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Engagement Session Staymoon Bouquet Trends a MUST have
creating a local get-a-way
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PRESIDENT’S LETTER
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Montana Wedding Welcome
Congratulations to you and yours!
What an exciting time in your life: planning a wedding. It can be stressful and overwhelming, to say the least, but you are now equipped with a wealth of information. We, as business professionals, are here to help you every step of the way, and that help is right here in your hands! The MY MONTANA WEDDING association is comprised of an elite group of individuals and members who follow a strict set of guidelines and code of ethics, to make sure you are provided the best in services for your hard earned money. We network together to arrange a complete, full service event. This association works with cakes, gowns, tuxes, limos, venues, catering, spa services, carriage rides, flowers, wedding planners, realtors, travel, bars, DJ’s, invitations, jewelry, lodgings, rentals, videographers, photographers, and even home furnishings. We are all here for you. We believe that keeping your resources local not only helps your community, but also produces a wonderful sense of pride that we were able to provide everything for your special day right here in our beautiful valley! For more information and the latest updates, check out our website at www.mymontanawedding.com and don’t forget to “like” us on Facebook. Best Wishes, Melissa Beumer - Mimi’s Bridal President - MY MONTANA WEDDING
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BOARD OF DIRECTORS President Melissa Beumer Mimi’s Bridal Vice President Sandy Hensen Celebrate Event and Party Rental Treasurer Cassie Baldelli Glacier Raft Company Weddings & Events Secretary Allison Rold Wild Horse Limousine
2015 Bridal Casting Call
A Night Out with
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For the very first time, My Montana Wedding assembled a select focus group of brides slated to marry in 2015. These lovely ladies were asked to select the cover for this year’s magazine, and we think they did an amazing job, they also contributed invaluable information to help make our publication even better. This is how it
Marketing Director Bailey Lalum Whitefish Events Magazine Director Kelly Kirksey Kelly Kirksey Photography Expo Chair Dennis Johnson The Party Store Expo Vice President Ryan Lalum Whitefish Events
Contributors Melissa Beumer Aileen Brosten Stephanie Curtis Kiralee Jones Kelly Kirksey Bailey Lalum Graham McDonald Heidi Roedel
happened. We began the evening with an elegant ride in a Wild Horse Limousine to the Tamarak Brewery in Lakeside. Once seated, we indulged in amazing food and conversation with these four lovely women, who are planning their weddings right now. After a lengthy discussion about the three possible covers, they decided on Marianne Wiest Photography’s beautiful photo of a couple in a familiar Montana field. The most magical light you have ever seen, pushed this photo over the edge to win the cover. In our association, we are surrounded by immeasurable talent, and our brides know it. Our four beautiful women appreciate the quality of vendors the association offers. They also are aware that My Montana Wedding endorses these companies, and that they, the brides, are in good hands. We could not agree more. Thank you Molly, Alexandra, Shay and Grete for helping us choose this year’s cover and for being amazing My Montana Wedding brides!
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Art Director Heidi Roedel - Utmost Graphics, LLC
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Wedding is the official My publication of My Montana Wedding (MMW). This is an annual publication with 10,000 copies for distrubution. Be sure to visit the annual MMW Wedding & Events Expo on February 21, 2015, from 10:00 AM to 5:00 PM at the Flathead County Fairgrounds Trade Center Building.
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Front Cover: Marianne Wiest Photography Back Cover: Kelly Kirksey Photography
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In This Issue
Articles:
Montana Wedding Laws........................................... 8 Invitations.................................................................. 12 Engagement Session............................................... 14 Boudoir Session......................................................... 15 Saying “I do” Your Way............................................ 20 Bouquet Trends for Montana Brides....................... 22 Formal Wear Tips and Tricks..................................... 26 Bridal Trends.............................................................. 28 Wedding Guest Etiquette........................................ 34 Who is in Favor of Favors......................................... 40 Staymoon.................................................................. 44 Day-of-Planner.......................................................... 51
Features:
Christianne and Kris.................................................... 4 Kassi and Zak............................................................. 10 Kaitlyn and Jordan................................................... 16 Ann Marie and Alex.................................................. 24 Britlee and Troy......................................................... 30 Elisheba and Brayden.............................................. 36 Jordan and Jesse..................................................... 42 Shayla and David..................................................... 46 Rachell and Mac...................................................... 54 Melanie and Cody................................................... 56 Kelsey and Parker..................................................... 60
Amber Siderius Photography
Directories:
MMW Member Directory......................................... 63 2015 Advertising Directory....................................... 68
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n the last run of the day, Christianne and Kris plopped down in the snow to rest.
That was when Kris decided to propose! Ten months of planning began.
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As they looked into places to hold their wedding, Kris requested mountains in winter. They left Edmonton, Canada for the Lodge at Whitefish Lake. Tradition was important to Christianne, so something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue had to be part of the wedding. Christianne’s mother cut a heart out from old jeans belonging to the bride’s dad and sewed it into the wedding dress. Her mother-in-law gave Christianne Kris’s old hockey jersey name tag, which was also sewn into her gown.
Besides a perfect wedding ceremony, Christianne and Kris also treated their guests to a popcorn bar. Popcorn came in the color of the wedding, and the bride and groom’s names were printed on each bag.
The couple invited ninety-five guests and close to everyone came…in the winter… from Edmonton.
Q. Tell me about your music. A. “Our processional song was all violin
last part of our honeymoon we spent
recordings. . . .(and) our first dance was
a week living it up on the beaches of
picked by my husband and he is still
Aruba. Absolutely gorgeous weather
shocked I agreed—it was by Halestorm
and the beaches were fantastic. ”
called “Here’s to Us.”
Q. Any advice to anyone going
Q. Did you go on a honeymoon? A. “We did. . . .We went to Ecuador
through this?
for about ten days and did all sorts of
ant (like bows/sashes on chairs) won’t
touring of the country. We climbed
be in the end. Don’t stress over it.
volcanos, mountains, and did some
Also, if any of your bridal party is flying
Amazon hiking. It was a complete cul-
in from somewhere, make sure they
ture shock, but very well worth it. The
bring their attire in CARRY ON!”
A. “. . . what you think is super import-
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Vendors Photography: Carrie Ann Photography Venue: Lodge at Whitefish Lake Rentals: Barn Door Event Rentals Flowers: Mum’s Flowers DJ: B&T Sound Productions Officiant: A Big Sky Event
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Montana Wedding Laws
by Kelly Kirksey - Kelly Kirksey Photography and Bailey Lalum - Whitefish Events
Here are some frequently asked questions Montana couples might want answered [Please consult your local county Clerk of Court office]
Q: I am from out of the country; what do I need to get married in Montana?
A: You need to be 18 years of age and have a photo ID with your date of birth when you go to the Clerk of Court.
Q: I have always wanted to be married by my favorite Uncle Pat. How can we make this happen for my Montana wedding?
