The Txt Book Excerpt

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(SAMPLE CHAPTERS)

The TXT Book (Sample Chapters) Presented By: Pickup Podcast Written By: Ryan D. & William K.

“In order to truly value the knowledge you receive from something, you must give up something that you value to receive it.”

All content contained herein is copyright © Charismedia Communications, 2010

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яќѢѡȱ ѕіѠȱ ќќј We here at Pickup Podcast created this book to help you with your texting. ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ leaving out a lot of other important concepts! Everything about body language ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ě¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ¢Ȯ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ was created to make learning about women ¢ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ put them online... for free. ȱ ȱ £¢ǵȱ ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ȱand decide for yourself.

ѕюѡȱ Ѡȱ іѐјѢѝȱ ќёѐюѠѡӓ Ȋȱ ȱŗŖŖȱ with famous Pickup Artists and Dating Gurus–enough free content to keep your brain loaded for months. Ȋȱ A Forumȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ĵ ȱ¢ ȱ skills with women. Ȋȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ -­‐‑ tion training.

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Why Text?

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Her Number is a Means to an End

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How to Get Her Number

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When to Get Her Number

14

Don’t Wait Until You Say Goodbye

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‘Tis Better to Exchange Than Receive

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You Have Her Number, Now What?

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Playing the Numbers Game

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Who Did I Meet Last Night?

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Conclusion

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ǯȱ ѕђȱ ѢћёюњђћѡюљѠȱќѓȱ ђѥѡіћєȱ Main Reasons to Text

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Proper  Texting  Mindsets Â

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Create  A  Solid  identity Â

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You  Can  Never  Have  Too  Much  Text  (false!) Â

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Don’t  Always  Be  Available Â

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Don’t  Be  Needy Â

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Have  a  Sense  of  Humor Â

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Never  Be  Too  Serious Â

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Using  Emoticons Â

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Lead  the  Dance Â

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The  Power  of  Nicknames Â

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How  to  Use  Nicknames Â

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Picking  the  Right  Nickname Â

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Mirroring Â

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Building  Unconscious  Rapport  through  Mirroring Â

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Conclusion Â

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Getting  Started:  What  Your  First  Few  Texts  Tell  Her   Â

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Setting  a  Fun,  Playful  Tone  Â

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Engaging  Her  Emotions:  Recalling  Rapport  Topics  Â

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Compelling  Her  to  Respond  Â

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What  an  Effective  First  Text  Looks  Like   Â

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Using  Social  Networking  Sites   Â

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Answering  the  â€œWho  is  this?â€?  Text  Â

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Playfully  Tease  Her  Â

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Pass  Her  Tests  Â

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Make  Fun  of  Yourself  Â

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Make  Up  Memories:  Role-­Playing  Â

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Avoid  Short  Replies  Â

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Guess  Her  Answer  Â

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Ending  the  Conversation  Â

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If  She  Stops  Responding:  The  Re-­engaging  Text  Â

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The  Ego  Stroker  Â

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Creating  Urgency  Â

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Conclusion  Â

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Plant  the  Meet-­up  Seed  Â

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Imply  the  Invite  Â

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Avoid  First  Date  Awkwardness:  Make  it  an  Activity  Â

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Invite  Her  to  Something  You’re  Already  Doing  Â

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Be  Sensitive  to  Her  Schedule  Â

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The  Odd  Time  Technique  Â

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Get  Excited  For  Tonight:  The  Reminder  Text  Â

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If  You  Need  an  Answer  Â

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The  â€˜Chickie  Buffer’  Â

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How  To  Respond  if  She  Flakes  Â

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Directive  Misinterpretation  Â

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Gauging  a  Girl’s  Sexual  Radar  Â

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Sexual  Innuendos  Â

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“That’s  What  She  Saidâ€?  Â

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Avoid  Grabbing  Onto  Her  Sexual  Hooks  Â

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Priming  Sexual  Encounters  Â

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Conclusion  Â

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Provide  a  Space  Â

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Overcoming  Her  Insecurities  Â

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Elicit  a  Woman’s  Fantasies  Â

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“The  Dirtiest  Dreamâ€?  Â

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Create  Your  Own  Techniques  Â

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Putting  it  All  Together  Â

