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Camp Simmons Celebrates

Draft POCD Released

To have input, residents must review & comment before Sept. 19

S Major work on a sewer project will require road closures in the area of Davis Avenue and Bruce Park Avenue, beginning this week and stretching into December. Closures a re e x p e c t e d to t a k e place between 7 a.m., and 5 p.m., on weekdays.

Greenwich Police will direct traff ic when necessary; detour signs will be posted.

S Megan Wax has been named head field hockey Coach at Greenwich High School, replacing longtime coach, Ally Orric, who resig ned i n Aug ust .

Wa x joi ne d t he GHS athletic staff in 2012, and has helped coach girls’ basketball, girls’ lacrosse and field hockey.

S Eversource Energy has been recognized with the nation’s highest honor recognizing its support of employees in the military.

Eversource was one of 15 companies selected from 2,500 nominations to receive the 2019 Defense Employer Support Freedom Award.

S Gov. Ned Lamont held a meeting on Tuesday with over 70 education stakeholders from across t he state to discuss improvements that can be made to i mprove educational outcomes for students, specifically as his administration prepares its package of legislative proposals for the 2020 session of the General Assembly, which begins in February.

S The Glenville Volunteer Fire Company is hosting a 9/11 memorial ceremony on Wednesday, Sept. 11 at 7 p.m., at the Glenville Fire House. The event will start with a welcome from the Glenville Volunteer Fire Company, followed by a presentation of the colors, pledge of allegiance, singing of the national anthem, and an invocation.

For Camp Simmons' last day of camp, the celebrity grill masters were Jenny Byxbee and Connie Blunden. Above, campers show their appreciation by performing a wave, coached by Byxbee, in advance of the burgers. For more on this story by Richard Kaufman, see page A10.

After months of hard work a nd pu bl ic out r e ach, a d ra f t o f G r e e nw i c h's 2 01 9 P l a n o f Conservation & Development (POCD) has been released.

Completed every 10 years, a POCD is essentially a blueprint for the future. It's a community vision that will guide Greenwich's physical and economic development for the next 10 to 20 years. The POCD will result in a set of new policies directing future growth and development while aiding town leaders in decision making for the community.

A POCD addresses land use and development; public social spaces; housing cost and variety; transportation and mobility; parks and open space; public facilities and infrastructure; sustainability a nd resi lienc y, includ ing sea level rise; historic structures and landscapes; changes in retail and work /economic development; and implementation.

When changes are made to municipal facilities in town,

t hey go t h roug h a Mu n icipa l Improvement (MI) process. The goal of the process is to determine if the project is in compliance w ith the POCD. A l l zon i ng regulation changes must also be in compliance with the Plan. " Retent ion of c om mu n it y character, which refers to our distinct identity or sense of place, was the issue that we heard most loudly throughout the outreach per iod. This means dif ferent things to different people, but what resonated most with people was promoting tree preservation, tree planting, public sculpture, streetscapes and ensuring that new residential and commercial developments are in scale with and keeping with the existing built environment," said Katie DeLuca, Greenwich's Director of Planning & Zoning. She added that there are action items throughout the Plan desig ned to address those objectives.

"For example, in efforts to increase affordable housing stock, we talk about doing so with ‘hidden housing ’ including accessor y

apartments in existing homes and converting existing buildings into residential uses," DeLuca explained.

The current draft of the POCD is not final, and changes can be made, which is the purpose of the public workshop scheduled for Sept. 19 at Greenwich High School.

The workshop is designed to get feedback from the community.

DeLuca said that a public hearing date, when the Commission will take action on the POCD, will be set based on the comments received before and at the Sept. 19 workshop.

The Planning & Zoning Department is working toward bringing the POCD up during the December RTM meeting. DeLuca stressed that the Commission has not committed to finalizing anything until they are sure they have community consensus.

To v i e w t h e P l a n o f Conservation and Development, go to www.greenwichct.gov.

For physical copies, contact Planning and Zoning at 203622-7894.

The Rabbit Effect, A New Look at Your Health

By Beth Barhydt The Rabbit Effect, a new book by author Kelli Harding, MD, MPH, opens with some sobering statistics about health in the United States, statistics that might just be remedied by something very basic: kindness.

"A m e r i c a n s ," s h e w r i t e s , " a r e remarkably unhealthy. In 2016, the United States ranked forty-third in the world for life expectancy. Unless we change course, the U.S. is expected to drop to sixty-fourth place by 2040."

“Life expectancy gives us a snapshot of the Nation’s overall health,” CDC Director Robert R. Redfield said in a statement, “and these sobering statistics are a wakeup call that we are losing too many Americans, too early and too often, to conditions that

are preventable.”

Of the leading causes of death in the United States (heart disease, cancer, unintentional injuries, chronic lower respiratory disease, stroke, Alzheimer’s, diabetes, influenza and pneumonia, kidney disease, and suicide) only cancer reportedly registered a decrease in mortality rates.

"It's not just life expectancy," suggests Dr. Harding. "America has consistently poor performance on numerous global health measures. For instance, despite spending more than any other country for hospitalbased maternity care, the U.S. is ranked forty-sixth in the world for maternal health."

In fact, the United States ranks poorly compared to other developed nations in many key indicators of a nation's health, including infant mortality, car crashes,

mental illness, teen pregnancies, heart disease, imprisonment, homicides, substance abuse, obesity, and premature death.

All of this in spite of the fact that the United States spends more on healthcare than any other country in the world, a large portion of which comes from the federal government. In 2017, the United States spent approximately $3.5 trillion, or 17.9 percent of GDP, on health expenditures. That is double the average of most developed countries.

It may not be surprising then that biomedical, pharmaceuticals, and healthcare now rank as top economic drivers in the United States, making healthcare the top industry in the nation.

So, Dr. Harding poses this question in her introduction, "If biomedical advances and expensive medical care aren't making

Cricket and Jim Lockhart Champion the Bruce Museum

the difference to our health, what is? What would it actually take to make us healthier?

Dr. Harding's thesis is this: "When it comes to our health, we've been missing some crucial pieces - hidden factors behind what really makes us healthy. Factors like love, friendship, and dignity."

Her book endeavors to prove her thesis using evidence-based studies that offer readers a different way to think about health, one linked to kindness and relationships. She begins with a study on rabbits, which is the genesis of the title, and demonstrates again and again the effect of positive relationships on physical well-being.

As The Rabbit Effect reviewer Dr. Robert Nerem wrote, it appears that Ecclesiastes was correct, "a faithf ul f riend is the medicine of life."

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S Here are some safety tips w it h school back in session. For drivers, yield to pedestrians in crosswalks, and take extra care in school zones. Do not block crosswalks, or pass a vehicle stopped for pedestrians. Never pass a bus loading or unloading children. Those who walk to school should use the sidewalk. If there is no sidewa lk, wa lk facing traffic. Never walk while texting or talking on the phone, and do not walk while using headphones.

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By Jill S. Woolworth, LMFT New Bruce supporters Jim and Cricket Lockhart are championing the Bruce Museum's giant step in expansion.

By Anne W. Semmes At t he Br uce Museu m, Cr icket a nd Ji m Lockhart are often cited as one of the Museum’s “first families.” Their love for the Bruce is shared by their Greenwich children and grandchildren.

On a recent visit, their oldest grandson, age seven, was fascinated by the Museum’s annual iCreate exhibition of work by high school artists. “He was looking at each painting, analyzing each, picking out his favorite, and wanting to know how old the artist was,” notes Grandfather Jim. Treated to a requested pad and colored pencils from the Museum store, “He was drawing in the car going home.”

Museum-going is a Lockhart legacy. Cricket had grandparents living near the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City. Every trip to see them brought a tour of the Met. When visiting his Westchester-based grandparents, Jim was taken to

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the Bruce. “It’s in the blood,” he notes. “We’ve lived in a lot of different places, and we’ve always gone to museums.”

To d ay, Ji m s er ve s a s t he C h a i r of t he Museum’s Board of Trustees, while Cricket serves on the Campaign for the New Bruce Committee and is one of the Co-Chairs of the Campaign launch event, Bruce ConsTRUCKS on Sunday, September 8, a community-wide celebration of the Museum’s transformative renovation and construction project. They are both championing the giant step the Bruce is taking in its expansion.

“It’s the aesthetics,” says Cricket. “You’re going to have it looking out toward the Sound – the entrance, with a big sculpture pathway.”

“We're going to have much larger permanent art galleries – in fact, four of them,” adds Jim, “and one big giant changing gallery so we’ll be able to do larger-scale exhibitions. We’ll be able to fill

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Qigong with Donna Bunte Whole Health. Greenwich Botanical Center, 130 Bible St. $10-$20. 203-869-9242.

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Drop-in Playtime - playtime with toys and a drop-in craft. Cos Cob Library. Free.

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Exhibition Highlights Tour - guided tours of the current exhibitions led by a Museum Docent. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. (Every Tuesday,

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Marine Tank Animal Feeding. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. (Every Tuesday and Friday, 2:30 - 2:45 p.m.) 203-869-0376. info@ brucemuseum.org 7:30 - 9:30 p.m.

Wine & Cheese Moonlit Walk. Audubon Greenwich, 613 Riversville Rd. Ages 21 & up. $5, members; $8, nonmembers. RSVP is required.

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The Greenwich Farmers Market opening day. Arch Street Parking Lot, 100 Arch St. (Every Saturday through December, weather permitting). 203-380-0580. gfm-ct@optimum.net. greenwichfarmersmarketct. com

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'Elegante Junk Marketplace' Tag Sale Fundraiser. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Also, Sunday, Sept. 1. Rain or shine. 203-629-5744. info@ archstreet.org 12 - 12:45 p.m.

Greenwich Historical Society Gallery Tours. 47 Strickland Rd. Free with museum admission. No registration necessary.

Meet at the information desk in the Museum Lobby.

(Every Wednesday and Saturday). 203-869-6899. greenwichhistory.org SUNDAY, SEPT. 1 8:30 - 11 a.m.

St. Lawrence Society (SLS): Breakfast Buffet. The Club, 86 Valley Rd. $12 for adults, members and non-members; $8 for children. RSVP. (1st Sunday of every month) 203-618-9036. trish@ stlawrencesociety.com. stlawrencesociety.com/events

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Bring binoculars. Free. All ages welcome. No fees or registration required. 203637-9822. cynthia.ehlinger@ gmail.com

Greenwich Library - Health Information Center, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. 203622-7914. trainingcenter@ greenwichlibrary.org

10 a.m. - 5 p.m.

'Elegante Junk Marketplace' Tag Sale Fundraiser. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Rain or shine. 203-6295744. info@archstreet.org

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Free Blood Pressure Screening. Byram Shubert Library - Conference Room, 21 Mead Ave. Free. 203-5310426

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East Coast Open. Greenwich Polo Club, 1 Hurlingham Dr. Gates open at 1 p.m., match begins at 3. $40 per car. The Brant Foundation Art Study Center is open to the public during Polo Sundays. 203-561-1639. info@ greenwichpoloclub.com. greenwichpoloclub.com

12:30 - 1:30 p.m.

Exhibition Highlights Tour - guided tours of the current exhibitions led by a Museum Docent. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. (Every Tuesday, 1:30 p.m., and Friday, 12:30 p.m.) 203-869-0376. info@ brucemuseum.org

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Yoga class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net. thebch.org 10 a.m.

Registration for free ESL classes for those who live or work in Greenwich.

Havemeyer Building, 290 Greenwich Ave. Also, Sept.

4 and 5, 10 a.m. Free. 203625-7474. Kathy_Post@ greenwich.k12.ct.us 10:30 - 11 a.m.

Spanish Storytime - music and songs, stories and movement. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free. Children.

203-622-6883. lmatthews@ greenwichlibrary.org 10:30 - 11 a.m.

Tales for Tots - stories, songs, and finger plays to encourage a love of books and early language development (2 and 3 years old). Greenwich Library - Rear of Children's Room, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. No registration required. 203-622-7940. dsullivan@greenwichlibrary. org 11 a.m. - 12 p.m.

Drop-in Computer Lab get assistance with email, online forms, social media, creating documents and more from Library Staff.

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First Sunday Bird Walk at Greenwich Point. Meet near southern concession.

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Sit n Stitch - join local knitters as they work on individual projects or projects for the community. Cos Cob Library, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free.

All levels are welcome. 203622-6883 1:30 - 3 p.m.

Parkinson’s Support Group: Exercise with Miriam Shaw, RPT; caregiver support. Eastern Greenwich Civic Center, 90 Harding Rd. Free. 203-863-4444. greenwichhospital.org/events 2:30 - 3:30 p.m.

Marine Tank Animal Feeding. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. (Every Tuesday and Friday, 2:30 - 2:45 p.m.) 203-869-0376. info@ brucemuseum.org 2 - 4 p.m.

Tech Assistance at Byram Shubert Library. Conference Room, 21 Mead Ave. Dropin program, no reservations are required. Free. Adults, all ages. (First Tuesday of the month). 203-531-0426 3:30 - 8:30 p.m.

Open Studio Time at Andrew's Studio - learn recording, mixing and production. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Free. Grades 7th-12th. Free.

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4 - 5 p.m.

Music Lessons. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich - Music Room, 108 Sound Beach Ave. 203-637-1791. fccog.org/ fccogcalendar 5 - 9:30 p.m.

Greenwich Stars “Fall” Travel Basketball Team Tryouts - Boys ages: 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13 & 14. Carmel Academy, 270 Lake Ave. Also, Wednesday, Sept. 4. No preregistration necessary. Arrive 15 minutes early to register.

Free. 203-661-4444. John.

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Registration for free ESL classes for those who live or work in Greenwich.

Greenwich High School, 10 Hillside Rd. Also, Wednesday, Sept. 4, 6 p.m. Free. 203625-7474. Kathy_Post@ greenwich.k12.ct.us 7 - 9 p.m.

Department of Parks and Recreation: Drop-in games of Volleyball for men and women. Bendheim Western Greenwich Civic Center, 449 Pemberwick Rd. All are welcome. $4 per day drop in fee. (Every Tuesday.) 203-5321259. greenwichct.gov WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 4 9:30 - 10:30 a.m.

Yoga class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net 9:45 a.m. & 12:45 p.m.

The Perfectly Polite Bridge Group - Relaxed Duplicate Bridge, 9:45 a.m. - 12 p.m.; Duplicate Bridge with Conventions Game, 12:45

- 2:45 p.m. YMCA of Greenwich, 50 E. Putnam Ave. $10, members; $12, nonmembers. Register. (Every Wednesday). 203-525-8032.

Ppolitebridge@optimum.net. greenwichymca.org 10 a.m.

Registration for free ESL classes for those who live or work in Greenwich.

Havemeyer Building, 290 Greenwich Ave. Free. 203625-7474. Kathy_Post@ greenwich.k12.ct.us

11 - 11:30 a.m.

Storytime - Deborah Kupper will lead kids on explorations of historical events and figures through storytelling, songs, and movement. Ages 2 to 5. Greenwich Historical Society, 47 Strickland Rd. Free. (Every Wednesday).

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10 a.m. - 12 p.m.

NAMI - National Alliance on Mental Illness Support Group. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich - Lounge, 108 Sound Beach Ave. Free.

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12 - 12:45 p.m.

Greenwich Historical Society Gallery Tours. 47 Strickland Rd. Free with museum admission. No registration necessary. Meet at the information desk in the Museum Lobby. (Every Wednesday and Saturday).

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10:30 a.m.

Greenwich Chamber of Commerce 10th Annual Golf Outing. Griffith E. Harris Golf Club, 1300 King St. 203-869-3500.

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2:30 - 6 p.m.

Old Greenwich Farmer's Market. Living Hope Community Church of Old Greenwich, 38 West End Ave. Rain or shine. (Every Wednesday, 2:30 - 6 p.m. through end of October; 2 - 5 p.m. in November). oldgreenwichfarmersmarket. com

10:30 - 11 a.m.

Drop-In Toddlertime stories, songs, movement, finger plays, puppets. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free.

Children. 203-622-6883 10:30 - 11 a.m.

Tales for Tots - stories, songs, and finger plays to encourage a love of books and early language development (2 and 3 years old). Greenwich Library - Rear of Children's Room, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. No registration required. 203-622-7940. dsullivan@greenwichlibrary. org 11 a.m.

Retired Men's Association

of Greenwich: Wes Haynes: “The Merritt Parkway: History and Future of a National Treasure." First Presbyterian Church, 1 West Putnam Ave. Free and open to the community. info@greenwichrma.org. greenwichrma.org

3:45 - 4:45 p.m.

