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Issue 15 • Summer 2013
EE reflecting modern family living
IN THIS ISSUE: Anna Kennedy's Autism Guide • Holidays & Leisure • Education Family Wellbeing • Guilt-Free Gifts • Competitions and much more . . . My Family is proud to support annakennedyonline.com www.myfamilymagazine.co.uk
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Family Wellbeing Keep Cool and Sleep Safe by The Lullaby Trust In-car Safety when Travelling with Children by Hannah and Phil Batham Give Your Family’s Online Profile the Royal Treatment by Meaghan Fitzgerald Stay Safe in the Sun by Fiona Wood COMPETITION – We have a BundleBean Go! & BundleBean Solar to give away!
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Holiday & Leisure The Great British Break Carry on Camping Holiday Must Haves
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Splash Time Fun Swimming is Fun and Saves Lives by The ASA
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Fun & Games Outdoor Fun and Games Playday 2013 – Get Involved!
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Anna Kennedy’s Autism Guide Life on the Spectrum by Jo Redman Autism’s Got Talent Autism Specific Education ACT Now for Autism Anna Kennedy Invites You to Wear It For Autism
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Tots’ Trends COMPETITION – You could win Wonder Onesies by Silver Sense COMPETITION – A chance to win a Double Agents Nappy and T-shirt combo by TotsBots COMPETITION – A Snuggle Suit by Quack Quack Moo could be yours! COMPETITION – You could win a Messy Me highchair cover and tunic COMPETITION – We have a Joey Pouch by Bubbaroo to give away!
DISCLAIMER The information contained in My Family magazine is not meant to replace that of a midwife, healthcare professional or GP. My Family would always recommend that you seek medical information from a qualified health professional.
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A note from the editor 32-33
Home Sweet Home Inspirations for the Family Home COMPETITION – We have a TUM TUM baking set, hat and apron up for grabs!
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Gift Inspirations Guilt-Free Gifts
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Performing Arts Skills That Children Can Learn from Performing Arts
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Education Relax, Read and Succeed this Summer by Liz Walker School’s Out but Education is Still In by Simon Walsh Back to School
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Bump to Business Balancing a Business and a Family over the Summer Holidays by Helen Lindop
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Doesn’t it make you feel better when the sun is shining? In this issue we have taken our inspiration from the glorious sunshine. Our Family Wellbeing section, helps with everything from keeping baby cool, sleep safety, in-car safety for children, protecting your family’s privacy online and sun safety for little ones. There is no place more beautiful when the sun shines, than Britain! As temperatures soar, we take a look at why it’s great to take a break in Britain, as well as some of the best places to camp, family friendly holiday accommodation, great places to visit and fabulous holiday must haves. Schools out for Summer and as the holidays approach we’ve been busy looking for ways to make the break happy and fun for everyone. Because Summer is a great time for children to explore new activities and learn new things, we’ve included information about resources that can be used to encourage learning during the holiday. It’s also a great time to learn to swim and The ASA tells us why learning to swim is so important. If you who are feeling lucky, we have some fantastic competition prizes up for grabs from BundleBean, Quack Quack Moo, Silver Sense, TotsBots, Bubbaroo, Messy Me and TUM TUM. And, if you’re looking to save some cash, check out the great money saving offers from our advertisers. My Family magazine is proud to support Anna Kennedy in her campaign to raise awareness of autism. In this issue we bring you information about specialist education, support, news and events from Autism Charity www.annakennedyonline.com and Hillcrest Services in Anna Kennedy’s Autism Guide. In fact, this issue is packed with so many great features and articles for you and your family, why not grab a cuppa, a few minutes to relax and simply enjoy the read! Best wishes for the holidays, Karen x Karen Reddell – Editor
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Looking after your baby:
Keep Cool & Sleep Safe Keep Cool
When you’re outside . . .
Summertime can be a fantastic time for families, but during the early months of an infant’s life their temperature control system will not have fully developed and overheating (thought to be an important risk factor in cot death) is something every parent and grandparent should be aware of.
l Keep your baby out of direct sunlight. Use a parasol or umbrella to keep the sun off l Protect your baby's head with a sun-hat, and their skin with loose-fitting light cotton clothes l Always use a high-factor sunblock
Here are The Lullaby Trust’’s ten top tips which will ensure that your baby stays as cool as possible this summer. When you’re inside . . . l The room your baby sleeps in will be cooler if you close curtains and open all windows during the day l Use as few clothes or bedclothes as possible l Know what the coolest room in your home is so that you know where to take your baby to cool off
When you’re in the car . . . l Use window shades and make sure all the windows (except those with shades) are open and the car fan is on l Never leave your baby in the car Generally . . . l Offer your baby plenty to drink l In very hot weather, sponge your baby down regularly with slightly warm water.
This is our recommended safe sleeping environment for a baby up to 6 months old
Sleep Safe Try to remember that cot death is rare and that if you follow advice such as sleeping your baby on the back, you will be reducing their risk of cot death considerably. Since the introduction of our 'reduce the risk of cot death' campaign in 1991 the number of babies dying has fallen by 70%. Advances in research mean we are regularly discovering new positive steps parents can take. Advice for parents to reduce the risk of cot death: l Place your baby on the back to sleep (and not on the front or side) l Cut smoking in pregnancy — dads too! And don’t let anyone smoke in the same room as your baby l The safest place for your baby to sleep is in a crib or cot in a room with you for the first six months l Do not let your baby get too hot, and keep your baby’s head uncovered l Never sleep with your baby on a sofa or armchair It’s dangerous for your baby to sleep in your bed if you (or your partner): l are a smoker (even if you never smoke in bed or at home) l have been drinking alcohol l take medication or drugs that make you drowsy l feel very tired l if your baby was premature (born before 37 weeks) l if your baby was low birth weight (less than 2.5kg or 51/2lb) l if your baby is less than 4 months old. l Settling your baby to sleep with a dummy can reduce the risk of cot death, even if the dummy falls out while your baby is asleep. l Breastfeed your baby. Establish breastfeeding before starting to use a dummy.
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The Lullaby Trust runs a freephone helpline for parents 0808 802 6869 and more information about safe baby care can be found at www.lullabytrust.org.uk/
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In-Car Safety when Travelling with Children We are Hannah and Phil Batham, the founders of BeltUpp. We are concerned as parents for the safety of our children and have done a lot of research into child safety products, to fully understand what constitutes as safe and legal. During the development of BeltUpp we have spoken to many people about the safety of children in cars, one in particular is significant; it was a consultant at Birmingham Children’s Hospital, who has seen on many occasions, children in A&E that have been involved in a road traffic accident. He commented that the children that are in the slumped over
car seatbelt to secure both the child and seat in place. The car seatbelt has only 3 points of attachment, so one shoulder is always unrestrained. This can look and feel less safe than the earlier 5 point harness. We all know that children still fall asleep at this young age – if they slump forward in the seat they can end up with little or no support as the shoulders can become unrestrained. A crash test performed when a dummy is slumped forward in a group 2 car seat has horrifying results. There are many car safety advice websites that offer information and advice on how to fit your child’s seat properly. It’s always worth a visit to these, as even experienced car seat operators (parents) need a ‘refresh’!
Did you know that . . . ? position or in badly fitted seats on many occasions do not survive. On another occasion, we were having BeltUpp crash tested at the Transport Research Laboratory, where we were made aware of how unsafe counterfeit seats are and just how many are sold in the UK. This is shocking and adds to the confusion that parents face when choosing the correct seat for their child. We must all do all we can to keep our children safe in our cars. Many parents however are unsure how to fit their car seats correctly and also what type of car seat to buy to suit both their needs and their car.
For example . . . Babies go from the security of Group 0/1 seats in reclined position with 5point harnesses, which give equal support and pressure in 5 different places. The seat itself is secured separately by the car seat belt, this can be quite complex as there are two different systems involved. The next step is to the Group 2 seat. This is different as it uses the
Children must use the correct car seat until they reach 135 centimetres tall or age 12, the type of car seat your child needs depends on their weight. Do not put a rear facing seat in the front passenger seat of the car where there is an active airbag. You must deactivate any frontal airbags before fitting a rear-facing baby seat. If possible a forward facing seat should be positioned correctly on the back seat, this is safer as an active airbag could cause injury to the child when it deploys. When children first move out of the forwardfacing child seats into booster seats and cushions, initially, ones with backs may provide a better fit for the seat belt. Booster seats with side wings will also help to prevent injury in a side impact by protecting a child's head, and on some seats, the height of the side wings can be adjusted as the child grows. Booster seats and booster cushions can be used in the front or rear of the car, but again it is safer to put them in the rear of the car. When using a group 2/3 seat, the seat belt should always be worn as tight as possible, the lap belt should go over the pelvic region not the stomach, and the diagonal strap should rest over the shoulder and not the neck. Even in a minor crash, an unrestrained child would be thrown about inside the vehicle, injuring themselves and others. Worse still, they could even be thrown from the car through one of the windows. To find out what type of child restraint your child needs visit www.childcarseats.org.uk.
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BeltUpp and Keep Little Ones Safe We are all, as parents, so concerned when our children are babies and young toddlers as to the fitting of their car seats and the security they are in. We then move them to the Group 2 seat with the impression that they will be as safe! When our children fall asleep in the Group 2 seat they can slump forward into a very dangerous position. The car seatbelt slowly releases as the child falls forward. The seatbelt should be holding both the child and seat in a tight upright position for it to be ‘classed’ as safe. The BeltUpp device has been designed to solve this problem.
BeltUpp is an additional belt that connects easily to the existing seat belt in two places, feeding through the spare eyelet in the seat and forming a ‘X’ pattern on the child’s chest. The belt is then adjusted easily so that it is a snug fit. BeltUpp will hold the child in a safe and upright position in the seat at all times.
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Crelling Harnesses If you have a disability or are travelling with a loved one with special needs, we’re sure you’ll agree that it is important to have equipment that makes the journey and your holiday as enjoyable, safe and comfortable as possible. Crelling Harnesses is a friendly family based company offering a full range of seatbelts and harnesses for children and adults with special needs. All of Crelling’s belts and harnesses are designed to provide postural support or in the case of learning difficulties and challenging behaviour a certain degree of restraint. Knowing that there are some purchases in life that you don’t make lightly and to ensure your full peace of mind, Crelling Harnesses are OFT Approved and carry the CE marking. They are a member of The British Healthcare Trades Association, as well as being an approved supplier of Britax products.
