Hallways: Breaking Barriers (Winter 21-22)

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FEATURE CANDICE STOREY LEE

‘There’s always another game’ by Elizabeth Read ’09

FALL SPEAKER SERIES AT HARPETH HALL

Catherine Armwood-Gordon, Ph.D., Associate Professor, Department of Civil and Architectural Engineering, Tennessee State University Sandra Sepulveda, Nashville Metro Council • Dr. Sonya Reid, Vanderbilt-Ingram Cancer Center • Reid Patton ’14, Product Manager at Facebook (now Meta) Candice Storey Lee, Ed.D., Vice Chancellor for Athletic and University Affairs and Athletic Director, Vanderbilt University As Candice Storey Lee, Ed.D., sat on stage in front of Harpeth Hall’s student body, she reflected on the school’s mission and the opportunity for the students to be at a school that uplifts and supports women’s voices. With that mission as the foundation, she said, students are primed to understand that they can do anything. For Dr. Lee, becoming Vanderbilt’s first female athletic director and the first Black woman to lead a Southeastern Conference athletics program was not something she ever thought she would be able to do. “I laughed the first time I was told I could be an athletic director one day,” Dr. Lee said. “It felt so daunting to me. There just aren’t a lot of women doing it.” With the 50th anniversary of Title IX approaching, Dr. Lee recognized that while a lot of progress has been made, there is still work to do. At Harpeth Hall, she sees potential. In her journey to becoming an athletic director, Dr. Lee was guided by the lessons she learned as an athlete. As an athlete, you have to trust in your preparation and trust that you have practiced and worked hard, be graceful in defeat, not be boastful when there is a win, and show up every day. One of the best lessons she learned was that it is possible to be confident and humble. Being confident and humble means you have trust in yourself, but also the humility to know that you do not achieve anything alone. You have a team, peers, mentors, and those who blazed the trails that allowed you to be where you are. Importantly, though, Dr. Lee learned early in her athletic career that to be a good leader, you do not have to be the best, most talented player, but rather your best authentic self, respectful to others, and a good teammate. By being authentic to who you are, you are not only honoring your true self, but also accepting others as the authentic people that they are. This value is a showing of respect and allows you to appreciate the risks and bravery of yourself and others.

“One of the most powerful things about sports is that there is always another game,” Dr. Lee said. In the face of loss or defeat, “you have to move on to the next play. If you get beat on defense and you’re lamenting, you’re upset, you’ve got poor body language and a bad attitude, the game will pass you by. It keeps going. It doesn’t wait on you. That’s how life is. We are going to make mistakes. Sometimes we are not going to be our best self, but the key is how you respond to that.” Through channeling principles of an athlete, Dr. Lee gained a platform that will help the women who step up to lead after her. She is determined to not let the opportunity go to waste because, as she sees it, “there are amazing women out there who deserve opportunities, but don’t have a champion.” This goal is something Dr. Lee is working towards in her role as an athletic director of a SEC university, overseeing all sports ranging from the high-profile football teams to lower profile sports. “Everyone deserves to be celebrated when they are great at their craft and it is important to celebrate with equality,” Dr. Lee said. She encouraged students to hold each other accountable, to call out inequity, to show others what is possible. and to be the champions for the people who cannot be champions for themselves. Dr. Lee also left the audience with an important challenge — to show themselves the compassion that they show other people. “Nobody wants to be judged on their worst day,” she said. “This applies to yourself and others. If you make a mistake, if you lose, you have to know you are bigger and better than your worst moments. … We are not striving for perfection because there is no such thing. We are striving for great effort. If you aren’t making mistakes, you aren’t going hard enough, if you are making too many mistakes, you aren’t being thoughtful. If you make a mistake out of effort, it is okay.” WINTER 2022 | 19


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In Memoriam Alumnae

8min
pages 65-68

In Memoriam Susan Baughman

4min
page 64

In Memoriam Trustees

2min
page 62

In Memoriam Pat Moran

2min
page 63

Marriages

2min
page 61

Births

2min
page 60

Class Notes

15min
pages 54-59

Twice-the-Fun Reunion

3min
page 40

Internship Opportunities

6min
pages 52-53

Alumnae Network Spotlight

1min
page 49

An Olympic Splash

17min
pages 30-33

From the Hill to the Gridiron

11min
pages 34-37

Sprinting Ahead of the Field

7min
pages 28-29

Title IX Trailblazers

3min
page 27

Being Bold at Facebook

2min
page 20

Soccer IQ Earns College Scholarship

3min
page 26

Celebrating State Championships

5min
pages 22-23

On Her Leadership Game

3min
page 21

National Merit Scholars

2min
page 18

Daughter and Mother/Special Friend Coffee

2min
page 19

Visual Art

1min
page 17

Wings of Healing

3min
page 16

Inside the Hall: Upper School

2min
pages 8-9

Observations from Jess Hill

3min
page 4

Student Voices

6min
pages 10-11

A Milestone Year

4min
page 5

Inside the Hall: Middle School

3min
pages 6-7

Library Legacy

5min
pages 12-13

In the Spotlight Performing Arts

5min
pages 14-15
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