TFWB • March 2015 by Free Will Baptist Press

March 2015

March 2015 Foreign Missions Month This is a calendar of denominational events and regular holidays and special days/seasons of the Christian year.

Sunday

Monday

As times/dates may change, you can scan the QR code above for a more complete and up-to-date list.

Tuesday 2

Wednesday 3

Thursday

Friday

Saturday 6

LIFE Conference

@ University of Mount Olive March 6–7

Daylight Saving Time Begins

Faculty Recital 7:30 p.m. @ UMO

Literary Festival

Eastern Woman’s Spring Conv. 9:30 a.m.

7:00 p.m. @ UMO

@ Macedonia Church

The Importance of the Gospels

By John N. Blackwell, Ph.D. @ Cragmont March 17–19

Foreign Missions Telethon Sunday The Importance of the Gospels

March 20–22

Get the Facts Seminar

12 & 3 p.m. @ UMO

10 a.m. @ Smithfield First Church

Recital Series featuring

GQ Quartet

March 20–22

Palm Sunday

28 Ballgame Church Day

7:30 p.m. @ UMO

The True Meaning of “Neighbor” By Noel Thomas “Tommy” Manning Several weeks ago, I was about to leave for church, was backing my car out of the driveway when I heard a loud scraping noise that alerted me that something was wrong. The sound was coming from the underside of my motor. Not being mechanically minded though, I had no idea whatsoever as to what could be causing the noise, and whether I should risk driving to church. I got out of the car, walked around to the front to where the radiator is located, and bent down as best I could to try to determine what might be causing the noise. Now remember (but no, you could not have been aware) that doctors have warned me against bending at the waist, let alone crouching in front of a car to peer underneath. As puzzled as I was, I did not know what to do. Then I heard an unfamiliar voice coming from a neighbor’s home (a neighbor whom I had yet to meet). He called, “Sir, wait, let me help you.” He hastened to where I was, asked me politely to step aside, and he literally crawled underneath my car and pulled from the undergirding a plastic part that

had broken loose and was scraping the pavement. Assuring me that the raucous part was not essential to my driving the car safely, the gentleman pulled it away from the steel rod from which it had broken loose, and promptly took it to the trashcan to dispose of it. “It is nothing for you to worry about, Sir,” he again assured me. “It is sort of like underpinning, mostly for cosmetic purposes, and you really don’t need it replaced, even.” I thanked him profusely and wondered what to do next, but being the way I am, I reached into my billfold and handed him a token of thanks—telling him that except for his intercession, I surely would have needed a mechanic. “I wouldn’t have known what in the world to do,” I lamented (inwardly I was hoping that my offering the money was not an insult). He raised his hand slightly in a kind gesture of refusal, and then hastened: “You’re on your way to church, aren’t you, Sir?” I nodded—and this is the part that really got to me. “Then, Sir, give to the Lord what you just offered to me—with

my thanks!” I swallowed hard, and I thought: Despite the unsettling social situation in today’s world, there are good people everywhere—if only we would allow ourselves to see beyond our own narrow circle of existence (emphasis added). This man was of another race, but a kind person indeed, who saw beyond himself and helped an older gentleman in distress, without expecting anything in return—and not seeing color or ethnicity. How thoroughly encouraging! I drove to church that Sunday morning with a song: “There’s within my heart a melody,…” Arriving at church, safe and sound (however overused the expression may be), I promptly went to where the collection plates were holding their station, put the money into one of them, paused for a few minutes, and offered a prayer for that kind man who helped someone he did not even know. For me, that was (and still is) the epitome of neighborliness. Then there is the question, “…And who is my neighbour?” (Luke 10:29). The Lord gave me the answer that day.

A graduate of East Carolina University, Greenville, NC, Tommy Manning served the Free Will Baptist Press as Editor of Literature/Managing Editor from 1967–1980 and earlier as Staff Artist. Born and reared in Ayden, he has been a lifelong Free Will Baptist, and a church organist since the age of 16, serving in this capacity at Bethany FWB Church, Ayden, Ayden, and for 12 years at Reedy Branch FWB Church until late 1980, when he moved to Texas to become Managing Editor and Director of Publications for a Christian-based private foundation in San Antonio, Texas—a position he held until his retirement in 2010. He serves currently as worship organist and lay speaker at Bellaire Baptist Church in San Antonio, and continues to write Christian-based essays, plays, articles, poems, short stories, and musicals.

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Contents

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Volume 133 • Number 3

Announcing

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ou are invited to read The Free Will Baptist monthly magazine on your computer, notebook, or telephone. You will find the magazine by going to The Press’ webpage at <www.fwbpress.com> and clicking on TFWB tab. This will take you to the magazine’s menu where you can click on the current issue and read the magazine on your computer. The pages turn just as if you are reading the printed edition. An advantage to reading TFWB online is that it is in full color—no more looking at the magazine in black-and-white. All the pictures, headlines, announcements, advertisements, and side bars are in color. If the print is too small to read comfortably, simply click on the page and it instantly enlarges for easier reading. The online edition makes a very nice presentation and you will be proud of your denomination’s magazine. The best advantage is there is no cost to read TFWB online edition. You also have access to the previous 12 issues by clicking on the “Previous Issues” tab. You have access to over 75 years of TFWB by choosing the “TFWB Archives @ Duke Divinity” tab. The Duke University Divinity School received a grant to record items of historical significance digitally and make them available on the internet. The Divinity School chose to include TFWB in those items. Clicking TFWB Archives tab gives you access to copies of

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For It Is Better to Give Than to Receive The Story of Gabby Renfrow By The Reverend Jamie Coats A pastor is afforded the opportunity to meet many people in his work for the Lord. Some are Christian and some are not. He gets to see people from every profession and every walk of life and some of the people he gets to meet are really Christ-like in all the ways of their life. In other words, these are the people who set examples for each of us to follow in our own day-to-day lives. These are also the people that seem to be harder and harder to find in the day that we live. I am so thankful to say there are a few of those left that still believe the words Jesus taught when He said, “do unto others as you would have others do unto you” (see Matthew 7:12 and Luke 6:31), “love your neighbor as yourself ” (see Matthew 19:19, 22:39; Mark 12:31, and Luke 10:36), and my favorite, “it is more blessed to give than to receive” (see Acts 20:35). I am blessed in my pastorate to have such a family in my church. More particularly, one very special young lady who has an ever-growing hunger for giving and, to top all this off, she is only six years old. This young lady’s name is Gabby Renfrow. I must let you know that Gabby has learned this by the example set before her by her parents, Ronald and Melissa Renfrow. Here is where the giving began: In 2014 Ronald wanted to donate a kidney to help a dear friend who was facing kidney failure. After the testing phase for the transplant, the two were not a match. In another area there were two other friends who wanted to do the very same thing. One friend desired to give his kidney to his buddy who was going through kidney failure. They were not a match either.

(I now must interject, watch the hand of God at work in this situation). It so happened that Ronald was a match for the other gentleman’s friend and the other gentleman was a match for Ronald’s friend and so they all came to the hospital on the same day, November 17, 2014 and the transplant surgeries were accomplished. God’s hands controlled it all. Soon after these surgeries Gabby began to express a desire to her mom and dad, wanting to give her piggy bank to help the children at Duke Children’s Hospital. They had made an impact on Gabby’s heart and she desired to follow the example she had seen her dad give, she desired to help those in need. Melissa said “She begin talking about giving her piggy bank when Ronald had his surgery and would not let it go. She talked about wanting to do this nearly every day. She was determined to give the piggy bank money to help those children at Duke.” After some consideration Ronald and Melissa decided to allow Gabby to give her life savings to the Duke Children’s Hospital. You must understand she had been saving this money her entire six years upon this earth. On January 20, 2015 Gabby gave $670 to the Duke Children’s Hospital to help children less fortunate than herself. With this great act of love for her neighbor, she fulfilled they law of Christ by putting into action what Jesus meant when He said to “love thy neighbor as thyself.” She also set the example article continued on page 40 5

Building to Withstand the Storms Matthew 7:21–24

By The Reverend James H. Gurganus On October of 1954, I was saved by the wonderful love, mercy, and grace of our heavenly Father through the shed blood of His precious Son, Jesus Christ, and I am Original Free Will Baptist by choice. Through the years, I—along with all of you— have seen many storms that have impacted the lives of many people. These storms have revealed much about the character of some building contractors. Some were very unscrupulous in their dealings—failing to build according to code; consequently, many homes and other buildings were destroyed. Jesus made a parallel application between storms and buildings near the end of His sermon in Matthew 7:21–24. He sought to encourage people to act upon His sayings, contrasting the differences between those who were hearers and doers, and those who were just hearers. I would like to consider three questions: 1. What do the “houses” represent? 2. What “storms” is Jesus talking about? 3. How can we “build” so as to be able to withstand the storms? 6

The houses represent our lives. Each of us is building a life. Have you ever heard anyone tell a non-believer that if they would just trust Jesus as their Savior everything would be ok? That is not a good thing to tell them because, as we all know, Satan is still alive and active; he really starts to work on you at that point. What we can tell them is that it will be a life that will respond to the many ups and downs (storms) that come our way We are building these lives upon a foundation. That foundation is whatever teaching, doctrine, or philosophy to which we subscribe. It may be a philosophy or doctrine adopted from others or developed ourselves. In our case it is the Original Free Will Baptist. I am looking forward to one day meeting John Smyth, John Murton, Thomas Helwys, Paul Palmer, and many other of our great leaders of the past. We cannot escape the fact that we are “builders.” The question is whether we will be wise builders or foolish builders. The tests that will determine that are called “storms.”

