February 2017
HOW TO GROW
WEALTH
MOGA
WHILE GROWING
COMMUNITIES
RYOKO KATAYAMA
JAPANESE DESIGNER TAKES ON MODEST FASHION
scarves
UNITES WOMEN THROUGH VIBRANT COLOURS & SPEAKS OUT AGAINST DISCRIMINATION
February 2017
Contents Cover Story
Fashion
MOGA Scarves - Uniting Women Through Vibrant Colours Zamzam Zalila Daisillia & Co x MODENSEEK Florals for Spring Abayaholic x Ryoko Katayama
Beauty
Worth the Splurge
Inspire
Muslim Women Raising Questions in a Changing Europe When Life Takes You For a Spin
Living
What’s ‘IN’ in the Home
Food
Winter Solice Afternoon Tea at Conrad St. James
Health
Honey Bunny - Benefits of Honey
Business
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ow has 2017 been for you so far? Looking at the rapidly changing political and social climate, 2017 is turning out to be a rather challenging year for many, especially us Muslims. In fact, I was just discussing about this very topic with someone today and the main question was, are we truly affected by what’s happening around the world? Each country has its own administration and its own issues, but are these issues which affect the tenant of that particular country something we, a million miles away, should be aware of, or better yet, care about? Many argue that we have no right to voice our opinions as we aren’t citizens of that country. But in my personal opinion, yes, it is certainly something we should be aware of. True, we aren’t citizens of that country and therefore have no political power but we cannot stay silent as our brothers and sisters lay victims of injustice. I have more to say about this but I’ll probably save that for a proper blog post. In the meantime, my GAYA team and I will continue to speak out on and provide a platform for global social issues. And in this issue, we do just that.
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Fashion
A fashion label that strives to be an inclusive brand that accepts women regardless of race, religion or culture, MOGA recently made the news for reaching out to Australia's One Nation leader, Senator Pauline Hanson, who is known for her controversial political views. We speak to MOGA’s founder, Azahn Munas, on the brand and its drive to inspire change in today’s polarised society.
Interview by Atikah Z
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MOGA has introduced itself to the world with its virtual store going live. This unique online retailer designs and sells simple yet bold and unique scarves made of 100% silk (Crepe de Chine). Working with the CARE Foundation, 20% of profits will be used to help send young girls to primary and secondary school in some of Pakistan’s most volatile communities. MOGA is owned and founded by 22 year old Azahn Munas, a recent graduate from RMIT University’s Bachelor of Communication (Advertising) Program. The start-up was born out of the desire to celebrate self-expression and to unite different communities of people around the world through their love for fashion. The bright and bold designs aim to celebrate the individuality and personal style of MOGA’s wearers with innovative new digital printing techniques. Whether or not the wearer utilises the scarves for religious or cultural reasons, MOGA aims to bring 6
women together and empower them through fabric and colour. At a time where headscarves have become a rather contentious topic, MOGA wishes to challenge negative stereotypes and remove the stigma surrounding this multi-purpose garment. “At the end of the day, a scarf is a piece of fabric and can be worn in so many different ways by so many different people. It should be something that brings people together as opposed to keeping them apart. We at MOGA want our customers to be empowered every time they put on one of our scarves; to feel like no one or nothing could bring them down when they look so good,” Azahn Munas, founder. MOGA will release its products through limited edition collections to ensure its wearer own an exclusive item. MOGA’s debut collection, ‘SPECTRA’ will be available online soon, giving a powerful launch to the philanthropic online fashion brand.
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Azahn Munas SPEAKS TO GAYA Those who are familiar with MOGA know that the brand prides itself on being an inclusive fashion label, one that caters to all women. What made you decide to go beyond the niche market of veiled Muslim women? We have always wanted to be a cross over brand, one that appeals to both Muslim and non-Muslim women. We realized our product was incredibly versatile and really, could be worn in so many different ways, by so many different people. As a result, we wanted to push the boundaries in what was deemed ‘conventional’ or ‘normal’ for our brand like ours so we could be as diverse and inclusive as possible. Thankfully, it really seems to have worked as our fans range from trendy hijabsters to even hippies at festivals who love our bright colours! 8
MOGA's mission to empower girls and women includes donating 20% of profits to CARE Foundation which helps young girls in Pakistan gain access to education. What inspired you to dedicate your work to this cause? In terms of the brand’s perspective, this really made sense to us because our product is all about helping women look and feel good about themselves. With our CSR policy, our fans not only get to feel good but also help other women who aren’t as fortunate as themselves have a chance at a better life. On a more personal level, however, I was definitely inspired to contribute to charity by my father, who sadly passed away 3 years ago but always instilled in me the mindset to give back to those who are less fortunate than myself. I have also been lucky enough to be surrounded by many successful and educated women in my family. My mother, my grandmother and my aunts on both sides of the family have been incredibly successful in their respective fields and all contribute greatly to society. It would be an amazing accomplishment if more women around the world were given the same opportunity to succeed by getting an education.
