Coming Out for Black LGBTQ People

Although Black people come from various cultural, regional and ethnic backgrounds, those who come out as LGBTQ often share similar experiences and challenges.

Some who were raised in religious communities must reconcile with traditions and teachings that may condemn or reject LGBTQ identities. Others must grapple with multicultural identities, experiences and institutions within the Black community that operate under anti-queer policy and practice. A lack of Black LGBTQ representation in media, entertainment and politics perpetuates invisibility. However, hypervisibility can also make Black LGBTQ people vulnerable, as shown by the high levels of fatal violence experienced by Black trans women. Atop these experiences, the Black community must contend with the realities of systemic racism and anti-Blackness that influence all facets of their daily lives — including their LGBTQ identities.

After coming out, some LGBTQ people report that they are able to better communicate with their family and friends, leading to stronger relationships and greater mutual understanding. The following sections discuss common issues that arise during the coming out process for those who are both LGBTQ and Black.