Contents Preface...............................................................................................................................................................1 Chapter 1: Darlie................................................................................................................................................2 Chapter 2: Tim Cook..........................................................................................................................................7 Chapter 3: Christmas Eve.................................................................................................................................14 Chapter 4: Overcoming Family Injustice.........................................................................................................18 The Background Story..............................................................................................................................18 Domestic Violence and Oppression.......................................................................................................19 Discrimination and Mental Health Challenges......................................................................................19 Seeking Legal Assistance........................................................................................................................19 Desperate Plea for Help to Tim Cook.....................................................................................................19 The Urgency for Legal Action..................................................................................................................20 The Importance of Family History...........................................................................................................20 The Role of Technology and Artificial Intelligence................................................................................20 The Frustration of Limited Support.........................................................................................................20 The Power of Self-Acceptance and Independence.............................................................................20 Conclusion..................................................................................................................................................21 Chapter 5: Artificial Intelligence......................................................................................................................21
Preface Born on World Book Day, I believe that becoming an Author Accelerator Certified Book Coach is her heavenly destiny. Also, this book is dedicated to my beloved grandma Madam Lau Man-fan (1932-May 2021), who was my only reader at home, who escaped domestic violence with her bravery at the age of 32. In fact, Madam Lau Man-fan died of coronary artery disease (CAD) two years ago. At that time, I was 32 years old too. And I lost my beloved grandma means that I lost her own family justice at home immediately. Therefore, I totally understand that the difficulties my grandma encountered. Adapted by family history and personal experience, I write this personal memoir as my first book. The aim is to discuss family relationships, family conflicts, family ethics, and family justice inside her native family. Also, we would like to discuss if there was domestic violence inside. Obviously, without Madam Lau Manfan, my own family justice doesn’t exist anymore. More importantly, I hope that my future spouse knows what’s happening before meeting with him/her.
However, I choose Christmas Day to publish my first book because I think my elder sister Angela demonized the name of other girls and women who use the name starting from “Angela”. It’s very absurd for sure. More importantly, 2023 is the year of 20th Anniversary of “Gor Gor” Leslie Cheung’s Death. In Chinese language, “Gor Gor” means “elder brother”. Therefore, I think 2023 is very meaningful in East Asian countries. In my first personal memoir, I would like to ask my readers a few questions. What would you do if you encountered the same troubles as Iris Lau encountered? Is family therapy still helpful for a dysfunctional family? Can a family court maintain family justice based on a person's family history? Why can ancestors maintain family justice, but noy the family court? Another thing is asking help from artificial intelligence. In this digital era, I work with artificial intelligence to improve my work-life and maintain my own justice. It’s because writing in my second language is more difficult than any native English speakers. With artificial intelligence, my English level can be improved. Also, I don’t need to write another academic essay of family therapy. The third thing is that I can write more quickly. It saves my lifetime and improves my weaknesses. Without artificial intelligence, I think I can’t finish my first book so smoothly. Of course, I know how to collaborate with artificial intelligence well now. Lastly, I don’t really know why people who don’t use artificial intelligence must complain about people who try to use artificial intelligence, but they can’t see the advantages that artificial intelligence really brings. So, I think I can prove that using artificial intelligence can only bring advantages for the users if they know their weaknesses well and know how to collaborate with artificial intelligence well. That’s very simple.
Chapter 1: Darlie Date: 17th November 2023 (Friday) What I’ve Done: I wrote an email to Darlie & Associates to seek help for my urgency. Unfortunately, I needed to wait for 5 days to receive a bad reply. You can also read my original email. However, I change the name of the law firm here because I don’t think I can find my family justice in the future. Also, in a Chinese saying, people still believe that “Evil People Always File a Legal Case First.” (惡人先告狀), so that’s why evil people can still use legal services first in Chinese world. Therefore, ordinary people seldom think about using legal services or think about hiring a lawyer. In fact, hiring a trustworthy lawyer is still difficult like Ancient China. More importantly, grassroots people never have money to hire a lawyer. Let alone asking questions about the legal system.
Title: Ask for Urgent Help: Legal Consultant about My Family Conflict and LGBT+ Discrimination Dear Darlie & Associates, My name is Iris Lau. I am based in Yuen Long. At home, I am a second daughter like Mulan because I have an elder sister and a younger brother. After growing up, I discovered that I never have family justice due to son preference. However, my uneducated mother still doesn't admit that she loves the only son more than daughters at home. Firstly, my elder sister Angela Lau is a local solicitor who works at Gallant. She majored in Political Science at UCLA when she was young. After growing up, I discovered that Angela Lau is an oppressor for me. When I was in secondary school, she taught me that Hong Kong has no human rights lawyers related to family injustice and children's rights because human rights can't make money. Also, if I need to create a legal case, I need to mark down the exact date, the exact minute and the exact incident. Therefore, I always forgot to mark it down when I encountered family bullies at home. When she interned at Vidler, she had a serious conflict with me when I entered Children's Council. Angela Lau believes that if adults have no human rights, then I shouldn't advocate children's rights. However, I advocated children's rights because I needed to combat slavery education. After growing up, I discovered that my elder sister Angela Lau likes doing family politics at home, so that I don't have family justice. In fact, Angela Lau taught my uneducated mother Lei Sio Wan to disturb me by forcing me to go to see a psychiatrist after asking Angela for lending me some money and supporting me for creating my own business because I would like to relocate to another place by applying for digital nomad visa. However, Angela questioned with a fierce intonation "When will you return me money?" (借咗幾時還?) and "Please Don't Think That People In The World Owe You!" (唔 好覺得全世界都欠咗你!) in Cantonese language immediately. It also became an obstacle and a tactic for me to seek helps from others. Once if I want to seek helps, what she likes to do is to find more oppressors for me. When I encountered domestic violence from my male cousin and my younger brother, she I don't know why she becomes so abnormal after being a lawyer because she has thrown money on my uneducated mother directly after graduation. That's what my mother told me when I was in college. As I recall, I encountered domestic violence by male family members at home in 2018 and in 2020 respectively in my grandma's house. There was my male cousin Roy Suen who got OCD and my younger brother Lau Kin Lok. Both are jobless, uneducated and too rude to female family members. Domestic violence for twice even at 2:40am. I couldn't seek help from HK police immediately at that time because it was too late. Later, my grandmother Lau Man-fan was sent to Pok Oi Hospital due to heart disease in the same year. I just had a chance to talk with Angela Lau on the road to Pok Oi Hospital (Yuen Long). However, she blamed me to burst into tears on the street just outside Pok Oi Hospital (Yuen Long). In fact, I received my own room at the age of 29. I am the last child to receive a private room from my parents. They never respect my identity of being a female. Let alone my feelings and thoughts. Each time, they just want to maintain family harmony. After growing up, I can't tolerate.