Crelling are happy to advise and help you choose the correct product for your needs. They offer extensive range of products from simple belts to full harnesses for use on all aspects of special needs equipment including vehicle seats, aircraft seats, wheelchairs, stairlifts and bathing & shower seats. They also make a range of walking reins designed to help and control children and adults with challenging behaviour or learning difficulties when out walking. For more information phone 01253 852298, email info@crelling.com or visit
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Give Your Family’s Online Profile the Royal Treatment What Will and Kate can teach us about protecting your family’s online privacy It seems the whole country has come down with baby brain – thanks to the imminent arrival of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s royal baby. The notoriously tight-lipped Royal Family kept many of the details of Kate’s pregnancy quiet and you can be sure that focus on privacy will continue after the baby is born. But these days, it’s not just the Royals who are concerned about the privacy of their children. More and more parents are holding back from posting photos and updates of their new baby online, particularly on sites like Facebook.
particular preferences when it comes to posting photos and updates (or not!) as long as you let them know in advance.
Have a Press Shot You and your family may not make the cover of a newspaper, but your baby is big news for many family and friends. The Royal Family ensures there are plenty of official photographs
With the rise of massive social networks and powerful search tools, privacy has become something every family thinks about, even when not followed by paparazzi. The Royal Family controls their online presence with carefully chosen press images and uses the right social networks for the right occasions – and this online consciousness can inspire every family.
When privacy is important, it’s all about choosing the right place to save and securely share your special moments with the people who matter most. Just because Will and Kate aren’t posting every baby photo to Instagram doesn’t mean they won’t want to keep the rest of the Royal Family in the loop as their baby grows.
Not every moment should be shared with everyone in the world. Kate doesn’t have a Facebook profile at all, while Will has a completely private account under a pseudonym – and never posts pictures. While most people don’t need to make up a fake name to use Facebook, looking carefully at the security settings and limiting who can see your profile ensures only the people you trust see your updates.
Services like 23snaps (www.23snaps.com), the free private app and website that lets parents securely save and share photos, videos and updates of their children with family and close friends, help privacy-conscious families capture precious memories without publicising them to the world.
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Make sure you have some photos you are happy viewed by a larger audience. Post these snaps on your public profiles or give them to grandparents, aunts and uncles and family friends that want to show off and share their love for your children and family.
Select the Right Private Network
Limit Social Media
A trusted circle of close friends surround the Royal Family. Those friends show their respect through discretion, both online and offline. Who is in your circle of trust? Your nearest and dearest will usually be only too happy to oblige any
that can be used by the press – and even have a public Flickr (www.flickr.com/photos/ britishmonarchy) account to show them off.
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Meaghan Fitzgerald Head of Operations at 23snaps www.23snaps.com
There’s nothing wrong with sharing special family moments with a wider audience, or posting your favourite snaps online. But it’s worth taking inspiration from the Royal Family and spending some time thinking about what photos, videos and updates you want to make public, and what should stay private.
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Too Much Kit? Bundlebean Has it Covered! When you have kids, the amount of kit that you need to take with you when out and about can be overwhelming. However, this is no longer the case, thanks to two clever products invented by mum Emily Goodall – the award winning BundleBean Go! and BundleBean Solar. BundleBean Go! is a universal and easy to fit travel cover designed to keep little ones warm and dry on the move. Mums are choosing BundleBean Go! over traditional cosytoes and
footmuffs as it extends to fit all ages and offers total versatility in one product! The waterproof shell is backed with cosy fleece and fits pushchairs, car seats, bike seats and carriers; and is endorsed by car seat safety experts. It can also be used as playmat/picnic rug or rolled up for easy storage and comes in four beautiful colours: red star, pink spot, blue spot and plain black.
BundleBean SOLAR is perfect for holidays and days at the beach. Offering the same multi-use versatility as the Go! and also endorsed by car seat safety experts, the Solar is made of a breathable, moisture-wicking super soft mesh fabric. The Solar gives 50+ UPF maximum protection from the sun for your little one – allowing you to keep them safe without the need for chemical sun-creams. The Solar can be purchased separately or together
By Fiona Wood, founder of www.naturallycoolkids.com
We all love to have fun in the sun. But . . . You must be aware of the dangers, and how to stay safe and well, whilst at home or abroad. Sun protection isn’t just about slapping on some sunscreen, there are many ways in which you can protect you and your family. Remember, babies and children have much thinner skin, making them more prone to burning. TOP TIPS l Seek shade between the hours of 11am and 3pm when the sun is at its strongest. l Wear a T shirt and wide brimmed hat for extra protection (85% of fabrics have an SPF greater than 20) l Protecting your eyes is vital. Opt for 100% UVA/UVB block out, and look out for the CE mark or UV400 label. l Apply at least an SPF15 sunscreen and reapply regularly.
So how do you choose a sunscreen? and how and when should you be applying it? Physical
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Sunscreen only works if you use the right amount ( a shot glass full for an adult). Sunscreen is easily washed, rubbed or sweated off – even waterproof creams should be reapplied after swimming.
We are offering one BundleBean Go! in a colour of your choice and one BundleBean Solar. To enter, email mail@bundlebean.com under subject ‘Competition’ and tell us in no more than 100 words which product you would like to win and why! (Closing date for entries – midnight on 30th September 2013).
Eczema prone skin Ouch! Sun cream can be a nightmare, causing irritations and stinging. l Always check the labels for ingredients that could cause a reaction. l Patch test new sun creams before applying to the whole body. l Natural sunscreen may help minimise the risk of reactions. Put emollient and steroid creams on first then apply the SPF cream after 30 mins. Always reapply regularly. If sunburn occurs take painkillers to help reduce the pain, apply a cooling after sun/calamine or aloe vera cream to soothe the skin. Stay out of the sun until the redness disappears. If there is any swelling or blisters seek medical help.
What are UVA and UVB? UVA the star rating – Penetrates deeply and ages the skin. UVB your SPF factor – is the chief sun burner and increases the risk of skin cancer Always opt for a broad-spectrum sun cream that provides protection against both the suns UVA/UVB rays.
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The Great British Break Britain is a diverse nation full of contrasts; whichever direction you travel you will find a wide variety of landscapes and diverse cultures to explore. England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland are all unique countries with their own customs, cultures and traditions. There’s something for everyone in Britain – from the wealth of natural and historical heritage to the vibrant and cosmopolitan towns and cities.
Shopping Britain is the shopping hotspot of Europe, and wherever you are in Britain, the choice of shops is endless. Shop for vintage clothes at street markets; shop for bargains on the high street; discover unusual gifts and new designers at unique boutiques and shop for everything under one roof at fantastic department stores – you’ll find them all in Britain.
Music & nightlife Culture & heritage Britain has a rich and fascinating history dating back to around 6500BC, and all over Britain you’ll find monuments marking its history – from Stonehenge to Buckingham Palace. Britain is also home to over 25 cultural and natural UNESCO World Heritage Sites and 7 Heritage Cities: Bath, Canterbury, Chester, Durham, Oxford, Stratford-upon-Avon and York.
Music is a living part of many of Britain’s towns and cities, and British music has had a huge impact all over the world. Liverpool – home of the Beatles – still has a fantastic live music scene, as do many of Britain’s towns and cities.
Festivals
Sports Britain is a huge sporting nation, and is home to some of the world’s greatest sporting events – Wimbledon, the London Marathon, and the Grand National to name a few. Football is Britain’s biggest spectator sport, and Britain also gave the world golf, tennis, cricket and rugby – where better to see your favourite sport than its original home?
Food & Drink Attractions In every corner of Britain you’ll find hundreds of great attractions, ranging from small local museums to world-famous attractions like Big Ben and the Houses of Parliament. Britain’s great attractions cover everything from museums and galleries to food and drink, and there’s something for everyone – from families to budget travellers.
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You might already have your ideas about what British food is, and it’s safe to say that all tastes are catered for in Britain. You’ll find restaurants serving food from every corner of the world, traditional pubs serving real British ale and wine, celebrity chefs running pubs and restaurants and fabulous farmer’s markets.
The summer in Britain means music festivals. Fancy a mud fight and dancing til the wee hours? Or fun with the family in the beautiful British countryside? Or else the best in classical music, and the chance to dress in your finery and soak up the social 'season'. Whatever your taste and wherever in Britain you'd like to go, there's a music festival to suit you. What’s more, festivals and fun events are no longer the domain of the grown-up. Across Britain and throughout the year there is a wide selection that have been created with kids in mind. Cue smiling faces all round . . . So, whether you are planning a few days away or even a couple of weeks, check out www.visitbritain.com and start your great British adventure today!
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St Monica’s Cottage Set in the quaint and picturesque conservation village of Egleton in Rutland, St Monica's Cottage provides luxury, well-equipped self-catering accommodation for up to six people. The predominantly stone built, single storey, thatched cottage is ideal for families wanting a real home-from-home feel. Quietly nestling in England’s smallest county, the welcoming and recently renovated cottage overlooks scenic farmland to the rear, beyond which is the well-known Rutland Water.
In an area surrounded by breathtaking scenery, this dreamy little cottage is wonderful for newlyweds and those getting married at Normanton Church, Rutland Water, which is known for its stunning water front location for civil ceremonies.
This peaceful retreat is perfect for guests who just want to relax, unwind, and enjoy a taste of traditional England. Normanton Church, Rutland Water
For those who like to get out and about there is plenty to do – cycling, sailing, walking, fishing, bird watching and windsurfing are all available to enjoy locally. Easily accessible by car or train, its location is perfect for those wanting to explore an array of unspoilt villages, attractive market towns, and the beautiful countryside of Rutland and beyond.
Telephone: +44 (0) 7771 610668 or +44 (0) 1572 722749 email info@rutlandholidaycottage.co.uk or visit
www.holidaylettings.co.uk/95665 Follow us on Twitter – @rutlandcottage Find us on Facebook – Rutland Holiday Cottage
Luxury cottage holiday accommodation in the beautiful south Norfolk countryside, this sympathetic eightbarn conversion retains many original features. Each barn boasts its own private outdoor seating area and is situated on a working dairy and arable farm in a peaceful rural setting. All Properties are well equipped for a real home from home feel. Linen and towels are included, full central heating throughout, cooking and washing facilities, cots and highchairs for the little ones. Enjoy full use of the new fitness room, relax and unwind in the shared hot tub or have fun with the kids in the onsite games room and soft play area. Perfect for families and those who enjoy walking, fishing, golf and cycling, the local area has much to offer for guests of all ages.
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Carry on Camping! Camping is cheap, green, great fun and the best way to get up close and personal with Britain's most sumptuous scenery. So pack up your tent and join our tour of Britain's perfect pitches. Scotland Ahh, Scotland. Lochs, glens, heather-flecked hillsides - it really is the most wonderful place to pitch your tent. But did you know that unlike most of England, Scotland’s relaxed trespassing laws allow camping in open country? Camping in the wilderness of the Highlands is a joy and it’s free! Be sure to follow the Scottish Outdoor Access Code.
