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Til Death Do Us Part
‘TIL DEATH DO US PART Hospice: knocking out the taboo
By: MERARI GUZMAN
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ging, end-of-life and funerals tend to be taboo subjects in this country. The uncomfortable reality is that while we can avoid talking about it, death is something we all must face. When we speak the same language and understand the benefits, we can make more thorough and informed decisions about what we want. So let’s talk openly about the elephant in the room.
First things first: Exploring hospice care isn’t “giving up.” It’s choosing a fuller life. Hospice care provides physical, spiritual and emotional support to those who are facing life-ending illnesses and to their family and caregivers. Maintaining a patient’s dignity and quality of life in the remaining days of life is the goal. Our unwillingness to talk about death risks leaving us vulnerable and underprepared.
When you reach this inevitable chapter of life, where and with whom would you like to be? Most people would reply, “At home, surrounded by family,” which, statistically, is easier said than done. Hospice provides the opportunity to settle finances, mend important relationships and let a patient’s final wishes be fully realized.
The stigma surrounding hospice is that once patients go into hospice care, it means patients or their families are giving up. The word, “terminal,” while perhaps necessary within the medical community, creates a harsh tone and emotions of hopelessness that there is nothing more left to do. Patients and hospice staff, however, prove every day that the stigma surrounding hospice is far from true. According to Howard Brody, Ph.D., former director of the Institute for Medical Humanities, “Hope means different things to different people, and different things to the same person as he/she moves through stages of illness.” Hope can be seen in a pain-free day, feeling valued and having a sense of security, all of which are offered in a well-run hospice program.
It is heartbreaking when family members come to the realization that their loved ones could have embraced comA
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fort and pain control much sooner than suffering unnecessarily if they had made the choice to allow help from hospice care.
“We have seen many patient stories from families that called hospice at the right time – in time for the patient to make one more trip to Cabo; in time to go fishing one more time; in time for a bride to marry the love of her life. Real patients have done this, with support from their Legacy Hospice team,” said Denise Danley, R.N., director of nursing for Legacy Home Health Agency.
Hospice care is a magnificent resource that is underutilized in our society. With our resistance to discuss end-of-life, we lack role models for conversations about it. Our parents (or even our grandparents) may avoid these discussions while they’re capable of participating in them. We are hopeful and optimistic that there will be an increase in conversation that will make hospice a common term among patients, caregivers and other health care professionals.
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Can you think of anyone you know who might benefit form the support of hospice care? Why should they and their family be denied the gift of love, a sense of security and relief of pain and symptoms? As Barbara Thompson, author of “The American Journal of Hospice Care,” describes the key benefit of hospice care, “[Patients] are helped to retain a sense of integrity in the face of progressive losses.”
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