A: Within the 30-day period after the marriage license is issued, the
Q: When it’s time to sign the marriage
Q: I hate needles! What are the
license, do I sign with my maiden
requirements for a blood test to obtain
marriage must be "solemnized" by
name or my new last name?
a marriage license?
one of the following:
A: At the ceremony, you would
A: You are no longer required
sign with your new last name if you
to have a blood test to obtain a marriage license. Brides and grooms can sign a waiver of the rubella blood test requirement in Montana when applying for a license. Paperwork can be obtained from the Clerk of Court when you appear at that office to obtain a marriage license
• A clergyman or clergywoman, active or retired, who is in good standing with any church or synagogue in Montana;
plan on taking his last name.
Q: We forgot to sign the marriage license on the wedding day; what happens now?
A: When you take it to the Clerk of Court, you can sign it at the desk. They cannot accept unsigned marriage licenses.
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• A Circuit Court or Associate Circuit Court judge (who are prohibited by a Montana Constitutional provision from receiving any compensation for the service). • A religious society, institution or
organization in Montana of which either marriage party is a member, in accordance with the organizations regulations and customs. • Within ninety days after the marriage ceremony, the person solemnizing the marriage must complete the marriage certificate issued with the marriage license and return it to the office of the issuing Recorder. Lack of witnesses does not render a marriage invalid. However, two witnesses can submit an affidavit that the marriage ceremony took place if the certificate is lost or destroyed and the person who solemnized the marriage is unavailable.
Q: I am going to Paris for my honeymoon, what name should I travel under?
A: Passports take 4-6 weeks to receive a name change. Plan on traveling under your maiden name and bringing all of your identification that has your maiden name such as a driver’s license.
Q: We are eloping to Montana for our wedding and we will not have witnesses with us. Is that going to be a problem?
A: In the state of Montana, you are not required to have witnesses.
Q: How soon before our wedding should we be applying for a wedding license?
A: The process takes about half an hour and you can apply up to180 days prior to your wedding.
Q: How much is a wedding license in Montana? A: $53 USD, certified copies are $7.00 each. Q: Our dog must be unhappy about our upcoming nuptials because he ate our wedding license! What do we do to get a new one? Our wedding is in two weeks!
A: As a courtesy, the Clerk of Court will make a duplicate; however, you will need to re-pay the $53.
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Q. How did you meet? A. “Zak and I met at a wedding in
Q. Tell me about your wonderful
special, emotional ride to the altar. . .
centerpieces.
Thank goodness for airbrush makeup.”
Polson in November of 2012. I am
A. “Our colors were coral and mint
friends with the bride, and Zak was a
green, with touches of cream and
groomsman in the wedding. The bride
brown. The centerpieces were burlap
had planned to introduce us all along,
table runners with wheat filled painted
and after a few shared drinks and
Mason jars centered in whitetail antler
dances we exchanged numbers and
sheds. All the decorations were DIY
have been together since!”
projects done by Zak, my parents, and
Q. Your officiant for your wedding was
me.”
Q. You stayed true to your country theme.
A.“The guests were seated on hay bales in the field. I was brought in on a horse drawn wagon, and the entire wedding party wore cowboy boots. It couldn’t have been more country or better suited for us!”
a special man.
Q. Tell me about a memorable
A. “The ceremony was at 6:00 pm, with
highlight to your day.
my grandfather being the officiant.
A.“. . . riding in the wagon with my
honeymoon?
He kept it short, simple, and to the
dad, which was driven by a very
A. “We have not had a honeymoon
point, while making it personal and
special man, Mitch Barns. He is like a
yet. We are saving for a house instead!”
memorable for everyone.”
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Have
you
been
on
your
Vendors
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1 year to 9 months out “Save-the-Date” Long Distance Destination Weddings
Invitations
by Heidi Roedel - Utmost Graphics, LLC
Feeling overwhelmed just looking at the checklist of things to do before your wedding? One way to minimize pre-wedding stress is to break the list down into small, manageable tasks. For example, you and your fiancé should come to an agreement about the number of guests to invite. Do this at least six months in advance. With that number in mind, sit down together and create a final guest list. You may also want to consider sending a “Savethe-Date” postcard to your guests.
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Creating Your Wedding Invitations After finalizing your guest list, it is time to get serious about creating and ordering your wedding invitations. Ideally, you should have your customized wedding invitations printed three to four months before your wedding, which requires the two of you to spend a fair amount of time making your wedding invitations perfect.
uncomfortable. A professional invita-
Your invitation helps set the mood and form expectations for your guests...
tion designer can help you and your fiancé select the colors, font, style, and wording that reflects the two of you, as well as sets the tone for the upcoming wedding.
person, a couple, or an entire family. If
Wedding Invitation Etiquette Most wedding coordinators agree that the best time to mail your invitations is six to eight weeks before the big day.
you know the person is in a committed relationship, it is good etiquette to invite his or her partner, even if you have never met. If inviting a family, address the envelope to Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
Your invitation helps set the mood and
This gives your guests enough time to
form expectations for your guests the
make travel plans, if necessary, and to
moment they receive it. If the invita-
clear conflicting obligations.
Include an RSVP card with the invita-
Take your time when addressing the
expect for the wedding and reception.
envelope. Center the full name of your
Two to three weeks before the wed-
guest and his or her address on the
ding is a good deadline for returning
front. Your return address should go on
the cards. If you pre-stamp the RSVP
the back flap. It is important to make it
card, you will increase the chances of
clear whether you are inviting just one
having it returned on time.
tion looks too informal, your guests may assume they don’t have to RSVP. On the other hand, overly formal invitations may make some people feel
6 months out Mail “Save-the-Date”
and Family. tion, so you know how many people to
8 to 6 weeks out
6 to 4 weeks out
3 to 2 weeks out
Mail Invitations
Create Programs & Menus
Have RSVP Returned
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Engagement Session: A MUST Have by Kiralee Jones - Oh Snap! Photograhy
Marianne Wiest Photography Many wedding photographers these days include a creative, stylized engagement shoot as part of their wedding photography packages and they are trendier than ever. Whether artsy, chic, romantic or humorous, engagement photos are as unique as each couple and their photographer, for that matter. You have seen engagement photos all over the magazines, wedding blogs, and Pinterest: photos of couples who have coordinated attire, and are laughing and kissing. It is the opportunity to capture the love you have for one another and share it with the world. Your engagement will be over before you know it, but your engagement photos preserve your memories
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forever. They are used for “Save the Date”, guestbook, or for display at the wedding. Probably the most important part about the engagement session is the opportunity to work with your photographer before your big day. It is the perfect time to get to know one another and gather an understanding of each other’s style. Meadowlark Photography
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Kelly Nelson Photography
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Boudoir Session: The Perfect Gift for your Groom by Kiralee Jones - Oh Snap! Photograhy
The wedding boudoir photography trend has been on the rise for a few years now. It is a session that many wedding photo graphers will include in their wedding photography packages, and is meant to be given to the groom, as a gift either before or after the wedding. The kind of photographs captured at your session will depend on you and your photographer, but
they are meant to be flirty and sensual, and most of the time, a lot is left up to the imagination. When you choose your photographer, he or she will capture you as you are at that moment. These elegant images will live for years to come in a personalized album meant for your groom’s eyes only.