Drop-In Pre-School Story/ Craft - stories, songs, movement and a craft ages 2 1/2 and up. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free. 203-6226883 4 - 6 p.m.

Greenwich Center for Hope & Renewal: Grief Support Group. GCHR, 237 Taconic Rd. $200 for eight sessions. Through Oct. 30.

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Yoga - H. Hale Class. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich - Daniels Center, 108 Sound Beach Ave. 203-637-1791 5 - 9:30 p.m.

Greenwich Stars “Fall” Travel Basketball Team Tryouts Boys ages: 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13 & 14. Carmel Academy, 270 Lake Ave. No preregistration necessary. Arrive 15 minutes early to register.

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Greenwich High School, 10 Hillside Rd. Free. 203625-7474. Kathy_Post@ greenwich.k12.ct.us

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Class: “Mind, Body, Fertility Yoga.” Prescott House, 38 Volunteer Ln., ground flr. $80 for four classes or $25 drop-in fee per class. Register. 888357-2409 7 p.m.

Board of Education Meeting - Board Retreat. Havemeyer Building, 290 Greenwich Ave. michael_antonaccio@ greenwich.k12.ct.us. greenwichschools.org

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Greenwich Toastmasters Meeting - Leadership & Public Speaking. Greenwich Town Hall, 101 Field Point Rd. Open to the public. (1st, 3rd & 5th Wednesday of each month.) 203-502-7552. toastmasters.org 7 - 9 p.m.

Bowman Observatory Public Nights (1st and 3rd Wednesday of every month, if skies are clear).

On the grounds of Julian Curtiss School, 180 E. Elm St. Free. 203-413-6762.

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Department of Parks and 5:15 p.m.

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Byram Park, Picnic Area Bendheim Western Greenwich Grind Teen Coffee (park pass and parking Greenwich Civic Center, 449 House - featuring Open STUDIO pass are required). $11 per GREENWICH Pemberwick Rd. 203-532Studio time. Arch Street Teen session or 4-Class card for 1259. greenwichct.gov Center, 100 Arch St. Free. $44. 203-200-7788. yoga@ Capture the perfect moment Grades 7th-12th. Free. Every breathinglovecenter.com.

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Mandarin Storytime story, movement, song and games. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free. Children.

Every Thursday. No prior knowledge required. No registration needed. 203-6226883 11 - 11:30 a.m.

Fiesta de los Cuentos - Spanish and English storytime. Greenwich Library

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Free. No registration required. 203-622-7940. dsullivan@greenwichlibrary. org 11:30 a.m. - 12:45 p.m.

Qi Gong - mindful movement and breathing. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free.

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Hospital’s Noble Conference Center, 5 Perryridge Rd. Free. Register. 888-305-9253. greenwichhospital.org/events 1 - 2:15 p.m.

Family Caregiver Support Group - for adults who care for a family member with Alzheimer’s disease or other types of dementia. Center for Healthy Aging at Greenwich Hospital, 5 Perryridge Rd. Free. 888-305-9253 1:30 - 2:30 p.m.

Special event: “Coping Mindfully with Cancer” four-week series. Smilow Cancer Hospital Care Center, 77 Lafayette Pl. Free. Register.

203-863-2939 2 - 2:30 p.m.

My First Story Time - songs, nursery rhymes, fingerplays, movement, and simple stories.

Ages 12-18 months. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free.

203-622-6883. lmatthews@ greenwichlibrary.org 3:30 - 4:30 p.m.

Tween Hip Hop with Colleen Flynn - learn fun hip-hop techniques and combinations.

Byram Shubert Library Community Room, 21 Mead Ave. Children. Free. 203-5310426 3:30 - 8:30 p.m.

Open Studio Time at Andrew's Studio - learn recording, mixing and production. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Free. Grades 7th-12th. Free.

Every Tuesday and Thursday.

Reserve a time. 203-6295744. info@archstreet.org. archstreet.org 6 p.m.

Lecture: Contemporary Women Artists: Re-Shaping Today's Art World. Bruce Museum, One Museum Dr. $30 for members, $45 for non-members. 203-869-0376. info@brucemuseum.org. brucemuseum.org 6 - 7 p.m.

Bedtime Story and Craft with Miss Judy and Miss Lyn. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free.

Register. (Come in PJs if you

wish). 203-622-6883 6 - 7 p.m.

Yoga class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net 7 - 8 p.m.

AuthorsLive: 'World Class' by Teru Clavel. Byram Shubert Library - Community Room, 21 Mead Ave. Free. Adults.

203-531-0426 7 - 8:30 p.m.

Conservation Commission Meeting. Greenwich Town Hall - Cone Room, 2nd floor, 101 Field Point Rd. greenwichct.gov 8 p.m.

'God Of Carnage' - A Play presented by Greenwich Theatre Company. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Sept. 5-8 & Sept.

12-15. Evening show times: 8 p.m.; Sunday matinees: 2 p.m. General admission, $40; seniors, $30; students, $10. 203-629-5744. greenwichtheatrecompany@ gmail.com. greenwichtheatrecompany. org FRIDAY, SEPT. 6 9:30 a.m.

Gentle Yoga with Helena Svedi. Greenwich Botanical Center, 130 Bible St. $25$35. 203-869-9242. info@ greenwichbotanicalcenter. org. greenwichbotanicalcenter. org 9:30 - 10:30 a.m.

Yoga class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net 10:30 - 11:15 a.m.

Drop-In Toddlertime stories, songs, movement, finger plays, puppets. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free.

Children. 203-622-6883 1 - 2 p.m.

Meditation Workshop.

Greenwich Library - The Jewel, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. All ages. 203-625-6549 3:45 - 4:15 p.m.

World Music with

Anitra. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free. All ages.

203-622-6883 4:15 - 5:15 p.m.

Yoga class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net 6:30 p.m.

Nostalgia Night: Remember Manero's. St. Lawrence Society (SLS), 86 Valley Rd. SLS members, $40; guests, $45; children, $25. 203-6189036. stlawrencesociety.com/ events 8 p.m.

'God Of Carnage' - A Play presented by Greenwich Theatre Company. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Sept. 5-8 & Sept. 12-15.

Evening show times: 8 p.m.; Sunday matinees: 2 p.m. $10, $30 & $40. 203-629-5744. greenwichtheatrecompany@ gmail.com SATURDAY, SEPT. 7 9 - 10:15 a.m.

Yoga class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net 9 - 11 a.m.

Friends of Byram Shubert Book Donation Drop Off. Donations can be left near the garage at St. Paul Church, located at 55 William St. West. (Please do not leave donations if there is a chance of inclement weather.) 203531-0426 9 - 11 a.m.

CPR Friends and Family (Infant/Child). Greenwich Hospital’s Medical Education Room, 5 Perryridge Rd. $65. Register. Designed for lay rescuers only. Meets American Heart Association standards. 888-305-9253. greenwichhospital.org/events 10 a.m. - 12 p.m.

Greenwich Choral Society Auditions. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich Auditorium, 108 Sound Beach Ave. 203-622-5136. greenwichchoralsociety.org

10:30 - 11 a.m.

Mother Goose Storytime - stories and songs (Baby, Preschool, Toddler).

Greenwich Library - Rear of Children's Room, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free.

No registration required.

203-622-7940. dsullivan@ greenwichlibrary.org SATURDAY, SEPT. 7 10:30 - 12 p.m.

Family Craft: Friendship Bracelets with Laura.

Byram Shubert Library Community Room, 21 Mead Ave. All ages. Free. 203-5310426 10:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Family Fun Saturday: Legos, Games, and Craft. Cos Cob Library - Community Room, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free. Ages 3 and up. 203-622-6883 10:45 a.m. - 2 p.m.

Greenwich Stars “Fall” Travel Basketball Team Tryouts - Boys ages: 15, 16, 17 & Girls grades: 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 & 8. Carmel Academy, 270 Lake Ave. No pre-registration necessary. Arrive 15 minutes early to register. Free. 203661-4444. John.Raybin@ GreenwichStars.com.

GreenwichStars.com 11 a.m. - 12 p.m.

Drop-in Computer Lab get assistance with email, online forms, social media, creating documents and more from Library Staff.

Greenwich Library - Health Information Center, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. 203622-7914. trainingcenter@ greenwichlibrary.org 12 p.m.

The Pemberwick Glenville Association presents Valley Jam 2019 - food trucks, bands, business. Bendheim Western Greenwich Civic Center, 449 Pemberwick Rd. Free admission (donations welcome). Info@ Pemberwickglenville.com. pemberwickglenville.com 12 - 3 p.m.

YWCA Greenwich Family Fair - splash pad, Bouncy Castle, music, games, arts and crafts, face painting, and

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Editorial Page Back to School,

Greenwich Mom to Greenwich Mom

By Bobbi Eggers

Greenwich is a wonderful but complicated place to raise our kids among Pinot Grigio playdates, nursery school SAT tutors and children who learn entitlement at an early age.

Ultimately, we all want to raise interesting, successful people who partner well in their adult life. So as they leave flip flops in the closet and put on their back to school clothes this week, I have some thoughts to help you navigate this choppy terrain, Greenwich Mom to Greenwich Mom. I have been a mom, step mom or “helped to raise” eight kids. I can’t say I’ve seen it all, but I have seen a lot of what ultimately works and doesn’t work and God knows, I have made mistakes, too.

Be authentic, relax and be true to yourself.

Be happy, healthy, and strong. Don’t worry about being judged. Insecurity never works so relax and know you are loved by the most important people.

Don’t totally surrender your personal

time to your kids. Driving to high level athletic competitions can become who you are. “The (insert sport here) Mom.” You have to love the activity along with them. My friend Jane says, “My kids didn’t do hockey because Mommy doesn’t drive to Canada.” There may come a time, 6 years into horseback riding or ice skating lessons, when the teenage years kick in and they don’t want to do that other sport anymore, no matter what college it will get them into.

Just make sure it was an “investment” for your happiness, too.

Mommy Mentors: Your Mom friends are great, but they are in the same boat as you and they haven’t done it either. Love them, cry with them, play with them, but always have one mom friend who is just slightly older (not your mom’s age) who has been through it just a few steps ahead of you. She’ll tell you what is important, what to avoid, and the best SAT tutor in town.

Working: It’s never going to be balanced, it’s never perfect for any of us. All we can do is our very best and be in the moment (easier said than done.) I was 3,000 miles away shooting a commercial on a rooftop when my nanny called to quit. Three toddlers at home and a husband traveling on business in Russia. It took me a long time to figure out how both worlds could coexist. Not sure I ever really got it right, but we have survived.

Volunteer work: If you’re not working full time, use your talent and socialize, whether it’s your kids’ school or a non-profit. You’ll meet interesting people. It’s a fulfilling opportunity and fewer people are doing it now. They need you. It’s important for your kids to see you giving back.

Dioramas, science projects and other homework: Yup, guilty as charged. I made the

snake with my daughter in the science class diorama project. It was over the top. She still reminds me about it. It’s a mistake. Plus, the teachers know. Who are we kidding? Help, but don’t do it for them. They need to learn to stumble in smaller experiences in order to learn how to cope with life. Children need to learn resiliency or they may have terrible anxiety later on. My friend, Lin’s phone rang mid-morning on a school day- the phone call we all get from time to time. “Mom, I left my lunch on the kitchen counter.” “Yes, you did. I’ll put it in the frig and you’ll have it for tomorrow.” He never forgot the lunch again. Start small. It matters.

Take them to museums even if they’re silly museums. Some studies say one of the common denominators of many gifted students is that they went to museums with their parents from an early age. Start small so it’s part of their normal. I am surprised how many of my teenager’s friends I have taken to art museums for their first time. That’s sad.

Boundaries and routines helps your sanity and theirs. Tantrums-- because you’re talking to your friends-- are annoying for everyone. Giving them age-appropriate choices empowers them, helps them not to act out, and makes your life more manageable. In my experience, the kids I know that had few boundaries didn’t do all that well.

Partnership: The amount of love you can feel for your children is indescribable but don’t let it take priority over your partner. Carve out personal time, talk and be romantic. Treating someone with dignity and respect is the right thing to do and teaches your children how to be good partners, too.

So back to school, back to Greenwich Mom life. Enjoy the year.

Letter to the Editor

BET Members Welcome Superintendent, Dr. Toni Jones We extend warm welcoming w i s h e s t o t h e To w n ’s n e w Superintendent of Schools Dr. Toni Jones, and to her family. We look forward to working with Dr. Jones in our capacity as the six Republican members of the Board of Estimate and Taxation who have served on the Board for a cumulative 42 years.

We are proud of Greenwich’s public-school system, that within

the last decade produced the national teacher of the year from the Town’s alternative high school; a winner of the national science award; national recognition for many other students in STEM and other studies; and globally admired music, art, and athletic programs. We support superior education for all Town school age children.

We are optimistic that Dr.

Jones will serve our school district for many years to come and will honor and respect those principles that brought global renown to our schools and Town. This is exemplified by the thoughtful and stirring approach she took at the annual Superintendent’s Back to School Gathering to welcome new teachers and returning teachers and staff. We are thrilled that Dr. Jones, and her family will

live within our community. We look forward to working with Dr. Jones to make our Greenwich public school system even more outstanding.

This letter was written by the republican members of the Board of Estimate and Taxation (BET): Bill Drake, Andy Duus, Karen Fassuliotis, Debra Hess, Michael Mason, and Leslie Tarkington.

Letter to the Editor

Good Leadership Empowers Others The mark of a good leader is somebody who is able to empower other people. What made me understand leadership was when I could see somebody who thought they didn't have a voice, thought they didn't have influence or didn't have power, and teach them how they could speak up on the things that were affecting their lives.

Barack Obama If I didn't k now better, I'd swe a r t h is for mer P r e sident was describing our State Representative and candidate for First Selectman, Fred Camillo.

Fred has spent the last ten years in Hartford as our State R e p r e s e nt at i ve e mp owe r i n g ot her p e ople , te ach i ng t hem how to speak up and f ig ht to improve their lives, and whenever

necessary, giving them a voice by fighting for them. He answers questions and concerns from residents and business owners immediately. He assists them when other agencies will not, and communicates every issue that affects their family’s lives, their businesses, and their community.

I had the pleasure of serving alongside Fred in the legislature for four years and w itnessed firsthand his ability to respectfully reach out to colleag ues f rom opposing parties, or with differing opinions, for the greater good and specifically for the residents of our town. I know that Fred will preform at an even higher level as First Selectman. Fred is a statesman, a problem solver, well respected, intelligent, and committed to excellence. I have

never met a person in Hartford who didn't like and/or respect Fred Camillo.

Be wa r ned. Politics a nd campaigning in Greenwich have changed drastically from years past. New emerging political g roups that rely on untr uths and negative campaigning have taken some of the press by storm.

Letters of misinformation and fabrications rule the day and often one's record, job performance, a nd cha rac ter a re pu r p osely overlooked.

Although I anticipate unfortunate letters and attacks by these groups, most residents of Greenwich already know Fred well and know someone of his character is exactly what we need in the First Selectman’s office.

For those who do not know

Fred, I ask that you rise above deceitful campaign tactics and take the time meet Fred yourself.

Send an e-mail, pick up the phone, talk with him at one of the many events he attends, or invite him to come to one (he will). I assure you that he will listen, a n s wer you r q ue st ion s w it h honesty and integrity and you will find him to be a genuine person dedicated to every individual in this town. Fred is exactly the kind of “good leader” we deserve for First Selectmen of the Town of Greenwich.

Please join me, and the many others, in voting Fred Camillo for First Selectman of the Town of Greenwich on November 5th.

Mike Bocchino Former State Representative

Candidates for First Selectman to Chat The Greenwich Point Conservancy will host a "Town Hall" with the candidates for First Selectman, Jill Oberlander and Fred Camillo.

Join them on the deck of the Sue H. Baker Pavilion at Greenwich Point on Monday, Sept. 9 from 6 to 7:30 p.m. where the candidates will discuss the many miles of Greenwich waterfront and the commissions

New Leb Community Update This intra-district elementar y International Baccalaureate magnet school will serve students in grades PreK-5.

The centrally located learning commons, equipped w ith f lexible furnishings & ad apt a ble te ch nolo g ic a l infrastructure, allows for multiple zones of simultaneous learning. The building is designed to meet the sustainability goals established by the Educational

Specifications and to achieve a gold-level LEED rating from US Green Building Council.

The project has received its 5th reimbursement from the state, $1,196,911, totaling $16,93 5,078 to date . A 6t h reimbursement has been submitted in the amount of $767,281, due in September.

I f yo u h ave a c o n c e r n , please contact the Gilbane P r o j e c t M a n a g e r, D a n i e l Phillips at (914) 246-4862.

and agencies designated to manage and protect it. A Q&A with attendees will follow.