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...The scarves were sent (to Senator Pauline Hanson) as a show of multicultural solidarity in the hope that such negative comments made against Muslims and other minorities will never gain as much momentum in Australia like it has in the US...
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We understand that MOGA recently sent a scarf along with an open letter to Australia's One Nation leader, Senator Pauline Hanson, who is known for her controversial political views. What made you decide to make that move?
important to me. The message it sends is rather alienating but I want to remind young people that the loudest voices aren’t always the most correct and that they should always be proud of their identity and what makes them unique.
I was prompted to send the scarves to Senator Hanson after witnessing the rise in inflammatory rhetoric being made against countless minorities during Donald Trump’s presidential campaign. I sent the scarves after Pauline Hanson publicly endorsed his victory and said he was always welcome at her One Nation party. The scarves were sent as a show
Recently, a well-known retailer in Australia released a catalogue that was met with mixed responses because it featured a hijabi mother. While many people applauded the retailer for its inclusive advertising, there were also many others who were outraged. Despite Australia being a diverse country with people of different races
“...I want to remind young people that the loudest voices aren’t always the most correct and that they should always be proud of their identity and what makes them unique...” of multicultural solidarity in the hope that such negative comments made against Muslims and other minorities will never gain as much momentum in Australia like it has in the US.
and religions living in peace, we are unfortunately beginning to see a divide in the social landscape. What is your opinion on this? Do you think Australia is following in the steps of the US?
Needless to say, Senator Hanson requested to return the scarf. What message do you think this will make/send?
There definitely seems to be a growing divide in the social landscape that is happening not just in the US but across parts of Europe too. I am confident, however, that Australia is not following in the footsteps of the US.
It was a little disappointing that she requested to return the scarves. However, I wasn’t surprised or offended. I knew it was a long shot but was glad to be able to speak openly about an issue that was 10
There are many more factors at play in America that have resulted in its current social divide. Only time will tell if
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Australia will also head down that road, but I think our population is a lot more tolerant and accepting than we get credit for. For instance, a recent billboard for Australia Day that showed two Muslim girls holding the Australian flag was taken down because of threats made by right wing racists. Once the media reported this, a crowd fund campaign was started to get the billboard reinstated. They ended up raising over $100,000 and the billboard will now be displayed in all major cities across the entire country and appear in newspapers as well! I think this a fantastic example of how accepting and kind the majority of Australians are and how our society is truly an inclusive one at its core.
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Fashion
Zamzam Zalila
Conscious, Chic & Cosmopolitan...
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n today’s Western society where Muslim and hijabi women are perceived as oppressed and backward in their way of dressing, German brand, Zamzam Zalila aims to break that stereotype by creating designs that exude sophistication and elegance. Each piece of the Zamzam Zalila collection are uniquely curated with the finest quality material. What some see as alleged contradiction, founder Awa S., sees as a beautiful juxtaposition – where timeless classics meet modern styles, where sophistication meet simplicity, where elegance meets casual.
Cape "Shah Zanan" in white 14
Basic Abaya Blue & Soft Nude Tassel Hijab 15
Twisted BB Blue Abaya (Nursing-friendly) 16
Tassel Mules 17
Lâle Abaya
Awa S. was born in Germany to a German mother and a French father with Guinean origin. After school, she studied in Paris and Liverpool. With her multicultural background and her experience in different countries she constantly looks for what unites us rather than what divides us. This approach is reflected in her designs, which have various influences from French lace to West African prints or Nordic simplicity. Launched in 2016, the Zamzam Zalila brand strives to empower Muslim women living in today’s Western society.
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Fashion
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n today’s digital age, where almost everything is available at our fingertips (literally!), it’s easy to feel inundated with content.
And for shoppers who lack the time to physically go retail shopping, we rely heavily on the internet to get our retail therapy. Online shoppers unite! But again, we consumers are easily distracted and diverted by ads, online stores, etc. It’s hard to decide and 19
compare. And for businesses, it becomes rather difficult to stand out amongst the noise. Perhaps that’s why online shopping destinations are a consumer’s best friend. Rather than shopping from one store, we get the variety of a department store all in one website. Today we introduce two new such destinations for Modest Fashion – more importantly, designer fashion.
