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Greenwich: We Are What We Emoji By Bobbi Eggers

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S Work is underway by

Eversource to install an underground cable vault, which is a large concrete structure installed beneath the street to provide access to electric lines, on a short section of Field Point Road, between Railroad Avenue and Prospect Street. The road will be closed between 9 a.m., and 3 p.m., Monday through Friday, weather permitting. Work is expected to continue until Nov. 27.

S The new New Lebanon

School will be dedicated to the Greenwich Board of Educat ion a nd t he Town during a ceremony a t 10 a . m . , o n D e c . 7, two years after the original groundbreaking on construction. Be sure to check out g reenw ichsent i nel.com and the print edition of the Greenwich Sentinel for full coverage.

S Governor Lamont's most

recent plan to implement tolls was met with strong opposition in a closed door meeting with state senate democrats. It appears that tolls will not be moving forward any time soon.

S A home at 46 Mead Ave., in Byram was demolished on Tue s d ay. Re sid ent s had c ompla i ne d ab out the abandoned, blighted proper t y for yea rs. A petition was signed over the summer by residents calling for the town to act and enforce nuisance code. S Outgoing First

Selectman, Peter Tesei, declared Nov. 18 as “Jill K. Oberlander Day” in the Town of Greenwich.

S On Monday morning at around 5:50 a.m., Engines 8, 1, 2, 4, Truck 1, Car 3 and other units from the Greenwich Fire Department responded to a fire in a shed of f Taconic Road. Since the location is a nonhydranted area, tankers from Banksville FD and a dry hydrant from a pond were used for water. The fire was extinguished in about 20 minutes. The Greenwich Fire Marsha l ’s of f ice is investigating.

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A "heat map" of the most frequently used emojis in Greenwich for the last 13 months according to Talkwalker. emojis are thoroughly vetted before they become part of our universal language. The Emoji universe went crazy when Apple tried to revise the “peach” to make it look more like a fruit than someone’s backside. They succumbed to the outcry and changed it back, lol. If someone did a heat map o f t h e e m o j i s yo u u s e m o s t frequently, what would it say about you? Would it ref lect the real you? Emojis can also be a ref lection of the heartbeat of a city. Talkwalker, an international socia l media mon itor ing and analytics company, created an “emoji heat map” showing the most frequently used emojis in each of 13 different cities- NYC’s favorite emoji is the Statue of

Liberty. Boston uses the f lame San Francisco residents love emoji the most (?). It’s no surprise the nighttime bridge emoji, the

Based on our over-used emojis, Greenwich is a happy place compared to other cities. that the people in New Orleans use the fleur-de-lis more than any other city, but the f lashing red siren emoji is a favorite there, too. Hmmm. According to Talkwalker,

sobbing face, the rainbow for LGBT and the fire emojis. Each city’s heatmap is a reflection of its people’s emotions and passions and conveys their feelings.

Tesei, Toner, Litvack Final BOS Meeting By Richard Kaufman As the newly elected Greenwich Board of Selectmen prepares to get sworn-in, the out goi ng b o a r d i s s ay i ng it s goodbyes. Last week, First Selectman Peter Tesei, and Selectmen John Toner and Sandy Litvack, held their final meeting of 2019. Each member had a vase of flowers in front of them to commemorate the occasion. This will be the f irst time since 1923 that a Board of Selectmen will be made up of entirely new members following an election. First Selectman-elect

Fred Camillo, Selectwoman-elect Lauren Rabin and Selectwomanelect Jill Oberlander will be swornin on Dec. 1 at 5 p.m., at the Boys and Girls Club of Greenwich. Te s e i , w h o h a s s e r v e d a record six terms as Greenwich's chief elected official, has worked with three Republican Selectmen, and three Democratic Selectmen, during his tenure. He chose not to run for re-election this fall. "We have all gotten along with collegiality and mutual respect, and really striving to do what's right for the citizens in the town," Tesei said, reflecting on his years in office. "It's been a real pleasure for me to have the company and

partnership of the members of the board. It's something that stays with you when you work so closely with folks." O ver the yea rs, Tesei has issued many proclamations to individuals and organizations in town, honoring them for their accomplishments. But at last week’s meeting, Tesei had the chance to recognize his colleagues with proclamations, which he said were "extra special." Tesei proclaimed Nov. 15 as Sanford "Sandy" Litvack Day, and Nov. 17 as John Toner Day, in the Town of Greenwich. Litvack called the recognition "totally unexpected and totally

Column: On My Watch

appreciated." "I've been waiting for my day for a lot of years!" Litvack said, drawing laughs from those in attendance. L it v ack , a D e mo c rat , ra n against Tesei in 2017 for First Selectman, and came up just short. He instead joined the Board, and formed a friendship with Tesei and Toner. Litvack said that when he came onto the Board, he was a "stranger" to Greenwich's municipal government, but he learned a lot from Tesei and Toner. "For me, it's been a fascinating, interesting and rewarding experience. I'm so glad I did it," L it vack sa id. "I w ish L au ren

[Rabin] well sitting in this seat. I have no regrets yielding to Lauren who w ill per for m fa bu lously I'm sure. I'm so much better for having done this." Tesei then recognized Toner, who came on to the Board of Selectmen in 2015 following the unexpected passing of Selectman David Theis, in 2014. "[ Joh n] stepp e d i nto t h i s position during a very difficult time, and an emotional time, on the sudden passing of the late David Theis," Tesei remarked. " J o h n To n e r h a d b e e n m y campaig n chairman for my elections. He did so with a quiet

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Excerpts from The Waterwheel

Celebrating Flower Power Christmas Trees and Painter of Place By Anne W. Semmes

Imagine spending 50 years or more being “totally fulfilled” in your profession of “playing w it h f lowers.” Meet Miria m Landsman of Greenwich, today being celebrated for her 50 years of flower power and support of the former Greenwich Garden C enter, t he now Greenw ich Botanical Center (GBC). Imagine having two galleries filled with your paintings, then adding a third in an historic boatyard that you fill with over 40 of your paintings, many of them celebrating the seascapes and landscapes of our town. T he a r t ist is ou r ow n Peter Arguimbau, who welcomed us last Friday to his new work in his second Arguimbau Art showing in The Boatyard in Riverside. But Miriam takes the lead on t his her celebrator y day. T h e r e ’s m a ny a G r e e nw i c h house where Miriam has left her green imprint, with heralded Ch r ist mas decorat ions, a nd wedd i ngs where her br ide’s bouquet is legendary. Former First Selectman Rebecca Breed

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S Yo u c a n j o i n t h e

Our digital footprint says a lot about who we are, like it or not, whether it’s a reflection of us as individuals or as a group. Because data is so predictive, companies use it to na r rowly ta rget, or take advantage of, people. For example, if you apply for a loan and use the word “God” in your application, data says you are 2.2 times more likely to default. So a company will save money by not lending to people who say, “God bless you,” at the end of their application. Pretty scary, right? We leave the trail of breadcrumbs of who we a re w it hout even knowing it. Even the way indiv iduals communicate is captured. Every day we emoji our way through our feeds, breathing life into our interactions, providing support by tapping the sad face to show sympathy, selecting from a suite of visual tools, keeping our true emotions easy-breezy. Emojis are the world’s first global form of communication, boiling it down to an icon. More than 90% of social media users communicate with emojis, often without any text at all. Facebook says that 900 million emojis are used every day, without text, on Facebook Messenger. The face with tears of joy is the global most popular by far, with the heart emoji running a close second. I consider that a good thing. Tightly controlled by Facebook, Apple and Google,

O f c ou r s e , I w a s c u r iou s about Greenwich. What emojis is Greenwich using and what are we passionately communicating? I asked my friend at Talkwalker to organize an emoji heat map of Greenwich for the last 13 months (see above)- the larger the emoji, the more the emoji was used. All the various drinks emojis feel spot on, plus the mansions, f ield ho ckey a nd money. No surprise there. My guess is that the overuse of the shark icon isn’t reflecting shark sightings off the coast. I am pleased to see that we seem to be a happy community, compared to other cities. Our f la me s a nd c r y i ng face s a re much smaller than the others. Greenwich people like to take pictures, we use our phones a lot, we love art, and we like to “go to” places, as ref lected in the most popular emoji-the blue arrow. We are busy people, after all. We feel patriotic, lucky, lightning strikes, and we love to celebrate, to be sure. Oh, yes, and there’s no p o op her e . Up on f u r t her digging, Talkwalker also said the most discussed brand around Greenwich was “privately held company.” Lol. I am happy to say, the Greenwich heatmap confirms why I (heart) Greenwich so much. Bobbi Eggers is a PR, marketing specialist, working with an expert team for businesses and non-profits, in all things digital, live, promotional and experiential. Website: www.bobbieggers.com ail: bobbieggers@gmail.com

Miriam Landsman shows off her new amaryllis blossoms in her backcountry home. enlisted Miriam’s expertise for her daughter Becky’s wedding, then asked for replication for her daughter’s anniversary. T he Greenw ich Ga rden Center was Mir ia m’s f lower arranging launching pad. “That’s where it all began,” she says. “I found my happy place. I just loved to create. I really loved that they let you make stuff to sell

through the Center. We made mostly holiday decorations. The shop was downstairs and had mostly crafts for sale.” Miriam’s passion was for cut flowers. “I love all flowers,” she says, especially roses. “They’re s h o w y, w i t h t r e m e n d o u s varieties, sizes and shapes.” She earned her certificate in garden

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A Christmas tree is glittery and beautiful, and unaware that it has been cut off just above the roots. Similarly, we humans enjoy decorating ourselves with clothing, social status, accomplishments, and possessions. It is good to enjoy these things. Just remember that they are decorations. They are not our real substance. Friendship, family, faith, and service to others—these are substance, not decoration. They are the roots that help us flourish. They provide meaning, connection, and purpose. Fashions and fame, like decorated Christmas trees, are only with us for a season. People of substance, like healthy trees, grow for many years and give shelter and shade to others. Alyssa refers to friends who remind her of Christmas trees as “shiny people.” These are people she can’t get close to because they are intent on impressing her with their beautiful lives. She decided for herself to focus on being a blessing to her friends instead of impressing them. As she did so, the roots of her confidence and well-being grew deeper.. This is an excerpt from The Waterwheel by local author, Jill Woolworth, available through Amazon. Alternatively, we encourage you to shop locally where it is also available at Diane's Books or Dogwood Books and Gifts).

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FRIDAY, NOV. 22 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. The Festival of Tabletop Trees. Greenwich Historical Society, 47 Strickland Rd. Also offered Saturday, Nov. 23, 11am-4pm. 203-869-6899. bjohann@greenwichhistory. org. greenwichhistory.org 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Exhibition Highlights Tour. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. (Every Tue, 1:30pm & Fri, 12:30pm) 203-869-0376. info@brucemuseum.org. brucemuseum.org 1 - 2 p.m. Meditation Workshop. Greenwich Library - The Jewel, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. 203-625-6549. 5:30 p.m. Wolf Conservation Center: Coyote Program. Greenwich Audubon Center, 613 Riversville Rd. All ages are welcome. Free. RSVP is requested. 203-900-3349. Caroline.Bailey@audubon. org. greenwich.audubon.org/ events

yourCOMMUNITYcalendar 6 - 8 p.m. Turkey Bingo 2019. YMCA of Greenwich, 50 East Putnam Ave. apm. activecommunities.com

6 - 8 p.m. Harvest Cocktail party: Celebrate Miriam Landmen. Greenwich Botanical Center, 130 Bible St. $75$100. 203-869-9242. info@ greenwichbotanicalcenter. org. 7 - 10 p.m. 7th & 8th Grade Gobbler Wobbler - the first combined grades event. Arch Street Teen Center, 100 Arch St. $20. 203-629-5744. info@ archstreet.org. archstreet.org 9 p.m. Night Market. Caren's Cos Cobber, 31 East Putnam Ave. 203-992-1333. facebook.com/ carenscoscobber SATURDAY, NOV. 23 7:00 - 11:00 am Boy Scout Troop 35 Pancake Breakfast at the Glenville Firehouse. Tickets: $7.00 (under 5 and over 65 are

$5.00) One dollar off for Cubs or Scouts in uniform. There will also be a Bake Sale. EVERYONE WELCOME!! 9 - 10:15 a.m. Yoga Class. Banksville Community House, Inc., 12 Banksville Rd. Also, Sunday, Nov. 24. 203-622-9597. bchinfo@optonline.net. thebch.org 9:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. The Greenwich Farmers Market. Arch Street Parking Lot, 100 Arch St. (Every Sat through December, weather permitting). 203-380-0580. gfm-ct@optimum.net. greenwichfarmersmarketct. com

10 a.m. - 4 p.m. The Junior League of Greenwich's (JLG) “The Little Enchanted Forest.” Greenwich Botanical Center, 130 Bible St. Also offered Sunday, Nov. 24, 9am-3pm. Adults, $5; Children (U12) & seniors, free. 203-8691979. jlg@jlgreenwich.org. jlgreenwich.org

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10:30 - 11 a.m. Mother Goose Storytime (Baby, Preschool, Toddler). Greenwich Library - Rear of Children's Room, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. No registration required. 203-622-7940. dsullivan@ greenwichlibrary.org

10:30 - 11:45 a.m. Cooking Demostration: Holiday Pies with the Friends. Byram Shubert Library Community Room, 21 Mead Ave. Free. 203-531-0426.

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10:30 a.m. - 4 p.m. Family Fun Saturday: Legos, Games, and Craft. Cos Cob Library, 5 Sinawoy Rd. Free. Ages 3 and older. 203-6226883. 11 a.m. - 12 p.m. Drop-in Computer Lab assistance with email, online forms, social media, creating documents and more. Greenwich Library - Health Information Center, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. 203622-7914. trainingcenter@ greenwichlibrary.org 11 a.m. - 4 p.m. The Festival of Tabletop Trees. Greenwich Historical Society, 47 Strickland Rd. 203-869-6899. bjohann@ greenwichhistory.org 12 - 12:45 p.m. Greenwich Historical Society Gallery Tours. 47 Strickland Rd. Free with admission. (Every Wed & Sat). 203-8696899. greenwichhistory.org 1 - 3 p.m. Art Adventures: Watercolor Landscapes (ages 4 & up). Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dr. Also, Sunday, Nov. 24, 1-3pm. 203-869-0376. info@brucemuseum.org. brucemuseum.org

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2 - 3:30 p.m. 3D Printer Certification: Lulzbot Mini. Greenwich Library - The Jewel, 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. Register. Adults, young adults. 203622-7914. innovationlab@ greenwichlibrary.org. greenwichlibrary.org 3 - 4 p.m. Taste the Adventure: The CT Wine Trail. Greenwich Library - Meeting Room 101 West Putnam Ave. Free. 203-622-7948. rhansen@ greenwichlibrary.org

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3 - 4:15 p.m. Tibetan Bells: Sound Healing with Karin Reetz. Byram Shubert Library Community Room, 21 Mead Ave. Free. 203-531-0426. 6 - 9 p.m. Marabou Jewellery Launch Party. VW Contemporary, 353 Greenwich Ave. Free. 914-349 1687. maraboujewellery@gmail. com. maraboujewelry.com/ pages/events-2 8 p.m. Greenwich Symphony Orchestra and Greenwich High School Combined Choirs perform. GHS Performing Arts Center, 10 Hillside Rd. Also offered Sunday, Nov. 24, 3pm. $40,

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9 a.m. - 3 p.m. The Junior League of Greenwich's (JLG) “The Little Enchanted Forest.” Greenwich Botanical Center, 130 Bible St. 203-869-1979. jlg@jlgreenwich.org 10 - 11 a.m. Nature Yoga. Greenwich Audubon Center. $10. RSVP. Ages 12 & up. All ages and abilities. 203-900-3349. Caroline.Bailey@audubon. org. greenwich.audubon.org/ events

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Greenwich Country Day School Acquires French Farm Greenwich Countr y Day School (GCDS) has acquired the French Farm, a 110-year-old historic farm on Lake Ave. The French Farm, often described as a magical place, was the first Greenwich property to be listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1975. French Farm’s main house and farm buildings were designed by H. Van Buren Magonigle and built in 1906 for owner Mary Billings French. Subsequent owner David R. A. Wierdsma, an art collector and horticulturalist, preser ved the working aspects of the farm while adding extensive botanical gardens, artifacts, sculptures, and minerals throughout the property. The farm features sheep, chickens, peacocks, herb and vegetable gardens,

JLG Accepting Grant Applications The Junior League of Greenwich (JLG) is now accepting applications for its Community Grant Award. Every year, the Junior League of Greenwich awards up to $5,000 to a community organization. The grant is to provide financial support for a community need not currently being met by Junior League projects or programs. The grant will be awarded to fund new initiatives or expand programs relating to community needs, and is not to subsidize an existing program. The grant will be presented to the recipients in the Spring. Community Grant applications are due Dec. 6. For more information, please call the JLG office at 203-869-1979 or email the Junior League at jlg@jlgreenwich.org. Applications can be found online at jlgreenwich.org

barns, workshops, and a greenhouse, a long w it h its a r t a nd bota nica l collections. Together, they provide engaging learning opportunities for adults and children. “French Farm is a magical place, and nature is a master teacher,” says GCDS Headmaster Adam Rohdie. “French Farm will engage students in caring for our world and building community. We are excited about the possibilities and committed to being good stewards of the Farm’s past and its future.” Recently, GCDS pre-kindergarten classes visited the Farm. They learned about caring for farm animals and had the opportunity to interact with the chickens and sheep. Surprised by how gentle the animals were and full of questions, the

Designs, 120 E. Putnam Avenue from 5:30 to 7 p.m. This party is open to both members and non-members. Register for the holiday party at Greenwichchamber.com, email greenwichchamber@ greenwichchamber.com or call 203-869-3500. The fee for the party is $20 for members and $25 for non-members. All attendees must register in advance. This year The Chamber asks the public to communicate personal choices on its Facebook page (@GreenwichCTChamber) or on its Instagram account (@greenwichchamber). Stores are welcome to submit their own pictures for consideration. Prizes to winners include three months of free advertising on the Chamber’s website, a professional photo and special recognition at the Holiday Party.