This may involve literal storms—storms that may destroy our homes, our churches, or even our family and friends. How we respond to such tragedies will reveal the quality of our “building.” Will we be emotionally devastated? Will we be able to stand strong, willing to continue on without despair? It may also involve figurative storms—illness, loss of loved ones, financial setbacks that take away our health, family, or possessions. Adversity, changes that weaken our structure, slothfulness, lack of commitment and dedication to God, to His written Word, to His Living Word Jesus Christ, to our Covenant, to our Articles of Faith and Principles of Government. In the last three decades we have experienced some storms that have really hurt, and one of those storms is still in existence. The storm of the lack of commitment and dedication has taken its toll. Years ago I was chairman of the Digest Committee of the Eastern Conference. At that time we had 83 Churches in the Conference. Today we have 69 or 70. I have said many times that we must be doing something right because Satan is trying to destroy us. There is a great lack of commitment and dedication on the part of some of our churches, some of our pastors, and some of our members to God, our Covenant and Articles of Faith. When joining an Original Free Will Baptist church, we are required to accept and abide by the Covenant. Read it; many are not doing it today. We are welcoming people in from other denominations and allowing them to change our churches; note the numbers above that have been lost. Now don’t get me wrong, I am not against any other Christian denomination and I will not condemn or criticize them for the differences in doctrines, and I do not want to hear anyone else do so, but I am Original Free Will Baptist and have been for over 60 years. I would never go into a church of another denomination and try to change it into OFWB. Likewise, I have never heard of an OFWB minister doing that. I would like to share with you a portion of our AOF from the second paragraph on calling a pastor: “The church shall call its own pastor, from the duly ordained OFWB ministers who are approved by the Conference of which the church is a member.” It does not say you should, it says “you shall.” Most of the Churches I mentioned earlier were lost because of not following our AOF. We have lost three in Carteret County alone, and we almost lost two more. How we respond to such actions will reveal the quality of our “building.” We must stand strong and continue on without despair.

body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad. Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men; but we are made manifest unto God; and I trust also are made manifest in your consciences.” At that time the Lord is going to describe the kind of “builder” we have been. It will be either the “good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21), or the “wicked and slothful servant” (Matthew 25:26). The longer we live, the more “storms” we are likely to face. So, how can we be sure to build our lives (buildings) so as to withstand them? By obeying Jesus—Being a hearer only is not sufficient. This is building on a foundation that will not stand the test of the “storms.” Matthew 7:26–27 says, “And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.” James 1:22 tells us to be, “…doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.” Like the unscrupulous contractors, the “storms” will reveal the true quality of our “building.” Those who “do” what Jesus said will be the ones to withstand the “storms.” Their lives are built on the Solid Rock, our Lord Jesus Christ. Now, let us take a look at how the sayings of Jesus help us to withstand the “storms.” His sayings provide the basis for a solid foundation on which to build: • a life that will avoid being misled by false prophets and teachers, • a life that will stay on the straight and narrow way that leads to life eternal, • a life that will fulfill the Law and the Prophets, • a life that will receive the good gifts God desires to give His children, • a life that will not be judged by some inconsistent standard, • a life with the necessities of life provided, • a life that is free from materialism and anxiety, • a life with treasure that cannot rust or be stolen, and • a life with acts of righteousness well pleasing to God. This is the life that can truly withstand all kinds of “storms.” Just as Jesus is the rock-solid foundation of the Church, we must let Him be the Rock solid foundation of our lives!

Then there is the final “storm” of life—death and the final day of judgment. Hebrews 9:27 says, “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:” This will be the truest test of our “building.” Second Corinthians 5:10–11 says, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his 7

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Youth Are Baptized

— Brooke’s Point, Palawan, Philippines — BY Liela Dagot

On a beautiful December afternoon, we had the joy of seeing eight young people give themselves to water baptism. The waves were high that day, but it did not hinder or dampen the desire of those being baptized. We are so thankful for the move of the Lord among our young people. There were members of the church who witnessed the baptism, officiated by the Rev. Alvin Dagot and assisted by Pastor Arnold Dagot. After the ceremony, they held hands and prayed together, thanking God for what He has done for them. We give honor and glory to the Lord Jesus, who blessed us with this successful ceremony.

Mission Conference — Palawan, Philippines — BY Merly A. Taladro

In October 2014, a Mission Conference was held at the Puerto Princesa FWB Church, with pastors and delegates from the three districts in attendance. The first night was a time of fellowship. Everyone was happy to meet those from different areas. During the first day of the conference, reports were given on the status of the ministry in each district. The Rev. Andrino Segay discussed revitalizing the mission of Christ. The conference was greatly blessed to see four young men receive their licenses to enter the Gospel Ministry, and one was ordained. The conference concluded with a challenging message by the Rev. Mark Taladro on “The Road Map to Church Management.” Please pray that everyone will accept the challenges they received during the conference and move out in the power of the Holy Spirit to bring glory to God.

To Serve the Least of These — Bulgaria —

BY TEZDJAN MURTAZOVA

“And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me” (Matthew 25:40) By definition, the body of Christ is all-inclusive. Yet, can we fully believe that God uses children with disabilities? Perhaps God does this in ways to show us our deep needs and gives us opportunities to serve “the least of these,” and therefore to serve Christ Himself. We usually meet the disabled children in the summer. Weather is good, and they are happy to be out of the houses and meet with other children. This Christmas, the weather was cold and roads were slippery. However, we decided to meet in a local

coffee shop, to celebrate the birth of our Savior. Some managed to come from the nearby villages, while others had to take the city bus. The shop owner gave each child a red hat and they enjoyed it. These children of God do not receive special education services, like in most EU countries. Actually, most of them do not even go to school. Parents have the duty to teach them reading and writing, in between hospitalizations. Some of these kids need a surgery every year, or every two years. Christ teaches us to carry one another’s burdens. We are thankful to our OFWB Denomination for being able to “serve the least of these.” May God bless all the mission fields of our Church and may the Holy Spirit guide us all.

The Gratitude List Years ago I read a tip for our moments of depressed spirits: Make a list of five brief items, every night, for which I have reason to be grateful for that day. Later on, I read of making a longer list, of up to ten items, in the morning, a task that would start the day off right. When we are in a low point, and all of us have them, it may be hard to find five or ten items a day for which we are grateful. Our minds and spirits may be so downtrodden that we don’t even think that we have much at all to thank God for. But we do. When a bad mood takes away our gratitude for God’s gifts to us, we need to redouble our efforts to take control of our thought processes. There are always abundant reasons to be grateful for any day, however many challenges have confronted us recently. The fact that we are not practicing gratitude may indeed be why we find little to feel happy about. We are sabotaging our own selves by an impatient and arrogant heart. We can’t find God’s Presence within if we question His goodness. He won’t mind our doubts, but we will. We will think that life is bad, and is going to get worse, and the very fact of anticipating this sets up a self-fulfilling prophecy, a feature of current day psychology if not religion. We need to get our innermost being back in line with divine providence. We need to learn, again, how to thank God for the little things. And those things may not be so little, but we are just blind to our good fortune. It has been often said that we will later on thank God for not giving us our heart’s desire. We will see His denial as the best thing that ever happened to us. Most of us who have lived a few years will be able to think of at least one instance when what we prayed for never materialized, and now we can only say, “Thank You, God!” We

would have dashed our foot against a stone if we had followed on that path for very long. He closed a door that He might, farther down the hallway, provide an open window. And now, years later, we know that His Way for us is best. He protected us from what would surely have been heartbreak. Sometimes the change in direction is a desire to develop other aspects of our personality, aspects that would have lain dormant unless we had been denied what we thought we wanted at the time. I had prepared to teach college English, but I had just a M. A., and a Ph.D. was necessary for tenure. So I went back to school and became a librarian. Teaching is largely a solitary occupation, just one teacher with classrooms of students, listening. I would have gone it alone in that profession. But librarianship, as practiced in college libraries, is a cooperative venture. Task forces are common; this is committee work that allows cooperation to bring forth the next direction for the library and library activities. I was shy and retiring when young, and this type of effacing personality cried for a chance to be transformed. In librarianship, I found that I developed a few skills over the years that allowed me to contribute without pain in social settings, in committee work. This brought me out of myself in a way that college teaching never would have done. God knows what facets of our personalities need honing, and He guides us to the experiences that will teach us what He would have us learn. Life is not a spectator sport; we are in this together, ready and willing, it is hoped, to contribute to the common good.

If we don’t have the talents developed that He would wish, He will open a way for those talents to come into their own. He will see that we round out our personalities to make the biggest contributions in this world of which we are capable. I would not have long been happy in college teaching. Just preparing lectures and grading papers would not have held my interest, and it most certainly would not have turned me into a more extroverted person. But librarianship did both, I think, a gift from God that I didn’t have enough sense to appreciate at the time. Librarianship turned me into reaching out to others, not turning back in on myself. It wasn’t just the task forces, the committee work, it was also the constant bombardment at the reference desk of questions to which I had to find answers. One right after the other. There wasn’t time to be solitary; it was a very gregarious environment. Just what a self-effacing woman needed. And God knew that all along. Now, when I write my gratitude list, looking back on my profession of librarianship as the right choice is frequently featured. If you are going through a dark period, first know that this is temporary, but write that gratitude list, focusing on what has gone right in your life—what God saved you from that would have been all wrong. And say a little prayer that the clouds will lift. A repetitive, daily listing of gratitude is a powerful changer to circumstances. And it may put you on the path that God wanted for you all along.

A former religion librarian at the University of Minnesota in Minneapolis, Celia now lives with her husband Paul in Oxford, Mississippi. She was previously employed at both the Free Will Baptist Press and Mount Olive College (now known as the University of Mout Olive). 11

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fter all the great meals, wonderful visitors, and Advent Services during December, January has been at a slower pace in the area of Church Ministry. First and foremost, we had to focus on school and upcoming exams. Our kids did well; there were many “Praise” reports over the past couple of weeks for passing certain classes. One young man moved from eighth to ninth grade; he was thrilled. We have one young lady who is taking all honors classes; she made almost all A’s (one B slipped in). Another young lady in high school made all A’s. We had another young lady who finished high school at Tar River Academy during January. This is exciting as she has begun taking a college class and making summer plans for a full load. She made all these accomplishments while working a part-time job. Our Learning Center and tutoring has also made a big difference with our kids. We are extending our tutoring even more; our kids will have three days of extra tutoring starting shortly. Ms. Ginny is doing a great job with our new kids who do not have all the paperwork to enter the public school.

Save the Date—Plan to Come

Third Annual 5K Run/Walk

Free Will Baptist Children’s Home Saturday, April 25

Be on the lookout for the little blue bags. Yes, it is almost time for our annual Change for Children Campaign. You should be hearing something later this month. Some of you are so creative, we cannot wait to see what ideas you have this year for filling your bags, jars, cans, swimming pool! Think Big! 12

We did have several churches to visit with us during January. A group from Blended Fellowship came the first Wednesday night in January, the ladies did a special spa night with the girls in Heritage Hall, and the men held a game night with our guys in the Learning Center. After devotion, our kids enjoyed the extra attention and a much needed break as they were trying to get acclimated back into the classroom.

Something new for our boys was an opportunity to play basketball in an area church league. On Saturday, January 31, they played at home in Whitley Center. Other residents and staff rallied with pom-poms and loud voices to cheer our team to victory.

On the last Sunday night in January, we were honored to have the youth from Marsh Swamp Church to come join us for worship. Ms. Kat and some of the “Swamp” kids led the music while Mr. Andrew played the guitar. He and Ms. Lisa (pianist for The Home) played a duet and Pastor David Currie gave the message on “Anger.” The youth brought lots of food and after the service everyone headed over to Heritage Hall for food and fellowship. All the kids enjoyed meeting and getting to know each other; making new friends.

Super Bowl Sunday was a little different this year. Church was moved up an hour; the message was about “timing” comparing some football plays with some of “God’s” plays in the game of life. We finished in time for the kids to get back to their cottage to watch the Kick-off. Every Cottage had their own party going on; it was great to move around from cottage to cottage and see the excitement about their food and—oh yes—the game. I asked the kids to write for me what they thought the final score would be. Surprisingly enough, some of the girls were almost on target. Our Church Outreach Committee made up of students and staff met to review plans for the next few months. We have had a student to volunteer to work with the choir at church and two staff who have volunteered to work with Sunday School. We are planning to team with the Learning Center for an “All Campus Read” using the book Tuesday’s with Morrie. They are also supporting the drive to collect shoes for Blended Fellowship. We are additionally discussing some “Destination Mini Retreats” over the next few months as well as visits to local nursing facilities. Some of our cottages have already begun to make Valentine cards to take when they visit. As I finish writing this article, we are gearing up for many varied activities: Valentine parties, a visit by the Psychology Club

from the University of Mount Olive; a visit from a service club at North Johnston High School; a party given by the Wilson Optimist Club; some special worship services with Pastor Eric Narron and the youth from Union Chapel, speaker Jason Bordeau from Blended Fellowship, and drummer/keyboard player Demetris McCray from Wilson; a girls only night; and more basketball games. Thank you for helping us provide these experiences. Romans 12:1–2 “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” These two verses say a lot about what we are trying to do each and every day with our children. We want them to know WHO they are, WHOSE they are, and the Christian expectations for every area of their lives.

