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Volume ONE
25 Thoughts About Your Destiny for Entrepreneurs By Candi Taylor-Jeter
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Thought 1 The Magic of Imagination
Your imagination is a gateway to the possible and a bridge to your unconscious mind. It's the limitless palate with which you craft your world and a built-in key to manifesting your hopes. Your subconscious mind doesn't recognize the deviation between what is genuine and what is imaginary. Your imagination is your preview of life's coming attraction. When envisioning your desire, engage your imagination by using all of your senses. Imagine not only the visualizations, but also the sounds, textures, smells and tastes of your dreams coming true. Even more significantly, think of the feelings of the outcome you look for as these contain the strongest magnetic force for drawing in your desires. How you feel about what you imagine will decide whether you'll successfully draw it in or not. Feelings are the language that talks to the Divine Matrix (the Universe). Feel as if your goal is completed and your prayer is already responded. If you envision your dream car but are consumed with feelings of defeat for not having it, doubtfulness about ever manifesting it, guiltiness about deserving it, or jealousy at your friend for already having it, you'll trigger the law of attraction Š 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
against you instead of for you and re-enforce the absence instead of existence of that car in your life. Your feelings are mighty indicators of what‘s going on internally and point to beliefs and attitudes that may need changing or adjusting. Your feelings are integral to successful manifestation. They're the words of your unconscious mind and the energetic conductors that provide shape to your experience, actively drawing in, driving back and producing the substance of life that's your reality. You are able to begin immediately to feel healthy. You can start to feel prosperous. You can start to feel the love that is circling you, even if its not there and what will happen is the universe will correspond to the nature of your song. The universe will correspond to the nature of that internal feeling and manifest it because that is the way you feel. These feelings are conductors that provide shape to your experience, actively drawing in, driving back and producing the substance of life that's your reality. Your path to success does not start with anything “out there”. Your path to success begins in your mind, body and soul and “out there” complies. Let’s begin YOUR journey towards becoming the expert, the advisor, the business person the manifested success you were born to be!
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Thought 2 How to Connect to Your Imagination Desire breathes life into your dreams and fuels your imagination and anticipation. As you connect with your desire, your imagination, as well as all the favorable thoughts and beliefs about your goal, are lit. To connect with the desire you’ve got for your goal, merely ask yourself “Why do I wish for this?” As you answer the whys, your passions and emotions flurry and your imagination streams. Enquiring why also aids you in acquiring clear on the intent behind your goal and how realistic your goal is for you, also what the greater purposes and hoped results of your goal are (what you wish your goal to give you). It can be an uncovering exercise. Some of the times what we believe we desire can be a product of the consensus, of what other people desire for us, of what we believe we “had better” have, of what our ego believes will satisfy us, or of our rationalizations rather than our heart‘s
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desires. If questioning why you desire your goal does not get you jazzed up, you might prefer to question how much you really desire it.
Thought 3
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Future Causation A different tool for adjusting your heart and mind to the final result of your wants is what I call Future Causation. Basically, time and space are an illusion. The future you want already exists. Rather than attempting to guess what that future will be like from your present, go to that bright future and see it for real. This has been among the most profound methods I've practiced. The insights I've encountered in linking to a wanted future in this way have passed beyond the boundaries of my present imagination or what I'd have consciously planned. I've been gifted with information and states of being that have been way “outside the box” and have altered me and my reality in the present. This is why I address it as the future causation because it can immediately and radically change your current state of vibration by the force of vibrancy. Connecting to that future produces a bridge to that future and acts as a portal for its manifestation in your world. Your future is always shaping your present. The good news is you are able to decide the future you wish to influence you and allow it to alter you right now. Manifesting is a powerful way for engaging future causation and will set the law of attraction in motion to manifest it effortlessly into your life. Rehearse your future on a regular basis. What sort of conclusions would that future have you make, how would they think, feel and be? What answers would they discover, successes create, challenges defeated and so on? Apply a 'future view' when reaching conclusions, arranging goals or addressing challenges. What would that future you, the cured, gifted, loving, successful self © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
that you're becoming, believe, feel and be? Tie in to that future and permit it to have voice in your world today in the views, beliefs and actions you decide.
Thought 4 Make Space for Success For your desire to land in your reality you are required to produce the space and be prepared for it. What requires to be done on a practical, emotional and mental level for you to be set for this reality? Get ready by thinking ahead and making the necessary steps towards your goal. What new resources, contacts and skills could you require? What new postures and opinions? Think from your future and behave accordingly.
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A different way to make space in your life for your ambitions is to clean out the clutter. This can be done on a physical and virtual level such as cleaning out your closets, organizing your papers and filing, discarding old garments and so forth, but it can also be done on emotional and mental levels. What human, concern, bitterness, wrath or loss are you grasping that could be let go of? If you're desiring a new relationship for instance, is there an ex-partner you have not quite relinquished yet, or a quality about them or that relationship that in your heart you have not yet given up? (Boom! This one is heavy) Whatever you are grasping from your past is what you are bringing into your present reality.