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riends introduced Jordan and Kaitlyn, and after a single text message from
Jordan, the two began weeks of messaging really becoming friends. But, Jordan
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arrived in Kalispell from Canada, with the premise of Christmas shopping only to meet Kaitlyn face-to-face and fall madly in love. . . . It went both ways. So began the odyssey of planning in a short five months a wedding to remember. The bridezilla moment never appeared, and Kaitlyn credits that to a groom who just wanted to make her happy.
Honoring tradition, Kaitlyn and Jordan held to elements that suited both bride and groom: the Wedding March by Jonathan Firey and time-honored wedding vows, both very important to the bride. “The thought of stepping onto the aisle and the wedding march starting gave me goosebumps.” Jordan’s father married the couple and he really delivered for the couple by writing a ceremony that completely “. . . knocked our socks off.”
Kaitlyn’s advice? “Remember that it is YOUR day. Don’t try to make anyone happy, but your groom and yourself. Do exactly what you want and how you want—and it will be the best day of your life.”
Q. Did you enjoy planning your
incredibly talented and put together
wedding?
a very unique (hilarious) program for
A. “I absolutely loved it. I kept waiting
us, and he blew up a handful of our
for my stressed out bridezilla moment
engagement photos.”
and I don’t think it ever really hit. I loved being in control and deciding all the little details.”
Q. Any new trends or brand new elements you brought in?
A. “We asked Jordan’s father to marry
Q. Did you have a theme? A. “We didn’t pick any specific theme.
us. He wrote the ceremony completely
We chose a light blue - the color of
It made it so much more intimate
Jordan’s eyes, and white lilies that are
and personal for us. I wouldn’t have
my absolute favorite. Jordan’s father is
changed a thing about it.”
by himself and knocked our socks off.
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Vendors Photography: Kelly Kirksey Photography Venue: Lodge at Whitefish Lake Rentals: The Party Store Attire: Mimi’s Bridal Cake: Miss Patti Cakes DJ: B&T Sound Productions Videographer: White Cliff Productions
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Saying "I do" Your Way
by Teresa Kennedy & Sally Hanger - Perfect Montana Wedding
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oes getting up and speaking
Be careful not to over-analyze the
Be calm. With the pressure you
in front of family and friends make
situation and make sure you use
may feel before the wedding,
you a bit anxious? Does blurting
your own wonderfully creative voice
words can become lost. Sit back,
out how you feel from the depth
to tell him just how unique he is.
quiet your thoughts, and just think
and breadth of your being fill you with fear and trepidation? When you write your wedding vows, the world seems to be listening. Remember, you are not writing these words for the world. You are writing for your groom and he is writing for you. It is one step at a time. Take a moment to listen to your heart. Wedding vows are a personal expression of love and commitment, and putting those feelings into words can be an exhilarating experience.
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of how very special this man is, and how wonderful you feel when you are with him. Remember to tell him how lucky you feel to be chosen by him. Tell him just how much you love him, but do not get sappy about it,
“Wedding vows are a personal expression
or you will lose the moment. Wrap it up. Do not go on and on and on. Say how you feel and stop.
of love & commitment...�
Vows should be heart-felt and hon-
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est expression of your love for one another. You may want help from an officiant, who can guide you in finding words to express what is in your heart.
about what you both would like to
Before you know it, the words will
express to each other and visualize
fall onto the page, and you will
how it feels. Remember that your
be ready to stand in front of the
guests are there because they
assemblage and tell your groom
love you and want to join in your
how you feel. Above all, enjoy the
celebration. Have fun bringing in
journey.
Try not to burden yourself with feel-
elements of life that you share, per-
ings about the right ceremony
haps a favorite author, a poem, or
or the traditional ceremony. Talk
a quote.
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Bouquet Trends
for Montana Brides by Darci Greenwood - Beargrass Gardens Floral & Events
A bridal bouquet is a very personal and individual component for a bride on her wedding day. It will represent who she is and her style. For years following her wedding day, she will look at photographs, her children will look at photographs, and even her grandchildren will look at photographs of her holding these very special flowers. It will make up her history, a piece of her life story. It is the image that is generally most viewed: The Bride with her bouquet.
Wild at Heart
Vintage Inspired – the vintage trend introduced itself several years ago and is still going strong. This look works perfectly with lace gowns and a casual outdoor ceremony. This particular bouquet has a vintage vibe with a rich Montana country feel. Loose and flowing, with many different floral elements, ranging from garden roses and hellebores, to vines and berries.
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Classic Romance Many brides desire a timeless bouquet, one that will always be looked upon as stylish and classic. This particular bouquet is mostly white with small touches of blush, making it so romantic and feminine. Always classic and always in style.
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Berrylicious
Fruits and berries have become a popular element to wedding design. Designed with a rich, royal color combination, it is perfect for the Bride that seeks a more dramatic and playful bouquet. Inspired by the colors of all things fruity.
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Earthy Green
Succulents are still considered widely popular in the wedding design world. Once just a trend, now possibly a floral design staple? Time will tell. This bouquet is made up of many different sizes and varieties of succulents, different botanicals and several types of herbs. Oregano, rosemary and mint have also become design elements used often in bridal bouquets and centerpieces.
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Q. You really incorporated a lot of
last name before we got married
family and friends in your ceremony.
was Soulette Arnau. Now that we are
A. “We included a lot of family and
Q. Tell me about a special moment. A. “I remember looking into his (Alex’s)
married, our family last name is Soulette
eyes as we spoke our vows to each
friends in the celebration of the Mass.
McLean. It’s a tradition that comes
other, as a peace filled my heart that
For example, my brother did the music
from the Spanish culture and has been
is truly beyond words. It really is the
with the help of an additional pianist;
passed down for generations.”
beginning of something sacred and
my cousins helped as altar servers,
and we had friends read and serve as Eucharistic Ministers.”
Q. For a new element, you let the girls
special.”
decide something. What was that?
Q. And you had a new trend awaiting
A. “I was really big on allowing the girls
your guests?
Q. You pulled a traditional element
to choose dresses they liked. I chose
A. “For the reception we also had
from Alex’s background?
shades of blue as our colors, and just
a
A. “. . . .we incorporated Alex’s Puerto
asked that the girls pick a dress from
the guests. Kat did several kinds of
Rican tradition of two surnames. The
that color scheme. The groomsmen
cupcakes, a small eggless cake, and
first last name is the father’s last name
wore shades of blue shirts and black
our wedding cake.”
and the second is the mother’s. Alex’s
vests.”
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small
cake
and
cupcakes
for
Vendors Photography: Crown Photography Attire: Mimi’s Bridal
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Formal Wear Tips and Tricks by Melissa Beumer - Mimi’s Bridal
with
the
bridesmaids.
Fathers
usually wear a different jacket with complimentary color tie and vest. If you want to include ushers, they usually wear the same colors, minus the jacket. Available accessories for creating a formal look include a pocket square for your breast pocket, cuff links, button covers, cumberbund, formal shoes, suspenders and self tie bow tie.
