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What specialty services are offered at Pediatric Associates of Charlottesville? Pediatric Associates also provides specialty services with an on-site audiologist, adolescent nurse practitioners, lactation consultants and newborn nurse practitioners. Our hospital affiliation is with Martha Jefferson Hospital where we admit newborns and sick children. Many of our doctors are on the Instructional Faculty at the University of Virginia where they do research and teach medical students, nurse practitioner students and resident physicians.

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Contents TABLE OF

OUR TOWN

News 12

The Buzz Around Town 14 Do you feel middle school-aged

kids should be going on dates?

Snapshot 16

Hannah Barnaby, Writer, Instructor & Mom

Our Schools 18 Walker School Eases Transitions for New Students

Mother’s & Father’s Day Special Section 44

New Mom 32 Labor Playlist Dear Bob 34 Parenting Questions Answered

Daytrip Fun! 30 Berry Picking Farms

Our Mother’s Day Essay Contest Winner, Bumble’s “Dad & Me Having Fun” Photo Contest & Festive Events

Baby’s Development 48

Your Nine-Month Breakdown of What’s Going On Inside Your Growing Belly

Built on Love 54 One Special Foster Family Shares

From Mother’s and Father’s Day celebrations (pg 47), berry picking (pg 30) and swimming fun (pg 60) to learning about baby’s development (pg 48) and dental tips (pg 72), this issue is packed with resources and helpful tips for an array of topics.

May & June Festivals & Events for Families

Editor’s Pick!

Out & About Calendar 20

INSPIRATION

LIVING WELL

Their Story

Day Camp 64 Preparing for Adventures Close to Home Brushing & Beyond 72 Top Tips for Sparkling Smiles

Tips & Trends 36 Fabulous Finds and Fun

RESOURCES

Home & Garden 38 Multi-Use Sheds & Flooring Trends

2019 Pregnancy & Baby Guide 50 Local Resources for Parents-to-Be

Swim & Summer Fun 60 The Coolest Pools, Swimming Holes

and Water Fun

Summer Camp Quicklist Find the Perfect Camp

2019 Dental Guide 75 Resources for Healthy Teeth

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Dad’s Mystique in Tatters 78 A Dad’s Humorous Tales

“I really enjoyed reading the Mother’s Day Essay submissions and seeing all of the adorable Dad & Me photos.” — Madison, online editor

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Educators Work Together to Close Achievement Gaps

Artistic Achievement Amos Paul Kennedy Jr, a Detroit-based letterpress artist, conducted a community printmaking project called “Finding Wisdom” that coincided with the VA Festival of the Book. Kennedy led printmaking workshops throughout the month of March in Albemarle County and Charlottesville City Schools, where students inspired his work with statements that were incorporated into his prints and later displayed in the schools. Members of the community were also invited to engage in the workshops, including one at the annual Jeff Suling Art Exhibit at Charlottesville High School, featuring the “ArtConnections” exhibit. The exhibit showed how art is connected to school curriculum and to the students’ everyday lives, and it featured student artwork from preschoolers to twelfth graders.

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Educators and administrators in Albemarle County are working to recognize and encourage diversity in the classroom. In an effort to close achievement gaps, the county continues to provide educators with better teaching methods. The Diversity Resource Training Program, which started about three years ago, was implemented to give educators the chance to get certified in culturally responsive teaching while also learning from other educators’ experiences in the classroom. The end goal is to have results that can in turn help the schools reduce the learning gap between students of varying backgrounds and ethnicities over time, all the while improving in-class learning environments.

Sustainability in City Schools In early April, the Charlottesville City School Board voted in favor of the city schools becoming more environmentally friendly with its water and energy usage. The school system currently uses the most energy out of the City of Charlottesville’s buildings, so the resolution will require new standards to be implemented at the schools. The resolution would not only help reduce each schools’ utility usage but also further the sustainability practices already in place in some schools, including Charlottesville High School and the Lugo-McGinness Academy who have solar panels installed. The resolution encouraged students and local environmental advocates to speak about the fight against climate change in support of the proposal.

Celebrating Black History Month Black History Month was a time of celebration for Charlottesville City Schools. Area schools incorporated unique ways to discuss African American heritage and history with their students. At Johnson Elementary School, students were given the opportunity to recite the poem “I am Somebody” by Andreal Davis and hosted an African American Heritage Night with a backdrop of a Kehinde Wiley-inspired photo booth created by second graders. Schools also held performances of singers and musicians, hosted annual Soul Feasts and invited speakers to talk to students about African American history. Charlottesville City Schools are striving to incorporate African American heritage into their curriculums all year long, and the school system is one of six statewide that’s participating in the Changing the Narrative initiative that encourages students of color to embrace their heritage.

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Do you feel middle school-aged kids should be going on dates? 15% say “yes” 85% say “no” “Middle school-aged kids should be able to go on group dates or one-on-one dates while being supervised by a parent from afar. Telling them ‘No Dating’ just invites being sneaky! Better to let them test their wings in a safe, open way.” – Mom of two girls “Encouraging dating at such a young age isn’t the best, but by ignoring/rejecting their interest in other kids, I feel we are in a sense hindering their opportunities to make friends of the opposite sex. Some of my best friends are male, and I, too, want my children to understand that it’s okay to have friends of the other sex without feeling pressure to ‘date.’ But if they are interested in going on a ‘date,’ I also don’t want to lose the chance to help them through such a learning time when they are still open to my opinion and advice.” – Crozet Mom of one boy and one girl

“This is ludicrous to even think about. The ones who have to be reminded to wear deodorant and wash their hands to go on dates?” – Mother of two boys, Ch’ville “This is a time to grow individually and to perhaps strengthen friendships with others with similar interests.” – Grandma of seven “Not ‘dates’ by themselves, but a 12-yearold doesn’t feel comfortable calling it a ‘playdate’ either, like they did a year or two prior. My 12-year-old and I met her 12-year-old friend and his mother for lunch. The kids ‘hung out’ while his mom and I had a lovely chat. The key is finding venues that are family-friendly.” – Michelle C, Charlottesville “Possibly group ‘dates’ with friends. Otherwise, there’s no need to encourage dating or speed up their childhood.” – Axl “Middle school-aged children are just that, children. They are experiencing growth and hormonal changes that ultimately affect their behavior and choices they make. They are not prepared to date with all these changes.” – Amanda, Mother of three

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ANNOUNCEMENTS Albemarle County School Board meetings are going to be livestreamed beginning in May. Albemarle’s Virginia House of Representatives delegate’s bill for school bus stop arm cameras was signed into law and will go into effect on July 1. Dr. Andrea Whitmarsh, the Superintendent of Greene County Public Schools, was named the 2018–2019 Regional Superintendent of the Year for Region 5. Jouett Middle School’s Assistant Principal, Ashby Johnson, has been appointed as the school’s next principal. Johnson, who is both a former student and teacher at Jouett Middle School, will begin her new role on July 1. Eric Anderson was selected as the new Head of School for Free Union Country School after most recently serving as Head of the International School of Charlottesville from 2014–2018. Amazon now delivering Whole Foods Market foods from Prime shopping in Charlottesville.

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Hannah Barnaby Writer, Instructor & Mom

Before becoming the first children’s writer-in-residence at the Boston Public Library, Hannah Barnaby worked as a children’s book editor, independent bookseller and book reviewer. Her first young adult novel, Wonder Show, was a William C. Morris Award Finalist, and her second, Some of the Parts, received a starred review from Publisher’s Weekly. Barnaby has an MA in Writing for Children and Young Adults from Vermont College, and she teaches creative writing to writers of all ages in Charlottesville, where she now lives with her husband, three kids and two dogs.

What are the best and most challenging parts about your job? My biggest challenge—like most working moms—is finding balance between my writing and the rest of my life. But that push and pull is also one of the best things, because I find so much inspiration for my books when I get out into the world and spend time with my kids. Writing is mostly a solitary pursuit, which makes my introverted side happy, but the best stories are fueled by real experiences and relationships. So my extroverted side needs to get out and play!

When did you first feel like a writer? When I was in eighth grade, my English teacher accused me of plagiarism. I had turned in an essay, and he was sure that I had cheated because the quality was beyond his expectations. I finally convinced him I had written it

What advice do you have for parents and their young who are aspiring to help others through their careers? Every job has its obstacles and frustrations, but a passion for connecting with other people can get you through even the most difficult days. When I’m working on a story and I’m stuck or feeling unsure about what comes next, I reach out to my writing friends and talk it through. Stories are meant to be shared, and making other writers and readers part of my creative process helps me remember that. Find a way to share your work—whatever it is—while you’re doing it! Don’t wait until it’s all perfect and pretty and finished. Share your mess. I promise it will inspire others.

myself, and while the whole experience was kind of terrifying, it was also my first realization that writing could be so powerful, and that it could evoke such powerful responses. What is your philosophy about teaching a writing class? I think a writing class works best if everyone feels they are on equal footing, that their voices are important and their work is of value, including the instructor. I firmly believe that writing is a practice rather than a quantifiable topic, and only through the process of the writing itself can the way to write become known. In other words, there are no magic answers, but there are delicious discoveries along the way. If you could meet any fictional characters, who would it be? The first fictional character I remember truly loving was Francie Nolan in Betty Smith’s A Tree Grows in Brooklyn. In the first half of the novel, she was a lonely little girl who treasured books above all else; in the second half, she grew into a self-assured young woman. I go back to that story again and again, and always find something new to love.

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What is one thing your parents did well that you try to incorporate into your parenting? They encouraged me to try new things at every age, and they let me outgrow what I was no longer interested in. So, I did quite a few sports for just one season each, but eventually I found field hockey, which I played for five years. I try to do the same with my own kids—if we make a commitment, we see it through, but when my daughter opted out of soccer this spring, I let her. My parents showed confidence in me by letting me make those decisions, and that’s something I want to give my children, too.

