DEEPENING RELATIONSHIPS WITH G rown Children G rown Children

By Alex Ingram

As a senior, having a strong relationship with your grown children can bring immense joy and fulfillment. However, it can sometimes be difficult to maintain that connection as your children begin to lead their own lives. Stay in regular communication with your children.

While it may seem like a small thing, regular phone calls or text messages can go a long way in keeping the relationship strong. This can also be a great way to stay informed about what is happening in their lives and to offer your support and guidance.

Make time for regular visits.

Even if your children live far away, making the effort to see them in person can help to strengthen the bond between you. If you are unable to travel, consider setting up regular video calls to stay connected. Show an interest in your children's lives and to actively listen when they talk to you.

Ask them about their interests, their work, and their families. Showing that you care about what is happening in their lives can help to build trust and create a deeper connection. Share your own experiences and knowledge with them.

As a senior, you have a wealth of experience and wisdom to share, and your children may be eager to learn from you. Consider writing down your life story, or sharing your family history, which can be both a way to connect with them and also to pass on important family history and tradition.

Finally, try to find common ground and shared interests. This can be a great way to bond with your children and create shared memories. It can also be a great way to spend quality time together and to create new traditions.

Maintaining a strong relationship with your grown children as a senior requires effort and commitment. But by staying in regular communication, making time for regular visits, showing an interest in their lives, sharing your own experiences, and finding common ground, you can deepen the relationship with your grown children and enjoy the time you have together.