The event is free and open to the public. In the event of rain, it will be held at Innis Arden Cottage. For more information, visit greenwichpoint.org

IF YOU ARE TRAVELING THIS WEEKEND: DPH Warns Residents to Avoid Mosquito Bites, Confirmed Cases of EEE in Southeastern Connecticut.

The Connecticut Department of Public Health (DPH) is advising residents to protect themselves and their children from mosquitoes to reduce the chance of contracting the Eastern Equine Encephalitis (EEE) virus.

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PUBLISHER Beth@GreenwichSentinel.com Elizabeth Barhydt EDITORS & COPY EDITORS Editor@GreenwichSentinel.com Caroll Melgar, Stapley Russell, Anne W. Semmes, Emma Barhydt

Welcome Back!

The lazy hazy days of summer have given way to doctor’s appointments, school supply lists, and the demands of resuming our fast-paced lives. Gone for now are the hikes up distant mountain tops, and the dramatic sunsets across Nantucket Sound. As one of our friends said, “I am missing that island rhythm.” We can empathize. One of our favorite authors is Theodor Geisel, better known as Dr. Seuss. He wrote of the end of summer, “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”

Author Herman Melville wrote: “We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow man.” We want to be one of those fibers.

It’s here. The unofficial end of summer is this weekend. Of course, summer does not really end until the Fall Equinox on September 22, but you can see signs that we are turning a corner all around town.

Staples is packed at 8 p.m. at night as students pick up their school supplies. Yellow school buses are rumbling down streets. Parking is once again a challenge on Greenwich Avenue. William Shakespeare wrote, “Summer’s lease has all too short a date.” While we may agree in part, we are also looking forward with anticipation to what the fall holds.

Whenever we go from one season to the next, it is a natural starting point. Last spring we wrote about our excitement for summer projects. We had big plans for this summer and largely accomplished them. Now we have big plans for the fall. And one of them is to encourage as many of you as possible to purchase a subscription to the Greenwich Sentinel.

Since we began publishing four and a half years ago, we have received an overwhelmingly positive response to the paper. It has been incredible. When we are out in town, people stop us to talk about the paper, compliment it, offer suggestions, thank us. If we hear anything negative it is that they are not receiving the paper. And it is not just us, our columnists and advertisers are receiving a tremendous response as well.

Our advertisers are also seeing the benefit of being in the paper as their businesses are doing well and people are commenting on their ads. This makes us very happy because it is their support and success that are helping us to succeed. Shortly, we will be launching a “Buy Local” campaign to encourage our readers to do as much of their shopping as possible in town because by supporting our local economy we are supporting our neighbors and that is good for our community.

A simple way that you can support the local economy today is to purchase a subscription to the Sentinel. This will ensure you receive the paper each week and do not miss any of the local coverage of our community. This also supports local businesses, our schools, houses of worship, seniors, sports teams, the hospital, youth, non-profits; just about every facet of town because it means more and more people will be reading about their activities.

All indications are this is going to be a terrific fall for the Sentinel. We have many new initiatives and we want to hear from you about what is happening in your life. We want to celebrate your milestones with you.

Have something on your mind? Send us a letter and let us know what it is.

When we began the Sentinel, its mission was to be an honest recording of the news of Greenwich and to do so in a way that did not divide our community.

We want to celebrate what is good and report on what needs to be known. We will not shy away from a story, but there is much that happens in our community that goes unreported. Author Herman Melville wrote: “We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow man.” We want to be one of those fibers.

So the unofficial end of summer is actually the perfect time to begin your subscription to your community newspaper.

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celebratory cupcakes. YWCA Greenwich, 259 East Putnam Ave. Free. All are welcome.

203-869-6501, ext. 100. m.pennino@ywcagreenwich. org 1 - 6 p.m.

Young Artists Philharmonic Auditions. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich - Choir Room, 108 Sound Beach Ave. Also, Sunday, Sept. 8, 12 - 5 p.m. 203-489-5423. youngartistsphil.org 2 - 3:30 p.m.

3D Printer Certification: Lulzbot Mini. Greenwich Library - The Jewel, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. Register.

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203-622-7922. ksoboleva@ greenwichlibrary.org 3 - 4:45 p.m.

Art Opening Reception: 'Two Colombian Perspectives on Art'. Byram Shubert Library Community Room, 21 Mead Ave. Free. Through Sept. 28.

203-531-0426 4 - 5:30 p.m.

Friends of Greenwich Point: Concerts For All Ages: Pete Francis and The Dragoncrest Collective.

Seaside Garden at Greenwich Point. Rain location: First Congregational Church, 108 Sound Beach Ave. Free. info@ friendsofgreenwichpoint.org. friendsofgreenwichpoint.org 5 - 8:30 p.m.

Movie on Front Lawn. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich, 108 Sound Beach Ave. 203-637-1791. fccog.org/fccogcalendar 8 p.m.

'God Of Carnage' - A Play presented by Greenwich Theatre Company. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Sept. 5-8 & Sept. 12-15.

Evening show times: 8 p.m.; Sunday matinees: 2 p.m. $10, $30 & $40. 203-629-5744. greenwichtheatrecompany@ gmail.com SUNDAY, SEPT. 8 10 a.m.

Sleepy Cat Farm self-guided tours, benefiting the Garden Conservancy. Meet at Camp Simmons, 744 Lake Ave. and take the shuttle to the farm. $10 per person; children 12 and under free.

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“Bruce ConsTRUCKS” - a day of family fun to celebrate the start of the Museum’s new renovation and construction project. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. Free. 203-8690376. ssmith@brucemuseum. org. brucemuseum.org 12 - 4 p.m.

3rd Annual Indian Summer Children's Festival, benefiting The Willow Project. Audubon Greenwich, 613 Riversville

Rd. $20 in advance, $25 day of event; children 3 & under, free. hlowthert@gmail.com. thewillowproject.org 1 p.m.

East Coast Open Final.

Greenwich Polo Club, 1 Hurlingham Dr. Gates open at 1 p.m., match begins at 3. $40 per car. The Brant Foundation Art Study Center is open to the public during Polo Sundays. 203-561-1639. info@greenwichpoloclub. com. greenwichpoloclub.com 1 - 6 p.m.

Young Artists Philharmonic Auditions. The First Congregational Church of Greenwich - Choir Room, 108 Sound Beach Ave. 203-4895423 2 p.m.

'God Of Carnage' - A Play presented by Greenwich Theatre Company. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. Sept. 5-8 & Sept. 12-15.

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AA Meeting - "Greenwich Morning Men's Group."

Greenwich Baptist Church, 10 Indian Rock Ln. This meeting is open and anyone may attend. 203-869-2807. ct-aa. org/meetings Thursday 6:30 - 7:30 a.m.

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Greenwich Baptist Church, 10 Indian Rock Ln. This meeting is open and anyone may attend. 203-869-2807 12 - 1 p.m.

AA Meeting - "Getting It Together Group." Christ Church - Parish House Loft, 254 E. Putnam Ave. This meeting is open and anyone may attend. 203-869-6600 7 - 8 p.m.

AA Meeting - "12 & 12 Group." Christ Church Parish House Loft, 254 E. Putnam Ave. This meeting is open and anyone may attend.

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AA Meeting - "AA Friday."

Diamond Hill United Methodist Church, 521 East Putnam Ave. This meeting is open and anyone may attend.

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AA Meeting - "Greenwich Friday Night Group." Christ Church - Parish House Loft, 254 E. Putnam Ave. This meeting is open and anyone may attend. 203-869-6600 Sunday

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Work Has Begun on Cardinal Stadium Beachers

By Richard Kaufman

501c(3) organization which works in cooperation with various town departments to improve, maintain and support Greenwich's athletic infrastructure.

The f unds w ill be used to rent equipment, such as steel and temporary footings, from Waco Scaffolding in Cheshire, Conn. A structure will be built under the current bleachers to create the wide load capacity that is required under current building code.

The fix is temporary, although the structure could be under the bleachers for up to a year,

Work began on Monday at Cardinal Stadium to shore up the bleachers, which have been closed since April due to code violations and safety concerns. Construction is expected to last about two weeks, and should be done in plenty of time before the Cardinals’ home football opener against Danbury on Sept. 14.

In July, the Board of Education unanimously approved a gift of $120,000 from the Greenwich Athletic Foundation (GA F), a

according to GAF board member, Rick Kral. Funds from the gift would likely allow the bleachers to remain open until Jan. 1. By that time, the BOE should have some more clarity on the Cardinal Stadium improvement plan. The board is expected to take up the plan in September.

After Jan. 1, it would cost the BOE roughly $6,000 per month to lease the equipment to keep the bleachers open on a month-tomonth basis.

Project Looks to Develop 28 Units in Backcountry An extension of the public hearing will be continued at the Inland Wetlands and Watercourses Agency on October 28.

A backcountry project, labeled "Old Mill Farm", to develop 75 acres at 124 Old Mill Road with 28 housing units is causing concern for residents and conservationists.

The plan, according to the Inland Wetlands and Waterways Agency agenda is "for construction of 28 residences with driveways, drainage, utilities, and septic 90 feet from wetlands."

The applicant, Cosette Property LLC, which submitted the plan to the Agency last month was subject to a public hearing on Monday.

The Agency voted unanimously to extend the hearing to October 28 to

allow for further study and address concern about the density of the development and its potential impact to the wetlands and watercourses.

Cosette Property LLC will review concerns from the agency, the town's engineering department, and the public and respond with any necessary modifications.

One resident with concerns is John Conte, a professional landscape architect with over thirty years experience. He spoke in his capacity as President of the Round Hill Association. Representing members of the association, M r. Conte expressed a number of concerns

about the plan, including: • The ground water demand of 28 new houses, a wellness c e n t e r, a n d a s s o c i a t e d landscaping, and the potentially adverse impact on the base flow of nearby watercourses and surrounding properties, already experiencing periodic supply problems.

• Operational shortcomings or failures of the community septic system, which may result in contamination of surface and ground waters.

• The storm water management

system may direct pollutants to surface waters, especially since discharge points are proposed 20-30’ from wetlands and watercourses.

M r. C o n t e c o n c l u d e d b y asking the agency to keep the public hearing open to provide his organization the time it needs to do a thorough review of the application.

Jay Day spoke, ask ing the agency to take into consideration the number of 4-acre single-family lots this property could support is approximately half the number of homes proposed.

Jonathan Wong expressed concer n that developing th is property as proposed could result in adverse downstream impacts.

Mark Pruner suggested that approval of the application would set a president, likely resulting in other large lots in the backcountry being similarly developed, which would replicate the potential wetland impacts.

T h e I n l a n d We t l a n d s & Watercourses Agency is a regulatory body authorized and required

by Connecticut State Statute and created by local ordinance.

Present at the meeting were Vice

Chairman Elliot Benton, Secretary Stephan Skoufalos, Bill Galvin, Norma Kerlin, and Jay Schondorf.

An alternate present was Alan Rossi Staff present were Patricia Sesto, Director; Robert Clausi, Senior Wetlands Analyst; Doreen CarrollAndrews, Compliance Off icer; and Sarah Coccaro, Conservation Resource Manager.

A motion to continue the public hearing on October 28th carried 6-0-0.

Residents who wish to express concerns regarding the plan may email Director, Patricia Sesto at tsesto@greenwichct.org.

First Greenwich Financial to Trade on OTC

First Greenwich Financial , Inc., parent company of The First Bank of Greenwich, began trading its common stock this week on the OTC Pink market under the symbol "FGFI." Investors can find information for the company on www.otcmarkets.com and can also contact First Greenwich Financial, I n c . for a dd it ion a l f i n a n c i a l information in the public domain.

D.A. Davidson & Co. serves as

FGFI’s principal market maker (800-394-9230).

"We are pleased be able to provide our loyal shareholders and interested investors in providing liquidity to them by trading on the OTC market,” said George D’Angelo, Chairman of the Board of Directors. “In addition,” he continued, “FGFI will take its place alongside almost 350 other community banks on the OTC Pink

market that exhibit a commitment to providing liquidity to their investors and demonstrate the best traditions of personalized banking to their customers.”

First Greenwich’s President and CEO, Frank Gaudio stated: “By trading on the OTC market we not only provide liquidity to ou r sh a r eholde r s , but we are also look ing to attract interested investors and increase

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our v isibilit y to ex isting and prospective customers.” He continued, “we are delighted to join the ranks of other profitable and financially strong community bank ing companies who have chosen to trade on the OTC Pink market.”

First Greenwich Financial, Inc. of Cos Cob, Connecticut, is the bank holding company for First Bank of Greenwich, a state chartered

and federally insured commercial bank. The Bank operates fullservice branches in Cos Cob and Stamford, CT. and Port Chester, NY. It offers banking products and services to individuals and smallto-medium sized businesses.

A s o f J u n e 3 0 , 2 0 1 9, t h e Company had total assets of $388.8 million, total deposits of $312.0 million. For the fiscal year ending December 31, 2019, the Company

had net profits of $2.7 million after tax; and, for the six-months ending June 30, 2019, the Company earned $576 thousand after tax. The First Bank of Greenwich is a member of the FDIC. For more information visit w w w. g r e e nw ich f i r s t .c om or contact CFO, Ronald Moccio at 203-629-8400.

To learn more about FGFI visit www.otcmarkets.com.

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Chief of Police James Heavey with Detective William Weissauer, now Detective First Grade Weissauer.

By Richard Kaufman Tuesday was an historic day for the Greenwich Police Department, as Detectives Anthony Fiscella, William Weissauer, and Mark Solomon became the first active officers in department history to be promoted to Detective First Grade.

The GPD upgraded Pat Iorfino to Detective First Grade upon his retirement in 2015.

Police Chief, James Heavey, said the position of Detective First Grade was established to recognize detectives who have gone "above and beyond" in demonstrating excellent leadership, mentorship and investigative sk ills in major cases.

"They're really the masters of their craft," Heavey added. "It's a special thing to be a detective, but even more so to be among the first Detective First Grades."

Heavey introduced Fiscella and Weissauer to family and fellow officers. Solomon was in North Carolina giving a presentation on cyber crimes.

Fiscella, who was hired in May of 1989, currently works in the Investigations Section as an auto-theft specialist and has i nve st igate d ser ious c r i me s, including homicides.

He was described by Heavey as being the Department's "autotheft guru". Fiscella served as a Field Training Officer and Court Officer, before being appointed Detective in 2003.

"This is really outstanding," Fiscella said after he was officially promoted, noting that the personal achievement ranks high on his list.

“All of the detectives we work with here are top-shelf guys. Any one of them could have been made Detective First Grade. The officers in Greenwich, I think, are the finest in the nation,” Fiscella remarked.

We i s s a u e r w a s h i r e d i n October of 1995. He served on various patrols around town, and worked as a Field Training Officer before being appointed Detective in 2002 specializing in forensic science. He's currently a Forensic Specialist.

Heavey praised the Forensics Section for their work and contributions to many cases.

"They make the job of justice for residents who are victims of crime much easier for all of us.

They help solve crimes and prevent future crimes," Heavey said.

We i s s a u e r s a i d h e w a s h u m b l e d b y t h e h o n o r, a n d credited the people with whom he gets to work.

"I've had the fortune of seeing other police departments [during my forensics training]. The caliber of of f icer t hat work s here is extremely high. [Officers here] are extremely intelligent, motivated and hard working. To be singled out amongst that group of people is really an honor," Weissauer said.

Solomon has been with the GPD for 17 years, and works in the Investigations Section. He specializes in cyber and financial crimes, and is a part of the Secret Service Financial Crimes Task Force. He is also the Vice President of the International Financial Crimes Investigators Association.

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Education

Highschool Column

Where Do You Want to Go From Here?

By Connie Blunden What does a road trip to Northeastern Ohio have in common with the school year?

E v e r y s u m m e r, I d r i v e f r o m Connecticut to Ohio to visit my parents, see childhood friends, and pick up my favorite sandwich from a restaurant in Cleveland Heights. For years I headed south on I-95, crossed the George Washington Bridge and merged onto I-80 West. Without fail I would hit stop-and-go traffic around xit 4 on I-95. I grew accustom to this over the years, although it was a stressful start to an eight hour trip. I knew there was another option, but on the surface it didn't seem substantially different from what I was doing. I thought I was taking the most direct route to my destination, ignoring the fact that the traffic and congestion made the direct route inefficient as well. After

Middle School Column

finally switching to the alternative the first hour of my drive improved dramatically, making the rest of the trip more enjoyable and putting much less strain on my car.