If you are going to
wear a boutonniere, you do not need to purchase a pocket square for your breast pocket. A nice gift for your gentlemen attendants is Kelly Kirksey Photography
to purchase the tie, or suspenders, or cuff links they are wearing,
Gentlemen, when it comes to your
before your wedding, get a good
as a memento. It is also nice to
wedding, take the opportunity to
night’s rest.
include your minister, clergy or
turn out the best YOU anyone has
When couples come in and sit
ever seen. Rent a tuxedo, or buy a new suit. This is the most important day in your bride’s life, and your life as well. I know what you are thinking: “I do not dress up, or do spas, manicures, or facials.”
down to pick out the attire for the gentlemen, they often ask what
(steel, charcoal, and slate), brown, The classic wedding ensemble
than your best! This means biting
includes jacket, fitted shirt, tie,
the bullet, gritting your teeth,
pant and vest. A formal suit will
and
pre-wedding
not have any contrasting fabric on
“groom-ing.” Go get your hair cut
the lapel, like a tuxedo. You would
or trimmed, your whiskers shaved,
wear a fitted shirt, slacks, tie and no
your nails cleaned
and trimmed.
vest. The groom is the man in the
Perhaps you would like a massage
spotlight, so you want him to look
or teeth whitening. Take your best
dashing. The
man with you and make a day
the same ensemble as the groom
of it. Most importantly, the night
with ties and vests coordinating
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colors now include navy blue, grey
will be expected to look better
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ring-bearer.
right now. Trending tuxedo or suit
tan, and black.
some
ceremony. And do not forget the
is in style and what colors are hot
But, on this big day in your life, you
doing
family member conducting the
groomsmen wear
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included in the wedding and love
gentlemen: rentals are adjustable,
to get items before the wedding.
feeling important.
and almost everyone needs some
Simply ask the bridal store about
adjustments.
shipping to see if it is covered for
When fitting little boys for their tuxedos, make sure to bring the little guys in for a final fitting. Kids are so many sizes, shapes, and heights that there are always final tweeks and hemming to be done.
Shipping for tuxedos may be complimentary if they are ordered two to three weeks prior to the event. Go in for your final fitting as soon as you are called about the tuxedos’
Remember these are just rentals
arrival. This way, if there are pieces
and
for
that need to be ordered in from the
your body. This goes for boys and
rental company, there will be time
are
not
custom-sized
out-of-town
measurements
that
have errors. Remember, your photographs will be viewed for years to come, and you want to look good. So go that extra mile and get jazzy.
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Bridal Trends for 2015
by Kelly Kirksey - Kelly Kirksey Photography The main focus of your wedding is the magnificent bride, dressed in a magnificent gown. No two brides are alike, so as you plan your day, trust the bridal experts to understand your unique style. From dramatic backs to fit-and-flares, your perfect gown makes a statement. Just step inside the door at one of the elite bridal boutiques to take advantage of the expertise available locally. Three of our local consultants share their visions of the leading bridal fashions for 2015.
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Xclusive Events and Formalwear Shanelle says: “The 2015 Wedding Gown shopping season has officially begun. This year we are seeing many new designs, and the standouts include gowns with a much more fluid shape, which makes for effortless elegance.” “We are welcoming amazing custom necklines and a lot of sheer panels. Beautiful couture and light-weight fabrics have taken the market by storm. They are fabulously easy to wear and they make every bride feel stunning.” “Overall, the 2015 bride is bringing the simplicity of true love back. Everything from the gown to their stylish
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kind extraordinary style.”
J Scott Couture Jacklyn says: “For 2015, lace remains as one of the most sought-after trends in bridal gowns. However, traditional lace gets a modern makeover with some fantastic new details. Exquisite floral appliqués, three-dimensional lace, and sheer illusion necklines and sleeves are the perfect complement to this year’s ‘dramatic back’ wedding dresses.” “Whether they are plunging open backs, demure illusion lace with buttons, or heavily adorned with crystals, these backs are spectacular. Sleeves are a lovely alternative to bare shoulders. From full length illusion to dainty lace cap sleeves, you will be seeing many additional options to strapless gowns.”
Mimi’s Bridal Melissa says: “The ever poplular lace gown is still hot for 2015- wider straps are appearing more often as well as plunging backs with spagetti straps, cut out lace embellished cap sleeves, keyhole backs with button closures, deep v necklines and long sleeves are back!” “Dresses patterns include smart shapley styles like the mermaid, sheath and fit-and-flare with that hint of hollywood glamour and a romantic essence - these styles are great for all body types and yes, you have to have curves to make that wow statement!”
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eeting as teenagers in high school English class, Britlee and Troy became
engaged Christmas Eve 2012, and planned their wedding for the next year.
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To keep to their traditional theme, Britlee and Troy did not see each other after the rehearsal, waiting until their wedding day, as Britlee walked down the aisle. The couple chose a shabby chic theme and incorporated neutral colors, just enough purple, chalk boards, and candles, and tied it all into a simple elegance. “My favorite part of this entire day was walking down the aisle and being able to marry my best friend,” said Britlee.
Diamond B Weddings was a perfect fit for the couple, with the ceremony close to the water and enough room to accommodate all their guests. An outstanding day for an outstanding couple.
Q. Did you have any new trends in
Q. What type of advice would you
your wedding?
give today’s brides and grooms?
A. “We did a gift exchange while we
A. “I think the best advice I could ever
were each getting ready, which is
give to an upcoming bride and groom
somewhat of a new trend.”
would be to just enjoy the day; your
Q. Who sang your processional music and your first dance music?
A. “Our processional song was All of
wedding day is going to fly by so fast. So, really try to enjoy every second of it, because it really is one of the best days of your life.”
Me by John Legend. Our first dance
was I Cross My Heart by George Strait.”
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have attended, a guest or two has disobeyed this tenet. If you are not sure if the dress is considered “white” or not (pale pinks
a concerted effort to re-
or creams) it is best to
turn your card the same
be cautious and let the
day it arrives.
bride stand out from the
Be punctual
rest.
Though it is fairly common for many weddings to start a little late, you should still make your best effort to be there by Carrie Ann Photography
the time scheduled on the invitation. Wandering
You have been invited
acting appropriately and
in late is embarrassing for
to several weddings this
guests acting inappro-
you and disrespectful to
year. But, are you aware
priately. So, before you
the bride and groom.
of the wedding etiquette
attend those weddings,
rules that exist for the
listen to some friendly ad-
guest? What if you are
vice on etiquette.
just simply an invitee attending the wedding? Believe it or not, there are tips on etiquette you should keep in mind. As someone who has been a wedding guest, a coordinator, and a bride, I have witnessed guests
Heart to Lens Photography
Dress appropriately
Be on good behavior
Follow the dress code as
Always remember to turn
stated on the invitation—
off your cell phone. And,
Send your RSVP back before the deadline
white tie, black tie, semi
you do not want to play
formal, or casual. If there
paparazzi and end up
Most
you
is no suggestion, a dress
blocking someone’s view
plenty of time to get your
or good-looking sepa-
of the ceremony and re-
RSVP returned, so there
rates for the lady and a
ception. Most couples
is usually no excuse for
dark suit for the man are
will have a specific time
sending
response
completely appropriate.
and place for you to
card late. If you know
Do not wear white. Al-
take photos. You also do
you are forgetful, make
most every wedding I
not want to want to acci-
brides
that
give
dentally share wedding photos on social media before the couple gets a chance. Drink Responsibly An open bar is no excuse to drink to excess. Do nothing to make a fool of yourself. Remember, this day is the bride and groom’s dream day.
