eight years, her health steadily declining, she worked over the vast territories committed to her. Hundreds of Legion praesidia and many higher councils were set up on an enduring basis. As a result, thousands of Africans are engaged in the Church’s work of evangelization. Edel Quinn died in Kenya in 1944. Her heroic life and labors have been narrated in a vibrant biography by Cardinal Suenens. She exemplified the missionary spirit of the Legion at its best. In 1994 Pope John Paul II declared her Venerable.

had bestowed on him great natural gifts, a personality which attracted souls to the service and love of God, an infectious enthusiasm, and a facility for learning languages, which enabled him to rapidly attain fluency in Spanish and Portuguese. Alfie Lambe died in Buenos Aires in 1959 after almost six years of apostolic labors in South America. “If the Legion of Mary did nothing else but produce a man of the caliber of Alfonso Lambe, it is surely blessed by God,” said Archbishop Tavella of Salts, Argentina. Alfie Lambe’s cause of Beatification was introduced by the Archbishop of Buenos Aires in 1971.

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Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Oh, most beautiful flower of Mount Carmel, fruitful vine, splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God. Immaculate Virgin assist me in my necessity. Oh, Star of the Sea, help me and show me here you are my Mother. Oh, Holy Mother Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth, I humble beseech you from the bottom of my heart to succor me in my necessity(please help my family). There are none that can withstand your power O Mary, conceived without sin prayer for us who have recourse to thee (say three times). Holy Mary, I place this prayer in your hands (say three times). Say this prayer for three consecutive days each time followed by 3 Our Fathers, 3 Hail Mary’s, 3 Glory be to the Father. Then you must publish it and it will be granted. Thank you, Blessed Virgin, for hearing my prayers. (Never known to fail)

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Volume 12: Marriage Part I

In the Catechism of the Catholic Church, a collection of the official teachings of the Church, we read the following: “we profess that ‘the sacraments of the new law were… all instituted by Jesus Christ our Lord’” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1114). This claim seems obvious enough. However, the Sacrament of marriage, which we’re beginning to look at this month, is somewhat different from the rest of the sacraments insofar as marriage existed before the coming of Jesus. It is clear that marriage, although it wasn’t sacramental in the same way that it is now in the Church, existed long before Jesus. The Church points out to us that “the matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1601). Great…what does all that mean? It means that the marriage bond between a man and a woman is something that God has established in the order of nature, even before Jesus and the Church came along. “The vocation to marriage is written in the very nature of man and woman as they came from the hand of the Creator” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1603). In other words, even if we bracket out Jesus and the Church, we would still have marriages occurring (whereas, for example, it wouldn’t make sense to have baptisms or confirmations taking place). And in looking at marriage even as a natural institution, it is still evident that the committed lifelong marriage bond between man and woman is primarily ordered toward two things: (1) the good of the spouses and

(2) the procreation and education of children. What Jesus has done in the Sacrament of Marriage, then, is taken the “raw material” of natural marriage, which existed since the beginning of mankind, and raised it “to the dignity of a sacrament” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1601). Before Jesus there were marriages, but because of Jesus, Christian marriages are now raised to the level of a sacrament. Christian marriages are no longer just natural but are now supernatural. One reason for this - for why Christian marriages are sacramental - is because they are now ordered to a higher purpose - a supernatural purpose - again, because of Jesus. As noble as it is, Christian marriage is no longer just about the spouses loving each other and raising children to be a happy family in this life. Christian marriage is that and much more. Sacramental Christian marriage is now also about the spouses getting one another and their children to the supernatural happiness of God’s own life - it’s about getting the family to Heaven. In other words, what Jesus does with marriage is He takes something that is already good and makes it even better! He takes natural marriage - something already good and beautiful in itself - and He elevates it to something even better. He makes it a channel of His grace, a seedbed for His Divine life to grow and flourish. We’ll explore this more next month. As always, please feel free to send any questions to father.michaelbovino@gmail.com

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By Andrea Hoisl

“Welcome back” is a common, familiar phrase we use in our daily lives all the time. We welcome people back from vacation, sick leave, summer break, holidays – the list goes on and on. It’s an innocent salutation that makes us feel like we were missed. However, in 2021, this simple phrase has taken on a whole new meaning for all of us. We are welcoming people back to work, to shopping, to restaurants, and to normal life activities after a year and a half of unprecedented sickness, death, quarantine and gathering restrictions. “Welcome back” is not so simple a phrase anymore. For many, it includes fear and trepidation surrounding health, financial and mental and emotional concerns. As compassionate people, we need to be mindful of the stress and

Welcome Back… Love, God

anxiety that is caused by welcoming people back to Church and Faith Formation specifically. We need to use Jesus as our role model in meeting people where they are and loving them as they are. Once Jesus established personal relationships with people, they wanted to know more about Him and His message. They were comfortable around Him because a level of mutual respect and trust had been built that served as the very foundation upon which Christ built His Church. We, too, are being called to do that with our fellow parishioners, families and children. We need to reach out to one another with open arms and open hearts. Compassion and understanding should pour forth from our worshipping communities in endless supply. We must be willing and able to offer religious experiences in new and

creative ways that will help people feel safe and welcomed. It is not enough to say, “Welcome back,” we must first examine what we are welcoming everyone back to. What is it that we are doing to make people feel welcomed and show them that they were missed? How have we changed – what have we learned throughout this pandemic that makes us a better, stronger worshipping community and better Christians/Catholics? How has the ability to return to Church and receive the Eucharist made us more faith-filled? We learned firsthand that God accompanies us through every messy, sad and scary event we experience. We learned our faith was the rock upon which we began to rebuild our lives. We learned that we long to be fed through

sacramental experiences that give us grace. We learned that we are better and stronger when we unite ourselves in faith for a common cause or purpose. God welcomes us all back to our respective houses of worship not because we were separated from Him but rather because we were separated from each other. We now know that we are stronger when we are united. We know with certainty that we need one another in ways we never ever imagined. We know we are each called to make the world and our Church a better place. None of us can predict the future so all we have to work with is the here and now. And now is definitely the time to show others what “Welcome back” really means.

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Students were excited to return to class August 30 at Saint Bernard School to kick off another school year. The students familiarized themselves with their schedules and lockers and met their teachers and classmates.

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