MODENSEEK is an online shopping destination that caters to consumers who appreciate design-centric independent brands. In today’s fast-pace, fast-fashion society, true-blue designers as we like to call them, are a rare breed. Sadly such labels that are born from the deep passion of art and design, usually get lost amongst the noise. MODENSEEK aims to br ing such passionate designers and labels together under one roof, in a personal way. Here consumers don’t just get carefully and passionately curated pieces but learn more about the designer behind the label. MODENSEEK takes fashion personally…quite literally. 20
Daisillia & Co, another online shopping destination, aims to do the same but with a twist. As any business knows, cost and manpower are two very important and sometimes difficult items on the list to manage. Starting out on your own in the fashion industry can be quite daunting especially when you’re intending and planning to participant in flea markets, exhibitions, fashion shows and such. The Daisillia & Co family, acts just like that – a family. Labels under Daisillia & Co par ticipate in shows as a family. This way rental cost, manpower, and everything in between is shared. Everything is more fun when you’re doing it with friends, right? This is just like that. Imagine being surrounded by like-minded friends you can rely on. A new start-up’s best friend. 21
The best demonstration of this comradery was seen at the recent CelebFest Year-End-Sale in December 2016, where the labels and partners from MODENSEEK and Daisillia & Co came out in full force. As Hillary Clinton said, “We are stronger together�. MODENSEEK
Daisillia & Co
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Fashion
florals Spring for
is groundbreaking... Fashion’s ongoing love affair with floral prints continues with a myriad of designers offering up their take on the iconic patterns. Written by Mumtahana Elahi
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Turtle Neck T-shirt and Turban by Inspired Soul by Fatima Gharawi
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his spring, I have teamed up with the Japanese designer Ryoko Katayama, who showcased their collection at the Kuala Lumpur Modest Fashion Week 2016. There's something so effortlessly chic about wide leg pants, and they're more flattering than you might think. It's all about finding the pair that's right for you, whether it's super flowy, pleated, or a little more structured. And because these trousers aren't meant to cling to your legs, they can actually make your limbs look longer by giving the appearance of a very clean and streamlined silhouette. 24
High-waisted trousers, with a wide, flowing leg might become your go-to pant this season - and for the next few seasons ahead. They are extremely versatile and can be worn to work, parties, weddings and other formal or semi-formal events. One thing is known for sure, you have to find the right match by combining them with your favorite clothes and colors. The trend reemerged for Fall/ Winter 2016 with designers including Alice & Olivia, Derick Lam and Ralph Lauren showing the pants in embroidered denim, prints and classic wool at New York Fashion Week. As fresh as the silhouette looks, it certainly isn’t its first time around.
The wide-leg pant stayed strong in the ’70s, before being nudged out of vogue by the skinny pant in the ’80s. These fabulous bottoms can look casual, or dressy, everything depends on the way you’re going to style them.
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If trying the look for work or evening, keep it curveconscious and feminine. A slim turtleneck tucked in will do the trick. It's one of the most versatile staple items and can be styled several ways for numerous occasions. The loose bottom and a slim fit top, will give you the comfort without looking sloppy. High-waisted wide trousers ideally look good with a top tucked in, no matter if it's just a casual T-shirt or a classy blouse.
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If opting to layer, a built-up neck, bishop sleeved shirt is good to keep the proportions balanced without being overwhelmed by fabric. I do recommend to opt for a cropped style for a night out, as ankle-length trousers look pretty chic with a tight top, cropped jacket, shiny strappy heels or pump shoes. This combo will easily take you from the office to after-hour parties. The Bishop sleeve, back-gathered embroidered shirt by Ryoko Katayama is an overview of the inspiration from the Yamaguchi Flowers to uphold the Japanese heritage. The specialty about "a piece Ryoko Katayama" is every single piece is inspired by the Yamaguchi flowers and the evergreen Japanese tradition - a perfect representation that brightly colored garments are a celebration of irreverent femininity, bursting with life.
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About Ryoko Katayama "a piece Ryoko Katayama" is a Japanese brand that produces fabrics and outfits that are mainly handmade, handled by representative Ryoko Katayama. Based on the idea that "a piece of work created by himself should become like a part of the body of a person who wears it", the concept of "manufacturing a product that values the quality of one item".
COUNTRY EDITOR: MUMTAHANA ELAHI Mumtahana is a fashion blogger and an entrepreneur. She began her career in fashion, working for Plaire and Sciccoso. Abayaholic enjoys the opportunity to create with others and since then, she’s got the opportunity to attend and meet like-minded fashion blogger like herself. Currently she’s on the verge to share her experience in fashion, travel, food and lifestyle.
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Beauty
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ow and again we ladies have to treat ourselves to something a little high end, especially those of us who are makeup addicts. Whether it’s pretty packaging or an amazing product, I’m going to share with you some of my favourite splurges and why you should treat yourself to them!
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SOLEIL TAN DE CHANEL BRONZING MAKEUP BASE
Chanel is always worth the splurge, the packaging, product and finish is always immaculate. The perfect cream for a natural glowing-all -over look or a subtle contour shade. Not to mention that this will last you a very long time, so you will get your money’s worth! It has a gorgeous velvet glide to it and gives you a matte finish. Application is super easy, apply using your beauty blender or a contour brush, start beneath your cheekbones on the side of your face, and blend well to bring it forward. Tadaah, you have perfectly chiseled cheekbones!