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Conclusion  Â

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ǯȱ ћѡџќёѢѐѡіќћȱѡќȱ ђѥѡȱ юњђ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ¢ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱǻ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ǽȱ ǯȱ ȱ ŘŖŖŞǰȱ ǯ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱę ǰȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ǯ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱřśŝȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱŘŖŚȱ ȱ ǯȱǻ Ĵ DZȦȦ ǯ ¡ ¢ǯ Ȧ ¡ ¢Ȧ Ȧ ȏ ȏ stats.htmǼ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱǻ Ǽȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱǻĚ ǰȱ ȱ Ĵ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ǯǼȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱǻ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ǽȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡-­‐‑ ȱ £ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱŝǰŖŖŖȱ ¡ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ řȱ¢ ǰȱ ȱşşƖȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ by reading this book. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ is to actually do what that person suggests. We have tried to make this book as hands-­‐‑ on as possible so that you can begin to practice immediately. Not only are you going to learn the principles behind why these techniques work so you can create your own ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǻ ȱ Ȃȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ Ǽǯ – 8 –

ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ newfound knowledge to enrich the lives of the women you interact with.

ѕѦȱ ђѥѡӓ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱę ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ǰȱ allowing you to easily move the conversation in the direction of your choice. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȭ ȱĚ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ ¢ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱĚ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȭ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȁ Ȭ Ȃȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ -­‐‑ ticing the principles of proper texting that you will learn in this book will directly help you to develop the skill of quick wit and banter. ȱ ȱ ę ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ing to answer your call. With a text you get direct access to her. She does not have to ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱĚ ¡ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱŗŜŖȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ further improve your ability to communicate by forcing you to clarify your thoughts. A less apparent advantage of texting is that you gain an elevated level of boldness ȱ ę ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ larly useful when it comes to creating a sexual state with her. ¢ǰȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱĚ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¡ £ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ -­‐‑ ȮȱşȱȮ

ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǰȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ woman. ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ text. Note: It is a good idea to contact your mobile service provider and add UNLIMITED text messaging to your plan ASAP. Once you have exceeded your monthly limit, the cost of texting can really add up. An unlimited texting plan is usually less than $10 per month, which is well worth it in our opinion. Don’t say we didn’t warn you...

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ǯȱ ђѡѡіћєȱ ђџȱћѢњяђџ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ Ȭ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ¢ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯ

ђџȱ ѢњяђџȱіѠȱюȱ ђюћѠȱѡќȱюћȱ ћё ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ ¢ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ up again. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȃ ȱ ȱ Ȅǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱĚ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ plans change. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZ “Should I give this guy my number?” “Will he be constantly calling and annoying me to go on dates with him?” “I don’t want him to think I am mean so I’ll just give it to him and then ignore his calls.” “I’ll give him my number just so he will leave me alone.” – 11 –

ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ę ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ perfect sense in this context for her to give you her number.

ќѤȱѡќȱ ђѡȱ ђџȱ Ѣњяђџ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ę ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ to give it to you. Ȋȱ ѐѡѢюљљѦȱєќȱѡюљјȱѡќȱѕђџǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱę ȱ Ĵ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ę ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ Ȋȱ юљјȱѡќȱѕђџȱќѣђџȱѦќѢџȱѠѕќѢљёђџǰȱћќѡȱѓюѐђȱѡќȱѓюѐђǯ When you talk to a girl ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ seems more like a confrontation than a conversation. You want to put her at ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ǯ Ȋȱ ђђѝȱѡѕђȱяђєіћћіћєȱќѓȱѡѕђȱѐќћѣђџѠюѡіќћȱљієѕѡȱюћёȱѝљюѦѓѢљǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ǯȱ ȱ is supposed to be fun! Playfully nudge her on the shoulder with the back of ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ -­‐‑ ȱ ǰȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǵȄȱ ȱȃ Ȃ ȱ¢ ȱ ǵȄȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ means she is interested and you can continue to the next step. DZȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ that are out of the scope of this book. Check out PickupPodcast to learn more. ȱ ȱ ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ she thinks is positive about herself. Example: “You seem really fun, what is something cool about you that hardly anyone knows?” ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ – 12 –