Thank you for caring and sharing with us, Dianne B. Riley

Director of Church Ministry 13

More Than a Victim One of my absolute favorite television shows is Law & Order: SVU. It premiered in 1999 and is still going strong. If you are unfamiliar with the program, it follows several detectives who work in the sex crimes unit of the NYPD; within sex crimes they deal with sexual assault, rape, and molestation on all levels and throughout all ages. From research I have found that many people who have been victims of sexual assault love this show as well because the actors so accurately depict the way a real sex crime investigation is done. I for one am glad this show has lasted so long, and I hope it continues to last. And though there are aspects of the show I don’t endorse or condone, it still speaks volumes to people about the truth of sexual assault. We live in a world where people are always throwing out comments about sexual assault victims such as, “she was asking for it because she dressed so provocatively,” or “there is no way ‘so-andso’ would ever do that to a child, that child is just making things up!” Let me be clear; we live in a sinful, sin-infested world. But let me be even clearer; we should be a loving, concerned, and caring church. We should be willing to listen to what

someone who is claiming sexual assault is saying. We should be willing to encourage them to seek counsel and find the resolve they need to live a peaceful unafraid life. The Bible tells us in Isaiah 1:17 to take care of the victims, then again in Micah 6:8 we are called to walk in justice, love, mercy, and humility. People who are victims of sexual assault can find rest and ease in the loving embrace of Christ Jesus. According to Psalm 9:9 there is refuge from hard times found in the Lord. Victims of sexual assault are suffering hard times. They have been violated and stripped of their dignity. They need the Lord. Who better to show them Him than His children and His bride? All of Scripture resonates the cries of the oppressed and the victims, but more than that it resonates the mighty love and power of Christ Jesus, our Lord and Savior. And through Christ we are transformed from victims to victors! Actually, we are transformed into more than victors— Romans 8:37 says we are “more than conquers” because of Christ. Through Christ Jesus the victim of a foul, heinous sex crime can become more than what their offender has done to them. Through Christ Jesus they can

rise above the stigma of sexual assault. Through Christ Jesus they can and will become more than a victor, more than a conqueror, even. Through Christ Jesus they can be sanctified. They can be set apart for His glory and for His kingdom. Once upon a time I wanted to be social worker. I was accepted into the School of Social Work at East Carolina University and attended for a short time. Through this school of study I learned my passion was to help those who were victims overcome their circumstances. Now, I am a religion major studying to be a pastor. I feel like I am still in the same line of work, but this time I am helping victims realize they can overcome through the power and blood of Christ. Victims are more than conquerors. However, that does not leave to reason whether or not the offender should be charged and prosecuted, sexual offenders should be held responsible for what they have done. Won’t you help victims find their place in Christ? Won’t you live your sanctified life leading others to sanctification? Be a voice for the victims of sexual assault, help them find comfort in Christ.

Andrew Mozingo resides in Winterville, North Carolina and is employed with the Free Will Baptist Press. He is studying religion with a concentration on Christian Ministries as a student of Liberty University Online in Lynchburg, Virginia. After finishing his bachelor’s degree with LUO, he plans to attend Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary for further training. His aspirations are to become a youth pastor and eventually hold a full-time pastoral position. Andrew is engaged to Michaela Dixon of Kinston, North Carolina with a wedding date set for fall 2015.

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Cinderella Sisters’ Retreat On January 22, 2015, 14 ladies and one gentleman traveled to Cragmont for the Eleventh Annual Spiritual Life Retreat for the Ministers’ Wives and Widows. This year the retreat was opened up to include any woman in ministry. This would include any lady that holds any leadership office in the church or denomination. This might include Sunday School teachers, superintendents, clerks, deacons, greeters, ushers, and others. On our way we stopped at Farmer’s Market in Raleigh and enjoyed a delicious meal. Of course, we stopped later to fuel the bus and get ice cream. Mr. Stearle Pittman from First OFWB Church in Greenville drove the church’s bus for us. The church is to be congratulated for providing such a good ride and driver. When we arrived at Cragmont, we enjoyed a delicious meal prepared

by the staff. We saw the improvements being made at Cragmont and they are wonderful and long overdue. During the weekend, we used the Women’s Ministry package from Group entitled, Cafe Chocolat. We were treated to chocolate in every conceivable way. We had our time of meditation, feasting, and laughter. Our service project for the weekend was to make fleece wraps for the Retirement Homes’ clients. All 28 will receive a gift (compliments of the ladies). Of course, we did a little shopping while we were there. On Sunday morning before we left, we had a brief worship service on the revival within us. We received offerings for Velma’s Hearth and the Sunday School Ministry. Please enjoy some of the photos of the weekend (shown above). We encourage others to come and join us next year. 15

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University of Mount Olive

Sports Management Student Prepares for May Graduation Lindsey Tripp, a senior from Ayden, NC, the daughter of Bobby and Jean Tripp, is preparing to graduate from the University of Mount Olive in May. After spending the past few years juggling academics, athletics, and church, Tripp is excited to see what the future has in store. Tripp began her journey at UMO in the fall of 2011. She was initially drawn to the location and family-oriented atmosphere of the Mount Olive campus. “I originally chose to attend UMO because the campus is close to my home, is a smaller school, and is supported by my church, Bethany Free Will Baptist Church” (Pitt County), said Tripp. “All of these factors played a huge role in deciding that UMO was the right school. I simply fell in love with the smaller class sizes and the Christian values here at UMO.” Being able to attend a university that is associated with her church was a determining factor for Tripp. She loves the faith-based opportunities at the institution and continually participates in the Free Will Baptist events.

Tripp also decided to play on the UMO women’s basketball team. The positive team dynamic and abundance of athletic opportunities at UMO influenced Tripp to major in sports management and minor in coaching. “I think that I have learned so much about my field of study here at Mount Olive and have grown as a person on and off the court,” said Tripp. “The team atmosphere definitely made my college experience a memorable one.” Next August, Tripp is planning on attending graduate school at East Carolina University and pursue her MBA. “All my classes and professors have helped me gain a greater understanding of sports management and coaching. UMO helped me realize that graduate school is the right path for me. Particularly, my teammates, coaches, pastors, and professors have helped me grow as a scholar and as a person since they have always guided and helped me. I am so thankful for all of the support during my time at UMO.”

Campus Visitation Day On Monday, January 19, the University of Mount Olive hosted 86 high school students for our Campus Visitation Day. The students toured the campus, attended an academic fair, and enjoyed lunch together. Pictured are some of the Original Free Will Baptist students who attended. 16

From left to right: Bethany Rawls (Faith Church in Craven County), Jordyn Jackson (White Hill Church), Peyton Overbee (Tee’s Chapel Church), and Bailey Russ (Beaverdam Church).

Christina Parrish and Justin Parrish (Pine Level Church).

UMO/Cragmont Retreat An Invitation from Dr. John Blackwell Dean of the Chapel, University of Mount Olive Many years ago, I became astonished at the insights that Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John have into the way in which the power by which God raised Jesus from the dead moves in our lives. Since coming to the University of Mount Olive, I have discovered that there is great faith in the Original Free Will Baptist Church and great interest in the Bible. There is also wonderful opportunity for partnership—being in ministry together. Cragmont Assembly and the University of Mount Olive have strengthened our common ministry, and I would like to invite you to participate with us as we seek to understand the Gospels and the presence of the power of God. The week of March 17, Cragmont and UMO offer a conference entitled, “The Importance of the Gospels.” During the conference, we will explore the mystery that the Gospels embody. I would like to invite you to join us. To make this convenient for you, we will run back-to-back conferences. The first will take place March 17–19 (Tuesday through Thursday), and the second, March 20–22 (Friday through Sunday). We are offering two to make it as convenient as possible for people to participate. I would love to have you join us. I am thrilled that we have these opportunities for partnership in the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. I also respectfully ask that you hold us in prayer—both as we prepare and as we study and reflect together at Cragmont. The cost is $100 including lodging, meals and my most recent book, Origin of my Birthplace.

Here is the schedule for the retreat. Day 1 4:00 p.m. . . . . . . Opening Worship 5:30 p.m. . . . . . . . . . . . Dinner 7:00–8:30 p.m. . . Session One: Mark Day 2

8:00 a.m.. . . . . . . . . . Breakfast 9:00 a.m.. . . Session Two: Matthew Break Dialogue Noon. . . . . . . . . . . . . Lunch Afternoon Free 5:30 p.m. . . . . . . . . . . . Dinner 7:00–8:30 p.m. . . Session Three: Luke

Day 3 8:00 a.m.. . . . . . . . . . Breakfast 9:00 a.m.. . . . . Session Four: John 10:30 a.m.. . . . . . Closing Worship You may register by contacting

Hope McPherson Fields

at <hfields@umo.edu> or (919) 658-7714.

Coming Events Faculty Recital • March 12, 7:30 p.m. Hazel Waters Kornegay Assembly Hall • 207 Wooten Street Dr. Alan Armstrong and Dr. Franklin Gross combine forces for a faculty concert.

Literary Festival • March 18, 7:00 p.m. Southern Bank Auditorium Philip Gerard will be the featured author. Gerard is the author of Down the Wild Cape Fear. For more information, contact Lenard Moore at (919) 658-7846

Recital Series Featuring GQ Quartet • March 28, 7:30 p.m. Hazel Waters Kornegay Assembly Hall GQ (Girls’ Quartet) have been singing together since 2011. They have won numerous awards and recently completed their first album.