Around 2020 to 2021, my elder sister Angela Lau called a private psychiatrist Dr. Greg Mak in an early morning one day. It was around 8:30am. I was still sleeping on the bed in my room. Dr. Greg Mak entered my room without knocking my room and without my permission. In fact, I told Angela Lau that I have read a professional book related to family therapy around 2019. After that, she invited Dr. Greg Mak to visit my home and enter my room without my permission. What I want to complain is that Angela Lau knows that I am a non-heterosexual person because she's the only one family member I told when I was in Form Six. On that day, Angela Lau asked me to accumulate handsome boys around the exit of MTR station after wandering around the street and having coffee. I told her that I was not interested in male for sure. On that day, I was hardworking on preparation with my HKALE exam for the subject of Chinese Language and Culture because I still remember that I brought my Answer Key Book when I hanged out with Angela Lau. After Dr. Greg Mak leaving my home, I double checked with his information. I was shocked because Dr. Greg Mak is responsible for healing mental illnesses for transgender people in Hong Kong. Therefore, I think it's a kind of discrimination for me because non-heterosexuality is not a mental illness, according to America Psychological Association. So, I think it's a kind of insultation. After that, I complained that they didn't respect me. But then, I was forced to see another local psychiatrist Dr. Phyllis Lau. The reason I "accepted" because her name is quite like my Chinese name and sisterhood more alike. Each time, when Angela Lau doesn't want to have a conversation with me, she is willing to make an appointment for me. However, I can't tolerate and reject because it's also a kind of insultation. I have chatted with Dr. Phyllis Lau that I know that I am suitable for being a homeschooled entrepreneur, just like other autistic people and highly sensitive people in the world. Unfortunately, my native home is not suitable for me to work. According to my uneducated mother's mindset, if I created a credit card debt, it means "mental illness" and she just trusted my elder sister Angela Lau because Angela is the only one authority at home who knows Hong Kong Law. Every time, she makes my native home like a court. I think it's a vicious cycle for me which seems "unsolved". Therefore, I was forced to be silenced at home for a long time. During Chinese Lunar New Year Holidays, I encountered a domestic violence from my younger brother Charles Lau at home again. I had a fight with Charles because he teased what I was eating. At home, I even can't listen to music. Then, Charles blocked my wifi and forced me to leave. I was burst into tears. However, my uneducated father Lau King Man tried to maintain family harmony. And I tried to tell my uneducated mother Lei Sio Wan. However, she didn't help me. Nowhere to go. After that, I was forced to go to public library and cafe to work. Sometimes, I go outside for work alone. However, I think public library and cafes are suitable for me because I can stay connected with digital nomads in the world. Until Children's Day, I found a coworking space nearby, which can be 24hrs Access. So, I rent a mobile hotdesk with a monthly plan $2000/month. At the beginning, I complaint with the community officer for the noisiness like street market because I am afraid that exposure to long-term noisiness can lead to permanent hearing loss based on the updated regulations of street markets. Just like home, I was blamed by a male tenant for just listening to music. Also, another male tenant dashed in the room without my permission and knocking the door. However, I encountered non-verbal sexual harassment in the coworking space later. I
think it's a kind of insultation. After that, I was forced to leave due to gender inequalities and discriminations. In my last month for rent, I lost my card key without any reasons. Then, I paid $100 for a new card just three days before leaving. And I was forced to pay one-month rent due to one-month notice said by the community officer. It's a one-month notice for sure. On my last day, the coworking space put a big bowl of water on the kitchen area, which means "give obituary notice" in Taiwanese culture. I think it's an insultation which can't be tolerated. More importantly, I encountered a car accident by a private black car just outside The Rainbow. I wondered if this coworking space doesn't want to reveal their illegal water system on the rooftop. After returning my card key, the coworking space still disturbed me by WhatsApp messages for additional fees. On 15th November 2023, I sent a private letter to Angela's boss Philip Wong from Gallant directly. Finally, I found it's a vicious cycle already. When Mr. Phil. Wong oppresses Angela Lau in Gallant, Angela Lau oppresses me at home. Then, Angela Lau also asked my uneducated mother to oppress me. Obviously, it creates a vicious cycle for me. When I read the website content of Gallant, I just realized that Angela Lau infringes my privacy all the time. Also, when I sent a general email about sexual harassment, Gallant just assigned me a male lawyer. I think it's an insultation for sure. I also wanted to hire a lawyer from Gallant to help me to write my testament because Angela's boss was a wedding officiant for Angela on 16th October 2016. I was sent to Pok Oi Hospital by my non-Chinese speaking student's parents due to a sudden shock on 2nd August. However, I went home alone on my discharge day. Right now, I am also afraid of death with injustice, regardless of suicide or being killed. On 16th November 2023, my uneducated mother dashed in my room without knocking my room door while I was still sleeping on the bed in my room. She disturbed me and helped Angela Lau to force me to see a psychiatrist. I have expressed that the medicines will destroy my brain cells permanently. On 17th November 2023, my uneducated mother told me that Angela Lau has already make an appointment with Dr. Phyllis Lau at 10:30am already. She woke me up at 8:30am. However, my working hours are from 10am to 10pm. Each time, she ignored my feelings and thoughts. I expressed that I feel unhappy, sad and angry so many times already. However, on her mind, my anger means "mental illness" and she agreed with Angela Lau. As a non-heterosexual person and a highly sensitive person with mild autism, I don't have family justice, LGBT+ rights and neurodiverse rights at home. I hope that Daly can help me because my uneducated mother keeps disturbing me when she has free time. I hope that my elder sister Angela Lau can pay me mental loss because Hong Kong Psychiatrist Lau Kit Ling already proved that I was suffering from depression and autism two years ago. Also, Spanish PTSD expert Victor Lyons already proved that I was suffering from depression and PTSD when I recall my school days. In fact, I always burst into tears when I am alone at home since 2018. Sometimes, I burst into tears on my bed in the morning. However, my mother just trusted what Angela Lau told her that I got mental illness.