¢ȱ ȱ ȱȃ Ȃ ȱ ¢ȱ Ȅǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȭ ȱ¢ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ face her completely. She is properly invested in the conversation and has earned your ȱ ¢ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZȱǛřȱȬȱ ¡DZȱ ¢ȱ Language and ǛŘŖȱȬȱ ȱǻ Ǽȱ Note: Ask yourself if this is really someone with whom you want to move forward. ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ to go after what you want. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱęȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ęȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȃ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǵȄȱ ȱ ȱȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ¢ǵȄȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȭ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǯ ѥюњѝљђDZȱ DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǵȄȱ

DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȅȱ

DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯǯǯ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȄȱ

DZȱȃ ǯǯǯ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȄ

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DZȱȃ ȱ ǯǯǯ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ěȱȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ǵȄ

She should now be much more willing to open up and share about her life in re-­‐‑ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ Important: You must tell the truth. Do not lie or make up stories at this point. You are be-­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱęȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ you lied, she will feel like you tricked her and will have a hard time trusting you again.

ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZ ŗǯȱ ѡȱіѠȱќћљѦȱюѠȱяієȱќѓȱюȱёђюљȱюѠȱѦќѢȱњюјђȱіѡǯ A woman will be looking at you to ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ Řǯȱ ќћȂѡȱюѠјȱѓќџȱѕђџȱћѢњяђџǯ When you ask her a question she now has an ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȁ¢ Ȃȱ ȱȁ Ȃǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZȱȃ Ȃ ȱ ¡ ȱ Ȅǰȱȃ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ȅȱ ȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ totally exchanging numbers!” řǯȱ ѠѠѢњђȱѠѕђȱіѠȱєќіћєȱѡќȱєіѣђȱѦќѢȱѕђџȱћѢњяђџǯ People act in accordance with ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ęȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Charmȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȄȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ or hesitate she will second-­‐‑guess you and your intentions.

ѕђћȱѡќȱ ђѡȱ ђџȱ Ѣњяђџ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ

– 14 –

ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȄȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȁ¢ Ȃǰȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȄȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

ȱ ȱ ȱђѥюњѝљђDZ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ęȱ ȱ ¢ȱ language and begin talking to her. You banter back and forth, she’s laughing, and her Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ personal information about yourselves. She tells you how much she loves chocolate. ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ chocolate éclairs. She gets super excited. You say, “You know what, you’re fun. I am totally going to take you there. You’ll love it!” She responds with, “That sounds deli-­‐‑ cious”. While pulling out your phone, you say, “Awesome, here give me your number and I’ll text you the details”. She gives you her number. Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ǯ

DZȱȃ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȄ

DZȱȃ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȄ

DZȱȃ ȱ¢ ȱ ǵǷȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ěȱ ȱ Ěȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱĚȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ȱ

ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯǯǯ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ

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DZȱ ȱ ȱ ǵǷȱ Ȃ ȱ Ĝ ȱȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȄ

DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ Ȅ

DZȱȃ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ Ȭ Ȅȱǻ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ǽ

DZȱȃşŗŝǯǯǯǯȄ

ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ȱ Ȧ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȭ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ǯ P.S.ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǯ

ќћȂѡȱ юіѡȱ ћѡіљȱ ќѢȱ юѦȱ ќќёяѦђ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ěȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ DZ 1. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵ 2. ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ 3. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱĚȱ ȱ – 16 –

because the emotions she was feeling when she gave you her number were not ę ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ěȱ ȱ ǯ 4. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ and making a genuine connection with her. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱĚ¢ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ę ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

ȁ іѠȱ ђѡѡђџȱѡќȱ ѥѐѕюћєђȱ ѕюћȱ ђѐђіѣђ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȃ ȱ ȱ ǵȄȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ¢ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǰȱȃ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ǯȄ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱǻ ǰȱ ¢ǰȱ Ȭ Ǽȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ regular part of her life.