Free Spirit Spring Concert • April 9, 7:30 p.m. Hazel Waters Kornegay Assembly Hall Free Spirit, a mixed vocal ensemble at UMO, provides a quality mix of Contemporary Gospel, Southern Gospel, and a cappella Christian music 17

Educational Opportunities Admitted Student Day—April 11, 2014: High School seniors who are accepted and have paid their confirmation fees, are invited to attend this day to learn more about admissions, financial aid, scholarships, academic programs, and campus life. Students will also complete their fall 2015 class schedule. To be sure you are eligible to attend… • Complete the online application at <www.umo.edu> • Have your high school transcripts and SAT/ACT scores sent to: Admissions Office, University of Mount Olive, 634 Henderson Street, Mount Olive, NC 28365. • Pay confirmation fee: $50 for commuters; $100 for residential students • To register for this important day, go to <https://www.umo.edu/admit-student-form> or contact <admissions@ moc.edu> or call 800-653-0854. Other admitted student days are also scheduled. Choose the best date and get registered. Limit of two guests per student. Complete the FAFSA: All UMO students must complete the free application for federal student aid (FAFSA) each year in order to maximize the aid they can receive to offset the cost of attending The University. • It is best to complete your taxes for the calendar year 2014 before completing the FAFSA. The IRS data retrieval tool, which is a part of the FAFSA form, will enable you to use your tax information to complete many of the FAFSA questions. If you want to do the FAFSA prior to filing your taxes, please gather your W2s and other tax information before attempting to complete the FAFSA. • Go to <www.fafsa.aed.gov> to find the online form. Call UMO at (800) 653-0854 for assistance. Online programs at UMO: The University now offers several programs that are totally online, with 24/7 access: • Master of Business (MBA): admissions requirements can be reviewed at <http://www.moc.edu/programs-ofstudy/online/mba>. Contact Darrius Douglas, MBA online admissions representative at <ddouglas@umo.edu> for assistance. • RN to BSN: applicants who have completed their two year degree in nursing and are licensed nurses wishing to complete the bachelor degree in nursing online can contact Nina Ciric at <nciric@umo.edu> for more information. • Criminal Justice: applicants wishing to complete the criminal justice and criminology degree online can contact Joe Reynoso, admissions representative at <jreynoso@umo.edu> for more information. Adult students wishing to enroll in accelerated programs can pursue seated and online classes through the admissions offices located at Evening College in Mount Olive, Research Triangle Park (RTP), Wilmington, Jacksonville, New Bern, and Washington. To find out more, complete the information request form at the top of the page at <www. umo.edu> and select the location of your choice or call 844-UMO-GOAL to make an appointment. One-night-a-week on site classes and online courses are available. Programs include the associate degree in general studies, and bachelor degree programs with majors in business administration, MIS (online), accounting (online), human resources (online), healthcare administration, criminal justice (online), early childhood and religion. A new program in Leadership, which accommodates transfer of credit from various areas, is also available.

with Nora Koonce Avery

Dealing With a Weakness As I entered the city limits, I was bombarded with the signs from the many restaurants. From fast food to glamorous high-class eateries, the choices were limitless. There was only one problem: I was overweight and in dire need of shedding the excess pounds. As I fought the urge to eat the unhealthy food, the thought dawned on me that, as humans, we are inundated with temptation of every kind imaginable every minute of every day. This is one of the devil’s favorite lairs. He will not tempt us in areas where we have no problem controlling the urge. Rather, “…your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour” (1 Peter 5:8). He is thrilled when that armor of determination sustains a crack just wide enough for him to enter. It’s the little ways we are tempted which get looked over the most. We may think “just this one time won’t matter,” and it may not, depending on what that “one time” is. You may be able to eat a piece of candy and fit it into a healthy lifestyle, but what if your temptation is alcohol or pursuing a relationship with someone when you have a spouse waiting for you

at home. Giving in to temptation to cheat on your spouse just one time can have lasting consequences, and every alcoholic knows how easy it is to fall back into the pit of alcoholism with only one drink. Even eating that piece of candy can cause a major downfall if you are in the wrong frame of mind. Have you ever spent days on a strict eating plan and then you fell off the wagon and ate something not on your plan? I have. It is all too easy to think, “Well, I’ve done it now. I may as well finish out the day by eating what I want and then I’ll start over tomorrow.” All too often, though, tomorrow never comes and before long, because of that one slip up, we are right back where we started at the beginning of the “diet.” Paul spells it out for us in his letters to Corinth. “What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s” (1 Corinthians 6:19–20). It seems to me that a good benchmark for the way we should live is to glorify God with our

bodies. If we ask ourselves, every time we face temptation, this question: “Will what I am about to do be pleasing to God and be beneficial to my body?” Take it from me, this is one of hardest things to do because the flesh is weak. It is so easy to ignore our conscience (which, I think, is simply the Holy Spirit convicting us of wrongdoing). Then Satan kicks in with that oh, so enticing temptation. But God has a plan: “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it” (1 Corinthians 10:13). He knows we are tempted and he wants us to call on Him for help. We are given free will to make choices concerning our daily existence. We should start every day bringing before the Lord our weaknesses and asking for help in making good choices. But when we make bad ones, He is there to pick up the broken pieces of our lives and wipe the slate clean so we can try again. All we have to do is ask.

Nora grew up in Trenton, NC and now resides with her husband, Eddie, in Cove City, NC. They are members of Wintergreen OFWB Church, and she serves as the Woman’s Auxiliary Vice President. She and Eddie have two sons and three grandchildren. Nora enjoys photography and reading.

with David Morrow

Are You Ready for a Fight?

Conflict in families is inevitable; and conflict will either bring you closer together or slowly tear you apart. “Being ready” for a good fight is a proactive step that will help ensure that your conflict will bring you closer together. A good fight occurs when family members remain loving and respectful during the conversation so that they are able to work together as a team to solve the problem rather than using the problem as an excuse to verbally attack a family member. The first step to being ready for a good fight is to Crucify Yourself. The natural state of humanity is to always want your own way. Yet, Romans 6:6 tells us, “For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin” (niv). It is not that you should never get what you want, but you should have an attitude that is open to all possibilities. The only way to do that is to crucify yourself with Christ and yet live. Heed God’s Word is step two. Proverbs 10:17 tells us, “He who heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray” (niv). Discipline yourself to affirm that God’s Word has the answers to your problem, and embrace the truth therein. Do not lead your family astray by ignoring it. Step three is Resist Temptations. Verbally assaulting someone, using hurtful words, and using the silent treatment are examples of temptations that will impair your ability to have a good fight. First Corinthians 10:13 tells us, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man, and God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But, when you are tempted, he will always provide a way out so that you can stand up under it” (niv). God will help you avoid these if you have already crucified yourself and are open to the correction God’s Word gives. Step four involves Investigating God’s Way or the practical application of God’s Word. Jesus said, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well” (niv). Notice that you are investigating God’s Word before you even talk with your spouse or other family member. You

may need to talk to someone that can help you find the practical application for your particular problem. Step five is to Submit to Servant/Leadership. For many people the word “submit,” which is found in Ephesians 5:22, is a struggle. “Wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord” (niv) whereas husbands are told to “Love your wives just as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her” (niv). Many times conflicts are a power struggle. Husbands, when you think of your responsibility based on Ephesians 5:25, always keep Philippians 2:5–11 in mind as well. Even though God ordained you as the “head” (Ephesians 5:23) your job is to humble yourself and serve your wife with servant/leadership. Wives, as a marital partner of equal value, it is not your job to be anyone’s doormat. Rather, partner with your spouse with an attitude that allows you to work together to solve the problem that is invading the intimacy of your relationship. Step six is to Talk to Each Other. Ephesians 4:15 states, “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ” (niv). You are now ready to have the conversation that will involve respect for each other. When you successfully solve the problem, you will be closer to each other and the conflict will not have torn you apart. You might be wondering how you can remember all of that. Notice the first letter of each phrase: • C—rucify Yourself • H—eed God’s Word • R—esist Temptations • I—nvestigate God’s Way • S—ubmit to Servant/Leadership • T—alk to Each Other Conflict is inevitable in families. It will either bring you closer or tear you apart. If your conflict remains, seek some guidance from a trusted pastor, counselor, or friend; but always be prepared to have a “good fight.”

David Morrow is a graduate of Campbell University and Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He earned a Master’s of Divinity in pastoral counseling. His is a licensed marriage and family therapist and also an ordained minister. He has 23 years of experience in the mental health field and works for CareNet Counseling East. His offices are located in Greenville, and Kinston, North Carolina. In his spare time, he enjoys playing music, spending time with his family, and playing golf. 21

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Cragmont Assembly

What’s Happening at Cragmont? Excitement rules at Cragmont as winter warms into spring. Something wonderfully different is popping up all around us. Phase Two of the Velma’s Hearth project continues to bring the excitement of “NEW” within the walls of our dining hall. This building was constructed in 1973. During the last few months it has experienced some wonderful changes beginning with the enclosed front porch that has become our “scullery,” to the new tile that covers the walls in our “old” bathrooms, to the beautiful new interior of the dining room. All the work and changes are magnificent and a source of endless excitement. Everyone seems to be feeling their own special thrill as something is completed or added. The scullery has a new three-compartment sink and a mop sink that fits the health codes. Daniel claims you can go for a swim in the huge sink and the contractor has offered to install a swivel stool in the middle sink so Becky Jo can turn from one sink compartment to the other because she is so short. Arlinda feels her own special thrill over the new cabinets and walls in the dining room. All The “NEW” has the staff eagerly anticipating putting it

to use serving Cragmont’s guests in the near future. The “cooks” still have their fingers crossed for enough funds for a convection oven and John is, of course, still dreaming of a new hood to cover the entire cooking area. The excitement didn’t end in the “inside.” We had a performance to rival any high wire circus act when Joe and his “tree cutting team” came to remove three dead trees from behind the dining hall. As the winter breeze swayed the treetops, an audience gathered at the dining room windows to watch Joe climb. Swaying with the wind he topped the trees. With his partners firmly planted below they slowly lowered each branch to the ground. It was a show worthy of a pricey ticket but it all came free through the generosity of Joe’s team. The excitement stretched to the laundry room with the arrival of new blankets for the dorms and the south end of the first floor in the main building. Lorraine and Daniel both got “bargain fever” and found some good deals on blankets. Any funds to help replace the money spent on these blankets will be appreciated.

Last but not least, there was excitement over our visitors. The Cinderella Sisters came for a “chocolate” weekend. Brenda had the rich smell of chocolate filling every corner of the kitchen as she prepared chocolate covered cherry cake, chocolate covered peanut butter balls, chocolate fudge, hot fudge cake, brownies, and more. A group from Black Jack Church came for an exciting weekend and used the basement for their meeting room. They found it equipped with a full size fridge, microwave, coffee maker, and much more. In March, Cragmont will open its doors to more visitors. On March 17–19 and on March 20–22 there will be a joint venture sponsored by the University of Mount Olive and Cragmont. John N. Blackwell, Ph.D., will teach a study of the “The Importance of the Gospels.” The worship leader for the event will be the Reverend John Williams. Attendees in past years to the Pastor-Deacon’s Retreat and all other interested “learners” are encouraged to attend this exciting retreat. Contact Hope McPherson Fields at <hfields@umo.edu> or (919) 658-7714 for information and reservations. And then, Morning Star Woman’s Retreat arrives the weekend after Easter. We were also excited with the response of several Woman’s Auxiliaries to the challenge to sponsor a “Meet at the Table” event for Velma’s Hearth. The following auxiliaries presented checks to Cragmont for this project: Daniel’s Chapel. . . . . . . . . . $458 Core Creek. . . . . . . . . . . . . $250 Lydia Circle of Free Union. . . . $500 Pleasant Hill . . . . . . . . . . . . $200 Hopewell . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,620 If your auxiliary had a “Meet at the Table” event and you are not listed here please call Becky Jo Sumner at (252) 209-6202 and this omission will be corrected.