Cornwall If it’s sea and surf you’re after, Cornwall has cracking camping with access to some wonderful beaches, good weather and a relaxed lifestyle. A great family option is Trevornick Holiday Park in Cornwall overlooking Holywell Bay beach. Or try Dennis Cove Camping in Padstow with fabulous views across the bay.
The Lake District Camping in the lakes is the best way to experience England’s most romantic landscape. Try the National Trust operated Great Langdale site. The facilities are excellent and tents sit right in the shadow of the Great Langdale Pikes. Perfect for energetic hikes or quiet relaxation.
The New Forest
Dartmoor
What could be better than sleeping under the ancient oaks and gnarled beeches of the New Forest? In fact, the New Forest National Park has much more to offer than woodland. The enormous Roundhill campsite, with room for around 500 pitches, is a beauty. Choose from private wooded glades or smooth heathland and go horse riding, cycling or exploring down the Beaulieu River.
Dartmoor National Park is a rugged, eerily beautiful place which is great for hiking, climbing and potholing. It’s also the only place in England where wild camping is permissible for a few nights. Pitch your tent under craggy, gritstone tors and share your breakfast with wild Dartmoor ponies. Check the Dartmoor National Park website for advice and guidelines.
London Believe it or not, there are several excellent campsites within striking distance of central London. You can save a packet by camping in the capital and it’s more convenient than you might think. Try Abbey Wood campsite in south London, only 35 minutes by train to the centre, or Crystal Palace Caravan Club that’s on a bus route to Oxford Circus.
Norfolk Head east to the Norfolk Broads and the idyllic Clippesby Hall campsite. Bordered on all sides by lush greenery it manages to please allcomers with its mix of top-notch facilities and rural charm. Go boating on the broads or head to the coast. And proving there really is something for everyone, there’s an excellent pub onsite, too.
Snowdonia Rough, rugged and with adventure sports aplenty, Snowdonia National Park is magnificent. And, yes, you’ve guessed it, the best way to get right in on the action is to camp. Gwern Gôf Isaf Farm is set right in the heart of the mountains beneath the brooding Tryfan and there’s abseiling and climbing terrain on site.
Celebrating 90 years of camping Fen Farm Caravan and Camping Site, Mersea Island welcomed its first campers, the Cosway family in 1923. Since then, the familyowned site was awarded Regional Winner – East of England by Practical Caravan Magazine in their Top 100 Parks guide, placed 19th overall in 2010 and joint 25th in 2011, as well as receiving the David Bellamy Conservation Gold Award annually since 1999. Mersea itself, is a tiny island but it has much to offer its visitors, including safe beaches, footpath walks through beautiful countryside, a country park, great food and drink, a vineyard, brewery and much more. As the saying goes ‘Good things, come in small packages!’
Pembrokeshire
Tired of tents?
The Pembrokeshire Coast National Park is a Welsh jewel. Undeveloped, peppered with castles and about as charming as landscapes get, camping here is a rare pleasure. Fishguard Bay Caravan and Camping Park takes full advantage of this sweetest of spots, with stellar views across the bay.
If a traditional tent doesn’t appeal, why not stay in a tipi or a wigwam, a gypsy caravan or a classic vw campervan? For an alternative camping experience check out www.cornishcampers.co.uk or www.eastthornecornwall.co.uk For even more inspirational ways to enjoy our green and pleasant land visit
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On the go feeding made simple! Parents wanting to feed their babies freshly cooked homemade food, but with the portability and convenience of shop bought pouches are guaranteed to love the latest multi award winning new product by Fill n Squeeze. The pouch filler allows parents to either hand-blend directly in the jug or mash with the convertible plunger/masher and then fill into convenient pouches to either freeze or chill until required. The pouches are BPA free, freezer, microwave, bottle warmer and steriliser friendly and include name and date labels. When ready to use, simply squeeze the contents onto a spoon – or the child can suck food directly from the pouch making them extremely convenient for parents, but great fun for children too. Fen Farm Caravan and Camping Site is ideal for people looking for a quiet family retreat. Situated just off the Essex coastline, around 10 miles from Colchester, you will find the unique and largely undiscovered holiday haven, Mersea Island. One of Britain’s best-kept secrets, this tiny island is just five miles by two miles and has twelve miles of coastline. The Lord family have owned Fen Farm Campsite since 1918. Located in a peaceful, rural setting, in the southeast of the island this small yet well-appointed campsite offers its guests a warm and friendly welcome. The site caters for tents, trailer tents, touring caravans and motor homes of any size and has a laundry, toilet and shower block with solar powered water heating, separate wheelchair accessible toilets and showers, 10 amp electric hook up and chemical disposal unit; what more could you need! A haven for local wildlife, the proximity of the Essex marshes gives a unique, tranquil atmosphere and the wealth wildlife adds to the ambience. Cudmore Grove Country Park is very close by and the renowned Fingringhoe Wick nature reserve is just 6 miles away. Abberton Reservoir with its abundance of water birds is also well worth the 10 minute drive and the site is within walking distance of a wonderful south facing beach. Nearby Mehalah's at Oysters & Ale, is a simple place where you can get homemade cakes, fresh coffee, local wines and lovely warm plates of food made from local meat, fish and veg. At Fen Farm kids can enjoy themselves without having to switch anything on or boot up! There are play areas with swings, seesaws and climbing frames, plus plenty of wide-open space to let off steam. In addition to this, children will enjoy ‘crabbing’ in the creeks, playing on the beach or in the sea. Fen Farm Campsite has received the David Bellamy Conservation Gold Award annually since 1999.
What's even better is that the pouches can be washed and used time and time again, making this a much more cost effective option than buying shop bought pouches. Not only will parents know exactly what their child is eating, but they will be able to tailor the meals for little ones needs. Fill n Squeeze pouches are perfect for all ages – for on-the-go pureed baby food to yoghurt in school lunch boxes. All products are made in the UK. A starter pack (RRP £19.99) contains jug, convertible plunger/masher, 5 x reusable pouches, jug cap. Refill pouches – 10 x 150ml reusable pouches £4.50. To claim £4 discount off the starter pack please enter myfamily_offer at the checkout. Further information can be found at www.fillnsqueeze.co.uk or contact rifat@fillnsqueeze.co.uk, telephone 07980 853446.
Introducing NON POWERED Nomad Cool Boxes – the real 4x4 of world Cool Boxes! They are as happy in the extremes of Antarctic or Sahara dessert or simply just your family holiday or picnic. They will keep your food and drink fridge cool for up to 10 Days – yes 10 days – without the need of any Power! Travelling with Medication? We stock a great range of medical coolers and insulin cases. Buy yours now at
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Visit Haguelands Village for a Great Family Day Out Follow a tricky trail through a field of living maize crop and use your detective skills to see if you can help Detective Paca.
There are many exciting things on offer for the whole family at Haguelands Village, Kent's best kept Secret! A fantastic Farm Shop, a fishmongers, gift shop, bistro, cookery school, a herd of interactive alpaca's, and giant bunnies, to name but a few.
Experience the thrill of a night maze, every Saturday evening, from 1st September- 27th October. Try to conquer the Maize Maze by night; all you need to bring is a torch and your wits. The Maze opens at dusk to the brave! There's loads of Fun on the Farm to be had at Haguelands!
The Fun Yard For giggles galore visit the Fun Yard! There’s so much to see and do – take a tractor ride, visit the giant bunnies, let off steam on the bouncy castle or play Giant Jenga, skittles or football games. Stop off for lunch at the Vegetable Garden Picnic area to recharge your batteries, before heading off to try your hand at Gocarting round the straw bale track, treasure hunting in the Metal Detector Pit, Alpaca Trekking and much, much, more.
The Maize Maze Get Lost! this summer with the Nosey Pacas in our Maize Maze. From July the maze is open 7 days a week and offers hours of family fun.
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For directions, information about admission and opening times visit
www.haguelandsvillage.co.uk or call 01303 874727.
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Swimming is Fun and Saves Lives Swimming is an excellent all round activity that exercises the whole body. It’s great fun, anyone can do it and it is a skill that opens the door to a huge range of waterbased activities such as surfing, water polo or even sailing. Swimming is not only one of the safest and most popular forms of exercise, it’s the only sport that can save your life. Swimming’s national governing body, the ASA, surveyed 3,501 primary schools for their report entitled “Learning the Lesson - the future of school swimming” on how many of their children have attained Key Stage 2 swimming requirements. It found that half of children aged 7 - 11 cannot swim the length of a typical swimming pool (25 metres) unaided, despite swimming being a compulsory element of the national curriculum. This equates to 1.1 million children that are unable to be safe in and around water. His Royal Highness, The Duke of Cambridge and patron of the English Schools Swimming Association, supports the ASA’s calls for swimming to be accessible for all children:
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“The ASA has a belief – a vision, which I share – that every child has the right to learn to swim. Swimming is unique – it is the only sport that can save lives – which is why I’m so keen for school swimming to be accessible for all children at all primary schools. “The ability to swim changes lives – it brings huge joy and it can keep us fit and healthy. But above all, it can keep us safe, which is why I’m pleased to lend my support to this campaign.” 98% of parents share the ASA’s vision of every child learning to swim before they leave primary school. Parents can actively support their child’s progress through regular family trips to the pool. A fun environment is the best way for children to learn and acquire new skills, so swimming as a family will grow a child’s confidence and ensure a successful and memorable learn to swim experience. Having fun and playing games in the water will build a strong foundation for a child to develop new skills. The ASA have a whole host of great games for the pool such as Fishy in the Middle and Underwater Humming. You can find out how to play these games and loads more on the ASA website, www.swimming.org/go The British Gas ASA Learn to Swim Pathway is the national syllabus to assist and support the delivery of swimming lessons. Used in more than 1,000 swimming programmes nationwide, as well as overseas, it is already the most successful sports programme of its kind.
We encourage everyone to check that their swimming lessons are using the British Gas ASA Learn to Swim Pathway to ensure children receive the best possible instruction based on the swimming expertise of the ASA. Your child can start learning to swim earlier than you might think. Many pools offer adult and child swimming classes from six months upwards and this is an excellent way to engage your child in water activities in a fun environment. The ASA has produced a Learn to Swim Parent’s Guide for parents to support their child through their aquatic journey, available from swimgb.com Parents often state their own lack of confidence in the water as a barrier to swimming with their children, but learning to swim is a fantastic experience and has no age limit. Thousands of adults take the plunge and learn to be more confident in water each year. Many pools deliver specialised adult lessons in a friendly and supportive environment for all abilities in line with ASA recommendations, whether you’re a beginner, a returner or a more advanced swimmer looking to refine your technique. Log onto www.swimming.org and use our Poolfinder tool to locate your local pool and enquire about swimming lessons today.