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To successfully draw in your hopes it's crucial that your feelings are congruent with them. If, for instance, you desire a happy loving relationship but bear negative feelings about the opposite sex, love, or yourself for that matter, you will produce counter results. Beliefs are constructed during an early age and at other key periods in your life. They can be formed and molded by family, peers, society and media, and a large number you may not even be aware of. Opinions are not the truth, but merely a perception and toleration of such. What‘s great about opinions is that you can alter them and pick out the ones that accommodate you and back up your imagination and dreams. Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can accomplish. A different key element to drawing in and allowing the realities you look for is a sense of worth. If you do not feel that you deserve the truth you want, you'll block its manifestation or undermine it once it arrives. Your sense of worth reflects your level of self-value and is meddled by guilt, dishonor, self-judgment and negative self-concepts. Self-love and self-forgiveness always increase your sense of worth. The fact is that you deserve wholly and utterly just by being alive. Once you acknowledge and awaken to your spiritual value, your inherent purity and worth and the true nature of your being, issues of worth are solved.
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Thought 6 A Way to Get There A stepping stone perhaps may be a person, challenge, insight or learning. It might possibly be a mending of an issue or an outcome that will help you fortify your character or purpose. It might be a chance for love, pleasure or happiness that will step-up our emotional vibration in a sense that's essential for you to draw in what you want. It might even be a crisis of sorts from which you'll learn and develop. What might appear like a crisis at the time, a loss of employment or relationship for instance, might indeed bring gifts that ultimately serve your destiny, success and triumph you want and have desired. The gifts of these situations or scenarios might not be clear at the moment but further down the line become evident as you retrospect and survey the situation with hindsight. Have faith in the larger blossoming picture. The universe recognizes the most formal and honoring path to your dreams. Every hardship, every failure, every grief bears with it the seed of a like or larger benefit. When you work with the law of attraction chances will arrive, so it is crucial to make yourself available to them, acknowledge them when they unfold and act on them. Every experience, every event, every link can have meaning and importance Š 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
and serve as a stepping stone to take you to your goals. The universe will organize all components of your life towards the symphony of your success if you're open and permit it.
Making yourself available for chances might mean stepping away from your current comfort zone, communication and sharing yourself, investigating, asking for help, sowing seeds, going out there, searching for resources and being proactive towards your goals. The more poles you place into the stream of life, the more fish you get. Living open to and pursuing the chances that develop is to fundamentally obtain the universe‘s resources that will span the gap between wherever you're at and wherever you would like to be. This is a crucial step in maximizing the law of attraction. It will enable you to take leaps and bounds in the direction of your success, or preferably, for your success to take leaps and bounds in your direction. Once it comes to pursuing opportunity, use perceptiveness and listen to your beliefs and intuition and the inner dial of your senses. I have discovered that unless something feels off it has always served as a chance. Occasionally that opportunity did not display itself until weeks, months or even years later. There can be a gift in every condition you undergo. What‘s more, each chance can lead to a countless number of other opportunities and be a well-spring of additional resources. Š 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
If you want to change you perception in 5 minutes or less the best way to do that is the first acknowledge your real feelings, while at the same time speaking your desires. I have an example of this as you continue to read. Pay close attention.
Thought 7 Draw It to You
How do you pursue co-creation? By asking and permitting, by deciding and obtaining, by being open to and relying in its workings. Seed your aims with your
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desire (your desire is the style in which you ask the universe for what you desire) and be open and willing to obtain their fruits in your world. It is not a difficult task, although it does demand being clear - clear about what you desire, clear in your feelings that you will be able to accomplish it and clear in acknowledging that you deserve it (which, of course, you always do). You're the only one who can stand in your way. The universe always says yes. Your world is a manifestation and extension of the entirety of your mind, a holograph of your awareness. It's also a platform and gateway with which the universe can convey with you via signs, signals and whispers in your daily life that serve as arrows and prods to guide and aid you on your way. The more you acknowledge that you're forever linked up to an all-loving endlessly abundant source, the more you'll own the gifts. Obtaining is so often the lacking element to success. Any blocks to obtaining are blocks to the facts you want. Rehearse obtaining in all fields of your life, whether it‘s compliments, presents, the experience of some other, the beauty of nature. When you appreciate something and are grateful for it, you obtain it. Obtaining produces a gateway through which the universe may bring gifts into your life. It enables the magic of co-creation and the serendipitous possibilities beyond the boundaries of your imaginings. The more you allow for yourself to obtain, the more graceful, swift and bountiful your attractiveness becomes. Obtaining is often looked upon as something you do in reaction to a gift, yet acquiring the willingness and power to receive, in and of itself, makes those very Š 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