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Walker School Eases Transition for New Students Transitions can be tough for people of all ages, but especially for young students making the move to a new school. In Charlottesville, Walker Upper Elementary School is already preparing for next year’s rising fifth grade students who will be graduating soon from Charlottesville City Schools’ six neighborhood elementary schools. By taking action now, the Walker staff and students are ensuring the transition to a new school will be smooth for their future fellow Wolverines. “We are mindful that for many of these kids, it will be the first time they have been in a building with kids from all over the area, not just from their own neighborhoods, and we want them to be excited about that opportunity,” says Principal Adam Hastings. Already, Hastings and his assistant principals and school counselors have visited all fourth-grade classes in the city schools to meet students and discuss what it means to become a Walker Wolverine. Walker School Counselor John Kronstain says that early outreach is important to helping students transition confidently between schools. “We want to create familiarity early because we know our rising fifth-graders already have a number of worries and concerns,” says Kronstain. “In the beginning, they worry about everything from finding the bathroom to managing a new schedule to getting lost to making new friends.” For the past three years, Walker

School has invested in training current 2nd Annual fifth-grade students as peer mentors as anotherfor way to connect with future “Play Preemies”

new students. This year, there are nearly 60 peer mentors who are paired with fourth-graders and who will continue to serve as a buddy for them all the way through their fifth-grade year. “The spring letter-writing campaign is one of my favorite parts of the peer mentor program,” says School Counselor Charlotte Geddy. “By writing personal notes to all 350 current fourth-grade students, these mentors show them that we can’t wait to welcome them to Walker, and we will support them when they get here.” In April, all of the rising fifth-graders took a field trip to Walker to meet their peer mentors and to experience a day of student-led tours, team building activities, and a performance by the school orchestra. That evening, the students were invited to come back and lead their own tours with their families to show them around their future school. “After orientation, it starts to feel like home really quickly. The kids go back to their fourth-grade classes already feeling like Walker Wolverines,” says Hastings. “The challenge then becomes about containing their excitement—and that’s a good thing.” The school plans to offer several school-wide activities this summer to give new students and their families more opportunities to get acquainted. For a calendar of events, visit charlottesvillecityschools.org/walker.

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MHS in Global Health Competition Students from the Health and Medical Sciences Academy at Monticello High School participated in a competition in partnership with the University of Virginia at the Darden School of Business. The eight groups of students were asked to come up with solutions to the problems faced in the Appalachian Region of Virginia, where high levels of diabetes and obesity are reported. The students presented their solutions to a panel of judges from the UVA Global Health Center. The winning group received a $500 reward, as well as a $10,000 grant from the UVA Vice Provost for Academic Outreach to put their plan into action. All groups left with an understanding of how to tackle complex health issues and how they have the power to help others.

On to the National Spelling Bee The road to the National Spelling Bee is always an exciting one, and for Layla Bouber, a student at Henley Middle School, this year has been quite an adventure. Layla Bouber from Henley Middle School, who was the 2018 division champion, came away from the annual Region Spelling Bee as the winner, knocking out Trisha Hande from Sutherland Middle School, who qualified for the regional bee last year, and Wilson Middle School’s Cassidy Plautz in the final round. Bouber went home with the Samuel Lewis Sugarman Award (a $100 savings bond), a copy of the Webster’s Third New International Dictionary and a one-year subscription to Encyclopedia Britannica online. On May 26–31, with all expenses paid, Bouber will head to the national championship for a chance to win the title, something over 11 million students across the country set out to accomplish this year alone.

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19th Annual VSA Visual Arts Exhibit

Now–August 23 at Carver Recreation Center This annual show featuring works by dozens of area artists promotes experiences in the arts for individuals with disabilities. 434-953-6286, charlottesville.org

Day Out With Thomas

May 3–5, 9am–3pm Fridays, 8:30am–6pm Saturdays, 8:30am–5:30pm Sundays at B&O Railroad Museum Little Engineers and families take a 25-minute train ride behind Thomas the Tank Engine, meet Sir Topham Hatt, and enjoy a full day of live entertainment, activities and family fun. 866-468-7630, borail.org

Northside MiniCon

May 4, All Day at Northside Library A Free Comic Book Day convention with no entrance fee. There’ll be a cosplay contest, demonstrations and more. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

5th Annual MSC Truck Touch

May 4, 10am–2pm at IX Art Park Touch, climb on and ask questions about favorite trucks in a safe, supervised environment. There will also be food trucks and other kid-friendly activities. Proceeds benefit the Montessori School of Charlottesville Scholarship Fund. montessoriofcville.org

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May 4, 10am–4:30pm at Constitution Park, Main St. downtown Waynesboro Activities include reptile shows, stream safari, fish and fun rodeo, farmers market, canoe rides, kids arts & crafts, stream electro-fishing and the Great South River Duck Race. 540-949-7738, riverfestwaynesboro.org

44th Annual Batesville Day

May 4, 11am at Batesville See the 10K race, enjoy the biggest little parade and a village fair with a cake walk, games and free kids’ books, plus food, an Ugly Truck Raffle and two hours of rompin’ stompin’ blues by the Central Virginia Blues Society. batesvilleva.org

3rd Block Party & Music Sale

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May 4, 12–8pm at The Front Porch CAN A family-friendly event with food, live HELP! music and a raffle for great prizes. Proceeds benefit the school’s scholarship program. 434-242-7012, frontporchcville.org

Spring Fair

May 5, 11am–3pm at Free Union Country School Bring the whole family for pony rides, a

May 5, 12–5pm at James Monroe’s Highland Join Virginia’s folk masters and their apprentices for a celebration of traditional music, food and crafts. 434-293-8000, highland.org

16th Annual Festival of Cultures

May 11, 10am–4pm at Washington Park Fun for the whole family with a variety of entertainment, including music, dance, song and storytelling, as well as cultural crafts activities, food, exhibits and works by artisans. 434-961-5461, festivalofcultures.org

Rivanna Riverfest 2019

May 11, 10am–5pm at Darden Towe Park, Riverview Park A celebration of art, music, song and dance inspired by the Rivanna River. rivannariver.org

39th Annual Crozet Spring Arts & Crafts Festival

May 11 & 12, 10am–5:30pm Saturday, 10am–5pm Sunday at Claudius Crozet Park Over 100 juried fine art and craft exhibitors show and sell their work. Live music, food and kids’ activities—bouncy castles, face painting, t-shirt upcycle art project and more. 434-326-8284, crozetfestival.com

Virginia Renaissance Faire

May 11–June 9, 9am–5pm, Saturdays & Sundays at Lake Anna Winery Artisans, craftspeople, royal archers, childrens’ area and food merchants for a day of fun and history. 703-508-5036, varf.org

35th Eastminster Dog Show

May 15, 5–8pm at Keswick Horse Show Grounds, Upper Ring All ages and all dogs can enjoy this event rain or shine. 434-973-5959, caspca.org

Eco Rodeo

YOU

May 18, 10am–4pm CAN HELP! at James Madison’s Montpelier Enjoy a roundup and display of the myriad ways we can take action to preserve, protect and respect the environment. montpelier.org

5th Annual MSC Truck Touch

May 4, 10am–2pm at IX Art Park. See this page.

May/June 2019

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COVETED IVY ADDRESS & SENSATIONAL VIEWS

121 BLOOMFIELD ROAD $2,595,000 Sited on 21 acres to enjoy stunning mountain views, this distinguished yet welcoming brick home is located in the Western school district w/ speedy access to all Charlottesville. 11 ft ceilings & natural light from French doors & floor-toceiling windows enhance the natural drama of the 1st floor living & entertaining spaces. Adj. acreage & views permanently protected by conservation easements. Add’l attributes incl’ 3-car garage, herringbone brick porches & walkways, rear terrace & screen porch, 3 fireplaces. MLS# 587603

SPACIOUS GEORGIAN - REDUCED

2525 WIND RIVER ROAD • $839,900 Close to town just off Garth Rd & sited on 3.4 acre lot w/ both open & wooded areas, this home offers 2 masters each w/ California closets, fin. 3rd level bonus room & fin. walkout terrace level. Sunny kitchen opens to vaulted family rm w/ brick fireplace. Kristin Streed (434) 409-5619. MLS# 584742

RECENTLY RENOVATED IN FOXBROOK

CHARMING, MODERN COTTAGE IN ASHCROFT

FREE UNION HORSE PROPERTY WITH VIEWS

1609 CONCORD DRIVE • $789,000 Solid built, brick 4 bed, 4.5 bath home w/ porch & stone terrace, designer kitchen w/ crisp white cabinetry, quartz tops, gas cooktop, & double oven. Rear addition incl’ bright family rm w/ custom built-ins & skylight plus sunroom. Lindsay Milby (434) 962-9148. MLS# 587769

2170 ANDERSON LANE • $545,000 Nestled on a private lot just mins to Downtown, this updated home offers true 1-level living. Master suite renovated w/ elegant 7x3 shower & marble counters. 3 spacious bedrms & 2.5 BA on main level, 4th bed & full bath on walk-out terrace level. Sally Neill (434) 531-9941. MLS# 588452

5789 FREE UNION ROAD • $1,095,000 Ideal contemporary on 17.6 park-like acres in Free Union & Farmington Hunt Country. Spectacular vineyard & mountain views. Fabulous 1-level living w/ addition by Greer & Associates. High ceilings, hardwood floors. 5-6 Paddocks, 8-stall barn. Liz Raney (434) 242-3889. MLS# 586030

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REMODELED DOWNTOWN GEM

1255 INGLECRESS DRIVE • $1,279,000 Tucked off a quiet cul de sac, this stone & stucco 5 bedroom home w/ copper roof offers plenty of level lawn & privacy. Light-drenched, eat-in kitchen opens to large deck. Terrace level includes private office w/ maple built-ins, guest suite, theater room, wine cellar & amazing bar. 1st floor master. MLS# 582614

524 LEXINGTON AVENUE • $675,000 Located in one of the most coveted areas of town, this renovated & energy efficient beauty is just a short stroll to everything Downtown. Home retains original charm w/ modern luxuries incl’ upgraded kitchen & baths. Off-street parking, 2-car garage! Shannon Thomas (434) 882-1761. MLS# 586847

501 LEXINGTON AVENUE • $1,195,000 Elegant Downtown home filled w/ sunshine & warmth. Spacious bonus rm w/ full bath off gourmet eat-in kitchen. Stunning master w/ walk-in closet, ensuite w/ shower & soaking tub. Outdoor stone patio w/ fireplace & fenced yard. Marcela Foshay (540) 314-6550. MLS# 588148

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699 IVY DEPOT ROAD • $925,000 Tucked away amongst other character-rich homes in the Murray School district, this c. 1790, 3 bedroom home & charming cottage sit on 3.2 acres dotted w/ mature native specimens. Ivy Creek meanders along rear property line. Adj. properties in the $2-$3M range speak to this property’s potential. MLS# 588543