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Outdoor Fun & Games their own imagination is the best way to Many of us have great play but if a little inspiration is needed, here childhood memories of are a couple of games to get them started playing outdoors – climbing trees, building dens, inventing Blob Tag new games – these are all Start with two people as ‘the blob’ by things that contribute to a linking arms – they are not allowed to break the link. Once the blob tags someone, they happy, healthy upbringing. Today, with less natural space and more distractions it’s more important than ever to encourage kids to play. Wherever you live, the outdoors can be the ultimate play environment and children love looking for hidden play spaces near their home.
become part of the blob – so now it’s a three person blob. Only the ends of the blob can tag someone, so other players can go through the rest of the blob without being caught. The winner is the person who has escaped the blob!
Duck, Duck, Goose Everyone sits in a circle. Then one player – the fox – walks around the outside, tapping people on the head and saying ‘duck’. But if they tap someone and say ‘goose’, that player jumps up and chases the fox around the circle.
Lots of games and activities can be played in the garden if you have one. If not, commons and parks, village greens, local fields, woodlands and even beaches are great places for kids to run around and let off steam.
If the fox makes it all the way around to where the goose was sitting and sits in their space, then the goose becomes the fox. But if the goose tags the fox while they’re running around, the goose goes back to their space and the fox has to start again.
Given half a chance kids will throw themselves into play, especially if there are friends or siblings around. Letting them use
For more great ideas for outdoor fun visit www.myfamilymagazine.co.uk/index. php/whats-new
Playday 2013 – get involved! Playday is the national day for play in the UK. As well as a celebration of children’s right to play Playday is a campaign that highlights the importance of play in children’s lives. To celebrate Playday 2013 on Wednesday 7 August, hundreds of individuals, families and whole communities will hold celebration events across the UK as part of this year’s Playful places campaign.
The Playday 2013: Playful places campaign is calling on everyone to help make sure that the places where children live and hang out are great places to play. The campaign recognises that: l Children should feel welcomed where they live and feel part of their communities. l Parents want their children to be able to play outside. l Public space should be designed and managed with children’s play in mind. l Children and young people need to be involved in planning the places and spaces where they play.
2 Get involved in an event near you – With hundreds of events happening annually across the UK, there’s bound to be one near you! You could offer your time, services or skills, whatever they need to help make their Playday event a success. Contact us and we will put you in touch with organisers in your area – www.playday.org.uk/getinvolved.
Supporting Playday and children’s right to play is as easy as one, two, three!
3 Spread the Playday word – Playday is a great opportunity tell everyone about the importance of play for children and young people. Help spread this message by promoting Playday via social media, websites and newsletters or by distributing free campaign posters and fliers – www.playday.org.uk/resources.
1 Hold a celebration event – Playday events range from get-togethers with friends and family to city-wide public events. Whether your celebration is big or small, what’s most important is that we collectively celebrate and support children’s right to play. There’s lots of guidance on the website to get you started.
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Find out more about how you can join in the fun at
www.playday.org.uk
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Imagination and Make-Believe for Hours of Summer Fun With the Summer holidays just around the corner, it won’t be long until the sound of children’s laughter fills the air. But, we all know that laughter can quickly turn to frustration, tears and tantrums when kids get bored!
blossoms, bejewelled crowns, delicate dragonflies and cheerful bumblebees. Created in soft pink and trimmed with delicate lilac mini-gingham, it really is the essence of girly . . . a magical hideaway for little Princesses! Or, imagine walking through the sand dunes to your very own seaside pad! The Beach House is perfect for girls and boys alike, appliqued and embroidered with a beautiful sail boat, a lighthouse, deckchair . . . for hours of fun, home or away.
So, if you are looking for a ways to keep your little ones amused this summer, we think that Win Green’s exciting playhouse collections will ignite their imagination.
Raise the anchor and ready the men! The swashbuckling new Pirate Shack, with its striking red roof, embroidered and appliquéd with a compass, palm tree, friendly parrot and a chest of bejewelled treasure, sets the scene perfectly for little Pirates to embark on untold adventures. Standing proud with its fairytale lilac turrets, the beautiful new Princess Castle is hand embroidered and appliquéd with pretty pink
Ethical & Fairtrade Toys that Keep on Giving If you are looking for good quality toys for your little ones, you’ll be spoilt for choice at Let’s Play Fair!
toys, that will last through the whole family for years to come.
Offering well-known brands – Lilliputiens, PlanToys, Lanka Kade, Crafty Kids, Latitude Enfant and many more; Let’s Play Fair cater for newborns, toddlers and beyond with a fabulous selection of gifts such as ragdolls, craft kits, jigsaws and wooden
Let’s Play Fair was founded by concerned mum of two Karen Tait, who was unhappy about the number of cheap plastic and disposable toys available to her children. She decided to set up the online toy company supplying quality toys that that parents would want their child to have and children would love to play with – and Let's Play Fair was born! Let's Play Fair guarantee that no child labour is used during the manufacturing process
And, with the growing popularity of themed children’s parties, Win Green can now offer the perfect backdrop to the ever-popular “Pirates and Princesses” party! To explore Win Green’s charming collection of playhouses and accessories visit
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and that all of their products are either Fair Trade certified or ethically produced; so that the toys that your children love playing with, will love them back and do not damage the earth or their futures!
Over the last 4 years the family-run company has blossomed into a reliable, easy to use online store, sourcing toys from around the world and offering something different from the usual High Street options. So, why wait – log on to
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They have high visibility reflective detail, low profile non-slip soles and a waterproof breathable membrane. rainSplats are lightweight and neatly collapsible making them ideal for camping, festivals or family days out. rainSplats might look cute but they’ve got some serious tech going on under the bonnet ! It takes a whole lotta technology and testing to keep water out and feet dry. The low profile flexible soles will help your kids move like a ninja and the reflective piping helps them stay visible ... and funky! The sole unit comprises of environmentally friendly, non-toxic, reusable raw materials which means they can be recycled safely!
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Specialist Education, Support, News and Events from Autism Charity www.annakennedyonline.com and Hillcrest Services
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Life on the Spectrum by Jo Redman Autism Campaigner, Anna Kennedy OBE met Kickboxing World Champion, Jo Redman on Twitter after she watched Anna’s ITV News interview about her anti bullying campaign ‘Give us a Break!’ In June, Jo joined Anna Kennedy’s team as Patron of her autism charity Anna Kennedy Online. Jo explains how her diagnosis of Asperger Syndrome has changed her life . . .
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Today I am so different to the person I was several years ago – I still look the same, sound the same and have all the same interests but how I look at my life and how I view myself has completely changed. I actually grew up without a diagnosis and life was pretty difficult. I didn’t know why I struggled and felt different. My parents didn’t know why their daughter wouldn’t join in with other children and my teachers just looked at me as a quiet, good little girl. There was some amount of bullying at school, a lot of it was active isolation meaning they sought to leave me out but there was also name calling such as
‘spastic’ and ‘freak’. Some of the name calling was probably pretty standard for kids at that time but it had a much larger impact on me, as I felt different already. Fortunately for me I never experienced any physical bullying at school. It was always other children laughing at my expense over something - I had no idea why they were laughing. I would go through periods of not talking all through playschool, infant, junior and senior school – even into the workplace. Into my later school years things started to change around me more rapidly. I just got used to what my friends interests were, and then suddenly they all changed into teenagers interested in boys, make
up and pop bands. It felt hopeless, I had no interest in a lot of the activities they pursued, and I didn’t know how to join in! There were exams coming up and I didn’t know how to revise, I couldn’t concentrate on it. I became so anxious and down, that my teachers noticed and there was a big fuss about it all. This is probably the point at which I should have been diagnosed but seeing how upset my mum was about the prospect of taking me to the doctors, I begged her not to and tried to pretend everything was ok. I worked out how people expected me to act and tried to
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just be that, although it made me desperately unhappy and was very tiring! After I left school, I had a massive shock going into the world of work. I had absolutely no idea how it all worked and I really don’t know how I managed to keep my first job which was as a receptionist, as I am someone who doesn’t really like using the telephone! I got through this job by creating my own processes on how I would carry out my work and answer the phone. At the time I didn’t know I was creating processes but looking back, I can see that I did.
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ANNA’S AUTISM GUIDE I worked in an office with other women and there was always friction and I experienced some bullying. It got to the point where I would walk into the office in the morning and certain people wouldn’t say ‘good morning’ to me like they did to everyone else. There were email conversations going on between others in the room, gossiping around the coffee machine, conversations stopping as I walked in, and even my incoming emails were forwarded to them so they could see what I was ‘up to’. My mum was taken ill and eventually diagnosed with MS, so I had a lot of stress in my home life. I was trying to keep it together for the rest of my family and I didn’t know how to handle the emotional impact of what was happening to my mum. It was only when this situation started to settle down that it really
affected me. I got so anxious about certain things, I struggled to verbalise things and would withdraw into myself and not communicate at all. It got to the point where enough was enough! I decided I needed to know why I felt so different and what was wrong with me, why couldn’t I do things other people were doing? I had a very good manager at work, who is now a very good friend, and supported me into going to the doctors. It took years and a crisis period for the mental health team to refer me for an assessment for Asperger Syndrome. When I was diagnosed it was the biggest turning point in my life. I felt so liberated to have the diagnosis because all the things I had worried about, were no longer a mystery and all the experiences in my past started to make sense to me.
The psychologist who diagnosed me was so helpful. She said to me that the way I behaved, reacted and thought was not wrong, but nor was it right, it was just different to how other people might behave, react and think and that was ok. And at 23 years old, that was the first time somebody had told me it was ok to just be me – that had a huge impact on me. Together with my husband who I’d met in sixth form, I learnt how I could ‘manage’ my life in a way that enabled me to do the things I wanted to do – and since diagnosis, I have done a lot of things.
these tasks onto.
I almost run my life like a business, I have processes for all of the housework, I set objectives for everything I want to achieve, and break these down into targets and then into tasks. I have a giant timetable I use to schedule all
I started kickboxing when I was 13 with my dad, he thought it would help my confidence. Initially I set myself three goals – to be a black belt, to fight for England and to be a World Champion. I have now successfully done all three!
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Autism’s GOT TALENT!
by My Family Editor, Karen Reddell
On Saturday 11th May, excitement filled the air as we arrived at The Mermaid Theatre, London, for Autism’s Got Talent. As ‘the voice’ Peter Dickson introduced Autism’s Got Talent 2013, a loud cheer and round of applause filled the theatre.