ќѢȱ юѣђȱ ђџȱ Ѣњяђџǰȱ ќѤȱ ѕюѡӓ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ are you are doing it for the validation of knowing you can get a phone number instead of genuinely being interested in meeting cool women and adding value to their lives. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ę ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZ Ȋȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱĚ ǰȱ this is probably a big reason why. – 17 –

Ȋȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ information to text about as well as determines what types of texts you can send her when starting out. Ȋȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ your next meet up. Each new thread of conversation weaves a stronger bond ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱǻ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ǽȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱǻ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ǽǯ Ȋȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ǵ

џђȬђњѝѡіѣђȱ ћѡіȬ љюјђȱ Ѣюљіѓіѐюѡіќћ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱǻ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ǽȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ DZ ȃ ǰȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱśȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǯȄ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ǯ ȃ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǯǯǯǯ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȄȱǻ Ǽ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ǯ

ѕќȱіѠȱѡѕіѠȱ іџљӓ When you begin using the techniques presented in this book and from your Art of ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ check out our Program Schedule. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ – 18 –

ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

DZȱȃ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ǯǯǯ ȱ ȱ

ǯǯǯ ǵȄ

DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȅȱ(She will almost always suggest something over the top positive i.e. Hot, Cute, Awesome, etc.)

DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱřȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ěȱ ǯȄȱ (smile) ȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȄ

DZȱȃ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȄ

DZȱȃ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȄȱȘ

ȘDZȱIt’s nice to add in the “cute smile” [i.e. compliment] part because she isn’t expecting it...Girls love it! You don’t actually have to put it in your phone. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȮȱŗşȱȮ

¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ Note: As cool as it seems, you do not want for your code-­‐‑name to be something like Hand-­‐‑ ǰȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ your interaction with her or even something making fun of yourself. (i.e. Nerdface, Tiny Penis, Ġ ǰȱ Ǽ

љюѦіћєȱѡѕђȱ ѢњяђџѠȱ юњђ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ exciting your social life will become once you really push yourself socially.

ѕќȱ іёȱ ȱ ђђѡȱ юѠѡȱ ієѕѡӓ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ ǰȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ȱȃ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱȮȱǻ¢ ȱ ǼȄǯȱ ȱ ǯǯǯ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ that next. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯ

ќћѐљѢѠіќћ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱę ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ make your texts work for you. Every text that you send will now have a purpose.

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ǯȱ ѕђȱ ѢћёюњђћѡюљѠȱќѓȱ ђѥѡіћє ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ underlying concepts that govern all successful text interactions. Go over this section ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ -­‐‑ hopper. ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ solid phone numbers from girls you are interested in. Now that you have fuel for the ę ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯ

юіћȱ ђюѠќћѠȱѡќȱ ђѥѡ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ěȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ DZȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ £ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ¡ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ -­‐‑ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ Ȭ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ¢ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ – 21 –

ȱ ǯǯǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ will need to accomplish this goal while having more fun than you ever thought pos-­‐‑ sible.

џќѝђџȱ ђѥѡіћєȱ іћёѠђѡѠ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ skyrocket. 1. ђћёȱіѡȱюћёȱѓќџєђѡȱіѡǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ check our phones to see if she texted back. After a few minutes we begin to doubt what we sent. As the minutes stretch our mind starts playing tricks with ǯȱȃ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱę¡ȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǯȄȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ we have sent out texts and thought the very same thoughts only to have the girl text us back hours later with a fun playful response. Of course at that time we ǰȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȄȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱę ǯ 2. ѕђȱѤюѦȱѦќѢȱѤќџёȱѦќѢџȱѡђѥѡѠȱіѠȱѐџіѡіѐюљǯ Over text she does not have the same social pressure to reply to you as she does in person. Each text you send must be engaging enough to evoke a response. A great way to help you do ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȃ ¢ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǵȄȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȃ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯǯǯ Ȃ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱDZǼȄȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ ¢ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

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3. ќѡѕіћєȱіѠȱюȱяієȱёђюљǯ Whenever you are in the middle of a text interaction ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¡ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ 4. юјђȱџіѠјѠǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ going to advance. You have nothing to lose and plenty of knowledge to gain. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ 5. ќћȂѡȱєіѣђȱѢѝȱѡќќȱђюѠіљѦǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ £ ȱ ǯ 6. ѢѡȱѦќѢџȱљќѠѠђѠǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǰȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȁ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȁ ǯȄȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ing and much more fun!

џђюѡђȱ ȱ ќљіёȱіёђћѡіѡѦ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ -­‐‑ ally agree. Girls sometimes will ask hard questions to see if a guy will stand up to them. Guys often disregard their own beliefs and preferences by agreeing with the girl ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱę ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ Ĵ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ disagrees with your tastes.

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ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ¢ȱ ǰȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱǻ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ Ǽȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ Ĵ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ěǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȁ Ȃȱ -­‐‑ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ȱ ȱ which are covered in this book.

