2018 Hilton Head Bridal Guide by Hilton Head Monthly

2018 BRIDAL GUIDE

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o two weddings are alike, because no two couples are alike. But one thing ties them all together: love. Traditions evolve and trends change, but weddings will always elicit the same emotions, whether youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re the groom or a guest. And any event filled with love, joy and hope deserves to be breathlessly anticipated and exceptionally well-planned. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re here to help. Hilton Head Island, Bluffton and the surrounding Lowcountry are spectacular places to marry, and thousands of weddings are held in the area each year. From small budgets to large, beach to country club, traditional to modern, this area sees all types of weddings. And because the Lowcountry plays host to so many nuptials each year, you can be sure that the area is home to some of the finest wedding professionals around. Consider them the best in class when it comes to photography, stationery, planning, catering, cakes, flowers, linen rentals, lighting and everything else you need to plan the perfect day. The 2018 Bridal Book is designed as a resource guide and inspiration source for brides, grooms and their families. We give you the lowdown on details like how to get a marriage license, how to hire professionals (and where to find them), how to manage a guest list, how to organize your ceremony, and even how to plan your budget. We cover fun stuff, too, like choosing your flowers, your perfect first dance song and much more. With equal parts reality and romance, we hope this guide will supply the perfect blend of inspiration and tools needed to plan your dream wedding here in the beautiful Lowcountry. BG 2018 Bridal Guide 1

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table of contents 6 | REAL WEDDING Leah and Michael Miller wed in March 2017 at Congregation Beth Yam on Hilton Head Island.

12 | BUDGET Save money by following these tips suggested by budget-savvy brides.

14 | CEREMONY It’s your choice: use traditional wedding vows or write your own.

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18 | FASHION Off the shoulder? Empire waist? Monthly’s guide to gowns will help you decode the styles. 22 | FLOWERS Petals, blooms, greenery and stems galore. 24 | FOOD & CAKE Your guests will remember the food served at your wedding long after you’ve left for your honeymoon. 28 | GUEST LIST Etiquette exlpained: how to divide up the guest list fairly, and the proper way to address invitations. 30 | HIRING PROFESSIONALS A wedding planner and other pros will ensure that your big day goes smoothly. 34 | MUST-DOS: THE MARRIAGE LICENSE Know the rules, and don’t wait until the last minute to apply for a marriage license. 38 | TECH & SOCIAL MEDIA Snapchat, Instagram and more....there’s an app for almost every need in the wedding planning process. 40 | SONGS These tunes will set the stage for the father-daughter dance, the couple’s first dance and the reception. 42 | TOOLS FOR A PERFECT WEDDING Where did bridal traditions such as carrying a boquet or wearing something blue come from? What should I say if I’m asked to give a toast? And finally, how can I keep all my wedding-related tasks organized? This section provides the answers.

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ith gorgeous surroundings and luxurious accommodations, Hilton Head and Bluffton offer world-class wedding experiences. Many talented wedding professionals also work in the Lowcountry. The 2018 Bridal Guide was created to help you navigate the wedding process from the engagement ring all the way through late night snacks after the reception. Inside, you’ll draw inspiration from detailed stories and stunning photography of real local weddings. You’ll find comprehensive listings and profiles of local wedding industry vendors. Whether you are the bride, the groom, a family member or a close friend of the engaged couple, we’re thrilled to be by your side throughout the planning process. This guide is available at key rack distribution points, bridal shops and other high-end stores across the Lowcountry. You can also pick up a copy at the 2018 Hilton Head Area Bridal Show, which is Feb. 18 at Hampton Hall Clubhouse in Bluffton. For the bride on-the-go, a mobile-friendly digital guide is available online at hiltonheadbridalshow.com. Please enjoy this idea book, and think of it as your direct connection to a network of wedding professionals who look forward to meeting you and bringing your vision to life. BG

ABOUT THE COVER Megan Dolyniuk, the bride in our cover photo by Landon Jacob, had a destination wedding for her nuptials to Stewart Koch. She grew up on Hilton Head and he’s from Louisville, Kentucky. Because their May wedding took place on the same day as the famed horserace in his hometown, the couple planned a Kentucky Derby theme. Wedding planner Kelli Corn of Kelli Corn Weddings & Events organized the weekend-long festivities including a beachside barbecue at Tower Beach Club, a bridal luncheon at Sea Pines Country Club, a golf tournament at Harbour Town Golf Links, the rehearsal dinner at Harbour Town Yacht Club, their ceremony at Providence Presbyterian Church and the reception at Harbour Town. Guests came from as far away as China, Korea, France and Morocco to celebrate with the couple and their families and to enjoy the beauty and hospitality of the Lowcountry. 4 hiltonheadbridalshow.com

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eah Bloom’s 2017 wedding was notable for its familiarity as much as for its novelty. “Growing up as a rabbi’s daughter, I had been to many, many weddings, and I had seen my dad do what he does best many times,” said Leah, whose father, Rabbi Brad Bloom of Congregation Beth Yam, married his daughter and her beau, Michael Miller, on March 19, 2017. The wedding took place at Congregation Beth Yam on Hilton Head. So how did her own ceremony stack up to the countless others she’d seen her father officiate over the years? “The ceremony was beautiful,” she said. “My dad did his best work ever.” Leah and Michael, who live in Maryland, had two priorities when planning their big day. The first is that they wanted an intimate atmosphere that honored the close family and friends who’d be attending. The second is that they also needed to honor the dozens of guests, some of whom of were virtual strangers to the couple, who would be a part of their day. Bloom’s entire congregation was invited.

“THE CEREMONY WAS BEAUTIFUL,” SHE SAID. “MY DAD DID HIS BEST WORK EVER.”

One unique way the couple decided to make this distinction was a wardrobe change for both of them. Michael changed his jacket between the wedding and reception, and Leah wore a champagne-colored fit and flare wedding dress with lace overlay to her ceremony and cocktail hour, which was attended by about 400 people. Then she changed into another wedding dress, a princess-style gown, for the more intimate reception of 200 guests, many of them traveling from as far as California and Arizona, where the groom’s family resides. The festivities for those 200 guests began the day before the wedding on the beach, where the couple played games with their friends and soaked up the sunshine before sharing a rehearsal dinner at the Country Club of Hilton Head in Hilton Head Plantation.

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A highlight of the night was the groom’s cake, specially created by the groom’s aunt Abby Katz of Abby’s Addictions in Myrtle Beach. “She drove from there with the cake in her car,” marveled Leah. “It had fondant symbols of things throughout our lives and relationship together.” Those symbols included the logo of the Jewish campus organization Hillel, where the couple met; Michael as a baseball player; and a Sun Devil, the mascot for Arizona State University, where both attended college. On their wedding day, the couple opted not to do a “first look.” “We wanted to savor “WE WANTED TO SAVOR THE the tradition of him seeing TRADITION OF HIM SEEING ME me walk down the aisle for WALK DOWN THE AISLE FOR the first time,” Leah said. THE FIRST TIME” The bridesmaids, dressed in hues of purple – a bit of an homage to the bride’s parents, whose wedding colors were purple and silver – took their places before the bride made her entrance, arm in arm with both her parents, a Jewish tradition. “Right as I was about to enter the doors I said to my dad, ‘Let’s do this thing,’ and he said ‘Let’s do this thing,’” Leah remembered of the poignant, private moment. “And then when I saw Michael my face completely lit up.” Leah’s ivory gown’s lace overlay complemented the specially designed decorative chuppah—her mother Linda’s

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creative touch—under which the couple wed. The chuppah’s canopy had been created using parts from both the bride’s and groom’s mothers’ wedding dresses, and Leah’s mother had worn lace on her wedding day as well. Their ceremony was as touching as the bride had envisioned, with the couple reciting the vows they each had personally written. “I knew the thing that would be the most difficult would be when the rabbi made special remarks to the couple,” she said. “I had to hold it in very, very hard to not cry. I knew that if I cried, I wouldn’t stop.” During the ensuing cocktail hour, where a purple champagne cocktail was served, the newly married couple snuck off to Sunset Beach with their photographer, Whitney Boring of W Photography, for a few colorful photos and a romantic moment. “They are the most amazing pictures, there was barely anybody on the beach and the photographer scheduled it perfectly,” Leah says. “It was just the two of us. We knew we would be with our families and bridal party pretty much the entire day, and we wanted that time alone to just savor the day.”

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Planning a wedding in the Hilton Head Island area? Wedding planner Beth Baldwin shares the top 5 wedding day surprises the DIY bride might not be prepared for:

#5. Not accounting for check-in/check-out traffic on a Saturday. Transportation logistics can pose a challenge for a wedding on a Saturday, especially during the summer months.

#4. Choosing vendors based on price. Just because a wedding vendor has the lowest price doesn’t make them the best option for you personally. Thoroughly vet each and every vendor to make sure they fit your vision, style, and needs.

#3. Not having a rain backup plan. The Lowcountry is known for weather that can change pretty quickly. Always have a backup plan for your ceremony and/or reception set up.