gifts appear in your reality. As the saying goes, when the receiver is ready the gift comes along. The universe is a haven where dreams come true. All you desire is yours to obtain. I emphasize receiving here as its more often neglected in the give-receive cycle. The value of passing on is far more acknowledged than that of receiving. They're intrinsically related and each opens you to the other. The more you pass on, the more you take in, and the more you take in (from yourself, the universe or other people) the more you're capable to pass on. Rehearse taking in during your daily life. Acknowledge when somebody gives you a complement and take note how you respond. Do you allow it in? Or do you attempt to block, deny or protest it? Once you obtain good news, a success or the manifestation of something you want, recognize it, for you have received. Touch base with what it feels like to obtain. Work it, rehearse it. Get familiar with and acquaint yourself with the energy of obtaining. Affirm your receptiveness and willingness to receive. Receiving is among the most powerful and graceful tools of manifestation. By allowing yourself to take in you will be able to allow in the love, miracles and successes the universe wants to give you every step of your journey. Be mindful of any negative feelings you may have around. Maybe you consider receiving being selfish, or feel you don't deserve to receive, or if you're a man maybe feel that receiving is something more for women. Maybe you feel receiving
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would put you in a vulnerable position and therefore are afraid of it, or you feel a sense of losing control. Recognize and be thankful for the love and goodness in your world and in your gratitude you'll open to receive it at an entirely new level in addition to inviting more of the same into your life. As you open to obtain the gifts and bounty that are already in your life, you will become more open to take in new gifts, love and successes in your life. A likely problem some people come across when they start to explore the law of attraction is a concern of their negative emotions and the corresponding negative outcomes they may draw in. Because of this they try to contain, deny or repress their beliefs, yet this just does not work. Denial of negative emotions is the number one myth of the law of attraction. What we reject persists. It's what we recognize and accept that we can naturally relinquish and release. What we deny doesn't disappear, and will unavoidably leak into our world in the circumstances, people and events we draw in. Pent-up emotions warp our energy. There are several methods today for expelling and transforming emotions. Outside resources such as music, beauty and exercise and internal resources - your feelings, selections, focus and imagination - can all be applied. Pardon of self and other people is an unbelievably powerful way to expel and transform whole bunches of negative emotions. It's the ultimate mind-body-soul detox and can set you free you from toxic emotions and draining attachments.
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Perceptiveness and gratitude are also very efficient in shifting your emotional resonance and freeing low vibrational states. Feeling your beliefs is a quick way to eject them. This does not imply indulging in them or handing them excessive attention if they don't help you, more it enables them to go through you and be verbalized. It takes more energy to stuff emotions down than to experience them. Recognizing, consenting and feeling an emotion will enable its release. Your feelings are powerful indicators of what‘s going on within. Respect them and listen to what they're telling you about yourself, your life and your world and any corresponding thoughts and beliefs you may contain.
Summary So Far Feed your ambitions not your concerns. Feed your successes not your failures. Your ideas, beliefs and the focus with which you utilize them are directional. They're heading somewhere. If they feel good, so will be your destination. If you're experiencing a especially challenging time, or there's an area of your life that's stimulating a high level of fear, concern or anxiety, or other negative feelings (anger, guilt, and so forth) as well as working to expel these feelings, there's a method you are able to use to assist in keeping your focus away from what you do not desire and adjusted to what you do, in addition to higher, positive vibrations. Š 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
For this, at the start of every day, pick either a) a goal/ambition you wish to make and manifest however large or small, b) or a person you greatly look up to and wish to adopt and acquire more of their qualities. For raising focus you may also like to rehearse the following exercise. Try gazing at a fixed point in front of you for a time period without distraction (you may like to draw a dot on a piece of paper and adhere it to the wall, or use an existing focus point). You are able to begin with a 30 second goal of maintaining your focus completely on this point. Try to keep your head clear and still in the process and direct all your attention on the focal point. You’ll be able to then step-up the length of time you keep your focus fixed on one point (say 1 minute, then 1 and a half minutes, and so forth). This is a great exercise for raising focus, stilling the mind and being present and in the now. You'll be able to then take this exercise into all day by day routines and rehearse being fully present in your activities. A different way to keep your focus aligned to what you want is to recognize and celebrate your successes. Keep a success diary and note every event and circumstance that is a positive movement towards your goal, including internal qualitative experiences such as how happy and thankful you’re feeling.
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Recognizing your advancement increases your focus on the results you want and builds your belief and expectation. Treat yourself for triumphs and accomplishments.
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Thought 8 Be a Rebel You can't be an expert and take command unless you break free of the stipulations that come from your peer group. Among the most beneficial ways to do so is to by choice violate other peoples' expectations by masterminding little uprisings. A little uprising is an act of free will with minimum damaging outcomes. You are merely asserting your independence, letting other people respond however they want. Illustrations include passing up an invitation you would commonly accept, wearing your hair in a different way, or placing some uncommon posters in your work area. You have done nothing gravely incorrect, but you are able to anticipate that other people will respond. Do not try to excuse or explain these uprisings. If anybody asks why you're acting funny, merely tell them you felt like doing it. If they pressure you for an elaborate explanation, simply respond, "I value your concern, but I would prefer not to explain my actions at this moment." I must admit, with moon in Aquarius this is quite natural for me. If you ever want to find the area you have in your astrological chart where you can tap into your unique way of shaking things up every now and then find where your Uranus or Pluto is located and that will give you a clue.