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Have a good time, just
Kelly Nelson Photography
remind yourself why you
If you are getting the
are there, and reassure
couple a gift that is large
the bride and groom
in size, it is best to ship
how much you have en-
the item directly to their
joyed the wedding. They
home ahead of time. It
worry about their guests
is perfectly acceptable
having a good time.
to bring envelopes and
Keep the talking with the couple brief Of course you are excited to congratulate the newly-married
couple,
but remember that the bride and groom have many other guests to greet. Do not take offense if their time with you is limited. Mail large gifts
small gifts to the reception, but anything too large makes it difficult for the bride and groom. Do not assume you can bring a date Unless your invite says “plus guest,” do not assume you can bring a date. Most weddings are based on a very specific count for food, drink, and seating. The best guest is almost invisible, enjoying him or herself,
respecting
the
couple’s time and the venue, by not over- stepping
the
boundaries.
Being there to truly enjoy the celebration, and honored to have been asked to be a part of the couple’s day of a lifetime should be enough for any guest. Heart to Lens Photography mymontanawedding.com
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hat began as an ordinary Monday in January, turned into a proposal of her
dreams for Elisheba.
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Brayden planned carefully. After receiving a blessing from Elisheba’s father, Brayden asked for her hand after work that Monday. She said “yes”, and they began planning their wedding.
Wanting to begin their journey as a married couple sooner rather than later, Elisheba and Brayden chose August 2014 for their nuptials, and Sky Ridge Ranch as their site. “It had all the elements of Montana that we love. Beautiful view. . . flowing creeks. . . amazing pond.” Plus, the old barn with new elements didn’t hurt matters.
With a modern country elegance theme, the couple incorporated galvanized metals, burlap, old barn wood, and etched Mason jars, with white linen, crystal and Mercury glass. Little bags for the candy buffet were also provided.
Q. What were your party favors? A. “For our party favors, we had
Q. You had some interesting weather
personalized little bags for the people
A. “The day of the wedding, the wind
to put candy in from the candy buffet.
was blowing and the clouds were
They also got their etched cocktail
surrounding
Mason jar as a party favor.”
was rainfall a few times during the
Q. What was one of your favorite parts of the day?
A. “Seeing Brayden at the end of the aisle so handsome and smiling at me was such an amazing feeling. I could
tell by the look on his face that he
was ready for this, ready to begin our
on your special day?
the
mountains.
There
day leading up to the ceremony. The original plan was to have the ceremony outside in front of the pond, but it just wasn’t clearing up, so we had the ceremony inside the barn at 5:00 pm and it turned out to be just as beautiful.”
journey together.”
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Who is in favor of favors? by Bailey Lalum - Whitefish Events
still can get quite costly. Looking at an average of $2-$3 per favor, a wedding of 150 could cost from $300 to $450. Perhaps favors may not be the most costly part of the wedding, but it is a lot of money
Thinking back to March, when I
for something that just might be
began getting into the myriad
thrown away.
details for my wedding, I remember sitting at my desk thinking to myself
The question is favor or no favor?
“. . .to favor or not to favor?” In the
It is your decision in the end, of
end, we decided to go with baby
course. It is your hope that a spe-
succulents to decorate the tables,
cial favor would be taken home,
and to give them to our guests. But,
utilized, and enjoyed as a remind-
in my decision-making process,
er of a very special day. Favors are
I couldn’t help but wonder why
entirely up to you (and your groom
we have favors and where the
of course). And, in this day and
tradition started.
age, a favor may not be that necHeart to Lens Photography
As it turns out, the tradition of
essary. Maybe there are some ways the
wedding favors goes back to Italy
money you spend on favors could
where they were referred to as a
precious
“bomboniere.” Given out by well-
usually contained sugar or candy;
to-do Europeans, the bomboniere
which at the time was a symbol
was a small crystal or porcelain
of wealth, because sugar was
trinket box, often decorated with
Whatever you decide, remem-
costly and only available to the
ber the day is about you and your
wealthy. As sugar became more
groom. And no matter your deci-
affordable, the tradition became
sion, your guests will feel very much
more common.
a part of your special day. . .just
stones.
These
boxes
Though precious gems are out of
be put to other fun ideas for your wedding.
being invited.
the question these days, favors
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ALTERNATIVES TO FAVORS: • splurge for that disk jockey or band to give your guests a memorable evening • use the money towards some fun rentals
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“...favor or no favor. It is your decision in the end.”
• give your bridal party a fun day and take them rafting • sail on the Far West • lead a tour of the Conrad Mansion • give the girls a spa or salon day
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Jordan &Jesse
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Q. What was your wedding vision? A. “My desire was for our wedding to
as a drink bin, and favors were light
we stopped to take in the beauty.
pink frosted Oreo cookies with sparkles.
Jesse kept telling me how happy he
be simple and casual, but beautiful and
‘I was impressed with the way. . . it all
was with me and how much he loved
classy at the same time,” said Jordan.
came together,’” Jordan admitted.
me and . . .he slowly bent down, pulled
From the wonderful country venue, and the sweet sound of Jordan’s voice
as she sang “Adore You” to her new
husband, this wedding held all the
Q. Any advice for the grooms out there, Jesse?
A. “The easiest way to keep your
out the ring and popped the question. I, of course, started crying and said ‘Yes!’”
woman happy is to let her be in control
Q. What was your favorite part of the
of everything involving the wedding.”
reception?
Jordan’s response? “Ain’t that the
A. “There were so many special
truth.”
moments. For one, I LOVED finally getting to EAT! I had been eating super
covering round tables with burlap
Q. Where did you get engaged? A. “We took a drive over to Spanish
runners.
were
Creek, otherwise known as “our spot,”
mismatched bottles and jars of flowers.
and hung out for a little while. As we
A silver water trough was re-purposed
were crossing a bridge over the creek,
trappings of a beautifully organized wedding with a lot of help from family.
Q. Tell me about some of your details. A. “We decided on ivory tablecloths
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clean and working out like crazy a couple months before our wedding, so indulging in some yummy barbecue was simply amazing.”
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Staymoon
by Stephanie
Curtis - Meadowlark Photography
Meadowlark Photography
Meadowlark Photography
You’ve kissed the groom,
stay in your own home or
dishes! Order in or take out –
and hers plush bathrobes.
thrown the bouquet, and
visit a local resort, your hon-
every single meal – all week.
Stock up on your favorite
danced your last dance of
eymoon doesn’t have to
This is your honeymoon, and
wine and champagne, and
the night. A car decorated
break the bank. Here are
even if you’re at home,
drink out of new stemwear.
with “Just Married” is whisk-
some great tips to make
you’re on vacation! Your
Put a bowl of breath mints
ing you away into the star-
your local honeymoon un-
honeymoon acts as a buf-
on your bedside table. Get
strewn night. It’s finally time
forgetable.
fer between the newlywed
each other a new cologne
world and the daily grind.
or perfume. Light candles
No matter where you are,
everywhere. If you stay at
allow yourselves the luxury
home, rearranging your fur-
of zero responsibility. If you
niture can make everything
can’t handle letting things
feel new. You might even
go undone, find a local re-
pick up a soft shag rug,
treat like a bed and break-
some new throw pillows,
you’re just staying at home!
fast, then vacuuming isn’t
and silk or soft cotton sheets
The most important part of
an option!
