Nujeen Mustafa On Living With A Disability And Defying

NUJEEN MUSTAFA ON LIVING WITH A DISABILITY AND DEFYING SOCIETY’S EXPECTATIONS

NUJEEN MUSTAFA is a Syrian refugee, youth advocate, and champion for children with disabilities for the UN Refugee Agency. At just sixteen years old, Nujeen Mustafa made the 3,500-mile journey from Syria to Germany in a steel wheelchair. Nujeen was born with cerebral palsy and spent most of her life confined to her apartment in Aleppo, Syria, where she taught herself English by watching shows on TV.

As war broke out, she and her family were forced to flee – first to her native Kobane, then Turkey. Her family didn’t have enough money for them all to make it to safety in Germany, where her brother lived, so her parents stayed in Turkey while she set out with her sister across the Mediterranean, braving inconceivable odds for the chance to have a normal life and an education.

Nujeen’s optimism and defiance when confronting all of her challenges have propelled this young refugee from Syria into the spotlight as the human face of an increasingly dehumanized crisis. Since moving to Germany, Nujeen has continued to tell her remarkable story and to capture the hearts of all who hear her speak.

NUJEEN, THEN 16, IS CARRIED OUT OF A FLIMSY DINGHY AFTER WASHING UP ON THE GREEK ISLAND OF LESVOS. © UNHCR/IVOR PRICKETT

ECW: Your story of triumph over struggle has inspired people around the world. Can you tell us a little bit about what it was like growing up as a girl unable to go to school in Aleppo, Syria, and how you worked to ensure you got an education?

NUJEEN MUSTAFA: Growing up and not being able to go to school, I realized pretty early on that my life was unusual—but I wanted to do the best with what I had.

When I turned about 6 or 7, my older sister taught me how to read and write in Arabic and then it was left up to me to practice. This was when I kind of used television as a way of educating myself and learning how to read and write. Then I moved on to other things with English—learning about every subject and topic that I could find. Of course, my sisters also brought me the schoolbooks for each year when I was growing up. I would finish them in one day because I turned out to be such a bookworm! From then on, when I was old enough to start being self-taught, I just did it.

I think this was my way of defying the circumstances that I was in, and it kind of gave birth to this desire to prove that I can overcome all these obstacles, even if they are hard. To this day, I think one of my most fundamental traits is the desire to prove that I can accomplish many things that are not expected of me.

ECW: Today, 75 million children and youth caught in emergencies and protracted crises are not able to go to school. Education Cannot Wait and its partners are working to get them back to learning. Why do you think this is so important, particularly for perhaps the most vulnerable: refugee girls with disabilities?

NUJEEN MUSTAFA: It shouldn’t even be a question as to “why” we should educate our children; it just has to be a fact of life because everyone should know “why.” Children are always emphasized as the future of their countries and communities. But when you do not invest in a portion of the population, which is the population that has a disability, this is just not right. This is a violation of your rights as a human being, your right to education.

There have been many pledges and resolutions about the importance of education, especially for young people and people with disabilities. To live in this kind of cognitive dissonance, where there is this acknowledgment that this is important and yet nothing is being done to carry it out, is very concerning.

A prosperous and educated youth means a prosperous and thriving country. There is no logical reason why any country would want to ignore its children, youth, and people with disabilities. They can contribute, and they are this kind of untapped treasure, untapped resource, that is not being used sufficiently.

No one has the right to discriminate against you based on something that you have no control over. You don’t make a choice to be born with a disability, just as you don’t choose to be of a certain ethnicity.

ECW: What were the common misconceptions about children with disabilities that you faced as you grew up?

NUJEEN MUSTAFA: I love to talk about this aspect of having a disability because, where I grew up, disability meant that you were expected to just live on the sidelines and not grow at all as a person—academically or personally. I despised meeting people for the first time and seeing them feel sorry for me because they thought I would have no future and no life. I think the misconception that people may have is that we are expected to act as though we are doomed.

I recognize that it depends on your family’s mentality, and my family was adamant about me having what they had and being as equal to them as possible. Many of these children didn’t have this kind of supportive and encouraging environment. How society perceived them might have damaged their sense of self and made them very insecure. I consider myself lucky that I grew up in a family that pushed me to be better—that didn’t view me as a nuisance who didn’t have any potential.

I think society’s biggest misconception is that it expects us not to have any ambitions or dreams. That the mere fact of us having a disability should eradicate any glimmer of hope inside of us that these dreams might come true—but that, of course, is not the case.

**This interview by Education Cannot Wait.

Nujeen Mustafa is the author of best-seller

NUJEEN: ONE GIRL'S INCREDIBLE JOURNEY FROM WAR-TORN SYRIA

IN A WHEELCHAIR. To learn more about her inspiring story and how Education Cannot Wait is changing the lives of children everywhere, visit educationcannotwait.org