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For example Uranus and Pluto is in my third house, which is the house of speech and communication. Great speakers such as Martin Luther King Jr., Napoleon, Carl Jung, Osama Bin Laden, Ludwig Beethoven, Rene Descartes, Al Capone, Angelina Jolie…You get the picture? These are pretty outspoken people. They are not outspoken, because they intentionally want to cause trouble, but in spite of themselves, Pluto in 3rd house makes them feel like they can’t breathe if they don’t get it out! This is natural for them. Everyone has a natural “uprising” area in their personality. Find yours. The principle here isn't to act like a total dork or to violate laws that will land you in grave trouble. Your designation is merely to break the unwritten conventions of social compliance, conventions you aren't expected to obey but which you have been blindly abiding by. Little uprisings remind you that you forever have an alternative and that you are able to stay independent of other people's responses.
Thought 9 Choose Your Battles In the battleground practice of medicine, the principle of triage calls for splitting up patients into 3 groups:
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1. Those that will expire in any event, whether they get medical attending or not 2. Those who will come through anyhow, whether they get medical attending or not 3. Those that will come through only when they get timely medical attending If resources are restricted, medical officers have to serve members of the 3rd group prior to the first and second groups in order to pull through as many people as possible. Triage may likewise help you build up your way of taking command by centering your attention on the most important actions. In that case you split up your undertakings, plans, and activities into 3 groups: 1. Undertakings that will fail to have a important impact, whether you accomplish them or not 2. Undertakings that will succeed in any case, whether you accomplish them or not 3. Undertakings that will have a substantial impact only when you finish them in a timely fashion If you center your attention on the beginning group, you're simply spinning your wheels while more significant undertakings stay undone.
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If you center your attention on the 2nd group, you are blowing your energy for no meaningful payoff. However if you attend to the 3rd group, you will put your time and energy on the most beneficial possible use. In order to center on the most substantial actions, you have to take away your attention from the first 2 groups. Exercising triage is exceedingly challenging as it calls for repeatedly stating no to what you might instinctively sense are great choices. It is the time-management equal of stating no to injured individuals calling for assistance. However if you fail to get the hang of the art of triage, a lot of worthwhile undertakings will expire needlessly. This procedure is a challenge of awareness. It's simple to lose sight of the large picture when you are staring at an undertaking hollering for your attention. However you nevertheless have to come up with the awareness to ask yourself: Is this the most significant matter for me to be executing right now? Build a list of your group-three undertakings and activities, and keep it within grasp at all times. Perhaps it's a list of your central goals, but it could likewise be a list of the things in life you wish to attend to, like your wellness, relationships, and spiritual applications. Look back at that list on a daily basis to keep reviewing its presence in your brain. This will help you arrive at the hard triage choices when the need springs up. It's simpler to say no to groups 1 and 2 when you are able to view the whole battleground. What are the group- 3 undertakings that are passing away in the trenches but that may still be pulled through if you reach them in time? Your wellness? Your family Š 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
relationship? Your job? Your spiritual association? In order to attain time to pull them through them, what undertakings from group one and two are you able to pass up?
Thought 10 See for Yourself Do not blindly abide by the advice of authorities. Discover what works best for you by carrying on personal experiments. Everybody is different, so what works out for you might not be the same as what works out for everybody else. If you come up with a fresh thought for increasing your effectiveness, try it out to discover what effect it causes. Do not dismiss any thoughts till you have really attempted them. The in progress practice of carrying on experiments will condition you to be more productive as you will always be on the lookout for processes to improve.
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I have taken on some unbelievably unusual experiments from time to time, several of them documented on the internet. For instance, there was the time that I experimented with the law of attraction in that I held on to my present reality while at the same time affirming my stated desire. I narrowed down two things I wanted. One was simple and one was huge. So, let’s just say I wanted someone to call and I wanted to win the lottery. So I would say for example, “I’m going to the store to buy some chicken (reality), but by the time I get out of the store, my phone is going to ring and I’m going to have the most wonderful conversation ever with so-and-so(stated desire). Mind you I was not putting my all into this, but I really believed the concept. I didn’t sit by the phone when I got out of the store. As a matter of fact I totally forgot about my manifestation statement and didn’t get a call that night. But I was awaken by the most welcoming voice and we talked for 3 hours the next day. I did another manifestation statement. I went like this, “I sure am tired of doing all this homework(reality), but by the time I finish I’m going to purchase my winning lottery ticket and I’m going to win X amount of dollars (stated desire). Sure enough I went and gassed up my car, bought a lottery ticket and got 4 out of 6 of the numbers right. The amount was within the range of my stated desire. It was a captivating experience that altered my understanding of attraction; however the real work was that in order for me to continually practice this I needed to really be conscious at all times about my perspectives and constantly be thankful for what I have and affirm those things I wanted. I eventually got up to a level 6 or 7 and still improving. © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
It was one of the most memorable and generative times of my life, however it only occurred because I chose to plunge in and test it rather than simply studying about it. You do not have to conduct the same exact experiment. However you will certainly benefit by carrying on your own growth tests. Are you more generative while hearing music, or do you favor complete silence? What style of apparel makes you look and feel your finest? Does your domestic partner respond best to verbal, composed, or kinesthetic manifestations of affection? What effects do you observe in your body after consuming new types of foods? You are able to spend infinite hours engulfing advice from supposed authorities, or you are able to run a speedy test and find out the answers for yourself. For each authority who tells you one thing, you will discover somebody else who states the reverse. What's the most beneficial diet, spiritual practice, or sort of investing? You have to make these conclusions for yourself. It's all right to consult with authorities, but in all instances you are the final expert.