Beginnings are important. I love working in a school because every year we have a chance to begin again and take

advantage of what we learned during the previous year.

In early July, I find a quiet place to sit and reflect. This ritual has significance to my growth as an educator. I intentionally consider three questions: Where was I a year ago? Where am I now? Where do I want to go from here? In the same way I plot my journey to Cleveland, this practice helps me determine where I will devote my energy in the coming months. After considering these important questions, I commit to a plan and write it down. This last step is crucial. In the same way that an architect draws up a blueprint, my written document provides a visual representation of my ideas and thoughts.

Life gets busy. When I start to feel pulled in different directions or when I feel competing demands on my time, I can refer back to my blueprint, which was created during a calm moment, and reminds me

of what I set out to accomplish. This acts as an anchor or a point of reference. Just as we use tall buildings in major cities to orient ourselves, this piece of paper brings me clarity.

As parents and educators, we want to help our children and students begin well and to sustain that excitement and motivation throughout the year. Around hour six in my car, I usually feel like I need to stretch, refuel, and maybe change from a podcast to a playlist. Let’s remember that rest areas are designed to keep us going and that those pauses are essential when we are feeling exhausted. Taking time to stop may seem counterintuitive. I am already committed to eight hours, why would I delay my arrival even more? Well, if that time translates to increased energy and greater focus or attention it is both safer and wiser to stop.

Eventually we will arrive. What does

it mean to reach a destination? For me, every destination holds its own surprises and its own lessons. Your intention was to reach your destination, but are you open to what that destination holds in store for you? You say to yourself, “I want to end up here because this is the place where I want to go,” but when you get there your satisfaction may be derived from the unexpected. What may be most rewarding is not necessarily what you envisioned at the beginning. This is what gives the experience depth and what informs future plans. As a result, the arrival is actually an invitation to begin again.

Connie Blunden is the Director of the Center for Public Purpose and an upper school hi stor y teacher at Greenwich Academy. Her curricular and programmatic work focuses on social justice, participatory citizenship and service leadership.

It Actually Makes Perfect Sense

By Gordon Beinstein The start of a new school year brings opportunities for your child to try out for a sports team, sit for a placement exam, audition for a role in a school play, etc. Some of your children will undoubtedly make the team or get the role of their choice, others will not. I want to speak to you regarding your parental responsibilities if your child doesn't get placed on the team or in the class that you desire.

First, as a former principal friend of mine often noted 'there is no worse judge of a child's ability than a parent.'

At first, this statement might seem harsh, but when you take the time to

ref lect, it makes perfect sense. When evaluating talent, be it athletic, academic, dramatic, musical, etc. one needs to be cold and analytical in order to be fair.

A parent, no matter how well-meaning, cannot be that. You are thinking with your heart, not your head, as you should.

You k now the grow th your child has made since the first time he hit the ball off the tee and chased after it rather than run to first base. Or when she first picked up that instrument and honked away so badly you were sure it was the mating call of the Canadian Goose. These experiences the past dozen years have shaped the way you view your child's talent. The coach / teacher / director isn't jaded by this. They only know what they

see and hear in the limited time they have, and base their decision, agree or disagree, on their own expectations. Trust me when I tell you, that in middle school and high school, there is no conspiracy;

No master plan to keep your child down.

The best talent, as viewed by the coach, gets the part. You may question their judgment, but not their integrity. You are entitled to an explanation, but I suspect being told that others were better will provide little comfort.

If your child does not make the team/ class/ cast etc., you, as a parent need to be there to support your child.

Take him/her out for ice cream (don’t skimp on the sprinkles) and tell him/her you are proud, regardless of the outcome.

Do not let your personal disappointment in the decision interfere with this. The last thing you want to do is to speak ill of the decision-maker or of the process in front of your child. You don't want them

to take away that the world is unfair and that adults have ulterior motives.

In a culture where everyone makes the team and gets a trophy, we have failed to prepare our children to handle disappointment. This rejection might be the first time for many of them. It won't be the last. How you, the adult, manages these situations will set your child up to better handle the myriad of rejections to come. (Take it from a guy who knows!).

Gordon Beinstein is currently in his 32nd year as a middle school educator (and he still can't get out of 8th grade!). This is his seventh year as the principal of Western Middle School and was recently named the 2019 Connecticut Association of Schools Principal of the Year.

Elementary School Column

Parents: Keep Calm in the Chaos parents into their classroom, until the day they confidently walk in their 8th Grade Graduation procession. Administrators who are fair but firm, faculty who are committed to positive student outcomes, a nd Gu ida nc e a nd Sp e c ia l S er v ic e professionals who provide extra academic and social-emotional support for students are at the core of all we do - and our parents play a critical role in our students’ success.

No matter what grade your child enters this year, it’s important for you to consider these simple steps to help your child navigate their first weeks:

By Patrice Kopas

It’s that time of year again. Teachers are decorating their classrooms, parents are navigating school supply lists, and kids are transitioning to earlier bedtimes and earlier mornings. The “Back to School” season is one of the busiest times of the year, but with proper planning and a little bit of faith, it doesn’t need to be stressful.

At GCS, our team provides a lifelong intellectual and spiritual foundation, from the first day our 3-year-old PreK students walk hand-in-hand with their

contagious, so focus on the positive and answer. More pointed questions, like “Did encourage your child to think of things your class do any fun projects today?” or they’re excited about as well.

“Who did you sit with at lunch?” will give you a better idea of how their day actually Set realistic expectations.

Talk frankly with your child about went. And remember, the first few weeks how you see the year ahead, and what of school are tiring. Getting detailed they hope to achieve. In younger grades, answers from your child may not come help your child to build habits for long- easily at first, but don’t give up. term success by concentrating on a balance of organizational skills, academic milestones, and social development. As students enter their middle school years, goals should evolve and become more specific. Do you expect your child to be named to the Honor Roll? Reassure them that you will help them manage their time and organize their assignments.

Does your child have trouble making new friends? Encourage them to join a new club or activity so they can meet new people with similar interests. Would your child benefit from extra help after school?

Review their work with them each day so they can approach their teacher with specific areas of focus, which will lead to a more productive session and help them succeed.

Avoid over-scheduling.

If you k now that a n increase in workload may impact your child’s ability to keep up with extracurriculars, it’s time to help them prioritize. Especially in the middle school years, it’s important to talk to your child about striking a balance between academics and activities. When I see that a child is feeling anxious about their ability to “do it all,” I advise parents to cut the child’s current extracurricular schedule back by 15%. Time management is a critical skill as your student prepares for high school, and learning to balance now will allow them to stay active and work responsibly, as well as throughout their academic career.

situations. Whether it’s a teacher they weren’t expecting to have, or a friendship that starts to wane, allow your child to express their feelings to you, but don’t react (or worse, overreact) immediately.

It’s likely that af ter a few days, the angst will subside. If it doesn’t, speak with your child, and then with their teacher, about your concern. At GCS, we view the parent/school relationship as “Parents in Partnership,” which fosters positive collaboration between home and school, and enhances your child’s school experience.

Most importantly, keep calm in the chaos.

Even w ith the best preparation, September will bring challenges, but if your child feels like you’re a united team in this busy time of year, it will help to calm their minds and allow them to thrive both academically and socially.

For now, enjoy the long Labor Day weekend... and remember that Christmas vacation is less than 4 months away.

Your child will follow your lead.

I began my 11th year as Principal of Greenwich Catholic School this week, and the start of each new year reminds me of all the “first days” I’ve seen along the way - emotions run high, with a mix of nervousness and excitement, for students and parents alike.

Talk to your child about the things that excite YOU about a new school year: Getting to know their teachers, seeing Be patient.

Pat r ic e Kopa s i s the P r incipal of your “parent friends” more regularly If your child is starting at a new after a long summer, and embracing the Ask pointed questions. school, or transitioning to middle school, Greenwich Catholic School schedule and activities that a new school “How was your day?” is one of the be patient. “First week jitters” can lead to year brings. Your excitement will be hardest questions for a child of any age to emotional reactions to otherwise simple

Nursery School Column

Ah, September! The New School Year Begins

By Carly Adames

Ah, September! The new school year begins. Children who are three and four years old enter preschool – the days when they will learn their numbers, letters, colors, shapes, how to write their name –all the skills necessary for them to acquire to be ready for kindergarten!

M a ny f a m i l ie s h ave t h e te nde nc y to me a su r e t hei r c h i l d ’s s c h o o l r e a d i n e s s based on the child’s ability to master these academic skills.

However, are these really the skills that determine whether or not a child is “ready” for kindergarten?

R e s e a r c h d e m o n s t r at e s

t hat a strong fou ndation of socioemotional skills developed at an early age will guide your child’s ability to academically succeed in school throughout t hei r e duc at ion. I n a st udy conducted by John Hopk ins Un iversit y i n col la b orat ion with the Baltimore Education Research Consortium, research suggested that socioemotional sk ills are signif icantly associated with children’s academic success and productivity in the classroom. In tracking the children over time, it turns out that by fourth grade, ch i ld r e n who sig n i f ic a nt ly lacked socioemotional skills entering kindergarten were up to 80% more likely to have been retained in a grade, up to 80% more likely to require additional support ser v ices, and up to seven times more likely to be suspended or expelled at least once. In summary – although a child may very well be bright, if he/she greatly lacks basic socioemotional sk ills, their academic learning, in turn, will suffer the consequences.

These are surprising f indings indeed. Why is socioemotional development

so cr itica l? Self-reg u lation, resilience, coping with mistakes or failures, being able to walk in a line, the ability to calm oneself down, being able to take turns, managing emotions, the aptitude to get along with peers and adults in a class, the ability to attend and complete to a task (attention span), or cooperating in a group are examples of skills that are necessary in order for effective learning to take place in the present and future. As they develop resilience, they will be able to persevere during the strenuous preparation for t he SAT ’s. A s t hey develop coping skills when they are not always able to get their way, they will be able to cope with many mistakes and failures they encounter on life’s journey and be able to pick themselves back up with determination.

When enrolling a child into our preschool program, I often hear families share seeming indications of their child’s skills and abilities – “My child knows all their ABC’s, knows how to count to ten, can write his/her name, and knows all the shapes and colors!” I can’t recall a time when I heard a parent/guardian

shared, “My child knows how to clean up after him/herself after a meal. My child knows how to share with other children with an adult’s facilitation. My child can focus and attend to an activity for about ten minutes before moving onto another activity and generally follows directions. My child can express when they are frustrated or angry instead of being physically aggressive.”

Most families desire for their children to develop such skills and believe in preschool, he/she will acquire them. However, the foundation and basis for these skills lies at home before school even begins and initially rests with the family. While these important concepts are taught during preschool, if they are not practiced and reinforced at home, the child will continue to struggle with developing a solid foundation.

T h e n , h ow c a n p a r e n t s effectively prepare their child for kindergarten? Of course, it by no means implies that numbers, letters, shapes, and colors are insignificant for learning. They are important academic skills.

However, these academic skills

tend to be the focus and main indicators of “school readiness” a nd de te r m i n i n g ac ade m ic success.

Te a c h i n g a c a d e m i c sk ills can be easy. Teaching socioemotional sk ills can be rather dif f icult. It is important invest the time into developing these skills with your child. It is okay to allow your child to struggle while learning to dress him/herself instead of doing it for them.

Through this simple task, he/ she can learn perseverance and determination. It does – however – require the patience o f t h e p a r e n t t o a l l ow t h e ch i ld t he t i me to c omple te the task, instead of dressing t hem b e c au s e it is q u icker and easier. Don’t always let your child “go first” or win at games but take opportunities to also “go first” and win. Then, learning to cope with failures and mistakes or taking turns with peers will prove to be a much easier adjustment when they begin school. Give your child opportunities to develop patience instead of providing instant gratif ication. Instead of ha nd i ng you r ch i ld you r

cellphone or tablet to f iddle with as a distraction when he/ she continues to interrupt your c onve r s at ion w it h a not he r adult, teach your child how to say “excuse me” and to wait patiently, for a brief time, to speak until you address him/ h e r. O n t h e c o n t r a r y, i f a child’s demand is instantly and consistently fulfilled, their lack of patience and inability to wait for small periods of time will be reinforced. Teaching these skills to your child is definitely taking the difficult and lengthy path rather than the easy path – but it will prove to be the best path in the long run for your child’s academic success and personal wellbeing.

Carly Adames is the Director of Educational Programs at the YMCA of Greenwich Early Learning Center, which provides qualit y early care and education for infants , toddlers and preschoolers as well as educational after school programs for school-age children.

Carly has over f ifteen years’ experience in the education field as an early childhood educator and director.

Education Feature

A Few Thoughts

By Toni Jones

Let me start by saying that I am grateful for the warm welcome that I have received since my official arrival on July 1st. To date, I have held more than 100 meetings and spent more than 80 hours in an effort to connect with members of our school and broader community. I have learned so much about the generosity of the town and the support for our schools.

I will be continuing my outreach all year and I look forward to meeting and learning from our community. Greenwich Public Schools is one of the most progressive school systems in America, and I feel honored to be leading this great

school district.

As I begin my first school year with the district, these are a few thoughts that are top of mind:

communication plan to enhance our in our classrooms to succeed. As the outreach and ease of finding out about All school superintendent, I am committed things GPS! to making sure that our resources are utilized wisely.

The Evolution of Education

2015-2020 Strategic Plan and Beyond This year marks the fifth and final year of the Board of Education 20152020 Strategic Plan. This means the next pathway for excellence is on the horizon.

To shape this plan, there will need to be many community conversations about education and about how Greenwich will continue to be a leader in the region, and the country. The Strategic Plan’s capacities of Academic, Personal, and Interpersonal will likely remain the three focus areas as they cover all aspects of helping students f ind success. We have outstanding Board of Education members who have made sure that we have sustained our excellence, and there is no doubt that the future will remain the same. It goes without saying that our teachers and staff across the district are the best in the country.

St ay t u ne d for opp or t u n it ie s to provide input through Listening Tours, Back to School nights, and surveys. We want to hear from you! We are working on a new and more expansive proactive

For many years, the districts which were f irst to support the integration of individual student technology were seen as innovative and leading the pack.

Now, technology is a basic, but essential educational tool, expected to be available for our students and teachers. And while technology is necessary, the future of education will require more emphasis on human connection, and making sure that our students can collaborate with others, think creatively to solve problems, and be well-versed in a comprehensive education. Our students are expected to respect others – both online and offline – take care of the environment, and embrace resilience and self-ref lection.

In many ways, what we are asking of our students is almost incomprehensible compared to just a decade ago.

Going forward, we will be carefully studying our Greenwich Public Schools appr o a ch to m e e t t h e n e e d s of a l l students. We want to be sure that our comprehensive programming provides the best opportunity for every student

School Safety One of the greatest challenges of the 21st centur y has been to create safer and more secure schools. There is nothing more important than the safety of our children and staff. Greenwich Public Schools has a full-time safety and residency officer. He works with all of the local agencies and our School Resource Officers to make sure that our campuses are secure. It is mandated by law that all schools have safety teams and practice on-going and regular drills for a wide variety of emergencies. The district has enhanced the investment in safeguards, such as the universal keying system, to eliminate risk for all of our buildings. A universal safeguard we utilize is the power of observation and reporting. We ask that as a community, if you see or hear something concerning, say something. We are a collective community working to keep our students and staf f safe at school. This year, we will also be enhancing our use of Greenwich Public Schools social media

platforms, such as Twitter and Facebook, to provide instantaneous updates on safety notif ications, such as weather related events. We are also committed to tightening the protocol at our school bu i ld i ng ent ra nc e s , s o we a sk ou r families to be patient as staff respond to the entry buzzer and ask the necessary questions before buzzing a person into our buildings.

Join Me in Thanking a Teacher or Staff Member We are fortunate to have amazing teachers and staff in our district who are incredibly talented and k ind. I encourage you to join me in a campaign of gratefulness, consider writing an e-mail or handwritten note to a previous teacher or staff member who had an impact on your life, or the life of somebody in your family. I assure you that our teachers and school staff see their work as an extension of service to others, and when they hear that their work had real value on a personal level it means more than you know.

I am looking forward to a fabulous year in Greenwich Public Schools!

Dr. Jones is the Superintendent of Greenwich Public Schools

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Camp Simmons Celebrity Chefs, Guest Grilling

By Richard Kaufman With summer unof f icially drawing to a close, Camp Simmons celebrated the final day of camp last Friday.

T h i s s u m m e r, o v e r 4 0 0 children attended Camp Simmons, which is located on 77 acres of pure wilderness on Lake Avenue in Greenwich. For nine weeks, campers aged 6-12 took part in outdo or sw i m m i ng , a rcher y, canoeing and boating, various sports and special events.

