How to seduce almost anybody

How to Seduce Almost Anybody

Seducing people or selling them something is about influencing their thoughts and emotions with words.

It may be a good idea to remember that all people love to be liked. Strangely enough however, almost everybody will pull back from you if you walk straight up to them and tell them you like them.

This article will teach you the infallible ingredients that will make people like you.

If you are experiencing difficulties in starting a conversation with somebody, you might also want to read: "how to build an enticing conversation"

Steps

1 Remember the movie "The Prestige"? In order to lead us to seeing and believing the "impossible" outcome that he's about to produce, a magician starts with drawing up a plan and a strategy which he then studies, rehearses, improves and puts into practice until he can produce the desired result so to speak blindfolded and without any hesitation. In the movie, the general plan is described as this:

• The pledge: You need to get the people's attention and interest, give them a reason to listen to you, create trust, offer a wider perspective, promise fun, security, happiness, benefit or advantage.

• The turn: Without interaction and emotional involvement, your pledge will lead to nothing and will soon be forgotten. You will not obtain the desired outcome, unless you work toward it in a planned, structured, strategic way. You need to obtain interaction and emotional involvement from your listener.

• The prestige: But of course, unless you can close the deal, nothing is ever won. The turn, therefore is always function of the prestige. You cannot hit a target if you don’t know what you are aiming at. Good strategies are of little use if you do not have a fixed goal, determination and self confidence.

But of course, this is only step 1. Read the full article to find out the practical steps required to fulfill your mission !