#2. Wedding dress malfunction. This is the toughest one to manage! Our wedding day emergency kits are literally suitcase-sized so we can handle practically any kind of dress disaster.

#1. Not hiring a day-of coordinator, at least 30 days out. Without a day-of coordinator, you (or your mom) will spend all day setting everything up and stressing out, instead of experiencing the joy and celebration your wedding day should be!

Want more information? Call, text, or email Beth to find out how she and her team can help you enjoy a stress-free wedding day!

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“US BEING ANNOUNCED FINALLY AS A MARRIED COUPLE AND DOING OUR FIRST DANCE – THAT WAS A MOMENT I HAD IMAGINED A LONG TIME.”

After a quick change for both bride and groom, and a “flawless” hair and makeup touch-up by Christine Sheffield of Makeup in the 843, it was time to party at Sonesta Resort Hilton Head Island. The newly married couple was introduced by members of The Fabulous Equinox Orchestra, who played “To Make You Feel My Love” while Leah and Michael took their first dance as husband and wife. Then guests were treated to a sit-down dinner, choosing steak, fish or a vegetarian meal prepared by Sonesta Resort’s chefs. Leah and Michael bucked the usual bridal trend and were able to try all three delicious options. “Everybody tells you that you are never going to eat, and that was something we were very determined to prove wrong,” Leah says. “And we actually were able to have a good 20 minutes where we sat at a sweetheart table and were able to enjoy our dinner.” After dinner, DJ Jamie Rosen with Hilton Head Entertainment took over and the party ramped up. Eventually, a gorgeous red velvet cake by Signe’s Bakery was sliced and served, and then the couple unveiled a 10 hiltonheadbridalshow.com

LEAH’S BRIDESMAIDS DRESSED IN HUES O F P U R P L E I N H O M AG E TO H E R PA R E N T S , WHOSE WEDDING COLORS WERE PURPLE AND SLIVER.

special surprise for their guests: a Viennese dessert room that featured a cordials bar, petit fours and ice cream crepes made on the spot. “It was just outstanding, a huge surprise,” Leah says. Overall, both bride and groom say the day couldn’t have gone any better. For Leah, simply having their marital status publicly declared was the true highlight of the day. “Us being announced finally as a married couple and doing our first dance – that was a moment I had imagined a long time.” BG

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Casey and Joshua Tierney were careful to stick to their budget when they planned their wedding at Callawassie Island Clubhouse.

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asey and Joshua Tierney got married last Hilton Head weddings have been over the top, rangJuly in Bluffton on a strict budget that ing from $200,000 to $500,000 and featuring lavnecessitated a solid plan. ish elements like a pumpkin-shaped, horse-drawn “Josh and I paid for the wedding ourselves,” Casey carriage that Cinderella would envy and Swarovski said. “And we really wanted a sit-down dinner and crystal-studded gowns. But with the help of the open bar at Callawassie area’s wedding professionals Island Clubhouse, so that and a little careful planning, "WE REALLY WANTED A SITwas most important to you can have the wedding DOWN DINNER AND OPEN BAR AT us. And everything else of your dreams — no matter was ‘Let’s see what we CALLAWASSIE ISLAND CLUBHOUSE, your budget. SO THAT WAS MOST IMPORTANT can do.’” The Tierneys planned TO US. AND EVERYTHING ELSE WAS KEEPIN' IT REAL their wedding with their ‘LET’S SEE WHAT WE CAN DO." priorities firmly in place; There may be a gap they knew what they between what you want and weren’t willing to compromise on. According to The what you can afford. You’ll need to address that Wedding Report, couples spend between $24,513 difference at the beginning of the planning process. and $40,855 for a wedding on Hilton Head Island. With your families, it’s important to talk honestly That includes an average of $15,230 on the venue, and openly about what kind of reception you can catering and rentals. The local average cost is a nudge afford and how many people you can invite. Weighing above the national average of $26,720 — and neither your priorities and possible tradeoffs from the start, price tag includes the cost of the honeymoon. like the Tierneys did, will save you time, money and Despite the sticker shock, the Lowcountry is a heartache as you prepare to walk down the aisle. Just popular setting for weddings. Beaufort County is remember: You already found your perfect match, in the top 10 percent of wedding locales out of the which is the most important — and priceless — nearly 3,000 counties nationwide. And sure, some detail of all. BG

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“NEITHER OF US IS RELIGIOUS, BUT IT WAS REALLY NICE FOR US TO WRITE THE WHOLE THING TOGETHER”

hen Katherine and Mike Palmeri look back on their October wedding at Palmetto Bluff, their minds go immediately to one thing: the ceremony itself, which the couple wrote together, including their vows. “Neither of us is religious, but it was really nice for us to write the whole thing together,” Katherine said. The ceremony isn’t just a beautiful moment between two people in love; it’s a binding event in the eyes of both the local government and, depending on your personal preference, your house of worship, and there are several things you need to do before you say “I do.” Before you can walk down the aisle, you need to make sure you’ve filled out all the forms — dotting your I's and crossing your T's.

MAKE IT OFFICIAL Before your big day, you and your fiancé will need to apply in person for a marriage license. The main office of the Beaufort County Probate Court in Beaufort and the Hilton Head Island satellite office have different hours and appointment requirements, so make sure you check before you make the drive. There is a 24-hour waiting period after you submit your application before your license will be issued, so don’t wait until the last minute. Of course, you’ll need more than a marriage license to make your union official. You’ll also need to make sure you have an officiant to perform the ceremony. Certain members of the clergy, chiefs or spiritual leaders of recognized Native American tribes, judges and notaries public are authorized to administer the oath and sign the marriage license; it’s up to you whom you select. Registered officiants often charge a fee, but some clergy will perform the ceremony in return for a donation to the church. Expect to pay between $500 and $800. Once you have your marriage license and your officiant, you’re ready to plan your ceremony. Your officiant can guide you when it comes to a “traditional” service, but speak up if you want to add or amend things to make your ceremony uniquely yours. A traditional service starts with the procession down

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Katherine and Mike Palmeri incorporated humour when they wrote their own vows for their October wedding at Palmetto Bluff.

the aisle, followed by the officiant’s opening the “honor” and “obey” wording. One way remarks, readings, the exchange of vows or another, however, traditional vows usually and rings, the marend with the officiriage pronounceIF YOU CHOOSE TO WRITE ant asking the couple ment, the kiss and if they will take each A PERSONAL VOW, ASK the recessional. You other as husband YOURSELF WHAT MATTERS and wife, followed can personalize your ceremony by selectby a blessing over MOST TO YOU BOTH. ing music and readthe newly married ings that have signifcouple. icance, or add elements like a sand-pouring A handful of nontraditional wedding vows ceremony or unity candle to symbolize your have become standard choices for couples new union. And, of course, don’t be afraid to who opt not to embrace traditional or write write your own vows. personal vows. Regardless of which nontraditional vow is chosen, they all touch on comVOWS THAT WOW mon themes such as the constancy of love, celebration of life, trust, sharing of dreams We’re all familiar with the traditional vows and pledging faithfulness. — for better or for worse, in sickness and Personal wedding vows are just that: perin health. Though the wording can vary sonal. Your love is personal, the relationships slightly, it always includes the same themes you both have with your family and friends of love, bonding and faith to a higher being are personal, and the hopes and dreams you — though some couples today eliminate share are personal. Katherine and Mike mixed 16 hiltonheadbridalshow.com

TRADITIONAL VOWS (FROM THE UNITED METHODIST CHURCH):

IN THE N A ME OF G O D, I, SA M, TA K E YOU, A LE X, TO B E MY H U S BAN D, TO HAV E A N D TO HO LD F ROM THIS DAY FORWAR D, FOR B E TTE R, FOR WO R S E, FOR RIC HE R, FOR P OO R E R, IN SIC K N ESS A N D IN H E ALTH, TO LOV E A N D TO C HE R I S H, UNTIL WE A RE PA RTE D BY D E ATH. THIS IS MY SOLE MN VOW. IN THE N A ME OF G O D, I, A LE X, TA K E YOU, SA M, TO B E MY W I F E, TO HAV E A N D TO HO LD F ROM THIS DAY FORWAR D, FOR B E TTE R, FOR WO R S E, FOR RIC HE R, FOR P OO R E R, IN SIC K N ESS A N D IN H E ALTH, TO LOV E A N D TO C HE R I S H, UNTIL WE A RE PA RTE D BY D E ATH. THIS IS MY SOLE MN VOW.

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Whether traitional or nontraditional, wedding vows touch on common themes including the constancy of love, trust and the sharing of dreams.

romance and humor to punctuate their unique wedding vows with the flavor and feelings of their love story. If you choose to write a personal vow, ask yourself what matters most to you both. Express it in words, but also think about and agree on what tone to use — funny, serious, a little of both? And when in doubt, keep it short. After you and your fiancé have exchanged vows and presented each other with rings, you’re ready to head back up the aisle and hit the reception as a married couple. BG 2018 Bridal Guide 17

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n the day of your wedding, all eyes are on you. You’ll want to look and feel your best, which means finding the dress that fits both your style and your personality. When Hilton Head Island bride Caroline Santorum didn’t find a single wedding dress she loved, she bought two and combined them to create the perfect princess gown. “The top of one dress we loved, but the bottom was a satin cupcake skirt, too much for a summer wedding on Hilton Head. So we took a tulle skirt from the bottom of another dress. I never really tried it on, but I just said ‘I think this will be great, I hope, let’s go with it,’ ” Santorum said of combining the two dresses for her June wedding in Sea Pines. “I was a little nervous seeing the final dress, but it was stunning. It’s the favorite thing I’ve ever worn," she said.