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YSL TOUCHE ÉCLAT BLUR PERFECTOR
I’ve written about this product many times before, and it's definitely worth the splurge! Where do I start? YSL’s glamorous gold packaging, the baby doll pink compact it comes in, or the application pad and its velvet pouch? The glamour is never ending. This is a universal balm, and ultra concentrated with blur particles to give you a perfect finish. It helps with concealing pores and blemishes, and gives you an all over cleared complexion. You can use it alone, under your makeup, and even to touch up when you're out!
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TOM FORD LIP COLOUR
No glamour collection is complete without a Tom Ford Lipstick. A sleek black and gold boxed lipstick filled with luxury colour, and needless to mention the TF stamp. As they say ‘lips are the focus of the face and it has the power to define a woman's whole look’. The choice is yours, for pink based nudes try Bare Peach, Pink Dusk or Indian rose. For bolder pinks, try Flamingo or Casablanca. For those daring reds, try Ruby Rush or Flame.
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CLARINS INSTANT LINER
I’ve always been on the search for the deepest black eyeliner, and I’m pleased to say my search is finally over. I never expected to find it at CLARINS. This sleek looking tube gives you a jet black eyeliner that lasts all day with no smudges and is even waterproof! What I love even more is its versatile felt angled brush that allows you to experiment with thin or thicker liner looks and achieve precision either way! And as always gold and black packaging adding to that glam factor! 33
TONY MOLY
SNAIL HYDRO-GEL FACE SHEET MASK
Glamour doesn’t apply to make up only, our skin needs to look glam too! I’m slightly obsessed with face mask sheets because they penetrate the skin so well, and this one won’t let you down. Let’s start with its golden packaging, which is obviously what attracted me initially. Product wise, it will redrench your skin with all the hydration it needs. The serum contains amazing natural products such as snail mucin, seaweed and sea algae, which all work towards brightening and protecting the skin.
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RADICAL SKINCARE
AGE-DEFYING EXFOLIATING PADS Modern technology skincare matched with a sleek tub full of multi-fruit acid based treatment. Exfoliating, promoting cell turnover and healing all in one clever pad. This silver pot from heaven will reduce the visibility of pores and fine lines giving you tight and firm skin. It works with all skin types, even sensitive skin. What I love is the tingle on your skin you feel when you apply it, so you know it's working! Best applied in the evening to let it work its magic through the night! I recommend only using this 2 times a week if you’re not looking for its anti-ageing effect, and with 60 pads per purchase it will last you forever, and definitely worth the splurge.
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The splurge could go on forever, but these are just some of my favourites! Naturally I’m attracted to anything that glistens, glamorous eyeshadows need a whole post on their own! Until next time beauty addicts!
BEAUTY EDITOR: NAIRA GHANEM Hey I’m Naira, just an ordinary student with big dream! Whether its fashion, make up or daily life, join me on my journey. Whether big or small, we can take on the world, with a pretty face and a pretty heart.
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Inspire
MUSLIM WOMEN RAISING QUESTIONS IN A CHANGING EUROPE
Written by Amal El Gharbi Photos by Assia Takkal
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n the 21st century, in a globalised world, in a Europe tackling many questions of identity, Muslim women are still trying to find their place. In a constantly changing society that challenges inter-culturalism, living together and diversity every day, Muslim women are put in the center of a sterile debate around their image (i.e. the right to express themselves or not) and to some extent outer religious signs and public appearances. Furthermore, some media and politicians often depict a stereotypical binary representation of Muslim women either as oppressed or as dangerous - and in doing so, never considering Muslim women as active agents. 37
It is high time to let Muslim women speak for themselves, and, above all, respect their own personal choices. Need we point out that everyone has the right to express their beliefs and philosophies? Besides, out of this particular socioeconomic context arise many tensions, providing fertile grounds for intolerance and discrimination. As a matter of fact, Muslim women experience the same inequalities as other women in employment and in relation to verbal and physical violence, but they are compounded by additional factors of (perceived) religion and/or ethnicity. An overwhelming majority of the feminist movement is struggling to be intersectional and inclusive,
failing to raise awareness for the plight of Muslim women. If anything, this negative attention to Muslim women in media and political discourse is a major contributing factor in growing discriminatory practices and violence towards Muslim women, a pressing issue that is failing to be addressed. Europe still has a lot to do regarding women’s issues, especially gender equality, violence and discrimination. And this lack of place and consideration Europe is giving to Muslim women, is
striking, revealing a huge gap between discourse and practice. Is Europe becoming an unwelcoming land to diversity? Are the lessons of the Enlightenment no longer shining on its ground? Has Europe lost its points of reference? It is high time to focus on finding points of convergence instead of constantly pointing out differences. In a world that is filled with so much tension, diversity is really a treasure we should be nurturing, not discarding.