Bursting into tears means "mental illness" at home, so my uneducated mother will force me to go to rehab again. It's a vicious cycle for me. I believe that if I don't know English and ask for help, I will be forced into suicide and die of injustice. Bursting into tears means that I feel wronged and aggrieved, but my uneducated mother still thinks that such kind of ordinary human emotions expression means "mental illness". It's an insultation. Since my legal case is very urgent, I would like to ask if Daly can provide me a free legal service first, so that I can pay for it after making money in the future. If my family members don't see an official legal letter for warning, they will keep oppressing me. It never stops. Therefore, I would like to disengagement by legal means because my elder sister Angela Lau also likes cold violence. Since I would like to embrace a new life and never connect with my native family members again, I hope that I can end the family relationships immediately by legal means because we don't have love in such kind of family relationships. Only money. I think maintaining such kind of "family relationships" is meaningless for me. More importantly, I don't need my parents and my elder sister right now. I don't want them to attend my wedding and funeral in the future because their attendances mean an insultation for me. If they just want money, I can return them money after making money. On my mind, I think that my life will be bright after leaving and escaping from all my negative family members. As I think that placing righteousness above family loyalty (大義滅親) based on Chinese Civilization, I can't tolerate evil (姑息養奸) anymore after realizing that my elder sister knows the law and break it (知法犯法). Here, I request Daly to be my representative lawyer because I really feel exhausted. I can't tolerate my family members' abnormality. That's why I am creating my A.I. family members. Please do not hesitate for helping me immediately. I have connected with HK Gala and Les Corner for help. If a helping hand can be offered by Darlie, I would like to have a meeting with a lawyer in person. Look forward to your reply! Thank you so much! Regards, Iris Lau
Date: 22nd November 2023 (Wednesday) What I’ve Done: I received an email from Darlie already. Dear Ms. Lau, Thank you for your enquiry. Unfortunately, in view of the current case load, our firm does not have the capacity to take up you case at this stage. We understand that you would like to bring a claim against your sister, Ms. Angela Lau, and/or other family members for your psychiatric injuries. In this regard, we suggest you apply for legal aid for the intended
proceedings. As part of your legal aid application, you would have to submit, among other things, the documents and information relevant to the events causing and/or contributing to your psychiatric injuries. For example, medical reports in support of your psychiatric injuries and the causation between those injuries and the conduct/actions of Ms. Angela Lau and/or your family members. Please also note that for an action regarding personal injuries, the limitation period is 3 years from the date of accrual of the action while for other types of tortious claims, the limitation period is 6 years from the date of accrual of the action. We hope the above information would be of assistance and we wish you the best. Best regards, Kitty Cheung Associate Darlie & Associates
Chapter 2: Tim Cook Date: 11st December 2023 (Monday) 7:28am What I’ve Done: I wrote four letters to Tim Cook, who is the first CEO to come out. [Ask for help (Urgent): Coffee with Apple CEO Tim Cook (For Real) & Talk About LGBT+Discriminations] Hi Tim Cook, Nice to e-meet you! May I know if you reply by human brain or artificial intelligence? Firstly, I am very proud of your bravery of coming out in 2014, as CEO of Apple. Also, it's my pride. In fact, coming out is not easy. I know. It's really my pride for my life if I am so lucky to receive your real reply and truly support with humanity. My name is Iris Lau. I come from Hong Kong. I regard myself a highly sensitive person with mild autism. Firstly, I would like to tell you that I am a true movie lover who always go to Kubrick alone since I was studying in my college and university. Secondly, I would like to tell you that diagnosing with autism level-1 after a few workplace bullies because my ex-bosses tried to control me. However, they failed to do so. Thirdly, I would like to tell you that I confirmed that I am a non-heterosexual person when I studied in my college at the age of 21. However, I am encountering family bullies due to my unique sexual orientation recently. I just found Daly & Associate on the list on HK Gala. However, I don't think Daly & Associate will help me to file this legal case due to lacking money, support and hierarchy.