HomeFront Deadline Nov. 29

HomeFront is looking for residents in need of home repairs for its upcoming 33rd annual repair blitz in Spring 2020. Interested homeowners must apply before November 29th in order to be considered for help in the 2020 season. HomeFront offers help with faulty windows, doors, steps, railings, leaky roofs, painting, plumbing and electrical needs at no cost to qualifying, low-income homeowners. Help is available throughout most of Connecticut, as well as Westchester County, New York. All inquiries are kept Greenwich Chamber of Commerce announces its annual holiday confidential. Information on how to apply for help, how to volunteer decorating contest for town businesses. The contest is open to all for HomeFront, or how to make a donation can be found by calling local businesses with a storefront and is not limited to Chamber 1-800-887-4673 or by visiting: www.homefrontprogram.org. members. Businesses are encouraged to decorate their storefronts HomeFront is celebrating more than 32 years of changing the in the spirit of the holidays and will be eligible to win a prize and lives of neighbors in need. Physical repair work is scheduled to special recognition for their efforts. be completed primarily in May by local volunteers. Homeowners PUB/POST: Greenwich Sentinel (Due CODE: HSS-19-97 A be judged PRODUCTION: N/A None Three locations from these areas will to determine who apply Date: 9/27/19) may join the ranks ofLIVE: more than 3,100 neighbors who DESCRIPTION: best…is near stores on Church WORKORDER #: 73358 TRIM: 10.75” x 10.8” three winners: 1) Greenwich Avenue,Theincluding have received assistance from HomeFront. Referrals are welcome 03A-73281-04A-HSS-19-97-A-NWS.indd SAP #: HSS.HSSGEN.19023.B.011 BLEED: None faith communities and Street and connecting side FILE: streets; 2) all stores west of Greenwich from neighbors, social service agencies, Avenue including Cos Cob, Riverside and Old Greenwich and, 3) all city officials. Quality of life improvements are made possible by 212.237.7000 stores west of Greenwich Avenue. a community-wide mobilization of building material and service Judging ends on Tuesday, Dec. 3. Winners will be announced donors, financial supporters, and groups of “hands on” volunteers on Thursday, Dec. 5 at the Chamber’s Holiday Party and Storefront from local corporations, faith-based and civic organizations. T:10.75” Decorating Awards event which will be held at Gilles Clement HomeFront’s mission is to keep low-income neighbors in their

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children showed how eager they are to be good stewards of the Farm. Rohdie noted the school’s ability to have another wondrous learning environment just over 3 miles from their other campuses offers unique real world experiences for children of all ages. The Farm provides interdisciplinary educational opportunities for all grade levels. Current initiatives include planting and growing food for GCDS cafeterias using GCDS food scraps for compost, produc i ng orga n ic eg gs , le a r n i ng greenhouse science and hydroponics to renovate the greenhouse and cold frames for use in food production. Future projects include working with the sheep’s wool, raising chickens for egg production, and rebuilding the sheep house.

homes with an improved quality of life through the completion of repairs at no cost to them. Since its founding, HomeFront has delivered more than $40 million in donations of products and services to local families in need.

RHCC Art Show A Retrospective

An art show, "A Retrospective"is currently on display at Les Beaux Arts Gallery at Round Hill Community Church. It runs through November 25. The show includes watercolors, pencil drawings, interior perspectives and a Chinese Classical painting by artist, Suzanne Simpson. Ms.Simpson studied Chinese Classical painting in Taipei, Taiwanfrom 1958-1960, while her father was on assignment with the Navy. At the end of the tour, she was encouraged to have an exhibition, which helped form a cultural bridge between East and West. After studying at the International Institute of Interior Design in Washington, D. C., she used that skill to work with interior designers and realtors, and had her own freelance business for over 50 years. During that time, perspective and renderings were produced for several design houses catalogues in Los Angeles. Several years ago, Ms. Simpson decided it was time to switch to the fine art of landscapes. Taking classes with Joe Fama, she has produced en plein airpencil drawings, from which she has completed watercolor paintings. “Switching from tight in-the-box perspectives, to the more free-flowing impressionistic out-of-the-box landscapes was a challenge for the brain, jumping fromthe left side to the right side and backagain.” Also included in the show are whimsical drawings and paintings of musicians and interiors. Ms. Simpson has won awards for her artwork. The church is located at 395 Round Hill Road in Greenwich, and the church is open Monday through Friday from 9:00AM-4:00PM and Sundays from 11:00AM-12:00PM. For further information, please visit the church website at: www.roundhillcommunitychurch.org.

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Food & Wine

Wines for the Thanksgiving Table By Jeb Fiorita

complete without just the right bottle (or two, three) of wine. T he le ave s a re f a l l i n g – Maybe you are a tried and true or most ly fa l len – in what Beaujola is Nouveau person. has seemed like a very quick Good news, this fruity favorite autumn. It is time for families that is typically released from to make the trek to share thanks France on the third Thursday in over a holiday table and to settle November, reaches our store just in from waist band expansion in time to be the start of your and football afterward. table. In our house, once the turkey Maybe you prefer a Pinot goes in the oven pre-dawn, and Noi r, Zi n fa ndel or a Sy ra h. we t hen somehow rouse t he Don’t leave whites out either – children who once woke us up, a R iesling, Gew ürztraminer, the myriad other food tasks, fire Sauvignon Blanc or Pinot Gigot prep, silver polishing and other may compliment your appetizers Thanksgiv ing Day activ ities as well as your meal. The best begin. My wife, who absolutely advice we can give is to have loves this holiday and makes it options! And whatever you do, the best one possible, grudgingly do not forget t hat a lways in makes my childhood midwestern the fridge and ready to go…a come. favorite green bean casserole bottle or two of champagne or R ieslings from A lsace, replete with the fried onions that Prosecco! Germany or Washington state make her nose crinkle up a bit W h i le cock t a i ls a re n ice are great options and come in every time. Where her and my during appetizers (my favorite varieties that range from the dry oldest daughter’s attention are being a Frosty Dawn), there is to the somewhat sweet. They in the kitchen, I then turn my no reason at all, that you cannot may be a bit heavy for appetizers, attention to the bar…making start with wine right away. And but t heir apple, apr icot a nd sure all the necessary beverages a nice round of white before honey f lavors pair wonderfully are present. If you read our last red with dinner can get things w it h ya ms a nd stuf f ing. We article and you are in that fall started at a nice pace. You don’t suggest Schloss Vollrads Riesling mood, you know my eye alights have to brea k t he ba nk here for your table. This Rheingau a lmost immediately to t he either – for example Cloudy Bay regional favorite has a medium Bourbon. and Kim Crawford Sauvignon sweet easygoing f lavor with a Howe ver, t hat i s not my Blanc are two fine examples of hint of grapefruit and lemon. focus today. For while bourbon warm, citrus f lavors that add I f you a re lo ok i n g for a makes a lovely Thanksgiving nice to the warmth of connecting neutral white, a Pinot Grigio sip pre-fea st , we a l l k now with family and the wonderful may be ju st what you need . that no Thanksgiving meal is Serendipity-11-2013:Layout 1 11/5/2013 4:00 PM Page 1 aromas teasing of the feast to It pairs very well with garlic,

onions, herbs and rich, high-fat content dishes and Thanksgiving is just that kind of holiday. Villa Ponzi is s Sicilian wine with aromas of lemon, peach and pear and finishes with a hint of fruit and flowers. The reds offer a fine compliment to almost anything that you serve for Thanksgiving and right at the top of many people’s list you will find a Pinot Noir. The balance of fruit and spice pair perfectly with turkey, vegetables and stuffing. I would strongly recommend Ironside Pinot Noir Reserve produced in the Monterey area of California. I f you a re lo ok i n g for a

bit of intensity, you may want to travel the Zinfandel route instead. We would suggest you give Seghesio a try. With a bold spicy flavor including raspberry and blueberry, the balance of these components will definitely enhance your meal. That gets us through dinner, but what about the dessert that seals the food coma that leads to nap this distant ref whistles and kids flitting around the back yard? I happen to have a taste for very sweet and crisp wines. My favorites would have to be any ice wine from the Finger Lakes region of New York. Moscato is another option when it comes to

a white wine option. Fi na l ly, no d iscussion of Thanksgiving libations would be complete without touching on port. I credit my father in law, John, for my introduction to the love of wine, port and signature cock ta i ls. My favorite por ts include Graham’s Six Grapes and Taylor Fladgate, but we have a host of other options as well. As always, Jeb and the team at Va l ’s Wine and Spirits on Putnam and in Glenville are here to walk you through your selec t ions for what to ser ve at Thanksgiving. Bring your shopping list or menu and we can walk through it together and get you set for the best feast ever! In case you are in the mood for a Frosty Dawn, here is the recipe. 2 oz. Light Rum 1 oz. Falernum (Syrup Liqueur) 1 oz Luxardo Cherry Liqueur 4 oz Orange Juice (fresh squeezed) Garnish with an orange slice Adjust amounts to personal taste Have a happy Thanksgiving holiday! We w i l l catch w it h you in December w it h some wonderful holiday gifting ideas. By Je b Fior ita an d Pe te r Olson. Jeb is the owner of Val’s Putnam Wines & Liquors. Peter is a lover of bourbons, fine wines, and spirits.

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Worth Revisiting Over the Holidays They're All Available on Netflix This Month

Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975)

Rocky (1976)

Caddyshack (1980)

Mostly shot on location in Scotland, the British comedy troupe Monty Python created its funniest, wildest and most quotable feature-length comedy using the legend of King Arthur as its foundation. Arthur leads his Knights of the Round Table on a quest for the Grail. Starring Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Eric Idle, Terry Jones, and Michael Palin, Monty Python and the Holy Grail is often voted one of the funniest movies of all time.

Winner of the Best Picture Oscar in 1977, Rocky is one of the most inspirational movies of all time. It should be. At 30 years old with just $106 in his bank account, Sylvester Stallone turned down a $300,000 offer — the equivalent of $1 million today — for the rights to "Rocky." He was determined to make the film he wrote on his terms, starring himself. Since then the "Rocky" franchise has earned more than $1.7 billion.

Directed by Harold Ramis, written by Brian Doyle-Murray, Ramis, and Douglas Kenney, and starring Chevy Chase, Rodney Dangerfield, Ted Knight, Michael O'Keefe, and Bill Murray, Caddyshack is one of the most quotable movies of all time and was named by ESPN as "the funniest sports movie ever made."

Raiders of the Lost Ark (1981)

The Matrix (1999)

Miracle (2005)

The hat, the whip, the theme song. Harrison Ford. So much of this 1981 Steven Spielberg film feels iconic — the rolling boulder, the melting Nazi face, the snake, the monkey — that it’s easy to forget how quick, original, and laugh out loud funny it is. Set in 1936, this film introduced us to Dr. Henry (“Indiana”) Jones. Genius film producer George Lucas created the character and the incredible Steven Spielberg directed the films. Wow.

Starring Keanu Reeves, Laurence Fishburne, Carrie-Anne Moss, Hugo Weaving, and Joe Pantoliano, the Matrix convinced us that humanity just might be unknowingly trapped inside a simulated reality. The Matrix grossed over $460 million worldwide and won four Academy Awards and appeared in lists of the greatest science fiction films ever.

For millions of people, the moment when the U.S. hockey team earned a 4-3 win over the Soviet Union in the Olympics is one they will never forget. The movie, Miracle, captures how it happened. Kurt Russell is brilliant as coach Herb Brooks, hired to helm the 1980 U.S. men's Olympic hockey team who unites his squad against a common foe, the heavily-favored Soviet team. The team becomes a microcosm for American patriotism.

Astrology Column For Week of Nov 24, 2019

SAGITTARIUS 23 Nov-21 Dec No matter how upsetting or aggressive others get this week it doesn’t need to affect you directly. You may not be able to change your current situation but you can choose whether or not to be annoyed by it. You have always got free will.

GEMINI 22 May-21 June A perfect Venus-Jupiter aspect indicates that a long-term emotional commitment must now be made, reluctant as you may be to give up your independence. If you harbour your resentment it will cause heartache and hardship which you can’t afford.

CAPRICORN 22 Dec-20 Jan An emotional New Moon urges you to spend time with your thoughts and you can’t do that if you’re surrounded by chatter. If you need to grab a few hours to yourself just say you’re going out for some fresh air, and forget to come back.

CANCER 22 June-23 July Focus only on the positive this week as with Mars opposing disruptive Uranus you could easily lose your temper if you let negative events get you down. The world is still a wonderful place, even if some of the people in it are not.

AQUARIUS 21 Jan-19 Feb If the old way of doing things no longer seems to work it’s time to replace it with something up-to-date. Aquarius may be the sign of the future but you’re reluctant at times to let go of the past. Anything no longer useful must be abandoned.

LEO 24 July-23 Aug Anything romantic, artistic or creative will work out well this week so give it your all. Whatever you start will be seen by others as an example of how it should be done so be sure to get the details right and leave nothing to chance.

PISCES 20 Feb-20 March Don’t be in such a hurry to reconstruct your life that you mistakenly get rid of something that could prove useful one day. Make changes at home and work, by all means, but make them one at a time; don’t throw everything out at once.

VIRGO 24 Aug-23 Sept Let partners and loved ones settle their own emotional issues for once – you can’t do everything for them and it would be senseless to try. Creatively, you’ll soon be riding a wave and you can’t afford to waste energy and time propping up fragile egos.

ARIES 21 March-20 April Ariens aren’t averse to risk but you could find yourself attracted to a gamble this week that your instincts tell you is doomed to fail. There are other routes to excitement than risking everything you own. Think about what you stand to lose.

LIBRA 24 Sept-23 Oct Criticism may be hurtful but it can also be helpful if you learn from it. Whether a partner or colleague has your interests at heart is irrelevant: what matters is whether there is some truth in what they have to say. Listen, learn and become a better person.

TAURUS 21 April-21 May If you’re working hard but achieving or receiving less, slow down and select your objectives with care. Anything making your workload easier to bear is to be encouraged. It will convince you that it is possible to accomplish more by attempting less.

SCORPIO 24 Oct-22 Nov You may have to make a sacrifice this week as a New Moon in Sagittarius brings your finances into sharp focus but you won’t have to get rid of anything you really need. In fact, if you’ve been thinking of having a clear out this is the time to do so.

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Education Column: Feature

Education Doesn't Stop When the School Day Ends

By Clay Kaufman Even when our children are in school, we, their parents, are still their primary educators. They turn to us for information and to make sense of the world. Every time we take them to the grocery store when they are very young, we are teaching them when we identify each fruit and vegetable they point out. Every time we curl up on the sofa to read a book, we are teaching them that reading is worthwhile, and every time we handle a difficult situation with as much calmness as we can muster, we are teaching them patience. One day I was throwing my 8-year-old son grounders in the

front yard. The 4-year-old boy next door watched us, then brought his own baseball glove over. I stood back and watched my son throw grounders to our neighbor, using exactly the same language I had just used with him (“stay low, keep your glove down”). They watch us; we are modeling behavior even when we don’t realize it. As our children spend more time with teachers and friends, we still have many tools at our disposal: • Read aloud: No matter what they say, children never truly outgrow being read to or reading aloud with their parents. Picking a favorite book to read together can include everything from re-reading a favorite Dr. Seuss story with a younger child to exploring a new book together with your middle schooler. As each of my three children reached eighth grade, we read To Kill a Mockingbird together, and it is still a wonderful memory. Reading aloud helps our children discover and understand new vocabulary words (instead of skimming over them), and creates

react that way”?). • Give children opportunities to be the expert: We often ask “How w a s s cho ol to day? ”, or share information we know, but children much prefer to be the expert! Once we find out our child

Even when our children are in school, we, their parents, are still their primary educators. They turn to us for information and to make sense of the world. • Watch movies together: Not only fun and a chance to build m e m o r i e s , w a t c h i n g m ov i e s together can help students work on their comprehension skills. Pausing to get popcorn midway can provide a chance to ask our children what they think of the characters, or make predictions about the story (“What do you think will happen next?” or “Why did that character

is studying trees or the weather or the American Revolution, asking as many open-ended questions as we can allows us to be the student. Even if we know all about trees, we can ask what our child knows, listen, and ask follow-up questions that get our child to share information eagerly, reinforcing their knowledge. Similarly, if we know what they are studying in school, we can

arrange to go to a museum related to that topic, asking our child to be our guide. Best of all, we can take our children to a museum or site that they have already visited on a school field trip and let them teach us. • Boost their strengths and support their challenges: We benefit our children enormously when we support their strengths, whether in sports, the arts, academics, or practical areas. At the same time, we send an important message when we accept their areas of challenge and support them. Perhaps they struggle with reading, organization, planning, or motivation as many of our students at Eagle Hill do. Rather than making those areas a battlefield, we can—with guidance— f ind ways to give our children tools and strategies to cope with their challenges. A wonderful psychologist I know is dyslexic and doesn’t store information efficiently. He said the key to his long, happy marriage has been that his wife knows he is not going to remember to take out the garbage on the right day, and so rather than make it an

area of contention or frustration, they have figured out an alternative so the garbage gets out. A family I know wanted their child to love reading—“real” reading. Greater peace came to the house when they realized that reading graphic novels or using Learning Ally to listen to books was much easier for their child, gave him pleasure, and, importantly, counted as reading! We c a n’t ch a n ge who ou r children are. But we can build on their strengths and accept and support them in their challenge areas, modeling for them how to make it through life, with all its surprises. Clay Kaufman brings more than 30 years of independent school leadership to his role as Head of School at Eagle Hill, including twelve years as co-Head at the Siena School in Maryland. Eagle Hill is a co-educational day and five-day boarding school for students ages 5-15 with language-based learning differences including dyslexia, dyscalculia, ADHD, and executive function disorder.