This year, members of the community visited the camp every week to help grill hamburgers and hotdogs for the kids. State Rep. Fred Camillo, First Selectman Peter Tesei, Parks & Rec Director Joe Siciliano and Greenwich Police

Chief, James Heavey, were among the guests who appeared behind the grill this summer.

The concept of "guest grilling" was introduced by Don Palmer, Vice President of Programs for the Boys & Girls Club of Greenwich (BGCG).

"We started it after the first week of camp," he said. "I thought it would be a nice way to tie in community leaders to get them to spend some time with the kids and see the camp. It's been a nice partnership with the whole community of Greenwich."

Last Friday, Jenny Byxbee, Director of Children's Ministries at Round Hill Community Church, and Connie Blunden, a history teacher at Greenwich Academy and the Director of GA's Center

Our New Superintendent of Schools: Dr. Toni Jones

By Richard Kaufman Last January, Dr. Toni Jones, prev iously f rom Fairf ield, was appointed as the new Superintendent of Greenwich Public Schools. After off icially beginning her role on July 1, Jones is ready to embark on her first year leading the district.

Earlier this week, she outlined some of her professional and personal goals for the 20192020 school year.

P r o f e s s i o n a l l y, J o n e s highlighted the district's Strategic Pl a n a n d t h e i mp o r t a n c e o f work ing together on aspects that will shape the district going forward.

"This is the last year of the 2015-2020 Strategic Plan. We'll a l l ne e d to work toget her to decide what it's going to look like in 2020 and beyond, and what's going to be our focus. Getting a lot of input from teachers and the community, and getting ready for that next strategic plan is going to be a heavy lift," she said.

Personally, Jones noted that for this year, it's all about getting acclimated.

"It's really about getting to know people, and getting to know teachers and principals. When you're new in the community, there's a lot of work to do just to know people and processes, especially the budget process," she said.

Jones also touched upon some challenges that the district will face this year.

"Who is going to have a leak in a ceiling, or will a storm blow through and knock the power out? Even with newer facilities, that's just part of it when you have a lot of schools," she said.

Last year, the district dealt with several leaks and f loods at GHS and Cos Cob School.

"Then you also have something like school safety.

That's been heightened over the last few years, to really stay on top of school safety. That's always at the forefront of our minds, because ultimately that's the number one thing; keeping staff and students safe."

Jones said it will be important to make sure teachers are getting proper professional development, and the resources they need to be successful.

"I think it's complex and you

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that up with the many great art collections in Town that are being promised. Expanding the science wing will be extremely important as well.”

“It is ver y rare to have a combination science and art museum,” cites Cricket. “We're fortunate to have a dual mission like that, with all the educational

have to make every day count, because with a school year, that child is not going to get that day back, and they're not going to get that year back," she added.

Jones is Greenw ich's 14th superintendent in the last 20 years. Her career in education began in 1990 in Nevada. She then went to Sydney, Australia, then to Oklahoma and Virginia before eventually coming to the Northeast. She believes her prior experience in Fairfield will help her in Greenwich. " Yo u l e a r n s o m e t h i n g i n every district. One of the things I lea r ned by mov ing to the Northeast [and Connecticut], is that the political structure is very different, for instance, in how you budget," Jones said, noting the roles of the Board of Selectmen, Board of Estimate and Taxation, a n d R e p r e s e n t a t i v e To w n Meeting.

Last week, Jones welcomed back faculty and staf f for the annual convocation ceremony at GHS. Her message was simple.

"We want our teachers to love and enjoy teaching. We want to make sure the joy is there for all of us as educators," she said.

Providing that joy is something Jones cherishes as the chief district official.

"As a superintendent, you really do have the capacity to help teachers make their work easier and more joyful because a superintendent really does set the tone for the district in many regards," she said. "I love t h at a s p e c t b e c au s e we c a n really make sure we're doing the best for the kids. The buck s top s w it h you whe n you'r e the superintendent. I actually like that. I don't mind making decisions, because I try to keep my heart in the right place and make sure that my decisions are based on what I truly believe is best. I love the work."

The support from the G r e e nw i c h c o m mu n it y ove r the last few months has been overwhelming, she said, adding that she's been impressed by how many people truly care about the community. After months of preparation, it's finally time for the school year to get underway. "[The community] has been incredibly welcoming, and I've loved it," Jones said. "I'm happy to be here."

elements combined.”

“The core of the Museum is education,” notes Jim, “because that’s where we’re really helping t h e c o m m u n i t y, n o t j u s t Greenwich, but Westchester, all of Fairfield County, and New York City, too. We have about 25,000 kids come through a year.

We’re hoping to double that with a much expanded education area.”

“We a re goi ng to have a w hole ne w prog r a m c a l le d E ng i ne er i ng Tomor row, a n incredible engineering program

for Public Purpose, got behind the grill.

"This has been a joy to be able to be here," Byxbee said, who shared a few laughs with the campers as they lined up for lunch.

"This has been totally f u n. I love the energ y, I love the community. It seems like everyone's had a great summer. On the last day, that's what you want to see -- everyone having a good time," Blunden added.

BG CG President and CEO, Bobby Walker Jr., called the guest grilling idea "an absolute success."

"It gets the kids connected to the community, the community connected to the kids. They get to see who some of our community l e a d e r s a r e ," Wa l ke r a dd e d .

"There's just a certain energy

now. He said his favorite activities are canoeing and swimming.

"But I'm going to miss everything," he said.

Sebastian Ojeda, 12, attended the camp for the first time, and said he made a lot of new friends.

"I'm going to miss the friends I don't go to the same school with," he said.

Wa l k e r s a i d t h a t C a m p Simmons is a special place for the community and the club "Camp Simmons is this magical, throwback in time. It's just kids having a great time outdoors, Celebrity grill masters Jenny Byxbee and Connie Blunden doing some very traditional style with Bobby Walker cooking for the campers. camp activities, but at the same time building really tight knit around the grill when those people celebratory mood, the last day of friendships and relationships, not are here. When the guests interact camp was bittersweet. only amongst themselves, but with with the kids, it's really nice."

Kai Cayo, 11, has attended the staff," he said.

Although campers were in a Camp Simmons for three summers

Father’s Forum Returns to Greenwich The YMCA of Greenwich and Liberation Programs announce the return of Father’s Forum this Fall. The program provided Greenwich dads with information and skills to help improve their relationship with their children. Spearheading the return of the program are John Hamilton, Liberation CEO and Bob DeAngelo, YMCA CEO. “Fathers play such an important role in their child’s development and I am excited to be partnering with the YMCA to bring the Father’s Forums back to the Greenwich community!” said Liberation Programs, John Hamilton.

“Our Y staff is thrilled and excited to team with Liberation Programs to re-energize the Father's Forum, especially in today's pressured and complicated world,” said YMCA CEO Bob DeAngelo.

“Together, we aim to help build strong families by leveraging the

strengths of both YMCA and Liberation expertise and resources."

Fathers Forum will meet monthly, most commonly on the second Saturday during the school year. Each meeting features a different topic and speaker, followed by a Q & A and informal discussion.

Topics range from sports parenting to stress management to peer relationships. Additionally, special events or meet ups promoting father and children bonding will also be scheduled throughout the year, like group hikes or Y sports activities.

Meetings are recommended for fathers of school-age children and are free and open to the public.

To receive notification and update about the program, join the Fathers’ Forum e-news list at greenwichymca.org

Glenville Fire to Host 9-11 Memorial Ceremony The Glenville Volunteer Fire Company is hosting a 9-11 Memorial There will be a presentation of a wreath at the 9-11 Steel Memorial, Ceremony on Wednesday, Sept. 11 at 7 p.m., at the Glenville Fire which is a permanent display in front of the Fire House.

House, 266 Glenville Rd. The ceremony will conclude with a benediction and retreat of the The event will start with a welcome from the Glenville Volunteer colors.

Fire Company, followed by a Presentation of the Colors, Pledge of For more information, call 203-622-3974 or visit glenvillefire.org.

Allegiance, Singing of National Anthem, and an Invocation.

Cos Cob Library Collecting Children, Young Adults Books The Friends of the Cos Cob Library is collecting new or slightly used children and young adults books beginning Aug. 20, to be sold at the Annual Cos Cob Library Open House and Children's Book Sale on Saturday, Sept. 14, 1 to 4 p.m. Proceeds from the sale will go towards library programs for children, tweens and teens.

Please no adult books, reference books, encyclo-pedias, audio and

video cassettes. Bring them to the library at 5 Sinawoy Rd., any time before Sept. 11.

The Cos Cob Library is open Mondays from 12 to 8 p.m., and Tuesday to Saturday from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. For more information, call 203-622-6883.

Choral Society Auditions The Greenwich Choral Society (GCS) announces auditions for singers interested in becoming members.

Auditions will be conducted on several dates, days and evenings in early September. Sopranos, altos, basses and especially tenors are invited to schedule an audition to be held at the First Congregational Church in Old Greenwich. Those interested may call Bill Fulton at 203-322-2990 or e-mail cbful@snet.net to schedule a date and time.

The Choral Society’s traditional December Holiday Concerts will feature one of Handel’s Chandos Anthems, with the stirring sounds of Stephen Mager’s Tapestry of the Holy Birth, the premiere

of a new anthem by Nathaniel Adams, not to mention a Ladino song celebrating Hanukkah. In March, they will celebrate Beethoven’s 250th birthday with “highlights” of Beethoven’s choral, operatic and instrumental masterpieces with Greenwich High School choruses. In May, they will feature the music of the “other” Americas, including Bobbi Fisher’s Missa Latina with folk music of South America and beyond.

For additional information, visit the Greenwich Choral Society’s website at GreenwichChoralSociety.org

Comedy Night Sept. 13th

Friends of Greenwich Point will host the first-ever Greenwich Point Comedy Night on Fri., Sept. 13th at Tod's Point aka Greenwich Point.

The evening promises to be full of laughter.

Laugh out loud N YC comedians will entertain guests with a picnic style ambiance, a "BYOE" (bring your own everything) event.

Tables and chairs will be provided.

The event will raise money for Friends of Greenwich Point, supporting the conservation, education, and recreation at Greenwich Point Park and Beach.

“We are very excited for the first Greenwich Point Comedy Night and are thrilled that Stephanie Norton and Kerri Kinsella came to us asking if they could organize this amazing comedy event,” said Wendy Enelow, President for high school students,” says Cricket, “It’s a first of its kind.”

“But there are also programs for children as young as age two; programs for people of all abilities, people with memory loss and t heir careta kers.

So, it’s a very comprehensive program that the Bruce has, and they’re going to enhance it tremendously. Then we have the Brucemobile program that goes out to schools and also the Bruce’s Seaside Center at Greenwich Point Park, which is absolutely amazing.”

of the Friends of Greenwich Point Board of Directors.

Greenwich Point Comedy Night begins at 6pm for dinner and mingling, with the comedy entertainment beginning at 7:30pm. The last hour from 9pm-10pm will include dancing to music from the DJ. Tickets are on sale now and there are limited quantities.

The event is not only BYOE (bring your own everything), it is also Waste Free, what is brought to the event must go home. Reusables and recyclables are encouraged.

The mission of the Friends of Greenwich Point is to act as an advocate for Greenwich Point. We are a non-prof it committed to responsible stewardship and public education to preserve and enhance Greenwich Point's

Meanwhile, the Lockhart’s daughter, Grace Djuranovic, is cultivating a younger generation of Museum members, the Bruce Contemporaries. “It’s growing by leaps and bounds,” says Cricket.

“They already have 85 members.

They tour people’s collections, t he y do cr awl s of d i f ferent galleries on Greenwich Avenue and in Stamford, and support the Seaside Center’s science and natural history programs with ‘Sips on the Sound,’ a wonderful event each summer.”

“I’ve a lways loved t he

diverse natural environments and beauty and to promote safe and appropriate recreation.

The Friends of Greenwich Point initiates and carries out projects related to the organization's mission, complementing the efforts and resources of the town. Some of these programs include the Safe Roads program, filling the bird feeders, picnic umbrellas, summer concerts, education programs, vegetation and habitat restoration and much more.

Greenwich Point Comedy Night tickets can be purchased at https://www. f r ie nd s ofg r e e nw ichp oi nt .or g /c om e dynight-2019.

Visit www.friendsofgreenwichpoint.org or follow @friendsofgreenwichpoint on Facebook and Instagram to learn more.

science,” says Jim. “Our Science Curator, Dr. Daniel Ksepka, has done a great job, and his plans for the new science galleries are going to be really good.”

“He's doing an installation from the Ice Age in the new perma nent science ga l ler y,” notes Cricket, “What this area looked like, going back in time.

They’ll have dioramas – very student- and child-friend ly.

It’s going to be tremendously interactive.”

“It gets kids away from their little iPads. It’s not only history

and science. It’s civilization.

Things that are new and contemporary,” says Cricket.

“We’re even going to have a feathered dinosaur,” adds Jim. “I f you w a nder t h rou g h here in the morning, you see these kids listening to someone explain t he painting, or something in science, the shark exhibition at the moment, and the kids really love it. That’s the next generation. That’s what a lot of our donors are looking at, the idea of an expanded education opportunity here.”

Column: Great Futures

By Bobby Walker

Greenwich. Just the name of our town conjures up so many images.

When I go home to Dallas, I am c o n s t a nt l y a s k e d a b o u t l i v i n g i n Greenwich. What is it like? Do you live in a mansion? Are you the only black man in town? Does everyone drive a Bentley? The questions go on and on. I tell them, simply, “Greenwich is my home.”

What surprises my friends the most is when I tell them just how diverse our town is. I LOVE seeing the puzzled looks on their faces when they hear me talk about how 15% of children in Greenw ich come f rom low-income

Greater Good

Lessons in Inclusion families. There’s amazement when I list the number of ethnicities represented i n ou r com mu n it y. Si m i la rly, new people to town are blown away by the rich diversity of Greenwich.

Just this past week, I met a new school principal who moved to town and wanted to learn more about the Boys & Girls Club of Greenwich.

As we talked, she told me that her greatest discovery so far has been that Greenwich is not the stereotypical plac e t h at she h ad i m a g i ne d . A s she’s shopped in several dif ferent neighborhoods and simply “cruised around” to get the lay of the land, she has found a town that is magnificently diverse. What she realized is that while there is one Greenwich. It is made up of uniquely different people who speak multiple languages, worship in different religious beliefs and work in hundreds of career fields. She saw neighborhoods with their own character and traditions.

As we walked the halls of the Club, my guest saw a kaleidoscope of faces, like a box of crayons from beige to sepia to mahogany. The youth were proud to show their individual school spirit, and some even spoke of the neighborhoods where they live. As the k ids who come from Byram, Chickahominy, Cos Cob, Back Country, Riverside and Old Greenwich were playing, my guest turned to me and said, “This is what I

wanted in my new home. A place where all kids, no matter who they are, can play together.”

I t o l d h e r t h a t o u r t ow n’s commitment to inclusion was on full display this past February when a group of high school students created t h e G r e e nw i ch St ud e nt D ive r s it y Leadership Conference. The one-day conference was endorsed by the First Selectman’s Diversity Committee’s commitment to encourage Greenwich yout h to en ga ge i n convers at ion s involving diversity and inclusion. A student-led sy mposium, attendees talked about how to make our area

high schools as safe and welcoming for everyone, regardless of race, gender, religion, sexual identity or physical and mental capabilities.

Student leaders from Greenwich High School, Brunswick, Sacred Heart a n d G r e e nw i c h Ac a d e my w a l k e d their peers through these important conversations and created plans for their respective schools to become as

accepting of everyone as possible. The youth discussed how the diversity of students in Greenwich could be celebrated, and how important it is to remember that everyone has a powerful story to share. These young men and women came together to help shape the Greenwich they wanted to see — a Greenwich invested in acceptance.

When the day ended, I was comforted to hear the students renew their commitment to the concept that Greenwich schools welcome everyone.

The hugs and tears of joy present that day were proof to me that the young people at Greenwich are committed to

providing safe spaces for all students.

This conference is a shining example of the power of kids teaching adults.

To be blunt, these student leaders and their peers are examples for all of us to emulate.

This is Greenwich. The one that all of us who call this place home experience every day. My family and I have called Northfield Street home

for nine years. My kids have attended schools here for almost 15 years. The rich diversity of our town is one of the key factors in their happiness and my satisfaction as their father.

Knowing that we live in a place where they can interact with people from all backgrounds and races is comforting.

No, it’s more than that. The diversity of this town is something that every resident of Greenwich should celebrate.

We are more than the stereot y pe.