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Reach Deep Inside Your Body I question how many individuals ever investigate their own inner self to think about what it is inside us that drives the demand to look outside of ourselves for help. When you take the time to mull over this question, maybe you'll identify a principle that sounds like the following: “I don’t have complete control over my own brain and body.” Don’t get me wrong. We all reach points of saturation where we just need the assistance of others to pull us out of an occasional ditch, however some people live in a state of helplessness and hopelessness. Most of the time this state is created by a prolonged mindset of unforgiveness and resentfulness of unmet needs. This state of mind can actually produce some real physiological changes in the body that require medication. This gives the illusion that there is a chemical imbalance. However the real culprit is the mind, which has kept the body in a false state of petrified fear for so long that the body has not become toxic. If this is the case for you, you may have a few contradictory notions or thoughts that sound something like this: “Hey, it’s typical for me to not sustain total control over my own brain or body.” “Today I do feel a little susceptible, weak, insufficient and-or needy. After all I do not have complete power over my own brain or body. Therefore anything I do and say is not my responsibility, but the responsibility of others to give me a break, because I deserve it.” © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
The fact of the matter is you do bear total management capabilities over either your brain or body; it's that you simply trust that you don’t and so you conduct yourself accordingly. If in fact you want to relinquish your control of your mind and body, it is still your responsibility to depend on drugs and doctors to help you control yourself, so you are not a menace to others or a danger to yourself. Either way YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF AND HOW YOU GOVERN YOURSELF IN RELATION TO OTHERS. Continue reading as we embrace the power of self-control and responsibility for the life you create. Ponder once again the statement below: “I'm not able to sustain and keep total control of my brain or body at all times.” Let us now assess exactly how constructive it is to hold on to a belief like this: • Trusting this helps me in knowing what my limits are, so that… • Once an issue does exist with my body or brain, I may seek out somebody who's able to provide me aid, so that… • They may help me, so that… • I may begin to feel healthier once more, so that… • I'm again feeling fit, with a sense of well-being, protected, secure, calm, content, joyful, with a lower stress level and a calm confidence that I'm able to take care of myself, I've control over my wellness and it's my concern, I feel like my longevity has been restored.
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So in reviewing this we confirm: [A] Our strong belief that “we don't have complete, and total control over our brain and body at all times” allows me reach out to others to provide me, with a sense of well-being, protection, security, calmness, contentment, joy, a lower stress level and confidence. Their support enables me to take care of myself, therefore I have control over my wellness and it's my concern, I feel like my longevity has been improved. Is this truly the way you feel? You have to attempt and “own the feelings” that are part of the strong belief itself. “I don't wholly, totally and without a doubt, sustain any control over my own brain and body at any time” and while visiting this thought procedure, attempt and understand the feelings you have. Being entirely true with yourself you ought to detect a few or all of what comes next: [B] Looking to others to “fix” me and help me control my emotions and body makes me feel susceptible, frail, edgy, anxious, insufficient, inferior, lonely, reliant, glum, powerless, and dependent, as though my level of stress has advanced leaving me weak and weary. All this to state the conviction has linked with it the results explained in the preceding paragraph The (B) statement is a result of constantly sucking the energy of others, rather than working to build your own energy. If you can imagine for one moment that your emotional self IS your physical self, because actually it is. But indulge me for a moment.
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Imagine your emotions are actually your kidneys. Healthy Kidneys filter out toxins and allows you to drink fluids and process nutrients for your body. When functioning properly you can enjoy all sorts of things with your friends, family and lover. Life is GOOD! Your kidneys are functioning independently; therefore you are able to give those around you your best self. Now imagine your kidneys begin to fail. All sorts of things start to happen. You can’t eat or drink certain things and eventually you have to go have a machine process all of your bodies cleansing needs. You can’t really travel, medications make you sick. Your lover, family and friends are now burdened with having to make sure you are “OKAY”. Now, grant it, we all have issues that just can’t possibly be avoided. Then and only then should we lean on the blessings of friends and loved ones to help us heal. However, in this case YOU have a CHOICE and you CHOOSE to neglect your kidneys and go on dialysis. Don’t act shocked, because people really do make choices to compromise their health all the time. Do you think its really sexy to emotionally chose to be on dialysis if you are capable of choosing to process your own emotions and take charge of your own health. Essentially you really are giving other more of your best self. If you selfishly choose to blame others, steal others joy, be a burden, take everything personal, have meltdowns when things don’t go your way, what are the odds that you will produce profitable and beneficial relationships?