2015 Cragmont Summer Schedule Morning Star (April 10–12) Joan Little • 7063 Stantonburg Road • Farmville, NC 27828 (252) 753-3217 • jlittle@nc.rr.com Ministerial Association of OFWB (May 31–June 4) Josh Whitfield • 1079 Beaver Creek Road • Deep Run, NC 28525 (252) 286-3014 • deeprunpastor@gmail.com Dayspring Retreat (June 10–13) Joan Little • 7063 Stantonburg Road • Farmville, NC 27828 (252) 753-3217 • jlittle@nc.rr.com Christian Cadet Conference (June 15–20) Joey Williams • 139 Windyfield Drive • Goldsboro, NC 27534 (919) 734-9080 • jwilliams@stoneycreekchurch.net Cragmont Youth Conference (June 22–27) Angela Mattox • 1469 Wintergreen Road • Cove City, NC 28523 (252) 671-7176 • cragmontyouthconference@gmail.com Youth Frontier Conference (YFA/AFC) (June 29–July 3) Frankie Baggett • 5403 Weyerhaeuser Road • Ayden, NC 28513 (252) 746-7850 • frankiebaggett@embarqmail.com Pee Dee Youth Conference (July 6–11) Heath Connor • 727 Mount Olive Road • Bladenboro, NC 28320 (910) 740-4454 • heathkellieconner@yahoo.com General Youth II Conference (July 13–18) Brad Williamson—Director: (252) 244-0207 Wilma Parker—Registrar: (252) 522-0967 P. O. Box 6423 • Kinston, NC 28501 wilmaparker@embarqmail.com General Youth I Conference (July 22–25) John Hill, David Currie, Todd Sutton—Directors Todd Sutton—Registrar: (252) 747-7567 6801 NC Hwy 222 E • Stantonsburg, NC 27883 toddsutton1@gmail.com Young People’s Bible Conference (July 27–31) Chuck Owens • 218 Wildwood Road • Havelock, NC 28532 (252) 733-9031 • copo22@nc.rr.com Cornerstone Woman’s Conference (August 2–7) Joan Little • 7063 Stantonburg Road • Farmville, NC 27828 (252) 753-3217 • jlittle@nc.rr.com Emmanuel Woman’s Mini-Conference (September 11–13) Joan Little • 7063 Stantonburg Road • Farmville, NC 27828 (252) 753-3217 • jlittle@nc.rr.com

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Home Missions & Evangelism

The Annual Convention of Original Free Will Baptists will be here before we know it! This year it is the privilege of Home Missions and Evangelism to host the Missions Rally on Wednesday, May 20, 2015.As always,we encourage your support, financially and with your presence. This year, as a part of Home Missions and Evangelism’s Intersections Initiative, we want to challenge each church to bring unchurched individuals to the Missions Rally. More information will be available through TFWB, Convention e-mails, and direct mail. ________________________

You may go to www.homemissionsandevangelism.com to become a member of

Home Missions and Evangelism seeks your prayers. In Luke 10:2, the words of Jesus say, “…The harvest truly is great, but the labourers are few: pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he would send forth labourers into his harvest.” Every day at 10:02, will you commit to pray with us for labourers to work the harvest?

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But he answered and said, I am not sent but unto the lost sheep of the house of Israel (Matthew 15:24).

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A deeper look inside this month’s lessons from the OFWB Foundation Curriculum and commentaries based on the International Sunday School Lessons.

The topic for the third quarter Sunday School lessons is “The Spirit Comes.” In the Gospel of John, from where the first four lessons come, Jesus refers to the Holy Spirit as Paraclete. The Greek word parakletos is translated in the NRSV as “advocate” and in the KJV as “comforter” (in 17th century English to comfort meant to help, console, and strengthen). Literally, the word means mediator, helper, or intercessor; it is one who is called to stand beside another. Jesus promised the apostles that when he is no longer physically present He would send the Holy Spirit, the Paraclete, to be at their side. The Paraclete will enlighten them on the truths that Jesus had taught but which they could not comprehend at the time (John 16:12–13). He will glorify Jesus (16:14–15), and He will always be with them (14:15–16). There is much speculation and misinformation about who the Holy Spirit is and what He does. Jesus has more to say about the Holy Spirit in the Gospel of John than in the other Gospels. In these lessons, we will dig deeper for a better understanding of what Jesus had to say. Then, in Units 2 and 3, we will explore specific ways that the Holy Spirit works in us individually and as a community of believers.

The first lesson (John 1:29–34) takes us to the beginning of Jesus’ public ministry and the testimony of John the Baptist. The Baptist says that he became aware that Jesus “is the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world” (1:29) when Jesus was baptized. He furthermore states that it was through baptism that Jesus was “revealed to Israel” (1:31). When Jesus was baptized, John states, he saw the Holy Spirit descend upon Him. The implication is that the Holy Spirit was present with Jesus throughout his public ministry in all that He said and did, through Gethsemane, the cross, the tomb, and the Ascension. When we are baptized our new identity is revealed to the entire world, and the Holy Spirit remains with us as long as we are obedient to Christ. Lessons 2 and 3 take us to chapters 14 and 16, the section in John where Jesus speaks most about the Holy Spirit. The fact that Jesus refers to Him as the Paraclete reveals much. In Lesson 4 we skip to John 20. The resurrected Jesus appears to the disciples, breathes on them, and tells them to receive the Holy Spirit. This recalls Genesis 2:7, the creation of mankind, and Ezekiel 37:9–14, the resuscitation of Israel. This is how John explains what happened on the Day of Pentecost. Acts 2 gives another

with Adrian Grubbs

perspective—the Holy Spirit descended as a mighty wind and reached out as tongues of fire to touch each disciple. Lesson 5 falls back in time to Palm Sunday in Mark 11. At first this may appear to be a deviation from our theme, since the Holy Spirit is not mentioned in the text. But keep in mind that the Holy Spirit remained on Jesus throughout the time of His ministry, and even here the Spirit is working: leading Jesus to Jerusalem, selecting the young donkey, and moving the crowd to take action. Even though the crowds are misguided in their motives and what they expect of Jesus, their actions and words are prophetically profound. They think Jesus will liberate Israel from the yoke of Rome, but His mission is not so mundane; His mission is cosmic, not about local politics. “Hosanna!” means “please save us!” (Psalms 118:9). And the entire scene recalls Zechariah 9:9. In some ways the Holy Spirit is mysterious and intriguing, opening the way to wild schemes and speculation. But let’s keep it simple. As Paraclete, the Holy Spirit is a constant companion to the committed followers of Christ and is always at their side.

H. Adrian Grubbs, Jr., was born in Dade City, Florida, to the Rev. Herman A. and Lillian Kinard Grubbs. The family moved to Mount Olive, NC, in 1959. Adrian was ordained in the Eastern Conference in 1963 and has served eight churches. After a 30-year pastorate at Deep Run OFWB Church he retired in 2007 because of vocal problems. Grubbs has served the denomination as President of the Sunday School Convention, Moderator of the Eastern Conference, member of the Eastern Conference Ministerial Examining Board, and is currently on the Mount Olive College Board of Trustees. Adrian and Jo Ann have one son, two daughters, and six grandchildren. 26

Thoughts on a New Friendship Over the past few years, I’ve gotten to know a young man who has a strong dislike for the Church. He tells me this often. It seems that he rather enjoys discussing his issues with the Christian faith, particularly upon learning that I’m ordained and teach courses on the subject (Clergy folk will understand this dynamic all too well). Discovering this seemed to open a conversational door for him to ask his questions and air his grievances— whether or not I’m in the mood to discuss these things. With a sense of nostalgia, he often refers to a period earlier in his life when he came to leave the local congregation in which he was raised. His parents, of whom he speaks fondly, were very devout, encouraging their family to attend services every week. However, there was an incident in the congregation during the young man’s teenage years which led his father and the rest of his family to stop attending. The nature of the incident that occurred—which does not need to be retold here—not only caused them to leave that particular congregation, but it also undermined the family’s faith. They walked away from both the Church and their previously held convictions about God. It sounds as though they haven’t since looked back.

I think often about this young man and our slowly emerging friendship. His questions and chiding comments about the Church don’t bother me. Many, many people have been hurt, dismissed, or silenced by a particular congregation and/or the wider Church. Of course, the Church is as susceptible to dehumanizing behavior as much as any other gathering of human beings in a fallen world. His concerns don’t put me on the defensive. For that matter, I have concerns of my own. As much pleasure as this young man gets from poking holes in the theoretical underpinnings of Christian life, it truly doesn’t seem like these conversations come from a place of antagonism. He’s sincerely looking to engage in discussion. But he wants it to be clear that he’s not looking to be a Christian once more. He also wants it to be clear that I can’t slip him any easy or cliché answers to his questions. He wants his intelligence and experiences to be respected. While I don’t find his criticisms of the Church to be surprising, I’ve found that I am struck by the fact that this young man insists on talking about these matters. One would think that he would have no interest in revisiting something that he no longer appreciates. However, as the author Elie

Wiesel has written, “The opposite of love isn’t hate; it’s indifference.” Interestingly, this young man is certainly not indifferent or apathetic about matters concerning the Church. Though he has indeed walked away from the Church and isn’t actively trying to cultivate a life of faith, he’s still gripped by something—some concern that is larger than him—some fascination that draws him to these ideas. He’s searching for something—perhaps something to replace the fractured community and worldview that once offered him a sense of security and wholeness. I don’t know that the Church can be a place where he will find those things in the immediate future. But I am beginning to think that the thing to do in response is to listen and to be his friend. This is not to treat him as a mission project. This is not to befriend him only with the intention of adding his number to our pews. But, rather, it is to let him be. To let him rest with his lamentation, as Job wished to be spared the trite responses of his friends. It is to let him know he isn’t alone in feeling this way. It’s to let him know that our friendship (and I would also argue the love of God) doesn’t depend upon us coming to the same opinion on these things. May it be so.

Marc Boswell is from Saratoga, NC, where he grew up as a member of Spring Branch OFWB Church. He is ordained in the Central Conference and currently lives in Richmond, VA, where he is working toward the completion of a Ph.D. in the fields of Theology and American Religious History at Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary.

The Bible speaks to us, but the Psalms speak for us. Psalm 19:8 says, “…the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.” God can put an idea in your mind that changes the direction of your life. Marconi had an idea from which came the radio. Bell had an idea from which came the telephone. God, who is the creator, gives creative ideas to people all the time. But you must act on them or He will give them to someone else. The fact that you believe in God is wonderful, but here is something equally wonderful: that God believes in you (emphasis added). He gives creative ideas to seeking hearts, prepared hearts, faith-filled hearts, and obedient hearts. Keep focus on the Lord and be open to new ideas and new ways of doing things. Let life be an adventure and your walk with the Lord have passion. Do not let the stresses of the day steal your Psalm. Linda Herring is married to Vernon Herring. They have two children, Amy and Vernon and three grandchildren, Jenna, Jared, and Noah. Linda is an active member of the White Oak Grove OFWB Church in LaGrange, NC. Linda leads a Bible study group, Circle of Friends. She has been a drama director of two dramas that she wrote, They Called His Name Jesus and The Book of Ruth. She is a resource for the OFWB Woman’s Auxiliary. Her outreach ministry includes this column in TFWB, a radio broadcast by the same name (aired on WAGO 88.7 FM), and a weekly devotional article for the La Grange Weekly Gazette and The Sampson Weekly. She also has a devotion book printed by the Mount Olive College Press.