Hosts, Anna Kennedy OBE, founder of Anna Kennedy Online, the autism charity behind the show and Maggie Paterson, from the Pineapple Performing Arts School, introduced the first act of the evening; the dancers from Pineapple, burst on to the stage to start the show with an outstanding performance that quite simply left us all wanting more!
All the way from Canada, 10-year-old Colin Brennan sang ‘Different’ from Disney’s ‘Honk’, which gave a moving insight into how life on the spectrum can feel. Brilliant vocal performances came from Joseph Ferris, James Mason, Ashton McAlpine and Martin Finn, who returned to the Autism’s Got Talent stage for a second year, with an emotional performance of ‘Catch the Wind’ – which I can honestly say bought a tear to my eye. Acts from Hillingdon Manor School also performed, including singers The Manor, street dance crew School Life and rock band Submersus who blew us away with their performance of ‘Paranoid’. A performance of Cinderella by students from West London Community College had us all in stitches. The David Stinson Theatre School and the dancer James Hobley were simply amazing to watch.
Autism’s Got Talent is a groundbreaking production that has now firmly placed itself as My Family Magazine’s MUST SEE show of the year! With Autism’s Got Talent 2014 already being planned, Anna Kennedy is urging performers to get involved. Email lisa.robins@thevines.org.uk to find out how you or someone you know can be part of next year’s show.
Throughout the evening we were treated to the awesome vocals of 21-year-old singer Callum Abbiss, the lovely Madeleine Hardy – who belted out ‘Make You Feel My Love’ and Marie Gorton, who’s operatic performance raised the roof! But it wasn’t just about singing and dancing! Owen Cordwell, a young autistic boy from Wellingborough who biked 25km to raise money to help other people with autism, presented a fundraising cheque for £722.50 to the charity Anna Kennedy Online. Inspirational Jo Redman gave an emotional and brave account of her diagnosis and how it helped her to take the kickboxing World Champion title – twice!
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Way too soon, the evening came to a close as Autism Campaigner Anna Kennedy and dance partner Michael John French took to the stage to perform a breathtaking tap routine, before leading all the performers on to the stage for the finale – Gangnam Style!
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Specialist Education and Support for Children with Autism Hillingdon Manor is the largest specialist day school, for children on the autistic spectrum in Europe. Founded by autism campaigner Anna Kennedy, the school offers a unique mix of education and support to pupils aged between three-and-a-half, and nineteen years of age. During the school’s 13-year history, a number of learning tools have been implemented to support the educational
development of pupils with various needs across the autistic spectrum. Hillingdon Manor offers a wide range of Therapies including Speech and Language Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Music Therapy, Drama & Movement Therapy, Counselling and Cranial Sacral Therapy. Teaching focuses on the National Curriculum, whilst taking into account individual difference, ability and interests in learning. Besides the core areas of learning (English, Maths, Science, ICT) student options offer a range of subjects and skills at different levels, including GCSEs, entry level qualifications, certificates/awards/diplomas in life and vocational skills in line with the National Qualifications Framework and the opportunity to participate in the Duke of Edinburgh Award Scheme. Hillingdon Manor’s Mission Statement: "Hillingdon Manor School strives to provide effective specialist education and support to pupils with autistic spectrum disorder and their families, which allows pupils to achieve their full potential in education and life"
Visit our new website www.hillingdonmanorschool.org.uk or contact the Head Teacher, Akinyi Dulo on 01895 813679 for information about admissions, and events.
Hillingdon Manor The largest school for children with autism, in the UK & Europe Specialist independent day education for children aged between 3 and 19. The following open mornings are planned for parents and carers wishing to find out more about Hillingdon Manor school:
Yiewsley Grange (Lower School) 17th September starting at 10.30am
Tel: 01895 420315 for further information
The Manor (Upper School) 19th September starting at 11am
Tel: 01895 813679 for further information Local Authority referrals accepted. • Access to the National Curriculum. For more information about admissions, open days and events, visit www.hillingdonmanorschool.org.uk or contact the Head Teacher, Akinyi Dulo on 01895 813679
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Baston House School works to reduce the effects of Autism expectations, as well as clarity of language used to describe these essential processes, provide a framework for security and understanding.
Established in 2010, Baston House School in Middlesex, is set in 5 acres of grounds in Bromley, Kent. As part of the Hillcrest Autism Services family, the impressive facility provides a centre of excellence in education and development for children aged between 5 and 19 years of age, with an autism spectrum condition. Offering an approach based on childcentred, autism-specific strategies and techniques, Baston House School aims to break down the barriers to learning that students with autism encounter. There is a clear focus on improving communication and interaction skills through positive interventions – equipping students for as independent life as possible outside of school. Commitment to providing a therapeutic environment ensures that all pupils are treated with dignity and respect, and that their specific needs are met. The maintenance of an emotionally healthy
MISSION STATEMENT: "Baston House School will strive to provide effective specialist education and support to pupils on the Autism Spectrum and to their families, enabling pupils to achieve their full potential in education and in life outside school." school community, in turn promotes the development of emotional intelligence. This foundation provides an environment where optimum learning can take place.
For admissions and information about upcoming events call 020 8462 1010 or visit www.bastonhouseschool.org.uk
Active and effective involvement in the teaching and learning processes within the school is further encouraged using specifically designed behaviour support plans. Being a person with Autism means that, to varying degrees it is difficult to understand what is expected by others in society. At Baston House School, firm, fair and consistent rules, boundaries and
Baston House School • Bromley Specialist independent day facility for children diagnosed with autism aged between 5 & 16 years l A centre of excellence in education and development. l Local Authority referrals welcome l Admissions now being taken for Primary and Secondary School The following open morning is planned for parents and carers wishing to find out more about Baston House School 19th September starting at 11am For admissions and information about upcoming events call 020 8462 1010 or visit www.bastonhouseschool.org.uk Baston House School Baston Road • Hayes • Bromley • Kent BR2 7AB
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People with Autism are ‘Feeling the Impact’ of Government Cuts Act Now for Autism celebrate their third birthday this month. During the last three years Act Now for Autism has campaigned tirelessly to raise awareness about how the cuts to budgets and the changes to benefits are having an impact on the autism community. In July 2010, Act Now for Autism asked the autism community how they felt the cuts and changes to benefits would affect them. 2943 people flooded us with their concerns and anxieties about how life was going to change for them. We decided earlier this year that we would go back to the autism community and ask them how the cuts that have been made so far were affecting their lives. We rolled out a new report ‘Feeling the Impact’ at the autism show in Manchester at the end of June.
Financially the cuts are now really beginning to bite! The bedroom tax is really taking its toll on parents who have to choose between paying an extra £14 a week for what is now considered an extra room, or the health and well-being of their children. It can be very difficult, and in some instances completely unsafe for siblings to share a bedroom with a brother or sister who has autism. Adults with autism are living in fear and dread about the change over from DLA to the new Personal Independence Payment benefit. The
new benefit will include a face-to-face assessment, the thought of which is having a big impact on adults with autism. Although there is no doubt that the cuts and changes to benefits are having a financial impact on our community, it is the emotional impact that is without doubt having the biggest effect. Act Now for Autism and our now 12,000 supporters, will continue to raise awareness of the damage that the cuts and changes to benefits are having on our lives. We will keep marching on!
www.actnowforautism.co.uk
WLCC is an established specialist provision for adults with autism spectrum conditions including Asperger syndrome. Providing a 44-week service with sessions including. Social Drama • Functional Skills • ICT Vocational Skills • Work Experience Placements Horse Riding Classes • Art as Therapy Life Skills • Image in Action and Independence Sessions are carefully geared towards each student’s level of ability. GCSE’s and ASDAN can be incorporated into the timetable. For information call 01895 619700 or visit the NEW WEBSITE
www.autismconsultants.org
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Anna Kennedy Invites You to
Wear It For Autism WEAR IT FOR AUTISM is pampering mums, dads, children and carers – who either have autism themselves or care for those living with the condition. To celebrate and thank them for everything that they do, they will be treated to a top-to-toe makeover by styling experts and will take centre-stage in the super-stylish Wear It For Autism fashion event at London’s Vinyl Factory on Tuesday, 10th September. In June, the Wear It For Autism winners were picked from 6 categories – mums, couples/ families, grandparents, champions of Anna Kennedy Online, carers and children with autism, by judges, Rich Clarke from musiceyz, Gail Porter, Adele
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Silva and Pineapple’s Maggie Paterson. Join Anna and the Anna Kennedy Online team to raise a glass to these special people on this special night!
that would be fun for all involved – as well as raise vital funds to campaign for the rights of those with this disability.” Tickets for the show are available now, priced at £25 each and all ticket holders will receive FREE goody bags! All profits go to the registered charity Anna Kennedy Online, which supports UK families affected by autism, including providing small grants for educational and domestic resources. For further information visit www.annakennedyonline.com
Celebrities attending include, Gail Porter, Richie Rich, alongside Maggie Paterson and many others. Autism’s got Talent stars Marie Gorton, James Mason and dancers from Pineapple Performing Arts School will be performing on the evening. Anna Kennedy OBE said, “The idea behind Wear It For Autism was to spoil those who usually never get a chance to treat or even think of themselves. Living with autism can be challenging and extremely demanding so we wanted to create a special event
To book tickets please email: lisa.robins@thevines.org.uk Sponsors are Littlewood’s, Pineapple Performing Arts, Mac Mac Make up, Miglio Jewellery and Mahogony Hair.
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Fun Accessories for Kids from Hold Them Up concerned about fiddly buckles when they need the toilet, the easy bottle opener belts have an uncomplicated clasp which will help them maintain their independence and save any wee embarrassments caused by tricky buckles.
Kids love dressing up and once past the baby stage, it’s not long before they want to dress themselves and have some input on what they think looks good. Most children have a very clear understanding of what they like, and are not as reserved as grown-ups are when it comes to having fun with fashion.
Hold Them Up also stock a great range of bow ties which are ideal for wedding outfits and formal events. Or, just like Will.i.am, Harry Styles, David Beckham, Jade Thrilwall, Fearne Cotton and Ellie Goulding, kids can enjoy wearing bow ties just for the fun of it!