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It is a known fact that people who go on dialysis eventually go into kidney failure and dye, because the machine just can’t do what God intended over a long period of time. The same holds true for people who shut their emotions down and live off the emotions of others. You will eventually DIE. You'll likely concur that it's quite toxic, yes?
So which of [A] or [B] is exact for you? Comprehend what you experience every time you consider the strong belief of dependency on its own. How does it make you feel? Rather likely all that's explained in [B], yes? In point of fact, even if are not ready to evaluate your strong belief of dependency, you know that it truly is eating you up inside and working away at you in an adverse manner. In order for you to trick yourself into believing that it is okay to shut down and drain others requires you to utilize some of your treasured life force to keep these feelings hidden from your awareness and causes you to lose valuable powerful people in your life. By doing this you recognize it – this crippling belief of yours – is siphoning away your critical energy supplies. This energy is what your body and brain require to stay healthy and functional.
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This is despite everything, the exact purpose of what your critical energy supply is utilized for. So if you are able to now comprehend that [B] is true and therefore [A] is false , where do you stand? This means that you believe that it is better for you to be on dialysis, rather than choosing to allow your emotions and organs to remain healthy and function on their own. But deep down you know that’s not best, right? Therefore, you realize that [A] was deduced from an evaluation of the strong belief which, as you were being walked through it, you likely agreed with it, right? Consequently, this signifies that you subconsciously presumed that [A] was correct even if you were unaware of it. Put a different way, you bought into a fake idea. Why would anyone buy into a fake idea, especially you, one who is so smart and beautiful/handsome? It’s easy! Because YOU want the easy way out. You feel that you have “earned” the right to borrow other people’s resources, because you didn’t get what you “thought” you deserved. You have not forgiven others for their perceived “failure” to deliver the goods. If you really look at it honestly, you are having an adult temper tantrum. You have fallen out in the middle of Isle 5 in the grocery store of life and you dare anyone to step over you without having to feel your pain. You can very well stand up, dust yourself off and get on with life, but you refuse to until everyone pays the angry gods to go away. So you lie, scheme and deceive everyone, but in truth, they see the truth.
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That's simply one more way of stating that you weren't being truthful to yourself. Is this truly what you wish to be doing? If it is not, than this is what you are able to do about it. Reach deep inside yourself and make a proclamation that item [A] be abolished eternally from your body, brain and your life. Now once again dig into your depths and ask that the original strong belief itself be cleaned and eliminated from your body, brain and your life once and for all. So at this minute, as hard as it’s been to follow along, you ought to be experiencing some fascinating feeling inside you. Perhaps you feel more “there” than previously, more together, more industrious, lighter, more cheerful, more peaceable, mighty, more durable, more contented, safe and sound, healthy and fit etc, etc. How would you like to forever feel this way? If that's the case then make sure you're telling yourself this and see how you start to feel.
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Thought 12 Mind Magic A technical enhancement for the mind beyond any doubt would be the most influential piece of equipment to own. Your mind controls so many different pieces of your life; among those is your immunity system responsible for the status of your health. Your brain likewise manages your pattern of rest and wakefulness, whether you'll arise at a particular time and if you'll have the energy to make it through your everyday activities. It regulates your memory and insightfulness – those factors that determine how you'll learn and remember. If these brain functions may be augmented, the potential of what one may achieve is infinite. There’s an available technology that may indeed do these things in the world of psychology and it's called psycho technology, more specifically in this case it's brain entrainment technology [or BET]. BET uses light, sound and a lot of assortments of sensory motivation to regulate the brain. The most widespread type of BET uses sound and is known as Neuroacoustics [mind sound] or Psychoacoustics [mind music]. It uses sound waves designed in a peculiar manner to manage the neural frequencies inside the mind.
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Your mind continuously drops electromagnetic currents for each of its actions. These electrical charges from your mind may be read when electrodes are attached to your head. The indication signs returned are shown on a monitor referred to as an EEG. Light and sound are arousing for the brain and consequently our mental activity is likewise affected along with feelings we get. Neuro-acoustics include sound or music that intentionally entrains our brainwaves into frequencies that peaks all functionality of the brain. Entrain means to pull along after. These frequencies from neuro-acoustics pull the frequencies of your brainwaves along after it. Once this is placed beneath sedating music, it generates a totally brain altering experience, along with advantages, for the receiver. This causes a dramatic increase in the amount of endorphins and numerous others that have demonstrated a capability to slow the aging process and increase longevity and well-being. It may bluntly stimulate the immune function in the body and help sustain peak health or enhance the speed at which a receiver will recover from an illness or disease. Astonishingly it may both aid you into a gentle sleep and help in perking you up from a particularly sluggish beginning to your day therefore avoiding the need for caffeine. It will advance the capability to gain knowledge, better creativity, provide augmented intuition, help in concentration and remarkably advance personal self awareness – the lot of which the scientific community refers to as “total brain functionality”. Consider the magnitude of this if we may alter our brain state whenever we want, then we would be able to command the superfluous or
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unhealthy places our brains take us to and replace them with more suitable experiences and conditions. It would be similar to swapping channels on a TV, switching moods and states like depression, pain, jitteriness and anger – click into – bliss, wellness, intuitive, affection and lucidity. Now if this technology is beginning to sound familiar, it might be because there are likewise methods available to accomplish many of these same results without the technical equipment and expertise demanded to pull it off. Controlling your brain, or mind over matter, however you wish to refer to it, may be achieved by practicing meditative exercises and learning how to assist yourself by tapping into the potential of your mind and your deep subconscious. Self hypnosis is effective and truly any technique that will bring you into an at ease, suggestive mental state sets the stage for practicing mind over your body. Subduing your fears, poor life-style choices, enhancing your wellness, alleviating killer tension and bettering your potential longevity are all possible once you take charge of your brain and body to influence your health and well-being.