Service to the Community

Education Column

By Ralph Mayo By the time that this article is published, we will have elected new tow n of f icials (Board of Selectmen, Board of Education and members of the Board of Estimate and Taxation). What is unique about the majority of these people is that very few of them are paid to oversee our town. They are volunteers who make Greenwich a great place to both live and work. I know that most of you are sick of all

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opportunities for practicing their critical thinking and analytical reasoning skills. Pausing at the end of a chapter to talk about the characters, or stopping to admire an interesting sentence, models important reading skills for children.

the lawn signs (who invented them anyway?). But by now they must all be down and hopefully everyone has made a smooth transition into their new positions. Greenwich is a town that is run by many volunteers. Just look at the number social service agencies that we have that would not be possible if it were not for our volunteers. Look at our governing body, the RTM, all are volunteers and an example of democracy in its purest form. Last week we, here at Greenwich High School, inducted t wo hu nd red a nd for t y-eig ht mem bers of ou r sen ior class into the National Honor Society. In order to be admitted in to t he honor s o c iet y, you mu st have a strong academic record, demonstrate leadership both in and out of the school, show good character (even when no one is looking) and provide service to the

community. The new members of the honor society have provided t h e G r e e nw i c h H i g h S c h o o l community, as well as the broader Greenwich community, with over thirteen thousand hours of service this year. Add to that, the sixty plus hours that each student was required to have to be considered for membership, and that adds up to more than thirty-thousand hours of service to our amazing community in less than four years. These young men and women have learned that giving of themselves w ithout any expectation of a reward is the greatest gift that they can provide to the community and to themselves. Our new members will be part of the next generation of volunteers in their own communities as they grow in to adulthood. Yes, our expectations are high for each of them and that bar continues to be raised as we need them to carry

on the tradition of service that has served this and many other communities so well. The young men and women that I met on the night of November 4th are problemsolvers and are emblematic of the Vision of the Graduate. The two hundred and forty-eight students are just a few of the many students at our great high school who serve our community and understand that they need to take care of people who for whatever reason are unable to care for themselves. Another GHS service organization that should be commended is called Roots and Shoots. O ver the years Roots and Shoots has collaborated w ith the Greenwich Department of Social Services to deliver full Thanksgiving meals to over one hundred and fifty families in need. This project is being highlighted because it is one of the best things we do here at GHS and it involves

many students and adults. Over the time, effort and ingenuity to solving next two weeks students will be problems within our community. raising funds to purchase turkeys I have witnessed these many and other fresh items for delivery acts of service since I began work in

Last week we, here at Greenwich High School, inducted two hundred and forty-eight members of our senior class into the National Honor Society. day. They will also be decorating boxes, keeping an inventory of all the food and packing boxes. Our students with the help of faculty advisors make this happen for our community. So, when you hear about those high school kids and how self-absorbed they are, don’t listen, they are fully engaged, mature people who devote their

the Greenwich Public Schools. It is certainly something that this entire community should be thankful and proud of as we approach my favorite holiday, Thanksgiving. Ralph Mayo is the former Interim Super Intendent of Schools and the current Interim Head of Greenwich High School.

Parent=Teacher, World=Classroom

By Eli Shaffer Children are always learning. With vacations and family gatherings not far off, it is a great ti me to pause a nd ref lect on how every moment is a learning opportunity with tremendous potential. When the classroom setting gives way to the family room or backyard, friends and family become the teachers and

real-world lessons abound. I of ten l i ke to i mag i ne of the developing mind of a child as a sponge, soa k i ng up a nd internalizing every experience. With every developmental stage, new stimuli and understandings map onto an increasingly complex network of memories and lessons learned. School teachers spend years studying various strategies and philosophies developed to connect young minds to particular learning outcomes, however when a child comes home, the people they connect with can often offer the most important and long-lasting lessons. In turn, lessons learned at home can impact a child’s learning in the classroom. When classroom lessons and at-home learning experiences overlap and align, each reinforces the other and strong new understandings can be formed.

Special learning moments can happen anywhere you and your child are together and, more often then not, you already have all you need to make the most of them! At Audubon, we take advantage of t he t i me p e ople sp end on our property or participating in our programs to illuminate the amazing qualities of our natural ecosystems. Informal education opportunities such as after-school programs, field-trips to Audubon or other science centers, or academic summer camps can offer helpful guidance to parents looking to make the most of their children’s experiences at home and with family. Guiding questions can be a

useful tool in leading young minds to think critically and curiously about what happens around them. A question prompt can remind you and your kids that there is learning to be done everywhere you look! “Wow! Look at the way those bird are flying in a ‘V’. Do you think they keep the same leader their whole journey south? Why do you think they fly in that shape?” While the answers to the above questions happen to be “No, they

take turns. And they f ly in a ‘V’ because it saves them energy.” You don’t have to provide an answer to every question. Just taking the opportunity to ask a question can be a shared learning experience itself. A f ter a few minutes of discussing your guesses, answers (and often further questions) can be found just an internet searche away. Beyond q uestions, tools and games are g reat ways to acknowledge that learning can happen anywhere without letting on that there’s learning going on. From “I spy” in the car with a toddler to scavenger hunts and geocaching with grade-schoolers, there are many easy to access experiences that yield countless learning opportunities. Likewise, learning tools like binoculars, magnifying glasses, telescopes,

insect nets and more can be all that’s needed to fill an entire day with exploration and fun together. We would love to see you come by the Greenwich Audubon Center for a program or walk in the woods, and we will always be ready to help create a meaningful learning experience in nature and lasting memories. However, special learning moments can happen anywhere you and your child are together and, more often than not, you already have all you need to make the most of them. Eli Schaffer is the Center Director of the Greenwich Audubon Center at 613 Riversville Rd in Greenwich. He is thrilled to be fulfilling his dream of connecting people to nature by creating a warm and welcoming community center for all those who care for our shared environment.

Education Column: Early Years

Parent Involvement Is a Much-Needed Gift…

By Yenny Disla-Toone The Thanksgiving season is upon us, and our Friendship Feast is one of our cherished parent involvement events that takes place at each Family Centers Early Childcare site. It is a time to have families join us for a craft, a meal and fellowship. This activity means so much to our children and staff, as events like these add to the richness and culture of inclusion of families that is the hallmark of our programs. Without parent involvement our program would be void of this cornerstone that makes Family Centers who we are; it is a much-needed gift to us. In the early childhood world,

school conveys a message to the child about how they should feel about school in general. This is a fundamental building block and a positive message sets the tone for children on the importance of their education since children often replicate our actions, and not our words. The many commitments our working parents grapple with often make them feel as if they may not have time to be involved in their children’s preschool experience. In truth, every bit of time counts in the life of a child. Parents can read a 10-minute story book to the class during morning drop off or join the class for lunch during a break in the day. Dads, uncles or grandfathers can join the male involvement breakfast. They can participate in parent teacher conferences, Family Council or educational/ informational meetings. We also have parent showcase week s where parents or family members could sing a song with the children, coordinate a short dance along, or Parenting, “Engagement in the in order to formulate their own conduct any other short activity. early years prepares families to be feelings. A parent’s body language Children get such a kick out of engaged throughout their child’s and conversation about their child’s seeing their parents in the class parent involvement occurs when families participate in activities that take place at their child’s early care and education program. This usually means that they attend meetings, special events or help a teacher prepare materials for the children. Many parents do not realize the importance of their involvement and what it means to staff at our centers, but more importantly to their children. According to the 2002 2nd Edition of the Handbook of

school years. Most importantly, family engagement efforts support the parent-child relationships that are key to a child’s healthy development, school readiness, and well-being now, and in the future. Fifty years of research in early childhood development highlight the central influence that parenting attitudes and behaviors have on children’s development.” Children look to their parents as a barometer; they observe how parents feel towards a situation

At Family Centers, we value the importance of parents being our partners in their child’s education and are always trying to find ways to raise opportunities for parent involvement.

dancing or singing a silly song with their peers. Any of these aforementioned activities would suffice with the added caveat of communicating with your child that you are meeting with their teacher or coming in for an activity. This lets them know that you are in communication with their school or better yet, you are an active participant. According to the 2007 Journal of School Psychology “During the preschool years, the ways that parents interact with their children and the relationships they form with their children’s caregivers and teachers play an important role in supporting a child’s social emotional, cognitive, and physical readiness for school.” Children observe how parents interact with their teachers, how comfortable they are in their classroom to gage how comfortable and safe they should feel in that environment; which goes to show that the smallest of interactions and/or activity is worth its weight in gold for child. At Family Centers, we value the importance of parents being our partners in their child’s education

and are always trying to find ways to raise opportunities for parent involvement. I know I can speak for the entire early education community when I say that we welcome ideas on how we can be better; and if you are unsure just ask. Partnering with parents is always on the top of our goal lists every year. As we enter this feel good season I remind and encourage all parents and family members to find ways to partner with your child’s school; it is truly a gift that keeps on giving in the life of a child. Yenny Toone is Family Centers’ Director of Early Care and Education. Toone has 18 years of experience in the social work and early education fields, in which she served as an advocate for children and families. She has expertise in educational programming, program development, and therapeutic services. Family Centers operates four nationallyaccredited Early Care and Education sites located throughout central Greenwich. For more information, visit www.familycenters.org.

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Giving Thanks

Letter to the Editor from George and Maureen Smith

With Fond Memories time due to our progressing age. For several years, we tried to sell our business with multiple buyers under contract but sadly we were unable to do so. It goes without saying that we would have much preferred for our extremely busy business to remain operational with a new owner and jobs for our employees but unfortunately that was not possible for our family. We are thankful to our loyal and hardworking employees Mark, Mario and Diego who have worked with us for a combined total of over 40 years. Each will go on to have a successful career after Cos Cob Liquor's closing and we wish Mark, Mario and Diego well. We, at Cos Cob Liquor, have thoroughly enjoyed serving our community for thirtyeight years and are saddened to announce

we are closing. Our family is grateful for the continued patronage of our customers throughout the years. Every dollar each customer spent at our mom-and-pop business helped put a roof over our head, food on our table and assisted with the education of our children, Bree and George IV. The loyalty exhibited by our customers has been heartwarming, especially during some of our most difficult times. Many of our customers have become like family to us and we will miss interacting with them on a regular basis. Although our doors are closing, our gratitude is never-ending. With fond memories and great appreciation.

Our family's business Cos Cob Liquor, Thanksgiving Day is more than eating too much LLC in the Cos Cob Commons shopping center turkey and watching too many football games, will be closing its doors for the last time in although we do not believe you can have an excess of December. We have owned Cos Cob Liquor thirty-eight years. It has been a staple of either. Next Thursday as we gather with family and for the Cos Cob community since the store first George A. Smith III and Maureen T. Smith friends, we give thanks. Or at least we say we do. But opened at the end of Prohibition in 1933. Cos Cob Liquor, LLC We will finally be retiring in a month's what are we giving thanks for? And what if we have no family or friends to gather with or no turkey for Letter to the Editor from Lauren Rabin the table? H i stor y tel l s u s t he A mer ic a n ver sion of Thanksgiving, began in 1621 when the Pilgrims invited the Wamponoag Indians to celebrate their I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to my fellow Being an effective Selectman involves listening to you, translating first bountiful harvest. Unprepared for the harsh Greenwich residents for putting your trust in me and electing me as your concerns into workable solutions and building consensus to implement them. My goal is still the same as when I began winter when they first arrived in 1620, most pilgrims your Second Selectman. It is the honor of a lifetime. I am truly humbled by the expression of confidence you have my campaign; to create a stronger & unified Greenwich so that remained onboard their tiny Mayf lower and ate shown in me and my running mate Fred Camillo. Please know that Greenwich continues to be a diverse and thriving community where rations they had brought with them. Of the original whether I earned your vote or not, I have listened to your voice we work together and succeed together in meeting the challenges of 102 passengers, only half survived. The following and I have heard the concerns of our community throughout the the future. campaign. I look forward to working with Fred and Jill in seeking ways spring the Wamponoags had helped the new I am immensely grateful to my family, friends, acquaintances and to make our community work better for all of our residents and settlers learn how to grow corn, what plants were supporters who so generously contributed their time and effort to my ensuring that Greenwich continues to be a special place for all. during this election season. I also thank Sandy Litvack for Have a wonderful and blessed rest of the year! poisonous and how best to hunt and fish. It is easy to campaign his service to Greenwich and wish him all the best in the future. Lauren Rabin Selectman-Elect understand, that once they had gathered and stored their crops and provisions for the coming winter they would want to celebrate and give thanks. You cannot look at the history of Thanksgiving without acknowledging that there has always been The Junior League's “The Little Enchanted “little” forest of decorated trees for auction, The Little Enchanted Forest Hours are: a religious aspect to it. In the American tradition it Forest” will take place at the Greenwich a holiday boutique, and wreath making Saturday, Nov. 23, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. and Sunday, began as a way to thank God for His blessing and Botanical Center this weekend: Nov. 23 & 24. workshops. The Children’s Giving Shop, a child Nov. 24, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. To learn more and to bountiful harvest. There has long been thankfulness "The Little Enchanted Forest" offers the favorite centered shopping experience where kids can purchase tickets, please visit jlgreenwich.org elements of the Junior League’s signature event shop independently for holiday gifts, is another Funds raised go directly toward supporting for a successful harvest, whether it was Egyptians “The Enchanted Forest” which had been a highlight of the weekend. Santa Claus will also community projects identified, designed, and Romans thanking thanks their gods, the ancient beloved holiday experience for over 40 years. return to hear those holiday wishes and pose and implemented by the Junior League of The family friendly event will include a for keepsake photos. Greenwich. Jewish harvest festival of Sukkot or Native Americans celebrating long before we arrived. President Lincoln at the height of the Civil War in ON MY WATCH 1863 issued a proclamation that established a national BY ANNE W. SEMMES continued from page 1 day of Thanksgiving. Prior to 1863, mostly northern d e si g n f rom t he Ne w York states and New England celebrated Thanksgiving Botanic Garden, then founded when they wished. Since President Lincoln’s her f lower arranging business proclamation Thanksgiving Day has been about in her backcountry basement, “Miriam Landsman - Beautiful feasting and celebrations. Interestingly, President Flowers” in the 1990’s. With two John Adams’ proclamations called for fasting and or three employees, advertising word of mouth, Miriam was humiliation. We are glad this ended in 1799 and does by soon on call for big events, with not now jeopardize our mashed potatoes and football. customers whose houses would On Thursday when we gather, we gives thanks, be featured in the Garden Center Garden Tour or the Greenwich but we don’t often identify who we give thanks to. Historical Society’s Christmas We have become overly sensitive to being politically House Tour. In those busy 20-plus years correct where the holidays are concerned in order t here was lots of Christ mas to ensure we do not offend anyone. As one noted d e c o r a t i n g , w i t h M i r i a m religious leader in town commented, it is hard to weaving her green magic over mantels, and up the stair take the theology out of Thanksgiving regardless of tables, ra i ls. Ropi ng t hat g reener y Restorer Chris Franco, on left, and artist Peter Arguimbau, on right, stand beside what religion you are or even if you do not believe along the stair rails she found Arguimbau\'s \"Sunrise off Elias Point, Riverside,\" at a reception held in Arguimbau Art in religion. Pagans would celebrate their harvest “most physically difficult.” She gallery in The Boatyard, Riverside. still bemoans having had to during the full moon in October. They may not have redecorate for Christmas the Cupboard” located in the GBC long admired Peter’s paintings Reaching t he rea r of t he been giving thanks to God, but they were thankful to corner façade of Susie Hilfiger’s greenhouse. - we have two in our home - gallery, with Peter off welcoming former clot hing store on W here Peter A rg u i mbau but it wasn’t until Peter started his guests, I spied local artist something. Greenwich Avenue, when an welcomed me last Friday past showing his art at the Boatyard Frank Smurlo, Jr. eyeing the Wilbur L. Cross was Governor of Connecticut from “unusually hot December” killed su ndow n i n R iverside is no that we really got to know them. “Statue of Liberty” painting 1931 until 1939. He was also literary critic and English off all the greenery. ordinary boatyard, though it’s We consider Peter and Kim to be with its amazing sailboat and e v e r a G a r d e n C l u b situated along Long Meadow great friends, and hope everyone American f lag sail. And then, Professor at Yale University. In 1936, during the height m e N m b e r, s h e n o n e t h e l e s s where kayaks come and will come to the Boatyard to see t here was Bi l l Ba ker ga zing of the Great Depression, his issued the following has spoken at many of them Creek go. “The Boatyard” building has Peter’s fabulous work.” ab out . T he for mer ch ief of across Connecticut and New earned its name, certainly from proclamation: As Peter walked me by his New York ’s Channel 13, who r k , a n d s aw h ow f l ow e r the 1930’s when Ole Amundsen landscapes, marines, seascapes lives nearby, was astonishing “Time out of mind at this turn of the seasons Yo a r r a n g i n g c h a n ge d f r om a made it into Riverside’s local with sunsets, animal paintings w it h what he’s up to i n h is when the hardy oak leaves rustle in the wind and the tight Garden Club structure boatyard. But the building goes and portraits – as Kim teased “retirement.” He a d i ng for t he do or, I frost gives a tang to the air and the dusk falls early to “very unstructured f lower back to the 1850’s, though when with delectable vittles – I paused arrangements.” She’s definitely you step inside it feels brand by sma ll paintings of “Ole’s discovered the angel painting and the friendly evenings lengthen under the heel not “a competitive person,” she new w it h it s pr ist i ne wh ite Creek” (Long Meadow Creek), in the portrait area. “It’s called of Orion, it has seemed good to our people to join says and doesn’t like teaching walls restoration, aglow with “Greenwich Point” and “Tod’s “Acceptance,” said Peter joining Point.” It’s Tod’s Point that Peter me. And yes, he still has those together in praising the Creator and Preserver, who flower arranging, because, in her Arguimbau’s luminous oils. honest humor, “ I don’t know E n j o y i n g o n e o f t h o s e and Chris use for Greenwich r e l i g i o u s p a i n t i n g s i n h i s has brought us by a way that we did not know to the why I’m doing what I’m doing.” l u m i n o u s l a n d s c a p e s w a s Point (as in the Greenwich Point backcountry Red Barn studio S h e r e j o i c e s o v e r t h e Chris and Rachel Franco who Conservancy Chris founded). and gallery. (His other Mariner end of another year. In observance of this custom, I acce s sibi l it y of c ut f lowers share the first floor space of the “The old townies called it Tod’s Gallery is in Newport, RI) appoint Thursday, the twenty-sixth of November, as a today. “Now, you get peonies Boatyard they restored and own. Point,” noted a relatively young Stepping outside Peter speaks day of Public Thanksgiving for the blessings that have at Christmastime! There’s such Their offices face the Creek and Chris, with a smile. of his and Kim’s appreciation A painting of “Scott’s Cove” of the Franco’s “having created been our common lot and have placed our beloved variety and they come from all Peter’s Arguimbau Art gallery over the world.” Go find them faces Riverside Avenue. And the stops me. Isn’t that where Anne this masterful renovation of a State with the favored regions of earth – for all the she says “in our town florists and painting they’re taking in with its Morrow Lindbergh lived and Riverside icon,” of their being creature comforts; the yield of the soil that has fed in Whole Foods.” heron and meadow, and sailboat w rote, I a sk . “ T hat ’s where able “to exhibit local Riverside For those wishing to celebrate and sea is entitled, “Sunrise off I grew up, told Peter, “It’s in scenes” among Peter’s other us and the richer yield from labor of every kind that Miriam tonight at the GBC, Point, Riverside, 26 x 46, Darien. You see that island, works in The Boatyard. “It is has sustained our lives – and for all those things as from 6 to 8, with “Cocktails and Elias said to be located further out the t hat ’s C ontent ment Isla nd , an honor,” he said, “to be in dear as breath to the body, that quicken man’s faith Canapés,” click onto https:// Riverside coastline. where John Frederick Kensett, the heart of this very special “Rachel and I love having master painter of the Hudson community." in manhood, that nourish and strengthen his spirit to greenwichbotanicalcenter.org/ product/harvest-cocktail-party- Peter and [wife] Kim sharing our River School lived and died.” do the great work still before him: for the brotherly celebrate-miriam-landsman/ For Boatyard and Peter’s fabulous art And then his tale was told of For more information on word and act; for honor held above price; for steadfast those wanting to take home a bit gracing the walls of the gallery the unfortunate rescue bringing Arguimbau Art email Kim@ of Miriam’s magic hurry to the ArguimbauArt.com. courage and zeal in the long, long search after truth; tag sale of items from “Miriam’s space,” shared Chris. “We have Kensett’s death. for liberty and for justice freely granted by each to his fellow an so as freely enjoyed; and for the crowning glory and mercy of peace upon our land; -- that we may humbly heart of these blessings as we gather once again with solemn and festive rites to keep our Harvest Home.” The Greenwich Sentinel wishes you all a peaceful Thanksgiving Day.