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{our town calendar} Gordonsville Fried Chicken Festival

May 18, 11am–5pm at Gordonsville Fire Company Fair Grounds Join in the fried chicken contest or the pie contests for a chance to win a cash prize. The event also features numerous craft and artisan vendors. 540-832-1735, townofgordonsville.org

Grand Tasting Event

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27th Monacan Indian Nation Powwow

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May 18 & 19, 10am–9pm Sat., 10am–6pm Sun. at Rt. 130, 6 Miles West of Rt. 29, Elon Special performances by Native American singers and dancers from across North America. Enjoy Native American crafts and food. 434-946-0389, monacannation.com

Monticello American Viticultural Area

Saturday, May 4

Bandfair XVI

M E T T A V O L U T I O N

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Strawberry Fest

JUNE 5

with special guests

May 19, 1–6pm at Cardinal Point Winery, Afton Features live music, a lip sync contest, childrens’ activities, cake walk, food, silent auction, cork raffle and more. Proceeds benefit North Branch School. 540-456-8450, north-branch-school.org

July 11

May 25, 9:45am–3pm at Liberty Mills Farm Sample everything strawberry from sundaes made with farm fresh ice cream to chocolate dipped strawberries and more. Visit with local vendors and enjoy fun contests. 434-882-6293, libertymillsfarm.com

27th Annual Festival of Music

May 30–June 1 Various showtimes at Graves Mountain Lodge, Syria Picking, grinning and family fun. 540-923-4231, gravesmountain.com

29th Annual Strawberry Festival

JULY 21

June 1 at Downtown Stanardsville Enjoy all things strawberry, as well as music, a face painter, craft booths, local cloggers and square dancers, an antique car show and a 5K run/walk. Proceeds benefit Stanardsville United Methodist Church and local missions. 434-985-6158, exploregreene.com

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16th Annual Sweet Dreams Festival

June 1, 9am–4pm at Stuarts Draft Park A free family-friendly event with contests, a craft tent, rock climbing wall, laser tag and inflatables, along with food, entertainment and sporting events. 540-245-5727, sweetdreamsday.com with special guest Liz Cooper & The Stampede

Sept. 12

ALL SHOWS ON SALE NOW TICKETS: SprintPavilion.com, Downtown Visitor Center, 877-CPAV-TIX

May/June 2019

Festival of the Home

June 1, 10am–3pm at IX Art Park Speak one-on-one with local vendors, sample food from local food trucks, listen to music, enjoy kids’ activities and participate in DIY workshops. ixartpark.org

Orange Volunteer Fire Company Fair

June 5–8, 6–10pm at Orange County Fairgrounds Support the Orange Volunteer Fire company during their annual fair and parade. Enjoy games and rides, and fun for the whole family. 540-661-5393, visitorangevirginia.com

Crozet Car Show

June 8, 9am–12:30pm at Claudius Crozet Park This community event brings together car enthusiasts while supporting local charities. YOU CAN facebook.com/crozetcarshow

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Wings & Wheels 4 PAWS

June 8, 9am–4pm at FCRCFC Flying Field, Palmyra A Fluvanna SPCA fundraiser for Fluvanna County animal rescues. Model aviation demonstrations all day, judged car show, vendors, a raffle and more. wingsandwheels4paws.org

YOU CAN HELP!

Grace Church Historic Farm Tour

June 8, 10am–4pm at Grace Episcopal Church Tour historic farms with different offerings and at each location, from shopping, food YOU and music, to bounce houses, pony rides, 4-H CAN presentations, children activities and more. No HELP! pets. gracefarmtour.org

3rd Annual Food Truck Battle

June 8, 12–4pm at Horton Vineyards The battle will feature 10 food trucks to vote on. Bring a tent, chairs and spend the afternoon filling up on fresh, local food and Horton wine. 540-832-7440, hortonwine.com

19th Annual Juneteenth Celebration

June 14–15, 6–8pm Fri., 5–9pm Sat. at Jefferson School African American Center On Friday, help honor ancestors and community leaders. On Saturday, experience Junkanoo School, performances on the Center stage, local vendors and more. 434-260-8720, facebook.com/events/402782043842519

WVPT WHTJ PBS Family Day June 15, 10am–2pm at IX Art Park A fun-filled day of family activities with free children’s books, special appearances by Curious George, Cubby and the WVPT Bear, hands-on YOU activities, the summer challenge kickoff, food CAN trucks, live music, face painting and more. Rain HELP! or shine. ideastations.org/familyday

10th Annual Ribs & Brews Festival

June 15, 4–10pm at Orange Train Station Bring friends and family for a music, ribs and craft beer festival. 540-672-2540, theoda.org

Summer Celebration

June 22, 10–5pm at Horton Vineyards Enjoy lawn games, sports demos, kids’ activities, live music, a food truck and more. 540-832-7440, hortonwine.com

4th Annual Blues Festival

June 22, 3–10pm at Rockfish Valley Community Center, Afton Enjoy a day of blues music with five talented acts, along with food, vendors and more. centralvablues.org

MARKETS & BAZAARS Albemarle Farmers Market

May–September, Saturdays, 8:30am–1pm at Hollymead Town Center 434-531-2733

Forest Lakes Farmers Market

Now–October, Tuesdays, 4–7pm at Forest Lakes South 434-531-2733, facebook.com/ForestLakesFarmersMarket

434-760-6655, nelsonfarmersmarket.com

Madison Farmers Market

May 4–October 19, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at Hoover Ridge Park, Madison madisonfarmersmarket.info

Crozet Farmers Market

May 4–October 26, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at Crozet United Methodist parking lot 434-823-1092

Featured Farmer Fridays

Farmers in the Park

June 7, 14 & 28, 11am–3pm at Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards, North Garden 434-202-8063, pippinhillfarm.com

City Market

OUTDOORS &ACTIVE FUN

May–October, Wednesdays, 3–7pm at Meade Park 434-970-3371, charlottesville.org

Now–October, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at Second and Water Street parking lots charlottesville.org

Orchard Jams

Now–November 16, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at Scottsville Pavilion 434-286-9267, scottsvillefarmersmarket.org

Now–September, Final Fridays, 6–9pm at Chiles Peach Orchard, Crozet A family-friendly event where you and the kids can relax in the Peach Tree Courtyard, play lawn games and listen to music. 434-823-1583, chilesfamilyorchard.com

Nelson Farmers Market Cooperative

Pancake Breakfasts

Scottsville Community Farmers Market

May–October, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at 3079 Rockfish Valley Highway, Nellysford

Now–December, Weekends, 10am–12pm at Chiles Peach Orchard, Crozet

Enjoy all-you-can-eat pancakes with a fresh fruit topping served with a side of sausage and OJ/milk/coffee. 434-823-1583, chilesfamilyorchards.com

Thursday Evening Sunset Music Series

May 2 & 16, June 6 & 20, 5–9pm at Castle Hill Cider Enjoy delicious food, live music and refreshing heritage cider on the first and third Thursdays throughout the summer. 434-964-7629, castlehillcider.com

Learn to Row Day

May 4, 9am & 11am at Rivanna Reservoir Boathouse, at 276 Woodlands Road Club members will show the boathouse, teach stroking on rowing machines and give you a chance to row the stable 16-person training barge. rivannarowing.org

First Saturday Bird Walk

YOU CAN

May 4 & June 1, 7:30–9am HELP! at Ivy Creek Natural Area Join Jim Nix of the Monticello Bird Club for an early morning bird walk. Beginners always welcome. Binoculars are available to share. Meet in the parking lot of Ivy Creek Natural Area. 434-973-7772, ivycreekfoundation.org

Boot Scoot Square Dance

May 5, 6:30–9pm at Fry’s Spring Beach Club An evening of dancing fun for the whole family with live music and dance calls. All

Location: 5 minutes from downtown located in Pen Park on Rio Rd. Quality course conditions at affordable prices. PGA Professionals available for group and private instruction.

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14th Annual Rivanna River Regatta Canoe & Kayak Race

May 11, 10am–5pm at Charlottesville A 6.2-mile downriver race, promoting recreation, conservation and sportsmanship. 434-975-3072, rivannaregatta.blogspot.com

Kick-Off Summer Pool Party

May 18, 11am–1pm at Crozet YMCA Outdoor Pool Join in the fun and kick off summer. The event includes Kona Ice Truck, a live DJ and water games with prizes. 434-205-4380, piedmontymca.org

6th Annual Family Bike Fest

May 19, 10am–2pm at IX Art Park Enjoy a strider course, a bike decoration station and bike-handling skill courses for all ages. Blue Wheel Bicycles will provide free helmet and bike safety checks for all. 434-977-1870, bluewheel.com

Polo at King Family Vineyards

May 26–October, Sundays, 1pm at King Family Vineyards Roseland polo hosts a day of wine, competition and family fun. 434-823-7800, kingfamilyvineyards.com

Kids on the Farm

May 28–August 6, Tuesdays, 10:30am at Saunders Brothers Farm Market, Piney River Bring the kids for a special activity every Tuesday. See site for specific details. 434-277-5455, saundersbrothersfarmmarket.com

31st Annual Clean the Bay Day

YOU

CAN June 1, 9am–12pm HELP! at Charlottesville/Rivanna Watershed Volunteer and register to help clean up Meadow Creek, Pollock’s Branch, Riverview Park and other sites. 757-622-1964, cbf.org

National Trails Day

June 1, 9am–4pm Both new hikers and experienced backpackers are invited to join guided hikes and hands-on demonstrations. 540-999-3500, snpbooks.org

Tom Sox

June 5, 6, 7, 10, 13, 15, 16, 18, 19, 23, 25 & 27 at TomSox field, Charlottesville High Cheer on the Tom Sox at home. tomsox.org

Seasonal Forest Strolls

June 8, 10am–12pm at James Madison’s Montpelier Learn about the dynamic history of the Landmark and Demonstration forests, including use, preservation and management over the last two centuries. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org

May/June 2019

Butterflies at Ivy Creek

June 9 at Ivy Creek Natural Area, Earlysville The family can enjoy a butterfly walk with Mike Scott. 434-973-7772, ivycreekfoundation.org

FUN RUNS Red Hill 5K and Color Fun Run YOU CAN HELP!