You are the commander in chief of your life. There are no ifs, ands, or buts about it. You are able to attempt to give your power away and pretend to be weak, but the undeniable reality is that you're still in charge.
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Connect with what's most crucial to you in life. If you felt responsible for the whole world, what would you wish to change first? If you chose to become an authority at something, what would that be? What may you say about the great spirit that lies inside you, waiting for the chance to express itself through purposeful action? What truly matters to you? Even as you learn to embrace your command, you'll still come across situations where lining up with reality and might isn't enough in of itself. In order to successfully navigate such areas, you'll have to call upon what follow in the next volume of this eBook. I’ll see you in volume 2 As you begin to apply some of these awesome principles to your business and life. Thought maybe you would like a few of my blog posts that will encourage you on your journey as an entrepreneur.
Budding Entrepreneurs Who Want Passive Income
Majority of people are trapped in the rat race having jobs working for others but do not know how to get out. This article offers a way out to achieve freedom through
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earning passive income. Internet business is recommended because it is exciting, rewarding and best home based business. Tips are given that are designed for professional business working from home. If you’re given a choice of making $500 as a one-time payment OR getting only $100 but paid this amount every month for 20 years if not for life, which would you choose? If you work only once and get paid many times over, you’re earning a RESIDUAL INCOME. Of course you’d choose the latter. Steve Jobs will continue to earn residual income even after death because his business will continue to “work” for him due to continued demand for his products. Therefore it goes without saying that in order to build wealth, you need to tap into RESIDUAL INCOME. Very often this is also referred to as “PASSIVE INCOME” or “Leveraged Income”, because you could afford to be passive or non-active (i.e. not having to work) and still continue to receive income. If you're like most people, you've been conditioned your whole life to think about income as a process of trading time and effort for money. Like the majority, you have been brought up to have only one major objective in life – JOB! Incidentally, if you don’t already know, to many, JOB stands for “Just Over Broke”.
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You work hard in schools so that you could get good grades to advance to colleges and universities where you work even harder so that you could get a good and secured JOB. Once you’ve got the jobs you want, you continue to work very hard in order to maintain them and to climb the so-called organizational ladder of success. As a result, many have fallen into the trap of the RAT RACE and you know very well you can’t afford to stop because if you did, so would your income! Although some of us could be drawing quite a handsome income, we’re not truly “wealthy” because we’re not free to do what we want and when we want with our money. I’ve heard of many sad stories of “rich” EMPLOYEES not being able to spend badly needed valuable time with members of their families who’re sick in hospitals because they could not afford to be away from their place of work for too long as their services are urgently required by their employers. Doctors could not even really relax and enjoy a long vacation for fear of the loss of income or patients while their clinics remain closed. Can I really have PASSIVE INCOME? You might ask. Indeed you can! About 60 million people have access to the Internet - and yet it is still in its infancy. Every month millions of newcomers and thousands of businesses are reported to be setting up online. With this huge and expanding audience coupled with the fact that marketing and advertising can be done on the Internet so easily and at only a fraction of the costs of traditional methods, we now have a fantastic opportunity to be successful in online business. © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
Many companies have now aligned themselves with the Internet which has created many new paradigms in the past few years. Residual Incomes are made available to people from all walks of life. You can now make money online with simple and proven formula used by many to earn multiple streams of residual income. However don’t believe what you’ve heard or seen in the Internet. Skepticism is encouraged because there are some dishonest people creating a lot of hype, unfulfilled promises and scams going around the Internet. Fortunately however, these are the exception, rather than the rule. You must be able to feel absolutely confident about using the services offered by “Internet Business Gurus” to help you make money online before you sign up. If you have any slightest doubt at all, drop it and move on to another. You need not have sleepless nights worrying about programming, web or graphic design, scripts, or content and product creation. Further more, with some programs such as AFFILIATE PROGRAMS, all the order processing is handled behind the scenes on your behalf. This includes credit card authorization, order fulfillment, product shipping, and customer service. Also, there's no worry about inventory. There’s no staff to hire and pay, no merchant accounts to set up, and no costly and time-consuming application process for licenses and permits to go through. You have a website which sometimes could be created free of charge or as little as $25 bucks a month. It captures visitors automatically and follows up with them 24 hours a day and 30 days per month for 365 days a year! Your visitors’ names and