3.
to help the luxurious feeling
for you and your new husband to escape and begin your lives together. A honeymoon is vital to your new marriage. It relaxes, refreshes, and renews you after all that planning for your big day. Many couples choose to spend their first week of marital bliss on a cruise ship or a beach somewhere. When you live in and get married in a destination like
Northwest
Montana,
though, you really don’t need to go anywhere! Whether you choose to
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1.
Unplug. Disconnect.
Turn it off. You wouldn’t spend your week in Paris at an internet café. So, no cell phones, no computers, no technology. Otherwise,
your honeymoon is the person you’re sharing it with,
Make towel animals.
last all week. Try hanging twinkle lights above your
You know, the kind you get
bed or sheer curtains from
on a cruise ship. Those little
the ceiling to create a can-
details make your vacation
opy. Open some of your
special, and while you may
wedding presents together
Shred your to-do list.
not be able to fold mon-
and use them! Breakfast in
Hide your dirty laundry, and
keys from hand towels, think
don’t you dare touch those
along those lines. Get his
bed using that new waffle maker? Yes, please!
and by powering down your gadgets, you can real-
2.
ly tune in to each other.
4.
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and will make you feel exot-
Book a couples’ massage.
pagne. Tell them you’re on
ic right here in the Flathead.
Maybe charter a rafting
your honeymoon and they
trip or go skydiving togeth-
may even decorate the ta-
Play tourist. Plan your
er. Schedule a wine tasting.
ble with candles and roses
over doesn’t mean those
staymoon as if you’re a
Soak in the hot springs. En-
for you! No matter what you
cute white outfits should dis-
destination bride. Make a
joy a sunrise, while fishing a
plan together for your lo-
appear. Find a sexy white
list of things the two of you
hidden stream, or a sunset,
cal honeymoon, being with
swimsuit for a dip in the lake,
have always wanted to do
picnicking at the top of a
each other as husband and
a flirty cream dress for a fan-
in the valley, but haven’t
mountain. Reserve a table
wife will be the most excit-
cy dinner, and even a white
yet! Take a helicopter ride
at the fanciest restaurant
ing feeling in the world.
sequined “Mrs” tank for hik-
over Glacier Park or rent a
and order five courses – and
ing! The options are endless
jet ski for a day on the lake.
a bottle of expensive cham-
Be the bride all week.
That’s right, we all love a little white dress, and just because
your
wedding’s
5.
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S
hayla and David watched the thunderstorm roll over their ceremonial site
just one hour before their wedding, and then they watched it disappear in the
M Montana mountains as they exchanged vows.
From a well-orchestrated proposal during a backpacking trip, to a magnificent wedding in Shayla’s family home, this couple carefully planned their nuptials from Colorado, with a lot of hometown help from family and friends. They were married May 31, 2014.
The special site for the ceremony was enhanced by a cross on the altar, designed by Shayla’s father, and by her mom, who incorporated childhood photos, signs, and Bible verses about love for the reception, also held at the house. The couple put together a slideshow of their adventures together and of their younger days which ran during the evening.
Q. How did you get engaged? A. “Dave proposed on a backpacking
signs,
trip to Ice Lake in Colorado. He waited
of our childhood and adventures
for the perfect moment and popped
together playing during the reception.
the question in front of a beautiful
We incorporated photos of our travels
waterfall. After I said ‘Yes!’ he pulled
and Bible verses about love into the
out champagne & two glasses he’d
table centerpieces.”
hidden in his backpack.”
decorations,
photos,
Bible
verses. We had a slideshow of photos
Q. What advice would you give to
Q. What made your venue special? A. “The ceremony site was special
current brides or grooms on the day of
because it was ‘home.’ My dad
A. “Give your phones to your best
created a cross for the altar. My mom
man and maid of honor to deal with
added many unique details to the
any question on wedding day.”
their wedding?
ceremony and reception, through
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Rachell & Mac
M 7•26•14
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Q. Did you enjoy planning your
has on Flathead Lake. We also had
wedding?
life-sized board games like Kerplunk
College. We both played sports at
A. “Yes, we did. Although we received
and Connect Four, as well as cornhole,
Carroll and we were introduced during
a lot of help from our very creative
football, and tennis. We went with the
fall camp. We became close friends
mothers, who made the entire process
new cupcake trend, and had three
while taking a class together and
much easier on us and much more
different kinds of cupcakes. Rachell’s
began dating soon after.”
fun. Without them, we would not have
cousin owns a cupcake bakery, and
been able to pull this wedding off.”
was able to fly up to Montana and
Q. How did you meet? A. “We met while attending Carroll
Q. And, how did you get engaged? A. “Mac took me to his secret fishing
Q. Any new trends or brand new
make the 300 cupcakes.”
elements you brought in?
Q. Where did you draw your inspiration
flying, a nervous Mac suggested taking
A. “Because it was suppose to be
for your theme?
a picture. The camera was in video
so hot on Saturday, we added a
A. “Our inspiration came from our
mode and caught the whole thing! He
pirate themed bar in a shaded area,
heritage. Our families are from farming
gave me a card with a letter in it and
equipped with a pirate bartender.
and ranching backgrounds, and we
then proceeded to drop to one knee
We chose this theme because of the
wanted this to be included in our
and ask the big question.”
annual pirate cruise party Mac’s family
special day.”
hole outside of Missoula. With the snow
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elanie and Cody began planning their wedding, and then decided to elope.
By the end of January, they had the honeymoon planned, and by March most
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everything was finished. Melanie said, “We starting getting so involved in the little things that we were losing sight of the whole point of getting married. For us, getting married is not about the party. It’s not about a show or the favors, or the food. It’s a commitment to each other, not to the crowd.” That is when their original decision to elope was cemented.
Melanie and Cody were wed August 10, 2014, at Lake McDonald—Mile marker 7! Traditional elements did play a large part in their wedding. Melanie’s mother made her dress, and sewed a piece of her own wedding dress in her daughter’s. Melanie’s dad made a ring box from wood used in chairs built by her grandfather. Her jewelry was from her grandmother, and blue was in her shoes. Each tradition was touched by members of her family, making the day that much more special.
Q. Tel l me abo u t wha t ha p p e ne d
We
as you were driving through Logan
paddle boarded, golfed, rode horses,
Pass taking wedding pictures.
picnicked, hiked, and enjoyed a lake
A. “A neat part of our wedding that
cruise. Cody is a brewer, so we made
we didn’t plan was that the moon
sure to stop at several breweries and
phase was not just a full moon, but a
distilleries along the way.”
super moon. What a spectacular view
whitewater
rafted,
kayaked,
day!”
Q. Do you have any wedding advice? A. “Cody and I both agree that the
Q. Where did you go on your
and their commitment to each other.
honeymoon?
. . . In the end, it’s your memory, your
A. “...we looped through Glacier
experience, and your commitment
National Park. We started on the west
and it should be true to who you are
side, then traveled over to St. Mary,
as a couple.”
at Logan Pass to finish our amazing
wedding should be about the couple
East Glacier, and back to Kalispell.