May 4, 7:45–10:45am at 3901 Red Hill School Road, North Garden The 5K race promotes physical activity and fun with color powder stations on a 1-mile loop. All proceeds benefit Red Hill students. www.k12albemarle.org

Discover Your Perfect Party Spot! With weekend and after-hours party packages available and Saturday art and STEM parties starting at $250, booking a summer birthday at the Museum is as easy as 1-2-3!

Hoofin’ It For Horses 5K Trail Run YOU CAN HELP!

May 5, 7am race, 10am–2pm open house at 2080 Castle Rock Road, Afton A fun Field Dash after the 5K for children 8 and under—proceeds benefitting Hope’s Legacy. From 10am–2pm, Hope’s Legacy will hold its first public Open House with educational programs, food trucks, music and kids games. 434-989-2949, hopeslegacy.com

Pint-Sized Picasso (Ages 2-7+) STEM Party (Ages 2-7+) Night at the Museum (Ages 7+) The Museum is also available for corporate and event rentals on Sundays and evenings.

29th Annual Discovery Dash YOU CAN HELP!

May 11, 7:30–10:30am at Monticello High School Enjoy a morning of family exercise and fun-filled races for ages 3–12, including quarter-mile, halfmile and mile runs; a sibling race; parent-child relays; a community-wide school relay; and even a scramble for the littlest ones. 434-977-1025, vadm.org

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6th Annual Crozet Running Trail 5K

May 11, 8am at Mint Springs Park, Crozet Enjoy the beauty of Mint Springs Park in this 5K race, which is the first of a 4-race Summer Trail Running series in the Charlottesville area. crozetrunning.com

2019 Fix-a-Leak Family 5K YOU CAN HELP!

May 11, at Pen Park Learn about the importance of the Rivanna River, how to stop leaks in your home and information about our water supply. 434-977-4837, rivannariver.org

Superhero 2.5K Fun Run

May 17, 6:30–8:30pm at Pen Park Get your family moving together with this 2.5K family fun run/walk. Costumes are encouraged, and prizes will be given out. 434-970-3572, facebook.com/events/298322924032652

5K Chicken Run

May 18, 8–10:30am at Downtown Gordonsville A fun-filled 5K run/walk. A portion of the fees will go to renovations for Dix Memorial Pool and its grounds. 540-832-1735, townofgordonsville.org

PICTURES & PAGES:

May 1, June 5 & July 10

Story time with Children’s Librarian Glynis Welte.

FAMILY ART JAMs:

May 11, June 22 & July 20

Age-appropriate tours with hands-on art activities.

BABIES IN ARTLAND:

May 14 & July 9

Art conversation, with baby coos and cries encouraged.

FUN FOR THE YOUNG:

May 15, June 19 & July 24

Explore artwork through observation, play and projects.

TODDLERS IN ARTLAND:

May 28, June 25 & July 23

Introduction to development theory.

uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu | museumoutreach@virginia.edu | 434.243.2050 CharlottesvilleFamily.com

{our town calendar} 10th Annual Dogwood Duathlon

YOU CAN HELP!

May 19, 8am check-in, 8:30am pre-race meeting, 9am race start at Forest Lakes South Kids ages 7–16 are invited to this run-bike-run duathlon. Proceeds go toward three different nonprofits. dogwoodduathlon.com

Ramblin’ Rabbit 5K

May 25, 7:30am, 6:30am registration at PVCC Proceeds from the Rotary Ramblin’ Rabbit 5K will benefit the Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Virginia. A family event with music and food. Runners and walkers welcome. 703-209-1708, ramblinrabbit5k.com

YOU CAN HELP!

9th Annual 4 Our Freedom 5K

June 1, 8am at UVA Research Park The race benefits nonprofits that provide services and support to members of the military, veterans and their families. All participants must arrive at the UVA Research Park no later than 7:30 am. 4ourfreedom5k.com

YOU CAN HELP!

LEARNING FUN / ARTS & CRAFTS

Cat & Mouse Coding from Scratch Day May 1, 3:30–4:30pm at Gordon Avenue Library Unplugged coding introduction and demonstration. Grades 1–3. 434-296-5544, jmrl.org

Pictures & Pages With Glynis Welte

May 1 & June 5, 10am at The Fralin Museum of Art at UVA Enjoy stories, music and movement, then explore the Museum. Ages 2–4 with their grownups. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

Star Wars STEAM Party

May 3, 4:15pm at Virginia Discovery Museum Kids can train as a Jedi Knight with galactic games, space crafts and cosmic challenges. Ages 4+. Space is limited. 434-977-1025, vadm.org

May 3, 6:30–8pm at Crozet Library Experience UVA’s traveling planetarium, participate in space-themed activities, crafts and games, and learn about careers in aerospace and the U.S. space industry. All ages welcome. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Now–October 14, 9am–5pm at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden Get up close and personal as hundreds of

Girls’ Geek Days

May 4, 9am–5pm at Cale Elementary Girls learn new tech skills and connect to other STEM programs in the community. Open to all ages, girls in third grade or younger should plan to bring a guardian. Registration required. tech-girls.org

Sibling Class at UVA

May 4, 10–11am at Battle Building, West Main Street A one-session class for children ages 2–10 who are expecting a new sibling. Interactive play teaches about life with a new baby in the home. A tour of a hospital room is included. 434-924-9920, uvahealth.com

How-To Festival

May 4, 10am–2pm at Central Library Enjoy this fast-paced interactive library takeover event. Drop in to any 15- to 30-minute session and learn about topics like how to design videos, put on cosplay makeup, go birding and more. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Princess in Black Superhero Party

Planetarium Party

Butterflies Live!

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tropical butterflies feed, flutter and take flight all around you. Explore their origins, preferred habitats and life cycles. 804-262-9887, lewisginter.org

May 8, 4–5pm at Northside Library Costumes are welcome as you battle monsters, eat super snacks, save adorable goats and have a super secret mission. Ninjas also encouraged to attend. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

Family Day Saturday, June 15 • 10 AM to 2 PM IX Art Park • Charlottesville, VA

For more information visit ideastations.org/FamilyDay Photo: Jen Fleisher

Join the 6th Year of Family Fun Strider Course, Decoration Station and Bike Handling Skill Courses for riders of all ages. Information from local city and nonprofit organizations on-site. Sunday, May 19, 2019 10am - 1pm Blue Wheel at IX Ctr. 434-977-1870

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May/June 2019

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Family Bike Fest!

Please call for Fountain Cave Adventure tour information!

Faerie Habitats

First Fridays Under the Stars

May 13, 6:30–7:30pm at Northside Library Employ your vast knowledge of the fey to build the ultimate faerie habitat. Everything you need to construct a magical biome will be provided. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

Babies in Artland

May 14 & July 9, 10am at The Fralin Museum of Art, UVA A program for adult caregivers and infants (12 months and under) to join an educator and fellow parents to discuss works of art, with baby coos and cries encouraged. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

Fun For the Young with Aimee Hunt

May 15 & June 19, 10–11am at The Fralin Museum of Art, UVA Children enjoy a story read by arts educator Aimee Hunt and explore an artwork through observation, movement, play and hands-on projects. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

June 7, 7:30–8:30pm, 8–9:30pm viewing at Ivy Creek Natural Area Start with a short talk in the education building, then after the skies darken, volunteers help point out constellations and nebula. 434-973-7772, ivycreekfoundation.org

Family Art JAMS: Geometric Geographies

June 22 at The Fralin Museum of Arts, UVA These programs combine ageappropriate tours with hands-on art activities that make the Museum’s exhibitions accessible to children. Registration required. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

WVPT WHTJ PBS Family Day

June 15, 10am–2pm at IX Art Park. See page 22..

PAW Patrol Live!

STAGE & SCREEN

Toddlers in Artland

May 28 & June 25, 10–10:30am at The Fralin Museum of Art, UVA Led by a Museum educator, pairs of toddlers 12–24 months and their adult companions will be introduced to big ideas and given time to playfully practice strategies in the Museum space. Registration required. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

The Greatest Showman / Sing-Along

May 5, 2pm at The Paramount Theater Follow along with the subtitles and belt out the lyrics to the award-winning music. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

2019

Our 97th SeaSOn!

Bye Bye Birdie

May 10–12 & 17–19 at Burnley Moran Elementary School Come with Black Box Players back to the 1950s for this fun musical. blackboxplayers.com

2019 Summer COnCertS Tuesday, June 4 | 7:30 pm | Claudius Crozet Park Tuesday, June 18 | 7:30 pm | Fluvanna Co. HS Tuesday, July 2 | 7:30 pm | Paramount Theater Thursday, July 4 | 9:00 am | Monticello Tuesday, July 16 | 7:30 pm | Paramount Theater Tuesday, July 30 | 7:30 pm | Paramount Theater Tuesday, August 13 | 7:30 pm | MLKPAC

Stephen R. Layman Stephen R. Layman, Music Director Music Director

Ninety-Second Summer Season at the

May 7 & 8, 6pm at John Paul Jones Arena The show brings the PAW Patrol characters to life on stage with their vehicles and pup packs. 434-293-4960, johnpauljonesarena.com

All concerts are FREE and open to the public. Seating is General Admission.

Soundtrack of the Community since 1922

Paramount Theater Tues. 6/3 8:00 p.m.

Tues. 6/17 8:00 p.m.

Tues. 7/1 8:00 p.m.

Great American Composers Bernstein, Copland & Gershwin

Photo: Rob Garland

Guest Artists: U.S Army Chorus from Washington D.C.

From the Classical World

CharlottesvilleFamily.com

{our town calendar} 16th Annual Spring Gala

May 11, 2pm & 6pm at PVCC V. Earl Dickinson Building Albemarle Ballet Theatre presents “The Ugly Duckling” and excerpts from Harald Lander’s “Etudes.” This family-friendly production is sure to delight all ages. 434-823-8888, abtdance.org

Benefit Show of “Once On This Island” May 11, 2–4:30pm at Monticello High School, Auditorium Benefit show for Southwood Community through Habitat for Humanity. www2.k12albemarle.org

YOU CAN HELP!