THE WRITER: AMAL EL GHARBI Editor, translator, writer for Peace, born and raised in Brussels, Belgium, Aamaly - alias Amal El Gharbi, is passionate about modest fashion and interested in social and women issues. Aamaly mag is a bilingual online space created after an inspirational trip to Canada to share passion for modest fashion, but also insights on women’s conditions, education and society.
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Inspire
WHEN LIFE TAKES YOU FOR A SPIN... AN INSPIRING STORY OF NOT GIVING UP ON YOUR DREAMS
Written by Haleemah Dandarawi
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ssalamualaikum. This is dedicated to the woman who has done nothing but push me to be the best – my mother. I am Dandarawiyah Haleemah Bte Dandarawi Abdul Ghani. And I am going to take you on a journey – my journey. As many of you may (or may not) know, the Singapore education system has many levels and directions. Many have praised it and many have criticized it as well. We have this term here in Singapore called “kiasu” (it’s now in the Oxford dictionary), and that means being afraid to lose out or to be better than everyone else. 39
In a fast paced, competitive society, there is nothing wrong with that. We can’t possibly just sit on our laurels. But when this constant need to be better than everyone else takes over every aspect of our lives and even our children’s lives, that’s when we have a problem on our hands. Students in Singapore go through grueling examinations and are placed in different streams depending on their examination results. Sounds like a cattle call, doesn’t it? For me, I made it to the Normal Technical stream in secondary school. Unlike the more common route which takes you to either Junior College or
a Polytechnic, this stream took me to the Institute of Technical Education (ITE). Many years ago, ITE would have been seen as a lesser institution than it’s other counterparts but with more variety of courses these days and well equipped teachers who many are actual working adults in their field of expertise, the view on ITE has taken a different course. Anyway, back to me. I was very interested in taking a course in Building and Drafting (architecture was something I was drawn to), unfortunately my mother wasn’t too keen on that. To her, this was more of a man’s job than a woman’s. Mind you, this was back in the year 2000 and I didn’t want to go against my mother’s wishes. The IT buzz was still strong so I was pushed into Electronic/Computer technology. I did my time and after graduation, it was time to go out into the real world. The real world was harsh, I couldn’t find a job in the sector. By then, the IT bubble had burst and I was left taking odd jobs, waiting tables. One day, while scouring the classifieds for a job, I spotted an ad recruiting nurses even without a nursing diploma. This intrigued me and my mother who instantly signed me up. I went along with it but didn’t have high hopes – I mean, after all, I didn’t think I was qualified considering I didn’t have a science/ medical or nursing background. 40
To my surprise and delight, I was accepted into the program and in August 2002, I started my training as a Dental Surgery Assistant at the National Dental Centre. After a year of training, I attained my certification and began work officially. I enjoyed my work and was involved in many different departments such as Orthodontics, Prosthodontics, and Pedodontics. But my heart was still hanging on to my first love – Architecture. So in 2004, I sat for my examination again and failed. I failed twice but that didn’t stop me. Eventually I passed and secretly applied for the Architecture course back in ITE and got in. Time to tell mom…I did and she said no. Back to the drawing board. While all this was happening, I was still working as a Dental Assistant but was getting tired of the mundane work so I resigned. I took up an administration job temporarily to clear my mind but that got mundane as well.
I decided to jump into Communications and got a Diploma and an Advance Diploma in the hopes of securing a job in media. Unfortunately, I didn’t have much luck there either. The odds were stacking up against me by this point. So I went back to nursing as an old colleague recommended me to a clinic. I worked there for two years and it wasn’t fulfilling me. I kept telling myself “this cannot be it. I am not a robot. There must be something out there for me.” I spiraled into depression as I couldn’t find work for 6 months. And it was at this point that I decided to take one last try at Building and Drafting in my old ITE school. Whilst everyone at work was busy talking about their children having major exams, I was looking to better my life. I applied for the Design course with nothing but a small hope. By God’s grace, I successfully secured a seat in the Design School. But how was I going to finance my school fees?
