Sexism at the gym

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Photo by Kiswa Khan ’23

Sexism at gym perpetuates modern-day misogyny

Lily Klau ‘23 Creative Director

Why is it that women are so belittled when talking about the gym? I recently went out to dinner with seven friends, and as we walked, the four boys engaged in a debate as they discussed and compared how much they each lift. Ultimately, they drew a truce and decided to “hit arms” together at the gym the next day. I chimed in, saying that I was going to the gym tomorrow, too. But, instead of acknowledging me or inviting me to join them, I was immediately dismissed and they returned to admiring each others’ muscles. “Bro, I’ve never seen a girl hit arms before,” I heard one boy say, laughing. “ ey only ever hit legs, I swear.” en two of the boys quipped that women only go to the gym to do legs to get bigger butts so they can look “more attractive” to men. As degrading as it was to hear them say this, none of their comments came as much of a surprise. I’ve heard many boys say similar statements, all of which are false. Women go to the gym for the same reason that men go to the gym. ey go to get in shape, they go to feel healthy, they go to train for a sport and, overall, they go for themselves.

Eventually, I grew fed up with the sexist comments, and I called out their misogyny. I told them that I knew just as many girls as guys who work out areas other than legs. ey were shocked by this comment and countered by grilling me about the workouts I had done, as if testing to see if I actually knew what I was talking about. eir statements and prejudices sounded like they were taken out of the early 1900s, before there was women’s su rage.

But the unfortunate truth is that sexism is an all-too-real pressure that women endure today.

According to Women’s Health, three out of ve women are harassed at the gym, and 92% of those cases go unreported. As a result, about 65% of women avoid the gym due to anxiety or fear of judgment, according to a 1000-person survey by Fit Rated. at also explains why one in three women would feel safer and more comfortable exercising at a women’s-only gym, according to a study by Origym. Ultimately, I convinced the boys to work out with me at the gym the next day. ere were many shocked faces made at me from the boys when they saw that I was able to keep up with the exercises they were doing. So, as we left the gym together, I felt proud that I was able to show them that women too, could be included in gym activities. But my pride was soon de ated. Just as we parted ways, one boy said he now considered me to be “one of the boys.” I know his intention was to compliment me, but this comment is just as lled with sexism as their previous comments. After all our discussions and all that they witnessed, their sexism was still apparent: even their compliments minimized my femininity. I don’t want to be “one of the boys.” I just want people to respect women going to the gym. Women who work out constantly battle sexist male assumptions on two fronts: we constantly need to defend and prove that we have knowledge of the gym and then need to ght to protect our femininity after proving our workout competence, and I’m sick of it. If you’re a guy reading this, here are a couple things that you can do to help tackle this issue. Start with awareness: watch out for signs of misogynistic behavior and don’t be afraid to call out others on this behavior. Be supportive: stand up for your female friends, and if a woman in your life doesn’t know how to do something at the gym, help explain and encourage, but don’t criticize. It is imperative to make it more socially acceptable for men to work out alongside women without over-sexualizing them. Taking even these small steps can help combat sexism as a whole and promote a more equal society.

Women go to the gym for the same reason that men go to the gym.