May 17, 8pm at University of Virginia Chapel The UVA Glee Club performs seasonal favorites with plenty of audience participation and entertainment for the entire family. music.virginia.edu

June 1, 7:30pm at The Paramount Theater Join the Charlottesville Symphony as Harry, Ron and Hermione join at Platform 9 3/4 to board the Hogwarts Express for a musical adventure through the world of Harry Potter. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

The Princess Bride

June 2, 2pm at The Paramount Theater See the PG classic film on the big screen. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

Mister G at C’ville Family Jams

ESPECIALLY FOR TEENS

June 2, 4–8pm at Fry’s Spring Beach Club Children’s world music star and Latin Grammy Award winner Mister G performs. The family concert will benefit International Neighbors Charlottesville. 434-296-4181, frysspring.org

Teen Escape Room

Charlottesville Municipal Band Concerts

May 25, 1–3pm at Central Library Work with other teens under a time limit to solve a series of riddles, decipher the clues and find the keys to escape. Grades 5–12. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

June 4 & 18, 7:30pm, June 4 at Claudius Crozet Park, June 18 at Fluvanna County HS The program will include music from cartoons, movies and musicals, with YOU guest artists. 434-295-9850, CAN HELP! cvilleband.org

Learn to Knit

May 28, 4:30–5:30pm at Crozet Library Bring along knitting needles and a basic yarn that you would like to turn into a simple scarf, and the library will provide the instruction. Ages 8+. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

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June 15, 11am & 2pm at The Paramount Theater When the local superhero league announces it’s looking for new members, Cinderella is eager to try out. The only problem is she wasn’t born with a superpower. But, with the help of a group of friendly scientists, she just might find a way to save the world. theparamount.net

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May 28, 4:30–5:30pm at Central Library Make a variety of items out of old manga like your own comics, bookmarks and frames, shrinky-dinks and more. Plus, raffle prizes and light refreshments. Grades 5–12. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

June 27–29, 7:30pm at Thomas Jefferson’s Poplar Forest A special presentation of 1776—the Tony Award-winning musical comedy based on the events leading up to the drafting and signing of the Declaration of Independence. 434-525-1806, poplarforest.org

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Remembering Mom, for Mom by Katrina Standifer Thraves

Mom doesn’t remember much of my childhood anymore, but I do. She doesn’t remember the purple sundress she wore as she taught bible school, laughed with her friends and corralled us kids, but I do. I remember the smell of sweet fresh cotton when I wrapped my arms around her legs. I love the color purple and the smell of sweet fresh cotton. She doesn’t remember the smell of the flowers she grew in our yard, with every color imaginable and blooms throughout the seasons, but I do. I remember the pride in her eyes when she placed huge arrangements on our dining room table, all summer long. I love having flowers in my yard, every color imaginable and blooming throughout the seasons and gracing the table in my home. She doesn’t remember where the diamond anniversary ring came from that I found stashed in her jewelry box, but I do. I remember helping my father pick it out for her on an anniversary, and trying to convince him to get the larger

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diamonds. I remember the surprise and love in her eyes when she opened it and realized what he’d bought for her—something she didn’t need, and something he didn’t understand the desire for. I, too, love marrying a man who gives those kind of gifts, no matter how big or small, and not because I need it, but because I desire it. She doesn’t remember the teenage years when we were at odds with each other more often than not. She doesn’t remember the worry she carried for me, the sheer terror she felt when I didn’t answer my phone or didn’t show up at expected events. She doesn’t remember the relief, then anger, then frustration she felt when I casually sauntered in hours later as if nothing was wrong. But, I do. And, I love that she doesn’t remember. She doesn’t remember that for the past 35 years she has grieved for her husband, reliving his death each birthday, anniversary, Christmas and date of death. She doesn’t remember any of those dates, but I do. I love telling her,

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regardless of the date on the calendar, that it’s a beautiful day outside. And, I love when she smiles and is eager to greet the day. She doesn’t remember the sevenday stretch she and I spent together in the hospital with my 3-month-old son, taking turns leaving only to take the occasional shower and returning to stand vigil. She doesn’t remember that it was only she and I worrying and praying, but I do. I remember in those moments that I learned the depth of love I had for my child as well as the depth of love my mom had for me, and I saw my mother realize the depth of love I had for my child, too. I love that she was there with me. Mom doesn’t remember much of her 89 years anymore. But, I love telling her stories of her childhood and seeing a flash of joy and thrill of vague memory. I love telling her stories of my childhood and hearing her soft chuckle, because even if she can’t remember, she feels. She’s a mom, and that doesn’t seem to be something she forgets. And every day, I love that today … she remembers me.

Writing about why I love being a mother seemed like an easy task. I loved the idea of being a mother; I welcomed every exciting new day of being pregnant, and I know how blessed I am to be divinely hired in my dream job as mother to three healthy children. Yet, when I confidently laid my hands on the keyboard to write, I paused. I couldn’t express what exactly it was that I loved about being a mother. That is until a cold day, four days into Spring Break. It was after 10 a.m. when I suggested to my kids that we should probably get out of our pajamas. My 6-year-old came bouncing down the stairs confidently dressed in a camouflage sweatshirt and a pair of polka dot pants that had a hole in the right knee. My first thought was to tell her to change into a pair of pants that would convince people she was being taken care of, but instead of requesting an outfit change, I immediately raced to my computer and that blank word document that had been staring at me for days. For my daughter, choosing an outfit wasn’t this complicated decision that it often is for me. She didn’t make her choice based on the current style or on coordinating colors, and she never paused to think of how others would view her. It was a simple choice. Motherhood can have its exhausting and challenging moments, but it is also plainly and beautifully simple. Because children don’t over-think or

over-complicate anything, they live in a world that we all crave and envy— one of simplicity. When asked what they liked most about Disney World, all three of my children shamelessly admitted, “The hotel pool with the waterslide!” This kind of simplicity is wonderfully evident in everyday moments, such as: the predictable book my 4-yearold happily requests for the 200th time; jamming out to our favorite Lego Batman Movie songs in the van; the annoying weeds in our yard that they see as wildflowers to be picked in beautiful bouquets for me; making pizza for our weekly Friday movie night; carefully guessing and awing at their random Lego creations; laughing together at a knock-knock joke or a silly face; hurt feelings that are instantly forgiven and forgotten as soon as they hear, “I’m sorry;” their giddiness when we walk into a hotel room or eat a hotel breakfast; and seeing them play outside with friends with nothing more than their creative minds and imagination. I adore that being a mother allows me to watch my children love wholeheartedly the things that I can easily overlook. Through and with them, I get to relive the curiosity, joys and ease of being young. As they grow, there will be situations and answers to questions that I anticipate will be anything but simple. So for now, and as long as I possibly can, I am embracing and loving the joy that simplicity of motherhood brings me. CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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June 15, 11am–6pm at Virginia Distillery Company Live music by Mike Clem and Andrew Green 2–5pm. Food Truck will be serving all day. 434-285-2900, vadistillery.com

Father’s Day Weekend

June 15–16 at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden Enjoy laid-back activities and crafts in the Children’s Garden Saturday and live music and a cookout at Bloemendaal House on Sunday. 804-262-9887, lewisginter.org

Dads Are Free for Father’s Day

June 16 at James Madison’s Montpelier House tours are free for all dads accompanied by a paying adult or child. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org

Father’s Day Tour

June 16, 11am–4pm at Thomas Jefferson’s Poplar Forest Give dad something he’s not expecting for Father’s Day—a free tour of Thomas Jefferson’s private retreat. 434-525-1806, poplarforest.org

MOTHER’S DAY Mother’s Day Tea

May 11, 1–3:30pm at Horton Vineyards, Gordonsville Enjoy a sitting of tea with an extensive menu prepared by Jack’s Shop Kitchen and accompanied by a glass of Horton wine. 540-832-7440, hortonwine.com

Mother’s Day Music Festival

May 11, 2–6pm at Tandem Friends School Don’t miss the annual Mother’s Day Music Festival with music, food and drink for sale and activities for all ages. 434-296-1303, business. facebook.com/events/2122404804508497

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May 11–12 at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden A two-day weekend with many opportunities to honor and spend time with mom and loved ones. 804-262-9887, lewisginter.org

May 12 at James Madison’s Montpelier House tours are free for all moms accompanied by a paying adult or child. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org

May 12 at Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards In addition to Pippin Hill’s regular food & wine pairings, the Executive Chef will be offering specials. pippinhillfarm.com

Mother’s Day Lunch

May 12 at Graves Mountain Lodge, Syria Make Mom feel special by treating her to an all-you-can-eat fried chicken or country ham lunch. 540-923-4231, gravesmountain.com

Mother’s Day Pop Up Market

May 12, 10am–4pm at The Shops at Stonefield Celebrate mom with a stop at a fun handmade and vintage market. Enjoy brunch at one of the restaurants followed by shopping from vendors. facebook.com/ events/277534269858662

May 12, 11am–4pm at Poplar Forest Give mom a special treat this Mother’s Day with a free tour, offered at 1pm and 3pm. 434-525-1806, poplarforest.org

May 12, 11:30am at DuCard Vineyards Enjoy a pampered and relaxing four-course catered brunch with music by harpist Vicky Lee. 540-923-4206, ducardvineyards.com

May 12, 12:30pm at Veritas Vineyard & Winery, Saddleback Hall Wine and dine Mom with brunch and soak up the warm spring sun on the deck. 540-456-8000, veritaswines.com

Mother’s Day Celebration

May 12, 1pm at Barboursville Vineyards Enjoy a four-course feast paired with wines, prepared by Chef Spencer Crawford. 540-832-7848, barboursvillewine.net

Mother’s Day Concert

May 12, 6–7:30pm at Agecroft Hall, Richmond Bring your blankets or chairs, and enjoy a performance by the Richmond Concert Band. You can pack a picnic and enjoy great music and food with family. 804-737-3767, agecrofthall.com

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May 12, 11am–2pm at Trump Winery Ticket includes a special brunch buffet and a glass of Blanc de Blanc mimosa upon arrival. Pre-paid reservations are required, space is limited. 434-977-3895, trumpwinery.com

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May 12, 11–3pm at CrossKeys Vineyards, Mt. Crawford Celebrate Mother’s Day with brunch and live music by Jimmy O from 12–3pm. 540-234-0505, crosskeysvineyards.com

