JULY & AUGUST 2023 FOSTERING PERSONAL GROWTH & RELATIONSHIPS

Over the next few months, we will feel stronger connections to family and community as the universe encourages us to focus more on our relationships. It’s a good time to enrich our personal connections with loved ones and also to heal old wounds. Spending more time on personal growth and with close friends will bring positive outcomes.

Aquarius

January 21 – February 18

The next couple of months will bring a burst of new energy and fantastic adventures for you. During July you may feel a strong desire to change things up in your life. TIP: This is an excellent time to set new goals and make plans for your future.

Taurus

April 21 – May 21

You are being called to focus more on finding balance in all areas of your life — especially between your work and personal schedules, where you have been feeling some competition for your time. TIP: Create some space to nurture your important relationships.

Leo

July 23 – August 23

As your birthday month approaches, you may notice an increased sense of enthusiasm and vitality as Leos will naturally shine more brightly. TIP: Use your positive energies to deepen your connections with loved ones and create lasting and memorable experiences.

Scorpio

October 24 – November 22

The winter months will bring a mix of challenges and opportunities that will push you to dig deep within yourself and make significant decisions about your life. TIP: You’ve got lots to digest, so don’t hesitate to give yourself permission to rest when necessary.

Pisces

February 19 – March 20 Aries

You may feel deeply introspective as we move into the second half of the year. During this period, try to engage in selfcare practices that promote your inner peace and emotional stability. TIP: Take time to reflect on your deep desires, dreams and aspirations.

Gemini

May 22 – June 21

You may experience unexpected shifts in your social circles. Try to embrace these changes with courage, as solid personal growth may come from them. TIP: Stay adaptable and open-minded so you can make the most of situations that are out of your comfort zone.

Virgo

August 24 – September 23

You may feel new urges to dream big and take charge of your life more proactively as the universe encourages you to open up the frontiers of possibility. TIP: Be brave dear Virgo, and embark on a new adventure with a go-get-em no-holes-bared attitude.

Sagittarius

November 23 – December 22

Get ready for an adventurous and transformative time ahead as a wave of new experiences comes your way that will greatly expand your horizons. TIP: Inner exploration will enhance your wellbeing and provide valuable insights and clarity about your life path.

March 21 – April 20

The universe encourages you to trust your intuition and embrace new experiences as winter brings exciting possibilities for personal growth and development. TIP: If you have faith in your abilities and stay true to your heart, you’ll find success.

Cancer

June 22 – July 22

As our sun enters Leo in late July, the universe may bring news of intriguing opportunities that you were not expecting, so keep a lookout with a flexible attitude. TIP: This is a good time to put some energy towards your budget and future financial plans.

Libra

September 24 – October 23

Winter brings harmony for Libras, who can learn to let go of expectations with a kind and warm heart. TIP: The next couple of months hold potential for personal growth and overall wellness, but you’ll need to make time in your busy life to fully realise any universal gifts.

Capricorn

December 23 – January 20

Some significant new developments and strong transformational energies are about to enter into your life. TIP: Increased seductive powers will bring romantic opportunities for those on the hunt or anyone wanting to spice up their love life at home.

By Rose Pappalardo

Dear Rose,

I’m a country bloke, and I’ve recently started dating a city guy, and I want to introduce him to my family. They’re not openly homophobic but often very insensitive. Do you have any advice on handling this? Joey

Dear Joey,

Often country and city folk hold very different views on things. If you are worried that your family may act insensitively, I suggest you talk to them first — this will give you a good indication of how they may behave when you bring your BF home to meet them. Hopefully, you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Also, give your man the heads up so he knows what lies ahead. I think it’s also important to note that it’s OK if your partner does not want to proceed if he feels things may not go well. Good Luck and practice self-care.

Dear Rose,

After many difficult years, I have recently come out as a trans woman, and I’m finally starting to feel comfortable in my body. Being a person over 60, I’m struggling with isolation and loneliness. Where can I get some help? Tiffany

Dear Tiffany,

Congratulations on this significant new life chapter; you have already taken big steps to be an authentic version of yourself.

I suggest you start by taking some time to pause after the huge mountain you have just climbed. Permitting yourself the space to consider what you want now will help build a path to a fulfilling life.

Dear Rose, I’m a bi woman in a long-term heterosexual relationship. I’m out to my partner, but I’ve never actually been with another girl. I’ve recently started thinking about women again, but I’m worried that after three kids and not having talked about it for over 15+ years, it seems silly to bring it up again. Your thoughts. Kim

Dear Kim

Given your current situation, it does sound challenging to know what you should do. There is probably no wrong or right answer here. On the one hand, you are in a successful partnership with children, which comes with certain responsibilities. On the other hand, having a relationship with a woman is clearly something that has been on your mind for a while.

With the stakes high, I would be inclined to be cautious, and I would recommend you take the time to unpack how you feel with a counsellor; this will give you the tools to understand what’s really going on and how you want to proceed. It may seem silly after more than 15 years; however, if having a relationship with a woman is something that you feel will bring happiness, then as with all my advice, honest, open communication is key.

If you are struggling with feelings of isolation and loneliness, I also suggest seeing a professional counsellor and connecting with your local transgender support group.

Trans Pride Australia is a great place to start. They hold events throughout the year, and also host a network of Facebook groups and other online spaces.

In Canberra, connect with A Gender Agenda — they offer social support, information, advocacy and resources along with a regular calendar of social events with like-minded people.

Need help or someone to talk to? Support is available for anyone in distress by phoning 24 hours QLife 1800 184 527, Lifeline on 13 11 14 or Meridian’s counselling services on 02 6257 2855. If you require relationship support or services call Relationships Australia on 1300 364 277

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