Greenwich is the collective being of each neighborhood, each school, and all the children and adults who call this place home.

As my visitor lef t the Club this week, she committed herself to living in this diverse community. I assured her that the Greenwich I know will openly welcome her … like we do anyone who enters the doors to our Club!

Bobby Walker, Jr. is the CEO, Boys & Girls Club of Greenwich.

A former independent school administrator and teacher, Bobby is a member of the First Selectman’s Youth Commission. He joined the Boys & Girls Club of Greenwich in 2014 a s Chief Executive Officer.

In his column, Great Futures, Bobby Walker brings his unique voice and perspective to topics affecting youth and families in our community.

George Suter, Jr.

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wife, the former Alicja Szamborski, who predeceased him in 2013.

He is survived by two children from his first marriage, a daughter, Ilona Pasternak, and a son, Adrian Pasternak, both of Greenwich, CT. He is also survived by a brother, Jeffrey Pasternak, of Malibu, Calif., and a sister, Janet Pasternak, of Anchorage, Alaska.

Services will be held on Sunday, G eorge Aug ust Suter, Jr. of Sept. 2 2 at 1 p.m. at St. Paul’s Riverside, CT died peacefully at Lutheran Church, 761 King St., Rye home on Aug. 19, 2019 after a long Brook, N.Y. illness. Born on May 13, 1932 in New Sandra Papone York City, he was the son of the late George Suter and Maria Piedvache Suter.

George's childhood was spent in Manhattan where he lived at the Savoy Plaza Hotel and on the Jersey shore in Spring Lake, N.J. Mr. Suter graduated High School in 1949 from Red Bank Catholic in Red bank, N.J. He graduated from the University of Maryland in January 1954 and served with the United States Air Force from 1954-1956 in It is with such profound sadness, Okinawa where he was an air traffic the family mourns the passing of controller. He returned to Asia as their beloved Sandra Papone. She a management trainee for Pfizer in died of heart failure on Aug. 24, 1957 and stayed living and working 2019. in Asia until 1984, when he moved She was born on July 6, 1932 to Greenwich, CT. He had a long in New York City. For the last 50 and distinguished 39-year career at years she has called Greenwich Pfizer holding various management her home. She is survived by the positions including 15 years as love of her life Aldo Papone, for Country Manager in the Philippines, the last 65 years and her loving culminating as the Area President – daughter, Renata Papone-Lally and Eastern Europe and Russia in 1991. her loving son-in-law Christopher He opened the first Pfizer operation Lally. Her greatest joy however, in Dalian, China in 1989. were her grandchildren, Gregory He was involved with various and Alexandra. Sandra would light organizations including the Boys up the minute they walked into the Hop e G i rl s Hop e i n N YC , t h e room. She and Aldo were able to Philippine American Chamber of show their grandchildren so much Commerce and the Retired Men's of the world through traveling and Association in Greenwich, CT. He she loved them unconditionally. loved to play tennis and he was an S o m e t h i n g t h a t G r e g o r y a n d avid Yankee fan his whole life.

Alexandra will cherish forever.

His family relish the fun Sandra's life was truly a life to be memories they had with George. celebrated. Working in Manhattan His wisdom and guidance was at a small Italian clothing boutique cherished by all. He is survived by called Barra of Italy on Park Avenue his beloved wife of 59 years, Flora in the early 50's she met the love of Noel Bacus Suter, his son, James her life. They were married shortly Suter and daughter, Joan Suter, and a f ter a nd l ived i n Ma n hat ta n. his grandchildren PJ, George, Joy, Their only child was born in 1959 Christopher and Alexander. He was and in 1969 the family moved to predeceased in 1965 by his daughter Greenwich, CT. In the early 80's, Anne. He is also survived by his she was extremely active in the sister Renee Sterner of Spring Alzheimer’s Society, co-chairing Lake, N.J. and her four children and several of their Gala's. She was an extended family. avid reader with a voracious love of V i s i t a t i o n w i l l b e h e l d o n knowledge. Her husband’s position Friday, Aug. 30 from 4 to 7 p.m. at American Express afforded her at Castiglione Funeral Home, 544 being surrounded by dignitaries, Old Post Road #3, Greenwich. A presidents and royalty. She and Aldo Mass of Christian Burial will be have a pavilion named after them held Saturday, Aug. 31 at 10:30 a.m. at Hospital for Special Surgery from at St. Catherine of Siena Church, their years of charitable donations 4 Riverside Ave., Riverside. The and dedication. Sandra was a big Interment will follow at Putnam supporter of St. Jude Children's Cemetery, Greenwich.

Hospital, Connecticut Food Bank, In lieu of f lowers, memorial and Doctors without Borders. She contributions may be made to the also loved going to the movies, The Robert H. Smith School of Business Met Opera and Broadway. Sandra at the University of Maryland. Make was very generous with her time checks payable to UMCPF and mail and love and always wanted to be to: UMCP Foundation, Inc., 4603 surrounded by her many friends.

Calvert Road, College Park, MD She was continuously entertaining 20740. Please note in memory of and cooking all her greatest dishes George Suter on the check. Or visit that everyone loved. (giving.umd.edu/to/georgesuter).

A mass to celebrate her life and entombment at St. Mary's Cemetery Matthew Pasternak w ill be posted on the website: Matthew S. Pasternak, 68, of leopgallaghergreenwich.com Greenwich, CT, died suddenly on The family is very grateful to Wednesday, July 3 at his home. Dr. Ralph Cipriani, our private M r. P a s t e r n a k w a s a m u l t i - nurse Lori Civitella and all the great industry growth strategist and nurses at The Greenwich Registry global investor, associated with and Constellation Hospice. The Klipmart Corp., Crowd Science, Inc., family would like to also recognize HealthiNation, Inc., and Information how important Manoly Acebo was Resources Inc., where he was to Sandra, she took such good care involved in advertising, marketing of her and continues to care for and sales capacities. Earlier in his Sandra's husband, Aldo. career he held positions at MCA In lieu of flowers, please consider DiscoVision, Inc., RCA Colombia don at ion s to T he A l z hei me r s Pictures and Vestron Video. He Society at hact.alz.org/site/Donation held a Bachelor of Applied Science or Hospital for Special Surgery, degree in Film Production and Development Department, 535 East Finance from New York University. 70th Street, New York, NY 10021, in Born Sept. 10, 1950 in Vicksburg, memory of Sandra Papone.

Miss., he was the son of the Nellie Hupal late R aphael a nd Violet I rene (Blankenship) Pasternak. As a Nellie Davis Hupal passed away child he lived in Venezuela, where on Aug. 24, 2019 at the age of 95. his father was a mining engineer. She was born in Greenwich to the Returning to the United States, his late Peter and Pauline Davis. She family settled in Greenwich in 1965 graduated from Greenwich High where he attended Greenwich High School in 1942. Her first job was School, graduating in 1967. In 1971, with the War Department in The he married his first wife, the former Pentagon. She, then, worked for Ingrid Kerschus, of Greenwich, CT. the Navy Department Bureau of In 2000, he married his second Ships in Washington, D.C. After

returning to Greenwich, she worked for several businesses in Town including Fawcett Publications (later CBS), DMS and The Willard & Shullman Group.

She is survived by her loving daughter, Jo-Ann Hupal, her brother, Raymond Davis and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her daughter, Pauline ("Polly"), sisters, Helen Stone, Ruth Balcerak and Anna Nugent and brother, Benjamin Davis.

Nellie was known for her baking talents, always bringing in baked goods for her coworkers and baking up a storm for her family. She loved poetry, and, in her later years, charmed people with her ability to recite lengthy poems learned during her school years. She was devoted to her family, loved people and was kind to everyone - a true example of someone who made the world a better place.

Much gratitude is extended to the following people who surrounded Nellie with love, kindness, joy and support in her last years: Nathaniel W it her el l's A mel it a A ng ra nd, Carmen Wilczewski, Tim Gullberg, Sandie Heath and Mike Rinaldi.

Also, for their ongoing support and dedication, thank-you to Marcie Husband, Laurel and Mike Hupal and Rose Astrenom.

Visitation was Wednesday, Aug. 28 at Castiglione Funeral Home, Greenwich. Interment was private.

Connie Lockwood C o n n i e L o c k w o o d , 7 9, o f Greenwich, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on Saturday, Aug. 24. She was the w ife of the late Floyd Lockwood. Connie was born in Greenw ich on Aug. 31, 1939 to the late Sebestiano and Frances Turturino Pucci.

Con n ie wa s t he lov i ng a nd d e v o t e d m o t h e r, f r i e n d a n d conf idant to her sons; Mark (Gina) and Dwayne (Rosemarie) Lockwood, all of Greenwich. She was the proud grandmother to Lauren and Nicholas. Connie is also survived by her siblings RoseAnn Heil, and Angelo and Ronald Pucci, as well as many loving nieces, nephews, cousins, in-laws and friends.

After leaving High School to help support her family, Connie's love of

cooking and baking led her to a long career as a chef working for the Greenwich Public school system.

Her creole spaghetti lives on in the memory of many former students.

Visitation was Aug. 27 at the Castiglione Funeral Home, Greenwich. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated Aug. 28 at Sacred Heart Church, Greenwich.

Interment was private. In lieu of f lowers, memorial contributions may be made to St Jude Children's Research Hospital. Stjude.org Brian Doran, M.D.

his partner Tami McCumons. He was predeceased by his father, John Doran.

Calling hours were Aug. 23 at Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home , G r e e nw ich . A F u ne ra l service was celebrated on Aug. 24t at St. Mary's Church, Greenwich.

Internment followed at St. Mary's Cemetery, Greenwich.

In lieu of f lowers, memorial donations may be made to Regional Hospice and Palliative Care Center, 30 Milestone Rd, Danbury, CT or the American Cancer Society Kimberly Gillick

Kimberly Gillick was born on March 6, 1960 and passed away on Tuesday, Aug. 20, 2019. A lifelong Resident of Greenw ich, K im attended Greenwich Public Schools, graduating from Greenwich High School in 1978.

Memorial contributions may be made to: The Greenwich Athletic Association, The Greenw ich Audubon Society or a Charity of Brian John Doran, M.D., longtime your choice. resident of Greenwich, passed away Lawrence Montimurro on Tuesday, Aug. 20 at the age of 51.

Br ia n w a s b or n i n D u bl i n , Lawrence ("Larry") A. I r e l a n d , t h e s o n o f J o h n a n d Montimu r ro, 85, a resident of Bernadette Doran. He attended Greenwich, passed away after a long and earned his medical degree battle with cancer on Wednesday, f rom Ch icago Med ica l School. Aug. 21, 2019. He was born on Dec. He completed his residency in 4, 1933 in Greenwich to the late Emergency Medicine at Yale New Anthony and Mildred Montimurro.

Haven Hospital, where he was L a r r y at te nde d G r e e nw ich Chief Resident. Following residency, schools and graduated from DeVry B r i a n w o r k e d a t G r e e n w i c h Institute in New York. He proudly Hospital as an Emergency Medicine and bravely served in the United physician, later becoming Director States Air Force during the Korean of the Emergency Department, War and received an honorable Chief Medical Officer and eventually discharge. He also worked for 13 Executive Vice President & Chief years as a Police off icer for the Operating Off icer. Additionally, Greenwich Police Department.

Brian earned a Master of Healthcare Larry is survived by his loving Administration from the Harvard son, Ian Montimurro (A my) of School of Public Health.

Greenwich, two grandsons Joseph Brian was a member of the and Nicholas, CT brothers Francis of Harvard Club of New York City. Layton, N.J. and Anthony (Cathleen) He enjoyed traveling, sailing and of Bolivia, N.C., also many nieces spending time with his family. and nephews. He was predeceased Throughout his professional and by his brother, Joseph and sister, private life, he was passionate about Marie. helping others and serving the Services will be private. In lieu community. of flowers, please consider making Brian is survived by his sons a donation in Larry's memory to Jack, William and Charlie, his Constellation Heath Services in mother Ber nadette Doran, his Orange, CT or Friends of Nathaniel brothers Mark, Paul and Liam, Witherell.

Liam's wife Sarah and their two children Pierce and Gray, as well as

Faith

On Faith Column

Valentine and Hart Leading with Love

By Nathan Hart B en Va lent i ne i s t he new Senior Pastor at Trinity Church.

This is good news for Trinity and for our town. I am personally excited to partner with him in our churches’ shared visions to inf luence our region for good in the years to come, especially b e c ause Tr i n it y was bi r t he d twenty years ago from Stanwich Church, where I now serve as Senior Pastor. Over those twenty years, both congregations have grown and expanded their reach in Greenwich and beyond. I hope you will get to know Ben through the ways he answered my questions that follow here:

was pretty opposed to becoming a pastor, and entertained other vocational paths, though I kept feeling drawn back to vocational ministry in a church setting. Today, I feel like I’m doing what I was wired and called by God to do.

of our lives it seems, whether in the workplace, or in academics or athletics or even in our social l i ve s . T h e r e ’s t h i s u n s t a t e d pressure to at least appear like we “have it all together”, it’s a really heavy burden to carry. I think all of this produces a certain level You've been an Associate of busyness and loss of margin Pastor and a Campus Pastor that fights against our exploration of the deeper questions of life, at Trinity for several years. including faith.

What is the biggest change

as you step into the Senior Pastor role?

The biggest change for me is moving from a “single lane” focus, whether that was in the youth ministry, or as the Pastor of our Darien location, to a much broader role with the entire church. There is a natural learning curve for any Nathan: How did you receive new role, but I’m so thankful for your call to go into pastoral the support of our incredible staff ministry? team and congregation. They’ve Ben: Funny enough, I had a been very encouraging. sense that I was going to do this at a pretty young age, probably 4 or 5 What are the greatest spiritual years old. I even used to do “church challenges that people in our services” with my stuffed animals. region face?

My dad became a Pastor when I I would say the exhaustion, was a kid, but even before that we’d anxiety, and isolation that often always been very involved in our church community, both in France, c o m e f r o m a p e r f o r m a n c e where I spent six years as a child, o r i e n t e d c u l t u r e . T h e g r e a t and back in the U.S. I will say pressure to “succeed” starts very that at other times as I grew up, I young, and extends to every part

wonderful thing. After all, God made us to create and add to the f lourishing of this place where He’s called us. At the same time, there is a shadow side to this, where we work in order to earn accepta nce (either hu ma n or divine), rather than working from a place of acceptance in Jesus.

The Christian idea of grace says t hat t here is not h i ng we ca n achieve that will add one iota to our standing with God. His love How can churches like ours for us is not based on our spiritual meet such challenges? resume, but on his unmerited My conviction is that we’re favor in our lives. called f irst of all, to model an attractive counter-culture to the What strategic plans do you status-quo. People are desperate have for Trinity in the years to for lasting peace and satisfaction, come? and our role is to point people to The timing of my new role the hope and health that’s possible coincides with Trinity Church through following the way of Jesus. entering its’ third decade. In this Often though, “the Church” new chapter, I’m excited about has simply matched the frantic Trinity becoming the healthiest pace and performance orientation possible version of itself, a group o f o u r c u l t u r e . I n s t e a d , t h e of people who are absolutely Church is called to be a place that committed to follow ing Jesus offers true rest, that graciously a nd b e i n g a ble s si n g to t h i s challenges our misguided attempts community. to find meaning and purpose in My role is still very new, so workaholism or perfectionism, and I’m excited to start my leadership to discover a more resilient identity with listening, both for guidance as a daughter or son of God. from God, and the voice of our We l ive i n a ve r y ac t ion- congregation to see where there oriented place, which can be a are emerging “breadcrumbs.”

Ver y tang ibly thoug h, I’m Greenwich and our wider region excited for more impact and to f lourish. Oh, and let me know welcome more people in the days about that radio show idea! ahead, through the launching of a third Trinity congregation in Westchester County later in 2020. There’s an incredible team gathering around that mission and it’s amazing to see the momentum that’s happening.

What do you like to do in your spare time?

My wife and I love to explore new places w ith ou r you ng daughter. We love walks together, either in nature, or in a developed area. Sometimes on my day off, we do “Sa bbat h i n t he Cit y ”.

Other than that, I listen to a lot of podcasts and love visiting good coffee shops!

Valentine and Hart.... do you think with last names like ours we could've been anything other than pastors?

You’re totally right! We were either meant to be pastors, or m ayb e c o -ho st s of a “ love & relationships” radio show!

On a more serious note though, I’m really grateful for you Nathan, I’m a big fan of Stanwich Church, and excited for new ways that we m ig ht work together in th is com i ng season to see

Rev. Dr. Nathan Hart is the Senior Pastor at Stanwich Church.