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When Caroline Santorum (above) didn’t find a single wedding dress she loved, she bought two and combined them to create the perfect princess gown.

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A-LINE A-LINE

dresses feature fitted bodices that flow from the waist into an “A” shape. Modified A-line dresses are slightly looser than A-line gowns, but still flow from the waist.

MINI MINI

dresses are usually reserved for the after-party because they’re so short and flirty; you’ll rarely see a bride sporting a mini dress at the altar.

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dresses are meant to flatter the bride’s body without being too form-fitting.

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dresses are similar to mermaid dresses, but less form-fitting. They accentuate the hips and waist.

Santorum’s risk move paid off, and the lesson is to not settle. But how do you find “The Dress” out of the millions of beautiful wedding dresses out there? Start by knowing your own personal style. If you are very fashion-forward in your daily attire, a highcouture gown could be perfect for you. But if you tend to prefer more conservative, classic styles, it’s a smart choice to go with a classic gown. On your wedding day, you want to be the best version of yourself, not someone else. With that in mind, flip through wedding magazines, scroll through Pinterest, and start visualizing your dream dress. This is one of the best parts of wedding planning, so dive in. When you’ve got an idea of the styles you like, book an appointment at a bridal salon — and be sure to bring your mother, other relatives or close friends to give you another opinion. Many bridal salons offer private consultations, complete with mimosas or Champagne to make the process less stressful and more exciting. Your consultant will take your measurements and pull samples for you to try on. Even if you think you know what kind of dress you’re looking for, be open to a variety of dress styles. Dresses might look very different on you than they do on the rack, and you might be surprised by the dress that you fall in love with. As you’re trying FLIP THROUGH WEDDING on dresses, have fun MAGAZINES, SCROLL but be practical. You’ll THROUGH PINTEREST, want a dress that fits both your ceremony AND START VISUALIZING location and reception YOUR DREAM DRESS. venue. A Cinderellastyle ball gown with a long flowing train might be difficult on the beach; instead, a tea-length silk number might be better. And of course, you’ll want to make sure your dress is comfortable enough so you can dance the night away at your reception. It’s best to start looking for your dress about six to eight months before your wedding day. Dresses are usually made to order, which takes three to four months. Once your dress arrives, you’ll need to schedule at least one or two fittings to make any alterations, which will also take several weeks. On the day before your wedding, you’ll want to make sure that your dress is steamed and free of wrinkles. If you have selected a second ensemble to wear late at night or for dancing at the reception, make sure it is delivered to your venue for an easy outfit change.

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These days, just about anything goes when it comes to bridal party attire. A good rule of thumb is that the more formal the wedding, the longer the bridesmaids’ dresses should be, but gone are the days when the maids all wore the same dress. Different necklines, lengths and silhouettes to fit each bridesmaids’ body and style are the norm. Some brides even choose to mix patterns and colors. For the groomsmen, you can go with the traditional tuxedo or suit, or relax a little with dress pants, button-down shirt and a vest, but no suit jacket. To spice things up and add a little panache to the day, try adding fun socks or bow ties. Whatever you and your bridal party wear, make sure it’s comfortable and suits the time of year in which you’re getting married. No one looks good in clothes that don’t fit or if they are uncomfortable. Stay true to your fashion sense and be “the best version of you” on your big day. BG

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SUMMER Freesia • Dahlias • Carnations • Poppy Pods • Wax Flowers • Hydrangeas

edding flowers are not just pretty accessories to have and to hold. They can also help showcase your personal style or your unique love story. Just ask Bluffton bride Halle Keiffer. For her May 2017 nuptials to Nicholas Keiffer at Maurene Plantation in Hardeeville, she carried a simple bouquet of greenery, light pink and white roses, and gold-tipped deer antlers, a personal touch that was the perfect nod to the couple’s love of the outdoors. Follow Halle’s lead and get creative with your use of greenery and blooms! Go over the top with mounds of arrangements in opulent vases, or settle on an understated look with simple stems in mason jars. Here are a few tips to help you pick the best blossoms for your big day.

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SOMETHING BORROWED One of the best places to find flower ideas is Pinterest. You’ll be inspired by the variety of beautiful bouquets, innovative ideas and pretty things in bloom. Blogs like Snippet & Ink, Style Me Pretty, Green Wedding Shoes and Brides have a ton of ideas, and some allow you to search by color scheme, season or favorite flower. Look for ways to use floral decorations from the ceremony, such as bouquets and altar arrangements, to decorate your reception site to save a little money. The internet is your flowery inspiration destination.

ASK THE PROS Hire a local, experienced professional to help keep you and your flowers on budget. Rarely does a bride do all the flowers herself — almost all hire florists to bring their visions to life. When interviewing florists, ask to see a portfolio of their work. Many professionals will have an online gallery or post their work on Instagram, making it easy to view a large variety of the centerpieces and bouquets they have assembled. You’re looking for a florist whose style fits your vision as well as your budget. Make sure you ask about any deposits, fees and payment schedules before you sign a contract. Selecting the flowers can be one of the most exciting parts of planning your wedding. It’s an opportunity to incorporate your theme, your season and your color scheme all in one place, and the flowers will be a highly visual and photographed portion of your wedding. Whatever your budget, feel confident that you can pull off something beautiful — greenery doesn’t cost as much as fresh-cut blooms but still adds a natural, elegant touch —and you’re sure to find a local professional who will be more than happy to make your dreams come true.

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hen Maggie Lowther and Robbie Kelly got married, they wanted a truly Southern meal to match their casual Southern vibe. Jimmy Fitts Catering delivered just that, wowing the crowd at their September wedding at Honey Horn with fried chicken made on-site, baked chicken, mac and cheese and collard greens. “People still tell me about how great the food was,” Maggie said. The Kellys understood one big fact of wedding planning: Aside from the bride’s gorgeous gown and the quality of the band or DJ that entertains the guests, the food is one of the most talked-about elements of any wedding. Don’t let sub-par selections or flat flavors steal the spotlight on your big day. Here are Hilton Head Monthly’s best tips to ensure guests leave the table sated and impressed — no matter your budget.

COCKTAILS AND HORS D’OEUVRES Choose crowd-pleasing favorites like crab cakes, oyster shooters, baby lamb chops, tomatoes and mozzarella skewers, peanut satay chicken, or shrimp and grits in martini glasses. Make sure to offer at least one vegetarian option. If passed hors d’oeuvres are not within your budget, opt for an antipasto platter or an artful presentation of 24 hiltonheadbridalshow.com

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cheeses and meats. The signature cocktail continues to be a strong trend, too, so pick a mixed drink that fits your theme or season, and let the special sipping begin.

DINNER MENU Plated dinners are still popular, with many brides choosing to serve a three- or four-course meal. Area chefs and caterers generally source local ingredients and work within season to bring fresh food to the table, so consider the time of year when planning your menu. Consider fresh and innovative salads like watermelon and feta in the summer, followed by surf-and-turf combinations for the main course.

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Chef stations and buffets are back with a bang and are fancier than ever. Searing, sautéing and carving presented with nice surrounding items, vegetables, sauces and garnish components — sometimes in miniature form like tapas-style — are popular. Try a sautéed foie gras station, presented with toasted fig brioche, caramelized onion jam, marinated frisse and black currant jus. Shellfish presentations, with mounds of oysters, mid-Atlantic clams, Alaskan king crab and split lobsters on the half shell are also a popular — and luxurious — option.

PROGRESSIVE DINING Why not serve your guests all night long? Instead of a cocktail hour followed by a multi-course dinner, set up stations that are open all night so the evening becomes one big feast. Guests can graze on foods that can follow a variety of themes, or offer a little bit of everything. This dining option is becoming very popular with brides.

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Contact us today for booking information 843.689.3445 | HiltonHeadEntertainment.com THE CAKE Of course, the real star of the menu is the wedding cake. All kinds of designs are available, and regional bakers are experimenting with new techniques like handmade sugar flowers. Natural flowers die quickly when not in water, so using handmade sugar flowers are an edible and practical solution. Other wedding cake trend is the “naked”cake — a multi-tiered cake that’s only frosted between layers, revealing the alternating cream and cake in a supremely understated yet decadent style. You also can have a separate groom’s cake that is a little more fun and reflective of his interests.

SWEETS TABLE Many top-notch local venues will create an incredible sweets display that goes beyond the traditional cake. Handmade macaroons, éclairs, puff pastries, cookies, milkshake shooters, donuts, cake pops, mini cupcakes, cronuts, or a candy bar are popular with today’s couples.