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Lessons for a Lifetime

Greater Good Column

By Bob Arnold One of the great joys of my job is that my office is located in a building that houses a preschool, The Grauer Preschool to be exact. Throughout the day I have the good fortune to witness teachers i nterac t i ng w it h t hei r you ng students. I also get to observe plenty of students interacting with each other. As a result, I am often reminded of the wisdom found in Robert Fulghums’s book, All I Really Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten. While the lessons in this book haven’t changed much over the 30 years since it

was written, our understanding Don’t take things that aren’t yours. o f yo u n g c h i l d r e n a n d t h e i r Say you’re sorry when intellectual capacity has taken you hurt somebody. a quantum leap. Over the past Wash your hands before you eat. several decades, research has Flush. shown us how much more rapidly and deeply very young children Warm cookies and milk learn. In fact, preschool is the are good for you. time in which the most learning Live a balanced life – learn some occurs. By the time children reach and think some and draw some k indergarten their brains are and paint and sing and dance and almost fully developed. play and work every day some. With so much information Take a nap every afternoon. link ing a quality preschool experience to sustained academic When you go out into the world, a n d l i fe -sk i l l s d e ve l op m e nt , watch out for traffic, hold hands perhaps an updated version of the and stick together. book focusing on “what I learned Wonder. in preschool” is in order. Remember the little seeds in the In his book, Fulghum cites Styrofoam cup: The roots go down the following lessons as building blocks for a happy and successful and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we life: are like that. Goldfish and hamsters Share everything. and white mice and even the little Play fair. seed in the Styrofoam cup-they all Don’t hit people. die. So do we. Put things back where you Remember the Dick and Jane books found them. and the first word you learned – the

Clean up your own mess.

biggest word of all - LOOK.

With great patience and repetition, preschool teachers impart these lessons. Their daily reinforcement, and hopefully that of positive parental role modelling, ensures that these critical lessons which help shape character are ingrained in the child’s behavior. This becomes an essential piece of who the child becomes by adding to the foundation that prepares the

we see these lessons in action on a daily basis. The other day, I observed a teacher talking to a preschooler who just shoved one of his classmates. The teacher asked the child, “what do you want to say to your friend?” Sheepishly, he says, “I’m sorry”. At the same time, there was a group of students lining up down the hallway to go for a walk into town. They are all

Over the past several decades, research has shown us how much more rapidly and deeply very young children learn. young child for future academic a nd p ersona l success. These lessons have practical application throughout the lifespan and can easily be observed at different stages of life. At our Early Education sites,

holding onto a rope which links them together as they leave the building and venture out into the bigger world. The students’ day includes lunch and snacks, outdoor a nd i ndoor play, a r t, science projects, numerous other learning

opportunities – and of course, lots of clean up. While it all sounds pretty simple, taken in totality it is really quite aspirational. It speaks to the kind of society that we want to be, a community in which we all receive the tools we need to reach our full potential. As we grow there are many forks in the road. Life presents us with a seemingly endless stream of choices. Apply ing the lessons we learned in preschool can keep us on a productive path, one in which we contribute to the health and wellbeing of our community. And a path that ensures there are always enough warm cookies and milk available for all of us! Bob Arnold is the CEO of Family Centers. Through a comprehensive network of health, education and human service programs, Family Centers provides the support and guidance to help families living in lower Fairfield County overcome a variety of life’s obstacles. Learn more at www. familycenters.org.

Hill House Holiday Giving Tree Program By Michelle Moskowitz In the spirit of giving back to those in need this holiday season, the residents of Hill House, a 61-apartment congregate home for well-elderly seniors of low-tomoderate income in Riverside, has concentrated their holiday efforts to help other seniors in need, like themselves. “ L a s t y e a r, s o m e o f o u r residents commented that they wou ld l i ke to donate v ia t he giving trees around town, but found that most of the recipients were parents or children, but few ac t ua l ly soug ht g i f ts for individuals in our resident’s age range who might be isolated or unable to afford some common

necessities,” said Lisa Crowley, social service programmer and resident services coordinator for Hill House. Star ting this week , Hill House in collaboration with the Greenwich Department of Human Services will be placing ‘giving trees’ throughout Greenwich with each tree bearing the names of seniors in the community along with their respective ‘wish lists.’ There are approximately 85 senior members that will be recipients of the wish list thus far. Such wish list items include nothing extraordinary, but consist of basic necessities such as pots, pans, slippers, coats – items to make their lives a bit warmer and more comfortable during the cold

winter months. Eileen Morris, a resident at Hill House was thrilled to share her enthusiasm for the project with the Sentinel, “Seniors get neglected and it’s so important to serve them this time of year. It’s really nice to have someone that cares do a little extra for them,” said Morris. O n F r i d a y, N o v. 2 2 , t h e giving trees will be hosted at the following locations: First Bank of Greenwich, located at 444 East Putnam Avenue; the dental office of Dr. Richard Baranello located at 533 East Putnam Avenue, Cos Cob; Images of Old Greenwich located at 202 Sound Beach Avenue, Old Greenwich. In addition, The Hyatt Regency Greenwich, The Water

Clubs and the J House will each be hosting a tree for their staffers or club members to fulfill donations. “This remarkable alliance of town departments, businesses and concerned citizens is a perfect example of why Greenwich has b e en de sig nate d as a n “A geF r i e n d l y C o m m u n i t y,” s a i d Crowley. “The residents of Hill House are delighted to have this opportunity to be active citizens of the community, advocating for our seniors.” Hill House will also have a giving tree set up in their lobby that residents will adorn with new socks, gloves, scarves and hats that they purchased themselves for distribution to the senior participants – a little something

extra to make their holidays that much more special, and cozy. Pet Pantry Warehouse has also agreed to provide food for cats, dogs and other pets owned by the senior recipients on the wish lists. As of now, there are 13 recipients who have pets. In addition, the Hudson Valley Writers Group recently ran a raffle with all proceeds benefiting Hill House for the purchase of wrapping paper, ribbon and any other necessary items to support t h e G i v i n g Tr e e fo r S e n i o r s Project. Members of the community who wish to donate can purchase as many of the requested items as they want and drop them off at the location hosting their tree

where Hill House residents will wrap them in festive adornment and make them extra special for the holidays. Gi f ts w i l l b e del iver e d to their destinations by members of t he Gre enw ich Pol ice a nd Fire Departments as well as the Greenwich Emergency Services via the Hill House bus alongside residents on December 16 which they are most looking forward. That of giving the gift of a broad smile when the senior recipients receive their beautifully wrapped presents; given with goodness from neighbors and friends in the community. For more information, please visit www.thehillhouse.org.

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Local non-profit organizations are invited to apply for a $10,000 grant from Generation Impact, a program for high school girls in Fairfield County. The grant will be awarded for a significant project or program that reaches under-served youth population(s) within the community. Generation Impact’s grant is member-funded: 100 members each raise or donate $100, and pool their membership donations into a $10,000 grant. Now in its second year, Generation Impact members work to learn about the need in the community and the non-prof it organizations addressing the issues. The group hopes to make an impact by fully or mostly funding a youthfocused project or program, and is encouraging local non-prof its to be creative. Applications for new, proof-of-concept or pilot programs are welcome. A p p r ox i m at e l y 9 0 G e n e r at i o n I m p a c t members and prospects gathered on Sunday, Nov. 11, to learn about the need in Fairf ield County and the grant-making process. Catalina Horak, Executive Director of Building One Community (Generation Impact’s first-ever grant winner) spoke about Generation Impact’s grant

process through the lens of a non-profit applicant, and discussed the impact the grant has made on their STEAM Club program and the students that participate. Mar y Lee K iernan, President & CEO of YWCA Greenwich offered a keynote address that educated the girls on additional issues in the community, such as domestic abuse. Kiernan spoke about the importance of advocacy, and how the path to one’s calling and career is sometimes circuitous. Both speakers praised the girls for their participation in this program and for their commitment to working together to make an impact on the community. Sunday’s program also taught the group how to review and evaluate grant applications in preparation for the group’s upcoming ‘Big Review’ on Jan. 26, when non-profit organizations’ grant applications will be discussed and finalists will be selected. Issues discussed included mental health, teen homelessness, hunger awareness, as well as education & literacy. The 2020 grant application is available at generationimpact.org/apply-for-grant

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Spiritual Prehab

On Faith Column

By Edward G. Horstmann Playing tennis is a great way for me to restore my soul, and I am not being glib about spiritual matters when I say that. From the time I first learned to play the sport at the age of twelve, tennis has remained over the years not only a way to get exercise, but an opportunity to encounter the holy. In the middle of intense high school tennis matches I would sometimes pause right in the middle of a game to look around at my surroundings (easy to do

Robert Carl Robert Paul Carl, 46-year resident of Riverside, CT, passed a w a y p e a c e f u l l y, w i t h h i s wife, and family by his side on Saturday, Nov. 16, 2019. He was 90 years old. Born in the Bronx, N.Y., he was raised by his uncle, Julius S t e p h e n , a n d au nt , Eve l y n Ungar. He graduated from the Pratt Institute of New York City and spent his whole working career as a loyal employee of Consolidated Edison of New York City as a civil engineer and architect. R o b e r t ( B o b), w a s a de d ic ate d, husba nd, fat her, nephew, u ncle, g ra nd fat her and friend to all he touched during his time on this earth. Although quiet and reserved in nature, his powerful presence in the room was felt by all. His strong inf luence on his family by his actions and the morals he believed in was never more evident than in his four children and 10 grandchildren as they navigate through their own lives. He adored his wife Carol, whom earlier this year celebrated their 60 years of marriage together. They met 66 years ago at a CYO church dance in the Bronx and have shared a wonderf ul life and memories together. Bob is survived by his wife, Carol, four children, Stephen (Lauretta), Floyd (Linda), Philip (Stephanie) and Teresa (Peter), 10 Gra ndch i ld r en : Gr e gor y, R achel, Dia na, Oliv ia, A lex, Jackson, Logan, Allison, Austin, and Oscar. Friends gathered Thursday, Nov. 21 at Leo P. Gallagher & Son

in southwest Vermont) and feel a sense of aliveness accompanied by an overwhelming feeling of gratitude. “I have come that you might have fullness of life,” said Jesus, and I have always felt that fullness on a tennis court. So understandably, when I am not able to play tennis for long periods of time, I miss the sport and the spiritual connection it makes possible. Over the years those absences have come about mostly as the result of injuries, which seem to be gathering in force as well as frequency with each passing year. Most recently I have had to put my game on hold thanks to a bout of tennis elbow: a stubborn physical annoyance if ever there was one. As I work my way through treatments with the good guidance of knowledgeable professionals, I am reminded frequently that if I want to continue to enjoy playing tennis for many years I have to shift my focus from getting rehab to practicing prehab. I have been challenged to develop

an exercise program that will, all things considered, help me to be less injury-prone despite the inevitable wear and tear on a body that has already clocked a few miles. As I piece together a series of exercises that might become a good maintenance program for my body, I am dedicating an equal amount of time to shape a prehab program for my spiritual life. After all, as our bodies need attention, nourishment, and care in order to function as well as possible for as long as possible, I have tried to imagine the prehab that I need to make my inner life resilient and courageous. Jesus put it like this: “What does it profit us to gain the world but lose our souls?” Of what use is it to me if my tennis game improves, but my passion for the common good is in constant need of repair? I have the sense that many others are looking for a prehab spiritual life. Because while there may be widespread decline in

the membership of our churches, there is a surg ing interest in spiritual practices that can go where we go, and strengthen us to meet the challenges of the future with confidence. A spiritual prehab

Funeral Home, Greenwich. A funeral mass will be held Friday, Nov. 22 at 10 a.m. at St. Catherine of Siena Church, 4 Riverside Ave., Riverside. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or Shriners Children Hospital in Roberts name.

light in encouraging his students to accomplish more than they ever thought possible. Up to his last days, he would receive calls and letters from former students thanking him for all his encouragement during their school years. Some would say that they would not be who they are today if it was not for him. Jer r y i s su r v ive d by h i s s on R ich a r d ( Pat r ic ia) a nd daug hter A l lison (Thomas); "Pop" was a devoted grandfather to Patrick Mele and Mary-Kate Smitherman (Christopher), and great-grandson, Charles Richard. He was loved by many nieces, nephews and dear friends. To honor his life, family and friends gathered to pay their respects on Wednesday, Nov. 20 at Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home, Greenwich. A mass of Christian Burial took place on Thursday, Nov. 21 at St. Mar y's Catholic Church, 178 Greenwich Ave. Interment followed at St. Mary's Putnam Cemetery in Greenwich.

Her husba nd Scott y, son Bruce, and her siblings Neda, Jack, Bob, Charlie, Henry and Pat predeceased her. She is survived by her children Christine Connal (Candy LeGay), Susan Connal, Catherine Chalverus (Peter), Diane Koeppel (Gerard), Linda Connal (Peter Duncan), Allan Connal (Judy), and Scott Connal (Roger Blanco); daughter-in-law Karen Connal and grandchildren Katelind, Alan, Harrison, a nd L i ly Ro ot; Tyler, Ca rly, and Trevor Connal; Jackson, Harry, and Katherine Koeppel; John Allan Duncan; Caroline, Alexander, Christopher, Luke and Madeline Connal. Til loved and was loved by many and will be missed by all. A celebration of her life was held on Nov. 16 (also her birthday) in Hilton Head. In lieu of f lowers, please make donations to the Hilton Head Firef ighters Association.

These are just a few elements of a whole way of life that is holy because it treats the fullness of our life as a gift that is never to be squandered. It would be a fantastic bonus if

So I want to put together great prehab programs that will equip me to greet each day with faith, hope and love. program would be designed to make us conscious of the present without undue attachment to the past or the future. It would be a disciplined way of seeing the world so as to acknowledge the grace and mercy of God with and for all people. It would be a way of discerning the best path to go with the flow of the Spirit, and to practice excellent care of creation.

I could count on spiritual exercises to improve my forehand or give me a passable overhead. But I will be more than satisfied if the prayers I pray, and the good labor of forgiveness, and the steady desire to bless others with healing words, will strengthen me at the core of who I am so that who I am The Rev. Dr. Edward G . is aligned with what matters most Horstmann is the Senior Minister at to God. Despite my affection for Round Hill Community Church.

