The Magical Power of Loving, Sexual Energy

THE MAGICAL LOVING POWER OF SEXUAL ENERGY

I once had a lover who taught me the secrets and magic of sexual energy. My encounter with this man allowed me to develop a part of me that I knew was dormant but had never been allowed to flourish.

My lover ' s name was Erik, ten years younger, my junior but wise beyond his years. Before my relationship with Erik, I had participated in sexual encounters that were wonderful for sure, but never as deep or as meaningful as I had with him. With Erik, I felt I became a real woman and evolved from being a little girl, not really understanding the intimacy, power, and healing that sex could create.

Erik and I were always making love.

Sometimes two, even three times a day. He considered it medicinal. He said sex was the most potent and creative energy that existed in the Universe and that it brought great healing and real inner peace to those who understood how it worked.

When we reached a climax, he asked me to think of things in the world that I wanted to help and send our sexual energy to those events, people, and circumstances.

At first, I thought that was silly, but it actually made sense the more I thought about it.

With Erik, I began to understand the real power of sex and the real meaning of love. I had read in a book once that true love is when you are willing to allow the person you love to be as far away from you as they want; and as close as they want. At first, I didn 't understand that, but Erik taught me what that really meant.

Usually, we set boundaries for the people we love, and we command them to stay close - but not too close. We set rules for what they can do, whom they can see, and where they can go, limiting their freedom.

We only allow them to be just so far away and no further. So love ends up being the experience one has inside those boundaries… as long as you stay THIS close, and as long as you don 't get ANY closer, then that is what we call love.

For example, we don 't allow our loved one to have a

'best friend' of the opposite sex. And we keep many secrets about ourselves hidden and don 't allow them to see those parts of ourselves. So not too far away, and only so close. That' s what we call love.

But the author of that same book revealed that REAL LOVE was to allow our loved one both as much freedom AND as much intimacy as was possible. That would be real love.

As I learned about deep and intimate sex with Erik, I also learned about deep and intimate love - the kind the author was talking about.

One morning I woke up, and Erik turned to give me a ' good morning kiss ' . Since I hadn 't yet brushed my teeth, I felt embarrassed that my breath might not be fresh in the early morning, so before he kissed me, I said to him, "Hold on, honey, let me brush my teeth first. "

To my surprise, he laughed and pulled me closer. He didn 't let me run to brush my teeth. Instead, he said, "My darling, I want all of you not just a part of you. I love you. " Then he said, "Let me clean your mouth for you - you don 't need a toothbrush. " And in an instant, before I could resist or even think it was a funny thing to do or say, he tenderly pulled my face toward his, and gently slid his tongue in my mouth, and wiped my mouth clean. Then he passionately kissed me, and I have never known such intimacy and authenticity.

All my barriers were down. My embarrassment left, and all my feelings of being separate were gone too.

We were one. I had never been that close to anyone before.

When we first started having sex and making love, I acted like such a little girl. I wanted the lights turned off. I wanted my makeup and hair done, so I looked ok. I closed my eyes a lot. And I felt clumsy and stupid when I was talking, so I kept my mind shut.

Erik would look straight into my eyes, and he would ask me to talk to him while we were making love. I couldn 't speak. I felt awkward. I didn 't know what to say. I just wanted to close my eyes and have the lights turned off otherwise, I felt uncomfortable and insecure. My mind raced. I tried to think of things to say. I sounded so stupid. He laughed at me as if amused… but not in a hurtful way - in a way you could tell he loved me and thought I was sweet and cute.

He could see I was in my head and not present with him. He was patient with me. And very understanding. He kept smiling, and looking into my eyes, telling me to open my eyes and look at him.

And once I could do that and feel self-assured and confident and present, then he would ask me again, "Talk to me. " I would get unsure of myself again, and it went like that for many months. Still, he continued to smile at me sweetly, and I could feel his love, and finally, after many months, I started to find my authentic and genuine self. And I began to share from that place which was truthful and real and so very sexy after all.

After that, I could talk - because I was sharing for real and sharing authentically, not trying to think of the right thing to say, or how to act sexy. It was totally different when I shared my experience and let him see the real me, rather than putting on an act and trying to look good. He let me have my freedom too. Once I was thinking about an old boyfriend, and I mentioned I missed him. Erik encouraged me to call him and said it was ok to see him if I wanted. Erik knew the power of giving me my freedom. Of letting me be as far away as I wanted. It brought us closer. I didn 't have to pretend or hide the fact that I missed my old boyfriend. And as a result, I fell more in love after that. One night Erik and I were wrestling on the floor, and he was tickling me. At first, it was fun. He was holding my arms down, and I was laughing while he continued to tickle me. After a bit, he stopped tickling me, but continued to hold my arms down on the floor, and he looked directly into my eyes, and said, "Marcia, I love you " .

I said something like,

"Erik, I love you too " , and continued to laugh. Again he stared directly into my eyes, smiling, and said very lovingly, "Marcia, I love you. " Again, I said, "I love you too. " It was around 8:00 PM in the evening, and Erik kept saying, 'I love you ' , over and over, looking directly into my eyes, and the time turned into an hour or more.

I started getting upset and angry. I wanted him to let me up. I wanted him to stop. I realized later that what was happening was that I could not handle all that Love directly. I could only handle what was happening a bit at a time. At first, it was fun, but then I got irritated and angry with him. I wanted up. I wanted out. I wanted it to stop. I actually couldn 't handle that much love.

At that moment, I went through every emotion you could think of. Erik didn 't stop saying he loved me. He didn 't stop looking into my eyes. The irritation grew to anger, then I became afraid. I started lashing out with my arms and fighting for him to let me go. But he wouldn 't avert his gaze, for hours, always looking at me tenderly and lovingly directly into my eyes, repeating, "Marcia, I love you. "

At some point, long into the middle hours of the night, I started to relax and look back into his eyes. I connected with him deeply, in a way I had not connected before. We weren 't actually making love or having sex. Still, I could feel the sexual energy of deep love throughout my body and Soul. Time stopped. He kept on, "Marcia, I love you. "

I relaxed into the peace and joy of the love itself. There was no more anger or fear. There was no more time even. There was no more separation. Just being at one with each other. In Love. Surrounded by Love. Coming from Love.

That lasted until 7:00 AM the following day. By daybreak, I had matured in a myriad of magical ways and felt transformed into a totally new human being.

At that point, I finally understood what Real Love meant. It meant allowing a person to be as close as possible and as far away as they want.

Most people think love is something else. In the majority of relationships, people will only let you into their inner world so far but won 't let you go further than they want. Most people have rules that limit their freedoms, saying it is a condition for the relationship. And most people call that love. But this limited experience of intimacy is just that - limited.

Just look at the numerous benefits for our wellbeing:

Lower blood pressure Better immune system Better heart health, possibly including lower risk for heart disease Improved self-esteem Decreased depression and anxiety Increased libido Immediate, natural pain relief Better sleep Increased intimacy and closeness to a sexual partner Overall stress reduction, both physiologically and emotional

So many people, both men and women, don 't realize how Sexual Energy can be so healing. Loving intimacy in the right conditions is the best medicine for peace, joy, and fulfilment.

If you have a loving partner, enjoy playful and deeply conscious sex for the incredible, expansive, magical experience that comes with being human. Whenever and wherever you get the chance.

Even if you

"have a headache!" . You will find it well worth it.

Marcia Martin

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