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by Katharine Paljug

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The external changes that happens during pregnancy are unavoidably visible. But, trying to understand what is happening on the inside of your growing belly is what preoccupies many pregnant women and their partners. When it comes to pregnancy, many, if not all, gynecologists and obstetricians say there are almost as many concerns as there are questions. But whether it’s your first child or your fifth, knowing what happens during a baby’s in utero development is often the first step towards addressing those concerns and helping mothers achieve a healthy, stress-free pregnancy. MONTH ONE • First trimester begins. • Baby consists of two layers, the epiblast and the hypoblast. • Body parts and organs all develop from these two layers. • Yolk sac delivers red blood cells and nutrients while the placenta develops. At the end of month one, baby is about the size of a poppy seed. This marks the beginning of the embryonic stage, and it’s also when most women can start to take a pregnancy test and receive an accurate result. MONTH TWO • Looks like a tadpole with a small tail. • Nose, mouth and ears start developing. • Intestines, lungs, brain, bones and muscles start growing. By the end of month two, baby is about the size of a lima bean. Once you have a positive pregnancy test, it’s time to schedule your first. Some factors that affect the decision of when to schedule your first prenatal appointment and ultrasound would be concern about viability of the pregnancy, the number of

miscarriages a patient has had, concern about an ectopic pregnancy and the number of babies... and the mother’s anxiety. In uncomplicated pregnancies, the first ultrasound is usually at the end of the second month. MONTH THREE If you poke your belly this month, baby will reflexively move but still doesn’t feel sensations of pain, heat or cold. That’s because the spinal nerves are only beginning to branch out through baby’s body. • Fetal period begins. • Limbs have developed but will still grow and change. • Heart divides into four chambers. • Tail disappears. • Placenta is formed, and yolk sac begins to shrink. • External sex organs develop. Your doctor may discuss screening tests to check for signs of abnormal physical or genetic development. Whether or not to do them depends on your family’s genetic history, previous pregnancies and personal beliefs. There are many tests that can be performed [to ensure the baby’s proper development], but whether to do them should be a discussion between the patient and their healthcare provider. By the end of month three, most babies are about the size of a peapod and weigh, on average, an ounce. MONTH FOUR • Second trimester begins. • Nerves, organs and muscles continue to develop. • Brain sends out impulses to squint, wave, suck a thumb or pee. • Thin skin means the spine and organs are visible during an ultrasound. An ultrasound during this month could reveal the baby’s sex, but because babies in the fetal stage

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move constantly, it might be hard to get a clear image of the genitals. By the end of month four, most babies are the size of a small potato and weight about five ounces. MONTH FIVE Many women start feeling movement during this month, but don’t worry yet if you can’t, as many factors affect the sensation of the baby moving—the number of pregnancies a mother has had, the size of the uterus, location of the placenta and uterus and the number of babies in the uterus, to name a few. • Areas of brain for hearing, touch, taste, smell and vision start developing. • Might be able to hear your voice. By the end of this month, babies weigh an average of one pound and are nearly a foot long—about the size of a squash. MONTH SIX • Feels when you sway, exercise or dance. • Starts to recognize loud sounds, like a dog barking, and may remember them after birth. • Sleeping and waking at regular intervals. • Lungs practice inhaling and exhaling small amounts of amniotic fluid. • May hiccup as lungs and diaphragm develop. At this point, the average baby weighs about two pounds and is the length of a celery bunch. MONTH SEVEN • Third trimester begins. • Brain adds billions of neurons. • Muscles, lungs, bones and heart continue to mature. • Eyesight improves and can perceive light filtering through your skin and uterus. As baby grows, there is less room for amniotic fluid in the uterus, and you’ll feel and see more movement. By the end of month seven, most babies weight around three and a half pounds, about the same as a

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• Puts on weight in preparation for birth. How big baby will be at birth depends on how much growing happens in this final stretch, but the average size for a newborn is about seven and a half pounds and 20 inches long. Babies do a remarkable amount of developing over the course of the nine months of pregnancy, but it’s important to note that all babies grow at different rates, especially in the second half of pregnancy. If you are concerned about your baby’s development or movement, or about any odd symptoms that you experience, always talk to your doctor or midwife. But remember, there is a whole range of “normal” for both babies and pregnancies.

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There are people who reside in places—places where doors are opened wide, places where arms await with warm embraces, places where love is elastic and stretches beyond normal limits. These places are heart-made. They’re built by people who care deeply for children—both biological and those not related by blood. And, it is in those kinds of

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places that foster children find a nurturing space to thrive and grow. They find not just a living space but a place to feel loved. Alberta Bolden and her sisters—Amanda, Loretta, Evelyn and Margaretta—have created those kinds of places, providing homes for foster children for nearly two decades.

Their mother—affectionately known in their community as Big Mama— passed this generous-with-love spirit onto them, and according to Alberta, Big Mama always left the door open and neighborhood kids often came calling at suppertime. Hungry kids knew that Big Mama would never deny a child a plate of food—even though she had 9 kids of her own. “Big Mama’s house was the house to come to,” Alberta shares. “She never told anyone ‘no.’ It was a curse Mama put on us.” Albeit, a good one. It instilled in Alberta and her siblings a desire to help the less fortunate. (Good thing Big Mama had a productive family farm.) Alberta’s father was just the same. He worked at a sawmill and didn’t have a lot money wise; however, “He’d take someone in. If people didn’t have a vehicle, he’d pick them up. If he had four dollars in his pocket, he’d give out two. And, he never looked for pay for anything he did.” Alberta and her sisters’ families all became foster parents for similar reasons—for the love of others. “There were some days when I thought, you can’t pay me enough to keep on doing this. That’s why I tell people, don’t do it for the money. Do it from the heart, for the child. Those who do it for financial payment, they don’t last.” Alberta’s love has persisted, leading to her fostering as many as 28 children! Some stayed for just a weekend, others months, others years. Michele Freeman, a foster parent recruiter and trainer at People Places, a local community foster care agency that works with Alberta, says, “Alberta and her siblings all exemplify kindness,

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to adopt him. Blood-relative options had been exhausted, so it seemed like a real possibility. However, social services expanded their search throughout the state, trying to locate a family that would adopt not only this young man, but also his two older sisters who were living with Alberta’s sisters. When social services found a family in Fluvanna who thought they might be willing to adopt all the three siblings, the young boy had mixed feelings. He liked the idea of being with his sisters, but as he said to Alberta, “I wish you and Papa could be there, too.” He even suggested to the

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while eating Mama’s steak and mashed potatoes. Alberta’s loss was this young boy’s loss, too. During one of his weekday visits with Alberta, he hid a note under her pillow. It read, “Now that Papa is gone, who is going to look after you? Papa would want me to look after you. I’m not going anywhere.” “It tore me up,” Alberta said of the note. And when the adoption with the Richmond

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through,

Alberta knew just what to do. She would adopt the young man as she and her husband had planned. During the adoption proceedings, this young man, a boy, really, was asked by the court what he would like his name to be. Would he like to keep his birth name? “I want my name to be Melvin,” he said. After his Papa. “Melvin is a really sweet child,” Alberta says. “He likes to read, and he draws a lot. My refrigerator door is full of his drawings. I didn’t realize it at first, but Melvin has taken up so many traits from my husband. That boy will do something, and I think, ‘Papa would’ve done that.’” Though an adoption with his biological sisters—now 12 and 13—didn’t happen,

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Melvin keeps in touch with them. The

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younger of the two lives in Washington, D.C. with her new adoptive family, while his 13-year-old sister still lives with Alberta’s sister about a mile away. For Melvin and his Mama, the two have found a rhythm. He likes making sugar cookies with her on the weekend and playing Monopoly on snowy days, and he loves playing outside—basketball, football, hide-and-seek, fishing—with his “cousins,” foster children that Alberta’s sisters keep. And of course, he loves the love he receives. Melvin life’s trajectory has no doubt been changed for the better due to the push of Alberta’s love. After all, her motherly love has changed the lives of every foster child that has stayed at her place thus far. Though they’ve grown up and moved on—some taking care of their own children now—they call on her birthday, show up at Christmas, and let her know what’s going on in their lives and when they’ve met monumental milestones. (She

recently

received

graduation invitation from a former

For her senior project, Emma founded Art for the Heart, a program that brings art therapy to area homeless women. Her project won the Grand Prize for Social Innovation at the Tom Tom Youth Summit. Congratulations, Emma.

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foster daughter who will soon be getting her doctor of medicine degree!)

And for those foster children that found a place of love at Alberta’s house, they have learned that even though life’s

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circumstances may throw an unfair shake, you don’t have to stay down, you can get up. Love lifts up and is everlasting.

Dionna is a freelance journalist and children’s book author who lives in the Charlottesville area with her husband. She truly appreciates people like Alberta who live each day, displaying unselfish love and providing a safe and nurturing place for children to land. You may find Dionna at dionnalmann.com.

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swim + summer GUIDE COOL PUBLIC POOLS Be sure to bring sunscreen, towels and swim diapers for the little ones. Call ahead for schedule changes for Wednesday night swim meets and for thunder and lightning delays! Also, check websites for season pass information. CROZET **Crozet YMCA, 434-205-4380 At this eight-lane outdoor pool, enjoy zero-depth entry, mushroom waterfall, baby pool, umbrella-shaded picnic tables, snack bar, bathhouse and swim lessons. Cost: $5–$10 Day Pass. piedmontymca.org

CHARLOTTESVILLE The City of Charlottesville offers both indoor and outdoor facilities for gallons of water fun! All pools have a lifeguard on duty, but for safety, children under 8 must be supervised in the water by an adult. Pool hours are subject to change. Call 434-9770601 for more information on pool hours, swim lessons and the city swim team. charlottesville.org **Onesty Family Aquatic Center, 434-295-7532 This facility at Meade Park offers spray features in the pool, a slide, diving board, lazy river and a zero-depth entry area with play structure for

younger kids. Cost: ages 3 and under free; city residents $1–$6; nonresidents $2–$11. **Smith Aquatic & Fitness Center, 434-970-3072 This 27,000+ sq. ft. indoor facility features a lap pool, diving board, two water slides, zero-depth entry, in-water play structure and lazy river. Cost: ages 3 and under free; city residents $4–$8; nonresidents $5.50–$11. **Washington Park Pool, 434-977-2607 Lap lane, toddler area, mushroom fountain, spiral slide, zero-depth entry

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and bathhouse. Cost: ages 3 and under free; city residents $1–$6; nonresidents $2–$11.