Obituaries

Jerry Mele Jerry J. Mele, age 94, passed away peacefully on Sunday, Nov. 17, 2019. He was born May 2, 1925 in lower Manhattan to Rosalie and Nicolas Mele. He was predeceased by his dear wife of sixty-nine years, Ann Marie, as well as his four sisters, Bina, Ann, Helen, and Marie, and one adoring brother, Bob. In the days from his birth to his death, Jerry lived the fullest of lives that truly exemplified the "Greatest Generation." He served his country aboard the submarine USS-Blackfin SS-322 in the Pacific theater from 19431946. His submarine and crew were awarded the Presidential Un it Cit at ion for del iver i ng critically needed supplies in an effort to liberate the Philippine Islands. He attended Iona College on the G.I. Bill, graduating with a Bachelor of Science degree. Upon graduation, he found his lifelong vocation as a teacher in the Yonkers school system. While attending Hunter College for his Master's in Education, he accepted a position in the Science Department of Pelham Memorial High School. It was at Pelham Me mor ia l t h at h i s g r e ate s t impact was felt. Jerry was a mentor, a coach, and a guiding

tennis, alignment with God is a much higher priority in my life, indeed, the highest of all. S o I wa nt to put toget her great prehab programs that will equip me to greet each day with faith, hope and love. And in these coming weeks there will be plenty of opportunities to do just that: by strengthening the muscles of gratitude, by stretching the imagination to make room for glorious possibilities, by practicing many repetitions of kind words a nd actions that br i ng peace to others, and by tak ing deep renewing breaths that can refresh us with the fierce and tender love of the Holy Spirit. I hope you’ll join me in forming your own prehab programs, so that together we can be f it as fiddles, living well for the common good until as it is in heaven so may it be on earth.

Noell Gioffre

Noell Virginia Sheehan Gioffre passed away peacefully with her husband at her side on Nov. 13, 2019 at her home in Greenwich, CT. She was born on Dec. 22, 1939 in Port Chester, N.Y. to the late Lillian Martin Sheehan and Francis Sheehan. Noell was the younger sister of Lawrence Sheehan. She graduated from Port Chester High School in 1956 and went on to study at nursing school. Noell defined selfless love to everyone she met. She had a unique ability to bring joy to all she encountered. Noell’s greatest joy in life was her family. No el l wa s t he cher ishe d wife of her beloved husband of 58 years, Anthony B. Gioffre Jr. She is survived also by her four children, Anthony F. Giof fre (Angie), Wayne Gioffre (Lisa), Ken Gioffre (Monet), and Gina Gioffre Laufenberg (Neil). “Nana”

was a devoted grandmother to Kyle, Gage, Paul, Henry, Emma, Anthony, Ryan, and Joseph. Her family will always treasure a lifetime of her love, spirit, and laughter – including summers in Avalon, Easter egg hunts, exceedingly generous cooking at all hours, spontaneous singing of so many songs, her uncanny winning hands of poker. The family is grateful for the support, care, and compassion of the doctors – especially Dr. D icker ma n Hol l ister – c a re providers, and loving friends who shared in Noell’s exemplary life. To honor her life, family and friends gathered to pay their respects on Nov. 17 at Coxe and Graziano Funeral Home, Greenwich. A mass of Christian Burial took place Monday, Nov. 18 at St. Paul’s Catholic Church in Greenwich. Interment followed at Saint Mary’s Putnam Cemetery in Greenwich.

Mathilde Connal Mathilde Wadelton Connal, age 92, died peacefully on Nov. 10, 2019, at her home in Hilton Head, S.C. Born in Bronxville, N .Y. “ T i l ” w a s m a r r i e d fo r 4 5 years to A llan B. Connal “Scotty,” the love of her life, who affectionately referred to her as “the iron fist in the velvet glove.” Til was the heart of her Edgewater Drive neighborhood in Old Greenwich CT, opening her home to neig h b ors a nd friends for holiday gatherings, storm watch parties, and viewing the Binney Park fireworks at her annual July 4th celebration.

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Finding Home

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By Marek P. Zabriskie My father was a corporate gypsy. So, we moved around a lot. I have lived in 11 states and 5 countries. When anyone asks where I’m from, I struggle to answer. I attended Middle School in Ridgewood, New Jersey. There was a lot of bullying there, and I was glad to move to Weston, Mass. I fell in love with New England. I liked the people, playing soccer and the colorful fall foliage. I felt like I was finally home. My parents bought a house overlooking the 18th fairway of the Golf Club. The fairway became an extension of our front yard.

Bill Bain, who started Bain Consu lt i ng , later b oug ht ou r house and morphed it into a huge mansion. I did odd jobs for the Bains in high school, so I jokingly say that I was Bain Consulting’s youngest employee and reported directly to the CEO. At the time, I was really fascinated by the military and dreamed of becoming a Green Beret. I listened countless times to Barry Sadler singing “The Ballad of the Green Berets.” I had a buck knife and practiced throwing it at trees and making it stick. I f igured that Green Berets needed to know this. I also had a BB g un. One evening, I went out and practiced shooting from a distance at the windows on the side of our home and later a neighbor’s home high atop a hill. At the sun dipped down, the only lights lit in windows were inside the Golf Club pro shop across from the 18th fairway. My parents had just become members of the country club. I was a teenage knucklehead and was stupid enough to think that BBs bounced of f glass

surfaces. So, I sat in a grassy knoll and took target practice on the windows of the pro shop. Unbek nown to me, the employees yelled, “We’re under fire. Duck!” Soon, an undercover police officer pulled into the parking lot. He jumped out of his car, wearing a leather jacket. He looked like Kojak, and surveyed the site to find the source of the gunfire. There was on ly one place where a shooter could be concealed. It was the little cluster of trees where I was kneeling. So, I took off running with my BB gun across the fairway. The officer yelled to some high school students walking down the road, “Get the kid with the rifle.” They obliged, and I surrendered my BB gun. He drove me home and delivered me to my parents and promised to check on me each week, but he never returned. That evening, my mother gave me a book called I’m OK, You’re OK. I promised to read it, but never did. Weston is a lot like Greenwich. It’s the wealthiest town in the state and is full of successful people who live in big homes on big properties. It’s easy to be isolated

and lonely there. There’s lots of beauty but it’s also town full of big issues stirring in people’s lives. My best friend’s father ran a Fortune 400 company. He came home each night, fixed a few drinks, and his children had to carry him up to bed. His wife popped so many pills to keep calm that she looked like a zombie. That’s the kind of town it could also be. When I was first approached by Ch r ist Chu rch Greenw ich when they were looking for a new Rector, I thought, “I’m not so sure.” But then I met several church leaders. I was amazed at how nice and wonderful and spiritually hungry they were. I thought to myself, “I can do this. In fact, I need to do this. I g rew up in a tow n just like Greenwich, and I might know what makes it tick. This is a calling. They need me, and in many ways I need them. My skills and personal history match up with this opportunity and calling.” I attended seminary in New Haven, and my mother lived for 25 years in picturesque Sharon, Connecticut. In many ways, coming to Greenwich was like coming

home. I’m very glad to be here. Ret u r n i ng to Con ne c t ic ut reminds me of an old Jewish tale about a poor man who was tired of the corruption in his city, the despair, hatred and cynicism that he encountered daily. He was fed up with the injustice that his people experienced, the loneliness and isolated living. His friends and family listened patiently as he spoke about his desire to find a city where justice was honored, people experienced wholeness, and there was a real community. Night after night, he dreamed of a city where heaven touched earth. One day, he announced that he could wait no longer. He packed a meager meal, kissed his wife and children, and set out in the search of the magical city of his dreams. He walked all day and just before the sunset, he found a place to sleep just off the road, near a forest. He ate his sandwich, said his prayers and smoothed the ground where he was to sleep. Just before he went to sleep, he placed his shoes on the road, pointing in the direction where he would continue traveling the

next day. That night, a sly fellow was walking the same path and discovered the traveler’s shoes. Unable to resist a practical joke, he turned the shoes around pointing them in the direction from which the man had just come. Early the next morning, the man arose, said his prayers, ate what remained of his food, and began walking in the direction where his shoes were pointed. He journeyed all day long, and just before sunset he saw the heavenly city off in the distance. It wasn’t as large as he had expected, and it looked strangely familiar. He entered a street that looked much like his own, knocked on a family door and was greeted by a family, who turned out to be his own family, and he lived happily ever after in the city of his dreams. When we f ind a new home af ter a journey, it of ten feels familiar. When we find a faith community to join or a town to call our own, even if it’s brand new to us, when it's right it often feels like we have been there before – just like we’ve finally come home. By the Rev. Marek P. Zabriskie, Rector of Christ Church Greenwich

Finding ‘Hope for the Holidays’ By Michelle Moskowitz While the season for merriment and holiday festivities are quickly approaching, this time of year can be difficult for those mourning the loss of a loved one, particularly when family gatherings serve as the cornerstone of their celebrations. The Sentinel weighed in on how best to cope with loss over the holiday season with Jennifer Graziano Mangano, funeral director for Coxe & Graziano --serving Greenwich, Mamaroneck

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and surrounding families for well over 100 years -- bestowing the principles of service, dignity and compassion. I n t he spi r it of prov id i ng comfort to those suffering during this time of year, Coxe & Graziano are hosting a special upcoming event ca lled, “Hope for the Holidays.” The afternoon event will be held at 134 Hamilton Avenue on Saturday, December 7 at 3 pm and is open to the community, regardless of where guests held

their funerals for loved ones. “This event is designed to offer hope and healing to those who have faced the loss of a loved one,” said Mangano. “It is difficult for many to navigate through a season of joy when their hearts are heavy.” The event will consist of an interfaith prayer service, followed by a discussion with Coxe’s inhouse bereavement counselor, Terri Agliardo. Directly after the service, coffee, hot chocolate, cider, and cookies will be served outside under heated tents. A special gift

will also be given for those who attend. “This event provides a forum to come together and bond with others in similar circumstances,” said Mangano. “It is also part of our family’s ongoing ef fort to help the community in life’s most diff icult moments as our commitment continues long after the funeral.” Coxe & Graziano offers continuing bereavement support at their funeral homes at no cost. While many people tend to

isolate themselves while grieving, Mangano said that connecting with others is a key step in the healing process. “The best way to cope with loss is to acknowledge it. Commit to dealing with the pain, recognize the discomfort, and find ways to heal. Reach out to friends and neighbors or take part in events (such as ours) where hope can be found,” said Mangano. When asked how Mangano approaches the holiday season, particularly as she is continually

offering solace to others, “For me, as a lifelong funeral director, I find sadness in the season. But I look for signs of hope,” said Mangano. “Those we love and lost only leave us physically. The bonds of love remain. I try to relish in memories of those no longer with me throughout the season.” There is no cost to attend the Hope for the Holidays event. To register, please call 203-869-5968 or email info@coxeandgraziano.com. Visit coxeandgraziano.com for more information.

Worship & Events Calendar

Harvest Time Church 1338 King St., 203-531-7778 www.htchurch.com

Service: Sun 9 & 11am; Wed 7pm - Family Life Night. Spanish: Thur & Sat 7:30pm; Sun 4pm. Sunday School, 10:30-11:15am. Service - Stamford campus, Sun 10am, Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St. Every Wed, from Jan. 10-March 28: The Alpha Course, 7-8:30pm. Connie's Circle - Every Sat, 10am1pm. Saturday Life Groups: Every Saturday through Nov. 23. Sunday Life Groups: Every Sunday through Nov. 24. BAPTIST First Baptist Church 10 Northfield St.; 203-869-7988 www.firstbaptistgreenwich.com

Sun: Service 11am, School 10am. Wed: Bible Study 7:30pm. Greenwich Baptist Church 10 Indian Rock Ln; 203-869-2807 www.greenwichbaptist.org

Sun: Prayer in chapel 9:15-9:30am; Bible Study, 9:30am; Worship 11am. Wed: Prayer & Bible Study 7-8:15pm. Every first Sat. of the month: Men’s Bible Study and Breakfast, 8-9:30am. CATHOLIC Sacred Heart Church 95 Henry St.; 203-531-8730

Mass: Mon-Fri 7am, Sat 4 & 5:30pm, Sun: 7:30, 9:30, 11:30am Confessions: Sat 3:30 & 5pm. The Parish of St. Catherine of Siena and St. Agnes St. Agnes: 247 Stanwich Rd; St. Catherine of Siena: 4 Riverside Ave; 203-637-3661 www.stcath.org

Worship: Sat: St. Catherine (Church) 5pm (Vigil) Celebrated with organ and cantor. Sun: St. Catherine (Church) 7:30, 9, 10:30am and 5pm; St. Agnes: 8:30 and 10am. Daily Mass: St. Catherine (Chapel) Mon through Fri: 7am and 5:15pm. Holy Day: St. Catherine (Church) Eve: 5:15pm (Vigil); Day: 7am, 12:10 and 5:15pm. Masses in other Languages: St. Catherine (Chapel)September to June: French Mass 2nd Sun, 11am; Italian Mass, 3rd Sun, 11am; Spanish Mass 4th Sun, 11am. Year-round: Korean Mass Every Sun, 5pm. Reconciliation - Sacrament of Penance: St. Catherine (Sacristy) Sat: 3-4pm or by appt at St. Catherine or St. Agnes. Family Fun Night: Nov. 22, 6-7:30pm. Celebration of the Founding of The Parish of St. Catherine of Siena and St. Agnes: Nov. 23: Holy Hour, 5pm (St. Agnes); Adoration throughout the night, 6pm-7am; Nov. 24: Benediction, 7:30-7:45am (St. Catherine); Procession with the Blessed Sacrament, 7:45am (from St. Agnes to St. Catherine); Reposition of the Blessed Sacrament, 9:159:30am (St. Catherine); Mass - including a Blessing to Celebrate The New Parish with Bishop Caggiano, 10:30am, Reception follows (St. Catherine), all are welcome. Thanksgiving Mass & Food Collection (for Neighbor to Neighbor): Nov. 28, 9am.

St. Mary Church 178 Greenwich Ave.; 203-869-9393 www.stmarygreenwich.org

Mass: Mon-Fri 7am & 12:05pm; Sat 8am; Sun 7, 9, 10:30am, 12:15 and 5:15pm Sat Vigils: 4 and 7:30pm (Spanish). Confession: Sat 2:45-3:45. Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament Mon 11am-12pm. Walking With Purpose, Tue 9:30am. Choir Rehearsals, Thu: Children 5:30-6pm, Youth 6-7, Adults 7:30-9:15. Latin Mass for the Feast of Saint Cecilia: Nov. 22, 7:30pm. Feast of Christ the King (Vespers): Nov. 24, 4-5pm. St. Michael the Archangel 469 North St.; 203-869-5421 www.stmichaelgreenwich.com

Mass: Mon-Fri: 7:45am, 9am; Sat 9am, Vigil Mass 5pm; Sun: 7, 9, 10:30am, 12, 5pm. Bible Study: Thu 7pm. St. Timothy Chapel 1034 North St.; 203-869-5421 Mass: Sat 4pm; Sun: 9:30 & 11am. St. Paul Church 84 Sherwood Ave. | 203-531-8741 www.stpaulgreenwich.org

Mass: Vigil Sat: 4pm; Sun: 7:30, 9:30, 11:30am; Mon to Thurs 9am. Holy Day schedule: Vigil: 5:30pm Holy Day: 9am and 12:15pm. First Friday Mass & Benediction 9am. St. Paul Volunteers in Action, Fri mornings, office@stpaulgreenwich.org or 203-531-8741. Sacrament of Reconciliation Sat 3-3:45pm or by appointment. St. Paul Bereavement Group: Nov. 21, 5:30-7pm. St. Roch Church 10 St. Roch Ave.; 203-869-4176 www.strochchurch.com

Mass: Mon, Tue, Frid: 7:30pm; Sat 4pm, Vigil Mass 4pm; Sun: 7:30, 9:30, 11:30am Social Hour (immediately after 9:30 Mass). Confession: Sat 3-3:45pm. Prayer Group (Spanish) Fri 8pm. CHRISTIAN SCIENCE First Church of Christ, Scientist 11 Park Place; 203-869-2503 www.christiansciencect.org/greenwich

Service and Sunday School 10:30am Wed. Service 7:30pm. Childcare. COMMUNITY First Church of Round Hill 464 Round Hill Rd.; 203-629-3876 www.firstchurchofroundhill.com

Service: Sundays 10am Holy Communion: first Sun every month. Round Hill Community Church 395 Round Hill Rd.; 203-869-1091 www.roundhillcommunitychurch.org

Service & Church School: Sun 10am (childcare available) followed by Coffee Hour; Summer Meditation Schedule: Thurs, 6:30pm. FAngel Tree Decorating: Nov. 24, 11:30am-12:30pm, church@ roundhillcommunitychurch.org. Decking of Halls: Nov. 25, 10am.