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The party doesn’t have to end as the reception winds down. Serve late-night comfort food with a classy twist, like truffle French fries, mini sandwiches, sliders, cheeseburgers and even hot dogs. Or offer a bonfire and s’mores with creative toppings that go beyond just marshmallows and chocolate. These party foods will give your guests one final snack after the last dance. Work with your local wedding professionals to find the menu that’s right for you on your special day. BG

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BRIDAL GUIDE | GUEST LIST

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ne of the biggest decisions in planning your wedding is the guest list. It sets the mood for the rest of the planning, along with the party itself. Katherine and Mike Palmeri wanted an intimate event, so they stayed on the same guest list page, inviting only close friends and relatives. “I wanted everything to be more personal,” Katherine said of the couple’s Palmetto Bluff wedding. And it’s a good thing they stayed on the conservative side: Almost all of the 90 people they invited attended the nuptials. The size of your wedding affects so many aspects of your big day. If you are planning a large wedding, you’ll need a venue that can accommodate a crowd, while if you’re hosting a smaller gathering, you’ll want to find a more intimate space. Your guest list will also need to work with your budget — obviously, the more people you invite, the higher the cost. So how to settle on a guest list that works with your budget and your friends list? To start, think big and write down the names of everyone you would like to attend. Suddenly facing a list as long as your arm? Time to start whittling.

EVEN STEVEN Traditionally, the couple gets to invite half of the total number of guests. The bride’s parents choose 25 percent, as does the groom’s. Even if there are multiple sets of parents on one side of the family or the other, the split remains the same. But the equation can get a little dicey if only one set of parents is contributing financially, or if the couple is footing the entire bill. If the goal is to keep things fair, then the traditional split is likely the best plan, no matter who is paying for the party. The two most important factors in arriving at a manageable number of guests are your budget and the venue size. Be conservative, because you can always add more invitations from your B-list after the initial round of RSVPs start rolling in. Don’t feel obligated to invite every cousin, especially if you’ve never met some of them. And don’t feel obligated to invite each of your co-workers because, let’s face it, you might not even like some of them. 28 hiltonheadbridalshow.com

S O M E T H I N G T O C O N S I D E R I F YO U ’ R E H AV I N G I S S U E S D E C I D ING HOW MANY PEOPLE TO INVITE IS TO MAKE A LIST OF “ R E C E P T I O N O N LY ” G U E S T S A N D T O Y W I T H T H E I D E A O F H AV I N G A H A N D F U L O F G U E S T S J U S T C O M E F O R T H E D R I N KS A N D D A N C I N G . T H I S W AY Y O U A R E C U T T I N G D O W N O N T H E A M O U N T O F P L AT E S Y O U ’ R E P AY I N G F O R A N D A L S O N O T L E AV I N G A N YO N E O U T B E C AU S E O F B U D G E T R E S T R I C T I O N S .

And decide up front if you want to include children; for sure, kids under the age of 12 are fun at a family gathering, but maybe not at $80 a head at your reception. And don’t forget that it’s your wedding. No bullying or pressure allowed by anyone.

SIGNED, SEALED, DELIVERED Typically, invitations are mailed six to eight weeks before to the wedding, or three months out if it’s a destination affair. Save-the-date cards should arrive six to eight months ahead of the wedding. The deadline for RSVPs should be two to three weeks prior to the wedding. If the deadline passes, it’s OK to follow up with those who haven’t responded to see if they’ll be attending. Invitations should list each guest by name; never reference “and guest” on the invitation unless you’re fine with your friend or relative bringing the stranger of their choosing. If a guest is not married and is not in a serious relationship, it’s perfectly fine to invite just that person — don’t worry, Emily Post concurs.

"I WANTED EVERYTHING TO BE MORE PERSONAL."

Try to pick an invitation style that matches the style of your wedding. If you’re having a casual ceremony on the beach in flip-flops, you might not want to send formal, lacy invitations. And keep in mind that the more embellished and detailed the invitation, the pricier it will be. There are many options when it comes to invitations —floral, lacy, custom designs, letterpress, foil-stamped, laser-cut — and it’s easy to get overwhelmed. Just stay true to your own tastes and the style of your wedding. Keep the content simple by noting the full names of the couple and the place and time of the ceremony and reception. That’s all that’s really necessary, though some brides like to include information about nearby accommodations for outof-town guests and directions from the ceremony site to the reception venue if the two are held at separate locations.Include a stamped envelope so your guests can easily return their RSVP cards. The return address should be secured on the back flap of the envelope, as well as on the RSVP envelope with postage inside. Once you’ve got your invitations in the mail, the hardest part is over. Now you can just sit back and wait to find out who will be joining you at your celebration. BG

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ith a plethora of Pinterest ideas and other information available online, right at every bride’s fingertips, today’s couples can do plenty of wedding planning on their own. But things go smoother with the help of professionals. Bride Amy Loizides found this out when Hurricane Matthew battered Hilton Head Island one week before her planned Oct. 15, 2016, nuptials to Jason Loizides. In that moment, Celebrations Catering & Events coordinator Jackie Brino became more than a wedding planner: She became a miracle worker. “Jackie Brino really saved the day; she was a huge help,” said Amy, whose planned Honey Horn wedding went off without a hitch thanks to a last-minute move to Windows on the Waterway.

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Luckily for local brides and grooms, the Lowcountry is home to top-notch wedding industry pros like Brino to fit every bride’s budget, style and personality. There are, however, common-sense guidelines for hiring the best florist, caterer or wedding planner your budget allows.

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Book vendors as early as possible. If they’re really skilled and accomplished, their calendars will be as full as yours. Never put down a deposit unless you have a fully detailed contract in hand that has been thoroughly reviewed with the vendor. Don’t be swayed by your emotions; consider each vendor contract as a business deal. Contact vendors’ references, ask vendors if any of their clients have been unhappy and why, and sit down with the pro personally. Ask to see examples of the work they’ve done for other weddings and events, and make sure you feel comfortable with them. If you want to be very thorough, check with the Better Business Bureau and the local chamber of commerce to see if any complaints have been filed against the vendor. Research, research, research. Use friends, websites and chat rooms as tools to help you make the most well-informed decision. Ask lots of questions. You’ll want to know what they charge and what’s included in that fee, if a deposit is required and how much, and if there is a cancellation fee or any additional fees. Also, ask whether they carry liability insurance, if they will be present at the venue during the wedding or reception — and if so, what they will be wearing —and if they have worked at your venue before. If vendors are hesitant to provide any information or seem to be deflecting your questions, move on. After the contract is signed, stay in contact with vendors throughout the planning process. It can be as simple as a quick phone call or email, and timely responses should be expected by both parties. Frequent communication will prevent unexpected surprises.

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SETTING THE MOOD WITH MUSIC What kind of music and vibe will fit best with your personality, your guest list and the venue? Do you have room in your venue for a multi-piece band, or do you want to dance the night away to your favorite songs? These factors can help you decide whether you should go with live music or hire a DJ. The options are endless: a harpist, pianist or string quartet for a small, intimate gathering; a live band that can inject energy on the dance floor; or a DJ whose flexibility as a performer means he can switch gears instantly. Many couples opt to hire two different types of entertainment for the ceremony and reception. Your search should begin at least six months before the wedding day. You’ll want to listen to audition tapes, check references, conduct interviews to discuss musical selections and their experience performing at weddings, discuss costs

Many couples have two different types of entertainment for the ceremony and the reception. Both live music and a DJ are popular options.

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and performance logistics, and review the song list — which, if it will cover the reception, could include up to 100 or 200 songs.

LOVE IN BLOOM Before beginning your search for a florist, there a few questions you should ask yourself: How much do you want to spend, and what kinds of flowers and floral designs — think classic or modern, wild or romantic —do you like best? Then realize that one flower and one floral design do not fit all needs. You’ll need several different flower arrangements, including the bridal bouquet, bridesmaids’ bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, centerpieces both large and small, ceremony arrangements, additional arrangements and cocktail arrangements. Once you’re ready to begin contacting florists, have your list of questions in hand. You’ll want to ask about their experience in their field and at the venue, to see samples of their work and a list of references, as well as information about available services like setup and delivery, sit-down consultations to go over each detail, and fees.

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with a sports team symbol for the groom’s cake? Which cake topper best represents who you are as a couple? Cakes can be complicated. Most bakers and pastry chefs charge by the slice, based on your guest list, and those fees can range from $1.50 to more than $12 a slice, according to popular wedding planning websites. The more intricately detailed your cake is, with multiple flavors and difficult-topull-off icing and decorations, the more expensive the per-slice fee will be. After you’ve done your homework, keep these questions in mind when talking with bakers: When will the cake be baked? Who actually bakes it? Are there extra charges, like a fee for utensils? Do you deliver and set up the cake display? How will the cake be displayed at the reception? How do you determine per-slice cost?