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email addresses are automatically recorded for you and follow-up automatically with a pre-written email marketing campaign. However, like any ventures earmarked to be successful, you need some planning and consistent effort. To help you in this effort, here are a few guides you can follow in order to develop good habits for achieving your goals: PLAN YOUR WORK AND WORK YOUR PLAN Like any other forms of work, you must have a plan for your Internet business. Set an achievable short term, medium term and long term objectives, prepare a budget and stick to them as far as possible. Carry out periodical checking to determine any deviations from the plan and take the necessary remedial actions. BE ORGANIZED You need to download a lot of software, ebooks or PDF books from specific individuals or organizations for your continued education. You’d have a lot of contacts which could be your potential leads or customers. Chances are that you’d belong to many membership sites that require passwords which are first cited in their "Welcome" letters. You therefore need to have a systematic procedure to keep all these vital information and data in the right and proper folders for quick and ease of retrieving. This would prevent loss of time and undue frustration. You could create a simple HTML home page of your own with hyperlinks to all the important websites. This could be kept in your desktop for easy access © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
BE FOCUSED WITH CONCENTRATION: Although this is a home based business with all the freedom in the world, it’s prudent to have some form of discipline. Once you’ve decided to sit in front of the computer to start working online, you must stay focused and do not allow any distraction to affect your concentration. Treat it as your business and not a hobby. It’d be nice to stick to a schedule which is also made known to other members of your family so that they’d know when to leave you alone. However do not get carried away and spend too much time in front of your PC because your loved ones, including your pets also deserve your attention and time. BE CONSISTENT You’d be tempted with countless of seemingly very attractive offers and promises from the Web to help improving your business. Do not fall into the trap of some of these promises. Just stay with a handful of strategies that work and stick with them. For example, if you're submitting articles to drive free traffic to your sites and it’s showing positive dividends, stick to it and continue with this strategy while improving and fine-tuning others. IF FAILED TRY AGAIN Like any other conventional businesses, there’d be time when you’d encounter failures and disappointment. Do persevere as this is not a get-rich-quick scheme. It takes time to see the fruit of you effort although it’d definitely come. Use any © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
failures to your advantage by learning from them. See success in every failure and opportunity in every threat. ”Intention decides what you want but action determines what you get”. Please persevere with your action and don’t give up. I wish you all the best in your Internet journey towards the continued flow of PASSIVE INCOME! To Your Cosmic Success, Candi
Facing Your Fears As An Entrepreneur Fear is such a huge issue preventing people from becoming entrepreneurs. I hav...
Article Body: Everyone I have ever talked to that is an entrepreneur has had to come face to face with their fears. I have had to as well. I want to share with you some of the techniques that I have used to face them. The first step is not to be in denial. You have fears even if you don’t readily acknowledge them. They sometimes take the form of that chatter in the back of your head that says you can’t do it.
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Fear is such a huge issue preventing people from becoming entrepreneurs. I have heard from the CEO of a real-estate based network marketing company that even though he has people packing out company seminars, that maybe 2-5% of people will actually go out and apply the knowledge by putting offers on real estate. He is convinced that the rest are paralyzed by fear. Here are some of the techniques I have used as I learned them from the entrepreneurs I know: Think about what you do want. When you find yourself spinning the wheels in your mind over and again about your worst case scenario, turn it around and focus on what you DO want. Visualize yourself getting what you do want. See the new house. See yourself talking to the interested person as they become a part of your business. You get what you focus on.
Talk to a trusted friend or associate. Hopefully you have been able to find some level of support from at least one other entrepreneur. Ideally, you have a significant other that supports you. If not, then you should have some kind of support network from your team, upline, or corporate that you can talk to. Some people may tell you that it is silly you could even believe that you’re not good enough. For me, my wife has been a constant source of support. However, don’t go looking for support to all those people who doubted you and told you it was crazy to go out on your own. They will never understand the entrepreneur. Have a personal development library. I draw tremendous support from my library. It is not just filled with how to resources, but also stories of others who conquered their fears. I couldn’t begin to list the many sources I have, but if you © 2012 www.canditaylorjeter.com & www.2createajobnow.com
email me I can recommend something based on your own description of your circumstances. Go ahead and do it. Sometimes just making the smallest step will help get you going enough that the fear of not doing something can go away. An example would be neglecting to write an article such as this one out of fear of failure. Just starting it can create enough momentum to see it through. Visualize the result, but make the action the goal. There is a subtle difference here for the entrepreneur. Of course you want the result, but maybe that’s not in your direct control. Visualize the result in your mind, but make your goal the consistent and persistent action of the entrepreneur. The action will eventually produce the result and you can certainly achieve that goal. Never, ever quit. I hate to even use that “q” word. If you do quit, you cease to be an entrepreneur – otherwise you’re not beaten, you are moving ahead!
Cosmically Yours,
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