How Do You Make Out for the First Time?

How Do You Make Out for the First Time?

So, it is your third date, and you are a nervous wreck because you aren’t sure how to answer the question, “How do you make out for the first time?” First, remember that if you are overanxious about making out for the first time, then it is going to be a half­baked affair. This is why you need to be relaxed, meaning that you both mentally and physically accept the fact that you and your partner want to take your relationship to the next level to see if you are emotionally and physically compatible. A hurried, hit­and­run make out session in the back of the car is not only shoddy, but it also shows that you do not respect each other very much. Some people might say that they were overtaken by passion, but when you make out with someone for the first time, you shouldn’t just be overtaken with physical passion, you should be ready to know that there is also going to be an emotional and mental commitment too.

Some boys are quite willing to say, “You should give in to me because I love you.” This sort of emotional blackmail is not only immature, but it shows that the boy is definitely not concerned with the girl’s feelings. And young girls give in because they think that is the only way that they can show their appreciation and love for the boy. Unfortunately, this is just a travesty of love. In true love, there are never any such demands. A person who truly loves you is never going to force you to do something that you do not want to do. So, if you think your partner likes you, and he or she shows you through physical gestures that he or she wouldn’t mind kissing you, then you can take your relationship to the next level.

Remember that your partner has the right to say “no.” If you try to dissuade him or her by saying things like, “You don’t mean no. C’mon, you know you mean yes,” or, “You wouldn’t say no if you really loved me,” then this shows that you are selfish and spoiled and do not really love your partner or appreciate him or her.

Physical attraction is definitely going to be a big part of your make out sessions. So, if you are making out for the first time and do not mind kissing and hugging your partner, then this shows that both of you enjoy each other’s touch. On the other hand, if either of you feels uncomfortable having physical contact between the two of you, then it is time to stop the proceedings.

Sometimes, there is no physical spark between partners and making out ends up being just be an activity to do to pass the time. Don’t ever feel pressured into experimenting with physical acts of love just because the people around you are doing that. Doing that will end half the fun of getting to know all about love, love making, and getting into a serious relationship.