Nathan grew up in Holland , M i c h i g a n , wh e r e h e a t te n d e d Hope College. He later received his Masters from Princeton Theological Seminary and his Doctorate from G o r d o n- C o n w e l l T h e o l o g i c a l Seminary. He was serving in New York City before being called to Stanwich in 2011 and was elected as Senior Pastor in 2018.

Worship & Events Calendar ASSEMBLIES OF GOD Harvest Time Church 1338 King St., 203-531-7778 www.htchurch.com

St. Roch Church 10 St. Roch Ave.; 203-869-4176 www.strochchurch.com

Pacific House, fourth Tue of the month, 5:30pm.

St. Paul’s Episcopal Church 200 Riverside Ave.; 203-637-2447 www.stpaulsriverside.org

Mass: Mon, Tue, Frid: 7:30pm; Sat 4pm, Vigil Mass 4pm; Service: Sun 9 & 11am; Wed 7pm - Family Life Night. Sun: 7:30, 9:30, 11:30am - Social Hour (immediately after Service: Sun: Holy Eucharist, 8am; Christian Education Spanish: Thur & Sat 7:30pm; Sun 4pm. Sunday School, 9:30 Mass). Confession: Sat 3-3:45pm. Prayer Group Formation (Sunday School), 10; Holy Eucharist, 10:15; 10:30-11:15am. Service - Stamford campus, Sun 10am, (Spanish) Fri 8pm.

Coffee Hour, 11:30.

Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St. Every Wed, from Jan. CHRISTIAN SCIENCE St. Saviour’s Episcopal Church 10-March 28: The Alpha Course, 7-8:30pm. Connie's Circle First Church of Christ, Scientist 350 Sound Beach Ave; 203-637-2262 - Every Sat, 10am-1pm. Sept. 6: Messiah's House, 7-9pm.

11 Park Place; 203-869-2503 www.saintsaviours.org Sept. 7: Men's Breakfast, 8:30-10am. www.christiansciencect.org/greenwich Sun: Rite I Eucharistic Service, 8am. Rite II Eucharistic BAPTIST Service and Sunday School 10:30am Wed. Service 7:30pm. Service, 10am. School and childcare offered during 10am First Baptist Church Childcare. service.

10 Northfield St.; 203-869-7988 COMMUNITY JEWISH www.firstbaptistgreenwich.com First Church of Round Hill Chabad Lubavitch of Greenwich Sun: Service 11am, School 10am. Wed: Bible Study 464 Round Hill Rd.; 203-629-3876 75 Mason St.; 203-629-9059 7:30pm. www.firstchurchofroundhill.com www.chabadgreenwich.org Greenwich Baptist Church Service: Sundays 10am Holy Communion: first Sun every Shabbat Prayer, Study and Kiddush, Chassidic Philosophy 10 Indian Rock Ln; 203-869-2807 month.

8:45am, Sat 9:30am; Torah reading and discussions www.greenwichbaptist.org 10:30am; Youth Services 11am. Women’s Torah Study Round Hill Community Church Sun: Prayer in chapel 9:15-9:30am; Bible Study, 9:30am; Group, Wed 9:30am. Mommy & Me: Musical Shabbat Tue 395 Round Hill Rd.; 203-869-1091 Worship 11am. Wed: Prayer & Bible Study 7-8:15pm. Every & Fri, 9:15-10:15am, during summer: 12:30pm. Through www.roundhillcommunitychurch.org first Sat. of the month: Men’s Bible Study and Breakfast, Dec. 22: Mommy & Me Fall Session begins (0-24 months), Service & Church School: Sun 10am (childcare available) 9:20am, register.

8-9:30am. followed by Coffee Hour; Summer Meditation Schedule: CATHOLIC Congregation Shir Ami Thurs, 6:30pm.

One W. Putnam Ave; 203-274-5376 Sacred Heart Church CONGREGATIONAL www.congregationshirami.org 95 Henry St.; 203-531-8730 The First Congregational Church Shir Ami Religious grades K-6, Tues, 4-6pm, B’nai Mitzvah Mass: Mon-Fri 7am, Sat 4 & 5:30pm, Sun: 7:30, 9:30, 108 Sound Beach Ave; 203-637-1791 Classes; Shabbat Services two Fridays a month.

11:30am Confessions: Sat 3:30 & 5pm. www.fccog.org Greenwich Reform Synagogue St. Agnes Church Greenwich Regular Worship and Church School: Sun 10am in 92 Orchard St.; 203-629-0018 247 Stanwich Rd.; 203-869-5396 Meetinghouse. Caregivers Support Group, 1st Sun 11:15amwww.grs.org www.stagnesrc.org 12pm. Hats Off Book Discussion Group, Thu 10-11:30am.

Mass: Mon 9am, Sat 4pm (Winter only), Sun: 8:30 & 10am. Through Sept. 1: Beach Services, Sundays, 8-9am, Shabbat services, Fri 7pm. Adult Jewish Learning, Sun open to all - resident or not (If you don’t have a beach 10am. Religious school, Sun 9-11:30am. Introduction to St. Catherine of Siena Church pass, let the gatekeeper know that you are there for Judaism, Tue 7pm. Through Dec. 21: ‘Baby & Me’ program, 4 Riverside Ave.; 203-637-3661 First Congregational Church’s service). Chancel Choir 11am-12pm. Ongoing: Blooming Babies Playgroup www.stcath.org (6months-2years), Tuesdays 9:30-10:30am, $10 per Potluck Dinner: Sept. 5, 6:30-7:30pm, Auditorium. class, register at SGregoire@StamfordJCC.org or 203Mass: Mon-Fri: 7am and 5:15pm, Sat 7am, Sun 7:30, 9, North Greenwich Congregational 487-0944.

10:30am and 5pm; Vigil: Sat 5pm; Holy Day 7am, 12:10 606 Riversville Rd.; 203-869-7763 www. and 5:15pm (Vigil). Confessions Sat 3pm. Meditation Temple Sholom northgreenwichchurch.org Group Thu 7pm. Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, First 300 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-7191 Fri of month. Registration for Faith Formation Classes Service: Sun 10:30am. Communion first Sunday of month. www.templesholom.com for Grades 1-8 and Confirmation. Cursillo Men's Second Congregational Church Service: Fri 6:30pm; Sat 10am; Sun 8:30am. Candle Group: Sept. 7, 8:30-11:30am, O'Malley Center.

139 E Putnam Ave.; 203-869-9311 Lighting: Fri night. Shabbat Study: Sat 9am. Minyan: Sun St. Mary Church www.2cc.org 8:30am. Lunch ‘n Learn: Tue 12pm. Itsy Bitsy Playgroup: 178 Greenwich Ave.; 203-869-9393 Family-friendly Evensong Service, every Sat 5pm. Summer Wed 10:30am. Musical Shabbat Services and Rabbi www.stmarygreenwich.org Sunday Services, 8:15 & 9:30am, Chapel. Homecoming Chaya's Installation: Sept. 6, 6:30pm; Celebratory Shabbat Dinner for Rabbi Chaya's Installation, $18 Mass: Mon-Fri 7am & 12:05pm; Sat 8am; Sun 7, 9, 10:30am, Weekend: Sept. 6-8. adults, $10 children (age 12 and under) 7:30pm, RSVP 12:15 and 5:15pm Sat Vigils: 4 and 7:30pm (Spanish).

EPISCOPAL

by Aug. 30, alice.schoen@templesholom.com Confession: Sat 2:45-3:45. Adoration of the Blessed Anglican Church of the Advent Sacrament Mon 11am-12pm. Walking With Purpose, Tue LUTHERAN 606 Riversville Rd.; 203-861-2432 9:30am. Choir Rehearsals, Thu: Children 5:30-6pm, Youth First Lutheran Church www.churchoftheadvent.org 6-7, Adults 7:30-9:15. Adult Choir Rehearsal: Sept. 5, 38 Field Point Rd.; 203-869-0032 7:30-9:30pm.

Service: Sun 9am Holy Eucharist. Sunday School during www.flcgreenwich.org academic year.

St. Michael the Archangel Service: Sun 10:30am followed by coffee and fellowship.

469 North St.; 203-869-5421 Christ Church Greenwich Wed: education ages 3.5 & up 2:30-5:15pm at St. Paul www.stmichaelgreenwich.com 254 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-6600 Lutheran. www.christchurchgreenwich.org Mass: Mon-Fri: 7:45am, 9am; Sat 9am, Vigil Mass 5pm; St. Paul Evangelical Lutheran Sun: 7, 9, 10:30am, 12, 5pm. Bible Study: Thu 7pm.

Sunday Worship - May 18-Sept 15: Holy Eucharist, Rite 2, 286 Delavan Ave.; 203-531-8466 8am; Holy Eucharist, Rite 2, 10am; Compline & Commuion, St. Timothy Chapel 5pm. Sunday Educational Offerings: Exploration Series, Service: Sun 9am, Bible Study 10:30.

1034 North St.; 203-869-5421 Youth Formation & Church School, 10:10am. Tue: Holy METHODIST Mass: Sat 4pm; Sun: 9:30 & 11am.

Eucharist, 10am. Bookstore presents Sound Bath: Diamond Hill United Methodist Sept. 6, 6-9pm & Sept. 7, 8-11am, 203-869-9030, St. Paul Church 521 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-2395 bookstore@christchurcngreenwich.org. Emmanuel 84 Sherwood Ave. | 203-531-8741 www.diamondhillumc.com College Cambridge Chapel Choir Concert: Sept. 7, www.stpaulgreenwich.org 7-8pm; Concert Reception, 8-9pm, 203-869-6600 Worship & Sunday School: 10am. Kokusai Gakuen Mass: Vigil Sat: 4pm; Sun: 7:30, 9:30, 11:30am; Mon ext. 23, music@christchurchgreenwich.org Opening Ceremony: Sept. 3, 8:30-11am. to Thurs 9am. Holy Day schedule: Vigil: 5:30pm Holy St. Barnabas Episcopal Church First United Methodist Church Day: 9am and 12:15pm. First Friday Mass & Benediction 954 Lake Ave.; 203-661-5526 59 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-629-9584 9am. St. Paul Volunteers in Action, Fri mornings, office@ www.stbarnabasgreenwich.org www.fumcgreenwich.com stpaulgreenwich.org or 203-531-8741. Sacrament of Reconciliation Sat 3-3:45pm or by appointment. St. Paul Sun: Holy Eucharist Rite I 8am, Holy Eucharist Rite II, 10am; Sun 10:30am with childcare. Children's Ministry Director Bereavement Group: Sept. 5, 5:30-7pm.

Worship, Church School & Nursery 10am. Serve dinner at Training Workshop: Sept. 7, 10am-1pm, New York

Annual Conference of The United Methodist Church, 20 Soundview Ave, White Plains, NY, childrensministry@ nyac-umc.com Bethel African Methodist Episcopal 42 Lake Ave.; 203-661-3099

Service: Sun 11am Bible Study: Wed. 6pm.

NONDENOMINATIONAL Dingletown Community Church 376 Stanwich Rd.; 203-629-5923 www.dingletownchurch.org

Service & Sunday School: Sundays 10:30am followed by coffee hour. Holy Communion: first Sun of each month.

Sunday School 11am.

Revive Church 90 Harding Rd., Old Greenwich (Old Greenwich Civic Center) www.myrevive.org

Service: Sunday 10am. Childcare and children’s ministry available.

Stanwich Church 202 Taconic Rd.; 203-661-4420 www.stanwichchurch.org

Sunday Services: Greenwich location (202 Taconic Rd.), 9 & 10:45am (June 9-Sept 2, 10am only); Stamford location (579 Pacific St.), 6pm. Stamford Cokout and Service: Sept.

1, 5pm, Kosciuszko Park, 200 Elmcroft Road, Stamford, kimberly@stanwichchurch.org. Tennis Outing: Sept. 6, 5:30-8:30pm, Field Club of Greenwich, 276 Lake Ave., $25 (Rain date: Sept. 7), RSVP, christahartch@me.com.

The Albertson Memorial Church 293 Sound Beach Ave; 203-637-4615 www.albertsonchurch.org

Worship Sun: 11-12:30pm.

Trinity Church 1 River Rd.; 203-618-0808 www.trinitychurch.life

Worship: Sun 10am, Greenwich Hyatt Regency, 1800 E. Putnam Ave. Newcomer Welcome: Sept. 1, 10-11:30am, lobby.

PRESBYTERIAN First Presbyterian Church 1 W. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-8686 www.fpcg.org

Worship Sun: 10am with childcare, Chapel, 5pm (new); Children’s Mini-Chapel 10:15am. Food for the Table 2nd Thurs 3-5pm; Shelter for the Homeless 2nd Thurs 5:307pm. Sundays through Sept. 1: Summer Worship at the Beach, 8:30am, Greenwich Point Seaside Garden.

Sundays through Sept. 1: Summer Sunday School, during 10am worship, ages 3-13.

Grace Church of Greenwich 8 Sound Shore Dr, Suite 280 203-861-7555 www.gracechurchgreenwich.com

Worship Sun: 8:45 & 10:45am at 89 Maple Ave.; childcare provided.

Living Hope Community Church 38 West End Ave; 203-637-3669 www.LivingHopeCT.org

Worship Sun: 10am. Bible study: Mon 7:15-9pm. Women’s Bible Study Tue 9:30-11:30am. Mothers of Preschoolers 1st/3rd Wed of month 9:15-11:45am. Bibles & Bagels Sat 7:30-8:30am.

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SPORTS

FRIDAY, AUGUST 30, 2019

Hannigan Familiar With 'Wick's Tradition For Mike Hannigan, it’ hard to remember a time without the Brunswick School in his life. He’s an alum of the school and has been on the coaching staff with the team’s football program for over a decade.

W h i l e i t ’s o b v i o u s t h a t Hannigan’s quite familiar with the school, he is in an unfamiliar position this year. The longtime assistant coach and changed his title with the program and will be the person in charge, taking over from former head coach Jarrett Shine as the team’s new head coach.

“I have been really excited to start,” Hannigan said. “I tell the players that we have to be comfortable being uncomfortable.

We have to push ourselves.

Could we show up and do things the same way all time? Yes, and I would be very comfortable showing up with someone else having the head coach title. But for our team it’s all about growth and taking a step forward and I relayed that to the kids. So it’s all about growth and taking a step forward for me as well.”

Hannigan took over the head coaching duties from longtime Brunswick School coach Jarrett Shine. Shine, who in 10 years of coaching the Bruins compiled a record of 53-32, stepped down earlier this year to take over as athletic director at Greenhill School in Texas.

Back in March, Headmaster at Brunswick School, Tom Phillips, and former head coach Shine met with Hannigan and it was then when they offered Hannigan the head coaching role. While Hannigan wanted nothing more than to jump up and hug both Phillips and Shine, he needed the approval from a few important people first.

“It was such a wonder f u l feeling, but I needed to talk to my family about this first,” Hannigan said. “I have a great supportive family and we were good to go.”

A nd n ow it ’s H a n n i g a n’s f a v o r i t e t i m e o f t h e y e a r, a s pr e s e a s on prac t ice s a r e underway. The head coach said that he always considers the start of the football preseason a ton of fun.

“This is great,” Hannigan said.

“It’s great because there are no distractions. It’s the first time you get the group together. Everybody, whether it’s players or coaches, are enthusiastic. It’s a fresh start.

A clean slate. The weather is

PHOTO COURTESY OF BRUNSWICK ATHLETICS

By Paul R. Silverfarb

Brunswick School's Mike Hannigan during a recent game with the football program. Earlier this year, the longtime assistant coach was named the new head coach of the Bruins and will take over a program that won't back down from its lofty expectations. nice and it’s all football, all the time. For me, the night before the first preseason practice is like Christmas Eve. I couldn’t sleep Sunday night.”

One of the things Hannigan quickly realized when taking over the head coaching position is that there’s a lot more things to accomplish in the offseason, and most of them had little to do with actual coaching.

“You get college recruiters coming through and you get a lot of admin stuff,” Hannigan said.

“You get people asking about summer workouts and there’s a lot of organization. It’s basically everything but coaching. Starting this preseason has been even more fun for me because I get to get back on the field. Instead of being the CEO, I get to do a lot of X’s and O’s and that’s a lot of fun.”

Ha n n iga n is cer t a i n ly no s t ra n ge r to t he Br u n s w ick football community. In addition to h is prev ious p osit ion as assistant coach under Shine for

the past 10 years, and another season during former head coach Sean Brennan’s final year with the Bruins, Hannigan is a 2001 graduate of Brunswick School and a former standout on the football team.