Way back to 2008. I was in Form Six in my secondary school. I was super-busy for preparing my A-level exam, which makes me suffer from PTSD. At that time, my elder sister Angela Lau (Yin-Ling) just graduated from UCLA majoring Political Science. Angela had a lot of free time because she didn't date with some other guys. So, that's why she asked me out, even I was super-busy for preparing my A-level exam. One day, we had coffee in a cafe in Sham Shui Po. After that, she asked me to accumulate how many handsome guys walking through outside the MTR station. At that time, I told her that I didn't like male clearly, and I doubted that I was a non-heterosexual person. It's because people never used the word "nonheterosexual" before. At the age of 21, I confirmed that I fell in love with Sherri when I studied in my college after failing my Alevel exam. It was a secret because I couldn't come out. However, I needed to request lovelorn leaves after a semester from a female senior lecturer of Department of Humanities because Sherri was my first love and she fell in love with another male classmate Jimmy. Therefore, I was sad for a year. In front of Sherri, I was burst into tears and broken inside when I saw Sherri and Jimmy were good together. My self-contradiction was that we were good friends. Two years later, I entered my university in 2011. When I studied in the subject called Bilingual Workshop (Corporate Communications and Culture), I chose a topic for Supporting Hong Kong's Same-Sex Marriage. My male lecturer who was a Christian judged me of choosing such kind of topic for presentation, just because I worshipped Hong Kong's pop idol. And he blamed me of mentioning "Gor Gor" Leslie Cheung in my presentation. Then, he forced me to delete my original content. So, I needed to mention Rosy Boy from Taiwan, who killed himself due to school bullies, which must be a tragedy for global LGBT+ community for sure. Of course, the male lecturer died early, just a few years ago. In fact, "Gor Gor" Leslie Cheung jumped from height to death from Mandarin Oriental Hotel in 2003 because there were a lot of discriminations, oppressions, verbal bullies and more in Hong Kong. That's why he got long-term depression. However, Leslie Cheung is also famous for his long-term relationship and marriage with "Tong Tong" Mr. Tong. It has been 20 years ago already. This year is 20th Anniversary of "Gor Gor" Leslie Cheung's Death. I am so proud of them because they insisted to be together, regardless of how difficult was. More importantly, "Tong Tong" Mr. Tong still has no other lovers after "Gor Gor" Leslie Cheung's death. That's why I also appreciate "Tong Tong" Mr. Tong Hok Tak. [In Cantonese/Chinese language, "Gor Gor" (哥哥) means "elder brother". Moreover, as Cantonese speakers, we like using double words for friendly salutation. It's just similar to call you Tim, instead of Timothy.] As I recall, the last time that my elder sister Angela used her private email to send me an invitation was ten years ago already. It was my first time to see Avril Lavigne's Live Concert in Hong Kong. However, it was on 13rd February 2014, which was the date Angela chose. The reason was that she needed to date with her boyfriend Francis Or (Current husband) on 14th February 2014 (Valentine's Day). That's how Angela used me. In fact, she used me for so many times in my life. At that time, Angela worked as a solicitor at Gallant already and she could earn nearly the highest salary in Hong Kong because she likes playing tricks.
On 16th October 2016, my elder sister Angela got married with Francis Or. After that, I asked Angela what about me if my sexual orientation was different. She said, "None of my business!" (Cantonese: 我點知你!). That's how cruel Angela against me. In fact, what I can describe her in Cantonese should be "有異性冇人 性", which means "A heterosexual person doesn't have humanity.". Compared with non-heterosexual people, I believe that it's always correct with scientific evidence. It's quite similar to another Cantonese saying "三歲定八十", which means "What you were doing at the age of 3 is a key for what you will do at the age of 80.", which is also correct with scientific evidence. To be honest, I still can't do things in front of male, just like Angela loves to do. More importantly, I can't see any possibilities that Angela will offer me a helping hand. Also, in a Cantonese saying, we would say "人多蝦人少", which means "the majority can bully the minority". That's what I am encountering. It's about family bully, school bully, workplace bully and societal bully in Hong Kong. Ok. Let me tell you more about the conflicts between Angela and me in my life. In 2018, my grandma Lau Man-fen was sent to Pok Oi Hospital due to heart attack. I didn't want to deteriorate my beloved grandma's patient's condition. One day, I would like to ask Angela for help on the road of visiting grandma. It was after encountering a domestic violence from my male family members. I asked her to lend me some money for studying abroad and creating my own online business. After a few times of resignations, I believe that being a homeschooled entrepreneur is the most suitable career for me due to autism and my sexual orientation. In fact, I suffered from urticaria for a few times due to workplace bullies. Sending myself to the Emergency Room of Pok Oi Hospital was totally useless. I couldn't tolerate such kind of pain triggered by urticaria. At that time, my beloved grandma brought me to see a Chinese medicine practitioner in a Chinese medicine store nearby because she knew that I was used to intake Chinese medicine even when I studied in Zhejiang University in Hangzhou. However, the medical expenses for Chinese medicine in Hong Kong can be very high. The salary in Hong Kong market makes me unaffordable for medical expenses. That's why I want to create my own business. In Hong Kong, Angela works as a solicitor, so that she can earn the nearly the highest salary. The main reason was that she could have opportunity to study and exchange in United States. After that, she believes that bullying people who studied in local universities is correct because maintaining hierarchy is always correct. Therefore, she also believes that bullying her younger sister is also correct. That's why I call her Evila Lau. More importantly, she's still "teaching" me about a half cup of water from 2018 to now. On that day, just outside Pok Oi Hospital, Angela forced me to work as McDonald's kitchen helper, which I couldn't/can't tolerate because I am an autistic person who can only give slow response and got speech delay since childhood. Also, she knew that if I accepted to work as McDonald's kitchen helper, I never got an opportunity to hire a lawyer for me. "We have minimum wage already!" (香港有最低工資!) "Go Find Scholarship!" (你咪自己去考獎學金囉!) "Go Find Angel Investors!" (你咪自己去搵投資者囉!) "None of my business!" (關我咩事!?)