CONGREGATIONAL

The First Congregational Church 108 Sound Beach Ave; 203-637-1791 www.fccog.org

Regular Worship and Church School: Sun 10am in Meetinghouse. Caregivers Support Group, 1st Sun 11:15am-12pm. Hats Off Book Discussion Group, Thu 10-11:30am. Giving Trees: through Dec. 4, 4:30pm. H.O.M.E. Craft Fair: Nov. 23, all day. North Greenwich Congregational 606 Riversville Rd.; 203-869-7763 www. northgreenwichchurch.org

Service: Sun 10:30am. Communion first Sunday of month. Second Congregational Church 139 E Putnam Ave.; 203-869-9311 www.2cc.org

Family-friendly Evensong Service, Sat 5pm. Sunday Services: 8:30 & 10:30am. Gingerbread Workshop: Dec. 7, 10am. Christmas Piano Serenade: Dec. 8, 5pm. EPISCOPAL Anglican Church of the Advent 606 Riversville Rd.; 203-861-2432 www.churchoftheadvent.org

Service: Sun 9am Holy Eucharist. Sunday School during academic year. Christ Church Greenwich 254 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-6600 www.christchurchgreenwich.org

Sunday Worship - May 18-Sept 15: Holy Eucharist, Rite 2, 8am; Holy Eucharist, Rite 2, 10am; Compline & Commuion, 5pm. Sunday Educational Offerings: Exploration Series, Youth Formation & Church School, 10:10am. Tue: Holy Eucharist, 10am. Ongoing: Christmas Pageant sign up. Presentation in Chapel: Nov. 23, 7:30pm, music@christchurchgreenwich.org. Nov. 28: Thanksgiving Day Worship - Holy Eucharist, Rite II, 10am; TBC: Thanksgiving Lunch, 11:30am. St. Barnabas Episcopal Church 954 Lake Ave.; 203-661-5526 www.stbarnabasgreenwich.org

Sun: Holy Eucharist Rite I 8am, Holy Eucharist Rite II, 10am; Worship, Church School & Nursery 10am. Serve dinner at Pacific House, fourth Tue of the month, 5:30pm. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church 200 Riverside Ave.; 203-637-2447 www.stpaulsriverside.org

Service: Sun: Holy Eucharist, 8am; Christian Education Formation (Sunday School), 10; Holy Eucharist, 10:15; Coffee Hour, 11:30. St. Saviour’s Episcopal Church 350 Sound Beach Ave; 203-637-2262 www.saintsaviours.org

Sun: Rite I Eucharistic Service, 8am. Rite II Eucharistic Service, 10am. School and childcare offered during 10am service. JEWISH Chabad Lubavitch of Greenwich 75 Mason St.; 203-629-9059 www.chabadgreenwich.org

Shabbat Prayer, Study and Kiddush, Chassidic Philosophy 8:45am, Sat 9:30am; Torah reading and discussions 10:30am; Youth Services 11am. Women’s Torah Study Group, Wed 9:30am. Mommy & Me: Musical Shabbat Tue & Fri, 9:15-10:15am, during summer: 12:30pm. Through Dec. 22: Mommy & Me Fall Session begins (0-24 months), 9:20am, register. Shabbat Guest Scholar: Nov. 15 & 16, RSVP. Teen Shabbat Dinner: Nov. 15, 6:30pm, RSVP. Congregation Shir Ami One W. Putnam Ave; 203-274-5376 www.congregationshirami.org

Diamond Hill United Methodist 521 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-2395 www.diamondhillumc.com

Worship & Sunday School: 10am. Consecration Sunday - what it means to be Children of the Resurrection in today's environment: Nov. 24, 10am. Community Interfaith Thanksgiving Service: Nov. 26, 7:30-8:30pm. NONDENOMINATIONAL Dingletown Community Church 376 Stanwich Rd.; 203-629-5923 www.dingletownchurch.org

Shir Ami Religious grades K-6, Tues, 4-6pm, B’nai Mitzvah Classes; Shabbat Services two Fridays a month. Welcome New Member Shabbat Service and Oneg: Nov. 22, 7:30-9:30pm, First Presbyterian Church. Women's Rosh Chodesh: Nov. 25, 7-8:30pm, First Presbyterian Church.

Service & Sunday School: Sundays 10:30am followed by coffee hour. Holy Communion: first Sun of each month. Sunday School 11am.

Greenwich Reform Synagogue 92 Orchard St.; 203-629-0018 www.grs.org

Service: Sunday 10am. Childcare and children’s ministry available.

Shabbat services, Fri 7pm. Adult Jewish Learning, Sun 10am. Religious school, Sun 9-11:30am. Introduction to Judaism, Tue 7pm. Through Dec. 21: ‘Baby & Me’ program, 11am-12pm. JCC Preschool Open House: Nov. 24,10am-12pm. Terrific Tots at the JCC Preschool: Nov. 25 & 27, 9:30am. Temple Sholom 300 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-7191 www.templesholom.com

Service: Fri 6:30pm; Sat 10am; Sun 8:30am. Candle Lighting: Fri night. Shabbat Study: Sat 9am. Minyan: Sun 8:30am. Lunch ‘n Learn: Tue 12pm. Itsy Bitsy Playgroup: Wed 10:30am. Nov. 22: Shir Hadash Musical Shabbat with Guest Rabbi Gershom Sizomu, 6:30pm; Scholar-in-Residence Dinner with Rabbi Gershom Sizomu, 7:30pm. Nov. 23: Lunch & Shabbat Discussion with Rabbi Gershom Sizomu, 12pm; Shabbat Luncheon & Discussion with Rabbi Gershom Sizomu, 12-1pm. LUTHERAN First Lutheran Church 38 Field Point Rd.; 203-869-0032 www.flcgreenwich.org

Service: Sun 10:30am followed by coffee and fellowship. Wed: education ages 3.5 & up 2:30-5:15pm at St. Paul Lutheran. St. Paul Evangelical Lutheran 286 Delavan Ave.; 203-531-8466

Service: Sun 9am, Bible Study 10:30. METHODIST

First United Methodist Church 59 E. Putnam Ave.; 203-629-9584 www.fumcgreenwich.com

Sunday Service: 9:30am; Korean, 11:30am. Sunday School: 11:30am (English/Korean). Bethel African Methodist Episcopal 42 Lake Ave.; 203-661-3099

Service: Sun 11am Bible Study: Wed. 6pm.

Revive Church 90 Harding Rd., Old Greenwich (Old Greenwich Civic Center) www.myrevive.org

Stanwich Church 202 Taconic Rd.; 203-661-4420 www.stanwichchurch.org

Sunday Services: Greenwich location (202 Taconic Rd.), 9 & 10:45am (June 9-Sept 2, 10am only); Stamford location (579 Pacific St.), 6pm. Rev. Fleming Rutledge - Talk on Advent: Nov. 23, 10-11am. Thanksgiving Eve Service: Nov. 27, 7-8pm. The Albertson Memorial Church 293 Sound Beach Ave; 203-637-4615 www.albertsonchurch.org

Worship Sun: 11-12:30pm. Wednesdays: Spirit speaks-beginner psychic & mediumship development, 7-9pm, $20 per class. Trinity Church 1 River Rd.; 203-618-0808 www.trinitychurch.life

Worship: Sun 10am, Greenwich Hyatt Regency, 1800 E. Putnam Ave. PRESBYTERIAN First Presbyterian Church 1 W. Putnam Ave.; 203-869-8686 www.fpcg.org

Worship Sun: 10am with childcare, Chapel, 5pm (new); Children’s Mini-Chapel 10:15am. Food for the Table 2nd Thurs 3-5pm; Shelter for the Homeless 2nd Thurs 5:30-7pm. Pageant Auditions: Nov. 23, 9am, andre. castillo@fpcg.org Grace Church of Greenwich 8 Sound Shore Dr, 203-861-7555 www.gracechurchgreenwich.com

Worship Sun: 8:45 & 10:45am at 89 Maple Ave.; childcare provided. Living Hope Community Church 38 West End Ave; 203-637-3669 www.LivingHopeCT.org

Worship Sun: 10am. Bible study: Mon 7:15-9pm. Women’s Bible Study Tue 9:3011:30am. Mothers of Preschoolers 1st/3rd Wed of month 9:15-11:45am. Bibles & Bagels Sat 7:30-8:30am. World Vision Storehouse: Nov. 23, 9:10am-3pm.

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The Wednesday Support Group Where Often is Heard the Encouraging Word

By Anne W. Semmes Each Wednesday noon they trickle in to a room of books and glittering stained glass windows tucked into the Christ Church Greenwich Parish House. They come for an hour and a half of support from their peers for their life challenges. There to g ive them insight, for free, are Dr. John Tamerin, psychiatrist, and Mary Cattan, pastoral psychotherapist, and when the candle is lit, the conversations begin. “So, how’s your week been,” says Cattan to the gentleman Jim, on the couch. Jim reports progress on making a new life for himself, with plans to end that non-working relationship, to sell his house, and possibly move to another town. Across the room, Jennifer gives him a big smile. The week before she had challenged Jim with, “Don’t come back here until you stand up for yourself.” Nearby, Serina is aglow with how well her mom is dealing with her dialysis after dealing with cancer. Serina had earlier shared rescuing her mother after she fell, by calling 911, how she feels “equipped to handle emergencies.” Serena, herself, in her early 50’s, was “rescued” by her parents from a mental institution, and was experiencing a more accepting mother. Dr. T. as Tamerin is called, says she’s “come a long way” from at first being at odds with her parents. “So, how do you feel

Every Wednesday at noon for an hour and a half they come for of support from their peers with insight from Dr. John Tamerin, psychiatrist, and Mary Cattan, pastoral psychotherapist. about yourself now?” he asks. She answers, “I am feeling dignity, honor and gratitude.” M a r t h a , w h o ’s a t t e n d e d the group since her husband’s death four years ago, reaches out to nearby Jane for news of her alcoholic daughter-in-crisis. “So, how did things go?” Dr. T had suggested to Jane she take Mark - one of the group’s success stories with his recovery from major depression - with her on her next visit to her daughter for encouragement for her daughter to get help with her drinking. “The visit went well and Mark was great to give his time,” Jane shares. But she reported no change with her daughter seeking help. “You did what you could,” says Dr. T. who

often advises taking action. Dr. T. is better k now n for hosting a Friday af ternoon support group for decades for those with bipolar and depression in his backcountry home, also for free. But he saw the need for another kind of support group with “integrated psychological and spiritual elements to address the emotional pain that so many people feel but which often leaves them feeling isolated or perhaps embarrassed to discuss openly and comfortably with others.” He knocked on Christ Church Greenwich’s door where Mary Cattan served as Spiritual Director, and the group was created three and a half years ago. “John is a spiritual person,”

says Cattan. So, in the group, “Spirituality is welcomed, but not pushed.” And with Cattan came the candle she lights to kick off the meeting. “We’re in this human experience together, all the way - we’re shedding light on ourselves. We need our masks in the world but we also need a place to take off our masks for who we are underneath, a place where we can share the tender parts of ourselves, the things we’re concerned about.” Jennifer is divorced and in a new relationship after 14 years and has been with the group since its inception. “Instead of talking with a girlfriend I get different people’s reactions and points of view. If they all say the same thing, that helps. Dr. T brings everyone into the discussion. You talk about things you never thought about… that you’re dealing with. I shared my dog dying. I was coming to the group crying, hysterically.” Jen n i fer “ love s t he spi r it ua l aspect” of the group. Jim, who has a bit of a drive to attend the group, has been coming for a year, but early on in his life had benefitted from Dr. T’s counsel. He cites the “great diversity” in the group. “There are people excelling and people struggling. Dr. T. has given all of us a place to be humans.” He adds, “There are a lot of robotic people going around on autopilot, not sharing their life.” He’s thankful the group is gratis “I don’t have the

funds to pay for individual therapy sessions.” “I call it life support,” is how M a r t h a de s c r i b e s t he g r oup during a visit at her Greenwich condominium. The newly widowed Martha had received “p h e n om e n a l s upp or t ” f r om the group, especially from that “young man in the financial world. He offered to go for a walk with me. He gave me emotional and physical help.” Martha also has an adult daughter with special needs. She gets help “drawing the line” with her daughter’s behavior,” and support for “taking care of self.” Martha voiced praise of Mark’s support on the fourth anniversary of her husband’s death. Out for lunch with her daughter at her daughter’s favorite diner, Mark a r r ive d w it h h e r d au g hte r ’s “favorite sandwich.” “I’m the reach out ambassador,” Mark offered to this reporter at the last group meeting. Mark readily shares how both Dr. T’s Friday group and the Wednesday support group saved his life.” He now spends much of his time (when not as Uber driver) working with/for people with emotional needs. He sees the Wednesday Support Group offering a “commonality of the human struggle.” “At first it was called the pain group,” he says, but with joys often shared, that name was dropped. His elected name he says with a smile is “Friends of Martha group,” for Martha’s warm

welcoming of newcomers. Mark has learned, “If you come into the group, lead by example – show people how to share, that crying is courageous. That’s what Dr. T wants to tease out of people. You need to share your vulnerability. People who open up soon realize they belong.” Cattan cites the group size as varying from half a dozen to 16 or 17 at most. “Their ages are from 18 to 80. People come and go,” she says, but, “People get more out of it if they stay with it. They come with life issues, people preparing to die.” Martha told of a woman in her 80’s ill with cancer, brought by her daughters to the group, being asked by Dr. T. to share her “phenomenal story.” At her death the group attended her funeral. “People a re lonely i n th is world,” Cattan tells. “They are lonely locked inside their houses, locked inside their hearts.” Dr. T. called the g roup an “outpost. “There’s a need for other churches and synagogues to have similar support groups,” he says. “People feel isolated. They need peer support. People don’t come to enhance their ego. To me that’s spiritual. I feel it’s a very spiritual place.” Reporter’s note: Some names and details have been changed to protect identities. For more information on the Wednesday Support Group call Mary Cattan at 203-862-9161.

Renewed Skin for Winter On the Menu at The Collagen Bar

By Michelle Moskowitz One popular yet hidden spot in town is committed to helping its clients achieve great, healthy looking skin with its breakthrough skincare treatments specifically desig ned to regenerate and replenish collagen in the skin. Since 2016, The Collagen Bar (TCB), a medical and aesthetic skincare clinic -- has pioneered a n a l l-n at u ra l , non-i nv a sive technolog y treatment system designed to lift and improve skin

texture, repair sun damage and slow down the aging process. “I’ve always liked the idea of opening a skincare clinic that was focused on rebuilding collagen in the skin without the use of injectables or surgery,” said Diana Seo, Founder and President of TCB, who dons glowing, ageless looking skin herself. According to Dermalinstitute.com, both women and men lose one percent of their collagen level each year after age 30. This loss is what leads to sagging skin, dryness, fine lines

and wrinkles – all the culprits that lead to aging, dull-looking skin. TCB, located at 1 Perryridge Road (across from the Hospital) shares an office space with Dr. E d w a r d J a c o b s o n , a b o a r dcertif ied gynecologist who has been in private practice in Greenwich and NYC for over 30 years. “The visible signs of aging are inevitable, “said Seo, “but I got inspired to open TCB when Dr. Jacobson approached me about ways to com bat ag ing on the outside while he focused on the

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Diana Seo, Founder and President of TCB week. When asked about the use of Botox and injectables, Seo says she not entirely against it but adds that when someone starts using fillers, it becomes hard to stop. “I think people should delay the use of fillers until later on or use less if they have already started. But our customized program complements both who are getting fillers or can act as alternatives as well.” Seo recommends a series of scheduled treatments (both for face and body) spaced evenly apart in order to achieve optimal results. The most surprising factor since opening her business is “that more a nd more women do not wa nt to have su rger y or u s e i nje c t a ble s , t hey ju st want to f ind ways of achieving healthy, youthful looking skin regardless of their age, skin type or background.” The best advice Seo can offer one of these years," Litvack said with a laugh. "During my two years, and that's all I know, you've been terrific in every way to me. We've had some disagreements, we both have to acknowledge that. But the truth is, we have gotten along a heck of a lot more than we disagreed." Tesei then acknowledged the professional staff at Town Hall for their service and help during his tenure in office. "As elected officials, we come to the positions with delineated responsibilities to administer, lead, initiate, collaborate and build consensus. That's all been an integral part of what I've done these last 12 years. But I didn't do it alone. I did it with other elected officials and I did it with our professional staf f," Tesei

other entrepreneurs in the beauty field is, “Just try to be as adaptable as you can and never stop learning or growing.” Seo’s top beauty tips include staying hydrated by drink ing ample amounts of water; eating more greens and vegetables like kale and avocados; getting at least 7-8 hours of sleep per night to heal the skin; follow the less is more concept when it comes to cleansing the face and use of products, never go to bed with make-up on, and do not stay in the sun without SPF even for 10 minutes. “Balance is the key to achieving a healthy lifestyle as well as healthy skin.” TCB also has an office in NYC located at 39 West 56th Street. To learn more about TCB visit thecollagenbar.com. To schedule a complimentary consultation, email info@thecollagenbar.com or call (914) 417–9874. said. " These are people who signed on to do public service. They have my deepest respect a nd ad m i ration. They rea l ly have helped to keep Greenwich a desirable community." Tesei specifically mentioned To w n A d m i n i s t r a t o r, B e n Branyan, Executive Assistant, Barbara Heins, and the town's Senior Management A nalyst, Blaize Levitan. As Tesei decelerates out of off ice, Camillo is accelerating into the position. Tesei noted that he attended a meeting with Camillo and departmental staff last week at Town Hall. Camillo had the chance to meet about 25 departmental heads from across t he tow n. Ca m i l lo w i l l have several more meetings leading up to his swearing-in.