Then, just like an answer to my prayers, a doctor I once knew called me up stating that she needed a qualified part time nurse for her clinic. The pieces to my puzzle were slowly coming together. Whilst I was on cloud nine that my dreams were beginning to come true, the last hurdle was to inform my parents. More importantly, my mother. The moment I uttered the words that I was going back to school to study design and architecture, my mother replied with the same rebuttal like before. This time with an added point that I was getting too old to go back to school. She roped in my father in her protest, to which he replied, “Well I did go back to school at the age of 45”. Silence fell. But that didn’t stop her protest. She began listing every other reason why it wasn’t right for me to go back to school – money, age, and of course marriage (going back to school would mean marriage would be on the backburner for now). But I had been accepted into the course of my dreams and I wasn’t going to miss this opportunity this time around. My first day was nerve wrecking. I felt nauseous and stressed. In the weeks to come, we are given drawings and assignments. And I was bad at drawings so I stayed behind to continue on my drawings during break time. During the first term of school,
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getting to adjust to classmates who are half my age was tiresome - here I was trying to learn and there they would be being childish. But I told myself that they were just like my siblings and cousins. I just had to persevere. This was my time and I wasn’t going to let kids half my age distract me from school. I guess I had more invested in this than them. I studied extra hard, I practiced on my drawings extra hours. And after all that hard work, I was happy that I received a distinction and a 4-point GPA (the best a student could ever get). Alhamdullilah. All my hard work and dedication paid off. And now my mother was finally on board, beaming with pride. Aside from the books, I was also into Archery and I got Gold for the Standard 30-metre Woman during a Sports Meet. Training every day and every week, juggling studies and sports was tough. But it was fun. 42
And with all these achievements under my belt, I was accepted in the ACE program which is a development program that recognizes a student’s achievement in Academic, Curricular activities and Enrichment opportunities. I am proud to say that I am not only academically capable but also in sports and in volunteering locally and overseas. I have attended talks by ministers and also CEOs of major companies. In 2016, during the last 10 days of Ramadan, I went to Cambodia with three other schools from Australia, USA and Canada to volunteer my service in a primary and also a vocational school. During these two years, I suffered from stress, depression and exhaustion, not to mention the numerous episodes of migraine attacks due to course works, training and studies. When I shared these with my mother, her four words lifted me - “I believe in you”.
My mother drives me to and fro for my archery practice and sometimes even reaching her workplace late just to send me to school. I do enjoy these trips with her where we just talk about anything and everything. I now know that when she was first against my choices, it was out of love. Mothers worry and that’s all she was doing – worrying for her daughter. But once I proved myself, she knew she had nothing to worry about.
My journey taught me that nothing is impossible and that if you set your sights and mind to something, you can indeed achieve it. I had many setbacks. I took years to finally get myself on to a direction that I can be proud of but if you stay true to yourself, you persevere, you surround yourself with good people, and most importantly have faith in Allah SWT, you can achieve anything.
THE WRITER: HALEEMAH DANDAWARI I’m Haleemah, a dental nurse and a student in ITE Nitec Space Design – Architecture. Awaiting a place in Polytechnic to further my studies. And I aspire to be an architect.
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Living
WHAT’S IN THE HOME It’s 2017 and just like fashion, home decor has its own trends. So out with the old and in with the new. Here are some of the decor trends making their way into our homes this new year.
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marble Marble Wall Clock from Target
Marble & copper salt keeper, USD60, from Williams-Sonoma
Madam Stoltz marble board with wood handle, USD119, from Make Room
Tria candleholder, USD35, from Kuhl Home
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Butterflies
Mina Victory Lifestyles Butterflies Oblong Throw Pillow USD60
Michael Aram Butterfly Ginkgo Round Trinket Tray USD69.00
Butterfly Home by Matthew Williamson Teal floral & butterfly print five drawer unit, GBP32 Colourful Butterflies Wall Sculpture from Home Decorators Collection USD59
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Navy Blue Agate Slice Desk Clock USD145
Navy blue
Pagoda Blue Mirror from zinc door, USD973
Ombré Velvet Pillow from Barney’s New York USD325
Geo Lamp from zinc door, USD240 47
Food
WINTER SOLICE afternoon tea at CONRAD ST JAMES Written & Photos by The London Haloodie
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hristmas is my favourite time of year by far! (Except March cos it’s my birthday month!!)
You don’t have to be a believing Christian to get involved in the festivities, its more about being wrapped up in wooly coats and boats, being by cosy fires, eating churros at Winter Wonderland and just being around people that are so happy to be with family and friends! It’s a magical time for sure! 48
What makes it all the more magical is the people you spend it with. It’s a great time for all families to gather over what we know best - food! But more than family, friends that turn into family. December marks the birthday of one of my dearest friends, my foodie friend and biggest supporter! (insert heart emoji) So, what do a bunch of foodies do around Christmas and birthdays? Festive afternoon tea of course what else!
It was my friend Z’s birthday so as a last minute plan, we headed down to Conrad St James Hotel (part of the Hilton Hotel Group) and tried their Winter Solice Afternoon Tea. It was a lovely day with my favourite people. The hotel was decked out in white Christmas trees towards the entrance, which made it all the more magical. There was a slight mix-up with our booking but the management managed to sort it out without an issue, which was very nice of them. We had to wait half an hour but were seated in a quaint little corner of the room where afternoon tea was being served in the Emmeline’s Lounge. 49
The ambiance was great, live harp players, dim lighting and trees with lighting. We sat down and were waited on by a very young man. We asked about halal food even though we did not preorder, and were informed by said young man that they could provide us halal meat from the kitchen for the afternoon tea. Very happy and excited, we ordered our teas. Then out came our sandwiches and scones, and to our disappointment they were all veggie. Turned out they didn’t do halal sandwiches and we had to preorder for the halal option, which we didn’t do.