If your child is wild about fashion it is worth checking out online retailer Hold Them Up for a fantastic range of funky braces and colourful stretch belts, designed to fit babies, toddlers, young children and teens. Even if your child isn’t losing their trousers, the brightly coloured belts and braces make very stylish accessories and are ideal as a gift. Because Hold Them Up belts and braces are available in a range of adjustable sizes, they are extremely comfortable for even the most active of children, and are available in an array of exciting designs and wonderful colours that are sure to please little trend setter’s everywhere. Older children’s belts are available with a traditional pin buckle, but for little ones
To order visit
www.holdthemup.co.uk
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Wonder Onesies by British Brand Silver Sense Wonder Onesies are soft, stylish and a lot of fun to wear; little ones will love snuggling up inside their cute stripy outfit which comes complete with a cosy hood. They are ideal for a rainy day at home, a sleepover with friends and are especially great for travelling in as they won’t dig in or press on skin. Just like everything in the Silver Sense collection, great care has been taken to make sure the Wonder Onesies are as gentle and kind to skin as possible. Made from an exclusive combination of natural cotton and pure silver threads, all Silver Sense items have magical healing and antibacterial properties that work wonders for children with eczema, sensitive skin, chicken pox and other skin irritations. It doesn’t stop there as Silver Sense really has thought of everything; they’ve even sewn the labels onto the outside so there is nothing at all that can cause irritation.
TotsBots Move over James Bond, there are some new agents in town and they are on a mission to banish the despicables and spread a little nappiness...! The UK’s leading cloth nappy brand, TotsBots, recently announced that their very own super heroes had landed. Introducing The Double Agents, Pooper Hero and Nature Girl, a super cute nappy and Tshirt combination that will ensure your little one is ready to protect the world (quite literally), and their bottoms! The Double Agents range will introduce two awesome nappy designs and fab matching Tshirts. In true TotsBots form, you will ‘marvel’ at these cheeky prints as not only will your little one look super stylish they will experience the ultimate comfort too!
These cute outfits are available from 18 months to 8 years at www.silversense.co.uk.
RRP: £9.99 (for T-shirts) and starting from £10.99 (for nappies)
Fashion Meets Function at Quack Quack Moo It’s official, Quack Quack Moo have landed and they are on a mission to put the fun back into practical organic clothing and accessories! The brand is absolutely over the MOOn to introduce you to a collection of clothing that is bright, bold, durable and above all FUNctional! Each piece has been beautifully designed and produced with fabrics of outstanding quality, promising a clothing range that will be a firm favourite from day one. The range consists of the Cosy Grow, long and short sleeved vests, the Snuggle Suit and the award winning Potty Pants! Not only has each garment been made with high quality and organic fabric, each piece uses the Dribble Bubbs technology, a unique fabric that Quack Quack Moo has developed exclusively for the range. Dribble Bubbs is a triple layer of fabric that provides a waterproof and absorbent protection guard, so anywhere you see cowprint, you can feel safe in the knowledge that your little one is 100% protected!
www.quackquackmoo.co.uk
Stockists: www.totsbots.com
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Silver Sense have teamed up with My Family to offer one lucky reader one of their fabulous Wonder Onesies worth £40 in a colour of their choice!
TotsBots have teamed up with My Family to offer you the chance to win a Double Agents Nappy and T-ahirt combo of your choice.
We are delighted to offer one lucky winner a fabulous snuggle suit!
To enter simply email your name and day time contact number under the subject ONESIES to silver-sense@myfamilymagazine.co.uk (Closing date for entries is midnight on 30th September 2013)
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To enter simply email your choice of Pooper Hero or Nature Girl along with your name and day time contact number under the subject NAPPY to tots-bots@myfamilymagazine.co.uk (Closing date for entries is midnight on 30th September 2013)
For a chance to win, email your name and daytime contact number under the subject MOO to quack@myfamilymagazine.co.uk (Closing date for entries is midnight on 30th September 2013)
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The Stylish Solution to Mealtime Mishaps from Messy Me Mealtimes with little ones can be challenging and more often than not end up with lots of mess to clean up. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to enjoy breakfast, lunch and dinner with your tot without the worry of having to spend ages washing and scrubbing afterwards? Now you can – introducing Messy Me, a collection of highchair covers, bibs and tunics that makes cleaning up spilt food a breeze! The Messy Me range, which is made from high quality, soft and easy wipe oilcloth, has been designed with the messiest of mealtimes in mind. The super stylish bib and tunic are ideal for keeping little ones seriously covered up; the highchair cover
cleverly ensures every nook and cranny is protected. Endless outfit washes and picking out leftovers from the sides of the highchair is sure to become a thing of the past with the protection of Messy Me. The oilcloth means that any spilt food can quite simply be wiped clean in an instant, allowing tots to enjoy eating (and throwing) their scrumptious dinner - whilst mum and dad can remain calm and stress free in the knowledge that they can simply wipe the mess away! The fabric is beautifully soft, so it is comfortable and drapes well. It has a 100% cotton base for added breathability and a lovely gloss finish, which is harder wearing and resistant to most stains.
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! You could be the lucky winner of a Messy Me high chair cover and a tunic in the style of your choice. To enter simply email your name and day time contact number under the subject MESSY ME to messy@myfamilymagazine.co.uk (Closing date for entries if midnight on 30th September 2013).
Stockist: www.messy-me.com
The Joey Pouch from Bubbaroo Bubbaroo is a beautiful, eminently stylish and practical nursery brand that has just arrived in the UK from Australia. This luxury sleep brand for babies has been thoughtfully created to ensure it is not only 100% safe and functional; it is also premium quality and beautifully designed. Babies love to be securely swaddled when they are newborns, as it makes them feel secure mimicking the mother’s womb -so wrap them up in a luxurious Joey Pouch! The Joey Pouch is a unique swaddling bag to promote safe and peaceful sleep patterns. Its design simulates the
womb allowing baby to feel snug and secure, although unlike other swaddling products it is not designed to bear resemblance to a straight jacket that swaddles firmly to restrict movement.The Bubbaroo Joey Pouch has a distinctive bell shape, which creates space for baby to kick and frog their legs. The Joey Pouch comes in four soothing colours and is made of a luxurious light-weight 100% cotton waffle fabric, with a Tog rating to help with temperature control. As well as providing the perfect environment for sleeping at night the Joey Pouch is ideal to use in the pram and car seat, and thanks to the clever bottom opening zip, baby can stay snug as a bug, even while mum changes the nappy!
In their Joey Pouch babies are encouraged to settle in their natural sleeping position, with arms up to help them self soothe – ideal at home and when out and about!
www.bubbaroo.co.uk
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! We are delighted to offer one lucky winner a Joey Pouch to swaddle their bundle of joy in. To enter simply email your name and day time contact number under the subject SWADDLE to bubbaroo@myfamilymagazine.co.uk (Closing date for entries if midnight on 30th September 2013).
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Baking Utensils for Kids Brace yourselves TUMTUM fans; the new Baking Range is finally here and it is guaranteed to uncover the baker in everyone! The range consists of utensils, a baking tin, an apron and a hat and the ultimate baking set. The set includes a cute sugar shaker, two shaped stencils, two cookie cutters and a
mixing bowl with a clever lid so that all the bits and bobs can be stored away when they are not in use. Baking will be a breeze with the help of TUMTUM and the products will certainly encourage children into the kitchen to get baking! Like all TUMTUM products, it’s fun and brightly coloured, making the baking experience all the more enjoyable! TUMTUM have thought of everything with their baking range and as expected the products offer far more than the norm! Utensils with wide bases, which miraculously stand up, are great to avoid cake mix dripping on the kitchen worktop. The lidded bowl is not only great to store away all the baking bits, it has a non-slip base so the little ones don’t have any accidents when stirring their concoctions. And, thanks to the super cute red apron and
hat tots will not only look the part they will keep their clothes clean. Finally, any uneaten creations can be stored away in the hedgehog cake tin. Stockists: www.tumtumtots.com, www.johnlewis.co.uk
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! We have teamed up with TUM TUM to offer a lucky reader the chance to win a Baking Set with hat and apron. To enter simply email your name and day time contact number under the subject TUM TUM to bake@myfamilymagazine.co.uk (Closing date for entries is midnight on 30th September 2013)
Hand Picked Gifts and Interiors for Your Little Cherubs! Cherish & Cherubs was set up this year by Caitlin and offers a fresh approach to gift buying. With an ethos of quirky, different and quality, the online retailer strives to provide products that aren’t stocked on the high-street, to ensure that British homes retain the much-loved quirky nature we’re renowned for.
Caitlin draws inspiration for Cherish and Cherubs from her young son, her background in antiques and a passion for vintage style.
After spending ages searching for fun and good quality products for her son and special gifts for friends, Caitlin decided to establish this selection of fun, stylish and quality gifts and interiors for everyone's little cherubs! In doing so she brings together her own collection of handpicked products, all of which come with the guarantee of being reliably sourced from crafts people and suppliers, from around the UK and Europe.
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Cherish & Cherubs has sourced and selected a beautiful range of vintage and vintage inspired gifts and interiors for children. Each item has been carefully chosen because of its style, quality and charm. The collection of tasteful gifts and interiors include, a range of personalised baby blankets and cushions, hand-painted keepsake boxes and door plaques, gorgeous pyjamas, fun personalised aprons, vintage teacup candles, traditional toys and games, and much more! For more details please visit
www.cherishandcherubs.co.uk
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Make the Most of Your Summer Evenings Now summer is here, we turn our attention to the garden and weeding, planting and mowing but what about when all that is done? How do you extend that summer evening?
Patio Awnings and Terrace Covers, not only give shade against harmful UV rays but improve the ambience of a summers evening.
If you are looking for a more permanent, sturdy structure; then a Terrace cover is your answer.
Here at Countesthorpe Blinds Limited we have the answer!
Terrace covers create an outdoor room, the front frame continues to the floor and is bolted down, and the cover then extends within the frame keeping it taut. This together with the integral gutter system makes them ideal in the rain.
Cold air drops at night, so sitting under one will keep the chill off and with the addition of Quartz Heaters (which heat you and not the air) you can enjoy your garden long into the night! Patio Awnings come in a wide range of models, from a basic manual awning to fully motorised cassette awnings. With the addition of lighting and heating you can totally transform your outdoor living space.
These also make great covers for hot tubs, providing both shelter and privacy. With the addition of lights and heaters, a perfect room that can be put away when you have finished with it, at a fraction of the cost of an extension! So if this sounds like a great way to enjoy the summer, call Countesthorpe Blinds Limited for a free, no obligation quotation on 0116 277 6749 or 0771 833 7048
www.countesthorpeblinds.co.uk
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Guilt-Free Gifts It seems strange to use the word ‘gift’ and ‘guilt’ in the same sentence, after all gift giving is a way of expressing your gratitude, recognition and appreciation for someone special. Giving a gift can strengthen relationships between family, friends and even business clients. But, when we buy a gift - isn’t it our duty to think about how and where it was made? The highstreet is full of plastic and mass produced items, cheaply made abroad with little consideration given to environmental and ethical issues associated with working conditions. Some workers (sometimes children) are working 12-14 hours a day, seven days a week, for very little money. Working conditions can be miserable and sometimes even dangerous, with some workers suffering abuse at the hands of employers.