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Kelsey&Parker
M 6•28•14
Heart to Lens Photography
Q. How did you meet? A. “Parker and I met in college during
A. “Our first look was during the
school in Wolf Point, and a very good
ceremony. It added extra anticipation
friend of the family.
his first year at Rocky Mountain College
of seeing the one you love at the very
and my second year at MSU-Billings.
last minute. It was incredible and so
We also hired a four string quartet to
We hit it off right away and were very
emotional, and we are so glad we
much in love. However, we parted
did that! Parker and I had my younger
ways when I transferred to another
sister exchange cards for us before the
college after my third year. We spent
ceremony. It was so exciting and sweet,
six years apart, but occasionally talked
reading a note from my honey before
during that time. In July of 2012, Parker
walking down the aisle. I couldn’t wait
Q. Did you have favors for your guests? A. “We ordered different types of
took a chance and boarded a flight
to see the love of my life.”
chocolate flavored espresso beans,
from Billings to Des Moines, Iowa to
visit me at Ames, where I attended
veterinary school. We picked up where
Q. Your officiant was a pretty special man, as was your DJ.
we left off and the rest is history.”
A. “Our pastor was Parker’s pastor
Q. Describe some of the special details
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from Wolf Point. He married Parker’s
play music before the ceremony and for the processional. The music was beautiful and matched the setting and style of the wedding wonderfully.”
espresso-flavored malt balls and other espresso flavored chocolates from a local shop in Great Falls. We made personalized stickers with our colors and placed them on the individual packages.”
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Miss Patti Cakes
406-250-9654
www.misspatticakes.com
Beverage Consultant O’Brien’s Liquor & Wine Bridal Fashions
Cakes & Pastries
Carriage Rides Cripple Creek Horse Ranch
406-889-3674
www.cripplecreekhorseranch.com
All Occasions Catering
406-407-2000
914 West Center Street, Kalispell
Cuisine Machine
406-270-7742
www.cuisinemachinecatering.com
D & T BBQ
406-837-3442
www.dtbbq.com
Famous Dave’s
406-752-7427
www.famousdaves.com
Hilton Garden Inn/Blue Canyon
406-758-2579
www.bluecanyon.com
Ian’s Healthy Table
406-212-4013
www.facebook.com/pages/Ians-Healthy-Table
John’s Angels Catering, LLC
406-270-4600
www.johnsangelscatering.com
Naked Noodle
406-862-6253
www.whitefishnoodle.com
OSO Catering
406-314-7120
www.osocatering.com
Piggyback BBQ Catering
406-863-9895
www.piggybackbbq.com
Porteus BBQ
406-471-6622
www.porteusbbq.com
Slick’s BBQ
406-471-2352
www.facebook.com/SlicksBbq
The Simple Chef Catering
406-261-9440
www.thesimplechefcatering.com
A Field of Dreams
406-892-3098
www.montanadreamwedding.com
Bar W Guest Ranch
406-863-9099
www.thebarw.com
Belton Chalet
406-888-5000
www.beltonchalet.com
Caterers
Ceremonies & Receptions
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Ceremonies & Receptions (continued) Best Western Plus Flathead Lake Inn & Suites
406-857-2400
www.bestwesternmontana.com
Bigfork Center for the Performing Arts
406-837-4885
www.bigforkcenter.org
BruMar Estate
406-837-2231
www.brumarestate.com
Castle Sagestone, LLC
406-755-0277
www.castlesagestone.com
Diamond B Weddings, LLC
406-253-1736
www.diamondbweddings.com
Diamond G Estate, LLC
406-862-5422
www.diamondgestate.com
Far West Boat Tours
406-844-2628
www.flatheadlakeboattour.com
Flathead Lake Lodge
406-837-4391
www.flatheadlakelodge.com
Glacier Park Inc./Glacier Park Lodge
406-863-4701
www.glacierparkinc.com
Glacier Park Inc./Grouse Mountain Lodge
406-863-4701
www.grousemountainlodge.com
Glacier Park Weddings
406-387-5340
www.glacierparkweddings.com
Glacier Raft Company Weddings & Events
406-888-5454
www.glacieroutdoorweddings.com
Heaven’s Peak Lodge & Resort
818-307-9567
www.heavenspeakresort.com
Hilton Garden Inn/Blue Canyon
406-758-2579
www.kalispell.hgi.com
Izaak Walton Inn
406-888-5700
www.izaackwaltoninn.com
Kandahar Lodge
406-862-6098
www.kandaharlodge.com
Lodge at Whitefish Lake
406-863-4000
www.lodgeatwhitefishlake.com
Marina Cay Resort
406-837-5861
www.marinacay.com
Pavilion at Creative Vision, Inc.
406-755-5112
www.creativevisiononline.com
Red Lion Hotel Kalispell
406-751-5059
www.redlion.com
Scotty’s Shooting Ranch
406-257-8188
www.scottysmt.com
Sky Ridge Ranch
406-270-5237
www.skyridgemontana.com
Spuce Lodge at Flathead Lake
406-844-2114
www.glaciercamp.org
The Barn at Finley Point
406-887-2444
www.barnatfinleypoint.com
The Farm
406-471-6622
www.porteusbbq.com
The Rack Shack
406-844-0244
www.rackshackmontana.com
Whitefish Community Center
406-862-4923
www.whitefishcommunitycenter.org
Whitefish Mountain Resort
406-862-1952
www.skiwhitefish.com
Beargrass Gardens Floral & Events
406-862-7330
www.beargrassgardens.com
Goldfinch Events & Design
406-249-2619
www.goldfinchevents.com
Kropp Occasion Designs
406-871-3034
www.kroppoccasiondesigns.com
Perfect Montana Wedding
406-249-8830
www.perfectmontanawedding.com
St-Char-Ro Floral & Event Rentals
406-676-0588
www.st-char-ro.com
Tanya Gersh Event Design, LLC
406-261-4830
www.tanyagersh.com
The Roost Lodge
406-250-6416
www.theroostlodge.com
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B & T Sound Productions
406-871-8177
www.btsoundproductions.com
Destination DJ
406-212-2314
www.destinationDJ.biz
Music On The Move
406-261-6826
www.facebook.com/page/ music-on-the-move-montana
Noise Box Productions
406-261-9406
littlekrauss@hotmail.com
Scotti B Productions
406-249-4644
www.scottibproductions.com
Sidecar Audio
406-471-2994
www.sidecaraudio.com
Whitefish Events
406-212-7850
www.whitefishevents.com
Beargrass Gardens Floral & Events
406-862-7730
www.beargrassgardens.com
Conrad Floral
406-837-3787
www.conradfloral.com
Mum’s Flowers
406-862-2757
www.mumsflowers.net
Rose Mountain Floral
406-752-7673
www.rosemountainfloral.com
St-Char-Ro Floral & Event Rentals
406-676-0588
www.st-char-ro.com
Woodland Floral, LLC
406-755-5959
www.woodlandfloralkalispell.com
Beckman’s Fine Furnishing
406-756-8555
www.kalispellfurniture.com
Bed Bath & Beyond
406-755-4610
www.bedbathandbeyond.com
Flathead Travel Service
406-752-8709
www.flatheadtravel.com
AdvoCare
406-253-4115
www.flatheadvalleyadvocare.com
Lodge at Whitefish Lake - Spa
406-863-4050
www.spaatwhitefishlake.com
Mary Kay Cosmetics
406-250-7479
www.marykaycom/jennisipe
Nerium International
406-837-0802
www.shirleytrent.com
Pure Romance by JoEllen
406-756-1966
www.joellenwilliams.pureromance.com