Sandwiches -Beetroot and Goat’s Cheese, Cucumber and Chive with crème fraîche, Smoked salmon and cream cheese, and aubergine.
We were all rather annoyed by this as the waiter was adamant that they could give us halal sandwiches (not veggie ones!) - miss-selling, young man, will get you nowhere in life! We asked the waiter a number of times and got no response. So, we spoke to the manager who obviously understood our frustrations and dealt with us for the rest of the evening. The on-duty manager, Iroshi was absolutely lovely! He looked after us all the way through and made sure we were well catered for. Onto the food…We were given 2 savouries to start off with – Smoked Salmon and Avocado Salad, and Vegetable Couscous. 50
Sandwiches were veggie - but nonetheless good sandwiches. Beetroot and Goat’s Cheese, Cucumber and Chive with crème fraîche, Smoked salmon and cream cheese, and aubergine. If you follow my blogs, you’ll know from every afternoon tea I go to, it’s the scones that are the make or break for me. So Iroshi got us some warm scones, and fresh clotted cream postsandwich drama and off we went. Two types of scones – plain and the other Cranberry and Orange, along with St Clement’s Curd and Clotted Cream. The scones were small in size but size doesn’t matter in this case - they were
We were given 2 savouries to start off with – Smoked Salmon and Avocado Salad, and Vegetable Couscous.
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Scones were just perfection!
soft (a little too soft but not bad) but in taste they were perfection. I would have liked them to be a little less crumbly as it was difficult to lather layers of clotted cream without breaking it. Overall scones were a hit! Yay and just like that the day was saved! But what came next really blew me away - the dessert platter was...well you can just see for yourself! A mixture of desserts included White Forest Gateaux, Plum and Almond Tart, Double Chocolate Almond Tart, Green apple and Blackberry Mousse, and last but by NO MEANS least the Valrhona Dark Chocolate Wreath. 52
It was all stunning to look at and what’s more it was all delicious. Although at this point I was ready to lie down on the sofa I was on and take a long nap! Overall, it ended up being a great experience. The service was not great at all to begin with, but once we were being served by the Manager, Iroshi he made sure we were well looked after and saw to our every need and complaint! What started off as really bad customer service ended up as great, he even only charged us for one afternoon tea as we weren’t happy bunnies initially (usually priced at £49 per person).
Dessert Platter of White Forest Gateaux, Plum and Almond Tart, Double Chocolate Almond Tart, Green Apple and Blackberry Mousse, and the Valrhona Dark Chocolate Wreath.
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He sat with us and told us about his family and friends back in Sri Lanka, we exchanged business cards and were buddies by the end of it. He even threw in a little birthday treat for Z (even though they spelt birthday wrong but it was cool). Food - 7 out of 10 Service - 7 out of 10 (Thanks to the Manager, otherwise 2 at most) Price - 9 out of 10 (as we were only charged for 1 - usually ÂŁ49 pp, which is a little high for what you were getting) Atmosphere - 8 out of 10 Experience - 7 out of 10 54
Overall, giving Winter Solice Afternoon tea at Conrad St James a total TLH score of 7 out of 10. Address: 22-28 Broadway, London, SW1H 0BH Halal Status: Halal chicken and lamb upon request within 48 hours. Closest Station: St James (District and Circle Line)
Health
Honey H
oney has been used over the years for a variety of different purposes and the science has proven its benefits.
Honey can be consumed directly or with other foods like bread and what makes honey very beneficial is that it’s also used as traditional medicine by many people around the globe. Apart from the sweetness of honey which makes it very enjoyable there are many outstanding benefits of honey as well. I’m going to share with you some of its amazing qualities. Written by Asma
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BEAUTY & SKIN CARE BENEFITS... Honey has been used by many people as a beauty product over the years because of the great benefits it has for the skin. Honey is known to create a smooth, beautiful and glowing skin especially when it’s used with milk which also another great product. And for that reason it’s common to consume honey with milk in the early morning as a routine in many countries. 56
Honey is a great source of energy... The carbohydrates in honey can easily be converted into glucose by the body and that makes it a great source of energy for the body. Honey makes an excellent source of all-natural energy that is superior to other conventional sources since it comes with added nutrients. The National Honey Board recommends adding honey to your bottle of water for an energy boost during workouts. Snacks with honey can be eaten before and after, and honey sticks can be consumed during endurance events.