However this doesn’t have to be, there are plenty of gift options around that you don’t have to feel guilty about. In this issue My Family our ‘Guilt Free Gift Guide’ will help you make more informed choices about the gifts that you buy, as well as a few inspirations from companies that we love.
Buy British The ‘Made in Britain’ tag is a powerful piece of branding to the ethical and environmentally savvy shopper. In Britain, we are fortunate to have an abundance of home-grown industry and innovations right on our doorstep. There are numerous skilled craftsmen and women, who are carrying on the proud tradition of making outstanding products in studios, workshops, factories, and farms throughout the British Isles. When you buy British you know that you are: n supporting ethical production, fair wages and decent working conditions n reducing the environmental impact of imported goods n strengthening British production and British capabilities n assisting future growth and prosperity n supporting homegrown opportunities for us and our children
Hand Made Few gifts are more appreciated than those that have been made by hand. When you give a handmade gift to a loved one, they know that your intention was to make it both personal and unique; that you chose something especially for them. Quite often handmade gifts are are one-off’s which solves embarrassment of giving an identical gift as someone else. Many are made to order or personalised to your own specification, but as handmade gifts are very rarely mass-produced make sure that you allow plenty of time for your order to arrive.
Fair Trade Buy a Fairtrade gift and you will be helping farmers and workers in the developing world to improve the quality of their lives and their futures. Fairtrade connects disadvantaged producers and consumers, promotes fairer trading conditions and empowers producers to combat poverty, strengthen their position in world markets and take more control over their lives.
Greener Gifts Instead of a gift item, give a special experience like theatre tickets. If you’re buying for the family activist think about giving a conservation gift like an acre of rainforest, adopt an endangered animal or make a donation to a chosen charity, as this is likely deliver the warm, fuzzy feeling, that gift giving is all about.
Choose Organic Giving an Organic gift is good for you and your planet, is kind to animals and wildlife, and allows you to make a big difference – simply through the way you shop. Here are some great reasons to choose an organic gift: n Organic farms respect our water resources n Organic farmers build healthy soil n Organic farmers work in harmony with nature n Organic producers are leaders in innovative research n Organic producers strive to preserve diversity n Organic farming help to keep rural communities healthy n Organic shoppers have abundant choice of foods and non-foods gifts alike! With all these benefits, it’s easy to see why organic delivers such good value for money.
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The UK’s First Online Marketplace for Original Children’s Clothes, Toys, and Accessories Loubilou offers a refreshing alternative to the usual selection of mass produced goods offered by conventional high street stores. With more than 2000 thoughtfully made and rare items in categories such as Art/Creativity, Clothing, and Furniture added in just three months, the site is rapidly growing as merchants add new products daily.
A new website offering parents a global emporium featuring individual sellers of children’s clothing, gifts, toys and accessories has just launched in the UK. Loubilou.com brings together unique, high quality childrenswear from the very best independent sellers around the world. The website is the brainchild of Heath Kane, father of two, award-winning designer and also the former creative director of Sapient.
The site features an array of items to delight and inspire children and their grown-ups, including biodegradable bamboo toy race cars, handmade reversible dresses, and cardboard circus wagons for children to build and decorate.
Frustrated by the limited choice of clothing available from high street retailers for his young children, he also found it a marathon hunt to find just the right sellers online.
Designed to delight and inspire, Loubilou delivers a more personalised, and more satisfying e-commerce experience for consumers.
To learn more, visit
www.loubilou.com.
Traditional jointed bears handmade from 100% Shetland organic wool. Currently applying for Soil Association Certification.
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The Stripy Company – the natural gift for New Baby, Christenings and Baby Showers Anouk and Christa are offering you an exclusive 10% discount and free P&P when you purchase from www.thestripycompany.co.uk using code SUMMER13 at the checkout (offer ends 30th September 2013).
The Stripy Company is a fabulous little company created by two mums, for mums. Based in Cheltenham, The Stripy Company is now in its fifth year and in this time the company has grown from producing a selection of beautiful baby blankets, to a whole host of gorgeous goodies – including their fabulous Travel Sacks and Hampers. The company was started by sisters Anouk and Christa; who as mums themselves, wanted their blankets to be made from 100% cotton and lambswool, to ensure they are of a high quality and super-soft again the skin.
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! With the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s baby due any time soon, we have teamed up with The Stripy Company to celebrate by offering one lucky reader some gorgeous new baby essentials worth £100!
All The Stripy Company products are designed by Anouk and Christa in the UK, made in Europe and are always in 100% natural fabric – even the lambskins are organic. Take a look at their gorgeous range of greetings cards, stencil portraits and soft toys (we LOVE their hand crocheted ‘blind mice’) – they make perfect presents for new babies, christenings and baby showers.
Careful consideration has also been given to design of the blankets, which come in a range of fun stripy patterns that little ones love. And, because life with little ones can get a bit messy at times, the blankets are machine-washable making them extremely practical and usable for parents too. Over the 5 years that The Stripy Company has been growing, the girls have seen a new market emerging in the Baby Shower Industry. Originally popular in the States, these events are becoming more and more popular in the UK and The Stripy Company hampers and gift sets, are being bought by groups of friends specifically with The Baby Shower in mind.
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For your chance to win the snuggly bundle containing a Cambridge blanket, the Travel Sack and a classic stripy cotton blanket visit www.thestripycompany.co.uk – browse the range and tell us, in no more than 100 words, which is your favourite product and why. Email your answer with the subject heading My Family Magazine to enquiries@thestripycompany.co.uk (The closing date for entries is midnight on 16th September 2013).
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Guilt-Free Gifts www.loubilou.com
www.cherishandcherubs.co.uk www.letsplayfair.co.uk
www.naturallycoolkids.com
www.shetlandfudge.co.uk
www.wingreen.co.uk www.orchardtoys.com
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Skills That Children Can Learn from Performing Arts Getting your child involved in performing arts can really help them to develop real life skills. Involvement in the performing arts can improve critical and creative thinking, hand-eye coordination, motor skills, and social skills like taking turns, sharing and negotiating.
There is more to be gained in getting involved than just finding a hobby for your child. Their participation in dance, music, opera, theatre, magic, acting, circus arts and musical theatre, is a great way to boost their self-esteem. Performing arts, will help them think creatively, to be spontaneous and approach tasks from a different perspective. By regularly using their creativity, it will come more naturally to them now and in their future lives. Performance will teach them different ways to move and communicate, how to use nonverbal communication and body language; this will not only help them to make their performance come alive but how to effectively communicate their own emotions. Learning new skills and techniques will challenge your child, as it requires practice and perseverance. As they progress and improve, they will gain confidence in themselves, become more self-aware and when their
efforts result in a finished performance, they learn to associate dedication with a feeling of accomplishment. These skills can also improve a child’s ability to concentrate and focus in other aspects of their life like school and exams.
Pop into Popdance Tots!
Style on offer tots will love learning the dance moves of the stars.
Does your little one love to boogie? Popdance Tots is a specially choreographed class where children ages three to five can dance to the music they love.
Founder and mum of two Sue Wybrow had the idea for Popdance when she couldn’t find a class that combined a good workout with a lot of fun. Working with some fantastic dance teachers the model for Popdance was born; a class where there is no pressure to get the steps right, people can truly let their hair down and tone up. It wasn’t long before people were enquiring about classes for children, and then even younger ones. After all it’s the perfect way to introduce tots to exercise without any stress!
Tailored to pre-schoolers the classes encourage little ones to have a lot of fun while moving (and probably jumping) around with the help of some popular tunes and ultimately benefiting from getting some exercise. With everything from One Direction to Gangnam
Parents can rest assured their little ones will love their Popdance class, as the experienced teachers work hard to make sure all classes have a relaxed, informal and welcoming atmosphere so nobody need feel shy or nervous about getting involved. There are also Popdance Kids classes for children aged five to eleven and Popdance original classes for mums! To find your nearest class please visit:
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Stagecoach Theatre Arts celebrates 25 years Children of all ages and backgrounds have always been drawn to the performing arts, and with good reason: acting, singing and dancing is fun. But what’s sometimes overlooked are the educational and developmental benefits that these activities can bring to young people. Successful performance relies on discipline, commitment and excellent communication; qualities that stand children in good stead both academically and in later life. The excitement of working out a dance routine, immersing yourself in a character or hitting the right note gives children the opportunity to express their creativity, at the same time as building their confidence and self-esteem. For twenty-five years, Stagecoach Theatre Arts has been dedicated to providing high quality performing arts education to young students. In stagecoach classes, young people are encouraged to develop and hone skills in singing, dancing and acting, to stretch their imaginations, learning to think creatively. High on the list of Stagecoach’s priorities is a desire that Stagecoach classes should be fun! At the same time, they are constantly striving for educational excellence. Students develop their aptitude in numeracy and
improve literacy with fun challenges such as performing scripts and learning a dance routine or a song with a peer group. 600 schools around the globe in 10 countries worldwide indicate that Stagecoach have a good formula.
energy and enable wonderful things to happen both individually and collectively through the experience of perfoming arts at Stagecoach. This year, to celebrate the birth of Stagecoach in 1988, 3,000 Stagecoach students were given an unforgettable experience when they got the chance to perform in the biggest ever staging of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s CATS at the Birmingham NIA.