SPORTS

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History Made! Sacred Heart Claims NEPSAC Class A Title By Paul R. Silverfarb The Sacred Heart Greenwich field hockey team capped off its memorable season in historic fashion Sunday afternoon. The Tigers, competing in the highly talented New England Prep School Athletic Conference tournament as the top seed in Class A, beat third-seeded Tabor Academy 2-1 in the championship game to bring home the school’s first ever New England title. “Once it was off icial that we won the game, I felt an incredible amount of pride in our team,” said senior co-captain Sydney Gallop. “All season, we hoped to win the NESPAC league and we knew in our hearts that we could do it. Especially with such a small team, we had so much faith in ourselves and each other that it was euphoric f inally being able to reach our dreams.” For Sacred Heart Greenwich head coach Alexandru Gheorghe, the moment the clock ran out and celebration began was something he won’t ever forget. “It was incredible,” he said. “It was always our main goal and finally we were able to achieve that goal.” Although Sacred Heart ended the game golden, the start was far from desirable. Tabor Academy found the back of the net with six minutes to play in the first half and held a 1-0 lead midway through the second. With 12:51 to play in the game, it was the Tiger’s Caroline Nemec that knotted the contest. She took the corner opportunity pass from

The Sacred Heart Greenwich field hockey team celebrates winning the NEPSAC class A championship Sunday afternoon. Beth Yaeger and f ired the shot at point blank range to open the scoring for SHG. And it was Yaeger that closed out the contest in dramatic fashion. Sacred Heart finished the game with 20 corner opportunities, but it was the one with 1:21 to play in the game that struck gold. Nemec gained possession of the ball in the middle of the crease and passed to Yaeger to the right of the Tabor goalie. Yaeger then blasted a shot that gave the Tigers a 2-1 lead. “ B e i n g a N E P SAC C l a s s A champion feels so rewarding,” senior co-captain Morgan Smith. “Our team worked so hard to claim this title and I am so proud of everything we have accomplished this season. Even though half of our team is new, either freshmen or transfers, we really became

a cohesive unit as the season progressed. Being able to call ourselves NEPSAC champions is something that we take great pride in and we hope to be holding onto the brown for many years to come.” And with the victory, the Tigers f inished its season with a 19-1 overall record and an impressive championship trophy that athletic director Liz Dennison, along with the f ield hockey team, will be proudly displaying. According to Dennison, “They absolutely did the work that it took to get there. To see them achieve their goal and this accomplishment that Sacred Heart has never done before in field hockey was a real special moment, both for them and the whole school." “It was a great season,” Gheorghe said. “We scored over 100 goals and

outscored our opponents by close to 45 goals. It was a great season and I am so proud of this team.” And helping the team get to where they finished were its two captains, Smith and Gallop. “They were great captains,” Gheorg he said. “They have different personalities and work together really well. They kept the team together and kept the dynamic together. They managed everything both on and off the field and kept on pushing the team hard.” Gallop said that since she started on the team her freshman year with Smith, the two captains have been working hard towards achieving the goal of one day hoisting the NEPSAC championship trophy over their heads. “I think our biggest advantage

this year was the mentality with which we addressed every game,” Gallop said. “Because Morgan and I were on a team that did not even qualify for the NEPSAC tournament during our freshman year, we really wanted to make sure that every player on our team knew how much it would take mentally to achieve this goal.” Smith said that with a small roster and a lot of new girls to the team, she wasn’t sure how the season would shake out. She was hoping that her senior year wouldn’t be a rebuilding year. But it was after the team’s opening game of the season, a 7-0 contest against School of the Holy Child, that she started to change her mind. “From scorching hot temperatures in late August all the way until the beginning of November, we worked hard every day on becoming one unit and working together as a team,” Smith said. “We made sure that passing was emphasized throughout the season and the idea that assists were more important than goals themselves.” The way the Tigers were able to rebound was something that made the season even more special. Sacred Heart ran the table during the regular season and cruised through the Fairchester Athletic Association tournament. However in the championship game against crosstow n r iva l Greenw ich Academy, it was the Gators that picked up the road victory and conference championship. Instead of crushing their season and letting the disappointing loss to GA ruin their season, Sacred Heart

regrouped and came up huge in the NEPSAC tournament. Against Taft in the quarterfinals, the Tigers dominated cruising to a 7-0 victory. That set up a contest against Westminster in the semifinals and a SHG win 3-1. “The consistency in which this team performed was def initely impressive,” Dennison said. “It’s really hard to do that every day with everything you’re managing as a student-athlete.” The victory against Westminster set up their contest against Tabor in the championship game. “That loss against Greenwich Academy was a turning point to our season,” Gheorghe said. “We realized that we were not perfect and that we have things to improve on. We were able to fight for it. We realized that the only chance we had winning a championship was to win the New Englands.” The v ic tor y aga i n st Ta b or to claim the New England championship proves that the process at Sacred Heart Greenwich has been paying off. In addition to having a top-level varsity team that plays some of the top teams in the country, and strong varsity B team, the program has also benefitted from expanding to the lower school and the ability to play on a beautiful field hockey turf field that was built a few years ago. “My goal as athletic director is to really have a view of our program, from fifth grade through varsity,” Dennison said. “It’s a progression to get where we are right now,” Dennison added. “It doesn’t take one season and it doesn’t happen overnight.”

Cheshire Ends Big Red’s Streak as Cards Place Second

By Paul R. Silverfarb

All good things must come to an end. Despite countless top times and outstanding swims up and down the roster, the Greenwich High School girls’ swimming and diving team’s streak of taking home Connecticut Interscholastic Ath letic Con ference class L L championships came to an end. Chesh ire H ig h School took home the gold during Tuesday’s finals, posting a score of 655. The Lady Cardinals ended the night a close second place, posting a score of 586. “It was a g reat meet,” said G r e e nw ich H ig h he ad c o a ch Lorrie Hokayem. “A lot of kids had some best times today and I am really proud of their performances. They swam with a lot of pride and with a lot of heart. We swam like a team and it was a good day for us overall. Hats off to Cheshire. They are a phenomenal team and are very deep. They will do really well at Opens.” Staples High School grabbed the bronze with a score of 475, while Glastonbury took home fourth overall with 469. Rounding out the top f ive was Hall High School, as they scored 362. “We are upset that we didn’t win, but I think everybody swam great,” said junior Meghan Lynch. “Everyone should be really happy with that. I am hoping that people can go even faster at Opens.” Despite second place tea m score at the CIAC class LL finals, saying that it has been a decade of dominance for Big Red would be an understatement. Back in 2009, Cheshire took home the CIAC class LL championship but since then it has been all Greenwich, winning in 2010 and every year until this season. During Tuesday night’s class LL finals, held at the Wesleyan University pool, a plethora of GHS athletes stepped up their performances in a big way. It was junior Meghan Lynch t h a t s t o l e t h e s h o w e a r l y. C o m p e t i n g i n t h e 2 0 0 -y a r d individual medley, Lynch batted once again against Trumbull’s Lauren Walsh. Walsh was the same swimmer that edged out Lynch at the FCIAC finals for the top swim. However this time it was Lynch that dominated. Her

Greenwich High’s Samantha Ennis competes in the 200-yard individual medley during Tuesday’s CIAC class LL finals. (Paul Silverfarb photo)

time of 1:59.13 not only beat Walsh (2:01.82), but it was a class LL record and the fastest Connecticut swim ever in that event. “I was really happy with my race in the 200,” Lynch said. I knew that I was going to have some go o d comp et it ion w it h Lauren. She beat me in FCIACs and it was really fun competing a g a i n s t h e r a g a i n . I t ’s n i c e having a little rivalry. It gets your adrenaline going and helps you swim faster. It’s fun.” Lynch also took to the pool in the 100-yard breaststroke. This time it was Walsh that exacted revenge from earlier in the meet, as the Trumbull swimmer barely edged out Lynch and posted a top time of 1:02.40. Lynch touched the wall second with a time of 1:02.57. “Meghan had two great swims and I think she should be really happy with both of them,” said Hokayem. “It was her best time in the 200-IM and right on her best time in the 100-breast. She’s such a tough competitor and I am excited to see what she can do at Opens. It was a great meet for her.” Another class LL champion for Greenwich High was senior Saylor Kirsch. Competing a few days prior at the CIAC class LL diving finals at East Hartford High School, it was Kirsch that stood out above the rest. Her score of 443.75 placed her tops in LL. The next closest was a familiar face, as fellow GHS senior Regina Frias grabbed the silver with a score of 436.15. Not to be outdone was GHS senior diver Casey Kirsch, as she

was the third top five finisher for the Cards, placing fourth overall with a score of 382.55. Rounding out the divers for Big Red was Javiera Garcia, as the freshman finished 11th overall with a score of 350.95. “Our divers are having quite the season,” Hokayem said. “We are so fortunate to have great divers. We have three seniors and they really shined this week. I know they are really looking for ward to Opens. They have done such a great job setting an example for the younger core of divers that we have. They were really sharp at the end of the season, just like we expected.” Having herself quite the meet during the CIAC class LL finals was ju n ior Sa ma nt ha En n is. She competed in the 100-yard backstroke and nearly was golden. Ennis touched the wall second overall, posting a time of 56.26 seconds. Staples High’s Esme Hunter was just faster by mere inches, as her gold medal time was 56.23. Ennis also competed in the 200-yard individual medley and her time of 2:10.14 edged out Cheshire’s Julianna Tyler, who took fourth overall. Sophomore Caterina Li had a memorable performance in the 100-yard breaststroke, as she touched the wall with a time of 1:07.13 that was good enough for the bronze. Earlier in the meet, the sophomore was top 10 in the 200-yard individual medley, posting a time of 2:09.72 that gave her ninth overall. Although she was competing i n he r f i r s t C I AC cl a s s L L

championship meet, freshman Victor ia L iu d id n’t show a ny nerves. Battling in the longest event of the night, the 500-yard freestyle, the GHS freshman took home seventh overall with a time of 5:14.65, nearly three seconds f a s te r t h a n t he eig ht h-plac e competitor and was less than onehalf a second away from sixth. Liu also took part in the 200yard freestyle and was just as strong. Her time of 1:56.98 was good enough for eighth overall. “ The te a m d id g re at to day and a lot of people got some best times, so I am really proud of how the team did today,” Liu said.

“I did the best that I could today and I am still very happy with my times.” Competing in her f inal class LL meet was Jenna Handali. She battled in the quickest event of the night, the 50-yard freestyle and finished 13th overall with a time of 25.25. Handali fared better in her later event, the 100-yard freestyle as she netted a time of 54.40 that was good enough for the silver in the B final and 10th overall. Joining Handali in the 100yard freestyle was Lilly Bjerke, as the GHS junior ended the night seventh in the B final with a time of 55.23. Battling in two events was Big Red’s Julia Lucey. In the 500-yard freestyle event, Lucey touched the wall 12th overall and grabbed a time of 5:20.71. In the 200-yard individual medley, Lucey was top 15 overall, posting a time of 2:14.95 that placed her 14th overall. A nother solid individual showing came from sophomore Isabella Malchow. Her time of 1:00.4 8 was good enoug h for 13th on the night. But she was a fingernail distance away from 12th, as Ridgefield’s Riley Riebling finished with a time of 1:00.45. “Our younger swimmers really stepped up for us,” said Hokayem. “They have been stepping up

the whole season. We have a pretty young core of a team and I thought they performed really well today.” Big Red’s relays also stepped up their games in a big way The 200-yard medley relay team of Ennis, Ly nch, Li and Handali got the meet started in grand fashion, as the foursome combined for a top score of 1:46.20 and was nearly a second quicker than Cheshire. Heading into the meet, GH S was see de d t h i rd overall and nearly took off two seconds from trials. “ T h a t w a s a g r e a t s w i m ,” Hokayem said. “Everybody had a best split and it was a great way to start the meet. I think it got everybody fired up and moving in the right direction. It was a nice swim and I am hoping we can be a little faster at Opens. Another solid performance was with the 400-yard freestyle relay, as the team of Lynch, Handali, Liu and Li finished the last event of the evening with the silver overall and grabbed a time of 3:33.35. In the 200-yard freestyle relay, the GHS team of Ennis, Bjerke, Liu and sophomore Emma Robinson finished sixth overall and took home a time of 1:40.74 and just missed beating Amity (1:40.38).

HIGH S CHOO L S CO RE BOARD

Below are results from the previous few games for athletic teams from Greenwich High, Brunswick, Sacred Heart and Greenwich Academy. The home team is on the right and the team that was victorious is highlighted in bold:

BOYS' SOCCER Greenwich High 4 vs. East Hartford High 2 Greenwich High 2 vs. Hamden High 1 Greenwich High 3 vs. Farmington High 2

FOOTBALL Ridgefield High 7 vs. Greenwich High 27 Governor's Academy 12 vs. Brunswick School 19 GIRLS' VOLLEYBALL Darien High 0 vs. Greenwich High 3 Trumbull High 3 vs. Greenwich High 0 FIELD HOCKEY Hotchkiss School 1 vs. Greenwich Academy 0

Greenwich High 1 vs. Hall High 0 Greenwich High 0 vs. Ridgefield High 1 Taft School 0 vs. Sacred Heart 7 Westminster School 1 vs. Sacred Heart 3 Tabor Academy 1 vs. Sacred Heart 2

GIRLS' SWIMMING & DIVING GHS: ?? place at CIAC Class LL Championships

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$399,000 $475,000 $549,000 $549,000 $599,000 $799,000 $1,050,000 $920,000 $1,450,000 $1,265,000 $1,549,000 $1,595,000 $1,695,000 $2,675,000 $3,500,000

$390,000 $450,000 $480,000 $523,000 $557,500 $777,500 $830,000 $905,000 $1,200,000 $1,265,000 $1,430,000 $1,522,000 $1,695,000 $2,545,000 $3,400,000

767 1,125 1,292 1,280 1,464 1,580 2,992 1,741 3,605 2,868 4,533 5,177 2,644 4,222 7,035

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7 River Road Slip E-8 1465 Putnam Avenue 111 57 Center Drive 7 Buxton Lane 42 Indian Field Road 38 Ridge Road 18 Armstrong Lane 4 Mountain Laurel Drive 44 Patterson Avenue 14 Marlow Court 9 Field Point Circle 45 Field Point Circle

$89,000 $410,000 $795,000 $980,000 $985,000 $1,687,500 $2,300,000 $2,595,000 $6,975,000 $8,975,000 $11,800,000 $14,900,000

$458 $615 $487 $371 $545 $936 $462 $809 $1,980 $2,583 $1,583

896 1,292 2,012 2,654 3,096 2,458 5,613 8,625 4,532 4,569 9,411

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By Mark Pruner Last year 45 homes sold in backcountry Greenwich. This year it looks like we will end the year with around 58 sales. We already have 49 sales so far this year. With 9 contracts waiting to close including one with a list price $12

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Address 89 Loughlin Avenue 27 Elskip Lane 40 W Elm Street 4K 16 Tod Lane 1465 E Putnam Avenue 327 1465 E Putnam Avenue 111 54 Nicholas Avenue 7 Upland Street East 89 Loughlin Avenue 51 Forest Avenue 36 63 Wildwood Drive 1 Mansion Place 40 Crescent Road 14 Rockview Drive 27 Elskip Lane 16 Tod Lane 77 Indian Harbor Drive A 40 W Elm Street 4K 1 Ford Lane 378 Taconic Road 1 Widgeon Way 95 Indian Head Road 16 Boulder Brook Road 29 Glen Avon Drive 27 Evergreen Road 27 Evergreen Road

Area Cos Cob Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Old Greenwich Old Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Cos Cob Old Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Riverside Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Old Greenwich Greenwich Greenwich Riverside Greenwich Riverside Greenwich Greenwich

Price $5,500 $6,800 $6,950 $8,250 $385,000 $410,000 $529,000 $699,000 $850,000 $999,500 $1,295,000 $1,395,000 $1,397,000 $1,495,000 $1,575,000 $1,849,000 $1,880,000 $1,950,000 $2,087,500 $2,950,000 $2,995,000 $3,495,000 $3,999,000 $4,995,000 $5,150,000 $5,150,000

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Broker Greenwich CT Luxury William Raveis Coldwell Banker Coldwell Banker Berkshire Hathaway Coldwell Banker Houlihan Lawrence Berkshire Hathaway Greenwich CT Luxury William Raveis Coldwell Banker William Raveis Berkshire Hathaway Coldwell Banker William Raveis Coldwell Banker Coldwell Banker Coldwell Banker Berkshire Hathaway Coldwell Banker Coldwell Banker Berkshire Hathaway William Raveis Houlihan Lawrence Berkshire Hathaway Berkshire Hathaway

Backcountry Sales Up 29% million dollars the last month and half should be a good one. Now all 9 contracts might not close by year end, but for each one that doesn’t close we may well get an all-cash deal that isn’t presently under contract that will close before year end. For the people that actually like good news, our average price per square foot is up 9% in backcountry. Our sales price to assessment ratio is also up 2% compared to last year’s ratio. None of this get’s reported in the Wall Street Journal, the National Review or even in the Greenwich Time’s front page article entitled “Sales still slump for backcountry homes”. All three stories came about because Regis Philbin bought a beautiful home in 2008 for $7.2

million dollars and he has recently listed it for $4.595 million. This one property has come to define the market to readers outside of Greenwich, but anecdotes don’t make a market. Had these reporters really wanted to bash Greenwich, they could have used the drop in the average sales price over the last two year, which is down 14.5% from $3.8 million to $3.2 million. Our median sales price is down 13.2% from

planned for when they visited the house. If buyers are going to buy in backcountry, they really like the house to be in good shape. Half of all the high-end houses in Greenwich are in backcountry, many of which are owned by well know people. These are the ones that get the attention in the national press. The oft repeated shibboleth is that we have a mismatch between what today’s buyers want compared to what was built in the go-go

We actua lly have more of a problem selling 20th century houses that need work than we do selling, 21st century houses don’t have today’s homier, open floor plan. Now having said that they are still a tough sell. High-end houses, with lots of square footage, that need work, or don’t have today’s style in the backcountry are difficult to sell and are selling at a big discount to what they were sold for at the peek of market prices in 2009. For the

prices. (Parkway school had to add another kindergarten class recently.) As mentioned before these houses are not below average. What you can get for $1.8 million i n backcou nt r y compa r e d to $1.8 million in downtown or Old Greenwich is amazing. Many people who grew up on larger properties really appreciate having more room for their activities and family. These houses are such values that they compare very well to building from scratch. Having said that people who really want their own home are building exactly what they want in backcountry where issues like siting, amenities and guest houses are much easier to get through town departments. Right now, backcountry is going through major changes, which are often wrenching changes for those that bought in the late digits. Buyers however are finding great bargains and interestingly some of the most

$2.68 million to $2.33 million, both of these numbers are indicators, but not good indicators of what prices are doing in backcountry Greenwich. The reason they are not good indicators is that higher sales in backcountry have brought average prices down, since the increased sales are mostly from $1 - 3 million. The result is that increased sales of below average homes are bringing down both the average and the median sales price in backcountry. (These houses are not otherwise below average houses, but more about that later.) So, prices are down, and sales are up, which is basic supply and demand. Prices have reached the point where people are seeing good bargains in backcountry and they are buying. I’ve sold three houses in backcountry this year compared to none last year. Among the three houses there were 8 offers in total. None of the sales were easy and several times I was glad I’d been a real estate lawyer for 14 years before becoming a real estate agent. Buyers are driving hard bargains and you have to know when to push back. On the other side, I had two buyers walk away from accepted offers, when the inspection showed more work than they had

digits decade of this century. There is some truth to that, living large in a big English manor house or Georgian is not as popular as it was before the recession. Having said that, these houses sell better than old high-end houses. In the last three years we have had 22 houses sell for more than $5 million in backcountry of those 22 houses, 12 or 54% were built in this century with only 5 being built after the recession.

old timers who have lived here for many years, they are seeing sales prices that are multiples of what they paid for their house originally. You also can’t paint backcountry w it h a broad-br ush. Even i n backcountry houses over $5 million only represent 28% of the inventory. Under $1 million we have only one house, which means that 71% of our market is between $1 and 5 million. Much of that market is seeing good buyer activity at today’s lower

distant houses along the New York borders are attracting people due to the resurgent night-life in Armonk and an excellent community theater in Bedford. In a couple of years some folks will be kicking themselves that they didn’t buy when they could. Mark Pruner is a real estate agent with Berkshire Hathaway and member of it’s President Circle. He can be reached at 203-969-7900 or by email at mark@bhhsne.com.