While Hannigan has a few plans for the Bruins during his tenure as head coach, a bunch of things will remain the same.

“People say that when you take over a program, you have one chance to change the culture,” Hannigan said. “I don’t know that the culture of being proud in our team and being successful needs to be changed here. Maybe that’s me as an alum and as a teacher that has been here for 13 years speaking, but I have seen some really successful teams and everybody has been enthusiastic about football. There’s not a lot that I need to do to emphasize the culture, team building, and camaraderie I want here.

“The team has certainly grown since I played here,” added

Hannigan. “My sophomore year I think we went to a New England bowl game with maybe 28 kids on the varsity team and now we are more than doubling that. The team has grown and I think that it’s an advantage for me to be able to emphasize those traditions. I coached under the previous head coach. The coach that’s a legend here, I played for in high school.

I have that connection to the alumni and tradition, but I have also seen the really recent stuff and know where we are going with it.”

For Hannigan, he is looking to grow from his previous position as an assistant coach. And for the new head coach, it’s all about growth.

“It’s great because I get to grow a little bit from my previous role with the program,” Hannigan said. “There are added things that I need to do and I get to grow and learn about them. I also get to see the assistant coaches grow in their roles and we get to see

the players grow up and grow into their roles. It’s exciting to see what the team is going to be like this year.”

Hannigan is tak ing over a program where the sky’s the limit. Last year was supposed to be a rebuilding year for the Bruins. But that wasn’t good enough for Brunswick. Instead of settling for improvement, the ’Wick won their first six regular season games before falling to Avon Old Farms by three points.

They ran the table the rest of the way and advanced to the top bowl game in the New England Prep School Athletic Conference.

Although they fell to powerhouse Choate Rosemary Hall 25-8 in the bowl game, it was still considered yet another outstanding season for Brunswick.

“This year we are inheriting a lot of that group who have this idea that we are not going to be labeled as something,” Hannigan said. “They just want to produce on the field. They have done a

great job so far. They are holding each other accountable to little things, whether it’s keeping the locker room clean, bringing the bags out, working hard in practice, thanking each other for working hard in practice, and much more. It’s all the little things that matter, not just to make them good football players, but good people as well. It’s a great group of young men.”

When it comes to memories as a player and a coach at Brunswick School, Hannigan has two that stick out.

As a player, Hannigan said that he always did the same conditioning at the end of every practice under legendary coach Robert Sampson at the muddy Everett Field off of Maher Avenue.

They would run 30 30-yard sprints every day. And it was a new athlete in the Brunswick football program that helped Hannigan have a memory he wouldn’t forget.

“Everybody knew the deal and we all started running,” Hannigan said. “The new guy was winning all the sprints and smok ing everybody. Someone leans over to the new guy and said: ‘Hey, you know we have 30 of these, right?’ And he lost his mind. But it was one of those welcome to the program type of things. It was cool because everybody kind of laughed but it was his moment.

As a player being a part of the program, it was one of those inthe-grass at Everett Field that I won’t forget.”

As a coach, one of Hannigan’s fondest memories was something quite small in the grand scheme of things, but still incredibly impactful. Last year, Brunswick was up against a real elusive running back that would stiff-arm like crazy. Hannigan worked on a drill where the defender would chop the stiff-arm off and then run into the tackle.

“We did it for five to 10 minutes that week,” Hannigan said. “Two weeks later we played another good back and decided to do that stiff-arm drill again. That week in the game, running towards our sidelines, one of our defensive backs comes up to play a bubble screen and he chops the stiff arm off and gets right on the guy’s hip and runs him out of bounds. As a coach, we saw all that preparation and a drill we did in practice show up in a game and enable one of our players to be successful. I get so excited whenever I see something in a game that we worked on in practice.”

Audi Claims Victory in East Coast Opener On Sunday, the East Coast Open kicked into high gear at the Greenwich Polo Club, as Audi, the formidable high-goal contingent based out of the New York City area, catapulted to the top of the leaderboard in thrilling fashion by beating Monterosso 13-9.

The match pitting Monterosso, a high-powered world-class polo squad based out of Palm Beach, Fla. that frequently travels for competition in Great Britain, against Audi was the first-round

opener of the ECO. Playing in front of a packed and engaged house of more than 4,000 spectators, the agile fourmember Audi squad, whose total goal ranking, like Monterosso’s, added up to a lofty 20 goals, put the proverbial pedal to the metal.

Audi’s fiery 21-year-old sevengoaler, Torito Jorba-Ruiz, known to be a rising star in the high-goal polo community, knocked in nine of his team’s 13 total points with the focus, command, and aptitude of a seasoned world-class athlete.

At the conclusion of the match,

Ruiz was named the game’s Most Valuable Player.

Right from the outset, it was clear all of the players on both teams, along with their powerful charges, were right on point as they faced off against one another on the famous and expansive Conyers Farm turf in fast and furious style, displaying superb skill, speed and stick and ball maneuvering, much to the delight of the crowd.

Throughout the entire first half, Montesorro lead the match.

This squad’s impressive roster,

JOHN FERRIS ROBBEN PHOTO

By Liz Leamy

JOHN FERRIS ROBBEN PHOTO

Ignacio Tocalino, left, of Monterosso and Toro Ruiz-Jorma of Audi fight for the ball at Sunday's East Coast Open first-round contest at the Greenwich Polo Club.

Santino Magrini, left, of Monterosso faces off against Toro-Ruiz Jorba of Audi, who scored nine of his team's 13 points, with Matias Magrini of Audi in the background.

wh ich i ncluded A lessa nd ro Bazzoni, its stealth and dedicated patron (who evidently had named the team after his hometown in Italy); Santino Magrini, the energetic Argentinian four-goaler and son of esteemed seven-goaler and Audi team member Matias Magrini; Ignacio Tocalino, the remarkable Italian eight-goaler and Naco Taverna, the eversteady Argentinian six-goaler, worked in ef fective tandem together to claim a 5-3 advantage

over Audi at the end of the third chukker.

Things subsequently shifted during the second half, however, when Audi’s Ruiz-Jorba drove in two points for his team in the fourth chukker to tie the score at 5-5.

From t hat poi nt on, Aud i c o nt i nu e d to e n fo r c e t h e i r presence in this heated match.

During the fifth chukker, RuizJorba and Joaquin Panelo, the powerful Argentinian six-goaler;

along with Matias Magrini, the masterful Argentinian sevengoaler; and Christopher Brant, the team’s ever-steady No. 1 player, worked together in electric fashion knocking in five goals to render a 10-7 score against Montesorro, who racked up two additional points.

To read much more on Sunday's match at the Greenwich Polo Club, check out Greenwichsentinel.com and click on sports.

Astrology Column For Week of Sept 1, 2019

VIRGO 24 Aug-23 Sept Mars’ angry influence will affect you this week and anyone who has let you down should make themselves scarce. You can deal appropriately with those who deserve it but don’t take it out on people who just happen to be in the firing line.

PISCES 20 Feb-20 March You have a simple task this week: work with others and get things done or work alone and meet constant resistance. You may be good at dealing with problems but even a Pisces needs help occasionally and you need it more than ever now.

LIBRA 24 Sept-23 Oct Don’t shirk your duties or put off anything in need of immediate attention. If you face up to uncomfortable facts they will be easier to deal with than you feared..

And if that’s your problem, don’t let your imagination rule your life.

ARIES 21 March-20 April Minor setbacks are inevitable this week and it would be all too easy to lose your temper with anyone who gets in your way.

Whatever the provocation keep your head; if others see you’re annoyed it will only make matters worse.

SCORPIO 24 Oct-22 Nov It may be tempting to employ underhand tactics when dealing with people who break or bend the rules, but you know it won’t make things better or you happier.

Keep your own standards high, even if you seem to lose out in the short-term.

TAURUS 21 April-21 May With your ruler Venus linked to Saturn you must expect partners and loved ones to be a bit aloof. Even if it’s due to something you’ve said or done, worrying about it won’t help. Let them see that their attitude doesn’t bother you one jot.

SAGITTARIUS 23 Nov-21 Dec A minor difference of opinion could escalate into a major battle, especially if you think a certain person is trying to usurp your position.

You can get annoyed if you’re sure of your facts but if there’s any doubt in your mind be careful what you say.

GEMINI 22 May-21 June Make sure you know what you’re talking about this week or it could be embarrassing. Being well-informed is not the same as being a genuine expert. Someone who knows their subject inside out could make you feel very silly.

CAPRICORN 22 Dec-20 Jan You may be passionate about your beliefs but don’t expect everyone to see things your way. You are entitled to express an opinion but not to ram it down other people’s throats. Speak your mind clearly and let others decide for themselves.

CANCER 22 June-23 July You seem to be under the impression that a close relationship is hovering somewhere between dire and disastrous but your solar chart suggests that is not the case. Focus on what is good in your life and your perspective will alter - for the better.

AQUARIUS 21 Jan-19 Feb This is not a good week to make promises, especially if you’re half hoping you won’t have to keep them. With Venus linked to restrictive Saturn, partners and loved ones will not let you off the hook until they’ve had their pound of flesh – or more.

LEO 24 July-23 Aug You may be tempted to abandon a project rather than throw good money after bad but the planets suggest you’re close to a breakthrough, so don’t give up just yet. Believe in yourself: one final push and you’ll be over the hurdle holding you back.

Nick's Flicks

The Peanut Butter Falcon Scores a Perfect 5

Directed by - Tyler Nilson and Michael Schwartz; Written by - Tyler Nilson and Michael Schwartz; Staring – Shia LaBeouf, Zack Gottsagen, Dakota Johnson; Rated – PG-13; Length – 93 minutes| Playing at the Greenwich Bow Tie Coming in under the wire before Labor Day, this is a great summer feel good movie.

Zak (Gottsagen) is a young man with down syndrome, stuck living in a state-run nursing home. He longs to be on his own and follow his dream of becoming a professional wrestler. After a daring escape, he meets Tyler (LaBeouf), a down on his luck fisherman. Tyler is on the run, after tangling with a pair of tough fellow fisherman.

The two form a quick friendship as Zak’s no filter, heart on his sleeve view of the world draws out Tyler’s good nature. Tyler, haunted by his brother’s untimely death, becomes Zak’s coach and protector, as the two share an adventure on the waterways

of the deep south. The loving nursing home worker Eleanor (Johnson), is charged with going after Zak to bring him back to the home. She soon catches up with the pair and the three become ‘the family Zak chooses’.

A wonderful heartwarming story of acceptance and companionship, The Peanut Butter Falcon takes a familiar theme, adds a bit of edginess and comedy and delivers ear to ear smiles. The film was actually written for Zack Gattsagen by Nilson and Schwartz, after meeting Zack at a camp for special needs actors.

One of the best one and a half hours you will spend in the theater this year, I give The Peanut Butter Falcon 5 out of 5 popcorns.

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God of Carnage Coming “We are very pleased to announce the creation and formation of the Greenwich Theatre Company,” said Kyle Silver, Executive Director.” Our goal is simple and bold: to serve our community by offering thoughtprovoking professional theater. We are excited to open our doors with a production of Yasmina Reza’s God of Carnage, directed by Rob Kennedy. What better way to kick-off back-to-school than a parental mediation that devolves into chaos?”

Winner of the 2009 Tony Award for Best Play, God of Carnage relates an evening in the lives of two couples as they meet to discuss a playground incident involving their sons. What begins as an innocent squabble between children pivots into an emotionally charged evening and all-out hilarious brawl between adults.

“We are extremely fortunate,” continues Kyle, “we have amazing relationships with other professional theaters and workshops in the area and our founding artists are industry professionals, as talented and as experienced as you’ll find anywhere.”

Greenwich Theatre Company is located at 100 Arch Street, an unconventional space bound to generate dynamic and uniquely staged productions. Greenwich Theatre Company will offer a diverse theater season, featuring classics, new works, Short Play Festivals, as well as plans to present outdoor Shakespeare in the Roger Sherman Baldwin Park in conjunction with Arch Street, The Greenwich Teen Center.

According to Silver, Stephanie Hazard (New Canaan), Mike Boland (Fairfield), Wynter Kullman (Westport), and Jason Peck (Ridgefield) comprise the cast of God of Carnage. Collectively, they have a multitude of professional stage and screen credits and are all members of the iconic Theatre Artists Workshop founded by Keir Dullea.

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Perfectly Polite Bridge

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By Frank Crocker Bridge Basics - Third Hand High The bidding is over. Your opponents have won the contract. It’s time to defend and try to set them. Your partner makes an opening lead. The Dummy is shown.

Declarer plays a card from Dummy and now its your turn to play making you the third hand.

You review the bidding in your mind, you see partner’s lead, and you see the Dummy.

If you did not bid, par tner w ill probably lead the top of a sequence or fourth from the longest and strongest unbid suit. The lead will vary depending on whether the contract is in No Trump, suit contract or partner has a singleton or doubleton.

If partner leads a low card, partner probably has an honor card in the suit.

Play your highest card to protect your partner’s strength and prevent declarer from winning a trick with a low card. The unintended consequence of not playing your highest card is Declarer winning an extra trick. The King play is correct even though you may lose your one and only King or Queen! The third hand high concept is very difficult for beginners to do or to believe.

This may help. It is important to remember you are in a partnership. Your partner has chosen a lead to try to defeat Declarer. Losing your King to an Ace may make the cards in your partner’s hand winners. In the absence of other information, it is best to play the highest card in the suit your partner leads.

Note: When you have equal cards (AK, AKQ, KQ J, Q J10) play the lower or the lowest equal. This provides your partner with more information. If you

play the Ace, you do not have the King.

If you play the King, you do not have the Queen. The card played when the third hand plays high denies the next lower card. This sequence of defensive play should ref lect a defensive playing agreement with your partner.

Other information - In a No Trump contract, if your partner leads fourth from the longest and strongest suit, use the “Rule of Eleven.”Subtract the face of the card card played from the number eleven. If a seven is lead, that means there are only four cards that are higher in Dummy, Declarer’s hand, and your hand. If you can see all four cards, you know the right card to play.

More information - If Dummy has the King, Queen, or Jack and you have a higher honor and a lower honor, it is better to play the lower honor. Also, third hand high is not best when it sets

up winners for Declarer. if Dummy has Q, J, 10, 9, 7 and you have K, 6, 3, 2, you should play low.

Unblock a Suit - Finally, sometimes you must unblock a suit. If you have a doubleton honor (A,4) and your partner leads a King, partner probably has the Queen. Win your partner’s King with your Ace and lead back the lower spade to set up your partner’s suit.

Is your head spinning?

Study the thinking behind “playing third hand high” and the exceptions.

This strategy will make your defensive game more effective.

Bridge Humor In the late 1950s, Charles M. Shultz of Pe a nuts fa me , cre ate d h is on ly other syndicated newspaper comic “Its Only A Game.” A book by the same name summarizing his work is in the

Greenwich Library. It is also available at Barnes & Noble and Amazon.

Some of the cartoon captions: • Wife to husband - “What do you mean you haven’t enough patience to play Bridge? You have enough patience to sit in front of that T.V. all night long!

• Doctor talking to patient - ‘Well, let’s put it this way… no more tennis, no more handball, and no more doubling small slams unless you have two quick tricks!”

• Wife speak ing to husband while playing Bridge - “You’re just trying to get the bid so you won’t be Dummy and have to get up and make the coffee!”

• Woman talking to a mirror - “Mirror, mirror, on the wall… who is the best Bridge player of them all?”

• Husband, an avid Bridge player, to wife, “I feel sick to my stomach…all night long I dreamed we were playing Canasta!

Wednesday, August 28, 2019, Perfectly Polite Bridge Results 9:45 AM Duplicate Bridge ROOM WINNERS: First Place North/South: Priscilla Lauridsen & Gail Sassos First Place East/West Winners: Judy Rein & Joel Rein Second Place North/South: John Friel & Jace Jacobson Second Place East/West: Rex Brown & Don McCulloch

TABLE WINNERS: Table One: Charles Biggs & Partner Table Two: Judy Rein & Joel Rein Table Three: Rex Brown & Don McCulloch Table Four: Charlotte Robinson & Claudia Ridberg

12:45 PM Duplicate Bridge ROOM WINNERS First Place North/South: Judy Rein & Robert Keiser First Place East/West: Janie Galbreath & Mike Galbreath Second Place North/South: Myrna Block & Felice Robinov Second Place East/West: Judith Kallman & Lolly Raphael

TABLE WINNERS Table One: Myrna Block & Felice Robinov Table Two: Judy Rein & Robert Keiser Table Three: John Friel & Dean Goss Table Four: Janie Galbreath & Mike Galbreath Table Five: Susan Keiser & Linda R.

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