GOING THE DISTANCE Are you planning on a silver Rolls, antique Bentley or the traditional white stretch limo to get you to the church on time? How about a horse-drawn carriage with Spanish moss and live oaks as your backdrop, or a boat to help you really make waves? There are also trolleys available to rent on Hilton Head Island for a quaint and fun way to arrive in style. In addition to the transport itself, keep in mind whether you’ll want any refreshments on board — Champagne, anyone? — or if there’s music you’d

like to have playing or anything special you’d like your driver to wear. If your ceremony and reception sites are far apart, you may want to consider providing a shuttle for your guests. Most rental companies charge by the hour, typically $40 to $75 per vehicle, with coach or shuttle buses for your guests ranging from $700 to $1,200 per hour.

PLANNING PROS “Hands downs, the best money I’ve ever spent,” many brides say of their wedding planners. A planner or coordinator can be involved from the minute you are engaged, organizing every step of the planning process, or their role can be limited to “dayof”coordination to ensure things run smoothly with your team of vendors on the big day. How much you want them involved depends on your budget and level of comfort. Be sure to ask how much a planner charges for full-service design and coordination versus day-of coordination for the wedding weekend. Ask if they take commissions on products they sell. And remember to ask when payments are due.

PRETTY AS A PICTURE There are no shortages of spas, makeup artists and hair stylists ready to make you picture-perfect. Hire expert bridal makeup artists, especially

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ones who are well-versed in makeup that can withstand the Lowcountry’s heat and humidity. You’ll need someone who understands how to keep your face fresh and which products won’t melt in the South Carolina sun. It is not as easy as painting on a little foundation. Consider a trial run of your wedding day hair and makeup. In many cases, this is included upon booking your day-of wedding services. Pull inspiration from your favorite wedding magazines and Pinterest and bring your desired look to your consultant to try out.

CATER TO THE COUPLE Catering is likely offered by your venue if you are getting married at a hotel or resort, but what if you are tying the knot at another Lowcountry locale? The area is full of fantastic chefs who are capable of catering to hundreds in a variety of unique settings. See our resource guide for a complete list of trusted professionals.

LIGHT IT UP Lighting is one element of a wedding that’s often neglected, but it is money well-spent. Hiring lighting professionals can ensure you have spotlighting on key centerpieces, mood lighting in romantic spots at your venue, and the perfect highlighting accents near your sweetheart table. Lighting professionals can set the mood for an amazing party, so don’t forget to consider it as an important part of your wedding design.

SOMETHING BORROWED Depending on where you are getting married or hosting your reception, you may have all the linens, tables and chairs that you need. Or the venue may have them but they aren’t quite up to your style. In this case, consider sourcing event rentals locally. These vendors are able to offer unique chairs, tents, gold flatware, dishes, cups, linens, chargers, furniture, pillows, vases and anything else you can imagine. If you need it, they’ll find it for you — for a price, of course. BG CHRIS ISHAM PHOTOGRAPHY

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f you’re getting married in the Lowcountry, you’ll need to apply for a marriage license in person at the Beaufort County office of the probate judge. You and your fiancé will both need to be present and present your full names, Social Security numbers, ages and places of residence. This is a sworn statement, so you’ll both sign the document and it will be notarized in the office. You’ll both also need to show a government-issued photo ID, like your driver’s license, and pay a fee —$50 if both applicants reside in Beaufort County, $75 if neither resides in Beaufort County but at least one applicant resides in South Carolina, and $95 if neither resides in South Carolina. Fees are payable in cash. Once you’ve applied for the marriage license, there is a mandatory 24-hour waiting period before you can pick it up. Be sure to factor that into your planning; if you’re getting married over the weekend, you’ll want to apply for the license earlier in the week. If you are 18 or older, you do not need parental consent, but you will have to show identification. If you are younger than 18, parental consent can be given for boys and girls who are at least 16. All minors must file an original birth certificate or certified copy, and the parent or legal guardian must be present at the same time as

AFTER YOU’VE APPLIED FOR A MARRIAGE LICENSE IN B E A U F O R T C O U N T Y, T H E R E I S A M A N D AT O R Y 2 4 - H O U R W A I T I N G P E R I O D B E F O R E Y O U C A N P I C K I T U P.

IF YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED IN THE LOWCOUNTRY, YOU’LL NEED TO APPLY FOR A MARRIAGE LICENSE IN PERSON AT THE BEAUFORT COUNTY OFFICE OF THE PROBATE JUDGE. the minor to present identification and sign a consenting form to the marriage. A South Carolina marriage license is valid for six months from the date it was issued. If not used within the six-month period, the application process, including payment of fee, must be repeated in its entirety. In South Carolina, proof of a divorce is not required if married previously (unless you legally changed your last name back to your maiden name). Common-law marriages are not allowed, and no blood tests or physical exams are required.

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BRIDAL GUIDE | MUST-DOS

WHO DOES WHAT:

T H E M A J O R P L AY E R S Everyone in the wedding party traditionally has certain duties to fulfill

Team Bride BRIDE’S PARENTS

MAID OF HONOR

BRIDESMAIDS

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Historically, they footed the bill for most of the wedding expenses and hosted the first engagement party. These days, both sides of the family and often the bride and groom are chipping in to pay for the wedding. The mother of the bride will help with the guest list and choose her attire, while the bride’s father should fitted for formalwear, escort his daughter to the ceremony site and walk her down the aisle. After the reception, he traditionally pays any outstanding bills. She’s the bride’s go-to person. She will coordinate all bridesmaids’ activities, help dress the bride, arrange her veil and train during the processional and recessional, and make sure pictures are taken after the ceremony. They assist the maid of honor and help out in any way before the ceremony. They usually pay for their own attire and personal expenses, and walk in the processional and recessional.

Team Groom They may host their own engagement party and provide a guest list to the couple. They also usually host the rehearsal dinner and may contribute to some of the wedding expenses.

GROOM’S PARENTS

He assists the groom before, during and after the ceremony. He also usually organizes the bachelor party, coordinates the wedding toasts, confirms honeymoon reservations, and makes sure the groom gets to the ceremony on time. He will hold the bride’s ring and organize the groomsmen for formal pictures.

BEST MAN

They assist the best man help set up for the wedding the day before and usually pay for their own attire and personal expenses. They walk in the processional and recessional and escort the bridesmaids. Groomsmen also occasionally read scripture during the ceremony.

GROOMSMEN

W H E N Y O U ’ R E A P P LY I N G F O R Y O U R M A R R I A G E LICENSE, MAKE SURE TO REQUEST MORE THAN ONE C O P Y. Y O U W I L L N E E D M U LT I P L E C O P I E S O F Y O U R M A R R I A G E C E R T I F I C AT E I F Y O U ’ R E C H A N G I N G Y O U R N A M E . Y O U ’ L L N E E D T H E S E C O P I E S T O U P D AT E Y O U R D R I V E R ’ S L I C E N S E , PA S S P O R T, S O C I A L S E C U R I T Y CARD AND OTHER DOCUMENTS.

SHOWER THE BRIDE WITH LOVE A bridal shower is usually held four to six weeks before the wedding and is traditionally hosted by the maid of honor or one or more of the bridesmaids. Invitations these days can be informal, but those who are invited to a bridal shower should also be invited to attend the wedding. The custom of a gift-giving party held for a bride-to-be in anticipation of her wedding originated in the 1890s. Legend has it that when women in the nineteenth century wanted to marry “unsuitable” husbands, their families refused to pay for the wedding or provide a dowry. So friends of the couple gathered to pitch in with gifts which allowed the wedding to take place and helped the couple set up their home. Today bridal showers are a time to share stories and advice, eat and drink, and pay special attention to the bride. Before you start planning, make sure the bride wants a shower in the first place. A bridal shower is often a fun afternoon, but some brides might feel uncomfortable with all the attention or greedy for asking their friends and family for more gifts. Many etiquette guides frown upon family-member-hosted bridal showers because it may be seen as rude or greedy for family to ask for gifts for their own relative, but in recent years it’s become completely acceptable. Unless it’s a surprise, involve the bride in the planning process. Ask her to create a registry if she hasn’t already. While bridal showers guests are traditionally all women, today many showers are coed affairs, known as “Jack and Jill” showers, that celebrate both bride and groom. BG

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BRIDAL GUIDE | TECH & SOCIAL MEDIA

NEXT-LEVEL THESE TECH TIPS WILL KEEP YOUR #WEDDINGGAME STRONG BY ROBYN PASSANTE

ocial media is perfect for milestones like your wedding day. But before you announce your engagement by changing your relationship status on Facebook or sharing the perfect shot of your ring on Instagram, let your closest friends and family in on your big news. And then be ready to watch your social media channels light up with “likes.” Think about creating a personalized hashtag for your wedding guests to use to tag their photos. If you don’t want pictures of your dress to get out immediately after the ceremony, ask guests not to post photos or restrict friends from publicly tagging you in photos by changing your privacy settings to “private.” This way, you can view all photos you’re tagged in and select the ones you want to share. You can also set up a Facebook page dedicated to your wedding or an online album just for your wedding photos. Just be sure not to overwhelm your friends with posts about the stress of wedding planning or other bridal-related complaints. Some couples are encouraging their guests to unplug for a techfree wedding. This helps ensure all attention is on you and your celebration, not your guests’ electronic devices. If it’s important to you that your day is smartphone-free, consider posting signs asking guests to put away their phones.

