How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Into Your Arms After You Treated Her Badly
I'm ready to share some great advice with you if you have a real inner desire to rekindle that loving, romantic flame with your former girl friend you broke up with. The first thing to note which is very critical is to be aware of the fact that you betrayed her and so she will in no way confidently rely on the words you speak or any actions you make. There is a high probability that she still has feelings for you despite the fact that she hates herself for feeling so and no one around her both family and friends can understand why she still cares about you after the bad things you did to her.
The initial step to take in your reconciliation plan is to take time alone and ponder on the key things that pushed you into treating her so poorly. I'm not a therapist but it's a basic fact that everything that happens, happens for a reason and every action taken results to outcomes either good or bad. If you seriously want to reconnect with your exgirlfriend then you need to identify why you behave and speak the way you do to her. After noting the factors down then you need to strategize on how you will alter your behavior and mannerisms positively and though the changes will not take place overnight, slowly but surely you will turn into a better man.
Mostly we find that one's behavior is negatively affected by his/her insecurities which at times come out in an overbearing manner in different situations. It can be quite embarrassing for one to acknowledge their own insecurities to their own selves or even to others and this in itself is the cause. Insecurity, not money, is the chief cause of all evil. If it is due to your feeling of being inadequate that makes you over-compensate by being a 'big dude' and making your girlfriend know who the boss is and that you are more of a man then you need to shake your head and start thinking straight.
This is one sign that fully shows that you are not a big man and in reality you are more of a frightened little boy who dreams and deeply craves for the love of your ex girlfriend, but you are too stiff and scared to even approach her about it. There is a likelihood that she already knows about your feelings about her, even if it's just some little hints. It's open to everyone when you try to over-compensate. It's a very usual thing that happens all the time and everywhere.
Guys try to prove they are 'the man' by applying some strange strategies like getting a big loud motorcycle, treating their girl like a piece of trash or even proving themselves as the top stud by dating all the women in the neighborhood. Trust me not one of these stupid plans will bring your ex girlfriend back to you. The great news is, if you can change yourself into an honest and secure man then you will not be obliged to put so much effort in proving it. The truth is, if you focus on being a truthful and caring man then all those who interact with you will gain a high respect for you.
It's not believable to think your ex girlfriend will start trusting you immediately after you face up to your fake image and clean up your behavior. Actions tend to speak louder than words and so even though you put so much effort in convincing her to notice your changed personality, the thing is if you are desperate to reunite with her then you will do all you can to show her that you have really changed. This requires time, do not try to hasten things, go slow. Remember that time is the best investment in a relationship. If you cannot afford to put in your time resources to get your ex girlfriend back then it is wise for you to let her go and find a real man who will cherish her the way she deserves to be treated.
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