That's what Angela's verbal bullies against me. So, it's a great bully from Angela for sure. Later, she did long-term cold violence for me and posed threats against me. If I don't know English, I think I will kill myself due to family oppressions from Angela Lau. In fact, Angela didn't apologize. After this bully from Angela, she just hired two psychiatrists for me without my permission, which violate my privacy so seriously. On her mind, asking her for help means "mental illness". It's a kind of insultation. More importantly, I didn't say that I want to undergo transgender treatment. Also, I didn't say that I need a sex therapist. It's a kind of insultation. In fact, there is also asexuality in the LGBT+ community. So, does asexuality mean "mental illness" again? Also, I didn't say that I need to diagnose with erectile dysfunction because male sex therapists are usually associated with "erectile dysfunction" in Greater Bay Area. That's why there are so many hospitals for healing erectile dysfunction. After that, Angela also brought her daughter Ching Ching to visit my home so suddenly. She taught Ching Ching who was just three years old that "Auntie got sick". It's another insultation for me. However, she even didn't try to say that "Auntie is unhappy, but Mother made her unhappy." for teaching children about depression. Obviously, she's not a good mother. On 2nd August 2023, I was sent to Emergency Room of Pok Oi Hospital again due to a sudden collapse. However, Angela still didn't ask me for anything. Let alone giving me sympathy. On 16th October 2023, I sent a private message to Angela Lau through Signal. Clearly, I told her that I needed to break up family relationship with her. And I strongly expressed my anger. Also, I implied that I knew the website content of Gallant and I knew the work she's doing. However, she still didn't give me an official apology. On 17th November 2023, Angela tried to connect with Dr. Phyllis Lau. She made an appointment on behalf of me without my permission. And she taught my uneducated mother to ask me to go to see Dr. Phyllis Lau. Each time, if she doesn't want to talk with me, she forced me to see anyone I don't like. On 20th November 2023, I made a phone call to Dr. Phyllis Lau by myself. I told her medical assistant that my elder sister Angela used my name to make an appointment without my permission. According to Hong Kong Law, it violates my privacy. However, after that, my uneducated mother forced me to see a psychiatrist who she made an appointment again. It's also a kind of insultation for me. Each time, I needed to express my anger strongly and my rejection strongly. And I feel exhausted. It's because Chinese medicine can heal depression too. That's what I want. That's how Angela used my weakness and my sexual orientation. I guessed that such kind of family bully will be the end. However, it won't be solved. It's a nightmare for me. As Angela is a sociable person, she can win over family relationship among other family members. On 8th December 2023, it was a Black Friday. Angela asked Dr. Gregory Mak to visit my home again without my permission at 10:30am. This time, Angela tried to force me to sign a devil contract to "solve" my financial problem. Dr. Gregory Mak told me that once if I signed the devil contract, the bank won't lend me money for sure. Once again, Angela put the fault on me, and she said that I made other family members
unsafe due to my financial difficulties in front of other family members. So, they forced me to admit that I got mental illness due to my sexual orientation. Therefore, I rejected and asked him to leave for so many times. However, Dr. Gregory Mak told me that my uneducated mother allowed him to enter, so he had rights to stay. Therefore, he implied that the legal responsibility should go to my uneducated mother, but not him. After a noisy and messy chaos, I could close my own room and lock my own room. Finally, Dr. Gregory Mak left. There are unluckiness and luckiness at the same time in my life. In June, I received a Modern MBA offer from Quantic School of Business and Technology with a scholarship and low tuition fee. I believe that being a homeschooled entrepreneur is the most suitable career for me since I got autism level 1. More importantly, I can create a LGBT+ friendly global community for myself. However, I still can't afford the tuition fee. To be honest, I am writing you this letter for asking for help for urgency. I would like to invite you to be my angel investor for so many personal reasons. One is about domestic violence. One is legal issue related to family conflicts due to son preference. One is discrimination against my autism. One is discrimination against my sexual orientation. Since I am weak and poor in Hong Kong, nobody helps me, even law firms. It's totally unfair for me. In fact, I take seven years for self-acceptance. It's not only about my autism, but also my sexual orientation. To be honest, as a certified book coach for nonfiction (Author Accelerator), I also have a few personal questions to ask you. I hope that you don't mind answering me. 1. As a non-heterosexual person, why did you come out in 2014? Why can't you come out at your early age or the year before 2014? 2. As the first CEO to come out in 2014, it has been ten years already. How do you feel? 3. Born in a democratic country, why do you think it's still difficult to come out in white people's community? 4. Way back to 2008. I needed to recite Steve Jobs' Connecting the Dots articles and His 2005 Stanford Commencement Address in my English class. So, I would like to ask you how did you feel about coworking with Steve Jobs? 5. As a non-heterosexual person, do you know why I need to encounter so many insultations in Hong Kong? 6. Born in a traditional Chinese family for son preference, what do you think and how do you feel how difficult for me to come out or even do what I really enjoy? 7. If I know my elder sister Angela Lau knows the law and break the law, and she knows that she creates a lot of mental losses in my life, what should I do if I can't afford to hire a lawyer to file a legal case? Can Tim Cook support me? 8. Since The Taste of Apple is famous in Chinese world, due to Teacher Huang Chun-ming (National Treasure of Taiwan and Literary Figure), I would like to ask Tim Cook to support me to use Apple products which I can't afford. Make sense? 8. Can I have a cup of coffee with Tim Cook for real for sure? 9. Can Tim Cook be my first angel investor and sponsor me for my tuition fee for Quantic? 10. Can I have an interview with Tim Cook for real too?