LOCAL LAKES, SWIMMIN’ HOLES & MORE These three parks—Chris Greene, Mint Springs and Walnut Creek—have sand beaches for freshwater swimming during the summer months (Memorial Day weekend through Labor Day) with lifeguard protection. Season passes are available. There will be no swimming on days that Albemarle County Schools are in session. Our area also offers two fun swimming holes—Riprap Hollow

and Sugar Hollow—alongside popular hiking trails for an old-fashioned dip. (No lifeguards.) 434-296-5844, albemarle.org

Hours: 11am–7pm. Cost: ages 3 and under free; county residents $2–$3; nonresidents $3–$4.50.

Chris Greene Lake, 434-296-5844 Fifty-three water acres and two beach acres, lifeguard, changing rooms and canoe rentals. Fishing and limited boating also allowed. Hours: 11am– 7pm. Cost: ages 3 and under free; county residents $2–$3; nonresidents $3–$4.50.

Riprap Hollow, hikingupward.com A clear, deep-blue swimming hole is your reward for hiking 1.7 miles from the lower trailhead, off Route 612 near Crimora. Refreshingly shaded, this spot offers glimpses of crayfish and salamanders in the shallows. Part of the Shenandoah National Park system. Hours: Dawn to dusk. Cost: Free.

Mint Springs Valley Park, 434-296-5844 Eight water acres and one beach acre for swimming, limited boating and fishing. Lifeguard, restrooms.

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Walnut Creek Park, 434-296-5844 Forty-five water acres and two beach acres, lifeguard, shelter, restrooms and canoe rentals. Fishing & limited boating allowed. Hours: 11am–7pm. Cost: ages 3 and under free; county residents $2–$3; nonresidents $3–$4.50.

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JAMES RIVER WATER FUN Howardsville Canoe Livery, 434-286-3331 James River Reeling & Rafting, 434-286-4386 James River Runners, 434-286-2338 Water fun on the James River— tubing, canoeing, kayaking and rafting—in part-day, one-day, two-day and overnight trip options. Tubing departure times are limited. Cost: varies.

SUMMER-ONLY MEMBERSHIP POOLS **ACAC Adventure Central 434-978-7529, acac.com

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**ACAC Albemarle Square: 434-978-3800 Downtown: 434-984-3800 acac.com

**Boar’s Head Inn 434-972-2235, boarsheadresort.com Farmington Country Club 434-296-5661, farmingtoncc.com Glenmore Country Club 434-817-0506, glenmorecountryclub.com Greene Hills Club 434-985-7328, greenehillsclub.com

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SPRAY GROUNDS If swimming isn’t your thing, cool down at the spray ground! Charlottesville Parks & Rec offers a fun complement to its pools with three city spray grounds, open daily through September 16. Picnic shelters and playgrounds nearby! charlottesville.org **Belmont Park Sprayground 434-970-3260 Play during park hours, 10am–8pm. Free. **Greenleaf Park Spray Ground 434-970-3260 Play during park hours, 10am–8pm. Free. **Forest Hills Park Spray Ground 434-970-3260 Play during park hours, 10am–8pm. Free.

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WORKING TO MAKE OUR CHILDREN HEALTHY The Kohl’s Hoo’s Fit Program is a UVA® Children’s Fitness Clinic initiative whose mission is to promote healthy eating and active living among area children. It includes innovative nutrition education and fitness programs provided in schools and community centers.

**Charlottesville Swans Synchronized Swimming charlottesvilleswanssynchro.com **Brooks Family YMCA 434-205-4380, piedmontymca.org Jefferson Swim League jsl.org

Kohl’s Hoo’s Fit • UVA® Children’s Fitness Clinic® 434.982.1607 • uvahealth.com/kohlshealthykids

Virginia Gators 434-218-2487, virginiagators.org CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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DAY CAMP Preparing for Adventures Close to Home

by Denise Yearian

May/June 2019

Sum mer Ca mp Quicklist

Summer day camp is a place where children can stretch their minds, exercise their bodies, develop new interests and forge lasting friendships. For young children, it is a good introduction to the camp experience. For older ones, it is a way to enjoy the activities without the overnight option. Day camp programs vary from one setting to the next. So, how can you help make the most of your child’s day camp experience?

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1. Consider interests. Day camps offer

are they selected? What is the camp’s

a host of options that include everything

discipline policy? Are they trained to take

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from one centralized activity to a variety

care of health concerns such as asthma,

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of traditional camp fun. Talk with your

allergies and dispensing medicine?

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child about his interests and what he

5. Focus on the facility. Ask about

would like to gain from the experience.

indoor and outdoor facilities. Is there

Would

ample indoor space for children to play

activities or does he want to concentrate

during inclement weather? What do they

PRESCHOOL

do if it rains all week? Is the outdoor

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enjoy

assortment

on one skill, such as soccer or art?

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2. Ponder program length. Day camps

equipment and grounds well maintained

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range from a few hours to a full day and

and safe? Are the children’s swimming

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can run from one week to an entire

skills tested before they are allowed to

summer. How long your child should

enter the water? Is the staff certified

participate in a program will depend

in lifesaving and present during water

largely upon his age, developmental level

activities?

and previous camp experience. First-

6. Investigate cost. Inquire about

time campers would do well starting

additional fees. Some day camps have

in a partial- to full-week program.

a base price but charge extra for trips,

Experienced campers may enjoy one that

special events and activities. If the camp

runs multiple weeks or throughout the

you want to send your child to costs more

summer. Even if your child decides to

than you can afford, find out if there is

stay at camp all summer long, consider

a scholarship program. Also ask about a

allowing a few weeks break between

refund policy in the event of an illness or

school and camp (and vice versa) for

family emergency.

3. Look at location. If you choose a

camps have open houses prior to season

day camp close to home, commute time

start up. Find out if the camp you have

will be less and your child may already

chosen has one. If not, make other

be acquainted with some of the other

arrangements to introduce yourself to

children. A day camp near your employer,

those who will be caring for your child.

however, would give you quick access to

Since open houses are a good time

your child in the event of an emergency.

to gather information, jot down any

But, if

your

child

needs

7. Arrange a pre-visit. Many day

down time.

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additional

questions you have before leaving home.

morning or afternoon childcare, you may

If they are not addressed during this

want to consider a program close to your

time, ask to speak with someone before

sitter.

securing your deposit.

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4. Ask about staff. Find out what the

8. Fill out forms. During your pre-visit,

camper-to-counselor ratio is. Ideally it

you may receive forms to fill out. When it

should be six campers to one counselor, as

comes to medical forms, be thorough and

recommended by the American Camping

specific. If your child was on a medication

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Association. What experience and/or

during the school year but will be taken

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training do the counselors have? How

off of it for the summer, make sure the cont’d pg 70

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CAMP FRIENDSHIP Family owned since 1966, Camp Friendship welcomes campers and staff from all over the world to our traditional sleep-away camp for ages 7–16. With over 35 activities to choose from, campers are free to explore, discover and grow in a safe and accepting environment. Camp Friendship is ACA Accredited and sets the benchmark for an overnight camp experience. Call to arrange a tour or visit us online. 434-589-8950, info@campfriendship.com, campfriendship.com, youtube.com/user/campfriendship

THE LITTLE GYM Day camps at The Little Gym of Charlottesville provide children with the summer camp experience minus the bug bites, poison ivy and weeklong commitments. The camps this summer—now in full- and half-day options— include a variety of focused curriculums, such as Tumbles & Cheers, Princes & Princesses and Pajama Party, all for ages 3–10, and Back Handspring Bonanza, Front Handspring It’s time for adventure! The Little Gym’s summer camps are full of Festival and Caribbean Cartwheels &anHawaiian exciting, creative missions where kids will exercise their muscles, and Handstands, all for ages 6–12. 434-975-5437, imaginations! Plus, flexible scheduling options allow you to sign your Super Kid up for several weeks, a single week or even just a day at a time! thelittlegym.com/charlottesvilleva

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Camp should give you materials on

starts.

Reassure

your

child

the

extreme change in behavior. Insect and

camp policies, procedures and planned

positive experience he will have. At the

food-related allergies should be listed,

activities. If you and your child know

end of each camp day, find a block of

too. Equally important is to share other

what to expect and what is expected of

uninterrupted time where you can listen

concerns, such as if your family is going

you, camp will run smoother. Most camps

as he shares his adventures. Ask what

through a divorce or has experienced

have a weekly schedule so parents know

he liked about camp and if there were

a recent death, as this may affect how

what the upcoming activities are. Talk

any things he didn’t like. If he is having

your child interacts throughout the

with your child about what is planned.

a hard time articulating what happened,

day. Remember, camps look out for the

If she cannot participate due to health

break it down by activities—“What crafts

physical and emotional needs of your

reasons, make sure you (not your child)

did you do?” “Did you play any outdoor

child, so the more information you

inform the camp.

games that involved balls or running?”

provide, the better equipped they will be.

In recent years, many day camps

You will also be asked to fill out an

have developed strict policies about

emergency contact form, which lists

leaving technology items—cell phones,

Above all, encourage your child to

another designated individual to call if

handheld games and other tech toys—

always do his best, obey the rules and

you cannot be reached in the event of an

at home. Their philosophy is that day

be respectful of others, and chances are,

accident or illness. While it is imperative

camps are designed to be enriching

he’ll have a great time.

to have an appointed individual, it is

experiences and the children should be

equally important that the person knows

engaging in these activities rather than

she is designated as such. Every year,

playing with electronics. If restricted

camps contact the emergency person

items are brought to camp, they may

listed and she was not informed she was

be confiscated and returned at the end

“on call.” The best advice? Check with

of the day in hopes the child gets the

that individual before writing his or her

message. 10. Keep the line of communication

name down. 9. Peruse policies & procedures.

“Who did you play with at the pool?” “Who did you sit with at lunch?”

Denise is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children.

open. Talk about camp before it even

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Come learn to play *Boys and Girls the sport of kings ages 10-15 (and queens) while M-F 9am-4pm having a fantastic summer $400/week experience on the farm. *Must be a We will teach you the confident rider who knows how to walk, rules of the game, the trot and canter. language of polo, and have you hitting a ball while riding a horse by the end of the week. CONTACT VIRGINIA POLO AT: info@vapolo.org 434-979-0293 | vapolo.org

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Brushing & Beyond Top Tips for Sparkling Smiles

May/June 2019

by Julie Kirtz Garrett

I can be a pretty easygoing mom, but when it comes to brushing their teeth, I am a relentless nag. The screensaver on the family computer even reads, “Brush your teeth kids!” A recent trip to the dentist taught me we should be doing more than that. Here’s how you can learn from my experience and help control your family’s cavities.

