5 Strategies to Win Back Lost Love and Repair the Relationship
If you have lost a love, then you are hurting. I understand that. I have been there and I work with people going through loss. Love is the strongest of our emotions, and when your relationship with the person you love ends, it seems fatal. But there are strategies to win back lost love. Let me give you five simple strategies. Remember, this is just the beginning. If you are serious about winning back your lost love, there are definite steps you have to take. In the meantime, look at these five strategies:
1. Honesty: Learn to be Honest Be honest to yourself and to each other. Don't ignore problems in the relationship or pretend they didn't exist. It is essential if you are going to repair the relationship that these problems be addressed. Some problems were small, some may have been large. But you must be honest enough to put them on the table and discuss them.
2. Dependability: Be Someone Your Ex can Depend Upon Even if you are already apart, you can still be dependable. You need to be there when your ex needs you, even though it is no longer your responsibility. For instance: If she is painting her apartment, offer to help -- and then do it. If he is looking for a present for his mother, offer to help him pick something out she would like -- and then do it. Be Dependable.
3. Encouragement: Be an Encouraging Supporter Many people in broken relationships express the thing they miss the most is having a partner pulling for them. I simply can't tell you how important this step is. People are naturally drawn to other people who are encouraging. If you want to win back your lost love, be there to encourage that person. If he is giving a speech, show up and encourage him. If she is in a community theater group, go to her play and encourage her.
4. Listen: Be a Good Listener A Good listener is not necessarily a problem solver. Sometimes people just need someone to listen to them. If your ex calls you with a problem --LISTEN! Encourage them to share their problems with you, and then LISTEN! Be a good sounding board. Sometimes that is all that is needed. In the meantime, you may find that understanding their feelings by listening to them provides you a way back into their life.
5. Activity: Be a Participant Don't give up unless you are sure you do not want to repair the relationship. Problems don't fix themselves, and life is not meant to be lived watching others --- it is meant to be lived. Stay active in your ex's life and active in your own. This will show your ex that you will be an active, willing partner.
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