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APP-ILY EVER AFTER Digital tools and applications can help keep you organized and on track — and maybe reduce some stress. After all, they’re called smartphones for a reason. Here are five apps that can lend you a hand:

Evernote: This app allows you to share all your notes and images with others and keep everyone in the loop with updates — including your soon-to-be spouse. It also can help reduce paper clutter while keeping you organized with to-do notes.

Pantone Studio: Identify colors you love and build your perfect wedding color palette with this app.

Pinterest: This app is the holy grail of wedding inspiration. From diy projects, to wedding dresses and decor ideas, you have a wealth of information with this app.

WedPics: This wedding photo app allows you to invite guests to share their wedding photos with you through your unique Wedding ID. It’s a convenient way to keep everyone’s pics in one place for you to browse and share.

Zola Registry: This digital-friendly device can scan barcodes on gifts and help organize your registry.

WeddingHappy: This app serves as a virtual wedding planner to back up your backup to-do lists. Preloaded with tasks to guide you through your never-ending lists of things to get done, WeddingHappy will keep you happy and on track.

HAIG POINT The 1100 acre Haig Point Club and Community on the northern tip of Daufuskie Island has a vast array of amenities that make it the perfect destination for a low country wedding. Perform your ceremony in front of Haig Point’s iconic lighthouse nestled along the shoreline of the Calibogue Sound, then ride via horsedrawn carriage to the majestic Beach Club where you’ll enjoy the finest dining around. Additional offerings are available for wedding parties including accommodations in Haig Point’s historic Mansion. But most importantly, you’ll leave the hustle and bustle of the mainland behind. Travel by private ferry then commute by golf cart in this picturesque, family-friendly community. There’s no better way to have an exclusive wedding ceremony than at Haig Point.

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BRIDAL GUIDE | SONGS

SWAY SHOW YOUR STYLE WITH THE PERFECT FIRST DANCE SONG

TIMELESS CLASSICS:

OFFBEAT CHOICES:

“ AT L A S T ” BY E T TA J A M E S (O R G O FOR A MODERN SPIN WITH BEYONCE’S COVER)

“BY YOUR SIDE” BY SADE

BY ROBYN PASSANTE

ome couples come to the altar with a tune that’s always been “theirs,” while others hem and haw over finding a first dance song that fits. Lowcountry couple Halle and Nicholas Keiffer didn’t select their first dance song until the week before the wedding, when Nick happened to hear Brad Paisley’s “Then” on the radio. If you haven’t yet found the perfect song to capture that special moment at the reception, don’t fret. Here are 20 popular songs in all different styles that would make a great backdrop for a newly married couple’s first dance. BG

“ U N F O R G E T TA B L E ” BY N ATA L I E C O L E A N D N AT K I N G C O L E “ C A N ’ T H E L P FA L L I N G IN LOVE” B Y E LV I S P R E S L E Y “COME RAIN OR COME SHINE” B Y R AY C H A R L E S

“A NYO N E E LS E B U T YOU” BY MOLDY PEACHES “ S PA R KS ” B Y C O L D P L AY “500 MILES” BY S L E E P I N G AT L A ST “THERE WILL BE TIME” BY MUMFORD & SONS

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THROWBACK TUNES:

COUNTRY CROONERS:

“ J U S T T H E W AY Y O U A R E ” B Y B I L LY J O E L

“TO MAKE YOU FEEL MY LOVE” BY GARTH BROOKS

“ M AY B E I ’ M A M A Z E D ” BY PAU L M C CA RTN E Y “ T R U E C O M PA N I O N ” BY MARC COHN “ H A V E I T O L D Y O U L AT E LY T H AT I L O V E Y O U ” BY VA N M O R R I S O N “BECAUSE YOU LOVED ME” BY CELINE DION

“THEN” BY B R A D PA I S LE Y “ G O D G AV E M E YO U ” B Y B L A K E S H E LT O N “A M A Z E D” BY LO N E STA R “FROM THE GROUND UP” B Y D A N & S H AY

CONTEMPORARY STANDARDS: “THINKING OUT LOUD” BY ED SHEERAN “YOU ARE THE BEST THING” B Y R AY L A M O N T A G N E “BETTER TOGETHER” BY JACK JOHNSON “A TH O U SA N D Y E A R S” BY CHRISTINA PERRI “ S AY Y O U W O N ’ T L E T G O ” BY JAMES ARTHUR

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BRIDAL GUIDE | TOOLS FOR A PERFECT WEDDING

TOOLS perfect wedding for a

quotes to consider “ M Y H E A R T I S E V E R AT Y O U R S E R V I C E .” -WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE “ONE WORD FREES US OF ALL THE WEIGHT A N D P A I N I N L I F E . T H AT W O R D I S L O V E .” -SOPHOCLES “ L O V E N E V E R G I V E S U P, N E V E R L O S E S FA I T H , I S A LW AY S H O P E F U L , A N D E N DURES THROUGH E V E R Y C I R C U M S TA N C E ” -1 CORINTHIANS 13:7 “A S U C C ES S F U L M A R R I AG E R E Q U I R E S FA L LI N G I N L O V E M A N Y T I M E S , A LW AY S W I T H T H E SAME PERSON” -MIGNON MCLAUGHLIN “UNABLE ARE THE LOVED TO D IE, FOR LOVE IS I M M O R TA L I T Y.” - E M I LY D I C K I N S O N “ L E T T H E R E B E S PAC E S I N YO UR TOGETHERNESS, AND LET THE WINDS OF T H E H E AV E N S DANCE BETWEEN YOU. LOVE O NE ANOTHER BUT MAKE NOT A BOND OF LO V E : L E T I T R AT H ER BE A MOVING SEA BETWEE N THE SHORES O F Y O U R S O U L S .” -KHALIL GIBRAN “THE COURSE OF TRUE LOVE N EVER DID RUN S M O O T H .” -WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE “ L I F E H A S TA U G H T U S T H AT L OVE DOES NOT C O N S I S T I N G A Z I N G AT E A C H OTHER BUT IN LO O K I N G O U T WA R D TO G E TH E R IN THE SAME D I R E C T I O N .” - A N T O I N E D E S A I N T - E X U P E R Y, “THE LITTLE PRINCE”

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2 months

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BRIDAL GUIDE | DIRECTORY

WEDDING DIRECTORY 2018

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Chicas Bridal & Boutique 843-837-2002 chicasofhiltonhead.com Island Soiree 843-338-0307 islandsoiree.com Kim Custom Tailors 843-842-9492 Lam’s Tailors & Expert Alterations 843-681-7807 Lowcountry Bride & Gown 843-338-0206 lowcountrybrideandgown.com The Alteration Shop 843-757-3143 BAKERIES & CONFECTIONERIES The Cottage 38 Calhoun St. Bluffton 843-757-0508 www.thecottagebluffton.com Wicked Cakes 38 Whitaker St. Savannah 912-298-0040 wickedcakesofsavannah.com Baby Cakes 843-681-2253 babycakeshhi.com Brown Sugar Custom Cakes 843-441-3975 brownsugarcustomcakes.com Custom Confections 201-317-0860 Frankie Cakes 843-290-5916 FRNCH + KSS 914-255-1965 Hilton Head Cookie Co. 843-808-8755 hiltonheadcookies.com Hilton Head Social Bakery 843-715-3349 hiltonheadsocialbakery.com Island Fudge Shoppe 843-842-4280 islandfudge.com Lowcountry Flour Girls 843-837-2253 lowcountryflourgirls.com Marché de Macarons 843-785-4466 marchedemacaroons.com Marmalade 843-301-5920

Pino Gelato 843-842-2822 pinogelato.com Publix Super Markets, Inc 904-609-7110 Ronnie’s Bakery & Cakes by Lou 843-836-2253 ronniesbakeryandcakesbylou.com Signe’s Heaven Bound Bakery & Cafe 866-807-4463 signesbakery.com

Bess’ Delicatessen & Catering Specialists 843-785-2377 bessdeli.com

CLOTHING Belk 843.686.8710 Belk.com

Bluffton BBQ 843-757-7427 blufftonbbq.com

BleuBelle Bridal 912-355-2502 shopbleubelle.com

Bluffton Oyster Company 843-757-4010 blufftonoyster.com

Birdie James 843-842-2622 TheBirdieJames.com

Bluffton Seafood House 843-757-0380

Chicas Bridal & Boutique 843-837-2002 chicasofhiltonhead.com

Sweet Carolina Cupcakes 843-342-2611 sweetcarolinacupcakes.com

Celebrations Catering & Events 843-689-7526 wecelebrateyou.com

The French Bakery 843-342-5420 frenchbakeryhiltonhead.com

Downtown Catering Co. 843-815-5335 downtowncateringcompany.com

The Sugaree 843-290-8585

Dunes Catering & Events 843-686-9142 palmettodunes.com

Twisted European Bakery 843-757-0033 twistedeuropeanbakery.com CALLIGRAPHY & REGISTRY I'm Knot Tangled 724-272-8544 imknottangled.com J Banks Design Group 843-681-5122 jbanksdesign.com Le Cookery of Hilton Head 843-785-7171 lecookeryusa.com Pretty Papers & Gifts 843-341-5116 prettypapershhi.com Pyramids 843-363-2040 843-689-6367 pyramidshiltonhead.com The Roost Host & Home 843-757-0417 theroosthome.com CATERERS/RESTAURANTS FARM 1301 May River Road, Bluffton 843-707-2041 farmbluffton.com Jane Bistro & Bar Shelter Cove Towne Centre 843-686-5696 janehhi.com RedFish 32 Bruin Road 843-837-8888 redfishofbluffton.com

