Getting Intimate about Independence with Jessica Mulroney

getting intimate about independence Jessica Mulroney

By CRYSTAL CARSON

Photographed by LIZ ROSA

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You’ve likely heard the slogan: “The Future Is

Female” but what you might not know is that it was first coined in 1975. I believe we are in the midst of a new feminine not feminist movement. Which has spiked my curiosity to explore successful female leaders insights, challenges, lessons and tips/tricks on how to "have it all" as a modern day independant woman.

Power comes from knowledge and women should know they can have it all, but not necessarily all at once. Recognizing that life requires choice and oftentimes compromise allows us all to manage our expectations and build well-rounded experiences over the long-term.

How to balance being an independent and empowered woman in the world, while still maintaining the role of the divine feminine as a nurturing mother and wife/partner at home?

I don’t believe that strong and independent are the opposite of nurturing. Femininity is inherently strong. They are not divergent and do not need to be reconciled, so it is not a question of balance, it is a question of living as honestly and authentically as I can.

What does independence mean to you?

Independence means having agency over issues that relate directly to my identity.

What are some of your insights on how to have a successful partnership (husband) with a man while maintaining your independence?

Drive and passion are sexy to both of us. My husband champions me and I support him in what he does. if either of us lost that drive, it wouldn’t be attractive to the other person.

What is your opinion about the shift in consciousness to empower women in the workplace?

Blush Lingerie set: City Lux Black sequins suit: Smythe

Black Louboutin: Mine & Yours Co.

You're raising the next generation of men. What's your approach in teaching your sons about equality?

We are a family full of strong and successful women with partners who respect and champion us. Showing them living, breathing examples of positive male-female relations is the most effective way.

What was your #fuckyes or #fuckthis moment where you took your game to the next level?

#fuckyes – when Bonnie Brooks invited me onto the team to build out Canada’s biggest bridal salon at Kleinfeld, I knew she – and I – were taking a risk. When it paid off, I knew I could trust my instincts and continue taking risks, pushing myself and trying new things.

#fuckthis – knowing that not every relationship is a good one and sometimes, you have to part ways with partners in order to move forward as an individual. It’s not always pretty but in the long run, it’s worth it.

- Jessica

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