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contents A Message from Kyle Idleman............................................5
Week 1: At Just the Right Time...........................................9
Week 2: Favored One...........................................................17
Week 3: Faithful One...........................................................25
Week 4: This Is God’s Plan?................................................33
Week 5: Immanuel...............................................................41
Week 6: Gold, Frankincense, Myrrh....................................51
Additional Resources...........................................................66
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Two frightened young parents, a newborn babe, a bed of straw. What if what happened then changes everything now? It’s easy to forget that the Christmas holiday has anything to do with God’s plan to restore mankind to himself. But the fact is that this commercialized, secularized holiday is meant to commemorate the most audacious miracle of all time—the arrival of Immanuel, God with us. The Christmas Experience shows us that Jesus is worth waiting for. His coming into the world may not make our circumstances easier—in fact, like many who experienced the first Christmas, the very opposite may be true—but he does give our lives purpose and true joy. He brings a joy that the world cannot give or understand. The people who lived through the miraculous events of that first Christmas experienced firsthand the impact of Jesus’ life. Mary and Joseph, the shepherds, the wise men—all of them would be forever changed. That can still happen today. It can happen to anyone who turns their eyes to Jesus, God with us, and travels with him through The Christmas Experience.
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A MESSAGE FROM KYLE IDLEMAN
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WHAT IS THE CHRISTMAS EXPERIENCE? The Christmas Experience is a 6-week small group study that examines the Christmas story in detail, helping groups (and families) prepare for the Christmas season. Each episode will focus on how God chose each individual in the Christmas story for a specific purpose. Those participating in The Christmas Experience study will be able to find themselves in the Christmas story, as they learn that what happened then changes everything now.
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“When the time had fully come, God sent his Son.” (Galatians 4:4) Opening: Answer one of the following questions: • Think back over Christmases past. Which one did you most look forward to with anticipation? Why? • As Christmastime approaches this year, what part of the celebration do you most anticipate with excitement? • As you anticipate Christmas, what phrase or phrases best describe you? • Oh no…there is so much to get done! • How long is your family staying? • Do we have to buy a gift for every single person we know? • What a wonderful time of year to reflect on the birth of Jesus and all the promises. • I really miss the people who are not going to be with us this Christmas. • Other: ________________________________________________ DVD Presentation: View Episode 1, “At Just the Right Time,” on The Christmas Experience DVD. Use the space below to jot down anything that jumps out at you:
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WEEK 1: At Just the Right Time
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Discussion: 1. What initial reactions or thoughts do you have to this presentation? Luke 2:1-7 _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ 2. What evidences of God’s timing and provision do you see in this passage? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________
3. Why does it matter to the gospel story that Caesar Augustus issued a decree for the entire Roman world? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________
“But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times.” (Micah 5:2) “Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.” (Isaiah 7:14) “Out of Egypt I called my son.” (Hosea 11:1) President James A. Garfield once called history “the unrolled scroll of prophecy.” God always keeps his promises. History is his story! In Jeremiah 1:12, God says, “I am watching to see that my word is fulfilled.” God had the date of Jesus’ birth circled on his calendar. Sending his son into the world as a gift to humanity was no impulse decision; God had planned it since the beginning of time. 4. How had God orchestrated all the circumstances so that the Good News about Jesus would spread throughout the world? • Politically? • Philosophically? • Linguistically? • Through advancements in technology and industry?
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In the video, Kyle mentioned that there are about three hundred promises made about Jesus in the Old Testament, and God kept all of them. Here are just a few of them.
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5. When has God come through for you “at just the right time”? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ • When you look back, how did you see God orchestrating the circumstances to come through for you in ways you didn’t understand at the time? 6. Kyle shared the stories of several people who were “in God’s waiting room,” waiting for God to finally come through for them. He mentioned life circumstances such as trying to sell a house, needing healing after an accident, wanting to start a family, looking for a job, and wanting to get married. Would anyone be willing to share a life circumstance or situation in which you have been waiting for God to come through? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________
We learn from the Christmas story that we can trust God’s timing. So much of God’s Word teaches us to trust God in the middle of our life circumstances. This isn’t easy, but it is how God molds us into the people he wants us to become. A familiar verse for many Christ-followers is Proverbs 3:5, 6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” 8. How does this verse show us how to trust in God’s timing? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________
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7. It can be difficult to see God’s hand when you are in the middle of your “winter.” Why do you think it is so hard to see God at work when you’re in the midst of painful circumstances? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________
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Prayer: We have discussed areas in which we are thankful for how God has come through for us in the past as well as current circumstances where we are still waiting on his timing. Let’s take some time now first to thank and praise him for being a God who is driving the universe with both hands on the wheel. Then let’s also take our personal requests to him, trusting him to orchestrate everything for our good and his glory. Let’s be sure to not only ask him to work on our behalf, but also to help us trust him and his timing as he is working. Between the Meeting Options: • Individually or with your family, read Luke 1:5-25 together. Discuss some of the ways God was preparing to send Jesus into the world in his perfect timing. • Call another member of the group this week and ask about a circumstance that person is going through for which he or she is waiting on God’s timing. Offer to pray for the person on the phone. • Watch Episode 1 via http://www.cityonahillstudio.com with your family. Ask your children about how they saw God preparing for the birth of Jesus at just the right time. • Read and meditate on Luke 1:26-38 throughout the week. • Reflect (and journal) on the following questions:
2) What does he still need to do to prepare your heart for this celebration? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________
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1) How is God preparing your heart for the celebration of Christ’s coming into the world this Christmas? _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________