• Hickory Chapel Church in Ahoskie, NC, is seeking a full-time pastor. For more information, contact Sandy White by phone at (252) 395-1025 or by e-mail at <bands1@centurylink.net>. You may send résumés to: Hickory Chapel Church, Attn: Sandy White, 531 NC 561 W, Ahoskie, NC 27910 • Ordained Minister (38 years experience) is seeking opportunities to serve. Will fill in for vacations, sickness, interim, or pastoral. Available after May 1. Please contact: Braxton Carter (919) 553-7246 [H] or (919) 8685923 [M] or at <preacherbrack@aol.com>.

Get the Facts on Separation of Church and State March 23, 2015

The Cape Fear Conference Minister’s Association will sponsor a discussion of the historical beliefs and practices of our Baptist heritage in relation to separation of the church and the state. In light of recent legal cases this is a vitally important issue facing Original Free Will Baptists. The discussion will be led by Dr. Lydia Hoyle, Ph.D., an Associate Professor of Church History and Baptist Heritage at Campbell University Divinity School in Buies Creek, North Carolina. Dr. Hoyle came to Campbell after serving as Associate Professor of Church History at Georgetown College for 12 years. Dr. Hoyle is a native of Drexel, North Carolina. She is a graduate of Appalachian State University (B.A.), Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary (M.Div.), and the University of North Carolina (M.A. and Ph.D.) This timely discussion will be held on Monday, March 23, 2015 at 10:00 a.m. in the sanctuary of Smithfield First OFWB Church, 529 South Third Street, Smithfield, NC 27577. Everyone is invited and encouraged to attend.

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1. Small Group Studies—How to organize and conduct a small group study in your church. What are the pros and cons of this method of study? What subjects are available? Where do I get resources? How long does a weekly session last? How do I keep the group together after the initial study is complete? (Brad Williamson) 2. Developing a Youth Activities Center—Creating a place and a purpose for our youth. (Ronnie and Josh Hobgood) 3. Revolving Worship—How to have an effective blended worship experience. It’s not just about music. (Doug and Melanie Seymour) 4. How to Inspire and Motivate the 30 to 50 Age Group—Kids have camp, music, and more. Seniors have socials, trips, and fellowship. What are we providing for the in-betweeners? (Rick Warren and John Hill) 5. The Basics of Successful Church Music Ministry in the Small Church Setting. (Vernie Fountain) 6. Innovative Preaching—Ministers have different mannerisms and styles in the pulpit. This workshop will help you enhance your delivery. Also discussed will be some do’s and don’ts for Sunday Morning. (David Hines) 7. Stabilizing the Church—A declining church cannot reverse course until it first determines the cause of the struggle, and then works to level out. Once everyone understands the issues and seeks to actively and positively resolve them, then the slow process of sustainable growth can be realized. (Barry Stallings) 8. The Healthy Church—It’s all about Attitude! (Gary Bailey) 9 Changing Times for Changing Worship—Is Sunday at 11:00 a.m. locked in stone? This workshop highlights different worship/study activities that can be conducted at unusual times. (De Eakes and Marci Rollins-Smart) 10. Community Involvement—Getting your church outside its walls will do more for the people within its walls…not to mention blessing the community you serve. (Al Warrick and Charles Renfrow) 11. Focusing on Your Strengths—As individuals and as a church, we must learn to do what we do best. Find your strength, develop your strategy, practice your presentation…then watch as others catch on! Rose Hill OFWB Church shares their strategies in creating and maintain a community food bank. (Roger Haithcock) 12. Evangelism in the Local Church—Elton Trueblood stated that “the greatest field of evangelism in the world today is in the congregation of the local church.” This workshop will help share ideas for in-house salvation through consistent loving, caring, and nurturing of those who struggle with their faith. (Ronnie Taylor) 13. A Room for Prayer—You’ll do nothing else here but pray…45 minutes of heart-felt communication with God. Prayer starters and suggestions will be available. (Joe Crumpler) 14. Preach It, Brother!—Three hours of preaching by those new to the ministry or ministers searching for a place to minister. Pastoral Search committees are encouraged to be a part of these sessions (Rudy Owens, Rogers Chapel)

Convention News

May 20–21, 2015 Workshops Theme: “Strengthening the Church” (Acts 16:5)

P. O. Box 39 • Ayden, NC 28513 • (252) 746.4963 • www.ofwb.org

Convention

There will be 3 sessions, each lasting one hour with a 10-minute break between sessions. Sessions will begin at 1:20, 2:30, and 3:40 on Wednesday afternoon, May 20, at the 2015 Convention. Our theme for 2015 is “Strengthening the Church” from Acts 16:5 (nkjv). Our goal is to provide doable, workable solutions to difficult situations facing today’s church. Students should be able to return to their church with a mind-set that says, “This problem has a solution and here’s how we, as a church, can work together to solve it.”

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The 103rd Annual Session of the Convention of Original Free Will Baptists May 20–21, 2015 “Strengthening the Church” Acts 16:5 (nkjv) Wednesday—May 20, 20125

11:15–12:00

Plenary Workshop Strengthening Your Church

8:00 a.m. Registration Opens—Kornegay Arena 9:00–10:00 Convention Worship Service • Worship Leader . . . . . . . . . . . The Rev. Barry Stallings

(The Rev. Gary Bailey)

• Pianist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Rev. Eddie Carter

(All Learning Sessions in Raper Hall)

(Hosted by Home Missions & Evangelism)

(Convention Executive Committee)

(Pastor, Cypress Creek Church (PD))

(Pleasant Grove Church)

(Milbournie Church)

• Special Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Mr. James Kirby • Worship Speaker . . . . . . . . . . . . The Rev. Greg Barnes 10:00–10:20 10:20–11:00

Break—Visit the Ministry Display Areas Opening Plenary Session Congregational and Special Music

12:00–1:00 p.m. Lunch in Murphy Center 1:20–2:20 Learning Session I 2:30–3:30 Learning Session II 3:40–4:40 7:30 p.m.

Thursday—May 21, 2015 8:30 a.m. 9:00–9:45 Worship Leader Pianist Special Music

(The Rev. Barry Stallings & Mr. James Kirby)

(Dr. Philip Kerstetter, President of UMO)

(The Rev. Richard Glosson)

(The Rev. Al Warrick)

9:45–10:00 10:00–10:30

(The Rev. Ray Wells)

(The Rev. Kevin Jackson)

(Mrs. Carolyn Jernigan)

(Credentials Committee, First Readings, etc.)

(President Warrick)

Welcome

Call to Order (The Rev. Ray Wells) Scripture and Prayer

Greetings from the Office of the President Convention Executive Committee Report Convention Treasurer’s Report Nominating Committee Report Necessary Business

Special Recognitions

Conference Moderators, Ordaining Council Chairmen, Convention Executive Committee, 2014–15 Wall of Honor Recipients P. T. Lucas Ministerial Award

(Minister’s Association Executive Committee)

(Convention Services Office)

11:00–11:15

Afternoon Learning Sessions Information Break—Visit the Ministry Display Areas

Learning Session III Mission Rally

Registration Re-opens Convention Worship Service The Rev. Barry Stallings The Rev. Eddie Carter Mr. Duane Casey

(Cape Fear Conference)

(Sr. Pastor, Ormondsville Church)

(The Rev. Barry Stallings & Mr. Duane Casey)

(President Warrick)

(The Rev. Jacky Raper)

(President Warrick)

(Credentials Committee, Final Readings, Misc.)

(Mr. Gary Barefoot)

Worship Speaker The Rev. Don Riberio

10:30–10:45 10:45–11:30 11:30–12:00 12:00–12:15 12:15

Break—Visit the Ministry Display Areas Closing Plenary Session Congregational Singing and Special Music Call to Order

Scripture and Prayer

Ministry Final Reports, Recommendations, Questions and Answers Break—Visit the Ministry Display Areas Strategic Planning Initiative: The Next Step Election and Installation of Officers, Boards, and Committees Resolutions Committee Report Final Business Memorial Committee Report

The Convention is Adjourned

NOTE: Ask your Ministry Directors a question! Forms are available at the Headquarters display. These should be completed and returned to the Headquarters table before the close of Wednesday night’s Mission Rally. Your question may be answered directly during tomorrow’s session. However, no questions will be considered unless presented in writing, complete with a signature. 30

Original Free Will Baptist Convention Nomination Form The following positions are to be filled at the 2015 Convention: • Convention Officers—2 (Secretary, Treasurer) • Executive Committee—3 (Conference Representatives) Albemarle, Paul Palmer, Piedmont, Western • Children’s Home Board—1 • Foreign Missions Board—1 • Home Missions and Evan.—1 • Sunday School Board—3 • Minister’s Program—1 • Retirement Homes—1 • Convention Board of Trustees • Cragmont Board—3 • University of Mount Olive Board of Trustees—5 • Layman’s League—3 The following Commissions each have 1 position available: • Historical Commission, Chaplain’s Commission • Commission on Education for Christian Ministry • Commission on Youth Ministry and Student Ministry Leadership Nominations will also be called for from the floor of the Convention.

I/We would like to nominate _____________________________________ to fill a position on the _____________________________________ (Name of Board, Commission or Representative) Each nomination must include a biographical sketch of the person being nominated and why you feel they would be an asset to that ministry, commission, association or foundation. Mail your nominations to:

Mrs. Carolyn Jernigan

1895 Easy St. • Dunn, NC 28334 (All nominations must be postmarked no later than April 30, 2015)

MICHAEL ENGLISH and the fabulous

Wilmington Celebration Choir Friday Night July 10, 2015 7:00 p.m. Doors open at 6:00 p.m. Kornegay Arena University of Mount Olive

Tickets will be available March 1, 2015 at www.eventbrite.com or by phone at (252) 560-2845. Visa/MasterCard/Discovery/American Express accepted Limited Artist Circle Seating—$20 • General Admission—$15 Sponsorships are also available. Call (252) 746-4963 for details. 31

Book reviews in this column are not meant to reflect any theological or political positions.

Billy Graham, Nearing Home Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2011. 181 pages. ISBN 978-0-8499-4832-9.

Heaven as Our Final Home Billy Graham Americans know Billy Graham as a Christian crusader who has preached in stadiums all over the world and been a confidant of presidents. Trained at Florida Bible Institute (now Trinity College) on the outskirts of Tampa, he began his preaching career as a pastor with Youth For Christ (YFC), carrying him in 1945 to Soldier Field in Chicago. His last crusade was in 2005 at the Greater New York Crusade held at Flushing Meadows (164). His late wife, Ruth Bell, was born in China to the medical missionaries, Dr. L. Nelson Bell and Virginia. Married for 63 years, Billy and Ruth had three daughters, Gigi, Anne, and Bunny, and two sons, Franklin and Ned (74). Today Billy Graham reports 43 grandchildren and great-grandchildren (121). He lives quietly in his home at Little Piney Cove, recognizing that his age of 93 years gives him the authority to write a book about moving closer to Death (164).

