Become a Life Coach to improve a life; Become a Parenting Coach and help improve a Family When we decide to become a life coach, we take on the responsibility of changing lives and helping people achieve their dreams and aspirations. When we become a parenting coach we do not only take on this responsibility but we also take on the responsibility of helping those who will mould their children’s lives who will ultimately become our future leaders and are our hope for the success of the world.
Many parents when getting help from coaches begin by stating their problems with their children. They start by saying how they would like to change this type of behavior. They sometimes fail to realize that most of the time when children misbehave or do not listen to their parents it is because they need to change their approach to their children and maybe they also have to change their attitude towards them.
Helene Goldnadel a life coach says when you become parenting coaches you will need to have the courage to ask the right questions and make sure that you get honest answers. You will need to identify what the problem is and what they want to happen. Parents want to fulfill their children’s basic needs of significance, love, connection, certainty and variety and to do this you will need to find out what the real score is.
When people decide to become a life coach they are taught that people are prevented from obtaining what they need because of a certain situation. This situation comes in the form of a triad. The triad is an emotional behavior based
on what a person says to themselves, what they focus on and believe, and their body’s posture and physiology.
To explain this further take for instance a parent who either goes on angry emotional or loving emotional pattern due to a child’s behavior. A number of people often display reactive behavior rather than responsive behavior when faced with a certain situation. As you become a parenting coach you should be able to relate the parent’s reactive emotional behavior with their child’s emotional behavior. You will be able to find out their reasons for reacting in a specific manner and be able to attend to this reason.
When you become a life coach you are given the opportunity to help one person but when you become a parenting coach you are able to help a whole family. As a parenting coach you are tasked to help set an emotional tone for parents and help them learn to respond and not react to their children’s actions. This will help parents see the bigger picture and be able to help them provide the needs of their children.
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