Gramma Molly—Molly Boyce

Gramma Molly

Molly Boyce

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olly, better known as “Gramma Molly” believes and practices her faith. After 2 aneurysms, 21 years ago, her brain surgery recovery was a miracle and she thanks God for each new day. She believes that living to the age of 75 was by God’s grace and love that got her to where she is today.

Molly grew up on the beautiful Caribbean island of Trinidad. Her mother, father, grandmother, 4 sisters and 3 brothers were rich in love, provisions and care. She refers to her grandmom as the “best creation God made!” Her dad was the provider as a mason and upholsterer. Molly’s dream was to be a nurse, but she was “set off” and intimidated by the needles when it was vaccination time at the school. She recalls literally “kicking up” a fuss with the nurses and the dentists. All in all, it was a wonderful time growing up and there were so many opportunities to do things.

Kids then understood respect. Her advice to children today is to listen to your parents and parents, don’t let your nonsense of no control system ruin your children’s upbringing. As a child, Molly’s dad would give her British pennies and 6 cent pieces. She loved buying sweet treats like tambourine balls and pumpsitae and passing out milk cartons at school lunchtime. She remembers getting a spanking for wrongdoing, but knew that her parents did this in love.

During the pandemic, she had knee replacement surgery, so she was home and ever so thankful for her daughter who took care of her. It bothers her that society has been divided and people need to consider all research when it comes to choosing whether to take the vaccine or not.

Molly raised her own children – a daughter and a son in Canada. She left Trinidad when she was 24 years old and had a rough time applying and being accepted for jobs. But when things get tough, she asks the Lord for help and gives Him thanks and praise. Today, she has a beautiful granddaughter who has introduced many other children into her life. Working at a Senior Home-extended care facility, Molly worked hard to support her family, in Toronto for 11 years and then locating to Calgary in 1981 where she has been ever since.

Molly learned that she could “play mas” (joining one of the masquerade bands) during Carifest which brought back her Caribbean roots. She became involved with the Caribees – a young dance group when her granddaughter started dancing. She was known as Gramma Molly to all of them. The words of her grandmother still resonate with her: “So you are; so was I; so as I will; you will be. Prepare yourself.” The richness of life is not necessarily from finances; but rather knowing the Lord, staying healthy and being able to help yourself and others by following the Golden Rule. Molly reflected on life as she was waiting for her friend. As she watched the yellow leaves blow off the trees, it is amazing that God allows that and the fact that no one can stick those leaves back on. She gives God the glory for it all.