Title: Nearing Home At 93 years, Billy Graham admits traits of growing old: muscles growing stiff, mobility lessening, hearing and eyesight deteriorating, physical stamina fading (83). He has watched friends and family die and finds himself nearing home (2) to be with God. When a journalist from Newsweek asked him to make “a statement about death” (93), he notes: “I commented that I had been taught all of my life how to die, but no one had ever taught me how to grow old” (93). His new book, Nearing Home, is all about how to grow old by learning to cope with grief, developing and building a strong faith in Jesus Christ, connecting more intimately 32

to family, and believing in the promise of Heaven.

Learning to Cope With Grief Old age and the reality of death brings us face-to-face with grief. Billy Graham has lost his parents, his wife of 63 years, his brother Melvin, his sister Catherine, and his wife’s parents. At 93, Graham recommends coping with grief by accepting grief as a process that makes us feel numb at first. Acceptance should be followed by focusing not on the past but on the future. Graham insists: “God is not finished with us; He still has a plan for the remainder of our lives” (103). Coping with grief also includes helping others and turning to God. Graham insists: “Even when you don’t feel His presence, it doesn’t change the fact that He is with you every moment of the day” (105).

Developing and Building a Strong Faith in Jesus Christ To enjoy old age, Billy Graham stresses building a faith in Jesus Christ by seeing a “fear of the LORD” as the “fountain of life” (Proverbs 14:27). To Graham, fear of God is “a reminder to be in reverential awe of God, to love Him with our whole being and commit ourselves joyfully to Him in all things” (80). As Jesus Christ is the “life-giving fountain” (Proverbs 13:14), the Messiah becomes the “Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End,” the one who gives the “fountain of the water of life” (Revelation 21:6–7). Building a strong faith in Jesus Christ includes reading and studying God’s Word (108), helping others through sharing burdens and encouragement (104),

developing the spiritual fruits of “honesty, integrity, discipline, and hard work” (120), making an effort with forgiveness (126), seeking a life with a strong foundation built upon a faith in Christ Jesus so that old age and personal crisis stand upon “something deeper and unshakable, something that will see us through life’s hard times” (135). The foundation beneath us is only as “solid as that bedrock” (136) holding us up. Graham insists: “Jesus Christ is the bedrock on which we need to build our lives” (136). In his emphasis upon building a strong faith, Graham finds himself asking readers evangelical questions: “Have you committed your life to Jesus Christ?” (139). His fiery rhetoric echoes his earlier crusade preaching when he urged people in the stadium to make a decision for Christ. In writing, Graham stresses: “We need to make a decision—a personal commitment to Jesus Christ and His will for our lives” (139). A foundation built upon Jesus Christ includes gifts: the gift of God’s Word (151), the gift of the Holy Spirit (154), the gift of prayer (156), the gift of fellowship (157), the gift of service (158), the gift of living in the here and now (165), and the gift of hope in dwelling with God in Heaven (171).

Connecting More Intimately with Family Old age allows Graham to connect more intimately with family. How? He lists six ways: 1) “Pray consistently” (122) with family members. 2) Keep in touch with the scattered members of the family. 3) Encourage members of the family, build continued on next page

Western District Woman’s Auxiliary

Day of Renewal & Restoration “Renew the Spirit, Restore the Joy” 9 a.m. • Saturday, April 11, 2015 Marsh Swamp OFWB Church

6664 Rock Ridge School Road • Sims, NC 27880

Kitty Barnes—Speaker • Special Music by Bobbi Ann Crawford of Goldsboro Kitty Barnes is a member of Little Rock OFWB Church in Lucama. She is a retired school teacher and high school guidance counselor, having worked most of her career at Charles B. Aycock High School in Pikeville, NC. She is a long-time member of the OFWB Sunday School Ministry. She has spoken at Auxiliary Conventions, Prayer Breakfasts, Women’s Sundays, and other events throughout the denomination and Eastern North Carolina. Join us for a morning of worship, an inspiring message, food, door prizes, and fellowship!

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them up (123). 4) Avoid creating conflict or causing tension (124). 5) Be an example of “peace and joy” (124). 6) Make an effort to demonstrate a “forgiving spirit” (126).

Believing in the Promise of Heaven Billy Graham believes that he is nearing home which is Heaven, his final home—the place where Christians “will be spending all eternity” (170). Graham sees Heaven as God’s promise and believes Heaven is “glorious,” “perfect,” “joyous,” “active,” and “certain” (171–177). He believes Christians will be united with loved ones and that the transformed bodies will have “unlimited energy to serve Christ” (176). Graham writes: “Heaven is our home—our final home—our ultimate place of complete peace and security and joy forever” (178). In aging, Graham believes he has a reason

to be joyful as he is nearing home in Heaven where Jesus Christ has gone to prepare a place for him (180).

Dazzling Lines to Contemplate Billy Graham drops dazzling lines to contemplate in his new book, Nearing Home. Among some of his inspiring lines are these: 1) “A baseball may be driven into the farthest corners of the largest stadium, but the Word of God travels to the farthest corners of the earth, proclaiming the Good News of salvation” (3). 2) “Our constant goal should be seeking God’s direction for what lies ahead” (44). 3) “We shouldn’t spend time thinking about ourselves and how weak we are. Instead we should think about God and how strong He is” (73). 4) “To recognize the voice of the Lord, we must belong to Him” (74). 5) “Jesus

taught that death was a passage for the spirit into the presence of God” (97). 6) “When the family is destroyed, society eventually disintegrates” (113). 7) “For those of us nearing home, our steps may indeed be slow, but they need not be without purpose” (130). 8) “Americans spend almost sixty billion dollars a year on antiaging products” (135). 9) “The root of God’s love will grow deep in the hearts of all who will desire the Water of Life” (141). 10) “People can become so encumbered with being connected to information that they disconnect from others” (144). 11) “Prayer is really a place, a place where you meet God in genuine conversation” (157). 12) “The church is a storehouse of spiritual food” (158). 13) “We were not meant for this world alone. We were meant for Heaven, our final home” (166).

Pepper Worthington was born in Kinston, NC, and married an OFWB retired minister, Michael Gauker Warning, in 1996. The Rev. Warning served as pastor to Free Union OFWB at Sea Level, NC. She received her B.A. degree cum laude at Meredith College in 1965, her M.L.A. degree at Johns Hopkins University in 1969, and her Ph.D. with Phi Kappa Phi honors at the University of Maryland at College Park in 1976. She has been a professor of English at Mount Olive College since 1979. She is also currently the director of the Mount Olive College Press.

P. O. Box 210 • Mount Olive, NC 28365-0210 • (919) 658.5250 • admin@ncfcm.org • rwarren@ncfcm.org

NC Foundation for Christian Ministries

Announcing

the Roney and Jean Bunn Lasting Legacy Plan The Announcement

The North Carolina Foundation for Christian Ministries is pleased to announce the lasting legacy plan established by the Reverend Roney Bryant Bunn, Jr. and Mrs. Jean Matthews Bunn of Kenly, North Carolina. The couple now has a plan in place that will benefit them during their retirement years and then automatically begin providing permanent financial support for their home church, Marsh Swamp Original Free Will Baptist.

The Plan

The first part of the plan developed for them by The Foundation uses a charitable gift annuity (CGA), which is a gift to be given after one’s passing. Until that time, the gift is invested by The Foundation to generate a higher rate of return for the couple than is normally available. There are also additional tax benefits that may be available with such a plan. The second part of the plan uses an endowment agreement to benefit a ministry or other charity of their choosing. Endowments are pools of money that are invested but the money is never spent. Each year, the growth of the investment is used to provide financial support for a ministry or other non-profit. In their case, the funds left after their passing will be used to fund an endowment in their name to benefit their church.

The People

Thinking and planning ways to do good things has been a way of life for the Bunns. Before they were married in 1990, both pursued educations and professional careers that allowed them to be of greater service to God and humanity. Both are active in the church and community as evidenced by their being awarded Certificates of Recognition for Outstanding Service as Hospice Volunteers from Governor James B. Hunt, Jr. This was in connection with Mr. Bunn’s service as the Hospice Chaplin for the Wilson Medical Center. As an Original Free Will Baptist minister, Mr. Bunn served Free Union Church in Nash County. He also served on numerous boards and committees for the Western Conference, the Convention, and ministerial and layman’s organizations. 34

In retirement, the couple remains active in church worship and soup kitchen ministry, volunteering their time and talents in the community, spending time with their family, and pursuing the enjoyment of their common interests. They have been blessed with five children, twelve grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.

The Invitation

The Reverend and Mrs. Bunn hope that others will join them in making plans to leave a lasting legacy through the Foundation. For more information call our office today at 919-6585250 or e-mail us at <admin@ncfcm.org>.

The Foundation gratefully acknowledges these gifts given during November and December of 2014 and January of 2015 in honor or memory of those listed. —————————————— • r • In Memory of • q • —————————————— November 2014

Mr. Clifford “Frank” McClenny By Billy and Sheila Jackson

Mr. Frank McClenny By Mr. Danny Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Carroll

Mr. Earl Eason By Billy and Sheila Jackson

Mr. Willie Eason By Mr. Danny Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth A. Godwin

Mr. James “Oris” Tew By Billy and Sheila Jackson

Mr. Earl Eason By Mr. Danny Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. James H. Thornton

Mr. Freddie Tew, Jr. By Billy and Sheila Jackson

Mr. Oris Tew By Mr. Danny Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Robert F. Jackson

The Reverend Walter Reynolds By Friendship Free Will Baptist Church

Mr. Earl Eason By Mr. and Mrs. Gene Jernigan

Mr. James Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Kerry Johnson

Mrs. Beth Hawley By Mr. and Mrs. Don Eason

Mr. Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Gene Jernigan

January 2015

Mr. Frank McClenny By Mr. and Mrs. Don Eason

Mr. Frank McClenny By Mr. and Mrs. Gene Jernigan

Mr. Willie Eason By Mrs. Ann Moore

Mr. Earl Eason By Mr. and Mrs. Craig Tew

Mr. Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Don Eason

Mr. Freddie Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Gene Jernigan

Mr. Earl C. Eason By Mrs. Ann Moore

Mr. Clifford Franklin McClenny By Friendly Senior Citizens of Lee’s Chapel FWB Church

Mr. Freddie Tew By Mr. and Mrs. Don Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Mr. and Mrs. A. D. Adcock

Mr. Frank McClenny By Mrs. Ann Moore

Mrs. Kellie Godwin Hinshaw By Mr. and Mrs. Don Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Ms. Ann Moore

Mrs. Lois Lee By Mrs. Ann Moore

Mrs. Karen Moore Medlin By Mr. and Mrs. Don Eason

Mr. James Oris Tew By Ms. Esteline Tart

Mrs. Mary Elizabeth (Beth) Hawley By Mrs. Ann Moore

Mr. Freddie Tew By Michelle Jackson

Mr. James Oris Tew By Ms. Bobbie L. Britt

Mr. Freddie Tew, Jr. By Men’s Fellowship of Lee’s Chapel FWB Church

Mr. Shelton Rhodes By First FWB Church, Goldsboro Mr. Willie Eason By Mr. and Mrs. Gene T. Jernigan Mrs. Beth Hawley By Mr. and Mrs. Gene T. Jernigan Mrs. Karen Moore Medlin By Mr. and Mrs. Gene T. Jernigan

December 2014 Mr. Clifford Franklin “Frank” McClenny By Fellowship SS Class of Lee’s Chapel FWB Church