I was crushed when a recent dental

teach your child how to brush correctly.

for children who are at certain risk levels

checkup revealed four cavities in the

Checkups prevent problems and keep

and do not adequately receive enough

smiles of my 6-year-old daughter and

minor ones from becoming worse. Ask

fluoride in their drinking water or other

9-year-old son. Where did they go wrong?

the dentist whether fluoride supplements

sources. This type of supplementation

Where did I go wrong?

are needed. “The first step in determining

is beneficial for the development of

whether

permanent

Just focusing on brushing was one

your

child

needs

fluoride

teeth.

Topical

fluoride

mistake we made. And, we’re not alone.

supplementation is for your dentist to

supplementation is applied during your

On average, 22 ½ percent of U.S. children

assess your child’s risk for developing

dental visit or pediatrician visit and

between the ages of 2–11 had untreated

decay,” says Dr. Barrett W. R. Peters,

benefits the teeth that are presently in

decay in their primary teeth, according

DDS, MSD, FAAPD of Piedmont Pediatric

your child’s mouth.” The best thing to

to a report by the Centers for Disease

Dentistry. “Systemic supplementation is

do is have your child visit the dentist

Control and Prevention (CDC). Brush,

demonstrate

and

verify.

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at 1 year of age, so your dentist can recommend whether fluoride is needed and, if so, the regimen that is best for your child. Snack sensibly. Candy isn’t the only cavity culprit. Many different types of food can cause tooth decay, especially food high in carbohydrates and sugars, like peanut butter, raisins, crackers, potato chips and even some fruit, all of which are favorite snacks for many children. “Many patients think that fruit is a healthy snack, but beware of dried fruits, such as raisins, mangoes, pineapple, etc.,” says Dr.

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are more teeth-friendly and that can satisfy a sweet tooth, “I recommend Spry candies, which come in fun fruit flavors as well as mint—which I love.” A balanced diet containing sufficient calcium and vitamin C can help guard against tooth decay and gum disease. Check in with school-age children to see what they are eating while they’re away for the day; some kids will trade a sandwich for sweets or sticky fruit roll-

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ups. Tell them this is a bad idea, and just to be safe, have them brush when they get home from school. Above all, “Proper brushing and flossing after any snack will help reduce the insult that any snack has on teeth. If you aren’t able to brush and floss, then rinsing with water can be helpful as well to neutralize the acid that can cause dental decay,” shares Swett.

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Savvy sipping. Here is something new parents might not know: putting a baby to bed with a bottle of milk or juice increases the chance of tooth decay, even before he or she has teeth. The decay can enter the underlying bone structure and even hamper development of permanent teeth. For older kids, soft drinks are a big problem. The Academy of General Dentistry (AGD) reports that kids who

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Is your child afraid of the dentist? Here are some tips to help ensure a successful visit.

drinking any soda for the rest of the day,” reports the AGD. Try replacing that soda bottle with a reusable aluminum water

1. Children are often afraid of the unknown. Use books to teach them about what a dentist does. Review the books the night before a checkup, and bring them along for the waiting room.

bottle, or encouraging soda sipping in moderation. Seal out tooth decay. Once your child starts getting permanent teeth, ask your dentist about dental sealants. Fluoride in toothpaste and in drinking water protects

2. The “It won’t hurt” line doesn’t usually help much. Before a checkup, simply tell your child that the dentist is going to count her teeth and use a special toothbrush to get them really clean.

the smooth surface of teeth, but back teeth need more protection. Your dentist may recommend sealants as soon as your child’s permanent molars come in. The “6-year molars” come in between the ages of 6 and 7. The second permanent molars

3. Consider going to a pediatric dentist. They receive extra training after dental school in calming anxious children.

(12-year molars) come in between ages 11 and 13. Some dental insurance plans do not cover sealants. But, “Sealants are

4. Infants and young children may feel more comfortable if mom or dad is close by. Once your child is older, staying in the waiting room is usually less distracting for everyone.

a wonderful treatment to help prevent cavities,” says Dr. Marissa DeAngelis, General Dentist at Crozet Family Dental. “Some of our teeth, especially the back chewing teeth (molars), often have an

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uneven surface with deep grooves and

the teeth.” For Weis, his goal is to initiate

important to address early-on while the

pits. This environment is the perfect spot

treatment at the optimum time so as to

jaws are still malleable, which allows us

for food to stick and as a result is one

make treatment as short and effective as

to provide more adequate room for the

of the most common areas of decay. A

possible.

eruption of permanent teeth and regain

sealant is a thin coating that is applied

When it comes to signs parents

to these areas, creating a smooth surface

should look out for, Weis shares some

that prevents food particles from getting

common indicators. “Is your child willing

Like parent, like child. Brushing,

caught and is also much easier to keep

to smile for family photos? If your child

fluoride, checkups and a good diet will

clean with a toothbrush.” So, when is

is hiding their smile or doesn’t like to

help keep your child’s teeth healthy. But

the best time to have a sealant placed?

smile, for psychosocial issues, we would

even if a candy bar never enters your

“Early, before the tooth has developed

recommend they see an orthodontist to

child’s mouth, cavities may still appear.

any decay. For kids, this often coincides

let them know their smile is beautiful,

Why? Look into your own mouth. Do you

with the eruption of the permanent first

and we can help make smiling easier

have many cavities? Heredity plays a

molars around age 6, and the second

role in how susceptible your child’s teeth

molars around age 12,” adds DeAngelis.

conservative

what

will be to decay. The structure of enamel

When to look into braces. According

presents as an esthetic concern for a

proteins, quality of saliva and immune

to Orthodontist, Dr. Barton D. Weis

patient or parent is actually a functional

defense mechanisms against bacteria

with Charlottesville Orthodontics, “We

issue that is beneficial to address for the

all play a role in a child’s likely cavity

typically recommend seeing children at

health of the teeth. “Habits such as finger-

quotient. But whether your own mouth

the age of 7. While we are not likely to

or thumb-sucking can lead to narrowing

is sprinkled with fillings or cavity-free,

recommend treatment at this age, we

of the upper jaw and protrusion of the

being vigilant about your child’s oral

are looking for structural or functional

teeth.” Additionally,

hygiene will give her the best chances for

issues that will need to be monitored

may lead to impacted teeth (teeth that

and/or treated earlier rather than later

have no room to erupt), could potentially

in order to limit more involved and

cause damage to surrounding teeth. And

complex options in the future, which will

finally, “Underbites, when the lower jaw

also protect and maintain the health of

is ahead of the top jaw, and crossbites are

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Dad’s Mystique in Tatters

A Dad’s Humorous Tales by Rick Epstein

When my youngest daughter, Wendy, saw her first skyscrapers, she exclaimed, “These buildings are tall as you, Daddy!” (I’m only 5-foot-8; but Wendy was only 4 years old at the time.) In those days, Father’s Day was a religious holiday. My kids filed into my chamber and presented me with worshipful offerings. But, it couldn’t last. As with Dorothy in the throne room of the great and powerful Oz, the girls have become too well acquainted with “the man behind the curtain.” My paternal mystique had been waning for a long time, but just recently it has been taking some bad beatings. Last fall, Wendy, now a high school freshman, went out for field hockey. One Saturday afternoon, when her social life was at a standstill, I asked, “Want to show me the basics?” After checking her phone to make sure no better offers had arrived in the last 30 seconds, she said, “Sure.” Marie phoned and asked, Wendy gave me her extra stick, and we “Don’t you love that went out in the yard. book? Doesn’t it explain She taught me about so much?!” “Not to me,” dribbling, passing and driving, and then we I confessed. “It was too played one-on-one. Field hard.” hockey isn’t like baseball where you rest 90 percent of the time; it’s constant running. Despite one really painful whack across the knuckles, I had a great time with Wendy, both of us yelling, laughing and smacking the ball. But, it was exhausting, and after 20 minutes, I think I forfeited. (Is it a forfeit where one team lies down on the grass and can’t get up?) The score was 6 to 0. “Good game, Dad,” she said charitably as I lay vanquished on the lawn. My oldest daughter, Marie, 22, was home from college at Christmastime. I cherish her intellect, and she likes to think I have one, too. “Dad, you’ve gotta read this book! It explains how the modern world was formed,” she said, and gave me a copy of Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies by Jared Diamond. Marie went back

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to school, and I struggled through 61 pages of it before I gave up and resumed my study of Tarzan the Invincible by Edgar Rice Burroughs. Marie phoned and asked, “Don’t you love that book? Doesn’t it explain so much?!” “Not to me,” I confessed. “It was too hard.” “Oh,” she said, and I felt like Tarzan’s pal Manu the Monkey, whose brain is the size of a tea bag. When my middle daughter Sally, 19, was home for spring break, I suggested a game of chess. The last time we’d played, she’d taken all the pieces I’d captured and pretended the bishop was teaching Sunday school to foolish pawns and talking horses. After little Sally had just about abandoned our match, I was eventually able to checkmate her. My chess game hasn’t improved, but hers has. Thirteen years can do that for a kid. She was much more focused this time. Even so, it was a long and messy match. Sally kept her forces intact while capturing my queen, bishops, knights and those castle things. With just a king, three pawns and no ideas, I conceded. “Good game,” I said. I’ve always hoped that my kids would grow up to be smarter, stronger and more confident than me. And, I still feel that way. But the realization of my wish, as it unfolds day by day, is not much fun to experience. Anyhow, around here, Father’s Day is no longer a time to pay homage to a mighty hero. It’s more like a special day for humoring a feeble patient. One year, I found the kids uniquely willing to visit a battlefield I wanted to see, and another year, we all toured the mansion of my favorite president. This year, maybe we can all go canoeing. There are two canoes in the garage, but I’ve never taken all the girls boating at once. I’d always been afraid a canoe would capsize and I’d have to decide which child to rescue. That wouldn’t be a problem now because all three girls are stronger swimmers than I am. In fact, Sally is a Red Cross certified lifeguard. It’d be up to her to decide who would be saved. And maybe, it being Father’s Day, my piteous cries would be given special consideration.

Rick can be reached at rickepstein@yahoo.com.

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