Soucie Soucie Salon & Spa
406-752-3501
www.souciesouciesalon.com
Tammy Garrison/Makeup Artist/Cosmetologist
406-471-7272
www.facebook.com/rajsalon
The Body Shop
406-253-3510
www.thebodyshopmontana.com
Younique by Stephine LaCross-Scott
406-291-2176
www.youniqueproducts.com/stephinelacross
Insty-Prints
406-752-8812
www.instyprintsmt.com
Utmost Graphics & Printing, LLC
406-756-0801
www.utmostgraphics.com
Jensen Jewelers
406-755-2704
www.jensen-jewelers.com
McGough & Company
406-862-9199
www.mcgoughandco.com
Florists
Gifts & Registries
Health & Beauty
Invitations & Printing
Jewelry
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Limousine Service Cinderella’s Chauffeur
406-334-5206
www.brideinside.com
Wild Horse Limousine
406-756-2290
www.wildhorselimo.com
Belton Chalet
406-888-5000
www.beltonchalet.com
Best Western Plus Flathead Lake Inn & Suites
406-857-2400
www.bestwesternmontana.com
Glacier Park, Inc./Glacier Park Lodge
406-863-4701
www.grousemountainlodge.com
Izaak Walton Inn
406-888-5700
www.izaackwaltoninn.com
Kandahar Lodge
406-862-6098
www.kandaharlodge.com
KwaTaqNuk Resort
406-863-8365
www.kwataqnuk.com
Lodge at Whitefish Lake
406-863-4000
www.lodgeatwhitefishlake.com
Marina Cay Resort
406-837-5861
www.marinacay.com
Red Lion Hotel Kalispell
406-751-5059
www.redlion.com
Spruce Lodge at Flathead Lake
406-844-2114
www.glaciercamp.org
The Roost Lodge
406-250-6416
www.theroostlodge.com
Whitefish Mountain Resort
406-862-1952
www.skiwhitefish.com
Jesse Ahmann Cellist
406-570-5095
www.jesseahmann.net
The Violin Studio
406-862-1070
ww.facebook.com/pages/the-violin-studio
406-249-8830
www.perfectmontanawedding.com
Great Northern Brewing Co.
406-863-1000
www.greatnorthernbrewing.com
Lodge at Whitefish Lake
406-863-4000
www.lodgeatwhitefishlake.com
Amber Siderius Photogrphy
406-261-0223
www.facebook.com/AmberL.SideriusPhotography
Brian Bistodeau Photography
406-885-3727
www.brianbistodeau.com
Carrie Ann Photography
406-471-5076
www.carrieann-photography.net
Creative Vision Photography, Inc.
406-755-5112
www.creativevisiononline.com
Crown Photography
406-752-6116
www.mtcrownphoto.com
Flash Image Photography
406-871-2898
www.facebook.com/pages/flash-image-photography
Glacier Weddings Photography
406-249-2071
www.glacierweddings.com
Heart to Lens
406-249-8444
www.hearttolens.com
JMK Photography
406-249-7939
www.jmkphotography.net
Jennifer Mooney Photography
406-465-5219
www.jennifermooney.com
Jeremiah & Rachel Photography
406-600-9863
www.jeremiahandrachel.com
Lodging
Musicians
Officiants Perfect Montana Wedding Parties & Showers
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Directory (continued)
Kelly Kirksey Photography
406-471-7938
www.kellykirkseyphotography.com
Kelly Nelson Photography
406-253-1203
www.knelsonphoto.com
Marianne Wiest Photography
406-871-3524
www.mariannewiest.com
Meadowlark Photography
406-201-0315
www.montanaweddingphotography.com
Oh Snap! Photography
406-212-6310
www.ohsnapphotographymt.com
406-471-2994
www.pixelatedgigs.com
406-390-6676
www.trailswestrealestate.com
Photobooth Pixelated! Photobooth Gigs Real Estate Trails West Real Estate Rentals Acme Rentals
406-755-3928
Barn Door Event Rentals
406-752-1266
www.barndooreventrentals.com
Celebrate Event & Party Rental
406-862-4638
www.celebraterentals.com
Empress Tents & Events
406-892-7600
www.empresstentsevents.com
Flathead Valley Party Rentals
406-890-9500
www.fvpartyrentals.com
Northwest Convention Services
406-261-1479
www.nwconventionservicesmt.com
Pee Wee, Inc.
406-892-7933
St-Char-Ro Floral & Event Rentals
406-676-0588
www.st-char-ro.com
The Party Store
406-892-7368
www.thepartystoremt.com
Vintage Whites Wedding Rentals
406-270-2712
www.vintagewhitesweddings.com
Transportation Harlow’s Bus Service
406-755-4272
Montana Trolley Co., Inc.
406-250-4029
www.facebook.com/montanatrolleyco
Travel Flathead Travel
406-752-8709
www.flatheadtravel.com
Eclipse Visual Systems
406-885-4746
www.eclipse-vs.com
Mountain View Productions
406-334-5334
www.mtviewmontana.com
White Cliff Productions
360-490-6697
www.whitecliffproductions.com
Videography
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2015 ADVERTISING DIRECTORY A Field of Dreams.................................................. 53
Montana Trolley Co., Inc. .................................... 45
All Occasions Catering........................................ 19
Mum’s Flowers......................................................... 1
Bar W Guest Ranch.............................................. 35
O’Brien’s Liquor & Wine........................................ 49
Cakes by Debi....................................................... 59
Pee Wee’s Porta Potty.......................................... 19
Celebrate Event & Party Rental.......................... 62
Piggyback BBQ..................................................... 12
Cinderella’s Chauffeur......................................... 27
Porteus BBQ........................................................... 62
Diamond B Weddings............................................ 3
Red Lion Hotel....................................................... 62
Eclipse Visual Systems............................................. 9
St-Char-Ro Floral and Event Rentals................... 12
Empress Tents & Events......................................... 41
The Farm................................................................ 35
Flash Image Photography..................................... 3
The Party Store...................................................... 19
Glacier Raft Company Weddings & Events.......... 21
Utmost Graphics, LLC........................................... 45
Goldfinch Events & Design.................................. 59
Whitefish Mountain Resort.....................................29
Hilton Garden Inn Kalispell/Blue Canyon........... 53
Whitefish Events....................................................... 9
Lodge at Whitefish Lake........................................ 7
Wild Horse Limousine............................................ 33
McGough & Co.................................................... 39
Willow Bride.......................................... inside front cover
Miss Patti Cakes..................................................... 50
Xclusive Bridal & Formalwear............................... 41
Mimi’s Bridal............................................................. 9
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• Up to 100 Exhibitors • Style Shows • $1000s in Prize Giveaways
$5.00 admission at the door Flathead County Fairgrounds, Kalispell, MT
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