The Reverend James H. Coile By Mr. and Mrs. L. Marvin Edwards Mr. Oris Tew By Brenda and Tommy Tyndall Willie and Mildred Eason By Brenda and Tommy Tyndall Beth S. Hawley By Brenda and Tommy Tyndall

—————————————— • r • In Honor of • q • —————————————— November 2014 Mrs. Jean Ackiss By Ms. Bertie A. Sanders Mrs. Rose M. Raper By Ms. Bertie A. Sanders Mrs. Jean Ackiss By Ricky and Angela Warren Mrs. Rose M. Raper By Ricky and Angela Warren Mrs. Jean Averette By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley Mrs. Sara L. Massey By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

Mrs. Rose M. Raper By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

Dr. Michael R. Pelt By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

Ricky and Angela Warren By Ms. Bertie A. Sanders

Dr. K. David Hines By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

Mrs. Joan Little By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

The Reverend Frank Harrison By Rose of Sharon FWB Church

Dr. Sam N. Weeks By Mrs. Brenda W. Cockrell

Mrs. Judy T. King By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

The Reverend and Mrs. Emmitt Jones By Jim and Carolyn Best

The Reverend Leon Grubbs By Hull Road OFWB Church

Ms. Brenda Edwards By Ms. Ann G. Radford

Llewellyn and Eugene Jernigan By Seth and Kelly Jernigan

December 2014

Dr. and Mrs. Sam Weeks By Ms. Joyce S. Brown

January 2015

Ms. Bertie A. Sanders By Mr. and Mrs. Donnie Lassiter

Mrs. Rose M. Raper By Ms. Bertie A. Sanders

Ms. Brenda Warren By Mr. and Mrs. Raeford Daughtry

Ms. Bertie A. Sanders By Ms. Dianne Brown Riley

Mr. and Mrs. Burke Raper By Ms. Bertie A. Sanders

Retirement Income Comparison

CD Rate 1 (Feb. 5, 2014)

Annuity Rate 2 (at age 70)

0.28% 5.1%

1. National Average 12-month CD rate (Source: Bankrate.com) 2. Lifetime rate from The Foundation for a person age 70

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Camp Vandemere

Update from Camp Vandemere

Spring is just around the corner and by the end of March, it will be somewhat warmer and hopefully, not so wet! Wow, has it ever been wet! Spring to me is the time of year we see God’s awesome creation come to life. Over the winter months, it’s mostly cold and wet, seemingly dark and dreary; mostly because we stay inside as much as possible. Now, it’s time to get out and enjoy some fresh air! Hopefully, you might get a chance to ride down east and see what is happening here at The Camp! I’m sure that there will be some onsite construction going on soon. The site work has taken a while since it has rained every week since Christmas, but pre-construction fill dirt is in place and we are ready for other phases to start. Remember, we are still in need of kitchen equipment and some other items for cooking along with everyday expenses that we still incur. There is a fundraiser scheduled in April to help with these items. On Friday night, April 10, there will be a music show held at Core Creek FWB Church! Detailed information with times and cost is being distributed and you will see details in TFWB, flyers, and with e-mails from OFWB Headquarters. We are in the process of

planning another fundraiser and will be sending out that information when a date is set. We still have some time before our buildings are up and operating. I would ask that each one pray and ask God’s blessings on this stage of our building project. As we see the buildings take form on our landscape, we will certainly see God at work. There have been many obstacles in our way; God has blessed in all and we have overcome them simply because His will is being accomplished! Our Facebook page is being updated continuously and we are sending pictures out so everyone can see what is going on with the building process. Once our buildings are complete and operational, we will schedule our grand opening weekend! We are receiving calls and other inquiries constantly about the time frame of when we will possibly be open for business. Hopefully soon, we will be able to give a definite response, but until then, please continue your prayerful and financial support! We are truly thankful for each and every prayer and all that have contributed financially. God has truly blessed in this awesome ministry—Camp Vandemere!

RESOLUTION

Woman’s Auxiliary Convention of Original Free Will Baptists WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor gave untiringly of her talent, time and support to the Woman’s Auxiliary Convention of Original Free Will Baptists throughout her adult life, and WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor was an example of Christian commitment for the members of the Woman’s Auxiliary Convention of Original Free Will Baptists, and WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor served, with dedication and self-sacrifice for the Lord, as President and Field Secretary, among other offices, in the Woman’s Auxiliary Convention of Original Free Will Baptists, and WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor influenced the lives of young people in the cause of Christ during her years of employment at the University of Mount Olive, and

Woman’s Auxiliary

(January 17, 2015)

WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor gave of her labor and love to women’s summer retreats for the spiritual enrichment of women of Original Free Will Baptists at Camp Vandemere, and WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor encouraged and inspired the Woman’s Auxiliary of Smith’s New Home Original Free Will Baptist Church to be involved in the overall work of the Woman’s Auxiliary Convention, and WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor led the Woman’s Auxiliary of Smith’s New Home Original Free Will Baptist Church in yearly participation in the Auxiliary’s Standard of Achievement (A-1), and WHEREAS, Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor was a devoted wife, mother and mentor to many individuals: THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED this seventeenth day of January, 2015, that the Woman’s Auxiliary Convention of Original Free Will Baptists Executive Committee acknowledges with heartfelt gratitude, the wonderful gifts and blessings which flowed from God through the life of Tharen R. “Happy” Taylor into this organization, and BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED that a copy of this resolution be sent to her children and a copy be sent to The Free Will Baptist magazine. __________________________________________ Becky Jo Sumner, President

Bible Bowl Study Guide 2015

Children of the Bible

Youth Convention

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• Genesis 4:1–16, 25–26 . . . . • Genesis 21:1–21 . . . . . . . . • Genesis 22:1–14 . . . . . . . . • Genesis 25:20–34 . . . . . . . • Genesis 37:1–36 . . . . . . . . • Genesis 48:8–22 . . . . . . . . • Exodus 1:22–2:10 . . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 1:1–28 . . . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 2:12–36 . . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 3:1–21 . . . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 16:1–13 . . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 16:14–23 . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 17:1–58 . . . . . . . • 1 Samuel 18:1–14 . . . . . . . • 1 Kings 17:8–24 . . . . . . . . • 2 Kings 4:8-37 . . . . . . . . . • 2 Kings 5:1–27 . . . . . . . . • 2 Kings 11:1–21, 12:1–2 . . . • 2 Kings 22:1–20 . . . . . . . . • Jeremiah 1:1–19 . . . . . . . . • Daniel 1:1–21 . . . . . . . . . • Matthew 2:13–23 . . . . . . . • Luke 2:21–35 . . . . . . . . . • Luke 2:41–52 . . . . . . . . . • John 6:1–13 . . . . . . . . . . • Mark 5:21–24, 35–43 . . . . . • Acts 12:1–17 . . . . . . . . . • Acts 23:12–22 . . . . . . . . .

Adam’s Children Ishmael and Isaac Sacrifice of Isaac Jacob and Esau Joseph Joseph’s boys Moses Samuel’s Birth The Sons of Eli Lord Calls Samuel David Anointed King David and His Harp David and Goliath Saul’s Jealousy of David The Widow’s Son The Shunammite’s Son Naaman’s Servant Girl Jehoash: 7-year-old King Josiah: 8-year-old King Jeremiah, a Young Prophet Young Daniel and his Friends Escape to Egypt Jesus Presented in the Temple Jesus’ Childhood Young Boy with Fish and Loaves Jarius’ Daughter Young Rhoda—God’s Servant Paul’s Nephew

Bible Bowl

2015

Friday, April 24* Saturday, April 25 at the University of Mount Olive Times will depend on how many teams sign up! *Friday is reserved depending on how many teams sign up!

Deadline to sign up a team:

March 1

________________ To sign up a team from your church, or for more information on Bible Bowl, please contact:

Gracie Jones (252) 559-3814 Angie Toler (252) 671-1548 Faye Bryant (910) 625-0216 Competitions for Cherubs, AFC, and YFA teams!

Memory Verses

Cherub

AFC and YFA

YFA only

Genesis 21:18 Genesis 37:3 Matthew 18:3 Mark 10:15 1 Samuel 1:27 Luke 2:32 Luke 2:40

Isaiah 9:6 Genesis 4:8 Genesis 21:18 Genesis 37:3 Matthew 18:3 Mark 10:15, 16 Exodus 2:10 1 Samuel 1:27, 28 Luke 2:30, 31, 32 Luke 2:40

1 Samuel 16:7 1 Samuel 17:37 Luke 2:46, 47 Daniel 1:8, 9

Keynote Speaker:

Jeff Smith

of Salt and Light Ministries

2015 YOUTH CONVENTION OF ORIGINAL FREE WILL BAPTISTS MAY 15–17, 2015

UNIVERSITY OF MOUNT OLIVE Enjoy great music, a dynamic speaker, fun-filled workshops, activities, service projects, and fellowship with other Christian kids and teens! For all ages pre-school–18 years old!

Jeff Smith has performed throughout the world as a featured performer and master teacher at training conferences and seminars in drama, worship arts, music, ministry, teacher training, children’s ministry and creative arts. Learn more about Jeff’s ministry at <www. saltandlightmin.org>.

Music By:

New Born City

2015 Service Project: 400 for $4,000 Participants in the convention will each contribute to walking a total of 400 miles to raise $4,000 for the Fountain of Youth, our endowment to benefit Original Free Will Baptist Denominational Ministries. A sponsorship form will be included with registration materials. Registration packets will be available at the UMO Church Night Basketball Games and the LIFE Conference. 39

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we should each be following in our own lives, by believing Jesus’ words when He said “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” This wonderful, loving, and giving family has set the bar high for what the rest of us should be teaching our children and living in our own lives. You might ask how I know all this to be true. You might even say to yourself that these type stories turn out to be fake all the time. I know this one is true because I was there to see it happen. You see, Ronald, Melissa, and little Gabby attend Mt. Zion OFWB Church of Wilson County where I am so blessed to be their Pastor. Jesus told us to go out into the world and live our lives in such a manner that the world would see Christ in us and that the Father in heaven would be glorified. I believe that the giving actions of this family have exemplified Christ and most certainly brought glory to God. We can see His hand at work all through this entire process. The world in which we live is not a very pretty place anymore but if the church would follow the example set by Jesus and the Renfrow family then we could make a difference for Jesus. It is time for the church to step up and remember we are the ones who are supposed to “salt the world” thus changing its flavor. We do this by doing one kind deed at a time and by not only telling others of the love of Jesus but also showing them that love. The story doesn’t end here. Gabby tells me she is now growing her hair out long so she can have it cut to give it to the little girls at Duke who are fighting cancer and have no hair of their own. I look forward to seeing Gabby grow and I pray that same giving spirit will continue to grow with her and guide her into an even greater witness for the Lord Jesus. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). May God continue to bless His church.

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Spring Convention The Eastern District Auxiliary Spring Convention will be held on March 21, 2015 at Macedonia Original Free Will Baptist Church in Ernul, NC. The theme is “Ready Access to God.” Registration is at 9:30 a.m. The Rev. Wesley Taylor will bring the Worship Service. Lunch will be served at 12:30 p.m. after the Convention.

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