However, a more subtle measure of Stagecoach’s ‘success’ lies in its provision in each school of a safe space in which students can take creative risks. A student who starts with an attitude of ‘I can’t’ almost always progresses to ‘I can’ and ‘I will!’. Carefully trained Principals and dynamic teachers working to create an atmosphere of trust are key to this as is the exciting curriculum that stimulates students to turn their ideas into performance expression. The synergy between singing, dancing and acting can release a unique energy in young people. Stagecoach aims to harness that
The main cast consisted of 50 specially selected dancers and 500 singers in a grand choir from 13 Stagecoach schools. An additional 2,500 young performers from a further 47 schools throughout the UK, Malta, Germany and Ireland brought their own individual creative dances to life in a selection of the CATS score within the vast arena. These students were supported by a virtual choir of international students from Stagecoach schools in Canada, Germany, Gibraltar, Ireland, South Africa, Spain and USA. Theatre Arts Schools
Stagecoach Jonathan and Charlotte, operatic duo of Britain's Got Talent fame, opened the show. Charlotte, who is a former Stagecoach Chigwell student said, 'I always knew I wanted to be part of the performing arts world, and if it wasn't for my incredible eleven years of training and experiences at Stagecoach, I don't believe I'd be where I am now! I learnt so much from Stagecoach and I have so much to thank them for. Jonathan and I were incredibly honoured to have been involved in their 25th birthday celebrations.' Obviously not every child who takes part will go on to have a career in show-business, but while they’re enjoying their time in the spotlight and making new friends, there’s no doubt they’re also building skills for life. To find out more visit:
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Relax, Read and Succeed this Summer! by Liz Walker, proprietor of Reading Chest
Whilst children might think of a ‘summer slide’ as a fun activity on a sunny day in the park, the ‘summer slide’ is also used to describe what happens to some children’s learning, including a decline in reading achievement when they are away from school during the long summer holidays. There has been lots of research to show that children who do not read during the summer holiday will start the next academic year with a reading level 2-3 months behind children who do read. The Education Secretary, Mr Gove wants to shorten summer holidays to reduce this setback in learning many children suffer by being away from school for such a long period. Regular reading during the holidays can prevent the ‘summer slide’ and give children the best start to their new school year. There are lots of opportunities for reading and learning during
the summer, but it is also important that children have access to the right level of books - to consolidate skills, feel successful and encourage voluntary reading. If children read books which are too difficult for them, they end up using all their energy to decode individual words rather than engaging with the book and enjoying it. Here are a few of Reading Chest’s favourite ways to keep your children reading and learning this summer: 1
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Board games tend to get forgotten about during busy term times. Make the most of rainy days with Scrabble and Monopoly marathons or design your own! Write Grandad a postcard. (He will hopefully write one back!) Encourage other friends and family members to write postcards too.
Educational Apps! Children won’t think of it as ‘reading’ but there are many brilliant educational apps available. Apps4primaryschools.co.uk is full of apps which are recommended by teachers.
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Invent your own ‘Barnaby Bear’ for children to take on their travels and write about in a scrap book. Children will be used to this idea from bringing home their class cuddly toy.
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Play schools – with a whiteboard, a register and some bits printed from the internet – this can go on for hours!
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Write lists – shopping lists, packing for holiday lists, birthday party lists . . .
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Top Trumps are brilliant for reading, maths and learning facts. You could take it one step further and make your own.
10 Join www.readingchest.co.uk to receive regular deliveries of books at your child’s chosen reading level delivered to your door. Members also get reward charts, certificates and write book reviews online. Not only is it fun and motivational for children, it is also convenient for working parents who might not be able to make it to the library.
7 Design a rocket or something similar! Get children to draw up plans or instructions before letting them loose on your junk around the house to build their creation.
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Bake! Everything involved in baking is fantastic for children’s learning, from reading the recipe, to weighing ingredients, to sharing cakes with friends.
If you want to keep the long summer holidays – keep your children reading!
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School's out, but education's still in! By Simon Walsh, Maths Doctor, www.mathsdoctor.tv
Every parent ponders how to entertain their children during the long summer break from school, yet have you ever considered how to boost their education at the same time? It's not as daft, or difficult, as you may think. All leisure activity involves learning to some extent. For example, you're always using some kind of maths: packing a picnic basket uses shape, space and measuring ability; playing on a swing involves degrees and mechanics; answering "How long will it take to get there?" requires estimating skills; being in the right gear on a bicycle is all about ratio; and playing a computer game makes your brain carry out thousands of calculations every second. (Fortunately, a human brain is five times faster than the world's fastest super-computer!) It's vital that your kids get to grips with maths – not only to fulfil their academic potential but also, most importantly, because it develops problem-solving and critical thinking skills that aid social and emotional growth. Maths is like anything else: the more you practise – even without realising it – the better you become. So, with the help of our team of tutors at Maths Doctor, I've put together a taste of maths- and science-related holiday ideas for children aged 3-18. This is just a snapshot – the full list can be found at www.myfamilymagazine.co.uk/ index.php/whats-new. I hope these ideas inspire you and your kids to find even more engaging, educational things to do, no matter where you are this summer. Feel free to share your own ideas by commenting at My Family Magazine’s Facebook page. Happy holidays!
You don't have to go far to find a library, museum, gallery, aquarium, planetarium, university, playground, or club offering summer activities that include an element of maths or science. For example: l The University of Manchester Whitworth Art Gallery (www.whitworth.manchester.ac.uk/ whatson/families/freeevents); Colourful Sundays drop-in creative workshops constructing your own artwork using maths and art techniques; every Sunday, all year round, from 1.30pm to 3.30pm; for all ages; no need to book; free. l STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Maths) events run all over the summer (www.stemnet.org.uk/events) e.g. the BG Group Earth & Marine Science Summer School (www.exscitec.com/courses) with lab-based, on-shore and off-shore activities in London and Southampton. l The Science Museum, London (www.sciencemuseum.org.uk/visitmuseum /galleries/mathematics.aspx); interactive displays, including the Mathematics gallery where you'll discover the maths behind gunnery, carpentry, mapping, MP3 players and more; for all ages; free entry to most of the museum. Brighten your kids' day along with their minds, whether they're staying home, heading to the park or seaside, or whiling away the time on planes, trains and automobiles: l Books: Free maths e-books about counting, shapes and time for ages 3-5 (www.oxfordowl.co.uk/ maths/fun-activities/3-5); any book of sudoku, futoshiki, or kakuro puzzles.
l Cards: Buy a pack of cards and teach your children aged 3+ to play snap, go fish, old maid, happy families, solitaire, rummy and more – see how at www.activityvillage.co.uk/card_games_for_ kids.htm, and try www.davidparlett.co.uk/ oricards for Dracula, Caterpillar and other maths-specific card games for ages c.7+. l Music & Movies: www.bbc.co.uk/schools/numbertime/song, three illustrated online songs about basic numeracy for ages 4+, free; some movies involving maths or science include Steamboy (PG/7+), The Nutty Professor (PG/7+), The Man in the White Suit (PG/9+), Contact (PG/9+), A Beautiful Mind (12+), Good Will Hunting and Pi (both 15+). l Offline games: a variety of board games, from Mathopoly to Sum Swamp, for ages 3 to adult are reviewed by parents at www.mathsinsider.com/math-boardgames; more advanced games for gifted or older kids include dice games, draughts/checkers, ludo (download and print this maths PDF worksheet version www.teachitmaths.co.uk/?resource=20684) backgammon, mahjong and chess. You can even teach your teenagers poker to practise game theory, statistics and probability – best use toothpicks or pennies as the stakes! l Online activities: As well as computer and tablet games, there are loads of apps for classic maths-related games, such as sudoku and Tetris, that don't require Internet access to play after download. Here are some other ideas to explore: www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/games Brainteaser fun for little ones (age 3+); free www.murderousmaths.co.uk: Amusing tricks and games, including the Missing Digit Trick and Age by Chocolate, teaching logic, algebra, fractions, etc.; for ages 8 to 12; play alone or with friends; free. www.shodor.org/interactivate/ activities: 100+ Java-based online maths and science activities for ages 8-18; free Tips: If you don't have access to an Internet-enabled computer or smartphone at home, try your local library. Keep your kids safe online. Guidance can be found at www.saferinternet.org.uk. Maths Doctor and My Family Magazine are not endorsing any of the organisations, products, or services in this article, and are not responsible for the content of thirdparty websites.
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Meet the Mathical Creatures Introducing Mathical Creatures, an enjoyable, mathematical card game for children aged 7 and above. The educational game uses the fun theme of myths and monsters to teach and reinforce key numeracy skills.
games for them to play. The games proved to be such a hit that Lesley decided to turn her ideas into a business and Mathstraks Games was born! Lesley trialed Mathstraks Games in schools and with friends’ children before releasing Mathical Creatures in April 2013. Initially available in a number of local shops, the game has proved to be such a success that it is now attracting the attention of national outlets.
Mathical Creatures is a great way to enable children to practise and improve their mental arithmetic and helps improve their maths confidence through play. What’s more, with the summer holidays just around the corner Mathical Creatures offers hours of fun gameplay for kids and a great way for parents to support their child’s learning outside the classroom.
“I have always enjoyed the creative side of my job and love developing activities and games for my classes; I am now really enjoying developing Mathstraks Games alongside teaching maths part time,” says Lesley. Further numeracy card games are currently in production and Lesley is hoping to have two new releases ready for this Autumn. The brainbox behind the game is mum and maths teacher from Derbyshire, Lesley Higgin. In order to help her own children with their maths, she designed some numeracy card
For supplier information, check out Mathstraks Facebook page www.facebook.com/mathstraksgames or visit www.mathstraks.co.uk
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Balancing a business and a family over the summer holidays Having the flexibility to run a business around your family is great until the summer holidays come around. How exactly do you get work done when you have children around for six weeks? Even if the children are spending some time in holiday clubs or with grandparents, the chances are you’ll have less time than usual to work on your business. And you’ll burn out quickly if you try to run around with the kids all day then work long into the night. So here are some ideas for making the best of the time you do have: Get a schedule: Much of the stress comes from trying to cram too much into too little time, so grab a calendar and write in all the activities, day trips and holidays you have planned. Then you’ll have a schedule that you can work around. Play dates: Arranging play dates with another mum – whether she’s running a business or just wants some free time of her own – can free up a few hours of work time.
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Quiet time: Children are often tired at the end of the school year and will want to spend a few mornings taking it easy in their pyjamas. They don’t need to be occupied with activities every single hour and a little TV is fine. Alternatively, you can plan some quiet activities ahead of time such as colouring or crafts that don’t need much adult input. Then you can make use of this time to get some work done, especially if the children know they’ll be doing something fun with you later in the day. Plan ahead: Look at the tasks that need to be done over the summer months and work out which can be done ahead of time. Many marketing tasks including blog posts and social media updates can be written and scheduled weeks ahead, for example. Try to get some of these tasks out of the way before the end of term. Apply the 80:20 rule: The 80:20 rule (also known as the Pareto Principle) says that we get 80% of our results from 20% of our actions and that we make 80% of our income from 20% of our clients or products. Use your drop in working hours to get really strict on where you spend your time. Dump those activities that aren’t delivering the goods and you’ll free up lots of time.
Helen Lindop Helen helps parents grow businesses around their young families. You can grab her free e-book Running a Business Around a Family: 9 Steps to Success’ at www.businessplusbaby.com/9steps
Automate: Look for places where technology can do the job for you. For example, an application like Buffer and Hootsuite can automate some of your social media updates and you can get accounts software that will speed up your bookkeeping and invoicing. Outsource: Can you pay someone else to do some of the work for you? Even paying a teenager a little cash to help out with packing could help. Go with the flow: There will be sick days, arguments and many other unexpected events that will need to be worked around. There will also be times when you just feel like dropping everything and taking the kids out for some fresh air. Don’t get too frustrated when things don’t go to plan, remember to enjoy the summer and make time to relax.
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