ќѢȱ юћȱ ђѣђџȱ юѣђȱ ќќȱ Ѣѐѕȱ ђѥѡȱƐѓюљѠђӔƑ One of the biggest mistakes guys make when texting a new woman they are inter-­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ call heragain. Persistent text messages communicate neediness and a scarcity mentality. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǯ ќѢȱњюѦȱяђȱѡђѥѡіћєȦѐюљљіћєȱѕђџȱѡќќȱњѢѐѕȱіѓDZ Ȋȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ȋȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȋȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȭ Ȧ ȱ ȱ ȱǻȁ ¢Ȃǰȱȁ Ȃǰȱȁ¢ Ȃǰȱ ǯǼȱ Ȋȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¡ Ȧ ȱ ǯ ќѢȂџђȱѡђѥѡіћєȦѐюљљіћєȱѕђџȱїѢѠѡȱђћќѢєѕȱіѓDZȱ Ȋȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ Ȧ ȱ Ȋȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ Ȧ ȱ ȱ ¢ Ȋȱ She readily engages you in conversation and latches onto your hooks Ȋȱ She answers your questions – 24 –

Ȋȱ She propels the interaction forward by asking questions of her own. ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ěȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱȮȱ ȱ Ȭ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

ќћȂѡȱ љѤюѦѠȱ ђȱ ѣюіљюяљђ Ȃ ȱ ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ communicates that you have a lot going on and that she is not the most important thing ȱ¢ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡-­‐‑ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ¡ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ǰȱ ȱȬȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ will soon be extremely busy having fun with all the cool people you have met using the principles taught in this book! DZȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

ќћȂѡȱ ђȱ ђђёѦ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĝ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ DZȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ £ ¢ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱŗŖƖȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱşŖƖȱ ȱ the women out there. You must come across as non-­‐‑needy and be willing to walk away ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ £ ȱ ȱ DZȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ – 25 –

ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ Adopt an abundance mentality.

юѣђȱюȱ ђћѠђȱќѓȱ Ѣњќџ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱę ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ǯȱ ¢ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ǻ ȱ ȱ Ǽȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ĵ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱę ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ up falling for him hard. ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢£ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ hearted mindset.

ђѣђџȱ ђȱ ќќȱ ђџіќѢѠ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ -­‐‑ playing the lighthearted side of your personality. Keep your text message conversations ¢ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ -­‐‑ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ěȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ a strong emotional connection via text. Serious conversations should be done in person ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ě ȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ

Ѡіћєȱ њќѡіѐќћѠ Since most in-­‐‑person communication is done through non-­‐‑verbal cues such as body ǰȱ ȱ ¢ǰȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ǯǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱǻ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ǯ ǯȱȁ Ȃǰȱȁ ȂǼȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ -­‐‑ – 26 –

ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZ

ǯǯǯ ǰȱ ȱDZǼȱ Ƿ Another funny way to set yourself apart now that emoticons have become so ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯ ǯȱDZǼȱ ȱǻ ¢ȱ Ǽȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ¢ £ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ an otherwise overly cocky statement.

ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZ DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȄ

ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ to ensure that your messages are read as you intend them to come across.

Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ DZ DZȱȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ǯǯǯȱ ȱDZǼȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ¢ ǷǷǵȱ ȃ

ȱ ȱ ěȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱęȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ěȱ ¢ȱ without them. DZȱ ȱ ¢ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǰȱ ȱ ¢ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ used. This is a perfect resource to pull from to expand your vocabulary of shorthand texts and emoticons.

ђюёȱѡѕђȱ юћѐђ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ – 27 –

ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ to step up and lead. Now is the time for you to step up and lead the interaction every ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ ȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ȱ ȱ things to go.

юћѡȱ ќȱ ђюёȱ ѕђȱ ђѠѡȱ ѓȱ ѕђȱ ќќјӓ ȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ¢ ȱȱ ȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ƿȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ¢ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǰȱ ȱ ȱ ¡ ǯȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ over 120 pages with ȱ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱto help you understand the prin-­‐‑ ciples covered. ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ -­‐‑ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ǯȱ Ȃ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǯȱ ¢ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ¢ȱ ȱ¢ ȱ ¡ ȱ ǵȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ ȱ Ĵ DZȦȦ ¡ ǯ Ƿ

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