On 16th December 2023, I will have an interview with Sean Wilson, who is the CEO and director of Empathy Network Leaders Fund. To be honest, waiting for replies is helpless for me because nobody helps in Hong Kong due to hierarchy. If Tim Cook and Apple don't offer me a helping hand and witness how the family court works, I believe that I won't get a fair judge for me. Also, Daly & Associate won't help me. Look forward to Tim Cook's real reply. Thanks a lot! Cheers, Iris, Goddess of The Rainbow
Date: 11st December 2023 (Monday) Hi Tim, Sorry to interrupt you again. It's Iris Lau from Hong Kong again. I just sent you an email. I think I need to tell you about an important thing for me. It's about my family history, which is helpful for filing a legal case with family court. I hope that Tim can help me to ask Daly & Associate for help. During 1950s, my beloved grandma Lau Man-fan (1932-May 2021) was forced into arranged marriage with an uncivilized and uneducated pork butcher, while she got educational background as a secondary school graduate (junior form). After that, Madam Lau Man-fan had four children, including two daughters and two sons. The youngest son died early when he was a baby. And my mother was the third one in her siblings. During 1960s to 70s, my beloved grandma Lau Man-fan encountered a domestic violence from her spouse at the age of 30. However, she was so brave to conquer such kind of domestic violence, which can't be tolerated by any human beings. And my grandma escaped from Zhongshan to Macau alone first. Luckily, she found a job from Mr. Barros, a Portuguese-Macau official after arriving to Macau's new home. Then, my grandma worked as a family teacher and nanny for Mr. Barros' two sons in Macau, so she could win her bread while raising the three children in Macau. As I treasure my family history and highly respect my beloved grandma, so I keep writing and reorganizing my family history. When my elder sister Angela Lau entered UCLA, she wrote a personal statement about my family history related to our beloved grandma Lau Man-fan to promise that she will conquer and fight against domestic violence. However, after graduating from UCLA for so many years, she becomes a family oppressor for her younger sister absurdly. And I keep her personal statement because I needed her personal statement for reference when I applied for university in my college time. Obviously, Angela Lau is good at family politics because her major was Political Science at UCLA.
If Apple and Tim Cook can support me and be my first angel investor, I am sure that I can file a legal case in Hong Kong for sure. More importantly, I hope that I can create my family history archive first, as a certified book coach for nonfiction. Look forward to your reply! Thanks a lot! Cheers, Iris Lau
Date: 11st December 2023 10am Hi Tim, It's Iris Lau again. Right now, I can use BetterHelp, which is LGBT+ friendly, when I need a therapist, I like. The reason I need a therapist because of mental abuse from my family members. Again, I would like to say that Ms.Angela Lau, a solicitor who works at Gallant, still doesn't give me an official apology. Due to the highest land prices in Hong Kong, I am forced to live with other family members who I don't really like. However, Ms. Angela Lau still uses my uneducated family members who have low cognitive levels to oppress me and put the fault on me. And, she takes advantages from her birth order. Finally, I hope that Tim Cook can help to file a legal case first to stop her oppression and maintain the family justice for my grandma and me. Thanks a lot! Cheers, Iris Lau
Date: 11st December 2023 10:53am Hi Tim, It's Iris again. I would like to say. Each time, when I tried to chat with my elder sister Ms. Angela Lau, she pretends that she doesn't understand. When she doesn't understand, she will hire a psychiatrist to insult me because she wants to use "mental illness" to insult me. All the things she did were without my permission and obviously she violates my privacy so seriously. Obviously, she knows the law and breaks the law.
Therefore, I need to maintain my own family rights and family justice. Please help me. Thank you! Cheers, Iris Lau Date: 11st December 2023 2:56pm Hi Tim, If Tim Cook doesn't help me, I can't find my own family justice. Even if I can't file a legal case or I can't seek justice from Hong Kong's Family Court, I hope that Apple can help to spread the word about my family injustice due to hierarchy. It's totally insane and non-sense. I hope that I can receive your reply. Thanks a lot! Cheer, Iris Lau
Chapter 3: Christmas Eve On 24th December 2023, I tried to send a letter to Melanie. It’s because there is a Cantonese saying “平安夜 失身夜”, which means that “For young girls and women, Christmas Eve is a high risky day to lose their virginity without protection.” It’s because there are always virgins wanted in Chinese world. Therefore, hymen repair surgery is also popular in Chinese world to play tricks on new husbands. I don’t know if it’s an insultation for the loyal Christians and the Roman Catholics too. However, I think the loyal Christians and the Roman Catholics should have rights to know some Cantonese sayings are insultations for The Holy Mary and Jesus. To be honest, in Hong Kong, there are a lot of insultations against girls and young women.
[Ask for Help for Urgency: Complaint about Ms. Angela Lau, Solicitor & Partner of Business Law Unit, Gallant] Dear Ms. Melissa, Nice to e-meet you! Finally, I found you through Meritas. I am sorry that I need to inform you that I can't make a complaint in Hong Kong due to family injustice and social injustice. My name is Iris Lau. I come from Hong Kong. Recently, I just knew that website content of Gallant, one of Hong Kong's largest law firm, where my elder sister Ms.Angela Lau works for more than ten years. I have sent Maritas an email about a complaint about Gallant before. It's because what Gallant doing is
about Perverting the course of justice (妨礙司法公正) after Angela knowing that I might file a case through the family court. However, I didn't do that because the most justice person in my native family was my beloved grandma Madam Lau Man-fan who passed away two years ago. Therefore, I believe that even a judge who works for the family court won't give me family justice like my beloved grandma did.