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By Richard Kaufman With the holidays quick ly approaching, it's once again time for Antiquarius, a premier holiday event which attracts not only Greenwich residents, but those from across the region. This year, the event has a bold new look, with the unifying theme of "Animal Instincts" which will be brought to life by Bronson van Wyck, a world-renowned event planner, who will serve as the honorary design chair on Opening Nig ht, Dec. 6, at the Easter n Greenw ich Civ ic Center. The Winter Antiques Show takes place from Dec. 7-8 at the EGCC, and the annual Holiday House Tour returns on Dec. 11. The multi-faceted event serves as the primary fundraiser for the Greenwich Historical Society and its programs, since the GHS gets no funding from the town. G H S E xe c u t i ve D i r e c t o r, Debra Mecky, highlighted the importance of Antiquarius to the historical society. "It's about really providing e s s ent ia l supp or t s o we c a n continue to serve our essential functions," Mecky said. "We're a great resource for teachers to be able to give students experiences that really deepen their understanding of their history. Our archives and librar y are really growing and we're in the midst of a serious effort to really expand the amount of materials that are online that people can

enter t a i n i ng ha s at t rac te d a clientele featuring the likes of Presidents Clinton, Bush and Obama, as well as Holly wood figures, people from Wall Street and leading luxury brands. "Bronson van Wyck is world renowned for his multi-sensory experience with events. He likes to engage his guests the minute you walk into the room, not just with your sight, but what you're smelling and hearing. He loves leav ing g uests wanting more and constantly surprised," said Victoria Bruzzese, Senior Special Events Manager for the GHS. "We're excited to see what he does with the civic center." T he Hol id ay Hou s e Tou r, which has become a tradition in Greenwich for over 30 years, will take place on Dec. 11 from 10 a.m., to 4 p.m. This year's tour features

A scene from the Antiquarius Winter Antiques Show. tap into. We have some important things that we're hoping to do for the community." Opening Night for Antiquarius will take place on Dec. 6 from 6-9 p.m., at the EGCC. Guests will have the chance to tour and shop the Greenwich Winter Antiques Show before it opens to the public (open to public Dec. 7, 10 a.m., to 6 p.m., and Dec. 8, 11 a.m., to 5 p.m.), a nd me et over 4 0 nat iona l ly recognized exhibitors featuring f ine art, marine art, estate jewelry, American and continental

furniture, prints, luxury handbags and more from the 18th century to the mid-20th century. Greenwich designers Charlotte Barnes and Pamela Frisoli of Trovare Home, and Patrick Mele will also be showcased. Fo r t h o s e w h o p u r c h a s e Patron tickets for Opening Night, they'll be treated to an intimate presentation f rom va n Wyck beginning at 6 p.m., on holiday entertaining, and a personally signed copy of his book titled Born to Party: Forced to Work. Va n Wyc k 's s t y l e o f

The annual Holiday House Tour is a tradition.

five homes. "They're not necessarily all historic, but they all have an interesting point of view," said Catherine Tompkins, co-chair of the GHS Board of Trustees. " T h e c o l l e c t i o n r e a l l y g i ve s everyone a nice overview of the different ways that people live in the community. We have some really spectacular homes in the community, and I would say this year's tour is no exception." Bruzzese added that the house tour brings in people from all over the tristate area. "It gives them a peek into how people live and celebrate the holidays here in Greenwich," she said. Overall, there are about 200 volunteers who work to put on Antiquarius, all to benef it the GHS, a treasure in the town of Greenwich. "Gr e enw ich ha s a u n iq ue and outstanding award winning, national recognized historical society. It's not common in every town and every community to have something on this scale, level and quality," Mecky said. “We have educational programs which are sought by people not only in Greenwich, but outside of our community and region because they don't have access to this kind of programming in their own communities." For complete details and information on Antiquarius and how to purchase tickets , go to greenwichhistory.org/antiquarius.

Chamber Players: Good Things Come in Threes By Linda Phillips In the presentation “Out of the Salon,” The Chamber Players of the Greenwich Symphony, all first chairs of that orchestra, created a compelling program in which three players at a time (not always the same combination) were featured in each piece. Stemming from the Latin ”omne trium perfectum" the principle of three suggests that things that come in threes are inherently more humorous, satisf y ing a nd ef fective tha n any other number, which was confirmed at this performance. Christine Boies, President of the Chamber Players, welcomed guests to the musical party. Always an intimate concert that features interesting works, often by lesser known composers, the music was introduced by the players in conversations with the audience .Opening with The String Trio, op. 48 by Mieczyshal Weinberg, David Creswell, violist, told the audience that Weinberg, a Russian, often collaborated with Shostakovich, and was considered the third greatest Russian composer after him and Prokof iev. The tr io comprised violinist Susan Hytken Metcalf, violist David Creswell, and cellist Daniel Miller, who opened with a strong theme, underscored

by pizzicato in violin and viola. Hints of atonality and anguish were in the rapid Allegro con molto, which yielded to a quiet song in violin, going on to a mazurka-like dance, a pizzicato creating chords.. In Andante, a threnody in violin was joined by viola, atonality and emotion melding In counterpoint, the cello confirming the quiet angst. The concluding Moderato assai was a bit dreary, a throbbing viola as the violin and cello conspired in a movement with roots in Russian music, beautifully done by the three artists, who received loud applause. Romanesque by Rey naldo Hahn, scored for f lute, violin and piano was introduced by pianist Andrew Gordon. Hahn, the work ing in Paris, was h a n d s o m e a n d wo rl d l y, a n d drew his friends from a wide circle, befriending Marcel Proust and Sarah Bernhardt, and was greatly interested in the literary scene as well as the theater.He eventually directed the Paris Opera. Flutist Susan Rotholz addressed the audience about the work itself, a short piece in which piano, viola and f lute seemed to be collaborating on Irish folk tunes, David Creswell adding viola harmony and statements. Composer Gabriel Perne’s Sonata da Camera was a short

to cello, with pizzicato plinking in v iolin. It was sou lf u l, and beautifully played. The closing Allegretto was yearning, searching, with heart and soulfulness, all captured by the musicians. As it went to minor key, hearts could not help but swell!. There were grandiose octaves in piano and some counterpoint before a n accelera ndo to the dramatic ending. All the musicians were brought on stage and received a standing ovation and bravos. The next performance of the Chamber players "Unabashed O r ig i n a l s" w i l l b e on M a r ch 15-16, 2020, celebrating three unique voices and Beethoven’s bicentennial in a concert of music for clarinet, string quartet and Chamber Players from the balcony at their Round Hill Community Church performance. piano. For information, go to www. greenwichsymphony.org/chamberromp for piano, flute and cello, with concert pianist before her marriage Menuetto,, the v iolin opened players-greenwich-symphony an antic, joyous Allegro, leading to Robert, found the time to write in 3/4 time. Sad but tuneful, in to a Scherzo with pizzicato cello this in a house w ith 3 young minor key, the sweet melody was Linda Phillips’ classical music opening, the f lute scampering. children as she was expecting a established in violin, the cello reviews have won four “Best Column Pianist G ordon showed hand 4th, as related by Andrew Gordon. taking the lead in this excellently of th e Ye a r” awa rd s f rom th e over hand technique, and the The violin of Susan Metcalf stated interpreted performance. Connecticut Press Club, and have racing, playful ending had us the theme in Allegro Moderato, The A nda nte w a s tender, been nominated for the Pulitzer Prize wondering is Ms. Rotholz was a echoed in piano, which was scored w i t h p i a n o o p e n i n g , t h e in Criticism. She is the author of descendant of Pan!? The audience beautifully by composer Clara violin answering. the novel, “To The Highest Bidder,” applauded enthusiastically for a Schumann, going to minor key Much of this piece is in 3/4 nominated for a Pulitzer Prize in charming performance. and ending in a dramatic climax t i me , wh ich sug ge sts da nce , fiction. The Piano Trio in G Minor with cello. with a formality about the sonata by Clara Schumann, a celebrated I n S c h e r z o , T e m p o d i structure. The melody moved

ASOG’s Holiday Sale The Art Society of Old Greenwich announces the 2019 Hol id ay A r t Show a nd S a le , wh ich w i l l t a ke place at t he Gertrude White Gallery, YWCA of Greenwich, from Dec. 2 to 27. The show will offer fine artworks created by ASOG’s member artists. All artworks, in a variety of media, will be available for purchase. The public is invited to the artists’ reception and holiday

party on Friday, Dec. 6, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Come view the artworks, meet the artists, and enjoy live entertainment provided by Dan Swartz (of Kismet). Refreshments will be served. While the Holiday show is an ASOG member’s only show, any artist can join ASOG and submit a n a r t work du r i ng receiv i ng hours, Sunday, Dec. 1, 9 to 11 a.m. The fee for a new membership is

$50, for a full member, or $20, for high school or college students, and covers membership through Dec. 31, 2020. Interested artists can view submission details at: asogct.com/holiday-show The Gertrude White Gallery, YWCA of Greenwich is located at 259 East Putnam Ave. For gallery hours, please call the YWCA of Greenwich at 203-869-6501.

‘A Christmas Carol’ The Department of Parks and Recreation announces that it will be showing the play “A C h r i s t m a s C a r o l ” at t h e Bendheim Western Greenwich Civic Center Monday, Dec. 9 from 4 to 5 p.m. Tickets are $7 per person. This program is geared to ch i ld ren i n K i nderga r ten through 6th grades and will be presented by the Hampstead

Stage Company. The Hampstead Stage Company was formed over thirty years ago. It is named after the area of London from which the founders hail. Since its inception it has g row n into one of the la rgest nationa l educationa l touring companies, which p er for m over t wo t housa nd shows a year, for over twenty

million audience members. For tickets, go to greenwichct.org/webtrac. Mailin and walk-in tickets on sale at the Western Greenwich Civic Center. For more information, visit greenwichct.gov, call 203-5321 259 or stop by the Western Greenwich Civic Center.

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Resident to Set Sail on Environmental Voyage

Jeanine Behr Getz will sail on the S.V. TravelEdge from Nov. 23-26.

By Richard Kaufman When Jeanine Behr Getz was little, she would visit her grandparents in the Adirondacks, and often row out to a small island with her cousins on an adventure to explore. One wou ld t h i n k t hat w it h a l l the natural beauty located within the Adirondack Region, there'd be virtually no noticeable pollution. However, Getz would find litter, and she took the time to clean up her surroundings. That exposure to the wilderness at an early age had an impact on Getz, who

has since dedicated her life to preserving and helping the environment; she was a founding member of BYO Greenwich, the organization that led the charge on banning plastic bags in Greenwich, and she's the founder of BYO Connecticut. Now, Getz, a Greenwich resident, is literally and figuratively getting ready to set sail on a new adventure on a much larger scale. She has been selected by e X Xped it ion, a not-for-prof it organization based in the UK that runs pioneering all-female sailing research ex ped it ions a l l over t he world, to

investigate the causes of and solutions to ocean plastic pollution on a voyage to Antigua via Green Island. EX XPedition features all female crews to set role models for younger generations of women who are u nder represented i n t he sa i l i ng community and in science and research, and to raise awareness about the health effects of plastics on women. Getz will set sail with eight other crew members from Nov. 23-26 on a 70foot, science-equipped S.V. TravelEdge. They will conduct various experiments, a nd even spea k w it h chi ldren at a local school about science, sailing and solutions to plastic pollution. The trip is part of a larger project for eXXpedition, in which 300 women from all walks of life will sail across 30 voyages in different locations over a two-year period. " T his is just a not her cha l lenge for me," Getz said excited ly, while admitting that she’s "not necessarily a boat person." "I wanted to learn the science, and I wanted to learn how the science is collected and how it's analyzed, and really speak from experience, and not only speak from the studies I read," she added. Accord i ng to t he eX Xped it ion we b s it e , a s of t h i s p a s t Ju l y, t h e orga n i z at ion re c eive d over 4 , 0 0 0 applications for the 300 spaces. After she

applied, Getz underwent seven Skype interviews before she ultimately found out she was selected several months ago. Participants also have to get sponsored, and raise money. Getz will lead the science aspect of the trip with another crew member. Using special machines, they'll study the top of the water, at the midway point, and in the sediment for plastic toxins and pollution. Antigua is the perfect place for such studies, since they've made great progress in cutting down on plastic pollution since they banned single-use plastic items in January of 2016. E X Xpedition is pa r t nered w it h internationally-recognized ocean plastic experts, Professor Richard Thompson from the University of Plymouth, and Dr. Jenna Jambeck from the University of Georgia, to interpret findings both at sea and on shore. Getz, who has written a children's book titled Think Green! said she's pa r t icu la rly excited to spea k w it h schoolchildren in Antigua. "[Chi ldren are] sti l l so hopef u l and still so positive. They look at what bonds us and how we can do it together. I feel as though those kids at that level are the best audience to move things forward," she said. "I'm super excited to go in there and share the science we're learning, and listen to them. Most times kids have great ideas of how we can do

things better." Once t he t rip is over, t he crew members will discuss their findings. When she's home in Greenwich, Getz said she wants to share her experience with as many people as possible; she has already been approached by several schools and other organizations about speaking engagements. “ I w a nt t o s h a r e w h a t I l e a r n and how I learned it. Maybe there’s some science we c a n dupl ic ate i n t he L ong Isla nd Sou nd , or may be there are already people doing it like SoundWaters that we can give more focus to and elevate their science,” Getz said. Getz also wants to remind people that Greenwich can have a strong voice on environmental issues. "We're a formidable city. We used to set legislation for the country. We used to set legislation for the state. We were the leaders in doing the right thing. We count. We have voices that are represented in businesses all around the world. We have children that are being sent out from this town to all over the world representing Greenwich. I would imagine we would all want them to come back and we hope that they want to come back and be proud of our town," she said. "I'm Greenwich proud." For more information on eXXpedition and to track Getz’s’ voyage, go to exxpedition.com.

Colour Culture Hair Salon a Hidden Gem By Richard Kaufman Nestled above Greenwich Music at 1200 E. Putnam Ave., in Riverside sits a hidden gem. From the outside, the red brick office building looks unassuming. But once you go upstairs and into Colour Culture, a hair salon, you feel like you're in an exclusive club. Co-owners Simona Lagatta and Dena Gardella opened the business almost two years ago. Along with offering traditional salon services for men and women, Colour Culture also specializes in hair coloring, especially for those with grey hair. Gardella, who has colored hair for nearly 15 years, grew her reputation in hair painting, also known as Balayage. "From doing this for so many years, I hear what women have issues with. Grey hair is the number one issue," Gardella said, noting that a lot of salons

Colour Culture co-owners, Simona Lagatta and Dena Gardella. ignore the topic. "It's something women have to maintain every month. It can be expensive, it can be challenging, it can not grow out well. It's hard to get

the color right when you're covering grey hair, and women often complain about seeing orange tones when getting their roots touched up. We take pride in

preventing that.” Therefore, Lagatta and Gardella created "The Grey Concept" to make the process easier, effective and more natural looking. "Most people over the age of 40 start going grey, and it’s a huge problem," Gardella said. "We decided to solve the grey haired problems of the world, and came up with a variety of root touchups." The Grey Concept features four options, so clients, both men and women, can choose what's best for them. The Mini Grey Touch Up is a quick touch up application that addresses the hairline and part. The Basic Grey Touch Up is ideal for the grey-haired client who is on a budget. It’s a standard grey touch up, with limited customization. The Grey Blending option utilizes a technique to softly blend your grey hair. This concept is ideal for the low maintenance client that doesn’t want to

see a strong regrowth line in between salon visits. The Elite Grey Touch Up gives guests a customized color based on hair texture and skin tone. The reaction from clients has been very positive, Gardella said. "People love it. They like to have the different options, both in the formula and application." Hair is a passion for those who work at Colour Culture. The salon has gained a significant following since they opened their doors. "I love solving women's hair coloring problems," Gardella said. "I like mending hair that hasn't been colored properly, and I like creating super healthy, natural looking hair color, that looks like you were born with it." For more information on Colour Culture and the services they offer, go to colourculturect.com. You can also follow Colour Culture on Facebook, and on Instagram @colourculturect.

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