Midnight Baker 843-815-5355

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Palmetto Kettle Corn 843-415-5379 palmettokettlecorn.com

The Salty Dog (843) 837-3344

Pan Fresco Ole 843-681-5989

A Catered Affair 843-842-0029

Coastal Bliss 843-802-4050 coastalblisshiltonhead.com Copper Penny 843-505-6252 shopcopperpenny.com Francesca’s 843-785-2223

Easy Street Catering 843-785-7700 auntchiladashhi.com

Island Child 843-686-5437 islandchild.com

Hilton Head Distillery 843-686-4443 hiltonheaddistillery.com

Island Girl 843-686-6000 IslandGirlHHI.com

Jack Frost Homemade Ice Cream 843-705-5669 jackfrosticecream.com

J.Hilburn 207-596-3459 jamesbarger.jhilburn.com

Lori Craven Catering, Inc. 843-689-9499 loricravencatering.com Lowcountry Kitchen & Catering 843-757-7756 lowcountrykitchen.catering Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort 843-842-8000 Port Royal Clubhouse 843-681-1700 Rockfish Seafood & Steaks @ Bomboras 843-689-2662 rockfishhhi.com

Knickers 843-671-2291 Lowcountry Bride & Gown 843-338-0206 lowcountrybrideandgown.com Palmettoes 843-363-6800 Radiance 843-363-5176 RadianceHiltonHead.com Saks OFF 5th 843-815-2717 S.M. Bradford Co. 843.686.6161 843-671-9191

Roy’s Place Cafe & Catering 843-785-4646 roysplacehhi.com

The Back Door 843-671-3677

R&R Catering 843-816-7601

Amazing Event Rentals 843-837-5090 amazingeventrentals.com

Southern Barrel Brewery Co 843-837-2337 The Sea Pines Resort 843-785-3333 seapines.com Twisted Cork 843-802-0510 twistedcorkwinebar.com NOTE: Most of the 250 restaurants in the Lowcountry also provide catering. Find a complete list of restaurants at hiltonheadmonthly.com

DANCE

Bluffton School of Dance 843-815-2619 blufftonschoolofdance.com Fred Astaire Dance Studio 843-837-6161 fredastairehiltonhead.com Seaquins Ballroom 843-227-5929 seaquinsballroom.com

EVENT PLANNERS Beth Baldwin Weddings 843-290-8727 bethbaldwinweddings.com Amanda Rose Weddings 843-422-7907 amandaroseweddings.com Embellished Events 843-757-7762 embellishedweddings.com Lisa Kenward Events 843-338-7883 lisakenwardevents.com Only Forever Weddings & Events 240-731-6710 onlyforeverweddingsandevents.com Patti Shea Signature Wedding & Event Design 843-681-9164 pattisheaeventdesign.com Sparks & Hearts, LLC 803-917-9879 sparksandhearts.com Spencer Special Events 843-589-9099 spencerspecialevents.com Southern Weddings 843-757-8400 southernweddings.com Stella Jane Events 724-812-6628 stellajaneevents.com Weddings with Leah 843-263-7001 weddingswithleah.com Yes Love Weddings 843- 816-6970 yesloveweddings.com FLORISTS A Floral Affair 20 Cardinal Road, Hilton Head 800-898-0289 afloralaffair.com Lowcountry Floral & Designs 843-473-5508 facebook.com/lowcountryfloral August Floral and Event Design 404-536-3056 augusteventdesign.com Berkeley Flowers & Gifts, Inc. 843-706-9747 berkeleyflowers.net Blooms of Beaufort 843-271-9781 bloomsofbeaufort.us Branches 843-785-2535 branchesdesigns.com Make it Pretty 843-247-3411 makeitprettyweddings.com Circle of Life 843-837-6602 circleoflifehhi.com

Coastal Custom Floral 843-816-6165 Flowers by Sue 843-842-8778 flowersbysue.com Gardenia’s Event Floral 843-837-6655 gardeniashhi.com Island Flowers 843-681-4145 hiltonheadislandscflorist.com Johnson's Florist 843-681-5107 hiltonheadflorists.net Make It Pretty 843-247-3411 Makeitprettyweddings.com Mum’s The Word Florist and Gift Gallery 843-785-7899 mumsthewordflowers.com Old Bluffton Flowers and Gifts 843-757-2742 oldblufftonflowers.com Rose’s Flower Shop 843-757-6527 FORMAL WEAR A Floral Affair 20 Cardinal Road, Hilton Head 800-898-0289 afloralaffair.com Alton Lane altonlane.com BleuBelle Bridal 912-355-2502 shopbleubelle.com Brooks Brothers Outlet 843-837-3400 Chicas Bridal & Boutique 843-837-2002 chicasofhiltonhead.com Lowcountry Bride & Gown 843-338-0206 lowcountrybrideandgown.com Island Child 843-686-5437 islandchild.com Jos A Bank 843-842-5200 josabank.com Lowcountry Bride & Gown 843-338-0206 lowcountrybrideandgown.com GIFTS Gifted Hilton Head The Village at Wexford 843-842-8787 giftedhiltonhead.com Bed Bath & Beyond 843-836-2855 bedbathandbeyond.com Buona Terra Woodworks www.buonaterrawoodworks.com 917.545.5920

J Banks Design Group 843-681-5122 jbanksdesign.com

Crush Entertainment 414-617-8916 crushisland.com

Lowcountry Candle Company 843- 441-6024 lowcountrycandlecompany.com

Deas-Guyz 843-246-2555 deas-guyz.com

Le Cookery of Hilton Head 843-785-7171 lecookeryusa.com Pyramids 843-363-2040 843-689-6367 pyramidshiltonhead.com

East Coast Entertainment 800-521-2007 eastcoastentertainment.com

JEWELRY Andrews Jewelers 843-785-7661 Forsythe Jewelers 843-671-7070 forsythejewelers.biz Golis Family Jewelers 843-815-4367 Heritage Fine Jewelry 843-689-2900 heritagejewelershhi.com Island Gold Works 843-686-6001 islandgoldworks.com Littlefish Boateak (843) 422-2536 PANDORA 843-837-2211 Pretty Papers & Gifts 843-341-5116 prettypapershhi.com Quinn’s Diamond Jewelers 843-342-6663 villageatwexford.com/quinnsdiamond-jewelers Robert’s Village Jewelers 843-681-5822 Spartina 449 843-422-6874 The Blue Parrot Fine Gifts 843-785-9877 Touchstone Crystal by Swarovski 203-736-4438 touchstonecrystal.com/sbrowne MUSIC & LIGHTING Hilton Head Entertainment Hilton Head 843-689-3445 hiltonheadentertainment.com The Nice Guys theniceguyshhi.com 843-816-6636 A Sound Celebration 843-368-4140 asoundcelebration.net All About You Entertainment 912-897-0518 allaboutyoudjs.com

HHI - DJ Alan hhidjalan.com James E. Barr, Guitarist 828-545-4286 jamesbarrguitar.com JLK Events 484 Browns Cove Rd., Bluffton 843-384-4748 jlkevents.com Meeting Dynamics/Carolina Weddings 843-681-6950, 843-304-6968 (cell) carolinaweddings.com Moon River Productions 877-238-0855 moonriverproductions.com Paramount Dance and Entertainment 843-683-2561 Ross Brown Productions 843-342-5228 rossbrownentertainment.com Steel the Show 912-856-9666 steeltheshow.com

123notary.com Rabbi Dr. Arthur & Ellen Segal hiltonheadjewishweddings.com Rev. Dr. David E. Leininger 843-363-6161 leiningers.com/weddings Southern Weddings with Style 843-757-8400 southernweddings.com PHOTOGRAPHERS & VIDEOGRAPHERS Celia G Photographie, LLC 843-360-9894 celiagphotographie.com Hilton Head Entertainment P.O. Box 23554 | Hilton Head Island, SC 29925 843- 689-3445 hiltonheadentertainment.com Main Event Video Productions 1 Baldwin Lane. Hilton Head 843-363-5575 maineventvideo.com Time Capsule Photobooth 518-365-2867 timecapsulephotobooths.com 33 Park Photography 843-682-2212 Brackett Photography 843-298-7427 brackettphotography.com RIM Photography 843- 422-4629 rimphotography.com