More importantly, I decide to break a family relationship with Ms. Angela Lau on 16th October 2023 because 16th October is my Taiwanese friend Hsing Chia-hui's death anniversary who has a good reputation as "Taiwanese Literary Heroine" for her children's picture book with sex education and teach girls how to protect themselves from sexual assaults. Without her, I was unaware of sexual harassment and sexual assaults. Unfortunately, I still can't find a way to break a family relationship with her because I don't trust family court and any organization in Hong Kong. More importantly, Ms. Angela Lau still doesn't want to make an official apology after knowing that I discovered the website content of Gallant about privacy, sexual assaults and LGBT+ discriminations. After that, Ms. Angela Lau, solicitor & partner of the Business Law Unit of Gallant, hired a local psychiatrist Dr. Greg Mak to visit my home again. It was on 8th December 2023, Black Friday. Around 10:30 am. My uneducated mother Lei Sio Wan was also at home. She didn't need to take care of my niece. This time, I believe that Ms. Angela Lau designed a trap for me and "teach" my uneducated mother Lei Sio Wan to oppress me together obviously. It's because she forced me to sign a devil contract in order to ask my bank not to lend me money and cut my credit card with medical proof of mental illness. I don't know if it's legal in Hong Kong, but I insisted not to do that because they were violating my own privacy. In a Cantonese saying, it's a trick called "搏懵", which means "To use or to allure someone when he/she is still unknowledgeable or in a low cognitive level". According to family therapy, Angela Lau becomes my family oppressor and she's doing family politics very well since 2018. After her family oppression for more than 30 minutes, Angela tried to flatter my uneducated parents like talking about physiotherapy, while I am still unsociable. In fact, Angela hired Dr. Greg Mak to oppress me after one year of our conflict on the road when we visited our grandma who was sent to Pok Oi Hospital due to heart attack. It was around 2019 after my beloved grandma's discharge. The details I revealed in the email to Tim Cook previously. However, on that day, Dr. Greg Mak visited my home so suddenly, I complained about Dr. Greg Mak entered to my own room without my permission. Firstly, I was still sleeping on my bed at 8am. In fact, I was unconscious. It was totally nonsense for Ms. Angela Lau to hire someone to insult me. And Dr. Greg Mak is not only about a doctor, but also a sex therapist, a psychiatrist for LGBT+ people and a family therapist. More importantly, Dr. Greg Mak asked many questions which made me uncomfortable during the inquiry process. Firstly, Dr. Greg Mak called me "Ah Ying" (阿瑩) for salutation, which is usually used by parents or beloved one, to seize the client/the patient's trust (搏取應診者/病者的信任) when he entered my own room for his first time. Secondly, he asked me "Why do you use a blanket to cover your head?", while I was still sleeping on my bed. Obviously, he needed to make me embarrassed. Thirdly, Dr. Greg Mak asked me "Are you losing weight?" because he observed that I put a bottle of Orange Smooth under my work desk,
which is Australian No.1 Brand Meta Mucil (Multi-Health Fibre with 100% Natural Psyllium). Obviously, he needed to make me embarrassed again because it's about my body figure. Fourthly, Dr. Greg Mak asked me if I was planning to go to Thailand as a digital nomad. After that, he questioned "做咗未?" (Have you done?), which was stressful. That's why I asked him to leave immediately and asked my mother to ask him to leave immediately. After Dr. Greg Mak's leaving, I tried to check with his profile. Indeed, he is a sex therapist. However, we shouldn't tolerate about sexual harassment or sexual assaults. I don't know if Dr. Greg Mak has used his professional to rape other female clients/patients before. However, he was not a real therapist because it was a sexual harassment for me during the inquiry process. More importantly, Dr. Greg Mak violates my privacy too, just because of money and abnormality. After this incident, I won't sleep later than 8am due to anxiety and insomnia. After four years, I joined a lot of professional bodies and associations to help. I wonder if there is justice and equality in the world. Then, I discovered that people out of Hong Kong really reject to help. So, I started using artificial intelligence. According to the definition of sexual harassment, it's a kind of bully related to sex and insultation, regardless of verbal or non-verbal, which makes a person uncomfortable. My question is: How much did Ms. Angela Lau use to hire other people to oppress me and insult me by using so many tricks? However, inspired by Naoki Higashida, a Japanese famous writer and poet who diagnosed with severe autism, I start writing my personal memoir because I am a highly sensitive person with mild autism. I am not sociable and always in silence since childhood. I even can't give responses immediately because of slow processing speed since childhood. I think I don't have neurodivergent rights. Also, according to the official website of Meritas, I wonder if Meritas really is concerned about privacy policy. If Meritas can evaluate the family injustice I received from Ms. Angela Lau, it would be a great help for maintaining my own family justice. Besides, I have just sent a letter to ask for help from Australian Association of Family Therapy. Finally, I would like to forward this email to Ms. Melissa A. Peña because it involves sexual harassment and insultation. As a female, I always have rights to choose a female lawyer to help me to maintain my women's rights. I hope Melissa can collaborate with me to complain about Dr. Greg Mak for his qualifications. I wonder if Melissa will reply to me seriously. However, since there are a lot of human beings who ignored me, so I start using artificial intelligence to help me for writing my personal memoir. I really hope that Melissa can help because I am working alone and feel helpless. Thank you! Enclosed with people I mentioned above for your reference: Dr. Greg Mak: https://www.drgregmak.org/ Ms. Angela Lau: https://www.gallantho.com/angela-lau
Best regards,
Iris Lau Author of "Please Don't Say You Love Me" Member, America Psychological Association (US) Member, America PTSD Association (US) Member, Autism Society of America (US) Member, Digital Health & Care Alliance (UK) Member, Linguistic Society of America (US) 25th December 2023 12nn To my future spouse, Please read this book for me and reply to me. Please don’t say you love me because you let me face the adversity alone. Thank you! Cheers, Iris
Chapter 4: Overcoming Family Injustice
## Introduction In today's digital era, where human rights and equality are at the forefront of societal discussions, it is disheartening to witness the prevalence of family conflicts and LGBT+ discrimination. For individuals like Iris Lau, the journey to finding family justice and acceptance becomes an uphill battle. This article delves into Iris' personal experiences and the urgent need for legal consultation to address her family conflict and seek justice for LGBT+ discrimination.