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Honey as an anti-oxidant... University of Illinois food scientists discovered that this golden sweetener is rich in heart health-protecting antioxidants. Yes, honey contains nutraceuticals, which removes the free radicals from the body and by that our immune system is improved against many conditions, even the fatal ones like the cancer, heart diseases.
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HONEY & WOUND HEALING... Honey has been found very effective in wound healing in an extent that it’s used in the hospital to dress wounds to accelerate the healing process. Here are some benefits of applying honey to a wound:
Honey possesses antimicrobial properties. It helps in promoting autolytic debridement. It deodorizes malodorous wounds. It speeds up the healing process by stimulating wound tissues. It helps in initiating the healing process in dormant wounds. Honey also helps in promoting moist wound healing.
Looking at all these benefits of honey and with the addition that honey is enjoyable to eat, I encourage you to develop the routine of using honey in your daily life Insha Allah.
ABOUT THE WRITER: ASMA Asma is the founder of sixah academy where they support, help, and encourage the Muslim women to start living a healthier and more fulfilling lifestyle, she is also a writer, speaker and a health coach. You can connect with her through her website or Facebook.
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Business
HOW TO GROW
WEALTH WHILE GROWING
COMMUNITIES Written by
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rowing your wealth ethically and meaningfully isn’t difficult. Shariah-based investments can help you to do so. They focus on investing in projects which promotes community and economic growth while ensuring basic universal values are adhered to. This socio-economic aspect appeals to investors of all faiths. Shariah investments are those which comply with Islamic law, whose primary references are the Quran and Hadiths 60
(teaching of the prophet Muhammad pbuh). Among other things, it prohibits investments in unlawful activities such as sale and production of alcohol, gambling and adult entertainment. Transactions that bear interests, excessive speculation and uncertainty are also prohibited as it leads to inequitable contractual relationship. Instead, those that encourage risk and profit sharing in real economic activities are emphasized.
A New Way of ShariahCompliant Investing Crowdfunding is becoming an increasingly popular avenue for small investors looking for attractive shortterm investments. As the name suggests, crowdfunding helps to facilitate funding for businesses or projects from a group of people or the crowd. In business funding, the crowd provide funds to with expectations of financial returns or profit from the business. Funding is done online to provide convenience and accessibility to investors globally. A crowdfunding platform acts as an intermediary. It matches investors with projects and businesses in need of financing. The platform displays funding campaigns, prepares legal funding agreement, and assist in the collection of funds. It helps businesses get funding and investors get profits, hence creating a win-win situation for all parties involved. Islamic crowdfunding platforms like www.kapitalboost.com combine the simplicity of crowdfunding with the ethical benefits of Shariahcompliant investing. Financing to businesses are done on a trade-like structure called Murabaha (cost plus margin). This arrangement involves investors purchasing assets (needed by a business) at cost, and selling it to the business for profit at a future date. 61
A Virtuous Cycle which Benefits Society Apart from returns, when you participate in Shariah-compliant crowdfunding, you create a virtuous cycle that strengthens communities and promotes ethical activities. Strengthening Communities When SMEs receive the much needed funding for their business, communities are strengthened. In Southeast Asia, SMEs comprise over 90% of total businesses and is a major source of employment and contributor to economic growth. Where banks have strict financing requirements that many SMEs are unable to meet, investors with excess cash can step in as an alternative source of funds for these businesses. This is enabled through crowdfunding platforms which allows individuals to collectively pool resources and raise the funding amount needed. The distribution of wealth from surplus to deficit units allows for wealth to be smoothly circulated and human welfare realised. By unlocking investments from the community to businesses needing financing the most, it allows entrepreneurial activities to prosper while reducing inequality. 62
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...Apart from returns, when you participate in Shariahcompliant crowdfunding, you create a virtuous cycle that strengthens communities and promotes ethical activities...
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SMEs grow through increased business activities, while investors grow through sharing of profits from those activities which they funded. Overall, good is achieved and the entire community prospers as well.
Repeating To Do Good
Promoting Ethical Activities
However as in all investments, one must exercise prudence when assessing investment opportunities. This includes understanding one’s own risk appetite, threshold of loss and short/long term financial goals. Diversifying ones investment too helps to mitigate risk of losing your monies and helps achieve better long term returns.
Doing good in Islam is not only about enriching oneself but extends to the general society, including the environment. This is manifested in values and ethics such as community development and honest and fair dealings - all of which are espoused by the religion. For example, a business looking to fund activities that causes environmental pollution would not appeal to the public, and more so in Islam. This resonates well with other mainstream investment screens such as Environmental, Sustainable and Governance (ESG) factors in measuring sustainability and Socially Responsible Investing (SRI). 63
By continuing to invest in different businesses, investors are participating in a virtuous cycle of helping their communities grow in an ethical way.
By continuing to invest in different businesses, investors not only earn consistent returns in the long term, they also protect themselves from default risk by these businesses.
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