Target, the Band 843-816-1090 targetbandhh.com

Beach Photography Hilton Head 843-714-9000 beachphotographyhiltonhead.com

Westwind Entertainment 843-816-1090 westwindentertainment.com

Caroline Hilty 614-408-8062 carolinehilty.com

OFFICIANTS Carl Schroeder A Wedding by the Sea 843-683-7999 A Wedding in Paradise 843-363-6161 a-wedding-in-paradise.com Amenities Southern Style 843-379-6099 Barefoot Weddings 843-2470693 barefootweddingshhi.com Blaine Waller 843-686-3940 Creative Wedding Ceremonies 717-873-4861 creativeweddingsonhhi.com Eileen Cavanaugh Notary & Wedding Ceremonies 843-705-7027 843-342-7473 honorableweddings.com Ilene Shiansky 843-384-1221

Coastal Wedding Films 843-298-7335 coastalweddingfilms.com Evangelista A-Z Creative 843-304-3356 cathyevangelista.net Flory Photography 843-384-3322 floryphotography.com Hilton Head Island Photography 843-683-6883 hiltonheadislandphotography.com Hilton Head Video, Mike Ritterbeck 843-338-1935 hiltonheadvideo.com Hopkins Studios 912-308-7057 hopkinsstudios.com Island Photography by Susan McCann 843-342-2296 mccannphotography.com

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Island Photo Place 843-290-5766 islandphotoplace.com IWL 843-816-1012 (cell) J&J Silver Photography and Video Productions 843-271-2754 Jackson Productions (video) 843-757-7083

RECEPTION & CEREMONY SITES Berkeley Hall 366 Good Hope Road, Bluffton 843-815-8494 berkeleyhallclub.com Haig Point Daufuskie Island, SC 800-686-3441 haigpoint.com

Holiday Inn Express Bluffton 843-757-2002 Honey Horn Plantation 843-689-6767 coastaldiscovery.org Long Cove Club 843-686-1070 longcoveclub.org Moss Creek Clubhouse 843-785-6182 mosscreek-hiltonhead.com

Kaufman Photography 843-837-9993 kaufmanphotography.com

Hampton Hall Club 170 Hampton Hall Blvd, Bluffton 843-815-8730 hamptonhallclubsc.com

Kellie McCann 843-338-0843 kelliemccann.com

Hilton Head by Design 843-422-2233 hiltonheadbydesign.com

Oldfield River Club 843-645-4600 oldfield1732.com

Kreative Productions 843-290-5920 kreativedigitalproductions.com

Sonesta Resort Hilton Head 130 Shipyard Drive, Hilton Head 843-842-2400 sonesta.com

Omni Oceanfront Resort & XO Lounge 843-341-8080 omnihotels.com

Mark Staff Photography 843-689-5270 markstaffphotography.com Memory Lane Portraits www.memorylaneportraits.com 843-363-6600 Michael Stothard Photography 404-202-0963 michaelstothard.com Moonlight Productions 843-422-7843 moonlightproductionshhi.com Photography by Anne, Inc. photographybyanne.com Photography by Michele 843-247-0361 photographybymichelem.com Photos by Ruthe 843-338-4007 photosbyruthe.com Picture this Photography 843-842-5299 picturethishiltonhead.com RIM Photography 803-622-4054 rimphotography.com Ross Brown Productions 843-342-5228 rossbrownentertainment.com

Advanced Sail/Pau Hana & Flying Circus Catamaran 843-686-2582 hiltonheadsailing.com Belfair Country Club 843-757-0701 belfair1811.com Callawassie Island Club 843-987-2125 callawassieisland.com Country Club of Hilton Head 843-681-2582 clubcorp.com Colleton River Plantation Club 843-836-4400 colletonriverclub.com Dolphin Head Golf Club 843-681-5550 dolphinheadgc.com Dunes House 843-686-9646 palmettodunes.com Greenwood Development (Palmetto Dunes) (843) 785-1106 Hampton by Hilton Hilton Head 843-681-4330 Bluffton 843-705-9008

Shot by Roxy Photography 912-786-7747

Hampton Lake 843-836-7457 hamptonlake.com

Snemoo Productions 843-301-7714 snemoo.com

Harbour Town Yacht Club 843-671-1400 htyc.com

Shay Photography 814-384-2630

Hilton Head Beach & Tennis 800-475-2631 hhibeachandtennis.com

Vitor Lindo Photo & Video 310-913-7054 vitorlindoweddings.com W Photography 843-304-3885 wphotographyhiltonhead.com Zielenbach Photography 843-991-9352 zielenbach.com

Hilton Head Distillery 843-686-4443 hiltonheaddistillery.com Hilton Head Marriott 843-686-8400 marriott.com

Oldfield Country Club 843-645-4622 oldfield1732.com

The Inn at Palmetto Bluff 800-501-7405 palmettobluff.com The Wedding Place 843-322-0044 theweddingplace.com The Westin Hilton Head Island Resort & Spa 843-681-4000 westinhhi.com Wexford Plantation 843-686-8810 wexfordplantation.com Windows on the Waterway 843-689-7526 wecelebrateyou.com Vagabond Cruise 843-363-9026 vagabondcruise.com RENTALS

Palmetto Dunes 888-322-9126 palmettodunes.com

Amazing Event Rentals 352 Argent Blvd, Hardeeville 843-837-5090 amazingeventrentals.com

Palmetto Hall Plantation Club 843-384-2582 hiltonheadgolf.net

Classic Party Rentals 843-837-5090 classicpartyrentals.com

Park Lane Hotel & Suites 843-686-5700 hiltonheadparklanehotel.com

Meeting Dynamics/Carolina Weddings 843-681-6950, 843-304-6968 (cell) carolinaweddings.com

Port Royal Golf Club 843-681-1700 hiltonheadgolf.net Rose Hill Mansion 843-757-6046 rosehillmansion.com Sea Pines Country Club 843-540-4346 seapinescountryclub.com Sea Pines Resort 843-785-3333 seapines.com Seaquins Ballroom 843-837-6161 seaquinsballroom.com

Savannah Special Events by Ranco 912-944-2297 rancotents.com Sequins Ballroom sequinsballroom.com The Tent Factory 843-645-4410 SALONS & SPAS Arum Spa @ The Sonesta Resort 130 Shipyard Drive Hilton Head Island, SC 843-341-2786

Shipyard Golf Club 843-681-1750 hiltonheadgolf.net

Bluffton Aesthetics 3 Plantation Park Dr, Bluffton 843-384-4121 blufftonaesthetics.com

Shore House 843-842-8000 omnihotels.com

All About Me 843-785-2558 allaboutmehhi.com

Spanish Wells Club 843-681-2819 spanishwellsclub.com

A Beautiful U Salon 843-757-6245 abeautifulusalon.com

South Carolina Yacht Club 843-681-4844 scyachtclub.com The Beach House Holiday Inn Oceanfront 843-548-4995 beachhousehhi.com The Golf Club at Indigo Run 843-689-3500 clubcorp.com The Heritage Collection 843-689-4653 hiltonheadgolf.net

Bride's Side Beauty 843-368-2660 bridessidebeauty.com Diva Styles 843-681-3482 FACES DaySpa 843-785-3075 facesdayspa.com FACES Lash Studio 843-785-LASH faceslashstudio.com

Fringe Hilton Head 843-785-7400 fringehiltonhead.com

K Shuttle kshuttle.com

Heavenly Spa by Westin westinhiltonheadspa.com

Limousine Service in Hilton Head/Bluffton bestlimodb.com

Heritage Dental Spa & Salon 843-837-4444 heritagedentalspa.com

Palmetto Transportation 843-683-4279 palmettotransportation.com

Hilton Head Hair & Makeup, LLC 843-683-9049 Hilton Head Island Spa & Wellness 843-785-6245 hiltonheadislandspa.com

Silver Oak Transportation 843-384-4235 silveroaktransportation.com

House of Color houseofcolorsalon.com Indigo Spa 843-593-9900 indigospa.com Le Spa of Hilton Head 843-363-6000 lespahiltonhead.com Lux - A Medical Spa 843-757-3223 luxhhi.com Maui Whitening Salon 843-715-3038 Pure Medical Spa 843-815-6699 puremedspamd.com Salon Karma 843-757-5762 salonkarmasc.com Seeds of Calm Spa 843-686-5525 seedsofcalmspa.com Senegence International 386-295-2059 senegence.com Serendipity Medical Spa 843-342-2639 serendipitymedspa.com The Sanctuary Euro Spa 843-842-5999 sanctuaryeurospa.com

Southern Comfort Limousine Greg Rolf (912) 728-8641 www.socolimo.com MISC. Caricatures by Kevin 580-980-0218 Turbeville Insurance Agency 32 Dr. Mellinchamp Dr., Bluffton 843-941-4500 Bluffton Orthodontics 843-970-9316 blufftonorthodontics.com Exit Hilton Head Realty 612-384-4794 Mosquito Joe 843-368-0942 The Art Cafe 843-785-5525 artcafehhi.com

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