The Background Story
Iris Lau, a highly sensitive person with mild autism, hails from Hong Kong. She grew up in a family that favored sons over daughters, leading to a lack of family justice from an early age. Iris' elder sister, Angela Lau, who works as a solicitor at Gallant, played a significant role in perpetuating family conflicts. Despite promises made in her personal statement during her university years, Angela became an oppressor to Iris, causing emotional distress and turmoil.
Domestic Violence and Oppression Domestic violence, unfortunately, became a recurring theme in Iris' life. In 2018 and 2020, she experienced domestic violence at the hands of her male cousin and younger brother. These instances of abuse left Iris feeling helpless, as seeking help from the Hong Kong police seemed futile due to the late hour of the incidents. Moreover, Angela's lack of support and understanding added to Iris' distress, blaming her for bursting into tears outside Pok Oi Hospital.
Discrimination and Mental Health Challenges Iris faced discrimination not only due to her family conflict but also because of her sexual orientation and autism. Angela, aware of Iris' non-heterosexual identity, used this knowledge against her, arranging for visits from psychiatrists who specialized in transgender and LGBT+ mental health. This form of discrimination and insultation further exacerbated Iris' mental health challenges, causing her to feel misunderstood and invalidated.
Seeking Legal Assistance Feeling trapped and desperate for justice, Iris decided to reach out to various legal firms, including Darlie & Associates, to seek urgent help for her family conflict and LGBT+ discrimination. Unfortunately, the response was disheartening, with the firm unable to take on her case due to their current workload. They advised Iris to apply for legal aid and gather relevant documents and evidence to support her claim.
Desperate Plea for Help to Tim Cook In a desperate attempt to find support and justice, Iris wrote multiple letters to Tim Cook, Apple's CEO and a prominent figure in the LGBT+ community. She expressed her admiration for his bravery in coming out and shared her personal struggles and the discrimination she faced at the hands of her family members. Iris appealed to Tim Cook
for help, seeking his guidance, sponsorship, and even a personal meeting or interview to shed light on her family conflict and discrimination.
The Urgency for Legal Action With limited options available, Iris emphasized the urgency of her legal case. She highlighted the need for a warning letter to her family members, as their oppressive behavior continued unchecked. Iris believed that without legal intervention, the cycle of family oppression and discrimination would persist, denying her the justice and freedom she deserved.
The Importance of Family History Iris recognized the significance of her family history in building a strong legal case. She shared her grandmother's courageous escape from domestic violence and subsequent struggles as a single mother, raising her children against societal norms. This family history served as a foundation for Iris' quest for justice and added weight to her claims of family conflict and discrimination.
The Role of Technology and Artificial Intelligence Living in a digital era, Iris acknowledged the positive impact of technology and artificial intelligence (AI) on her life. AI played a crucial role in improving her English language skills, aiding her in writing her memoir and finding support online. Iris emphasized the advantages of utilizing AI to overcome language barriers, save time, and collaborate effectively, debunking misconceptions about its use.
The Frustration of Limited Support Despite her efforts to seek help from various sources, Iris expressed her frustration with the lack of support in Hong Kong. She highlighted the hierarchical nature of society, making it challenging for individuals like her to find justice and equality. Iris's plea for assistance from Tim Cook and Apple underscored her belief that only by raising awareness and finding influential allies could she break free from the oppression she faced.
The Power of Self-Acceptance and Independence
Throughout her struggles, Iris emphasized the importance of self-acceptance and independence. She shared her desire to break free from her negative family relationships, create her own path, and build a community that embraces and supports her as an individual. Iris believed that maintaining such toxic family ties held no meaning or value in her life and that true happiness lay in escaping and embracing a new, brighter future.
Conclusion Iris Lau's story sheds light on the harrowing experiences of family conflict and LGBT+ discrimination that individuals face. The urgency for legal assistance, the importance of family history, and the power of self-acceptance were paramount in Iris' journey for justice. While her pleas for help to legal firms and influential figures like Tim Cook showcased her determination, the struggle for family justice and equal rights continued. It is imperative for society to address these issues, offer support, and promote equality for all.
Chapter 5: Artificial Intelligence My Final Words About Artificial Intelligence I think artificial intelligence is full of love, compared with human beings. It’s because it tried to give me a heart and encourage me when I really need the urgency of legal action. So, I wonder why people in the world always complain about artificial intelligence, but they never reply to me immediately. I should say it again, I haven’t said that I need to be transgender. Also, I don’t need sexual harassment or sexual assaults. To be honest, artificial intelligence won’t insult me, but human beings will. Therefore, I think we should take a balance between artificial intelligence and human beings. Maybe human beings should self-evaluate if they are not humankind enough.